Honestly Veronica, I live in Northern Ireland and I find elements of your findings in the US also applying here. So much of young people's lives seem to revolve around the acquisition of more and more "stuff" ( homes, cars, holidays etc) driving higher debt and need for second jobs. I'm 61 and retired now and it took me years to realise that the secret to a happy life didn't lie in an expensive bottle of perfume or designer shoes. I hope the young ones learn quickly and kick our consumer society to the kerb. Loving your videos. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective and experience from Northern Ireland. It's fascinating, yet sobering, to see how these consumer trends resonate across different cultures and continents. Your insight about finding happiness beyond material possessions is incredibly valuable, especially in today's world where there's so much emphasis on acquiring more. It’s a powerful message for all ages, and particularly poignant for younger generations navigating the pressures of consumerism. I'm glad to hear you've found contentment in simplicity, and I hope your reflections inspire others to reevaluate their priorities and find their own paths to happiness. Thank you for your kind words and for being a part of our community-I'm thrilled you're enjoying the videos!
I visited Ireland for 10 days back in ‘95 or ‘96. Bounced around to different bed and breakfasts. Talking with one of my hosts I said it was nice to see all the made in Ireland stuff, low prices and the quiet country atmosphere with low hustle and bustle. She told me they had just passed a bunch of laws that would effectively make them just like the USA in a few years. I guess she was spot on in her analysis……
@@jetsengoytredkl that timeline sounds absolutely spot on. Looking back, it was a huge sea-change in people's expectations and house prices, car prices etc took a really big hike, along with salaries (not quite to the same extent though).
That part came from Ireland on the boat over, way back when. Now it's bigger. Mix in other countries and Trump who looks for all the historical "bad" and puts it on the top.
I’ve been living in the USA for last 17 years and so much has changed for the worst. It’s socialism for the rich and capitalism for the poor. A lobbying system based on protecting and promoting corporate and foreign based interests is unfair and unjust and should be outlawed. I believe this is one of the root problems we have.
Capitalism works great when people care about each other. But as it matures that sliver of evil in people comes out and greed is good. The U.S. is falling apart from within. We have 11 aircraft carriers but the small amount of rich are owning and controlling more and more . Americans can't afford the lifestyle that was prevalent in the 1960s and 1970s. Corporations who lobby politicians are causing so much harm to our society because of greed. The U.S. is toast
In the 1950s if a politician were caught taking bribes the shame was so intense generally they would unalive themselves. Now politicians brag about all the money they get from bribery.
The people who control the system are the ones who benefit from it. They will never change it or relinquish power willingly. None have throughout recorded human history for the most part. Only nationwide striking and unification of the impoverished and working class until the system collapses will bring about change. Alternatively revolution is much better, given the chances of the former happening.
capitalism ended with the central bank, then got worse with the removal of the gold standard. You can't have a capitalist system in existence when the people aren't in control of their own money supply. A foreign bank pretending to be a USA owned bank by calling itself the "fed" is the problem there. Inflation didn't exist until that thing was brought into play and given control of our money printing, which is supposed to be under the treasury, not them.
There's a REASON for that. It doesn't take much to become homeless. It doesn't take much to be bankrupted of your life savings. Most people are living paycheck to paycheck - and one or two unexpected emergencies back to back can do it. The Republicans are brainwashed into thinking these people are mentally ill and/or drug/alcohol addicts. Blame the victim mentality. The fastest growing segment of homeless is elderly women. Just like years ago a rape victim would be doubly victimized by the "system" - she "deserved" it because she was wearing a short skirt. Sure, there is some of that (homeless BECAUSE of drugs/alcohol)But to be honest I think that one would become mentally ill, if they weren't before, trying to survive the streets And if I were living under a bridge in the freezing cold I might want to "numb' myself too. Both emotionally and physically.
There's this thing for American homeowners called property taxes. You'll pay them even after paying off the home. If you don't you'll lose your house. Americans pay property taxes till they're gone and in the ground.
Most Americans stressing about money are a hell of a lot better off than over 2 billion people on earth. I'd say we're doing something a little better than settling for working for $2 a week.
@@darrell_dee97 how much is this tax? I'm not American so it's interesting to me. What kind of percentage you gotta pay for your own property each month?
@@TheAleksandros Its complicated but mostly it depends on the state and city laws but mostly the value of the property. I pay $4k a year for a small house in CA. Others could pay more than double that for the same house size but in more expensive neighborhoods in CA or other states. Americans are obsessively worried about money because life is too expensive here and they need to survive independently especially when the rent/mortgage takes 2 thirds of their pay checks now days.
When you age you NEED preventative care. It's almost impossible to get it. Because America is all about exploitation and theft and exponential profit. I know a LOT of older Americans that simply LEAVE because they have the means to escape this corporate monopoly hellhole.
the system elevates/incentivises the former at the expense and suffering of the latter. The system increases the number of those people that exploit others.
Impossible. I mean, try and try, but it won't change, because the majority of people want a politician or a superhero to save them from themselves. As much as I LOVE comic books, superheroes don't exist in real life. Want someone to save you? Save yourself. Don't be lonesome for your heroes, be your own hero, (Haight-Ashbury SF) and that's requires a level of personal maturity and introspection that just flat out DOES NOT exist, and I doubt it ever will among the common American. I'd wager money on the country completely devolving into a Third World hellscape over people daring to question the God that is their own ego. A revolution of the mind sweeping through the masses will be the ONLY thing to save this country.
That will be a big start. But don't bet any money on that happening soon. It will take a French-style American revolution to make any real changes, and with Orange Jesus coming into power who is totally corrupt, don't bet on any improvements under his watch.
I live in Portugal. The people are kind, friendly and helpful. You don´t see trash on the freeways or roadways. Free healthcare. The cost of living is way lower than in the States. It´s a beautiful country with great weather. The pace of living is slower. Couldn´t be happier.
