The Unlikely Partnership of Comedy & Pain | Daliso Chaponda | TEDxManchester

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  • @pauldelcour
    @pauldelcour 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    He is just brilliant, understands human behavior like none other and is able to talk just about anything that somehow could be slightly embarrassing or 'not done'. You just keep at it and enlighten the world!

  • @DragonPrincessAoife
    @DragonPrincessAoife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    200 years ago this would have been an auction is one of the best one liners I've ever heard, it gets me every time.

  • @mbyrd6713
    @mbyrd6713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I love the Daliso method. I remember slavery joke from BGT and it was very hilarious. Thank you for giving the world another weapon in our arsenal to fight trauma. God bless you ❤️

  • @Papa_Arkoh
    @Papa_Arkoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    It’s been almost a whole day without comments. Probably because we’re all speechless.
    This is incredible. Well articulated and communicated. Thank you Daliso Chaponda

  • @pohth7391
    @pohth7391 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Came across Daliso by 'accident' as I was watching other stand up comedians like Trevor Noah & Michael Mckintosh 👍👍👍.
    I take this 'accident' as a Blessing because Daliso's brand of comedy is so Real, so full of Human touch & so Inspiring. Take this video ... I never thought looking at 'bad events' in a comedic way can be so Thearupatic (pardon my spelling error).
    Thank you, Mr Daliso

  • @maureenackerley8024
    @maureenackerley8024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Love this man, he has a great sense of humour. I struggle with depression and anxiety and I have a very warped sense of humour that is what gets me through. So he is right, add some humour to your situation and it will help.
    👏❤️

    • @alexanderthegreat9132
      @alexanderthegreat9132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Daliso is such a true inspirational figure, he really love to share his own feeling and his observation on reality events through his humor joke, when I saw him the very first time on BGT, I already like this person not just he has that humor, he also got a big heart. At the same time, he is the very first comedian writing joke without any offensive languages.

    • @noguruespanol
      @noguruespanol ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi maureen. My teenage Chilean daughter had depression & we spent 4months together in my native india, and she saw the teeming millions of people travelling, selling, working walking but all with hopes/plans to have a better life but facing the hardships in their own way all around, made her think/react on how lucky she is to have what she had back home and now she is back in the university in a much better state of mind. Just wanted to let you know. Hope you are good now & wish you the best

  • @ruxandrafanning1579
    @ruxandrafanning1579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Huge fan, love all your jokes and what a great mindset! Maybe next TedTalk could be a workshop on being funny and cracking jokes about yourself! Congrats on the gig Daliso 👏

  • @wkuntjoro6130
    @wkuntjoro6130 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A highly intelligent person this guy is.

  • @Faestyle
    @Faestyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I’m a big fan of this guy since I saw him on BGT! Brilliant comedian 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @GoranRadic
    @GoranRadic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thank you Dr. Daliso for this wisdom. It is exactly what I needed. Greetings from a huge fan from Croatia.

  • @eaglestar2962
    @eaglestar2962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Very very smart, humble, insightful, wise, and totally inspiring.

  • @jonathanwalther
    @jonathanwalther ปีที่แล้ว +2

    12:49 "Sometimes you feel ashamed for things you should not feel ashamed about." Amen to that!

  • @MonkehMike
    @MonkehMike ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If it hadn’t been for comedy, in my case dark humour, I would not been alive today.
    But I learned to laugh about hurtful, dark and depressing stuff in my life from my mother.
    I am so grateful to have that gift in my life; humour in, and about, dark and terrible things x)
    And yes: God have a great sense of humour!

  • @lienphalchung
    @lienphalchung 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This method is priceless in every sense of the word.. doesn't cost a cent but can't be bought.

  • @rajun1231
    @rajun1231 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Daliso has changed the way I think about things. He's so inspiring. Would love to see him in a theater.

  • @Naples69
    @Naples69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Recently discovered the guy and now I'm a huge fan!

