What happened? My best friends girlfriend that are our neighbors as well has been targeting me. I am likeablr and successful and she has been so destructive but I have set boundaries and tried ignoring her.
Get away from them is the best answer. I’ve had this struggle, but my issue was that a person close to me was too closely connected to them. I don’t even know the right words to express what a sociopath actually is like. It’s a mess filled with so many lies you mentally cannot keep track of them. Everything will be muniplulated and you will be munipulated yourself into thinking you are the issue. You’re the reason why things are happening. You did something wrong that lead to this persons behavior. While they are trying to convince you of that they are telling other people stories about you to turn them against you. They are telling you, you can’t trust those other people for such and such reasons. You don’t know who to trust. You trust no one. It takes time for people to convince you why you should have faith in them. As they are telling people things about you they make up things other people say so you can argue with them. They can turn around and tell them, you see this person is an issue. They use people for their personal gain. They control. They lack remorse for what they do and say. They are convincing. You also believe them at some point and time until you realize something all wrong is going on. They play on your fears when they can. They play on them so you can trust them. They then use that trust to manipulate you. They use your hurt to further hurt you. You can’t do anything about it. They are so good at lying and munipulating it doesn’t matter what you say. They are charming. People believe them. What you must do is stay away. Stay far away. That’s the only actual way you can help yourself.
I have a story myself.. i met this guy at work ( very charming personality and my personality is vise versa ) and we started of as great friends, we use to had intimate conversation Alone, and he's very insecure, he always tell me i should trust no one, and he doesnt want me to talk abt him to no one either, but when he is around his friends, his assertive and give back the same energy, ( Different personality ) Well now he dont talk to me like before. He also say his not good with messenger, is why he don't answer my messages. And i starting to wonder if is a sociopath
VinTaVge0592 Someone who just doesn't answer your messages or ghosts you isn't one of these people. When I was younger I always called these people tornados because they come in, everyone likes them, then everyone is talking crap about each other and when they're done and walk away nobody is friends anymore.
Yes, I totally agree with you about the best way to deal with them is not deal with them at all. You can not rewire their brains. You can not talk sense into their heads. They just don't get it. They are like demons. Hoping to hurt you and see you fail. They are not sympathetic. They don't care about you being in emotional pain caused by them. No sense of empathy. These people are very cold inside, but appear to be very charming on the outside. Some people may even say they are wicked. They have two faces. Do not attach to them. I don't care who they are husband, wife, mother, sister, boss, brother or friend don't attach, get away. Keep your business and anything they can use as a tool to hurt you away from them. Most of the time you don't know they are a sociopath until you become involved with them by that time they have enough amo to make your life miserable. If they are around your friends or boss they will sabotage the relationships by lying on you or twist small things. My advice is get away quickly if you continue to deal with them knowing that they are sick, be prepared to go down a dark path. God bless anybody that deals with one. It takes a sharp eye to see them in the beginning. Sometimes we only see what we want to see until we just get sick and tired and are forced to examine WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON.
Most Sociopaths that I have met are pretty intelligent people but also pretty short sighted. They can't seem to really plan anything. I noticed that this inability to plan is what drives them to control everyone and everything. It's as if they are blind people trying to keep the world from changing on them.
That's interesting, why would their inability to plan drive them to control others? My theory is that they act like a parasite who needs a person to plan/think for them? They are like a mosquito in a way haha. They come when your guard is down, suck your blood, give you diseases, then fly away when they got what they want, also they're easily crushable and hide a lot. That's their spirit animal, a fucking mosquito 😂
I love it when I meet a sociopath and they try to glad hand me and work their personality on me. When you shut them down instantly they glare at you with an evil eye as they realize that you can see right threw them. I crush sociopaths, chew them up and spit them out!
@Aaron Judge it's called self-defense... but this is how you guys react when found out: all of a sudden you're a victim. happens every time. you can't even think about that pattern - that is your weakness. it's part of your condition. just know that there are now a lot of people who have their scanners on about you guys. you constantly make little mistakes that show your nature because you are not like the rest of humanity so all you can do is try to fake our human family feeling like an australian aboriginal might try a yodel.
I was in love with one and let him use me over and over again till I finally got tired of it and now when he tries to get back with me again I'm prepared to shut him down.
Kamelhaj you can’t avoid them if there trying to get to “know” you which means there trying to manipulate you into becoming your best friend or getting into a relationship with you.
5 minutes with a sociopath seems like a hour. Until these self help videos I was a sucker around sociopath. Now I can honestly say I can catch the tricks that they pull about 90% of the time. Now that is real power. When possible I like to call them out and get a smirk out of them. I leaned most of the information held true when dealing with my ex or the oldest daughter.
Several times, the script implies that 'sociopath' and 'psychopath' mean the same. They don''t. Being a psychopath is a neurological disorder, and there is no known cure. A sociopath becomes that way as a result of life experiences which traumatised them. It may be possible to cure a sociopath, but they are averse to therapy
My father is a sociopath and when I tried standing my ground against him, he nearly beat me to death. I'm a teenager and I still live with him. I don't know how much longer I can take this.
I found this stunning, shockingly familiar. I had an adopted sibling, seven years older, who was one. As a child I learned at a deep, unconscious level most of these coping tactics, and only in later life began to understand what I was doing and why - To avoid harm to myself from a sinister personality. It wasn't conscious, thus my coping tools were imperfect and not consistently employed. It would have been pure salvation for me to have this information, given by a respected authority, when I was very young. I don't know if ordinary people, especially in their younger years, could understand and make use of the defenses suggested here, but it might save their lives both literally and figuratively.
Tree_Hugger. My absolute commiserations. I hope you are in a much happier place in your life now; in your mind and emotions with access to more loving and empathetic people. I know the hell you have been speaking of. Peace to you.
I feel your pain, one of my siblings is a sociopath, I have lived in fear for years, trying not to anger this person, watching every word, every action that comes out of my mouth for fear of what might come my way he had already threatened me before and I had seen what he'd done to others.... Recently the sociopath stopped talking to me, I am thankful but afraid that this person might just be plotting a revenge against me, my children or my husband. I pray this person will be happy away from me and my children and husband forever.
I was married to asocipath for Ford years. Everything you mentioned was part of program. His action put me in a counseling setting, the greatest move of my life. Slowly I began to understand how I ignored my own personality I favor of his ideas. When he threatened to kill me 'and no one would miss me, my fear gave me courage to escape.
I've been entangled with a sociopathic person in my life. My mom. She has lied, tricked, and swindled family friends and colleagues all her life and now I'm emotionally drained from all of her actions leading to inevitable divorce with my dad. It's sickening to be a part of her life and I sometimes wish i hadn't been born. I'm on the fringes, and I just dont know how to deal with her. I am physically and emotionally tired
Runnnnnnnm...get away from them. I currently work with with 2 of them. But I am looking for other work...one of them is the owner of re company...they feed off each other...if it was not for my faith I would have cracked long ago...the 1st chance I get I'm out
That's what I'm afraid of. Changing jobs won't help, these horrible people are everywhere. They're predators, actually seeking opportunities to do evil.