I agree with you 100% I live in Canada and I have many American friends. And the only people that are complaining about our healthcare system is the Americans they’re always telling me how bad my system is and the long weights, etc., but I have had cancer twice Had treatments surgery. I am over the cancer and it didn’t cost me any money. Everybody deserve to have the right to healthcare not just the elite.
Americans for the most part have insurance to cover something like cancer. You wont loose your home, unless you have no insurance. BTW, those without insurance, mostly dont own a home. And they can still get treatment.
The Canadian healthcare system is prioritized based upon need and urgency. I have a good friend who was diagnosed in July 2024 to be in need of a surgical knee replacement and her surgery is scheduled for mid-February 2025. She has pain and mobility issues, but her life is in no danger. In the meantime, she is provided with medications for pain, a cane and walker for mobility and physiotherapy. She also has free homecare for cleaning & maintaining her home and for other small tasks such as transportation to appointments and grocery shopping. My wife, just a few years ago, following a routine mammogram, was provided with a diagnosis of breast cancer on a Thursday afternoon. Over the weekend she attended the hospital for half a day for blood work, an MRI and other pre-surgery testing. She was in surgery at 6:00 AM on Monday morning for the removal of the cancer from her right breast, along with removal of 14 lymph nodes from her chest and right arm. Within a week following surgery, she was referred to Princes Margaret Cancer hospital for almost daily visits for chemotherapy, followed by radiation treatments over the course of 60 days. My wife is cancer free for several years now and the total cost of medical services was ZERO. There is only one complaint that I here often from Canadians about our hospital system and that is that parking at most hospitals can cost up to $30 per day.
The Canadian healthcare system is prioritized based upon need and urgency. I have a good friend who was diagnosed in July 2024 to be in need of a surgical knee replacement and her surgery is scheduled for mid-February 2025. She has pain and mobility issues, but her life is in no danger. In the meantime, she is provided with medications for pain, a cane and walker for mobility and physiotherapy. She also has free homecare for cleaning & maintaining her home and for other small tasks such as transportation to appointments and grocery shopping. My wife, just a few years ago, following a routine mammogram, was provided with a diagnosis of breast cancer on a Thursday afternoon. Over the weekend she attended the hospital for half a day for blood work, an MRI and other pre-surgery testing. She was in surgery at 6:00 AM on Monday morning for the removal of the cancer from her right breast, along with removal of 14 lymph nodes from her chest and right arm. Within a week following surgery, she was referred to Princes Margaret Cancer hospital for almost daily visits for chemotherapy, followed by radiation treatments over the course of 60 days. My wife is cancer free for several years now and the total cost of medical services was ZERO. There is only one complaint that I here often from Canadians about our hospital system and that is that parking at most hospitals can cost up to $30 per day.
It didn't cost anything? Do you not pay taxes? Yes, you do pay taxes, so no, it wasn't free. The difference may be in the way the Canadian government prioritizes revenue. America spends a lot on defense, and nowadays, even more on interest on their colossal debt.
The insular culture of the US is a big part of the problem, isn't it. So many people just don't know much if anything about alternatives, so they have no real perspective.
The U.S. doesn't score in the top 10 when it comes to freedom, happiness, health, education or safety, but most Americans just assume that they are number 1.
I wish I knew what the exact percentage was. I’ve never thought that way myself. Ironically, Americans will say this without having travelled anywhere.
The USA is not a country, it is a market, everything is related to money, it lost it human values sadly. Life is not having but being, just have a lit,e trip in Canada to see the difference. I salute your courage to express your observations.
I said the same thing back in 2008 when I moved to Australia…not a society, just an economy! I thought that Australia was what Americans are brainwashed into thinking IT is!
"Citizens United" created a plethora of dark $$$ in DC in support of lobbyists who legally procure political votes in favor of modern-day robber barons & corps who hate paying taxes & fight even sensible environmental & safety regulations. The rest of us in the non billionaire class have no voice and no power.
To solve all of it eliminate money altogether. No one can rule over you then. The sooner mankind goes back to the old ways the better we all will be. We have free energy, housing, food and water before the last reset
@@appalachianflute2222 So how would that work? Would you be willing to work for free building houses, writing software, designing circuits, making concrete, etc....? And how many resources should you be allocated from the system? How much should you work? What kind of training and what kind of work should you do?
The worst part is the people working hardest are getting the least remuneration for their efforts and then shamed in the media for not taking more hours, more work despite the poverty wages. 40% of people in work need state support. That’s a reflection of greed not poor work ethics by working people. This is being done by design, by greed.
You've highlighted a significant issue that resonates deeply across many sectors and regions. The disparity between effort and remuneration is indeed a profound problem, where those who labor the most intensively often receive the least in return. The additional burden of societal stigma regarding work ethic only adds to the challenges faced by low-wage workers. Your point about the systemic nature of these issues is crucial-it suggests that the problem isn't about individual failings but about structural inequalities that benefit a few at the expense of many. This setup perpetuates a cycle where the working poor must rely on additional state support just to make ends meet, which isn't sustainable or fair. Raising awareness and pushing for policy changes that ensure fair wages and dignified working conditions are essential steps toward addressing these injustices. Thank you for sharing this perspective-it’s an important contribution to the ongoing dialogue about economic equity and social justice.
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
I’m looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you thing I should be buying?
Problem in US is that corporate criminals get away with murder and other countries prosecute criminals. Plus people think owning expansive junk means they are happier/ superior?
@@TheMkarr Greedy, or envy? "The love of money is the root of all evil". There are people who don't have 2 dimes to rub together who are committing that sin. They hate to see someone with more luxury than they have. Yeah, their broke, because they will never have enough.
