Currently at 33, lost my younger brother this year. Restarting my career over. Reimagining my self image. And starting to be more assertive/aggressive in things and be more accountable of my life.
In our 30's we start realizing two things: Mortality and life is short. I think we all think in our 20's that we know this, but then in the 30's we disagree
oh, and i'm 53, my advice : live your own life, sometimes others might wanna live it with you : treasure them. they will be more enriching than ANYTHING else in your life.
The biggest mistake you can make in your 20s is thinking you have plenty of time and that life can only get better as you get older. Trust me, there's no worse feeling than approaching 30 and realizing you wasted all those years playing video games and getting high. The time to start getting your life together is now! It doesn't just magically get better. It will only get worse the more you wait.
My regret is not taking advantage of the attraction from woman I was getting in my 20s I was so shy back then but now I have confidence in my 30s the dating scene has changed so much and its alot harder
Having said that, people who don't waste their 20s later regret not wasting them more and being too focused on so-called important things. So it's a catch-22 kinda. Either way, regret nothing and keep moving forward 💪
Im 34 and this is so true ppl taking me more seriously im far more advance in knowlege than my 20s im putting my life together im becoming more independent 30s is great and trust me you will find love. 30s is the brigde between youthful years to complete adulthood. Smart guys are the ones who realize this in there 30s.
I'm 31: My cousin past away from Cancer at 33, my best friend's wife had a miscarriage (he's 31), decided to change career a few years back to run a business and I went bankrupt last year. It's only been a year that I hit my 30s and its been wild. Stay strong and never give up :)
Turned 30 this June. Things are finally starting to click. Got into trucking making great money, one year sober from alcohol, have an awesome gf of three years, best shape of my life. I am really looking forward to becoming successful this decade💪🏼
I’m a female, 35 and every single word you said, completely resonates with my experience. Particularly since I became 30, life has gotten much more real, complex, challenging, eye opening and expanding. You quickly realize that smaller issues are unimportant and that ultimately you are the master of your future. I appreciate that you mentioned that man have changed in the past 3 decades. You could possibly make the same case for women.
@jackjacky7532tell me more, what makes you say that about a person whose past you have absolutely no knowledge of? I may not know anything about you, but it’s safe to imply that you are small minded.
@jackjacky7532 fascinating assumption, you are making. You have no idea of the achievements, traumas or hardships I’ve been through, but because I’m a woman, I must have had an easy life, correct? Well, I don’t know you but I can clearly see that you are self centered and small minded. Keep living your victimhood, I’m sure it pays off!
Post-30 for women is post-wall, by 40 they start talking about egg freezing and other weird crap. Totally different. Women peak in their 20s. If they don't have a man in their 30s, they're in overtime and will probably never have a permanent relationship because men like young, virgin women.
To the two opinions provided by “men” to my comment… don’t ask others why you might be perceived as incels. If you go through life living as victims that’s exactly who you are. If you need to feel superior to women to feel good about yourselves, you are nothing but maggots. You perfectly embody what is wrong with men now. It’s not the lack of future, opportunities or a “new world order”. It’s simply your fears. Do you know what separates children from adults? Courage. Grow a pair.
My 30s have been great so far. I make enough money to travel a couple times per year, I have a flat with my partner, I am fitter and healthier than I was in my mid to late 20s. I drink less and look forward to wholesome weekends and time spent with family and friends. Life is better now than in my 20s definitely!
I am 34 now 1. Nobody gives a shit about me, nor society 2. I am bound to a work contract to pay for my quality of life 3. Parents get older and they have their issues to focus on, no legacy for me, I have to create my own legacy (diffucult) 4. Friends settle down and get kids, many dreams get quenched, phased out, or dies 5. My body is not in any prime anymore, I go to the gym regularly to not get burnout at the office 6. Dont see meaning in much things that I do 7. Social media presents a lifestyle I can never have, gurus only share their stories but their formulas dont really give any results, I feel bound to the formulas of the country and environment I am in
I’m not a man but I can relate to this and I turned 30 earlier this year. It’s been really hard but I have accomplished a lot and this first year as a 30 year old is so much better than what I experienced in my 20s. I fucked up alot in my 20s and messed up but now I’m starting to rebuild and create new opportunities for myself.
I’m 29 and for some reason I’ve done a lot of reflecting on my 20s . I tried so hard to impress everyone wanted everyone to like me . I became depressed when I tried helping people and they turn on me . I learned when you see the red flags run . I tried to impress women that I knew didn’t give a dam about me . Had friends that just wanted my attention . If anyone is in there 20s please focus on you . Yes go and party but travel and keep your loved one close . That’s all that matters .
Entering ones 30's can be for a lot of guys like waking up from a weird coma after a car incident - doctors (wisdom) are basically telling you what happened throughout your life and how you've fucked up. You kinda panic and see some of the wreckage. Some may get up and be ok after the coma, but others will be told by the doctor that they also lost their legs (missed opportunities) and will never get them back. Many may wanna go back into that coma again as this waking up is too traumatic. You start to see all the errors you made leading up to the accident, stunned and wishing things had been different. For many though, they never come out of the coma and remain forever children. Theres a part of you knows now that more wisdom may come but never when you want it and unfortunately in its own time. Life can be a very scary ride for many.
Great advice, especially learning to get along with difficult people. In our youth, we tend to laugh & joke about people in middle age, who have set routines, as in our youth we are very sporadic & reactionary towards life, no real set plans in life, just going with the flow.
I am not a man, but I must admit that the mistakes I made in my 20s did not have a long-lasting consequences on my life. What I can observe is that some of my peers screwed really bad. For example, they got married but also had kids straight away, or they became entrepreneurs of companies which quickly faded and at the same time they took huge loans and they are in debt now. If they didn't push so hard, they would be fine, but it seems like they really wanted to have it all really quickly and this is the price they need to pay for their impatience.
I’m 33 going to be 34 in December here. My advice is you have to accept your not young anymore this is when your body will start to change and slow down you start to lose your features so you really have to embrace the aging. It’s hard for lots of people to accept this because it’s a change when your a kid you want to go up so fast and then when your a full grown adult you want to be a kid again lol. Whatever comes your way just embrace it you will be so much more happy.
I was a failure in my 20s not because I wanted to but because of unfortunate events, bad timing in the recession, the narcissistic mental abuse from my young adult years that led to a severe depression and mental illness in my college years. I am in my 30s, I look at the past as a time of darkness, literally I feel that much of it was erased and I was just existing. In my 30s, I am in recovery mode, surviving for another day, hoping I do not die soon and hoping I don't become homeless and find myself humiliated by my enemies and also my parents and relatives, who have been more of an enemy to me than relatives.
