Frankenstein's Lobotomized Mistress: Dissecting the Poor Things Discourse

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  • @FinalGirlStudios
    @FinalGirlStudios  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

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    • @valpreston1393
      @valpreston1393 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hi can you please make a vid on Catherine Tramell from Basic Instinct - the epitome of 90's femme fatale

    • @methylphosphatePOET
      @methylphosphatePOET 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Poor Things is not about women! It's about humanity! It's the universal Jungian journey from id, to ego, to the collective unconcious. That is what the movie is about from beginning to end. It's what 95% of the movie's scenes meditate on, and you miss it completely because you are obsessed with Bella happening to be a woman. I don't even blame you. The educational system has robbed an entire generation of the ability to consume art for its universal power. You are cursed to comsume it strictly through the lens of politics and identity. Art is always a question of ontology and identity. Identity is merely a placeholder for ontology. You've been taught to throw out ontology altogether and obsess only on identity. Why did these angry professors do that to you guys? It is sad and soul crushing.

    • @Hetalialuver9001
      @Hetalialuver9001 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      dude your comment's censoring sucks. i'm trying to tell off preds but nooo i can't explain to them about why it's bad to objectify women let alone little girls

  • @Sleepygraveyard
    @Sleepygraveyard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2386

    Exactly. One of my friends told me "it is supposed to make you feel uncomfortable!" But it didn''t make me feel uncomfortable because it challenged my beliefs, it made me uncomfortable because I have seen way too much of it both in media and real life.

    • @lowfistarlet
      @lowfistarlet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love how you phrased this!!

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      Seriously, we have seen this before. We have done this before. And if we're honest, this film didn't really do anything that different

    • @heydiddlediddlethecatandth5251
      @heydiddlediddlethecatandth5251 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      EXACTLY!

    • @Sarappreciates
      @Sarappreciates 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Well, maybe you weren't uncomfortable, but my sister in law, who took her 3 teen sons to see it, was terribly uncomfortable. A simple family night out gone hysterically wrong. LOL, I still like to make her cringe teasing her about it. Context is everything.

    • @dionysus_adores
      @dionysus_adores 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      Yeah this one made me feel very uncomfortable. Wasn't she was still a child at the end of the movie as well. I was a toddler when a full grown man came into my room. This movie hit very close to home, it brought up a lot of painful memories.

  • @SalemSingsStuff
    @SalemSingsStuff 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4987

    “Just because a film is self-aware, that doesn’t mean it isn’t perpetuating what it’s self-aware of.”

    • @redbluebae4397
      @redbluebae4397 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

      THIS THANK YOU

    • @ABooTubeProduction
      @ABooTubeProduction 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Yes.

    • @Peregrine86
      @Peregrine86 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      10000000% this.

    • @amethyst034
      @amethyst034 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

      Yesssss. The idol, neon genesis evangelion, American beauty, euphoria and so many more of these films attempting to criticise female sexualisation or sexualisation of minors end up perpetuating that very thing.

    • @fictionlover695
      @fictionlover695 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      ​@@amethyst034 Cuties

  • @LDrosophila
    @LDrosophila 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1369

    Not weaving the mother/daughter aspect into the story proves that it was nothing more than a male fantasy

    • @pattybatters2816
      @pattybatters2816 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      She kills her wife-beating father at the end of the movie though

    • @Blissfulbizz
      @Blissfulbizz หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      not including the actual ending from the book especially.....

    • @dont_know_my_name
      @dont_know_my_name หลายเดือนก่อน +77

      @@pattybatters2816 And? Oh wow, she killed the bad guy!! How incredibly profound that she killed the man who was threatening to circumcise her. Are you serious? How does killing him serve as commentary on the relationship between her and her dead mother?

    • @VultureSkins
      @VultureSkins 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @@pattybatters2816…”at the end”

    • @nothingruler14All
      @nothingruler14All 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I wouldn't say "nothing more than," but I would say the director got sidetracked into the fantasy realm a bit, for sure.

  • @teeayteeayetc
    @teeayteeayetc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3637

    It’s always weird to me when “feminist” tales are just about women having sex like lol there’s a lot more to life? I hope??????

    • @AlabasterTen
      @AlabasterTen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

      I definitely get what you’re saying but that isn’t all what the movie does or says. Sexuality is definitely a major part of the story and themes but it explicitly shows Bella’s growth and interests beyond.

    • @casir.7407
      @casir.7407 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      its not that i disagree, but could you please give me some examples? like are these feminist stories from the 60s and 70s, like during the second wave of feminism? or are these stories corresponding to the third wave?

    • @teeayteeayetc
      @teeayteeayetc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      @@AlabasterTen yes I get that, I suppose there’s just the general focus on this aspect of the movie (she does mention this in the video as a point of contention that there isn’t much focus on the other aspect of her character like reading, relationship to motherhood etc) which I can see that a movie about “woman” having relationship to motherhood would also get criticism bc women are more than mothers! It is just I suppose such a small part of life to then take up such a big part of the movie, but also that may just be an issue of discourse bc when Olivia Wilde was talking about don’t worry darling she was like this is about sex! When lol no, not even a little bit?

    • @AlabasterTen
      @AlabasterTen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@teeayteeayetc I definitely agree with your points. As much as I like the film, there’s a lot I think it fails to do as well (I’m still reevaluating my thoughts after watching the whole video)

    • @teeayteeayetc
      @teeayteeayetc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      @@casir.7407 It’s not really my Genre of Movie (you can prob tell sex is not my bag, and I am no expert on historical feminism) but as I recall it’s a big part of the plot in certain coming of age movies like booksmart and in some queer coming of age (which I understand is different but in the same vane) like bottoms. It’s also highly prevelant in music (there’s several video essays on hypersexualization in “feminist” pop music on TH-cam) but in terms of waves of feminism I don’t know, Khadijah Mbowe has a good video on the diminishing returns of sexual “liberation” and feminism dating back to the 70s, and in some discourse by bell hooks, if you are interested

  • @matrixiekitty2127
    @matrixiekitty2127 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2231

    It’s getting a bit exhausting that feminism and female liberation is so constantly portrayed as sexual freedom, IE having lots of sex with whoever tf you want with no shame. And there is no shame in that, all the power to the people who can do that, but this can’t be the only depiction. Why can’t our choice to be selective about who we have sex with, setting clear boundaries and not forcing ourselves to “put out” or have lots of sex because we’re pressured to, be portrayed as feminist? I just want to see a feminist story where having sex isn’t such a large goal on the path to liberation. I get wanting to break down the walls of prudishness and puritan roots to normalize something natural, but it’s sad to not see myself, a very low sex-driven women, be portrayed as feminist but instead prudish and holding myself back. That or held on a pedestal over other women. Maybe I just don’t want to have a lot of sex, isn’t that my choice as a woman in the face of a society that wants me to be hyper sexual? And not because I think I’m more holy than anyone either, I just don’t want to. It’s simple.

    • @andiwrath2293
      @andiwrath2293 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

      Well said. I keep typing a longer response, but I feel like you already wrote how I feel.

    • @thegodplace7887
      @thegodplace7887 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +190

      Yup. Apparently you're supposed to be flattered if you're hypersexualized.
      Maybe the first thing that I want men to notice about me ISN'T how much sex they want to do on my body.
      That makes me uncomfortable, idk...

    • @MichelleSmith-gt1py
      @MichelleSmith-gt1py 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +161

      @@thegodplace7887 exactly. i keep seeing men praise the feminism of this movie (a type of feminism that coincidentally benefits them), but i wonder :
      would they be as supportive of feminist media that doesn't center female hyper-sexuality (ripe with the nudity of beautiful female bodies, and not many male ones), phallocentric sex and the dismissal of abuse (that offers them a get-out-of-jail card for their predatory behaviour, because we won't be affected by it anyway in the name of being a 'girlboss')?

    • @ChickP3e
      @ChickP3e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      Thank you for this wonderful write up and to the commenter above, I completely agree. I think the simple answer is that men wouldn’t benefit from it so they don’t care about it, they care about feminism when it means that they can still use women for themselves or something to objectify.

    • @Mr_Case_Time
      @Mr_Case_Time 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      I agree that sexualization does not always come from a place of empowerment. In fact, oftentimes promiscuity (in both men and women) is directly linked to childhood trauma. Is that what we’re supposed to be celebrating?

  • @laliclaudesol2350
    @laliclaudesol2350 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1360

    As an autistic girl, who was also se*ually abused as a child, this movie felt gross. I can kinda see SOME of the intention of "yay feminist movie" but any good point was completely overshadowed by the uncomfortable implications of "Bella IS A CHILD, she does not understand certain things because her brain is not mature enough to understand these things". She is a child, she cannot consent (specifically to sex), she has a very poor and sheltered view of her surroundings. And yet she is presented to be "sexually liberated" when she is being exploited and never ever realises she was subject of abuse? How is that feminist? I have to say, when watching some specific scenes, my own trauma came back to me and hit me quite hard, which is not a very feminist thing for a movie to do: to make se*ual abused victims see their trauma on a screen. Also, as a disabled person who has so much trouble fitting in socially (autism mainly, but also attention deficit disorder) I felt so invalidated by the fact that Bella never learns how exploited she has been, and how society actually works. Her naivety is portrayed as desirable, her ignorance is seen as attractive and se*y, and her innocence is seen as something men can exploit without the film acknowledging she cannot give consent. As a victim of se*ual abuse when I was a child, this movie made ME feel kind of responsible for what happened to me. Because Bella never looks back to what happened with anger, remorse, shame, fear or frustration, as a victim often does. I was full of disgust with the many uncomfortable sex scenes, not because of the act per se, but because I was aware Bella was mentally a child (while also looking and acting like a neurodivergent person) and yet the movie kept portraying that as liberating and empowering. I didn't feel empowered at all. A person can be feminist without constant sex, or without super high sex drive. A person can be a feminist AND feel negative feelings when realising they have been abused in the past. A person can be feminist AND acknowledging they have had toxic people (or just bad people) in their lives. But Bella has numerous sex partners without protection or fear of pregnancy, STDs, or hygiene, and she is our "feminist empowered protagonist" (also apparently she never menstruates, she doesn't have body hair, she is presented as a doll in cute outlandish outfits). This movie claims to be feminist, but it's also immensely gratifying to men. Bella's nude scenes when she is a toddler could open the discourse of ped*s looking at children in gross ways and not being called out. The man who looks at nude Bella while she sleeps as a baby ends up marrying her, for god's sake! And that is supposed to be a satisfying ending? Also, as Bella grows, she seems to only experience pleasure in many ways, not confusion, discomfort or frustration. Yes she talks like a child for most of the film, but we only get a "haha look, a grown woman who babytalks and acts silly without social etiquette" viewpoint.
    This is getting long. Sorry. Anyway, although I can kinda see what the movie wanted to do, it did not deliver in my opinion. It wanted to be self-aware, and yet the main character never gets to be fully self-aware herself. It was aesthetically pleasing with the costumes and backgrounds, but that's about all I can praise. Disappointing but with some potential that could have been good.

    • @user-ff4xk9fb7y
      @user-ff4xk9fb7y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same and well said! I felt like being gaslit into thinking this is anything else apart from what u mentioned.fck this piece of trash movie

    • @phoenixdavida8987
      @phoenixdavida8987 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

      Spot on. Thoroughly agreed with this.

