The "messy" aesthetic. If a pretty girl wears some oversized hoodie and sweatpants to class, she's effortlessly cute for being natural and chill. If an ugly or overweight person wears the same thing, they are seen as careless and lazy
Alessandro Botti Not true at all. At least not in ALL cases. You even see it in some youtubers, like FouseyTube is a great example. He wasn’t careless or lazy, he was just really really busy with making a career on TH-cam and he went from pretty fit guy to overweight over the years before he started working out again. And another TH-camd AfroSenju, he’s not fat by any means right now but because he put so much time into TH-cam and trying to start a career you can see his face is a little chubbier nowadays.
@@domo190 you act as though not all people are stressed out trying to keep food on the table, a youtuber's career is easy as fuck compared to others and it should be seen as embarrassing if you can't manage your time to get a workout in. Even if u just work out in the morning before you shower or choose a better diet, your employment has nothing to do with it
Oddly enough that reminds me of the people who watched Suicide Squad and consider Harley Quinn and The Joker as a relationship goal not realizing that in the comics that was a rather abusive relationship. I brought up that little tidbit and that ended in one hell of an argument lol
@@WeaponXSigma THIS. I had a friend who would brag about how her and her bf were "Harley Quinn and Joker". She would lovingly call him her Joker and he would lovingly call her Harley. I tried explaining to her multiple times that Joker and HQ were a super abusive relationship, but she would insist, "They're so cute though!!!"
Not to sound an asshole , but you all people saying themselves depressed are (i guess so) still able to socialize and function properly , must have some sort of attention from the opposite sex , meanwhile i on the other hand , have such an appearance that makes normal functioning really hard haha , just saying ....
@@talhaohshit6289 not all depressed people have friends just sayin some are introverts EDIT: if being introverted doesnt mean you enjoy being alone what is the term for someone who does?
Also, for women, if you're tall & beautiful - and have a deeper voice - lots of guys will say you seem so chill/down-to-earth If a woman is ugly with a deep voice, guys will say you sound like a man
@@kimmyseon46 I know but it feels really small especially when I'm around my average height friends....I know it's a stupid thing to be bothered about but whenever I get dressed up i cant help but think "My face looks cute, my body looks cute, if only I was a few inches taller"😑🤦🏾♀️
I might be wrong, but at some point in time somewhere (idk where, might have been Fiji you're talking about) fat people were "attractive" (quote because of the reason I'm going to explain now) because being fat would most likely mean that you were rich enough to eat well. I'm not sure if it was physical attraction or the fact that most people like having money.
"Beauty," in terms of humans, is just how your instincts (though somewhat influenced by culture) estimate healthiness and sexual compatibility in a mate.
@SomethingScanning In Ancient Greece, the monobrow was considered beautiful as well. I also love them and try to cultivate mine. It adds a sort of austere, piercing elegance, in my opinion. Large penises were also considered unattractive in Ancient Greece as a mark of animalistic, thuggish and uncivilised nature or something like that. (Gotta say, I kind of agree with that one, too.) Psychologically, there's not much we can do to convince our minds that their assumptions are wrong. The most I can do is make an effort to ignore initial impressions and judge based on behavioural observation.
It's silly how guys will complain that hot girls get away with things or get free things, yet they are the ones giving them free things/ "letting them get away with things" because they are attracted to them .
I think that's somewhat more true for men than for women. Both genders gain social advantages from being attractive, but for women that can also come with an increased threat of stalking, rape, and other violent crimes, and if you're an introverted person you might get stressed out from having a huge amount of sexual attention focused on you. Not to mention, attractive women are stereotyped as being unintelligent, so it could be hard to get people to take you seriously.
“Now that I lost weight, everyone’s a lot nicer.” This is true, I was even bullied for being fat. But when I got into college (with all that stress) I lost weight and people are suddenly confessing they find me beautiful. Boi, you were my grade school classmate?????
If any of the bullies say that to you, strike them down and be absolutely brutal. Those damned scum don't deserve to look at you much less talk to you.
Because it's annoying to listen to people complain about themselves. You're supposed to be out WITH that OTHER PERSON. They are the focus of your attention and vise versa.
For an attractive person to say "beauty is on the inside" is the same as a rich guy saying "money doesn't matter". I mean maybe they're right, but who are they to say that, seeing as they have what they claim to be not necessary.
In my case, I just don't give pencils to people unless I really, really trust them. Throughout most of my years in school, they would ask, I would give it to them, and they wouldn't return it, so at one point I just stopped unless I knew they would return it for sure. Coincidentally, well, mostly unattractive people were the ones asking, so I'm sorry to those who thought I wasn't giving them a pencil because I thought they weren't attractive, because that was just simply not the case, I just didn't trust them.
This is accurate, I asked for a whitener in school once and no one would give me one but when I said it was for someone else they gave me one automatically
Yeah that was great, wasn't expecting it and it made me laugh. Cool sense of humor, or if that's how he dresses naturally, cool guy. Walk to your own beat dude. Don't let people bring you down. You flaunt that short skirt and flaunt it proudly.
It should make you mad, but it should also light a fire under you to be the best you can be and to work with what you have. All this "beauty stuff" is all in the attitude and the way you value yourself. Do you boo!
I called a girl cheesy once online (I knew her irl too) and she freaked out and started giving a speech of how I'm a "petty stalker" and an "immature brat" for giving my opinion I even told her that it's my opinion and then she started giving me a speech about why you should not swear and it's like she didn't even listed to half of the things that I explained to her like how to internet isn't all cupcakes and rainbows, people are gonna criticize you and you just have to deal with it. Then she became the biggest hippocriye and started threatening to cut my dick off and called me a "motherfucker bitch fuck" after that i apologized to her. Even tho I didn't mean it
I don’t even know Ok idk what country you live in but if people behaved like this with ugly people for no reason in my country they would get beaten up. Idk lol
People forgot to mention mental abuse/being toxic. Most romantic dramas will have a hot male protagonist be the "bad boy" or "player" and the female protagonist magically changes him. While throughout the entire drama he's constantly manipulating, or cheating on her. And the audience is all for him and suddenly he's every teenage girls crush. But if an unattractive man was that toxic in a relationship he'd be canceled.
This goes deeper and worse and makes sooo many women just grow up with these horrible toxic ideas of what a healthy relationship is and get into abusive and dangerous situations and relationships Why did you say they'd be canceled tho like what have you even been near the movie industry there are straight out rapists who dont look remotely attractive but people still like then
yeah,, my friends always say that appearance doesnt matter but they find the "quiet attractive guy" mysterious and cool and "quiet unattractive guy" creepy or scary
I was just playing football with the guys and then a kid's sister called to us from the 1st floor window. I tried to be polite, and said "Hi". She said "Bye" like I was trying to hit on her and shut the door. I just turned to the dudes and said " Didn't expect that reaction, but that's okay."
i feel like ugly people can be charming as well and it's pretty ok if people like charming people more because that's not a physical attribute more like they gained the ability to make people like them through their charm/attitude but judging based on attractiveness is completely different as we have no control over our face
This happened to me in middle school with jokes. An unattractive person makes a clever joke, but everyone will just cringe. A hot dude makes the same joke, and everyone starts laughing.
Literally had that in the most obvious way ever. I was standing with a largeish group of other students just waiting around and I said a (admittedly fairly lame) joke, no-one laughed, but I DID get a great look of disgust. Handsome dude says the EXACT same joke literally five minutes later and everyone just cracks up. So annoying.
Ya that is true, but to me it sometimes seems different. I seem to associate attractive people with being generally unfunny, probably because someone that's "ugly" has to make up for their lack in an area. Maybe that's just me.
@@Kumatose3344 It's not just you. I've consistently found ugly people to have better personalities. I usually expect attractive people to have personalities of cardboard. I find that I have to consciously stop myself from thinking that way when conversing with somebody who looks a particular way.
I have noticed this many times too but mine is taken at a different perspective I am known in my school to be one of the best ‘roasters’ and once this one guy tried roasting me about one of my exes ( in all honesty she had a shit personality and i was too dumb to realise it somehow) and didnt really bother but kept it in mind since he did _try_ Basically fast forward a few weeks and i get news that he broke up with a girl and i happened or we happened to know her to be absolute poop, both in personality and looks so i say the same thing he said a couple weeks back She is as shit as your academic grades I know thats a shit roast because i just wanted to mock him the same way he did me No shit it becomes the most famous roast in the entire school And i cant, just *_can’t_* understand how such a shit roast became so famous but this video i guess explains it lol
Or: keep to ourselves. Ugly people (though I doubt you all look that bad, I just have no interest in 3D peeps), or those who think they are ugly when they could pass off as above average if tried, are generally either bitter and have learned far more often than those who were born beautiful while getting what they wanted. They worked harder(maybe), suffered more(most likely), and are the ones who are purposefully ignored (70% sure on this). Try disappearing, someone is going to start missing you. I don’t care whether you were/are bullied or someone else’s free therapist, try disappearing and people will start lashing out on each other. They could have been the most popular kids, the jocks, heck your teachers, and when you stop giving them your company or attention they’ll revert back to being emotionally unstable children. Has no one ever wondered *why* it’s usually the slightly less attractive best friend that makes the best listener? It’s because we can offer them that. Now imagine where a bunch of “ugly” people congregate for company, there’s so many things we could do: talk, find a corner to hide or just appreciate that there’s no one “good-looking” blocking the natural sunlight. I honestly don’t know where I lost track at, all I know is that, without “ugly” in this world, nothing “beautiful” would be worth it’s salt today. So be proud, and remember, that your presence could literally make or break someone.
I've always been treated well by people in general, did very well in school, free food all the time, etc. but 4 years ago I got really bad acne and got depressed because of it, gained some weight and people suddenly changed. i started to get bad grades (although i put the same effort) no more free rides and open doors. it gave me a very different perspective of life and you'll never hear the "looks dont matter" bullshit line coming from me. I'm better now and have a regular gym schedule and my skin is under control. people treat me well again but also i treat people better whether they're cute or not because i understand that not everyone else will.
In my school they give our awards and stuff, whenever the "popular" kids would get an award everyone would cheer. Whenever the "not-so-popular" kids got an award people would just clap coz they had to
"Popular kids" are of two types. 1.The attractive ones. 2. The friendly ones who try to make friends with everyone and also get bullied in the process.
Ritwik Reddy I was the latter one. I knew everyone and everyone knew me but I don’t think they liked me the way I thought they did. I think I was the clown everyone could laugh at.. man now that I’m thinking about I feel like shit.
@@mr.extraordinary442 can relate, ma dude. And when i tried to become friends with this person that everyone hated, i became their target and all the hate was directed at me.
At our school When your popular: **lots of cheering and clapping** When unpopular(and ugly): **nobody cares** (at least my friends do, the others though, they're like "I dunno who is that, I don't care")
I once saw a couple of hot girls wearing pajamas in my University. Even came with the cute slippers. Everybody was finding it the cutest thing ever. If I did that, I'd be called a weirdo and laughed at.
@Duribethin aww cmon you can wear a cute pj with slippers even if you're a guy, the problem is it would be acceptable for the majority of people only if the guy was attractive
Attractive people, and more specifically thin/fit attractive people, get away with dressing more sloppy/bummy. An attractive girl running around in joggers and a messy bun is cute, but a bigger or more unattractive girl wearing the same is a lazy slob.
Can relate. Several times I'd sneeze 3-4 times in a row (my nose is quite sensitive to dust), no one'd say anything, even tho my sneezes weren't annoying. The popular kid sneezed (that type of annoying sneeze followed by 'cute' voice), everyone said "bless you"; once I sneezed (accidentally, of course) right after her and I still got nothing :(
It was so painful I once tried to compress my sneeze and it took all of my living soul to not let it out. Instead this weird ass noise escaped my mouth.. which defeated the purpose of holding in my sneeze in the first place, I know lol.
