I'm avoiding you now.... Jokes aside, I don't get why people do that, I mean yeah I do it myself all the time with girls I like but still never understand why it honestly perplexes me
@@stranger3131 No I meant their. It’s to show perspective as through your eyes you’re the technically the main character. And not only that I meant to say their because I’m not talking about the world I’m talking about their world. This quote consists of two people. One saying he views someone as the world and the other saying he’s just another person in their world.
@@stranger3131 but that’s not what I was saying? They don’t view the world as theirs the quote just says their world because through your own eyes it’s a different world and story. It’s more of a perception thing
@@stranger3131 "everyone has their own world" means that everyone has their own perspective on things, and no two people will ever have the exact same way of thinking about a specific topic, since words don't really go that far yet. the idea of just being another person in someone else's world is supposed to mean that you're not really that special, at least not compared to how you think of that other person, which is them being a whole different world for you. honestly, the idea of "having your own world" does sound really selfish when you just say it like that, but when it's put in different contexts, it's not the same anymore. so the main idea of the comment isn't about the other person claiming that the world belongs to them, but that in their specific world, their perspective, you're not really as special as how you think of them.
If you are in a rush- 1. 0:27 They really wanna be around you 2. 1:07 They make you a priority over others 3. 1:35 They are ‘scientifically’ affectionate 4. 2:26 They be touchy-feely 5. 3:13 They ask for your opinion on things 6. 3:41 They get steamy around you 7. 4:07 They mirror your actions Hope this helps🤗
Basically every crush I've had and I was never and probably never will be able to tell if they're emotionally available or if they like me, no matter what signs people tell me and no matter how many of these educational videos I watch. It also doesn't help that I'm autistic and have a much more difficult time picking up on social cues as well as being shy, introverted, socially awkward and not knowing the proper place or how to properly put myself out there
@@FFRrox First of, remember this: We tend to accept the love we think we deserve to have. That means, if you believe that you will never be worthy enough to be loved by others, you will find THAT thinking as a reflection your real life. Second. Believe, know, and live out, your life as if you are already worthy of being loved by others. Because, you are! When you walk in confidence of who you are, with self-diginity and self-respect, people subconsciously respond to that. No need for cognitive-behavior or such training for that to work out. Its a natural human respond to respect the ones who "project" self-respect, etc, etc. And thirdly, you may need individualize coaching or counseling in learning to to socialize with people. I know they are great life coaches and therapists with such skills that deals with people on the Spectrum. So don't lose hope. I have a college-age cousin and she's autistic, on the higher functioning end. She's an Introvert, shy, artistic, anime and cat loving young woman. She's pretty amazing actually. She has an equally great non-nuerodivergent bf. He's respectful, kindhearted, high EQ type, sociable, funny, and patient young man. They are great together. So if she can have that, so can you. Keep on believing that you will find the right partner for you.
*7 Signs Someone Is Attracted To You, Not Just Friends* 1. They really wanna be around you. (0:26) 2. They make you a priority above others. (1:05) 3. They are "scientifically" affectionate. (1:32) 4. They be touchy-feely. (2:25) 5. They ask for your opinion on things. (3:13) 6. They get a bit steamy around you. (3:37) 7. They mirror your actions. (4:06) Have a beautiful day/night everybody! Keep smiling and take care! 💞
If a girl says: “I am not attracted to you”, she is attached to you. If a girl says: “Happy birthday day son!” bcuz she is your biological mother, she is attracted to you. If a girl says: “Hey put that knife down, how did you get in here?”, she wants your D. these aren’t originally my words, they are from a funny short about a comedian(-ish) making fun of those “dating experts” on tiktok
If u don't have enough time - 0:26 they really wanna be around you 1:34 they are "scientifically" affectionate 1:07 they make you a priority over others 2:26 they be touchy-feely 3:12 they ask for your opinion on things 3:39 they get a bit steamy around you 4:07 they mirror your actions Now you can find your true-love👍🍀🤞
@@Psych2go for the past couple years I felt so emotionally burnt out but I didn’t know what that was until you made a video on it and I know this video has nothing to do with it but I just wanted to say thank you 🤍
I love Amanda’s different energy in the narrating for this video!!! You can tell she’s just different after showing her vulnerable side in her side channel ☺️☺️💙
1. They REALLY wanna be around you (all the time) 0:27 2. They make you a priority above others 1:05 3. They are "scientifically" affectionate 1:32 (Thank you 2:17) 4. They be touchy-feely (not in a creepy way) 2:25 5. They ask for your opinion on things 3:14 6. They get a bit ✨steamy✨ around you 3:37 7. They mirror your actions 4:06 Seeing the signs now??😳😳
There's this friend of mine who I've liked for two years. We've been really good friends since kindergarten. I saw him in one of my classes on the first day of school, and I sat next to him. Our teacher was a substitute that didn't know what to do, so we basically just talked all class. I noticed that he was really quiet and kept on trying to avoid eye contact, but I also noticed that whenever I talked to one of my other friends he looked a little sad, like he wants me to talk to him. We also play online together a lot. Whenever he notices I'm in a game, he joins me. Whenever he's online, he messages me and asks me to play or just talks. Considering how many other friends he has, it's a little strange how he always wants to hang out with me. Long story short, I think he likes me back.
The thing is, even if I KNEW he likes me back, I'm still not 100 percent sure I'd want to date him. I've never dated anyone before, and I just think it'd be weird. It would be a relief to know he likes me though, haha.
She’s was your Best friend, she felt like you were both the same but not enough for love. Like very close but not that close… it’s just what I think so take it with a pinch of salt
hi! i find these videos to be very informative and fun, please continue doing what you do! can you guys do a video for "ways to hint that you want to be friends, without leading them on for romance" ? thank you all
INFJ guy speaking here, but I feel like clearly voicing one's goals, hopes, and/or expectations up front better enables others in making informed relationship decisions. It can be something simple like "Hey let's be friends," or something more complex like "I need more X type of friends in my life; do you have any suggestions/recommendations?" We should respect that the demands on people's time and schedules (not to mention their own personal goals) will occasionally necessitate that they prioritize some relationships over others. If they've got room for more friends in their life awesome, but let's also keep in mind that perhaps they aren't currently able to justify making time unless it's for romance. You never know, you might even find someone who'd really enjoy having a purely platonic movie/book/music snuggle buddy but can't have pets because of allergies.
