OP's Best Friend and Fiancé Committed Self-Harm, But She Couldn't Give a Sh*t, and OP's Evil Moth...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 มี.ค. 2024
- I (22F) found out my family is hiding my fiancé's (M23) affair with my best friend (F23). How do I confront my family, fiancé, and best friend? (u/strawberry_cheese237 in r/relationship_advice)
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So her best friend got a paper cut and her ex popped a Perc, and she’s supposed to suddenly forgive?
Lol!, yeah sounds about right
"SHE NEEDS TO FORGIVE ASAP. WHEN YOU FORGIVE, YOU IMMEDTIATELY GO BACK TOGETHER AND TRUST THEM. YOU GOTTA WORK IT OUT!" - my friend while watching this video.
@@jitgamer-ki1fl... i have questions about your friend's line of thinking.
A perfect description of the situation 😂😂😂
@@jitgamer-ki1fl tell your friend the internet says hi 😂
“How could you ignore cheater 1 and cheater 2 in their time of need?!1!1!!?” Like this: 📵🔕🔇
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So OP's mom blames OP for not being able to stop herself from cheating and getting pregnant with another dude?!? And then passed that on to her sister apparently?!? Also, if someone tells you humans weren't meant to be monogamous, that person more than likely just cares about sleeping around with people.
It's just another excuse to be an absolute sl*t. Being in an open relationship and polygamous/polyamorous is one thing. But openly stating that humans aren't supposed to stay monogamous is a massive red flag. Their partners clearly have no spine for agreeing to it. I bet top dollar that only the half-brother and half-sister have secondary partners and not their spouses. Guess those apples didn't fall too far from the tree, but at least were smart enough to make up some excuses to be openly unfaithful.
To be fair about "humans aren't meant to be monogamous" they literally learned it from a woman that has a husband and 3 baby daddies. Of course they don't think it makes sense to be monogamous, their "dad" is not theirs and only decades later did mom finally get punished for her actions but damage is done.
Only you the individual can decide that for yourself. Consensual non-monogamy and polyamory are two very different things from cheating.
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So all 3 children Tony raised are not his.
Tony is the biggest victim in this story .
OP please provide backstory and ongoings drama of Tony's life.
Give OP a day or 2 to make up another story for those characters.
@VRDejaVu sorry no update for tony heard this story on a few other channels
@@manutd316 hum? Im not asking for an update lol
I literally just pointed out how f'ing fake this story is... That is why I said "to make up"
I'd know that just explaining that this story been around for a while maybe the OP suffers writers block at the moment LOL!
@@VRDejaVu what does that mean?
They both faked attempting self harm, its pretty clearly an attempt to hurt op and her reputation.
This has got to be the most messed up family I've ever heard about. Good lord. OP just needs to forget all of them, move far away and live her best life.
Grandparents, Aunt and some cousins = NTAs
Except that Aunt and cousin. They deserve gold stars
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And Tony. Tony's the biggest victim along with O.P.
The man raised kids that weren't his. He has been cheated on non stop.
I mean aside from the grandparents, aunt and cousin.
Having a 'family' like that, you don't need any enemies.
But that the mother condoned the cheating, that was a given, seen as OP's mom herself couldn't keep her legs closed as if paying rent was depending on it.
Hahaha, why should people who had no sympathy for Op suddenly be given and get sympathy from her after what they did. If they tried to self harm that’s their business OP isn’t obligated to care nor be there to support them. They didn’t seem to really try all that hard to end it if you ask me.
Sorry to say but things this messy will never “just end” so the OP sadly has to be prepared for the long haul. Hope she does come out on top.
OP’s Aunt = ( Vin Diesel’s ) FAMILY 100
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Major Kudos to OP’s aunt and cousin for sticking up for and being there for her. They are her real family. I hope that OP heals from her trauma and moves on with her life.
As for the ex, ex-best friend, and egg donor, they should be ashamed of themselves. Then again, the trash is taking itself out. May their Karma increase.
especially at 16:30 😂😂
And the grandparents. I’m just imagining the grandma holding the aunt back 😂
The two sibs with open relationships are full of it. An open relationship requires both partners to agree to it. They told him to clear it with her and he didn't, he just screwed the sister behind OPs back. That's cheating.
The fact that they still defended him tells me their "humans aren't meant for monogamy" spiel is something the cheating trash they call mother had a hand in teaching them.
I really hate cheaters like this, they remind me of Sue from the nuclear Christmas revenge. When the victim has every right to be mad, and they have no ground the cheater will opt to self harm. Whats even more pathetic is that some peeps fell for it. Peach clearly didn't plan to take her life because the wound wasn't even deep, and Alex is just a damn fool. I feel bad that people even debated what side to take, the answer is simple. Instead of taking the heat for their action, peach and Alex opted for the easy way out. If that doesn't show how callous and cowardly they are I don't know what does🤬
They likely weren't planning on going through with it. They just wanted to seem very ashamed and make OP look like an uncaring person.
