Op wishes she had to leave with her kids to a safe place because he became more unhinged and threatened to kidnap the kid to force her to return to him.
“She wasn’t trying to hurt the baby, just you.” Probably one of the worst things you could ever say to a pregnant woman who’s just been assaulted. I already knew after that comment that there was no coming to his senses afterwards. If I were OP I’d have not only gotten the divorce but also a gun, because he just proved he’s just as deranged as his family. (On top of the fact that in a now deleted post he admitted to plotting to kidnap OPs children to force her back with him.)
I heard this and there was more to it. The ex husband downplay the fight between his ex wife and mother. His mother assaulted her and kicked her in to stomach while ex husband watched, she even threw a snow globe at her head. She tried to make ex wife miscarry the baby forcefully. The other thing is ex husband got chewed out in the comment section about it andnhow much of a shetty husband he is along with his equally shetty family for letting his wife get abused for so long. The end of it is he made post about how he will take his daughters hostage from his ex wife and threaten her to take him back or she will never see them again, and he will take the newborn as his own as well (the newborn is a boy and her new husband's firstborn). Someone (idk who) from the comment section linked that post to the ex-wife, who then decided with her new husband to move entirely as he is batshet crazy. (Ex husband tried to delete all his posts, including the kidnapping post)
@dogpound9851 He didn't lose full custody, he picks his daughters up from daycare and such. They only coparenting and are divorced. She already remarried to her new husband, who is an old friend after dating for a year. But after that kidnapping post he made, he most definitely lost all custody.
It’s funny how the ex-husband is still a momma’s boy since in his post he didn’t mentioned the assault his mother did on his ex-wife, the husband just stood by his mom’s side even after she assaulted his ex-wife. The ex-husband had already proved to OP and everyone on Reddit that he isn’t a real man but a momma’s boy
The husband started off so well. Like he defended OP every step of the way, and he did everything right. Then…he just does a full 180. What the f*** happened!?
Ow he fell further some of its deleted and you need a way to see deleted posts but the husband became unhinged and was planning on kidnapping the kid to force the op to return to him.
@@OTDinosaurScrubs I found this from a Foxy Narrations iteration of the story in the comments section. "Small update: Thank you to the dozens of people who reached out to me. I feel like I have a whole team in my corner. We quickly packed a few bags and I got my girls out of the house. Heading somewhere safe. He has been calling and texting very unhinged things. I cannot thank everyone in this community enough. He is now blocked on everything that I am aware of. I will update when things are settled down. To the few people who encouraged him, you f----ing suck. People were warning her that he was saying some messed up stuff in the comments of his post. People were also egging him on to invite her out to a public place, like a coffee shop to "talk" so that she'll feel safe and that "they deserve a second chance", "they need closure", "it's reasonable to just talk to them" ect. He was starting to sound very unhinged saying to come back and he will adopt the son and he has it in his mind that she wants him back too." AND ONE OF THE REPLIES "He deleted his account but one of the comments I had read was him saying he could take his daughters and not return them until she agreed to meet with him and take him back."
Well in a deleted part it get so much worse and the husband planned to kidnap the kid. People warned op who last update was that she’s had to leave to a safe place at a family’s house and had contacted the police because he was becoming more unhinged.
No matter how many times I hear this, I'll never be over how this bastard was willing to out a pregnant woman in harms way and try to EXCUSE IT on top of later playing victim when she leaves and lives happily with someone that loves her and all their kids. Sick.
awww delulu man thinkin' he can just swoop back into someone's life after he destroyed it and she rebuilt it with another man what an entitled, selfish, self centered dude. like you already blew up her life once now you want to do it again so you can "get her back"? not sure I've known many people more selfish than this unless they were actually facing charges for something.