@@slinkyblank129 that's a completely understandable viewpoint! as an INFP, i entirely agree. communication is very important and simply just voicing one's expectations can make misunderstandings less likely to happen! as an introvert even doing that can be difficult though, haha. and of course, respecting people's time and decisions are incredibly important. i really appreciate your advice!
1.They really wanna be around you 2.They make you a priority above others 3.They are scientifically affectionate 4.They be touchy-feely 5.They ask for your opinion on things 6.They get a bit steamy around you 7.They mirror your actions
there’s this guy in my science, maths, pe and religion class. once during maths, he randomly sat at my table with his friend (who normally sits at my table) and he stared at me. he then told me that he remembers me from early primary school (we’re in grade 8 of highschool), now every few days he approaches me and does something random (the other day in pe he gave me a handshake, i tried to pull away but he took my hand again and asked me to do it properly). my friend told me that he was staring at me during science class, and ik it’s true bc i saw him do that multiple times, btw i usually tie my hair up and this was one of the days where i had it out. i rlly like him, he’s super funny and confident, but he’s a popular kid while i’m just some quiet girl lol. i have social anxiety so i blush a lot, i literally turn into a tomato when i look at him. i’m rlly not sure how to approach him, but i’d love to become friends with him and even see if he likes me bk (if i’m lucky)
This video was so cute! I wish the best of luck to the plant people in this, as well to anyone thinking about asking out their crush! Remember, taking a chance is good for your growth, even if they say no!
If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not! 💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
My prior relationships has driven me to go on through life on my own, but I seem to have been alone for too long now as I tend to distance myself from anybody I sense romantic tension with. Because I don't know how to share my life with another person anymore, and the thought of having another break-up scares me.
We're in the same boat. After my three year relationship break up with an girl I've been with since highschool...idk what happened. But my heart changed and I don't want to get attached to anyone anymore because I can't go though another heartbreak. So I've been living the single life these days and tbh I'm happier. Accomplishing so much more goals in my life now. I'm not scared to love, but I'm scared of love because that word nowadays is thrown around loosely. I can't take fake love anymore. At least I know my love for myself is real cause I know my value and worth
Can relate to this. Ive never really dated due to health issues in my past so when it does start to occur I mentally shut down out of fear and confusion. It suuucks and to this day its really hard to sit with that its cost me several amazing people.
1. 0:27 They really wanna be around you 2. 1:07 They make you a priority over others 3. 1:35 They are ‘scientifically’ affectionate 4. 2:26 They be touchy-feely 5. 3:13 They ask for your opinion on things 6. 3:41 They get steamy around you 7. 4:07 They mirror your actions I've experienced all those things and found out the hard way they do NOT mean anything. People like hanging with people who are not jerks. Doesn't mean they "like" you that way. Maybe you're just not a jerk. Priorities are hard to gauge if you don't really know what a person's options are. They could have absolutely NO other options and you are "better than nothing". Science does not apply to affection/emotion. Some people are just touchy-feely (with everyone) and it means nothing. Maybe people ask your opinion cos they wanna know what NOT to do. What the hell is "steamy"? if it has anything to do with being sexually/erotically expressive, people can do that around platonic friends, too. Doesn't mean anything except they're sharing what they like. Mirroring people's actions can be a subconscious thing. If I listen to British people long enough, I start talking like them - accent, slang & expressions, the whole bit. Doesn't mean anything except that I am "absorbant" of certain traits/attributes. After a few minutes, I go right back to being my boring North American self.
The only time I've ever had a woman be like this towards me, she freaked out about it and cut contact with me. Such was her abject horror towards the idea of being attracted to me. On the bright side, it's kinda funny to look back on.
I was that girl 15 years ago. For me, my issue was I had deep psychological issues growing up and so I was scared of intimacy. It’s ok if I only show affection, but when the boy returned the feeling and tried to bring the relationship to the next step, I freaked out and bailed. So, it may not be you. Just her.
1. You ask them to hang out and they are always down. 2. They treat you more favorable than others. 3. Whenever you talk they are engaged(listening, laughing, staring in admiration)
I think the most challenging part can be speaking up. I'm glad that it was added to the list how of to deal with rude people. By no means do I want to take away from the first 2, those do wonders also but for someone like me who has often done the first 2, there's something about speaking up that hits different.
3:27 *WAS THAT ME?!?!* Jokes aside, I think I've done a pretty good job of hiding my feelings, I would rather be friends with them instead of taking it to the next level, thanks for the vid Psy!
It's 14 days passed of my everyday full body workout, pain not in muscles, it's right inside of head, begging to stop working. I'm not going to stop, eventually there will be my happiness, not in gains, but action itself. Never build your life over dating someone.
100% from the start, sending me selfies, asking me stuff, being a priority for sure. Funny thing Is I was jus joking at the start, and then gained feelings over time - she said "I love you" first, and we are now very close
Hey, can you make a video about how to tell, even if the person is really good at hiding thier feelings? Like not just a normal person trying to hide it, but someone with exceptional social skills who probably would only drop really small hints?
I thought that I fell for one of my closest friends and with these indicators, I just confirmed to myself that I indeed fell for my friend... Who clearly is not interested and has someone else in mind.
I always keep myself together. Learning to love myself before I love the other individual. If someone is in love with me, I would not mind, but I have to focus on my life.
I've mentioned this girl a few times but I don't mind. Known each other since I was in high school (she's a bit older), we've hugged a lot over the years and she's shown a few signs . Awkwardly bumping into each other, laughing about it, her mirroring me, me rubbing my shoulder on hers when we're alone, I think I even flirted with when we almost kissed. How's that for steamy?