After listening to this I am happy to be single.
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@@SecretVoices25after listening to this story, I pretty much with them who said this is fake.
I mean, where tf the op lived? In any imaginary world with these people worser than hit*ler? The only difference is he killed but she suffered her daughter.
It might be real or fake but people like these exist and stories like these are exist. what do you think?
Tony should've divorce egg donor when she confessed that OP is AP's daughter instead of reconcile. Even worse, she still cheated on him and have more kids with AP. I hoped Tony disown his "kids" especially they knew about the affairs and have open/poly relationship.
I'm pretty sure he was just a hopeful fool. But it's a good thing she admitted to OP being his best friend's child. Because I feel like he would've looked past it again if that little tidbit hadn't popped up.
The huge difference is Tony's kids are in CONSENSUAL poly marriages and relationships. They probably do condone cheating but they've never been cheated on. They all sound as rotten as their loose mom.
@@m.c.9419 Apparently the mother has only hated her daughter for existing in the first place Pretty sure she taught her morals only to the half siblings
I can’t help but feel like OP’s half siblings are both poly bc the mom constantly was/is cheating. Like how much you wanna bet that she use(s/d) the “I can’t help who I love! Humans are meant to love multiple people!” cards a lot when her kids were growing up
For real, that only makes her worse and not a mom. I wouldn't be surprised if that's part of why she hated op for not being poly and is desperate to project her self hatred to hating op.
Oh I knew it. For OP´s mom to condone OP´s fiance and BFF´s cheating. She either also cheated in the past or is currently cheating on her husband.
OP´s mom is a special level of crazy. She has affairs left and right and blames OP for ruining her life... like WTF!?! 🤨
I don't see any possibility of fixing this mother-daughter relationship. OP should cut all toxic people out, focus on healing and stick with her aunt. She's a badass. 😎👍
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This is so messed up. The Mom needs to look in the mirror to see who really ruined her life.
It is hilarious that like OP is ruining mom's life when she is actively cheating, has 3 kids all with different dads and none are the husband's, and is actively supporting a cheating couple. Literally the only reason she doesn't want the Fiance to break up because she knows affair fog disappears if there is no one for him to cheat on which is like doubly sad.
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Classic Narcissist - Blame everyone else because nothing is their fault
Wait so Alex said he was only sleeping with peach because he got lonely.?! Lmfao. Bet that bruised peaches ego.
Also, peach barely cut herself and alex didnt even need his stomach pumped but now OP's the bad guy.? Id have asked them what if it had been them.? Would they just forgive and forget.? Because apparently them self harming means they're remorseful and are trustworthy again.? I bet money peach and Alex concocted this plan together. I hope the people on OP's side rip apart the friends that turned on OP for the fake self harm attempts.
When the bridesmaid said how dare OP ignoer THEM in their time of need id have snapped and asked why is their need put above mine.? Id point out the bs fake attempts and say you dont get to undermine my feelings for narcissists who cant handle being exposed.
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Kyles trying to slide in. I'd be wary of that shit.
Yeah, I thought that too
Hey, I might tap that as stress relief just to get back at Alex.
When OP was talking about the 3 dinners, I was thinking wait for the last one. Everyone will be there. Have all the text and messages shown on a projector (I'm not a techy). When she said how she arranged the mass text, I thought that was great. Sure didn't know you can do that. I do good to send 1 text. I hope OP cuts with anyone that went off on her about not responding to the exBFF and the Ex. Maybe next time they will find a better method and succeed. Thank goodness OP has her Aunt and Cousin. I love that Aunt has no regrets about attacking OPs egg donor. Cousin did her best to protect OP. It's going to take a lot of time and therapy for OP to get in a good place. With the help of her Aunt and Cousin, I think she'll be alright.
why do they always blame the OP when someone get caught cheating
Fine if you want to be polyamorous but it's cheating on the other person doesn't know and didn't know they were in polyamorous relationship . Plus there are people happy in monogamy relationships
Same dude. I'm fine if the half siblings are in a consenting poly relationship. That's their business. The line in the sand is both partners need to consent and be okay with it. What they were telling the fiancé to do was to play the long game while screwing the best friend.
If this is true than it screams Florida 😅
Don't forget to leave a link of part 2 here. Sometimes it's a bit hard to find the continuation of a reddit story
God, this was such an entertaining one. Like a really good trainwreck.
Jer-ry! Jer-ry! Jer-ry!
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Ok, this story is sad and all, but... stop breaking leaves with the aaaaxeee 😭😭😭
13:31 *It Was In THIS Moment Alex & Peach Knew THAT They F$¢&ed Up !!!*
16:30 OP's Aunt = *MOM 100*
Birthgiver = Witch with the capital 🅱️🅱️🅱️
I was one of those people who could never understand how people could betray their own family, and then I got betrayed by one of my family members, there is no logic in it and it will never make sense. And that makes it hurt so much worse. I hope OP finds peace and healing for themselves. It will never be the same, but I hope they can find happiness in the new normal.
