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Hello madam, I want tips to stop OVERTHINKING, FEAR... I also want tips for "A SENSE OF SUPPORT LIKE MY MOTHER and Father, to reach my GOAL, and make my country proud..,,
@@SCR6268 Start with Greystone Technique and then slowly switch it to No contact. Initially it's tough I know but you will not be regretful of your decision in the long run. Narcs are obsessed with their supply,They don't love you. They only need your narc supply to survive, So once they stop receiving the supply, they will do their best to hook you in again.. But If you constantly remain in no contact with them, they will leave you.. And finally you will be happy and kind to yourself,with full control of yourself over your life.
I am a Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist. It's so evident that whatever she said is purely out of her expertise and years of experience. Very accurate and authentic. I am delighted to fall into that 5% of population because I am the one mostly ending up hurt cuz of being gentle, kind and polite. I know how it feels to be around toxic people so I have promised myself that I shall never be a reason for someone else's sadness. Thank you for this beneficial video. God bless ❤ Love and prayers from Europe.
@@SuptiSupti-y2d Yes, interesting observation. It's possible that in general people are polite at the beginning. However, when we actually start spending time with them, that's when they show their real personalities
@Mesmarising_Eyes Nice presentation of your comment, sir are you know Telugu, can you send your email ID, I have doubt n needs clarity solution pls. Otherwise I will put my mail id, pls you send a test mail, I don't know how much busy you sir, at your convenience pls reply thanks in advance sir 💐🙏
Best way to observe people is to see .....how they treat others...specially thier parents......any animals and poor people......how they thinks about others
1) Check whether they are repentant, repentance is the Key. Toxic people are arrogant, non- repentant and dont want to make the first move. 2) Identify them. That is most important. For the first few months observe, keep smiling. Don't be an open book. 3) Mind management. Dont keep thinking why they behaved in the way they did. Focus on your work, your many priorities. Very important to be happy. 4) Give time to yourself..Have pleasant hobbies.
If you are in any of the Toxic Relationship, Whether it is husband/Wife relationship, Parents/Child relationship,Relationship with Siblings, relatives etc. Remember, To get cheated and manipulated is also a sin. To kick those toxic people out of your life becomes your Dharma.
Never confront toxic people. Avoid like crazy. If you can’t avoid, don’t talk be mild don’t interact at all. They will use your words as ammunition to fire on you😂
Why didn't i watch this video long back. I needed it so much. I am a very emotional, sensitive and helpful person. I got hurt many times. Now i have changed myself to stay away from all toxic people. I have only good people now. I lost weight due to too much thinking about them. Now iam focussing on my career and hobbies. So peaceful life iam living now.
Madam, Thank you for your useful advice. From my experience of more than four decades, concentrating on the Almighty GOD is the best path, best medicine & the best solution to almost any problem.
As u said majority in the society we can see only negative self centered people around us. Their hearts r filled with jealousy. If something's beautiful in others then they can't take it. Im experiencing & trying ro avoid negative ones. Thanks for your advice. Fod bless you & your family ❤
I am 💯% in agreement with your advice. I came to the same conclusions after 65 years of life experiences. I could have saved many years of troubled life if I had formal training in identifying and avoiding toxic people. 🙏
I also suffered 65 year . Every time I used to blame myself , I should hv not done this things could hv been better . It affected my physical n mental condition .
Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips about handling toxic people. In my life, I trusted people blindly and I would open up to anyone or everyone. Now I understood my consequences, May God Bless You, Devika Madam. This is Anthony from Mumbai.
Mam really i felt very happy because yesterday only i faced these problem actually im staying in pg yesterday one friend fought with me because of some other reasons so from yesterday im felling very sad and even im not able to concentrate on my work but after watching these video i felt like my mom is telling all these things Thank you so much madam 🙏🏻💗i felt her as my friend mam but i dont know wt happened to her yesterday she scolded me and i was really shocked and even i cried a lot and even now when im writing these comment also im crying but its ok now i understand her true colours so from now i wont think about her 😢😢
@@akkinenilakshmisai661 I can totally relate to your story. Same thing happened to me with a work colleague a long time ago (and sometimes I still think back to that time wondering why she did a 180). She scolded me and called me a name, and I was SHOCKED because she had always been so gentle and kind and even-tempered. I ruminated about it thinking what did I say? What did I do to trigger her like that? From that day on, we still spoke, but I was much more guarded. According to this video, I should have just erased it from my mind and kept a calm mind. I’m so grateful to have this information now. Peace & Blessings.
Thanks mam. This is what now I am doing.this video is like a revision of what happened and what I am doing. With God's grace I am good. Trust in God and Trust in your self.
