Complete doormat, makes me feel bad for her but at the same time, I don’t. Like I get it’s hard making friends as a full-time housewife and whatnot but it doesn’t erase the fact that she willingly enabled M’s mom to the point she allowed her to get away with attempting to seduce her own damn husband. Sure OP’s mom may have finally cut ties with her but she still chose a serial cheater for a friend over her own daughter. This level of 0 self-respect astonishes me
What band? Sorry that Rockstar metaphore is as overused as it is inaccurate. Rockstars don't make good fathers. Probably why they sing, dance and sell their souls for fame.
12:26 she was “sorry”? Sorry is for when you spilled a whole carton of milk on the kitchen floor, not for effectively abandoning your child and refuse to defend her best interests. “Sorry” is not enough.
I noticed that the mother said that if she hadnt cheated her daughter would have a better life... no she wouldnt. M was conceived from an affair so she wouldnt exist if the mother hadn't cheated. So she is basically blaming her own daughter in a way
@@ivymerritt7577 was there a little brother? It must have went in one ear and out the other. I listen to these while I work so I dont pay full attention
OP did not ruin that relationship. Her friend did. It’s the other way around OP has nothing to apologize for you can keep talking to your friend just because the daughters aren’t friends does not mean you can’t be friends.
Idk why op 2 apologized. Shes right what did she expect if they were going to get drunk and drugged up on a small bus together. Hell only reason the bride and groom didnt cheat or get arrested is cuz op and her husband stopped them. Ya shouldnt need a babysitter in your 20s to not get so blackout ya get arrested or cheat.
Yeah it's like Reddit missed the part about the drugs because they blatantly ignore it in every reply. Also OP was actually there to prevent it being an even bigger shitshow than it was so I feel like they have the right to comment on how dumb it was to begin with.
Only sorry when they get caught. They only regret their choices after its over. Never take back a cheater! Forgive them for your own sake, but dont take them back into your life. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Also, again, move on OP after 2 years and even a new boyfriend still couldnt move on and is suffering for it.
Narcissists are dangerous in that they play the Long Game. Good thing that OP found the right words to make htis particular one rip off her mask and show her real colours.
Story 2. OP apologizes to keep the peace in all fairness she was right. In a perfect world, you would expect adults to act like adults but this world we live in is as far from perfect as anything else. The only person you can trust to be sensible in any situation is yourself. There is always a chance the person you have full trust in will act out. We all have it in us. In those situations to need to turn to your moral compass and decide to do the right thing. Eiffel Towering the group bicycle is not the right thing. Then again dude shouldnt have married a 304 in nybe first place.
This video hasn’t even released yet, and I already have a come-back. If either of them cheated, much less both…that relationship is long past ruined. OP acknowledging that fact is just admitting the truth.
1: this ending was not what I wanted though I hope she realizes one day that the voice telling her that she’s a failure is her ex and she feels better 2: I do think it’s interesting that OP’s husband directly contributed to the chaos by getting the fiancé so drunk he literally shit himself and then was snorting at her from some weird moral high ground, but at least they were able to see the error and make up
But! the groom *didn’t* get frisky with a stripper and is, apparently, sufficiently traumatized by the experience to lay off the booze. Mission failed… successfully? 😂
Sorry but there's no room for forgiveness op did the right thing that's not a friend that's a lying back w* that's not particularly good for op good riddance. Story 2 seriously what she thought would happened gezz some people 🙄
Story 2 makes me remember my cousin's wedding (2nd or 3rd cousin, I think?) There were strippers, drug dealers/users, and prostitutes. And that was just the bride's side of the family! 😅 ... Okay, so that's the joke we all tell about it because the sad thing is; that was all true. But really, everyone was well behaved and there were no shenanigans. A disappointment really, I expected more from that crowd! (By the way, my cousin was the bride...)
32:29 as someone who lives less than an hour from Branson, this description is accurate, except the Flanders cousins sell all the smack, which is a considerable amount, given the amount of tweekers there are.
First story: The real person to blame for this is m's father if you think about it. If m's father hadn't abandoned her when she was a kid she might not have turned out like her mother. He let his ex wife turn their child into a sht person by doing so and put blame on a little kid for hiding the truth when she was prolly too young to know better....
When is leaving a cheater abandonment? The M's mom was out there going to the town and got a kid instead of a t-shirt. The daughter was the one who stopped going to the visitation. At a certain age it isn't enforced.
i'm sorry, but i can take such boohoo-cheating-stories only halfway seriously when the OP isn't wearing diapers anymore. stories with teenagers or barely above are so boring and when a 19 y/o comes with "the love of my life" i just have to laugh.