Yea, I missed my chance... Everyone around me knew about it, knew I was more dense than lead... then said "You didn't know they liked you? We knew for a while..." Sometimes if you know your friend is somewhere between lead and a neutron star... fucking say something.
There is a person that almost perfectly does all these things, and I do like them; but I think it would be better to wait a bit and let the friendship grow before anything serious starts. Thoughts?
if you wait too long these feelings might fade since they are all chemicals in your brain, each time these chemicals: endorphins, dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin get released your brain gets used to them and you might feel less attracted, so i think it's better to jump in sooner especially if you are in your teenage years because these hormones get quite chaotic and unpredictable.
I actually just confessed to my crush today and all of these signs shows that he likes me more than just as a friend 🤭 now I can see what my friends are pointing out that we have a very unexplainable bond with each other it’s because we both show these signs to each other we’re just really close in general ever since we met so yeah
Hi.....im following ur videos since may......i was in too much depression.....thanks to ur videos..it really helped me alot....not only it helped me to overcome it....but also makes me even stronger than ever..... THANKU SOO MUCH FOR UR VIDEOS
I don't want to be in an relationship anytime soon. People with good hearts get walked on and you'll always be wrong no matter how right you are. Glad I'm out that toxic three year relationship. However if you do indeed get in an relationship one day. Then I wish you the best 😁
@@ckinggaming5bucketmadness766 yeah an relationship needs balance but unfortunately it's very rare to find that second half or "balance" because of how corrupted and twisted the world we live in is..
As an autistic person who is incredibly dense when it comes to flirting... Thanks for posting this. No joke, I'm worse then a harem anime protagonist when it comes to that.
This video really made my day ! Thank you Psych2Go for the awesome and much needed content❤. You people are truly helpful towards others in this platform/world🙏
One thing to be a little careful of is that love may be a positive feeling, it can also bring negative consequences. It’s okay to feel the way you feel, but you should be responsible with how you feel. Listen to your feelings and try to understand them better. Then based on that, do your best to manage them accordingly, so you can express your emotions in a healthy way.
istg, this makes me wanna cry because i currently have the biggest crush on my best friend. he used to have the biggest crush on me during second grade and during 8th grade, i didn't figure it out yet that i liked him because i usually fall for someone first based on their looks but with him, i fell for his personality. plus we're the top couple of the zodiac chart😩and he has a freaking girlfriend!!😫 literal definition of he fell first but she fell harder trope.
I confessed to my one and only bestfriend last yesterday. I just lost my one and only bestfriend. Were still kind of friends but, you know. Its not the same as it was.
@@ibrahimhassaan6188 indeed, but things changed. Turns out she was just confused and shocked and just need a lil time to think. Eventually we decided to just stay as besties and Im kinda grateful for that.
I had a crush but things took a slight turn to not know and wouldn’t go further because some things are the evitable of why they happen and continue to happen
I actually do mirroring consiously when I'm trying to get someone to like me, because subconsiously they notice are are more likely to take a liking to you and trust you more. I saw it on TH-cam when a dectective was doing it while interrogating someone and the video explained why he was doing it.
... So ah meh 1)..."tehy really wanna be around them"-bruhhh mehh i wanna be around them all the time aa frnd... I just love spending time. 2) I wil make " Priority " U Over others all the time, if ur my friend.... Believe meh lol I'm so alone... If I get even a little love.... From anyone.... I just..... Really like them(as frnds)... Or (kinda flirty even)
Okay I now see how I might be confusing to others😅 I value my best friends basically above anything else, except for close family members, and let them know on a daily basis, and often ask those who live close to me to hang out
I do the same , when I am close with someone, I do all the most of the mentioned things and this makes me really confused 😅....but I am not doing touchy feely and being steamy tho
@@sleepyboii4159 it makes me question whether i have feelings for my friends , but I literally don't, cause I am staright 😅, this even made me question whether i am not straight or something
@@proudally6662 yesterday I spoke to a very dear female friend of mine. I felt so warmly about her, I was questioning if I had a crush on her or not. I dont
@@sleepyboii4159 🤣 me too lol , I had a classmate I admired very much , I am not at first when I met her ...but overtime when I got to know her , I found her personality very likable...but its more like " I want to be like her "..she is like a role model for me , but I was questioning whether i have crush on her or not for a long time ...which I figured I don't
By the way, just wanted to thank you for these videos; they’ve helped a lot during some particularly* tough moments of despair, and the animations are always delightful. 💚 Oh, and there’s nothing wrong with a feel-good, laugh-and-cry-out-loud romcom! 😊 *_This autocorrected as “party ocular my,” for some bizarre reason_ … 🤦🏻♂️
@@Psych2go I think so; looking back, it's possible one of my friends from primary school may have had a crush on me that ultimately went unrequited (and if I'm honest, I may have had feelings for him that could be called a crush, albeit one overshadowed by a decades-long lack of self-awareness that was ironically mistaken for asexuality... honestly, my experience with romance has been mostly peripheral thus far, so who knows? ^_^;)
A girl is talking nicer to me than with others. She always smile while talking to me, she dosn't look at me the way she looks at others. And she always talk to me differently, the words she use, and in a higher tone. Maybe she like me but afraid to tell?.
Is her behavior different with you than with others? I mean in a better way. Because if yes, then you should ask about it, if you want that girl. It's hard I know, but no pain no gain.
@@Jesszus0 Yes a little bit,she laughs at my lame jokes sometime or the weird voice impressions I do😅 but unlike most of the people at work, she'll come to me for advice or tell me things she never tells the others at work. She trusts me enough to know I'm not gonna tell her business to anyone else or if she needs someone to talk to that'll listen,she comes to me. And I usually can make her smile no matter how she's feeling. But her and I are like real cool friends. I honestly don't think it'll go further than that if I'm honest. Plus she can't have an boyfriend right now anyway,her parents are strict. But I'm okay with us staying best friends, we're comfortable with one another enough.