Robot voice forgiven. This is excellent advice and spot on. Do note though that the PSYCHOPATH has NO empathy at all. The SOCIOPATH does have a semblance of empathy or even genuine empathy at times but is predominantly self-interested. That is why the sociopath does so well. However, I would be cautious about 15:00 No.5 "Get Professional Help' as a last resort. It is probably best to find a close trusted friend or relation from the extended family as you do not, unwittingly, want to find yourself trapped in a 'system' that can be equally sociopathic! So, be careful. Not all popular people are sociopathic, just be aware.
gllo gle, saying “they are not people, not even animals, they are things.” Just because they have a mental disorder is pretty fucked up. Go get help you reptillian troglodyte.
I was in a relationship with a narcasistic sociopath and it was awful. Im still contacted every month from her. She texts me on a different number once a month and tries to manipulate me and terrorize me. I hope learning what I have from this video helps. I'm at my end
No contact. Zero. The only way to win is not to play. They want you to get in the pig pit with them and roll around to not be alone-stay out of it!! Remove yourself immediately or ASAP from the very room. Remember- 0 communication.
I just now realize that my best friend is a sociopath. About 90% of the above characteristics fit him perfectly. I finally put distance between me & him starting about two years ago.
How to deal with a sociopath. :Treat them like they do not exists. Treat them with indifference. They play on your emotions and do anything to hit any of your emotional buttons and will try to control over you through your emotions.
Cant believe this has dislikes,, there is a mass bunch of waffle online about counter socialpath techniques but this is by far the best... straight to the point about what an SP is & good starting blocks to deal with an SP. i am currently the focus of a true socialpath in a new job ive started. i work in a half community team & cannot avoid this person completely so thanx for getting to the point' Nevermind the robot voice.... its the contents that count =ace video
VERY INFORMATIVE THANKS FOR SHARING THE BEST PART OF THIS TO ME IS HOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF WHEN YOU HAVE NO WAY TO SCAPE. WILL BE NICE IF YOU ADD MORE INFO ABOUT IT
This video was quite informative, thank you. I have a sociopath female neighbour that hates me, and has been harassing me now for 12 years which is when I bought my home. I made the mistake of introducing myself when I moved in, big big mistake. I could tell there was something not quite right about her and I didn't want anything to do with her. That has made her angry, and she hasn't given up hurting me in every which way she can. I have police files, loads of them now. I have rescue dogs who I of course love, and I think she has thrown poisoned food for my dogs. They had all the signs of being poisoned, the vet suspects Warfin was used. My dogs are both German Shepherds and thank goodness they are large as it probably would have killed my 11 lb dog. A few months ago, my tires were slashed while parked in my own driveway. I have been putting up with this type of behaviour for 12 years, hoping it would stop or she would move. Hasn't happened. This female neighbour, a few weeks ago, yelled out a sexual scenario in which I am the key character. In this scenario I am being sexually tortured to the point where I am truly suffering. I found it to be quite disturbing and upsetting, but I showed no feelings or responded in any way. She was literally yelling this at me, she was so out of control. Why would she, in her mind, create a sexually violent scenario with myself as the person being violated? I absolutely don't get it. Is this neighbour a possible psychopath?
It's too easy to get sucked in by them, and they can be more dangerous than you know. Just stay away from them. If it's a family memeber, spend as little time around them as possible.
Thank you for this valuable information. It doesn’t matter if it’s a robot bc the robot had to be programmed by a human as to what to say. It’s great information and that’s what I focused on. Again, thank you.🌸
Ok...I am a sociopath, here’s some advice...If we like be you were are so loyal we will have your back ALL THE TIME. If you are not on our list of those we love, or God forbid are on our list of people we specifically don’t like, stay away from us. People I specifically don’t like would do well to avoid me like the plague.
I recently "lost" a relationship with a narcissist. We are called their supply, not girlfriend. I was vulnerable and sweet. He started going places with me. I had someone to talk to! and spend quality time with! I frequently gave him compliments and support. I was having a great time being in a relationship. One day, a woman we both knew stopped and told him how important he was in the art room, how his stories are so interesting (NOT TRUE). His stories are repetitive and boring. He and I were just friends but seemingly very good friends. We got around by walking and bus. This new supply has a car and she took him on a day trip and other places. I didn't hear from him in three weeks. It was very painful for me but he never felt a second of sadness for the loss of me in his life. When I was discovering and learning things on TH-cam I heard a woman say "if you are in relationship with a narcisst I can tell you how it is going to end. A new supply will come along and he will disappear, no contact for an extended period of time. No phone calls which had been frequent. He won't have any feelings of loss. He will mention things they do together just to hurt you. They like to get a rise or sadness out of you. I could say much more. They have a sense of entitlement including other's stuff. I let him use my computer to buy stuff, he would pay me upfront, Payments were paid through Paypal. One day when he was at my place I was busy cooking or washing dishes and he blatantly was looking at my passwords. I trusted him and thought nothing but curiosity. He went to his multi use phone and used my password to buy things. from ebay. It still doesn't seem so terrible as it could have been much worse. I changed my password, though. He had been a great manipulator and still was. Many more instances. He never missed an opportunity to say something that took the wind out of my sails. I recently met my granddaughter's boyfriend and saw narcissistic traits in him, even instant anger. Her self esteem is low. I asked other family members how they felt about this guy and it was all favorable. In this instance it could be a matter of life and death for her. The sudden bursts of anger when what he says isn't taken as true and your opinion is not true. . Oh dear. She has been with him 3 yrs and they will be moving in together.
Excellent !!! thank you !!Exactly what I needed to know since I was born !! :-) wish you more strength to share more of such wisdom with those who needs it as I do ....
Leveta best video i have ever heard in my life and its sad because its family and ur rite on the money.U are a very wise Woman iam 67 years old and u made me very happy i always thought it was me.
I know my daughter is a sociopath and she definitely lacks respect for me and sympathy. She's going on 32....not a teen, although, that time was a bundle of joy (NOT). It hurts me that we're estranged, and I feel guilty. I've been diagnosed with a liver disease and she couldn't care less how she treats me. I stopped talking to her, because it's just too emotionally and, now, physically draining.
Recording a conversation "secretly" is legal in MOST states, as long as you are a participant in the conversation, from what I understand. but yes, if you feel you need to record a conversation, check the laws in your state... there are a couple of instances where this might be truly necessary... if you need to establish some kind of abuse going on in order to protect your child from an abusive co-parent and need to cut them off or limit contact to your child... courts simply do not believe without proof or admission... a lot of people make the mistake of going to "authorities" for help thinking they will simply be believed, but you will NOT be given much help without physical evidence or a conversation with the abuser admitting to something or showing their true colors in some significant way, all that might happen is the person will be questioned, but there will be no consequences.. the other instance would be if you are being harassed at work... usually, there is some kind of sexual harrassment going on, but there could be something else going on at work, possibly attempts to coerce you to do or cover up or cooperate with something illegal, for example. If you do not have proof of some sort, a corraborative witness, video or audio recording etc... you just "saying" what you've experienced is highly unlikely to be simply believed. Well, someone might believe you, but they cannot do much to help you. I happen to know of a lot of situations where women (it can happen to men too) were sexually harrassed and then they think they can just go report this to whomever or file a lawsuit and they get nowhere because it simply boils down to one person's word against anothers. But, again, it is not always something sexual going on... this just seems to be common.