They work and work for all of this stuff, and become miserable when they realize it doesn't make you happier. The things you own, own you, in the end. My ex wife is guilty of this, she works and works to maintain the house she kicked me out of and I spent $20,000 on, but she's not happy because she's trying to keep up with the Jones'. The thing that makes me puking sick is, she used to make fun of people like that, and became one as soon as her sister did. Then they try to justify it with "Oh well everyone likes nice things." Yeah, purchased in even flow, not you trying to live outside of your means because someone else you know has it.
I've never been interested in getting my credit up in this country because I know for a fact, I can't afford to retire here, so when I get older I'm taking my butt somewhere the exchange rate is friendly. Live off of my retirement in a country where I actually can.
i am watching US from Serbia. Now... most Americans dont even know where Serbia is but most also "know" that it is a bad place... but from what i saw (my father in law lives in Florida) online amd offline... i am sorry but i would never live in the US. my kids can go outside and play unsupervized, they go to school or shops on their own. our schools are better, our hospitals are cheep and fast and efficient... the worst thing here is birocracy. we own our homes (i own a house and an appartment... no rent and no bank... just mine)..we have almost no homeless people. it is very strange to be in 2024 in a third world country and thinking i have it better than my peers in the US
Здраво! I wouldn't call Serbia a 3rd world country. It's clearly more developed than that. As a Russophile myself I'd gladly visit and live at least temporarily in Serbia. To me the life there seems pretty good in its own right. Happiness is to some degree a choice. The happiest years of my life were in Russia when I lived there from 2014-2023. Already sick of the US again.
You are very wise. I live in Eastern Europe now too and when I tell people where I’m from they think I’m insane for wanting to live here. They don’t know the reality of living in the US or west anymore. And the illegals are taking over everywhere. At least here there is a sense of community and shared values.
Absolutely, there's profound value in embracing simplicity and decluttering both our physical and mental spaces. Living with less not only frees us from the physical burden of too many possessions but can also lead to a more focused and appreciative outlook on life. It's inspiring to hear that you've found joy and contentment in a more humble lifestyle. Your experience could encourage others to reevaluate their own living habits and consider the benefits of minimalism. Thank you for sharing your insights-it's always enriching to hear how different approaches to life bring fulfillment and happiness.
@@tgriffin3059 It's called putting the thought out there so others give you feedback and you can confirm you're not crazy, because sometimes, you feel like you're the only one going through it and it's nice to hear others confirm, "No you're not crazy, this country is, and we all are going crazy because the people in power try to sane wash the insane asylum." Then it trickles down when regular citizens start parroting "Everything is fine." While their economy crashes every 15 years and the American middle class becomes a distant memory. I don't understand the logic of "coming to a public forum to brag about it" so you need to be rich to afford to post on TH-cam? If you'd have thought about that comment for a bit and repeated it to yourself, it would have revealed it wasn't the "Gotcha" you thought it was. Delete this comment now, because Americans CAN'T STAND hearing an opinion that's not just an echochamber. Why Reddit is such crap.
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Yeah, people living beyond their means is definitely what broke me and my ex wife up. We were fine when we lived in an apartment and trailer, but as soon as she wanted to buy that house, we broke down. Not that it was the only factor involved, we ignored the fact for years that we weren't like each other (COMPLETE OPPOSITES and not in the fun way). Living more simplistic is good, I mean if any one in your life says to you "I can't be around you, you're too poor." then those people weren't meant to be around you.
I'm 66 and live in a one bedroom apartment for $450 a month. My neighbors are elderly and/or disabled. We have a lovely little building and help each other out when needed. This is Greenville NC, but still, I was very lucky to find it. I don't have a car. Don't even want another one. I have an ebike and it gets me where I need to go.
Where in the world did you find that rental? My son and daughter-in-law live in Greenville NC and couldn't find anything under $1700/mo that wasn't in the more dangerous areas of town.
I emigrated from the U.S. twenty-four years ago and I wouldn’t go back if you paid me. We are so brainwashed in the U.S. that it’s the best place on earth, when in fact, it’s the exact opposite.
The government is owned by the corporations via Lobbyists. Every law seems to create a racket for them. Every law beats down the little guy. Every law excludes the little guy. Every law puts all of these together, with the goal being more and more and more money for the top players.
Our local state barons and county aristocrats lying "elites" (that is in reality themselves) conjuring scapegoats emotionally manipulating the smaller populations are a hundred and ten percent in on all this too. Lets stop pretending otherwise. It's the "trickle down" crime syndicate grifters and minions all over the place fabricating a fake "national 'reality'" perception to only their benefit
Part of our tragedy in America is that we have no humility. None. We think we have all the answers. A look around would easily disprove that assumption. Our love of ignorance blinds us to the fact that some other countries have a few good ideas that we could learn from and adopt, too. The first step toward solving many of our problems is to stop being so full of ourselves and learn from others.
@@kathleenpolly2219 In capitalism on steroids "they" have a vested interest in keeping us mis-informed, controlled, manipulated, and cult mentality. They discourage any critical thinking skills. They consistantly convince too many people to vote against their own best interests
It's nice to see someone from America not trying to either justify or be an apoligist for all the things that the majority of the rest of the world finds odd, at best, or, in the main, simply abhorrent. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Well said! Some folks have saved and invested for their retirement only to have a medical event that wipes out a majority of their savings. Seniors really need to be protected more. How the heck, can these folks be taxed and struggling with health bills. Yes, there is something totally wrong with our system here in the USA. The rich just keep getting richer.
I’ve always felt sorry for the North Koreans, being told how great their leader and land is, but now I see we, in the US, are being fed the same type of crap and believing it.
Your comment highlights a crucial aspect of critical thinking and the importance of questioning the narratives we're presented with, no matter where we live. The comparison you draw between overtly controlled information in some places and the subtler, perhaps more insidious, influences in others is thought-provoking. It's a reminder that staying informed, seeking multiple sources of information, and maintaining a healthy skepticism are vital for making well-rounded judgments about our leaders and the state of our nations. Encouraging open dialogue and education on these topics can help build a more informed and discerning public. Thank you for sharing your reflections-they underscore the ongoing need for transparency and critical engagement in any society.
