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Idk if I agree with this. I feel enlightened after my divorce

Rene you are the GOAT, excellent taste in paintings too.

I need to say that this is a spot on advice! And l haven't heard this topic being addressed before by any of the relationship coaches. Thank you!

Love your content. Thank you for creating this community. I had PTSD of some kind after my divorce and trying to deal with the constant anger and resentment of my ex in the final year.

Thanks again Rene!! 🙏

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Except for pink, you just covered all the common car colors

I need this channel right now

I just found your channel.. Going through a Divorce now… How do I find you on Facebook??

Great message Rene!! 🙏

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Does that mean married men wear a tie?

You know when it is going the wrong way long before it becomes reality. Those inclinations are telling you something is not right. So before it becomes outwardly obvious that a legal filing is imminent get in and get some personal financial protection counseling along with the divorce counseling. Announce and plan a vacation. It may be a ways away so you need to get in shape for it, you need clothing for it. You need to clear debts that have been creating anxiety for you, and wouldn’t let you relax on that vacation. Face the reality that after the divorce that the harder you worked to bring in more money, it will work against you and you will be required to pay higher alimony. Remember women cannot do anything physical so they rely on their mouth to manipulate and shame you to their will. So personal exercise is a true confidence builder. With higher confidence you don’t put up with her b/s. Even if divorce does not happen you will be better and more confident. Alimony is slavery, so minimize what they can manipulate you into doing. You have to be in a higher position to negotiate terms, and walking away from the table is a negotiation strategy. Get your financial house in order so you can walk away and you are less likely to be forced into financial slavery. You need to talk with somebody. I would say do it with this guy. If you need a very personal reality check schedule a psychological session with a male psychologist. Those are legally required to be confidential and covered by health insurance. Learn the rules that allow them to break confidentiality and don’t go there with your discussions. Don’t do this alone! Why so passionate about this? I am in my 70’s and life with the ex was basically a roommate. After divorce was financial slavery that I paid dearly for past 65. Don’t be someone’s slave.

Background music is unnecessary. It is distracting. Audio quality isnt the best. Hurts to listen even if the information is valuable.

Looking good my man !!

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Let me think. Pay someone half of what you have worked for your entire life and then be surprised when they leave. I got it. 1. Money 2. Real estate 3. Retirements funds

Ok hurting emotionally and physically.... We were 30 years together. I tried to leave a few times. Wasn't very happy. But she talked me into staying each time. The last time she wanted it. Sold house moved to take care of her 95 yo mom. I knew her mom before her we worked together. She was always a bitch. It was her mom. She wanted to Put me out without anything. Seriously? Nothing I mean nothing. I was able having half of money for our sold house get an attorney. Hit half of the TSP which had been gotten in to so much wasn't much there and taxes took most of it. So moved again to another state living with my daughter. It was her mom that did this. Anyway I am in shock but it's for the best. Gosh found out how she really felt. It was like a fucking light switch. Karma going to pay her a visit. Still love her how could I not after all we been through together which is a long story. I treated her right. I mean we fought but never physical. Never verbally abused either. Usually all communication ended and left. I suggested many tie marriage counseling but never happened. It was over then but we went on. But don't know what to do with myself. Retired physically disabled 3 back surgeries....working it's over. What I have it is it unless science and technology comes up with something for me. It sucks because she was my life. I gave up a lot and sacrificed a lot and so did she. To bad sex life was getting good even up to the last week or ell me a sign of dysfunction? Nah her mom pushed her over the edge and me sitting there retired disabled in an Attic in a house not mine an old ladies house cannot sit in certain chairs ya know? But two crabby women. My wife is on ex is hot. I told her all the time. I'm not bad myself at 64. Anyway it's over. Divorced. Got several women want to get together... some want sex... I'm just beyond that. I need something food to have sex today, plus my exwife was what I wanted. Got used to. Who knows. She became m everything. I guess God don't want us together... I mean I didn't do anything wrong. No drugs, drinking, cheating... she was controlling it had to always be her way. I even tried to leave a few times. She begged me each time. Not To go. It would get better. But end up same old shit. Don't change just submit like I did! Oh well finished with marriage and women hell even sec right now. Concentrating on my spiritual health, meditation, I guess it's f God wants me to be with a woman he'll send her. I thought. But living in a room with my daughter. Taking care of 4 dogs while she works and has great life. Pay mortgage. I had an apartment but decided to live with her in house she offered. My life is almost over I am a tired man. I just don't care anymore. It ducks but I keep praying and meditating. My life sucks not as bad as it was either exwife. But not getting any better and the little money I got is going fast. Don't know what I can do to make money today. Just cannot work anymore. I will try. Who will hire an old dude like me that's retired? Disabled? How does one live on $1300 a month? On Medicare. It sucks. If I had a lot of money could have my own space... like so did in my 30's! I remember it was good. But had to work all the time. I got to find a way to make money at suggestions? I mean something tangible. Basically that's the story kinda in a nutshell it is a lot more to it all.