Do not get hurt ( be happy that you recognized who they really are), be busy with better things and focus on people who love you. Don’t trust everyone but respect everybody (for peace of mind)
Dear ma'am, I am working under a person who is a narcissist. Two decades of honest service, best professional award but now facing this toxic person sitting at the helm holds a personal vengeance towards me. He is Deliberately harassing and a kind of rude gesture. Don't feel like working at all. He has killed the spirit of working. Yes, some of your points are relevant and I am already following it. It is indeed worth listening. Thank you.
Thank u so much mam. I am facing toxic people & had trouble in handling them. I feel very relaxed now. Plz make a video on how to handle these toxic people if they keep on taking revenge on us in different ways.
धन्यवाद मैडम इतने जरूरी विषय पर आपने इतनी अच्छी तरह समझाया 🙏पिछले दो दिन से मैं इसी बात को लेकर बहुत परेशान थी यहां तक कि कल तो मैं बहुत रोई हूं कुछ लोगों के व्यवहार को लेकर पर फिर मेडिटेशन किया और खुद को समझाया कि ऐसे लोगों के लिए परेशान नहीं होना जिनको हमारी कद्र नहीं है। आज आपका बातें सुनी और अब मैं सिर्फ़ और सिर्फ़ अपने शौक, अपने काम पर ही अपना 100% लगा दूंगी।
I must try this definitely madam.. Neighbors, n in laws r very jealous and dnt like growth of a woman.. Causing my brain to overthink and looks like il fall sick because of them only.
These people are called as narcissist who are worst to even encounter. They will go so low beyond our imagination and will ruin our life. What important is how to learn to heal from them and set very strong boundaries they can be your close ones (any family member or friend)
I agree with you ma'am. I am having lots of mental breakdown in my work place because of some people which I really wanted to get out of my mental head, because of this my carrier is not growing and struggle a lot to finish what I have started, now a days people including the boss ghosted me. I pray to God to help me to get over this situations and move forward in life happily and successfully. I hope, God listen to my prayer so I stumble upon your video. Now I have full confidence that i will move forward in life happily and successfully. Thank you.
Thanku mam, Mai hairaan ho k mai kaise aap ki sari bate smj jati ho.kyo k muje to english proper aati nhi hai, aap buht aaraam se aur easy words me smjati hai. Buht ashi baatein kahi aap ne, Thx again.
Madam, The way you speak is soothing to listening without any exaggeration. You speak as if though others may be toxic, but we should never lose our goodness, facing the trouble but with win win attitude. Good to hear with simplicity. Thank you
Thanks for advise madam.I think best way is focus on ur own personal work which u can do in ur solitude. Introvert and uncommunicative person becomes victim of office politics.
You are cent percent right mam.Despite education people become toxic a lot due to their vested interest.People must be educated by souls for being genuine and honest.I am great ful to your exploration mam
Ma'am I came across your channel just today and I am going on watching them one by one. Your advice is so practical and logical, and can be applied so easily in one's life, yet can reap long-term benefits. Thank you for your messages to your audience.
Thank you Dr. Devika for giving solutions to a real problem. Many people only can identify the problem but are lost when looking for a way out. I would love to hear more from you.
Thanks madam you are changed my lifestyle with meditation classes and your motivational speeches I always humble for you.. Thank you very much madam.. 🙏🙏
Wonderful video. What you mentioned happened repeatedly to me and it took lot of time and anguish before I eventually decided to keep distance from such people and not to have any good expectations at all from them. Not very easy to get such a realisation in our mind specially if the issue relates to close family but we have to be firm that our peace of mind is more important than anything else in our life.
👏Thankyou Devika -Ji for Sharing your BLESSINGS to the World. These are Real-issues faced in a Human Life. GOD🙏Bless You, Family & work each New-Day.🇮🇳👍😀
Hi Doctor. Thanks for these great tips and advice. Much appreciated. Don't know how the video referred me here. But I'm thankful. Not an Indian origin, but I got this same experience with an Indian friend, which really hurt. The same thing as you explained happened, and now he's ignoring and replies in a blunt way. Unfortunately for the trust that the person gave to me, I opened too much which I'm regretting but as you said, yes now I'm in the healing journey as I can't show any arrogance to the party.
Your words are really empowering. I was very empathetic. My own family members took me for granted. Now i understand how to deal. Thank you so much for sharing
You are so sweet Mam instead of listening to you I see your charming face because my face is having black spot I feel my face should be like yours Thank you so much God bless you 🙏❤
Use your mind not your heart ! It's difficult bur just a little mindfulness can make you well equipped to deal with those toxic people and their agenda... Best way is to have a purpose mentor who can fill your mind with all goodness and value 😊
All we need is just good company, be nice to each other. Once you vibe with the right person, take it to the next level. Touch is very important to connect with people. A pat on the back, a hug or a simple "How are you, did you eat?" For the last hundreds of years, people have forgotten all this & all they dream of is just materialistic things. If you take a step forward and express your niceness genuinely, others think that you are weak. Seriously fed up of all this but such is life. At least we all die alone anyways so no point in socializing when you are alive.