    • @laliclaudesol2350
      @laliclaudesol2350 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

      ​@@phoenixdavida8987Thank you. It takes me a lot of effort to state my points and organise my thoughts, it's nice to be heard.

    • @MichelleSmith-gt1py
      @MichelleSmith-gt1py 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +152

      the point you made about her 'always feeling pleasure' reminds me of the fact that men often can't perceive women fully or with much complexity, and so can't handle much emoting from us, outside of constant joy.

    • @sha8photo
      @sha8photo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      PREACH.
      Any and all criticism or, more concerningly, praise, should be filtered through the primary fact: BELLA IS A CHILD.
      The end.

  • @simpleton3781
    @simpleton3781 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1221

    To be a daughter in the body of her mother does have potential to be hauntingly beautiful :/ and yet ….

    • @kingtrashpanda1570
      @kingtrashpanda1570 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      We already got Freaky Friday, what more do you want?

    • @simpleton3781
      @simpleton3781 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

      @@kingtrashpanda1570 you are so right, so valid, and so true about this omg. You truly deserve your title of king, king.

    • @Hetalialuver9001
      @Hetalialuver9001 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you sound like a predator but alright lil bro 😭

    • @simpleton3781
      @simpleton3781 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@Hetalialuver9001 ?? Pardon? What do you mean ?

    • @bebeenderson7863
      @bebeenderson7863 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I expected a sort of existential crisis on her end..

  • @nineteenfortyeight6762
    @nineteenfortyeight6762 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +625

    I'm baffled by the filmmakers' decision to leave out the book's final twist: that the story as we've seen it is a fabrication by a man, and the woman's true story was quite different and less s3xual.

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +186

      Funny how films like this are so proud to be "uncomfortable" and yet they take out the parts that make them uncomfortable

    • @Cyliandre441
      @Cyliandre441 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      They left it out because its a shitty twist that makes the story mean less.

    • @userlucilqnd9
      @userlucilqnd9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      At this point this is Lolita but rendered slightly more digestible; unreliable narrators

    • @PattisKarriereKarten
      @PattisKarriereKarten 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Because it’s a sick fantasy of sick people. That’s why they left it out.

    • @userlucilqnd9
      @userlucilqnd9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@PattisKarriereKarten 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @something8245
    @something8245 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1097

    I can technically excuse the lack of menstrual blood by saying it could be a side effect of a crude C-section Bella's mother underwent, or hypothermia in water, or something. But it is awfully convenient, and the lack of body hair is still ridiculous and has no leg to stand on

    • @venusarachnid7641
      @venusarachnid7641 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +251

      Especially when the movie points out her hair grows faster than normal.

    • @OlafavonGoeding
      @OlafavonGoeding 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +190

      If she's really so clueless about social expectations, she would have body hair and be pressured into shaving it. It could've been a very interesting point on her journey

    • @jacquelineess1141
      @jacquelineess1141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      She did have a "bush" though and maybe she is the type to not have visible body hair except some fuzz. I am like that. Not everyone's leg hair is visible!

    • @BB-tq4mm
      @BB-tq4mm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

      ​@jacquelineess1141 I could see that more if she didn't have dark black hair and eyebrows. Most of us with that dark of hair have EXTREMELY visible body hair when it is not manicured. I don't know of any woman with dark black hair that's body hair is super blonde all over especially if their pubic hair is dark with maybe the exception of arm hair which tends to usually be still very visible. Of course I cannot speak for everyone but being in the beauty industry you do notice that those with dark hair genes tend to show that everywhere.

    • @jacquelineess1141
      @jacquelineess1141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@BB-tq4mm I see your point. Thank you for replying!

  • @kensley8502
    @kensley8502 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +241

    "men have an unspoken war on women's prefrontal lobe" is wild it gave me chills

    • @Hetalialuver9001
      @Hetalialuver9001 วันที่ผ่านมา

      aaand the objectification of women is still being done, even after the whole plot of the film is displayed in front of you, in it's horrible mess of an excuse to mutilate innocent women for the appeal of man! :3

  • @tayahmower
    @tayahmower 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +614

    "the people who are made uncomfortable are the people who are already aware of this phenomenon" SPOT ON

  • @lottiecheahmccorry4559
    @lottiecheahmccorry4559 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1424

    The part about sex scenes in film from a female viewers perspective is so relatable, it hurts to watch most sex scenes because of how women are portrayed, and how sick I am of how often women are sexualised in film

    • @someblaqguy
      @someblaqguy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      I agree, my mind hadnt even concieved that fact until watching this video. Even if I were to attempt to step into the shoes of women to better understand their perspectives, I would still fall short of fully ever understanding as it's not a life that I've lived. Therefore, I'm stuck with the biases of a man and no matter how hard I may try to dull my ignorance, it will never be the same as knowing and learning through women's experiences throughout life. It's an eye-opening moment for me.

    • @t.jrogers9080
      @t.jrogers9080 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      @@someblaqguy It doesn't make you less of a person to have biases, but you can build strength of character through questioning and challenging them. Honestly though, I think you're doing enough simply by being receptive to others' experiences.

    • @Hello-hello-hello456
      @Hello-hello-hello456 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      @@someblaqguyYou can overcome your biases. It takes time and self-awareness, but having an objective perspective in life enriches you like nothing else can.

    • @spiritsfollow4976
      @spiritsfollow4976 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      We can certainly significantly decrease our biases with self awareness, but true objectivity is not possible for human beings bc we inhabit physical bodies that inevitably impose limitations on our perception and cognition. We can take on others’ experiences to a degree through empathy and imagination, but true objectivity is an illusion - one that can sometimes result in serious distortions of perception. For example, believing that we are seeing objectively can lead to the dismissal of others’ perspectives on the grounds that they are not being “objective.” This pattern has played out through much of western intellectual history, where men viewed themselves as rational and objective, while women were by contrast emotional, irrational, etc. As human beings, we must maintain the desire to connect and understand, while still tolerating the fact that that understanding will inevitably be incomplete.

    • @impposter560
      @impposter560 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Just once, I want an aRgh scene (and most of the scenes in this movie are that, lets be real, she couldn't understand or consent to most of it, they were NOT S scenes) to put ALL the focus on the man. Instead going "Oh, look at the woman, look at her body and expressions. Look at her cinematic Pain!" I want all the focus to be on HIM. Look at this monster. Look at this repulsive, selfish, foul person. Make it ugly. Make it from the womans perspective for once, what SHE sees when that is happening to her. And instead of letting men see a beautiful woman, let them see the very worst version of what some men are capable of becoming. Let them see what women are afraid, and how much it can look like them. And let women see the monster, and not just themselves, suffering

  • @TheFrdw
    @TheFrdw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1436

    The director erasing the real abused woman in the novel in favor of the fantasy her husband created to make her story palatable to children is peak irony. It's all you need to understand to get why so many women hate this film and feel so disgusted by it.

    • @kenyaaragon3944
      @kenyaaragon3944 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      Honestly so real for making this point

    • @wllyfht
      @wllyfht 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Wait what? Say more

    • @caspian5267
      @caspian5267 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Could you further explain? I don't disagree but I am a little confused:)

    • @TheFrdw
      @TheFrdw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +293

      @wllyfht The plot of the movie is the fictional autobiography of Bella's new husband (Max from the movie). In letters from the book she calls it fictitious.
      Her actual identity is an abused woman who escaped to Godwin and used this fantastical cover-up to survive. It's like the movie writers read the lie and thought that was a better depiction of feminism than the grain of truth in the book.
      The movie ignores most of Victoria's adventures and thoughts that aren't based in her enjoying sex and being unaffected by men's abuses on her. Her philanthropy is erased and the fantastical framing of the fantasy world is never revealed to be her husband's simplified and misogynistic version of her life.

    • @user-ws2kb7zh3w
      @user-ws2kb7zh3w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Max felt kinda blank to me i guess it is because he was a directer lol

  • @charlotte7554
    @charlotte7554 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +368

    I LOVED the line Ruffalo has about how she's losing her "adorable way of speaking" as she reads more. A throwaway line but I was glad for the enunciation of why he was so attracted to her re: born sexy yesterday

  • @nicoleross279
    @nicoleross279 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +488

    Also Mary Shelley wrote Frankenstein because of the baby she lost. That’s also why it was so carefully and thoughtfully written out

    • @mittag983
      @mittag983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mary Shelley was also a homewrecker and a pick-me

    • @fictionlover695
      @fictionlover695 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      ​@@mittag983 disrespecting and accusing a well-appreciated author without citing sources? How juvenile
      Now now, dont say "don't you have hands? Type in google" or such because the burden of proof is always on the accuser.
      If you can come up with valid sources, then I'll thank you for introducing me to something i didnt know before
      Otherwise...I hope you grow some maturity soon. 😊

    • @mittag983
      @mittag983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fictionlover695 It's on her Wikipedia lmao she got with married man go google it it's not worth for me to waste time on you

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      ​@@mittag983Mary Shelley was a flawed woman from a very traumatized background.

    • @mittag983
      @mittag983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@fictionlover695 This is written on every article about her lol
      It's actually a very known fact funny you didn't know it
      It wasn't to slander her as it's no use the women is long dead just hilarious how you diss Ariana but defend this homewrecker with all your life

  • @river1216
    @river1216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +232

    I was expecting this movie to be much more of a psychological horror than it ended up being. Not that Bella should not have been allowed to explore the world or her sexuality, or to have happy moments throughout, but the idea of a film exploring the idea of the terror of womanhood was so overlooked by the director. For god's sake, she was literally taken out of her mother's womb and transplanted into her head by a man without consent. She is constantly being trapped and controlled by men, but always shrugs it off and escapes, acting totally cavalier about it. I mean, upon finding out her own mother was so horrified to have Blessington's unborn child inside her, calling it a "monster," she ended her own life??? I really thought Bella would go through an identity crisis, but it seemed like she didn't care at all.

  • @TheJacquelinia
    @TheJacquelinia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +712

    i feel like it would be so beneficial to show bella realizing even though she does not feel ashamed, she can feel violated by men in those situations. i relate very much to her attitude towards sex and also assumed i would be immune to feeling used or exploited sexually...but that is not how it works. we have needs and boundaries and sacrificing them has a psychological toll. ask any sex worker. many women who have high sex drives try to fit into that "ideal sexual women" mould and then are hit with the realization that it doesnt work and have a crisis over it. i kept waiting for that moment to happen in the film.. but it didn't.
    poor things could have portrayed that perfectly but missed the mark. i still liked some parts but i wish some scenes could be added and removed. then it could have been a great feminist film

    • @rebekkahill4664
      @rebekkahill4664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

      The moment when she shrugged off her first bad sexual experience in the brothel with humour is so relatable, I was waiting for the trauma to hit later in the film but it didn't.

    • @TheJacquelinia
      @TheJacquelinia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rebekkahill4664 yes it was in that moment that i could really feel this was written by a man who supports "women's sexual liberation" but does not understand what centering women's pleasure would look like.
      bella is the ultimate "chill girl" that those dudes dream of.

    • @Cutieyum4
      @Cutieyum4 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      We don't all have the same journey in our sexual journey and coming of age, and I related to Bella and loved her questioning, discovering and research. The movie ends, when Bella has just gained independence and has recently formed her family circle. It is unrealistic to expect her to have processed her rapid journey up to that point, she just hasn't lived enough to make certain connections and more importantly she lacked the long conditioning of our girlhoods.
      An interview 10 years after the events of the film, with Bella would have been interesting, and revealing. How a kid describes childhood and others, is very different from how a woman views them.

