👍very true, my ex narc offered help but he expected way more. He appeared to be so greedy, manipulative and controlling. 🙏Thank you Danish for exposing such demons.
Truth!! After you’ve healed and freed yourself from these demons you can laugh at how ridiculously insidious they are!! Thank you for your humor! I love your expressions!! Peace and love Danish!! 🙏❤️🕊🌟🌹🎶💯⛓️💥🌸
You are the most accurate on you tube. I also listen to David E Clarke. You give the accurate personal account. David tries to get people out by clarifying the Bible. God does not want you in abuse. It's true these people exist.
This describes how all my relatives on both sides treated me from 4 years old until my 53 years I am now. You are spot on Danish as usual. As a child you cannot recognize this because you are unaware of the games adults play. But having life experience as an adult you can spot that deceit from miles away. Its hurtful when its relatives you treated very well to say the least your whole life.
💯💯💯💯💯💯Spot on again Danish. When I watch your videos I remember this amazing quote from Carl Gustav Jung "The doctor is effective only when he himself is affected. Only the wounded physician heals.” Thanks, God bless you❤🙏🏻
I feel it--so don't show much emotion whether positive or negative and you'll be alright... You feel the emotions when out of their presence... Their rage is fast and furious--you won't know what hit you, and it's usually accompanied with a quick withdrawal, because sadly they're cowards--a cowardly hit n run!
Finding people making you exhausted, ?? So true. Because you’re still traumatized! Need rest. There s more than 1 N in my presence, so easy to see the same issue… bad words, speech behind your back, steels, making drama, shouts and yells, threatening, lies, blames, cannot make a favor without asking for gratitude the rest of your life ( you’ve already said it clearly, but it’s not enough), if you’re busy or need to rest, they say you’re ego and useless… They often take alcohol or drugs. You name it…. So after all this, and no treatment, you rather need rest and silence. Yeah it can take TIME , to find back to yourself
I’m married to I believe a CN what I find interesting is when I go “nuts” on him for some reason he’ll go pick up chic fillet/other things I have mentioned and said months ago that he” ignored” weird to me it’s almost like they intentionally do/say the most annoying stuff and when you blast them it seems as though they either enjoy it or want you to look crazy. Can’t stand them.
Accurately. I won't ask for her help ever again. She did it to me b4 but never again. Thank u Danish for another eye opener and knowledge u shared us. I will never come back to my old covert narc friend ever again. I felt like a fool & being deceived so much!
This is my mother in law, she bought my husband a house and she expects him to have her and her daughter to stay when ever she’s wants (hotel) and expects to know his every move….. it’s beyond toxic and suffocating
Actual if they can hardly do it… the hypocrisy won’t let them… Of course it’s just to pass that for a moment. It has to be in front of somebody else so they’ll look like the good guy.😢.. it’s all fake!!!
Even if they act like they are helping by offering advice or some item, it is more like an obligation that you should do what they think is best, because if you don't use the advice or gift, they act like you are terrible
Yep,gotta love the emotional blackmail. She always seems to use things she did for me when she doesn’t get the reaction she wants out of me. My mom wants me to be just as miserable as she is. Then I tell her I would’ve never accepted what she offered me if I knew she would hold it against me forever.
Yep. My narc paid for my appointment to see a neurologist for a diagnosis of ms. A year later, I caught him cheating and I went to leave and he told me "you owe me"
my ex preyed on my vulnerabilities in such an insidious way where he laced his covert abuse behind false reassurance to absolve himself of blame but it was subtly designed to destabalize me and create cognitive dissonance
Yes my Neighbor gave me dumb stuff, Like fast food a toy we couldn't fit anywhere in the house. Never asked if I want it. Just Left it at my door. Then said Later date I did this I did that all harsh. What did they want from me my Sweat or SouL. Not gonna happen!!!
I keep wondering how many times my narcissistic stepmom thought about getting rid of me while we were growing up. I could literally feel her hatred toward me at times. (I was 4 when she came to be my mom).
