To those finding themselves navigating The Dark Night of the Soul, don't fear it nor fight it. Instead appreciate and value the opportunity. For it will ultimately lead to being one of the greatest things that can happen to someone. Be strong, be wise, be you. Happy birthday Ryan and a Happy New Year! You're loved. Ps: Your song preview of "All That's Left" at the end sounds amazing! Can't wait to listen to it if you ever decide to release it!
I 100% believe we need to be more community bonded. We have lost that over these years of social media based life. In person is most optimal, but any form of community will benefit in our life! Stay true, love your passion
Brother, do not halt your work. I find much joy in your videos, their effects reaching even someone like myself, whose life views may largely differ from your own. Our backgrounds in faith, culture and life experience might diverge greatly, yet your messages affect me deeply, resonating with the emotions many men often feel as they navigate through them. You tackle these with a degree of artistry, authenticity, and beauty that is indeed rare. Pray, do persist, brother, for this kind of self-improvement is much needed. Achieving mastery of the body, securing financial stability, and acquiring material assets hold significant value. Yet it is of equal, perhaps even greater importance to navigate these pursuits guided by a spiritual compass whilst developing the mind. By promoting a holistic view of masculinity, you are truly making a difference. May this honorable and noble endeavor of yours persevere unimpeded.
Man... I love everything about this comment. Thank you so much. I agree that having different backgrounds of faith, etc is truly okay... if a person's heart is in the right place and they are truly seeking, then the benevolent divine won't steer them wrong. I feel deeply encouraged by your words tonight brother. Very appreciated
Happy birthday! You look way younger than 36! Actually, you look my age (28). Hope your birthday was great and I will see you inside the community. I really enjoyed your outlook on suffering. Yes we work out and suffer physically but I think we really avoid suffering mentally like you said and you really opened my eyes to realize we need to choose to suffer mentally too to get stronger like a workout for our physical body. Mind blown
MAXWELL - I also just saw that you joined the online community... I'm honestly thrilled to have you in there man. Your comments on youtube alone are always so full of value and sincerity. You're going to fit right in. And thanks for the birthday wish
@@TheConsciousMan143 Hah! You always make me feel seen man. I love it. I am glad to be a part of it! I think it's a great idea and I am glad that I get to support you. I do really try to put sincere and valuable comments thank you so much for that really solid compliment as well as noticing and taking the time to converse with me through them all.
Happy birthday dude!!! I've been watching your videos, especially the raw car chats they've really enlightened me and helped me. All of us struggle throughout our lives but we should never give up. To those people who are on edge of giving up or unaliving themselves, know that there is light at the end of the journey, just never give up, find that courage to face your problems and be resilient. And to you, Happy Birthday once again! You have a long life ahead of you and no matter how difficult life is, you've built a community that is always rooting for you.
I just wanted to take a moment to thank you for all your videos, Your content. And specifically the video titled " Men keep killing themselves " I have found myself in a perpetually dark place for a long time. Thinking back longer than I can even put a timestamp on. I have watched that video in it's entirety probably ten times. As demoralized, sad, and defeated I live my life, your videos do offer me a small window into what I would one day aspire to. On the surface the differences between us are vast but... we are the same age, our pasts and at our core I feel like we are nearly the same person. I appreciate what you are doing with this channel, which I stumbled upon one night going down the rabbit hole. Everything you do here resonates with me on a deep level and I hope you continue the good work with what you are contributing to an entire world of people out there, people like me. People like you. Happy birthday to you, And from the bottom of my heart; thank you.
This means to world man.. I'm amazed at how the TY algorithm keeps brining so many like minded men to this channel, especially with how specific it is. Consider the community if you feel like you need extra support, accountability, or connection... already a solid group of guys who can relate to the struggles. Sending love your way brother
an important lesson i learned from Teal Swan is that I had to learn to sit with my suffering if I am going to heal from my addictions. That I wasn't gonna get out of this Hell without going directly through it.
I watch your videos every night to remind myself that I am enough that I am worth it and I’m willing to do it through the pain and the suffering to reach my goals and my potential‘s even though when I feel that I am not enough sometimes, or care for others more than I care for myself which I still struggle with, but watching you talking about the hero of the villain, resentment part, I find myself in the most towards others, but mostly myself for allowing it to get to me, and being consumed, like it’s the Darkside of the force . So with that being said, thank you, my guy.
Found you, subscribed to you. I am a 24 year old man, trying to understand myself and I searched for "life after 30" on ytb and there I found your video. Never gonna regret this decision. Your thought resonate with my soul. I deeply appreciate your work... keep coming these videos. Thanks!!