    • @LDrosophila
      @LDrosophila 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is a great comment

    • @Apostrophe4035
      @Apostrophe4035 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I kept waiting for Max or God to get some kind of comeuppance or recognition of their wrongdoing from Bella or themselves. Max’s speech could’ve EASILY been punctuated with an “I was wrong. I took advantage of you.” Nope. At least her ex husband got turned into a goat, I guess.

  • @impposter560
    @impposter560 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +268

    What gets me is when people (mainly men) deflect with "Its just prudishness, so your criticism doesn't matter". Because, once again, to them it all boils down to the se+ itself. The 'act' is all that matters deep down. And then when women voice their concerns or dissatisfaction or discomfort, they are called prudes and borderline 'ungrateful' for not appreciating the directors (the mans) magnanimity in giving them a movie thats "feminist" and has a "strong female lead" or "shows the horrors of being a woman in a mans world". Because women don't need to see all the voyeu ristic aspects of that. They don't need a front-row seat to a the male gaze. Its like fulfilling that male gaze, those appetites, is the price they need to pay for representation. That, in order for a womans story to be told, she has to provide at least a few moments of titillation for the males in the audience (and, of course, for the director). And I hate that

    • @hibal6827
      @hibal6827 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      my god, i literally couldn't have said it any better.. It is SO infuriating.

    • @kecym.4808
      @kecym.4808 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    • @noellethomas2589
      @noellethomas2589 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yorgos literally said it is not a feminist film idk why y'all think it is

  • @user-hq8sl5ik6y
    @user-hq8sl5ik6y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    honestly, what was most shocking to me in the film was no periods? if she has the body of women coming to terms with the mood swings and pain that come with being a woman is so important.

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because men don't like periods

    • @AmbiPanby
      @AmbiPanby หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's what we get when shits written by a man...

    • @tiffanyhowell8444
      @tiffanyhowell8444 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Agree!! I just watched this movie yesterday and I was waiting for that moment and it never came. On top of her having almost zero body hair. I was disappointed.

    • @BleedingGrafitti
      @BleedingGrafitti 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@tiffanyhowell8444 Of course not! Strong, independent women are supposed to have perfect bodies and be Mary-Sues! /s

    • @merchantfan
      @merchantfan 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I know, periods are also damn messy and hard to manage. God would have had blood all over the place or needed to keep her in a diaper.

  • @lawliet6910
    @lawliet6910 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +202

    I wish the motherhood/daughterhood angle was explored!!! Your analysis is fascinating and I’m devastated that it’s not the central focus!!

    • @tiffanypersaud3518
      @tiffanypersaud3518 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same.

    • @fulichak6499
      @fulichak6499 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It is interesting to see the difference between what filmmakers usually focus on. If someone like Greta Gerwig made Poor Things, for example, the mother/daughter angle would have been among the main plotlines, and the sexuality aspect would have been treated with far more nuance. However, since Yorgos Lanthimos made this movie, it was less "nuanced", and one of the more realistic struggles women go through, as reflected in their relationships with their mothers, was basically ignored.

  • @stephysteph8558
    @stephysteph8558 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    I knew a little bit about this movie but never knew the plot point that it's actually the brain of the daughter in the body of the mother. That honestly blew me away, and I agree that it's a much more interesting focus. Poor Bella is walking around seeing through the eyes of a person she can never meet, and enjoying life in the body of a person who didn't want to live. I don't know if she would be incredibly thankful or incredibly resentful. Bella would be like a perpetual fetus because the only physical part of the baby that remains after the surgery can't survive outside the mother's body, so she's a person who can never truly be born.
    Which just goes to show it's a much more arresting conflict

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      But no, let's focus on the baby having sex! That's much more interesting! /S

  • @user-sy7ty8eu6f
    @user-sy7ty8eu6f 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +636

    'cinema is what you put in front of the mirror' GOES CRAZY OMG

    • @johnpjones182
      @johnpjones182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      & don't forget: "The truth is 24 frames a second."

  • @brunacrooo
    @brunacrooo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    "It makes the wrong people uncomfortable. The people this scene makes uncomfortable are the people who are already aware of this phenomenon" yes. YES! Thank you. You have been able to put into words what I couldn't about how I feel about this movie.

  • @Musikenna
    @Musikenna 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +817

    One thing I will praise about this film- how they were able to depict pedophilia without sexualizing children. Other movies, cough cough, Cuties, was a critique on sexualizing children, that sexualized children. By having the child in question in this film played by an adult woman prevented actual children from being sexualized in the making of the film. Sad that is so uncommon that I need to praise it.

    • @kenyaaragon3944
      @kenyaaragon3944 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

      Also adding lolita to that cause of the horrible adaptation

    • @thegodplace7887
      @thegodplace7887 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      Yeah I hate when directors are trying to make a message but are literally just doing the thing.
      Cuties was an abomination and people should be arrested

    • @theoutabodies5653
      @theoutabodies5653 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      she and an adult man had sex in front of two young boys that's not normal ! Emma stone produced this crap and if you look at the film they let her make her own choice to go.so if they didn't let her go they are misogynist because the did they are. dam if you do........

    • @purple1ninja1turtle
      @purple1ninja1turtle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      ​@@theoutabodies5653You say that that doesn't happen but if you listen to actual sex workers this is something that happens to them a lot. this movie actually depicted a lot of the traumas that sex workers face on a daily basis. I'm not necessarily defending the movie but I am defending that particular stance because unfortunately that is something that happens and depicting it, In my personal opinion, comes more from, at least Emma Stones point of view, calling out these issues that are IN the SW industry.

    • @theimplications635
      @theimplications635 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      that's not pedophilia though, it's not the same as cuties

  • @awesomyth
    @awesomyth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    If anyone wants an actuality nuanced take on Frankenstein from a feminine perspective (as Mary Shelley intended before the men took over) please watch Lisa Frankenstein! Not only does it have that beautiful A24 aesthetic but it's also written by Diablo Cody (Jennifer's Body) and is generally a very lovingly made movie.

    • @laurakoby806
      @laurakoby806 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Also, it's directed by Zelda Williams (her feature filmmaking debut). She is Robin Williams daughter and she posts witty things online.

  • @LaunchPadMcQuack4Hire
    @LaunchPadMcQuack4Hire 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +393

    Holy crap! When you noted that women's frontal lobes don't become fully developed until they're about 25 years old, and many men only like women younger than 25... 🤯
    It all makes so much sense now!

    • @Hihihihihihi147
      @Hihihihihihi147 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Creepy, when looking at age gab relationships. I feel like mentioning that the same goes for young guy's frontal lobes though.

    • @Hihihihihihi147
      @Hihihihihihi147 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      @youtubesupportsfascism agreed. I just felt like OP's phrasing could be misunderstood as "only women's frontal lobes etc" People under the age of 25 are equally "developed" and thus dating in your age range there shouldn't be a problem

    • @user-ff6gl5ye4z
      @user-ff6gl5ye4z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nooo.. I'm dead.. I'm gonna throw up..

    • @meow-sr2bl
      @meow-sr2bl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      All humans frontal lobes develop at around 25 not just females

    • @CuteKiller313
      @CuteKiller313 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      peoples brains keep developing throughout their life, the 25 thing is from one of the first studies that gave up tracking development at that age (so i guess age gaps never stop being weird lol)

  • @lottiecheahmccorry4559
    @lottiecheahmccorry4559 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    “Satire requires a clarity of purpose and target lest it be mistaken and contribute to that which it intends to criticise”

    • @FinalGirlStudios
      @FinalGirlStudios  หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Damn that’s a good quote, who said this

    • @lottiecheahmccorry4559
      @lottiecheahmccorry4559 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@FinalGirlStudios I saw it on a T-shirt hahahahah there was no credits to the author 😭

  • @Urmumlel7025
    @Urmumlel7025 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    Shout-out to the best gender bent Frankenstein. Frankie Stein from G3 Monster High. Absolute legend.

    • @FinalGirlStudios
      @FinalGirlStudios  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Agreed!! We love you Frankie 🫶🏻

    • @MrXHCx
      @MrXHCx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I like imagining that this character is very much from Long Island.

    • @nalalalalala9946
      @nalalalalala9946 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Frankie is such a queennn💜💜

    • @gingerdog8203
      @gingerdog8203 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@nalalalalala9946g3 frankie is nonbinary, so it would be ruler not queen

    • @dumbtch-lk5yr
      @dumbtch-lk5yr หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      G3 girlll imma have to argue with you on that bc g1 frankie was 🙌

  • @juliette_lummm
    @juliette_lummm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +358

    Yes and also, it's not just shame and fear of sexuality that holds women back from "sexual freedom". Many women wouldn't have sex with anyone that comes along because they have preferences, or they're demisexual, etc. And having these sexual experiences, sometimes violently and not always clearly consented like in the movie, can be painful or traumatizing to a lot of women, and that doesn't make them less feminist or sexually liberated than Bella who seems to never care about what her sexual partners do to her, no matter how bad. There are probably some women like that. But I feel like showing how unaffected Bella is, somehow justifies this behavior from men. That's just too convenient. Just like men exploited the sexual liberation movement in the past, it seems like somehow this new portrayal of "feminism" once again benefits men. And there are women who also develop feelings for men who sometimes take advantage of their lack of experience to access their body. They're not less feminist for that, or less authentic. Sex is not just about shame or no shame, being prude or liberated. I know the movie doesn't criticize "prude women" but men's problematics behaviors would sometimes be taken more seriously if we could see the harsh consequences they can have on a part of the feminine population. Sure, they criticize slut-shaming and that's good. But I feel like they're saying, that if Bella doesn't mind being groomed, manipulated, and taken advantage of for her naivety and lack of experience, because she "an independent woman✨so it's fine", then it would mean that men can do that to other women (as long as they don't try to possess them). And the typical "fuckboy" is not known for wanting to put a ring on the finger of every woman he sleeps with. So it's not like Bella's liberation is going to piss off the whole male population. I feel like because the filmmaker did some things right when it comes to their feminist message and creative world building, it distracted the audience from the things he, I think, did not do right. But it's not that I think the content creators and movie critics missed these things either, but that it still played a role in the general popularity of the movie.

    • @MichelleSmith-gt1py
      @MichelleSmith-gt1py 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      agree with everything you said

    • @bananamanchester4156
      @bananamanchester4156 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think your arguments have merit, but the difficulty is that exploitative men will use any argument, behaviour or decision a woman makes to back up their own garbage beliefs about us. If they see a s*xually liberated woman, they say "well it's clearly OK to use her like meat because she enjoys it". If they see a more reserved woman, they say "she plays games, so I'll use my pick-up techniques to manipulate her into having s*x with me". If they see a woman who is into other women, they say "aw yeah that's my fantasy, two women together are so hawt and I'm gonna peek through the curtains to watch them do it". There's no safe way to portray womanly s*xuality as long as these men are determined to own it for themselves, but to stop depicting it entirely would also benefit these men because then they can control the narrative.

    • @faithwright
      @faithwright 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      yes! she didn't care about the men who hurt her but I was the traumatized viewer watching in horror as it all went down

    • @grazielaalmeida8438
      @grazielaalmeida8438 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It's like you has read my mind, sex is really not just about being a prude or liberated, some people believe that women cannot have at least one boundarie becouse she's automativaly a prude, or is ashamed, but it's not shame, it's just being able to say the things a woman want to or doesn't want to between the sheets, like men do all the time, they are never called a prude.

