@jeanpaulmartin2600wow - I’ll just say .. I totally understand. Been thru toxic hell on earth with my own mother.blatantly tells me all the time how much she resents me and I’m the one that always tried to defend her when everyone else was walking away. Just too much. There is no getting better with these people. The gleam in her eye as her own daughter was being beaten in front of her.Always sided with those who were harming me. I never could understand or come to grips with the reality of my own parent harming me until recently. Now I’m the one sprinting away.
This was my mom growing up!! She let everyone abuse me and never stuck up for me. Infact she was behind it all like creating a hate campaign towards me. She tried to turn my brother and daughter against me. She’s a real gem!
I am part of this tribe; I went grey rock and then cut all contact and after 2 years one day I see a voicemail. A trembling voice from the afterlife... asking how I am doing? is been so long etc etc etc. I cracked a laugh thinking how she schemed her theatrical voice over maneuver thinking it will be a fish hook. I immediately thought hmm... she must be looking for supply and her flying monkeys must be obsolete. Tough! her reality suddenly shatters!
Yes, that's what narcs do. I thank God for revealing the truth to me and all other survivors. Now that we know, use your power to eliminate these demons out of your life. 😮
After learning about narcissistic personality and empowering myself. It doesn't bother me as much as before. I learnt to set strong boundaries and totally ignore them. I love the fact that thier pathetic behaviour eventually shows and genuine people see through thier bs
This happened with me,word for word....I was abused for 3 yrs by my ex bf and his flying monkeys Easier to say , impossible to tolerate It was hell but I never gave in to the bullying ,I fought for myself till the very last day and eventually got out
🧐Not all who get turned against you would always have done so. Many are lied to and manipulated to do so. Some narcs are skilled at manipulation and lying in a sophisticated way. Most people never see it coming.
@@Prabhunathachari you are not alone. There's more of us out there. I found Danish and Dr. Ramani. I am forever thankful for these two beautiful souls & those that reached out here. 🙏💕✨️ Physical realm it may feels as though we walk alone. Spiritually, we have googlezillian armies standing with us. Our ancestors and higher ups. Put your crown on King 🤴 and walk like you have the googlezillian armies standings with you! Get rid of old energies, clean your closet and make room for positive/clean energies. Wishing you all the best during your journey. 🙏🙏🙏💜👑❤️🐘🐘🐘❤️✨️🌸✨️🪷
Exactly! They actually expedited the process of revealing fakes all at once! They are revealing their evil hearts to God! Sad!!!! Satan loves this! God is in control and will judge it all! It senseless for adults to have this mentality that ultimately consumes their lives, lest they repent and follow Jesus! 🙏🏻❤️🕊
Yes. This is exactly what I am going through right now from my relatives on the both sides of the "family". They have been doing this to me since I was 4 years old. I am 53 now. It's a family filled with Narcs. When you walk away from them they tell each other that you don't know how to keep a good relationship with the family. It's been decades of verbal and emotional abuse from them. Strangers told me that I am too nice to the relatives that's why they take advantage of me. I always hope that they would change for the better as they got older but their attitude only got worse. They are in their late 50s, 60s and 70s now. Unfortunately they will die being like that. They have been so their entire lives and think that their way to treat me is the best. Its as a result of jealousy and comparison which makes them feel superior to me. Narcs usually are unhappy people who have large egos. They use someone nice as their punching bag to make themselves feel better due to their unhappiness and insecurities.😐
Those who side with them were never truly your friend. Truth that hurts but better to no that so you can run for the hills. And don’t associate with both. And learn indifference to anything associated with them.
Even the rude pizza guy on the phone, parents I hadn't even met yet, men who didn't love me right, the villains in my life story, the job I was applying for, the woman who sounds like me but who's "hotter than me but not nicer," so cruel. He felt threatened ALOT 😳🙄
This made me emotional because i remember witnessing my narcissistic mother talking about me to my so called godmother and just having a spear campaign i felt so upset & annoyed also shocked because everything I've heard about narcissistism has came true i am so done with her. I just need to stop telling her things and trying to talk about my pain because she doesn't care it's emotionally exhausting
Yes I have encountered this many times. I never really thought it was for this reason. How strange. I feel alot better about those expirences now. Your videos as always Danish are very helpful.
