I find most people that Go around accusing people of being narcissist are actually the ones that are the narcissist.But I don't really know because i'm not a Is psychiatrist and i'm pretty sure none of you are either Is most overused word in the english language
I was never married to him. We had an age difference that he was uncomfortable with. I called it our unfelstionship. There was emotional attachment on both sides he would rarely show it.
I don’t even call him my ex. He’s just “him”. No horrible name calling or anything. But he was nothing in what I thought was a marriage. He did nothing. He was no husband, no father, no friend. Just nothing. So he gets nothing.
true. I got the clown, the fun side, the happy maker, doing all sorts of silly, crack-me-up funny shit, tickling and stuff, all to make me break state and laugh. but that never worked for me when THEY were in a debby downer and I tried to cheer them a smidge... so much for "do unto others" BS... fk me did they get even more pissed and irate and intolerable 😢
@369-b1f EXACTLY! One of my ex BMHjr was the exact same way! He's a Pisces, year of the goat. The others are Leo & Sagittarius. I steer clear from them now relationship wise. Their signs are now just acquaintances and maaaaybe friend. Sad, how I have to pick, pluck and choose like that now. 😢 It shouldn't have to be like that at all. I understand and get it now. He calls himself (Pisces) the kings jester. His gamer names or anything names involved with naming, would have jester or simething along that line. I wish I knew and understood at the time. Now thinking back, it makes a whole lot of sense. He was obsessed with games and medieval times. Pretends he is the knight, Kings, high wizard & etc......🥴 The "you treat others how you want to be treated" is BS with their kind. It doesn't exist at all. As a matter of fact they'll look down on you and call you stupid, gullable or naive!! When you treat them the same way they will ask you why? But IDK, but I didn't do it because she/he did. The listing goes on longer than the encyclopedias. I won't get into the other two signs, they be on some sh*t, to if not worst. Smh.
Love it! I used this method to my narcissistic younger brother. He already stopped his toxic behavior when I gave him silent & emotion detachment. Thank GOD for this wisdom🙏God bless u Danish, & thanks for sharing this method for someone who needs to know & learn to do this.
Exactly. I’m so proud of myself that I did this and never went back. Unfortunately it took 20 years of my life, finances, youth, beauty, livelihood, self-esteem, self-worth etc. to FINALLY realized I’m just being used and manipulated. If this sounds like you RUN!! Please don’t wait!!! It’s not a real relationship. Getting counseling afterwards is a MUST otherwise they will try to “ensnare” you back into their trap again. You are the fly and they are the spider…remember that 😢
I'm speechless because I thought that giving them the silent treatment means we are like them somehow. I've been doing this and I couldn't agree more with this video.
Narcissist was beyond non-compliant during legal proceedings. So I guess I became his nightmare in going no-contact & only communicating via attorney. He is now my ex....still no-contact & haven't looked back.
That’s how I became at the end. My narc had constantly nagged me to death. Walking out of his job so he could sit around and torture me more was the last straw. I just detached from him and it was over for me. It was done.
I got a restraining order against him for assaulting me & in his smear campaign against me, he claimed that I harass him 🙄AND🤨 he complained that it was too quiet in the house. I refused to speak to him or answer his texts for months before getting the restraining order. Experts say narcs take silence as noise & he took my silence as noise/harassment because he was completely bothered about not being able to get my attention, no matter what he did.