1) OP's dad is amazing, and her mother needs therapy because there is definitely trauma and conditioned affection from there , because this type of attachment isn't healthy, also OP's needs theraoy too, her confidence wet badly at the ends 2) NTA this is on OP's sister, being drunk at a strip club? cuasing people to either cheat or get into arguments, also the eifeel tower thing was too "personal" for my tast, also there certain illegal substances sinvolved so its clear that its on her
Story 1: OP, tell your dad that a bunch of internet strangers want to send him stuff for being a good husband and father.
Man has at least fourty #1 Dad mugs
A cheating whre raised a cheating whre? Shocking
Op is not whore
If S1 is what I think it is, OP has such a jelly spined mother; she didn’t gaf about her daughter until her own friend was talking shit about her
And she didn't believe her own daughter until she heard the Audio. She was such a looser back then.
Complete doormat, makes me feel bad for her but at the same time, I don’t. Like I get it’s hard making friends as a full-time housewife and whatnot but it doesn’t erase the fact that she willingly enabled M’s mom to the point she allowed her to get away with attempting to seduce her own damn husband. Sure OP’s mom may have finally cut ties with her but she still chose a serial cheater for a friend over her own daughter. This level of 0 self-respect astonishes me
1st story. Dad is a rockstar.
Her sisters are rockstars too 🎸🪨
What band? Sorry that Rockstar metaphore is as overused as it is inaccurate. Rockstars don't make good fathers. Probably why they sing, dance and sell their souls for fame.
St 1. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Seeing the 1st OP's confidence going right back down the toilet at the very end broke my heart. Poor girl.
I like to think that was a separate story that got jumbled in accidentally.
Same here.💔😔
12:26 she was “sorry”? Sorry is for when you spilled a whole carton of milk on the kitchen floor, not for effectively abandoning your child and refuse to defend her best interests.
“Sorry” is not enough.
Yeah. OP’s mother needs to do a lot of work to repair the parent-child relationship. She also needs to work on being a better wife to OP’s husband.
I noticed that the mother said that if she hadnt cheated her daughter would have a better life... no she wouldnt. M was conceived from an affair so she wouldnt exist if the mother hadn't cheated. So she is basically blaming her own daughter in a way
M isn't the affair baby, her younger brother is.
@@ivymerritt7577 was there a little brother? It must have went in one ear and out the other. I listen to these while I work so I dont pay full attention
@sinbadwilliams7186 understandable that you'd forget about the poor boy since he's only mentioned once. 😂
The sisters are the heroes in this story!
The absolute stupidity of L and his text to OP.
Bro wait if he gets cheated by M then she will realise how does it feel like
OP did not ruin that relationship. Her friend did. It’s the other way around OP has nothing to apologize for you can keep talking to your friend just because the daughters aren’t friends does not mean you can’t be friends.
Idk why op 2 apologized. Shes right what did she expect if they were going to get drunk and drugged up on a small bus together. Hell only reason the bride and groom didnt cheat or get arrested is cuz op and her husband stopped them. Ya shouldnt need a babysitter in your 20s to not get so blackout ya get arrested or cheat.
Yeah it's like Reddit missed the part about the drugs because they blatantly ignore it in every reply. Also OP was actually there to prevent it being an even bigger shitshow than it was so I feel like they have the right to comment on how dumb it was to begin with.
@@InTheDemonsWake thank you for not being dumb holy crap i thought I was insane
Anyone else invested in the background build at this point? Lol
I can't wait to see the finished project.
Bro me
You got this kiddo and you are on the right path. The best karma is doing everything he said you could not do.
Only sorry when they get caught. They only regret their choices after its over. Never take back a cheater! Forgive them for your own sake, but dont take them back into your life. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Also, again, move on OP after 2 years and even a new boyfriend still couldnt move on and is suffering for it.
Story 2 OP was right tho. It was an awful idea and I would’ve laughed my ass off and made that clear to whoever thought it was a good one. 💀
How was OP so blind about the boyfriend? He has more red flags than a Soviet Army Parade
Narcissists are dangerous in that they play the Long Game. Good thing that OP found the right words to make htis particular one rip off her mask and show her real colours.