They treat these issues in cognitive therapy and aa and alanon. And in churches that aren't apostate. It may be a physical, psychological or spiritual issue due to childhood trauma. People around them should hold them accountable. They sure can fool people. Destructive.
I think I'm dealing with two physopath. They both are my nieces. I notice how they use me to feed off each other. The two are sisters. I'm blocking them and staying away from them! They are toxic and feed off me because I'm easy to get along with. Tired of the drama. Blocking both.
"Let them know ypur to smart to fall for thier tricks" yeah no, dont do that. cut contact and get away. Telling a socio/psychopath ypur too smart for them is going to be taken as a threat, insult, or challenge. None of which are what you want someone lacking empathy or morality, depending on wich disorder, to think. Also just because you 'cuaght' them dosnt mean your smarter. Most likely your not.
This video is very informative, however there is quite a bit of difference between sociopaths and narcissist. While narcissist are on the sociopath spectrum, the way they behave and are triggered at work and home are quite different. Most of the characteristics described here is a narcissist. The number one thing to take from this is all three Sociopaths, Narcissist and Psychopaths target both empaths and dark empaths. Reading up and learning about all five will help assist in how to react and how to handle situations. I extremely important to note: Dark empaths are less likely to feel like victims and will more often times than not be the tools/enablers used to batter empaths. So dont let this fool you. When youre marked by someone in the sociopath spectrum, but the attacks come from their family or spouses. Just know this is whats happening. Dark empaths will sense something is off and may not understand, but it will always be about themselves and how to maneuver themselves. Ultimately sociopaths and dark empaths hold longer relationships than empaths, due to the fact their empath nature enables while their dark nature is codependent with the toxicity. This will explain a lot of what you see around you every day in friends, family and in the news. Those who are on the sociopathic spectrum are not always the killers. As long as theyre in control of the situation its more psychological. Empaths will assertively and strategically remove themselves from the toxicity. While a dark empath is hell bent on revenge and are more likely to snap.
1. sociopaths usually gain depression 2. how people act towards them the worse it gets or the better it gets 3.if you see one of the sociopathic traits happen do stand up and DO feel sorry for them because they don't notice! ALSO, they are probably faking their emotions in reality most of them hate to be at the center and are usually sad most of the day. TRY TO BE NICE FOR ONCE
Sounds like a narrative of both my real realization in my relationship with my ex-wife and the timeline by which it took to set boundaries! And even then realize boundaries mean nothing and finally escaped....DIVORCED and even then it took a couple years.. I still can’t help feeling like the big bad guy....even though she was fully set up..apartment, car, six months security. Up to you after that!
I'm just realising my sis is probably a sociopath She calls my positive emotions bad acting and gets annoyed at them I was so confused until I realised she was being annoyed because I was enjoying myself without her She tore down all my hobbies and called me cringe for years
My step sister is one. She hardly feels her kids, grounds them for months on end even for the slightest things. Makes my life a living hell on purpose. No matter what I do or say she tries to drag me down. She controls her kids every chance she gets. I know I may sound a little harsh, but there's so many things she's done that I can't say.
Let's not forget how they "Love Bomb" to make you love and trust them. This can also apply to their kids, not just in a romantic relationship. I've watched my ex do it to his adult kids, particularly when it serves his agenda. Makes it much harder to "let go" when the truth starts coming out.
A guy in my class is a sociopath. He always seems happy or thrilled whenever i comment on his qestions and he always hang around older girls and stuff. He always carry around whith Those dead eyes and a small creepy half smile on his face too. He knows every thing about every one. Never does his homework and gives literaly no shits when my friend broke his leg almost right next to him. Before i found out about this i considerd him a friend, but not any more.
My roomate is a sociopath and I'm stuck in a year lease with 9 months left. I don't know what to do. I gotta get out of this situation. Thank you for all the tips.
Let's catch all sociopaths, lock them up in a jail with no guards or rules. The best sociopath gets to control the whole place. This would be a sick reality show
I have a friend who I suspect is a sociopath. I have known them for years but I'm now really wary on keeping them apart of my life. I really love this individual. They have helped me out of a lot of toxic places in my life. But now after evaluating this person a bit more I'm incredibly wary on keeping this person in my life. I really dont know what yo do. I care about this individual and I just want to see them in a better place.
I FOUND THIS VERY INFORMATIVE i am dealing with three of my children who are sociopaths. i have been punched in the face more than once by them all.. i have no idea how to help them.. and with them being that way and belittling me all the time and am a piece of shit,.and so on..it horrible. my self esteem is so low and i am a widow so alone.. they attack one at a time at different visits to me. we had great times when they were little i don't know what went wrong.....i feel like a total failure ...as a parent. though my husband has passed i am sure he is looking down saying what the hell are you kids dong to my wife..... god i miss him and need him or for god sake someones help... i am lost alone and afraid...of what the hell i'll do wrong next..me breathing upsets them... sometimes i think of just ending it by suicide but my sister shot herself in the head when was just 21 years old and i know how it made me feel inside...i can't do that to my children.... so i just go to bed every night this will be my night you know to join my husband ...oh i forgot to mention that i am disabled i have severe copd, diabetic, high blood presure, siatica in right leg for abuse, ptsd. OMG THESE KIDS ARE KILLING ME INSIDE AND OUT... HELP
My male next door neighbor is a sociopath. Without remorse and if you get something new, he will get something new. If you're talking to someone he will stop and listen or stare you down! He takes walks around my house when I'm away and he will move his car out of his driveway and park his car in front of my driveway. Is this a personality of a sociopath? SMH!!!!! 🤔
I have a sociopathic ex boyfriend that is stalking me, harassing me and telling everyone else that I am the crazy one. I tried getting a restraining order but he literally manipulated the judge too and my order got denied.
I don't understand the dislikes...Who can not like such accurate information?..Who does not like it could argue why and so we learn all more!!. Is it evident that they could be one of them? Best regards from Spain!! There is little information for spanish speaking people!.😓
Great vid but any human voice reading this would be sooooo much better 💗 anyone , it doesnt need to be a professional ...any voice or accent would be lovely ...this is great info but the robot voice wrecks it .
How to deal with a sociopath: 1) Knock them out, dig hole, bury them alive. 2) Elect them President. 3) Run for the hills, get as far away as possible from them, break ALL contact and stay away.