    • @user-pq4fc1mc7q
      @user-pq4fc1mc7q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well I'm nothing like Bella but I understand that sexual freedom is always going to be a huge part of feminism. Look at all the controversy surrounding this film, it's 100% centered on the sex. There's a reason that's the only aspect that gets controversy, there's a reason the pornography industry isn't targeted (where most of today's youth get their sex ed btw). Reading through these comments there are so many people who think women can't have sex without it being traumatizing. It seems Bella's behaviour **is** pissing off quite a few people and not just the men

  • @mills2942
    @mills2942 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +412

    Great video! I wanted to make a video just like this. Three things I would've mentioned were her lack of tantrums, how it relates to autistic women and femmes, and the book. If they wanted to make her accurate to "baby brain" and unattractives to p*dos, why isn't she crying from a drop of hat? Babies and toddlers cry because the world is frustrating and unfair. She must be the most emotional mature toddler in the world. This would also be commentary on how women infantized for expressing their emotions and meltdowns.
    Also, in the book, it's from the perspective of Bella's and Max's kids. They're being told by Max the story that we see in the movie. HOWEVER, they read a letter from Bella saying it was all made up. I think if it kept the question of whether it's real or not and the male narrator, it would've been a better satire.

    • @FinalGirlStudios
      @FinalGirlStudios  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

      Thank you! Oh wow that’s such a good point about the tantrums! You’re so right.
      And yes!! I’m not sure if you’ve made it to the end but I do mention that alternative ending in the book☺️

    • @mills2942
      @mills2942 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @FinalGirlStudios yeah I just did! Sorry I was in the middle of heading out and thought I won't have time to finish.

    • @user-bn6ht5eg4q
      @user-bn6ht5eg4q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      She does have a tantrum at the beginning; that was when she was in her baby stage. But throughout the film, you see her aging mentally. She doesn't have those tantrums later on in the film at the “drop of a hat” anymore because she has grown mentally. The film literally follows her from being a baby to a grown woman.

  • @someblaqguy
    @someblaqguy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

    I watched the movie, and I couldn't help but see it as an extremely promiscuous infant in a woman's body... couldn't get past that fact, and it made me sick to my stomach, and truthully, I question whether or not it was even necessary. I feel that all the good aspects of the movie were tossed aside in my mind, and that took focus for me. Kind of ruined it as a whole for me.

    • @Thenewboidahlia
      @Thenewboidahlia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      Honestly it reminds me KIND OF, of Claudia from Interview with a Vampire (I think that’s her name) but it’s the little girl Lestat and Luis (I believe that’s his name I’m sorry if it’s not 😭) change.
      But she never ages physically but MENTALLY she ages and there is a bit where she struggles with her sexuality and not being desired or desirable because of her age, I did relate to that part since I was a tween when I read it but to swap it is a very..odd thing to do 😳
      I hope this made sense 😭😅

    • @someblaqguy
      @someblaqguy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@Thenewboidahlia it did make sense lol.

    • @FinalGirlStudios
      @FinalGirlStudios  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      @@Thenewboidahliaomgggg I literally watched Interview with a Vampire purely for the sake of perhaps writing an essay comparing/contrasting the two characters (Bella and Claudia)!! But ended up scrapping that concept and writing this essay instead.

    • @Thenewboidahlia
      @Thenewboidahlia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@FinalGirlStudios oh I would have loved that concept as well!!! I’m glad I wasn’t totally out of left field so to speak with the comparison!

    • @sha8photo
      @sha8photo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      That is an entirely healthy response to this film.

  • @jaxbeetle
    @jaxbeetle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    sorry to be that gfuy but i just realized that steven universe did the "i am my own mom" way better than Oscar nominated poor things

    • @butterflyeffect6298
      @butterflyeffect6298 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Both also have a lot of Freudian themes so ,, this is interesting

    • @chubbydinosaur9148
      @chubbydinosaur9148 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      at least he wasn't a sex obsessed toddler and went through every flavour of identity crisis.

    • @esperanzacibils450
      @esperanzacibils450 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      how does it feel to be the most correct person to ever walk on planet earth? 😅
      not to say that steven universe did that trope completely right but still waaayyy better that whatever poor things tried to do, the movie feels like a disgusting male fantasy

    • @merchantfan
      @merchantfan 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Also the fact that she doesn't even really process at all that her bio dad wanted to have sex with her and that she was 50% that dude by genetics

  • @malikalauryn
    @malikalauryn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +506

    i am a fan of poor thing precisely because i don’t think Bella’s curiosity was primarily sexual in the film. in fact, her early forays into sexuality are very primitive. we are witnessing her come into being always having to deal with the gaze of the men around her (that see the born sexy yesterday as arousing), but as the film progresses we see experience intellectual stimulation, discover poverty, sex work, socialism.
    for instance, when Duncan throws away her books, he comments on her losing her “adorable way of speaking”. Duncan is the antagonist of the film because he stands in the way of Bella’s increasingly complex desires. no one after this moment can view him in a good light.
    when Bella was younger in the film, all she knew was the sexualized gaze from the men. and my discovery of sexuality was equally primitive: it gives happiness for me. but i grew up and learned about agency, autonomy, companionship. so did Bella. i learned about poverty, about race, about socialism, about sexual exploitation. Bella did as well
    that’s what i find compelling about poor things. bella’s curiosity is about sex, and then it isn’t. it’s about music, and dance, and life. that scene where bella stands under the singer is so beautiful.
    young girls are sexualized in our culture. Bella is certainly a victim and survivor. tbh it’s valuable to have media that frankly tells stories where sex is as ambivalent as this movie portrays it. i saw this movie as a sort of coming of age because i relate to living in a world where female sexuality is confined to male desires. and yet and still, i found a way to exert my own individuality. something i loved watching Bella do.
    i, too, was uncomfy with the early part of the film. i don’t think there’s any reading of the film that makes the men sympathetic at all in the beginning. and also, the film moves on. and i, for one, love the places it went.

    • @Therealsoso10
      @Therealsoso10 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      You just put my thoughts into words. Glad to see someone with same view on the film

    • @Sissyphussy
      @Sissyphussy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      100 %

    • @FernBlackwood1995
      @FernBlackwood1995 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      This is how I view the movie as well.

    • @romijane
      @romijane 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I agree, and the book highlights this too.

    • @kikikiller1153
      @kikikiller1153 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Yesss, i'm AFAB, and with disabilities, i found Bella very true and very comforting, I would've liked that the men that abus3d her would be more condemned and the trauma more talked about, because it's something that happens in our society. I too did sex work when i was underage and was very traumatic, all under the "empowerment" discourse about sex. Overall I think the movie and characters are very good, I just think it could've used more input of the people that are being portrayed, let's not pretend women like this do not exist and are only a product of fantasy

  • @originaozz
    @originaozz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +159

    This is the female POV I need for Poor Things. I was so conflicted throughout the film because it did pushed my understanding of sex and questioned how much of ourselves are shaped by the way we grow. It's the ending that got me feel "Is that it?".
    I don't feel that what Bella did is a win for herself when she still live in the bubble of her privilege life or a win for women when everyone else still abide by those patriarchal standards. Bella questioned so many wrongs about society, but it led to her creating another type of hierachy within her walls.

  • @LinneaSmash
    @LinneaSmash 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Beautiful film from a purely aesthetic viewpoint but I appreciate the number of salient points you made about the film's shortcomings. It's incredibly interesting to see how a male portrays this storyline and what milestones were important for the character vs. points women brought up about missing facets like Bella not having a period despite being a fully grown woman.
    That was honestly such a missed opportunity for soooooo many reasons. The trauma of experiencing a "first" period with her young brain could have been such an interesting exploration of womanhood, not to mention how it intersects with sexuality, perceived attractiveness and purity by men, pregnancy risks, etc.
    Also your points on the intricacies of the mother daughter bond and the missed opportunity to explore the complexities of motherhood, were so touching. Thank you for taking the time to thoroughly dive into this.

  • @CrowandTalbot
    @CrowandTalbot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I'm just tired of coddling male directors for acknowledging that patriarchal systems exist and endanger women, in the porn they make about a very real real doll with enough of a veneer to get accolades from other men. Sex is apart of life, but every time this "sex without shame" concept is presented it is only presented as a woman is sex, her body is for sex, her life is only fulfilled by sex, usually by only penetrative sex with a man.
    The movie would have been infinitely better if Bella had been cut out of it. The male characters, unsurprisingly, were more interesting and presented a much more of an intelligent deconstruction of gender and systems of power, however incomplete, than the Bella in this movie ever could. Men could make interesting movies on gender and sexuality, but the male directors who have attempted it so far insist on dragging out the corpse of a much more interesting plot to pleasure themselves with. If they want their angsty men are the real monsters movie, then why do they continuously need to fridge a female character to do it? Why must women, even in stories, need continuously to hold the hands of and spoon feed character development to men?
    Honestly, I can't even say this movie is offensive, because it would have to be notable among the horde to be offensive. It's just another generic art porn

  • @carlycrays2831
    @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    I get that Emma Stone was the producer, but she wasn't the director. She was just one producer surrounded by a ton of men who had a vision of what they considered female sexuality to be.

    • @grazielaalmeida8438
      @grazielaalmeida8438 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I don't protect her becouse of that, she still got to chose it.

    • @PattisKarriereKarten
      @PattisKarriereKarten 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. It’s pure male fetish fantasy.

    • @alwaysalone8057
      @alwaysalone8057 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      My issue is she chose to take this part, chose to act accurately like a child, and then does sex scenes while still acting like a child... Not the best look

  • @persephonestudy
    @persephonestudy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    The ending of the book is WAY better than the film's ending.

  • @ArchiduquesaMA
    @ArchiduquesaMA 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +496

    After watching this movie alone I went to the park near the cinema. There were people but I lay down on the grass looking at the night sky (something I'd never do because I'm an adult) but this movie made me feel child-like wonder was important to overcome shame. It had a great impact on me and made me think how much humiliation trauma could be fixed if we listen to our playful inner child more.
    I also thought the hairless body of emma stone was a mistake.
    I think the pedo undertones are unconfortable and the reason why so many men dont like the movie cause it hits too close to home for them cause they tent to like this trope but here is super gross

    • @MichelleSmith-gt1py
      @MichelleSmith-gt1py 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

      a lot of women dislike it because of the pedo undertones too. because it doesn't seem like yorgos was trying to critique anything, or if he was, he wasn't doing it explicitly (which is irresponsible on his part, dubious and worth critiquing given the current state of the world.)

    • @lowfistarlet
      @lowfistarlet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      Interestingly enough, many men (at least on letterboxd) gave this movie 5 stars, but some of them have Barbie a lower rating 🤔

    • @nicholkola9975
      @nicholkola9975 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MichelleSmith-gt1pywhen you learn that in the book, Bella has a child and that child asks her about the brain transplant thing.. and Bella herself says men can’t handle sexuality in women, so they assume they are crazy/immature/stupid ie the ‘what a beautiful retard’ comment. It leaves the question open if this even really was her story or it’s just another way men manipulate her.

    • @petalchild
      @petalchild 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      If anything it seems like most men loved the movie. The majority of critique I've seen has been from women...

