5 Compliments to Make a Man Love You

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  • @Mat_Shaffer
    @Mat_Shaffer  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @soystef
    @soystef 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    5. I love the way you think
    4. Your ability to make decisions turns me on
    3. I love watching you, you are so friggin hot
    2. You make me feel so safe because _____
    1. You inspire me/ I admire you
    Looooove this content. Going to save it on my phone to pull them out every so often ;) Thank you, gentlemen!

    • @Quntah888
      @Quntah888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thx! ✨

    • @brittnykeahnnah
      @brittnykeahnnah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      "YOU'RE OFFICIALLY THE REAL MVP!" THANK YOU FOR THIS FOR REAL. I REALLY LEGITIMATELY DIDN'T WANT TO WASTE 20MINS OF MY LIFE. ❤😘

    • @DiptiRai7
      @DiptiRai7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks

    • @LarasVloggg
      @LarasVloggg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Was looking for summary.
      Thanks.

    • @fireflyaries
      @fireflyaries 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank yooouuu!!!!! My eyes were glazing over.

  • @globegalmiami820
    @globegalmiami820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love the way you discuss tips and guidance at an intellectual rather than a sensationalized level. Thank you.

  • @ellenlartz2499
    @ellenlartz2499 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have known my man since we were in Elementary school. I knew I was in love with him when I was 17 years old. Circumstances kept us apart for 25 years. Since we have been together, I can now watch him openly. And I let him know every day what he means in my life !

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  ปีที่แล้ว

      AMAZING love that share!! :)

  • @lascaux4497
    @lascaux4497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love these two guys talking about how to stroke men's ego 😊

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much my dear! :) ♥

  • @mariawelz6666
    @mariawelz6666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Last week i told my guy that i love the way i feel when I'm with him, so relaxed.

  • @placebo106
    @placebo106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    oh wow recently Ive said all of these to my man, since then he's so attentive and loving, I didn't realise how much it meant to him.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Happy I could be of help.

  • @Versiongurl
    @Versiongurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Please do a video on different kinds of men as far as personalities. Like an alpha male, a passive man, etc. I believe that makes a huge difference on how a woman should deal with a man.

    • @laurahall9610
      @laurahall9610 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      agree

    • @foxerrr7864
      @foxerrr7864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes please do one on Alpha men!

    • @dawnjohnson40
      @dawnjohnson40 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!!! So do I

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All of those “alpha” and “beta” stuff is absolute bullshit. Learn to identify a good man and avoid a toxic one.

  • @stormdancer0
    @stormdancer0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a widow; my late hubby passed away 4.5 years ago, and I'm beginning to date again. In fact, I'm in love again.
    I think the best reaction to something I've told him has been to the comment, "I love who I am when I'm with you." For some reason, this really made him proud.

  • @carolinenorman6141
    @carolinenorman6141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love the way you coaches work together it’s generous

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much my dear!

  • @claytonolsoncoaching
    @claytonolsoncoaching 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Mat! It was a pleasure being on your channel. Thanks for holding a solid container and adding your wisdom!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Truly bro! Thanks for coming on it was a blessing to have you, super high value stuff... let’s do it again soon! 🤗🤗

    • @acesstarsana
      @acesstarsana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      powerful mesage I love it

    • @rosaliemay-somerville1520
      @rosaliemay-somerville1520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank u!

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Great segment

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Notice Clayton HAS NO GOOFY HAND GESTURES, NOR DOES HE HAVE AN OPEN NECK SHIRT.

  • @carlenewilliams5782
    @carlenewilliams5782 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😊
    These advise are great. Thanjs for new insights. I'm loving it everytime I watch.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!

  • @t.lc.777
    @t.lc.777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes! I’ve been showing my appreciation for my new guy and he lights up. Same applies to tell your woman how you appreciate her qualities, everyone needs validation. Its a win win!!

  • @anneosborne2167
    @anneosborne2167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I started watching you in January and met my man in February. We had a rough patch and stopped seeing eachother during the month of May, got back together June 1st and it’s been absolutely wonderful ever since. Thank you for every video you put out there. I can’t thank you enough for the joy I’m experiencing every day 👍🏻❤️

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so happy for you my dear!