Man I love these type of videos, but the best thing is always waiting in the end, because your music is absolutely gorgeous! Keep doing what you doing, PEACE..
Keep Them coming bro, you are doing a Great Job . Your Videos provide great Insights to me and Gave me a Reason and Motivation to Keep doing . Insha'Allah I will be Disciplined and so will you all .
I'm grow with many trauma's inside a deep lovely but oppressive religious family, I've recognized all those issues explained in your clips and I've experienced in a little way what your Dad have lived and passed, cause also I, was close to become a priest but addicted to bad thoughts in that time, many years ago . Now I'm 35, unhappy but completely conscious and very awaken about social control and structures of power, about how they work for enslaved simple minds, fears and pain are what they use for enslave humans, inside their minds.
I was watching porn today (having mental health problems for months) and then suddenly I turned off all the incognito tabs and opened the TH-cam and guess what? Your 1st video of Raw talk while driving was on my screen and now I AM YOUR NEW SUBSCRIBER , RESPECT FROM INDIA….🤝
Isn’t that a blessing tho , that’s it’s not permanent, if everything was permanent beauty wouldn’t exist , what makes life so amazing and beautiful is it’s feeling that we’re here and will never be “here” again at least this world 🌎 ❤ 3:50 death is actually what produces beauty and love
I'm wondering if my comment on the last video made you meditate about enduring the pain (wich you probably already know) and make this video. And you're right, the hero experice pain, but also the villain, the diference is that the villain feels wronged and want to inflict his pain into others, and the hero wants to make sure that no one feels that. Pain is something that changes a person, can bring them to their demise or elevate them to greatness, but only if you live through it. Thats why some people need help getting through it, because they only see the bad side of it, and not what they can learn from it. And remember “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.” - Dalai Lama (control your thoughts, observe the pain with an eager to learn perspective, don't focus on the negative or you will suffer). Cheers brother, keep up the good work.
Man I wouldn't be surprised. I certainly try to read every comment even though I can't reply to all of them. The feedback definitely inspires me and gets me thinking. Appreciate you sharing
Hey man thanks for this video. I really get the vibe that you are living a deeper life. I am really struggling right now trying to figure out what I should do next after graduating from college. I devoted to living a more conscious life and hope to contribute in that way. Do you have any thoughts are advice on how I can go about doing that? The options my degree offers are not really something I want to pursue. Thanks so much, means more than you know!
As generic as this sounds, try a TON of different things that you are genuinely interested in and curious about. Also take time to unplug, get out into nature, pray (if you are a spiritual person) for direction in alignment with your natural gifts and leanings. There's no straight forward route, which is why most people just settle for the first safe job or occupation that comes their way. Also rea "way of the superior man," for clarity in finding purpose. Much love
Hello.... Just saw your third video and really like your message...... I am interested in finding out more about the self improvement and be more positive. Is this like a zoom one on one? Thanks for sharing.
I have been hit with tornadoes and I have resentment for others who haven’t. They make me so angry at work too worrying about petty things. Any advice on dealing with that?
“…but do not suffer as murderers, thieves…etc., but suffer as the righteous…” a verse from the Bible “…I’ll never turn to the dark side (give in to anger and resentment, and kill his father)… I am a Jedi…” We sometimes underestimate the importance of good vs evil from within. I think this is also missing from a lot of story telling these days. 🤔 could just be the bartholomew in me
I enjoy your videos (at least the two that I've watched) and have found your perspective valuable. I wanted to give you some feedback on the whole paid community angle. I get that you are trying to make this into your career and you need to find a model for that, but when you market something like that, I really think it undermines your authenticity which is an important asset. It feels like you're saying, "if you don't pay me, you don't get support." Seems like a voluntary payment system a la Patreon would be better. I also get that maybe you don't have a big enough subscriber base for that yet, and to each their own, but I am just giving my feedback. $25 a month is a lot of money, and as a self-respecting man I don't feel I could ever justify paying that just to get advice from some folks on the internet. You can get that for free. I'm just giving you honest feedback. I think if you keep making these videos you could find a better way to monetize it a few months or weeks down the line when you have more subscribers which doesn't come off as exploitative.
hey man, just some feedback on the video; great message but for the next time, could you avoid the cutting in the video? I know that youre trying to build up to your point but non of your viewers are in a hurry and Im almost certian nobody who watches you would care if the video got 2-3 minutes longer.
How do you handle rumination? Some people view it is good (something you cant control) and some people view it is as bad and try to change their thinking
How does it feel to be handsome with a sexy body ?. Is it something that you do to attract people by working out ?. Its only external, and doesn't have depth. Its the internal and a persons own mental thats important.