Nice thumbnail, i liked it.

I’ve never been religious, but I have a personal relationship with Jesus.

So for many, me as well, knew it was over. I just didn’t know how to exit with my hide, more less any finances. I looked for pre-divorce guidance and could not discover where to find it. The big problem is the court system considers the man to be a durable and un-ending supply of financial support. I suspect in the Facebook divorced group there are willing members who will provide advanced knowledge. Example one highly paid technology couple, where the wife actually earned more got divorced and he owed alimony and child support to her. She planned the divorce by quitting work for two tax years before filing. He had to take up the slack by working more. The court found that he was the sole breadwinner and relied on his income for its findings. Post divorce depression in my case related to similar circumstances. Don’t be that guy. Figure out a happy plan. Be positive, and have a great life even before divorce especially after. This coach, and books on personal responsibility, deflect the opinions of others from affecting you towards depression. Dig out and do for yourself (the personal responsibility part). Why am I talking? I am in my 70’s and with guidance or just someone to talk to it could have been better, even great. Don’t be isolated. I wish I had divorce coaching.

Love the mafia/life analogy!!!

Deep.

wow, one of your best videos to date!

It's hard to forgive. She claimed to have been abused but yet she's abusive herself. All she did was abuse people no matter who they were. I even believe she abused her own lawyer. She told mine she was being grouchy. But yes I have to forgive myself for allowing it to happen. I saw the signs. But ignored them. I want to let to go of the anger!

That was one of the hardest parts. But when I realized I have this new chance, I embraced it.

I decided to revisit this video.

This video taught me so much. My online dating went from zero to 100 likes and matches. Dating with confidence and swagger. I’m back! Wooo

I am 41, she is 43, married for 11 years, we have a 9 years old kid . The kid is the only reason why i go home every day. I am continuously thinking about divorce for the past 3 years.

Great video - honest and raw! Thank you!

I’ll never remarry

Its a foolish young man today that goes before an alter and signs a marriage contract . A fool destined for divorce. 😢 my advise, get special freinds and family together, bring a bible, have a ceremony. Be a man and take your fate in your hands. If your lady doesn't like it because there is no contract for rewarding her when she realises you not a prince , then find yourself a new one. There are billions of them, surly one will love you enough to be with you for ever. I was seriously hurt by divorce , in case you haven't noticed , 31 years . My sin, worked to hard to provide for family of 5. I never hurt her ever but would arrive home fairly tired and worked most Saturdays. She found a better life for 6 months with a wealthy estate agent . He moved on. She wanted back in. I sadly had allready sold the house and paid her out her 65%. My new place had only 1 bedroom and id got a puppy so sadly no room for her. 😢 and my new girlfreind whom just kinda dropped in to teach me to cook didnt seem to like her😅. Anyway she spent months telling my kids about this terrible human being they had for a father . For a while the kids , all young adults went off me and cut me out. I just carried on workjng lonely and confused. I never went near alcohol 😮 . Soon one by one my kids started visiting. Now they always pop in. She still at war and i think im the enemy 😂 but man , im one happy dude again. Took time but i shall never marry or sign a marriage contract again. 😊 the end.