Only toxic people will think kindness as weakness........and do we care about toxic people.....not at all ........care about good people......they won't take your kindness for granted
Greetings ! Friends ,relatives aside ..your own sister or husband behave in such manner ..then it becomes extremely difficult . But then it takes some time to realise ,and then you take action..like Mam said . Because ultimately you aredraining your mental and physical energy thinking about these people . The utmost important thing is to take care of yourself and learn how to behave with an alert mind and be aware...with these kind of people . AGREE 100% with you Mam.
A fact that that there is a loving God watching,noting down all things,there is a judgement for all the actions helps us to stay on right path irrespective of others ways.if u can read book of Psalms,Job in online Bible you will see the conversations between God and humans
I felt what you said is absolutely true mam. Your Mantra is really the need of the hour. All Indians are brothers and sisters. We should respect and help each other, but at the same time we need to be maintaining decorum and limits of depth in any relation except that of parent-child relation. That's why our elders say: Matra Devo Bhava, Pitru Devo Bhava, Acharya Devo Bhava, and then God. Only these 4 entities are our true well-wishers. Jai Hind mam
Aapse ek maa vali vibe aati hai, or aap samajhate bhi aise ho like we are your children and you are our mother. Thank You for such a content. . Jai Shri Ram..
I identified my mother as a toxic person. Her words are always negative. I am not able to work from home. Whenever I left home for work, I used to be happy and more active at work. She always find a victim to curse on daily basis. She always find a way to fight with me or my younger brother on daily basis. It feels like torturing us mentally. She always make sure the tasks that we do daily must be executed according to her rule book. After death of my father, most of our relatives stopped to keep in touch with our family. I am not able to handle the situation mentally
Thank you for your support. Please make more such video on handling people because these is also a kind of disease which can be cured with your guidance❤
Ma'm your video has given me an inspiration on how to deal with toxic people.These people are sadists who take pleasure in hurting others.But we should ignore them.
Thank you very much madam for your advice. These are vey useful for every one especially for working women who exposed to different people and get easily hurted by those people. This is nice guidance to face these people easily. I remembered my mother when I listen these words. Thank you madam.
Ma'am really very nice video in today's world the way u have explained is so real , really needed this kind of advice thank you souch and God bless you ❤
Yeah, some people are defenceless, some people are voiceless.....whereas some are senseless, creepy. Such creepy people exist even in some powerful positions.
True... Impossible to react because lived ones will be hurt... And difficult bto tolerate.. They make us go mad with their talks and thoughts.. We don't give it back to them because of our upbringing and education.
@@seetahariharan4089 Learn to stand for yourself. Internally don't get triggered,Just leave them. When you are in a toxic relationship, To leave the relationship becomes your dharma, because then only your soul will fulfill its true objective and live up to its true potential.
Toxic everywhere , don’t runaway but since it has worst consequences if u break then best is ignore and pay attention to your health and carrier, respect everyone no matter how bad they behave . But you do right thing and ignore others anger and dominant , ego behavior. Go up above and blossom like lotus . It will not make any difference in you decide how others behave.
Spot on 🥰. Thank you dear mam. 💖 Trust God. Writing journal helped me immensely to clear my mind. And being careful about my mental diet has helped me🙏
Devika Maam!!! Honestly you are absolutely ravishingly lovely , beautiful, highly talented and skilled and kind hearted, honest, and simply terrific,fantastic,wonderful and above all DIVINE!!!! I worship you doctorji!!!!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
In my career, most of colleagues(new joinees) tried to degrade my work, tried to manipulate my thought process by pointing out my mistakes to compete me. Unfortunately they succeeded and got the promotion. Results of being nice guy in office.
easy to understand- very difficult to categorize - as the minute you categorize- people start saying your judging/suspecting them. That puts person in stand alone situation.
Hello Mam, Really Mam this video helped me a lot. MY mother & my siblings their mind always fluctuate. NOW I am 50. My kids r grown.. I am unable to bear.