Story 1, when the ex tried to come back, should have gotten evidence and and showed to M. Ruin their relationship. Then block again
Vegas ran by Ned Flanders made me start laughing out loud
Story 1: OP is so close. All of the pieces are there, she just needs more time and therapy. I hope she gets through this.
Story 2. OP apologizes to keep the peace in all fairness she was right.
In a perfect world, you would expect adults to act like adults but this world we live in is as far from perfect as anything else.
The only person you can trust to be sensible in any situation is yourself. There is always a chance the person you have full trust in will act out. We all have it in us. In those situations to need to turn to your moral compass and decide to do the right thing.
Eiffel Towering the group bicycle is not the right thing. Then again dude shouldnt have married a 304 in nybe first place.
This video hasn’t even released yet, and I already have a come-back. If either of them cheated, much less both…that relationship is long past ruined. OP acknowledging that fact is just admitting the truth.
wrong guess but there is cheating
Story 1: OP hug your Dad for me.
1: this ending was not what I wanted though I hope she realizes one day that the voice telling her that she’s a failure is her ex and she feels better
2: I do think it’s interesting that OP’s husband directly contributed to the chaos by getting the fiancé so drunk he literally shit himself and then was snorting at her from some weird moral high ground, but at least they were able to see the error and make up
But! the groom *didn’t* get frisky with a stripper and is, apparently, sufficiently traumatized by the experience to lay off the booze. Mission failed… successfully? 😂
Once a cheater, always a cheater!
You aren't the one that would be throwing away and ruining the friendship M did that the minute she crossed that line.
"3 he made a list of all the girls he slept with.. 4..."
FOUR WHY IS THERE A 4? WHAT WOULD YOU NEED A FOURTH REASON FOR
S1 like mother like daughter.
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree
S2 is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard 😂😂 why would you do that? 😂😂
If OP was a better girlfriend her ex would have never cheated on her.
Ugh OP1 god why are u talking to ur ex anyway
Sorry but there's no room for forgiveness op did the right thing that's not a friend that's a lying back w* that's not particularly good for op good riddance.
Story 2 seriously what she thought would happened gezz some people 🙄
Why did she re write whole story again in the update
The fact that she was contemplating to getting back with him because he was 'out of her league'. Wtf, have some more selfrespect.
Hey SecretVoices! 😊👌
Story 2 makes me remember my cousin's wedding (2nd or 3rd cousin, I think?) There were strippers, drug dealers/users, and prostitutes.
And that was just the bride's side of the family! 😅
...
Okay, so that's the joke we all tell about it because the sad thing is; that was all true. But really, everyone was well behaved and there were no shenanigans. A disappointment really, I expected more from that crowd!
(By the way, my cousin was the bride...)
The gender of OPs ex keeps changing
2:48 the fuck is bro doing 💀
I’ve definitely heard story 1 before but I don’t remember if it was on Lost Genre or Mark Narrations?
English is obviously not OP's first language... Gets tiring to try and decipher what 'she' thinks 'she' is saying.
32:29 as someone who lives less than an hour from Branson, this description is accurate, except the Flanders cousins sell all the smack, which is a considerable amount, given the amount of tweekers there are.
First story: The real person to blame for this is m's father if you think about it. If m's father hadn't abandoned her when she was a kid she might not have turned out like her mother.
He let his ex wife turn their child into a sht person by doing so and put blame on a little kid for hiding the truth when she was prolly too young to know better....
She stopped seeing him when she turned 15
She stopped going to see him not the other way around
When is leaving a cheater abandonment? The M's mom was out there going to the town and got a kid instead of a t-shirt. The daughter was the one who stopped going to the visitation. At a certain age it isn't enforced.
@@Tony.Dreamer Its simple, he didnt fight for custody against the woman who cheated on him.
You gotta be a woman the way you try and put the blame on the man
Robot telling the story is bad
i'm sorry, but i can take such boohoo-cheating-stories only halfway seriously when the OP isn't wearing diapers anymore. stories with teenagers or barely above are so boring and when a 19 y/o comes with "the love of my life" i just have to laugh.
First story took a downward turn at the end. Was that really an update or just a mix up?
Could be taken from a midpoint
1) OP's dad is amazing, and her mother needs therapy because there is definitely trauma and conditioned affection from there , because this type of attachment isn't healthy, also OP's needs theraoy too, her confidence wet badly at the ends
2) NTA this is on OP's sister, being drunk at a strip club? cuasing people to either cheat or get into arguments, also the eifeel tower thing was too "personal" for my tast, also there certain illegal substances sinvolved so its clear that its on her