Entitled Stepdad Purposefully Ruined My $900 Prom Dress After I Refused to Pay for His Son's Prom...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ค. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
My Step Dad purposefully ruined my $900 prom dress by washing it! Is there anything I can do such as take legal? (u/This_Musician7165 in r/TwoHotTakes)
15:06 2nd story:
My (28f) fiancé (30m) is ghosting me on our wedding day. How can I calm my anxiety? (u/bomblebeeee in r/relationship_advice + r/TrueOffMyChest)
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Story 1: An adult man damaging a child's things out of spite is an early warning sign of abuse.
I know, it was so mean, akin to destroying a child’s toy-and she bought it with her own money! How washing the dress is not actionable destruction of property idk.
I agree with you 💯%.
The cops just didn't want to do their jobs. They could have arrested him for property damage seeing as he didn't own the dress. Also why were they still at the house without an owner present. Those cops specifically just didn't care
Personal property like clothes is generally a civil matter, especially when the dress is under the misdemeanor level in value. Cars, jewelry, domiciles, etc, generally are high enough in value to make it worth the DA's time to charge.
A nearly $1,000 personal item?
@@rubymeaddle ok if not property damage than vandalism
Unfortunately yes. Because he can claim it was an honest mistake in front of cops and at the time she didn't have proof that it wasn't. So it would be a civil issue from their perspective
@@drnick5439 That it was a mistake, seems a strange claim on his part, and dubious to defend. He suddenly decided to do the laundry. The laundry consisted of a single formal gown (that most people would assume needed to be dry cleaned). The pricey item didn’t belong to him, but he chose to power wash the new, never worn dress without the owner’s permission, in a washing machine with no other clothes.
That first story. Get the money back by selling the PlayStation and all your step dads stuff until you get the money back
The way I would be taking that to small claims court as well. What a sad, pitiful man who is filled with spite and misogyny. Amazed he has kids, let alone married anyone.
She didn't say her step brothers were mean or nasty to her so they shouldn't be punished. I agree the step dad's stuff could be used. But she soundz like a very mature and intelligent young lady so I'm happy she's going about the right way to solve this
They have pre nup so this can be considered as stealing
Uncle in the first story was absolutely right about the mother being an enabler. Sounds like stepdad was a deadbeat joke who she supported while he was disrespecting her daughter. Why was she even with him?
there could be a few reasons. like maybe at first he had a job and was telling her everything she wanted to hear. regardless of the reason, at least she kicked him out before it went too far
Story 2 OP: I need advice other than leaving him but I know he’s toxic
Redditors: You’re stupid for staying what else should we be saying?
Mom: You’re stupid for staying
OP: Why’s everyone such a meanie? :(
I think he has trauma from whatever cult he was in. I don't think he knows how to keep a good relationship or communicate, and it is probably very hard to talk about it. He probably has trauma from fake therapy that could also explain why he won't get help. Either way, the relationship won't work without that understanding and him getting help. She should have told him that they didn't have to get married until he was ready and that she gave him a true choice and that she would be by his side no matter what even if they never marry. That's true love then.
😂😂😂
So basically this whole thing was because Step Daddy was bitter that OP wouldn't bail him out of the mess he gotten himself into.
Pretty much, he was jealous that a 17-18 year old had more money than him ever. He has been getting money from his family cause he can't not spend it. Very immature.
Story 2: you came to reddit looking for advice and didnt like the advice you got what did you expect honestly
Second op was insufferable.
Omg I slapped my head so many times she is so delulu
This stuff is pretty toxic and cancer causing, so I'm gonna use this silicone hand here.
*Is visibly using his unprotected finger to rub it on the silicone hand*
That's this OP
Story 1: It is very rare to see a story where the mom does not side with the abusive husband against her own child.
Story 1: I'm glad the mom kicks the SD out.
Story 2: Ask for advice, you get it even when you dont like it, OP deserves everything heading her way, her x never respected her nor cared for her.
Yes, SD is scum and I am glad the Mom supported her own child.
Yeah, it's obvious for us, but have you ever encountered a person with a narcissistic personality disorder? The op is living in a fantasy world, created by her partner. At least she thinks that, but in reality it's hell. This person is so damaged that she can't handle any negativity anymore. That's why you should never be mean to people online, no matter how stupid or insane the situation seems. This only makes them feel more alone and powerless. Honestly, reddit can be occasionally useful, but most of the times it's insanely toxic.
Story 2: Never get involved with someone from a cult! No matter how nice they may seem.
Same reason I don't date anyone who goes to church. Crazies.