How do you handle them. I have been experiencing no matter how much I do for grand kids, help them physically as much as I can. But they manipulate and lies lot. I m extremely tired
Hello mam, from my childhood I tried to be too honest, my daughter only like this, not she is 20 who hurts me lot, always fighting and ego, arrogant, I only should always bend, what to do, my mother and sister are same like her only, when ever I scold my daughter she go to there house, so i can't open my mouth at all, just tolerating, my husband is good person.. We both facing lots by this, please reply
@@sandhyashastry2741pls look into source of problem! Is it difference of opinion or a personality disorder Also never let others pamper your kids particular when they do something wrong ! Consult a psychologist and see if counseling helps
It's really very helpful ma'am. I have suffered through a very very toxic friend of mine who falls in the second category that you have mentioned. It has ruined a part of my career. Once again thank you ma'am. 🙏❤
From by childhood iam very innocent after education i have to mingle with society everyone is clever means cunning....god grace i am blessed found guru vedathri maharishi later i got osho i read many books and then only i have clarity about humans and life.....upto now osho is my guru.......i keeping my innocence my self that will give me all goodness ❤❤....
Knowing human psychology is must! People behaves accordingly. We should work on our body language, correct responses. In short, we should know how to become a good driver, so that in need, we will able to start, pause, stop, re start turn and slow down ahead whenever needed.
Madam , as you asked about followers response , ______^ it's live guidance I just experienced. It's better keeping distance from these people but again your strategy of not showing anger or favor is bestone. Thanks a lot for wonderful dialog,
Dear friends,
Don't miss "How to LIVE with Toxic/ Negetive people" video, link is sharing below.
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Hallo Doctor, can you please talk about selecting a partner for marriage , what precautions should be taken
Hello madam, I want tips to stop OVERTHINKING, FEAR...
I also want tips for "A SENSE OF SUPPORT LIKE MY MOTHER and Father, to reach my GOAL, and make my country proud..,,
🙏
What if the husband deceives?
The moment you kick the narcissistic people and toxic people out from your life. Your healing and growth begins. ❤
Agreed
I totally agree with you.
Totally agree ....Kicking part is the most difficult especially if it is your family...😢 need to be strong enough to do that 🙏
True
@@SCR6268 Start with Greystone Technique and then slowly switch it to No contact. Initially it's tough I know but you will not be regretful of your decision in the long run. Narcs are obsessed with their supply,They don't love you. They only need your narc supply to survive, So once they stop receiving the supply, they will do their best to hook you in again.. But If you constantly remain in no contact with them, they will leave you.. And finally you will be happy and kind to yourself,with full control of yourself over your life.
I am a Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist. It's so evident that whatever she said is purely out of her expertise and years of experience. Very accurate and authentic. I am delighted to fall into that 5% of population because I am the one mostly ending up hurt cuz of being gentle, kind and polite. I know how it feels to be around toxic people so I have promised myself that I shall never be a reason for someone else's sadness. Thank you for this beneficial video. God bless ❤
Love and prayers from Europe.
U have my admiration
If 95% people are toxic,it is impossible to avoid them,i think most of the people are basically good, that's why we enjoy socialiding ,enjoy partying.
@@Blueberry-111jk Likewise ❤
@@SuptiSupti-y2d Yes, interesting observation. It's possible that in general people are polite at the beginning. However, when we actually start spending time with them, that's when they show their real personalities
@Mesmarising_Eyes Nice presentation of your comment, sir are you know Telugu, can you send your email ID, I have doubt n needs clarity solution pls. Otherwise I will put my mail id, pls you send a test mail, I don't know how much busy you sir, at your convenience pls reply thanks in advance sir 💐🙏
Your words r 100% true, but for sensitive person it is very difficult to cope up.
Highly relatable😌
Life's tough in this taamsik era for sensitive people
I agree
Bahut sahi bole aap
I can relate
Best way to observe people is to see .....how they treat others...specially thier parents......any animals and poor people......how they thinks about others
@@sculpordwarf3872 if he treats his parents poorly then he is toxic .....thats what u have to observe ....
1) Check whether they are repentant, repentance is the Key. Toxic people are arrogant, non- repentant and dont want to make the first move.
2) Identify them. That is most important. For the first few months observe, keep smiling. Don't be an open book.
3) Mind management. Dont keep thinking why they behaved in the way they did. Focus on your work, your many priorities. Very important to be happy.
4) Give time to yourself..Have pleasant hobbies.
❤
Lovely content
5% are genuine, its correct 100%. Its the lesson I Iearned from life of 40 years
True
Same at 33
True
True
Yes, and I second you.
Sorry to say but most of the time it's family members who are toxic
Exactly
True
They are just overcaring ... improve your communication with them & Manage them+Yourself ... u find that they are not that bad ...
Yes
I agree with you. They are continue ruining my self confidence . They are Influenced by politics.
Feeling relaxed Ma'am, yes, toxic people are everywhere.They hurt again and again and show they care for you.
The people who show fake empathy are Covert narcissists. Please learn about Covert Narcssissm.
