Bro story 1 I could never. My bf literally tells me to go use mine whenever he's not in the mood or gaming. I just tell him I'm going to go watch some p and he's like "if its good send me the link" 😂 because of him I forget how insecure people can get over that
So he's an "alpha", that explains everything. His massive ego was bruised so he got his panties in a bunch. How it was all "just a joke" and then turns to hurling insults at her. Then threatens SC and cries like the man baby he is
I have bpd and autism and this is coming from a place of worry, this man from the first story needs therapy. Clearly he’s not mentally sound. I’m a lady btw. I just found out I have both of my disorders.
Im going to keep it 💯 if my kid chose not to have a child cool but im going to let them know dont except to get anything when im gone or dont except me to financially help you while I'm alive because that's the most disrespectful thing to tell your parents Hey Mom and Dad I know you sat there and had me and gave me more then what i needed but i dont want kids becaus me and my partner want to focus on the career going to give her a short-term happiness over time
You do realize it’s their choice, not their parents??? Or would you rather they be shitty parents???? You won’t have to worry about having kids either way
That’s ridiculous. It’s not “selfish” to not want to devote their life to having kids that they don’t even want, but it IS incredibly selfish and awful to act as if you deserve grandkids for fulfilling the bare minimum expectation that is being a good parent. Nobody asked you to make whatever “sacrifices” you made, you CHOSE to have kids, they didn’t chose to be yours. You don’t get a pat on the back for fulfilling your obligations and not being outright neglectful. You’re not a martyr, if you want praise and respect from them in their adulthood then you have to earn it. Although by telling them that you’re leaving them nothing unless they agree to live THEIR lives how YOU want them to, you’re actually not being a great parent at all, so I’d say they owe you even less. If anything, having kids is the objectively selfish decision. You’re literally creating a life solely for your own emotional benefit and then asking them to be eternally grateful for it, a decision that was motivated entirely by your own feelings. Also no, focusing on your career is a way to get LONG-TERM happiness, meanwhile having children doesn’t 100% guarantee any happiness at all, especially if they’re unwanted. This is a stupid sentiment and you’d be a horrible parent. Don’t have kids, seriously. You’re clearly not cut out for it.
"She was lucky that somoene like her caught his eye." Nah, that was Extreme bad luck that she caught his eye.
Story 1. 😂😂😂 I'm glad Op noped outta there. Her husband was an idiot. But seriously, he seems like he was escalating. I see phydical abuse next.
He was already mentally unstable and next level paranoid and controlling.
The insecurity required to be mad your partner plays with themselves in their own house is truly absurd.
"not a beta who spend his days..."
Yap. He got poison in his head.
Slamming the drawers as if he’s packing your stuff??? What in the unstable man is that nonsense??
Bro story 1 I could never. My bf literally tells me to go use mine whenever he's not in the mood or gaming. I just tell him I'm going to go watch some p and he's like "if its good send me the link" 😂 because of him I forget how insecure people can get over that
Op and his love should just move away from their parents
If all the insults he tried to throw at her was true then why was he with her? Makes no sense.
this is abuse
The amount of gaslighting he does is ridiculous.
What ever happened to “It doesn’t matter where (s)he gets [her|his] appetite, as long as (s)he comes home for dinner.”
So he's an "alpha", that explains everything. His massive ego was bruised so he got his panties in a bunch. How it was all "just a joke" and then turns to hurling insults at her. Then threatens SC and cries like the man baby he is
First story husband is probably cheating and projecting (this is before I see the ending)
Wow. It takes a lot to shock me, but this story did it in spades.
I have bpd and autism and this is coming from a place of worry, this man from the first story needs therapy. Clearly he’s not mentally sound. I’m a lady btw. I just found out I have both of my disorders.
Story 1 husband is a true beta
Im going to keep it 💯 if my kid chose not to have a child cool but im going to let them know dont except to get anything when im gone or dont except me to financially help you while I'm alive because that's the most disrespectful thing to tell your parents
Hey Mom and Dad I know you sat there and had me and gave me more then what i needed but i dont want kids becaus me and my partner want to focus on the career going to give her a short-term happiness over time
Bruh how is it disrespectful not wanting a child? If that's child neglected/resented by the parents, that's fine, but not having children isn't?
You do realize it’s their choice, not their parents??? Or would you rather they be shitty parents???? You won’t have to worry about having kids either way
That’s ridiculous. It’s not “selfish” to not want to devote their life to having kids that they don’t even want, but it IS incredibly selfish and awful to act as if you deserve grandkids for fulfilling the bare minimum expectation that is being a good parent. Nobody asked you to make whatever “sacrifices” you made, you CHOSE to have kids, they didn’t chose to be yours. You don’t get a pat on the back for fulfilling your obligations and not being outright neglectful. You’re not a martyr, if you want praise and respect from them in their adulthood then you have to earn it. Although by telling them that you’re leaving them nothing unless they agree to live THEIR lives how YOU want them to, you’re actually not being a great parent at all, so I’d say they owe you even less.
If anything, having kids is the objectively selfish decision. You’re literally creating a life solely for your own emotional benefit and then asking them to be eternally grateful for it, a decision that was motivated entirely by your own feelings. Also no, focusing on your career is a way to get LONG-TERM happiness, meanwhile having children doesn’t 100% guarantee any happiness at all, especially if they’re unwanted.
This is a stupid sentiment and you’d be a horrible parent. Don’t have kids, seriously. You’re clearly not cut out for it.
Bro this isn't Twitter you don't need to rage bait lol
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