    • @ArchiduquesaMA
      @ArchiduquesaMA 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@petalchildi haven’t read a single men on twitter praising it

  • @ladyredl3210
    @ladyredl3210 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Controversy is great when you aren’t the person the controversy is about, and honestly Poor Things is a perfect example of that.

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I don't like using the term personally but it's just mansplaining by people, as you said, who have honestly no clue what they are talking about but think they do.

  • @sxt4447
    @sxt4447 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Thank you for tackling this subject. The most important thing I learned in film school is the power- and danger- of the language of film. The average moviegoer is not a film critic and is not thinking deeply about the images they’re internalizing. These images are beautiful, but they are hollow and devoid of a clear message, which allows the audience to let their own imaginations provoked by the film run wild with these false ideas about women and female sexuality. There’s a fundamental ignorance about female sexuality in general, so this film just shows me that we still don’t understand that sexuality is more than a physical exchange with others- it’s our creative drive.
    Why don’t we get to see women exploring their sexual drive without a partner? We never see a woman choosing celibacy, choosing to spend time exploring her creative drive in solitude instead of her creative, sexual energy being freely given away to the men in the film for their own entertainment. It’s not empowering to women. It’s empowering to men who will never know the depth of a woman’s sexual power and who get to experience that power by exploiting a woman who does not yet know her own body or what her sexuality is capable of creating beyond childbearing.

  • @sammiscotto1449
    @sammiscotto1449 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Thank you for this! I made a critique of poor things that went viral and it had (mostly) good dialogue and I couldn’t agree more that the mother daughter element to Bella’s story was such a missed opportunity, one that I don’t think would have been missed if this story was not told through a man’s lens

    • @Cutieyum4
      @Cutieyum4 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How? I found the film really good, and as a mother of daughters, I didn't find the movie needing more exploration of the mother-child relationship. I am neurodivergent and the film gave a satisfying account of Bella's growing up and coming of age. A film that is closer to my experiences and feelings about growing up and sexuality. At my advanced age, I am glad to have watched a film that doesn't dwell in the traumatic experiences or have to include it. A different type of female journey in a movie that is set in a fantastic reality. It is told like an ancient myth of an early civilization's divine creature.

    • @sammiscotto1449
      @sammiscotto1449 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@Cutieyum4 I dont think the film is bad. Its important to understand I can critique something and still enjoy it. To me, this is a Frankenstein story, one that is looking to add a new perspective by introducing the idea of what if Frankenstein was a woman and in essence was born into a world without society’s rules and judgements. Its about a relationship to self as a woman, as a human, as a creature. And to me, to not explore the most compelling twist of the genre of not only is she a woman, but she is her own mother, just feels like dropping the ball on even more depth we could have had with Bella.

    • @user-pq4fc1mc7q
      @user-pq4fc1mc7q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm FED UP of people saying this film "was obviously written by a man", because no it wasn't. You people would say that about Frankenstein smh. Harem anime, the Hamilton musical, narratives where all the women fall in love with a mediocre looking man who does them dirty with each other are the actual male fantasies. That is one way the story could have gone, it doesn't mean it was because a man wrote the story.

  • @alissaadornato8951
    @alissaadornato8951 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    The film's agnosticism toward consent really bothered me. When Bella worked as a prostitute, she asked if she would be allowed to pick her client, and she was told no, that her consent was irrelevant. If consent isn't asked for them the intercourse is nonconsensual, because we know for a fact that her saying "no" would not change a single thing in her favor and could end her only employment. So we have a movie about sex and society, all about exploring and challenging both notions through conversation, but the concept of sex being forced upon someone is never mentioned once even as it's happening. It's so frustrating! Only in a movie written by a man.
    I'm not even saying Bella has to conclude that what happened to her was abuse. I just want the movie to have put one single sentence towards tackling that topic because the kinds of weird mental gymnastics Bella went through to mock up a simulation of consent were heartbreaking because that's the kinds of things people do when they're trapped in a situation they know they can't control and are just making the most of it to stay sane or feel as if they have control. Like, sure, the way she goes about it is very fantastical because it's larger than life fiction, but formatting an uncontrollable situation until it feels close enough to consent, even though that fiction of consent is realistically powerless, is exactly what people often do in situations like that. It's not consent, it's a person trying to cope! Why does the movie portray that and then never say a word about it, failing to be critical or even acknowledge what just happened at all? Bella refers to herself testing the boundaries of what it means to be ok with someone violating her as just some stuff that she learned from and like, that's it?? She's so curious, articulate, nuanced, opinionated, and critical of so many other things in herself and others and in society, but not consent, the one thing she was just exploring? Nothing to say about it? It's just so, "written by a man" it's sickening. I get the impression the movie doesn't consider those scenes to be dubious consent which is wild to me because "she's not allowed to say no" was the premise.
    Btw I'm not saying sex work is inherently unconsensual, it just is when "not allowed to say no" is the basic premise. I don't think her choosing to stay equals consent exactly either because her still having a child's brain is its own problem and beyond that, the conditions of her employment are inherently exploitative and I wish the movie had just contended with that for even just one single sentence! Even just to dismiss the possibility! Because then the audience would remember the word consent exists for a reason and it would a commentary and not just a depiction of something a little too real and tragic to be just left behind like it's "female empowerment via exploring sexuality". Written by a man.

    • @Saffron-sugar
      @Saffron-sugar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      There is no question that working in a Victorian bordello was abusive.
      This film was not made to please, or be wholesome, it was meant to agitate. To “ shock the bourgeois”. To artfully address actual social issues. The fact that, every time she liberated herself, she ended up enslaved in someway is very much the female experience in many parts of the world, to this day, as we speak.
      When women are depicted only as free, fulfilled, heroic characters that never make mistakes, personally I feel that it is perpetuating an unrealistic myth that most of us cannot live up to.
      I know what it’s like to make much more money as a stripper than as a waitress. How else was I going to get myself through college without the enslavement of lifelong debt? But I was free, so I left the country and travelled. And ended up falling in love and married. To a jerk. Then I freed myself from that, but had to raise the children on my own. Ended up having to work 80 hour weeks as a Paramedic. Started Modeling on the side because the pay was much better found the situation abusive. I was always beholden to something that owned me. Children who would never thank me. Men who wanted to control me. It took me until now to live an authentic life, where I don’t live just to work or live in an environment that oppresses me.
      But if my life was a film, would it be called anti feminist? Even though I struggled and won, some of it was unpalatable. I wasn’t always treated like a princess.

    • @ErikaCartet
      @ErikaCartet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@Saffron-sugari think you’re misunderstanding op’s complaint. no one would say your life events are anti-feminist, or even that portraying the events that happen to bella as a reality for women is anti-feminist. it’s the film’s framing of the sex being ambivalent when it comes to consent, and leaving some sort of ambiguity to “well she had agency actually, she enjoyed it, she was able to make it work for her, etc etc so it was actually empowering that she was able to explore her sexuality without shame” undercutting the fact that it was rape.

  • @LisaFevral
    @LisaFevral 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    honestly, I think discourse will always be so difficult to have when the finished product can both be an accidental commentary, while being so evidently challenged by the real life context of the writers/directors and their previous works. If a director made one movie that shows(or actually just embodies) exploitation of the female form, it could be argued they were trying to comment on it, however successfully. But if the director made more than one work that has similar themes and he's failing at making a convincing statement, I'm starting to feel suspicious. Honestly, I would just like men to do less stories about women and especially women's sexuality

  • @lilyskreinig6994
    @lilyskreinig6994 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I don't remember if they mention it in the film, but it seems to me that the removal of the child from Victoria's body would go hand in hand with a hysterectomy, and maybe even also a salpingo-oophorectomy (basically a removal of all the reproductive female parts). This would explain the lack of menstruation and I think is quite plausible.
    The unnecessary hairlessness is a valid point, though. I think it would do humanity some good to remember that women also have hair lol

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I mean, this would be a pretty interesting point to make. She is "de-sexualized" so that she can better pleasure men

    • @scrubbingbubbies
      @scrubbingbubbies 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      If so I’d be really interested in seeing the effects of a hysterectomy then. Why not show things from menopause? A hysterectomy doesn’t just rid you of your uterus and that’s it.

    • @ErikaCartet
      @ErikaCartet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      it’s plausible that was the rationale for the film, even if it wasn’t explicitly stated. but also, bella/victoria becomes a doctor to provide contraceptives and reproductive health to women at the end of the novel, so it’s odd that they intentionally erased the topic like it’s entirely unnecessary or incidental to the conversation the film wants to have

    • @merchantfan
      @merchantfan 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I figured they'd say that but then when the 'husband' wants to knock her up she's not like "I don't have a uterus?" which at that point she would definitely know and have no problem saying

  • @564Clayton
    @564Clayton 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Who watched this and believed it was about female empowerment? Choice = empowerment. Empowerment does not just mean having free sexual experiences. I find it troublesome that female empowerment always includes an element of being sexually reckless. Saying no is also empowering. Being choosy is empowering. How on earth did she just not get pregnant at all and why was this not a real concern? I didn’t see any of the male sexual partners pull out.

    • @wyteboysin
      @wyteboysin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      not only did she not get pregnant ( which I guess can be justify by the fact that we never see her menstruate) but the only time the possibility of an STDs is brought up is when Max tells her that she should get tested before they get married ( so when it's for the convenience/safety of a man). This entire movie is about a woman that is apparently mature enough to travel the world just to explore her sexuality while also being too mentally young to consent to sex with any of the grown men she slept with ...how does that work ?

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Someone said that it's likely she had a hysterectomy, she had her sexual organs removed. In a real way, she was "de-sexualized" for the convenience of the men around her.

    • @ceezyjeffezy2213
      @ceezyjeffezy2213 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The movie is sloppy in ways that give away its empowerment message.
      The body hair issue hints at a range of missed opportunities. As weird as the clothes are, she still dresses feminine to a fault. Kids wear weird stuff or want to walk around naked or less clothed.
      At the end with her “ husband” coming. Why would a person like Bella care about traditional marriage and go with this man she doesn’t know?

    • @ErikaCartet
      @ErikaCartet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      also, knowledge is empowering. understanding your body and consent is empowering, and understanding the reality of what has been done to you so that you can properly process and grow beyond it is empowering. sexual education and reproductive rights are empowering. but nah let’s not get into all that, even if she didn’t know what sex was and how men were taking advantage of her naivety, she was actually the one with power all along because she enjoyed herself and didn’t feel shame. very euphoria “she was the one in control” esque

    • @Manitsas
      @Manitsas หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree that “Poor Things” is not specifically about empowerment at all, or at least not primarily. The absence of a moral viewpoint was in fact deliberate, but again neither was that the goal. Bella was set up to be untouched by conditioning into the societal expectations surrounding her, and in this way the viewer is allowed to experience the societal forces and influences of the culture with varying inconsistencies, contradictions, silliness, and even values. The lack of an overt critique or support for these was intentional, such that they are displayed before the viewer to elicit our own examination and understanding. Therefore, this video, the posts, the responses, no matter what insights or errors any of us may see, are exactly what the director sought to elicit: Thinking.