Things I do: 1.I get blushing a lot.When my crush came,I just felt so worried that day.We don't even speak anymore but we coincidentally met and I felt like butterflies in my stomach...I was playing a game and I lost when he came.I got distracted. 2.I get usually really happy if we talk with someone I like.Even for something small and unimportant.And after he leaves,I just get that euphoria feeling and that I'll just jump on the streets.Or like walking too fast from excitement.
I have already watched tons upon tons of vids of the like, but there is a fundamental sign which is NEVER talked about. Attraction beyond friendship manifests when one begins arguing with his/her partner about things they would not argue about in case they were just friends, and the reason behind this is that when attraction arises, more complex feelings and a different perception of the ego arise together with it. There is a Spanish popular "singsongish" rhyme which depicts this perfectly: "los que se pelean se desean", translated as "those who argue, wish each other". And it is true. Whenever one feels like arguing about trivial things with a friend, or, what's more, even teasing him of her with remarks varying in the degree of maliciousness (yes, maliciousness), well, that may be more than just a friend. It is a rather complex mind game indeed, one I experienced in some occasions. Rather annoying and disappointing it is, BTW.
What's your ideal place to have a date?
park!
The beachhhh!!with candles and a romantic sunset 🌇 😍
The Park
maybe an arcade first time.
Home >:))
Things I do, when I'm attracted to someone: try to avoid them
Why? I hate when ppl do this
same😭
I'm avoiding you now....
Jokes aside, I don't get why people do that, I mean yeah I do it myself all the time with girls I like but still never understand why it honestly perplexes me
Usss
honestly, FUCKING SAME.
The worst feeling is when someone means the world to you but you’re just another person in their world
That's very harsh to believe
@@stranger3131 No I meant their. It’s to show perspective as through your eyes you’re the technically the main character. And not only that I meant to say their because I’m not talking about the world I’m talking about their world. This quote consists of two people. One saying he views someone as the world and the other saying he’s just another person in their world.
@@stranger3131 but that’s not what I was saying? They don’t view the world as theirs the quote just says their world because through your own eyes it’s a different world and story. It’s more of a perception thing
That just happened to me
@@stranger3131 "everyone has their own world" means that everyone has their own perspective on things, and no two people will ever have the exact same way of thinking about a specific topic, since words don't really go that far yet. the idea of just being another person in someone else's world is supposed to mean that you're not really that special, at least not compared to how you think of that other person, which is them being a whole different world for you. honestly, the idea of "having your own world" does sound really selfish when you just say it like that, but when it's put in different contexts, it's not the same anymore. so the main idea of the comment isn't about the other person claiming that the world belongs to them, but that in their specific world, their perspective, you're not really as special as how you think of them.
That moment of pure fear when you realise you've been giving these signals to every single one of your friends-
Polygamy time!
Time to undo them?
... sAmE...
@@Psych2go I hope 😓
I kinda do most of them lol 🥴
If you are in a rush-
1. 0:27 They really wanna be around you
2. 1:07 They make you a priority over others
3. 1:35 They are ‘scientifically’ affectionate
4. 2:26 They be touchy-feely
5. 3:13 They ask for your opinion on things
6. 3:41 They get steamy around you
7. 4:07 They mirror your actions
Hope this helps🤗
Nice to know that absolutely nobody is attracted to me whatsoever.
@@Sky_Dragon_OwO same
@@Sky_Dragon_OwO doesn't mean it will stay that way!!💗
@@Sky_Dragon_OwO Well then, stop being "just a regular guy" lol.
@@Sky_Dragon_OwO 🙋🏼♀️same 🤷🏼♀️
My toxic trait is falling for emotionally unavailable people.
Same bruh
I feel bad for you guys 😅
Basically every crush I've had and I was never and probably never will be able to tell if they're emotionally available or if they like me, no matter what signs people tell me and no matter how many of these educational videos I watch. It also doesn't help that I'm autistic and have a much more difficult time picking up on social cues as well as being shy, introverted, socially awkward and not knowing the proper place or how to properly put myself out there
@@FFRrox First of, remember this: We tend to accept the love we think we deserve to have.
That means, if you believe that you will never be worthy enough to be loved by others, you will find THAT thinking as a reflection your real life.
Second. Believe, know, and live out, your life as if you are already worthy of being loved by others. Because, you are! When you walk in confidence of who you are, with self-diginity and self-respect, people subconsciously respond to that. No need for cognitive-behavior or such training for that to work out. Its a natural human respond to respect the ones who "project" self-respect, etc, etc.
And thirdly, you may need individualize coaching or counseling in learning to to socialize with people. I know they are great life coaches and therapists with such skills that deals with people on the Spectrum. So don't lose hope.
I have a college-age cousin and she's autistic, on the higher functioning end. She's an Introvert, shy, artistic, anime and cat loving young woman. She's pretty amazing actually. She has an equally great non-nuerodivergent bf. He's respectful, kindhearted, high EQ type, sociable, funny, and patient young man. They are great together.
So if she can have that, so can you. Keep on believing that you will find the right partner for you.
Just stop falling for them period. They are worthless and useless. Live for yourself.
*7 Signs Someone Is Attracted To You, Not Just Friends*
1. They really wanna be around you. (0:26)
2. They make you a priority above others. (1:05)
3. They are "scientifically" affectionate. (1:32)
4. They be touchy-feely. (2:25)
5. They ask for your opinion on things. (3:13)
6. They get a bit steamy around you. (3:37)
7. They mirror your actions. (4:06)
Have a beautiful day/night everybody! Keep smiling and take care! 💞
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If a girl says: “I am not attracted to you”, she is attached to you.
If a girl says: “Happy birthday day son!” bcuz she is your biological mother, she is attracted to you.
If a girl says: “Hey put that knife down, how did you get in here?”, she wants your D.
these aren’t originally my words, they are from a funny short about a comedian(-ish) making fun of those “dating experts” on tiktok
@@brixenlang3207 LOL
Me who is the quiet kid be like:i dont have a chance.
