While it is true that the pain of someone changing their mind or opinion of you is real, we must not forget that change is the only constant in life, nothing in nature is the same all year round. And in just the same way people change, grow, discover their true needs and wants and have different desires in different phases of their life. I know how much it hurts to love someone and consider them everything you ever wanted and them not being able to reciprocate, but never are our needs more important than somebody else's, and so we must accept the pain with grace and not make it mean anything about us or our worth and lovability.
Eventually you will realize that happiness is not the absence of problems, but simply the ability to deal well with them. Imagine all the wondrous things your mind might embrace if it weren’t wrapped so tightly around your struggles. Always look at what you have, instead of what you have lost. Because it’s not what the world takes away from you that counts; it’s what you do with what you have left.
All right, thank's also yours, were words I needed to hear and loved to! Thank's because I'm gonna do something good with things, animals and people including family, who are always with me, because those are the ones who really count in my life meant to make with and for me the best things!!
Mate, I've watched dozens of videos to deal with the problems I have, and none have helped as much as yours. The way you explain things let's me know that you actually understand the complexities of depression, anxiety and the like. Thank you, and keep up the good work, and I'll keep fighting the good fight.
my boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me saying I mistreated him. even tho I gave him everything I had. I put in so much time and effort into trying to make him happy. he seemed happy too tho... he cheated on me when it hit 8 months. I was crying and everything. I told my family, friends. and they told me to leave him. but I didn't. He told me I wasn't enough for him. then blocked me on everything. I tried talking to him. but that made me cry way more. my advice is to block them! stop talking to them! thats the sign that they aren't the one. so now you have to move on and find the one. and trust me, it will be hard. but in the future someone will love you way more.
Madyson Drewniak my boyfriend broke up with me because of me smoking and drinking. I had one shisha and few drinks...never been drunk wanted to compromise with him....even risked my life to answer his call but it wasn't enough
i wish I could see that. My relationship was only 4 months and I'm still in a little bit of pain....6 months after the fact. Days overall are getting better...but still
My ex fiance broke up with me about two months ago ,I got sick and we lost our apartment now she got married two weeks ago and it devastated me . thank you for the help Noah . it had been really hard but your videos have helped a lot .
Thank you for this video. I've been dealing with my breakup for the last couple months and whenever the pain gets too much, I always come back to this video and the pain numbs for a while. So thank you for making my life feel a little bit less awful. Thank you so much.
I tend to think that once the damage is done your best bet is to pull the plug on the relationship. No matter how hard it might seem. People are cruel and chasing after someone who does not love you is like chasing the wind. Love yourself and move on. Men are a dime a dozen and he's not the last coca cola in the desert
this video was a instant relief....This was what i needed to hear. This video was like it was personalized for me and the thoughts I am going through now.... Thank you so much
This was exactly what I needed to hear. I was the one who initiated the break up but I felt he left me no choice & although its been almost 2 months I've been having a hard time getting over it, we were together for 5 yrs. Thank you Noah! I feel better already.
We broke up a couple of days ago after being together for 4 years and being engaged. I'm having a very hard time because I want to find a way to speed up my healing time. It took 4 years to build something and 1 day for it to be destroyed. It's hurtful.
@@chocolatewheelchair i was told once that it takes the half time. It takes individual time...depending on the ppl, the relationship, the amount of drama 😁 etc... Fe. I had a seven year long relationship. We were 18 when we met and we just developed in totally different ways. I realized that during the relationship and it didn't really needed long (maybe 3 months) to get over it. Two months ago I moved out from a covert narcissist after a year relationship and I'm still sometimes having flashbacks and outburst in tears...I don't really know how long that one will last...emotional abuse is without compare. Life is slowly getting colorful again,but it may last a bit longer than the one before. Hope not two years... I would kill myself 🤣
@@patricklewis5676 how? What is rousing through your mind? How long have you been together and how did it end? I'm sorry that you are suffering. Hope you can soon find a way to get through it :/ I moved to another town, so I'm alone a lot. My friends are not too far away, but I feel the need to spend time with myself. Music and arts help me a lot. I take good care of my needs and my body with healthy food and exercise. When I'm tired I take a nap. I go to the forest when my mind is too active, that helps heaps to slow it down. When I feel like it I take a bath fe. I started meditating in the mornings (which brought also very unpleasant feelings to the surface, but I feel that my days are somehow smoother when I do it) Just be kind to yourself. You're not alone and you deserve it to be appreciated!
thank you so much for this. this has saved me from walking a path of self-hate, self-destruction, and unhappiness that could have been caused by a recent break-up. i feel like an entirely new person.