Yep, I was sucked in by a highly intelligent sociopath for five years. It was amazing how attached and difficult it was for me to detach. Of course, he had me so entangled in his life, that did not help. Being "in love" with an illusion of what someone was (when playing you) is a hard pill to swallow. He did not just hurt my heart, he hurt my entire life and future and finances. I did see red flags, and I'm sorry SO SORRY that I did not respect them and dump him early on in the relationship. He fits 95% of the covert narc & sociopath criteria and was, or still is, one grandiose story teller, a conn artist, and force of destruction on people's lives. It doesn't happen overnight, his games can play out for years before the bomb goes off. It will take me years to recover from the agendas, theft and pain he inflicted. ONE MORE THING: he often, for years told me he would kill himself before ever doing anything to hurt me.. because of how much I did for him, and how much he loved me. So, why the Hell is he still alive? (just thinking he should keep a promise). I can't say enough bad things about that man and how sorry I am for my involvement with him and his "followers" (his kids and the few friends he hasn't burned) and his replacement "source" that I also trusted. I'd like to feel sorry for her, but I don't. She's already his victim, just refuses to believe it.. yet.
advice time, I created a 6-a-side football club with 2 others, over the past 2 years its been mostly good with the exception of the past year, I strongly think that one of the guys has been deploying sociopathic tendencies against me in particular. I enjoy the football but this guy has taken over the club and turned some players against me being very negative during matches. driving my confidence very low which does not help my game. What should I do?
Leave the club, stop any contact with him. Join another football club, if possible. Leaving your current football club doesn't mean that you "lost" to him, you need to stay sane.
Had this person figured out sooo wrong. Let him into my life as a helper and paid his way and expenses to help me move and repair my house for sale and he was to take drivers test to drive moving truck. After expense of flying him here him here in states learned how wacko he was. Said he just put his wife in mental hospital and was divorcing and going to find a young Asian girl/woman to have non stop sex with. He had his children removed by CPS years ago and believed he was victimized, and had 4 kids he longed for. Learned he was diagnosed as mentally ill and thought they did that as part of CPS trauma against family. Who hasn't heard about kids going to foster homes where they end up in sex trade. He was furious at the social workers, doctors, and frankly nurses who were involved, and I was a Government nurse for Aging persons but he apparently marked me as one of the evil doers in his case and really did some awful stuff and I had already made myself vulnerable telling him too much about my move, my life. Such a fool was I. He said he had devised 41 ways to kill a social worker and asked if I wanted to hear about them. So after he left with some of my valuable property and utterly took over and messed up my move, costing me a lot, he hid my things at neighbors where I rented and gave them story I was mentally ill and had been in prison. They didn't know me. (Wife likely was set up and he had her in a mental hospital in Thailand). Such a story could write a book. He cannot get back to Thailand and hope he gets arrested there if he does. He lied about having a degree in education and worked in school with no college credit. He planned to visit his now grown children in WA state where the state officials live whom he said he planned to meet with some people. I called the police there and told them what he had told me about his anger at the social workers primarily, about what he said. Damn feel so stupid but was so vulnerable and had been gang stalked for six years. Thought our last time together he was helper and honest. Know realize where my new MSU sweatshirt went. LOL. He lives with his mother who I talk with periodically and she says he has been a liar and thief just like his father as long as she has known him. Told her she has my valuable stolen property, a valuable bisque doll an old friend who had antique shop gave to me needed to sell for fixing my house. He has it. Plan to call antique shops in area and send photo to see if they have seen it. But he was really classic, but likely more conniving and no empathy, and more psychotic. His last night there he had my female Yorkie he took from my room when I showered. I could hear him groaning and breathing heavily and noticed Rose was not in the room. When she came back her vulva was swollen and bled heavily for a few days. Likely digital but so damn sick, he was such a gamer. I came from dysfunctional family with parents mentally ill and learned to overlook things that were not minor. Dear, when will I learn. Am 75 now and seems born idiot. My kids stole from me too and are sociopathic persons attacking me with lies to courts to keep from being prosecuted. Did not deserve this.
They do intimacy= sex technically. Consider breaking off your ties completely. My ex is this person. My language is not him. I love my daughter. Distance yourself. Let's hope my child is not in the same boat.
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Run for the hills, get as far away as possible from them, break ALL contact and stay away.
irene may or get them to do it instead
Sometimes it is not that easy, especially if you work in the same division with the sociopathic person.
I really wish I had seen this 10 years ago, before my son married one. So much drama and crazy situation could have been avoided.
What happened? My best friends girlfriend that are our neighbors as well has been targeting me. I am likeablr and successful and she has been so destructive but I have set boundaries and tried ignoring her.
Get away from them is the best answer. I’ve had this struggle, but my issue was that a person close to me was too closely connected to them. I don’t even know the right words to express what a sociopath actually is like. It’s a mess filled with so many lies you mentally cannot keep track of them. Everything will be muniplulated and you will be munipulated yourself into thinking you are the issue. You’re the reason why things are happening. You did something wrong that lead to this persons behavior. While they are trying to convince you of that they are telling other people stories about you to turn them against you. They are telling you, you can’t trust those other people for such and such reasons. You don’t know who to trust. You trust no one. It takes time for people to convince you why you should have faith in them. As they are telling people things about you they make up things other people say so you can argue with them. They can turn around and tell them, you see this person is an issue. They use people for their personal gain. They control. They lack remorse for what they do and say. They are convincing. You also believe them at some point and time until you realize something all wrong is going on. They play on your fears when they can. They play on them so you can trust them. They then use that trust to manipulate you. They use your hurt to further hurt you. You can’t do anything about it. They are so good at lying and munipulating it doesn’t matter what you say. They are charming. People believe them. What you must do is stay away. Stay far away. That’s the only actual way you can help yourself.
As someone who has sociopathic tendancies imma use this list of thing to always try not to do.
I have a story myself.. i met this guy at work ( very charming personality and my personality is vise versa ) and we started of as great friends, we use to had intimate conversation Alone, and he's very insecure, he always tell me i should trust no one, and he doesnt want me to talk abt him to no one either, but when he is around his friends, his assertive and give back the same energy, ( Different personality ) Well now he dont talk to me like before. He also say his not good with messenger, is why he don't answer my messages. And i starting to wonder if is a sociopath
VinTaVge0592 Someone who just doesn't answer your messages or ghosts you isn't one of these people. When I was younger I always called these people tornados because they come in, everyone likes them, then everyone is talking crap about each other and when they're done and walk away nobody is friends anymore.
@@marniegrohs1553 i see ur point.. thanks
hah nice ,yeah i can see it's part of your family,i feel you ,i gave up having any realtionship with my father ..that was the smartest decision
Although the robotic text reader is annoying, this video has some of the most solid advice I've encountered in TH-cam videos about sociopaths.
True
Bruce MacPherson haha some of this “information” is stigma and generalisations.
Agreed
You can find same information in google
seriously. I've been looking for an hour for someone to say how to specifically act and deal with them... finally found it!
Yes, I totally agree with you about the best way to deal with them is not deal with them at all. You can not rewire their brains. You can not talk sense into their heads. They just don't get it. They are like demons. Hoping to hurt you and see you fail. They are not sympathetic. They don't care about you being in emotional pain caused by them. No sense of empathy. These people are very cold inside, but appear to be very charming on the outside. Some people may even say they are wicked. They have two faces. Do not attach to them. I don't care who they are husband, wife, mother, sister, boss, brother or friend don't attach, get away. Keep your business and anything they can use as a tool to hurt you away from them. Most of the time you don't know they are a sociopath until you become involved with them by that time they have enough amo to make your life miserable. If they are around your friends or boss they will sabotage the relationships by lying on you or twist small things. My advice is get away quickly if you continue to deal with them knowing that they are sick, be prepared to go down a dark path. God bless anybody that deals with one. It takes a sharp eye to see them in the beginning. Sometimes we only see what we want to see until we just get sick and tired and are forced to examine WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON.