  • @azul9655
    @azul9655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

    You articulate exactly what I thought of this movie! Bella is a child, she gets r*ped as a baby, and even in the end she doesn't seem to understand the abuse she's been through. I kept thinking by the end she would realize the extent of her abuse and sexualization and choose not to marry the professor's student, but no, she marries him. This is a story about a sexually liberated womanchild, not about abuse. It condones pedophilia imo because it never adresses it correctly, the message is about how great it is that Bella can have control over her own sexuality, even though she is a baby, not a woman! She has sexual consent as a baby and the movie encourages us to think she shouldn't be ashamed of it or be cautious. I personally hated the message, it was not well delivered and even if the movie was aesthetically beautiful it doesn't negate the damage it could have on society. If a pedo watches this he will not feel shame or be uncomfortable, he will be aroused, he could even use this discourse to defend his desires saying that a girl has the right to choose sex with a man, which is very troubling to me.
    If they wanted to portray sexual liberation, Bella didn't need to have the brain of an infant, she could just have had the shame part of her brain turned off because of her death or any other explantion...

    • @lottiecheahmccorry4559
      @lottiecheahmccorry4559 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Yesss, I think with movies like this it’s sooooo important to try and look at it from a male perspective/ from the perspective of someone who only sees things at face value. Like if you don’t directly criticise/challenge the issue you are trying to bring to light, a lot of people might get the wrong idea and that can be super harmful and in a way just make things worse/ further perpetuate the negative stereotype

    • @lottiecheahmccorry4559
      @lottiecheahmccorry4559 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Like I’ve watched movies with men where there were female characters who were hyper-sexualised, according to the directors in order to bring to light the mistreatment and objectification of women, but the men I was watching the movies with were just like "damn she’s hot"… they totally misunderstood the message the director was trying to send. So by not directly challenging these negative stereotypes and being too implicit/subjective, they ended up causing more harm than good.

    • @azul9655
      @azul9655 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      ​@@lottiecheahmccorry4559Yes! And I actually was very worried when I saw the movie at the theater because many men were laughing at some very disturbing scenes.

    • @lottiecheahmccorry4559
      @lottiecheahmccorry4559 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@azul9655 yessssss it’s so hurtful when they laugh because they don’t understand, while you’re on the verge of tears because of how much the issue trying to be portrayed has affected you. Like they are just completely clueless, and it’s so dangerous making subjective pieces of media and expecting them to understand. I remember watching a disgusting horror movie where a man exploited women by recording them naked through video chat, and then forced them to do the things by threatening to leak the videos, and the guy I was watching with was fine with the scenes of the women being exploited, but drew the line at the gore/torture scenes, as he yelled, "don’t rip you skin off for him, just pop a tit again"…

    • @milamila1123
      @milamila1123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She's not a child...

  • @PolarPhantom
    @PolarPhantom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    One possible missed opportunity: Godwin has a maid. She could have been shown shaving and grooming Bella so she remains "Beautiful". And you can see her shaving her legs while Bella is struggling and bored. Then, Duncan has to shave her legs much to his chagrin and Mark Ruffalo's hilarious anguish. And when she gets to the brothel, she is taught how to do it herself and is like "I understand this is expected of Bella but it is rather pointless."
    I feel like most people watching Poor Things *are* uncomfortable with Duncan's seduction of Bella. The only people who aren't are those that are actual child molesters. As the video itself said, most "Baby Brained" characters aren't literally baby brained. And that's the difference between Bella and Leeloo. Bella is literal and so it's harder to pretend it's not hecked up - so I disagree with you on that part.
    I also disagree Joi in BR 2049 is "Born Sexy Yesterday". I also think it's valid for a director to use cinema as a "mirror", and that it can be that; particularly in the Cyberpunk Genre, itself descended from Film Noir. It can also be more of course. I will have to read the interview myself, as well as rewatching BR 2049. EDIT: Because maybe I'm missing some context here. Maybe after I'd agree with you.
    All in all
    this film is weird and I think it could have been done better.

    • @lowfistarlet
      @lowfistarlet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I agree with the maid part!! Like what if the maid and the brothel owner were more of “mother figures” to Bella instead of minor side characters?? It would’ve been an interesting concept to explore!!

    • @testosteronic
      @testosteronic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Shaving body hair wasn't really a thing during the period the story's set. The exploration you describe couldve excused this aesthetic choice, but they should've just let her have the body hair she would've had

    • @macmurfy2jka
      @macmurfy2jka หลายเดือนก่อน

      I like this

  • @madibuehlie6144
    @madibuehlie6144 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Coming from someone who was a victim of childhood SA I found the beginning of the film so triggering I had to walk out during my first watch. I understand all sides but in the eyes of a victim it's watching the victimization of a childlike women falling into a hypersexulization form of self harm to the point she ends up back in her past abusive relationship. It's a hard watch knowing my experience and others.

    • @kreissthekeeper
      @kreissthekeeper 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Literally. I was groomed by a p*do for years (luckily nothing physically horrible happened since I claimed lesbianism) and to see the complete disregard for her bodily autonomy in favor of the man made me want to VOMIT. I left the theatre 40 minutes into the film and have never revisited it. I just can't. This film could've been so good and had a provocative message that actually had a productive conversation about it going, but now we're stuck talking about how it missed all the marks and in the end it's just am artsy fartsy movie about sex.

  • @FoxySunflower890
    @FoxySunflower890 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +556

    I think the reason why Duncan had such a problem with Belle being a sex worker, is because she made that choice. He was no longer able to control her sexuality. So instead he demonized it. For the worst thing a woman can do is have full bodily autonomy.

    • @gayong4856
      @gayong4856 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, it is because Bella is raped by other men, and not only by him. Bella chooses as “freely” to engage in prostitution as she chooses to be groomed by him. Being in prostitution (with a brain of a child mind you) is not bodily autonomy

    • @n14d14
      @n14d14 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

      but she didn't cause she was owned by a madame so that's where i'm confused

    • @noname-of2yl
      @noname-of2yl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +146

      @@n14d14yeah - she was also coerced into it by her impoverished status. That’s not a fully autonomous choice.

    • @hannahbb2557
      @hannahbb2557 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

      @@noname-of2ylright.. i have a hard time understanding how someone can interpret that as fully consensual or “achieving full bodily autonomy” when she wouldn’t have done it in the first place if she had any money.

    • @roviize9425
      @roviize9425 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @n14d14 Sure, but out of all the proletarian jobs she could’ve taken she chose to go that route. She didn’t only do it for the money but also because she found that she enjoyed the actions & result of sex that is where the theme of freedom kept playing in. Duncan really just hated that that allowed other men to be intimate with her

  • @c.nk.01
    @c.nk.01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    semi unrelated to the topic at hand but oh the irony of kristen stewart emphasizing the importance of comfort while acting out intimacy when she worked with and defended woody fucking allen of all people. good lord.

    • @Dogy0909
      @Dogy0909 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Everything about her is fake

    • @muchadoaboutmanythings
      @muchadoaboutmanythings 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Oh, so you get to realize your family friends are weirdos but she can't have flaws or misjudgedments? Like, idk if you realize but she was a child actress and God knows what she felt she had to do and what she will justify happening to even herself. I don't know if she said that about the movie she worked with him on, but if it wasn't, what even is your point? Should I check your brain and find out where you've also been a hypocrite? Bc you're not free of humanity. Everyone says "fake" sht bc you don't feel the exact same way about something or someone your entire life. You can even see here comments of people who saw this movie and liked it at first until it all dawned on them, that can also happen with people you know. If you ask your mother she's probably done something horrible you'd hate another person for, but bc it's your mother you might not even be able to attach it to her

  • @eyeromnium
    @eyeromnium 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    i just love the passion and research Final Girl Studios puts into her videos! and she has a letterboxd account so you already know she's on top

  • @rachellydiab
    @rachellydiab 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Brilliant video!!! You’ve really reshaped some of my thoughts around Poor Things.
    Particularly your point about the ‘woman’s’ body is so appt. it feels like the born sexy yesterday trope can’t escape girlishness in the characters physicality bc it primes the to be perceived in an endearing, Bambi-like way.
    No doubt the film would feel wildly different with an older, larger, less pruned Bella - almost to the point of making the majority of the criticism lobbied against it redundant. And god now i’m wishing we got that film….
    Beautiful work x

    • @FinalGirlStudios
      @FinalGirlStudios  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you so much!!! And thank you again for your contribution to the video 🫶🏻

  • @saml302
    @saml302 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    this movie felt like a bunch of artsy college bros patting each other on the back abt how pro-"sex positive feminist" they are

  • @fosternova4434
    @fosternova4434 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I, a queer afab person, went into this movie completely blind and it was an experience. I love the frankenstein type of stories, so when i realized it was sort of that, i was excited. I love watching a character experience and process the world around them for the first time while questioning why people do things. I wasn't a necessarily sheltered kid, but I was very isolated in my childhood, so that kind of thought process is something I understand. I was enraptured with Bella's facinsation with the world around her. The way she wants to just stop and look and talk and absorb is how I feel like acting when I'm in an unfamiliar place. I haven't really found others who relate to that feeling, so seeing a character exhibit that wonder was amazing. My favorite part of the movie was when Bella was on the ship and she met two people who didn't discourage her curiosity. It was just a really joyful bit for me to watch. I found myself coming away from the movie less focused on the sexual elements but rather more focused on her growth, Emma's acting, the characters Bella interacts with, the art direction, the shot composition, and the costume design. The ending did feel off. I was confused as to what the director wanted me to take away from the film by the end.

  • @lainey7384
    @lainey7384 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As I watched this movie, I said “This feels like a man’s take on feminism,” and I appreciate this deeper dissection of that.

  • @SabeFett
    @SabeFett 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    As always…You perfectly articulated all of my confused thoughts on this film. I wanted so badly to love Poor Things but it did not deliver imo 😕

  • @moonriversou
    @moonriversou 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Your videos have been a god sent for me these past two days. You speak on such interesting films and topics and these videos got me out of my film watching slump that I've been in for the past two years! I'm so glad and I'm genuinely in awe of you truly, thank you so much ♡

  • @fluxusjpg
    @fluxusjpg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    “multiple things can be true at once” is definitely my biggest takeaway from my personal experience of watching the movie and hearings differing opinions from other people

  • @Patricia-cn7ox
    @Patricia-cn7ox 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I don’t think the movie is about female empowerment, there’s no empowerment, Bella is abused and groomed. It’s Bella’s life, exploring and growing. It’s not empowering but it’s the life she’s been given and she’s exploring and trying to understanding herself. At the end, Bella is an extraordinary human despite everything she’s been through.

  • @avapatterson994
    @avapatterson994 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Bella's existence as a sexual being and Bella's existence as an infantile being are closely related and was part of the reason that my viewing experience was so uncomfortable. Emma Stone's performance as a child was chillingly convincing and the positive depiction of sex and sexuality through a character that is so unmistakably a child made me feel viscerally disgusted. I also felt that this aspect of the film held too much weight.
    I understand that the movie was a commentary on the role of the patriarchy in shaping women but almost every relationship Bella has in the film is either sexual or exploitative, if not both at the same time. I wish that Bella's friends on the boat had played a larger role. An older woman who has gone through life and graduated from the sexual desires of men could have brought so much more to the story.
    And finally I was so fascinated by the concept of the daughter in the mothers body. I was so interested to see Bella explore the possibility that her mother had committed suicide as a consequence of becoming pregnant and how that would shape her understanding of motherhood, love, and her own right to existence. Completely passed over without a second thought. I cannot explain how disappointed I was when the extent of Bella's understanding of her mother was delivered to us by another exploitative man with no further investigation.
    I did enjoy some aspects of the movie, again Emma Stone's performance was amazing, but these were just my main critiques.

