Honestly Veronica, I live in Northern Ireland and I find elements of your findings in the US also applying here. So much of young people's lives seem to revolve around the acquisition of more and more "stuff" ( homes, cars, holidays etc) driving higher debt and need for second jobs. I'm 61 and retired now and it took me years to realise that the secret to a happy life didn't lie in an expensive bottle of perfume or designer shoes. I hope the young ones learn quickly and kick our consumer society to the kerb. Loving your videos. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective and experience from Northern Ireland. It's fascinating, yet sobering, to see how these consumer trends resonate across different cultures and continents. Your insight about finding happiness beyond material possessions is incredibly valuable, especially in today's world where there's so much emphasis on acquiring more. It’s a powerful message for all ages, and particularly poignant for younger generations navigating the pressures of consumerism. I'm glad to hear you've found contentment in simplicity, and I hope your reflections inspire others to reevaluate their priorities and find their own paths to happiness. Thank you for your kind words and for being a part of our community-I'm thrilled you're enjoying the videos!
I visited Ireland for 10 days back in ‘95 or ‘96. Bounced around to different bed and breakfasts. Talking with one of my hosts I said it was nice to see all the made in Ireland stuff, low prices and the quiet country atmosphere with low hustle and bustle. She told me they had just passed a bunch of laws that would effectively make them just like the USA in a few years. I guess she was spot on in her analysis……
@@jetsengoytredkl that timeline sounds absolutely spot on. Looking back, it was a huge sea-change in people's expectations and house prices, car prices etc took a really big hike, along with salaries (not quite to the same extent though).
That part came from Ireland on the boat over, way back when. Now it's bigger. Mix in other countries and Trump who looks for all the historical "bad" and puts it on the top.
I’ve been living in the USA for last 17 years and so much has changed for the worst. It’s socialism for the rich and capitalism for the poor. A lobbying system based on protecting and promoting corporate and foreign based interests is unfair and unjust and should be outlawed. I believe this is one of the root problems we have.
Capitalism works great when people care about each other. But as it matures that sliver of evil in people comes out and greed is good. The U.S. is falling apart from within. We have 11 aircraft carriers but the small amount of rich are owning and controlling more and more . Americans can't afford the lifestyle that was prevalent in the 1960s and 1970s. Corporations who lobby politicians are causing so much harm to our society because of greed. The U.S. is toast
In the 1950s if a politician were caught taking bribes the shame was so intense generally they would unalive themselves. Now politicians brag about all the money they get from bribery.
The people who control the system are the ones who benefit from it. They will never change it or relinquish power willingly. None have throughout recorded human history for the most part. Only nationwide striking and unification of the impoverished and working class until the system collapses will bring about change. Alternatively revolution is much better, given the chances of the former happening.
capitalism ended with the central bank, then got worse with the removal of the gold standard. You can't have a capitalist system in existence when the people aren't in control of their own money supply. A foreign bank pretending to be a USA owned bank by calling itself the "fed" is the problem there. Inflation didn't exist until that thing was brought into play and given control of our money printing, which is supposed to be under the treasury, not them.
There's a REASON for that. It doesn't take much to become homeless. It doesn't take much to be bankrupted of your life savings. Most people are living paycheck to paycheck - and one or two unexpected emergencies back to back can do it. The Republicans are brainwashed into thinking these people are mentally ill and/or drug/alcohol addicts. Blame the victim mentality. The fastest growing segment of homeless is elderly women. Just like years ago a rape victim would be doubly victimized by the "system" - she "deserved" it because she was wearing a short skirt. Sure, there is some of that (homeless BECAUSE of drugs/alcohol)But to be honest I think that one would become mentally ill, if they weren't before, trying to survive the streets And if I were living under a bridge in the freezing cold I might want to "numb' myself too. Both emotionally and physically.
There's this thing for American homeowners called property taxes. You'll pay them even after paying off the home. If you don't you'll lose your house. Americans pay property taxes till they're gone and in the ground.
Most Americans stressing about money are a hell of a lot better off than over 2 billion people on earth. I'd say we're doing something a little better than settling for working for $2 a week.
@@darrell_dee97 how much is this tax? I'm not American so it's interesting to me. What kind of percentage you gotta pay for your own property each month?
@@TheAleksandros Its complicated but mostly it depends on the state and city laws but mostly the value of the property. I pay $4k a year for a small house in CA. Others could pay more than double that for the same house size but in more expensive neighborhoods in CA or other states. Americans are obsessively worried about money because life is too expensive here and they need to survive independently especially when the rent/mortgage takes 2 thirds of their pay checks now days.
Retiring comfortably in the US these days is almost impossible. I'm planning to retire at 59 in another country outside the US that is free, safe and very cheap with a high quality of life and good healthcare. Here in the US more people might face a tough time in retirement. Low-paying jobs, inflation, and high rents make it hard to save. Now, middle-class Americans find it tough to own a home too, leaving them without a place to retire.
The cost of living keeps going up, up and up!! Rising prices have affected my intention of retiring at 62, working part-time, and building my savings. I'm worried about whether individuals who weathered the 2008 financial crisis found it less challenging than my current situation. The stock market's volatility, coupled with a reduced income, is making me anxious about having enough for retirement.
I completely agree; I am 60 years old, recently retired, and have approximately $1,350,000 in external retirement funds. I am debt free and have very little money in retirement funds compared to the total value of my portfolio over the past three years. To be honest, having a portfolio-advisor for investing is genius! What I figured out years back what that with proper guidance, we can predict some of these situations and take advantage of them. Have you considered seeking the help of a financial advisor, the are vital towards retirement planning.
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When you age you NEED preventative care. It's almost impossible to get it. Because America is all about exploitation and theft and exponential profit. I know a LOT of older Americans that simply LEAVE because they have the means to escape this corporate monopoly hellhole.
the system elevates/incentivises the former at the expense and suffering of the latter. The system increases the number of those people that exploit others.
I live in Portugal. The people are kind, friendly and helpful. You don´t see trash on the freeways or roadways. Free healthcare. The cost of living is way lower than in the States. It´s a beautiful country with great weather. The pace of living is slower. Couldn´t be happier.
I was in Copenhagen last month. Had a really nice chat with a barman. I tried to leave him a tip, like I would in the US. "That's OK. It's not necessary. I get paid enough", he said.
That experience in Copenhagen highlights an interesting cultural and economic difference between many parts of Europe and the U.S., particularly regarding the tipping culture and wage standards. In Denmark, like in many Scandinavian countries, service staff are often paid a living wage, which reduces their dependence on tips for their income. This approach can lead to a different service dynamic, where tipping is viewed more as a gesture of exceptional gratitude rather than an obligation or necessity to ensure fair compensation. This aspect of Danish society reflects broader social policies aimed at ensuring a higher minimum standard of living for all workers, which can be quite a shift for visitors from countries where tipping is ingrained in the service industry. Sharing experiences like yours helps illustrate how different economic systems directly affect daily interactions and societal norms. Thank you for sharing this insightful encounter!
In Europe, we're not obliged to give tips. Unless you want to give. Each person has his salary. With 35 hours of work per week, it's more than enough to live.
Most Americans never leave (North) America. I live in South America and support a family of 3 on $1,500 USD per month. Our health insurance costs less than $75 per month. I was hospitalized for a week last year and it cost me less than $50. The care was excellent. We don't own a car, because everything is easily walkable, and if we need to go farther a taxi costs less than $5. Most Americans have a huge cost of living only because they don't know any better. Explore the world. It's better than you think!
@@joejoe9973 I try not to share my choice a lot online, but I speak English, Spanish and German. I don't think I can handle adding Portuguese. If your wife speaks it, or she has family there, it might make a transition easier. I never met anybody who regrets retiring earlier than usual. If I wasn't so happy where I am, at this point I might investigate Argentina. They haven't quite turned the corner, but things are looking very, very promising.
In Russia, people live on a salary of 400-600 dollars per month, and in villages on 250-300 dollars. The salary of 1.500 (2.000-3.000) dollars per month is for oil and gas workers who work in shifts in Northern Siberia.
The worst part is the people working hardest are getting the least remuneration for their efforts and then shamed in the media for not taking more hours, more work despite the poverty wages. 40% of people in work need state support. That’s a reflection of greed not poor work ethics by working people. This is being done by design, by greed.
You've highlighted a significant issue that resonates deeply across many sectors and regions. The disparity between effort and remuneration is indeed a profound problem, where those who labor the most intensively often receive the least in return. The additional burden of societal stigma regarding work ethic only adds to the challenges faced by low-wage workers. Your point about the systemic nature of these issues is crucial-it suggests that the problem isn't about individual failings but about structural inequalities that benefit a few at the expense of many. This setup perpetuates a cycle where the working poor must rely on additional state support just to make ends meet, which isn't sustainable or fair. Raising awareness and pushing for policy changes that ensure fair wages and dignified working conditions are essential steps toward addressing these injustices. Thank you for sharing this perspective-it’s an important contribution to the ongoing dialogue about economic equity and social justice.
I agree with you 100%. Since 911 I've awoken and realized that America is the vessel possessed by the Devil. All things Greed and driven by money while health comes last. Truth is America is the worst place on earth as a developed country. It could have been a true utopia but the system needs to be abolished and changed drastically. All it does is constantly creating division, toxic (slow poison), greed (monopolization) destructions around the world due to it's deceptive ideology. At the end of the day I loved America but I know for a fact it could have done much better but it chose not to.
Charlie Munger said "greed is not the problem, envy is". i think this is more accurate. we need to honestly look at ourselves on what / why / when / how we are spending our money. people keep complaining they are broke, but have the money management skills of a 2 year old. learn what a minimalistic lifestyle is. neighbor has a red ferrari? dont be envious. you don't NEED to compete with anybody with your money. learn money management skills first. envy is the problem.
The insular culture of the US is a big part of the problem, isn't it. So many people just don't know much if anything about alternatives, so they have no real perspective.
At my last corporate job, my trainer said "well we spend most of our lives at work so we should be investing in it" and i was just crushed at that sentence. An 8hr day is really a 10-11 hr day. A 12 hr day is more of a 14-15 hr day. Getting up and coming home from work to enjoy your 3-4 hours to yourself or with your kids is insane to me. Then be let out for a "48 hour break". I feel like my kid is being raised by daycare. Im usually too mentally drained from work to do anything productive or marginally fun when we get home, and still i have about 2.5hr to cook dinner and get in the bed...🙃 we place so much value on our job titles but most people hate their jobs. People say dont make friends with your coworkers outside of work, but theyre usually the only people youre around consistently for 8+hrs every single day. Its crazy to me.
Yeah I had a trainer who when asked about an earning a six year promotion faster said “don’t worry, the years fly with this job. You’ll be there before you know it!” 😬 that’s not how I like to talk about my years
exactly! and if you speak out against this regime or reduce your work schedule people call you lazy, unmotivated, slack, unambitious and the list goes on....
Regarding health care, I've only been hospitalized once in my life. It was in Russia, while I was working there ten years ago. Out of habit, I refused to seek medical help until the situation was pretty dire. I was afraid of what it might cost. When I couldn't even keep water down, and was dizzy from dehydration, I finally went to the international hospital, as they spoke English there. I explained that I couldn't afford to be admitted. They asked me why I was talking about money when I was so I'll. They admitted me. I had a private room, overnight, where they gave me an IV drip and several medications. I was seen by a doctor, and checked on throughout the night. In the morning, they served me a huge ( beige) breakfast to see if I could keep food down. I could, and so they sent me to cash out and go home. The cost? $70. And they gave me the options to pay in installments if I needed to. And that folks, was at the "expensive" hospital. If they can do this for a visitor, why can't we do it for our citizens?
Друг,мне в Москве сделали криоабляцию от мерцательной аритмии,по квоте.Ты не поверишь -бесплатно,на самом новом оборудовании ,в городской больнице с красивым дизайном.Питание,уход,лекарства- всё бесплатно,по соц.страховке от государства.
One of the main things I hate about living in America is the greedy healthcare industry. Almost every other country (even less developed countries) have either free or affordable healthcare. The richest nation in the world somehow can’t afford to solve this issue, and it’s always a big political debate. The hospitals, health insurance companies, and pharmaceutical companies all profit together while the rest of us try not to lose our jobs so we don’t lose our insurance. Our system is a joke.
@@luna498-h5z Well, you're getting into a number of different problems; it's not just greed First, insurance companies, Ph@rma, and US Government run a triad racket against hospitals, which also have a large level of administrative bureaucracy themselves. This changed during Obamacare when Doctors were no longer allowed to manage the internal affairs of hospitals as a (conflict of interest). Which is ironic because all these Business Admin majors are running it into the ground with pump/dump business strategies. Second, the US has the largest health crisis on the face of the planet; by far. CABG (coronary bypass) and cancer treatments take the cake; now it's largely turning into child-hood cancers as well. The demand for healthcare is exceptionally high compared to the rest of the world. Third, the US Government has a very particular series of patent laws unlike any others in the world). Averaging roughly 38 years of exclusivity in market sales from their conception. The reason you albuterol is more expensive than in (say) Canada is because there is a major US retailer that has a patent and partnership on plastic inhalers. The albuterol is wholesaled with the inhaler and your domestic price reflects that. Fourth, you have a supply shortage of medical professionals to the demand of patients. Fifth, Medicare is running it's own racket with Insurance and Pharma. They don't negotiate product pricing for domestic US medical-grade products; so manufacturers can charge whatever they want. Therefore boosting product cost and insurance coverage. Also, insurance laws in the US are rather dirty. For example, they are actually required by law to (not disclose) a discrepancy price between a generic product and an insurance co-pay. So if the generic product is cheaper than the insurance co-pay; they won't tell you. You have to do the math for yourself.
German here who’s been living in the states for 11 years and I totally agree. Everything here has to make profit and a lot of it. When people in one of the richest country on earth need to set up a go fund me to help them pay for their (oftentimes life saving) treatment, you know something went terribly wrong. Life in the states feels pretty much like hustling all the time to make more money which we spend on more crap that we don’t need.
I spent some time in Southern Italy over the summer in some small medieval villages. No anxiety. No depression. Community and connection. Totally different culture and totally different results!
I had the same experience. It's a good feeling when people actually respect someone's personal space. Americans are either really competitive. Or they genuinely agree with it.
I agree with you 100% I live in Canada and I have many American friends. And the only people that are complaining about our healthcare system is the Americans they’re always telling me how bad my system is and the long weights, etc., but I have had cancer twice Had treatments surgery. I am over the cancer and it didn’t cost me any money. Everybody deserve to have the right to healthcare not just the elite.
Americans for the most part have insurance to cover something like cancer. You wont loose your home, unless you have no insurance. BTW, those without insurance, mostly dont own a home. And they can still get treatment.
The Canadian healthcare system is prioritized based upon need and urgency. I have a good friend who was diagnosed in July 2024 to be in need of a surgical knee replacement and her surgery is scheduled for mid-February 2025. She has pain and mobility issues, but her life is in no danger. In the meantime, she is provided with medications for pain, a cane and walker for mobility and physiotherapy. She also has free homecare for cleaning & maintaining her home and for other small tasks such as transportation to appointments and grocery shopping. My wife, just a few years ago, following a routine mammogram, was provided with a diagnosis of breast cancer on a Thursday afternoon. Over the weekend she attended the hospital for half a day for blood work, an MRI and other pre-surgery testing. She was in surgery at 6:00 AM on Monday morning for the removal of the cancer from her right breast, along with removal of 14 lymph nodes from her chest and right arm. Within a week following surgery, she was referred to Princes Margaret Cancer hospital for almost daily visits for chemotherapy, followed by radiation treatments over the course of 60 days. My wife is cancer free for several years now and the total cost of medical services was ZERO. There is only one complaint that I here often from Canadians about our hospital system and that is that parking at most hospitals can cost up to $30 per day.
The Canadian healthcare system is prioritized based upon need and urgency. I have a good friend who was diagnosed in July 2024 to be in need of a surgical knee replacement and her surgery is scheduled for mid-February 2025. She has pain and mobility issues, but her life is in no danger. In the meantime, she is provided with medications for pain, a cane and walker for mobility and physiotherapy. She also has free homecare for cleaning & maintaining her home and for other small tasks such as transportation to appointments and grocery shopping. My wife, just a few years ago, following a routine mammogram, was provided with a diagnosis of breast cancer on a Thursday afternoon. Over the weekend she attended the hospital for half a day for blood work, an MRI and other pre-surgery testing. She was in surgery at 6:00 AM on Monday morning for the removal of the cancer from her right breast, along with removal of 14 lymph nodes from her chest and right arm. Within a week following surgery, she was referred to Princes Margaret Cancer hospital for almost daily visits for chemotherapy, followed by radiation treatments over the course of 60 days. My wife is cancer free for several years now and the total cost of medical services was ZERO. There is only one complaint that I here often from Canadians about our hospital system and that is that parking at most hospitals can cost up to $30 per day.
It didn't cost anything? Do you not pay taxes? Yes, you do pay taxes, so no, it wasn't free. The difference may be in the way the Canadian government prioritizes revenue. America spends a lot on defense, and nowadays, even more on interest on their colossal debt.
I was growing up in the 80's . Life was better , less stress, better weather, better tv, better music , people talked and we had community . Im not saying life was perfect , but it was better ! Its all gone now 😢 Regards from 🇬🇧❤️
OMG I could hug you! YES, the eighties. I met the love of my life. No FN internet nor cell phones. I was hoping they were optional now they're forcing AI on us. We have no say in anything. The music, mood, movies, weather, everything. We are supposed to feel closer with big tech? It's more devisive than anything and when you can be hacked from a scum bag on the other side of the world--it's a failure.
I left the United States 14 years ago. I recently returned and was shocked about much the USA has changed. I realize that change is a part of life, but these changes were shocking. It was so shocking that i decided to leave again, but this time i wont return. The America i used to know, no longer exist.
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 you will address me as a cat. I identify as a cat. When I meow you will take care of me and etc. But if you know this country has turned into a game you'll know how to play it instead of being played.
Yes! The US economic/labor systems are laughable and exclude huge parts of the population who no longer participate or work. Try getting a job at age 55 and see how you like the US, while having cancer and no health insurance but the useless VA.