Once I sneezed in class and one girl said "bless you" but then right after that she asked the class who sneezed so I raised my hand and she said "I'm taking it back" smh
I can relate. Last year I'd sneeze and NO BODY would respond and 10 minutes later the popular girl sneezes and every on would say "OMG! Bless you!!" and I'd get pissed
Basically being attractive gives you a free pass for being shitty and people have been using it to their potential. I've seen guys caught their gfs cheating red-handed yet after a lil fight somehow he was the one who begged her not to leave him.
prob comes down to them being seen as being special/worth more and kinda get treated like nobles lol. it's a human mentality that can't just be solved by saying "stop judging people by their looks"
My friend from 8th grade was the guy who wears supreme and blasts mumble rap in class, and even tho i was friends with him and other classmates were he was always the alfa of any situation. He was often rude and set his own rules (blasting music for example) but everyone seemed to be ok with it cuz he was the cool dude. He was attractive, and wore expensive clothes and that gave him the "rights" to be as he was. Although he was too dickish to have a girlfriend.
I think I am the most lucky ugly guy in the world, cause I was a *ball*, I mean, so fat that I could be used as a ball, but still everyone in my class tried to interact with me .-. ...I miss middle school. (I was also really silent and introverted)
If a skinny hot girl posts that she's eating in a fast food restaurant, she's seen as "quirky" and "cute" and "unique".But if a fat girl does the same thing, people tell her that she needs to stop eating and people say that she's binge eating(even tho she's probably not)
@@M_J456 Women have an easier time finding mates, period. They have the reproductive factor going for them. Even a woman who's a 4/10 is considered more attractive than a man who's a 4 or 5/10, even a 6.
this is why i don’t buy the “looks don’t matter” argument. I think people just say it to make ugly people complacent rather than actually acknowledge that they have a series of legitimate disadvantages socially. Because to be honest, people have told me this a couple times in life. i have a couple of deformities that i try to hide and my appearance isn’t conventionally attractive, especially in my country. But *each* time I heard it, it’s always felt like they were just saying “ well, you’re stuck with what you’ve got, so you should just deal with whatever difficulties and unfair treatment stem from that instead of bothering me with it”
•Hunny• I agree with both. When I was in high school I had a crush on a guy considered unattractive to most ppl but I liked how he was smart and sensitive but also kind of bold-he was in personality similar to me because I was sensitive but he was my opposite in being bold. I really liked the idea of how we balanced out personality wise. But I’m kind of ugly myself so I don’t know if that makes a difference, to me he was physically attractive in some ways (he breakdanced once which was fun and he didn’t make a big deal of being overweight). But being not pretty myself I know that it’s true that life is more difficult when you’re ugly and agree with everyone on that. I was afraid of confessing to that guy partly because I thought he might not like my appearance. (Mainly because I didn’t have guts, was ridiculously shy.). I was kind of a coward, and always waited for him to ask me out but he never did. And that’s how that story ended. I can say though that Hunny you’re not the only one who likes ppl based on interest/personality. I just wonder if guys can also like girls based on that too-so far I still question if a guy can like a girl that isn’t pretty. But yeah, it’s not easy being ugly.
@@nafsii04 they are, but on a lower degree and more restricted scenarios. There was a experiment, they gave an essay to a control group and asked the people to evaluate the quality of the essay. Then they gave the essay to two other groups, each with a picture of ugly and cute girl who allegedly wrote the essay. The ugly girl got an average lower than the control group. The cute girl got a higher evaluation. It was the same essay.
Yeah, like my face is really asymmetrical especially my eyes, and I’m definitely not the most attractive of my friends and I was talking to my friends about like looks and stuff and this girl at my school (she’s very attractive) told me something about how, it really doesn’t matter. As you can imagine, she’s super sweet so she probably really believed that, and was shocked when I even mentioned that, it’s not really true.
My brother has cerebral palsy and is in a wheelchair. Almost daily he goes out for a walk and always ends up at Tim Horton’s. He thought the cashier was pretty but him being awkward-only with girls- tripped over his words when ordering. A few days later he goes back and asks her if she is on fb and if she wants to be friends...she says no and tells the manager that my brother is harassing her. The manager knew my brother (because of his daily routine) and didn’t exactly believe the cashier but had to speak to my brother to cover his own backside. She was eventually fired and my brother has never approached a girl again. This happened over 6 years ago. This video hurt my heart. I’m gutted that people are treated so unfairly with a quick glance to assess the outward appearance.
I'm sorry about your brother, but the girl has the right to feel uncomfortable. It's not part of her job to make friends with strangers, and if she feels harassed that's valid.
Pablo Velásquez Campos she has the right to feel however she wants but the point is that she lied and was eventually fired bc of how she was treating customers. He approached her one time. She didn’t say she felt harassed she said he was harassing her...huge difference.
i understand, but honestly don't blame the cashier. she probably felt threatened because of how he always talked with her, and then just randomly asked for her facebook when he came back. that's pretty creepy
In my experience: crying/showing emotion. If an attractive person does it, they're "going through a lot." If an ugly person does it, they "need to get a grip" or some bullshit like that.
If you're beautiful and confident, people will go head over heels for you. You'll be the most popular person in school. If you're _ugly_ and confident, you're weird and don't know your place.
When i was in highschool i had greasy skin, horrible posture, long greasy hair, no confidence in my voice and was basically talentless wrapped up in 119 lbs of skin and bone . After i dropped out of college i weighed 150 pounds of pure muscle, clear skin, much cleaner and better kept hair, could fill out my clothes much more comfortably and had a good paying job that allowed me to expand my wardrobe with a much better sense of style and masculine demeanors. The absolute stark difference in the way people treat me is outstanding. I went from being a kid in highschool everyone either found annoying or ignored to a man that has loads of people invting me to go out with them. To try and hook me up with their friends, the same corny sense of humor everyone found annoying in highschool was now charming and cute and i swear to you girls and guys alike just keep their eyes on me a lot longer. Looks don't mean everything, but don't fool yourself into thinking they don't mean anything.
Not sure about in the US, but im from london and there is a guy my age who goes gym a lot, is tall and really not bad looking but is still one of the most bullied people in our year because of how socially awkward he acts
Life is goooooooooooooooooooooooood. The best part is when you tell someone who is insecure that they are beautiful or amazing, and seeing them all flustered.
It’s split in half for me One half: YOU’RE AMAZING AND HILARIOUS AND YOU’RE SO GOOD AT FIXING MY PROBLEMS BRO I LOVE YOU The other half: Why are you here... I didn’t- dude you’re too loud shUT UP-
Literally just talking to new people. If an average looking person joins a group of people just to have conversation, they aren’t accepted or even hardly acknowledged. If an attractive person comes up to a random group to join in, they’re immediately accepted without question. I know this is true, because it’s the story of my life. (The first scenario)
The problem with that is some can be attractive to one group or one person but not another. Attractiveness is based on many factors and not all of them include being physically appealing. Beauty isn't something concrete, it changes depending on person or persons. No one is universally beautiful.
For me it's the second scenario, I don't even need to do anything they do the first move, which mostly turns out to be annoying and creepy (no matter if the guys approaching are goodlooking or not), I'll probably be super cool with floods of girls hitting on me if I was a man though
You know, I'm not a stellar-looking guy. Hell, I'd say under average, even, but the one thing I've never seemed to have an issue with is integrating myself into a group. At least, not since I got out of high school. Maybe it's a skill I've acquired, such as reading body language, getting a feel for personalities, or it's just enough confidence to show what kind of person I am from the get-go, but there is certainly something there that one can learn to do to overcome the aesthetics. At least, to a pretty good degree. P.S. Nailing someone in their humor bone doesn't hurt, either. Making someone laugh is a great way to break ice.
i was one of the few black girls who went to a mostly arab/white school. growing up, i was energetic and pretty nice. i made lots of "friends" but only talk to 4 of them to this day. i would get teased by a lot of guys. i remember one time a teacher made me and another guy shake hands cause we were having a disagreement. after doing so, he had a disgusted look on his face and wiped his hand on his pants. they teased me about my skin color and things like that. it really took a toll on my confidence and self esteem. i turn 17 in a couple weeks and friends say im beautiful to this day and im not even sure. even with make up on. now thinking about it, i remember a year ago, a guy thought i was cute and wanted my snapchat. i didn't believe him cause i thought he was messing with me. that's how bad of an effect my elementary/middle school years did to me. i wish i would've given him my snapchat. ):
Your experience was SUPER similar to how I grew up and what I experienced. I’m 26 now, so I feel compelled to tell you that one of my biggest life regrets so far is believing the mean shit that other kids said to me growing up. Internalizing the mean comments kept me from thinking anyone could even be attracted to me pretty much until I was about 22 years old. So much wasted time, and for what? In retrospect, some of those kids probably don’t even mean what they say, they just want to fit in, so they tease alongside other kids. And the ones who do mean it, they’re assholes who will likely grow up to not do much with their lives anyways. Anyways, know that you are beautiful!!! Don’t listen to others and don’t be afraid to let your light shine 🌞 peace, love and power 💕
throwback to when i was sitting in english a few years back and a cute girl asked for a pencil. a couple guys offered theres and she took one. i also asked the guy next to me (one of the guys who offered his to the girl) if i could take it because i also forgot mine, he straight up said he didnt have one. in my face. when he just offered it to someone else. i know it doesnt need to be said but if youre attractive you can get almost anything on he planet. being unattractive is playing life on hardcore mode.
absolutely, totally agree...you have to work for everything and even then you might not achieve what you want because some hot person will just have it handed to them without any effort.
I remember when I was 10 years old and asked a girl if she lend me a pen and her answer was she didn't have any, but when this other really beautiful girl asked her the same magically she had an extra pen. I confronted her but she couldn't give me a logical reason for not sharing with me. Now I understand that is because since that girl was really beautiful people would care more about her.
think about it, when you get plastic surgery you're basically paying somebody thousands of bucks to make everyone treat you better and your life overall easier... you like making a deal with the devil?
TWrecks ha ha wut. you don’t make any deals with the devil. you just get an aesthetic improvement. can confirm people are way nicer, even when i don’t wear makeup
There's this guy at my university, he's extremely shy and has 0 social skills cause he's been homeschooled his whole life and has really strict parents but from day 1 he came to the uni everyone (specially girls) were rushing to him, asking him questions, showing him around the school cause this guy is legit beautiful, did I mention another 2 new guys came that day too? But nonoeone gave them attention cause they were ugly? Some were saying 'oh I feel bad for them someone should show them around too' but nonoeone did cause nonoeone wanted to be friends with them
I’m 14 and in my S.C.H.O.O.L I’m not super fat like but i still am overweight and people assume I’m bad at all sports and assume I’m bad at fighting The skinny guys are assumed to be good and assumed to be good fighters I’m actually pretty good at some sports and have even been on my country’s team for 3 separate sports (Northern Ireland) they are swimming, diving, kickboxing So that last one clears up the fighting thing I don’t like to try and show off though because if I act as though I don’t care no one cares if I actually mess up they laugh and all but that’s it the rest is done behind my back also in school we have no pool so right off the bat 2 sports are gone and the other can’t be done as our S.C.H.O.O.L is 0 tolerance and doesn’t like any fighting Although when I hit the asshole who all the teachers knew bullied people but never got touted on cause well touts are targets No teachers complained about me despite being told countless times Which is another Ugly no one cares if you get your ass beat Pretty everyone takes their side and tells the teachers Legit I hit him cause he was annoying my friend who is suicidal and they ruined his work and everyone still took his side Wtf
Being ugly has 1 perk, if someone loves you, they love you for who you are. Can't say that for attractive and / or rich people Edit: since a lot of people think I'm being serious, this is a joke, it's meant to be taken as a joke, and has barely any actual logic behind it. Y'all are beautiful, cause beauty is a perspective, what you think is preety could be super ugly to me and vice versa. So cheer up mates
@@shanamoens822 im 37, never have either, it's okay because I know that it's my looks, and I like honesty foremost, but sometimes it does hurt a little and I find myself a little jealous and lonely wishing i could be attractive just to know what it feels like to have someone crazy about you
@The Heretic chill dude. If your were a girl then there's ton of thing you can't help it at all. Like, scary looking guy hitting on you or something. Besides, you got "the guys strength". Be grateful that you're a guy. Lol
frrrr,my grandma always lies to me that im pretty and that i should love myself....but when it comes to other people,im suddenly so ugly,that i cant even have friends
Not so good-looking person: *says something in class* Class: can you please shut up Good looking person: *gives the stupidiest answer* Class: Awww don't worry atleast you try *gives him/her a hug* Me: I-
Remind me of a murder court case that happen 2 or 3 years ago. A young early 20 year old girl, murder her BF over something and the judge gave her a pass. Reason "she was too pretty and young to be going to jail" lol.
WhAT d0 I believe OP is a transgender woman, and they were misgendering her. Either that or it was an insult regarding OP’s unattractive/non-feminine appearance
When your life is an endless chain of your crushes telling you that your sister is hot or that your friend is hot and it's never been said about you. (Personal experience haha)
I feel you. I had one person who stayed friends with me because he wanted to get close to my friend because he liked her, and another dude I was friends with whom I developed feelings for would constantly bring up how cute, attractive and how much he loved her despite not knowing much about her. Well, much of this was my personal experience and it quite torn me to the realities irl
then again I've seen attractive looking men harassing women on the street and pursuing them even after they said no... usually these men are pick up artists as a girl myself I find that creepy and not attractive at all.
@@i_Ambrose I said that to this dude who believed in the red pill shit and he said "but you need to keep pursuing women, since they're illogical. when they say no it doesn't always mean no" I retched lol sad part is, dude is physically very attractive and I thought he was cute until he opened his mouth
@@larsswig912 god that's some scary stuff right there. I'm worried for any women in his life right now. Is just sad because harassment has been normalized so long that men actually think its a valid way to ask a women out. "You are not wearing her down" Edit- and not loli is life 😰omg lmao.
Succ This is a rather disturbing, but good example of the double standards of society based on your looks. If Ted Bundy was an ugly person, then his actions would've been more suspicious.
( Sorry for my bad english ) I'm not a good looking guy, when i was in High school there was this dance that every class had to do at the end of the year, it was like a competition between classes, so here i was in my class and we were preparing the dance by deciding who was going to dance with who ( boys with girls ), almost everyone had their partner ( there was more girls than boys in my class ). There was like three girls left and i was the only one left to be chosen, i'm was the quiet type of boy, always minding my own business, but one of the girls that was preparing the dance asked to the other one that still didn't had a partner if she wanted to dance with me, she looked at her and made a expression like she was going to puke. Bro that fucking killed me inside.
We had the same experience but I'm a girl. I remember it was in highschool. All of us had to participate in a dance, there were also too many girl and boys at that time. The teacher allow us to choose partners by ourselves. I remember like there we're also 4 girls who got left out, me included. The teachers told the boys that if someone would like to have a double partner means that they'll have to partcipate again just to dance to those who doesn't have any partner yet. No one answer. The teacher then instructed us to ask one of them to be our partner in their free time then I remember it was during our breaktime, I ask this one guy if he would like to be my partner because it was breaktime he was obviously with his friends, he's friends giggle and look at each other and they were tapping him on his shoulder, one of them was even raising his eyebrow. They look like they were joking and then one guy whisper to him "you have to deal with it". Eventhough I clearly heard that I still wasn't taken aback, I just stand their and politely smile because I'm also shy. During our dance he had to hold me by the waist and he look so uncomfortable doing that, it felt like he's not touching me, he's just placing his hands but he's not completely like holding me, it's like his hand was floating and all that touching my waist is his palm only and his finger wasn't like bended and holding me (if you get me), he's also not looking at me, his diverting his eyes unto somewhere and I also felt like his friends was watching laughing at him. After that I thank him but then I got home and think about that and got really hurt to the point that it keeps me up that night. I still think he's nice because he did keep that up with me eventhough his friends was teasing him but seriously after that I felt like I never want to dance with a guy again because I think I'll only make them uncomfortable. I also think to myself after that happened, "am I that ugly?". Yeah sorry for this long text.
I once read this meme and it wrote: What's the difference between flirt and harassment? And this guy answered, "When you're attractive, it's flirt. When you're unattractive, it's harassment." SKSKSKSKS 🤦😂
There is a limit tho. I was harassed by a douchebag with good looks who thought he could do everything, have every girl and is irresistible and yeah he is pretty but his personality was awful, he was borderline racist sometimes, said sexist jokes all the time and not you are not funny and did not understand why I don’t want to be with him, his flirting is too much, you are not my type.. So yeah at one point there is a limit. I prefer a less pretty guy than a god with a shit personality and I am sure I am not the only one to think like this. Also, for the girls who date those guys, they either realize how bad they are or are really insecure and have lot self/esteem which I have empathy for them and I wish they will love themselves more. Same with guys staying with attractive girls with shit personality. To be happy you need to realize that looks is not all that matter in the other person. And harassment is real and is not just about looks. People who harassed are blind to see they make the other one uncomfortable and that they don’t want this. Maybe a pretty person will most likely not make the other one uncomfortable but it can I assure you.
There's a difference between: Saying you're ugly and looking for someone to say otherwise while _knowing_ you're cute And Genuinely thinking you're not very attractive and having people say you are...
I really don't think I am attractive but ppl say my body and face are beautiful I would find myself so much more attractive if my ears were pretty but atleast I have ears
For anyone who's ever gotten friendzoned on ugliness, I can raise you one. So, when I was in my early years in high school, I asked this one girl in my class if she wanted to go out. Very simple, very polite, approached her by her locker in the middle of a crowded hallway inbetween classes so nothing would seem creepy about it. Now, back then, I wasn't the hottest looking guy around (nowadays I fancy myself a pure average, but I'm much better than I was). I had short greasy hair, and I was still in my braces phase, and to top that off I was a very socially awkward person (autism and ADHD). So, anyway, I ask the girl out, and she gives me a lukewarm can't-this-weekend-but-maybe-sometime-next-week-or-something rejection. She leaves, and I'm thinking, okay, well at least it wasn't a hard no. Come back to school the next day, and I get called to the principal's office. Apparently, the girl reported me for talking to her, and said I was "harrassing" her. The principal didn't do anything because they could easily see this was all bs, so they just let me go. I never spoke to that girl again. But since that was my first ever attempt at asking a girl out, it put me off of ever trying again, so to this day I haven't ever had a girlfriend. It's bad enough to get rejected, but when you already have a social dysfunction, and THAT'S what happens on your first try, it dashes your self-esteem to pieces. I have a decent amount of confidence for social interaction nowadays, but I could never bring myself to try again at dating. It just never seemed worth it after that.
Everyone wants to act like they're "not like that" when the reality of the situation is that they're either blatantly lying or actually lying to themselves.
Being autistic l can completely forget about time and don't care much about things like haircuts and shaving so l can look quite shabby and unappealing at times, however when l scrub up and make an effort to look good, l often get comments from girls I'm with about how often they catch other girls staring at me. How l look does make a clear difference in how both women and men treat me, but it's purely a matter of presentation, not weight or underlying looks. I know l do it to others as well, l deliberately try not to and for the most parts l adjust for my personal bias, but l do think it's built into us instinctively. Indeed a lot of things are instinctively built into human behaviour, like a 6 month old baby tends to be more responsive to a taller person vs a shorter person, not learnt behaviour, just built in and recognising those in built biases(or counter biases, because we identify with a certain group) is our only chance to treat others fairly.
I've seen the opposite happening: for an "atractive" girl to be judged more harshly by female higher ups, because they assume that because she is "pretty" she is dumber. (And the opposite happening with male seniors)
Normis indeed, or the false accusation of having slept their way to the top. I know a few successful, beautiful, smart women who intentionally dress down for work and put on more ‘masculine’ traits just to avoid this. It’s tough to be a woman in the workplace.. it’s like damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
A false assumption can easily be debunked by proving otherwise through the passage of time though, usually by getting to know them and realising you were wrong about them initially. Because people want to get to know good looking people more, they can easily find out they were wrong about them, so for attractive people, this serves as nothing more than a minor inconvenience at best really. They still have a chance to prove otherwise. As soon as someone has a false assumption about you as an ugly person though, you’re extremely unlikely to change their mind, you’ll have next to no chance to prove the contrary. Sad (and very wrong) but it’s true.
If I had a dollar every time someone interrupted me mid conversation without hesitation or any sign of sympathy...just because you're better looking, doesn't mean you have to be plain rude
(Starts “if I had a dollar for every” saying) (Doesn’t end with “I’d be rich”, because they get too pissed off and mad while writing the comment that they forget to finish the saying)
Had a guy at my school that was very attractive and athletic. He would flirt with girls constantly and honestly had a very loud mouth. I’m telling you not only was the man loud in volume the guy he talked a lot. Girls at school were fascinated with him and honestly he was a hit with the ladies. He flirted with me a few times but I wasn’t putting up with it. He became somewhat of a friend to me later in the school year though, he’s not a bad guy. There was another guy at my school not so attractive and not really athletic. Had the same type a personality of the attractive guy. He tried being playful and flirt with a few girls once and they all shut him down pretty harshly. I felt pretty bad for him but he didn’t take it personally thankfully. So yeah.
Anyone who says that looks don't matter already fit societal descriptions of "pretty" and "handsome" and reap benefits of socialization. Change my mind. I dare you.
Even babies do it. If you put one in a room with two people, they will go to (or look at more depending on their mobility) the one with more symmetrical features and stereotypical beauty markers. I will try to find the source (it's an old one).
Kenan Šabić As long as your charisma is already at a certain value increasing the strength value with also boost charisma somewhat, but only really as an addition rather than a saving grace
I once just HAD A CONVERSATION (about some undertale crap) with the unattractive quiet girl in our class and later my friends called me over, genuinely concerned for some reason. They asked me “Dude... are you hitting on :girl:??” Like ffs
Marx Galactic Ambition My best friend in the entire world is just like you, thinks she can’t feel love. Then I showed up in her life, and every conversation we have ends in “I love you dude.” You are capable of it and you CAN find it if you actually want to. But your real friends are proof of that
@@internalscreaming7566 Dude... Marx was coming out as aromantic, they said they cabnt feel " love " as in romantic love, but maybe they can feel platonic love ( towards family and friends ) that's totally okay for you Marx! Wish you lots of happiness!
I am skinny, and everyone calls me skin and bones, and they force me to eat, and when i overeat, they say that "as you should skeleton, you should always do that" :/ That only works for pretty skinny girls, i am not that good looking so yeah.
LVL 25 - (stats) 7 str 9 dex 14 int 11 per 3 char (-2 in social situations) 2 Luck (debuffs) Ugly [permanent] - enemies will be more likely to attack you in combat and peoples disposition towards you will be generally negative.
Someone should make a mod like that. The more ugly your character is when you created it, the lower you are on an attractiveness scale and there will be debuffs against you to make the game harder.. and if you make a super attractive character you're given stat boosts and everybody likes you and wants to be your follower.
