You're more of a hustler than a failure sis because you make money moves BEFORE your ship sink instead of waiting until you're drowning in debt or homeless...I admire you for that, keep your head above water, God helps those who help themselves because God's wisdom is your lifesaver 💜🙏💜🙏
Don't call yourself a failure. I was you 20 years I took care of my kids as a single mom. Working crazy jobs and hours never having enough even with child support. The kids see your efforts God see your efforts and you will be blessed. ❤❤ Keep pushing.
I tried to get child support for my kids dad for a while but he works under the table to avoid paying us so I get where you’re coming from it’s hard. Your time is coming love keep pushing!
He wouldn’t see those kids until he started paying. It’s one thing when a parent has legit fallen on hard times, but to intentionally avoid helping your kids? I’ll never understand or support it.
Keep pushing on, God will make a way. I’m a single mom and For the last 16 years, every job I had I basically had unlimited overtime. My focus was taking care of my household, it was tough sometimes but God kept us. I thank God my kids are almost all grown and He saw us through those dark times.
That’s actually a very terrifying way to think because this life is temporary and eternity is forever. This life should be taken seriously, and there is a certain standard we must go by. Accept Jesus Christ into your heart right now and receive eternal life and life more abundantly. He will supply all of your needs. God bless.
Ms Lady Continuing with this channel and the gig work is already a fultime job No need to add stress to your life with a 9 to 5 that takes time from your children and won't even cover the cost of your rent Anyone who thinks that you are not already gainfully employed is either stuck on stupid or blind as a bat I'm so proud of you ❤ Continue to grow your channel You got this 😃
Its so awesome that you can get on here in your time of transitioning and be a beautiful and positive voice to encourage others. May all be well with you and God is going to bless you dear. ❤❤
I’m so happy you are going back to school. I hope it’s for LPN. If so, maybe you can go for your RN, BSN, etc. You will definitely be able to provide for your family with those opportunities.
Don’t you ever call yourself a failure again. The way you take care of them kids and go get that bag by any means necessary, you are more of an inspiration!
I have had terrible jobs. Terrible. One job I was told I wouldn’t have any call but two days after I started I was told I now had to take pager call. So I quit. I have had jobs where I was promised a certain shift but after I started my shift changed. I have had to stay well past scheduled time bc staffing shortages. I have been lied to many times. If you are planning on going in healthcare to do Ultrasound you will regret it. I work in radiology and I’m planning to open my own business in 1-2 years. I’m currently a travel rad tech and let me tell you some of my contracts have been hell ! There are some states that are cheaper to live in. I would say stay out of certain parts of New York , stay out of California, Florida etc. day care is super expensive. I don’t know how people even afford that anymore
Totally understand where you’re coming from girl! I’ve been applying for jobs for several years now gone through multiple interviews for the most basic type of jobs. It’s exhausting and even when you get one finally - their expectations are you do three peoples jobs for way less pay. Then you can’t even pay your basic household bills without an extra job or side hustle on top of that
America is still one of the greatest companies to live in. Every country has its fair share of problems. And, we have the power to change our circumstances.
@ You have a right to your opinion and if it works for you, God bless you but yea while I am grateful to still be able to survive here, I am tired of survival mode! I know every place has its share of challenges, fully aware but as for me America has nothing to offer me in order to thrive here! Be Well!
The Lord say everything will be ok in the end if we keep faith even if it’s the size of a mustard seed. Don’t let the darkness weigh you over. Faith is our key to unlock doors we can’t even see yet🙏
Best video yet. That is what is up. As long as you keep fighting, you are not a failure. I knew you would come around. I am so glad you are going back to school. Good luck to you!
You got this girl! You’re taking the steps to better your situation and like you said you haven’t given up. That alone is proof you will come out great in the end❤
It’s wild that you get the most engagement when you post videos like these. The world is such a cruel place gota do what you gota do to get the big bag 💯
Sister, do not lose hope. Your situation will improve. Keep praying and continue to praise Allah for whatever you currently have. "So truly where there is hardship there is also ease;" Surah Ash-Sharh Ayat 5 (94:5 Quran). Allah is "Al-Muqeet", "The Sustainer". He gives strength and nourishment to His creations and maintains all that exists.
