As a actively working Nursing Home Administrator I can tell you it's sad to see so many angry and sad people. Should be one of the best and easiest places to work but so many people hate for no reason. We are working in a damn nursing home not the white house.
@@dangdeionn Administrator in Training Program. Every state has a board of nursing home administrators website you can go to for information and qualifications to be one.
So true about the schedulers, and bitter ass staff! Especially if you a “Pretty Nurse” and look youthful…😂😂😂. It’s toxic as hell, but I realize that male nurses don’t have to deal with it. I will be cool to a level, but we are not friends. Made that mistake 2 times. I don’t get close to no one( anymore) …You find people that tell their business, I just listen and do my work. I don’t tell no one my personal business/life. Now they mad, I don’t care. For example…”How was your weekend Nicky?? My response…it was cool, okay didn’t do much!” Even when I had a fantastic weekend with my husband and kids. I want them to assume, I have No life! Boring and lame…when they think that everything is good 😂…I know what I’m doing outside of work…and I don’t have to flex. I just want my Shmoney and go home!
Men def have to deal with bs in the nursing homes. I never had an issue with other men but with women it’s ridiculous. They get mad because I didn’t exchange numbers, didn’t sleep with them or even join their messy cliques. I keep to myself to stay out the drama and somehow that makes it even worse. 😂 I even had people talking mess because I picked up a lot of overtime. They could do the same but it’s crazy they want to pocket watch. This chick had our bonuses cut because she complained.
Tip - Don’t ever act like you want OT , if it is used as a weapon. Try talking about somewhere fun you have to go as soon as you get off. Your co workers are not your friends. Gosh, I fell like your God mother. LOL
Such a wonderful video CJ wonderful stories.. I absolutely love all the knowledge and it's always good to see people of our color vacationing & living it up as we should..Lord I can't wait 🙏 Whaaaaaaaaaaaaat A NURSE🤣🤣
As a male nurse I agree 1000% about the nursing home drama. You need thick skin to avoid the BS. Ladies hate to do this to you but it's always the women who bring the outside attitudes and drama into work. My best experiences in LTC was when I worked with other male nurses. No drama, chat it up a little, help each other out if needed and get the fudge out. That's why I do visiting nursing now. Driving sucks but it's a more peaceful experience. I pick up a few prn shifts hear and there in the facilities. Funny you mentioned the shock value people have when you tell them you're a nurse. I have the same experience all the time. I always get that "how can this black guy afford that house" look. He must sell drugs.😂
Yep it’s Always the women. I normally get Along better with women but it’s been the women that has been catty and the men I worked with we have been Cordial No issues but the women instigate and try to bait you to argue. It’s crazy. Lol
It's a truly interesting culture. It can be extremely toxic at times or it can be rewarding. Full of setups, not getups. Full of cattiness, not caution when dealing with colleagues.
So true, when you tell people you are a Nurse. They stare at you…look you up and down in shock. Like wow…you’re Black and educated 😂😂😂😂… I be looking at them like please to get TF up out my face 🙄😑😜
Sorry…. Who do you hang around that does that? Place yourself with positive people. Try to control how you respond to them. Cussing, dramatic stares and gestures are below you. You are entering the professional life. Professionals may have a similar thought as you, but they won’t keep it long. Professionals dress, move, and speak politely.
@@Anna-ww4pv Take the stick out of your Butthole Anna! I did not literally tell anyone to get TF out my face! That’s how I feel…I say it in my mind. I’m very professional! Furthermore theses are strangers when they see me in uniform and ASSUME I’m the CNA. When I inform them that I am the Charge Nurse! They look dumbfounded! As if they can believe a young lady who happens to be black is the Nurse. These are not people in my circle.
People so busy pocket watching they don’t realize nursing is wide open with opportunities. But society in general is real jealous. They don’t want to do the work on themselves to better their lives.
I'm pretty sure that stat about medical doctors making $98k is definitely wrong. Other than a part time physician or a resident no doctor is only making $98k. Maybe a nurse practitioner or a physician assistant and even those are few and in between. Most np and pa that are doing it right are in a range of $145k or better!
Cj, I start a new job today. 10 minutes from my house. I am taking a bit of a paycut but with all the drama at the previous facility, I don’t see the paycut as a negative. I’m gonna stay on PRN. Also, my new facility is in need of help, bad! They have agency in on all shifts! Time to eat! Keep inspiring 🙏🏾
My new facility is in a nice neighborhood overlooking the city. My guess is that they’ve been poorly run, recently and are trying to get back . And their pay is lower than most facilities. But they are doing a pay raise within the next 3 months and they have more benefits than negatives, so I’ll stay put for now lol
Thank you! I’m so sick of people talking about Miami. Been to Miami only to board my flight but never to hang out. It looks like trash and not my type of crowd. Miami is where you board your flight or your cruise ship. That’s it. Lol it’s a layover. Lol
As a actively working Nursing Home Administrator I can tell you it's sad to see so many angry and sad people. Should be one of the best and easiest places to work but so many people hate for no reason. We are working in a damn nursing home not the white house.
How did you become a nursing home administrator
@@dangdeionn Administrator in Training Program. Every state has a board of nursing home administrators website you can go to for information and qualifications to be one.
@@mooretalk5351 I have been trying with my bachelors in healthcare management degree…..:
Easiest???????
Definitely not the easiest places to work. Often short staff, fast paced, and a lot of personalities to deal with which in itself makes it difficult.