Yeah feeling like the ugly duckling
If u don't have enough time - 0:26 they really wanna be around you
1:34 they are "scientifically" affectionate
1:07 they make you a priority over others
2:26 they be touchy-feely
3:12 they ask for your opinion on things
3:39 they get a bit steamy around you
4:07 they mirror your actions
Now you can find your true-love👍🍀🤞
Thank you I’ve been so confused on how I’ve been feeling and you taught me exactly what I’m feeling and now I feel more secure with myself :’)
So what are you feeling? :)
@@Psych2go hi
@@Psych2go for the past couple years I felt so emotionally burnt out but I didn’t know what that was until you made a video on it and I know this video has nothing to do with it but I just wanted to say thank you 🤍
same
i can't tell if this is sarcastic or not
_"Don't do that... Don't give me hope."_
I love Amanda’s different energy in the narrating for this video!!! You can tell she’s just different after showing her vulnerable side in her side channel ☺️☺️💙
What's the side channel? :3
@Gianna Diaz
There's a link next to her name in the description.
@@galinayepanchina6443 thank you very much!
That's means she jast wone be your friend not a girlfriend
@@pushpakushwaha2134 correction (that means she just wants to be your friend not your girlfriend/wife/lover)
1. They REALLY wanna be around you (all the time) 0:27
2. They make you a priority above others 1:05
3. They are "scientifically" affectionate 1:32
(Thank you 2:17)
4. They be touchy-feely (not in a creepy way) 2:25
5. They ask for your opinion on things 3:14
6. They get a bit ✨steamy✨ around you 3:37
7. They mirror your actions 4:06
Seeing the signs now??😳😳
All of it:)
Only number 5 😅
POV:you realize no one is doing this to you.
fr bro
That's because I don't expose myself to people, well, most of the time
Rip
@@sonzai5162 bro same
There's this friend of mine who I've liked for two years. We've been really good friends since kindergarten.
I saw him in one of my classes on the first day of school, and I sat next to him. Our teacher was a substitute that didn't know what to do, so we basically just talked all class. I noticed that he was really quiet and kept on trying to avoid eye contact, but I also noticed that whenever I talked to one of my other friends he looked a little sad, like he wants me to talk to him.
We also play online together a lot. Whenever he notices I'm in a game, he joins me. Whenever he's online, he messages me and asks me to play or just talks. Considering how many other friends he has, it's a little strange how he always wants to hang out with me.
Long story short, I think he likes me back.
That's amazing, I rlly hope that things work out for u guys :)
go for it pleasee
It sounds so cuute!! Go for it, please! Everyone reading this comment will have theirs fingers crossed 🤞
The thing is, even if I KNEW he likes me back, I'm still not 100 percent sure I'd want to date him. I've never dated anyone before, and I just think it'd be weird. It would be a relief to know he likes me though, haha.
@@ele_abnormal That’s fine, you don’t need to date someone if you ain’t ready. It’s just about your happiness :D
I told a girl I loved her, she told me she felt attached but she didn't feel the same, i still ask myself what she meant
We Go jim
Long story short she wasn’t mature enough to be dabbling in relationship anyway mate, saved urself a hassle in the long run.
i think she meant she needs u in her life but just not as a s/o ?🤔
She’s was your Best friend, she felt like you were both the same but not enough for love. Like very close but not that close… it’s just what I think so take it with a pinch of salt
She likes you, but she doesn't want a relationship.
hi! i find these videos to be very informative and fun, please continue doing what you do!
can you guys do a video for "ways to hint that you want to be friends, without leading them on for romance" ?
thank you all
Yesss
That's a good topic. Maybe we can start with some ideas here?
INFJ guy speaking here, but I feel like clearly voicing one's goals, hopes, and/or expectations up front better enables others in making informed relationship decisions. It can be something simple like "Hey let's be friends," or something more complex like "I need more X type of friends in my life; do you have any suggestions/recommendations?"
We should respect that the demands on people's time and schedules (not to mention their own personal goals) will occasionally necessitate that they prioritize some relationships over others. If they've got room for more friends in their life awesome, but let's also keep in mind that perhaps they aren't currently able to justify making time unless it's for romance.
You never know, you might even find someone who'd really enjoy having a purely platonic movie/book/music snuggle buddy but can't have pets because of allergies.
@@slinkyblank129 bro wrote a whole essay
@@slinkyblank129 that's a completely understandable viewpoint!
as an INFP, i entirely agree. communication is very important and simply just voicing one's expectations can make misunderstandings less likely to happen! as an introvert even doing that can be difficult though, haha.
and of course, respecting people's time and decisions are incredibly important.
i really appreciate your advice!
Your videos always make me feel better even if I can't relate to that specific topic.
Absolutely loved this video. Thanks for telling me that absolutely no one is attracted to me 💀
Ya me to dude 😂
Off topic, but I adore the thumbnail. The art style is really captivating, and I especially love the way you drew the girl's eyes.
Thanks for mentioning that. We have been experimenting with new thumbnails actually!
@@Psych2go Aww yw!
I love these videos! They help us navigate the weird dance between friends and something more 😅
1.They really wanna be around you
2.They make you a priority above others
3.They are scientifically affectionate
4.They be touchy-feely
5.They ask for your opinion on things
6.They get a bit steamy around you
7.They mirror your actions
@@lilatune your not alone I do too 😭
there’s this guy in my science, maths, pe and religion class. once during maths, he randomly sat at my table with his friend (who normally sits at my table) and he stared at me. he then told me that he remembers me from early primary school (we’re in grade 8 of highschool), now every few days he approaches me and does something random (the other day in pe he gave me a handshake, i tried to pull away but he took my hand again and asked me to do it properly). my friend told me that he was staring at me during science class, and ik it’s true bc i saw him do that multiple times, btw i usually tie my hair up and this was one of the days where i had it out. i rlly like him, he’s super funny and confident, but he’s a popular kid while i’m just some quiet girl lol. i have social anxiety so i blush a lot, i literally turn into a tomato when i look at him. i’m rlly not sure how to approach him, but i’d love to become friends with him and even see if he likes me bk (if i’m lucky)
💀 My dude def likes you like I like food. Send it for the biscuit girllll
@@shatoewin lmaoo
1 Text,
1 Song,
1 Mistake,
1 Lie,
1 Word,
1 Truth
and
1 Person
Can change your mood in
1 SECOND....
Mhm yep, 1 song changed me into a cyborg ninja with a cool sword making me realize while standing, that both of us are just trying to make history
@@felisknight8599 standing here I realize
@@neverknown404 But who's to judge, the right from wrong.