So very true. So frustrating
Yes I know them… atleast met 80% such people in my life they played with my mind, insulting, manipulation, stabbing etc
If you are in any of the Toxic Relationship, Whether it is husband/Wife relationship, Parents/Child relationship,Relationship with Siblings, relatives etc. Remember, To get cheated and manipulated is also a sin. To kick those toxic people out of your life becomes your Dharma.
Very difficult to identify when part of family'
Truly speaking, societies are filled up with cunning and toxic people.we should always keep this thought in our mind.
Yes, what you said is true. I do follow one piece of advice you gave "Speak to everyone but without trusting them fully."
No ENEMITY, No FRIENDLY............... Excellent to manage TOXIC individuals. 👋👋👋🌹
Never confront toxic people. Avoid like crazy. If you can’t avoid, don’t talk be mild don’t interact at all. They will use your words as ammunition to fire on you😂
Correct bro
❤vey much practical
Yes they will provoke you and you will act on it... The moment you act on it they will blame you and hence you will become the culprit...
Run Away....
Why didn't i watch this video long back. I needed it so much. I am a very emotional, sensitive and helpful person. I got hurt many times. Now i have changed myself to stay away from all toxic people. I have only good people now. I lost weight due to too much thinking about them. Now iam focussing on my career and hobbies. So peaceful life iam living now.
Madam, Thank you for your useful advice. From my experience of more than four decades, concentrating on the Almighty GOD is the best path, best medicine & the best solution to almost any problem.
Almighty Allah ☝
Almighty Rama. Krishna & Shiva ☝☝☝
Madam
आप तो एक मां की तरह हमें अच्छी बातों को शिखा देती हैं। God bless you .
Dont trust anyone.but god .rest things are temporary.thank u madam
As u said majority in the society we can see only negative self centered people around us. Their hearts r filled with jealousy. If something's beautiful in others then they can't take it. Im experiencing & trying ro avoid negative ones.
Thanks for your advice. Fod bless you & your family ❤
I am 💯% in agreement with your advice. I came to the same conclusions after 65 years of life experiences. I could have saved many years of troubled life if I had formal training in identifying and avoiding toxic people. 🙏
I also suffered 65 year . Every time I used to blame myself , I should hv not done this things could hv been better . It affected my physical n mental condition .
Same ..I suffered a lot with toxic people ..now I aware of
Thank you❤
I recently overcomed one toxic frnd in same way but yes initial days I was very hurt .. sooner or later I am glad I saw ur video. I love u mam
Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips about handling toxic people. In my life, I trusted people blindly and I would open up to anyone or everyone. Now I understood my consequences, May God Bless You, Devika Madam. This is Anthony from Mumbai.
Mam really i felt very happy because yesterday only i faced these problem actually im staying in pg yesterday one friend fought with me because of some other reasons so from yesterday im felling very sad and even im not able to concentrate on my work but after watching these video i felt like my mom is telling all these things Thank you so much madam 🙏🏻💗i felt her as my friend mam but i dont know wt happened to her yesterday she scolded me and i was really shocked and even i cried a lot and even now when im writing these comment also im crying but its ok now i understand her true colours so from now i wont think about her 😢😢
Don't be sensitive, be rough & tough to handle such incidents.
Deviate your mind & focus on your tagets. 🙌
Thanku mam
@@devikabhatnagar Ok mam Thank you so much 🥺🙏🏻for replying to my comment
Thank you for advising
@@akkinenilakshmisai661 I can totally relate to your story. Same thing happened to me with a work colleague a long time ago (and sometimes I still think back to that time wondering why she did a 180). She scolded me and called me a name, and I was SHOCKED because she had always been so gentle and kind and even-tempered. I ruminated about it thinking what did I say? What did I do to trigger her like that? From that day on, we still spoke, but I was much more guarded. According to this video, I should have just erased it from my mind and kept a calm mind. I’m so grateful to have this information now. Peace & Blessings.
Thanks mam. This is what now I am doing.this video is like a revision of what happened and what I am doing. With God's grace I am good. Trust in God and Trust in your self.
Liked it very much। Toxicity is increasing so fast that the others are feeling stifled
Do not get hurt ( be happy that you recognized who they really are), be busy with better things and focus on people who love you. Don’t trust everyone but respect everybody (for peace of mind)
Dear ma'am,
I am working under a person who is a narcissist.
Two decades of honest service, best professional award but now facing this toxic person sitting at the helm holds a personal vengeance towards me. He is Deliberately harassing and a kind of rude gesture. Don't feel like working at all. He has killed the spirit of working.
Yes, some of your points are relevant and I am already following it. It is indeed worth listening.
Thank you.