Yep. I got an order done, and now he wants vengeance. They are very vengeful. When the judge extended mine, he (BMHjr) came back with an attorney a few days later to try and have that removed. The judge denied it!! He had his attorney send me that letter! In which there is no contact or third party period. Tell me why he can't pay childsupport, have back pays of it and says he can't pay. But comes back with an attorney!!!! He even had the nerves to lie in court and tell everyone in court that day, "but I LOOOOVE this lady very much." He said that loud and clear. Of course for attention because there was many people there at the time. Never once did he mentioned the kids when they were all sitting right there! He wanted it removed because he wanted to talk with me about the house supposedly, in which he called the bank twice, trying to take out equity for himself and his new gf. The bank denied it, and I would have never known if I didn't call and ask accordingly to a weird paper I got in the mail. My advice is do not ever get a house or anything with them. Put everything under your name and not theirs. They see money. Your children and you are just an object. Mine couldn't get a house with his ex-wives or gfs. He used me when my dad passed. I was at my weakest at the time, and my mind was clouded. I'm wide awake now. Or it you have anything with their name on a contract (house/cars), they will use it against you when the time comes and you want them out! They will refuse to leave. Then act up, try going to the ER, and even put themselves in the asylum for attention. I took my loss and got rid of my Caddy. Since he is not willing to give up the house, I am going to take a lost with that all or else I will never be able to move forward. I can always rebuild back up after. He told me I could never rebuild they would not allow me. I was clueless at the time you see. Not no more. The sooner the better. Credit is everything nowadays. It will take me a few years but I got this. I've come to understand that they will not get nowhere without using and abusing someone because they can't. Too evil in nature. Oh yeah, his credit was terrible with his ex-wives and exes. He came with terrible credit and tried to hide that part. I build his credit and then some because he got me to believe that we should share accounts , etc. I thought at the time he was my man/family. He then had the nerves to call one of his exes going, "I have credit now." He raped her when she was 17 yrs old. She told me herself and didn't know we all kept in contact after I found their numbers on the cell phone bill.
@Empress.420 Yup, he has his fun doing all the things that are forbidden, immoral, sinful & illegal, but then gets mad when the consequences come & wants to play the victim. That maddness is a demonic affliction, & part of the punishment for their sadistic intentions & deeds. They have no integrity, sense of responsibility or accountability. But think they can avoid 100% of the negative affects of their own behavior by making someone else the scapegoat with their desperate lies, smear campaigns, gaslighting, playing dumb, inventing false accusations, trying to recruit flying monkeys etc. But their downfall is inevitable & inescapable.
Couple of days ago I told it that I forgave it. Even if it can’t move on, I’m still going to move on without the it. Yea I’m going no contact with the it. New chapter!! PEACE ❤ TY Jesus!!! Freedom!!!
I wasn't feeling well the other day and my narcissistic mother, called me 20+ times, when she called my daughter halfway through it and my daughter said she's sleeping, she just kept calling until I answered the phone and I yelled at her and hung up. What is wrong with these people.
My mother would call me in the middle of the night, just to tell me she was thinking about me. I kept asking her not to, because it disturbed my sleep. She kept doing it, until I put my phone on silent, and kept it that way for a few months. She would show up at my house (from another state) unannounced. I asked her to please stop, since it was stressful. The last time she did it, I just didn't answer the door. She begged me to just come to the door, so she could see my face. I was tired and angry. I told her no. She never did that again.
My Narc KNEW I was Leaving BEFORE I DID!!! I had it tucked in my heart, planning, but not "Ready yet"... Confronted by my Narc " You're Leaving!" , me: 😮??? THIS IS HOW THE NARC Knew, these signs
This is true. The first time I gave my narc spouse the silent treatment-in response to his nullifying my parental authority over our son-he came home from work mid-day to ask him why I wasn’t speaking to him!
Yes. You have to detach & shut down emotions in order to survive the abuse. I did this with the woman that gave birth to me. I say that as she does not deserve the title of mum. I gave that that honour to another decades ago.
🎯 my ex husband used to blame me for "brickwalling" when in fact was my way of preserving my sanity! No body understood me.... even the family therapist! 😭
Being separated with a narcissist has been very peaceful and getting back on myself is my priority. How can we protect our child with a narcissist? Does communicating still needed?