  • @kre8504
    @kre8504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Being that my dad died when I was 10 yrs old, I don't know enough abt men. I do know one good thing abt Mr.x was that he was always good @ planning our vacations & time management: it always made our vacations run smoothly for the most part having everything planned out: I imagine I told him this. He was an awesome cook besides. I love what I've learned here in this video, I hope some day I get to put all this into practice some day in a worthwhile relationship!! ~Thx!!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy to hear that! Thanks for sharing! ❤❤❤

  • @keshakellogg5995
    @keshakellogg5995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Wow! Listening to you two talk together is SO valuable!! I'm grateful for your collab! ♥️ These are amazing ideas to show more love, and I'm excited to make his world brighter with them. 😊

    • @nordiabravo4553
      @nordiabravo4553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Matthew I am in a 3year relationship he told me he is falling in love with me and he is not going anywhere but he wants to take it slowly we do compliment each other but I am the most bold one I love him he supports me and will go out of his way to be there when I need him ,I am still scared because both of us have been in bed relationship before meeting each other

    • @sharonridgway2580
      @sharonridgway2580 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      As Rd aawwwa😂❤as waszezw see weswe

    • @amieb7646
      @amieb7646 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trrṟṟd Dr trtrtdteṟ 😊 try😊😊t try testrr😅y😅ryyyttyryṟ

  • @hkvideos9674
    @hkvideos9674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great collaboration!

  • @teresarodgers176
    @teresarodgers176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mat your eyes are hypnotic. Thank you for hearing what matters

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.

  • @dyniellekent2127
    @dyniellekent2127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow!! This is a powerful combo! I learned a lot from this session.

  • @annelittle4183
    @annelittle4183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wow. I've said all of these to my guy already. No wonder he loves me. Only expressed genuine feelings when I said it.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yess anne little! He's a lucky man ❤️

    • @annelittle4183
      @annelittle4183 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mat_Shaffer thank you🙂

  • @secretshaman189
    @secretshaman189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank-you for great information on how to speak to a man to inspire his love. It is so refreshing to hear how to appreciate a man instead of listening to the media narrative constantly harping about "toxic" masculinity.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @Flixy282
    @Flixy282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “Baby, it’s so sexy watching you walk through the door each evening after work like a conquering hero returning from war... You work so hard it inspires me to be better for you”...

  • @elena11293
    @elena11293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You two and Clayton's biz partner, Jack Butler, always show the profound work you have done on yourself and the kindness of your heart. I truly appreciate the service you provide,
    thank you!!

  • @cherryestinoso8671
    @cherryestinoso8671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great advices and very easy to execute. Love how you actually give rationale as to why these compliments work 😍😍😍

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much Cherry Estinoso, your beautiful words truly touch my heart! It's my honor and purpose to support you 🙏❤️

  • @debbiet.808
    @debbiet.808 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Again great advice, especially to say things specifically as to what you like about thrm!

  • @kerstitekko9958
    @kerstitekko9958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    2 awesome coaches and man.amazing work.amazing content.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much Kersti Tekko! 🙏❤️

  • @traceefarrington7022
    @traceefarrington7022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow!! My guy has been flying through the stages of relationship building with me but I still haven’t heard anything as a direct verbal statement of how he feels...I will absolutely use these compliments. It will be authentic because I have thought and felt all of those! I didn’t understand the impact it could have with him returning the favor of how he fells towards me. Thank you!!!

  • @TonyaGrant-s4h
    @TonyaGrant-s4h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do these things already. My partner brings out the things I have inside me that enable me to express all my feelings about him. He recieves and reciprocrates.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖

  • @marlenecastilloregala8490
    @marlenecastilloregala8490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First time on your channel. Just came across accidentally.
    I shd. say, "Yes!" I'm on the right track. I already said these unknowingly. Oh, that's why he's crazy about me. I already hit the button even LDR. Thank you Guys.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing!!

  • @sarebear4351
    @sarebear4351 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 🙏🙏 there's so many relationship advice frauds that promote manipulative tactics. I'd rather say nothing than to manipulate someone.
    I am a terrible communicator when it comes to asking for help or things I need from them. I give sincere compliments but I hate feeling vulnerable lol. I tend to do it to build them up in moments they need it. I don't make a habit of it to avoid him thinking he take advantage of me

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much for your feedback! ❤️✨

  • @cathyandresiak1975
    @cathyandresiak1975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good to know, women need the same compliments!!! We all do!!!

  • @pamiewatkins7354
    @pamiewatkins7354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    In texting i need to improve,now i talk far fetched at times like im confused if he still cares in my head not my heart, thanks for the confidence, i wasnt feelin well, ive got warm fuzziness, love your shirts!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much Pamie Watkins! 🙏❤️

  • @tasrajwani
    @tasrajwani 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the way YOU think, Clayton Olson. Haha. Thank you guys, for a great video!

