Brené Brown Clarifies the Difference Between Jealousy and Envy

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 พ.ค. 2024
  • Brené Brown explained the specific difference between jealousy and envy that left Ellen and everyone in the audience amazed. The best-selling author also chatted about her new book, “Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience,” how expectations can be good but need to be reality checked, and shared how she's just as competitive as Ellen.
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  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Brene Brown is ineffable. The knowledge she shares is truly life changing. One of the best human being I've ever stumbled upon

  • @bethscott4330
    @bethscott4330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    What I love about Brene’ here is that she didn’t turn her back on Ellen. In Atlas of the Heart she says “Nothing that celebrates the humiliation or pain of another person builds lasting connection”. You can see that there is a genuine connection between Ellen & Brene’ that’s beautiful. Life is hard enough…don’t hold onto negative emotion such as anger and resentment. It will darken your soul. 🌸

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Brene Brown is one of the best human beings I have ever come across 😭❤️
    Phenomenal woman 🙌

    • @peggygibbons479
      @peggygibbons479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Truth! She is on a whole 'nother level! She did an interview with Russell Brand that was life changing for me. It's on TH-cam & it's like an hour long but SO worth it!!

  • @iamcurtisbryant
    @iamcurtisbryant 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love that she mentioned the correlation between anxiousness and excitement. As a child, I would become so excited for things that I would make myself sick. So for a long time excitement became a negative thing for me. Because I associated it with making myself ill.

  • @romarlawrence6408
    @romarlawrence6408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    To the person reading this: Even tho I dont know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer🌠👁💗

    • @jennydecember4th
      @jennydecember4th 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same to you :)

    • @personalhapegrl1224
      @personalhapegrl1224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, and the same to you. ♥️

    • @propr123
      @propr123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! You too!❤🌷☀️

    • @Flore-162
      @Flore-162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wish you the best as well. take care ✌️

    • @belgiadas3286
      @belgiadas3286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sweetest thing I read all day, u 2! 🥰

  • @GadgetsGearCoffee
    @GadgetsGearCoffee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love Brene, and her husband's comment about the script is amazing! What a great sense of humour

  • @cali-tm1ec
    @cali-tm1ec 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Brene Brown is so informative. I've read some of her books and learn so much

  • @jodiramberg707
    @jodiramberg707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When your favorite author gets interviewed by your favorite daytime television host!!! 😊💛😊💛

  • @treegreen941
    @treegreen941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My take on envy vs jealousy is that envy is wishing you also had something that someone else has, whereas jealousy is wishing that person didn't have whatever you covet.

    • @hwilcox
      @hwilcox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      in her series she talks about jealousy as loosing something when another gets what you perceive as yours.
      like your dog preferring someone else
      like your best friend not having time for you bc she is seeing a new guy
      envy is more covetting

  • @uhlsome2784
    @uhlsome2784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In Spanish jealous (celoso) and envious (envidioso) are already used in this way. Something somebody else has that you want "te da envidia" (gives you envy). But a jealous person is afraid of losing something (usually a person). A mom can be jealous of her son's girlfriend, not because she has inappropriate feelings for her son, but because she fears he will be taken away...

    • @hwilcox
      @hwilcox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that's what I got from her show, agree

  • @Denis-89
    @Denis-89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Never heard of her but it was informative to watch, gave new perspectives

  • @MSylviaLin
    @MSylviaLin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Brene for all the amazing work you do!

  • @BinhNguyen-mx8pr
    @BinhNguyen-mx8pr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want the book too!

  • @norinetheafricangal4318
    @norinetheafricangal4318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    much love from uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬

  • @martulec
    @martulec 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brené 😍😍😍 the best guest you could invite ❤❤❤

  • @sravanidoniv9257
    @sravanidoniv9257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I randomly watched your video but now I became your fan love you Ellen love from india

    • @wolfepackfun
      @wolfepackfun 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Got a favorite Indian video to share?

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved it. Thank you.

  • @LadakhiIntrovert
    @LadakhiIntrovert 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ellen is true a vibe 🌸💫

  • @justagirljean1111
    @justagirljean1111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brene and Ellen. Can’t get much better than this!

  • @meditation3333
    @meditation3333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Life is short thing"
    "Girl and Boy friend is nothing"
    "Mother and father God things"
    "Support to everything"💚

  • @judythompson5031
    @judythompson5031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I miss Ellen so much.....pandemic has been so sad for many.....we need her

  • @reginaldthomas1257
    @reginaldthomas1257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Love ❤ Brene's books 📚 and Ellen is Super Cool 😎 and a Fun-Loving, Kind person. Can't wait to meet them. 😊🙏🏾😌

  • @gintaremaksimovaite2955
    @gintaremaksimovaite2955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so so much dear Brené Brown for your wisdom and knowledge which has helped me so much. Please, do not think that i compete or i want to play with people. I am a simple woman, i really do not care about politics. Thank you so much for the right to look and listen to such huge personalities as Oprah Winfrey and Brené Brown.

  • @anniewatonnie8186
    @anniewatonnie8186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm Ellen number one super fan from Uganda

  • @kiingkiiwii5223
    @kiingkiiwii5223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    6:17 when she starts talking about jealousy and envy

    • @yimszy4588
      @yimszy4588 ปีที่แล้ว

      helped me w my psychology class lol

    • @anointedone1995
      @anointedone1995 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this comment!