@@felisknight8599 when our guard is down, I think we'll both agree
@@reina.tg06 that's violence breeds violence
This video was so cute! I wish the best of luck to the plant people in this, as well to anyone thinking about asking out their crush! Remember, taking a chance is good for your growth, even if they say no!
If someone truly wants you, they will show it through actions, how effective their communication is, their vibe, body language and how they treat you. If you have to constantly ask yourself if someone is into you or not, they act hot and cold towards you, then most likely, they're not!
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Yep. Just the type of content i watch. Thank you youtube for filling up that yop precious recommended bar with this precious video.
Being that we're in a digital age, you guys should do one called 'signs someone likes you through social media'
Thanks!
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My prior relationships has driven me to go on through life on my own, but I seem to have been alone for too long now as I tend to distance myself from anybody I sense romantic tension with. Because I don't know how to share my life with another person anymore, and the thought of having another break-up scares me.
We're in the same boat. After my three year relationship break up with an girl I've been with since highschool...idk what happened. But my heart changed and I don't want to get attached to anyone anymore because I can't go though another heartbreak. So I've been living the single life these days and tbh I'm happier. Accomplishing so much more goals in my life now. I'm not scared to love, but I'm scared of love because that word nowadays is thrown around loosely. I can't take fake love anymore. At least I know my love for myself is real cause I know my value and worth
Can relate to this. Ive never really dated due to health issues in my past so when it does start to occur I mentally shut down out of fear and confusion. It suuucks and to this day its really hard to sit with that its cost me several amazing people.
Breakup after reading this: I’m about to end this man whole career
Edit:I’m sorry
My heart skipped a beat at the heartstopper leafs 😅
Omg yeahhhh! I also saw the Craig of the Creek characters and squeezed because they were drawn so cute!
1. 0:27 They really wanna be around you
2. 1:07 They make you a priority over others
3. 1:35 They are ‘scientifically’ affectionate
4. 2:26 They be touchy-feely
5. 3:13 They ask for your opinion on things
6. 3:41 They get steamy around you
7. 4:07 They mirror your actions
I've experienced all those things and found out the hard way they do NOT mean anything.
People like hanging with people who are not jerks. Doesn't mean they "like" you that way. Maybe you're just not a jerk.
Priorities are hard to gauge if you don't really know what a person's options are. They could have absolutely NO other options and you are "better than nothing".
Science does not apply to affection/emotion.
Some people are just touchy-feely (with everyone) and it means nothing.
Maybe people ask your opinion cos they wanna know what NOT to do.
What the hell is "steamy"? if it has anything to do with being sexually/erotically expressive, people can do that around platonic friends, too.
Doesn't mean anything except they're sharing what they like.
Mirroring people's actions can be a subconscious thing. If I listen to British people long enough, I start talking like them - accent, slang & expressions, the whole bit.
Doesn't mean anything except that I am "absorbant" of certain traits/attributes. After a few minutes, I go right back to being my boring North American self.
The only time I've ever had a woman be like this towards me, she freaked out about it and cut contact with me. Such was her abject horror towards the idea of being attracted to me.
On the bright side, it's kinda funny to look back on.
Maybe she already has a boyfriend I guess 😅😅😆
@@nouromer5931 No, she didn't. Can confirm as we were friends first.
I was that girl 15 years ago. For me, my issue was I had deep psychological issues growing up and so I was scared of intimacy. It’s ok if I only show affection, but when the boy returned the feeling and tried to bring the relationship to the next step, I freaked out and bailed.
So, it may not be you. Just her.
OMG YOU GUYS POSTED JUST RIGHT AFTER I FELL IN LOVE WITH A FRIEND-
SAME SITUATION OMG
Same :")
same .-.
Well,I guess it’s destiny.
4:33 Oh this shot is so cute it reminds me of Heartstopper
Claim your "here in 1 hour" ticket
💜
Claimed
claimed
1. You ask them to hang out and they are always down.
2. They treat you more favorable than others.
3. Whenever you talk they are engaged(listening, laughing, staring in admiration)
4:03 "Looks like they got a fever, and the only prescription -- is YOU!"
LOL! Amanda should do a whole video of just pickup lines! :)
I think the most challenging part can be speaking up. I'm glad that it was added to the list how of to deal with rude people. By no means do I want to take away from the first 2, those do wonders also but for someone like me who has often done the first 2, there's something about speaking up that hits different.
This channel just reminds me every single time that I am just her friend.
awww the cute heartstopper leaves! and the snow scene at 4:33 :’)
3:27 *WAS THAT ME?!?!*
Jokes aside, I think I've done a pretty good job of hiding my feelings, I would rather be friends with them instead of taking it to the next level, thanks for the vid Psy!
It's 14 days passed of my everyday full body workout, pain not in muscles, it's right inside of head, begging to stop working.
I'm not going to stop, eventually there will be my happiness, not in gains, but action itself.
Never build your life over dating someone.
100% from the start, sending me selfies, asking me stuff, being a priority for sure. Funny thing Is I was jus joking at the start, and then gained feelings over time - she said "I love you" first, and we are now very close
Hey, can you make a video about how to tell, even if the person is really good at hiding thier feelings? Like not just a normal person trying to hide it, but someone with exceptional social skills who probably would only drop really small hints?