I have seen soooo sooo many videos about how to move from break up in the past 3 months but your one is the best simply the best and truthful. Thank you so much for helping me and so many out there come out of sorrow , loneliness, and depression. Much love from India
I had been in a relationship for an year. But she cheated and left me for my best friend. I now think I've lost both she and my best friend. I was feeling the worst then, came to your videos. I go to college everyday, we sit in the same class. It's really hard, but you know it's working. You're videos are really great. I hope, I'll soon be better.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for every one of your videos. You have given me strategies that have saved me a lot of heart break and anxiety, keep making a difference.
You and I are on the same situation. I just lost my love and I feel so sad and lost without him. Now I have to find my peace, release him so he can be happy. I don't want to be without him but I have to let him go and find happiness. Losing him for his peace and happiness is part of me loving him.
Having my ex break up with me, although heartbreaking at the time...inspired the biggest growth I've ever experienced. I took a long, hard look inward and the change has been monumental. Is it still painful? Sure. But I accept all the pain with loving gratitude. Suffering is amazing for growth
This is really helpful...i had to leave someone that took me for granted and never putting me first... and it hurts like hell but this is helping me... thank you🥰
I was in a similar situation of yours when a friend introduce me to this great powerful spell caster who helped me to bring my ex back if you are interested I can drop you his WhatsApp number +2348053451425
I love you, Noah! haha, but seriously, I found your videos a month ago when I had JUST gotten broken up with, and you provided me with a lot of comfort. It's getting better every day, but it's still nice to hear your words. so thank you for talking more about this topic! if i hadn't gone through the break-up, I would have never found you, so that's definitely a positive thing i've gotten out of the ordeal.
WOW! You've addressed every single aspect ON POINT! Thank you! I wish I saw your videos before I broke up with my boyfriend. I can't change the past...but I now have a much better understanding of why I suffer emotionally...and now I have a much better way of handling my emotions and thoughts. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
Out of EVERYTHING that I have viewed and explored; YOU are SPOT ON!!! Thank you for understanding and presenting the TRUTH about what makes us think the way we think.
Noah your videos took a lot of pressure off of me with my recent breakup. you helped me realize that im going to be ok and while i dont quite feel it yet, I will be.
This video really points out how one-sided relationships can be. It seems to me that most relationships exist so that one partner can make the other feel better about themselves. Not that this has any negative or positive connotation, I just think that this is a great way to understand how people develop dependencies on relationships.
I stumble on this video even though I don't have a breakup to get over, I'm curious, I click. I really appreciate the tone you have and the way you explain things. TH-cam needs more people like you, who elevates people and give advice for free. Altruism as its finest.
Thank you Noah .. it’s harsh to arrive to the reality that someone you love doesn’t love you anymore and wants nothing to do with you any longer.. but it’s not impossible .. you just need to respect their decision 😔
Is possible dear. .though is not easy to get off someone you loved.. But if you are hoping to get your ex back I can direct you to someone who will help. Mr OLOWO a very powerful spell caster who brought back my husband for me. Message him on whatsapp via +2348089339042
My boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me because he's ex started texting him and one day he decided to text her back and he said he realised he still had feelings for her and that he misses her, he broke up with me over a text message, the bad thing is i went through alot of stuff with my family because of that relationship cause they didnt like him. now I just feel like crying all the time.
Rosa Guzman I really feel for you, same thing happend to me. My girlfriend went back to her ex husband, she stopped returning my calls and then I got a text about her wanting to be single and not to ever text or call her anymore. I stayed in bed crying for 3 days and finally I got a call from her, I was so happy but it was to tell me her and her ex husband decided to work things out. I was so hurt, but now looking back on it, it was a blessing. You don't want people like that in your life, you deserve better than that. Stay strong.
Try to change the narrative and see this chapter and experience as a gift. Use your suffering to transform you into who you want to be, how you want to feel, and what you want in your life. We often hold into bad relationships in order to avoid facing parts of ourselves that we don’t want to look at or that we don’t want to do the work to improve.
You should definitely do a guided meditation video with music, you have one of the most relaxing voices to listen to.I just started watching your videos today and they are fantastic keep up the good work.
I've seen this video 5 years ago, i had lost my self in those thoughts and this video helped so much! 5 years after and im still sending this video to my friend who has a has a harsh brake up. Thank you alot!
@Kate Jenny really? I wanted to say thank you to the person who helped me 5 years ago... And u gonna turn it into a sales comment.. no no no my dear.. if some one brake up. you dont match. no need to chase any exes ew. And get another job if you dont know how abd where to market you products properly. Idiot
wow Noah, this makes so much sense! when you explain it step by step in such a comprehensive way it makes my mind clear from all that stories that been in my head all this time!! I this is the best advice ever about how to heel the broken heart! thank you Noah! 😀be blessed
I’m so grateful I found you because you have explained so many things that I’ve been keeping in my head and today I woke up and said it needs to stop I have to gain my masculine energy back after being too feminine for a too masculine man.