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Both awesome comments. It all boils down to education. The less educated people are, the easier they are manipulated. They do not start questioning stuff and just follow what they are told.
I think it's exactly opposite you people seem to be all indoctrinated by your college educations . You do what you're told when you're told how you're told . You are going to look great living in the soviet-style apartment building wearing the nice grey suit @@gloofisearch
While health care is profit based, there is no incentive for preventative health care. In Countries with universal tax funded health care, the government is motivated to address obesity, smoking, workplace safety etc,
I'm 55 and planning to move in 6 months...Part of my problem is letting those material items I paid so much for, to let go for pennies on the dollars. But I'm ignoring the peace of mind of just letting go.
When I was stationed overseas, I noticed the pace of living was much, much slower and cheaper, and it took me awhile to un-stress, especially from the constant bombardment from the media. Yes, we have amenities-like air conditioning-foreigners don’t have but at what price? The helter-skelter pace of living in America is insane.
Me too. In SE Asia, women are still feminine, they actually love and respect men. Utterly shocking, the difference from Western women. The result? I, most men return the vibe. I love and deeply respect my Thai woman.
German here who’s been living in the states for 11 years and I totally agree. Everything here has to make profit and a lot of it. When people in the richest country on earth need to set up a go fund me to help them pay for their (oftentimes life saving) treatment, you know something went terribly wrong. Life in the states feels pretty much like hustling all the time to make more money which we spend on more crap that we don’t need.
When I was a teen, I went to Europe with my girlfriend and her parents. I'm so glad I was blessed. Once you leave the country, and see how other people live, you really see this country for what it really is. I'm 48 and I completely agree with you. Thank you.
The biggest problem with Europe is the EU which is a power craze drive for over regulation both economically and politically and is anti borders allowing thousands of illegal immigrants to cross over into France, Germany the Netherlands as well as the Mediterranean and Eastern European countries which is having a very negative effect on those countries at the moment not mention here in the UK even though we are no longer part of the EU.
@@jayrobthorn6847 Leaving the EU actually increased the numbers of migrants coming to the UK only now we don't have the right to send them back across the channel.
@@jayrobthorn6847 Well said brother, Media won’t tell you these stories, EU is a dump now, for anyone who don’t believe or completely brainwashed by media and Politicians,Go to Paris,city of love! And Open your eyes…There is not much love anymore..
I'm American living in West Africa in a place nobody thinks about. People here are super nice and helpful. Life is affordable. The food is great and much healthier. There are no guns. And it's always warm.
Australian here. I said to an Uber driver, why not go back to Fiji and live a stress-free life? He and his Australian wife were thinking about it. However the health system there is bad if you don't have money. His sister-in-law was only in her thirties and could not afford dialysis and died.
I’m got out too and live in Eastern Europe. The people here are great and the country is beautiful. You can actually afford to live a decent life and not everyone is obsessed with $ and status, the type of person you are is what actually matters. I do miss the US sometimes but I don’t think ai can ever go back there now.
Caveat your statement with, "For now...I'm American living in West Africa..." Things change and that Constitution will come in handy! So will guns for self defense. I do agree America is going through a huge change where people are choosing to be a country again. We just did so in the election. We are also on the precipice of a QUANTUM tech leap only 1-2% of us are ready for. Live like you are eternal but also live like today is your last day.
Which country are you talking about? Europe is made up of about 50 different countries, all with their own culture and customs. Untrue generalisation about tipping being an insult.
I have not experienced that in Europe. Also, I have found that tipping in the US is far from a guarantee of good service. So, I would not miss tipping if it went away. Businesses should pay their workers appropriately, period. F tipping culture.
It's not normal we are all robots for the government. We are programmed to work till we drop dead and grind it out daily and be too tired to spend quality time with our families!!
All these massive shopping malls that have been deserted should be transformed into senior living facilities with their own medical centers within. They'd also be able to have small retail shops for them to stroll by on their indoor walks around the malls. Year round exercise
What an innovative and practical idea! Repurposing deserted shopping malls into senior living facilities could address multiple issues simultaneously. It would make use of existing structures that are often centrally located and easily accessible, provide much-needed housing for seniors, and incorporate health and retail services to create a vibrant community space. The concept of having medical centers and retail shops within these facilities would not only be convenient but could also foster a sense of community and keep residents active and engaged. Plus, the indoor environment would offer safe, weather-proof walking areas, which is a fantastic perk for year-round exercise and socializing. Thanks for sharing such a forward-thinking suggestion-it could indeed transform both the landscapes of our communities and the lives of many seniors.
European living in the US here. I was quite shocked to make the same observations after having been indoctrinated with American propaganda for decades. It is SOOOO capitalist here that people just care about money. Money money money and consumerism on steroids. Everyone has few cars here and a big home and is in debt because of it. But at least they're living it up right? Well, you could take that view. But being a European, I know the other side. It is much less consumerist in Europe. We don't feel like we are missing out on life because we can't drown ourselves in little toys like 10 TVs in the house or a big diesel truck and so on. It is much more pragmatic and we focus on our quality of life. Good health care free at the point of use. Good work life balance due to strong unions fighting for us and federal laws preventing employee exploitation to the degree it is seen here in the US. We don't live in big houses and own that much but our lives are less stressful for it. We don't drown in debt for it. At the same time life is cheaper because of it. US salaries are unheard of in Europe. My wife is an MSL making $160k. The same job in Germany would yield about $80k max. And because life is cheaper you actually get more for it even though it's half as much as the US equivalent. I really feel life is just a rat race here in the US. It is SOOO consumerist and everyone is in debt or has medical debt. People are taken advantage of by employers. You can't even have a baby and stay home for 2 years and get paid like you do in Europe. When we had our son my wife was back at work after 3 months. That's a massive joke. I constantly have to fight my employer over off days or sick days for doctors appointments. They always try to scare me but I don't care. I tell them, look, I take this day off and if you don't like it fire me. In Germany, when I needed a day off, it was my god damn right. They have to give me days off so they just do it before they fight me. It's seen as a right so it isn't fought. Yes they would like to fight it but they can't that easily. I had one employer try that and I went straight to court and won. That would not have happened here in the US as I wouldn't even have had any ground to stand on legally. US employers can fire you for anything they want. You look at them wrong and they'll let you go and you can't do nothing about it. Everything is structured so you are beholden to your masters which are the rich and wealthy who own the market.