Thatd how I feel iam tired of these low pay jobs so I decided to do some trainings in healthcare field I need more money I just want to be able to make money and be able to do what I need to do for me and my children
A lot of things should not be the way it is. But that is how it is. For instance a family needs stability and 2 incomes unless one parent can pull in big bucks. But in your case you are on one income and caring for your kids single handedly. You just need to do what you need to do to pay your bills, so if gig works for now just do that. Getting a full time job may not be the best option for everyone.
I think that’s it’s wonderful That you’re going back to school. I had wanted to mention that to you but I decided not to. And of course I don’t know what medical field you plan on entering but from what I understand it does not take too long to become a phlebotomist and I hear the pay is decent. One more thing, are you on any subsidized housing lists? Because I know rent is so expensive everywhere and I commend you for taking such good care of your children. 😊❤
Hey, Lady!❤ Just keep posting and doing gig work! We are here for you. I try to watch every video you post all the way through, and I comment regularly. I wish you all the best in your school endeavors, too!🌻
I am with you on the daycare thing. I don't have kids but if I did, I would not trust anyone to take care of them. It's a bad, bad world. Good luck on the whole job situation. Praying God comes through for you 🙏
I'd also supplement the education using Alison alot of their courses are free and I've earned a few diplomas and certifications from them. All courses were quality and they only taught the essential information in each difficulty level. As for categories there's law, healthcare, trades, Ai skills, coding, cyber security, and alot more.
Its harder to do it as a single parent. The family unit working together and building together is a key role in a stable life. The man and woman both work and pay bills.. life eventually becomes easier in time. Black nuclear families are always the better choice.
who says that working a job is the “right thing” jobs are not for everyone i haven’t working a job in years and im doing fine working for myself. do what works for you
I blame the prices, the government, and Joe Biden for all this crap. I think it's stupid that Gen Z has to start out working 3 jobs in order to live in a place by themselves. I ain't working no 2 or 3 jobs personally. I'm 23 I don't give a fuck. I was told to work one 9 to 5. Or go to college and get a 9 to 5. I don't care. We not failures out here, we're doing only what we can handle and manage.
Hold on to the job. Work gig work around the days you work. 6 days at the job, 8 days doing gig work. Hold on to what you have until you have a guaranteed replacement.
When I was a young girl ( a long long time ago ) my momma told me the samething about turnips So I went and got me a man who made more than I did. I drained him good. You know why ???? He wasn't a Turnip . I don't mess with Turnips 😉
I feel you on the gig work stuff! I'm wanting to leave my "regular" job for gig work... I feel like it'll be so much less stressful since I'll be working for myself. I worry about the taxes though. Do you factor so much of your paychecks to save for tax time or what would you suggest for that time of year? Thank you!
@@northwest5334 I’m not sure how it works for people without kids but my taxes always balance out I’ve never had to pay anything back when I file and I have a bunch of write offs when I file my gig work
have thought about working in health insurance it pays well for entry level and you work from just apply directly on the websites not indeed like highmark , united healthcare , aetna, etc
Have you thought about being a para? or Behavioral tech? They pay good and because you work with children it is good pay, consistent hours and you can get your 40 hour RBT while working and then take your boards exam.
2 Timothy 3:1-5 explains that we are in the last days of this world as we know it and we are experiencing “critical times hard to deal with” so sadly we are to expect this hardship. The good news is that is is the LAST days. It will be over very soon. This system is crumbling fast and Satans rule is almost over (1John 5:19, Revelation 12:12) . Seek our loving creator Jehovah God to be part of his righteous new world where suffering wont exist. Psalms 37:10,11,29 ❤❤❤
CNA is pretty quick and they ALWAYS need them. HHA is another one. It's a start 🤷♀️ Idk if they still do tuition reimbursement but you can always ask. Google also has $300 certification programs. I'm actually going to do one in 2025. A lot of these jobs, you only find out word of mouth or through the grapevine. Worth a try tho.