I love u. You are the best. Thank you for making this video. I know I'm gonna listen to u again and again till it sinks which is already happening right this moment. Thanks again!
Your videos have helped me so much, & my life has improved a lot, & I'm a lot happier. Thanks, noah :) it took me a long time to get over a break up with my ex wife, but I found someone that makes me happy :)
Noah Elkrief I believe you've made a video a lot like this before, but let me say that your videos have helped me realize that it's my thoughts, which I can't touch nor prove, that control my emotions and that if someone left me their negative opinion of me is simply that and what I miss is the thoughts of pleasure I had when I was with them. Moreover, I can't look to them nor anyone for my happiness.
Thank you. This is what I needed to hear today. My boyfriend called me up earlier and said that I don't make him happy. Watering it down to the very basic gist of why, he said it had to do with issues surrounding his feelings about him being homosexual and the reasons "why" he is that way which he attributes to things that happened in his childhood. There is no way I can make those thoughts go away. I wish there was. I wish there was a way for me to convince him that I cannot and make him want to stay in my life. I am so scared right now but this video is definitely something I needed to see.
Noah Elkrief This did help. Thank you so much! I think it was in another video where you said that there is no way you can make someones negative memories go away, and I basically told him the same thing. That no matter what I cannot remove his memories of his trauma. I can be there to lend a shoulder for him to cry on but I cannot take away his memories. Once I told him this he realized he was expecting me to remove his bad feelings which I cannot nor anyone else do. This changed his mood toward me and things are much better now. Thank you so much!
You are amazing you changed my life I was about to quit my life to be very honest but then I just looked at your video and its a game changer... she left me 2 weeks back she wants to be my friend that's all. but thanks a lot to you :)
Thank you so much for what you've done, Noah. You have enlightened me. At least, I can think about suicide less often. I can now view a relationship from another perspective - hoping that I can get over this miserable feeling caused by my ex soon.
About 2 years ago I went through a serious breakup. And I watched this video over and over and over again. I want to thank you now for putting this video on TH-cam. This really helped
This guy is amazing at taking complex ideas and making it simple enough for us to understand, and more importantly I'm able to retain the information learned. Thank you so much! It has really helped me better understand my less than ideal situation and I feel a lot better.
wow thanks for the new perspective. i watched a few videos and this one is extremely great. in a bigger picture this is about how to be happy with who you are and stop constantly seeking for approval and caring about other opinion which in fact doesn't have anything to do with me. this video was like a meditation session for me, thanks. i feel better now.
Thank you. You took my thaughts to a different point. I needed this. Thank you so much. just an hour ago I was shouting and crying and breaking things but now, basically from now onwards, I'm sure I won't be affected by these mere issues much. Thank you.
this video should not only be shown to people with broken heart but also with anyone who wants to feel better about themselves.. Noah you are like a buddha am i exaggerating? firm no. thanks for spreading your words.
Noah- by far, one of the best videos on you tube, wch sumarises all the videos, previously uploaded by you on you tube. Thank you v much. Keep on doing this good stuff.
I smiled because I can literally relate to that example. @8:34-9:51 resonated with me, but not about hair color. My specific example, which is one of my most vivid childhood memories is when I was on a playground on some jungle gym with my sister nearby, and a boy said to me, "I like your sister better," and then went down the slide. Now, we looked even more identical as children than we do these days. I just remember feeling like I had been violently accosted and that it was nonsensical for this little boy to say something that stupid to me. I like this video, but as I listened to it, I thought, I wasn’t unhappy when I got broken up with because I believed I'm not worthy, lovable, good enough, etc., I was unhappy to be broken up with because he couldn't see how worthy, lovable, better than good enough, etc. I am!
I really feel better watch your videos Noah thanks alot man I had the feelings of depression coming over me and I just watch your videos and it goes away.
I absolutely positively love this man! 👍😎✌️💙🖤 His videos need to be watched daily! When he gets into a rhythm, and on a roll with what he says, he is: 💥💯🔥👍👌
My boyfriend of 10years was cheating on me for a few months and I knew in the pit of my stomach that he was being unfaithful, so I confronted him he lied obviously. Then the girl he was having sex with I got in contact with her she supported me and told me everything. He blamed me and her for everything but not himself. He beat me for confronting him. I wish I can forget him but it's proving difficult. Because he made me feel he loved me but he was using me all along. He didn't care for me. I just want to know how can I get over him and love myself? X
Thank you for helping me see my way out of the maze of thoughts and feelings that lead to so much suffering. :) It is the most important homework of my life yes!