God sent two relationships back to back over the span of ten years. The first relationship (lady 1)…I was the blessing and She should’ve been my lesson. She also missed the blessing and I missed the lesson. Fast forward 5 years…Another relationship She missed the blessing, but I finally got the lesson…Thank God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.
Ya that is so true, you stay away when he gets friends and family that's trying to hurt you. Triangulatie that it's what they do at that moment too. For example you help him , with the garden and you are buzzy with a tree to gut it down, someone comes and says to you are you the man in the house, she got here the trousers on, you have nothing here to say isn't...and so on. You feel that it's not funny but the narcissist says nothing at all That is your man. You feel like crying😢.
My Narc Ex once just stood there, watched gor a moment his mate manhandle me after me and my Narc had argued, then shut the door on ne as his mate continued to push and shove me about.
Well let them do that and keep moving on when they look up 20 years will be done passed by and they'll be 70 then what? Let them stay in that energy by themselves 🤷🏽
And why did they gang up on you? Because they were jealous of you and wanted you dead but couldn’t kill you so instead they set traps to torture you and finish you off.
Yes my Daughter who is very young vulnerable Adult is her birthday today not his daughter he has never met her but she falls for all his lies and manipulation 😢 I can't even speak to her today as he is controlling her like the master manipulater he is
How can we take this to court? Specially when a person is loosing money and respect at works places for this same reason… According to court we need to prove it! How…
Weak people always need a group....And a group of weak people are fools....🙏🏻
Wise words so refreshing in this day of said fools
Bullies
If the blind lead the blind, both will fall into a ditch
Walk away, walk away. Leave them to their toxic gossip, let them turn on each other while you heal, grow, and prosper.
I walked away...2500 kms from them...and found myself among more such people.
@@vatslasharma9730 yeah sadly there everywhere.
They are drawn to kind, honest people and target them. They are everywhere, always seeking another kind honest person to use.
I agree but sometimes I think in my head there are way too much on earth and it is growing because everyone is walking away 😢
This is True1000%.
I used to wonder why my children's father Always sided and befriended people who are attacking me.
This is what my parents did, especially my mother. She even told me once that God Himself stood by the side of any person who would harm me
@jeanpaulmartin2600wow - I’ll just say .. I totally understand. Been thru toxic hell on earth with my own mother.blatantly tells me all the time how much she resents me and I’m the one that always tried to defend her when everyone else was walking away. Just too much. There is no getting better with these people. The gleam in her eye as her own daughter was being beaten in front of her.Always sided with those who were harming me. I never could understand or come to grips with the reality of my own parent harming me until recently. Now I’m the one sprinting away.
My mother doing this with my 24 yr old child’s narcissistic dead beat dad! She grown she makes her own decisions
@@elishatillman283❤👍🏼❤️🔥
I experienced this, too. He even befriended the maid after I fired her! What a messed-up bunch of people!
Why is this so true and relatable? 100% spot on!
This was my mom growing up!! She let everyone abuse me and never stuck up for me. Infact she was behind it all like creating a hate campaign towards me. She tried to turn my brother and daughter against me. She’s a real gem!
Big hugs! Mine too. I'm so sorry you had to go through that
I was preparing to comment something similar. I can only add that she is still at 77 a very active narcissist doing what she did her entire life.
That is exactly what my mom does to me.
I am part of this tribe; I went grey rock and then cut all contact and after 2 years one day I see a voicemail. A trembling voice from the afterlife... asking how I am doing? is been so long etc etc etc. I cracked a laugh thinking how she schemed her theatrical voice over maneuver thinking it will be a fish hook. I immediately thought hmm... she must be looking for supply and her flying monkeys must be obsolete. Tough! her reality suddenly shatters!
Ur not alone mine did same 😒
Yes, that's what narcs do. I thank God for revealing the truth to me and all other survivors. Now that we know, use your power to eliminate these demons out of your life. 😮
Beautifully stated!
The smear campaign is VERY damaging, especially people who don't really know you but are acquaintances of the narc !
Thank you so much for posting these videos that provide answers to many things that I was confused about for many years.