Brother, as a Muslims we shouldn’t discourage other ppls methods of peace. I know ur coming from a genuine place, but we should word our statements with much purity as to encourage those on the path to betterness to see the beauty of Islam. May Allah bless peace upon those who are on this path 🙏
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To those finding themselves navigating The Dark Night of the Soul, don't fear it nor fight it. Instead appreciate and value the opportunity. For it will ultimately lead to being one of the greatest things that can happen to someone. Be strong, be wise, be you.
Happy birthday Ryan and a Happy New Year!
You're loved.
Ps: Your song preview of "All That's Left" at the end sounds amazing! Can't wait to listen to it if you ever decide to release it!
Very true brother, thank you for sharing. Words of wisdom here.
. .and I will let you know if the song is ever released
I'll hold you to that ;) @@TheConsciousMan143
I’m a woman and I love your videos and the work you’re doing here. Keep it up 😊
I appreciate that
I 100% believe we need to be more community bonded. We have lost that over these years of social media based life.
In person is most optimal, but any form of community will benefit in our life!
Stay true, love your passion
I agree… almost lost myself completely at one point without any form of community. thanks for sharing
Brother, do not halt your work. I find much joy in your videos, their effects reaching even someone like myself, whose life views may largely differ from your own. Our backgrounds in faith, culture and life experience might diverge greatly, yet your messages affect me deeply, resonating with the emotions many men often feel as they navigate through them. You tackle these with a degree of artistry, authenticity, and beauty that is indeed rare.
Pray, do persist, brother, for this kind of self-improvement is much needed. Achieving mastery of the body, securing financial stability, and acquiring material assets hold significant value. Yet it is of equal, perhaps even greater importance to navigate these pursuits guided by a spiritual compass whilst developing the mind. By promoting a holistic view of masculinity, you are truly making a difference. May this honorable and noble endeavor of yours persevere unimpeded.
Man... I love everything about this comment. Thank you so much. I agree that having different backgrounds of faith, etc is truly okay... if a person's heart is in the right place and they are truly seeking, then the benevolent divine won't steer them wrong.
I feel deeply encouraged by your words tonight brother. Very appreciated
Love these, keep them coming please.
Making a big impact on my life.
Hell yes
For real
Keep them coming brother. You are making an impact
That means a lot. More is coming
Happy birthday!
You look way younger than 36! Actually, you look my age (28). Hope your birthday was great and I will see you inside the community.
I really enjoyed your outlook on suffering. Yes we work out and suffer physically but I think we really avoid suffering mentally like you said and you really opened my eyes to realize we need to choose to suffer mentally too to get stronger like a workout for our physical body.
Mind blown
MAXWELL - I also just saw that you joined the online community... I'm honestly thrilled to have you in there man. Your comments on youtube alone are always so full of value and sincerity. You're going to fit right in.
And thanks for the birthday wish
@@TheConsciousMan143 Hah! You always make me feel seen man. I love it. I am glad to be a part of it! I think it's a great idea and I am glad that I get to support you.
I do really try to put sincere and valuable comments thank you so much for that really solid compliment as well as noticing and taking the time to converse with me through them all.
Deep as usual my friend. This work you are doing is important . Thank you !
Absolutely brother, appreciate you watching and being open
Man kepp going you are underrated but i am sure you will get what you deserve
Much appreciated man
Happy birthday man!! You're a helpful voice in a sorrowful world, and that's a beautiful thing
Means the world. Thank you
Thank you buddy, this video changed my thought process completely.
Glad it resonated brother... much love
Happy birthday dude!!! I've been watching your videos, especially the raw car chats they've really enlightened me and helped me. All of us struggle throughout our lives but we should never give up. To those people who are on edge of giving up or unaliving themselves, know that there is light at the end of the journey, just never give up, find that courage to face your problems and be resilient. And to you, Happy Birthday once again! You have a long life ahead of you and no matter how difficult life is, you've built a community that is always rooting for you.
I like the sign-off message that you've kept. And happy birthday! (I know I said this on your other post, but no harm.)
I'm glad man, and no harm at all. Thank you
I just wanted to take a moment to thank you for all your videos, Your content.
And specifically the video titled " Men keep killing themselves "
I have found myself in a perpetually dark place for a long time. Thinking back longer than I can even put a timestamp on. I have watched that video in it's entirety probably ten times.
As demoralized, sad, and defeated I live my life, your videos do offer me a small window into what I would one day aspire to.
On the surface the differences between us are vast but... we are the same age, our pasts and at our core I feel like we are nearly the same person.