  • @errajota
    @errajota ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I think it is time for the Daliso's method: Relive it, but change some facts; MAKE YOURSELF THE WINNER! "Great new Paradigm! Congrats and thank you.

  • @jacobusjosob8807
    @jacobusjosob8807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is how I like comedy. The truth!

  • @gg9722
    @gg9722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The Daliso Method got me and yeah, I will be doing it from now on. I didn't realize the speech was 14 plus minute long. It seemed so short. I wish he could have talked more. The minutes flew by.

    • @kgomotsotabane7101
      @kgomotsotabane7101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me sentiments exactly. Listening to him I was somewhere between laughing and intrigued at his pure genius. What a guy ❤️❤️🥳🥳

  • @9catlover
    @9catlover 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love Daliso Chaponda's comedy. We have to treasure and protect this man.

  • @dtharve
    @dtharve 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, I love this guy. He seems like such a good human being, and so funny.

  • @Rakmandra
    @Rakmandra 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    unbelieveable how accurate that sounds ... I actually learned the 'comedy way'/'daliso method' ... relive it until you find something to laugh about - there always is that one part (even on the darkest days there is a possibility for joy)

  • @SuukSamoaka
    @SuukSamoaka ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Infact he will always make my bad day a very memorable day with his comedy and he exposes the world view about Africa to everyone. More so, he is an educationist with a lot of experience in lighting listeners with his unique jokes. Simply the best comedian. Love you.

  • @nickthenoodle9206
    @nickthenoodle9206 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Brilliant, simply brilliant.

  • @hnakibapherjonesshangplian9974
    @hnakibapherjonesshangplian9974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Comedians are honest healers...

  • @mc4661
    @mc4661 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This man is much more than just a comedian. He’s a teacher. I feel more intelligent just from listening to him.

  • @1004445
    @1004445 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love intelligent comedy ❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @lynns7262
    @lynns7262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Been a fan of Daliso’s since BGT. He is a fantastic comic. Would love to see him in his own sitcom!

  • @rhondakennedy819
    @rhondakennedy819 ปีที่แล้ว

    Daliso is one serious comedian. Be kind to each other. Stay safe. Love to all

  • @brunobriansodhis7721
    @brunobriansodhis7721 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rebuking historical wrongs and societal misgivings through comedy. He's enticingly and amusingly provocative😂. That's a top-notch creativity. Kenyans love you, Daliso. Do your thing, Amigo!

  • @loikvokhidov7688
    @loikvokhidov7688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This guy is one of the best comedians I know. I wish I could attend to his show one day☺

  • @danielramon962
    @danielramon962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Daliso, great and true man, many thanks indeed!

  • @MH-zd7tn
    @MH-zd7tn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I was fascinated with this. Therapy through humor for bad situations or memories. I love it. I love this suggestion to rehabilitate. And I was fascinated with this. I'll have to try it.

  • @ealexeenko
    @ealexeenko 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've found this guy recently and I just love his non-PC humour! He is totally right ğas soon as anything bad happens people start cracking jokes about it (looking at you, my beloved 9gag, the community which we are proud of!)

  • @MrJorjjy
    @MrJorjjy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Am a fan. Love your jokes about africa. Wish you come to Nairobi

  • @humanforotherhumanst4619
    @humanforotherhumanst4619 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh! My! Life is Beautiful is one of my favourite movies of all time.

  • @imrealryry8470
    @imrealryry8470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Humor has to be the tool to shed light on the truth which helps us to reflect on it in a very optimistic way i am grateful for stand up comedians and any art containing comedy

  • @mandymd5979
    @mandymd5979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is so funny. Love him

  • @lisaleonard5916
    @lisaleonard5916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you so much for talking about humour to heal. You’ve inspired me, and you’re my new role model. Looking for more from you ❤️

  • @lev_n
    @lev_n ปีที่แล้ว

    4:00
    This realy hits hard with the whole underwater can decompresion

  • @-TheRock
    @-TheRock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of my favourite people 💪

  • @ovilhelha
    @ovilhelha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dalitso is naturally funny. What a gem.