@@koink883 But people can sharp their eyes and trust their guts.
Yes. Unfortunately, my dad has a lot of sociopathic traits. These people are sick as hell.
I have to remove myself from the city that i live.
Most Sociopaths that I have met are pretty intelligent people but also pretty short sighted. They can't seem to really plan anything. I noticed that this inability to plan is what drives them to control everyone and everything. It's as if they are blind people trying to keep the world from changing on them.
pretty much :)
Nailed it!
They usually have above average intelligence but can be really dumb in basic things even a child would see
That's interesting, why would their inability to plan drive them to control others?
My theory is that they act like a parasite who needs a person to plan/think for them?
They are like a mosquito in a way haha. They come when your guard is down, suck your blood, give you diseases, then fly away when they got what they want, also they're easily crushable and hide a lot.
That's their spirit animal, a fucking mosquito 😂
That's spot on x
They are lowly educated.
How to deal with a sociopath. :don't
I clicked on this video for comments like this
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Ron Farrell my thoughts...Exactly!!! evil demons
OMG this is a robot do they have remorse????
Right wingism created sociopaths. Avoid them like the devil.
I married one and pray for a way out of this nightmare
Kim Wilson TV helps.
Same here.
SpitzSTP I feel your frustration, if you find a way please share
Just leave.
SpitzSTP I'm praying for you
...God bless you!!!!
I love it when I meet a sociopath and they try to glad hand me and work their personality on me. When you shut them down instantly they glare at you with an evil eye as they realize that you can see right threw them. I crush sociopaths, chew them up and spit them out!
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@Aaron Judge Oh shut up
@Aaron Judge it's called self-defense... but this is how you guys react when found out: all of a sudden you're a victim. happens every time. you can't even think about that pattern - that is your weakness. it's part of your condition. just know that there are now a lot of people who have their scanners on about you guys. you constantly make little mistakes that show your nature because you are not like the rest of humanity so all you can do is try to fake our human family feeling like an australian aboriginal might try a yodel.
Or do they just want you to think that?
I need you as a coach to help me slay sociopaths
I was in love with one and let him use me over and over again till I finally got tired of it and now when he tries to get back with me again I'm prepared to shut him down.
One word: Avoidance!
Why waste your time. Don't have any contact with him, just live your life productively and happily.
Kamelhaj you can’t avoid them if there trying to get to “know” you which means there trying to manipulate you into becoming your best friend or getting into a relationship with you.
5 minutes with a sociopath seems like a hour. Until these self help videos I was a sucker around sociopath. Now I can honestly say I can catch the tricks that they pull about 90% of the time. Now that is real power. When possible I like to call them out and get a smirk out of them. I leaned most of the information held true when dealing with my ex or the oldest daughter.
Several times, the script implies that 'sociopath' and 'psychopath' mean the same. They don''t. Being a psychopath is a neurological disorder, and there is no known cure. A sociopath becomes that way as a result of life experiences which traumatised them. It may be possible to cure a sociopath, but they are averse to therapy
Sociopaths can't be changed
My father is a sociopath and when I tried standing my ground against him, he nearly beat me to death. I'm a teenager and I still live with him. I don't know how much longer I can take this.
Move out as soon as you can, i got a job & left home at 16, i cut contact, 45 now best thing i ever did.i wish you the best john.
I found this stunning, shockingly familiar. I had an adopted sibling, seven years older, who was one. As a child I learned at a deep, unconscious level most of these coping tactics, and only in later life began to understand what I was doing and why - To avoid harm to myself from a sinister personality. It wasn't conscious, thus my coping tools were imperfect and not consistently employed. It would have been pure salvation for me to have this information, given by a respected authority, when I was very young.
I don't know if ordinary people, especially in their younger years, could understand and make use of the defenses suggested here, but it might save their lives both literally and figuratively.
Tree_Hugger. My absolute commiserations. I hope you are in a much happier place in your life now; in your mind and emotions with access to more loving and empathetic people. I know the hell you have been speaking of. Peace to you.
I feel your pain, one of my siblings is a sociopath, I have lived in fear for years, trying not to anger this person, watching every word, every action that comes out of my mouth for fear of what might come my way he had already threatened me before and I had seen what he'd done to others.... Recently the sociopath stopped talking to me, I am thankful but afraid that this person might just be plotting a revenge against me, my children or my husband. I pray this person will be happy away from me and my children and husband forever.
The way you deal with a sociopath is get stepping the first sign you see.
Most people in India exhibit this behaviour. My brother and his wife and kid exhibit this behaviour.
Great video thank you. 👍
Oh my God that is my husband. I want to leave but I am disabled. Please Pray for me.
lil stummyhurt the hell is wrong with you?
@@janaan74 I'm a sociopath, couldn't you guess, I'm watching so I can counter act people who catch on
go in his game and stay there for ever cuz you cant run...
@@willt3791 lol
Oh no been married to one for almost 30 years. Until I read this article he is 100% a narcissist.
I’m so happy that the generation now has access to this information. They have nowhere to hide now .
I married one....control freak and gets frustrated when i reject the control. He displays all the traits. Knows how to pretend.
tell him that he's being a sociopath or dump him! for petes sake why is everybody so blind!!!
and a lot are good at having depression like me
Coming from a sociopath i'm pretty sure I know what i'm talking about
I was married to asocipath for Ford years. Everything you mentioned was part of program. His action put me in a counseling setting, the greatest move of my life. Slowly I began to understand how I ignored my own personality I favor of his ideas. When he threatened to kill me 'and no one would miss me, my fear gave me courage to escape.
I've been entangled with a sociopathic person in my life. My mom. She has lied, tricked, and swindled family friends and colleagues all her life and now I'm emotionally drained from all of her actions leading to inevitable divorce with my dad. It's sickening to be a part of her life and I sometimes wish i hadn't been born. I'm on the fringes, and I just dont know how to deal with her. I am physically and emotionally tired
Runnnnnnnm...get away from them. I currently work with with 2 of them. But I am looking for other work...one of them is the owner of re company...they feed off each other...if it was not for my faith I would have cracked long ago...the 1st chance I get I'm out
Amy Smith , imprecatory prayer. 2 Thessalonians 1:6.
Amy Smith the bad part about running, Amy, is that you'll run right into the path of another sociopath. Take some time off and then think about it
That's what I'm afraid of. Changing jobs won't help, these horrible people are everywhere. They're predators, actually seeking opportunities to do evil.
@@bluecollarlit They really are everywhere in the work place.
@@bluecollarlit So, what should we do? Be self-employed and entrepreneur?
Robot voice forgiven. This is excellent advice and spot on.
Do note though that the PSYCHOPATH has NO empathy at all. The SOCIOPATH does have a semblance of empathy or even genuine empathy at times but is predominantly self-interested. That is why the sociopath does so well.