  • @susanmohaghegh7218
    @susanmohaghegh7218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both of you, Clayton & Mat, are SO very informative & inspiring. I will try to implement these principles, with the men, in my life.
    Thank you beyond measure. 🌺

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Our pleasure! You can do it!

  • @blingblingnelida
    @blingblingnelida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Coaches
    Excellent Topic Video.
    Learning everything. Enjoying hearing these Awesome Advices.

  • @mommyk82212
    @mommyk82212 ปีที่แล้ว

    Was so into the content I watched 3 videos already n almost forgot to subscribe 😂❤

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching! I hope it helps 🤗

  • @vickiv1963
    @vickiv1963 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything you are saying is exactly how I feel. Some women have no idea how to add value to themselves and their relationships through those very things you have outlined. They precisely define what I need to be able to say to a man for me to respect and like him. I need to like my man and the only way I am able to do so is to be able to feel. What you described is what I need to feel about my man. This is what will cause me to love him with respect.
    Thank you for that message. I’ve never heard a message that has always reverberated my exact sentiments. This is the only way I can continue having that deep love and respect. It will always keep our relationship alive and thriving an becomes an adventure for me and I love an adventure within my relationship. I only need one relationship with those ingredients you precisely outlined. They are meaningful and hold great value.
    Thank you.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Many Thanks!

  • @valentinanocross8677
    @valentinanocross8677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the way you guys think!!! This is a great collaboration. Indeed I think about these and will make sure I express more. I just have to translate these into German...maybe not as sexy, but I think I got this...

  • @christiebalboa9393
    @christiebalboa9393 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whoa 😮 I loved what you said right before your guest started the compliments! Mr Mat.. “just in case she’s forgotten!”

  • @blingblingnelida
    @blingblingnelida 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi Coaches Mat & Clayton
    Excellent Coaches.
    Love Them Both Together.
    ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

  • @astridcassidy4677
    @astridcassidy4677 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Matt and Clayton!! This video was actually a powerful manifestation tool for me! Those are some of the core emotions I want to feel in a relationship! Thank you for sharing these empowering words 💕

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @lilianawuku2687
    @lilianawuku2687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just watched your video and I applied the first one and it worked magic. Thanks guys

  • @terrierichards6738
    @terrierichards6738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great info. Great to see you guys. Combination

  • @dianazhang6132
    @dianazhang6132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    ladies will say these things when they are in love the right one,when women are loved and appreciated in the way women want,same to men,no matter for men or women,if love is not strong enough,it is hard to say these things,even they know how powerful these sentences are i think.

    • @marysinger4203
      @marysinger4203 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love watching my man cook, it turns me on, he's so quick and confident. One day he was painting and I told him he was good at it.

    • @marysinger4203
      @marysinger4203 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love everything my man does, like putting his coat around me when I'm cold...that's awesome.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing!

  • @Versiongurl
    @Versiongurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Can you apply this to a man that has a lot of insecurities and a man who’s passive aggressive? A man who prefers a woman to treat him badly? A man who only respects women who dog and use him?

    • @LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion
      @LoveQuestWithLisaConcepcion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why would you be with a man like this?

    • @christina4018
      @christina4018 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Those men tend to appreciate nothing you are or do for them. Their thought processes are not normal! Many years experience here unfortunately

    • @Versiongurl
      @Versiongurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LoveQuest With Lisa Concepcion unfortunately I’ve been married to one for years. Didn’t realize this about him until it was too late. Now I have to figure out what to do next because we have 3 young children together.

    • @Versiongurl
      @Versiongurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Christina Sanderson I agree with you!

    • @patricedtv
      @patricedtv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Run.....🤣

  • @nimfabangay7318
    @nimfabangay7318 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have a good day! Ty ♥️

  • @breakergirl47
    @breakergirl47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Good to see you two together 😃

  • @cliffavril7507
    @cliffavril7507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent ..I always try to do this ... hope you two will do something else together ..two minds working together is super

  • @wyethhan7434
    @wyethhan7434 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing video of you guys.. I love the way how you share your knowledge to the world, both make a difference..I love you both and keep up your good works, We appreciate y guys.. Love you loads all the way from the P.❤Godspeed!!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much Wyeth Han! 🙏❤️

  • @jamesronduen1792
    @jamesronduen1792 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I when little, used to watch my dad shave...never dawned on me to actually say it to a man😊

  • @sharonbiddle9901
    @sharonbiddle9901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow thank you so much Mat and Clayton I really needed that!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome Sharon Biddle! 🙏

