Divorce Coach Rene Garcia Interviews Client Bryan Abasolo
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
- Hi everyone, my name is Rene Garcia, and I'm a divorce and recovery coach for men. Divorce is the third biggest stressor that an adult male can experience, often leaving men feeling isolated and without support. I became a recovery coach because there's very little available for men dealing with the pain of divorce. Society often tells men to just "suck it up," and any expression of grief is seen as weakness.
In this video, I sit down with my guest and client, Bryan Abasolo, who many of you may recognize from season 13 of "The Bachelorette." Bryan is also the owner of the Beverly Hills Disc and Laser Therapy Center. When Bryan reached out, he was contemplating divorce and needed an unbiased perspective.
We discuss Bryan's journey and the common challenges men face during the divorce process. This video is the first in a three-part series covering pre-divorce, during divorce, and post-divorce stages. If you're interested in a free consultation, click the link in the comments or in the video. Subscribe to my channel and follow along as we explore Bryan's journey and provide clarity to the emotional and confusing process of divorce.
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I was really rooting for them. The fact that they've ended up at this place is very unfortunate.
Im confused over the whole thing. These ppl were not compatible. I have always thought that.
me too, i never thought they were compatible, he needs a woman that speaks spanish
I loved them together so much. I fought for them so hard when everyone was screaming from the rooftops that Bryan was a fraud and she should've chosen Peter. Turns out they were right.
Bryan,
Your counselor is great. I'm glad you're getting help.
It's great to see you talk about this. You are a great person. Please remain encouraged! I'm keeping you in prayer.
He sounds like he harbors a deep bitterness about his ex partner’s success
Although he was happy for Rachel's success, it seems as if he was glad he did not relocate a 4th time because each time he moved he had to start his business all over again. It takes time to build a business and get clients.
He may feel that way I know I feel ups and downs when it comes to the ex. 😊
Don’t see that at all.
Not at all. The man moved 3 times and almost moved four times for his wife's success. In so doing, he uprooted his business 3 times. So much financial loss.
Not at all
Clearly, he didn't want the divorce but because of the breakdown he had no choice. And I am sure Rachel is struggling as well. Marriage, relationships are hard. It really takes two people working together as a team and once that is gone it is really hard to get it back. So, sorry for the both of you. Wishing you both only peace, success, and love.
I decided to revisit this video.
Bryan, I know what it's like to sacrifice your business for your spouse. A spiritual counselor who follows the words of God is the best decision in life! I saw how you were easy going, supportive and you defended Rachel. You also expressed you wanted kids. Put this situation in God's hands. Focus on healing. Continue building your business. God has blessings planned for you.
Block out all hateful comments! God knows who you are. That's all that matters!
bryan is 44 when did they plan to have kids
Thank God he did not have any kids with her.
Great interview, Rene! If you don't know Rene, he helped me avoid a big mistake when I was going through my divorce. Every guy should get a coach when they're going through a divorce. Too many guys fumble around on their own and make mistakes. Don't be that guy.
He is literally saying everything, that I felt. Wow. I’m gonna have to rewatch this a few more times. Made me re live how I felt and what I’ve been through. Becoming just roommates basically. My hats off to you sir. You are truly one in a million. I respect that even though it was tough he still valued himself and thought about keeping his head above the water of emotion. Wow. What a great interview.
Thanks James, I think his voice resonates amongst many men. They don't know what to do nor do they know who to speak with. People pre-judged Bryan from the get go. People just refuse to listen to what they don't want to hear. Someone commented "this is boring". I think that says a lot about a person when they say that.
This was great illustration of what this process is. René kept it very professional and is not rooting or urging people to get divorced but lights the way on what to expect.
Why is it nobody cares about men feelings? Many of us go unheard until it’s too late.
Idk why it's become that way😢. But I believe because of people like us in this world it will become better, for the next generations
Rene is a great resource for men. He helps them process their situation in a healthy way. It’s great to see him get some exposure through a celebrities experience. Rene is a great coach. Everyone needs a coach if they desire success in life!
When he talked about kids, that it was hard to see Rachel sad. Was he referring to a miscarriage?
Rachel said that getting pregnant wasn’t as easy as some people make it out to be. I wonder if they struggled with infertility because that is so hard to deal with it. I know personally.
They had fertility issues.
@@sabasmith I remember hearing that as well. She was regretting not taking certain fertility steps much earlier in life. I remember hearing him talk about the two of them trying to grow-move as a couple in a direction, and then she would be up and on an airplane again.
Rachel had no intention on having any kids for Bryan. It was a sham all along. She was never a wife to him and is not classified as wife material.
Fantastic interview! Rene is an exceptional coach whom I highly recommend to anyone going through a divorce. He provided invaluable support during my divorce and continues to offer guidance and advice even now. To me, Rene is more than just a coach; he is a friend.
Ryan looks extremely sad and distraught. Idk if it’s a front or an act. I feel for both him and Rachel because divorce isn’t easy on either person. I wish them growth and healing.
Good for Bryan for thinking to find help through something so tough, and for speaking out on this important issue.
Divorce is so hard to navigate, and men often go through it alone. I had my parents and friends standing by my side, but nobody knew the process and we were navigating blind into what was quite the storm. I couldn't even imagine trying to go through it secretly due to being celebrities.
I'm sure that this story will have a happy ending for both people.
Good interview. So sad.
He has his head up high and makeing the right choices tho 👌
Rachel single handedly blew up the bachelor/bachelorette and destroyed Chris Harrison’s career. I can think of no one more deserving than this public divorce than her. Good job Bryan!!
Another great video Rene!
ok this is sooo boring
😮 sorry, you are so bored. I hope you can find something fun to do.
This was very insightful… thanks for sharing
You're very welcome. I hope Bryan (and myself) were able to get the word out because there are differences both biological and neurological differences between gender. Much of the video was more about men's lack of responding to divorce and I hope I didn't come off mysoginistic as many have claimed. Someone once said "70% of the times it's the women's fault that we're divorced" and I stopped them right there. NO, 70% of times it's the women that decides to divorce, I'm not putting blame on anyone. That would be unfair and untrue.
Bryan l loved you and Rachel as a couple and l was rooting for you guys. Sorry you both going through this. However, l always felt in my gut that this would would happen. It seemed to me that Rachel got a taste of hollywood and put her career before her marriage. She changed not you. She was all over the place. I would see her on interviews saying she couldn't have done all she has done without your support. Her lifestyle was that of a single woman, not a married woman who wanted to focus on having a family. I wish you luck Bryan hope you find the right women for you and have children. Seven years have passed. Nobody is getting any younger.
This!
Thanks for doing this.
Brother, bless and thank you for your support. Really, thank you.
Great interview.
i don't understand she wanted to have kids, but he didn't because he felt the relationship wasnt working
or were either one unable to have kids due to physical complications etc
let’s go!
this is so sad. hope bryan will heal .
Bryan, I said this from day one.. you are both so very different! She wanted Hollywood and didn’t want you to partake in the success-because she was afraid you’d take away from her. You are very handsome and would do very well in Hollywood if you wanted to, so keep pushing forward on the path that you dream of, what ever that may be.
Lets go!!
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Bryan you look so stressed. I hope that you can regain your vigor and vibrancy.
I can totally see his side, he lost all his patients and income three time's, when is rnough enough. The courts leaked the divorce info which is a damm shame. He sounds like he really wished it had worked before it got bad again.
Rachel said she went to a retreat hoping to rekindle bit didnt even have sex during the retreat. She kept on saying that she and Bryan didnt do anything together. But then Rachel said they are looking into adoption etc. So she seemed honest yet she hid the truth.