I am a US born and raised citizen. I've been saying for at least 20 years that I don't belong on this planet, maybe I just don't belong in this country.
The USA is not a country, it is a market, everything is related to money, it lost it human values sadly. Life is not having but being, just have a lit,e trip in Canada to see the difference. I salute your courage to express your observations.
I said the same thing back in 2008 when I moved to Australia…not a society, just an economy! I thought that Australia was what Americans are brainwashed into thinking IT is!
Impossible. I mean, try and try, but it won't change, because the majority of people want a politician or a superhero to save them from themselves. As much as I LOVE comic books, superheroes don't exist in real life. Want someone to save you? Save yourself. Don't be lonesome for your heroes, be your own hero, (Haight-Ashbury SF) and that's requires a level of personal maturity and introspection that just flat out DOES NOT exist, and I doubt it ever will among the common American. I'd wager money on the country completely devolving into a Third World hellscape over people daring to question the God that is their own ego. A revolution of the mind sweeping through the masses will be the ONLY thing to save this country.
That will be a big start. But don't bet any money on that happening soon. It will take a French-style American revolution to make any real changes, and with Orange Jesus coming into power who is totally corrupt, don't bet on any improvements under his watch.
@@helena20000I went to Costa Rica. But now we've had an influx of North Americans and they are changing everything. This used to be a foreign country and now it's either a red State or the 11th province of Canada
I am Italian. Over the past 30 years, my mother has had: 1 thyroid tumor and her thyroid removed, 1 skin tumor, 1 breast tumor, and various problems with her esophagus. Now my mother is 89 years old. Over the years, she has spent very little on treatment, and she currently spends about 10 euros a month for a massive amount of medications. In the USA, my mother would have died 30 years ago. This alone is enough to understand that the United States is not the greatest democracy on the planet. Sure, we don’t own an SUV as big as an aircraft carrier, and we don’t have a house as large as an entire neighborhood, but we’re happy nonetheless.
Problem in US is that corporate criminals get away with murder and other countries prosecute criminals. Plus people think owning expansive junk means they are happier/ superior?
@@TheMkarr Greedy, or envy? "The love of money is the root of all evil". There are people who don't have 2 dimes to rub together who are committing that sin. They hate to see someone with more luxury than they have. Yeah, their broke, because they will never have enough.
They work and work for all of this stuff, and become miserable when they realize it doesn't make you happier. The things you own, own you, in the end. My ex wife is guilty of this, she works and works to maintain the house she kicked me out of and I spent $20,000 on, but she's not happy because she's trying to keep up with the Jones'. The thing that makes me puking sick is, she used to make fun of people like that, and became one as soon as her sister did. Then they try to justify it with "Oh well everyone likes nice things." Yeah, purchased in even flow, not you trying to live outside of your means because someone else you know has it.
I've never been interested in getting my credit up in this country because I know for a fact, I can't afford to retire here, so when I get older I'm taking my butt somewhere the exchange rate is friendly. Live off of my retirement in a country where I actually can.
I'm 66 and live in a one bedroom apartment for $450 a month. My neighbors are elderly and/or disabled. We have a lovely little building and help each other out when needed. This is Greenville NC, but still, I was very lucky to find it. I don't have a car. Don't even want another one. I have an ebike and it gets me where I need to go.
Where in the world did you find that rental? My son and daughter-in-law live in Greenville NC and couldn't find anything under $1700/mo that wasn't in the more dangerous areas of town.
Those in the USA I have one word for you. Boycott! Boycott all those billionaire businesses, boycott everything you can. I guarantee you it won't take long to get these businesses to straighten up.
Lol, says the person using youtube -- owned by Google, one of the biggest of the billionaire businesses. Boycotts are limited in their capabilities in a land of monopolies.
Businesses to straight up? I think you mean boycott the FED? Just by essentials and don't waste money on corporations if it means that much to you. Americans have always been obsessed with materialism; I don't think it will change any time soon.
@@pb8797 - I appreciate your heart. I'm not anti-boycott, but to assume that how you participate in a broken system will somehow fix the system is reductive. Boycott should be a tool in a multi-faceted campaign that includes protest, education, demonstration, lobbying and legislation. It may also come to revolution, and I pray it's peaceful and driven by the people.
These businesses at that point sell out to foreigners and that's when they get ultra greedy. Coke, anhiserbush. Too prime examples especially anhiser. Just because they keep a few American workers employed doesn't mean they didn't retool the machine to bleed them dry.
Absolutely, there's profound value in embracing simplicity and decluttering both our physical and mental spaces. Living with less not only frees us from the physical burden of too many possessions but can also lead to a more focused and appreciative outlook on life. It's inspiring to hear that you've found joy and contentment in a more humble lifestyle. Your experience could encourage others to reevaluate their own living habits and consider the benefits of minimalism. Thank you for sharing your insights-it's always enriching to hear how different approaches to life bring fulfillment and happiness.
@@tgriffin3059 It's called putting the thought out there so others give you feedback and you can confirm you're not crazy, because sometimes, you feel like you're the only one going through it and it's nice to hear others confirm, "No you're not crazy, this country is, and we all are going crazy because the people in power try to sane wash the insane asylum." Then it trickles down when regular citizens start parroting "Everything is fine." While their economy crashes every 15 years and the American middle class becomes a distant memory. I don't understand the logic of "coming to a public forum to brag about it" so you need to be rich to afford to post on TH-cam? If you'd have thought about that comment for a bit and repeated it to yourself, it would have revealed it wasn't the "Gotcha" you thought it was. Delete this comment now, because Americans CAN'T STAND hearing an opinion that's not just an echochamber. Why Reddit is such crap.
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Yeah, people living beyond their means is definitely what broke me and my ex wife up. We were fine when we lived in an apartment and trailer, but as soon as she wanted to buy that house, we broke down. Not that it was the only factor involved, we ignored the fact for years that we weren't like each other (COMPLETE OPPOSITES and not in the fun way). Living more simplistic is good, I mean if any one in your life says to you "I can't be around you, you're too poor." then those people weren't meant to be around you.
One big thing I've noticed about Americans but not just them is the idea that your quality of life is measured by what you own rather than a person's level of happiness.
That's a pretty big generalization. I grew up poor, have lived much of my adult life under the federal poverty level (as have many friends I grew up with), and we base our quality of life on time with loved ones, meaningful experiences, etc. Not what we own or don't own. This is true of much of America; perhaps not the citizens you have personally encountered, but it is true for many of us.
True...but try telling them that they are always in DENIAL about everything and will result to name calling,Ad hominem attacks and other shaming tactics.
I was born in US but grew up in South America. I went to Engineering College in Rio de Janeiro and I didn’t pay a dime for it: I got free food (not the best) free dorms (just ok) & free books! Brazil it’s a 3rd world country but they have Universal Health Insurance. I never paid a dime with doctors. They treaded my gastritis, my broken toe & my dermatitis for free! US it’s the only developed country in the world without Universal Healthcare. If you need private healthcare insurance in Spain you will pay around $75 per month and no need to pay meaningless $50 copay or any extra medical procedure expenses. Here in US you have to give tips to waiters. Also the food quality it’s awful. There are several items here that are strictly prohibited to be sold in Europe. The BBQ is tasteless and you have to put sweet sauce. The pasta in expensive restaurants are not fresh or made from scratch (it’s all Barilla). The pizza is fast food / not gourmet and its cover with can tomato sauce. The sodas have too much gas and have too much sugar. The corn syrup it’s VERY dangerous. The corn is all GMO. Thanks to my Catalan grandparents I got a Spaniard Citizenship as well so I’m moving to Spain in few months. After Trump winning a second term I’ll never call my self an American anymore. Adios!!!
The U.S. doesn't score in the top 10 when it comes to freedom, happiness, health, education or safety, but most Americans just assume that they are number 1.
I wish I knew what the exact percentage was. I’ve never thought that way myself. Ironically, Americans will say this without having travelled anywhere.
"Citizens United" created a plethora of dark $$$ in DC in support of lobbyists who legally procure political votes in favor of modern-day robber barons & corps who hate paying taxes & fight even sensible environmental & safety regulations. The rest of us in the non billionaire class have no voice and no power.
To solve all of it eliminate money altogether. No one can rule over you then. The sooner mankind goes back to the old ways the better we all will be. We have free energy, housing, food and water before the last reset
@@appalachianflute2222 So how would that work? Would you be willing to work for free building houses, writing software, designing circuits, making concrete, etc....? And how many resources should you be allocated from the system? How much should you work? What kind of training and what kind of work should you do?
Part of our tragedy in America is that we have no humility. None. We think we have all the answers. A look around would easily disprove that assumption. Our love of ignorance blinds us to the fact that some other countries have a few good ideas that we could learn from and adopt, too. The first step toward solving many of our problems is to stop being so full of ourselves and learn from others.
@@kathleenpolly2219 In capitalism on steroids "they" have a vested interest in keeping us mis-informed, controlled, manipulated, and cult mentality. They discourage any critical thinking skills. They consistantly convince too many people to vote against their own best interests
From the US, I live in Sweden now and it’s pretty nice, no stress really. I get 32 days vacation, health care not to mention walkable or bikeable neighborhoods. Plus it’s all just so gorgeous!
I'm 55 and planning to move in 6 months...Part of my problem is letting those material items I paid so much for, to let go for pennies on the dollars. But I'm ignoring the peace of mind of just letting go.
When I was stationed overseas, I noticed the pace of living was much, much slower and cheaper, and it took me awhile to un-stress, especially from the constant bombardment from the media. Yes, we have amenities-like air conditioning-foreigners don’t have but at what price? The helter-skelter pace of living in America is insane.
Me too. In SE Asia, women are still feminine, they actually love and respect men. Utterly shocking, the difference from Western women. The result? I, most men return the vibe. I love and deeply respect my Thai woman.
The system here is now predatory. With no one to govern the out-of-control corruption, it’s gotten worse over the past half century and, barring a major upset, there will be a catastrophic economic collapse.
Way to go, Veronica. At 60, I sold, gave away, threw away just about everything. Kept just what I loved and needed. And quit work, to do what I wanted. That was 13 years ago. No one ever lay on their deathbed wishing they had spent more time at the office. X
Well said! Some folks have saved and invested for their retirement only to have a medical event that wipes out a majority of their savings. Seniors really need to be protected more. How the heck, can these folks be taxed and struggling with health bills. Yes, there is something totally wrong with our system here in the USA. The rich just keep getting richer.
The 1% and upper-upper class of America own DRASTICALLY more than the lower, middle, and upper class. Look at the charts. It’s WAY more than even a liberal guess. It’s absolutely crazy, and ought to be fixed.
The government is owned by the corporations via Lobbyists. Every law seems to create a racket for them. Every law beats down the little guy. Every law excludes the little guy. Every law puts all of these together, with the goal being more and more and more money for the top players.
Our local state barons and county aristocrats lying "elites" (that is in reality themselves) conjuring scapegoats emotionally manipulating the smaller populations are a hundred and ten percent in on all this too. Lets stop pretending otherwise. It's the "trickle down" crime syndicate grifters and minions all over the place fabricating a fake "national 'reality'" perception to only their benefit
All these massive shopping malls that have been deserted should be transformed into senior living facilities with their own medical centers within. They'd also be able to have small retail shops for them to stroll by on their indoor walks around the malls. Year round exercise
What an innovative and practical idea! Repurposing deserted shopping malls into senior living facilities could address multiple issues simultaneously. It would make use of existing structures that are often centrally located and easily accessible, provide much-needed housing for seniors, and incorporate health and retail services to create a vibrant community space. The concept of having medical centers and retail shops within these facilities would not only be convenient but could also foster a sense of community and keep residents active and engaged. Plus, the indoor environment would offer safe, weather-proof walking areas, which is a fantastic perk for year-round exercise and socializing. Thanks for sharing such a forward-thinking suggestion-it could indeed transform both the landscapes of our communities and the lives of many seniors.
Being “ the best country in the world” creates the idea that there is nothing more to improve. I am from the Netherlands, it is not the best country in the world but we are inclined to keep working towards that goal. We will never reach it, but in the mean time things get better.
I’ve always felt sorry for the North Koreans, being told how great their leader and land is, but now I see we, in the US, are being fed the same type of crap and believing it.
Your comment highlights a crucial aspect of critical thinking and the importance of questioning the narratives we're presented with, no matter where we live. The comparison you draw between overtly controlled information in some places and the subtler, perhaps more insidious, influences in others is thought-provoking. It's a reminder that staying informed, seeking multiple sources of information, and maintaining a healthy skepticism are vital for making well-rounded judgments about our leaders and the state of our nations. Encouraging open dialogue and education on these topics can help build a more informed and discerning public. Thank you for sharing your reflections-they underscore the ongoing need for transparency and critical engagement in any society.
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Both awesome comments. It all boils down to education. The less educated people are, the easier they are manipulated. They do not start questioning stuff and just follow what they are told.
I think it's exactly opposite you people seem to be all indoctrinated by your college educations . You do what you're told when you're told how you're told . You are going to look great living in the soviet-style apartment building wearing the nice grey suit @@gloofisearch
I’m a naturalized American from Germany. One of the richest countries in the EU. Trust me when I tell you, that it is absolutely possible to live a good life in the US as long as you’re not falling into the fake societal trap. Opportunities are sheer endless and you are probably freer than in other countries. That Americans are in so much debt is because of their consumerism. No one forces you to buy anything. I’ve bought a manufactured home 8 years ago on 5 acres of land for $148k and people looked down on me and still do even though I have no debt. My Ex called my home a “shitbox”. There you can see the twisted mindset. The house with land has now quadrupled in price. My car is 10 years old and drives like a charm, I run 3 businesses and all are bringing income. I live in my means and always have time for myself. Germany though has for everything a rule. Not easy to start a business and lord have mercy, when you step out of line. You are giving about 50% of your paycheck to the government. In return you get healthcare and a very mediocre retirement. Germany looks good from the outside but never ever would I go back. People only have to change their mindset, Be frugal, don’t spend more than you earn. Educate yourself cause education in the US is not the best. Step out of the matrix and a good life IS possible in this wonderful country. The mindset that when you’re old you’re sick, is mainly an American thing. My granny who survived two wars made it to 95 and worked until one day before her death in her small grocery store. Eat healthy as much as you can. Exercise and get fresh air. Americans unfortunately have the tendency like Germans, to do everything wrong and then complain of how bad everything is. I love America and its people. Is it hard here? Yes, no doubt but when you do your own thing, contentment is possible.
Yeah people like you who are independent and do your own thing can always survive anywhere. No doubt about it.But the majority of people Can't do anything on their own and have to work for the man and turn out to be slaves.
I'm sorry that your ex could not share your ability to see overspending or getting most of $ It really begs to wonder at least to me " am I that different " Like lady in video says I don't need a ton of space. Even my dog can make due. It's a mindset like you allude to
I just retired bought a mobile home on 4 acres in Georgia paid 75000. Needs some interior work. Nice Harley nice pickup truck. Most people won't go this route. Live simple. They can't do it !!!
I hope we all know that it doesn't matter who is in the 'top job' because this is a systemic problem -- greed. We have allowed many of our economic sectors, to take advantage of the American people. It's disgusting and frightening for the future of our country. My husband and I will be retiring in the next two years n another country. We are absolutely worried that SS! will no longer be funded. we'll have to rely on his pension, a 403 (b) and a very prolific Investment account with Stephanie Janis Stiefel my FA. Our national debt is bloating and expanding every month. Our government needs to get spending under control and cut the federal budget.
I know this lady you just mentioned. Stephanie Janis Stiefel is a portfolio manager and investment advisor. She gained recognition as an employee of neuberger berman; a renowned investor she is. Stephanie Janis Stiefel has demonstrated expertise in investment strategies and has been involved in managing portfolios and providing guidance to clients.
I’m planning on moving to Thailand in the next 5 years if trump’s government doesn’t do anything with the high prices of groceries and taxes What about you??
The problem of the us is that is full of greeding, and is getting Worse and worse. Every time is more difficult to buy a house and the rents are tremendous high payments
Look what happened to me. Catastrophic quad bypass and 3 strokes four years ago. I had 2 jobs and sold my art. Boom. Lost almost everything. My 69 year old sister saved me from becoming homeless and dying in the street. Seriously
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Yes it is and there are those that believe if we say anything bad about our country we should leave. Thinking they are real patriots it is not patriotic to deny the problems this country has. No country is without failures, but to deny them is to never fix anything. I for one love our country and see it being trashed and that is maddening and I want to see change!!!
Which country are you talking about? Europe is made up of about 50 different countries, all with their own culture and customs. Untrue generalisation about tipping being an insult.
I have not experienced that in Europe. Also, I have found that tipping in the US is far from a guarantee of good service. So, I would not miss tipping if it went away. Businesses should pay their workers appropriately, period. F tipping culture.
Retired in Thailand, living comfortably on less than $500 a month. Renting a small condo with security, gym and 50-meter pool. Everything I need is within walking distance, including a beautiful 4 mile long beach across the road.
i am watching US from Serbia. Now... most Americans dont even know where Serbia is but most also "know" that it is a bad place... but from what i saw (my father in law lives in Florida) online amd offline... i am sorry but i would never live in the US. my kids can go outside and play unsupervized, they go to school or shops on their own. our schools are better, our hospitals are cheep and fast and efficient... the worst thing here is birocracy. we own our homes (i own a house and an appartment... no rent and no bank... just mine)..we have almost no homeless people. it is very strange to be in 2024 in a third world country and thinking i have it better than my peers in the US
Здраво! I wouldn't call Serbia a 3rd world country. It's clearly more developed than that. As a Russophile myself I'd gladly visit and live at least temporarily in Serbia. To me the life there seems pretty good in its own right. Happiness is to some degree a choice. The happiest years of my life were in Russia when I lived there from 2014-2023. Already sick of the US again.
You are very wise. I live in Eastern Europe now too and when I tell people where I’m from they think I’m insane for wanting to live here. They don’t know the reality of living in the US or west anymore. And the illegals are taking over everywhere. At least here there is a sense of community and shared values.