  • @wolfepackfun
    @wolfepackfun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praying we create a more nurturing world that focuses on learning this linguistic nuance 0-9, and then allows 10+ to course their education/training.

  • @azucarweber2456
    @azucarweber2456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got her new book at costco! atlas of the heart!

  • @tinakeegstra5603
    @tinakeegstra5603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love Brene❤️❤️❤️

  • @btardoja0117
    @btardoja0117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you Ellen...

  • @gintaremaksimovaite2955
    @gintaremaksimovaite2955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you TH-cam ❤️

  • @peggygibbons479
    @peggygibbons479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Brene is The GOAT!! I WISH everyone else in the world would read or listen to everything she's ever written or spoken! Then MY life would be so much better!! (I'm kidding) :)

  • @anndreastembridge367
    @anndreastembridge367 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Touch and gree! 🥰

  • @elsha3era88
    @elsha3era88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am your biggest fan Send my greetings from Egypt

  • @jpjelpaisano766
    @jpjelpaisano766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true…

  • @modoudianetoubamarchemamed2805
    @modoudianetoubamarchemamed2805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Ellen very much ❤💞❤💞❤💞❤💞❤💞❤💞❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💞💞💞💞💞💞❤💘

  • @rodolfocoronel487
    @rodolfocoronel487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watch the Envy video that contrapoints made a couple of months ago

  • @nattywho
    @nattywho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sounds like a good read!

  • @maneeshpalackalunni23
    @maneeshpalackalunni23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brené ❤

  • @helaineberman9221
    @helaineberman9221 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Brene

  • @jimthomas777
    @jimthomas777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm jealous with envy

  • @adamsan2370
    @adamsan2370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am having an excitement attack! lol

    • @bartwilson2513
      @bartwilson2513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol. Pretty sure she acknowledges there is a difference between anxiety (the feeling) and anxiety attack (the medical condition). But that's funny.

  • @madgirl_yaddie9606
    @madgirl_yaddie9606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi

  • @VastiaPascale
    @VastiaPascale 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m envious of the people in the audience. Ellen, let’s change that. I’m manifesting to go from your comment section to in your audience or opposite you. 🥰

  • @petekdemircioglu
    @petekdemircioglu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @petekdemircioglu
    @petekdemircioglu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💚💜💚💜💚

  • @rachel2404
    @rachel2404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought envy was a step beyond jealousy. I thought it was wanting to take what belongs to someone else. Whereas jealous was merely the desire to have what someone else has. Maybe both definitions are correct?

    • @akcoop
      @akcoop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kinda the other way around

    • @tiffanysbeautyhouse755
      @tiffanysbeautyhouse755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Other way around, I would be envious of someone If I wanted what they had.. I may be jealous of someone if I’m worried they are gonna take what I have like friends etc..

  • @jeanneratterman4174
    @jeanneratterman4174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Laughing! If Brene decided to ‘race’ me in the pool, I’d just take my time and watch her go! Zoom! :-D Go, Girl!

  • @AuthenticAna
    @AuthenticAna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lucky, to be in d audience ... 😏

  • @Dev-kz1gf
    @Dev-kz1gf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People can have standards while in relationships. That’s not your expectation to control others.

  • @mizzttt
    @mizzttt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being lonely, losing your ideals from your childhood. Not knowing where and how to start

  • @debbiecurrlin335
    @debbiecurrlin335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Two of the most fabulous women on the planet!!

  • @saffsuff
    @saffsuff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I appreciate Brene being relatable but come on am not a psychologist and English is not my first language BUT jealousy and envy are easy to differentiate

    • @HM-jl8pr
      @HM-jl8pr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A lot of people believe they are same and use them synonymously.

  • @hwilcox
    @hwilcox 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    to me jealousy is like the song Jolene and envy like the song Jessie's girl

  • @gerrimarchion4734
    @gerrimarchion4734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sorry Berne, I misspelled your name.

  • @jaquelinedossantosfirminof5412
    @jaquelinedossantosfirminof5412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏🌎🍀🌈⭐🌝🌛🍀❣️🙏

  • @MsQueenBR
    @MsQueenBR 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The things she just said is already known by anyone who done therapy

    • @bree-arnaharris2437
      @bree-arnaharris2437 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really?! Where do you think those therapists might have learned that from?

  • @susisiebert6664
    @susisiebert6664 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I seen Ellen get downright angry if she loses

  • @That_one-AMBIVERT
    @That_one-AMBIVERT 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about every emotions are there for a purpose? How about there is no only group of chosen emotions, which is fits to human beings....
    This is a religion.

  • @9Risky
    @9Risky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “Congrats to Everyone who is early and found this comment”!

  • @Dev-kz1gf
    @Dev-kz1gf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The book is really controlling

  • @Dev-kz1gf
    @Dev-kz1gf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She’s not supportive at all

  • @Dev-kz1gf
    @Dev-kz1gf 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She’s not supportive

  • @LesleyPB
    @LesleyPB 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jealousy is wanting something someone else has, that you will never be able to have. Like if someone has a child that is really clever. It’s not your child. So you get jealous about that child’s achievements. She’s so wrong.

    • @bree-arnaharris2437
      @bree-arnaharris2437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No your envious because someone else has a child that's intelligent and you don't, your jealous if that somehow will impact you negatively like preferential treatment or higher in esteem that you perceive As a negative

  • @andrinafriberg7098
    @andrinafriberg7098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi