This is very true. Was with my ex narc for 6 years on and off. He never grew, or changed. The same attitudes and behaviours - just got worse. It’s like he was becoming Peter Pan. He just wanted fun and adventure. He never held down a full time job, was miserable as hell, and told me we need to focus more on the sex. We in our 50’s!…I wanted more love and affection, but he couldn’t do it. He said “emotions are boring, let’s focus more on the sex”. That told me all I needed to know. I didn’t even want to sleep with him after that!…things went downhill from there. They are pathetic and scared of aging. They still think they are young and everyone wants them - delusional creatures!
I use to sing to my Ex never never land right next to Peter Pan because it’s absolutely true. They never want to grow up but if you know anything about Pan definitely dark and sinister.
Wow! I cannot believe that we have similar stories. I had to let mine go in 2016, and it is only now that I have begun my healing journey. But as I read your post, I literally saw my ex. It was like a mirror. Interesting.
Didn’t know anything about Narcissist until after I broke up with him found out on TH-cam last year.The most stressful difficult individual I ever met. NEVER NO ACCOUNTABILITY 🤷🏽♀️ There’s no growth they don’t want change or to do better. Every thing you said in this video is 100% right my ex displayed this and more 🤦🏾♀️
You hit the nail dead on the head. They definitely do not grow and hate taking orders from anyone. They will job hop because, they don't want to do what they are asked.
It’s insane how they think ppl don’t catch onto their actions. I was seeing this woman from work for about a year. At first she came off very outgoing flirting being touchy at work and we stepped out all the time, things got sexual and was going smooth. But as I was expecting more things besides going for drinks she started saying I was needy and I believed her and calmed down, or in her words “let things flow”. I noticed every weekend she wouldn’t hmu but during weeknights she would and as my mother told me, those times are for someone else than. I started picking up on her tactics and started voicing my opinions and she pulls away than Hoovers. Just last week I gave her the benefit of the doubt but she went m.I.a again and I told her how I felt and she laughed about it and blocked me as I did to her. They don’t grow at all, mind you she’s 11 years older than me (26,37) she’s a mess . Stay strong fellas. No matter how good they look, you will get the same good looking woman but better mentality. Trust god and the process he hears conversations you didn’t and saw things you didn’t ⛪️
My brother is a golden child narcissist. He stopped at about 14, 15, 16. He is 51 now and still operating as a teenager. It is kind of sad in a big way. No maturity. No perspective.
Dealt w narc 15 years 3 kids and one from her previous, I understand brother. and I can hear it in your voice you've lived it.respect for opening up big homie.
A man does not deserve respect for opening up 🤷🏾♀️ you tell women to keep their mouths closed looking for opportunities to drag their every vulnerable moment like someone needs YOUR permission to talk about themselves. When this shit really hits the fan don't say you weren't warned & kept thinking ya scary delusional ass was untouchable ✌🏽 no means no
My ex from high school reappeared recently we’re in our 40s. This dude is homeless and unemployed. Every time I run into him this is his status. Yet he still be trying to have sex with me. He doesn’t care that he’s not stable sleeps in his car and has nothing to offer my life. He thinks because we’ve known each other so long I should look past his circumstances. He’s about to start a podcast and get into real estate 😩he says. Narcissist are delusional. I blocked him.
Things will get better I’ve been through this my whole life.Did not find out till my early fifties.Then bingo all my questions answered.Its truly healing.
You nailed it!!!!! My Narc is getting older and is struggling to keep that mask on!!!!! Thanks for helping those that are struggling to understand their bazaar behavior!!!!❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
The evolving door, will continue with you like that if you let it. When you recognize what's going on, don't let them back in. Walk away. They will drag you down a rabbit hole. Next thing you know, you have wasted your whole life going in circles with this person.
THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING THIS, I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS.I WAS EMOTIONALLY ABUSED BY A MALIGNANT OVERT NARCISSISTS. WHEN I HAD MET THIS PERSON HE WAS 52 HE HAS GOTTEN WORSE HE IS 62 KNOW HIS ABUSE HAS GOTTEN WORSE HE ONLY COMES AROUND ME TO USE ME HE HAS NUMEROUS OF WOMEN. HE IS ACTUALLY GIVING ME THE SILENT TREATMENT.FOR OVER 4 MONTHS. THIS IS HOW THIS PERSON BROKE ME DOWN. NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS VERY BRUTAL…
When he is ghosting you look at it as a relief and use that time to get into the word surround yourself with positive people and keep listening videos like this!!!❤
I hate that I got involved with the trio. The whole family is a bunch of narcs. I love 💕 God and was in a terrible situation when the Satan babies came into my inter circle.l live in a community of lies and gaslighting. It made me a great target.
My sister is a narcissist, but she constantly says she wants her kids back. I am consider the truth teller + scapegoat, in my family. My sister when talking with her, she's claiming that she wants her kids back, but then she's not truly trying to get them back. She does to a point, but she won't quit the things she wants for her children. When she told me that she's in therapy because she ( has to be ) to get her children back. Her actions and behavior was resentment in not only having to go to therapy and drug addicts group talks, but also resentment towards having to pay child support, because of her behavior and actions. I believe it is more about trying to look good so others believe she is this caring parent and that she also doesn't want to have to pay child support. She wants to be in a relationship because she wants the guy to shovel out money on her, and the free help she receives. My sister is very beautiful and thin, she tell the men that she's involved with that she has a month on her, that she's a crazy b**ch ( her words ) and they still fall under her spell. It's extremely fascinating to watch these guys line up to be her door mat even thou she's literally telling them she's toxic. I love my sister and want a real relationship with her ( because she is my sister ). But she's a narcissist and that bond will never happen. Only recently have I figured out the name of what she is. Not having a label of why she's like this. For 36 years I was her target of belittling, degrading and making fun of. Most people dealing with narcissistic abuse have depression and anxiety. I have major depression and anxiety, which I see a therapist for ( every month ). I watch on TH-cam Doctor Ramani ( top in her field of narcissist behavior ), learning more about my sister, my family, myself and what I've been dealing with. Thank you so much for this video, it does explain things more on what to expect or ( to not expect ) in a relationship with a narcissist as they get out of those younger years and into adulthood.
This is oh so true, they are literally empty vessels, no indepth conversation unless its about sex, thats it, smh, and my ex is 63 goin on 64 but the mindset is 14
My aging Narc is history I’m not going back he’s about to be 56 going on 21 smh he’s older than me but I’m not mature maturity doesn’t come with age it comes with acceptance of responsibility.
I had never known about narcissist, I couldn’t understand how things had changed from the most southern as I was told man to everything being my fault, walking on egg shells. I thought he was maybe bipolar. Someone said that narcissist word and started watching them videos. Watching you, I feel you really have been through it. What I hear in your voice I hear myself just a male side. I left mine a few months ago and never being in a relationship like this I ask myself how will I know if this won’t happen again, it’s scary thinking of getting into another relationship. What I do know is I have to focus on myself and my family who stood by me and helped. Thank you for your testimony🙏🏼🙏🏼 BTW mine told me every woman left him but his ex wife, he left her.
This is very true. Was with my ex narc for 6 years on and off. He never grew, or changed. The same attitudes and behaviours - just got worse. It’s like he was becoming Peter Pan. He just wanted fun and adventure. He never held down a full time job, was miserable as hell, and told me we need to focus more on the sex. We in our 50’s!…I wanted more love and affection, but he couldn’t do it. He said “emotions are boring, let’s focus more on the sex”. That told me all I needed to know. I didn’t even want to sleep with him after that!…things went downhill from there. They are pathetic and scared of aging. They still think they are young and everyone wants them - delusional creatures!
I use to sing to my Ex never never land right next to Peter Pan because it’s absolutely true. They never want to grow up but if you know anything about Pan definitely dark and sinister.
Wow! I cannot believe that we have similar stories. I had to let mine go in 2016, and it is only now that I have begun my healing journey. But as I read your post, I literally saw my ex. It was like a mirror. Interesting.
People think we be making this shyt up
Naw this real. Bish drove me to a stroke but bruh God going bring us all out of this season and be great.