Don't worry. Handle it carefully & smartly👍🙌
Dr. Devika! I feel you're an angel, not an ordinary woman.
Whatever you're, you're a great blessing for mankind.
May God bless you.
When people hurt me i disturb my mental health, always think about them and spoil my work also but now after watching ur video will stop doing it..😊
Same with me
Same with me
Thank u so much mam. I am facing toxic people & had trouble in handling them. I feel very relaxed now. Plz make a video on how to handle these toxic people if they keep on taking revenge on us in different ways.
धन्यवाद मैडम इतने जरूरी विषय पर आपने इतनी अच्छी तरह समझाया 🙏पिछले दो दिन से मैं इसी बात को लेकर बहुत परेशान थी यहां तक कि कल तो मैं बहुत रोई हूं कुछ लोगों के व्यवहार को लेकर पर फिर मेडिटेशन किया और खुद को समझाया कि ऐसे लोगों के लिए परेशान नहीं होना जिनको हमारी कद्र नहीं है।
आज आपका बातें सुनी और अब मैं सिर्फ़ और सिर्फ़ अपने शौक, अपने काम पर ही अपना 100% लगा दूंगी।
I must try this definitely madam.. Neighbors, n in laws r very jealous and dnt like growth of a woman.. Causing my brain to overthink and looks like il fall sick because of them only.
Meri to ma hi toxic hai😢
@@fact-story17324...why u think so
These people are called as narcissist who are worst to even encounter. They will go so low beyond our imagination and will ruin our life. What important is how to learn to heal from them and set very strong boundaries they can be your close ones (any family member or friend)
I agree with you ma'am. I am having lots of mental breakdown in my work place because of some people which I really wanted to get out of my mental head, because of this my carrier is not growing and struggle a lot to finish what I have started, now a days people including the boss ghosted me. I pray to God to help me to get over this situations and move forward in life happily and successfully. I hope, God listen to my prayer so I stumble upon your video. Now I have full confidence that i will move forward in life happily and successfully. Thank you.
Thanku mam, Mai hairaan ho k mai kaise aap ki sari bate smj jati ho.kyo k muje to english proper aati nhi hai, aap buht aaraam se aur easy words me smjati hai. Buht ashi baatein kahi aap ne, Thx again.
Madam,
The way you speak is soothing to listening without any exaggeration. You speak as if though others may be toxic, but we should never lose our goodness, facing the trouble but with win win attitude. Good to hear with simplicity. Thank you
Thanks for advise madam.I think best way is focus on ur own personal work which u can do in ur solitude. Introvert and uncommunicative person becomes victim of office politics.
You are cent percent right mam.Despite education people become toxic a lot due to their vested interest.People must be educated by souls for being genuine and honest.I am great ful to your exploration mam
This video will helping many many people, who are very honest ,senstive n helpfull 👍🏻👍🏻
Ma'am I came across your channel just today and I am going on watching them one by one. Your advice is so practical and logical, and can be applied so easily in one's life, yet can reap long-term benefits. Thank you for your messages to your audience.
Most welcome & stay blessed always 🙌
Really appreciate your wisdom...my 36yrs of experience matches ur wisdom...thank u mam.
Thank you Dr. Devika for giving solutions to a real problem. Many people only can identify the problem but are lost when looking for a way out. I would love to hear more from you.
After acouple of bitter experiences..I have started to adopt ur method..it really really helps..
Thanks madam you are changed my lifestyle with meditation classes and your motivational speeches I always humble for you.. Thank you very much madam.. 🙏🙏
It's my pleasure🙏🙌
U r a humble soul n teacher should b like u only
Very nicely said madam. I will share this with my daughter who is 23 years old and is sometimes upset in the company of toxic Freinds.❤
This is a very very important message needed for this generation. Thank you for sharing. All this comes only with experience.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏maam U are God for your observations. 95% of ppl are like this and family and friends...and only if you are blessed you meet that 5% good souls!
Wonderful video.
What you mentioned happened repeatedly to me and it took lot of time and anguish before I eventually decided to keep distance from such people and not to have any good expectations at all from them. Not very easy to get such a realisation in our mind specially if the issue relates to close family but we have to be firm that our peace of mind is more important than anything else in our life.
After listening this beautiful lady with sweet voice my mind is free from toxic thoughts and now feeling amazing and more strong❤
How sweetly you have explained the scenarios, practice to live life 😊.
Much love 💕 n thanks 🙏
👏Thankyou Devika -Ji for Sharing your BLESSINGS to the World. These are Real-issues faced in a Human Life. GOD🙏Bless You, Family & work each New-Day.🇮🇳👍😀
Hi Doctor. Thanks for these great tips and advice. Much appreciated. Don't know how the video referred me here. But I'm thankful. Not an Indian origin, but I got this same experience with an Indian friend, which really hurt. The same thing as you explained happened, and now he's ignoring and replies in a blunt way. Unfortunately for the trust that the person gave to me, I opened too much which I'm regretting but as you said, yes now I'm in the healing journey as I can't show any arrogance to the party.