Amazing video as always! I was so happy to see the Technoblade Easter egg!! Technoblade never dies 🥺👑
seeing Tao and Elle and Nick and Charlie made my day :)
That craig of the creek reference though :DD
0:40
Those Heart stopper hints are so cute ^•^
I thought that I fell for one of my closest friends and with these indicators, I just confirmed to myself that I indeed fell for my friend... Who clearly is not interested and has someone else in mind.
I always keep myself together. Learning to love myself before I love the other individual. If someone is in love with me, I would not mind, but I have to focus on my life.
I've mentioned this girl a few times but I don't mind. Known each other since I was in high school (she's a bit older), we've hugged a lot over the years and she's shown a few signs . Awkwardly bumping into each other, laughing about it, her mirroring me, me rubbing my shoulder on hers when we're alone, I think I even flirted with when we almost kissed. How's that for steamy?
Don't waste more time, just ask her out! I almost missed my chances and I don't want others to go through something like this.
@@animefreakanimedodo7115 I kinda agree
Yea, I missed my chance... Everyone around me knew about it, knew I was more dense than lead... then said "You didn't know they liked you? We knew for a while..." Sometimes if you know your friend is somewhere between lead and a neutron star... fucking say something.
Physical attraction that is strong is addictive......❤❤
Great. Thanks for telling me that I’m madly in love with my best friend.
Amanda is my favorite narrator love her beautiful Energy! 💚
There is a person that almost perfectly does all these things, and I do like them; but I think it would be better to wait a bit and let the friendship grow before anything serious starts.
Thoughts?
if that's what you feel then grow it shall
I don't see why not.
if you wait too long these feelings might fade since they are all chemicals in your brain, each time these chemicals: endorphins, dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin get released your brain gets used to them and you might feel less attracted, so i think it's better to jump in sooner especially if you are in your teenage years because these hormones get quite chaotic and unpredictable.
Signs someone is attracted to me? NOT SCIENTIFICALLY POSSIBLE!
Me who's wanting a lover, but I don't even have friends: (٥↼_↼)
I’ll be your friend
But just friends no funny business
@@I.love.my.boy13 you're funny, but it would be weird for an 18 yrs old like me to be friends with, assume by your profile picture, about 4-9?
@@TheNegative69 FBI!! OPEN UP!!
@@GoGnBowlTorChowr loll
THE HEARTSTOPPER REFERENCES- LIKE THE LEAVES, THE SNOW DAY, THE PHOTOS
I actually just confessed to my crush today and all of these signs shows that he likes me more than just as a friend 🤭 now I can see what my friends are pointing out that we have a very unexplainable bond with each other it’s because we both show these signs to each other we’re just really close in general ever since we met so yeah
Hi.....im following ur videos since may......i was in too much depression.....thanks to ur videos..it really helped me alot....not only it helped me to overcome it....but also makes me even stronger than ever.....
THANKU SOO MUCH FOR UR VIDEOS
Ah, a relationship, that’d be a nice thing to have, that won’t be happening though
I don't want to be in an relationship anytime soon. People with good hearts get walked on and you'll always be wrong no matter how right you are. Glad I'm out that toxic three year relationship. However if you do indeed get in an relationship one day. Then I wish you the best 😁
@@uchihaavenger4464 I think any attempt at a relationship would be a fail, someone’s going to need something the other cant put out
@@ckinggaming5bucketmadness766 yeah an relationship needs balance but unfortunately it's very rare to find that second half or "balance" because of how corrupted and twisted the world we live in is..
Ah yes, a fellow someone who gave up on this shit. Cheers! 🥂
I'm binge watching all of these types of videos and I've literally had two conversations with her help
Me, but I'm not attracted to them, we're just good friends
Can relate
Same , I am kinda lonely and I get excited and go overboard when I talk with another human being , so I am very confused 🤥
@@proudally6662 Literally me
I think the change to the art style as its pretty cool 😎.
As an autistic person who is incredibly dense when it comes to flirting... Thanks for posting this. No joke, I'm worse then a harem anime protagonist when it comes to that.
I may not be autistic, but I feel you on the flirting density. I can make that harem anime protag look like they're omniscient in comparison.
These romance-related videos make me sad, but I can’t stop watching them
The pain that we feel has a power to push us to our very great potentials
Someone out there needs to hear this: Attraction doesnt always mean they want a relationship nowadays.
the song name's: Hectorino Martinez - Cheel
This video really made my day ! Thank you Psych2Go for the awesome and much needed content❤. You people are truly helpful towards others in this platform/world🙏
4:30 definitely reminds me of that scene between Charlie and nick when it was the first time they hung out
True, it happens to me.
One thing to be a little careful of is that love may be a positive feeling, it can also bring negative consequences. It’s okay to feel the way you feel, but you should be responsible with how you feel. Listen to your feelings and try to understand them better. Then based on that, do your best to manage them accordingly, so you can express your emotions in a healthy way.
I love your videos so much
Thanks for the kind words as always!
istg, this makes me wanna cry because i currently have the biggest crush on my best friend. he used to have the biggest crush on me during second grade and during 8th grade, i didn't figure it out yet that i liked him because i usually fall for someone first based on their looks but with him, i fell for his personality. plus we're the top couple of the zodiac chart😩and he has a freaking girlfriend!!😫 literal definition of he fell first but she fell harder trope.
I confessed to my one and only bestfriend last yesterday. I just lost my one and only bestfriend.
Were still kind of friends but, you know. Its not the same as it was.
bad move
@@ibrahimhassaan6188 indeed, but things changed. Turns out she was just confused and shocked and just need a lil time to think. Eventually we decided to just stay as besties and Im kinda grateful for that.
@@kristofu9570 happened for the worst in my case, she got spooked and never talked ever since, going 2 years
The voice and the background...just awesome...great vibe..great video
2:35 technoblade 💜
May he rest in peace❤
When I get a crush sometimes it’s just “They’re cool and I wanna be with them.”