I’ve cut off ppl like it ain’t nothing after my ex narc but my damn mamma mmm, how did you do Darnish, jus how… How did you walk away from your parent for good
This is fortune teller garbage, designed to be just vague enough to feel correct. Offer a specific example. Say for instance, a hack TH-camr who pretends to offer advice, but really it's just to keep you insecure and fearful so you'll be compelled to trust them and watch them to guide you.
Their help equals' debt. There's always a catch.
THATS WHY YOU SHOULD SAY NO TO THEM
@lucillekluivert343 No across the board.
You are absolutely correct,there’s always a hidden agenda.Much appreciation and blessings to you.
The knife in the sandwich lol. Its exactly what it feels like.
Everything they do has something awful behind it. Danish is spot on, as usual!
100% ACCURATE. I thank you, Danish!
I can’t express to you how much you are helping so many . I am very grateful for you. What a loving spirit and soul you are 🙏💕
It’s so creepy and terrifying it really makes me sad 💔💔
Sadly everyone isn't made like us. I will never understand it, but it is a fact that remains.
👍very true, my ex narc offered help but he expected way more. He appeared to be so greedy, manipulative and controlling. 🙏Thank you Danish for exposing such demons.
Thank you for this education and demonstration...I pray you are blessed in all ways because of it in Yeshua
Truth!!
After you’ve healed and freed yourself from these demons you can laugh at how ridiculously insidious they are!!
Thank you for your humor!
I love your expressions!!
Peace and love Danish!!
🙏❤️🕊🌟🌹🎶💯⛓️💥🌸
It's absolutely true. 💯 💯 💯
💯 on point
They are big liers, they offer you something but some how is not real, or only in their convenience.
Thank you for your efforts in sharing such helpful content.
They create unnecessary guilt so that you never say No.
Spot on!
You are the most accurate on you tube. I also listen to David E Clarke. You give the accurate personal account. David tries to get people out by clarifying the Bible. God does not want you in abuse. It's true these people exist.
So true! It’s absolutely deceptive like baking chocolate 😂 except never a good outcome from them!!
This describes how all my relatives on both sides treated me from 4 years old until my 53 years I am now. You are spot on Danish as usual. As a child you cannot recognize this because you are unaware of the games adults play. But having life experience as an adult you can spot that deceit from miles away. Its hurtful when its relatives you treated very well to say the least your whole life.
Oh lordy lord the accuracy of this
💯💯💯💯💯💯Spot on again Danish. When I watch your videos I remember this amazing quote from Carl Gustav Jung "The doctor is effective only when he himself is affected. Only the wounded physician heals.” Thanks, God bless you❤🙏🏻
Its easy to feel intense pity towards them countered by intense anger?
A relationship of perpetual ambivalence
This is unimaginable,as a child. Ive deal with this mess as an adult,& it's very difficult.
THANK YOU!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel it--so don't show much emotion whether positive or negative and you'll be alright...
You feel the emotions when out of their presence...
Their rage is fast and furious--you won't know what hit you, and it's usually accompanied with a quick withdrawal, because sadly they're cowards--a cowardly hit n run!
If he brings you a drink, check for antifreeze. When he says “cheers”, he’s actually saying “die”.
I find everyone around me to be exhausting now, even if they’re not narcs. How many years can I live as a hermit before that’s abnormal? 🤔.
Not many. Things will change completely for you for the better. Hang in there until then. Do something that makes you happy.
Finding people making you exhausted, ?? So true. Because you’re still traumatized! Need rest.
There s more than 1 N in my presence, so easy to see the same issue… bad words, speech behind your back, steels, making drama, shouts and yells, threatening, lies, blames, cannot make a favor without asking for gratitude the rest of your life ( you’ve already said it clearly, but it’s not enough), if you’re busy or need to rest, they say you’re ego and useless…
They often take alcohol or drugs.
You name it….
So after all this, and no treatment, you rather need rest and silence. Yeah it can take TIME , to find back to yourself
😅😂 Yep you got it. Big Ole hidden sharp one too 😂😮 sad but true.
They help if there's something in it for them..
And if their hidden agenda doesn't happen....then they will make up their lies to compensate
I’m married to I believe a CN what I find interesting is when I go “nuts” on him for some reason he’ll go pick up chic fillet/other things I have mentioned and said months ago that he” ignored” weird to me it’s almost like they intentionally do/say the most annoying stuff and when you blast them it seems as though they either enjoy it or want you to look crazy. Can’t stand them.