@@CEDL4072 that’s one of my credentials have applied for hundreds of jobs already I’m done with that work nobody is paying enough for me I’m going to school
My next year plan is to get cna and go back to community college for adn. Nothing pays well and if it does you're fighting to get it. There seems to be too many people looking for work and alot of those people have kids too
@keke9310 I never said it wasn’t hard for other people. I make my videos speaking my mind and what I’M going through, not other people. I didn’t make this channel to talk about other people.
Toxic positivity exists... you are not making excuses and you are not being dramatic. You are telling the TRUTH!!!! The truth will not get many views or much support.
Yeah just move! You crazy? People where are we gonna get money to move! Made a whole video on it These jobs are not jobs people would work even if they had to. People don’t get it. I’ve had one interview one job offer no hours yet
@@MissLovely88 yea I’ve been ona waiting list for About 5 months now, someone told me to try to get on in a different area then I’d be able to switch to my area. I haven’t looked into it yet though
She is soeaking the truth . Its tough out here trying to find the right job that can provide what you need.
You're more of a hustler than a failure sis because you make money moves BEFORE your ship sink instead of waiting until you're drowning in debt or homeless...I admire you for that, keep your head above water, God helps those who help themselves because God's wisdom is your lifesaver 💜🙏💜🙏
Definitely not a failure, we are all supporting here. Keep on the grind
One thing for sure I learned is never, ever put a job above yourself or your kids/family. They don’t care about you and will replace you in a minute.
Correct get the money and go home.
Work is WAR. Treat it like a rock stay solid to yourself. They don't care about you.
@ 💯💯💯💯 absolutely
Keep the camera rolling so you can get your check! We are here to support you 🖤
@@SoulDxpe I second that! I try to watch every upload and let the video play through.
I agree girl do your thing
Don't call yourself a failure. I was you 20 years I took care of my kids as a single mom. Working crazy jobs and hours never having enough even with child support. The kids see your efforts God see your efforts and you will be blessed. ❤❤ Keep pushing.
I get that completely, my 5yo is autistic and I’ve never put him in daycare, never will. I don’t trust people.
I tried to get child support for my kids dad for a while but he works under the table to avoid paying us so
I get where you’re coming from it’s hard. Your time is coming love keep pushing!
He wouldn’t see those kids until he started paying. It’s one thing when a parent has legit fallen on hard times, but to intentionally avoid helping your kids? I’ll never understand or support it.
This is much more common than people think! I pray your situation improves.
If he can’t prove he’s paying child support, he ought to be in jail.
If he doesn't care if they eat, he probably doesn't care if he sees them. @peachygal8856
@@peachygal8856Um girl! That man doesn’t care to see those kids. 😂
Going back to school is a very good idea. Good luck on your journey.
Just gotta hold on until your breakthrough comes
Keep pushing on, God will make a way. I’m a single mom and For the last 16 years, every job I had I basically had unlimited overtime. My focus was taking care of my household, it was tough sometimes but God kept us. I thank God my kids are almost all grown and He saw us through those dark times.
I'm very thankful for my job and don't take it for granted. I hope things get better for you quickly.
thats why i dont take my life or job seriously. i just have as much fun as i can till i die.😊 im tired of pleasing people and getting nowhere.
That’s actually a very terrifying way to think because this life is temporary and eternity is forever. This life should be taken seriously, and there is a certain standard we must go by. Accept Jesus Christ into your heart right now and receive eternal life and life more abundantly. He will supply all of your needs. God bless.
Ms Lady
Continuing with this channel and the gig work is already a fultime job
No need to add stress to your life with a 9 to 5 that takes time from your children and won't even cover the cost of your rent
Anyone who thinks that you are not already gainfully employed is either stuck on stupid or blind as a bat
I'm so proud of you ❤ Continue to grow your channel
You got this 😃
God has something bigger for you love! Hang in there love it will get better❤. I’m so proud you girl!