This is a fact! I called him a narcissist because I saw an escalation and repeated patterns of behavior over the years, I learned about the gray rock and he now calls me the narcissist pulling the silent treatment as a tactic 😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉
I gave a silent treatment not because to treat them but to treat me of peace of mind. She couldnt stand the silence and no emotions that she eventually quit. She will be leaving work in a few months. Ive noticed also every time i see her she will try to make me look bad og feel guilty. It doesnt work because I was in the right. When i told her i was right she goes silent and dont say anything anymore. Later on the day she will be grumpy and irritable. 😢 She will find ways again to make me feel annoyed or make feel anything but i try my best not to show emotions.
I get yelled at, belittled, etc for my silence but, it just makes me do it even more because he will screw up and yell, belittle,etc somewhere public and he just might a surprise
At first, he turned sweet. I didn't react. Then he tried raging at me. I didn't react and stayed silent. After that, he started making threats to take our child away; saying my behavior was very unstable and labeling me as crazy. It still didn't work, and I'm preparing for the legal fight.
He stopped talking to me for one week. At the end of the week, he says: You didn't even notice. I said: I thought you Really Loved me - Cos you let me do ALL the Talking!!!❤😂 ... His plan had backfired.
Some of em will even start to hit you because you’re silence is so loud to them
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They will try to use that head game of silent treatment or ignoring you to piss you off or make you confused. When you go silent it's for real and not a game. It means that you have had enough of the garbage and will not give the time of day
I notice this when I walked away and no longer attended the phone calls when he was drugged. He begun to compliment a lot, like, you are the life of this home.
I can be silent for months if I want to, but I can't stand him blaming me for something I didn't do. I have to inculcate into his brain that he is wrong. I won't let him go until he shuts up. He knows I could become supernova if he doesn't stop.
They can also become extreme to get a reaction out of you. I stayed blank face for a week before he had it and literally started thumping me in the head before work. I had an egg sized bump between my eyes by the time I got to work, for a beauty counter!
It's a lot different when it's your mother who is aging and demented and just lost my dad. How do I deal with my narcissistic mother who I just want to spend some last Happy Days with before she's dead. It's truly the most sad and depressing time in my life. I'm not sure how I'm going to get through all this and keep my sanity. All I can say is I feel like I have a big purpose and channels like this save my life. Thank you.
My BPD short term boyfriend would block me on everything about once a week out of nowhere. It was so confusing and it hurt that he wanted me out of his life for a day or a week. I hated it. So I broke up with him. And he blocked me everywhere again. It’s so 9 year old of him. So it’s narcissist to not like the silent treatment? A hallmark narcissist abuse tactic?
Silent treatment can be dangerous. Grey Rock is better. Then when you get away and you ate safe, go no contact. One word answers. Be boring. Let the narcissist do silent treatment. Silent treatment is one of the worst forms of abuse.
Y they yell at me as am not opening my mouth..thy are screaming, yelling, shouting 😮 getting literally confused to me .... whether thy r gng to shout out...or thy r expecting me to give an answer..pls do help 🙏 Danish sir..
You get to a point where you just DON'T CARE because it is a fake relationship and you are DONE even before you leave and divorce. 💯
Yep. Me rn. ❤ pls pray for me and my leaving is peacful/succeful 🩵
I find most people that Go around accusing people of being narcissist are actually the ones that are the narcissist.But I don't really know because i'm not a Is psychiatrist and i'm pretty sure none of you are either Is most overused word in the english language
@@Equitywaters749 You did it , be strong and never blame yourself. Things will get better. Blessings.
I was never married to him. We had an age difference that he was uncomfortable with. I called it our unfelstionship. There was emotional attachment on both sides he would rarely show it.
I don’t even call him my ex. He’s just “him”. No horrible name calling or anything. But he was nothing in what I thought was a marriage. He did nothing. He was no husband, no father, no friend. Just nothing. So he gets nothing.
And they constantly ask you, what's wrong? As IF they even care!