I don’t know why people just don’t mind their business.
I AGREE!
They need the Lord and something to do. Folks like acting like high schoolers.
So true about the schedulers, and bitter ass staff! Especially if you a “Pretty Nurse” and look youthful…😂😂😂. It’s toxic as hell, but I realize that male nurses don’t have to deal with it. I will be cool to a level, but we are not friends. Made that mistake 2 times. I don’t get close to no one( anymore) …You find people that tell their business, I just listen and do my work. I don’t tell no one my personal business/life. Now they mad, I don’t care. For example…”How was your weekend Nicky?? My response…it was cool, okay didn’t do much!” Even when I had a fantastic weekend with my husband and kids. I want them to assume, I have No life! Boring and lame…when they think that everything is good 😂…I know what I’m doing outside of work…and I don’t have to flex. I just want my Shmoney and go home!
Men def have to deal with bs in the nursing homes. I never had an issue with other men but with women it’s ridiculous. They get mad because I didn’t exchange numbers, didn’t sleep with them or even join their messy cliques. I keep to myself to stay out the drama and somehow that makes it even worse. 😂 I even had people talking mess because I picked up a lot of overtime. They could do the same but it’s crazy they want to pocket watch. This chick had our bonuses cut because she complained.
Bc ppl have glamorized nursing too much and the nurses that only want a paycheck to look good are the ones that keep up the most drama instigating
Brother CJ dropping the knowledge. "Get paid, young nurse get paid."
🗣️ speak💯💯💯💯the nursing field is toxic. Stay to urself, give the minimum and keep it moving
Nursing is very toxic it's not about helping ppl heal get better it's political financial now thats all
You not lying. They get mad when you get overtime. They try to block. They play favorites of who they want to give overtime.
Tip - Don’t ever act like you want OT , if it is used as a weapon. Try talking about somewhere fun you have to go as soon as you get off. Your co workers are not your friends. Gosh, I fell like your God mother. LOL
The NH allows behavior not allowed in hospitals.
Such a wonderful video CJ wonderful stories.. I absolutely love all the knowledge and it's always good to see people of our color vacationing & living it up as we should..Lord I can't wait 🙏 Whaaaaaaaaaaaaat A NURSE🤣🤣
As a male nurse I agree 1000% about the nursing home drama. You need thick skin to avoid the BS. Ladies hate to do this to you but it's always the women who bring the outside attitudes and drama into work. My best experiences in LTC was when I worked with other male nurses. No drama, chat it up a little, help each other out if needed and get the fudge out. That's why I do visiting nursing now. Driving sucks but it's a more peaceful experience. I pick up a few prn shifts hear and there in the facilities. Funny you mentioned the shock value people have when you tell them you're a nurse. I have the same experience all the time. I always get that "how can this black guy afford that house" look. He must sell drugs.😂
Yep it’s Always the women. I normally get Along better with women but it’s been the women that has been catty and the men I worked with we have been Cordial No issues but the women instigate and try to bait you to argue. It’s crazy.
Lol
Thank you for keeping it 💯
Cj is telling the truth 💯
It's a truly interesting culture. It can be extremely toxic at times or it can be rewarding. Full of setups, not getups. Full of cattiness, not caution when dealing with colleagues.
So true, when you tell people you are a Nurse. They stare at you…look you up and down in shock. Like wow…you’re Black and educated 😂😂😂😂… I be looking at them like please to get TF up out my face 🙄😑😜
Sorry…. Who do you hang around that does that? Place yourself with positive people. Try to control how you respond to them. Cussing, dramatic stares and gestures are below you. You are entering the professional life. Professionals may have a similar thought as you, but they won’t keep it long. Professionals dress, move, and speak politely.
@@Anna-ww4pv Take the stick out of your Butthole Anna! I did not literally tell anyone to get TF out my face! That’s how I feel…I say it in my mind. I’m very professional! Furthermore theses are strangers when they see me in uniform and ASSUME I’m the CNA. When I inform them that I am the Charge Nurse! They look dumbfounded! As if they can believe a young lady who happens to be black is the Nurse. These are not people in my circle.
People so busy pocket watching they don’t realize nursing is wide open with opportunities. But society in general is real jealous. They don’t want to do the work on themselves to better their lives.
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They are lazy ambitious people.
I'm pretty sure that stat about medical doctors making $98k is definitely wrong.
Other than a part time physician or a resident no doctor is only making $98k.
Maybe a nurse practitioner or a physician assistant and even those are few and in between. Most np and pa that are doing it right are in a range of $145k or better!
Bingo!
Cj, I start a new job today. 10 minutes from my house. I am taking a bit of a paycut but with all the drama at the previous facility, I don’t see the paycut as a negative. I’m gonna stay on PRN. Also, my new facility is in need of help, bad! They have agency in on all shifts! Time to eat! Keep inspiring 🙏🏾
My new facility is in a nice neighborhood overlooking the city. My guess is that they’ve been poorly run, recently and are trying to get back . And their pay is lower than most facilities. But they are doing a pay raise within the next 3 months and they have more benefits than negatives, so I’ll stay put for now lol
Thank you! I’m so sick of people talking about Miami. Been to Miami only to board my flight but never to hang out. It looks like trash and not my type of crowd. Miami is where you board your flight or your cruise ship. That’s it. Lol it’s a layover. Lol
Whaaaat! A nurse 😂
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