Australian here. We seem to be caught between two cultures. Housing has become unaffordable. Most couples are on a treadmill to pay their mortgage. Plus, conservative governments have run down public schooling. The other option is expensive private schools drowning in government money. The one down the road built an aquatic center worth 25 million (10 years ago). It still has massive fees. Unlike Norway, we give our natural resources away to foreign companies. Also, the heads of corporations are paid scandalous amounts. The heads of our corporations are mediocrities who got there through being able to network. The brightest and best go into law and medicine. I had a major operation in our public health system, and it was great. However vested interests are chipping away at it.
Americans DO have a choice. Don't buy water in plastic bottles, DO save and don't over consume, do buy a house that fits your needs instead of feeding your ego.
@@ikeameltdown8012 Are you sure? I've lived both lives. I was a software engineer and did the spend-spend life, large hugely expensive house and mortgage. The 22 years ago I dropped out and have lived a simple life. No question to me the simple life is way easier. Most every day is like being on vacation. I loved my career but there was people depending on me. I think the issue is most Americans have no idea how easy life can be in America. Many things they consider requirements that aren't. I was the same. I had no clue. I started by canceling cable TV. Assumed I would croak. Surprised I liked the added time to do other things. Then the next thing, one at a time dropping things to see the effect. Internet has been the only waster I haven't been able to drop. Few months ago I stopped bottled water and drink tap water. And stopped using toilet paper. Yeah, gross AF. Water bottle with soapy water and my hand like most people in the world do. Clean bum. It's not about the cost or the environment. It's the challenge.
Yeah, it's all good until you want to go back to work but need day care for your child. Prepare to pay what? $450 weekly? Or how about a medical crisis? Medical debt is the leading cause of BK in the US. And vacation time? Yeah sure. That's a f'in joke.
Because we have not committed to a society that supports basic human needs, we are under stress for money to cover basics our entire lives, and many still depend on their jobs to supply health insurance that could be better and cheaper if the government ran it. Our wages are low compared to other countries. Remember many years ago, we learned that McDonalds in France paid $26 an hour with full benefits (5 weeks yearly paid vacation, included), because their government demanded it. Many of our large companies pay much higher wages to their European employees, but are unwilling to pay Americans in America a comparable wage because our government does not take the side of the working person. We are still waiting, waiting, waiting……….
Your observations highlight a significant issue regarding how society prioritizes and supports its citizens' basic needs. The stress of securing essential resources like healthcare and a living wage can indeed have profound impacts on overall quality of life. The comparison between the compensation packages in different countries underscores the role that government policy and corporate practices play in shaping economic well-being. It's a compelling argument for reevaluating how societal support systems are structured and advocating for policies that better support the working population. These disparities in wages and benefits between countries where the same companies operate suggest that changes are possible when there is sufficient demand and regulatory support. Thank you for sharing this critical perspective; it adds important context to discussions about economic equity and the role of government in ensuring a fair distribution of resources.
Look what happened to me. Catastrophic quad bypass and 3 strokes four years ago. I had 2 jobs and sold my art. Boom. Lost almost everything. My 69 year old sister saved me from becoming homeless and dying in the street. Seriously
I'm truly sorry to hear about the tremendous challenges you've faced. It sounds like you've been through an incredibly tough time, and it's heartening to hear that your sister was there to support you when you needed it most. Thank you for sharing your story with us; it's a powerful reminder of how quickly circumstances can change and the importance of having support systems in place. If there's any way that the content here can provide comfort or assistance, please let me know. You're a valued member of our community, and we're here to support each other. Wishing you continued strength and recovery.
One big thing I've noticed about Americans but not just them is the idea that your quality of life is measured by what you own rather than a person's level of happiness.
Yes it is and there are those that believe if we say anything bad about our country we should leave. Thinking they are real patriots it is not patriotic to deny the problems this country has. No country is without failures, but to deny them is to never fix anything. I for one love our country and see it being trashed and that is maddening and I want to see change!!!
I agree with just about everything you said. Another thing I’d say is Americans are obsessed with jamming themselves into molds and try to be what they “should be” based on outdated standards rather than living in a way that actually makes sense.
Living "next door" in Canada, what I would see on the news made me to decide to never watch the news from the US again. On another note, I have downsized as well. We don't eat out anymore, we buy in bulk at COSTCO and Amazon for dry goods. After my truck needed another expensive repair, I decided to sell it and not buy another. I live in a rural area without public transportation but we still have an SUV and motorcycle. We will be fine without purchasing another over priced vehicle. We don't need to keep up with the Jones's and it feels great. Another great video!
Why does Canada have less violent crime even though you guys live right next to us here in the good ol' USA and are exposed to our entertainment, culture, and media?
@ I have strong opinions about it as I lived close to Buffalo growing up. I have been to the US many times and enjoyed my visits. We could talk hours about it 🙏
@@sagatuppercut2960Guns guns guns. I need a gun to protect against the other guy because he has a gun. Then to the fear add day to day anger and mistrust of goverment, institutions, people/culture all amped up by media and the myth that there are easy answers to it all. Your living in a very low level war zone imo, but a for a long period with an enemy that everyone can define for their own agenda.