Like if they don't know what's wrong
@@lonelywriter88 THEY WANT REASSURANCE THAT THEIR TACTICS ARE WORKING. YOU TELL THEM WHAT'S WRONG AND THEY ENJOY THAT YOUR SUFFERING
@@lonelywriter88 Oh yes they care, they care you are suffering.
Someone is mad because I learned how to play the game and today I’m unstoppable 🎉🥳yes, I can💪🏼
Well done 👏
Yes it's A GREAT VICTORY!!!
Absolutely...become silent is also a form of self protection.
A women's loudest cry is her silence& I don't mean cry as in tears
I mean a warrior cry❤
Oh yes this is happening right now....pray for me
Me too. Praying for you
@Raec123 thank you
Me too! Saving to get out. 🙏
@@t97e53 praying 🙏
I wish I had been more silent
Same here, but I'm praying to learn how to becos my the pain in my head is now unbearable 😫
Try it silent and no emotions. Just be prepared they will try to annoy you even more. Stand firm. It's hard work. ❤
@@Yenstubes I am out of the relationship now, complete no contact. Just regret. But prayer is healing.
Yess !! they get totally confused and anxious
Yes now Totally Cofused by ME going NO CONTACT EVER AGAIN!!!
They panic because the sounding board that regulates their emotions is fixed by being broken.
Yes Sir this is the best move to ever make.
Silence is my only weapon ...this video is so on point
Even when my NEX is threatening me in emails, I stay silent. Scare tactics won’t work anymore.
They won't tolerate silence, they will change tactics. It's like dealing with a barrel of snakes. They twist and turn, never the same attack twice.
When you're silent, they will use manipulation tactics. If they can't control you, they tried to victimize themselves to other people.
true. I got the clown, the fun side, the happy maker, doing all sorts of silly, crack-me-up funny shit, tickling and stuff, all to make me break state and laugh. but that never worked for me when THEY were in a debby downer and I tried to cheer them a smidge... so much for "do unto others" BS... fk me did they get even more pissed and irate and intolerable 😢
@@369-b1f It's the cruelty which is intolerable, they can never get enough of someone else's suffering.
@369-b1f EXACTLY!
One of my ex BMHjr was the exact same way! He's a Pisces, year of the goat. The others are Leo & Sagittarius. I steer clear from them now relationship wise. Their signs are now just acquaintances and maaaaybe friend. Sad, how I have to pick, pluck and choose like that now. 😢 It shouldn't have to be like that at all. I understand and get it now.
He calls himself (Pisces) the kings jester. His gamer names or anything names involved with naming, would have jester or simething along that line. I wish I knew and understood at the time. Now thinking back, it makes a whole lot of sense. He was obsessed with games and medieval times. Pretends he is the knight, Kings, high wizard & etc......🥴
The "you treat others how you want to be treated" is BS with their kind. It doesn't exist at all. As a matter of fact they'll look down on you and call you stupid, gullable or naive!! When you treat them the same way they will ask you why? But IDK, but I didn't do it because she/he did. The listing goes on longer than the encyclopedias.
I won't get into the other two signs, they be on some sh*t, to if not worst. Smh.
Yes! Careful!
That explains why I shut down in my own home after a while.
Love it! I used this method to my narcissistic younger brother. He already stopped his toxic behavior when I gave him silent & emotion detachment. Thank GOD for this wisdom🙏God bless u Danish, & thanks for sharing this method for someone who needs to know & learn to do this.
Exactly. I’m so proud of myself that I did this and never went back. Unfortunately it took 20 years of my life, finances, youth, beauty, livelihood, self-esteem, self-worth etc. to FINALLY realized I’m just being used and manipulated. If this sounds like you RUN!! Please don’t wait!!! It’s not a real relationship. Getting counseling afterwards is a MUST otherwise they will try to “ensnare” you back into their trap again. You are the fly and they are the spider…remember that 😢
They still stalk and harass you forever
@@NikkiMarie4130 Turn up deliberately to embarrass or frighten you. They are hard to get rid of.
@MarionN-w3d facts
Perhaps silence is the best return gift for a narcissist.