I appreciate what you are doing with this channel, which I stumbled upon one night going down the rabbit hole. Everything you do here resonates with me on a deep level and I hope you continue the good work with what you are contributing to an entire world of people out there, people like me.
People like you.
Happy birthday to you,
And from the bottom of my heart; thank you.
This means to world man.. I'm amazed at how the TY algorithm keeps brining so many like minded men to this channel, especially with how specific it is. Consider the community if you feel like you need extra support, accountability, or connection... already a solid group of guys who can relate to the struggles. Sending love your way brother
Man I can feel pain behind those eyes and voice. Video stuck something inside in me. Thank you brother from another mother.
Much love brother...
an important lesson i learned from Teal Swan is that I had to learn to sit with my suffering if I am going to heal from my addictions. That I wasn't gonna get out of this Hell without going directly through it.
beautifully said, and true. THanks for sharing
Happy Birthday brother man 🤟Thank you for all the motivation 🖤
Appreciate it man
I’m really surprised he doesn’t have way more subscribers, this is good stuff fam -
I watch your videos every night to remind myself that I am enough that I am worth it and I’m willing to do it through the pain and the suffering to reach my goals and my potential‘s even though when I feel that I am not enough sometimes, or care for others more than I care for myself which I still struggle with, but watching you talking about the hero of the villain, resentment part, I find myself in the most towards others, but mostly myself for allowing it to get to me, and being consumed, like it’s the Darkside of the force . So with that being said, thank you, my guy.
Appreciate your work, I have been really going though it mentally recently and your car videos have really helped.
Absolutely brother, I'm so glad. Keep going... much love
Found you, subscribed to you. I am a 24 year old man, trying to understand myself and I searched for "life after 30" on ytb and there I found your video. Never gonna regret this decision. Your thought resonate with my soul. I deeply appreciate your work... keep coming these videos. Thanks!!
It's an absolute honor brother... so glad it resonates with you, and grateful you found the channel when you did. Sending love your way
my mans looking jackedddd 🔥☝️
Thanks bro
@TheConsciousMan143 any possible suggestions/advice?
Man, you look good! God bless ❤
Thank You so much for makeing these videos. I love your idea of mounting the camra outside the car (althougha little risky).
You are so welcome brother, glad you found the channel
Happy birthday men. And happg new year. Great video. Thanks for all your videos.
Thanks man, and you are very welcome
Happy birthday man. Thank you for the videos.
It's a pleasure brother
Love you, brother. Happy birthday
Love you too my man. So stoked to have someone like you in the community. Excited to have the zoom meetings start up in the next week.
Just found your videos today, much love from this side of the world.
Man I love these type of videos, but the best thing is always waiting in the end, because your music is absolutely gorgeous! Keep doing what you doing, PEACE..
thank you so much brother
Keep Them coming bro, you are doing a Great Job .
Your Videos provide great Insights to me and Gave me a Reason and Motivation to Keep doing .
Insha'Allah I will be Disciplined and so will you all .
Man, you're channel is incredible.
I'm grow with many trauma's inside a deep lovely but oppressive religious family, I've recognized all those issues explained in your clips and I've experienced in a little way what your Dad have lived and passed, cause also I, was close to become a priest but addicted to bad thoughts in that time, many years ago . Now I'm 35, unhappy but completely conscious and very awaken about social control and structures of power, about how they work for enslaved simple minds, fears and pain are what they use for enslave humans, inside their minds.
I was watching porn today (having mental health problems for months) and then suddenly I turned off all the incognito tabs and opened the TH-cam and guess what? Your 1st video of Raw talk while driving was on my screen and now I AM YOUR NEW SUBSCRIBER , RESPECT FROM INDIA….🤝
Isn’t that a blessing tho , that’s it’s not permanent, if everything was permanent beauty wouldn’t exist , what makes life so amazing and beautiful is it’s feeling that we’re here and will never be “here” again at least this world 🌎 ❤ 3:50 death is actually what produces beauty and love
Great topics in this video man. Happy birthday Ryan! And a happy new year to you as well. God bless you Ryan ❤ you da man!
Love you man
@@TheConsciousMan143 love you to brother! ❤️
I'm wondering if my comment on the last video made you meditate about enduring the pain (wich you probably already know) and make this video. And you're right, the hero experice pain, but also the villain, the diference is that the villain feels wronged and want to inflict his pain into others, and the hero wants to make sure that no one feels that. Pain is something that changes a person, can bring them to their demise or elevate them to greatness, but only if you live through it. Thats why some people need help getting through it, because they only see the bad side of it, and not what they can learn from it. And remember “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.” - Dalai Lama (control your thoughts, observe the pain with an eager to learn perspective, don't focus on the negative or you will suffer).