I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and had a bad fight. A month went by when it hit me that I wanted him back but he'd already met someone elsebabd told me he no longer saw the spark between us. He had grieved the relationship already. We were practically married. I can't get over how quickly he moved on and how I'm not worth accepting back. I feel horrible and depressed. The memories feel pointless to have made now. And I see no reason to get with someone only to lose partners over and over again.
you told same things coming from my heart,even cleared some of my confusion about myself. i used to get affected a lot by others opinions about me. now I could watch your video. because I was resonating on same frequency. really nice video. wish u good luck. 👌👌👌
I just want to stop by and say thank you with all my heart. My girlfriend and I got back together after being apart for over a year. It was grueling, but this video helped me in the mean time.
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Hi Noaf, Great observations. Isn't that when we are breaking up, we are telling the other that I have perceived this world around me in a different way which is having more dissimilarities from your perception of this world. And, none can ever make it to sense them similarly. It is bound to be dissimilar when it is perceived by two different people. The right match never exists in psychological field.
This totally overhauled my perception of my breakup, thank you so much. I went through so much with my ex, she always broke up with me constantly and hooked back up, she always thought I was cheating I wasn't aloud to talk to any female friends so I cut everyone off and then eventually she stopped calling me as much, started going to bars and then she told me she decided to go back to her ex husband. I blamed myself for the longest time but now I realize your right I couldn't make her happy. No matter how much I love her and wish I could take her hurt away I can never make her happy..
I wish you could do a video about how to get over things that remind you of someone you loved like a restaurant where you met or hanged out that would be really helpful
I was in relationship with a guy for 3 years. We had decided to get married and our families too knew about it. But suddenly he said he doesn’t want to marry me as he feels i have lot of problems and he cant tolerate it. He said not just him but no one can possibly tolerate me. I don’t deny that I have some emotional issues due to my traumatic childhood and i shared my heart out with him thinking he will never judge me for it. But he used my weaknesses against me to show how pathetic person i am and made it an excuse to not marry me. Currently i have emotional problems, but i am working on it and it won’t be for long. But i never expected him to say such hurtful things to me that crushed my already broken soul. He too has problems, no one is perfect but no one deserves to be hurt for their imperfections. I have lost the hope that true love exists. Everyone is selfish and won’t think twice before ditching you.
What hurts is that their opinion of us has changed. They once had a good opinion of us and now they don’t. That’s where the pain comes from.
While it is true that the pain of someone changing their mind or opinion of you is real, we must not forget that change is the only constant in life, nothing in nature is the same all year round. And in just the same way people change, grow, discover their true needs and wants and have different desires in different phases of their life. I know how much it hurts to love someone and consider them everything you ever wanted and them not being able to reciprocate, but never are our needs more important than somebody else's, and so we must accept the pain with grace and not make it mean anything about us or our worth and lovability.
A doctor once told me
*“Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness”*
Eventually you will realize that happiness is not the absence of problems, but simply the ability to deal well with them. Imagine all the wondrous things your mind might embrace if it weren’t wrapped so tightly around your struggles. Always look at what you have, instead of what you have lost. Because it’s not what the world takes away from you that counts; it’s what you do with what you have left.
All right, thank's also yours, were words I needed to hear and loved to! Thank's because I'm gonna do something good with things, animals and people including family, who are always with me, because those are the ones who really count in my life meant to make with and for me the best things!!
Your word's touch my heart , Sometimes it's so hard to look at what you have when that person you was with they were everything you have
thank you 🙏🏼
Mate, I've watched dozens of videos to deal with the problems I have, and none have helped as much as yours. The way you explain things let's me know that you actually understand the complexities of depression, anxiety and the like.
Thank you, and keep up the good work, and I'll keep fighting the good fight.
Isn't he the best! So lucid and clear! :)
my boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me saying I mistreated him. even tho I gave him everything I had. I put in so much time and effort into trying to make him happy. he seemed happy too tho... he cheated on me when it hit 8 months. I was crying and everything. I told my family, friends. and they told me to leave him. but I didn't. He told me I wasn't enough for him. then blocked me on everything. I tried talking to him. but that made me cry way more. my advice is to block them! stop talking to them! thats the sign that they aren't the one. so now you have to move on and find the one. and trust me, it will be hard. but in the future someone will love you way more.
Madyson Drewniak my boyfriend broke up with me because of me smoking and drinking. I had one shisha and few drinks...never been drunk wanted to compromise with him....even risked my life to answer his call but it wasn't enough
Dhriti Unadkat I'm so sorry. I hope you are doing better now
can i ask how you are now?
i wish I could see that. My relationship was only 4 months and I'm still in a little bit of pain....6 months after the fact. Days overall are getting better...but still
Wow i wish u were my girl my gf left me when i quote on quote cheated on her
My ex fiance broke up with me about two months ago ,I got sick and we lost our apartment now she got married two weeks ago and it devastated me . thank you for the help Noah . it had been really hard but your videos have helped a lot .
i know it’s been years, but if you receive this message, how are you doing now?