I had a crush but things took a slight turn to not know and wouldn’t go further because some things are the evitable of why they happen and continue to happen
this is the most unrelatable and relatable video i've ever watched...
and i know a lot you are too
EARLY TYSM AMANDA! (THATS YOUR NAME RIGHT?) TYSM
I actually do mirroring consiously when I'm trying to get someone to like me, because subconsiously they notice are are more likely to take a liking to you and trust you more. I saw it on TH-cam when a dectective was doing it while interrogating someone and the video explained why he was doing it.
Thank you for this helped help me love your videos
... So ah meh
1)..."tehy really wanna be around them"-bruhhh mehh i wanna be around them all the time aa frnd... I just love spending time.
2) I wil make " Priority " U Over others all the time, if ur my friend.... Believe meh lol I'm so alone... If I get even a little love.... From anyone.... I just..... Really like them(as frnds)... Or (kinda flirty even)
Okay I now see how I might be confusing to others😅
I value my best friends basically above anything else, except for close family members, and let them know on a daily basis, and often ask those who live close to me to hang out
I do the same , when I am close with someone, I do all the most of the mentioned things and this makes me really confused 😅....but I am not doing touchy feely and being steamy tho
@@proudally6662 yea same. For me it’s also mainly just a hug once in a while and that’s it. And I only feel steamy when I have a crush on someone
@@sleepyboii4159 it makes me question whether i have feelings for my friends , but I literally don't, cause I am staright 😅, this even made me question whether i am not straight or something
@@proudally6662 yesterday I spoke to a very dear female friend of mine. I felt so warmly about her, I was questioning if I had a crush on her or not. I dont
@@sleepyboii4159 🤣 me too lol , I had a classmate I admired very much , I am not at first when I met her ...but overtime when I got to know her , I found her personality very likable...but its more like " I want to be like her "..she is like a role model for me , but I was questioning whether i have crush on her or not for a long time ...which I figured I don't
PERFECT timing
By the way, just wanted to thank you for these videos; they’ve helped a lot during some particularly* tough moments of despair, and the animations are always delightful. 💚
Oh, and there’s nothing wrong with a feel-good, laugh-and-cry-out-loud romcom! 😊
*_This autocorrected as “party ocular my,” for some bizarre reason_ … 🤦🏻♂️
Glad we could help! :) Did you relate to the video?
@@Psych2go I think so; looking back, it's possible one of my friends from primary school may have had a crush on me that ultimately went unrequited (and if I'm honest, I may have had feelings for him that could be called a crush, albeit one overshadowed by a decades-long lack of self-awareness that was ironically mistaken for asexuality... honestly, my experience with romance has been mostly peripheral thus far, so who knows? ^_^;)
These videos scare me because I feel like I do these things on accident and then I’m self-conscious about it😂
True af.
My favorite sign is when they push you against a wall and make out with you. Really gives away their true feelings
A girl is talking nicer to me than with others. She always smile while talking to me, she dosn't look at me the way she looks at others. And she always talk to me differently, the words she use, and in a higher tone. Maybe she like me but afraid to tell?.
SAME, when I'm at work, working alongside her. But I don't wanna misinterpret anything so I just don't say anything and I play obvilous
Is her behavior different with you than with others? I mean in a better way. Because if yes, then you should ask about it, if you want that girl. It's hard I know, but no pain no gain.
@@Jesszus0 Yes a little bit,she laughs at my lame jokes sometime or the weird voice impressions I do😅 but unlike most of the people at work, she'll come to me for advice or tell me things she never tells the others at work. She trusts me enough to know I'm not gonna tell her business to anyone else or if she needs someone to talk to that'll listen,she comes to me. And I usually can make her smile no matter how she's feeling. But her and I are like real cool friends. I honestly don't think it'll go further than that if I'm honest. Plus she can't have an boyfriend right now anyway,her parents are strict. But I'm okay with us staying best friends, we're comfortable with one another enough.
But lol still I tend to override or overthink things sometimes. So that's why I try not to over read body languages
@@uchihaavenger4464 so she have a boyfriend then probably she love you as a close friend but while she's taken you sholdn't do anything .
Things I do:
1.I get blushing a lot.When my crush came,I just felt so worried that day.We don't even speak anymore but we coincidentally met and I felt like butterflies in my stomach...I was playing a game and I lost when he came.I got distracted.
2.I get usually really happy if we talk with someone I like.Even for something small and unimportant.And after he leaves,I just get that euphoria feeling and that I'll just jump on the streets.Or like walking too fast from excitement.
“Morty, that thing you call love isn’t real, it’s just your brain sending chemicals so you can reproduce…”
I saw this video to see if a girl is attracted to me , but I just realised that i love this girl because I am doing it from all the categories here
3:18 is that technoblade?
I love all your videos, guys!! Just wanted to tell that in this video, the music is louder than the narration.
I have already watched tons upon tons of vids of the like, but there is a fundamental sign which is NEVER talked about. Attraction beyond friendship manifests when one begins arguing with his/her partner about things they would not argue about in case they were just friends, and the reason behind this is that when attraction arises, more complex feelings and a different perception of the ego arise together with it. There is a Spanish popular "singsongish" rhyme which depicts this perfectly: "los que se pelean se desean", translated as "those who argue, wish each other". And it is true. Whenever one feels like arguing about trivial things with a friend, or, what's more, even teasing him of her with remarks varying in the degree of maliciousness (yes, maliciousness), well, that may be more than just a friend. It is a rather complex mind game indeed, one I experienced in some occasions. Rather annoying and disappointing it is, BTW.
0:39
Love the Craig of the Creek reference
Woman hate me, I repel them.
-Magnus Carlsen, soon-to-be-former world chess champion
So you have mommy issues?
what r u talking 'bout
@@System.Error. Read your comment and think about it.
yeah its a word by magnus carlsen. if u wanna know the context go see the vid