    • @merchantfan
      @merchantfan 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah she never really pursues a particular man because she's attracted to him. She doesn't say "Oh that man looks attractive I'll go ask him to have sex with me". He appears, wants her, and then she's like "why not let's have sex?". Even once she's older sex is just a way to make money and she just hooks up with the guy her weird fake dad picked. Maybe if they'd focused on her sex and relationship with the other girl since that's the first time the other person didn't immediately say "wow Bella you're so beautiful I want you"

  • @acook2080
    @acook2080 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    just an fyi for anyone interested :) the book is actuallly from the fictional perspective of the real author Alasdair Gray.
    It's comprised of a foreward from Gray setting up his argument that he believes the story of Bella Baxter to be real. Followed by a memoir by Bella's husband Max where Max claims that his wife was a grown woman with a babys brain, and then a letter from Victoria Baxter revealling that her husband made it all up to make himself be better about being a very average man, where she then tells her real life story.
    Gray then goes on to detail the life of Victoria Baxter after the events of her letter, where she was an active campaigner for the rights of women until her death. One of the very last points of the book is an account of Victoria's autopsy, where she's described as having a brain thirty years younger than her body.
    In my opinion Gray intended the story to be an exploration of unreliable narrators and the idea that when no version of events are definitive, you're able to pick and choose details to believe from any of them. The whole setting is a lot more grounded than it's film adaptation, perhaps in an effort to make the absurditity of Godwin's experiments a bit more plausible.
    It's a fantastic book and a fantastic interpretation of Glasgow where Gray was born. (and where I live lol) The book is a lot more political and philisophical than the movie, with less of a focus on the sexual aspects that Lanthimos chose to focus on. Personally I think he butchered some of the story and characters to tell a far more fantastical tale.

  • @donutsrmybbies
    @donutsrmybbies 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    soo glad you made this video. you made great points I hadn't seen anyone else mention

  • @regzlots
    @regzlots 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    oooo GIRL I BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE THANK YOU FOR REVIEIWNG THIS

  • @moonlightauras1
    @moonlightauras1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    I think we do a lot of gender-based stories a disservice when we ask the polarizing question 'is this feminist?'. Mainly because a story doesn't have to be feminist in order to be a relevant and fascination commentary on gender, nor does feminism have a spotless history of perfectly advocating for the people who need it most. Also, such polarizing questions prevent more nuanced thought and discourse as it locks people into one position instead of allowing for more complexity when navigating ideas. Media literacy is difficult, but videos like this one fill in so many gaps for people who need to loosen their grip on binary thinking.

    • @terracerios5924
      @terracerios5924 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Well said

    • @user-ws2kb7zh3w
      @user-ws2kb7zh3w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Interesting, what is your thoughts on film being universal for both genders?

    • @MichelleSmith-gt1py
      @MichelleSmith-gt1py 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      art is inherently political. where gender is, where women are, feminism exists. those are literally the founding objects of feminist study, and the two cannot be disconnected.
      how exactly would you propose framing a very clear narrative about female sexual exploration, sexual exploitation and liberation outside of the patriarchy, removed from feminism?
      i disagree wholeheartedly with you. using feminism as a starting point for discussions like this gives us a rich and complex tapestry of ideas, among many others, on which to draw from, before expanding elsewhere.
      you talk about nuanced discourse and yet present none of your own? can we hear these enlightening thoughts, that feminism is apparently stopping people from having?

    • @wowanothercookie
      @wowanothercookie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@MichelleSmith-gt1py I see what you are saying, but in a way I do wonder if the yes or no question of "is this feminist" isnt less helpful than the tools and lenses feminist film theory can give us to discuss what potentially worked or didnt work. I dont know if the original poster wanted to remove feminism entirely from the discussion (which I would disagree with) but I think a more specific question of "what message comes across to different people/genders and why" is more interesting than the binary feminism one.

    • @noellethomas2589
      @noellethomas2589 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MichelleSmith-gt1py Same questions to you, only replace gender & sex with class based society & class based exploitation. Human labour creates art, and human labour is the very basis of our existence. Nothing could exist without human labour.
      So where is the class based analysis? Why ignore a class critique in favor of a feminist one?

  • @thelibrarian948
    @thelibrarian948 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    I feel like the whole concept of even acknowledging (as the filmmaker clearly does) the unfair treatment and double-standards women are subjected to by a male dominated society IS feminist- whether it was the intention of the filmmaker or not.
    On cinema being a mirror of society and the idea that one must distort the mirror to question society: the commentary on the depictions often is (and arguably should be) up to the individual viewer. I know, interpretation is dangerous. But it’s better for developing critical thought as well as personal character, even if that development ends up revealing ugly things.*
    Personally, I felt like I recognized the bad behavior written into Poor Thing’s male characters in the men I’ve encountered my entire life. Not a kind picture, but an accurate one lol.
    Duncan is explicitly portrayed as a villain, something that I think is important. If people disagree that he was portrayed as a villain, I think that may be because he was portrayed as a REALISTIC villain (yes despite the flamboyant dramatics) in the sense that he has a charasmatic veneer (how else would him being a womanizer make sense tbh) that attracts people to him.
    I think Bella’s sexuality has more to do with the fact that she (as a baby brained lady) doesn’t yet have a concept of all the psychological conditioning adult women are conditioned with (by society, various religions, experiencing traumas, etc.) since birth. Agreed the portrayal has issues though.
    Bella’s happy ending, in my opinion, is finally being able to live in her independence with the people she loves around her. She was able to finally explore her intellectual/educational pursuits regarding medicine and she got to have relationships free from predation and free from societal confines of norms/expectations. The fact that her happy ending was being truly herself without compromising her desires, or being dependent on a man, or receiving punishment for her “adventures” was refreshing to me personally since that’s usually not granted to women in film.
    *In other words, it’s not important whether the film is feminist or not, whether it’s good or not, etc… what matters is whether YOU view the piece of art or media as such. You can tell a lot about people by the kind of movies they like and dislike, and sometimes those are important indicators and red flags in my opinion.

    • @FinalGirlStudios
      @FinalGirlStudios  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      Yes I discuss how I liked the portrayal of Duncan for the exact reason you expressed. I also repeatedly allude to the fact this film is clearly making a commentary on social conditioning of women and the way that impacts our sexual lives. To me that’s a pretty obvious fact about the film. The question is whether or not it was a good interpretation/exploration of this.

    • @gayong4856
      @gayong4856 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Feminism is when filmmakers sexualise women now

    • @MichelleSmith-gt1py
      @MichelleSmith-gt1py 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so if we as women weren't conditioned by the patriarchy, we would spend most of our time having phallocentric sex with creepy, repulsive guys??? shot in ways that never depict her subjective attraction towards these men even though it's supposed to be about 'female sexual emancipiation' (creepier still considering she is a baby-brained CHILD)

    • @thelibrarian948
      @thelibrarian948 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Sure thing, and personally I feel like if the question is “is it a good exploration of these themes” then my answer would be… maybe?
      I think he explored some things better than others and was left quite lacking on more of the female perspective. I thought Emma Stone did an amazing job working with what the filmmaker gave her and interpreting/conveying the emotions of the character to add depth to the story and to Bella. I also can excuse some of the oversight to it being clearly a fantasy version of reality, and probably my own bias towards excusing male mediocrity when it come to writing female characters.
      That being said, I feel like the overt focus on nudity came across as more disturbing than empowering in the context of the storyline. I also initially thought that the filmmaker (and maybe the author of the book? Idk I haven’t read it) overlooked a critical element that I think would be present in Bella’s emotional journey with sex and relationships, which is experiencing regret at the choices she made, or struggling with feelings of being victimized by the men that preyed upon her. I’m still kind of wrestling with that idea though since I don’t know if shame is a fundamental element of regret, since the filmmaker was intending to portray a woman without the idea of shame as you mentioned.

    • @thelibrarian948
      @thelibrarian948 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      also I didn’t even realize that she was first touched by Duncan when blowing bubbles the first time I watched the movie 🤢🤮 super disturbing choice in my opinion, their initial interactions were all super unsettling scenes. I’m not sure that Bella’s “I think Bella not safe with you” observation does much to ease those feelings either, since recognizing danger still doesn’t mean comprehending the consequences, especially for people without fully developed brains.

  • @stormfischerr
    @stormfischerr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    i find it frustrating that a majority of people discussing this film don’t acknowledge that the film can portray some things well while also falling short on others. it’s either a beautiful feminist masterpiece or a garbage disgusting misogyny-fest. i appreciate you mentioning what your conflicting thoughts on it!!

  • @TrashFaerie
    @TrashFaerie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    32:34 i think this is a really great point! It also makes me think about the fact that so many people including myself, mature and realize that i need to become my own parent, and a parent who is actually good, which can be so difficult when you were not modeled that at all.

  • @ladyzoe5734
    @ladyzoe5734 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for your nuanced words here and thank you for shouting out Love Lies Bleeding!!!! Loved the intimate scenes in that film, that film has so much genuine passion

  • @sapphic.flower
    @sapphic.flower 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Great video and incredible points!
    The movie suggesting that Bella’s unabashed sexuality exists because she literally has a baby’s brain is honestly disturbing to me. It’s saying what’s holding women back is their cognizance of their objectification, not that the objectification itself is the problem. It would’ve been far more challenged if it was made clear Bella, who is a child, actually cannot consent.

    • @ErikaCartet
      @ErikaCartet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      great comment. i think the film would have benefited from being more intentional and incisive with how it explored the topics it brought up, instead of being ambivalent and defanged for the sake of “not holding the audience’s hand”

  • @redblaquegolden
    @redblaquegolden 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    i think i fall on the perspective that... It's such a boomer masculine thing to have your response to people online allegedly saying they hate sex scenes, be to then spend millions of dollars to make a movie with several hyper specific fetishes on scene where the subject HAD TO be a cisgender traumatised woman with multiple points of trauma, call her "beautiful r-word" and make her hairless and quirky.
    Ask yourself: would this movie have played out the same way if the only thing changed was that Bella had been a transgender woman and still had a penis, or if Bella was instead Beau, a bisexual man and all these scenes were homoerotic, or if Bella was Blsck or Fat. The discourse would be different as it would have been outside the norm of what /most/ cishet white men find desireable. By making her conventionally attractive, you've managed to make a film that perpetuates the issue of gaze.

  • @tiffanypersaud3518
    @tiffanypersaud3518 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    “Men seem to have a war against a woman’s frontal lobe”. 😅❤❤ Subscribed. I had a very hard time watching this film, as did my mum. I would have chanced a rewatch if it went hard on Bella’s growth instead of her adventures where she was repeatedly exploited.
    Oh and all hail intimacy coordinators and more women’s involvement in portrayals and directing of women’s experiences.

  • @ollie8500
    @ollie8500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really enjoyed that! I think those were some great points. I definitely was taken aback by this film and it made me think critically about what was put in front of me. I appreciate the discussion 💝

  • @Sarappreciates
    @Sarappreciates 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This take on Bella's mother's body, and becoming one's mother, it really touched me. My mother died 2 months ago, and I see her in myself now more than ever before. I can still almost hear her sometimes in my own mind's voice. Was it always that way, or is this new? I can't even say, but now I'm sad for the movie this never was.

  • @CCSierra
    @CCSierra 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is such an important discourse to be having! I agree with this perspective, and I find that these issues are SO prevalent in modern media and film. I hope society starts to recognize the problems with films like this.