  • @EdgarTheEagle
    @EdgarTheEagle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He is awesome! I like him tons!

  • @tapiwamagaisa
    @tapiwamagaisa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved listening to this..Laughter is therapy indeed.

  • @frederickphoenix
    @frederickphoenix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an absolute genius.❤️

    • @georgeking2369
      @georgeking2369 ปีที่แล้ว

      This man is a legend let hope we can all live in peace and harmony after all we are all God's children and we all go to the same place in the end

  • @dmt0430
    @dmt0430 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh I can’t believe how wonderful and healing that was. Especially for me about the game “Operation”! I needed to hear that. Thank you! I love all your humor!

  • @matthewashibi302
    @matthewashibi302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a very huge fan, more love from this side

  • @bhabeshrashailee7620
    @bhabeshrashailee7620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow man. You are a great help to the people

  • @carolea3782
    @carolea3782 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🤩👏👏👏👏 you gave us a gift of healing ❤️‍🩹 through jokes & laughter . I think it’s wonderful

  • @denisbu7055
    @denisbu7055 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If Malawi was the influence for other comedians like he is, he's the best! I know Chappelle, but you better know Chaponda! 🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @davidnixon1629
    @davidnixon1629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've become a massive fan.

  • @jonathanwalther
    @jonathanwalther ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:10 Speaking of modern trauma therapy: this is, what's actually done. E.g., read about the IRRT rational. There you imagine the traumatic sequence/situation (with help of a therapist) AND then you introduce a helping figure/person into this stream of memories, helping your younger self. It's not easy, but very effective.

  • @happyzibwira3464
    @happyzibwira3464 ปีที่แล้ว

    A new breed of comedy.....keep going heights

  • @noguruespanol
    @noguruespanol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Finally glad to see more of you on YT from Chile.
    Thanks man

  • @davidjma7226
    @davidjma7226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He plays the role of the Court Jester - who tells the King the truth in a humourous way. The King is vain and humour is used so as not to offend his ego.

  • @Jeff-un7vw
    @Jeff-un7vw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is very, very intelligent!...

  • @thesimpdaughter9948
    @thesimpdaughter9948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Always! Always fantastic! 👏👏👏

  • @trevorberridge6079
    @trevorberridge6079 ปีที่แล้ว

    There are people who say funny things and there are people who say things funny. And then there are people like Daliso who can do both. Irish comedian Frank Carson's catchphrase was "It's the way I tell 'em" because he was acknowledging that some of the jokes were not necessarily all that funny in themselves. His delivery was the key. Daliso has both the content and the delivery.

  • @jiyashin7356
    @jiyashin7356 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man is genius loce him. Going to heed his advice. Love him

  • @zoekazan9109
    @zoekazan9109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It s very sensitive thinking and action .Good for him to give this show from that point of view.

  • @bhoogewerf2823
    @bhoogewerf2823 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Intelligent, original and with a PHD in psychology!! 😅😂

  • @TitoTimTravels
    @TitoTimTravels 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so sorry I cannot help provide a healing joke for him... but I got nothing bad to say about him. Dude is hilarious. This was a great talk, but his standup routines are wonderful! 😎

  • @princebanini
    @princebanini 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Piece

  • @jdhtyler
    @jdhtyler 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks, I did this sort of thing when I was a kid and still do, I was told by others that I should not say this or that about myself. However always in the back of my mind was that IF made fun of myself it took the STING out difficult / bullying situations, since in my mind I did not believe it about myself.

  • @khiaratt
    @khiaratt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    as a person with depression, I am appreciative of my developed humor 🤣

  • @jeffrymanhulad8589
    @jeffrymanhulad8589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Clever man!

  • @GibsDaDrums
    @GibsDaDrums 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1-2 more months left for that joke 🤣.
    Awesome talk and the truth was said about laughing about painful things.