Your words are really empowering. I was very empathetic. My own family members took me for granted.
Now i understand how to deal.
Thank you so much for sharing
You are so sweet Mam instead of listening to you I see your charming face because my face is having black spot I feel my face should be like yours Thank you so much God bless you 🙏❤
Thankyou,Maam,You explained so well,it's true ,almost everyone is corrupt in this Kalyug......so true .......really positive talks
Very good lessons we get from you Mam.
Many many thanks to showing right path and help us to recognise the cunning and toxic people
Use your mind not your heart ! It's difficult bur just a little mindfulness can make you well equipped to deal with those toxic people and their agenda...
Best way is to have a purpose mentor who can fill your mind with all goodness and value 😊
Mam listening to your words we feel like listen to mom , like feeling coming amma❤😊☺️☺️🥰🤗🙂😌😊🤗
Hi ! Mam, This video actually helped me in dealing with certain issues I am facing in my life.
Thank you 🙏🏽
All we need is just good company, be nice to each other. Once you vibe with the right person, take it to the next level. Touch is very important to connect with people. A pat on the back, a hug or a simple "How are you, did you eat?" For the last hundreds of years, people have forgotten all this & all they dream of is just materialistic things. If you take a step forward and express your niceness genuinely, others think that you are weak. Seriously fed up of all this but such is life. At least we all die alone anyways so no point in socializing when you are alive.
Only toxic people will think kindness as weakness........and do we care about toxic people.....not at all ........care about good people......they won't take your kindness for granted
@@Blueberry-111jk I have always cared about people thinking they are good, however they turned out to be bad
Greetings ! Friends ,relatives aside ..your own sister or husband behave in such manner ..then it becomes extremely difficult .
But then it takes some time to realise ,and then you take action..like Mam said .
Because ultimately you aredraining your mental and physical energy thinking about these people .
The utmost important thing is to take care of yourself and learn how to behave with an alert mind and be aware...with these kind of people .
AGREE 100% with you Mam.
A fact that that there is a loving God watching,noting down all things,there is a judgement for all the actions helps us to stay on right path irrespective of others ways.if u can read book of Psalms,Job in online Bible you will see the conversations between God and humans
Your words and voice are working like medicine for me
Glad to hear that🙌
Thank you so much for guiding us ma'am... the world is full of toxic people... now they will not disturb our life... Thank you once again..
Stay blessed always 🙌
I felt what you said is absolutely true mam. Your Mantra is really the need of the hour. All Indians are brothers and sisters. We should respect and help each other, but at the same time we need to be maintaining decorum and limits of depth in any relation except that of parent-child relation.
That's why our elders say: Matra Devo Bhava, Pitru Devo Bhava, Acharya Devo Bhava, and then God. Only these 4 entities are our true well-wishers. Jai Hind mam
Aapse ek maa vali vibe aati hai, or aap samajhate bhi aise ho like we are your children and you are our mother. Thank You for such a content. .
Jai Shri Ram..
Stay cool & Stay blessed always 😊🙌
I identified my mother as a toxic person. Her words are always negative. I am not able to work from home. Whenever I left home for work, I used to be happy and more active at work. She always find a victim to curse on daily basis. She always find a way to fight with me or my younger brother on daily basis. It feels like torturing us mentally. She always make sure the tasks that we do daily must be executed according to her rule book. After death of my father, most of our relatives stopped to keep in touch with our family. I am not able to handle the situation mentally
Give some moral books to read
U r very correct mam, since I need to face them, interact with them throughout my life....I'm unable to focus since last 8 yrs.
Thank you for your support. Please make more such video on handling people because these is also a kind of disease which can be cured with your guidance❤
Ma'm your video has given me an inspiration on how to deal with toxic people.These people are sadists who take pleasure in hurting others.But we should ignore them.
Very Informative video...I want to ask to you...How to protect yourself from toxic people when they are continuously harming you in all kind of ways
Now I got Ur Guidance to Avoid Toxic People
Thanks 🎉🎉😊
A.ARULMOZHIVARMAN
Tirumangalam
I relaxed with your words mam. I have bitter incident but now okay.. Thank you lot
Stay cool always 🙌
Thank you very much madam for your advice. These are vey useful for every one especially for working women who exposed to different people and get easily hurted by those people. This is nice guidance to face these people easily. I remembered my mother when I listen these words. Thank you madam.