So true. I'm in that phase. Mentally, I've already left.
That’s so so true.
Dear Danish,
If I may: we give silence NOT silent treatment
@@Lailat854 DISATENTION, WORKS.
@ what? Read again, maybe you will understand. narcissists give silent treatment to punish us. We do silence to protect ourselves. Big difference
They cant stand silence and get anxious. They need your reaction 😂❤
It shuts them down. I've been dealing with narc parents for over fifty years.
They look for a new supply!!!
Oh for sure! He has already started cheating I’m sure.
Yes but they still fck with you after the new supply
She left him IN Silence!!!! 38 years of Hell on. Earth! Now living in Peace!!!! Congratulations JENNETTE!!! You Are FREE!!!
Yup.... that's exactly what happened.....😮
I'm speechless because I thought that giving them the silent treatment means we are like them somehow. I've been doing this and I couldn't agree more with this video.
Narcissist was beyond non-compliant during legal proceedings. So I guess I became his nightmare in going no-contact & only communicating via attorney. He is now my ex....still no-contact & haven't looked back.
with you here ❤
That’s how I became at the end. My narc had constantly nagged me to death. Walking out of his job so he could sit around and torture me more was the last straw. I just detached from him and it was over for me. It was done.
Haha the last part. They are mistaking it as obedience and I'm enjoying it because I wanna keep it like that.
These videos hit me so hard, thank you
A. makes them worry
B. Makes them think you're ok with the abuse du jour, and amp it up.
Both are very accurate.
I got a restraining order against him for assaulting me & in his smear campaign against me, he claimed that I harass him 🙄AND🤨 he complained that it was too quiet in the house. I refused to speak to him or answer his texts for months before getting the restraining order. Experts say narcs take silence as noise & he took my silence as noise/harassment because he was completely bothered about not being able to get my attention, no matter what he did.
Yep. I got an order done, and now he wants vengeance. They are very vengeful. When the judge extended mine, he (BMHjr) came back with an attorney a few days later to try and have that removed. The judge denied it!! He had his attorney send me that letter! In which there is no contact or third party period.
Tell me why he can't pay childsupport, have back pays of it and says he can't pay. But comes back with an attorney!!!!
He even had the nerves to lie in court and tell everyone in court that day, "but I LOOOOVE this lady very much." He said that loud and clear. Of course for attention because there was many people there at the time. Never once did he mentioned the kids when they were all sitting right there!
He wanted it removed because he wanted to talk with me about the house supposedly, in which he called the bank twice, trying to take out equity for himself and his new gf. The bank denied it, and I would have never known if I didn't call and ask accordingly to a weird paper I got in the mail.
My advice is do not ever get a house or anything with them. Put everything under your name and not theirs. They see money. Your children and you are just an object. Mine couldn't get a house with his ex-wives or gfs. He used me when my dad passed. I was at my weakest at the time, and my mind was clouded. I'm wide awake now.
Or it you have anything with their name on a contract (house/cars), they will use it against you when the time comes and you want them out! They will refuse to leave. Then act up, try going to the ER, and even put themselves in the asylum for attention.
I took my loss and got rid of my Caddy. Since he is not willing to give up the house, I am going to take a lost with that all or else I will never be able to move forward.
I can always rebuild back up after. He told me I could never rebuild they would not allow me. I was clueless at the time you see. Not no more.
The sooner the better. Credit is everything nowadays. It will take me a few years but I got this.
I've come to understand that they will not get nowhere without using and abusing someone because they can't. Too evil in nature.
Oh yeah, his credit was terrible with his ex-wives and exes. He came with terrible credit and tried to hide that part. I build his credit and then some because he got me to believe that we should share accounts , etc. I thought at the time he was my man/family.
He then had the nerves to call one of his exes going, "I have credit now." He raped her when she was 17 yrs old. She told me herself and didn't know we all kept in contact after I found their numbers on the cell phone bill.