It was the fact that his mother was deranged and delusional about having women in the family. She actively tried to hurt and end the op. The ex-husband's other relationship was bad since he felt no connection to his gf since she kept asking for marriage. He knew he fked up hard and let his mother get to him. Seeing his children being loved and cared for by another man and his ex-wife loving another man also made him delusional about wanting her back. Most painful part is he can't do shet about it since it was not only his family's fault, but majority his as he allowed the abuse and assault to happen and did nothing. (She was about 6 to 7 months pregnant when the assault happen.)
I would guess seeing his ex happy and in a loving relationship where her partner believes her and is not a mama's boy and who loves his children no matter the sex
He felt bad that he hurt his mom which caused him to listen to her when she reached out. She wanted to see him and the daughter. OP clearly being the one that had the brains said “fuck no”. So when he went to visit his mother, he felt pity for her and anger at his wife and she weaseled her way into controlling him
@@thatoneguy9816 Of course not on command, neither party can choose the gender of the baby. But only men have Y chromosomes, women could only ever make female babies. So it’s on Henry, not her, if we are going to blame anyone.
Let's be honest, even if OP was in the mood of meeting JNMIL again and show her the paternity results, MIL would have just dismissed them as forgery and the cycle starts again. One thing with this people is that they refuse to see they are wrong.
29:51 … So he finds out his ex-wife is having a boy, and now he’s having all these thoughts about wanting to be a family again… And he’s phrasing it as “I’d EVEN take on her new baby as my own”?? Wow, yes, how very trying that would be for you to gain a son along with regaining your ex and daughters, and presumably the approval of your family… That would be so very self-sacrificing. And of course in this dream world your ex-wife doesn’t keep up those pesky walls that she’s built up, and gets over her trauma since it wasn’t all that bad anyway, yes? 😝 Edit, 29:55 No, you don’t have to “pretend to be okay with it,” you have to work through your feelings on your own time and leave your ex-wife out of it!!
It’s actually way more intense so some of this story got deleted but using ways to look at deleted posts you can find the ex husbands plan to kidnap his kid to force the op to Cole back to him and how she had to leave to her family’s place to get to a safe place.
Well if any husbands disappointed by having baby girl/boy (mostly baby girl this is devastating), remind them that since sperms has X and Y chromosomes while the eggs ONLY has X chromosomes, so if anything that's husbands fault－ not the wives🍼
Dude probably shouldn't cut ties with mom since she's the only woman hes capable of truly loving. He happily drop kicked his daughters and wife for her, after all
10:01 Ah dang… Why did I have to look at the comments section. I was expecting a bunch of comments about the MIL, then saw a bunch about the EX-husband, and wondered if there could possibly be more than one story in the video… 🥲 And I was there thinking what a wholesome, strong marriage, at least OP could rely on that… 🙃
"you'll be a single mom"
Well, yeah, that's the idea behind the divorce. This guy's a toad
Op wishes she had to leave with her kids to a safe place because he became more unhinged and threatened to kidnap the kid to force her to return to him.
“She wasn’t trying to hurt the baby, just you.”
Probably one of the worst things you could ever say to a pregnant woman who’s just been assaulted. I already knew after that comment that there was no coming to his senses afterwards. If I were OP I’d have not only gotten the divorce but also a gun, because he just proved he’s just as deranged as his family. (On top of the fact that in a now deleted post he admitted to plotting to kidnap OPs children to force her back with him.)
Didn't see the post about the kidnapping stuff. Wow, he really is his mother's son
I heard this and there was more to it.
The ex husband downplay the fight between his ex wife and mother. His mother assaulted her and kicked her in to stomach while ex husband watched, she even threw a snow globe at her head. She tried to make ex wife miscarry the baby forcefully.
The other thing is ex husband got chewed out in the comment section about it andnhow much of a shetty husband he is along with his equally shetty family for letting his wife get abused for so long.
The end of it is he made post about how he will take his daughters hostage from his ex wife and threaten her to take him back or she will never see them again, and he will take the newborn as his own as well (the newborn is a boy and her new husband's firstborn). Someone (idk who) from the comment section linked that post to the ex-wife, who then decided with her new husband to move entirely as he is batshet crazy. (Ex husband tried to delete all his posts, including the kidnapping post)
He's definitely his mother's son.