Thank you for this video. I've been dealing with my breakup for the last couple months and whenever the pain gets too much, I always come back to this video and the pain numbs for a while. So thank you for making my life feel a little bit less awful. Thank you so much.
hope your good now jess 👌👊💯
i’m here hoping your heart is healed
😊
I already know I’m great, and lovable, and worthy Noah I don’t need anyone to tell me that.
I tend to think that once the damage is done your best bet is to pull the plug on the relationship. No matter how hard it might seem. People are cruel and chasing after someone who does not love you is like chasing the wind. Love yourself and move on. Men are a dime a dozen and he's not the last coca cola in the desert
"...chasing after someone who does not love you is like chasing the wind." WOW Thank you for that!
Just had my first real and serious relationship end today. This video was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you
+Matthew Gay me too! hang in there
This is true but their opinion is so important BC we love that person. Put so much into them. The emotions and history is strong. It's heart breaking.
this video was a instant relief....This was what i needed to hear. This video was like it was personalized for me and the thoughts I am going through now.... Thank you so much
i’m here with you 🙏🏼💖
This was exactly what I needed to hear. I was the one who initiated the break up but I felt he left me no choice & although its been almost 2 months I've been having a hard time getting over it, we were together for 5 yrs. Thank you Noah! I feel better already.
same here, hope everything has worked out to the best
We broke up a couple of days ago after being together for 4 years and being engaged. I'm having a very hard time because I want to find a way to speed up my healing time. It took 4 years to build something and 1 day for it to be destroyed. It's hurtful.
This EXACT Same thing just happened to me...what happened?
@@chocolatewheelchair please don't give ppl such bs advice. It's just not true
@@chocolatewheelchair i was told once that it takes the half time. It takes individual time...depending on the ppl, the relationship, the amount of drama 😁 etc... Fe. I had a seven year long relationship. We were 18 when we met and we just developed in totally different ways. I realized that during the relationship and it didn't really needed long (maybe 3 months) to get over it. Two months ago I moved out from a covert narcissist after a year relationship and I'm still sometimes having flashbacks and outburst in tears...I don't really know how long that one will last...emotional abuse is without compare. Life is slowly getting colorful again,but it may last a bit longer than the one before. Hope not two years... I would kill myself 🤣
I’m going through the same thing. I can’t get over her.
@@patricklewis5676 how? What is rousing through your mind? How long have you been together and how did it end? I'm sorry that you are suffering. Hope you can soon find a way to get through it :/
I moved to another town, so I'm alone a lot. My friends are not too far away, but I feel the need to spend time with myself. Music and arts help me a lot. I take good care of my needs and my body with healthy food and exercise. When I'm tired I take a nap. I go to the forest when my mind is too active, that helps heaps to slow it down. When I feel like it I take a bath fe. I started meditating in the mornings (which brought also very unpleasant feelings to the surface, but I feel that my days are somehow smoother when I do it) Just be kind to yourself. You're not alone and you deserve it to be appreciated!
thank you so much for this. this has saved me from walking a path of self-hate, self-destruction, and unhappiness that could have been caused by a recent break-up. i feel like an entirely new person.
I have seen soooo sooo many videos about how to move from break up in the past 3 months but your one is the best simply the best and truthful. Thank you so much for helping me and so many out there come out of sorrow , loneliness, and depression. Much love from India
I had been in a relationship for an year. But she cheated and left me for my best friend. I now think I've lost both she and my best friend. I was feeling the worst then, came to your videos. I go to college everyday, we sit in the same class. It's really hard, but you know it's working. You're videos are really great. I hope, I'll soon be better.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for every one of your videos. You have given me strategies that have saved me a lot of heart break and anxiety, keep making a difference.
He will never come back to me. I cant stop thinking about him. i love him .
How are you doing now?
You and I are on the same situation. I just lost my love and I feel so sad and lost without him. Now I have to find my peace, release him so he can be happy. I don't want to be without him but I have to let him go and find happiness. Losing him for his peace and happiness is part of me loving him.