A big house with a big garden sounds like a dream come true. But somehow I don't feel like trying this. I live happily and content in a small apartment in Europe. When I go for a walk in the forest, even millionaires can envy me. This is my simple life philosophy and it works.
You are soooo spot on. When I grew up(the 60's 70's) there was no homeless. Any job could support you. Any job could pay rent. If someone would have told me then what life would be like in this new world I would have said you were crazy. Now, NOTHING is normal anymore. You're right - we've been brainwashed to think a lot of things. Capitalism can become a very cruel system. Corruption and greed is norm now. There's a REASON we have a mental health crisis in this country. We have been spiraling down. If we don't turn things around where are we going to be 10-20 years from now?
Thank you for your thoughtful response. It’s clear that you've witnessed significant changes over the decades, and your perspective sheds light on how economic and social shifts have impacted daily life. The issues you mention, like homelessness, job security, and mental health, are indeed critical and reflective of deeper systemic problems. Discussing these challenges openly, as we are here, is a crucial step toward understanding and hopefully addressing them. It's essential to consider where current trends may lead us and what actions can be taken to create a more equitable and sustainable future. Your concern and insights are a valuable part of this conversation, and I appreciate you taking the time to share them. Let's keep this dialogue going and work together toward the changes we hope to see.
I feel your outrage. Until big corporate money and gerrymandering is outlawed from politics, the special interests of the rich and powerful will continue to dominate and concentrate wealth. The Supreme Court allowed super PACS like citizens United to donate unlimited capital in support of special interests and most recently, the Supreme Court found that the main federal anti-corruption statute proscribing bribes to state and local officials does not criminalize gratuities, which the Court described as “payments made to an official after an official act as a token of appreciation.” This ruling basically legalizes bribery. So when you as a citizen want clean air & water, sensible gun control, reasonable wages, public safety, better public schools, etc. remember that you as an individual are competing against the deep pocketed industrial interests that are now allowed to bribe public officials and these same public officials gerrymander their districts ensuring their continued reign on power and control.
You apparently weren't paying attention in the 50s 60s and 70s. My parents even as college educated nurses and University of Minnesota employees struggled to make the house payment struggled to feed all of us. We all made it became highly successful and didn't invent excuses why somebody else was at fault. Work hard spend less than you earn if one job doesn't do it work two jobs that's what we did to get ahead it's your turn now
The system here is now predatory. With no one to govern the out-of-control corruption, it’s gotten worse over the past half century and, barring a major upset, there will be a catastrophic economic collapse.
Thank you! I thought I was crazy. When you spend time out of the U.S., what is said on this video is abundantly clear. Coming back home after time abroad feels odd, like you're missing out on an existence that you deserve, but don't have. Definitely retiring abroad when my time comes. Very reinforcing video...
Veronica, this is a healthcare comment. I'm Australian and for years our federal government has focused on preventative health care. Every 2 years women get reminders to have a pap smear (your own doctor, may or may not have to pay) and a breast screen (mammogram) which is free. There is also the bowel cancer screening program - every 2 years all adults aged 45-74 get a test kit. This program is widely advertised essentially as "do a shit, poke it with a stick". These public health initiatives have proved hugely successful in the early detection of cancers, thus higher survival rates and enormous savings for the public health system. Win/win. And no-one goes bankrupt. When the primary focus of healthcare is profit, not people, you're in deep s**t.
Yes, but it is because the people of Australia held the governments, toes near the fire ! While Americans own "slogan/opinion" thinking is holding us back....We must deprogam from many things that only serve to allow certain groups to flourish, yet destroy others.
It's VERY profitable here in the USA. If I didn't have health insurance w/ my job, I'd have to pay $200 for a doctor visit. I recently paid $148 for an ultrasound because my insurance wouldn't cover it.
The costs are astronomical. I don't think most younger Americans realize how likely it is that a health crisis in mid-life will wipe out any retirement savings they manage to save. The politicians are targeting social security after draining it of funds for decades. As things stand, many if not most of us will end life in poverty. Conservatives will say "get a better job and invest in the stock market", as if those jobs exist for everyone and the country wouldn't fall apart without workers in the shops, the restaurants, cleaning, all those things they don't think deserve a living wage. Most Americans couldn't find $500 in an emergency (there's been studies to confirm this, not pulling that figure out of thin air). It's dystopian here. I'm on edge worried about how bad it will be with the incoming administration and their disasterous stated plans. People are not prepared for if the economy crashes. They're paycheck to paycheck as it is.
My state has all Democrat levels of government, from the city councils to the governor. For four years, we had one mandate after another from the top down. We are completely in debt as a state. We have the highest gas tax, very high income tax and they will not stop bleeding us dry. One mandate is for more housing. My corner of the city added 17,000 apartments. Now this small area will get 15,000 more. Biden opened the borders and has gone after conservatives. I know a murder victim, my mail and cars are not safe. I live in California. @@andromedaspark2241
Hi Veronica, I live in Australia. We have universal healthcare, paid sick leave, paid parental, paid bereavement leave, long service leave, ie 3 months leave after so many years of service with an employer. We have paid superannuation, a 37 hour week, paid public holidays, time and a half or double time for weekend work. I am sure if Americans experienced life in other countries they would hopefully advocate for similar conditions in their own.
Guess this is why nothing gets done in Australia. This has been a growing trend mainly since women have become 50 percent of the workforce. I’m 72 and remember working 50 plus hours a week for decades. When more women started in the work force more sick leave and time off for nearly every thing. Glad I am done with full time work and get a kick out of 30 year olds complaining about working there life away .
Thank you for this insight, and I definitely hear your overall sentiment, and that is that perspective or seeing the big picture would help see how we in America are living. I get it. BUT, I've watched easily a dozen videos of people who have LEFT Australia because specifically the cost of living (housing) has made them leave. And they're much happier in Thailand or Malaysia, etc. The thing is "Americans" is too broad a concept, there are about 300 million of us and within that, there are SO many groups. New immigrants, first and second generation people, are SO happy with what they get living here. Many other groups have different feelings about things; college educated, poor, rich, black, white. There's no end to who is satisfied and isn't. And we have to be a tiny bit realistic, about going abroad. It's not usual that Americans get out into the world. Both the ability and more importantly the desire. People are convinced it's the best place on earth AND they hate it. So logic and reason are out of whack.