  • @joyroumpf7750
    @joyroumpf7750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant makes so much sense along with real emotion

  • @mayapanayotopoulou6645
    @mayapanayotopoulou6645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your amazing 😉 both of you ! I only recently found you Mat and wont stop watching your videos ! The timing couldn’t be better ! I’m just starting a new relation after being alone for 3 yrs ! So kind of my confidence has gone but thanks to you got some useful tips and guidance as to how to impress him and make him fall head over heels 👌😂after all that’s what is the idea 👍

  • @ritahnakiswa1371
    @ritahnakiswa1371 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you guys for this message👌

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome Ritah Nakiswa! 🙏

  • @newyorkdiva3
    @newyorkdiva3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was an awesome video, very helpful. Thank you.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome Donna Lewis! 🙏

  • @mariarossi6719
    @mariarossi6719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Brilliant video, Mat. By the way, has anybody ever told you how much you resemble Ricky Wilson, the lead singer of the Kaiser Chiefs? You two could honestly be brothers. Keep on rocking it, Mat!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤗Thank you Maria Rossi. I should get in touch with this Ricky 😂

    • @mariarossi6719
      @mariarossi6719 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mat_Shaffer You could even be his stand-in at his concerts!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @MarlowsMugz
      @MarlowsMugz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤩 Sing it Mat....Ruby Ruby Ruby!!! 🎶

  • @phiphidash6035
    @phiphidash6035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks mat i love your content ❤️❤️👊👊

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much Phiphi Dash! 🙏❤️

  • @alady4real598
    @alady4real598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Great ideas. I'd just like to ask could a word or two be used differently?
    Meaning I don't wish to use the word love in a relationship until I'm ready to use it in romantic meaning. The word love is way too overused and has lost its true meaning. Long ago if you used the word love to a guy that would send him running for the high hills!
    The phrase "turns me on" can go so elsewhere (yes, I'm an old prude). Perhaps "really impress me" or something along that line.

  • @lucydelpilar7289
    @lucydelpilar7289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wow, these two are awesome.

  • @lilymeyer5973
    @lilymeyer5973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks so much for those 5 points i loved that.👌

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so welcome🙂

  • @kiransharma7848
    @kiransharma7848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mat I ove watching both of you talkin meaningful Today.
    ❤❤

  • @patriciamasuda2506
    @patriciamasuda2506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great guidelines. I'll be watching this one many times. Really awesome. Thank you!!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome! ❤❤❤

  • @pastoralexiaburgesshuart2020
    @pastoralexiaburgesshuart2020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this open, honest, and valuable share.

  • @dannyoduo3125
    @dannyoduo3125 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mat Shaffer and Clayton this is Great 👍🏾 it impacting....❤️

  • @emilyingridlaura3419
    @emilyingridlaura3419 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so excellent !

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you enjoyed it! :)

  • @spiritualgangstergodess5015
    @spiritualgangstergodess5015 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You both were awesome because I needed to hear this information for my next relationship

  • @simengenkosisammie635
    @simengenkosisammie635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for your video. You inspire me with your good advice

  • @hhunstad2011
    @hhunstad2011 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @Cinder1987
    @Cinder1987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent video. Thanks, guys. :)

  • @christinetisdale1047
    @christinetisdale1047 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved listening with you Clayton 😀

  • @isabelareyes4275
    @isabelareyes4275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love it you both are great !

  • @cristalmccauley9751
    @cristalmccauley9751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you guys! I'm Subscribed to both of you! Really enjoy you guys together with advice!

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much Cristal McCauley! 🙏❤️

  • @Versiongurl
    @Versiongurl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video guys.

  • @TonyaGrant-s4h
    @TonyaGrant-s4h 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am in a new relationship with an old love. Everything you tell me works. Now all I would love to have him want to commit to me.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖

  • @YasminAli-m3o
    @YasminAli-m3o ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Clayton you rock….😊

  • @tammi8458
    @tammi8458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Reward the behavior you want to see regularly!!

  • @Alexi-pj4yb
    @Alexi-pj4yb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great video ! I'm helping a friend and these words hit the spot ! Thank you guys you're amazing for helping us, sending you hugs 🙂🧡

  • @deborahvella2323
    @deborahvella2323 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good advice thanks 🙏 for all the help glad to see you work together 🙏⭐️⭐️

  • @hannaheleennome5779
    @hannaheleennome5779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your content ❤️😊👍

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoy it!