I'm American living in West Africa in a place nobody thinks about. People here are super nice and helpful. Life is affordable. The food is great and much healthier. There are no guns. And it's always warm.
Australian here. I said to an Uber driver, why not go back to Fiji and live a stress-free life? He and his Australian wife were thinking about it. However the health system there is bad if you don't have money. His sister-in-law was only in her thirties and could not afford dialysis and died.
I’m got out too and live in Eastern Europe. The people here are great and the country is beautiful. You can actually afford to live a decent life and not everyone is obsessed with $ and status, the type of person you are is what actually matters. I do miss the US sometimes but I don’t think ai can ever go back there now.
Caveat your statement with, "For now...I'm American living in West Africa..." Things change and that Constitution will come in handy! So will guns for self defense. I do agree America is going through a huge change where people are choosing to be a country again. We just did so in the election. We are also on the precipice of a QUANTUM tech leap only 1-2% of us are ready for. Live like you are eternal but also live like today is your last day.
When I was a teen, I went to Europe with my girlfriend and her parents. I'm so glad I was blessed. Once you leave the country, and see how other people live, you really see this country for what it really is. I'm 48 and I completely agree with you. Thank you.
The biggest problem with Europe is the EU which is a power craze drive for over regulation both economically and politically and is anti borders allowing thousands of illegal immigrants to cross over into France, Germany the Netherlands as well as the Mediterranean and Eastern European countries which is having a very negative effect on those countries at the moment not mention here in the UK even though we are no longer part of the EU.
@@jayrobthorn6847 Leaving the EU actually increased the numbers of migrants coming to the UK only now we don't have the right to send them back across the channel.
@@jayrobthorn6847 Well said brother, Media won’t tell you these stories, EU is a dump now, for anyone who don’t believe or completely brainwashed by media and Politicians,Go to Paris,city of love! And Open your eyes…There is not much love anymore..
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Vero, i totally agree. I was raised in Puerto Rico and Spain. And lived in the USA for 3 years and half. Not going back to the states
My top 3 culture shocks after moving to the USA: 1/ The medical system is absolutely monstrous. It is so expensive, inconvenient, complicated and pointless that I couldn’t believe it. You have to really, deeply hate people to create and defend this system. 2/ The quality and standards of home construction. This is a shock. Houses made of OSB boards, internal walls made of two sheets of plasterboard. This is a mockery, not a house. A movie set. The quality is incredibly low, and the price is incredibly high. 3/ Urbanization in the USA is at a very low level: car-dependent suburbs with no infrastructure, public transportation, public areas. A very unpleasant place to live. Where in the USA they managed to create some semblance of an average European town, the cost of houses immediately flew through the sky.
The people that defend it do so for political reasons. Not one American has convinced me that their health insurance model is better than universal health care
I've heard from people who've built homes in the US and in Russia that they don't have real windows in the US, that there are absolutely no good, quality windows to be bought here, and those who know the difference and have the means import them from Russia. I mean, how pathetic is that.
Americans like to say “well your waiting times are through the roof” or “your health care system is multiplayer” what ever that means. At least patients are on a list, where as in America they can deny claims effectively removing patients from waiting lists. At least in the U.K. patients can go private if they want or stick to universal health care if they want. In the U.S the premiums are so high that universal health care looks like a bargain. You break your leg in America without insurance you could end up bankrupt which is unheard of in the U.K.
@@lardarseG1. Healthcare providers can be sued for arbitrarily refusing to cover people. They cant just do whatever, whenever they want. 2. 92% of americans have health insurance. 3. Universal healthcare is not a bargain. If you have universal healthcare and pay 20% in taxes just for your healthcare, you pay that every single year, say you make $60,000 a year, and you have absolutely 0 medical issues, thats $13,000 you just paid that year in medical bills for NOTHING. In the US, it will average you a few $100 (insured) to a few 1000 uninsured to fix a broken leg, only the time you break your leg. That is clearly inferior. 4. No, the premiums are not that high, and not at all if you have good healthcare here.
It's nice to see someone from America not trying to either justify or be an apoligist for all the things that the majority of the rest of the world finds odd, at best, or, in the main, simply abhorrent. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
I spoke with one tourist. I have never visited the USA. We had just invited him home. We are just a normal middle-class family. When he came and saw our family culture, he got emotional, gkt tears in his eye's. It's a regular way of life for us in India to be in such a system. He was in his 30s but still missing family values. He said family culture is totally broken in the USA. So then I realized the USA is not what they show in Hollywood.
Yeah. It’s quite unfortunate. Once the kids get themselves a car to traverse the concrete landscape, they’ll move out, see their family on the holidays if at all, then the parents get sent off to random facilities for the last of their days. Often they will be sedated.
@@autumn111155551ya marriage makes money not a family. Americans were indoctrinated long ago after the assassination of Kennedy. The gold standard went bye bye. Bush blew up the towers. Tax cuts for the rich. No more kids with stay at home parents. They also took away God and Jesus and believe in magic. Ya magic! Idk bout you but I've never manifest something from nothing.
@@k1ng_chicken For a child to be a proper adult they have to be on their own. I dont care if its cardbox with lights, they have to have their own after 18. I've met many adults who still live with their parents past 23. That is not right, especially for men.
Why is it better to have your wages enriching a bank or a landlord, than living with and supporting your family and your legacy? Doesn't it make much more sense to live with your family until you get kids and a significant other? Living with your parents economically sound and logical. If you are just a drain, thats different. But if youre at home, helping with expenses, paying for yourself, saving whenever you can for your future, you and your family are all better for it. The only real reason to move out other than having too many family members of your own is literally due to having a toxic and abusive family.
I have family in the US (Florida) and even went to high school in the US for a year as a teenager, and one thing I've learned is that in most Americans it is embedded into their minds from early childhood that money = success and success = money. In reality, though, you can be absolutely free, content and happy as long as you have enough to just pay the bills and put food on the table. That's genuinely all you need. Wanting more than that is most likely a sign of insecurity and/or a misunderstanding of how the world functions.
European living in the US here. I was quite shocked to make the same observations after having been indoctrinated with American propaganda for decades. It is SOOOO capitalist here that people just care about money. Money money money and consumerism on steroids. Everyone has few cars here and a big home and is in debt because of it. But at least they're living it up right? Well, you could take that view. But being a European, I know the other side. It is much less consumerist in Europe. We don't feel like we are missing out on life because we can't drown ourselves in little toys like 10 TVs in the house or a big diesel truck and so on. It is much more pragmatic and we focus on our quality of life. Good health care free at the point of use. Good work life balance due to strong unions fighting for us and federal laws preventing employee exploitation to the degree it is seen here in the US. We don't live in big houses and own that much but our lives are less stressful for it. We don't drown in debt for it. At the same time life is cheaper because of it. US salaries are unheard of in Europe. My wife is an MSL making $160k. The same job in Germany would yield about $80k max. And because life is cheaper you actually get more for it even though it's half as much as the US equivalent. I really feel life is just a rat race here in the US. It is SOOO consumerist and everyone is in debt or has medical debt. People are taken advantage of by employers. You can't even have a baby and stay home for 2 years and get paid like you do in Europe. When we had our son my wife was back at work after 3 months. That's a massive joke. I constantly have to fight my employer over off days or sick days for doctors appointments. They always try to scare me but I don't care. I tell them, look, I take this day off and if you don't like it fire me. In Germany, when I needed a day off, it was my god damn right. They have to give me days off so they just do it before they fight me. It's seen as a right so it isn't fought. Yes they would like to fight it but they can't that easily. I had one employer try that and I went straight to court and won. That would not have happened here in the US as I wouldn't even have had any ground to stand on legally. US employers can fire you for anything they want. You look at them wrong and they'll let you go and you can't do nothing about it. Everything is structured so you are beholden to your masters which are the rich and wealthy who own the market.
Australian here. We seem to be caught between two cultures. Housing has become unaffordable. Most couples are on a treadmill to pay their mortgage. Plus, conservative governments have run down public schooling. The other option is expensive private schools drowning in government money. The one down the road built an aquatic center worth 25 million (10 years ago). It still has massive fees. Unlike Norway, we give our natural resources away to foreign companies. Also, the heads of corporations are paid scandalous amounts. The heads of our corporations are mediocrities who got there through being able to network. The brightest and best go into law and medicine. I had a major operation in our public health system, and it was great. However vested interests are chipping away at it.
The issues you describe are the result of a lack of actual capitalism lol. The government prints money and devalues everyone's wealth. The rat race never ends because the rich sit near the money printer.
You are soooo spot on. When I grew up(the 60's 70's) there was no homeless. Any job could support you. Any job could pay rent. If someone would have told me then what life would be like in this new world I would have said you were crazy. Now, NOTHING is normal anymore. You're right - we've been brainwashed to think a lot of things. Capitalism can become a very cruel system. Corruption and greed is norm now. There's a REASON we have a mental health crisis in this country. We have been spiraling down. If we don't turn things around where are we going to be 10-20 years from now?
Thank you for your thoughtful response. It’s clear that you've witnessed significant changes over the decades, and your perspective sheds light on how economic and social shifts have impacted daily life. The issues you mention, like homelessness, job security, and mental health, are indeed critical and reflective of deeper systemic problems. Discussing these challenges openly, as we are here, is a crucial step toward understanding and hopefully addressing them. It's essential to consider where current trends may lead us and what actions can be taken to create a more equitable and sustainable future. Your concern and insights are a valuable part of this conversation, and I appreciate you taking the time to share them. Let's keep this dialogue going and work together toward the changes we hope to see.
I feel your outrage. Until big corporate money and gerrymandering is outlawed from politics, the special interests of the rich and powerful will continue to dominate and concentrate wealth. The Supreme Court allowed super PACS like citizens United to donate unlimited capital in support of special interests and most recently, the Supreme Court found that the main federal anti-corruption statute proscribing bribes to state and local officials does not criminalize gratuities, which the Court described as “payments made to an official after an official act as a token of appreciation.” This ruling basically legalizes bribery. So when you as a citizen want clean air & water, sensible gun control, reasonable wages, public safety, better public schools, etc. remember that you as an individual are competing against the deep pocketed industrial interests that are now allowed to bribe public officials and these same public officials gerrymander their districts ensuring their continued reign on power and control.
You apparently weren't paying attention in the 50s 60s and 70s. My parents even as college educated nurses and University of Minnesota employees struggled to make the house payment struggled to feed all of us. We all made it became highly successful and didn't invent excuses why somebody else was at fault. Work hard spend less than you earn if one job doesn't do it work two jobs that's what we did to get ahead it's your turn now
I’m born, raised & currently in usa but ready 2 become a expat!! Recently a well travelled lady told me that the usa is a small part of the world. 🌍 All of a sudden I felt a sense of relief because I have more good options than I realize. I have hope of a better future that the best is yet to come.
While there is no paradise on earth, as a Canadian, the thought of not having my health care covered gives me chills. The Canadian health care system isn't perfect, but if you polled Canadians, 98% would never vote to adopt the American system.
I agree with just about everything you said. Another thing I’d say is Americans are obsessed with jamming themselves into molds and try to be what they “should be” based on outdated standards rather than living in a way that actually makes sense.
Just look at reality shows young people are exposed to. Real Wives of Beverly Hills, The Kardashians, etc. Mansions, money, money, money, cars, clothes. Ridiculous and it sets a horrible example.
I have lived around the world... What you talk about sums up things.. Most Americans have never researched or travelled outside the USA to see the differences.. Americans are slaves to the dollar, consumerism and multi billionaire corporations. This is not Communist talk just the truth.. The most horrible things about the USA is the medical situation, the debt incurred and lack of easy transportation.. The free time is sadly lacking.. Most people get 6 weeks holiday a year plus public holidays.. I only recently found out you have to pay to give birth to a child 😢.... This is free where I live.. Americans don't know how badly they are being abused... It's slavery
I'm in Portland Oregon. I met a man from Cuba one day, on the train. He said "people like to talk about communism, about Cuba. But we don't have people sleeping on the ground!" So true...so very true. 😞
My wife and I elected to downsize after the financial crisis of 2008. In 2010, we surrendered our 2700 sq ft, four-bedroom home to foreclosure. We moved to a small 1100 sq ft home my wife's mother had left us. We have never been happier. It turns out that two bedrooms (one for guests) and one family room are quite enough. The only "splurge" is the second bathroom. Our yard is small and easy to maintain. A carport replaces a garage, and we have dropped to a single automobile. In all, everything is as wonderful as we could have hoped.
You got foreclosed on because you could not afford the house to start with. Why were you having to get free real estate?. No kidding, you're living a relaxed life.🙄
A big house with a big garden sounds like a dream come true. But somehow I don't feel like trying this. I live happily and content in a small apartment in Europe. When I go for a walk in the forest, even millionaires can envy me. This is my simple life philosophy and it works.
Absolutely. People with money get big houses to show off. You then find them living in it alone, and lonely. Money simply cannot buy all people think it can.
Veronica, this is a healthcare comment. I'm Australian and for years our federal government has focused on preventative health care. Every 2 years women get reminders to have a pap smear (your own doctor, may or may not have to pay) and a breast screen (mammogram) which is free. There is also the bowel cancer screening program - every 2 years all adults aged 45-74 get a test kit. This program is widely advertised essentially as "do a shit, poke it with a stick". These public health initiatives have proved hugely successful in the early detection of cancers, thus higher survival rates and enormous savings for the public health system. Win/win. And no-one goes bankrupt. When the primary focus of healthcare is profit, not people, you're in deep s**t.
Yes, but it is because the people of Australia held the governments, toes near the fire ! While Americans own "slogan/opinion" thinking is holding us back....We must deprogam from many things that only serve to allow certain groups to flourish, yet destroy others.
It's VERY profitable here in the USA. If I didn't have health insurance w/ my job, I'd have to pay $200 for a doctor visit. I recently paid $148 for an ultrasound because my insurance wouldn't cover it.
The costs are astronomical. I don't think most younger Americans realize how likely it is that a health crisis in mid-life will wipe out any retirement savings they manage to save. The politicians are targeting social security after draining it of funds for decades. As things stand, many if not most of us will end life in poverty. Conservatives will say "get a better job and invest in the stock market", as if those jobs exist for everyone and the country wouldn't fall apart without workers in the shops, the restaurants, cleaning, all those things they don't think deserve a living wage. Most Americans couldn't find $500 in an emergency (there's been studies to confirm this, not pulling that figure out of thin air). It's dystopian here. I'm on edge worried about how bad it will be with the incoming administration and their disasterous stated plans. People are not prepared for if the economy crashes. They're paycheck to paycheck as it is.
My state has all Democrat levels of government, from the city councils to the governor. For four years, we had one mandate after another from the top down. We are completely in debt as a state. We have the highest gas tax, very high income tax and they will not stop bleeding us dry. One mandate is for more housing. My corner of the city added 17,000 apartments. Now this small area will get 15,000 more. Biden opened the borders and has gone after conservatives. I know a murder victim, my mail and cars are not safe. I live in California. @@andromedaspark2241
I worked until age 70. The maximum age for social security benefits. I retired because of some medical issues. I did my part. I was a health care provider. Our healthcare system is a mess. I had a couple of nurse friends from the British system come to visit. They toured hospitals and ERs, one if them was in tears in disbelief that the richest country in the history of the world could treat its people so poorly. They worked in the London East side and said they have triage patients within 20 minutes and see them within 30 minutes. They also complained how the same ultra right Tories who brought them Brexit wanted to privatize their system to make it more like the American system. They said Britains would revolt rather than allow that to happen. They love their system despite its problems. And guess what, no medical bills to go into bankruptcy behind. We are truly a country getting further and further behind as the conglomerates gain more control for profits, stock buybacks and billionaire tax cuts. For now, we’re Germany in 1932-33 as we move toward authoritarian corporate control with the election of Trump.
Hi Veronica, I live in Australia. We have universal healthcare, paid sick leave, paid parental, paid bereavement leave, long service leave, ie 3 months leave after so many years of service with an employer. We have paid superannuation, a 37 hour week, paid public holidays, time and a half or double time for weekend work. I am sure if Americans experienced life in other countries they would hopefully advocate for similar conditions in their own.
Guess this is why nothing gets done in Australia. This has been a growing trend mainly since women have become 50 percent of the workforce. I’m 72 and remember working 50 plus hours a week for decades. When more women started in the work force more sick leave and time off for nearly every thing. Glad I am done with full time work and get a kick out of 30 year olds complaining about working there life away .
Thank you for this insight, and I definitely hear your overall sentiment, and that is that perspective or seeing the big picture would help see how we in America are living. I get it. BUT, I've watched easily a dozen videos of people who have LEFT Australia because specifically the cost of living (housing) has made them leave. And they're much happier in Thailand or Malaysia, etc. The thing is "Americans" is too broad a concept, there are about 300 million of us and within that, there are SO many groups. New immigrants, first and second generation people, are SO happy with what they get living here. Many other groups have different feelings about things; college educated, poor, rich, black, white. There's no end to who is satisfied and isn't. And we have to be a tiny bit realistic, about going abroad. It's not usual that Americans get out into the world. Both the ability and more importantly the desire. People are convinced it's the best place on earth AND they hate it. So logic and reason are out of whack.
No in America, you are supposed to work very hard for a few years, then you begin to hire people to work for you. It’s called entrepreneurship. You work hard now so you can have much more time off later. In the end you come out way ahead. All that paid leave and time off and working less than 40 hours catches up with you.
@@jamiemcgill67 In other words, every single person should own a business. Good thing businesses never go under, and there's no need for anything else.
Live in New Zealand, Worked for a large US IT corporation. Over ten years ago I was sent to the US to work on project there. The guys were shocked when I didn't hesitate to decline an offer of a green card. A year later all those guys were laid off as the project wound down. I did another 10 years with that company doing projects all over the world.
I agree this once great republic is indeed backwards and broken. While I'm glad I was born in this country, I wish I wasn't living in this century. I wish time travel were possible because I'd time travel my ass outta this century in a heartbeat, if I could. I HATE this century with a passion! Unfortunately I'm stuck in it.