No in America, you are supposed to work very hard for a few years, then you begin to hire people to work for you. It’s called entrepreneurship. You work hard now so you can have much more time off later. In the end you come out way ahead. All that paid leave and time off and working less than 40 hours catches up with you.
@@jamiemcgill67 In other words, every single person should own a business. Good thing businesses never go under, and there's no need for anything else.
Being “ the best country in the world” creates the idea that there is nothing more to improve. I am from the Netherlands, it is not the best country in the world but we are inclined to keep working towards that goal. We will never reach it, but in the mean time things get better.
I don't know where you been living. I'm 77 years old and a black woman. It's always been this way for me. I'm almost glad to learn that some folks are finally realizing how some of us other people have taken for granted All of our life. So in essence, what you are talking about doesn't apply is and always have been a reality for people like me.
@@glennwatson3313 Listen to what they are saying, instead of getting defensive. This country is this way it is because it uses Black people, minorities and the poor as scapegoats and distractions, meanwhile the rich are profiting off of all of us. We could have had affordable housing, free healthcare, free education if politicians didn't make us afraid that the "wrong" kind of people would get these things too when they didn't "deserve" it
@@glennwatson3313 Why the strong negative reaction and accusatory tone? I read this through several times and don't know why you believe she thinks she is owed something. I think what she is pointing out is that the things Veronica Edwards is learning are things that she learned a long time ago. Life is hard here, stacked in favor of the rich at the expense of the disadvantaged. Being black in the US has historically put people at an additional disadvantage. She is just pointing out that her experience has been different than that of Veronica.
@glennwatson Oh, you're one of the chuck-chuck bandy wagon folks, I see. You know exactly what the lady is speaking of, yet, your idiocy overrules your common sense. When certain whites start feeling overwhelmed by their sinking "The great white way", that's when all things are at a loss. If one reads the history of this country, one will know that many blacks, First Nations Peoples, Asians, etc., have known and lived such things their entire lives. These ideas that the lady expressed are old hats to the aforementioned peoples. It's funny, that certain whites use those same tired lines, "Oh, you're playing the victim; Oh, you act like someone owes you something; Oh, you're expecting something for nothing, etc..." yet, many whites are now complaining about how hard it is. Well, wake up, and take a good look at how "America" began, then perhaps, you will know that it is in the dumps today because of its history. Note: There are black seniors living today, who lived through segregation, Jim Crow, lynchings, steering, etc., and you have the nerve to state such a comment. Our First Nations Peoples lived through these same horrors, and so many are gone. Yes, we so-called minorities are due many things, but we shall collect our gifts from the God of lights. A nation cannot survive, when it incessantly spills blood on sand. Those sands may cover the blood and shift, but the shifting will never cease. This new nation, "America" was not built on a rock, it was built on shifting bloodied sand. A reckoning is almost here, and many of us are simply watching.
Vast majority? Over 65... 33% have less than $10k saved, 66% less than $100k. Where do you draw the line on being required to work? For what lifestyle? I'm 68, stopped working a job 22 years ago. Average spend $592.04/mo past 21 months. I'm guessing my lifestyle is very different from yours.
agreed. I am 61 and could live on a lot less if insurance were not tied to my job. If I quit my job, or work part time, my insurance would be ridiculously high and the deductible crazy high. If I take SS at 62, it's not enough to pay my basic bills. I would still have to work. And then at 65 it will drop because our government takes some back for medicare.
Live in New Zealand, Worked for a large US IT corporation. Over ten years ago I was sent to the US to work on project there. The guys were shocked when I didn't hesitate to decline an offer of a green card. A year later all those guys were laid off as the project wound down. I did another 10 years with that company doing projects all over the world.
Uhh, it started with Reagan!! Neo Liberalism! Uhh, I went to Japan in the early eighties and met a lady and just ended up here. The older I get the better it is. No one talks about Japan,s health care compared with all others. It is one of the best in the world!!!
College is overrated and is not meant for every graduate. Trade school is a better alternative. When my dad retired from the USPS, he took a part-time job because he was going stir crazy . I miss paper bags and lunch meat being wrapped in paper . Bread has always come in plastic bags . We recycled those bread bags growing up . We used them inside our boots . We used paper bags for book covers.
@@traceybenna4150 completely agree re Trade School. If you have a trade where I live you'd never be without a job, a way to earn your living and trying to get a good tradesperson is a nightmare.
I went to college, got out and started a career. However, it didn’t work out. I went to a trade school, and got out and started making a better living than I did with my college degree. I threw my college diploma away a few years ago. But I’ll always have my nursing license.
There needs to be a balance of everything. Trade school should be a more mainstream culture for sure and college for more professional fields in terms of engineering and doctors.
The stats speak for themselves. In Australia health care, which is public and universal but with a small private component, takes up a much smaller proportion of GDP. However, life expectancy is almost six years longer on average. The American medical establishment will tie themselves into knots explaining this is due to more homicides in the US, more drug deaths, obesity etc but the biggest factor is that Americans lack good access to healthcare. So many Americans will defer getting tests done, or simply ignore symptoms, because they are afraid how much it will cost.
I live in Arizona. Since I an over 65 my real estate taxes are frozen at $750/year. I own my 1100 sq ft house free and clear. I drive a 1976 Chevy van that I can repair myself and it only needs liability insurance $500/year. I have some money saved but I can survive on my $1500/ month SS. My saying has always been "It's good enough". I use my Costco card only and pay it off every month before there are any extra charges. I have no debt. I bike ride and hike for exercise. I buy and sell cars and trucks for extra cash. Buy, wash, vacuum, clean. and sell on Craigslist. My credit score is 810. You have to be smarter than what you're doing.