Your brain can change adopt powerful beliefs and mindsets that will make you thrive in life rather than being a victim become the king the lion the warrior remember and kings just don't become who they're by accident they become who they're because of the shit they've been through
30 right now. During my 20s I can say I had alot of fun, met a bunch of ladies, traveled alot, changed jobs and I was triyng to figure out my shit. I think that is the most important thing you have to explore in your 20s. Do different things, explore ideas, meet different people, travel, try out new hobbies, dont be afraid to change jobs.. The goal is to find out what do you like, what kind of friends you want to be around, what your girlfriend shoud be like, what job or what thing inspires you to get up in the morning. And I feel like, that my 30s will be about growing as a man. Developing my skills and working on my craft (which I think I discovered by now). I stopped drinking and also stoped dating for now. Its interesting, how much the idea of pleasure changes. It used to be a drinking night with friends or spending time with some girl and right now, Iam just happy to work on my projects, read a book, workout and just chill.
Excellent video and content! I have started reflecting on my life as I'm turning 30 this year. I realized that until this point haven't really "lived." I have played it safe and chosen the life of a social hermit. My goal in the coming years is to be more of a Yes man to new experiences and to find meaningful connections. I'm looking forward to your next video and being inspired again.
I'm 23 and have been in this mindset since about 17. I'm hoping my life will begin at 30. A decade of putting down the ground work will set me up for life.
@danbee415 You can begin to live your life any moment you choose to. Please don't wait until a specific time because nothing is constant in this world.
Your life won’t begin at 30, it’ll get far worse, you just need to go do the things and get the things you want now. Don’t sacrifice your youth thinking it’ll make things better when older
Try to do the hard work AND have fun now. Do that going forward for the rest of your life. If you dull your life out for a decade, the rest of your life will adopt that energy.
You made this video two years ago, I was 28 and I achieved what I thought when I was younger would be impossible. I bought my first house and started my career as a high school teacher. I’m now 30, the veil over my eyes started to lift at 25, and has progressed more and more. My dad just hit 70, I couldn’t leave him all alone at that age so he lives with me now and I tell him daily to enjoy retirement, you’ve taught me everything you know. Now it’s my turn to take care of you. My hobbies have changed, my attitude toward life has changed, mortality is real to me now. I was 19 in Iraq. Completely oblivious to my own mortality, now I’m literally shocked at myself. It’s been such journey getting to 30, the army, college, career prep and credentials, but the weirdest part is that I still feel like I should have done more even though what I have accomplished isn’t something to be taken lightly. Thank you for your wisdom from the 40’s realm and I’ll see you there in another short decade ✌️🤙
Hey you’re exactly where you need to be - don’t sweat it and recognize how far you’ve come already. Excited to be on this journey together my friend. 😊🙏🏻
My late 20s was a Complete mess and I’ll have to Carry the damages.. but you are right. I grown and learned so much to better myself. I’m 30 Now and I see I have a Path to create here on Out. I am more happier because I know I still have a Whole life to Create. And do the very best I can to succeed! Thank you!
1.) Don't revolve your world around women. 2.) Move on from toxic people in your life. 3.) Stop the risk-taking. e.g. drinking and driving 4.) Get out of debt and build credit 5.) Develop your work related skills
3:59 - So true mate. The metabolism slows down in your 30s. I have noticed this as well. You have to really start taking care of your body like a monk to actually have the same energy levels as you 20 year old self in your 30s.
Yeah I'm 31 unemployed with a bad mental state and dealing with a herniated disc. It's honestly very depressing. I'm trying to figure out a way to succeed but things aren't clicking. No one cares until it's RIP.
Stay strong 32 I’ve been feeling with depression , substance abused , unemployed . But I’m really trying to improve myself and change my perception and behavior! Find hope where you can find if you have to be alone be alone but don’t lost youself trying to escape Or hide from your actual problems if you don’t face it in 30 years you will be more miserable!
Life is a game, just spectate it brah lol. We will never understand life, don't over think it, life happens. It's cruel, but sometimes beautiful, and it is very scary. Develop a stoic mindset, or just smoke pot.
I am 32 now, i had my first real setback at 24 where i almost died and have been a heart patient ever since. 24 was my peak, have been fighting an uphill battle ever since. At first very demoralizing but you get used to it, becomes better over time. You need time, time heals all wounds. Don't give up. Now at 32 i am finally starting to get the idea that i have some control over my life. Even tho i have and am suffering a lot on a daily basis. Living my own life is worth everything. That also make me really terrified of settling down, i do not want to lose or give up what i have worked so hard for.
Wait until 50, when you realized you really didn't have anything figured out. You have 20 somethings adult offspring to help them get off the ground and you really don't have enough of to retire on. Health problems start to manifest. People you know are being diagnosed with all kinds of illnesses or have died. You're too old to change careers. Promotions are going to 35-40 year olds. You feel like you're too old to be young and to young tobbe old. Your 50s, you realize you're the teens of the elderly group. And that fear of how long until you get sick, or your friends die or worse your spouse/partner dies and you have to live on one income and cannot afford a house...you end up in a small apartment or condo. And if you're health is poor, are you going to be even be able to work part-time to supplement your income in retirement to keep afloat. FYI: regarding health, you realize that you could have been the pinnacle of health, living healthy, exercising and eating healthy and still develop a life alternating illness. That realization that we really don't have control over what happens, hits you right smack in the face. And: you think you have so much time from 30 to 50, but it flys by so fast... Happy Aging ❤
Thank you for this video, this is very helpful, am in my mid-30s and always appreciate guidance. You are correct: there isn't anything out there to guide men about living life in your 30s.
I'm starting to get more comfortable with not going out as much. I don't put effort into conversations nor trying to meet up with people because I don't have an urge to talk to people, I become naturally indifferent to everyone and everything as I enjoy my own company. 💯
The pandemic time warp has distorted some of these experiences in my early 30s. That said, your point about being in a better position to weather the storms based on the life experience of the prior decades is spot on. I'm not sure I would have found a way to stay happy and healthy and grow personally during the added alone time the pandemic delivered in my early 20s. Thanks for another great video.
I think everybody was living in a mass psychosis, but I literally time warped my entire 20s. The pandemic was nothing new to me because I was living in isolation and literally with little to no contact with people for months and years. During the pandemic, I actually enjoyed it because I was getting paid, but when years back living as if in isolation were a nightmare because I was depressed due to feeling worthless and being unemployed, and also I was having problems with parents as they wanted me out or imprisoned in an asylum.
I have already hit my 30s mentally speaking. And this started around 20ish. I was already looking far ahead, that said there's nothing wrong with being fun. Think that's the most important part actually.