Its so awesome that you can get on here in your time of transitioning and be a beautiful and positive voice to encourage others. May all be well with you and God is going to bless you dear. ❤❤
Thank you ❤️
god got you
I’m so happy you are going back to school. I hope it’s for LPN. If so, maybe you can go for your RN, BSN, etc. You will definitely be able to provide for your family with those opportunities.
Everyone does not want to be a nurse
@aleshathomas7053 okay so this comment wasn’t for you. It was for Markeisha. Keep your negativity to yourself.
These jobs aren’t it. Do what you have to for your family❤
I commend you! Dont leave your kids with just anybody. The only person i left my son with in 10yrs is my mother
Don’t you ever call yourself a failure again. The way you take care of them kids and go get that bag by any means necessary, you are more of an inspiration!
For real!
Say it again!!
Australia 🇦🇺 same atm. We work and never enough to cover all the bills or food. Your not alone ❤
The world needs people like you markiesha
I have had terrible jobs. Terrible. One job I was told I wouldn’t have any call but two days after I started I was told I now had to take pager call. So I quit. I have had jobs where I was promised a certain shift but after I started my shift changed. I have had to stay well past scheduled time bc staffing shortages. I have been lied to many times. If you are planning on going in healthcare to do Ultrasound you will regret it. I work in radiology and I’m planning to open my own business in 1-2 years. I’m currently a travel rad tech and let me tell you some of my contracts have been hell ! There are some states that are cheaper to live in. I would say stay out of certain parts of New York , stay out of California, Florida etc. day care is super expensive. I don’t know how people even afford that anymore
Totally understand where you’re coming from girl! I’ve been applying for jobs for several years now gone through multiple interviews for the most basic type of jobs. It’s exhausting and even when you get one finally - their expectations are you do three peoples jobs for way less pay. Then you can’t even pay your basic household bills without an extra job or side hustle on top of that
Been waiting on new videos from you for 11 years.
America is sad! Can’t wait to pack up my family and leave soon! Hope things get better for you and your kids! 🙏🏾
America is still one of the greatest companies to live in. Every country has its fair share of problems. And, we have the power to change our circumstances.
@ You have a right to your opinion and if it works for you, God bless you but yea while I am grateful to still be able to survive here, I am tired of survival mode! I know every place has its share of challenges, fully aware but as for me America has nothing to offer me in order to thrive here! Be Well!
The Lord say everything will be ok in the end if we keep faith even if it’s the size of a mustard seed. Don’t let the darkness weigh you over. Faith is our key to unlock doors we can’t even see yet🙏
Best video yet. That is what is up. As long as you keep fighting, you are not a failure. I knew you would come around. I am so glad you are going back to school. Good luck to you!
You got this girl! You’re taking the steps to better your situation and like you said you haven’t given up. That alone is proof you will come out great in the end❤
It’s wild that you get the most engagement when you post videos like these. The world is such a cruel place gota do what you gota do to get the big bag 💯
these hit harder because people wanna hear doom and gloom
I pray something will work out for you better working 9 to 5 get paid every 2 weeks not have enough money to enjoy yourself but pay bills it sucks!
You have the right attitude and you will succeed when your breakthrough comes it will be in time 🙌🙌
Keep push girl. You got anything that comes your way 💪 you're a great mom ❤
G-d bless you gorgeous, praise Him in advance as your breakthrough is coming, glory hallelujah 🙌🏽
I remember when i started my Door Business years ago ..i was just like u...now 55 im making between $20,000 to $50,000 a month....keep going dont stop
Thank you for sharing your testimony. Hang in there 😥.
Sister, do not lose hope. Your situation will improve. Keep praying and continue to praise Allah for whatever you currently have. "So truly where there is hardship there is also ease;" Surah Ash-Sharh Ayat 5 (94:5 Quran). Allah is "Al-Muqeet", "The Sustainer". He gives strength and nourishment to His creations and maintains all that exists.