However, I would be cautious about 15:00 No.5 "Get Professional Help' as a last resort. It is probably best to find a close trusted friend or relation from the extended family as you do not, unwittingly, want to find yourself trapped in a 'system' that can be equally sociopathic! So, be careful.
Not all popular people are sociopathic, just be aware.
You are spot on!
Sociopaths can't be changed they are demonized.
These types of people are scary.
Christine Haigh we aren't that bad
JaHaha They're most likely the people that kicked your ass at high school.
Yeah, right. IRL tough guy right here.
Satanen egotistical*
gllo gle, saying “they are not people, not even animals, they are things.” Just because they have a mental disorder is pretty fucked up. Go get help you reptillian troglodyte.
Just put them out of your life. Never argue with them. They will get their Karma.
I was in a relationship with a narcasistic sociopath and it was awful. Im still contacted every month from her. She texts me on a different number once a month and tries to manipulate me and terrorize me. I hope learning what I have from this video helps. I'm at my end
No contact. Zero. The only way to win is not to play. They want you to get in the pig pit with them and roll around to not be alone-stay out of it!! Remove yourself immediately or ASAP from the very room.
Remember-
0 communication.
They can try, but it won't work bud ;)
I just now realize that my best friend is a sociopath. About 90% of the above characteristics fit him perfectly. I finally put distance between me & him starting about two years ago.
Too bad if you’re watching this you’re probably beyond a lot of this advice.
Yup
At least we're ready for the next ones
I glade for it now i know how to deal with my situation #accurateasf
How to deal with a sociopath. :Treat them like they do not exists. Treat them with indifference. They play on your emotions and do anything to hit any of your emotional buttons and will try to control over you through your emotions.
Run.....
They cannot be cured nor do they think they need one..
Run.....
Don't walk.....
Cant believe this has dislikes,, there is a mass bunch of waffle online about counter socialpath techniques but this is by far the best... straight to the point about what an SP is & good starting blocks to deal with an SP. i am currently the focus of a true socialpath in a new job ive started.
i work in a half community team & cannot avoid this person completely so thanx for getting to the point'
Nevermind the robot voice.... its the contents that count =ace video
this info is about phsycopaths + wrong emotional signs
VERY INFORMATIVE THANKS FOR SHARING THE BEST PART OF THIS TO ME IS HOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF WHEN YOU HAVE NO WAY TO SCAPE. WILL BE NICE IF YOU ADD MORE INFO ABOUT IT
This video was quite informative, thank you. I have a sociopath female neighbour that hates me, and has been harassing me now for 12 years which is when I bought my home. I made the mistake of introducing myself when I moved in, big big mistake. I could tell there was something not quite right about her and I didn't want anything to do with her. That has made her angry, and she hasn't given up hurting me in every which way she can. I have police files, loads of them now. I have rescue dogs who I of course love, and I think she has thrown poisoned food for my dogs. They had all the signs of being poisoned, the vet suspects Warfin was used. My dogs are both German Shepherds and thank goodness they are large as it probably would have killed my 11 lb dog.
A few months ago, my tires were slashed while parked in my own driveway. I have been putting up with this type of behaviour for 12 years, hoping it would stop or she would move. Hasn't happened. This female neighbour, a few weeks ago, yelled out a sexual scenario in which I am the key character. In this scenario I am being sexually tortured to the point where I am truly suffering. I found it to be quite disturbing and upsetting, but I showed no feelings or responded in any way. She was literally yelling this at me, she was so out of control.
Why would she, in her mind, create a sexually violent scenario with myself as the person being violated? I absolutely don't get it.
Is this neighbour a possible psychopath?
It's too easy to get sucked in by them, and they can be more dangerous than you know. Just stay away from them. If it's a family memeber, spend as little time around them as possible.
Thank you for this valuable information. It doesn’t matter if it’s a robot bc the robot had to be programmed by a human as to what to say. It’s great information and that’s what I focused on. Again, thank you.🌸
Sociopaths psychopaths & drug addicts are most dangerous people.
Mike that and mad axe killers
just like People who mix them up
Ok...I am a sociopath, here’s some advice...If we like be you were are so loyal we will have your back ALL THE TIME. If you are not on our list of those we love, or God forbid are on our list of people we specifically don’t like, stay away from us. People I specifically don’t like would do well to avoid me like the plague.
I recently "lost" a relationship with a narcissist. We are called their supply, not girlfriend. I was vulnerable and sweet. He started going places with me. I had someone to talk to! and spend quality time with! I frequently gave him compliments and support. I was having a great time being in a relationship. One day, a woman we both knew stopped and told him how important he was in the art room, how his stories are so interesting (NOT TRUE). His stories are repetitive and boring. He and I were just friends but seemingly very good friends. We got around by walking and bus. This new supply has a car and she took him on a day trip and other places. I didn't hear from him in three weeks. It was very painful for me but he never felt a second of sadness for the loss of me in his life. When I was discovering and learning things on TH-cam I heard a woman say "if you are in relationship with a narcisst I can tell you how it is going to end. A new supply will come along and he will disappear, no contact for an extended period of time. No phone calls which had been frequent. He won't have any feelings of loss. He will mention things they do together just to hurt you. They like to get a rise or sadness out of you. I could say much more. They have a sense of entitlement including other's stuff. I let him use my computer to buy stuff, he would pay me upfront, Payments were paid through Paypal. One day when he was at my place I was busy cooking or washing dishes and he blatantly was looking at my passwords. I trusted him and thought nothing but curiosity. He went to his multi use phone and used my password to buy things. from ebay. It still doesn't seem so terrible as it could have been much worse. I changed my password, though. He had been a great manipulator and still was. Many more instances. He never missed an opportunity to say something that took the wind out of my sails. I recently met my granddaughter's boyfriend and saw narcissistic traits in him, even instant anger. Her self esteem is low. I asked other family members how they felt about this guy and it was all favorable. In this instance it could be a matter of life and death for her. The sudden bursts of anger when what he says isn't taken as true and your opinion is not true. . Oh dear. She has been with him 3 yrs and they will be moving in together.
Excellent !!! thank you !!Exactly what I needed to know since I was born !! :-) wish you more strength to share more of such wisdom with those who needs it as I do ....
Leveta best video i have ever heard in my life and its sad because its family and ur rite on the money.U are a very wise Woman iam 67 years old and u made me very happy i always thought it was me.
I know my daughter is a sociopath and she definitely lacks respect for me and sympathy. She's going on 32....not a teen, although, that time was a bundle of joy (NOT). It hurts me that we're estranged, and I feel guilty. I've been diagnosed with a liver disease and she couldn't care less how she treats me. I stopped talking to her, because it's just too emotionally and, now, physically draining.
Dear How are you
Thank you so much. This will definitely help me with my family endeavors.