I've heard this before but I never heard the ending Holy shit 😊
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They're pissed at OP couz she broke the peace.
Cheaters don't deserve their partner
what a strong person OP is! im proud! and wish her the best
And this is why polyamory NEVER works.
It only works if everyone is on board and honest.
Instead he cheated and didn't want op to know this is a poly relationship now.
Ya know like having a 3sum without the 3rd person
It wasn't polyamory, it was just cheating...
"The 2 people who betrayed you in the worst way imaginable just tried to unalive themselves. What do you have to say for yourself?"
"Were they successful?"
"No."
"Oh well, tell them to try harder next time."
23:40 *[ EVERYONE LOVED THAT. ]*
OP’s Aunt = *FAMILY OF CHOICE!!!* / *MOM 100*
*OP’s Birthgiver Needs To Look into Mirror AND To Think Who REALLY Is Ruining Her Life !!!*
Mom's wicked heart finally drove her insane. Infidelity hurts all
16:30 *It Was In This Moment Birthgiver Knew She F$€¥ED UP!!!*
Op about the creeps: 💃💃💃✌️✌️
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I pray to god that those cousins never get married nor have a relationship
The half siblings learned ppl love who they love at tge Mother's knee..
"Humans are not monogamous" is the biggest psyop ever
Oh hell no id be more mad at the fam for this
I assume the gameplay is yours so.
You can left click and hold when youre holding an item and it should split the stack evenly.
Do the same but with right click instead and it will only put a single item per slot.
Alright the jig is up why is this channel having typos that other channels covering the same story don't?
I mean im sure tha Lowa and North Coralina are lovely places but those are not the places in the original post
Holy shit this story.
Damn.
Okay, I was with OP until she said her step-siblings have poly relationships and nothing is wrong with that.
Why on Earth is cheating even wrong if poly is ok? Do people think that if you just agree on having open relationships, that because you agreed, there will be no negative consequences?
A lot of people think cheating is wrong because of the lying. For me, that's not why cheating is wrong. The reason I wouldn't put up with cheating and by extension - polyamory - is because the person I shared my intimate moments with, shared themselves intimately with somebody else.
I don't feel nearly as betrayed by someone lying to me, as I would finding out that I was cheated on. It's so much worse, and I believe I would feel the same way - even if they asked my permission to do something like that.
The answer would be no, and divorce or break up would be the next consideration for me personally, even had they not done anything with anyone yet.
I think the people who defend poly are liars and I think the only reason they do so is political. I don't believe anyone believes that is a geniunely good idea. They are thinking it's an orientation or something, instead of what it actually is.
What she should have done after she set up for that text message to be sent out she should have also gathered up his clothes and told them to change the lock!!
Folks like her make things so complicated when it's so simple.
As someone who is poly and in a currently monogamous long-term relationship, I think OP's siblings are being really snooty about having open relationships. The fundamental parts of polyamory are the consent of all parties involved, boundaries, and good, I repeat, GOOD communication. "Humans aren't meant to be monogamous" is an icky take on polyamory; polyamory is not for everyone. Healthy polyamorous relationships take work from all involved to maintain and ensure no one feels left out or like they're replaceable. Not everyone has the time, energy, maturity, and/or motivation to take care of the needs of multiple people.
I will also say that cheating and polyamory are not the same. And those half-siblings are kinda just adding insult to injury. I love my partner and would never willingly cheat on them. I know I'm polyamorous because i have so much love in my heart, not because my partner "isn't enough" or because I "want to see other people."
If this doesn't make sense, consider how being heterosexual does not automatically ensure that someone will always be in a (heterosexual) relationship. They may be single or just mot wanting to date anyone at the time. It's possible to be content with what relationship you do have rather than what you could have.
Thanks for reading, and stay safe out there!
Open relationships, and whether it can be opened later on are things you discuss at the start of a relationship ideally. Open can work, poly can work, but the only stories you hear on reddit are the ones where it's being used as a guise to allow for one-sided cheating and makes the whole concept look bad...
23:38 MOTHER OF THE YEAR 😐😒😮💨😠😡🤬🙄
Of all the things that didn't happen, this one didn't happen the most.
What a S show.
non monogamous person here; um? what the fuck is wrong with the siblings?
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Monogamy isnt a sexual orientation, everyone can love multiple people at the same time.
That is what makes monogamous relationships so special. You are taking the effort, sacrifice, and will to love only one person for the rest of your life. "Forsaking all others."
People who openly argue they are polyamorous arent special they just dont have it in them to be with one person, they lack the willpower and fortitude. And that ok, but don't put your lack of mental strength and loyalty onto others.
Who is cousin’s mother? Aunt is/was infertile,