Living "next door" in Canada, what I would see on the news made me to decide to never watch the news from the US again. On another note, I have downsized as well. We don't eat out anymore, we buy in bulk at COSTCO and Amazon for dry goods. After my truck needed another expensive repair, I decided to sell it and not buy another. I live in a rural area without public transportation but we still have an SUV and motorcycle. We will be fine without purchasing another over priced vehicle. We don't need to keep up with the Jones's and it feels great. Another great video!
Why does Canada have less violent crime even though you guys live right next to us here in the good ol' USA and are exposed to our entertainment, culture, and media?
@ I have strong opinions about it as I lived close to Buffalo growing up. I have been to the US many times and enjoyed my visits. We could talk hours about it 🙏
@@sagatuppercut2960Guns guns guns. I need a gun to protect against the other guy because he has a gun. Then to the fear add day to day anger and mistrust of goverment, institutions, people/culture all amped up by media and the myth that there are easy answers to it all. Your living in a very low level war zone imo, but a for a long period with an enemy that everyone can define for their own agenda.
I emigrated from the U.S. twenty-four years ago and I wouldn’t go back if you paid me. We are so brainwashed in the U.S. that it’s the best place on earth, when in fact, it’s the exact opposite.
Do as Catia says, come to Italy and if you can, to Sardinia, you won't regret it (ask Catia). Incidentally, I had esophageal cancer seven years ago and was operated on in Padua in a center of excellence; they took out my esophagus and for now I'm still alive, thank God. Well, directly, it didn't cost me almost anything (obviously no meals are free, I pay a reasonable fraction of my income to the National Health Service). I live in a city by the sea, in a central neighborhood where I have at least three market 50 meters from home and for normal daily needs I can live very well on foot. I have a car that is twenty years old and runs great and I plan to keep it, I don't need anything else (it almost always sits in the garage). In Italy we also have our problems, and who doesn't? However, I wouldn't leave Sardinia for all the gold in the world. HI
Greed and materialism is a huge problem in our country. People are taught they HAVE to move out as soon as they’re adults. In other countries it’s normal to have multi generational homes.
You are 100% correct. I am an American expat living in Japan. Just went to the hospital. Had annual MRI and several months of asthma medicine with doctor consultation. My total payment was about $80 USD. You are also right about the efficient public transportation and housing. Houses are smaller, but built more for quality and efficiency of heat storage in winter, with lots of windows for summer. Everyday items more expensive, but last lot longer. I blame mainly large corporations and big pharma/insurance for the problem in the US. Planned obsolescence and a push to put people in debt to show off to their neighbors. Not at all sustainable…
Uhh, it started with Reagan!! Neo Liberalism! Uhh, I went to Japan in the early eighties and met a lady and just ended up here. The older I get the better it is. No one talks about Japan,s health care compared with all others. It is one of the best in the world!!!
I left from 1990 to 2000. Spent a wonderful decade in Finland. No-stress culture, nice calm environment. Loved it! Worked for Nokia when they were King of the Cell Phones. Both of my parents got diagnosed with serious health issues so I returned to the US. Quite the reverse culture shock coming back.
To Steve: my brothers business partner is married to woman from Massachusetts and after 20 years living in Winchester (very nice!) she wanted to move "back home ".... 6 months later they are finalising their move.... back to England. She couldn't take the American way of life....says it all.
I don't know where you been living. I'm 77 years old and a black woman. It's always been this way for me. I'm almost glad to learn that some folks are finally realizing how some of us other people have taken for granted All of our life. So in essence, what you are talking about doesn't apply is and always have been a reality for people like me.
@@glennwatson3313 Listen to what they are saying, instead of getting defensive. This country is this way it is because it uses Black people, minorities and the poor as scapegoats and distractions, meanwhile the rich are profiting off of all of us. We could have had affordable housing, free healthcare, free education if politicians didn't make us afraid that the "wrong" kind of people would get these things too when they didn't "deserve" it
@@glennwatson3313 Why the strong negative reaction and accusatory tone? I read this through several times and don't know why you believe she thinks she is owed something. I think what she is pointing out is that the things Veronica Edwards is learning are things that she learned a long time ago. Life is hard here, stacked in favor of the rich at the expense of the disadvantaged. Being black in the US has historically put people at an additional disadvantage. She is just pointing out that her experience has been different than that of Veronica.
@glennwatson Oh, you're one of the chuck-chuck bandy wagon folks, I see. You know exactly what the lady is speaking of, yet, your idiocy overrules your common sense. When certain whites start feeling overwhelmed by their sinking "The great white way", that's when all things are at a loss. If one reads the history of this country, one will know that many blacks, First Nations Peoples, Asians, etc., have known and lived such things their entire lives. These ideas that the lady expressed are old hats to the aforementioned peoples. It's funny, that certain whites use those same tired lines, "Oh, you're playing the victim; Oh, you act like someone owes you something; Oh, you're expecting something for nothing, etc..." yet, many whites are now complaining about how hard it is. Well, wake up, and take a good look at how "America" began, then perhaps, you will know that it is in the dumps today because of its history. Note: There are black seniors living today, who lived through segregation, Jim Crow, lynchings, steering, etc., and you have the nerve to state such a comment. Our First Nations Peoples lived through these same horrors, and so many are gone. Yes, we so-called minorities are due many things, but we shall collect our gifts from the God of lights. A nation cannot survive, when it incessantly spills blood on sand. Those sands may cover the blood and shift, but the shifting will never cease. This new nation, "America" was not built on a rock, it was built on shifting bloodied sand. A reckoning is almost here, and many of us are simply watching.
It's not normal we are all robots for the government. We are programmed to work till we drop dead and grind it out daily and be too tired to spend quality time with our families!!
Americans DO have a choice. Don't buy water in plastic bottles, DO save and don't over consume, do buy a house that fits your needs instead of feeding your ego.
@@ikeameltdown8012 Are you sure? I've lived both lives. I was a software engineer and did the spend-spend life, large hugely expensive house and mortgage. The 22 years ago I dropped out and have lived a simple life. No question to me the simple life is way easier. Most every day is like being on vacation. I loved my career but there was people depending on me. I think the issue is most Americans have no idea how easy life can be in America. Many things they consider requirements that aren't. I was the same. I had no clue. I started by canceling cable TV. Assumed I would croak. Surprised I liked the added time to do other things. Then the next thing, one at a time dropping things to see the effect. Internet has been the only waster I haven't been able to drop. Few months ago I stopped bottled water and drink tap water. And stopped using toilet paper. Yeah, gross AF. Water bottle with soapy water and my hand like most people in the world do. Clean bum. It's not about the cost or the environment. It's the challenge.
Yeah, it's all good until you want to go back to work but need day care for your child. Prepare to pay what? $450 weekly? Or how about a medical crisis? Medical debt is the leading cause of BK in the US. And vacation time? Yeah sure. That's a f'in joke.
College is overrated and is not meant for every graduate. Trade school is a better alternative. When my dad retired from the USPS, he took a part-time job because he was going stir crazy . I miss paper bags and lunch meat being wrapped in paper . Bread has always come in plastic bags . We recycled those bread bags growing up . We used them inside our boots . We used paper bags for book covers.
@@traceybenna4150 completely agree re Trade School. If you have a trade where I live you'd never be without a job, a way to earn your living and trying to get a good tradesperson is a nightmare.
I went to college, got out and started a career. However, it didn’t work out. I went to a trade school, and got out and started making a better living than I did with my college degree. I threw my college diploma away a few years ago. But I’ll always have my nursing license.
There needs to be a balance of everything. Trade school should be a more mainstream culture for sure and college for more professional fields in terms of engineering and doctors.
100% on target. I've lived in Germany and Japan and England. America is a beautiful nation. Too bad we can't bring ourselves to learn from other nations how to enjoy what we have and preserve it for future generations.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Your experiences living in Germany, Japan, and England must have given you a wealth of insight into how different countries approach sustainability and quality of life. America is indeed a beautiful nation with so much to offer, and your point about learning from others is so important. There’s so much value in adopting practices that promote preservation and long-term well-being. Hopefully, as more people share views like yours, we can work towards a future where we better appreciate and protect what we have. Thank you for adding such a thoughtful reflection to the conversation! 🌍💚
Vast majority? Over 65... 33% have less than $10k saved, 66% less than $100k. Where do you draw the line on being required to work? For what lifestyle? I'm 68, stopped working a job 22 years ago. Average spend $592.04/mo past 21 months. I'm guessing my lifestyle is very different from yours.
agreed. I am 61 and could live on a lot less if insurance were not tied to my job. If I quit my job, or work part time, my insurance would be ridiculously high and the deductible crazy high. If I take SS at 62, it's not enough to pay my basic bills. I would still have to work. And then at 65 it will drop because our government takes some back for medicare.
I live in Arizona. Since I an over 65 my real estate taxes are frozen at $750/year. I own my 1100 sq ft house free and clear. I drive a 1976 Chevy van that I can repair myself and it only needs liability insurance $500/year. I have some money saved but I can survive on my $1500/ month SS. My saying has always been "It's good enough". I use my Costco card only and pay it off every month before there are any extra charges. I have no debt. I bike ride and hike for exercise. I buy and sell cars and trucks for extra cash. Buy, wash, vacuum, clean. and sell on Craigslist. My credit score is 810. You have to be smarter than what you're doing.
LOVE THIS! I'm 62 and hoping to be the same soon. 3.5 years to pay off my house, ready to call the govt to freeze my property taxes, old chevy spark paid off. No credit card bills, will ALSO be getting around $1,500/month SS god willing at 65. . I AM nervous about it but your post gives me a little more confidence.
I too live a simple life. I rent my extra bedroom to my friend for cheap and drive an easy to fix 1998 vehicle I bought 14 years ago. The libraries have free passes to museums and national parks. I pay off my credit card every month too. I also don't own a cell phone. My landline with an answering machine works fine.
Yes but you know what? Most people aren't like you. You can't just let people eat shit because they aren't as street smart as you are. That's just not ethical. And you are old. You aren't young in a time when a small house costs $500k. Older folks always act like things are so easy if you are just a little street smart. I wish you could be young today and buried in student debt living at you parents house with your wife and son because you can't afford a home of your own due to high interest and increased cost of living and an inflated housing market. I can be as frugal as I can be and still won't be able to afford the house you live in, in todays market. It's a totally different world. And you are also on government health care at that age which is vastly better than private health care.
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I live in AZ too. You cannot get car insurance for $500 a year. I pay about triple that for liability on a 1980s car. I'm over 70 and they won't freeze my taxes because I have too much in savings (from a lifetime of work). My real-estate taxes are $4250 a year. Yes, I agree I should move to a smaller house.
As a foreigner, i met a lot of Americans, and they told me that the American society suffering from individualism and selfishness, no social life and with massive lack of friendship and human values. 😢
Hi Veronica. Your channel came up and I just watched. Loved it. We are researching Panama. Hope to investigate in a few months. Keep up your good work. Rod
Hi Rod! Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words-I’m thrilled that you enjoyed the video! Researching Panama sounds like an exciting adventure. It’s such a beautiful country with a lot to offer, from its natural beauty to its lower cost of living and expat-friendly communities. I wish you all the best in your exploration, and I’d love to hear about your experiences when you visit. Thank you for your support, and I’ll keep sharing helpful content. Good luck with your journey! 😊
Honestly Veronica, I live in Northern Ireland and I find elements of your findings in the US also applying here. So much of young people's lives seem to revolve around the acquisition of more and more "stuff" ( homes, cars, holidays etc) driving higher debt and need for second jobs. I'm 61 and retired now and it took me years to realise that the secret to a happy life didn't lie in an expensive bottle of perfume or designer shoes. I hope the young ones learn quickly and kick our consumer society to the kerb. Loving your videos. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective and experience from Northern Ireland. It's fascinating, yet sobering, to see how these consumer trends resonate across different cultures and continents. Your insight about finding happiness beyond material possessions is incredibly valuable, especially in today's world where there's so much emphasis on acquiring more. It’s a powerful message for all ages, and particularly poignant for younger generations navigating the pressures of consumerism. I'm glad to hear you've found contentment in simplicity, and I hope your reflections inspire others to reevaluate their priorities and find their own paths to happiness. Thank you for your kind words and for being a part of our community-I'm thrilled you're enjoying the videos!
Yes this is a wealthy country thing, not just a US thing. But we Americans have a hard time see beyond our bubble even when we travel.
I visited Ireland for 10 days back in ‘95 or ‘96. Bounced around to different bed and breakfasts. Talking with one of my hosts I said it was nice to see all the made in Ireland stuff, low prices and the quiet country atmosphere with low hustle and bustle. She told me they had just passed a bunch of laws that would effectively make them just like the USA in a few years. I guess she was spot on in her analysis……
@@jetsengoytredkl that timeline sounds absolutely spot on. Looking back, it was a huge sea-change in people's expectations and house prices, car prices etc took a really big hike, along with salaries (not quite to the same extent though).
That part came from Ireland on the boat over, way back when. Now it's bigger. Mix in other countries and Trump who looks for all the historical "bad" and puts it on the top.
America is not a country it's a business.
Yes, 100% agree! It was founded by a group of businessmen aka “The Founding Fathers”.
Yes!
Yes a business model
@@vincentwright9143….oh now you’re gonna have a go at Jefferson (Killing Them Softly- final scene)
Totally agree
I’ve been living in the USA for last 17 years and so much has changed for the worst. It’s socialism for the rich and capitalism for the poor. A lobbying system based on protecting and promoting corporate and foreign based interests is unfair and unjust and should be outlawed. I believe this is one of the root problems we have.
Capitalism works great when people care about each other. But as it matures that sliver of evil in people comes out and greed is good. The U.S. is falling apart from within. We have 11 aircraft carriers but the small amount of rich are owning and controlling more and more . Americans can't afford the lifestyle that was prevalent in the 1960s and 1970s. Corporations who lobby politicians are causing so much harm to our society because of greed. The U.S. is toast
I had to look at the author… I thought I wrote this and forgot about it. MY MAN
In the 1950s if a politician were caught taking bribes the shame was so intense generally they would unalive themselves. Now politicians brag about all the money they get from bribery.
The people who control the system are the ones who benefit from it. They will never change it or relinquish power willingly. None have throughout recorded human history for the most part. Only nationwide striking and unification of the impoverished and working class until the system collapses will bring about change. Alternatively revolution is much better, given the chances of the former happening.
capitalism ended with the central bank, then got worse with the removal of the gold standard. You can't have a capitalist system in existence when the people aren't in control of their own money supply. A foreign bank pretending to be a USA owned bank by calling itself the "fed" is the problem there. Inflation didn't exist until that thing was brought into play and given control of our money printing, which is supposed to be under the treasury, not them.
Most Americans are obsessively worried about money. A stressed way to go through life.
There's a REASON for that. It doesn't take much to become homeless. It doesn't take much to be bankrupted of your life savings. Most people are living paycheck to paycheck - and one or two unexpected emergencies back to back can do it. The Republicans are brainwashed into thinking these people are mentally ill and/or drug/alcohol addicts. Blame the victim mentality. The fastest growing segment of homeless is elderly women. Just like years ago a rape victim would be doubly victimized by the "system" - she "deserved" it because she was wearing a short skirt. Sure, there is some of that (homeless BECAUSE of drugs/alcohol)But to be honest I think that one would become mentally ill, if they weren't before, trying to survive the streets And if I were living under a bridge in the freezing cold I might want to "numb' myself too. Both emotionally and physically.
There's this thing for American homeowners called property taxes. You'll pay them even after paying off the home. If you don't you'll lose your house. Americans pay property taxes till they're gone and in the ground.
Most Americans stressing about money are a hell of a lot better off than over 2 billion people on earth. I'd say we're doing something a little better than settling for working for $2 a week.
@@darrell_dee97 how much is this tax? I'm not American so it's interesting to me. What kind of percentage you gotta pay for your own property each month?
@@TheAleksandros Its complicated but mostly it depends on the state and city laws but mostly the value of the property. I pay $4k a year for a small house in CA. Others could pay more than double that for the same house size but in more expensive neighborhoods in CA or other states. Americans are obsessively worried about money because life is too expensive here and they need to survive independently especially when the rent/mortgage takes 2 thirds of their pay checks now days.
Retiring comfortably in the US these days is almost impossible. I'm planning to retire at 59 in another country outside the US that is free, safe and very cheap with a high quality of life and good healthcare. Here in the US more people might face a tough time in retirement. Low-paying jobs, inflation, and high rents make it hard to save. Now, middle-class Americans find it tough to own a home too, leaving them without a place to retire.
The cost of living keeps going up, up and up!! Rising prices have affected my intention of retiring at 62, working part-time, and building my savings. I'm worried about whether individuals who weathered the 2008 financial crisis found it less challenging than my current situation. The stock market's volatility, coupled with a reduced income, is making me anxious about having enough for retirement.
I completely agree; I am 60 years old, recently retired, and have approximately $1,350,000 in external retirement funds. I am debt free and have very little money in retirement funds compared to the total value of my portfolio over the past three years. To be honest, having a portfolio-advisor for investing is genius! What I figured out years back what that with proper guidance, we can predict some of these situations and take advantage of them. Have you considered seeking the help of a financial advisor, the are vital towards retirement planning.
How can I reach this adviser of yours? because I'm seeking for a more effective investment approach on my savings
Annette Christine Conte is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.
My CFA ’Annette Christine Conte ’ , a renowned figure in her line of work. I recommend researching her credentials further. She has many years of experience and is a valuable resource for anyone looking to navigate the financial market.
There are too many insensitive, uncaring bullies in the world.
Morals, ethics, compassion and empathy are needed for society to function.
Yeah & bullies shouldn't be in LE or work as judges either.
The bullying in this country is INSANE.
Gee,are you just finding that out? It has only been that way since the time Cain slew Adam.
When you age you NEED preventative care.
It's almost impossible to get it.
Because America is all about exploitation and theft and exponential profit.
I know a LOT of older Americans that simply LEAVE because they have the means to escape this corporate monopoly hellhole.
@starlite556 Cain slew Abel,his brother.
the system elevates/incentivises the former at the expense and suffering of the latter.