@@mysteretsym I don't think there has ever been a game where your character's face looks attractive without it being covered by a huge beard. On a man, obviously. On women you just put a closed helmet on or smth. The bodies are much harder to mess up
No. It's sexual harassment when anyone puts their hands on soneone without their consent. Simple as that. Hot or not, that shit doesn't fly with me, and reinforcing the thought process that hot people can't sexually assault others is very dangerous.
The best part about this is that it actually kinda work. Being ugly is not a weakness as long as you know how to play the ugly ass bitch card. Also, not living in America helps a lot too.
Being goth or wearing some sort of alternative fashion. It only looks good if you're attractive. Otherwise you'll be deemed ridiculous and questioned constantly; "why do you dress like that? I don't get it".
This is true. Dutch people generally hate goths, but they consider it slightly more acceptable when the goth is conventionally attractive. I'm sure it's the same for other alternative fashions as well.
The "messy" aesthetic. If a pretty girl wears some oversized hoodie and sweatpants to class, she's effortlessly cute for being natural and chill. If an ugly or overweight person wears the same thing, they are seen as careless and lazy
If you're overweight you probably are careless and lazy...
being overweight is different to being unattractive, as the former is liable for change solely with willpower.
Alessandro Botti Not true at all. At least not in ALL cases. You even see it in some youtubers, like FouseyTube is a great example. He wasn’t careless or lazy, he was just really really busy with making a career on TH-cam and he went from pretty fit guy to overweight over the years before he started working out again. And another TH-camd AfroSenju, he’s not fat by any means right now but because he put so much time into TH-cam and trying to start a career you can see his face is a little chubbier nowadays.
@@domo190 you act as though not all people are stressed out trying to keep food on the table, a youtuber's career is easy as fuck compared to others and it should be seen as embarrassing if you can't manage your time to get a workout in. Even if u just work out in the morning before you shower or choose a better diet, your employment has nothing to do with it
@@FilmerVicz hell nah. Being overweight i straight up unattractive. Big facts.
the fact that some people romanticize “hot” psychopaths scares me 😔 like, idc if he’s “attractive”, the dude killed innocent people
Reminds me of "You" on Netflix
Oddly enough that reminds me of the people who watched Suicide Squad and consider Harley Quinn and The Joker as a relationship goal not realizing that in the comics that was a rather abusive relationship. I brought up that little tidbit and that ended in one hell of an argument lol
Its the pretty ones you need to watch out for.
@@WeaponXSigma THIS. I had a friend who would brag about how her and her bf were "Harley Quinn and Joker". She would lovingly call him her Joker and he would lovingly call her Harley. I tried explaining to her multiple times that Joker and HQ were a super abusive relationship, but she would insist, "They're so cute though!!!"
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.......When you get hugged for farting, you're on another level.....like, what?😂😂😂
That school is on some next level favoritism shit.
Then they gave her a brand new fucking car.
damn she must me HOT AF like Damn.
@ɪᴅᴋ ʜᴏɴᴇsᴛʟʏ • 10 years ago Yes...I've seen ppl get away with disrespect and stupidity cz they're conventionally attractive
Nope, that's just gross no matter what you look like, sorry
“What is socially accepted if you’re attractive and not when you’re ugly” EVERYTHING
Basically
Makes sense
Literally existing
Basically yes
Not cannibalism
I came here depressed and left even more depressed hahahaha
You forgot to turn your laughter into tears
Same bro, same.
Not to sound an asshole , but you all people saying themselves depressed are (i guess so) still able to socialize and function properly , must have some sort of attention from the opposite sex , meanwhile i on the other hand , have such an appearance that makes normal functioning really hard haha , just saying ....
@@talhaohshit6289 not all depressed people have friends just sayin some are introverts
EDIT: if being introverted doesnt mean you enjoy being alone what is the term for someone who does?
@@nksnaknskansasnadm Yes , i said some
These videos are toxic to my self esteem
my self esteem is forever gone
flower gorl you’re pfp says it all
2k10 it’s been fucking dead
My self esteem fully disappeared before I started High school.
Me too and my friends constantly call me cute I'm like "no??"
How can you face your problem when your face is the problem?
I screamed .....I understand
*O H F U C K*
Hahaha i swear youtube coments are pure gold
*Mirror*
I felt this comment lmao
Also, for women, if you're tall & beautiful - and have a deeper voice - lots of guys will say you seem so chill/down-to-earth
If a woman is ugly with a deep voice, guys will say you sound like a man
If ur a beautiful woman being tall doesn't matter just as long as ur not a midget
I'm tall and average looking with a meh voice
@@kimmyseon46 *sighsin5'*
@@basmalasaad5228 5 feet isnt that bad midget height starts at 4 10
@@kimmyseon46 I know but it feels really small especially when I'm around my average height friends....I know it's a stupid thing to be bothered about but whenever I get dressed up i cant help but think "My face looks cute, my body looks cute, if only I was a few inches taller"😑🤦🏾♀️
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but when you're beutiful there are definitely more of those eyes.
I might be wrong, but at some point in time somewhere (idk where, might have been Fiji you're talking about) fat people were "attractive" (quote because of the reason I'm going to explain now) because being fat would most likely mean that you were rich enough to eat well. I'm not sure if it was physical attraction or the fact that most people like having money.
"Beauty," in terms of humans, is just how your instincts (though somewhat influenced by culture) estimate healthiness and sexual compatibility in a mate.
@SomethingScanning In Ancient Greece, the monobrow was considered beautiful as well. I also love them and try to cultivate mine. It adds a sort of austere, piercing elegance, in my opinion.
Large penises were also considered unattractive in Ancient Greece as a mark of animalistic, thuggish and uncivilised nature or something like that. (Gotta say, I kind of agree with that one, too.) Psychologically, there's not much we can do to convince our minds that their assumptions are wrong. The most I can do is make an effort to ignore initial impressions and judge based on behavioural observation.
Wisdom
Who has more than 2 eyes?
It's silly how guys will complain that hot girls get away with things or get free things, yet they are the ones giving them free things/ "letting them get away with things" because they are attracted to them .
Amen
EXACTLY
TRUE!
PREACH!
I mean girls do it too. We let guys get away with things because they are attractive, its not just this guy thing lol.
Being hot is like playing on easy mode
Then i'm playing on the Master difficulty
I think that's somewhat more true for men than for women. Both genders gain social advantages from being attractive, but for women that can also come with an increased threat of stalking, rape, and other violent crimes, and if you're an introverted person you might get stressed out from having a huge amount of sexual attention focused on you. Not to mention, attractive women are stereotyped as being unintelligent, so it could be hard to get people to take you seriously.
@@NomadUrpagi oh yeah, well I'm playing on impossible 😎
I always play on hard mode I still haven't unlocked easy mode yet
@@NomadUrpagi same
“Now that I lost weight, everyone’s a lot nicer.”
This is true, I was even bullied for being fat. But when I got into college (with all that stress) I lost weight and people are suddenly confessing they find me beautiful. Boi, you were my grade school classmate?????
If any of the bullies say that to you, strike them down and be absolutely brutal. Those damned scum don't deserve to look at you much less talk to you.
same.is happening with me !
That One Guy I regret not seeing this sooner. This is such a sweet advice! 🥺💗
@@claria4620 why what happened did you cave in and went after them?
@@gabrielguzman6018 They basically saw my social media photos and gave me compliments. They were the ones that bullied me throughout high school.
If you don't feel confident because you feel ugly and you talk about your feelings, people accuse you of fishing for compliments.
If people accuse you of fishing for compliments then maybe you aren't ugly ? 🤷🏾♂️
Because it's annoying to listen to people complain about themselves. You're supposed to be out WITH that OTHER PERSON. They are the focus of your attention and vise versa.
@@ib1205 🤷♂️
@@kanteannightmare I don't mean it like that.
@Cybelle thanks for standing up for me
For an attractive person to say "beauty is on the inside" is the same as a rich guy saying "money doesn't matter". I mean maybe they're right, but who are they to say that, seeing as they have what they claim to be not necessary.
Also when someone who got into a healthy/stable relationship early in life says "Omg the right person will come along!!! U just have to wait!!!"
People rarely cherish what they have. Sad...
Catherine Vaz unless you go from broke to rich or ugly duck to swan. If you’ve had it your whole life you don’t cherish it
What they might mean when they say that is that looks shouldn't matter as much as they maybe do.
We all have oxygen, but it’s not necessary 😏😂
This video is 100% pure emotional pain
kinda
btw nice pp tho ;D
@@Sumaria69 You too man :D
This is beautiful
only ugly people can feel it
@@Sumaria69
Nice pp
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Attractive person: needs a pencil
People: have mine! No mine!
Ugly person: needs a pencil
People: *sorry i have none*
They don't even say 'sorry"!
In my case, I just don't give pencils to people unless I really, really trust them. Throughout most of my years in school, they would ask, I would give it to them, and they wouldn't return it, so at one point I just stopped unless I knew they would return it for sure. Coincidentally, well, mostly unattractive people were the ones asking, so I'm sorry to those who thought I wasn't giving them a pencil because I thought they weren't attractive, because that was just simply not the case, I just didn't trust them.
@@lrchahaha9642 BWHAHA THATS MEEEE
This is accurate, I asked for a whitener in school once and no one would give me one but when I said it was for someone else they gave me one automatically
"Hey, I need a pencil."
"I don't have any."
"It's for *Person considered attractive*."
"Oh, I might have one on me, here you go."
"I can't allow you to enter our restaurant dressed like this.............sir"
It's MA'AM
*Xa'm*
@@epicwisp7450 Maybe, but we don't know.
EpicWisp 😂😭😭😭😂
Yeah that was great, wasn't expecting it and it made me laugh. Cool sense of humor, or if that's how he dresses naturally, cool guy. Walk to your own beat dude. Don't let people bring you down. You flaunt that short skirt and flaunt it proudly.
This video makes me bitter and cynical.
It should make you mad, but it should also light a fire under you to be the best you can be and to work with what you have. All this "beauty stuff" is all in the attitude and the way you value yourself. Do you boo!
I don't blame you
Same
Yeah it pissed me off too. No idea why I even clicked on it
i stopped the video 1/4th of the way to look at comments and cool down lmfao
Good-looking person: *says something mean*
Others: HAHAHAHAAH
Ugly person: *gives constructive criticism*
Others: like you have any right to talk
I called a girl cheesy once online (I knew her irl too) and she freaked out and started giving a speech of how I'm a "petty stalker" and an "immature brat" for giving my opinion I even told her that it's my opinion and then she started giving me a speech about why you should not swear and it's like she didn't even listed to half of the things that I explained to her like how to internet isn't all cupcakes and rainbows, people are gonna criticize you and you just have to deal with it. Then she became the biggest hippocriye and started threatening to cut my dick off and called me a "motherfucker bitch fuck" after that i apologized to her. Even tho I didn't mean it
Don't forget the "you're jealous"
@@griffith8929 Shouldnt have apologized tho,but I respect you for doing it so
I don’t even know
Jeez you must not live in the coasts! Sorry!
I don’t even know Ok idk what country you live in but if people behaved like this with ugly people for no reason in my country they would get beaten up. Idk lol
People forgot to mention mental abuse/being toxic. Most romantic dramas will have a hot male protagonist be the "bad boy" or "player" and the female protagonist magically changes him. While throughout the entire drama he's constantly manipulating, or cheating on her. And the audience is all for him and suddenly he's every teenage girls crush.
But if an unattractive man was that toxic in a relationship he'd be canceled.