My whole family
Eagles fly alone above the clouds, pigeons flock together. Sparrow talks too much. Stay away from small minded people.
And the flies swarm 😂
Exactly
After learning about narcissistic personality and empowering myself. It doesn't bother me as much as before. I learnt to set strong boundaries and totally ignore them. I love the fact that thier pathetic behaviour eventually shows and genuine people see through thier bs
Absolutely true about my father and mother
This happened with me,word for word....I was abused for 3 yrs by my ex bf and his flying monkeys
Easier to say , impossible to tolerate
It was hell but I never gave in to the bullying ,I fought for myself till the very last day and eventually got out
Like yr story one yr for me I didn't give up but am alone me n my dog .. hope ur doing ok now 🙏
Another dang bullseye 🎯🎯🎯🎯
Thank you for your work. It truly helps🙏
🧐Not all who get turned against you would always have done so. Many are lied to and manipulated to do so. Some narcs are skilled at manipulation and lying in a sophisticated way. Most people never see it coming.
Naw, they were Never for you/us.
Best to Accept. Coz, that’s the flying monkey to the Narc.
@@Seraphim7but flying monkeys really don't like narc like wizard of Oz flying monkeys were way happy when witch melted away they were free !
Throwing me under a bus 🚌 that wasn't even there
Believe me my narc friend gossips about me and puts me down
That's not your friend, and my advice is to stop calling that person that.
I'm sorry you are going through it, I understand you well.
@Empress.420 yeah 👍
@@Prabhunathachari you are not alone. There's more of us out there. I found Danish and Dr. Ramani. I am forever thankful for these two beautiful souls & those that reached out here. 🙏💕✨️
Physical realm it may feels as though we walk alone. Spiritually, we have googlezillian armies standing with us. Our ancestors and higher ups. Put your crown on King 🤴 and walk like you have the googlezillian armies standings with you!
Get rid of old energies, clean your closet and make room for positive/clean energies. Wishing you all the best during your journey. 🙏🙏🙏💜👑❤️🐘🐘🐘❤️✨️🌸✨️🪷
Exactly!
They actually expedited the process of revealing fakes all at once!
They are revealing their evil hearts to God!
Sad!!!!
Satan loves this!
God is in control and will judge it all!
It senseless for adults to have this mentality that ultimately consumes their lives, lest they repent and follow Jesus!
🙏🏻❤️🕊
Well this makes me feel better. Thank u
U r so true 😢
Yes. This is exactly what I am going through right now from my relatives on the both sides of the "family". They have been doing this to me since I was 4 years old. I am 53 now. It's a family filled with Narcs. When you walk away from them they tell each other that you don't know how to keep a good relationship with the family. It's been decades of verbal and emotional abuse from them. Strangers told me that I am too nice to the relatives that's why they take advantage of me. I always hope that they would change for the better as they got older but their attitude only got worse. They are in their late 50s, 60s and 70s now. Unfortunately they will die being like that. They have been so their entire lives and think that their way to treat me is the best. Its as a result of jealousy and comparison which makes them feel superior to me. Narcs usually are unhappy people who have large egos. They use someone nice as their punching bag to make themselves feel better due to their unhappiness and insecurities.😐
Those who side with them were never truly your friend. Truth that hurts but better to no that so you can run for the hills. And don’t associate with both. And learn indifference to anything associated with them.
Even the rude pizza guy on the phone, parents I hadn't even met yet, men who didn't love me right, the villains in my life story, the job I was applying for, the woman who sounds like me but who's "hotter than me but not nicer," so cruel. He felt threatened ALOT 😳🙄
...pretty much sums up humanity
More to the point a lac of if, it is not enough to have human form it is how we behave that make us human beings.
💯 my mother
Same here
True, it’s so hard when it’s your own children though.
My ex husband humiliated and made me look a fool and sided with enemies to take me down. Well guess what??? I'm still standing. ❤
My goodness, Danish, you are spot on!! Thank you for these videos. They make me feel STRONGER!❤
I truly appreciate this message. I'm going through this right now. I need to hear this. 😢
So true
Everything that's been said is so true it's crazy
This made me emotional because i remember witnessing my narcissistic mother talking about me to my so called godmother and just having a spear campaign i felt so upset & annoyed also shocked because everything I've heard about narcissistism has came true i am so done with her. I just need to stop telling her things and trying to talk about my pain because she doesn't care it's emotionally exhausting
Thank you 😊
Yes I have encountered this many times. I never really thought it was for this reason. How strange. I feel alot better about those expirences now. Your videos as always Danish are very helpful.