Im 38 life sucks i have a 4 inch penis ":( im embarrassed of the lack of size.... ive turned down females + males 😢 idk how to live life, i lack balls + courage
This is a hell of a video, Brother. It's an amazing reality check and its just facts. No BS, just a sincere, positive chat. I'm 31 and I had a pretty rough time in the last couple of years. I quit my job and I'm starting all over, however I have all the accumulated knowledge and wisdom from the past, so I'm better prepared to face life's challenges in my new season. I was feeling somewhat dry and lost thh, even though I have everything a man needs. But this sparked my courage to step up and get going Thank you, once again and god bless you and your family
@@midsonshort ah idk how I missed that one, I'll give that a watch now! This still provides value to me even though my 30s is far away for now, its good to know what to expect I guess
@rubensalsa8128 im 29 and will be 30 in October trust me when I say it comes upon you so damn quick I blinked and my 20s are gone not to mention I still haven't got my shit together wish I had payed attention to videos and advise but time doesn't reset or pause so enjoy every minute hell enjoy every second!!!
@@GantzGeo" smart kid" is 23 in 4 months now , still plugging along I guess, starting my post graduate in dietetics at a top university this month! Feel the rush to get my shit together a lot more than I did two years ago
I have already had to change some of my diet in my 30s I quit alcohol I quit sugar more water more proteins. I’m usually in bed by 10pm most nights and I find myself wanting to do more healthy things like waking or bike riding because I want to keep my body healthy. You have to accept you’re not 20 anymore lots of people can’t accept that.
Thank u for this sir, I'm 30 now and this was the best thing I watched in these last 2 months of deep thinking/crisis. It was reinvigorating, congrats and I salute you brother
Very encouraging video, mate! I am just at the beginning of my 30s but I notice now, that most of the things I have struggled in my 20s like dating or career now start to feel laughably easy in comparison. My motto in the last few years was: just work on the things you can control and let go of things, you can’t control. So I did, and now I feel more free and confident than ever before! Keep it up boys, just 1% per day 🙌🏻
Im 32.. all friends have moved away, settled down, agotten married, have awesome jobs, nice cars boight houses, made something of themselves.. and im.. im just struggling to survive day by day, haven't had a date or anything in probably 5 years now..lost my job of 7 years, couldn't afford where i was staying anymore and now having to live in a camper trailer on my moms property, have a 9 year old son I only get to see every once in a while and feel guilty and ashamed that I cant do hardly anything or take him anywhere fun when hes here because im so broke..and a bunch of other shit going on.. just feel empty, like there's nothing there anymore, most days i wish i could Just go to sleep and not wake up again
You're a king brother, I feel down myself as I just turned 30 in June. Things haven't been gone well but we got this bro! If you need someone to talk to, I'm here brother
When the inside is broken the outside life suffers. I’d have given advices like get a job, go to the gym… That’s bullshit if the inside is broken. Bro, you need some healing in mindset. I wish you well. ❤
I'm divorced at 25, just about 6 months of marriage. Life never feels this though before, maybe the biggest lessons I took before relationship, get a new place to live away from parents.
Gonna turn 30 in less than 2 months. Day by day you feel more the weight of the world on your shoulders, and I am not even engaged with kids. But life has been wonderful so far, despite it being full of hard situations and choices. Looking forward for what life reserves for the next 50 years of my life.
Its crazy to see your video and wisdom when I was 20s, a lot of ppl told me what to do but never listened to them. Paid expensive lesson for that and tried to organize my life with lots of suffering. And I don't know how thankful I'm to watch your video at the age of 30 Time taught me a patience and ability to listen the advice from wise people.
Turning 34 in a month. I'm struggling trying to become a physiotherapist and have currently made it to 2nd semester. I have developed depression, anxiety and OCD in my 20's that made life a lot harder, but i'm doing my best because I'm willing to do anything to avoid becoming a miserable 40 y/o without an education. I have friends, but studying with people who are 10-12 years younger than me, whom I have nothing in common with, really adds to the feeling of isolation. I'm trying to keep my head up. Without this education, fulfillment will not be possible.
33 myself and former physio. Worked as it a couple of years, but switched to accounting which I finished a masters degree in last year. I see the issue with studying with people 10-12 years younger, but you will for sure have something in common with some of them nevertheless. I did the mistake myself of identifying too much of my self esteem on my achievements, like marathons, good grades and so on. Achievements are important, but not everything. I failed my anatomy exam twice, but got a D on third attempt after being a bit lighter on myself and acknowledging myself for doing the best I could. That was a gamechanger and relieved my nerves for the final attempt. Great work making it to the second semester!
This! I am going to turn 32 the next month and all 6 ways are valid for me. All the peer pressure that comes together with wanting to settle down and creating your own family, relationships etc., people are now not taking you as a joke when you're 20-something. Everything is true. Especially the last bit: yes, life is ours, especially for the ones that managed to cut our existent ties with our parents. Lost my Mom when I was 29, so was able to mature quickly, seeing how very few people care about you and to whom you're dear. And yes, am very thankful for the experiences that are shaping me.
So sorry to hear you lost your Mom at such a young age. I’m glad that these ideas resonated for you and I wish you all the very best for next decade if your life! 😊🙏🏻
Guys read the Bible. Best wisdom there is. This man said you will experience divorce…. Not if you fight for it. Happily married 14 years. High school sweetheart. 6 kids. 32 years old. Second home. Blessed
It's weird I used to watch youtube videos about not messing up my 20s when I turned 20. Now I'm a few weeks away from turning 30, I feel like it did not come close to preparing me for my 20s. Everything went good except for a few traumatic life events that the universe decided. I took a lot of risks and they paid off. They went slow, I did a decent amount right, and I still feel in disbelief they're gone. Granted no kids yet. I have my life together yet still feel completely out of control. I'm not sure I always did my best, but I did try hard. Not that I failed my 20s, but maybe if you graded my performance it was a B-. But now that it's done, what now? I feel like nobody glorifies their 30s like they do their 20s, and maybe that's what's making me fill with dread, like I have nothing to look forward to.
I’m turning 32 in May. It’s not so bad, sure my body isn’t as fit as it used to be and it feels a lot slower and aches easier, but life isn’t to bad. Thank you for this video, I look forward to seeing the “life in your 40s” video in a few years lol😊
Going to be 30 in the next 2 months, I swear I have been thinking about this moment for a considerable time in my life but I wouldn't imagine I would be in the state that I am. Alhamdulillah. I am looking for guidance on who I should shape myself to be. What ideal should I carry? What should be my goals for the next decade? Thanks for making this.
Wishing you the very best for your 3s Ahmed! You are asking the right questions and you will find yourself. Let us know here how we can support you! 😊🙏🏻
Was taken seriously in my 20s, the key is to become an expert in your field, or very knowledgeable. It actually pays too go full-on geek in whatever you are interested in.
You should not say that a man’s physical peak is his 30’s. I’m 42 never been in better shape or health and I’ve always been in good shape and healthy. I put on 30 lbs of muscle in my early twenties and then maintained it for 10 years and then lost almost all of it from not lifting or eating then gained it all back at age 40-42 then over the last year I have gained another 7 lbs of lean muscle while only eating 1-2 times a day while working as a carpenter. It’s all about lifestyle and choices
Yes true also it feels like 40+ something people are alot better shape. Because they seems the one who eat most healthy and training and stretching etc so i have seen alot of them mutch better shape then people who are late 20s.
@ I think that is partly the cause but also because the human body is always adapting and trying to sustain homeostasis and be as energy efficient as possible so the body continues to learn over time. As long as you keep using your brain lungs heart and muscles then you will hardly “age” which is a process that is proven to be determined by how you treat your body not genetics
In my experience, failure is extremely overrated. Failure is demoralizing and debilitating at best and catastrophic and life ending at worst. I’ve had plenty of failures in my life and at 34 I’m just as lost and unsure about myself as I was in my 20s, and much of my self-doubt has come as a result from my failures. For some people they gain clarity and wisdom in their 30s and establish a good lives for themselves. For others life gets worse, it is a tragedy but it’s true. It’s a sobering reality that society needs to come to grips with if we’re gonna be honest about the reality of life.
Probably 100 years ago the thirties were the twenties, by 28 most people own a house, had at least 3 kids with one in their teens and experienced the death of several family members
Losing my dad 2 years before I turned 30 really sucked. We were getting closer and he was starting to see me as a man. I smoked my first blunt in front of him a couple months before that, that was so funny. He was at my house watching a ppv fight and I still asked 😂.
“Another Crisp t-shirt”. Relatable. I wear pro club. They are economical and substantial, and, according to me, nice looking as they are basic looking and thick. I don’t want no sequins or nothing frilly.
I really love the very last part of being in control of my own life since I’m now currently 31. I just started to enter my early 30s recently because I’m about to become 32 next year in early April of 2024. I still have plenty of youth left to enjoy my own life by making it much more interesting so that I’m not feeling bored constantly. I really do need to eventually travel more in the upcoming years especially to cool places such as wonderful incredible location town city areas nice hotels or amazing restaurants while I have the opportunity to make that happen someday before it is way too late for me.
when i was in my 30s i lost a lot of friends because they got engaged and married and had kids. they didn't and couldn't spend time with me anymore and when they did, they almost exclusively talked about their husband and kids. it was really a shitty time in my life. you want to spend time with quality people and there aren't many who have time
Im 38 life sucks i have a 4 inch penis ":( im embarrassed of the lack of size.... ive turned down females + males 😢 idk how to live life, i lack balls + courage
I don’t consider 30s a decline for men’s physical abilities like most men do. I agree with what you said. You now get what you put in. Eat fast food everyday? Don’t work out? Then expect bad outcomes. Sadly average male syndrome is very real, and that pretty much equates to eating chic fil e everyday, drinking beer and not working out
@@EddieKMusicnope. Early 20s is peak performance but you can stay very athletic and look great up to 50 years old if you have good genes and take great care of yourself
What's this about your body peaking in in your 30s? I'm pretty confident mine peaked at 22. When I was 25 I noticed just how much my energy levels had dropped. Now at 33 I work out 3 times as much as I did when I was 22, but I had twice the amount of energy back then.
Gonna be 30 next year. It's a blessing to have made it this far. I know some people I went high school who didn't even make it 20.
Agreed Mav! Being alive is the reward! 😊🙏🏻
Debatable
Very sad story. Give your life to Jesus, he will protect you and you will live again.
Hope have a peaceful life and find your passion in it;Because you will not live forever.
Men need to find purpose in their lifetime while they still have it.
Currently at 33, lost my younger brother this year. Restarting my career over. Reimagining my self image. And starting to be more assertive/aggressive in things and be more accountable of my life.
So sorry to hear about your brother. Sending you love and strength. ❤
Rest In Heaven To Him. 🙏
I've lost my older brother and still have my younger sibling, I couldn't imagine him gone.
My sincere condolences, man.
so sorry for you my man. i can't imagine how that feels.
Bless up
In our 30's we start realizing two things: Mortality and life is short. I think we all think in our 20's that we know this, but then in the 30's we disagree
I realized this at 21.
Realized this at 17
I realized this at 12
I realized this at 30
Well said in my 20s I thought I was invincible and now I’m just appreciating everyone and everything in my 30s
oh, and i'm 53, my advice : live your own life, sometimes others might wanna live it with you : treasure them. they will be more enriching than ANYTHING else in your life.
I agree. I'm 31. I started working out more, and staying sober.
Great to hear! Wishing you the best as you grow and evolve. 😊🙏🏻
@midsonshort thank you. Staying sober is one of the best thing I have done. It will be a year in September
Day 2 of not smoking. I'm 23.
I'm almost 37. There is so much I wish I have done more when I was younger. I am very fit, great career, and owns my house.
The biggest mistake you can make in your 20s is thinking you have plenty of time and that life can only get better as you get older.
Trust me, there's no worse feeling than approaching 30 and realizing you wasted all those years playing video games and getting high.
The time to start getting your life together is now! It doesn't just magically get better. It will only get worse the more you wait.
Thanks
this is truth!
videos games prevent you from jumping from scrycrapper if you can't manage to fix the part of your life that matter to you.
My regret is not taking advantage of the attraction from woman I was getting in my 20s I was so shy back then but now I have confidence in my 30s the dating scene has changed so much and its alot harder
Having said that, people who don't waste their 20s later regret not wasting them more and being too focused on so-called important things. So it's a catch-22 kinda. Either way, regret nothing and keep moving forward 💪
31, realized my father is not the man I thought he was. I am surpassing him, evolving and truly being the better man.
Im 34 and this is so true ppl taking me more seriously im far more advance in knowlege than my 20s im putting my life together im becoming more independent 30s is great and trust me you will find love. 30s is the brigde between youthful years to complete adulthood. Smart guys are the ones who realize this in there 30s.
I'm 31: My cousin past away from Cancer at 33, my best friend's wife had a miscarriage (he's 31), decided to change career a few years back to run a business and I went bankrupt last year. It's only been a year that I hit my 30s and its been wild. Stay strong and never give up :)
Turned 30 this June. Things are finally starting to click. Got into trucking making great money, one year sober from alcohol, have an awesome gf of three years, best shape of my life. I am really looking forward to becoming successful this decade💪🏼
Very nice
I can relate! Sobered up from alcohol at 28, 29 now, started a new career in a trade. Good luck man!!
Just wait until the late 30s I wish I was 30 again that was the last year I was in great shape. I’m only 36 but dude I got fat quick
I’m a female, 35 and every single word you said, completely resonates with my experience. Particularly since I became 30, life has gotten much more real, complex, challenging, eye opening and expanding. You quickly realize that smaller issues are unimportant and that ultimately you are the master of your future. I appreciate that you mentioned that man have changed in the past 3 decades. You could possibly make the same case for women.