This goes deeper and worse and makes sooo many women just grow up with these horrible toxic ideas of what a healthy relationship is and get into abusive and dangerous situations and relationships
Why did you say they'd be canceled tho like what have you even been near the movie industry there are straight out rapists who dont look remotely attractive but people still like then
Like twilight
They always say not to judge someone by their appearance.
But we do, subconsciously. It's just human nature.
x_Autumn_Leaves_x true but hopefully we can override that judgment as soon as it crosses our minds
Hannah X agreed
yeah,, my friends always say that appearance doesnt matter but they find the "quiet attractive guy" mysterious and cool and "quiet unattractive guy" creepy or scary
This is just so true
Unrelyrable Mochi Facts, I be laughing at eugenes
Giving compliments
Ugly: he's just fishing for attention
Attractive: he is the greatest person ever.
@Eaxl damn you're good!
I was just playing football with the guys and then a kid's sister called to us from the 1st floor window. I tried to be polite, and said "Hi". She said "Bye" like I was trying to hit on her and shut the door. I just turned to the dudes and said " Didn't expect that reaction, but that's okay."
Trasher nah people like compliments genrally
*self confidence has left the chat*
Thank you
Thx
*Humiliation factor X10*
Yes, Ima go in my Corner now
Jazmyn Elric your pfp fits
When was it ever in the chat
the world is hella different when your charming and attractive
yeah, totally agree
i feel like ugly people can be charming as well and it's pretty ok if people like charming people more because that's not a physical attribute more like they gained the ability to make people like them through their charm/attitude but judging based on attractiveness is completely different as we have no control over our face
@@maxi0613 Don't you know? Women hate confident ugly people, they're seen as "loud", "annoying", ain't that some shit.
A lot more nicer than normal and ugly folks like us I guess....
People are charming because they're attractive
This happened to me in middle school with jokes. An unattractive person makes a clever joke, but everyone will just cringe. A hot dude makes the same joke, and everyone starts laughing.
Literally had that in the most obvious way ever. I was standing with a largeish group of other students just waiting around and I said a (admittedly fairly lame) joke, no-one laughed, but I DID get a great look of disgust. Handsome dude says the EXACT same joke literally five minutes later and everyone just cracks up. So annoying.
Ya that is true, but to me it sometimes seems different. I seem to associate attractive people with being generally unfunny, probably because someone that's "ugly" has to make up for their lack in an area. Maybe that's just me.
@@Kumatose3344 It's not just you. I've consistently found ugly people to have better personalities. I usually expect attractive people to have personalities of cardboard. I find that I have to consciously stop myself from thinking that way when conversing with somebody who looks a particular way.
legit happened to me a million times in 8th grade
I have noticed this many times too but mine is taken at a different perspective
I am known in my school to be one of the best ‘roasters’ and once this one guy tried roasting me about one of my exes ( in all honesty she had a shit personality and i was too dumb to realise it somehow) and didnt really bother but kept it in mind since he did _try_
Basically fast forward a few weeks and i get news that he broke up with a girl and i happened or we happened to know her to be absolute poop, both in personality and looks so i say the same thing he said a couple weeks back
She is as shit as your academic grades
I know thats a shit roast because i just wanted to mock him the same way he did me
No shit it becomes the most famous roast in the entire school
And i cant, just *_can’t_* understand how such a shit roast became so famous but this video i guess explains it lol
Honestly this is such a good video to bring attention to bullying and discrimination without making it obvious.
Everyone thumbs up this comment when you scroll by!!
Thumbs up to support the cause
How do you have so many bullies?
@@jaggeriscoughmedicine I don't
Bullying in schools is obvious idiots
I had to pause the video because I feel so bad for Sean I hope he’s doing okay he deserves better
I also paused, for the same exact reason.
Relax guys. He's a "ginger" and so it's okay. They have no soul...
He looks like he is having a good life tho
Poor “seen”
Garbage Human IM WHEEAZING
To all my ugly people, BE RICH, *together we can stop this*
👏🏽👏🏽
Our only ticket out 😂
Or: keep to ourselves. Ugly people (though I doubt you all look that bad, I just have no interest in 3D peeps), or those who think they are ugly when they could pass off as above average if tried, are generally either bitter and have learned far more often than those who were born beautiful while getting what they wanted. They worked harder(maybe), suffered more(most likely), and are the ones who are purposefully ignored (70% sure on this). Try disappearing, someone is going to start missing you. I don’t care whether you were/are bullied or someone else’s free therapist, try disappearing and people will start lashing out on each other. They could have been the most popular kids, the jocks, heck your teachers, and when you stop giving them your company or attention they’ll revert back to being emotionally unstable children. Has no one ever wondered *why* it’s usually the slightly less attractive best friend that makes the best listener? It’s because we can offer them that. Now imagine where a bunch of “ugly” people congregate for company, there’s so many things we could do: talk, find a corner to hide or just appreciate that there’s no one “good-looking” blocking the natural sunlight.
I honestly don’t know where I lost track at, all I know is that, without “ugly” in this world, nothing “beautiful” would be worth it’s salt today. So be proud, and remember, that your presence could literally make or break someone.
@@a-disaster5285 preach... apart from the not liking 3D peeps part
@@markferreira8767 I just have no interest in them beyond the simple: “How you do?”
I've always been treated well by people in general, did very well in school, free food all the time, etc. but 4 years ago I got really bad acne and got depressed because of it, gained some weight and people suddenly changed. i started to get bad grades (although i put the same effort) no more free rides and open doors. it gave me a very different perspective of life and you'll never hear the "looks dont matter" bullshit line coming from me. I'm better now and have a regular gym schedule and my skin is under control. people treat me well again but also i treat people better whether they're cute or not because i understand that not everyone else will.
Good for you.
Good that you got this experience. Pretty girls don't understand how much they are getting away with just because they are hot
@@mennatullahmohammady4182 since when wishing goodwill is considered rude?
@@cruisingwithoutsail6585 that phrase is considered passive aggression these days. Because it's usually used that way
@@MrBearyMcBearface well my intentions weren't that way. Nowadays everything is considered aggression ffs.
In my school they give our awards and stuff, whenever the "popular" kids would get an award everyone would cheer.
Whenever the "not-so-popular" kids got an award people would just clap coz they had to
"Popular kids" are of two types.
1.The attractive ones.
2. The friendly ones who try to make friends with everyone and also get bullied in the process.
Ritwik Reddy I was the latter one. I knew everyone and everyone knew me but I don’t think they liked me the way I thought they did. I think I was the clown everyone could laugh at.. man now that I’m thinking about I feel like shit.
@@mr.extraordinary442 can relate, ma dude. And when i tried to become friends with this person that everyone hated, i became their target and all the hate was directed at me.
I got honor roll once, and I remember about 3 or 5 people clapping for me in my class. Might as well go commit toster bath now.
At our school
When your popular: **lots of cheering and clapping**
When unpopular(and ugly): **nobody cares** (at least my friends do, the others though, they're like "I dunno who is that, I don't care")
attractive girl/guy: makes weird faces
everyone: soo cute
non-attractive girl/guy: makes weird faces
everyone: uh, idiotic
Not true all the time. I don’t care how hot you are, if you make the stupid duck lips in your photos, I will despise you
Isn't this basically tiktoks?
True lmao
bella poarch (?) is shaking
Reminds me of Billie Eilish, no hate tho
"Unfortunate lookin"
That just means ugly yet somehow more painful
Me too
I like it because it makes it obvious it’s all about lucky and fortune to win the beauty lottery
I once saw a couple of hot girls wearing pajamas in my University. Even came with the cute slippers. Everybody was finding it the cutest thing ever. If I did that, I'd be called a weirdo and laughed at.
@Duribethin aww cmon you can wear a cute pj with slippers even if you're a guy, the problem is it would be acceptable for the majority of people only if the guy was attractive
@Duribethin yeah i agree with that. i still think it kinda sucks though ahah
Pete Mcfucks unless it’s during finals week, at least at my college.
Attractive people, and more specifically thin/fit attractive people, get away with dressing more sloppy/bummy. An attractive girl running around in joggers and a messy bun is cute, but a bigger or more unattractive girl wearing the same is a lazy slob.
Same thing happened at my school
I sneeze in class
Everyone: ...
Popular kid sneezes
Everyone: omg bLESs yOu
Can relate. Several times I'd sneeze 3-4 times in a row (my nose is quite sensitive to dust), no one'd say anything, even tho my sneezes weren't annoying. The popular kid sneezed (that type of annoying sneeze followed by 'cute' voice), everyone said "bless you"; once I sneezed (accidentally, of course) right after her and I still got nothing :(
It was so painful I once tried to compress my sneeze and it took all of my living soul to not let it out. Instead this weird ass noise escaped my mouth.. which defeated the purpose of holding in my sneeze in the first place, I know lol.
Once I sneezed in class and one girl said "bless you" but then right after that she asked the class who sneezed so I raised my hand and she said "I'm taking it back" smh
Relatable
I can relate. Last year I'd sneeze and NO BODY would respond and 10 minutes later the popular girl sneezes and every on would say "OMG! Bless you!!" and I'd get pissed
Basically being attractive gives you a free pass for being shitty and people have been using it to their potential.
I've seen guys caught their gfs cheating red-handed yet after a lil fight somehow he was the one who begged her not to leave him.
prob comes down to them being seen as being special/worth more and kinda get treated like nobles lol.
it's a human mentality that can't just be solved by saying "stop judging people by their looks"
Basically what Salt Bag said, it's an evolutionary trait that's been hard-wired into our psychology
My friend from 8th grade was the guy who wears supreme and blasts mumble rap in class, and even tho i was friends with him and other classmates were he was always the alfa of any situation. He was often rude and set his own rules (blasting music for example) but everyone seemed to be ok with it cuz he was the cool dude. He was attractive, and wore expensive clothes and that gave him the "rights" to be as he was. Although he was too dickish to have a girlfriend.
>8th grade
>Using mommies credit card to buy expensive clothes
>Alpha
lolno
@@enlightenedgroyper2956 haha yeah
People: inner beauty is more important than outer beauty.
Also people: *laugh at overweight strangers*
I was waiting for this comment
Overweight people are unhealthy
I mean that makes sense you can lose weight easily
@@amari1368 what if they dont want to lose it?!
@@amari1368 that doesnt mean you have to make fun of them
The video spit in my face and called me unattractive.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder
bro what my name is Daniel Hall....
DansGuts omg heyyy !
You look stunning in your profile picture tho
💔
Attractive people can get away with hitting on people, even when it is inappropriate.
**cough** Sebastian Stan. **cough** **cough**
Not in my book
Why god
"If you're ugly it's harassment.
If you're attractive it's flirting."
Denis Henrique dos Santos
I call it being a THOOOOT
Attractive: "mysterious/enigmatic"
Unattractive: weirdo
Lol I wish people said I was mysterious or enigmatic ;w;
I think I am the most lucky ugly guy in the world, cause I was a *ball*, I mean, so fat that I could be used as a ball, but still everyone in my class tried to interact with me .-. ...I miss middle school. (I was also really silent and introverted)
Pretty much shows which people think im ugly
;-;
If a skinny hot girl posts that she's eating in a fast food restaurant, she's seen as "quirky" and "cute" and "unique".But if a fat girl does the same thing, people tell her that she needs to stop eating and people say that she's binge eating(even tho she's probably not)
Ah yes, the irony.
“your nerdy, 40-year old virgin type” I don’t appreciate being called out like this y’all lol
girls will find it easier to not be a virgin, it's proven
I don't like my name being Sean and knowing this is my future
Anime Really? That’s interesting! Based on what evidence?