You are so on point, what they say and what they do are so very different. Watch what the do and ignore what they say as they lie lie lie.
Because it’s harder to get supreme supply
The go back to old toxic supply like they knew who does that
Using old tactics that don’t work like it use to
Everything has its day. The narc is a has-been.
A narcisist will use the same tactic, 100,000 times after it doesn’t work
Detached from reality and from logic itself
Didn’t know anything about Narcissist until after I broke up with him found out on TH-cam last year.The most stressful difficult individual I ever met. NEVER NO ACCOUNTABILITY 🤷🏽♀️
There’s no growth they don’t want change or to do better. Every thing you said in this video is 100% right my ex displayed this and more 🤦🏾♀️
You hit the nail dead on the head. They definitely do not grow and hate taking orders from anyone. They will job hop because, they don't want to do what they are asked.
It’s insane how they think ppl don’t catch onto their actions. I was seeing this woman from work for about a year. At first she came off very outgoing flirting being touchy at work and we stepped out all the time, things got sexual and was going smooth. But as I was expecting more things besides going for drinks she started saying I was needy and I believed her and calmed down, or in her words “let things flow”. I noticed every weekend she wouldn’t hmu but during weeknights she would and as my mother told me, those times are for someone else than. I started picking up on her tactics and started voicing my opinions and she pulls away than Hoovers. Just last week I gave her the benefit of the doubt but she went m.I.a again and I told her how I felt and she laughed about it and blocked me as I did to her. They don’t grow at all, mind you she’s 11 years older than me (26,37) she’s a mess . Stay strong fellas. No matter how good they look, you will get the same good looking woman but better mentality. Trust god and the process he hears conversations you didn’t and saw things you didn’t ⛪️
They like to touch you I had this experience my whole life .Looking back creepy .
@@lynnkliewer7201 weirdos
They're difficult people to deal with.
Yes when the expectations rise the devaluing kicks in
My brother is a golden child narcissist. He stopped at about 14, 15, 16. He is 51 now and still operating as a teenager. It is kind of sad in a big way. No maturity. No perspective.
Youngblood you are a BLESSING in a time when soulless people are terrorizing the soul being...you are appreciated, soul to soul all love.......
Appreciate the love and encouragement Greg! ❤️💪🏾
Dealt w narc 15 years 3 kids and one from her previous, I understand brother. and I can hear it in your voice you've lived it.respect for opening up big homie.
A man does not deserve respect for opening up 🤷🏾♀️ you tell women to keep their mouths closed looking for opportunities to drag their every vulnerable moment like someone needs YOUR permission to talk about themselves. When this shit really hits the fan don't say you weren't warned & kept thinking ya scary delusional ass was untouchable ✌🏽 no means no
My ex from high school reappeared recently we’re in our 40s. This dude is homeless and unemployed. Every time I run into him this is his status. Yet he still be trying to have sex with me. He doesn’t care that he’s not stable sleeps in his car and has nothing to offer my life. He thinks because we’ve known each other so long I should look past his circumstances. He’s about to start a podcast and get into real estate 😩he says. Narcissist are delusional. I blocked him.
Things will get better I’ve been through this my whole life.Did not find out till my early fifties.Then bingo all my questions answered.Its truly healing.
They become miserable the older they get, because the sex is not giving tjem what they want
You nailed it!!!!! My Narc is getting older and is struggling to keep that mask on!!!!! Thanks for helping those that are struggling to understand their bazaar behavior!!!!❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
Keep keeping it BRIGHT💜
The evolving door, will continue with you like that if you let it. When you recognize what's going on, don't let them back in. Walk away. They will drag you down a rabbit hole. Next thing you know, you have wasted your whole life going in circles with this person.
THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING THIS,
I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS.I WAS EMOTIONALLY ABUSED BY A MALIGNANT OVERT NARCISSISTS.
WHEN I HAD MET THIS PERSON HE WAS 52 HE HAS GOTTEN WORSE HE IS 62 KNOW HIS ABUSE HAS GOTTEN WORSE
HE ONLY COMES AROUND ME TO USE ME
HE HAS NUMEROUS OF WOMEN.