@jackjacky7532tell me more, what makes you say that about a person whose past you have absolutely no knowledge of? I may not know anything about you, but it’s safe to imply that you are small minded.
@jackjacky7532 fascinating assumption, you are making. You have no idea of the achievements, traumas or hardships I’ve been through, but because I’m a woman, I must have had an easy life, correct? Well, I don’t know you but I can clearly see that you are self centered and small minded. Keep living your victimhood, I’m sure it pays off!
Post-30 for women is post-wall, by 40 they start talking about egg freezing and other weird crap. Totally different. Women peak in their 20s. If they don't have a man in their 30s, they're in overtime and will probably never have a permanent relationship because men like young, virgin women.
To the two opinions provided by “men” to my comment… don’t ask others why you might be perceived as incels. If you go through life living as victims that’s exactly who you are. If you need to feel superior to women to feel good about yourselves, you are nothing but maggots. You perfectly embody what is wrong with men now. It’s not the lack of future, opportunities or a “new world order”. It’s simply your fears. Do you know what separates children from adults? Courage. Grow a pair.
@@TheUltimateMarioFanFalse , stop spreading false information. Men only date younger women because of a good time, not for a committed relationship.
My 30s have been great so far. I make enough money to travel a couple times per year, I have a flat with my partner, I am fitter and healthier than I was in my mid to late 20s. I drink less and look forward to wholesome weekends and time spent with family and friends. Life is better now than in my 20s definitely!
That’s so awesome to hear! Wishing you all the best for you 😊🙏🏻
I am 34 now
1. Nobody gives a shit about me, nor society
2. I am bound to a work contract to pay for my quality of life
3. Parents get older and they have their issues to focus on, no legacy for me, I have to create my own legacy (diffucult)
4. Friends settle down and get kids, many dreams get quenched, phased out, or dies
5. My body is not in any prime anymore, I go to the gym regularly to not get burnout at the office
6. Dont see meaning in much things that I do
7. Social media presents a lifestyle I can never have, gurus only share their stories but their formulas dont really give any results, I feel bound to the formulas of the country and environment I am in
You okay bro?
Here we have the modern npc of the matrix
2,6 and 7 are equalling here as well
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Im 33 and im loving my 30s. 30s is prime for men but maybe ur genetics suck
I’m not a man but I can relate to this and I turned 30 earlier this year. It’s been really hard but I have accomplished a lot and this first year as a 30 year old is so much better than what I experienced in my 20s. I fucked up alot in my 20s and messed up but now I’m starting to rebuild and create new opportunities for myself.
We need more men like you to come online and share wisdom
@@charlesadah5929 thanks my friend! Working on it!
I’m 29 and for some reason I’ve done a lot of reflecting on my 20s . I tried so hard to impress everyone wanted everyone to like me . I became depressed when I tried helping people and they turn on me . I learned when you see the red flags run . I tried to impress women that I knew didn’t give a dam about me . Had friends that just wanted my attention . If anyone is in there 20s please focus on you . Yes go and party but travel and keep your loved one close . That’s all that matters .
Entering ones 30's can be for a lot of guys like waking up from a weird coma after a car incident - doctors (wisdom) are basically telling you what happened throughout your life and how you've fucked up. You kinda panic and see some of the wreckage. Some may get up and be ok after the coma, but others will be told by the doctor that they also lost their legs (missed opportunities) and will never get them back. Many may wanna go back into that coma again as this waking up is too traumatic. You start to see all the errors you made leading up to the accident, stunned and wishing things had been different. For many though, they never come out of the coma and remain forever children. Theres a part of you knows now that more wisdom may come but never when you want it and unfortunately in its own time. Life can be a very scary ride for many.
(1) Think Right (2) Get along with People (2) Routine (4) Health (5) Family
Routine is very important for all of the other things to fall in place.
Great advice, especially learning to get along with difficult people. In our youth, we tend to laugh & joke about people in middle age, who have set routines, as in our youth we are very sporadic & reactionary towards life, no real set plans in life, just going with the flow.
I am not a man, but I must admit that the mistakes I made in my 20s did not have a long-lasting consequences on my life. What I can observe is that some of my peers screwed really bad. For example, they got married but also had kids straight away, or they became entrepreneurs of companies which quickly faded and at the same time they took huge loans and they are in debt now. If they didn't push so hard, they would be fine, but it seems like they really wanted to have it all really quickly and this is the price they need to pay for their impatience.
@@jakubskyba7946 whoa don't forget this is just your opinion there buddy
Just turned 30 last week. I was already excited about turning 30. After watching this, I'm a little nervous, but I'm still very excited.
I’m 33 going to be 34 in December here. My advice is you have to accept your not young anymore this is when your body will start to change and slow down you start to lose your features so you really have to embrace the aging. It’s hard for lots of people to accept this because it’s a change when your a kid you want to go up so fast and then when your a full grown adult you want to be a kid again lol. Whatever comes your way just embrace it you will be so much more happy.
@@ryans41330 still a young wtf, and this is coming from 20 yo, all you gotta do is take care of yourself .
I was a failure in my 20s not because I wanted to but because of unfortunate events, bad timing in the recession, the narcissistic mental abuse from my young adult years that led to a severe depression and mental illness in my college years. I am in my 30s, I look at the past as a time of darkness, literally I feel that much of it was erased and I was just existing. In my 30s, I am in recovery mode, surviving for another day, hoping I do not die soon and hoping I don't become homeless and find myself humiliated by my enemies and also my parents and relatives, who have been more of an enemy to me than relatives.
Your brain can change adopt powerful beliefs and mindsets that will make you thrive in life rather than being a victim become the king the lion the warrior remember and kings just don't become who they're by accident they become who they're because of the shit they've been through
@@Bren12602 Cap
@@Bren12602Your inspirational speech needs a little more work in the grammar department, but otherwise it looks good.
30 right now. During my 20s I can say I had alot of fun, met a bunch of ladies, traveled alot, changed jobs and I was triyng to figure out my shit. I think that is the most important thing you have to explore in your 20s. Do different things, explore ideas, meet different people, travel, try out new hobbies, dont be afraid to change jobs.. The goal is to find out what do you like, what kind of friends you want to be around, what your girlfriend shoud be like, what job or what thing inspires you to get up in the morning.
And I feel like, that my 30s will be about growing as a man. Developing my skills and working on my craft (which I think I discovered by now). I stopped drinking and also stoped dating for now. Its interesting, how much the idea of pleasure changes. It used to be a drinking night with friends or spending time with some girl and right now, Iam just happy to work on my projects, read a book, workout and just chill.
Excellent video and content! I have started reflecting on my life as I'm turning 30 this year. I realized that until this point haven't really "lived." I have played it safe and chosen the life of a social hermit. My goal in the coming years is to be more of a Yes man to new experiences and to find meaningful connections.