Thatd how I feel iam tired of these low pay jobs so I decided to do some trainings in healthcare field I need more money I just want to be able to make money and be able to do what I need to do for me and my children
Appreciate you n your inspiring words!!! Skin sick beautiful!!! Bless
A lot of things should not be the way it is. But that is how it is. For instance a family needs stability and 2 incomes unless one parent can pull in big bucks. But in your case you are on one income and caring for your kids single handedly. You just need to do what you need to do to pay your bills, so if gig works for now just do that. Getting a full time job may not be the best option for everyone.
I invited my Uber driver to a Christmas party of four. Don't feel bad. Happy holidays
I think that’s it’s wonderful That you’re going back to school. I had wanted to mention that to you but I decided not to. And of course I don’t know what medical field you plan on entering but from what I understand it does not take too long to become a phlebotomist and I hear the pay is decent. One more thing, are you on any subsidized housing lists? Because I know rent is so expensive everywhere and I commend you for taking such good care of your children. 😊❤
Praying for you to win ❤
Hey, Lady!❤ Just keep posting and doing gig work! We are here for you. I try to watch every video you post all the way through, and I comment regularly. I wish you all the best in your school endeavors, too!🌻
ur failure speech is so motivating
Hang in there. 😥 sorry you going through this.
i understand that when you speak about it people get offended because they’re programmed to think a job so the only way to survive
Yep, it's tough. Í have applied to every job that I can think of and I can't find anything
The job market is tough so I hear.
Thats why I moving back to the midwest
I am with you on the daycare thing. I don't have kids but if I did, I would not trust anyone to take care of them. It's a bad, bad world.
Good luck on the whole job situation. Praying God comes through for you 🙏
Keep going!! You got this!
I hope everything works out for you.
I'd also supplement the education using Alison alot of their courses are free and I've earned a few diplomas and certifications from them. All courses were quality and they only taught the essential information in each difficulty level. As for categories there's law, healthcare, trades, Ai skills, coding, cyber security, and alot more.
3:52 yes, the biweekly and semi-monthly pay needs to go away. Should be paid weekly
Some of these daycare I wouldn’t send my dog to
Its harder to do it as a single parent. The family unit working together and building together is a key role in a stable life. The man and woman both work and pay bills.. life eventually becomes easier in time. Black nuclear families are always the better choice.
That’s why I wanna get out of the u.s I’m thinking Mexico City
Hi, could you do a video on how much TH-cam pays you in a month? You inspire me to start a channel
I know how you feel. I worked jobs where I would work hard and barely made enough to support myself. These jobs are not it
I couldn't open your "Good morninng" video. Some companies are shady. If they feel you need them, they will take advantage. ❤❤
who says that working a job is the “right thing” jobs are not
for everyone i haven’t working a job in years and im doing fine working for myself. do what works for you
I blame the prices, the government, and Joe Biden for all this crap. I think it's stupid that Gen Z has to start out working 3 jobs in order to live in a place by themselves. I ain't working no 2 or 3 jobs personally. I'm 23 I don't give a fuck. I was told to work one 9 to 5. Or go to college and get a 9 to 5. I don't care. We not failures out here, we're doing only what we can handle and manage.
Hold on to the job. Work gig work around the days you work. 6 days at the job, 8 days doing gig work. Hold on to what you have until you have a guaranteed replacement.
Dont nevie ever call yourself a failure!! U got out here,u didn't make excuses u trying many dont
Its just this sht economy! I have a government job and it's still hard to pay bills and live life smh
Good job, Markiesha. You are getting a recession proof certification
Keep pushing 💪🏽❤️🙏🏽
As far as child support, you can’t get blood from a turnip. That’s what my grandmas used to say. Things will get better
When I was a young girl ( a long long time ago ) my momma told me the samething about turnips
So I went and got me a man who made more than I did. I drained him good. You know why ????
He wasn't a Turnip . I don't mess with Turnips 😉
Shyt daycare is a truck note today.