The system increases the number of those people that exploit others.
I live in Portugal. The people are kind, friendly and helpful. You don´t see trash on the freeways or roadways. Free healthcare. The cost of living is way lower than in the States. It´s a beautiful country with great weather. The pace of living is slower. Couldn´t be happier.
You don't have free healthcare. Nothing is free.
Bom dia. I'm also an American who left and moved to Coimbra, Portugal. It's one of the best decisions I've ever made. I love it here.
I may move to Spain soon
do you not pay taxes? no government can give to you what was already yours. nothing is free.
From EU.... we don't want maga here....
I was in Copenhagen last month. Had a really nice chat with a barman. I tried to leave him a tip, like I would in the US. "That's OK. It's not necessary. I get paid enough", he said.
That experience in Copenhagen highlights an interesting cultural and economic difference between many parts of Europe and the U.S., particularly regarding the tipping culture and wage standards. In Denmark, like in many Scandinavian countries, service staff are often paid a living wage, which reduces their dependence on tips for their income. This approach can lead to a different service dynamic, where tipping is viewed more as a gesture of exceptional gratitude rather than an obligation or necessity to ensure fair compensation.
This aspect of Danish society reflects broader social policies aimed at ensuring a higher minimum standard of living for all workers, which can be quite a shift for visitors from countries where tipping is ingrained in the service industry. Sharing experiences like yours helps illustrate how different economic systems directly affect daily interactions and societal norms. Thank you for sharing this insightful encounter!
Denmark is smaller than Massachusetts, and 86% Danish. comparing the US and Denmark is ridiculous
Isn't the tip already included in the bill ?
@@RobertMJohnsonit's not ridiculous to notice something
In Europe, we're not obliged to give tips. Unless you want to give. Each person has his salary. With 35 hours of work per week, it's more than enough to live.
Most Americans never leave (North) America. I live in South America and support a family of 3 on $1,500 USD per month. Our health insurance costs less than $75 per month. I was hospitalized for a week last year and it cost me less than $50. The care was excellent. We don't own a car, because everything is easily walkable, and if we need to go farther a taxi costs less than $5. Most Americans have a huge cost of living only because they don't know any better. Explore the world. It's better than you think!
We would leave but most people can't afford to.
@@gentronsevendon’t believe it - your little goes a long way in the other countries
where in South America do you live? My wife is from Brazil, and I have been thinking about trying to retire there a little early..
@@joejoe9973 I try not to share my choice a lot online, but I speak English, Spanish and German. I don't think I can handle adding Portuguese. If your wife speaks it, or she has family there, it might make a transition easier. I never met anybody who regrets retiring earlier than usual. If I wasn't so happy where I am, at this point I might investigate Argentina. They haven't quite turned the corner, but things are looking very, very promising.
In Russia, people live on a salary of 400-600 dollars per month, and in villages on 250-300 dollars. The salary of 1.500 (2.000-3.000) dollars per month is for oil and gas workers who work in shifts in Northern Siberia.
The worst part is the people working hardest are getting the least remuneration for their efforts and then shamed in the media for not taking more hours, more work despite the poverty wages. 40% of people in work need state support. That’s a reflection of greed not poor work ethics by working people. This is being done by design, by greed.
You've highlighted a significant issue that resonates deeply across many sectors and regions. The disparity between effort and remuneration is indeed a profound problem, where those who labor the most intensively often receive the least in return. The additional burden of societal stigma regarding work ethic only adds to the challenges faced by low-wage workers.
Your point about the systemic nature of these issues is crucial-it suggests that the problem isn't about individual failings but about structural inequalities that benefit a few at the expense of many. This setup perpetuates a cycle where the working poor must rely on additional state support just to make ends meet, which isn't sustainable or fair.
Raising awareness and pushing for policy changes that ensure fair wages and dignified working conditions are essential steps toward addressing these injustices. Thank you for sharing this perspective-it’s an important contribution to the ongoing dialogue about economic equity and social justice.
I agree with you 100%. Since 911 I've awoken and realized that America is the vessel possessed by the Devil. All things Greed and driven by money while health comes last. Truth is America is the worst place on earth as a developed country. It could have been a true utopia but the system needs to be abolished and changed drastically. All it does is constantly creating division, toxic (slow poison), greed (monopolization) destructions around the world due to it's deceptive ideology. At the end of the day I loved America but I know for a fact it could have done much better but it chose not to.
Your degree in finance isnt paying off?
Or are you a deadbeat?
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Strange, you sound exactly like Chat GPT !
@@dimitristripakis7364 well I promise you I am a real person
Greed…is the problem. It’s out of control in the United States.
Money is our true God.
Charlie Munger said "greed is not the problem, envy is". i think this is more accurate. we need to honestly look at ourselves on what / why / when / how we are spending our money. people keep complaining they are broke, but have the money management skills of a 2 year old. learn what a minimalistic lifestyle is. neighbor has a red ferrari? dont be envious. you don't NEED to compete with anybody with your money. learn money management skills first. envy is the problem.
You cannot serve two masters. One works for profit and another works for love. You cannot have both.
@@ge2623it’s the ONLY God in this country. Americans claim to be so religious, but the state religion in this country is Avarice!
@@TSG_1997 Tell that to the church.
After I started traveling out of the United States, I realized that something was seriously wrong and that I no longer wanted to be here.
Understandable. In a nutshell, this culture is designed to promote the wealthy and minimize the middle-class and the poor.
The insular culture of the US is a big part of the problem, isn't it. So many people just don't know much if anything about alternatives, so they have no real perspective.
Good more for the rest of us.Did you take you SSA with you?
@@franksullivan1873 yep!
@@franksullivan1873 I'll never understand why some of you get so pissy just because someone point out the problems with your country. Insecure, much?
At my last corporate job, my trainer said "well we spend most of our lives at work so we should be investing in it" and i was just crushed at that sentence. An 8hr day is really a 10-11 hr day. A 12 hr day is more of a 14-15 hr day. Getting up and coming home from work to enjoy your 3-4 hours to yourself or with your kids is insane to me. Then be let out for a "48 hour break". I feel like my kid is being raised by daycare. Im usually too mentally drained from work to do anything productive or marginally fun when we get home, and still i have about 2.5hr to cook dinner and get in the bed...🙃 we place so much value on our job titles but most people hate their jobs. People say dont make friends with your coworkers outside of work, but theyre usually the only people youre around consistently for 8+hrs every single day. Its crazy to me.
It’s crazy-making, and that is why so many Americans are breaking down.
That's why every other useless country comes begging America for money when they need something because Americans work too much and we're over taxed.
Yeah I had a trainer who when asked about an earning a six year promotion faster said “don’t worry, the years fly with this job. You’ll be there before you know it!” 😬 that’s not how I like to talk about my years
exactly! and if you speak out against this regime or reduce your work schedule people call you lazy, unmotivated, slack, unambitious and the list goes on....
Yes, it's crazy to me also.
Regarding health care, I've only been hospitalized once in my life. It was in Russia, while I was working there ten years ago. Out of habit, I refused to seek medical help until the situation was pretty dire. I was afraid of what it might cost. When I couldn't even keep water down, and was dizzy from dehydration, I finally went to the international hospital, as they spoke English there. I explained that I couldn't afford to be admitted. They asked me why I was talking about money when I was so I'll. They admitted me. I had a private room, overnight, where they gave me an IV drip and several medications. I was seen by a doctor, and checked on throughout the night. In the morning, they served me a huge ( beige) breakfast to see if I could keep food down. I could, and so they sent me to cash out and go home. The cost? $70. And they gave me the options to pay in installments if I needed to. And that folks, was at the "expensive" hospital. If they can do this for a visitor, why can't we do it for our citizens?
Corporate greed has turned into genocide.
They are gearing up for robots and AI handling most jobs.
Друг,мне в Москве сделали криоабляцию от мерцательной аритмии,по квоте.Ты не поверишь -бесплатно,на самом новом оборудовании ,в городской больнице с красивым дизайном.Питание,уход,лекарства- всё бесплатно,по соц.страховке от государства.
That's amazing!
One of the main things I hate about living in America is the greedy healthcare industry. Almost every other country (even less developed countries) have either free or affordable healthcare. The richest nation in the world somehow can’t afford to solve this issue, and it’s always a big political debate.
The hospitals, health insurance companies, and pharmaceutical companies all profit together while the rest of us try not to lose our jobs so we don’t lose our insurance. Our system is a joke.
@@luna498-h5z Well, you're getting into a number of different problems; it's not just greed
First, insurance companies, Ph@rma, and US Government run a triad racket against hospitals, which also have a large level of administrative bureaucracy themselves. This changed during Obamacare when Doctors were no longer allowed to manage the internal affairs of hospitals as a (conflict of interest). Which is ironic because all these Business Admin majors are running it into the ground with pump/dump business strategies.
Second, the US has the largest health crisis on the face of the planet; by far. CABG (coronary bypass) and cancer treatments take the cake; now it's largely turning into child-hood cancers as well. The demand for healthcare is exceptionally high compared to the rest of the world.
Third, the US Government has a very particular series of patent laws unlike any others in the world). Averaging roughly 38 years of exclusivity in market sales from their conception. The reason you albuterol is more expensive than in (say) Canada is because there is a major US retailer that has a patent and partnership on plastic inhalers. The albuterol is wholesaled with the inhaler and your domestic price reflects that.
Fourth, you have a supply shortage of medical professionals to the demand of patients.
Fifth, Medicare is running it's own racket with Insurance and Pharma. They don't negotiate product pricing for domestic US medical-grade products; so manufacturers can charge whatever they want. Therefore boosting product cost and insurance coverage.
Also, insurance laws in the US are rather dirty. For example, they are actually required by law to (not disclose) a discrepancy price between a generic product and an insurance co-pay.
So if the generic product is cheaper than the insurance co-pay; they won't tell you. You have to do the math for yourself.
German here who’s been living in the states for 11 years and I totally agree. Everything here has to make profit and a lot of it. When people in one of the richest country on earth need to set up a go fund me to help them pay for their (oftentimes life saving) treatment, you know something went terribly wrong. Life in the states feels pretty much like hustling all the time to make more money which we spend on more crap that we don’t need.
Correct! 👍
America is not the richest country on earth.
@ The 3rd wealthiest according to Forbes. Still enough! Doesn’t change anything else in my comment 😉
Stimme Dir total zu. Bin seit 2004 in Oregon.
@ Ich bin auch in Oregon 😉
Honestly our government has no idea how people are suffering these days. I much feel sorry for the disabled people who don’t get the help they deserve
Is she really that good? I have seen lots of videos about her
I have always wanted to trade but I never came across the right source for that but coming across your comment just gave me hope
I'm glad seeing this here today, your recommendation earlier this year was a blessing to my life and that of my family, I'm so grateful.
They have idea how much you are suffering, but they don't care. Please, don't be naive.
They know exactly how it is, it's part of their agenda.
I spent some time in Southern Italy over the summer in some small medieval villages. No anxiety. No depression. Community and connection. Totally different culture and totally different results!
I had the same experience. It's a good feeling when people actually respect someone's personal space.
Americans are either really competitive. Or they genuinely agree with it.
I agree with you 100% I live in Canada and I have many American friends. And the only people that are complaining about our healthcare system is the Americans they’re always telling me how bad my system is and the long weights, etc., but I have had cancer twice Had treatments surgery. I am over the cancer and it didn’t cost me any money. Everybody deserve to have the right to healthcare not just the elite.
Americans for the most part have insurance to cover something like cancer. You wont loose your home, unless you have no insurance. BTW, those without insurance, mostly dont own a home. And they can still get treatment.
The Canadian healthcare system is prioritized based upon need and urgency. I have a good friend who was diagnosed in July 2024 to be in need of a surgical knee replacement and her surgery is scheduled for mid-February 2025. She has pain and mobility issues, but her life is in no danger.
In the meantime, she is provided with medications for pain, a cane and walker for mobility and physiotherapy. She also has free homecare for cleaning & maintaining her home and for other small tasks such as transportation to appointments and grocery shopping.
My wife, just a few years ago, following a routine mammogram, was provided with a diagnosis of breast cancer on a Thursday afternoon. Over the weekend she attended the hospital for half a day for blood work, an MRI and other pre-surgery testing. She was in surgery at 6:00 AM on Monday morning for the removal of the cancer from her right breast, along with removal of 14 lymph nodes from her chest and right arm. Within a week following surgery, she was referred to Princes Margaret Cancer hospital for almost daily visits for chemotherapy, followed by radiation treatments over the course of 60 days. My wife is cancer free for several years now and the total cost of medical services was ZERO.
There is only one complaint that I here often from Canadians about our hospital system and that is that parking at most hospitals can cost up to $30 per day.
The Canadian healthcare system is prioritized based upon need and urgency. I have a good friend who was diagnosed in July 2024 to be in need of a surgical knee replacement and her surgery is scheduled for mid-February 2025. She has pain and mobility issues, but her life is in no danger.
In the meantime, she is provided with medications for pain, a cane and walker for mobility and physiotherapy. She also has free homecare for cleaning & maintaining her home and for other small tasks such as transportation to appointments and grocery shopping.
My wife, just a few years ago, following a routine mammogram, was provided with a diagnosis of breast cancer on a Thursday afternoon. Over the weekend she attended the hospital for half a day for blood work, an MRI and other pre-surgery testing. She was in surgery at 6:00 AM on Monday morning for the removal of the cancer from her right breast, along with removal of 14 lymph nodes from her chest and right arm. Within a week following surgery, she was referred to Princes Margaret Cancer hospital for almost daily visits for chemotherapy, followed by radiation treatments over the course of 60 days. My wife is cancer free for several years now and the total cost of medical services was ZERO.
There is only one complaint that I here often from Canadians about our hospital system and that is that parking at most hospitals can cost up to $30 per day.
It didn't cost anything? Do you not pay taxes? Yes, you do pay taxes, so no, it wasn't free. The difference may be in the way the Canadian government prioritizes revenue. America spends a lot on defense, and nowadays, even more on interest on their colossal debt.
@@chrisgraham2904 that is impressive. Praying your wife remains cancer free.
I was growing up in the 80's . Life was better , less stress, better weather, better tv, better music , people talked and we had community . Im not saying life was perfect , but it was better ! Its all gone now 😢
Regards from 🇬🇧❤️
Yep!!!
I hear you I missed those days very much.
OMG I could hug you! YES, the eighties. I met the love of my life. No FN internet nor cell phones. I was hoping they were optional now they're forcing AI on us. We have no say in anything. The music, mood, movies, weather, everything. We are supposed to feel closer with big tech? It's more devisive than anything and when you can be hacked from a scum bag on the other side of the world--it's a failure.
Me too miss those days very much
Same in HK, same in China
I left the United States 14 years ago. I recently returned and was shocked about much the USA has changed. I realize that change is a part of life, but these changes were shocking. It was so shocking that i decided to leave again, but this time i wont return. The America i used to know, no longer exist.
Could you mention these changes
Completely understandable.
Have you renounced US citizenship?
@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 you will address me as a cat. I identify as a cat. When I meow you will take care of me and etc.
But if you know this country has turned into a game you'll know how to play it instead of being played.
Yes! The US economic/labor systems are laughable and exclude huge parts of the population who no longer participate or work. Try getting a job at age 55 and see how you like the US, while having cancer and no health insurance but the useless VA.
I am a US born and raised citizen. I've been saying for at least 20 years that I don't belong on this planet, maybe I just don't belong in this country.
The USA is not a country, it is a market, everything is related to money, it lost it human values sadly. Life is not having but being, just have a lit,e trip in Canada to see the difference. I salute your courage to express your observations.
Yes it’s much more like a market
"Life is not having but being". I AGREE
I said the same thing back in 2008 when I moved to Australia…not a society, just an economy! I thought that Australia was what Americans are brainwashed into thinking IT is!
Even Canada is better, huh?
@ not better, normal
Get the money out of politics and the country will turn around for the better.
When you moving ?
End oligarchy first
@@TheMkarrbootlicker simping for billionaires thinking that makes him worthy
Impossible. I mean, try and try, but it won't change, because the majority of people want a politician or a superhero to save them from themselves. As much as I LOVE comic books, superheroes don't exist in real life. Want someone to save you? Save yourself. Don't be lonesome for your heroes, be your own hero, (Haight-Ashbury SF) and that's requires a level of personal maturity and introspection that just flat out DOES NOT exist, and I doubt it ever will among the common American. I'd wager money on the country completely devolving into a Third World hellscape over people daring to question the God that is their own ego. A revolution of the mind sweeping through the masses will be the ONLY thing to save this country.
That will be a big start. But don't bet any money on that happening soon. It will take a French-style American revolution to make any real changes, and with Orange Jesus coming into power who is totally corrupt, don't bet on any improvements under his watch.
Left 16 years ago. I don’t miss the States. The more I see it from the outside the sorrier I feel for everyone there.
I left 20 years ago and I'm terrified to go back when I see how much it's changed.
I never left and I'm never going back.😑
May I ask: where'd you go instead?
@@themaxandlucyshow7590May I ask, where did you end up going: which country?
@@helena20000I went to Costa Rica. But now we've had an influx of North Americans and they are changing everything. This used to be a foreign country and now it's either a red State or the 11th province of Canada
I am Italian. Over the past 30 years, my mother has had: 1 thyroid tumor and her thyroid removed, 1 skin tumor, 1 breast tumor, and various problems with her esophagus. Now my mother is 89 years old. Over the years, she has spent very little on treatment, and she currently spends about 10 euros a month for a massive amount of medications. In the USA, my mother would have died 30 years ago. This alone is enough to understand that the United States is not the greatest democracy on the planet. Sure, we don’t own an SUV as big as an aircraft carrier, and we don’t have a house as large as an entire neighborhood, but we’re happy nonetheless.
Problem in US is that corporate criminals get away with murder and other countries prosecute criminals. Plus people think owning expansive junk means they are happier/ superior?
Sounds like you broke.
@@TheMkarr Greedy, or envy? "The love of money is the root of all evil". There are people who don't have 2 dimes to rub together who are committing that sin. They hate to see someone with more luxury than they have. Yeah, their broke, because they will never have enough.