@Empress.420 Yup, he has his fun doing all the things that are forbidden, immoral, sinful & illegal, but then gets mad when the consequences come & wants to play the victim. That maddness is a demonic affliction, & part of the punishment for their sadistic intentions & deeds.
They have no integrity, sense of responsibility or accountability. But think they can avoid 100% of the negative affects of their own behavior by making someone else the scapegoat with their desperate lies, smear campaigns, gaslighting, playing dumb, inventing false accusations, trying to recruit flying monkeys etc. But their downfall is inevitable & inescapable.
The demons in them have a much harder time accomplishing it's goal .Which is to destroy you or turn you yourself into a narsisist .
I did this back in 1972 to my sister and father, I was 8 years old.....
So very true and such excellent advice!
Exactly what I am doing. 💯💯💯
Thank you.
Detachment!!! GRAND PEACE and FREEDOM!!!! NO MORE CONTACT EVER AGAIN!!!!
💯 correct! 😏
Amen! This is spot on. Video finished whilst still taking.
Very disappointing.
Couple of days ago I told it that I forgave it. Even if it can’t move on, I’m still going to move on without the it. Yea I’m going no contact with the it. New chapter!! PEACE ❤ TY Jesus!!! Freedom!!!
Exactly!❤
Totally facts 🤔
So true, 100%!
Sometimes, it’s so bad, that placing an injunction against them or having them arrested for stalking and harassment is absolutely necessary.
I wasn't feeling well the other day and my narcissistic mother, called me 20+ times, when she called my daughter halfway through it and my daughter said she's sleeping, she just kept calling until I answered the phone and I yelled at her and hung up. What is wrong with these people.
My mother would call me in the middle of the night, just to tell me she was thinking about me. I kept asking her not to, because it disturbed my sleep. She kept doing it, until I put my phone on silent, and kept it that way for a few months.
She would show up at my house (from another state) unannounced. I asked her to please stop, since it was stressful. The last time she did it, I just didn't answer the door. She begged me to just come to the door, so she could see my face. I was tired and angry. I told her no. She never did that again.
@missbearlockholmes they are nuts aren't they 🤦
My Narc KNEW I was Leaving BEFORE I DID!!! I had it tucked in my heart, planning, but not "Ready yet"... Confronted by my Narc " You're Leaving!" , me: 😮??? THIS IS HOW THE NARC Knew, these signs
This is true. The first time I gave my narc spouse the silent treatment-in response to his nullifying my parental authority over our son-he came home from work mid-day to ask him why I wasn’t speaking to him!
So true.
Yes. You have to detach & shut down emotions in order to survive the abuse. I did this with the woman that gave birth to me. I say that as she does not deserve the title of mum. I gave that that honour to another decades ago.
🎯 my ex husband used to blame me for "brickwalling" when in fact was my way of preserving my sanity! No body understood me.... even the family therapist! 😭
Speaking Facts!!!
Big facts ".
I was strangled when i was silent once.
I hope you left him!!
me each time.. zero contact 2+ years now and it still finds ways to try to hoover 🙄🤢🤮🫨
@angieblake3424
I have a 10 yr restraining order
Completely true.
Being separated with a narcissist has been very peaceful and getting back on myself is my priority. How can we protect our child with a narcissist? Does communicating still needed?
This is a fact! I called him a narcissist because I saw an escalation and repeated patterns of behavior over the years, I learned about the gray rock and he now calls me the narcissist pulling the silent treatment as a tactic 😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉
Sometimes the silent treatment causes them to grow angry.
...But I don't care.
Well.... I'm in this predicament now and didn't even realize it.
Sounds bout right because the next move is a permanent cut off!!
I gave a silent treatment not because to treat them but to treat me of peace of mind.
She couldnt stand the silence and no emotions that she eventually quit. She will be leaving work in a few months.
Ive noticed also every time i see her she will try to make me look bad og feel guilty. It doesnt work because I was in the right. When i told her i was right she goes silent and dont say anything anymore.