Facts 💯
1200 per month it's crazy
I feel you on the gig work stuff! I'm wanting to leave my "regular" job for gig work... I feel like it'll be so much less stressful since I'll be working for myself. I worry about the taxes though. Do you factor so much of your paychecks to save for tax time or what would you suggest for that time of year? Thank you!
@@northwest5334 I’m not sure how it works for people without kids but my taxes always balance out I’ve never had to pay anything back when I file and I have a bunch of write offs when I file my gig work
Try Yellow saphire gemstone for jupiter planet money might help.
Facts!!!!!! Wow!!!
I was in the same situation.
Great news about school.
have thought about working in health insurance it pays well for entry level and you work from just apply directly on the websites not indeed like highmark , united healthcare , aetna, etc
How do you get certified in that?
@ you dont need ceritification just a high school diploma and customer service experience also computer literacy
I fking hate jobs id rather do Uber eats homeless working on growing a business
Child support 😅 is a joke. System that’s broken 😞
the job market is cooked keep doing your youtube
Have you thought about being a para? or Behavioral tech? They pay good and because you work with children it is good pay, consistent hours and you can get your 40 hour RBT while working and then take your boards exam.
I wanna be in the medical field just not caring for people, i wanna be more in the backgrounds
@Markiesharenee92 ok,
I understand... Keep pushing. You got this!
Girl let me tell you the job I got was to start tomorrow what happened to my schedule? Crickets 🦗
Daycare is 🐂 💩
Omg I haven't seen ur videos in forever! What happened? I thought I unsubscribed by accident. But this is a new page?
@yes it’s a new channel . Hi 👋🏿 ☺️❤️
Girl the bottom line is go to their father s. For help!!!!!!
@@beatricetatum She has, but they can’t help.
A job that offers a split shift would be ideal.
2 Timothy 3:1-5 explains that we are in the last days of this world as we know it and we are experiencing “critical times hard to deal with” so sadly we are to expect this hardship. The good news is that is is the LAST days. It will be over very soon. This system is crumbling fast and Satans rule is almost over (1John 5:19, Revelation 12:12) . Seek our loving creator Jehovah God to be part of his righteous new world where suffering wont exist. Psalms 37:10,11,29 ❤❤❤
CNA is pretty quick and they ALWAYS need them. HHA is another one. It's a start 🤷♀️
Idk if they still do tuition reimbursement but you can always ask.
Google also has $300 certification programs. I'm actually going to do one in 2025.
A lot of these jobs, you only find out word of mouth or through the grapevine.
Worth a try tho.
@@CEDL4072 that’s one of my credentials have applied for hundreds of jobs already I’m done with that work nobody is paying enough for me I’m going to school
My next year plan is to get cna and go back to community college for adn. Nothing pays well and if it does you're fighting to get it. There seems to be too many people looking for work and alot of those people have kids too
@markiesharenee92 do you have experience in medical billing? There’s some 1099 jobs available with a company called PMD.
Life if hard for everyone and not just you… figure out what works for you and your children and make it happen
@keke9310 I never said it wasn’t hard for other people. I make my videos speaking my mind and what I’M going through, not other people. I didn’t make this channel to talk about other people.
It's called finesse
I can’t get over how much you look like this other vlogger name Simone Nicole.
lol I get that a lot . 😊
🙏 ❤️
Toxic positivity exists... you are not making excuses and you are not being dramatic. You are telling the TRUTH!!!! The truth will not get many views or much support.
Yes ma'am you going to do great things ❤❤❤
It sounds like that job did the bait and switch on you!… which is unfortunate. Keep looking for other jobs! Focus on the gig work. You got this!
Glad I’m childfree😂
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Yeah just move! You crazy? People where are we gonna get money to move! Made a whole video on it
These jobs are not jobs people would work even if they had to. People don’t get it. I’ve had one interview one job offer no hours yet
Its hurubble. 😃
❤❤❤🙏🏿🙏🏿
Have you heard about Walmart sparks delivery? They pay better
@@MissLovely88 yea I’ve been ona waiting list for
About 5 months now, someone told me to try to get on in a different area then I’d be able to switch to my area. I haven’t looked into it yet though