@@NotSandhorst I'm about to mention that key and lock being special shit
@@M_J456 Women have an easier time finding mates, period. They have the reproductive factor going for them. Even a woman who's a 4/10 is considered more attractive than a man who's a 4 or 5/10, even a 6.
I feel like everything in this video could be summed up in "if you're beautiful people are more likely to continue putting up with your behaviour".
Abhg😭😭
@Eaxl I mean no ones gonna do a study on this shit
This is part of the multiple reasons I have absolutely zero faith in humanity
Dont worry this specie is going extinct anyways. We dont know when but for damn sure we'll go extinct
ugly people can use gene therapy to become hot in about 10 years.
Apocalypse is not a fear anymore, but a hope
What did you expect? Humans are still just animals, just with highly idealized expectations of themselves.
@@markmurex6559 really? Can they do that allready
Attractive person: Often listened to
Ugly person: Often Gaslighted
Underrated comment
I don't care about appearance
😂😂😂😂
@Layla Cartelina so that means everyone does
@Layla Cartelina nice
this is why i don’t buy the “looks don’t matter” argument. I think people just say it to make ugly people complacent rather than actually acknowledge that they have a series of legitimate disadvantages socially.
Because to be honest, people have told me this a couple times in life. i have a couple of deformities that i try to hide and my appearance isn’t conventionally attractive, especially in my country.
But *each* time I heard it, it’s always felt like they were just saying “ well, you’re stuck with what you’ve got, so you should just deal with whatever difficulties and unfair treatment stem from that instead of bothering me with it”
yeah i'm glad grades aren't affected by looks or else i'll fail every test i took lmao
•Hunny• I agree with both. When I was in high school I had a crush on a guy considered unattractive to most ppl but I liked how he was smart and sensitive but also kind of bold-he was in personality similar to me because I was sensitive but he was my opposite in being bold. I really liked the idea of how we balanced out personality wise. But I’m kind of ugly myself so I don’t know if that makes a difference, to me he was physically attractive in some ways (he breakdanced once which was fun and he didn’t make a big deal of being overweight). But being not pretty myself I know that it’s true that life is more difficult when you’re ugly and agree with everyone on that. I was afraid of confessing to that guy partly because I thought he might not like my appearance. (Mainly because I didn’t have guts, was ridiculously shy.). I was kind of a coward, and always waited for him to ask me out but he never did. And that’s how that story ended. I can say though that Hunny you’re not the only one who likes ppl based on interest/personality. I just wonder if guys can also like girls based on that too-so far I still question if a guy can like a girl that isn’t pretty. But yeah, it’s not easy being ugly.
@@nafsii04 they are, but on a lower degree and more restricted scenarios.
There was a experiment, they gave an essay to a control group and asked the people to evaluate the quality of the essay.
Then they gave the essay to two other groups, each with a picture of ugly and cute girl who allegedly wrote the essay.
The ugly girl got an average lower than the control group.
The cute girl got a higher evaluation.
It was the same essay.
@@cristian-bull
that's suck.
Yeah, like my face is really asymmetrical especially my eyes, and I’m definitely not the most attractive of my friends and I was talking to my friends about like looks and stuff and this girl at my school (she’s very attractive) told me something about how, it really doesn’t matter. As you can imagine, she’s super sweet so she probably really believed that, and was shocked when I even mentioned that, it’s not really true.
My brother has cerebral palsy and is in a wheelchair. Almost daily he goes out for a walk and always ends up at Tim Horton’s. He thought the cashier was pretty but him being awkward-only with girls- tripped over his words when ordering. A few days later he goes back and asks her if she is on fb and if she wants to be friends...she says no and tells the manager that my brother is harassing her. The manager knew my brother (because of his daily routine) and didn’t exactly believe the cashier but had to speak to my brother to cover his own backside. She was eventually fired and my brother has never approached a girl again. This happened over 6 years ago.
This video hurt my heart. I’m gutted that people are treated so unfairly with a quick glance to assess the outward appearance.
That's terrible. Honestly he deserves better. I hope he learns that one horrible person doesn't mean everyone is like that
Thats pretty messed up
I'm sorry about your brother, but the girl has the right to feel uncomfortable. It's not part of her job to make friends with strangers, and if she feels harassed that's valid.
Pablo Velásquez Campos she has the right to feel however she wants but the point is that she lied and was eventually fired bc of how she was treating customers. He approached her one time. She didn’t say she felt harassed she said he was harassing her...huge difference.
i understand, but honestly don't blame the cashier. she probably felt threatened because of how he always talked with her, and then just randomly asked for her facebook when he came back. that's pretty creepy
In my experience: crying/showing emotion. If an attractive person does it, they're "going through a lot." If an ugly person does it, they "need to get a grip" or some bullshit like that.
Just sounds like you've dealt with shitty callous people, I'm sorry:((
@@surprisedpatrick5933 ...um no. Well, you're lucky that you get to socialize with seemingly decent people. Most don't.
If you're beautiful and confident, people will go head over heels for you. You'll be the most popular person in school. If you're _ugly_ and confident, you're weird and don't know your place.
When i was in highschool i had greasy skin, horrible posture, long greasy hair, no confidence in my voice and was basically talentless wrapped up in 119 lbs of skin and bone . After i dropped out of college i weighed 150 pounds of pure muscle, clear skin, much cleaner and better kept hair, could fill out my clothes much more comfortably and had a good paying job that allowed me to expand my wardrobe with a much better sense of style and masculine demeanors. The absolute stark difference in the way people treat me is outstanding. I went from being a kid in highschool everyone either found annoying or ignored to a man that has loads of people invting me to go out with them. To try and hook me up with their friends, the same corny sense of humor everyone found annoying in highschool was now charming and cute and i swear to you girls and guys alike just keep their eyes on me a lot longer. Looks don't mean everything, but don't fool yourself into thinking they don't mean anything.
I call people out for being shallow, only talking or tolerating me for being attractive.
Not sure about in the US, but im from london and there is a guy my age who goes gym a lot, is tall and really not bad looking but is still one of the most bullied people in our year because of how socially awkward he acts
hot people: feel complimented by this video
me: even more depressed than i was before
Life is goooooooooooooooooooooooood.
The best part is when you tell someone who is insecure that they are beautiful or amazing, and seeing them all flustered.
A lot of my friends compliment my looks often but if I’m being honest I can’t really see anything besides average in the mirror.
Even ugly people find someone
@@evanw2195 no they usually don't
@@Xelights luckily i can see through the lies "your smart" and "you look good" they are insults telling me i cant hide my suicidal tendencies
That explains so much about the general fascination with celebrities.
Carol A A I never understood why people cared so much. I often have trouble remembering any of their names.
Like Kim Kardashian! She has absolutely no talent yet got famous over a sex tape.
Nobody would have bought Kylie’s makeup if she wasn’t a Jenner
Me: exists
Everyone: that is unforgiveable
Same i feel you
It’s split in half for me
One half: YOU’RE AMAZING AND HILARIOUS AND YOU’RE SO GOOD AT FIXING MY PROBLEMS BRO I LOVE YOU
The other half: Why are you here... I didn’t- dude you’re too loud shUT UP-
Me: exists
•Shit we don't do•
Everyone:that shit right there
Literally just talking to new people.
If an average looking person joins a group of people just to have conversation, they aren’t accepted or even hardly acknowledged.
If an attractive person comes up to a random group to join in, they’re immediately accepted without question.
I know this is true, because it’s the story of my life. (The first scenario)
Same here
Woah same.
The problem with that is some can be attractive to one group or one person but not another. Attractiveness is based on many factors and not all of them include being physically appealing. Beauty isn't something concrete, it changes depending on person or persons. No one is universally beautiful.
For me it's the second scenario, I don't even need to do anything they do the first move, which mostly turns out to be annoying and creepy (no matter if the guys approaching are goodlooking or not), I'll probably be super cool with floods of girls hitting on me if I was a man though
You know, I'm not a stellar-looking guy. Hell, I'd say under average, even, but the one thing I've never seemed to have an issue with is integrating myself into a group. At least, not since I got out of high school. Maybe it's a skill I've acquired, such as reading body language, getting a feel for personalities, or it's just enough confidence to show what kind of person I am from the get-go, but there is certainly something there that one can learn to do to overcome the aesthetics. At least, to a pretty good degree.
P.S. Nailing someone in their humor bone doesn't hurt, either. Making someone laugh is a great way to break ice.
i was one of the few black girls who went to a mostly arab/white school. growing up, i was energetic and pretty nice. i made lots of "friends" but only talk to 4 of them to this day. i would get teased by a lot of guys. i remember one time a teacher made me and another guy shake hands cause we were having a disagreement. after doing so, he had a disgusted look on his face and wiped his hand on his pants. they teased me about my skin color and things like that. it really took a toll on my confidence and self esteem. i turn 17 in a couple weeks and friends say im beautiful to this day and im not even sure. even with make up on. now thinking about it, i remember a year ago, a guy thought i was cute and wanted my snapchat. i didn't believe him cause i thought he was messing with me. that's how bad of an effect my elementary/middle school years did to me. i wish i would've given him my snapchat. ):
Your experience was SUPER similar to how I grew up and what I experienced. I’m 26 now, so I feel compelled to tell you that one of my biggest life regrets so far is believing the mean shit that other kids said to me growing up. Internalizing the mean comments kept me from thinking anyone could even be attracted to me pretty much until I was about 22 years old. So much wasted time, and for what? In retrospect, some of those kids probably don’t even mean what they say, they just want to fit in, so they tease alongside other kids. And the ones who do mean it, they’re assholes who will likely grow up to not do much with their lives anyways. Anyways, know that you are beautiful!!! Don’t listen to others and don’t be afraid to let your light shine 🌞 peace, love and power 💕
Lunataari, when I was younger and lived in japan, I thought all humans were beige.
@@sanfransiscokitty2471 'I love blacks" it sounds so weird.
😂😂😂
Bold of you to assume I’m actually social.
Bold of you to assume I am ever outside of my room
Bold of you to assume I have seen human faces that aren't on this screen
Bold of you to assume I actually exist.
Bold of you to assume that I am.
-Philosopher
Bold of you to assume.
throwback to when i was sitting in english a few years back and a cute girl asked for a pencil. a couple guys offered theres and she took one. i also asked the guy next to me (one of the guys who offered his to the girl) if i could take it because i also forgot mine, he straight up said he didnt have one. in my face. when he just offered it to someone else.
i know it doesnt need to be said but if youre attractive you can get almost anything on he planet. being unattractive is playing life on hardcore mode.
absolutely, totally agree...you have to work for everything and even then you might not achieve what you want because some hot person will just have it handed to them without any effort.
Survival mode
I remember when I was 10 years old and asked a girl if she lend me a pen and her answer was she didn't have any, but when this other really beautiful girl asked her the same magically she had an extra pen. I confronted her but she couldn't give me a logical reason for not sharing with me. Now I understand that is because since that girl was really beautiful people would care more about her.
@@bratzboyz It's hard but I learned that when I was really young, but the positive side is I turned independent
Someone: *being seen as not attractive yet * I need help.
Plastic surgeon: I'm about to start this man's whole career.
"pulls out scalpel" you wanna go for job interview or 10/10 gf
think about it, when you get plastic surgery you're basically paying somebody thousands of bucks to make everyone treat you better and your life overall easier...
you like making a deal with the devil?
@@mysteretsym wait, paying to make life easier?...