I'm looking forward to your next video and being inspired again.
I'm 34 and I can relate. 💯
I'm turning 30 next year and I'm very excited for life to get better as I grow better every day. Thanks for the video!!!
It’s an awesome time of life! Enjoy my friend 😊🙏🏻
I'm 23 and have been in this mindset since about 17. I'm hoping my life will begin at 30. A decade of putting down the ground work will set me up for life.
@danbee415 You can begin to live your life any moment you choose to. Please don't wait until a specific time because nothing is constant in this world.
The 30s is when you truly get to know yourself. It seems you have a head start. Take advantage of it
Your life won’t begin at 30, it’ll get far worse, you just need to go do the things and get the things you want now. Don’t sacrifice your youth thinking it’ll make things better when older
Try to do the hard work AND have fun now. Do that going forward for the rest of your life. If you dull your life out for a decade, the rest of your life will adopt that energy.
You made this video two years ago, I was 28 and I achieved what I thought when I was younger would be impossible. I bought my first house and started my career as a high school teacher. I’m now 30, the veil over my eyes started to lift at 25, and has progressed more and more. My dad just hit 70, I couldn’t leave him all alone at that age so he lives with me now and I tell him daily to enjoy retirement, you’ve taught me everything you know. Now it’s my turn to take care of you. My hobbies have changed, my attitude toward life has changed, mortality is real to me now. I was 19 in Iraq. Completely oblivious to my own mortality, now I’m literally shocked at myself. It’s been such journey getting to 30, the army, college, career prep and credentials, but the weirdest part is that I still feel like I should have done more even though what I have accomplished isn’t something to be taken lightly. Thank you for your wisdom from the 40’s realm and I’ll see you there in another short decade ✌️🤙
Hey you’re exactly where you need to be - don’t sweat it and recognize how far you’ve come already. Excited to be on this journey together my friend. 😊🙏🏻
My late 20s was a Complete mess and I’ll have to Carry the damages.. but you are right. I grown and learned so much to better myself. I’m 30 Now and I see I have a Path to create here on Out. I am more happier because I know I still have a Whole life to Create. And do the very best I can to succeed! Thank you!
1.) Don't revolve your world around women.
2.) Move on from toxic people in your life.
3.) Stop the risk-taking. e.g. drinking and driving
4.) Get out of debt and build credit
5.) Develop your work related skills
I got the memo about the world not revolving around women a little too late.
Currently 25 and In a bit of a crisis. I needed to hear this thanks Daniel.
3:59 - So true mate. The metabolism slows down in your 30s. I have noticed this as well. You have to really start taking care of your body like a monk to actually have the same energy levels as you 20 year old self in your 30s.
Yeah I'm 31 unemployed with a bad mental state and dealing with a herniated disc. It's honestly very depressing. I'm trying to figure out a way to succeed but things aren't clicking. No one cares until it's RIP.
Stay strong 32 I’ve been feeling with depression , substance abused , unemployed . But I’m really trying to improve myself and change my perception and behavior! Find hope where you can find if you have to be alone be alone but don’t lost youself trying to escape Or hide from your actual problems if you don’t face it in 30 years you will be more miserable!
Oh honey, they won’t care when you die either
Life is a game, just spectate it brah lol.
We will never understand life, don't over think it, life happens. It's cruel, but sometimes beautiful, and it is very scary.
Develop a stoic mindset, or just smoke pot.
I am 32 now, i had my first real setback at 24 where i almost died and have been a heart patient ever since. 24 was my peak, have been fighting an uphill battle ever since. At first very demoralizing but you get used to it, becomes better over time. You need time, time heals all wounds. Don't give up. Now at 32 i am finally starting to get the idea that i have some control over my life. Even tho i have and am suffering a lot on a daily basis. Living my own life is worth everything. That also make me really terrified of settling down, i do not want to lose or give up what i have worked so hard for.
Wait until 50, when you realized you really didn't have anything figured out.
You have 20 somethings adult offspring to help them get off the ground and you really don't have enough of to retire on.
Health problems start to manifest.
People you know are being diagnosed with all kinds of illnesses or have died.
You're too old to change careers.
Promotions are going to 35-40 year olds.
You feel like you're too old to be young and to young tobbe old.
Your 50s, you realize you're the teens of the elderly group.
And that fear of how long until you get sick, or your friends die or worse your spouse/partner dies and you have to live on one income and cannot afford a house...you end up in a small apartment or condo.
And if you're health is poor, are you going to be even be able to work part-time to supplement your income in retirement to keep afloat.
FYI: regarding health, you realize that you could have been the pinnacle of health, living healthy, exercising and eating healthy and still develop a life alternating illness.
That realization that we really don't have control over what happens, hits you right smack in the face.
And: you think you have so much time from 30 to 50, but it flys by so fast...
Happy Aging ❤
Thank you for this video, this is very helpful, am in my mid-30s and always appreciate guidance. You are correct: there isn't anything out there to guide men about living life in your 30s.
I'm starting to get more comfortable with not going out as much. I don't put effort into conversations nor trying to meet up with people because I don't have an urge to talk to people, I become naturally indifferent to everyone and everything as I enjoy my own company. 💯
I’m 28 about to turn 29 later this year and I watch videos like this because I’m kind of scared of turning 30. Getting older sucks.
It’s not bad. That’s how I felt when. I switched from 18 to 21 lol
Like any stage in life you just gotta take the good with the bad
It also depends your diet for sure
I turned 30 today. So just listening to you to make sure what to expect 😅
The pandemic time warp has distorted some of these experiences in my early 30s. That said, your point about being in a better position to weather the storms based on the life experience of the prior decades is spot on. I'm not sure I would have found a way to stay happy and healthy and grow personally during the added alone time the pandemic delivered in my early 20s. Thanks for another great video.
Glad that you have found more personal strength as you've grown into your 30s, my friend. I appreciate you sharing your perspective! 😊🙏🏻
I think everybody was living in a mass psychosis, but I literally time warped my entire 20s. The pandemic was nothing new to me because I was living in isolation and literally with little to no contact with people for months and years. During the pandemic, I actually enjoyed it because I was getting paid, but when years back living as if in isolation were a nightmare because I was depressed due to feeling worthless and being unemployed, and also I was having problems with parents as they wanted me out or imprisoned in an asylum.
Exceptional content. You are a genuine and real person. Thank you!
Thank you for your kind words. Being genuine and real is what I want to strive for. Glad this resonated for you! 😊🙏🏻
I have already hit my 30s mentally speaking. And this started around 20ish. I was already looking far ahead, that said there's nothing wrong with being fun. Think that's the most important part actually.
Im 38 life sucks i have a 4 inch penis ":( im embarrassed of the lack of size.... ive turned down females + males 😢 idk how to live life, i lack balls + courage
Im 38 im still learning great content
If you are in your 20s 30s. Be-carful who you talk to and whom you think are your friends. Don't over share or give to much away.