  • @nimfabangay7318
    @nimfabangay7318 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, I am appreciative of all you said . Ty ♥️

  • @acesstarsana
    @acesstarsana 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you sir Mat and sir clayton powerful mesage its really helps us

  • @northstar9509
    @northstar9509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You both are so amazing and inspire me

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤ Thank you North star. I appreciate you. 🙌

  • @viviandean2656
    @viviandean2656 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a heterosexual feminist and I appreciate men. Ib my 70s I've become more deeply aware of the beauty of femininity and masculinity. They're both so very valuable and since I've had a few relationships after my husband's passing 6 years ago and the 7 years before he died from dementia, it's so clear that there's a need for honoring that polarity. All these tips are very good, but I'm going to add something very simple: SAY HIS NAME OFTEN. He will know that you SEE HIM. He'll know without the words that you see him as an individual. He's not nameless. Pet names are sweet, but use his name too. In fact, everyone likes to be called by name sometimes. Men have been schooled to complement women, but as women, we need to let men know the things we love and admire in them, but it's important that those compliments aren't tactical. They must be in context and be sincere.

  • @joansheekey9874
    @joansheekey9874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes I'll try this on my man I'd say he love it he's a nice man ♥️👍thank yu both gentle men

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome Joan Sheekey! 🙏

  • @tasneemgadiwala7764
    @tasneemgadiwala7764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi mat...Thanks a ton both of you guys

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Tasneem Gadiwala! You are so welcome 🙏

  • @karengutheil7541
    @karengutheil7541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I notice that everytime someone comments on how great wise and smooth you are they get a ❤ but when they are writing meaningful things to themselves possibly looking for advice they are completely ignored ! So its safe to say y'all love and ego stroke to the point of ignoring legitimate concerns from your listeners !!! I can see how self-centered you can be and trust we women need our egos stroked too !!! Oh look you beautiful !!! You cook so so good - oh your booty is smoking let me grab that thing lol !!! Love is putting the other persons happiness first - I saw this in my parents marriage of 50 years until death did they part !!!! Simple ladies dont put out until your married - put GOD first always and only marry a man of GOD filled with integrity honor and love !!!! HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH 🔥🔥🔥

  • @kimgordon3695
    @kimgordon3695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content Mat & Clayton 💝💝

  • @Joirychelle
    @Joirychelle ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn this is GOLD, and I haven’t even finished watching it yet lol…😍🔥

  • @adrianabutignon8285
    @adrianabutignon8285 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to do what you do!! amazing and full of true value. where do i start?? your're great humans 😊

  • @hellothere9374
    @hellothere9374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If a man feels like he's doubting himself and if you say you're impressed he knows that's a lie.

    • @TheSharronW
      @TheSharronW 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But then don't you want to build his confidence up?

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate your opinion on this!

  • @lauracabe
    @lauracabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Qualiittyyy contteennttt

  • @melitaquiamco7232
    @melitaquiamco7232 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for another knowledge how men fall in love with the ladies I really need these though I'm old but no experience about the love relationship.

  • @meganterhoven2837
    @meganterhoven2837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh boy, we fully aware of the power we have.Cave man mmhh?Are we talking about the women behind the leader?Teaching is wonderful, but a deep powerful relationship needs no work.Most beautiful thing a women can do is be herself.
    You dont need a women to heal you, healing comes from within yourself.Heal yourself so you have more to give of yourself.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interesting perspective, thanks so much!

  • @beatricelunkuse383
    @beatricelunkuse383 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I have learnt alot. Thanks. High ✋5

  • @hoiliswu6070
    @hoiliswu6070 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful watching i love both thanks Acton and showing to love both women appreciate to guy special future my life.

  • @laurahall9610
    @laurahall9610 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Question for Mat or Clayton - What is your man won't take the initiative to make decisions - He asks me everything -and doesn't initiate. I kind of say - "oh - surprise me" (like where to go for dinner) or what time do you want to go? "Oh, I'll let you decide." But he will say - well, I don't know where you want to go. or I don't know what time you want to go. So, the decision making is lacking there. What would you do to help him make more decisions in the relationship?

  • @TheSentinel555
    @TheSentinel555 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mat and Clayton.

  • @patricedtv
    @patricedtv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love both of you guys...good stuff.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks so much my dear!

  • @ngaihlian618
    @ngaihlian618 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful advice thank you 😍😍😍

  • @cidoniabraithwaite3451
    @cidoniabraithwaite3451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you that was great.

    • @Mat_Shaffer
      @Mat_Shaffer  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!