Nice haircut !!! It looks great and yeah im scared to ask my narc in laws for help...
I’m a victim of all these narcissistic behaviors! I pray for those facing same to get out of it ! It’s disgusting!😢
So true so true
Accurately. I won't ask for her help ever again. She did it to me b4 but never again. Thank u Danish for another eye opener and knowledge u shared us. I will never come back to my old covert narc friend ever again. I felt like a fool & being deceived so much!
I never realized until now how true that is.
This is my mother in law, she bought my husband a house and she expects him to have her and her daughter to stay when ever she’s wants (hotel) and expects to know his every move….. it’s beyond toxic and suffocating
Actual if they can hardly do it… the hypocrisy won’t let them… Of course it’s just to pass that for a moment. It has to be in front of somebody else so they’ll look like the good guy.😢.. it’s all fake!!!
Every word concerning your lecture is true! We must pray for all NARCASSIST!
That knife in between the bread, took me out😂😂😂😂😂😂
Because that’s what it feels like when receiving help from them
This is ao true!
Again it happened today my entire so called family levels changes but same
Right its invisible pain, its like killing you in and out like your going back and forth trauma situations
That's why I never asked help from my narc friend he crys on What we have
Even if they act like they are helping by offering advice or some item, it is more like an obligation that you should do what they think is best, because if you don't use the advice or gift, they act like you are terrible
It will COST you.. loss value, loss equity, loss relationships, loss of reputation… loss of dignity.
Yep,gotta love the emotional blackmail. She always seems to use things she did for me when she doesn’t get the reaction she wants out of me. My mom wants me to be just as miserable as she is. Then I tell her I would’ve never accepted what she offered me if I knew she would hold it against me forever.
Hi everything u show is so true my parents were narcissists and I'm still suffering and find every day so hard which country are you in sir?
So dammn true
Yep. My narc paid for my appointment to see a neurologist for a diagnosis of ms.
A year later, I caught him cheating and I went to leave and he told me "you owe me"
😂Best description of most politicians...!
Thank you Danish for helping me join the dots
YYYEEESSS!!!
Yup… u very well described my parents.
The sandwich example 🥪😅🤣so true👍
my ex preyed on my vulnerabilities in such an insidious way where he laced his covert abuse behind false reassurance to absolve himself of blame but it was subtly designed to destabalize me and create cognitive dissonance
That’s my in-laws right there 💯
Thank you Angel Danish❤
Evil can not fool evil 😅
it's ALWAYS transactional in some form.
Exactly 💯 💯 💯
Im still waiting for a request I can say no to...
Thank you danish bhai
Yes my Neighbor gave me dumb stuff, Like fast food a toy we couldn't fit anywhere in the house. Never asked if I want it. Just Left it at my door. Then said Later date I did this I did that all harsh. What did they want from me my Sweat or SouL. Not gonna happen!!!
Exactly my sister
That’s right
My narcissistic "dad" just blocked me on Christmas for sharing this with him. Truth hurts i suppose.
I keep wondering how many times my narcissistic stepmom thought about getting rid of me while we were growing up. I could literally feel her hatred toward me at times. (I was 4 when she came to be my mom).
This is true
Very Very true oooh
Its always to be 'superior' to you
So tired of abusers
Exactly!
I’ve cut off ppl like it ain’t nothing after my ex narc but my damn mamma mmm, how did you do Darnish, jus how… How did you walk away from your parent for good
They give bread with poison 😅
They wish it was that easy 🤮
bilkul sahi
Agreed.
This is same as horse training
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ALWAYS
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Not all maries are born demon but only one is Saint.
Yep
But sir your conselling fees is too high. Like 200$ for a session is actually not affordable.
Sachrine
This is fortune teller garbage, designed to be just vague enough to feel correct. Offer a specific example. Say for instance, a hack TH-camr who pretends to offer advice, but really it's just to keep you insecure and fearful so you'll be compelled to trust them and watch them to guide you.
Your video is always been helpful to me.
Thank you for this education and demonstration...I pray you are blessed in all ways because of it in Yeshua