Having my ex break up with me, although heartbreaking at the time...inspired the biggest growth I've ever experienced. I took a long, hard look inward and the change has been monumental. Is it still painful? Sure. But I accept all the pain with loving gratitude. Suffering is amazing for growth
This is really helpful...i had to leave someone that took me for granted and never putting me first... and it hurts like hell but this is helping me... thank you🥰
I was in a similar situation of yours when a friend introduce me to this great powerful spell caster who helped me to bring my ex back if you are interested I can drop you his WhatsApp number +2348053451425
I m ok thank you
I love you, Noah!
haha, but seriously, I found your videos a month ago when I had JUST gotten broken up with, and you provided me with a lot of comfort. It's getting better every day, but it's still nice to hear your words. so thank you for talking more about this topic! if i hadn't gone through the break-up, I would have never found you, so that's definitely a positive thing i've gotten out of the ordeal.
WOW! You've addressed every single aspect ON POINT! Thank you!
I wish I saw your videos before I broke up with my boyfriend.
I can't change the past...but I now have a much better understanding of why I suffer emotionally...and now I have a much better way of handling my emotions and thoughts.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
literally everything he says has more than hit the nail on the head....
franchesca r Glad to hear it Franchesca
You have seriously helped me reshape my self image and have really made an impact on my life. Thank you!
Out of EVERYTHING that I have viewed and explored; YOU are SPOT ON!!! Thank you for understanding and presenting the TRUTH about what makes us think the way we think.
There's someone I love so deeply right now, but I can't have them. It hurts everyday. The most special person I ever met in my life.
barely lol I'm doing better. The ole father time struck again lol :D
Noah your videos took a lot of pressure off of me with my recent breakup. you helped me realize that im going to be ok and while i dont quite feel it yet, I will be.
Noah I cannot find the words to express enough my gratitude, this video has helped me far than I expected. Anyway, thanks a lot !
This video really points out how one-sided relationships can be. It seems to me that most relationships exist so that one partner can make the other feel better about themselves. Not that this has any negative or positive connotation, I just think that this is a great way to understand how people develop dependencies on relationships.
which is also normal and fine
I stumble on this video even though I don't have a breakup to get over, I'm curious, I click.
I really appreciate the tone you have and the way you explain things.
TH-cam needs more people like you, who elevates people and give advice for free. Altruism as its finest.
Thank you Noah .. it’s harsh to arrive to the reality that someone you love doesn’t love you anymore and wants nothing to do with you any longer.. but it’s not impossible .. you just need to respect their decision 😔
Is possible dear. .though is not easy to get off someone you loved..
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My boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me because he's ex started texting him and one day he decided to text her back and he said he realised he still had feelings for her and that he misses her, he broke up with me over a text message, the bad thing is i went through alot of stuff with my family because of that relationship cause they didnt like him. now I just feel like crying all the time.
Rosa Guzman I really feel for you, same thing happend to me. My girlfriend went back to her ex husband, she stopped returning my calls and then I got a text about her wanting to be single and not to ever text or call her anymore. I stayed in bed crying for 3 days and finally I got a call from her, I was so happy but it was to tell me her and her ex husband decided to work things out. I was so hurt, but now looking back on it, it was a blessing. You don't want people like that in your life, you deserve better than that. Stay strong.
Try to change the narrative and see this chapter and experience as a gift. Use your suffering to transform you into who you want to be, how you want to feel, and what you want in your life. We often hold into bad relationships in order to avoid facing parts of ourselves that we don’t want to look at or that we don’t want to do the work to improve.
You should definitely do a guided meditation video with music, you have one of the most relaxing voices to listen to.I just started watching your videos today and they are fantastic keep up the good work.
randyhandbag I'm glad you enjoyed it. I have one guided meditation, but I will probably do more soon. With music is a nice idea
I'm so, so happy I found you.....you are so factual and right about everything.
What you do is making a real difference in people's lives,.. I have so much gratitude! Thank you soooooooo much Noah Elkrief !!!! ..~*So much love*~..
I've seen this video 5 years ago, i had lost my self in those thoughts and this video helped so much! 5 years after and im still sending this video to my friend who has a has a harsh brake up. Thank you alot!
@Kate Jenny really? I wanted to say thank you to the person who helped me 5 years ago... And u gonna turn it into a sales comment.. no no no my dear.. if some one brake up. you dont match. no need to chase any exes ew.
And get another job if you dont know how abd where to market you products properly. Idiot
You are a very good feeling translator. A big compliment coming from a language translator!
This video has helped me so much. I just went though one yesterday and still feeling very sad, but hopeful to move on
wow Noah, this makes so much sense! when you explain it step by step in such a comprehensive way it makes my mind clear from all that stories that been in my head all this time!! I
this is the best advice ever about how to heel the broken heart! thank you Noah! 😀be blessed
Your analogies have such a deep inpact, awesome advice thank you that helps me a lot
This saved me. Thank you so much Noah. This is a whole new perspective that I have never seen before!
I’m so grateful I found you because you have explained so many things that I’ve been keeping in my head and today I woke up and said it needs to stop I have to gain my masculine energy back after being too feminine for a too masculine man.