Husband's threaten divorce all the time, right? When women say it once, they are checked out and ready to go.

I am the one who told my wife that i want to divorce her.

What are the stats for affairs failing after a marriage breakdown?

Women are also better liars. Better at affairs.

It isn't hard to figure it out, for modern woman, being married is like you a man being married to Oprah or Taylor Swift. If Taylor Swift sucks, fucks and does everything you want whenever you snap your fingers, buy and does whatever you want, cooks, clean, whenever you want, however you want. You win b/c you have the perfect wife who is under your finger and gives you whatever you desire. If she ever mouths off to you, too much, where you deem it to be of insufficient value to stay with her [say she stops being spineless and giving you unlimited spending on her card] you just claim "the love is gone" use vague-ish terms to claim that you aren't into her anymore, its not her its me, and you dump her ass and collect 50% of your hundreds of million fortune. It is obvious why they initiate, they know their legal rights and abuse it to the max.

For 20 years I had to put up with my wife I wasn’t rich, but I was doing better in life. I retired the army. She was always very verbal abusive and physically abusive. I believe she was bipolar, but I’m not a doctor so I can’t diagnose it, however for 20 years, she managed to at the end of it I couldn’t even drive a car apparently I didn’t how to do anything I couldn’t even change the lightbulb so I checked out I said let it go so then I left her for two weeks and she is begging me to come back she’ll change blah blah blah blah blah for the first time in 20 years she said sorry I was like wow maybe she change. I went back for two more years and she started doing it again so I filed for divorce. Let her keep the house she can keep her car but she’s gotta pay for it. The house down the middle house is now in her name and it’s been about a year and a half now and be honest with you. I’m truly happy. I don’t have to answer to spending five dollars at the store. I don’t have to ask her if I can have $10 to go buy lunch somewhere Have to ask her for anything. I’m a free man. I will never get married again and I will never cohabitate with the woman again I’m done and I’m extremely happy when you’re young to believe that you have a wife or husband and kids know you don’t that’s called being conditioned that’s called being brainwashed. You don’t need any of that. You need to be happy.

I raised the issue of divorce with my wife several times. She finally took my suggestion and went to a lawyer. To be honest my attraction toward her slowly died and we became roommates without benefits. Getting divorced and getting ready to pay for my freedom and not carrying the financial loads.

Society has given women more power than ever. But with more power, more evil was exposed. Men simply love women more than women love men. Unless women start treating men with full respect, many of them will grow old with a cat or a dog.

Ryan looks extremely sad and distraught. Idk if it’s a front or an act. I feel for both him and Rachel because divorce isn’t easy on either person. I wish them growth and healing.

I ve been separated about 3 months now. I really haven't seen my kids on my own yet, I guess that's how my wife gets back at me. I miss them, I'm going crazy.

Happily divorced since October 2015, I'm the one that filed, not her.

Wow this is so true but now my wife doesnt want to file since she will lose everything

Great video man.

Any man wanting to get married after going through a divorce needy to give his head a wobble

Bryan, Your counselor is great. I'm glad you're getting help. It's great to see you talk about this. You are a great person. Please remain encouraged! I'm keeping you in prayer.

Bryan, I know what it's like to sacrifice your business for your spouse. A spiritual counselor who follows the words of God is the best decision in life! I saw how you were easy going, supportive and you defended Rachel. You also expressed you wanted kids. Put this situation in God's hands. Focus on healing. Continue building your business. God has blessings planned for you. Block out all hateful comments! God knows who you are. That's all that matters!

38, online dating is full of scams, fat uglies (sorry I have a little bit of standard with looks just how it is) with 2+ kids with 3 fathers somehow lol, that do not want to go on a date or expect a guy to rizz. Sorry but not sorry; Im not a typical guy. Focusing on myself and my career and will worry about the loneliness I guess when I get older. I dont feel like shelling out $400+ paying for a multitude of dates just to get disrespected constantly, treated like a POS constantly just to ultimately be abandoned instead of having the issues worked on and run up lawyer bills etc. DONE.

Man I wish I would had all this info before I left!