  • @ivystoptalking
    @ivystoptalking 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    great video! i loved that you said “it makes the wrong people uncomfortable” and i would have to agree. i did enjoy the movie, but i definitely understand both sides now. it’s not a perfect story, but i think it is an important one to dissect and explore.

  • @marianareis258
    @marianareis258 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    the part about being a daughter in your mother's body was so beautiful, I got emotional ❤️ this video is beyond great!

  • @mandyjustmandy1164
    @mandyjustmandy1164 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love your videos so much!! I can't wait to watch this!

  • @rebeccacampbell585
    @rebeccacampbell585 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Agree with the motherhood/daughterhood idea as well as what Emma the actress said about her world being technicolor after having a child. Basically I agree with your take. And honestly I get ped0 vibes from a lot of this movie.

  • @Aggiemcdee
    @Aggiemcdee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow... just wow. I was looking for a more thoughtful and insightful review of this film after just watching it, and here it was. Beyond my expectations. Instant subscribe! Thank you

  • @SarahBabe
    @SarahBabe 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for this! I was very curious about 'Poor Things' and your dissection of the discourse proves that I do not need to have any sort of urgency in watching this film. This is a great video essay. Thank you again!

  • @Meiliina
    @Meiliina 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    One of the things that this discourse reminds me of is how easily people jump from nudity to sexualization. There is nudity without sexualisation and sexualisation without nudity. I understand there is a very heavy cultural aspect to this, as a Finn and an American would most likely see a nude body in a film differently, but that can be changed with the context and cinematography. From what I've seen in Lanthimos' films (Dogtooth, Killing of a Sacred Deer, etc), his cinematography is very bare, almost cold, when filming sex, so seeing Poor Things' sex scenes in so vibrant colours, with pleasure, was unexpected, yet it maintained the observing (not voyeuristic) tone.

    • @ErikaCartet
      @ErikaCartet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i guess it was hard to not feel like it was voyeuristic when before bella had agency or could even begin to explore her sexuality, we are shown her exposed breast while she is unconscious from the point of view of max, who has a sexual interest in her. and thus what could have been neutral nudity feels framed as sexually charged. which could also have been fine as an intentionally voyeuristic shot to show that men objectify women’s bodies in non-sexual situations, but then it transitions from that into us watching bella learn to pleasure herself, without dispelling that initial framing and feeling of voyeurism. and then she’s like, immediately masturbating again via insertion of all things, and we get a close up of her face gasping and showing how pleasurable it is, lol. it felt like someone acting out pleasure for a viewer rather than how your face would realistically look if you were alone getting off. i just feel like it did a poor job of showing bella explore her body and sexuality on her own terms while framing it as neutral instead of intentionally erotic, and then that unfortunately set the tone for me the whole movie. i’ve watched plenty of films where both nudity and sex felt neutral, but this just didn’t work for me.

    • @merchantfan
      @merchantfan 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yeah he's done other sex scenes that were way more purposefully unsexy (like the way they do the corpse game in Killing of a Sacred Deer). It's not bad for him to branch out but why did it have to be when most of those scenes happen with someone with the functional brain of a minor

  • @angelicabasque1749
    @angelicabasque1749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is such a refreshing video to watch. I agree that one of the more frustrating things is that this movie could have been so much more. If the director was insistent on the switch to color involving sex with another person, it should have been someone that Bella was emotionally intimate with.
    The concept of motherhood and becoming your parents would have been interesting to further explore. Did Bella have some of the same quirks or personality traits as Victoria, despite the two of them never meeting?
    There is a content creator I used to admire that summarized all critiques of how sex was depicted in this movie as "Gen-Z being too sensitive and sex-repulsed" and went on to defend the movie Cuties. Normally their takes are much more nuanced than that, so it spoke to how polarizing this movie is.

  • @annr1403
    @annr1403 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I truly enjoyed the perspective you brought to the film, while acknowledging and question others' responses to it.

  • @elisaferrari6758
    @elisaferrari6758 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOW, mindblowing review! Thank you so much for sharing such a powerful analysis.

  • @sophiasimmons3307
    @sophiasimmons3307 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'd love to see a movie that both talks about women having high sex drives AND not having sex because of the shittiness of men. I want to see abstinence as a choice that favors female pleasure, not out of trauma or shame. Poor Things would be SO interesting if there was a parallel character that had similar capacity as Bella for learning, but made other choices based on what she wanted to do with her body. Like the same plot, but with twins.

  • @helennasantoslevy
    @helennasantoslevy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    This was absolutely STELLAR. Thank you for taking such careful consideration of all of the discourse surrounding the film, doing extensive research, and putting it all together. Your work is really phenomenal.

  • @amirabushagour5812
    @amirabushagour5812 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so glad I decided to watch this. Really, an amazing video

  • @NashGnomers
    @NashGnomers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so excited to have found your channel!❤

  • @ErikaCartet
    @ErikaCartet 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i was hoping they would flesh out more themes between pushing the limits of exploration/science - godwin being abused and mutilated by his father in the name of science and not understanding consent or accepting bella’s agency because of it - bella finally understanding the gravity of what has been done to her, the importance of consent, the dangers of causing harm or accepting harmful situations as necessary for the sake of “exploration” and “growth”. sometimes bad things are just bad. sometimes you become better in spite of your abuse, not because it was some sort of learning opportunity for you, actually. but because bella doesn’t fully understand or process within herself the ways she has been taken advantage of by people in her life, including godwin, she doesn’t have the opportunity to be shown actively rejecting this cycle of abuse and also systems of hierarchy that enable some of the broader societal factors at play. that would have been genuinely empowering. but instead there’s just reconciliation instead,nothing really truly being challenged, a revenge fantasy return to status quo. like sorry, i can’t dig the whole “what if we enjoyed sex without shame” premise when sexual education and consent seems like something they want to muddle and waver about instead of bringing to the table in a meaningful way. like explore the importance of both removing shame around sexual exploration but also the importance of education about consent and one’s body. the film felt very defanged because it didn’t want to really delve into the broader politics of bodily and sexual autonomy. like, i can point out the potential that exists there, but i have to do the heavy lifting if i want to make any sort of point. same with the mother/daughter themes potential. it just felt wasted and totally unexplored in favor of going on and on illustrating bella’s narrow personal journey of “sexual liberation”

  • @lkf8799
    @lkf8799 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Excellent video ✨
    Leaving out the ending of the book really does cast a shadow on the director's intensions IMO.
    It could have been like Life of Pi. Two versions of the same story, one true and one fantastical, so that the audience can appreciate both.

  • @sarahthesarah2850
    @sarahthesarah2850 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You mentioned the Last Unicorn and have such a thoughtful presentation and exploration. You have earned my sub and the like. Please keep impressing me.

  • @pbnj0
    @pbnj0 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i absolutely ADORE your videos and your mind -- incredibly done as usual!!!

  • @Merdragoon
    @Merdragoon 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Edit: I'm so glad you included the ending part of the book in the discussion because it does bring up more conversations.
    I know you mentioning slightly about him working from a source material which was also mentioned through the quote slightly I think (the one about the menstration), but I do wonder how you would view the film upon a third viewing after reading the book it was based on. One of the first reviews I watched was actually a comparison between book (which the person in question first and enjoyed for a long time) to the Movie. I haven't watched the movie nor read the book myself but part of me is tempted to read the book first to get an idea of what was changed and if the messages changes from book to movie.
    Your thoughts on it is very well thought out, but it would be really cool if you're able to talk about the source material as well in the future because according to the reviwer in question.... one of *two* the *biggests* changes are: Godwin actually created Bella to be an bride who would love him for who he was due to his deformaities (apparently the movie changed this to a more father figure situation), and that at the end of the book Bella's pov is revealed and the majority of the book actually was a fabercation by the assistant because she wouldn't choose him to marry over Godwin, and he created a whole "infiltizing" Narrative to smear her good name. (Which was taken out compleately form the film from what I can tell being discussed?). So I do wonder how that would change your mind upon a third viewing if you were to read the origonal sorce material. The book itself was written by Alasdair Gray, if you're curious to look more into the conversation as well and would be an intresting discussion on that front too, since it was also written by a man (I had to look it up to make sure personally).
    This is more of a thought experiment that kept lingering because I've noticed the discourse about the movie doesn't go into looking into the book and if it's actually the issue of the movie or.... if it's also the issue within the book too.

  • @soulsworn13
    @soulsworn13 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Overall I liked the film, I enjoyed it visually and I found it compelling to analyse my own conflicting thoughts and feelings as I watched.
    I related to a lot of Bella's experiences and attitudes to sex and using it as a tool for self discovery, and by extension using men as a tool to gain experiences I otherwise wouldn't have been able to get on my own.
    I'm disappointed that they didn't explore more of her new friendship with the older lady and young man on the boat, I think those interactions were doing more for her growth and zest for life than the man she attached herself to. I wasn't expecting the sex arc to go on for so long, I thought there would have been more to her and her own self discovery but finding out that it was supposed to be told through the lens of another man makes that make more sense.
    The ending fell flat for me, it felt unrealistic that she would somehow "have it all" and in such a short period of time, but I guess she inherited a lot of wealth and money fixes a lot of things that are problems for those without it.
    Another great review and analysis that I'm glad to have watched!

  • @nati_hf1503
    @nati_hf1503 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for putting so much care and dedication into your videos. I really enjoy your content.
    As a woman with a disability i already found the trailer of poor things quite disturbing and I knew the film would be too emotional for me. So I ended up not seeing it. I wish people would also discuss more the aspects of ableism and how it’s used in this film

  • @photosdeluce3573
    @photosdeluce3573 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you sm for this video you just explained every of my thoughts about this movie in such a good way

  • @JoyTheNetflixAddict
    @JoyTheNetflixAddict 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I loved this take on poor things. For me I did recognize the care that went into the film and appreciated it but particularly the jump from oh shes a toddler to a s*x scene just never sat right with me.
    I found it interesting what you said about body hair and they definitely missed out on that one.
    I didn't like the creative choice where colour came into the world when she has s*x with a men at all not cause its anti feminist just cause it derails the entire tone of the film- not in a good way. Is a story interesting only if its cantered around the sexualisation by men? They definitely could've done better on that part.
    love your videos!

    • @Nice-sz4ee
      @Nice-sz4ee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I saw the whole colour coming into the film thing as a symbol to Bella successfully making her own decision for the very first time (defying god and running away with ruffalo's character). I thought the film was following stages of development, her maturing in mind over the course of the film.

    • @JoyTheNetflixAddict
      @JoyTheNetflixAddict 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Nice-sz4ee but its maturing centered around Sexualität desire, I dont know what thats supposed to be symbolic off. And being "brave" enough to sexualise a toddler brain but not to give a grown woman leg hair is just ridiculous and explains it all for me.

  • @tabithadefee5390
    @tabithadefee5390 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Something to note in Mary Shelly's original book is that Frankenstein's monster was beautiful. He was created to be a man born perfect, an Adam before the fall. It's noted that the only thing physically wrong with Frankenstein's monster was the fact that his eyes were horrifying to look at.

    • @carlycrays2831
      @carlycrays2831 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm not sure he was beautiful. He couldn't integrate himself into society because people couldn't accept him. The question is how he was ugly. Was he just truly ugly? Was he beautiful but too beautiful? Was he just wrong?