  • @segunadegunle2560
    @segunadegunle2560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Ted talk 👍🏽

  • @baarklein6611
    @baarklein6611 ปีที่แล้ว

    so good. so talented man

  • @cameliaichim1702
    @cameliaichim1702 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    About almost wining “ always a bridesmaid, never a bride “ 😂

  • @zephagwazeni5869
    @zephagwazeni5869 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very true n much applicable... Sometimes we make jokes over things that were so hurting back in em days
    Look at us now 😂... Well said daliso

  • @leifgunnarlindberg3879
    @leifgunnarlindberg3879 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LIKE DALISO HE SAY GOOD THINGS.

  • @BigBlueJayPlays
    @BigBlueJayPlays 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very funny and therapitic. So awsome. Keep it up.

  • @teddynabisenke2205
    @teddynabisenke2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sharp guy in deed

  • @overkix
    @overkix ปีที่แล้ว

    great guy

  • @Laudon1228
    @Laudon1228 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    IMO, it’s hardly an unlikely partnership. It’s a big part of how we survive and transcend pain.

  • @KlassikMafiaProduction
    @KlassikMafiaProduction 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Real talk well done, 👍

  • @olhesty2196
    @olhesty2196 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this guy! Where do we see more?

  • @_ibrahimK
    @_ibrahimK 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great guy!

  • @marylou6940
    @marylou6940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    La vita e bella all the way

  • @whimsical_me5135
    @whimsical_me5135 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have extremely advanced fibromyalgia so I deal with constant physical and emotional pain and I cope a lot with fairly dark humor. Sometimes my bf asks why I constantly deflect with jokes and why I can't just be real and I tell him if I didn't somehow turn this pain into something I can laugh about, even if he doesn't think it's funny, I wouldn't be able to survive it.

  • @WorldOfDeepThought
    @WorldOfDeepThought 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The lack of dolphin jokes is a cliffhanger to me.

  • @zerokyoz
    @zerokyoz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Genius. That what he is

  • @nirvanvithilingem
    @nirvanvithilingem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Respect 🥂 powerful stuff🥺

  • @ABOMalley25
    @ABOMalley25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great!✨♥️

  • @ismailbougtob8971
    @ismailbougtob8971 ปีที่แล้ว

    yeah well, you have to be so emotionally intelligent to understand this, man if we could just teach these emotional tips to everyone the world is gonna be something else.

  • @cliveholliman8996
    @cliveholliman8996 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic!

  • @bezamek7684
    @bezamek7684 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤😂daliso 😅 very true cery genuine .

  • @Alun49
    @Alun49 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Interestingly his point about reliving trauma and changing the outcome is not far from what the psychotherapeutic method of psychodrama aims to do.

  • @Ngamanyachipapa3055
    @Ngamanyachipapa3055 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great

  • @donnamuir4689
    @donnamuir4689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you haven't watched his comedy please do.

  • @faiwong3560
    @faiwong3560 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    喜樂的心是靈药
    憂傷的心使靈苦乾

  • @babs_xplorerinspire1491
    @babs_xplorerinspire1491 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing stuff

  • @pecintabuku2580
    @pecintabuku2580 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tragedy + time is a comedy. What is the tragedy in your life and become comedy?

  • @martinnoberpal4552
    @martinnoberpal4552 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @avizliran
    @avizliran 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m your fan

  • @ayberkatay2741
    @ayberkatay2741 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    finally turkish thank you gamze bayram

  • @ebenezermarboh5849
    @ebenezermarboh5849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Have all the comments been deleted??

  • @muhazreen
    @muhazreen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That why suicide people love suicidal joke
    it not the joke itself urge us to do so
    but it relieve us by thinking
    "Wow, that worst idea since people would laugh if my suicide attempt failed that badly"

  • @d.m.christina
    @d.m.christina หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jokes are mostly about sad things, with all comedians.