They work and work for all of this stuff, and become miserable when they realize it doesn't make you happier. The things you own, own you, in the end. My ex wife is guilty of this, she works and works to maintain the house she kicked me out of and I spent $20,000 on, but she's not happy because she's trying to keep up with the Jones'. The thing that makes me puking sick is, she used to make fun of people like that, and became one as soon as her sister did. Then they try to justify it with "Oh well everyone likes nice things." Yeah, purchased in even flow, not you trying to live outside of your means because someone else you know has it.
I've never been interested in getting my credit up in this country because I know for a fact, I can't afford to retire here, so when I get older I'm taking my butt somewhere the exchange rate is friendly. Live off of my retirement in a country where I actually can.
Right on, sister!!!
I'm 66 and live in a one bedroom apartment for $450 a month. My neighbors are elderly and/or disabled.
We have a lovely little building and help each other out when needed.
This is Greenville NC, but still, I was very lucky to find it.
I don't have a car. Don't even want another one.
I have an ebike and it gets me where I need to go.
Buckle up buttercup. Things are about to get much much worse.
Nice. Wish I could do that.
@@conservative-proud $450 Per month.
Where in the world did you find that rental? My son and daughter-in-law live in Greenville NC and couldn't find anything under $1700/mo that wasn't in the more dangerous areas of town.
Keep hangin in there.
Those in the USA I have one word for you. Boycott! Boycott all those billionaire businesses, boycott everything you can. I guarantee you it won't take long to get these businesses to straighten up.
Lol, says the person using youtube -- owned by Google, one of the biggest of the billionaire businesses. Boycotts are limited in their capabilities in a land of monopolies.
@Random_Handle_ you can boycott more than you think you can. Even if it's just a handful of companies it's still making a difference.
Businesses to straight up? I think you mean boycott the FED?
Just by essentials and don't waste money on corporations if it means that much to you. Americans have always been obsessed with materialism; I don't think it will change any time soon.
@@pb8797 - I appreciate your heart. I'm not anti-boycott, but to assume that how you participate in a broken system will somehow fix the system is reductive. Boycott should be a tool in a multi-faceted campaign that includes protest, education, demonstration, lobbying and legislation. It may also come to revolution, and I pray it's peaceful and driven by the people.
These businesses at that point sell out to foreigners and that's when they get ultra greedy. Coke, anhiserbush. Too prime examples especially anhiser. Just because they keep a few American workers employed doesn't mean they didn't retool the machine to bleed them dry.
We aren't citizens,we are customers.
Living with less is the best life lesson. It feels great to declutter and live humble ...
Absolutely, there's profound value in embracing simplicity and decluttering both our physical and mental spaces. Living with less not only frees us from the physical burden of too many possessions but can also lead to a more focused and appreciative outlook on life. It's inspiring to hear that you've found joy and contentment in a more humble lifestyle. Your experience could encourage others to reevaluate their own living habits and consider the benefits of minimalism. Thank you for sharing your insights-it's always enriching to hear how different approaches to life bring fulfillment and happiness.
So you demonstrate your 'humility' by coming to a public forum and bragging to the world about it?
@@tgriffin3059 It's called putting the thought out there so others give you feedback and you can confirm you're not crazy, because sometimes, you feel like you're the only one going through it and it's nice to hear others confirm, "No you're not crazy, this country is, and we all are going crazy because the people in power try to sane wash the insane asylum." Then it trickles down when regular citizens start parroting "Everything is fine." While their economy crashes every 15 years and the American middle class becomes a distant memory. I don't understand the logic of "coming to a public forum to brag about it" so you need to be rich to afford to post on TH-cam? If you'd have thought about that comment for a bit and repeated it to yourself, it would have revealed it wasn't the "Gotcha" you thought it was. Delete this comment now, because Americans CAN'T STAND hearing an opinion that's not just an echochamber. Why Reddit is such crap.
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Yeah, people living beyond their means is definitely what broke me and my ex wife up. We were fine when we lived in an apartment and trailer, but as soon as she wanted to buy that house, we broke down. Not that it was the only factor involved, we ignored the fact for years that we weren't like each other (COMPLETE OPPOSITES and not in the fun way). Living more simplistic is good, I mean if any one in your life says to you "I can't be around you, you're too poor." then those people weren't meant to be around you.
Right on, well said
One big thing I've noticed about Americans but not just them is the idea that your quality of life is measured by what you own rather than a person's level of happiness.
Thank you!!!
That's a pretty big generalization. I grew up poor, have lived much of my adult life under the federal poverty level (as have many friends I grew up with), and we base our quality of life on time with loved ones, meaningful experiences, etc. Not what we own or don't own. This is true of much of America; perhaps not the citizens you have personally encountered, but it is true for many of us.
True...but try telling them that they are always in DENIAL about everything and will result to name calling,Ad hominem attacks and other shaming tactics.
material worship
Im American and I don't know a single person like that. But sure.
I was born in US but grew up in South America. I went to Engineering College in Rio de Janeiro and I didn’t pay a dime for it: I got free food (not the best) free dorms (just ok) & free books! Brazil it’s a 3rd world country but they have Universal Health Insurance. I never paid a dime with doctors. They treaded my gastritis, my broken toe & my dermatitis for free! US it’s the only developed country in the world without Universal Healthcare. If you need private healthcare insurance in Spain you will pay around $75 per month and no need to pay meaningless $50 copay or any extra medical procedure expenses. Here in US you have to give tips to waiters. Also the food quality it’s awful. There are several items here that are strictly prohibited to be sold in Europe. The BBQ is tasteless and you have to put sweet sauce. The pasta in expensive restaurants are not fresh or made from scratch (it’s all Barilla). The pizza is fast food / not gourmet and its cover with can tomato sauce. The sodas have too much gas and have too much sugar. The corn syrup it’s VERY dangerous. The corn is all GMO.
Thanks to my Catalan grandparents I got a Spaniard Citizenship as well so I’m moving to Spain in few months. After Trump winning a second term I’ll never call my self an American anymore. Adios!!!
The U.S. doesn't score in the top 10 when it comes to freedom, happiness, health, education or safety, but most Americans just assume that they are number 1.
We're at the top in gun murders and incarceration! ;o)
Therein lies the problem!!!
At least we’re top 5 in people in prison, teen pregnancy and stds and divorce
I wish I knew what the exact percentage was. I’ve never thought that way myself. Ironically, Americans will say this without having travelled anywhere.
It's called arrogance
To solve a lot of this. Get money out of politics.
And improve public Education
"Citizens United" created a plethora of dark $$$ in DC in support of lobbyists who legally procure political votes in favor of modern-day robber barons & corps who hate paying taxes & fight even sensible environmental & safety regulations. The rest of us in the non billionaire class have no voice and no power.
you mean ALL of this.
To solve all of it eliminate money altogether. No one can rule over you then. The sooner mankind goes back to the old ways the better we all will be. We have free energy, housing, food and water before the last reset
@@appalachianflute2222 So how would that work? Would you be willing to work for free building houses, writing software, designing circuits, making concrete, etc....? And how many resources should you be allocated from the system? How much should you work? What kind of training and what kind of work should you do?
Part of our tragedy in America is that we have no humility. None. We think we have all the answers. A look around would easily disprove that assumption. Our love of ignorance blinds us to the fact that some other countries have a few good ideas that we could learn from and adopt, too. The first step toward solving many of our problems is to stop being so full of ourselves and learn from others.
Exactly and put eloquently.
A country that still uses pennies (which no businesses want) is not progressive. Americans are stuck in the fifties.
There's a REASON why Finland is considered the happiest country on earth. Google it for those who THINK they got the answers.
God forbid that the US would look at other countries and how they live and how they take care of their populations
@@kathleenpolly2219 In capitalism on steroids "they" have a vested interest in keeping us mis-informed, controlled, manipulated, and cult mentality. They discourage any critical thinking skills. They consistantly convince too many people to vote against their own best interests
From the US, I live in Sweden now and it’s pretty nice, no stress really. I get 32 days vacation, health care not to mention walkable or bikeable neighborhoods. Plus it’s all just so gorgeous!
My grass is greener. I left at 79 for a new life in SE Asia. Now years later my life is an absolutely joy.
That gives me hope at 72!😊
I'm 55 and planning to move in 6 months...Part of my problem is letting those material items I paid so much for, to let go for pennies on the dollars. But I'm ignoring the peace of mind of just letting go.
When I was stationed overseas, I noticed the pace of living was much, much slower and cheaper, and it took me awhile to un-stress, especially from the constant bombardment from the media. Yes, we have amenities-like air conditioning-foreigners don’t have but at what price? The helter-skelter pace of living in America is insane.
Me too. In SE Asia, women are still feminine, they actually love and respect men. Utterly shocking, the difference from Western women. The result? I, most men return the vibe. I love and deeply respect my Thai woman.
@@metubenoggin07 that's so nice and sweet. What about the food! And massages!
The U.S is a privately held Company and citizens are the surety, and they have been bankrupt since 1933
The system here is now predatory. With no one to govern the out-of-control corruption, it’s gotten worse over the past half century and, barring a major upset, there will be a catastrophic economic collapse.
Well said!
Google Cloward and Piven. This is being done purposely in order to turn the US into a welfare state. Netanyahu
And social collapse. It's not just money. It's moral bankruptcy.
Well, desperate monetary police produces a lot of greed opportunities.
The excesses of wealthy people grabbing more and more power and money will end badly for everyone.
Way to go, Veronica. At 60, I sold, gave away, threw away just about everything. Kept just what I loved and needed. And quit work, to do what I wanted. That was 13 years ago. No one ever lay on their deathbed wishing they had spent more time at the office. X
There are places in the world where people aren't crippled and bankrupted with medical expences.
Canada, for example.
Australia, Europe.
Pretty much all of the advanced countries. Most of the developing ones as well.
Well said! Some folks have saved and invested for their retirement only to have a medical event that wipes out a majority of their savings. Seniors really need to be protected more. How the heck, can these folks be taxed and struggling with health bills. Yes, there is something totally wrong with our system here in the USA. The rich just keep getting richer.
Wrong..there are ZERO other places where people are cripped and bakrupted with medical expenses..no other country on the planet.
People like you and I have the privilege of making the decision to leave or not. 50% of Americans live check to check and can’t afford to go anywhere.
credit card debt
That’s because of corporate greed….its so bad in america
The 1% and upper-upper class of America own DRASTICALLY more than the lower, middle, and upper class. Look at the charts. It’s WAY more than even a liberal guess. It’s absolutely crazy, and ought to be fixed.
This is true
Well, when the drought and civil wars hit the country, A.ericans will scatter to the 4 corners of the earth.
The government is owned by the corporations via Lobbyists. Every law seems to create a racket for them. Every law beats down the little guy. Every law excludes the little guy. Every law puts all of these together, with the goal being more and more and more money for the top players.
Truth! 👍
In California, it is the drug cartels and China.
No truer comment exists. Well worded
Our local state barons and county aristocrats lying "elites" (that is in reality themselves) conjuring scapegoats emotionally manipulating the smaller populations are a hundred and ten percent in on all this too. Lets stop pretending otherwise. It's the "trickle down" crime syndicate grifters and minions all over the place fabricating a fake "national 'reality'" perception to only their benefit
Yep
Thank you for making this video! I learned a lot reading all of the comments on your video! 🙏🏾❤️
All these massive shopping malls that have been deserted should be transformed into senior living facilities with their own medical centers within. They'd also be able to have small retail shops for them to stroll by on their indoor walks around the malls. Year round exercise
What an innovative and practical idea! Repurposing deserted shopping malls into senior living facilities could address multiple issues simultaneously. It would make use of existing structures that are often centrally located and easily accessible, provide much-needed housing for seniors, and incorporate health and retail services to create a vibrant community space. The concept of having medical centers and retail shops within these facilities would not only be convenient but could also foster a sense of community and keep residents active and engaged. Plus, the indoor environment would offer safe, weather-proof walking areas, which is a fantastic perk for year-round exercise and socializing. Thanks for sharing such a forward-thinking suggestion-it could indeed transform both the landscapes of our communities and the lives of many seniors.
That's a great idea. But there is too much corrupt politics and BS "zoning" restrictions.
They are starting to do this,seen a video of malls turned into apartments.
@VeronicaEdwards50 I've been a builder of homes and restaurants for nearly 45 years. When I see properties, it will tell me what it wants to be
lolol what a great idea!
Being “ the best country in the world” creates the idea that there is nothing more to improve. I am from the Netherlands, it is not the best country in the world but we are inclined to keep working towards that goal. We will never reach it, but in the mean time things get better.
I’ve always felt sorry for the North Koreans, being told how great their leader and land is, but now I see we, in the US, are being fed the same type of crap and believing it.
Your comment highlights a crucial aspect of critical thinking and the importance of questioning the narratives we're presented with, no matter where we live. The comparison you draw between overtly controlled information in some places and the subtler, perhaps more insidious, influences in others is thought-provoking. It's a reminder that staying informed, seeking multiple sources of information, and maintaining a healthy skepticism are vital for making well-rounded judgments about our leaders and the state of our nations. Encouraging open dialogue and education on these topics can help build a more informed and discerning public. Thank you for sharing your reflections-they underscore the ongoing need for transparency and critical engagement in any society.
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Both awesome comments. It all boils down to education. The less educated people are, the easier they are manipulated. They do not start questioning stuff and just follow what they are told.
I think it's exactly opposite you people seem to be all indoctrinated by your college educations . You do what you're told when you're told how you're told . You are going to look great living in the soviet-style apartment building wearing the nice grey suit @@gloofisearch
Huh?
You must be delusional or have never been in NK.
Usery is killing us. We’re over taxed and interest rates are out of control. Both need to end.
Living costs are obscene in the USA.
I’m a naturalized American from Germany. One of the richest countries in the EU. Trust me when I tell you, that it is absolutely possible to live a good life in the US as long as you’re not falling into the fake societal trap. Opportunities are sheer endless and you are probably freer than in other countries. That Americans are in so much debt is because of their consumerism. No one forces you to buy anything. I’ve bought a manufactured home 8 years ago on 5 acres of land for $148k and people looked down on me and still do even though I have no debt. My Ex called my home a “shitbox”. There you can see the twisted mindset. The house with land has now quadrupled in price. My car is 10 years old and drives like a charm, I run 3 businesses and all are bringing income. I live in my means and always have time for myself. Germany though has for everything a rule. Not easy to start a business and lord have mercy, when you step out of line. You are giving about 50% of your paycheck to the government. In return you get healthcare and a very mediocre retirement. Germany looks good from the outside but never ever would I go back. People only have to change their mindset, Be frugal, don’t spend more than you earn. Educate yourself cause education in the US is not the best. Step out of the matrix and a good life IS possible in this wonderful country. The mindset that when you’re old you’re sick, is mainly an American thing. My granny who survived two wars made it to 95 and worked until one day before her death in her small grocery store. Eat healthy as much as you can. Exercise and get fresh air. Americans unfortunately have the tendency like Germans, to do everything wrong and then complain of how bad everything is. I love America and its people. Is it hard here? Yes, no doubt but when you do your own thing, contentment is possible.
Yeah people like you who are independent and do your own thing can always survive anywhere. No doubt about it.But the majority of people Can't do anything on their own and have to work for the man and turn out to be slaves.
I'm sorry that your ex could not share your ability to see overspending or getting most of $ It really begs to wonder at least to me " am I that different " Like lady in video says I don't need a ton of space. Even my dog can make due. It's a mindset like you allude to
I just retired bought a mobile home on 4 acres in Georgia paid 75000. Needs some interior work. Nice Harley nice pickup truck. Most people won't go this route. Live simple. They can't do it !!!
Thank you. And welcome. We need more people like you.
great words
I hope we all know that it doesn't matter who is in the 'top job' because this is a systemic problem -- greed. We have allowed many of our economic sectors, to take advantage of the American people. It's disgusting and frightening for the future of our country. My husband and I will be retiring in the next two years n another country. We are absolutely worried that SS! will no longer be funded. we'll have to rely on his pension, a 403 (b) and a very prolific Investment account with Stephanie Janis Stiefel my FA. Our national debt is bloating and expanding every month. Our government needs to get spending under control and cut the federal budget.
I know this lady you just mentioned. Stephanie Janis Stiefel is a portfolio manager and investment advisor. She gained recognition as an employee of neuberger berman; a renowned investor she is. Stephanie Janis Stiefel has demonstrated expertise in investment strategies and has been involved in managing portfolios and providing guidance to clients.
I’m planning on moving to Thailand in the next 5 years if trump’s government doesn’t do anything with the high prices of groceries and taxes
What about you??
Been debt free for two years thanks to Stephanie Janis Stiefel. So sad to see my friends in their 40s with car loans, mortgages and credit card debt.
My sister lives in Aussie. They have good healthcare better than America. I am also moving there after I retire.
Please stop gentrifying countries
The problem of the us is that is full of greeding, and is getting Worse and worse. Every time is more difficult to buy a house and the rents are tremendous high payments
Look what happened to me. Catastrophic quad bypass and 3 strokes four years ago. I had 2 jobs and sold my art. Boom. Lost almost everything. My 69 year old sister saved me from becoming homeless and dying in the street. Seriously
I'm truly sorry to hear about the tremendous challenges you've faced. It sounds like you've been through an incredibly tough time, and it's heartening to hear that your sister was there to support you when you needed it most. Thank you for sharing your story with us; it's a powerful reminder of how quickly circumstances can change and the importance of having support systems in place. If there's any way that the content here can provide comfort or assistance, please let me know. You're a valued member of our community, and we're here to support each other. Wishing you continued strength and recovery.
You are fortunate to have support via sister. Your sister is truly an angel.
God bless ❤you and your sister
My relatives would pretend they didn't see me while they stepped over me on the street. You are lucky.
@@juliamaxwellmarin 😢 ❤️
America is a retail monster machine.
Definitely; keeps getting worse
Yes it is and there are those that believe if we say anything bad about our country we should leave. Thinking they are real patriots it is not patriotic to deny the problems this country has. No country is without failures, but to deny them is to never fix anything. I for one love our country and see it being trashed and that is maddening and I want to see change!!!