HE IS ACTUALLY GIVING ME THE SILENT TREATMENT.FOR OVER 4 MONTHS.
THIS IS HOW THIS PERSON BROKE ME DOWN.
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS VERY BRUTAL…
Hi Demi very good to see you! Thanks so much for your feedback! ❤️💪🏾
It’s sad to hear so many stories like yours Demi! I’m sorry you had to experience it!
@@eradicatingnarcs
Thank YOU SO VERY MUCH IM GOING THROUGH
SOME HEALTH ISSUES AS WELL.NARCISSISTIC ABUSE IS VERY BRUTAL
THANK YOU FOR CARING
When he is ghosting you look at it as a relief and use that time to get into the word surround yourself with positive people and keep listening videos like this!!!❤
@@patsyjones4365
You Are Absolutely Right Thank You🙏
I hate that I got involved with the trio. The whole family is a bunch of narcs. I love 💕 God and was in a terrible situation when the Satan babies came into my inter circle.l live in a community of lies and gaslighting. It made me a great target.
My sister is a narcissist, but she constantly says she wants her kids back.
I am consider the truth teller + scapegoat, in my family.
My sister when talking with her, she's claiming that she wants her kids back, but then she's not truly trying to get them back. She does to a point, but she won't quit the things she wants for her children.
When she told me that she's in therapy because she ( has to be ) to get her children back. Her actions and behavior was resentment in not only having to go to therapy and drug addicts group talks, but also resentment towards having to pay child support, because of her behavior and actions.
I believe it is more about trying to look good so others believe she is this caring parent and that she also doesn't want to have to pay child support.
She wants to be in a relationship because she wants the guy to shovel out money on her, and the free help she receives.
My sister is very beautiful and thin, she tell the men that she's involved with that she has a month on her, that she's a crazy b**ch ( her words ) and they still fall under her spell. It's extremely fascinating to watch these guys line up to be her door mat even thou she's literally telling them she's toxic.
I love my sister and want a real relationship with her ( because she is my sister ). But she's a narcissist and that bond will never happen. Only recently have I figured out the name of what she is. Not having a label of why she's like this. For 36 years I was her target of belittling, degrading and making fun of. Most people dealing with narcissistic abuse have depression and anxiety. I have major depression and anxiety, which I see a therapist for ( every month ).
I watch on TH-cam Doctor Ramani ( top in her field of narcissist behavior ), learning more about my sister, my family, myself and what I've been dealing with.
Thank you so much for this video, it does explain things more on what to expect or ( to not expect ) in a relationship with a narcissist as they get out of those younger years and into adulthood.
This is oh so true, they are literally empty vessels, no indepth conversation unless its about sex, thats it, smh, and my ex is 63 goin on 64 but the mindset is 14
Absolutely 💯
You hit the nail on the head that’s exactly how my ex husband is to the T
Great video... This video answered all my questions about the aging narc. Thank you.
My narc mom gets worse everyday.
My aging Narc is history I’m not going back he’s about to be 56 going on 21 smh he’s older than me but I’m not mature maturity doesn’t come with age it comes with acceptance of responsibility.
I was wondering, do you do coaching sessions???
Yes I do please email me if you’re interested in one on one coaching @:
EradicatingNarcs@gmail.com
I had never known about narcissist, I couldn’t understand how things had changed from the most southern as I was told man to everything being my fault, walking on egg shells. I thought he was maybe bipolar. Someone said that narcissist word and started watching them videos. Watching you, I feel you really have been through it. What I hear in your voice I hear myself just a male side.
I left mine a few months ago and never being in a relationship like this I ask myself how will I know if this won’t happen again, it’s scary thinking of getting into another relationship. What I do know is I have to focus on myself and my family who stood by me and helped. Thank you for your testimony🙏🏼🙏🏼 BTW mine told me every woman left him but his ex wife, he left her.
Your welcome*
All facts
I know a narc that's 30 but looks 55. Dude look like a baby boomer retiree lmaooo.
🤣
That happens because they are so evil
My narcissist neighbor are very very evil devil's love big brother on yo 2000✌❤👑👑🌍
💯🙏🙏🙏💚