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I love u. You are the best. Thank you for making this video. I know I'm gonna listen to u again and again till it sinks which is already happening right this moment. Thanks again!
This is the best video I have ever watched to get over the loss of a relationship. Thanks for making it 🙏
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good, realistic advice. i havent been dumped by anyone for a long time but i never realized what goes into the hurt. noah is the best.
Your videos have helped me so much, & my life has improved a lot, & I'm a lot happier. Thanks, noah :) it took me a long time to get over a break up with my ex wife, but I found someone that makes me happy :)
You are absolutely awesome. So wise and insightful. Thank you so much for this video!!!! Golden!!
Noah Elkrief I believe you've made a video a lot like this before, but let me say that your videos have helped me realize that it's my thoughts, which I can't touch nor prove, that control my emotions and that if someone left me their negative opinion of me is simply that and what I miss is the thoughts of pleasure I had when I was with them. Moreover, I can't look to them nor anyone for my happiness.
Thank you. This is what I needed to hear today. My boyfriend called me up earlier and said that I don't make him happy. Watering it down to the very basic gist of why, he said it had to do with issues surrounding his feelings about him being homosexual and the reasons "why" he is that way which he attributes to things that happened in his childhood. There is no way I can make those thoughts go away. I wish there was. I wish there was a way for me to convince him that I cannot and make him want to stay in my life. I am so scared right now but this video is definitely something I needed to see.
dip1955 You're welcome, glad it helped. Good luck
Noah Elkrief This did help. Thank you so much! I think it was in another video where you said that there is no way you can make someones negative memories go away, and I basically told him the same thing. That no matter what I cannot remove his memories of his trauma. I can be there to lend a shoulder for him to cry on but I cannot take away his memories. Once I told him this he realized he was expecting me to remove his bad feelings which I cannot nor anyone else do. This changed his mood toward me and things are much better now. Thank you so much!
You have no idea how much this just helped me
Great. So much time is spent in negative chat with yourself. Good video. Really brought perspective to right thinking
Khadine Mc Dougall Glad you enjoyed it Khadine
Noah, i really can't thank you enough...
You are amazing you changed my life I was about to quit my life to be very honest but then I just looked at your video and its a game changer... she left me 2 weeks back she wants to be my friend that's all. but thanks a lot to you :)
When I was in a relationship with Tracci I worried about whether or not she loved me.
Everything is created in your mind that makes perfect sense.
Thank you so much for what you've done, Noah. You have enlightened me. At least, I can think about suicide less often. I can now view a relationship from another perspective - hoping that I can get over this miserable feeling caused by my ex soon.
It's horrible to be in the dungeon of despair. Also have been there. Learning to love ourselves is not taught- but he really helps. Hang in!
Man you are helping me get over a breakup. I needed a reminder of these things. This last relationship took a lot out of me.
These videos are priceless.
I am good enough..I'm loving this speech ..
You saved the best for last .
About 2 years ago I went through a serious breakup. And I watched this video over and over and over again. I want to thank you now for putting this video on TH-cam. This really helped
This guy is amazing at taking complex ideas and making it simple enough for us to understand, and more importantly I'm able to retain the information learned. Thank you so much! It has really helped me better understand my less than ideal situation and I feel a lot better.
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wow thanks for the new perspective. i watched a few videos and this one is extremely great. in a bigger picture this is about how to be happy with who you are and stop constantly seeking for approval and caring about other opinion which in fact doesn't have anything to do with me. this video was like a meditation session for me, thanks. i feel better now.
Thank you. You took my thaughts to a different point.
I needed this. Thank you so much. just an hour ago I was shouting and crying and breaking things but now, basically from now onwards, I'm sure I won't be affected by these mere issues much.
Thank you.
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Thank you. This helped me delete negative thoughts in my life, and secure pleasure innerly. Not with the idea of her in my life.
this video should not only be shown to people with broken heart but also with anyone who wants to feel better about themselves.. Noah you are like a buddha am i exaggerating? firm no. thanks for spreading your words.
Noah Elkrief hey, can you do a video specifically on letting go...thx
Amen to that
Listen to these videos every night.. Really think it's helped me get over my break-up....,great videos!
This is the best video on TH-cam, thank you so much
wow i am so happy that i found your channel, this is so deep and helpful, thank you so much. your helping me so much with your videos!
Noah- by far, one of the best videos on you tube, wch sumarises all the videos, previously uploaded by you on you tube. Thank you v much.
Keep on doing this good stuff.
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be here as yourself. who you ARE. amazing and true
You have no idea how u saved my day. I truly love you for that ✨
no no, i listen to God. That’s wasn’t my assignment
This video helped me through one of the toughest nights of my life
Mateo Este do you feel better today?