Cheers brother, keep up the good work.
Man I wouldn't be surprised. I certainly try to read every comment even though I can't reply to all of them. The feedback definitely inspires me and gets me thinking.
Appreciate you sharing
Thank you. Happy birthday, brother
Sam sulek wants his video style you've completely lifted back
Hey man thanks for this video. I really get the vibe that you are living a deeper life. I am really struggling right now trying to figure out what I should do next after graduating from college. I devoted to living a more conscious life and hope to contribute in that way. Do you have any thoughts are advice on how I can go about doing that? The options my degree offers are not really something I want to pursue. Thanks so much, means more than you know!
As generic as this sounds, try a TON of different things that you are genuinely interested in and curious about. Also take time to unplug, get out into nature, pray (if you are a spiritual person) for direction in alignment with your natural gifts and leanings.
There's no straight forward route, which is why most people just settle for the first safe job or occupation that comes their way.
Also rea "way of the superior man," for clarity in finding purpose. Much love
Happy birthday 🎉 best wishes for this new year
Hello.... Just saw your third video and really like your message...... I am interested in finding out more about the self improvement and be more positive. Is this like a zoom one on one? Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for watching brother.
happy birthday brother
he's back 🙏🏽 missed you bro. 💙
Missed you too
Happy Birthday brother!!
Happy Birthday brother!🎉🎉🎉
I have been hit with tornadoes and I have resentment for others who haven’t. They make me so angry at work too worrying about petty things. Any advice on dealing with that?
“…but do not suffer as murderers, thieves…etc., but suffer as the righteous…” a verse from the Bible
“…I’ll never turn to the dark side (give in to anger and resentment, and kill his father)… I am a Jedi…”
We sometimes underestimate the importance of good vs evil from within. I think this is also missing from a lot of story telling these days. 🤔 could just be the bartholomew in me
Happy birthday from south africa 🇿🇦
Thanks man
what camera do you use? Amazing video btw as usual
I enjoy your videos (at least the two that I've watched) and have found your perspective valuable. I wanted to give you some feedback on the whole paid community angle.
I get that you are trying to make this into your career and you need to find a model for that, but when you market something like that, I really think it undermines your authenticity which is an important asset. It feels like you're saying, "if you don't pay me, you don't get support." Seems like a voluntary payment system a la Patreon would be better. I also get that maybe you don't have a big enough subscriber base for that yet, and to each their own, but I am just giving my feedback. $25 a month is a lot of money, and as a self-respecting man I don't feel I could ever justify paying that just to get advice from some folks on the internet. You can get that for free.
I'm just giving you honest feedback. I think if you keep making these videos you could find a better way to monetize it a few months or weeks down the line when you have more subscribers which doesn't come off as exploitative.
I drive
- Ryan Gosling
My name is literally Ryan
@@TheConsciousMan143😂😂😂 that’s amazing
the audio is so crisp while driving, curious how you're able to pull that off!
hey man, just some feedback on the video; great message but for the next time, could you avoid the cutting in the video? I know that youre trying to build up to your point but non of your viewers are in a hurry and Im almost certian nobody who watches you would care if the video got 2-3 minutes longer.
Happy belated birthday bro
Thank you my dude
🖤👏
happy b day i like your videos
Thanks man, I'm glad
How do you handle rumination? Some people view it is good (something you cant control) and some people view it is as bad and try to change their thinking
what car do u have, it's nice man
HBD bro 💪🎉
Thanks!
nice💯
Appreciated
Happy birthday
How does it feel to be handsome with a sexy body ?. Is it something that you do to attract people by working out ?. Its only external, and doesn't have depth. Its the internal and a persons own mental thats important.
Nioce
What car mount and lens do you use to film this videos?
Im studying your videos for an islamic school project, i hope its ok,
happy b day
Thank you
I am tired of life plzz some help a
Why man?
Breathe, focus on thé présent only, It will pass
bro you should smile more often and show some gratitute. Life is good, don't be so depressed
Mama mama mama mama
You should look at Islam not meditation because Islam is a path of tranquillity 🤍
You should look and see different things work for different people.
Islam is low iq and base,
Brother, as a Muslims we shouldn’t discourage other ppls methods of peace. I know ur coming from a genuine place, but we should word our statements with much purity as to encourage those on the path to betterness to see the beauty of Islam. May Allah bless peace upon those who are on this path 🙏
Muslims are like those annoying MLM recruiters. They try to sell there shit to everyone lol
The Quran says God doesn’t love the sinner, the bible says Jesus died for our sins out of love