Later on the day she will be grumpy and irritable. 😢 She will find ways again to make me feel annoyed or make feel anything but i try my best not to show emotions.
I get yelled at, belittled, etc for my silence but, it just makes me do it even more because he will screw up and yell, belittle,etc somewhere public and he just might a surprise
At first, he turned sweet. I didn't react. Then he tried raging at me. I didn't react and stayed silent. After that, he started making threats to take our child away; saying my behavior was very unstable and labeling me as crazy. It still didn't work, and I'm preparing for the legal fight.
And what about when the abuser becomes silent? These scenarios are all interchangeable
So true facts🎉 currently
He stopped talking to me for one week. At the end of the week, he says: You didn't even notice. I said: I thought you Really Loved me - Cos you let me do ALL the Talking!!!❤😂 ... His plan had backfired.
Mine got new supply and treated me like shit until I left. Then filed for divorce 3 days after I moved out
It's the only way I can survive them. 😢
Mine goes into a rage when I go silent.
I've just come out of a narcissistic relationship. I'm now on a path of becoming a healer, including trauma and abuse and mental health disorders
Some of em will even start to hit you because you’re silence is so loud to them
They will try to use that head game of silent treatment or ignoring you to piss you off or make you confused. When you go silent it's for real and not a game. It means that you have had enough of the garbage and will not give the time of day
Yes truth
I notice this when I walked away and no longer attended the phone calls when he was drugged. He begun to compliment a lot, like, you are the life of this home.
Well put!
Thank you
So true as experienced
But it can feel horrible so leave soon and sneaky because you are NOT safe
I can be silent for months if I want to, but I can't stand him blaming me for something I didn't do. I have to inculcate into his brain that he is wrong. I won't let him go until he shuts up. He knows I could become supernova if he doesn't stop.
When I reached this part with my ex I started to feel emotionally numb. I am only now starting to come out it.
They can also become extreme to get a reaction out of you. I stayed blank face for a week before he had it and literally started thumping me in the head before work. I had an egg sized bump between my eyes by the time I got to work, for a beauty counter!
😢
People who don’t live it can’t fathom the depths the abuse goes.
I hope you had him arrested...
My ex-husband would get really angry and throw things at me when I stayed silent.
💯💯
It's a lot different when it's your mother who is aging and demented and just lost my dad. How do I deal with my narcissistic mother who I just want to spend some last Happy Days with before she's dead. It's truly the most sad and depressing time in my life. I'm not sure how I'm going to get through all this and keep my sanity. All I can say is I feel like I have a big purpose and channels like this save my life. Thank you.
Just got married a month ago. No honeymoon. Today is Christmas...no gift. Life is not fun right now.
Silent treatment is an emotional manipulation tactic.
I am tired😂😂😂
Thanku God I went silent... ;-;
I love with my wife gives me the silent treatment. I'd like to listen to a whining..😂
My BPD short term boyfriend would block me on everything about once a week out of nowhere. It was so confusing and it hurt that he wanted me out of his life for a day or a week. I hated it. So I broke up with him. And he blocked me everywhere again. It’s so 9 year old of him. So it’s narcissist to not like the silent treatment? A hallmark narcissist abuse tactic?
Wait what you said at the end.. they Regret later?! Oh really😯
Does this cause narcissistic collapse ?
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Silent treatment can be dangerous. Grey Rock is better. Then when you get away and you ate safe, go no contact. One word answers. Be boring. Let the narcissist do silent treatment. Silent treatment is one of the worst forms of abuse.
Kool 😅
What happens…. Life gets worth living again
Yeese❤
They stoop to the narcs level. Do kind things for the narc.
Y they yell at me as am not opening my mouth..thy are screaming, yelling, shouting 😮 getting literally confused to me .... whether thy r gng to shout out...or thy r expecting me to give an answer..pls do help 🙏 Danish sir..