Its NOT just America.
In many European countries, tipping is an insult. It should be here, in North America. PAY YOUR PEOPLE, BUSINESS!!
Service levels would drop if there is no incentive for good service. Service in Europe is absolutely terrible. Do you want that?
I didn’t know that service is terrible in Europe. I think it depends
Which country are you talking about? Europe is made up of about 50 different countries, all with their own culture and customs. Untrue generalisation about tipping being an insult.
@@aurelia5614 even within country service can change.
I have not experienced that in Europe. Also, I have found that tipping in the US is far from a guarantee of good service. So, I would not miss tipping if it went away. Businesses should pay their workers appropriately, period. F tipping culture.
Retired in Thailand, living comfortably on less than $500 a month. Renting a small condo with security, gym and 50-meter pool. Everything I need is within walking distance, including a beautiful 4 mile long beach across the road.
i am watching US from Serbia. Now... most Americans dont even know where Serbia is but most also "know" that it is a bad place... but from what i saw (my father in law lives in Florida) online amd offline... i am sorry but i would never live in the US. my kids can go outside and play unsupervized, they go to school or shops on their own. our schools are better, our hospitals are cheep and fast and efficient... the worst thing here is birocracy. we own our homes (i own a house and an appartment... no rent and no bank... just mine)..we have almost no homeless people. it is very strange to be in 2024 in a third world country and thinking i have it better than my peers in the US
Здраво! I wouldn't call Serbia a 3rd world country. It's clearly more developed than that. As a Russophile myself I'd gladly visit and live at least temporarily in Serbia. To me the life there seems pretty good in its own right. Happiness is to some degree a choice. The happiest years of my life were in Russia when I lived there from 2014-2023. Already sick of the US again.
@brostoevsky22 Russia is far away from Serbia. We are both Ortodox but Serbia is a Balkan country.
@brostoevsky22 a lot of people mix Serbia with Siberia so i just want to make sure we are talking about the same country :)
они не знают Сербию, потому что им чёрте што говорили про Югославию
You are very wise. I live in Eastern Europe now too and when I tell people where I’m from they think I’m insane for wanting to live here. They don’t know the reality of living in the US or west anymore. And the illegals are taking over everywhere. At least here there is a sense of community and shared values.
I'm American living in West Africa in a place nobody thinks about. People here are super nice and helpful. Life is affordable. The food is great and much healthier. There are no guns. And it's always warm.
I want to live where no one thinks about. I just live where everyone ignores.
Australian here. I said to an Uber driver, why not go back to Fiji and live a stress-free life? He and his Australian wife were thinking about it. However the health system there is bad if you don't have money. His sister-in-law was only in her thirties and could not afford dialysis and died.
I’m got out too and live in Eastern Europe. The people here are great and the country is beautiful. You can actually afford to live a decent life and not everyone is obsessed with $ and status, the type of person you are is what actually matters. I do miss the US sometimes but I don’t think ai can ever go back there now.
well youre not in Liberia that's for sure
Caveat your statement with, "For now...I'm American living in West Africa..." Things change and that Constitution will come in handy! So will guns for self defense. I do agree America is going through a huge change where people are choosing to be a country again. We just did so in the election. We are also on the precipice of a QUANTUM tech leap only 1-2% of us are ready for. Live like you are eternal but also live like today is your last day.
When I was a teen, I went to Europe with my girlfriend and her parents. I'm so glad I was blessed. Once you leave the country, and see how other people live, you really see this country for what it really is. I'm 48 and I completely agree with you. Thank you.
I've been to third world countries and met happier people than us.
@@Pablo453 same here...
The biggest problem with Europe is the EU which is a power craze drive for over regulation both economically and politically and is anti borders allowing thousands of illegal immigrants to cross over into France, Germany the Netherlands as well as the Mediterranean and Eastern European countries which is having a very negative effect on those countries at the moment not mention here in the UK even though we are no longer part of the EU.
@@jayrobthorn6847 Leaving the EU actually increased the numbers of migrants coming to the UK only now we don't have the right to send them back across the channel.
@@jayrobthorn6847 Well said brother, Media won’t tell you these stories, EU is a dump now, for anyone who don’t believe or completely brainwashed by media and Politicians,Go to Paris,city of love! And Open your eyes…There is not much love anymore..
Vero, i totally agree. I was raised in Puerto Rico and Spain. And lived in the USA for 3 years and half. Not going back to the states
My top 3 culture shocks after moving to the USA: 1/ The medical system is absolutely monstrous. It is so expensive, inconvenient, complicated and pointless that I couldn’t believe it. You have to really, deeply hate people to create and defend this system. 2/ The quality and standards of home construction. This is a shock. Houses made of OSB boards, internal walls made of two sheets of plasterboard. This is a mockery, not a house. A movie set. The quality is incredibly low, and the price is incredibly high. 3/ Urbanization in the USA is at a very low level: car-dependent suburbs with no infrastructure, public transportation, public areas. A very unpleasant place to live. Where in the USA they managed to create some semblance of an average European town, the cost of houses immediately flew through the sky.
The people that defend it do so for political reasons. Not one American has convinced me that their health insurance model is better than universal health care
You're 100 percent spot on on all three points. USA is like the 3rd world compared to Europe.
I've heard from people who've built homes in the US and in Russia that they don't have real windows in the US, that there are absolutely no good, quality windows to be bought here, and those who know the difference and have the means import them from Russia. I mean, how pathetic is that.
Americans like to say “well your waiting times are through the roof” or “your health care system is multiplayer” what ever that means. At least patients are on a list, where as in America they can deny claims effectively removing patients from waiting lists. At least in the U.K. patients can go private if they want or stick to universal health care if they want. In the U.S the premiums are so high that universal health care looks like a bargain. You break your leg in America without insurance you could end up bankrupt which is unheard of in the U.K.
@@lardarseG1. Healthcare providers can be sued for arbitrarily refusing to cover people. They cant just do whatever, whenever they want.
2. 92% of americans have health insurance.
3. Universal healthcare is not a bargain. If you have universal healthcare and pay 20% in taxes just for your healthcare, you pay that every single year, say you make $60,000 a year, and you have absolutely 0 medical issues, thats $13,000 you just paid that year in medical bills for NOTHING. In the US, it will average you a few $100 (insured) to a few 1000 uninsured to fix a broken leg, only the time you break your leg. That is clearly inferior.
4. No, the premiums are not that high, and not at all if you have good healthcare here.
It's nice to see someone from America not trying to either justify or be an apoligist for all the things that the majority of the rest of the world finds odd, at best, or, in the main, simply abhorrent.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
YEs, I felt the same about the video.
I spoke with one tourist. I have never visited the USA. We had just invited him home. We are just a normal middle-class family. When he came and saw our family culture, he got emotional, gkt tears in his eye's. It's a regular way of life for us in India to be in such a system. He was in his 30s but still missing family values. He said family culture is totally broken in the USA. So then I realized the USA is not what they show in Hollywood.
Yeah. It’s quite unfortunate. Once the kids get themselves a car to traverse the concrete landscape, they’ll move out, see their family on the holidays if at all, then the parents get sent off to random facilities for the last of their days. Often they will be sedated.
True. The divorce rate (or now, just cohabiting for a while, then splitting up) is extremely high in the US
@@autumn111155551ya marriage makes money not a family. Americans were indoctrinated long ago after the assassination of Kennedy.
The gold standard went bye bye. Bush blew up the towers. Tax cuts for the rich. No more kids with stay at home parents. They also took away God and Jesus and believe in magic. Ya magic! Idk bout you but I've never manifest something from nothing.
@@k1ng_chicken For a child to be a proper adult they have to be on their own. I dont care if its cardbox with lights, they have to have their own after 18. I've met many adults who still live with their parents past 23. That is not right, especially for men.
Why is it better to have your wages enriching a bank or a landlord, than living with and supporting your family and your legacy? Doesn't it make much more sense to live with your family until you get kids and a significant other? Living with your parents economically sound and logical. If you are just a drain, thats different. But if youre at home, helping with expenses, paying for yourself, saving whenever you can for your future, you and your family are all better for it.
The only real reason to move out other than having too many family members of your own is literally due to having a toxic and abusive family.
I have family in the US (Florida) and even went to high school in the US for a year as a teenager, and one thing I've learned is that in most Americans it is embedded into their minds from early childhood that money = success and success = money. In reality, though, you can be absolutely free, content and happy as long as you have enough to just pay the bills and put food on the table. That's genuinely all you need. Wanting more than that is most likely a sign of insecurity and/or a misunderstanding of how the world functions.
European living in the US here. I was quite shocked to make the same observations after having been indoctrinated with American propaganda for decades. It is SOOOO capitalist here that people just care about money. Money money money and consumerism on steroids. Everyone has few cars here and a big home and is in debt because of it. But at least they're living it up right? Well, you could take that view. But being a European, I know the other side. It is much less consumerist in Europe. We don't feel like we are missing out on life because we can't drown ourselves in little toys like 10 TVs in the house or a big diesel truck and so on. It is much more pragmatic and we focus on our quality of life. Good health care free at the point of use. Good work life balance due to strong unions fighting for us and federal laws preventing employee exploitation to the degree it is seen here in the US. We don't live in big houses and own that much but our lives are less stressful for it. We don't drown in debt for it. At the same time life is cheaper because of it. US salaries are unheard of in Europe. My wife is an MSL making $160k. The same job in Germany would yield about $80k max. And because life is cheaper you actually get more for it even though it's half as much as the US equivalent. I really feel life is just a rat race here in the US. It is SOOO consumerist and everyone is in debt or has medical debt. People are taken advantage of by employers. You can't even have a baby and stay home for 2 years and get paid like you do in Europe. When we had our son my wife was back at work after 3 months. That's a massive joke. I constantly have to fight my employer over off days or sick days for doctors appointments. They always try to scare me but I don't care. I tell them, look, I take this day off and if you don't like it fire me. In Germany, when I needed a day off, it was my god damn right. They have to give me days off so they just do it before they fight me. It's seen as a right so it isn't fought. Yes they would like to fight it but they can't that easily. I had one employer try that and I went straight to court and won. That would not have happened here in the US as I wouldn't even have had any ground to stand on legally. US employers can fire you for anything they want. You look at them wrong and they'll let you go and you can't do nothing about it. Everything is structured so you are beholden to your masters which are the rich and wealthy who own the market.
Fortunately you had TWO incomes - that tips the scales bigtime.
@@TLA123y6f I second this. Not everyone has the privilege of a significant other.
Australian here. We seem to be caught between two cultures. Housing has become unaffordable. Most couples are on a treadmill to pay their mortgage. Plus, conservative governments have run down public schooling. The other option is expensive private schools drowning in government money. The one down the road built an aquatic center worth 25 million (10 years ago). It still has massive fees. Unlike Norway, we give our natural resources away to foreign companies. Also, the heads of corporations are paid scandalous amounts. The heads of our corporations are mediocrities who got there through being able to network. The brightest and best go into law and medicine.
I had a major operation in our public health system, and it was great. However vested interests are chipping away at it.
Well said…
The issues you describe are the result of a lack of actual capitalism lol. The government prints money and devalues everyone's wealth. The rat race never ends because the rich sit near the money printer.
You are soooo spot on. When I grew up(the 60's 70's) there was no homeless. Any job could support you. Any job could pay rent. If someone would have told me then what life would be like in this new world I would have said you were crazy. Now, NOTHING is normal anymore. You're right - we've been brainwashed to think a lot of things. Capitalism can become a very cruel system. Corruption and greed is norm now. There's a REASON we have a mental health crisis in this country. We have been spiraling down. If we don't turn things around where are we going to be 10-20 years from now?
Thank you for your thoughtful response. It’s clear that you've witnessed significant changes over the decades, and your perspective sheds light on how economic and social shifts have impacted daily life. The issues you mention, like homelessness, job security, and mental health, are indeed critical and reflective of deeper systemic problems. Discussing these challenges openly, as we are here, is a crucial step toward understanding and hopefully addressing them. It's essential to consider where current trends may lead us and what actions can be taken to create a more equitable and sustainable future. Your concern and insights are a valuable part of this conversation, and I appreciate you taking the time to share them. Let's keep this dialogue going and work together toward the changes we hope to see.
I feel your outrage. Until big corporate money and gerrymandering is outlawed from politics, the special interests of the rich and powerful will continue to dominate and concentrate wealth. The Supreme Court allowed super PACS like citizens United to donate unlimited capital in support of special interests and most recently, the Supreme Court found that the main federal anti-corruption statute proscribing bribes to state and local officials does not criminalize gratuities, which the Court described as “payments made to an official after an official act as a token of appreciation.” This ruling basically legalizes bribery. So when you as a citizen want clean air & water, sensible gun control, reasonable wages, public safety, better public schools, etc. remember that you as an individual are competing against the deep pocketed industrial interests that are now allowed to bribe public officials and these same public officials gerrymander their districts ensuring their continued reign on power and control.
You apparently weren't paying attention in the 50s 60s and 70s. My parents even as college educated nurses and University of Minnesota employees struggled to make the house payment struggled to feed all of us. We all made it became highly successful and didn't invent excuses why somebody else was at fault. Work hard spend less than you earn if one job doesn't do it work two jobs that's what we did to get ahead it's your turn now
67 and never thought I'd say that I'm glad I'm my age!
All I can say to anyone is don't have children! It will literally be child abuse, human abuse!
I’m born, raised & currently in usa but ready 2 become a expat!! Recently a well travelled lady told me that the usa is a small part of the world. 🌍 All of a sudden I felt a sense of relief because I have more good options than I realize. I have hope of a better future that the best is yet to come.
@madamcjwalker67 Freeing isn't it? Becoming a person of the world. Having some other choice.
While there is no paradise on earth, as a Canadian, the thought of not having my health care covered gives me chills. The Canadian health care system isn't perfect, but if you polled Canadians, 98% would never vote to adopt the American system.
Corporate fascism is not a democracy. When profit is more important then human being.
I agree with just about everything you said. Another thing I’d say is Americans are obsessed with jamming themselves into molds and try to be what they “should be” based on outdated standards rather than living in a way that actually makes sense.
Thank you!!!
Just look at reality shows young people are exposed to. Real Wives of Beverly Hills, The Kardashians, etc. Mansions, money, money, money, cars, clothes. Ridiculous and it sets a horrible example.
This is SO TRUE
I thought this was just a me thing. Wow!
I have lived around the world... What you talk about sums up things.. Most Americans have never researched or travelled outside the USA to see the differences..
Americans are slaves to the dollar, consumerism and multi billionaire corporations. This is not Communist talk just the truth..
The most horrible things about the USA is the medical situation, the debt incurred and lack of easy transportation.. The free time is sadly lacking.. Most people get 6 weeks holiday a year plus public holidays..
I only recently found out you have to pay to give birth to a child 😢.... This is free where I live..
Americans don't know how badly they are being abused... It's slavery
Dang
That's why the only people who tout it's merits are business owners who've learned to exploit the system, and working class people.
I'm in Portland Oregon. I met a man from Cuba one day, on the train. He said "people like to talk about communism, about Cuba. But we don't have people sleeping on the ground!" So true...so very true. 😞
My wife and I elected to downsize after the financial crisis of 2008. In 2010, we surrendered our 2700 sq ft, four-bedroom home to foreclosure. We moved to a small 1100 sq ft home my wife's mother had left us. We have never been happier. It turns out that two bedrooms (one for guests) and one family room are quite enough. The only "splurge" is the second bathroom. Our yard is small and easy to maintain. A carport replaces a garage, and we have dropped to a single automobile. In all, everything is as wonderful as we could have hoped.
Praise be to God!
You got foreclosed on because you could not afford the house to start with.
Why were you having to get free real estate?.
No kidding, you're living a relaxed life.🙄
It’s not about downsizing. It’s about the luck to inherit a free property when you most needed it.
A big house with a big garden sounds like a dream come true. But somehow I don't feel like trying this. I live happily and content in a small apartment in Europe. When I go for a walk in the forest, even millionaires can envy me. This is my simple life philosophy and it works.
A big garden might take up all of your free time to tend to it. Enjoy free time in nice surroundings instead of being super stressed.
Absolutely. People with money get big houses to show off. You then find them living in it alone, and lonely. Money simply cannot buy all people think it can.
@@k1ng_chicken You are absolutely right. Happiness is not about big money.
Big garden is a lot of work. It is fun but incessant.
Veronica, this is a healthcare comment. I'm Australian and for years our federal government has focused on preventative health care. Every 2 years women get reminders to have a pap smear (your own doctor, may or may not have to pay) and a breast screen (mammogram) which is free. There is also the bowel cancer screening program - every 2 years all adults aged 45-74 get a test kit. This program is widely advertised essentially as "do a shit, poke it with a stick". These public health initiatives have proved hugely successful in the early detection of cancers, thus higher survival rates and enormous savings for the public health system. Win/win. And no-one goes bankrupt. When the primary focus of healthcare is profit, not people, you're in deep s**t.
Yes, but it is because the people of Australia held the governments, toes near the fire ! While Americans own "slogan/opinion" thinking is holding us back....We must deprogam from many things that only serve to allow certain groups to flourish, yet destroy others.
It's VERY profitable here in the USA. If I didn't have health insurance w/ my job, I'd have to pay $200 for a doctor visit. I recently paid $148 for an ultrasound because my insurance wouldn't cover it.
The costs are astronomical. I don't think most younger Americans realize how likely it is that a health crisis in mid-life will wipe out any retirement savings they manage to save. The politicians are targeting social security after draining it of funds for decades. As things stand, many if not most of us will end life in poverty. Conservatives will say "get a better job and invest in the stock market", as if those jobs exist for everyone and the country wouldn't fall apart without workers in the shops, the restaurants, cleaning, all those things they don't think deserve a living wage. Most Americans couldn't find $500 in an emergency (there's been studies to confirm this, not pulling that figure out of thin air).
It's dystopian here. I'm on edge worried about how bad it will be with the incoming administration and their disasterous stated plans. People are not prepared for if the economy crashes. They're paycheck to paycheck as it is.