Peace and Love from Minnesota
Recording a conversation "secretly" is legal in MOST states, as long as you are a participant in the conversation, from what I understand. but yes, if you feel you need to record a conversation, check the laws in your state... there are a couple of instances where this might be truly necessary... if you need to establish some kind of abuse going on in order to protect your child from an abusive co-parent and need to cut them off or limit contact to your child... courts simply do not believe without proof or admission... a lot of people make the mistake of going to "authorities" for help thinking they will simply be believed, but you will NOT be given much help without physical evidence or a conversation with the abuser admitting to something or showing their true colors in some significant way, all that might happen is the person will be questioned, but there will be no consequences.. the other instance would be if you are being harassed at work... usually, there is some kind of sexual harrassment going on, but there could be something else going on at work, possibly attempts to coerce you to do or cover up or cooperate with something illegal, for example. If you do not have proof of some sort, a corraborative witness, video or audio recording etc... you just "saying" what you've experienced is highly unlikely to be simply believed. Well, someone might believe you, but they cannot do much to help you. I happen to know of a lot of situations where women (it can happen to men too) were sexually harrassed and then they think they can just go report this to whomever or file a lawsuit and they get nowhere because it simply boils down to one person's word against anothers. But, again, it is not always something sexual going on... this just seems to be common.
What if one of a members of the family is a sociopath? How can you deal with it?
They treat these issues in cognitive therapy and aa and alanon. And in churches that aren't apostate. It may be a physical, psychological or spiritual issue due to childhood trauma. People around them should hold them accountable. They sure can fool people. Destructive.
I think I'm dealing with two physopath. They both are my nieces. I notice how they use me to feed off each other. The two are sisters. I'm blocking them and staying away from them! They are toxic and feed off me because I'm easy to get along with. Tired of the drama. Blocking both.
Once again: The normal must adjust to the abnormal,,, ostracize the abnormal.
This is a great guide, thanks so much
Marc C. When its family luv is blind it took me until just now to realize.
"Let them know ypur to smart to fall for thier tricks" yeah no, dont do that. cut contact and get away. Telling a socio/psychopath ypur too smart for them is going to be taken as a threat, insult, or challenge. None of which are what you want someone lacking empathy or morality, depending on wich disorder, to think. Also just because you 'cuaght' them dosnt mean your smarter. Most likely your not.
Most of this is right but not all of us are the same there's lots of things they got wrong on here
Thank you for sharing this
This video is very informative, however there is quite a bit of difference between sociopaths and narcissist. While narcissist are on the sociopath spectrum, the way they behave and are triggered at work and home are quite different. Most of the characteristics described here is a narcissist. The number one thing to take from this is all three Sociopaths, Narcissist and Psychopaths target both empaths and dark empaths. Reading up and learning about all five will help assist in how to react and how to handle situations.
I extremely important to note:
Dark empaths are less likely to feel like victims and will more often times than not be the tools/enablers used to batter empaths. So dont let this fool you. When youre marked by someone in the sociopath spectrum, but the attacks come from their family or spouses. Just know this is whats happening. Dark empaths will sense something is off and may not understand, but it will always be about themselves and how to maneuver themselves. Ultimately sociopaths and dark empaths hold longer relationships than empaths, due to the fact their empath nature enables while their dark nature is codependent with the toxicity. This will explain a lot of what you see around you every day in friends, family and in the news.
Those who are on the sociopathic spectrum are not always the killers. As long as theyre in control of the situation its more psychological.
Empaths will assertively and strategically remove themselves from the toxicity. While a dark empath is hell bent on revenge and are more likely to snap.
How to deal with a sociopath?..... Send him/her to the hell with one way ticket. Don't be polite with them... They don't deserve it... Am I clear?
1. sociopaths usually gain depression 2. how people act towards them the worse it gets or the better it gets 3.if you see one of the sociopathic traits happen do stand up and DO feel sorry for them because they don't notice! ALSO, they are probably faking their emotions in reality most of them hate to be at the center and are usually sad most of the day. TRY TO BE NICE FOR ONCE
Sounds like a narrative of both my real realization in my relationship with my ex-wife and the timeline by which it took to set boundaries! And even then realize boundaries mean nothing and finally escaped....DIVORCED and even then it took a couple years.. I still can’t help feeling like the big bad guy....even though she was fully set up..apartment, car, six months security. Up to you after that!
Thanks - was dating a sociopath ....I broke up with her ....but had guilt for over a year ...this video put it in perspective ...Thanks a ton :)
Thank u, really helpful on how to tell me to deal with family.
I'm just realising my sis is probably a sociopath
She calls my positive emotions bad acting and gets annoyed at them
I was so confused until I realised she was being annoyed because I was enjoying myself without her
She tore down all my hobbies and called me cringe for years
Actually a really good video. Thank you. Great description and advice.
this was interesting and I did learn a few things here. Thank you :-)
this info is fake
My step sister is one. She hardly feels her kids, grounds them for months on end even for the slightest things. Makes my life a living hell on purpose. No matter what I do or say she tries to drag me down. She controls her kids every chance she gets. I know I may sound a little harsh, but there's so many things she's done that I can't say.
In Australia it seems to be make them a Minister or head of a government department.
Then they area psychopath.
Or CEO of a hospital
Ty. Good to know i have been doing it right...got trained by a malignant narc parent...but this is a squad. Wish me luck.
Let's not forget how they "Love Bomb" to make you love and trust them. This can also apply to their kids, not just in a romantic relationship. I've watched my ex do it to his adult kids, particularly when it serves his agenda. Makes it much harder to "let go" when the truth starts coming out.
This is all very true & good tips. Applies to control freaks & Narcissistic types too.
A guy in my class is a sociopath. He always seems happy or thrilled whenever i comment on his qestions and he always hang around older girls and stuff. He always carry around whith Those dead eyes and a small creepy half smile on his face too. He knows every thing about every one. Never does his homework and gives literaly no shits when my friend broke his leg almost right next to him. Before i found out about this i considerd him a friend, but not any more.
Omg i now know for certain my husband has antisocial personality disorder! It's so hard cause i really love him!! I need help!
Lisa P a very close one of mine is also one. Pls share me the link if you get any regarding the best ways to help/deal with a psychopath!
Thanks for this, just so accurate 🎈🎈🎈
An hour ago i was down and now feeling better
If a sociopath takes Ritalin or Provigil or any ADHD drugs, they will feel guilt and shame and might not know it until they third pill
Powerful and practical information.
Very useful I need see this several times
My roomate is a sociopath and I'm stuck in a year lease with 9 months left. I don't know what to do. I gotta get out of this situation. Thank you for all the tips.
Yup I'm the target of one. Good video and very accurate.
Great advice! I wish I knew this long ago.
Let's catch all sociopaths, lock them up in a jail with no guards or rules.
The best sociopath gets to control the whole place.
This would be a sick reality show
sociopaths make great politicians
Quantum Beats if they follow a ideology that is similar to yours
They make abysmal anything but probably seem good to the right. Effective at being fuckwits.
That's similar to saying they make great murderers & criminals.
I know, that's why I wanna be a politicial.
most high level politicians are sociopaths, psychopaths, and/or narcissists
I have a friend who I suspect is a sociopath. I have known them for years but I'm now really wary on keeping them apart of my life. I really love this individual. They have helped me out of a lot of toxic places in my life. But now after evaluating this person a bit more I'm incredibly wary on keeping this person in my life. I really dont know what yo do. I care about this individual and I just want to see them in a better place.