100% accurate!
Be the kind of person that when your feet touch the floor each morning, the devil thinks: "Oh shit. They're up."
this is 100% true bro I have experienced same thing...
You are right
NEVER stands up for you.
God sent two relationships back to back
over the span of ten years. The first relationship (lady 1)…I was the blessing and She should’ve been my lesson. She also missed the blessing and I missed the lesson. Fast forward 5 years…Another relationship She missed
the blessing, but I finally got the lesson…Thank God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.
My mother sides with my haters and enemies making excuses for their actions against me
Ya that is so true, you stay away when he gets friends and family that's trying to hurt you.
Triangulatie that it's what they do at that moment too. For example you help him , with the garden and you are buzzy with a tree to gut it down, someone comes and says to you are you the man in the house, she got here the trousers on, you have nothing here to say isn't...and so on. You feel that it's not funny but the narcissist says nothing at all
That is your man. You feel like crying😢.
So true. Exactly. They never were ur friends. Narcists put others against u.
😮😮😮😮🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯I thought it was just me!!!!!!!!!!!
I didn't know they all do that. I just thought it was all the ones I did that.
This happened to me 100% facts
They all need to step back and think… he or she will do the same to each one of them…
Yes it's easier to believe a lie than the truth!
Sounds like the story of my life. No more thank you. 🙏
True
You just described my parents and siblings
So true that's my husband
Excellent info 👍❤🌹💯💪
Bring it on, I sure am 💪💪💯
This is an eye opener
Unfortunately the narcissist likes to go heads up against me without anyone's help
My ex husband always sided with other toxic members against me. He looked for ways to show me down anytime anywhere anyhow.
My Narc Ex once just stood there, watched gor a moment his mate manhandle me after me and my Narc had argued, then shut the door on ne as his mate continued to push and shove me about.
Maybe he was his mate in more than one sense 😂
💯💯
This video is 100% legit!
Yes exactly..!!
O know. Thank you !
🙏🏻Thanks, kindly! 🕊🍃
True story
Very true, this is my .Ex definitely true.
Danish this is so true!
My mother wanted to stop me from being better by telling me “be yourself”
😊❤ you are right
oh my entire childhood~
Thank you this is so true
Faced t multiple times... it was so confusing ... that's when i started asking myself why is he behaving like this...
Well let them do that and keep moving on when they look up 20 years will be done passed by and they'll be 70 then what? Let them stay in that energy by themselves 🤷🏽
Then they'll be a 70 year old hater that's on them
🎯 O narc disse com todas as letras: Eu tenho medo da sua pessoa!!!… e a campanha de difamação já estava acontecendo há muito tempo!
My narcissist would not let anyone put me down in front of them. That was their job privately.
Powerful 🙏🔥
I totally agree 😮
So true so devilish I believe living with a narc husband is a very close experience of meeting shaitaan
And why did they gang up on you? Because they were jealous of you and wanted you dead but couldn’t kill you so instead they set traps to torture you and finish you off.
Pure feminine energy
This gang includes your own children.
Facts!
Why would they want to control someone... they my wanna learn how control their self to be positive ❤
💯💯💯💯💯
yes
Yuppp
Very true
Sad, but oh so very true
Poor Evil
Told everyone I was whacked 😂
The true meaning of COWARDS
Yep!
Please tell us how to handle it when it happens.
tru dat!
Yes my Daughter who is very young vulnerable Adult is her birthday today not his daughter he has never met her but she falls for all his lies and manipulation 😢 I can't even speak to her today as he is controlling her like the master manipulater he is
Had this happened to me.
Wife and kids. They'll learn the gravity of their mistake later in life.
Wow! No wonder! 😢
He and his family
100% true my mother took father puppet
What happened to me and my family, rejected!!!!
How can we take this to court? Specially when a person is loosing money and respect at works places for this same reason… According to court we need to prove it! How…
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