I smiled because I can literally relate to that example. @8:34-9:51 resonated with me, but not about hair color. My specific example, which is one of my most vivid childhood memories is when I was on a playground on some jungle gym with my sister nearby, and a boy said to me, "I like your sister better," and then went down the slide. Now, we looked even more identical as children than we do these days. I just remember feeling like I had been violently accosted and that it was nonsensical for this little boy to say something that stupid to me. I like this video, but as I listened to it, I thought, I wasn’t unhappy when I got broken up with because I believed I'm not worthy, lovable, good enough, etc., I was unhappy to be broken up with because he couldn't see how worthy, lovable, better than good enough, etc. I am!
I really feel better watch your videos Noah thanks alot man I had the feelings of depression coming over me and I just watch your videos and it goes away.
wow, i really needed that. thank you so much, i will relisten when times get hard. thank you for what you do
I absolutely positively love this man! 👍😎✌️💙🖤 His videos need to be watched daily! When he gets into a rhythm, and on a roll with what he says, he is: 💥💯🔥👍👌
My boyfriend of 10years was cheating on me for a few months and I knew in the pit of my stomach that he was being unfaithful, so I confronted him he lied obviously. Then the girl he was having sex with I got in contact with her she supported me and told me everything. He blamed me and her for everything but not himself. He beat me for confronting him. I wish I can forget him but it's proving difficult. Because he made me feel he loved me but he was using me all along. He didn't care for me. I just want to know how can I get over him and love myself? X
Watching this video after a breakup And I feel instantly better! Thank you so very much Sir. You are a Saint!
Thank you for helping me see my way out of the maze of thoughts and feelings that lead to so much suffering. :) It is the most important homework of my life yes!
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I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and had a bad fight. A month went by when it hit me that I wanted him back but he'd already met someone elsebabd told me he no longer saw the spark between us. He had grieved the relationship already. We were practically married.
I can't get over how quickly he moved on and how I'm not worth accepting back. I feel horrible and depressed. The memories feel pointless to have made now. And I see no reason to get with someone only to lose partners over and over again.
Noah, your videos have helped me, more than you know. Thank you.
Let yourself just be here AS.YOU.ARE
you told same things coming from my heart,even cleared some of my confusion about myself. i used to get affected a lot by others opinions about me. now I could watch your video. because I was resonating on same frequency. really nice video. wish u good luck. 👌👌👌
Your videos are extremely helpful, thank you.
Your voice is so calming!
I sleep better when i watch your videos before sleeping.Thank You So Much
I just want to stop by and say thank you with all my heart. My girlfriend and I got back together after being apart for over a year. It was grueling, but this video helped me in the mean time.
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this is very helpful. thank you. your voice is so calming and relaxing.
Hi Noaf,
Great observations.
Isn't that when we are breaking up, we are telling the other that I have perceived this world around me in a different way which is having more dissimilarities from your perception of this world. And, none can ever make it to sense them similarly. It is bound to be dissimilar when it is perceived by two different people. The right match never exists in psychological field.
you are very logical and better than any psychiatrist.thanks
This totally overhauled my perception of my breakup, thank you so much. I went through so much with my ex, she always broke up with me constantly and hooked back up, she always thought I was cheating I wasn't aloud to talk to any female friends so I cut everyone off and then eventually she stopped calling me as much, started going to bars and then she told me she decided to go back to her ex husband. I blamed myself for the longest time but now I realize your right I couldn't make her happy. No matter how much I love her and wish I could take her hurt away I can never make her happy..
GasolineDragon1992 I'm sorry of what you been through. So how are you doing now?
just found this channel at the exact right time and you are helping me so so much
you are helping me so much right now it's insane but it's a process but you are helping so much
Absolutely and wonderfully helpful to my current circumstance. Thank you for this.
I wish you could do a video about how to get over things that remind you of someone you loved like a restaurant where you met or hanged out that would be really helpful
I was in relationship with a guy for 3 years. We had decided to get married and our families too knew about it. But suddenly he said he doesn’t want to marry me as he feels i have lot of problems and he cant tolerate it. He said not just him but no one can possibly tolerate me. I don’t deny that I have some emotional issues due to my traumatic childhood and i shared my heart out with him thinking he will never judge me for it. But he used my weaknesses against me to show how pathetic person i am and made it an excuse to not marry me. Currently i have emotional problems, but i am working on it and it won’t be for long. But i never expected him to say such hurtful things to me that crushed my already broken soul. He too has problems, no one is perfect but no one deserves to be hurt for their imperfections. I have lost the hope that true love exists. Everyone is selfish and won’t think twice before ditching you.
that actually happened to me two weeks a go
Thank you so much. You are helping me a lot in getting over a relationship.