Nicely done editing because this adds another layer of craziness to the story
Guess the apple didn’t fall far from the tree
Honestly impressive, didn’t realize there was a way to lose custody faster than full on assault but here we are
@dogpound9851 He didn't lose full custody, he picks his daughters up from daycare and such. They only coparenting and are divorced. She already remarried to her new husband, who is an old friend after dating for a year.
But after that kidnapping post he made, he most definitely lost all custody.
It’s funny how the ex-husband is still a momma’s boy since in his post he didn’t mentioned the assault his mother did on his ex-wife, the husband just stood by his mom’s side even after she assaulted his ex-wife. The ex-husband had already proved to OP and everyone on Reddit that he isn’t a real man but a momma’s boy
The husband started off so well. Like he defended OP every step of the way, and he did everything right. Then…he just does a full 180.
What the f*** happened!?
Mamma's boy will be Mamma's boy
Damn, Husband fell off hard. From admirable to pathetic in the span of a few days.
Ow he fell further some of its deleted and you need a way to see deleted posts but the husband became unhinged and was planning on kidnapping the kid to force the op to return to him.
@@dragb9284what in the fuck
@@OTDinosaurScrubs
I found this from a Foxy Narrations iteration of the story in the comments section.
"Small update:
Thank you to the dozens of people who reached out to me. I feel like I have a whole team in my corner. We quickly packed a few bags and I got my girls out of the house. Heading somewhere safe.
He has been calling and texting very unhinged things.
I cannot thank everyone in this community enough.
He is now blocked on everything that I am aware of.
I will update when things are settled down.
To the few people who encouraged him, you f----ing suck.
People were warning her that he was saying some messed up stuff in the comments of his post. People were also egging him on to invite her out to a public place, like a coffee shop to "talk" so that she'll feel safe and that "they deserve a second chance", "they need closure", "it's reasonable to just talk to them" ect. He was starting to sound very unhinged saying to come back and he will adopt the son and he has it in his mind that she wants him back too."
AND ONE OF THE REPLIES
"He deleted his account but one of the comments I had read was him saying he could take his daughters and not return them until she agreed to meet with him and take him back."
@@dragb9284u got a link for that?
This isnt assault. its attempted murder
life in prison with the possibility of being paroled.
Well in a deleted part it get so much worse and the husband planned to kidnap the kid. People warned op who last update was that she’s had to leave to a safe place at a family’s house and had contacted the police because he was becoming more unhinged.
What gets me is how the ex-husband claims to have cut his mom out, but still protects her by downplaying what she did.
No matter how many times I hear this, I'll never be over how this bastard was willing to out a pregnant woman in harms way and try to EXCUSE IT on top of later playing victim when she leaves and lives happily with someone that loves her and all their kids. Sick.
awww delulu man thinkin' he can just swoop back into someone's life after he destroyed it and she rebuilt it with another man
what an entitled, selfish, self centered dude. like you already blew up her life once now you want to do it again so you can "get her back"? not sure I've known many people more selfish than this unless they were actually facing charges for something.
15:32 HOLDING GRUDGES???? It’s been at most a month at this point. That’s not a grudge that’s a fresh wound
I originally thought that it was refreshing to see a partner who actually sides with the OP in this situation
..until I saw the updates
I heard this one before. I still wonder what caused the ex husband to change.
Losing children maybe
This story is absolutely crazy. Awe... Dad is sad 😂
It was the fact that his mother was deranged and delusional about having women in the family. She actively tried to hurt and end the op. The ex-husband's other relationship was bad since he felt no connection to his gf since she kept asking for marriage.
He knew he fked up hard and let his mother get to him. Seeing his children being loved and cared for by another man and his ex-wife loving another man also made him delusional about wanting her back.
Most painful part is he can't do shet about it since it was not only his family's fault, but majority his as he allowed the abuse and assault to happen and did nothing.