I get my Paps, Mams and colonoscopy for free. Wellness has become a big focus with my employer
My state has all Democrat levels of government, from the city councils to the governor. For four years, we had one mandate after another from the top down. We are completely in debt as a state. We have the highest gas tax, very high income tax and they will not stop bleeding us dry. One mandate is for more housing. My corner of the city added 17,000 apartments. Now this small area will get 15,000 more. Biden opened the borders and has gone after conservatives. I know a murder victim, my mail and cars are not safe. I live in California. @@andromedaspark2241
I worked until age 70. The maximum age for social security benefits. I retired because of some medical issues. I did my part.
I was a health care provider. Our healthcare system is a mess. I had a couple of nurse friends from the British system come to visit. They toured hospitals and ERs, one if them was in tears in disbelief that the richest country in the history of the world could treat its people so poorly. They worked in the London East side and said they have triage patients within 20 minutes and see them within 30 minutes. They also complained how the same ultra right Tories who brought them Brexit wanted to privatize their system to make it more like the American system. They said Britains would revolt rather than allow that to happen. They love their system despite its problems. And guess what, no medical bills to go into bankruptcy behind.
We are truly a country getting further and further behind as the conglomerates gain more control for profits, stock buybacks and billionaire tax cuts. For now, we’re Germany in 1932-33 as we move toward authoritarian corporate control with the election of Trump.
Hi Veronica, I live in Australia. We have universal healthcare, paid sick leave, paid parental, paid bereavement leave, long service leave, ie 3 months leave after so many years of service with an employer. We have paid superannuation, a 37 hour week, paid public holidays, time and a half or double time for weekend work. I am sure if Americans experienced life in other countries they would hopefully advocate for similar conditions in their own.
Guess this is why nothing gets done in Australia. This has been a growing trend mainly since women have become 50 percent of the workforce. I’m 72 and remember working 50 plus hours a week for decades. When more women started in the work force more sick leave and time off for nearly every thing. Glad I am done with full time work and get a kick out of 30 year olds complaining about working there life away .
Thank you for this insight, and I definitely hear your overall sentiment, and that is that perspective or seeing the big picture would help see how we in America are living. I get it. BUT, I've watched easily a dozen videos of people who have LEFT Australia because specifically the cost of living (housing) has made them leave. And they're much happier in Thailand or Malaysia, etc.
The thing is "Americans" is too broad a concept, there are about 300 million of us and within that, there are SO many groups. New immigrants, first and second generation people, are SO happy with what they get living here. Many other groups have different feelings about things; college educated, poor, rich, black, white. There's no end to who is satisfied and isn't.
And we have to be a tiny bit realistic, about going abroad. It's not usual that Americans get out into the world. Both the ability and more importantly the desire. People are convinced it's the best place on earth AND they hate it. So logic and reason are out of whack.
We advocate for it now. But we believe that it's ok that our politicians are only accountable to corporate lobbyists rather than us.
No in America, you are supposed to work very hard for a few years, then you begin to hire people to work for you. It’s called entrepreneurship. You work hard now so you can have much more time off later. In the end you come out way ahead. All that paid leave and time off and working less than 40 hours catches up with you.
@@jamiemcgill67 In other words, every single person should own a business. Good thing businesses never go under, and there's no need for anything else.
Live in New Zealand, Worked for a large US IT corporation. Over ten years ago I was sent to the US to work on project there. The guys were shocked when I didn't hesitate to decline an offer of a green card. A year later all those guys were laid off as the project wound down. I did another 10 years with that company doing projects all over the world.
This country is backwards and broken. Every day I wish I wasn’t born here.
I agree this once great republic is indeed backwards and broken. While I'm glad I was born in this country, I wish I wasn't living in this century. I wish time travel were possible because I'd time travel my ass outta this century in a heartbeat, if I could. I HATE this century with a passion! Unfortunately I'm stuck in it.
Veronica Edwards, you're right. The way we're living in this country today is NOT normal! I wish we, the people, could change it somehow.
Definitely broken
I appreciate your tone, sincerity, and equanimity. Thank you for this analysis.
Living "next door" in Canada, what I would see on the news made me to decide to never watch the news from the US again. On another note, I have downsized as well. We don't eat out anymore, we buy in bulk at COSTCO and Amazon for dry goods. After my truck needed another expensive repair, I decided to sell it and not buy another. I live in a rural area without public transportation but we still have an SUV and motorcycle. We will be fine without purchasing another over priced vehicle. We don't need to keep up with the Jones's and it feels great. Another great video!
Why does Canada have less violent crime even though you guys live right next to us here in the good ol' USA and are exposed to our entertainment, culture, and media?
@ I have strong opinions about it as I lived close to Buffalo growing up. I have been to the US many times and enjoyed my visits. We could talk hours about it 🙏
@@sagatuppercut2960Guns guns guns. I need a gun to protect against the other guy because he has a gun. Then to the fear add day to day anger and mistrust of goverment, institutions, people/culture all amped up by media and the
myth that there are easy answers to it all. Your living in a very low level war zone imo, but a for a long period with an enemy that everyone can define for their own agenda.
Cars prices are now as much as houses were when I was 18. My father bought his first home for $15,000.
Buying at Amazon is not something to be proud of…
Imagine a college education that cost over 50,000 that lands you a job working at Starbucks. 😳
Start at Starbucks and then go to college😂😂
@evahaynes4438 Right 🤣 I'm just trolling the "Libs/"Progressives" hehe
college is a scam now
Men especially need to learn a trade. Boomers are retiring daily from these careers.
My kid went to college and works for a company that started him at 150k per year.
I emigrated from the U.S. twenty-four years ago and I wouldn’t go back if you paid me.
We are so brainwashed in the U.S. that it’s the best place on earth, when in fact, it’s the exact opposite.
not for everybody. besides, tell that to all the people risking their lives to come here for a better live compared to where they are from.
@@royharper2003because they are uneducated and dont realize America is garbage.
Yes, and the power of US propaganda tell to the entire American Continent it is the best place, land of freedom...
Tell me where you went. I need ideas! :)
This is America: Adolescent, Arrogant, Belligerent, Uneducated and Ignorant!!! Watch Sharon Stone's speech from Italy!!!
Veronica you are becoming viral in Italy too 😊 come here, much less stress
Italy is most definitely on my list! I'm considering a one way ticket....thank you 🤗
Do as Catia says, come to Italy and if you can, to Sardinia, you won't regret it (ask Catia). Incidentally, I had esophageal cancer seven years ago and was operated on in Padua in a center of excellence; they took out my esophagus and for now I'm still alive, thank God. Well, directly, it didn't cost me almost anything (obviously no meals are free, I pay a reasonable fraction of my income to the National Health Service). I live in a city by the sea, in a central neighborhood where I have at least three market 50 meters from home and for normal daily needs I can live very well on foot. I have a car that is twenty years old and runs great and I plan to keep it, I don't need anything else (it almost always sits in the garage). In Italy we also have our problems, and who doesn't? However, I wouldn't leave Sardinia for all the gold in the world. HI
I wish more Americans thought like you.
I wish more Americans thought.
Greed and materialism is a huge problem in our country. People are taught they HAVE to move out as soon as they’re adults. In other countries it’s normal to have multi generational homes.
This is the way it should be 🫂😔
An Eagle has to leave the nest to soar to heights.
We don't need a society that seems to think about nothing besides making more money.
You are 100% correct. I am an American expat living in Japan.
Just went to the hospital. Had annual MRI and several months of asthma medicine with doctor consultation. My total payment was about $80 USD.
You are also right about the efficient public transportation and housing. Houses are smaller, but built more for quality and efficiency of heat storage in winter, with lots of windows for summer. Everyday items more expensive, but last lot longer.
I blame mainly large corporations and big pharma/insurance for the problem in the US. Planned obsolescence and a push to put people in debt to show off to their neighbors.
Not at all sustainable…
Uhh, it started with Reagan!! Neo Liberalism! Uhh, I went to Japan in the early eighties and met a lady and just ended up here. The older I get the better it is. No one talks about Japan,s health care compared with all others. It is one of the best in the world!!!
You do realize that Japan has an even more workaholic and work to the bone mentality than the US?
But what about th attitude of Japanese people towards disabled and severel disabled people?
I left from 1990 to 2000. Spent a wonderful decade in Finland. No-stress culture, nice calm environment. Loved it!
Worked for Nokia when they were King of the Cell Phones. Both of my parents got diagnosed with serious health issues so I returned to the US. Quite the reverse culture shock coming back.
We're "programmed" to think our way is the "best" way. The "normal" way - when nothing could be further from the truth.
To Steve: my brothers business partner is married to woman from Massachusetts and after 20 years living in Winchester (very nice!) she wanted to move "back home ".... 6 months later they are finalising their move.... back to England. She couldn't take the American way of life....says it all.
I don't know where you been living. I'm 77 years old and a black woman. It's always been this way for me. I'm almost glad to learn that some folks are finally realizing how some of us other people have taken for granted All of our life. So in essence, what you are talking about doesn't apply is and always have been a reality for people like me.
What do you mean, "taken for granted?" Who is taking you for granted. Your family? Are you under the impression that other people owe you something?
@@glennwatson3313 Listen to what they are saying, instead of getting defensive. This country is this way it is because it uses Black people, minorities and the poor as scapegoats and distractions, meanwhile the rich are profiting off of all of us. We could have had affordable housing, free healthcare, free education if politicians didn't make us afraid that the "wrong" kind of people would get these things too when they didn't "deserve" it
@@glennwatson3313 Why the strong negative reaction and accusatory tone? I read this through several times and don't know why you believe she thinks she is owed something. I think what she is pointing out is that the things Veronica Edwards is learning are things that she learned a long time ago. Life is hard here, stacked in favor of the rich at the expense of the disadvantaged. Being black in the US has historically put people at an additional disadvantage. She is just pointing out that her experience has been different than that of Veronica.
@glennwatson
Oh, you're one of the chuck-chuck bandy wagon folks, I see. You know exactly what the lady is speaking of, yet, your idiocy overrules your common sense. When certain whites start feeling overwhelmed by their sinking "The great white way", that's when all things are at a loss. If one reads the history of this country, one will know that many blacks, First Nations Peoples, Asians, etc., have known and lived such things their entire lives. These ideas that the lady expressed are old hats to the aforementioned peoples. It's funny, that certain whites use those same tired lines, "Oh, you're playing the victim; Oh, you act like someone owes you something; Oh, you're expecting something for nothing, etc..." yet, many whites are now complaining about how hard it is. Well, wake up, and take a good look at how "America" began, then perhaps, you will know that it is in the dumps today because of its history. Note: There are black seniors living today, who lived through segregation, Jim Crow, lynchings, steering, etc., and you have the nerve to state such a comment. Our First Nations Peoples lived through these same horrors, and so many are gone. Yes, we so-called minorities are due many things, but we shall collect our gifts from the God of lights. A nation cannot survive, when it incessantly spills blood on sand. Those sands may cover the blood and shift, but the shifting will never cease. This new nation, "America" was not built on a rock, it was built on shifting bloodied sand.
A reckoning is almost here, and many of us are simply watching.
@@willobendorf6356 Life is stacked against women who live in cars while pursuing a career as a traveling artist.
As an immigrant citizen and former homeless veteran I can think of 1 billion people on this planet we call Earth that would love to replace you.
It's not normal we are all robots for the government. We are programmed to work till we drop dead and grind it out daily and be too tired to spend quality time with our families!!
Work-life balance is a lie.
Americans DO have a choice. Don't buy water in plastic bottles, DO save and don't over consume, do buy a house that fits your needs instead of feeding your ego.
Some of this can be done but it is easier said than done.
Amen.
@@ikeameltdown8012 Are you sure? I've lived both lives. I was a software engineer and did the spend-spend life, large hugely expensive house and mortgage. The 22 years ago I dropped out and have lived a simple life. No question to me the simple life is way easier. Most every day is like being on vacation. I loved my career but there was people depending on me.
I think the issue is most Americans have no idea how easy life can be in America. Many things they consider requirements that aren't. I was the same. I had no clue. I started by canceling cable TV. Assumed I would croak. Surprised I liked the added time to do other things. Then the next thing, one at a time dropping things to see the effect. Internet has been the only waster I haven't been able to drop. Few months ago I stopped bottled water and drink tap water. And stopped using toilet paper. Yeah, gross AF. Water bottle with soapy water and my hand like most people in the world do. Clean bum. It's not about the cost or the environment. It's the challenge.
Yeah, it's all good until you want to go back to work but need day care for your child. Prepare to pay what? $450 weekly? Or how about a medical crisis? Medical debt is the leading cause of BK in the US. And vacation time? Yeah sure. That's a f'in joke.
I agree 100%. I have a 1,000 square foot home that's paid for, a 2014 car that's paid for and put 25% in my Roth 401K.
College is overrated and is not meant for every graduate. Trade school is a better alternative.
When my dad retired from the USPS, he took a part-time job because he was going stir crazy .
I miss paper bags and lunch meat being wrapped in paper . Bread has always come in plastic bags . We recycled those bread bags growing up . We used them inside our boots . We used paper bags for book covers.
@@traceybenna4150 completely agree re Trade School. If you have a trade where I live you'd never be without a job, a way to earn your living and trying to get a good tradesperson is a nightmare.
We used wallpaper and paper bags for book covering (I'm Gen X) 😂
@@bexp436Smart people get a trade, degrees are useless now unless you do engineering or something like that.
I went to college, got out and started a career. However, it didn’t work out. I went to a trade school, and got out and started making a better living than I did with my college degree. I threw my college diploma away a few years ago. But I’ll always have my nursing license.
There needs to be a balance of everything. Trade school should be a more mainstream culture for sure and college for more professional fields in terms of engineering and doctors.
100% on target. I've lived in Germany and Japan and England. America is a beautiful nation. Too bad we can't bring ourselves to learn from other nations how to enjoy what we have and preserve it for future generations.
Thank you for sharing your perspective! Your experiences living in Germany, Japan, and England must have given you a wealth of insight into how different countries approach sustainability and quality of life. America is indeed a beautiful nation with so much to offer, and your point about learning from others is so important. There’s so much value in adopting practices that promote preservation and long-term well-being. Hopefully, as more people share views like yours, we can work towards a future where we better appreciate and protect what we have. Thank you for adding such a thoughtful reflection to the conversation! 🌍💚
The vast majority of seniors cannot afford not to work...I'm one of them.
Vast majority? Over 65... 33% have less than $10k saved, 66% less than $100k. Where do you draw the line on being required to work? For what lifestyle? I'm 68, stopped working a job 22 years ago. Average spend $592.04/mo past 21 months. I'm guessing my lifestyle is very different from yours.
@@waterbug1135your home paid off? You just pay cheap property taxes? How do you keep your food bill low?
agreed. I am 61 and could live on a lot less if insurance were not tied to my job. If I quit my job, or work part time, my insurance would be ridiculously high and the deductible crazy high. If I take SS at 62, it's not enough to pay my basic bills. I would still have to work. And then at 65 it will drop because our government takes some back for medicare.
@@anniesshenanigans3815those stories need to be heard. Too many people are clueless about the struggle.
@@waterbug1135If you quit working at 46, you are fortunate and obviously cannot relate to the thousands of other seniors who are struggling.
I live in Arizona. Since I an over 65 my real estate taxes are frozen at $750/year. I own my 1100 sq ft house free and clear. I drive a 1976 Chevy van that I can repair myself and it only needs liability insurance $500/year. I have some money saved but I can survive on my $1500/ month SS. My saying has always been "It's good enough". I use my Costco card only and pay it off every month before there are any extra charges. I have no debt. I bike ride and hike for exercise. I buy and sell cars and trucks for extra cash. Buy, wash, vacuum, clean. and sell on Craigslist. My credit score is 810. You have to be smarter than what you're doing.
You are in fact one of the smartest people I have encountered. What are your plans for the final destination?
LOVE THIS! I'm 62 and hoping to be the same soon. 3.5 years to pay off my house, ready to call the govt to freeze my property taxes, old chevy spark paid off. No credit card bills, will ALSO be getting around $1,500/month SS god willing at 65. . I AM nervous about it but your post gives me a little more confidence.
I too live a simple life. I rent my extra bedroom to my friend for cheap and drive an easy to fix 1998 vehicle I bought 14 years ago. The libraries have free passes to museums and national parks. I pay off my credit card every month too. I also don't own a cell phone. My landline with an answering machine works fine.
Yes but you know what? Most people aren't like you. You can't just let people eat shit because they aren't as street smart as you are. That's just not ethical. And you are old. You aren't young in a time when a small house costs $500k. Older folks always act like things are so easy if you are just a little street smart. I wish you could be young today and buried in student debt living at you parents house with your wife and son because you can't afford a home of your own due to high interest and increased cost of living and an inflated housing market. I can be as frugal as I can be and still won't be able to afford the house you live in, in todays market. It's a totally different world. And you are also on government health care at that age which is vastly better than private health care.
I live in AZ too. You cannot get car insurance for $500 a year. I pay about triple that for liability on a 1980s car. I'm over 70 and they won't freeze my taxes because I have too much in savings (from a lifetime of work). My real-estate taxes are $4250 a year. Yes, I agree I should move to a smaller house.
As a foreigner, i met a lot of Americans, and they told me that the American society suffering from individualism and selfishness, no social life and with massive lack of friendship and human values. 😢
That's true..reason US has high rates of Mental illness...but don't tell them that, because they are always in Denial about everything.
All correct 💯
All incorrect @@afrikanheritage99
@WhiteAngel14ProMax I responded but my comment was censored...it's all true.
Hi Veronica. Your channel came up and I just watched. Loved it. We are researching Panama. Hope to investigate in a few months. Keep up your good work. Rod
Hi Rod! Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words-I’m thrilled that you enjoyed the video! Researching Panama sounds like an exciting adventure. It’s such a beautiful country with a lot to offer, from its natural beauty to its lower cost of living and expat-friendly communities. I wish you all the best in your exploration, and I’d love to hear about your experiences when you visit. Thank you for your support, and I’ll keep sharing helpful content. Good luck with your journey! 😊