Solid advice 👌🏻
This is a hell of a video, Brother. It's an amazing reality check and its just facts. No BS, just a sincere, positive chat. I'm 31 and I had a pretty rough time in the last couple of years. I quit my job and I'm starting all over, however I have all the accumulated knowledge and wisdom from the past, so I'm better prepared to face life's challenges in my new season. I was feeling somewhat dry and lost thh, even though I have everything a man needs. But this sparked my courage to step up and get going
Thank you, once again and god bless you and your family
I'm 21 and watching this now lmao
Glad it’s of interest Ruben! I also made one for your 20s a few weeks back that might be more relatable 😊🙏🏻
@@midsonshort ah idk how I missed that one, I'll give that a watch now! This still provides value to me even though my 30s is far away for now, its good to know what to expect I guess
@rubensalsa8128 im 29 and will be 30 in October trust me when I say it comes upon you so damn quick I blinked and my 20s are gone not to mention I still haven't got my shit together wish I had payed attention to videos and advise but time doesn't reset or pause so enjoy every minute hell enjoy every second!!!
Smart kid.
@@GantzGeo" smart kid" is 23 in 4 months now , still plugging along I guess, starting my post graduate in dietetics at a top university this month! Feel the rush to get my shit together a lot more than I did two years ago
This video gave me alot of comfort and hope for some reason. Thanks!
Glad to hear that my friend! Wishing you all the best!
Agreed and it was helpful!
Just had this video suggested to me which I thought was interesting because I turn 30 in a few months. Thanks for your insights :)
I have already had to change some of my diet in my 30s I quit alcohol I quit sugar more water more proteins. I’m usually in bed by 10pm most nights and I find myself wanting to do more healthy things like waking or bike riding because I want to keep my body healthy. You have to accept you’re not 20 anymore lots of people can’t accept that.
Turned 30 today 😊
Thank u for this sir, I'm 30 now and this was the best thing I watched in these last 2 months of deep thinking/crisis.
It was reinvigorating, congrats and I salute you brother
i'm in mid 30 !!! i very enjoyed your content !! thanks DANI
This was comforting. Thank you sir! I’m turning 30 next week
Very encouraging video, mate! I am just at the beginning of my 30s but I notice now, that most of the things I have struggled in my 20s like dating or career now start to feel laughably easy in comparison.
My motto in the last few years was: just work on the things you can control and let go of things, you can’t control. So I did, and now I feel more free and confident than ever before!
Keep it up boys, just 1% per day 🙌🏻
Turning 37 on october! The song message was real…being grown up isnt haf as fun as growing up! If only i can reset the time! Mid life crisis is real
Im 32.. all friends have moved away, settled down, agotten married, have awesome jobs, nice cars boight houses, made something of themselves.. and im.. im just struggling to survive day by day, haven't had a date or anything in probably 5 years now..lost my job of 7 years, couldn't afford where i was staying anymore and now having to live in a camper trailer on my moms property, have a 9 year old son I only get to see every once in a while and feel guilty and ashamed that I cant do hardly anything or take him anywhere fun when hes here because im so broke..and a bunch of other shit going on.. just feel empty, like there's nothing there anymore, most days i wish i could Just go to sleep and not wake up again
You're a king brother, I feel down myself as I just turned 30 in June. Things haven't been gone well but we got this bro! If you need someone to talk to, I'm here brother
When the inside is broken the outside life suffers. I’d have given advices like get a job, go to the gym… That’s bullshit if the inside is broken.
Bro, you need some healing in mindset. I wish you well. ❤
I'm divorced at 25, just about 6 months of marriage. Life never feels this though before, maybe the biggest lessons I took before relationship, get a new place to live away from parents.
Gonna turn 30 in less than 2 months.
Day by day you feel more the weight of the world on your shoulders, and I am not even engaged with kids.
But life has been wonderful so far, despite it being full of hard situations and choices.
Looking forward for what life reserves for the next 50 years of my life.
how do you feel now?
@@marylou7862 feeling very good, thanks :)
@@marylou7862 Probs the same lol
Im 30 now felt so bad before and a few days after i tried to focus good on my future and i feel calmer now. But much left to do
Its crazy to see your video and wisdom
when I was 20s, a lot of ppl told me what to do but never listened to them.
Paid expensive lesson for that and tried to organize my life with lots of suffering.
And I don't know how thankful I'm to watch your video at the age of 30
Time taught me a patience and ability to listen the advice from wise people.
Is it really painful
Turning 34 in a month. I'm struggling trying to become a physiotherapist and have currently made it to 2nd semester. I have developed depression, anxiety and OCD in my 20's that made life a lot harder, but i'm doing my best because I'm willing to do anything to avoid becoming a miserable 40 y/o without an education.
I have friends, but studying with people who are 10-12 years younger than me, whom I have nothing in common with, really adds to the feeling of isolation.
I'm trying to keep my head up. Without this education, fulfillment will not be possible.
33 myself and former physio. Worked as it a couple of years, but switched to accounting which I finished a masters degree in last year. I see the issue with studying with people 10-12 years younger, but you will for sure have something in common with some of them nevertheless. I did the mistake myself of identifying too much of my self esteem on my achievements, like marathons, good grades and so on. Achievements are important, but not everything. I failed my anatomy exam twice, but got a D on third attempt after being a bit lighter on myself and acknowledging myself for doing the best I could. That was a gamechanger and relieved my nerves for the final attempt. Great work making it to the second semester!
Keep going you can do it
Have a shroom trip and think over life in nature.
You will find some answers.
I’m 27 n this year flew by so fast.. idk why time is speeding up since 26.. it’s going by so fast now
I appreciate your input on life, gives me alot to think about.
So glad that it was useful for you! Wishing you all the best 😊🙏🏻
This!
I am going to turn 32 the next month and all 6 ways are valid for me.
All the peer pressure that comes together with wanting to settle down and creating your own family, relationships etc., people are now not taking you as a joke when you're 20-something. Everything is true. Especially the last bit: yes, life is ours, especially for the ones that managed to cut our existent ties with our parents. Lost my Mom when I was 29, so was able to mature quickly, seeing how very few people care about you and to whom you're dear.
And yes, am very thankful for the experiences that are shaping me.
So sorry to hear you lost your Mom at such a young age. I’m glad that these ideas resonated for you and I wish you all the very best for next decade if your life! 😊🙏🏻
Great video Daniel! Keep it up....you'll be at 1 million subscribers before you know it!
Thanks Ted!! Glad it resonated for you! Appreciate the support 😊🙏🏻
Needed to see this thanks for the content bro
Glad it helped you my friend! 😊🙏🏻
Guys read the Bible. Best wisdom there is.