EA™ made our shitty lives and niw they want us to pay for easy mode
@@mysteretsym But also if they mess you up then your life will be worse
TWrecks ha ha wut. you don’t make any deals with the devil. you just get an aesthetic improvement. can confirm people are way nicer, even when i don’t wear makeup
There's this guy at my university, he's extremely shy and has 0 social skills cause he's been homeschooled his whole life and has really strict parents but from day 1 he came to the uni everyone (specially girls) were rushing to him, asking him questions, showing him around the school cause this guy is legit beautiful, did I mention another 2 new guys came that day too? But nonoeone gave them attention cause they were ugly? Some were saying 'oh I feel bad for them someone should show them around too' but nonoeone did cause nonoeone wanted to be friends with them
Dumb girls....they never get it
Oh well, that's just life. Life is unfair; we just have to deal with it, or kill ourselves.
Lmao that happened in my middle school too, except it was a girl instead of a guy
@@KaushikBala333 hey this issue lies with both genders
Holy crap I feel so bad for the 2 guys, society an be fake these days:/
Well this video got depressing for those who are not "beautiful".
Depression 101
Yep....
to me it was funny bc at least i can relate
Fiona has stuff here lul true
I’m 14 and in my S.C.H.O.O.L I’m not super fat like but i still am overweight and people assume I’m bad at all sports and assume I’m bad at fighting
The skinny guys are assumed to be good and assumed to be good fighters
I’m actually pretty good at some sports and have even been on my country’s team for 3 separate sports (Northern Ireland) they are swimming, diving, kickboxing
So that last one clears up the fighting thing I don’t like to try and show off though because if I act as though I don’t care no one cares if I actually mess up they laugh and all but that’s it the rest is done behind my back also in school we have no pool so right off the bat 2 sports are gone and the other can’t be done as our S.C.H.O.O.L is 0 tolerance and doesn’t like any fighting
Although when I hit the asshole who all the teachers knew bullied people but never got touted on cause well touts are targets
No teachers complained about me despite being told countless times
Which is another
Ugly no one cares if you get your ass beat
Pretty everyone takes their side and tells the teachers
Legit I hit him cause he was annoying my friend who is suicidal and they ruined his work and everyone still took his side
Wtf
Being ugly has 1 perk, if someone loves you, they love you for who you are. Can't say that for attractive and / or rich people
Edit: since a lot of people think I'm being serious, this is a joke, it's meant to be taken as a joke, and has barely any actual logic behind it. Y'all are beautiful, cause beauty is a perspective, what you think is preety could be super ugly to me and vice versa. So cheer up mates
you can if you have not always been attractive/rich and they have been with you the whole time
@@oliviasimpson1826 yup
Yeah.... but I'm turning 30 in two days, and I've never had a relationship yet :'(
@@shanamoens822 im 37, never have either, it's okay because I know that it's my looks, and I like honesty foremost, but sometimes it does hurt a little and I find myself a little jealous and lonely wishing i could be attractive just to know what it feels like to have someone crazy about you
@@shanamoens822 so what? youre probably a great person and the right person will come along for you soon.
my sister once told me “you have the worst personality but it’s fine because you’re pretty”
ok thanks i guess.
Well. She’s right lmao.
@@zeffez8161 plastic surgery and make up, ud be so fucking suprised by what make up alone can do .-. I saw some remove their nose 😱
Well you should take notes and try to improve yourself haha...being attractive is not an excuse for being a bad human. Not trying to be rude.
mila just saying ,there’s always room to improve yourself but okay
@The Heretic chill dude. If your were a girl then there's ton of thing you can't help it at all. Like, scary looking guy hitting on you or something. Besides, you got "the guys strength". Be grateful that you're a guy. Lol
Being ugly is life being switched to hard mode with no tutorial and having -2 luck.
Luck -5
Charisma -5
That awkward moment when you realize the “beautiful convict” guy is an actual supermodel now 😂
What's his name again? 😂😂😂
Jeremy Meeks I think lol
He assaulted a teenager too.
This is the world we live in. Saaaaaad
He cheated on his wife posted it on his Instagram and he’s still with his side chick still
My friends and family: you’re sooo pretty
Bullies and literally everyone else: ew
frrrr,my grandma always lies to me that im pretty and that i should love myself....but when it comes to other people,im suddenly so ugly,that i cant even have friends
stan ateez you rat
Me too
stan ateez you rat
Well I do look pretty at night, in the mirror tho
My family can’t comprehend I’m not a popular pretty kid.
It’s fine, I may be a extrovert, but I’m good with being alone, atleast I won’t be pitted.
I mean, bullies kind of do that thing, that classifies them as "bullies". And humans can just suck for the most part with other people.
Not so good-looking person: *says something in class*
Class: can you please shut up
Good looking person: *gives the stupidiest answer*
Class: Awww don't worry atleast you try *gives him/her a hug*
Me: I-
Ema Haq lmao this is so true I can’t do anything without getting shit for it
Yeah because there's this slightly attractive guy in my class and whenever he just breathes all the girls just laugh at him and look at him like
@@siboneyhernandez1592 rip. I'm nerdy and not attractive so I make sure I'm nerdy enough to not have to ask questions :)
My brother gets that all the time it’s fucking pathetic
If you're hotter than me, does that mean I'm cooler than you?
Donald Trump this is why i voted for you
INTELLIGENCE 100
if u mean that if im on fire, does that mean youre more frozen than me then yes
if you're hot, you should see a doc
sans thanos its better when pepsi in mouth
Ok but the guy wearing the miniskirt to a restaurant is my hero.
Lol it took me a second to catch that one
"Sean is unfortunate looking. He's a redhead..."
Bless his instead-of-soul
@@SennaHawx what soul? He's a ranga.
But I like redheads.
Redheads look amazing on media but shite in real life
All I needed to know to validate her claim tbh
"There's a guy at work named "Seen". "Seen" is unfortunate-looking." 😂
You so bad! 😅😅😆😆
😭🤣🤣
Remind me of a murder court case that happen 2 or 3 years ago.
A young early 20 year old girl, murder her BF over something and the judge gave her a pass.
Reason "she was too pretty and young to be going to jail" lol.
I'm curious, is that judge still around?
@@icecoolguita the judge is ToO pReTtY tO nOt Be ArOuNd
why did she murder him tho
follow petitelordexx that doesn’t mean women don’t
Simp
Being depressed. If you’re attractive everyone wants to help you but if you’re ugly you should ‘get over yourself’ and ‘just be happy’
"I can't allow you to enter our restaurant dressed like this"
Yep okay makes sense
" *sir* "
wait what
WhAT d0 I believe OP is a transgender woman, and they were misgendering her. Either that or it was an insult regarding OP’s unattractive/non-feminine appearance
@@Hirundo-demersalis orrr that was the joke
Yes I'm pretty sure they're saying she looks masculine and she's the butt of their joke
When your life is an endless chain of your crushes telling you that your sister is hot or that your friend is hot and it's never been said about you. (Personal experience haha)
I feel you. I had one person who stayed friends with me because he wanted to get close to my friend because he liked her, and another dude I was friends with whom I developed feelings for would constantly bring up how cute, attractive and how much he loved her despite not knowing much about her. Well, much of this was my personal experience and it quite torn me to the realities irl
Wait, your crushes talked to you? How is it?
pretty privillege does exist,but people arent ready for that conversation.....
@@slayeroffurries1115 it's like being sibling zoned ;-;
@@mistyeyes9311 u pretty cute tho
Didn’t know I was a masochist until I watched this entire video
Well, the internet has a *lot* of stuff waiting for you if you wish to explore your masochist self. Lol
dan kovač haha you right, rule 34
Don’t get how this video would make you realize that
I KNEW I was a masochist, so I clicked on the vid
Why do y'all hate men. Women create these stereotypes too yknow
When he's attractive,its flirting
When he's ugly,it harrasing.
then again I've seen attractive looking men harassing women on the street and pursuing them even after they said no... usually these men are pick up artists
as a girl myself I find that creepy and not attractive at all.
Nah harassing is harassing. Ask once, and if no let it go
oh btw your username is disgusting lol
@@i_Ambrose I said that to this dude who believed in the red pill shit and he said "but you need to keep pursuing women, since they're illogical. when they say no it doesn't always mean no"
I retched lol
sad part is, dude is physically very attractive and I thought he was cute until he opened his mouth
@@larsswig912 god that's some scary stuff right there. I'm worried for any women in his life right now.
Is just sad because harassment has been normalized so long that men actually think its a valid way to ask a women out. "You are not wearing her down"
Edit- and not loli is life 😰omg lmao.
*insert the clip from spongebob where spongebob screams "I'm ugly and I'm proud"*
Listening to cute songs / anime songs when you're a dude. It's cute and endearing if you're good looking, it's weird and creepy if you aren't.
Technically weeaboos?
So i have to listen to anime music to be cute?
Listening to anime songs is bad for both scenarios lol
it's one thing to think anime is "nerdy" but if you actually get creeped or scared out by somebody enjoying it that's on you 🤦♀️
Or if you watch anime in general
Ted Bundy is the perfect example, no one expected anything simply because the guy was good looking
Succ This is a rather disturbing, but good example of the double standards of society based on your looks. If Ted Bundy was an ugly person, then his actions would've been more suspicious.
The dude literally had a fanbase that fucking knows he's a serial killer and are still into him cz of his looks. Gotta love humans!
Ted bundy looks like a monobrow rat
people keep saying ted bundy was attractive but I don’t see it??? dude looked like a creepy uncle.
big thonk that’s cuz he always changed his appearance, like a chameleon
( Sorry for my bad english )
I'm not a good looking guy, when i was in High school there was this dance that every class had to do at the end of the year, it was like a competition between classes, so here i was in my class and we were preparing the dance by deciding who was going to dance with who ( boys with girls ), almost everyone had their partner ( there was more girls than boys in my class ). There was like three girls left and i was the only one left to be chosen, i'm was the quiet type of boy, always minding my own business, but one of the girls that was preparing the dance asked to the other one that still didn't had a partner if she wanted to dance with me, she looked at her and made a expression like she was going to puke. Bro that fucking killed me inside.
Jesus christ bro. I feel you.
*F E E L*
We had the same experience but I'm a girl. I remember it was in highschool. All of us had to participate in a dance, there were also too many girl and boys at that time. The teacher allow us to choose partners by ourselves. I remember like there we're also 4 girls who got left out, me included. The teachers told the boys that if someone would like to have a double partner means that they'll have to partcipate again just to dance to those who doesn't have any partner yet. No one answer. The teacher then instructed us to ask one of them to be our partner in their free time then I remember it was during our breaktime, I ask this one guy if he would like to be my partner because it was breaktime he was obviously with his friends, he's friends giggle and look at each other and they were tapping him on his shoulder, one of them was even raising his eyebrow. They look like they were joking and then one guy whisper to him "you have to deal with it". Eventhough I clearly heard that I still wasn't taken aback, I just stand their and politely smile because I'm also shy. During our dance he had to hold me by the waist and he look so uncomfortable doing that, it felt like he's not touching me, he's just placing his hands but he's not completely like holding me, it's like his hand was floating and all that touching my waist is his palm only and his finger wasn't like bended and holding me (if you get me), he's also not looking at me, his diverting his eyes unto somewhere and I also felt like his friends was watching laughing at him. After that I thank him but then I got home and think about that and got really hurt to the point that it keeps me up that night. I still think he's nice because he did keep that up with me eventhough his friends was teasing him but seriously after that I felt like I never want to dance with a guy again because I think I'll only make them uncomfortable. I also think to myself after that happened, "am I that ugly?". Yeah sorry for this long text.
@@jm8837 being ugly sucks
im so sorry :((
I once read this meme and it wrote:
What's the difference between flirt and harassment?
And this guy answered, "When you're attractive, it's flirt. When you're unattractive, it's harassment." SKSKSKSKS 🤦😂
Hey, I never thought about it that way?