(She was about 6 to 7 months pregnant when the assault happen.)
I would guess seeing his ex happy and in a loving relationship where her partner believes her and is not a mama's boy and who loves his children no matter the sex
He felt bad that he hurt his mom which caused him to listen to her when she reached out. She wanted to see him and the daughter. OP clearly being the one that had the brains said “fuck no”. So when he went to visit his mother, he felt pity for her and anger at his wife and she weaseled her way into controlling him
lol this is like Henry the 8th. Blaming the woman while it’s the man who determines the gender
On command? How?
Henry VIII did actually father 2 sons however, they just didn't live long enough to make much difference.
@@thatoneguy9816 Of course not on command, neither party can choose the gender of the baby. But only men have Y chromosomes, women could only ever make female babies. So it’s on Henry, not her, if we are going to blame anyone.
@@Catherine.Dorian. explain how they can only ever make female babies when they need sperm to become pregnant?
Let's be honest, even if OP was in the mood of meeting JNMIL again and show her the paternity results, MIL would have just dismissed them as forgery and the cycle starts again.
One thing with this people is that they refuse to see they are wrong.
1000% facts.....
How do broken fingers cause you to not be able to walk?
Monster in law is a demon walks on her hands backwards....
😂😂😂😂
I sincerely doubt JNMIL would stop pressing charges if the truth failed to come out.
Theirs actually way more to this story because the husband had his own crazy saga
I'm speechless. Op's MIL is so toxic. She single-handedly imploded her son's family. What an idiot.
29:51 … So he finds out his ex-wife is having a boy, and now he’s having all these thoughts about wanting to be a family again… And he’s phrasing it as “I’d EVEN take on her new baby as my own”?? Wow, yes, how very trying that would be for you to gain a son along with regaining your ex and daughters, and presumably the approval of your family… That would be so very self-sacrificing. And of course in this dream world your ex-wife doesn’t keep up those pesky walls that she’s built up, and gets over her trauma since it wasn’t all that bad anyway, yes? 😝
Edit, 29:55 No, you don’t have to “pretend to be okay with it,” you have to work through your feelings on your own time and leave your ex-wife out of it!!
That was intense
It’s actually way more intense so some of this story got deleted but using ways to look at deleted posts you can find the ex husbands plan to kidnap his kid to force the op to Cole back to him and how she had to leave to her family’s place to get to a safe place.
Who tf kicks a pregnant woman in the stomach if not in an attempt to harm or kill the baby?? This is pure insanity.
Big L for husband
All he had to do is stick up for his wife but he FAILS that immediately
Was wondering how the husband was delusional until he reached out to his mom
There’s more to this tale the husband went nuts in some of his deleted posts.
Yeah he straight up tried to kidnap his kid to force the mom to come back
@@dragb9284 i saw a comment that explained the rest
Seriously, the entire first half I was like “what a nice and kind husband, little aloof for not realizing his family’s bullying but he’s nice”
nah that dude dont deserve a family wtf
They thought the same thing as me, send the mom laminated copy of the paternity test I'm prison and go no contact lol
I’m actually glad she got the divorce she didn’t deserve all of this hope she found someone that is good to her and her girls
Well if any husbands disappointed by having baby girl/boy (mostly baby girl this is devastating), remind them that since sperms has X and Y chromosomes while the eggs ONLY has X chromosomes, so if anything that's husbands fault－ not the wives🍼
Crazy story
looks like a bit of karma on the ex husband
Dude probably shouldn't cut ties with mom since she's the only woman hes capable of truly loving. He happily drop kicked his daughters and wife for her, after all
Not the ex husband calling people on reddit assholes.
10:01 Ah dang… Why did I have to look at the comments section. I was expecting a bunch of comments about the MIL, then saw a bunch about the EX-husband, and wondered if there could possibly be more than one story in the video… 🥲 And I was there thinking what a wholesome, strong marriage, at least OP could rely on that… 🙃