I recognize the painful topics. I am going to be able to try get them to stop that habit.
I FOUND THIS VERY INFORMATIVE i am dealing with three of my children who are sociopaths. i have been punched in the face more than once by them all.. i have no idea how to help them.. and with them being that way and belittling me all the time and am a piece of shit,.and so on..it horrible.
my self esteem is so low and i am a widow so alone.. they attack one at a time at different visits to me. we had great times when they were little i don't know what went wrong.....i feel like a total failure ...as a parent. though my husband has passed i am sure he is looking down saying what the hell are you kids dong to my wife..... god i miss him and need him or for god sake someones help... i am lost alone and afraid...of what the hell i'll do wrong next..me breathing upsets them...
sometimes i think of just ending it by suicide but my sister shot herself in the head when was just 21 years old and i know how it made me feel inside...i can't do that to my children....
so i just go to bed every night this will be my night you know to join my husband ...oh i forgot to mention that i am disabled i have severe copd, diabetic, high blood presure, siatica in right leg for abuse, ptsd.
OMG THESE KIDS ARE KILLING ME INSIDE AND OUT... HELP
My male next door neighbor is a sociopath. Without remorse and if you get something new, he will get something new. If you're talking to someone he will stop and listen or stare you down! He takes walks around my house when I'm away and he will move his car out of his driveway and park his car in front of my driveway. Is this a personality of a sociopath? SMH!!!!! 🤔
I have a sociopathic ex boyfriend that is stalking me, harassing me and telling everyone else that I am the crazy one. I tried getting a restraining order but he literally manipulated the judge too and my order got denied.
Thanks for the information, now i can make my mask even better 😎
My Ex..
Smile and drive them crazy.
I don't understand the dislikes...Who can not like such accurate information?..Who does not like it could argue why and so we learn all more!!. Is it evident that they could be one of them?
Best regards from Spain!! There is little information for spanish speaking people!.😓
Great vid but any human voice reading this would be sooooo much better 💗 anyone , it doesnt need to be a professional ...any voice or accent would be lovely ...this is great info but the robot voice wrecks it .
this vids info = 100% wrong
I have a narcissist mom and sociopath sibling
This clip was immensely informative. Definitely a shame humans will remain naive. 😂
I could have used this information a long time ago, Reminds me of Howard Stanton Levey.
WOW!!sounds like so many I avoid today!!
How to deal with a sociopath: 1) Knock them out, dig hole, bury them alive. 2) Elect them President. 3) Run for the hills, get as far away as possible from them, break ALL contact and stay away.
My brother is a sociopath. He destroyed the family & stole millions & never reported the income.
holy shit ive been in love with a sociopath narcissist :(
I have a friend that kinda like that, when they try something im like "bruh you cant break me im watchin you might as well give and find another prey"
Yep, I was sucked in by a highly intelligent sociopath for five years. It was amazing how attached and difficult it was for me to detach. Of course, he had me so entangled in his life, that did not help. Being "in love" with an illusion of what someone was (when playing you) is a hard pill to swallow. He did not just hurt my heart, he hurt my entire life and future and finances. I did see red flags, and I'm sorry SO SORRY that I did not respect them and dump him early on in the relationship. He fits 95% of the covert narc & sociopath criteria and was, or still is, one grandiose story teller, a conn artist, and force of destruction on people's lives. It doesn't happen overnight, his games can play out for years before the bomb goes off. It will take me years to recover from the agendas, theft and pain he inflicted. ONE MORE THING: he often, for years told me he would kill himself before ever doing anything to hurt me.. because of how much I did for him, and how much he loved me. So, why the Hell is he still alive? (just thinking he should keep a promise). I can't say enough bad things about that man and how sorry I am for my involvement with him and his "followers" (his kids and the few friends he hasn't burned) and his replacement "source" that I also trusted. I'd like to feel sorry for her, but I don't. She's already his victim, just refuses to believe it.. yet.
advice time, I created a 6-a-side football club with 2 others, over the past 2 years its been mostly good with the exception of the past year, I strongly think that one of the guys has been deploying sociopathic tendencies against me in particular. I enjoy the football but this guy has taken over the club and turned some players against me being very negative during matches. driving my confidence very low which does not help my game. What should I do?
Leave the club, stop any contact with him. Join another football club, if possible. Leaving your current football club doesn't mean that you "lost" to him, you need to stay sane.
Had this person figured out sooo wrong. Let him into my life as a helper and paid his way and expenses to help me move and repair my house for sale and he was to take drivers test to drive moving truck. After expense of flying him here him here in states learned how wacko he was. Said he just put his wife in mental hospital and was divorcing and going to find a young Asian girl/woman to have non stop sex with. He had his children removed by CPS years ago and believed he was victimized, and had 4 kids he longed for. Learned he was diagnosed as mentally ill and thought they did that as part of CPS trauma against family. Who hasn't heard about kids going to foster homes where they end up in sex trade.
He was furious at the social workers, doctors, and frankly nurses who were involved, and I was a Government nurse for Aging persons but he apparently marked me as one of the evil doers in his case and really did some awful stuff and I had already made myself vulnerable telling him too much about my move, my life. Such a fool was I. He said he had devised 41 ways to kill a social worker and asked if I wanted to hear about them. So after he left with some of my valuable property and utterly took over and messed up my move, costing me a lot, he hid my things at neighbors where I rented and gave them story I was mentally ill and had been in prison. They didn't know me. (Wife likely was set up and he had her in a mental hospital in Thailand). Such a story could write a book.
He cannot get back to Thailand and hope he gets arrested there if he does. He lied about having a degree in education and worked in school with no college credit. He planned to visit his now grown children in WA state where the state officials live whom he said he planned to meet with some people. I called the police there and told them what he had told me about his anger at the social workers primarily, about what he said.
Damn feel so stupid but was so vulnerable and had been gang stalked for six years. Thought our last time together he was helper and honest. Know realize where my new MSU sweatshirt went. LOL.
He lives with his mother who I talk with periodically and she says he has been a liar and thief just like his father as long as she has known him. Told her she has my valuable stolen property, a valuable bisque doll an old friend who had antique shop gave to me needed to sell for fixing my house. He has it. Plan to call antique shops in area and send photo to see if they have seen it. But he was really classic, but likely more conniving and no empathy, and more psychotic. His last night there he had my female Yorkie he took from my room when I showered. I could hear him groaning and breathing heavily and noticed Rose was not in the room. When she came back her vulva was swollen and bled heavily for a few days. Likely digital but so damn sick, he was such a gamer.
I came from dysfunctional family with parents mentally ill and learned to overlook things that were not minor. Dear, when will I learn. Am 75 now and seems born idiot. My kids stole from me too and are sociopathic persons attacking me with lies to courts to keep from being prosecuted. Did not deserve this.
They do intimacy= sex technically. Consider breaking off your ties completely. My ex is this person. My language is not him. I love my daughter. Distance yourself. Let's hope my child is not in the same boat.
Have one living with me.. Its very2 emotional draining and exhausting