😂😂😂
There is a limit tho. I was harassed by a douchebag with good looks who thought he could do everything, have every girl and is irresistible and yeah he is pretty but his personality was awful, he was borderline racist sometimes, said sexist jokes all the time and not you are not funny and did not understand why I don’t want to be with him, his flirting is too much, you are not my type.. So yeah at one point there is a limit. I prefer a less pretty guy than a god with a shit personality and I am sure I am not the only one to think like this. Also, for the girls who date those guys, they either realize how bad they are or are really insecure and have lot self/esteem which I have empathy for them and I wish they will love themselves more. Same with guys staying with attractive girls with shit personality. To be happy you need to realize that looks is not all that matter in the other person. And harassment is real and is not just about looks. People who harassed are blind to see they make the other one uncomfortable and that they don’t want this. Maybe a pretty person will most likely not make the other one uncomfortable but it can I assure you.
There's a difference between:
Saying you're ugly and looking for someone to say otherwise while _knowing_ you're cute
And
Genuinely thinking you're not very attractive and having people say you are...
and that's on body dysmorphia and not being able to recognize your face as your own
malay lee oop-
Fishing for compliments vs Low confidence.
Bro I am naturally ugly
I really don't think I am attractive but ppl say my body and face are beautiful I would find myself so much more attractive if my ears were pretty but atleast I have ears
For anyone who's ever gotten friendzoned on ugliness, I can raise you one.
So, when I was in my early years in high school, I asked this one girl in my class if she wanted to go out. Very simple, very polite, approached her by her locker in the middle of a crowded hallway inbetween classes so nothing would seem creepy about it. Now, back then, I wasn't the hottest looking guy around (nowadays I fancy myself a pure average, but I'm much better than I was). I had short greasy hair, and I was still in my braces phase, and to top that off I was a very socially awkward person (autism and ADHD).
So, anyway, I ask the girl out, and she gives me a lukewarm can't-this-weekend-but-maybe-sometime-next-week-or-something rejection. She leaves, and I'm thinking, okay, well at least it wasn't a hard no.
Come back to school the next day, and I get called to the principal's office. Apparently, the girl reported me for talking to her, and said I was "harrassing" her. The principal didn't do anything because they could easily see this was all bs, so they just let me go.
I never spoke to that girl again.
But since that was my first ever attempt at asking a girl out, it put me off of ever trying again, so to this day I haven't ever had a girlfriend. It's bad enough to get rejected, but when you already have a social dysfunction, and THAT'S what happens on your first try, it dashes your self-esteem to pieces. I have a decent amount of confidence for social interaction nowadays, but I could never bring myself to try again at dating. It just never seemed worth it after that.
dont get rejected if youre too scared to ever try in the first place *B)*
I’m got sad reading that man but hey you’ll eventually find someone who isn’t shit
Jfc thats insane. Just dress nicely next time you ask a girl out, everyone looks better and approachable when their clothes are nice
This actually makes me sad. So sorry this happened.
That girl obviously wasn't worth your time with a personality like that.
Become satisfied with yourself and find someone who does care for you.
"Beauty doesn't matter"
Unless you're ugly, so it matters
I’ve been both sides of the spectrum fat and in good shape.... and yes there’s a *major* difference in how you’re treated
Everyone wants to act like they're "not like that" when the reality of the situation is that they're either blatantly lying or actually lying to themselves.
I got asked out by a dude in college once...the very same dude who used to make me cry in primary school because I used to be a "ball of diabetes"
Elhniz Nolastname I hope you got good satisfaction telling him where to go
Being autistic l can completely forget about time and don't care much about things like haircuts and shaving so l can look quite shabby and unappealing at times, however when l scrub up and make an effort to look good, l often get comments from girls I'm with about how often they catch other girls staring at me. How l look does make a clear difference in how both women and men treat me, but it's purely a matter of presentation, not weight or underlying looks. I know l do it to others as well, l deliberately try not to and for the most parts l adjust for my personal bias, but l do think it's built into us instinctively. Indeed a lot of things are instinctively built into human behaviour, like a 6 month old baby tends to be more responsive to a taller person vs a shorter person, not learnt behaviour, just built in and recognising those in built biases(or counter biases, because we identify with a certain group) is our only chance to treat others fairly.
Matt TheChosen why would a 6 month old baby be more responsive to a taller person?
I've seen the opposite happening: for an "atractive" girl to be judged more harshly by female higher ups, because they assume that because she is "pretty" she is dumber. (And the opposite happening with male seniors)
Normis indeed, or the false accusation of having slept their way to the top. I know a few successful, beautiful, smart women who intentionally dress down for work and put on more ‘masculine’ traits just to avoid this. It’s tough to be a woman in the workplace.. it’s like damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
That's a good point...
A false assumption can easily be debunked by proving otherwise through the passage of time though, usually by getting to know them and realising you were wrong about them initially. Because people want to get to know good looking people more, they can easily find out they were wrong about them, so for attractive people, this serves as nothing more than a minor inconvenience at best really. They still have a chance to prove otherwise. As soon as someone has a false assumption about you as an ugly person though, you’re extremely unlikely to change their mind, you’ll have next to no chance to prove the contrary. Sad (and very wrong) but it’s true.
@@emperorreign6154 So very true
@@emperorreign6154 but it's still wrong to think of someone negatively based on looks, regardless of how he looks.
If I had a dollar every time someone interrupted me mid conversation without hesitation or any sign of sympathy...just because you're better looking, doesn't mean you have to be plain rude
Production Journal then I'm filthy rich
You have to talk with confidence if you don't want people to interrupt you
@@Jordan-qx4mi fr these people worried too much bout others stay in yo frame
(Starts “if I had a dollar for every” saying)
(Doesn’t end with “I’d be rich”, because they get too pissed off and mad while writing the comment that they forget to finish the saying)
Had a guy at my school that was very attractive and athletic. He would flirt with girls constantly and honestly had a very loud mouth.
I’m telling you not only was the man loud in volume the guy he talked a lot.
Girls at school were fascinated with him and honestly he was a hit with the ladies.
He flirted with me a few times but I wasn’t putting up with it. He became somewhat of a friend to me later in the school year though, he’s not a bad guy. There was another guy at my school not so attractive and not really athletic. Had the same type a personality of the attractive guy. He tried being playful and flirt with a few girls once and they all shut him down pretty harshly. I felt pretty bad for him but he didn’t take it personally thankfully.
So yeah.
Marx Galactic Ambition Thanks for reminding me of the trash dumb animal crossing became.
What mode am I playing on?
(Am I ugly?)
So why didn't you become his friend but you became friends with the attractive guy? You're not better!
Anyone who says that looks don't matter already fit societal descriptions of "pretty" and "handsome" and reap benefits of socialization.
Change my mind. I dare you.
What if the person is blind?
Even babies do it. If you put one in a room with two people, they will go to (or look at more depending on their mobility) the one with more symmetrical features and stereotypical beauty markers. I will try to find the source (it's an old one).
It's true. It's just some patronizing words said by people who are too ignorant to know any different.
@@kelspemeyer793 Dogs do this too
What about ugly people saying looks don't matter to comfort themselves?
1:08 "I can't allow you to enter our restaurant dressed like this, sir."
"EXCUSE ME, ITS MA'AM.
I have read quite a few comments on that and yours is the first I have seen referencing that quote. Have my like😀
"DID YOU JUST ASSUME MY GENDER?! REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE"
My god...he could've shut that whole place down
Hahaha dude, you made my day
I got sent to that video because an online game got my gender wrong
It was a perfect chance to rickroll me lol
That +4 CHARISMA goes well with that maxed out base LUCK stat
Helps make up for the usually low INT and really really bad WISDOM stat
Too bad STRENGTH is almost obsolete in the current meta.
Kenan Šabić As long as your charisma is already at a certain value increasing the strength value with also boost charisma somewhat, but only really as an addition rather than a saving grace
100% crit chance
When you draw an ugly person as a joke and send it to your friend and they say unsarcastically ‘ wow that’s a really good self portrait ‘
That's alotta damage!
I once just HAD A CONVERSATION (about some undertale crap) with the unattractive quiet girl in our class and later my friends called me over, genuinely concerned for some reason. They asked me “Dude... are you hitting on :girl:??”
Like ffs
Thermon why did I find this funny?
lol at the “genuinely concerned” bit
LOOOL😂😂😂😂
Hanging out with the people you don't usually hang out with = "talking" to them
Marx Galactic Ambition
My best friend in the entire world is just like you, thinks she can’t feel love. Then I showed up in her life, and every conversation we have ends in “I love you dude.”
You are capable of it and you CAN find it if you actually want to. But your real friends are proof of that
@@internalscreaming7566 Dude... Marx was coming out as aromantic, they said they cabnt feel " love " as in romantic love, but maybe they can feel platonic love ( towards family and friends ) that's totally okay for you Marx! Wish you lots of happiness!
Talking, and making your existence acknowledged.
It's not PC to call someone ugly or fat, but it's always OK to call them creepy. We don't change, we just use different words.
Underrated bro underrated.
Like creepy is the new ugly.
Creepy is even worse, its literaly saying that the person is so ugly that its scares you
@@slayeroffurries1115 LMAO, ookay maybe just say “not my type” and be very vast
@@slayeroffurries1115 😂😂😂
@furry slayer lmao
Overeating is seen as a sexy and “damm she can eat” when it’s a skinny gyal.
I am skinny, and everyone calls me skin and bones, and they force me to eat, and when i overeat, they say that "as you should skeleton, you should always do that" :/
That only works for pretty skinny girls, i am not that good looking so yeah.
LVL 25 - (stats)
7 str
9 dex
14 int
11 per
3 char (-2 in social situations)
2 Luck
(debuffs)
Ugly [permanent] - enemies will be more likely to attack you in combat and peoples disposition towards you will be generally negative.
mako omg that's so true
Someone should make a mod like that.
The more ugly your character is when you created it, the lower you are on an attractiveness scale and there will be debuffs against you to make the game harder.. and if you make a super attractive character you're given stat boosts and everybody likes you and wants to be your follower.
this is so funny and idk why
@@mysteretsym I don't think there has ever been a game where your character's face looks attractive without it being covered by a huge beard. On a man, obviously. On women you just put a closed helmet on or smth. The bodies are much harder to mess up
Georgiy Kireev
I gues so. But fallout 4 has pretty good character model
Its flirting if they're hot. Its sexual harassment if they're not.
damn gotta write that one down
If this isn't the truest thing on the damn internet
No. It's sexual harassment when anyone puts their hands on soneone without their consent. Simple as that. Hot or not, that shit doesn't fly with me, and reinforcing the thought process that hot people can't sexually assault others is very dangerous.
50 shades of Grey sprung to mind
@@lydia6253 weeeeellllll we're not exactly just saying it for the sake of saying it m8......
F IT I WATCHED SPONGEBOB HE TAUGHT ME
*TO BE UGLY AND PROUUDD*
Yees!
Spongebob is the self confidence teacher
Prof. Xavier (X-Men):
MUTANT AND PROUD!
But spongebob just had bad breath.
The best part about this is that it actually kinda work. Being ugly is not a weakness as long as you know how to play the ugly ass bitch card. Also, not living in America helps a lot too.
Being goth or wearing some sort of alternative fashion. It only looks good if you're attractive. Otherwise you'll be deemed ridiculous and questioned constantly; "why do you dress like that? I don't get it".
This is true. Dutch people generally hate goths, but they consider it slightly more acceptable when the goth is conventionally attractive.
I'm sure it's the same for other alternative fashions as well.
Secret admirer - if the person is cute
Stalker - if the person is ugly