It's my pleasure 🙌
Ma'am really very nice video in today's world the way u have explained is so real , really needed this kind of advice thank you souch and God bless you ❤
It’s extremely hard to deal with close relatives manipulative, can’t go away from them
Yeah, some people are defenceless, some people are voiceless.....whereas some are senseless, creepy. Such creepy people exist even in some powerful positions.
Go No Contact. Learn about Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
True... Impossible to react because lived ones will be hurt... And difficult bto tolerate.. They make us go mad with their talks and thoughts.. We don't give it back to them because of our upbringing and education.
@@seetahariharan4089 Learn to stand for yourself. Internally don't get triggered,Just leave them. When you are in a toxic relationship, To leave the relationship becomes your dharma, because then only your soul will fulfill its true objective and live up to its true potential.
Toxic everywhere , don’t runaway but since it has worst consequences if u break then best is ignore and pay attention to your health and carrier, respect everyone no matter how bad they behave . But you do right thing and ignore others anger and dominant , ego behavior. Go up above and blossom like lotus . It will not make any difference in you decide how others behave.
Spot on 🥰. Thank you dear mam. 💖
Trust God. Writing journal helped me immensely to clear my mind. And being careful about my mental diet has helped me🙏
This is precious to everyone 🙏
Am going through heart break now,I really feel empty but am glad I listened to you this night, thanks ma
Take it easy & move on.
Stay cool alw👍🙌
Thank you so much అమ్మ
Devika Maam!!! Honestly you are absolutely ravishingly lovely , beautiful, highly talented and skilled and kind hearted, honest, and simply terrific,fantastic,wonderful and above all DIVINE!!!! I worship you doctorji!!!!!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for your kind words, stay happy always 🙌
In my career, most of colleagues(new joinees) tried to degrade my work, tried to manipulate my thought process by pointing out my mistakes to compete me. Unfortunately they succeeded and got the promotion. Results of being nice guy in office.
Don't worry, but remember always be alert with those guys & need to be smart in this competitive world.
Past is lesson, good luck 👍🙌
So true maam. When you distance yourself from negativity beautiful things happen
very important subject.thanks
easy to understand- very difficult to categorize - as the minute you categorize- people start saying your judging/suspecting them. That puts person in stand alone situation.
Hello Mam, Really Mam this video helped me a lot. MY mother & my siblings their mind always fluctuate. NOW I am 50. My kids r grown.. I am unable to bear.
How do you handle them. I have been experiencing no matter how much I do for grand kids, help them physically as much as I can. But they manipulate and lies lot. I m extremely tired
Hello mam, from my childhood I tried to be too honest, my daughter only like this, not she is 20 who hurts me lot, always fighting and ego, arrogant, I only should always bend, what to do, my mother and sister are same like her only, when ever I scold my daughter she go to there house, so i can't open my mouth at all, just tolerating, my husband is good person.. We both facing lots by this, please reply
@@sandhyashastry2741pls look into source of problem! Is it difference of opinion or a personality disorder
Also never let others pamper your kids particular when they do something wrong !
Consult a psychologist and see if counseling helps
Mam what you mentioned is right...No point being hurt rather be happy that their true colours are seen...
Grateful thanks ❤for your practical guidance. God bless.
It's really very helpful ma'am. I have suffered through a very very toxic friend of mine who falls in the second category that you have mentioned. It has ruined a part of my career. Once again thank you ma'am. 🙏❤
Cunning and toxic people are most paapi and karma returns to them, they become ill or meet accident after some time
Thank you Maam .. you really gives me relieve from worries about this toxic people. You talked about my mother. God bless you 🙏🏽
Sorry "You talked like my mother" ❤
From by childhood iam very innocent after education i have to mingle with society everyone is clever means cunning....god grace i am blessed found guru vedathri maharishi later i got osho i read many books and then only i have clarity about humans and life.....upto now osho is my guru.......i keeping my innocence my self that will give me all goodness ❤❤....
thank you so much mam for telling like this you are telling like my mother nice to hear you mam
Knowing human psychology is must! People behaves accordingly. We should work on our body language, correct responses. In short, we should know how to become a good driver, so that in need, we will able to start, pause, stop, re start turn and slow down ahead whenever needed.
Namaskar.Your videos are always useful to me mama ,pl continue posting new videos
Madam , as you asked about followers response , ______^ it's live guidance I just experienced. It's better keeping distance from these people but again your strategy of not showing anger or favor is bestone.
Thanks a lot for wonderful dialog,
Thanks maam for nice video. You have reduced my anxiety ❤
You’re most welcome 🙌
Absolutely my God ma'am you spotted our real problem, and litterly solved our problem's.😂🎉
Yes I hve learnt my lesson madam.
Good job! 🙌