Story 2: op is so self pitying and pathetic. he is using trauma as an excuse not to commit.
Story 2: Maybe if everyone, from strangers to your own mother, is telling you not to get married, you shouldn't get married. Honestly don't blame the mom for cutting contact when OP's response to advice was ignoring it and being passive aggressive all while complaining.
My former stepdad was a butt, but even HE NEVER WENT THIS FAR. In fact, he was supportive and congratulated me on my prom night. And he was like the worst. lol. This stepdad makes that one look like a saint.
Story 2: the OP is just mad because Reddit didn’t tell her what she wanted to hear. And this man does NOT love her. She’s just living in delulu land and looks pathetic desperately chasing after a dude that doesn’t want her.
Story 2: op wanted that marriage after stepping over all the 🚩flags and even Redditers and mom told her the right thing to do. How stupid can people in some delusional " Love" ?!
If the mother in the first story doesn't leave him and protect her daughter from this absolute narcissist, then there is a problem.
The step'dad' has destroyed her property.
I love the mother in story 2. She's feed up with her daughter's 🐃💩🤣
"I wasnt *trying* to ruin your dress, i was just going to say you shouldnt have bought it because it was totally fine and already had a replacement lined up!"
Story 1 - what a small small man smh
Mom from story 2 is my spirit animal
SV, I'm 😊 you're doing this story with the latest update. The 1st time I heard this, I kept screaming OMG, OMG, HE DIDN'T.
Oh, sorry, there's no update, it's a repost, but there is a second story. I had to delete it for some copyright issue.
Support doesn’t mean feeding into your delusions. Compassion and actual helpful advice doesn’t mean they’ll give you the confirmation bias you’re seeking.
Story 1: Step father destroy a dress and in best case he buy a 300$ dress. In the end the family finances are -300$. And that is the best case. That show how terrible with money he is.
He did steal - he appropriated property - he doesn't have to take it.
Story 2 - I'm looking for reasons WHY OP is insisting on getting married here...
Story 1 the step dads mom is why he is that way i bet.
Given she defended him and down played it
S.2. Ok, I am sorry you're going through this, I know it isn't easy to deal with. And what I am about to say isn't mean, but I think you need to know. If someone is doing this to you he is playing games with you, there's no mental health problem, he probably has another family some where, he is always ghosting you, always not around. When he is, he's not. This is what you do. Pack up and go back home, don't tell him what your plans are nothing about the wedding nothing. And, then when you're back home you let him know that you're done with his games, done with the way he treats you, and you deserve better than him. Don't contact you, call, text, email nothing. We are done! I'm moving on I suggest you do the same. Say hi to your wife and kids for me. And change your number, address everything. And girl move on, forget about him. Good luck. And one more piece of advice, if you don't want people to be mean cause people are, don't go on Reddit, bunch of a**holes out there.
No, she hsouldpackup and go back home and then--noting. Do NOT communicate with him in any way while changing email, phone number and social media names. In other words, ghost him.
I would have called the cops on him
It is a shame OP in story 1 deleted her account.
WTF did op 2 expect?
Story 2: ok time for me to read into things that aren't there.
I don't find the op to be trustworthy. I don't trust any of them to be trustworthy given people are prone to making up things in hopes of it appearing on tiktok.
Her choice of words and how she reacted when everyone was calling her dumb for sticking to the relationship makes me think of a narcissist darvoing and trying to lay on the guilt trip so that they are absolved from criticism. And a total emotional vampire. I had to deal with my own and she said a lot of the same things they would to get sympathy.
"Hey I'm a poor sad lonely woman looking for help! How dare you criticize me?"
"I'm going to move and be alllll by myself. My mother will never have to worry about me and my pain and troubles ever again."
If I had to guess it wasn't the cult thing that was an issue but her. See how she went from"I'm going to be all alone." To "I'm a strong independent woman with my career!"
While I agree this is entirely possible, I'm a borderline with the self destructive type. I have a hundred percent said things like this because I believe they are true, not trying to get sympathy, but more rather because I believe it to be true and it just flies out of my mouth or fingers (and is hella toxic, and I do my best not to do this because I know it affects those around me, but depression can make your brain do silly stuff). That second comment about moving back overseas to be forever alone absolutely gives me NPD darvo feels, too, though. 😮
Op from first story deleted their account
Story 2 is really hard to listen to. The OP is the "wash me but don't make me wet"-Type. Her BF was useless at best and abusive at worst. Why did she even want to marry him? This is a trainwreck that everyone is seeing but she refuses to admit it.
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