This man said you will experience divorce….
Not if you fight for it.
Happily married 14 years.
High school sweetheart. 6 kids. 32 years old. Second home.
Blessed
all i've noticed about being in my thirties is i'm horrendously more anxious lol
lol just turned 30 a couple of weeks ago, and I’m looking forward to this decade ✊🏿✊🏿
It's weird I used to watch youtube videos about not messing up my 20s when I turned 20. Now I'm a few weeks away from turning 30, I feel like it did not come close to preparing me for my 20s. Everything went good except for a few traumatic life events that the universe decided. I took a lot of risks and they paid off. They went slow, I did a decent amount right, and I still feel in disbelief they're gone. Granted no kids yet. I have my life together yet still feel completely out of control. I'm not sure I always did my best, but I did try hard. Not that I failed my 20s, but maybe if you graded my performance it was a B-. But now that it's done, what now? I feel like nobody glorifies their 30s like they do their 20s, and maybe that's what's making me fill with dread, like I have nothing to look forward to.
I’m turning 32 in May. It’s not so bad, sure my body isn’t as fit as it used to be and it feels a lot slower and aches easier, but life isn’t to bad. Thank you for this video, I look forward to seeing the “life in your 40s” video in a few years lol😊
Great man, thank you for sharing this! Keep it up!
Thanks Marc! Glad it was valuable for you 😊🙏🏻
Existential dread gets on you eventually, when you start thinking "is it all there is?" to your mundane, boring life.
thank you.
Watching it after turning 30 today ❤
Going to be 30 in the next 2 months, I swear I have been thinking about this moment for a considerable time in my life but I wouldn't imagine I would be in the state that I am. Alhamdulillah. I am looking for guidance on who I should shape myself to be. What ideal should I carry? What should be my goals for the next decade? Thanks for making this.
Wishing you the very best for your 3s Ahmed! You are asking the right questions and you will find yourself. Let us know here how we can support you! 😊🙏🏻
Was taken seriously in my 20s, the key is to become an expert in your field, or very knowledgeable. It actually pays too go full-on geek in whatever you are interested in.
The food and everything effecting you happened in my late 20’s 😔
You should not say that a man’s physical peak is his 30’s. I’m 42 never been in better shape or health and I’ve always been in good shape and healthy. I put on 30 lbs of muscle in my early twenties and then maintained it for 10 years and then lost almost all of it from not lifting or eating then gained it all back at age 40-42 then over the last year I have gained another 7 lbs of lean muscle while only eating 1-2 times a day while working as a carpenter. It’s all about lifestyle and choices
Yes true also it feels like 40+ something people are alot better shape. Because they seems the one who eat most healthy and training and stretching etc so i have seen alot of them mutch better shape then people who are late 20s.
@ I think that is partly the cause but also because the human body is always adapting and trying to sustain homeostasis and be as energy efficient as possible so the body continues to learn over time. As long as you keep using your brain lungs heart and muscles then you will hardly “age” which is a process that is proven to be determined by how you treat your body not genetics
In my experience, failure is extremely overrated. Failure is demoralizing and debilitating at best and catastrophic and life ending at worst. I’ve had plenty of failures in my life and at 34 I’m just as lost and unsure about myself as I was in my 20s, and much of my self-doubt has come as a result from my failures.
For some people they gain clarity and wisdom in their 30s and establish a good lives for themselves. For others life gets worse, it is a tragedy but it’s true. It’s a sobering reality that society needs to come to grips with if we’re gonna be honest about the reality of life.
Liked and subscribed!
Thankyou!! Great to have you along for the ride! 😊🙏🏻
Probably 100 years ago the thirties were the twenties, by 28 most people own a house, had at least 3 kids with one in their teens and experienced the death of several family members
Yep, times were so much better back then. Shame that things have to keep getting worse for some reason
Losing my dad 2 years before I turned 30 really sucked. We were getting closer and he was starting to see me as a man. I smoked my first blunt in front of him a couple months before that, that was so funny. He was at my house watching a ppv fight and I still asked 😂.
🖤
Lost my dad in 2011 when I was 20
“Another Crisp t-shirt”. Relatable. I wear pro club. They are economical and substantial, and, according to me, nice looking as they are basic looking and thick. I don’t want no sequins or nothing frilly.
Just turned 30 yesterday so looked this up
I really love the very last part of being in control of my own life since I’m now currently 31. I just started to enter my early 30s recently because I’m about to become 32 next year in early April of 2024. I still have plenty of youth left to enjoy my own life by making it much more interesting so that I’m not feeling bored constantly. I really do need to eventually travel more in the upcoming years especially to cool places such as wonderful incredible location town city areas nice hotels or amazing restaurants while I have the opportunity to make that happen someday before it is way too late for me.
when i was in my 30s i lost a lot of friends because they got engaged and married and had kids. they didn't and couldn't spend time with me anymore and when they did, they almost exclusively talked about their husband and kids. it was really a shitty time in my life. you want to spend time with quality people and there aren't many who have time
Im 38 life sucks i have a 4 inch penis ":( im embarrassed of the lack of size.... ive turned down females + males 😢 idk how to live life, i lack balls + courage
Thanks mate!
thank you for your video buddy s2
I watch a lot of people online and you are brilliant my friend! Your videos have helped me a lot 😊 Wishing you all the best from London!
Thank you so much Alessio, so glad that my ideas resonate for you! Wishing you all the best on your journey too! 😊🙏🏻
@@midsonshort thanks Daniel and keep up the awesome work!❤️
I don’t consider 30s a decline for men’s physical abilities like most men do. I agree with what you said. You now get what you put in. Eat fast food everyday? Don’t work out? Then expect bad outcomes. Sadly average male syndrome is very real, and that pretty much equates to eating chic fil e everyday, drinking beer and not working out
“Average male syndrome” LOL, Yep.
34 is actually a man physical peak. After that it's declining, but before that, it's still peaking
@@EddieKMusicnope. Early 20s is peak performance but you can stay very athletic and look great up to 50 years old if you have good genes and take great care of yourself
What's this about your body peaking in in your 30s? I'm pretty confident mine peaked at 22. When I was 25 I noticed just how much my energy levels had dropped. Now at 33 I work out 3 times as much as I did when I was 22, but I had twice the amount of energy back then.
That’s awesome! Way to go my friend! 😊🙏🏻
1. Talk to God and try to do your best and be courteous
2. Dont give your energy to people that are a waste of time that includes most women
This is waay too optimistic. 31 here. I still look good, for now. But I’m on my way down 😂
Thank you!
You got it! 😊🙏🏻
8 months til 30 boys. Farewell youth!
I am in mid thirties. Going through severe life crisis.
Hey man. Do you feel you need to talk?
Talk to the Creator. Just start talking. Trust me it works. Ask for something then when it comes true you know God is with you. Then go from there