LOVE THIS! I'm 62 and hoping to be the same soon. 3.5 years to pay off my house, ready to call the govt to freeze my property taxes, old chevy spark paid off. No credit card bills, will ALSO be getting around $1,500/month SS god willing at 65. . I AM nervous about it but your post gives me a little more confidence.
I too live a simple life. I rent my extra bedroom to my friend for cheap and drive an easy to fix 1998 vehicle I bought 14 years ago. The libraries have free passes to museums and national parks. I pay off my credit card every month too. I also don't own a cell phone. My landline with an answering machine works fine.
Yes but you know what? Most people aren't like you. You can't just let people eat shit because they aren't as street smart as you are. That's just not ethical. And you are old. You aren't young in a time when a small house costs $500k. Older folks always act like things are so easy if you are just a little street smart. I wish you could be young today and buried in student debt living at you parents house with your wife and son because you can't afford a home of your own due to high interest and increased cost of living and an inflated housing market. I can be as frugal as I can be and still won't be able to afford the house you live in, in todays market. It's a totally different world. And you are also on government health care at that age which is vastly better than private health care.
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I live in AZ too. You cannot get car insurance for $500 a year. I pay about triple that for liability on a 1980s car. I'm over 70 and they won't freeze my taxes because I have too much in savings (from a lifetime of work). My real-estate taxes are $4250 a year. Yes, I agree I should move to a smaller house.
Lived in Taiwan for many years. Their healthcare system is fantastic. Accessibility, low cost for people, and technologically equal with America. It can be done.
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They eat far more healthily that Americans do. I've watched them eat lunch. Veggies and rice, no fat, no sugar.
That sounds great. I will be exploring Taipei for the first time early next year. Would like to travel around the country a little too if I have the chance. I love that it has ocean, mountains, lots of beautiful natural places to hike and explore. Do you have any recommendations for someone visiting there for the first time? Thanks
@WanderingMonk55 on the east coast, Taroka Gorge NP is a must see. A train down the coast from Taipei to Hualien, and further to Taitung is very scenic.
I left from 1990 to 2000. Spent a wonderful decade in Finland. No-stress culture, nice calm environment. Loved it! Worked for Nokia when they were King of the Cell Phones. Both of my parents got diagnosed with serious health issues so I returned to the US. Quite the reverse culture shock coming back.
To Steve: my brothers business partner is married to woman from Massachusetts and after 20 years living in Winchester (very nice!) she wanted to move "back home ".... 6 months later they are finalising their move.... back to England. She couldn't take the American way of life....says it all.
Im very thankful that we saved for 40 years and paid off all debts. Now into retirement three years we live comfortably. Many friends are not so lucky.
That’s wonderful to hear that you’ve positioned yourself comfortably for retirement after years of diligent saving and planning. It’s a significant achievement and provides a stable foundation to enjoy this chapter of your life. It’s also thoughtful of you to acknowledge the varied situations of others; it's true that not everyone reaches retirement under the same circumstances. Sharing your story and the strategies that worked for you could offer valuable insights and encouragement to others who are planning for or navigating their retirement. If there are tips or lessons you’d like to share from your journey, they could be very beneficial to the community here. Thank you for your comment, and I wish you a joyful and fulfilling retirement!
Hitler told the Austrian Jews: Sign over your assets and we'll allow you to escape to Slovenia. What if they come for yours? Trump is following in Adolph's footsteps to a T.
The way most people in the US and world are treating people is not normal. Then again sadly what is normal? Things most consider normal are harmful. But yet many will make fun of artists like me that do art to help get rid of physical and emotional stress. But will waste their brains away on social media, and tik tok. Waste their brains away technology instead of engaging in family time, art, nature, and things that expand the brain. Veronica, my name is Terrell. I just discovered your channel today. You're video is inspirational. I am born, raised, and living in NYC, which has been harmed by so-called normalcy (gentrification/racism). Please stay strong, and I hope to chat with you one day 💚 Sincerely, Terrell
My wife and I elected to downsize after the financial crisis of 2008. In 2010, we surrendered our 2700 sq ft, four-bedroom home to foreclosure. We moved to a small 1100 sq ft home my wife's mother had left us. We have never been happier. It turns out that two bedrooms (one for guests) and one family room are quite enough. The only "splurge" is the second bathroom. Our yard is small and easy to maintain. A carport replaces a garage, and we have dropped to a single automobile. In all, everything is as wonderful as we could have hoped.
Friend of mine once told me, big difference between wants and needs. We "want" a new car. We "need" transportation. We "want" a larger, newer, home. We "need" a roof over our head. Our society is too obsessed with having stuff. As someone else said, no one goes to the cemetery with a U-haul behind them. Our society needs to get back to prayer. Doing so doesn't mean no problems, heck no! But you are able to learn how to be happy with what you have, not what you don't have.
I agree with what you said except for the praying stuff. I feel humans have enough to deal with, without holy wars and all the division religions cause. Christians can't even agree on what they believe and expect others to follow? That sound crazy to me.
I was growing up in the 80's . Life was better , less stress, better weather, better tv, better music , people talked and we had community . Im not saying life was perfect , but it was better ! Its all gone now 😢 Regards from 🇬🇧❤️
You don't have to use plastics. You don't have to watch commercials or following the trends. I am a cool member, shop at casa, Farmer markets, only by used cars, live small, check out simple living books, housing Co housing, cycling. You make the choices
I'm 62, but have a very close friend who is 83. We talk a lot about the culture in America. She says things started to go downhill in the United States in the 1960's. I think she's right ... conjure up an image from the 1950's and then the 1960's. It all makes sense. Even blacks had it better in the 1950's. Look at statistics on marriage alone, it became worse starting in the 1960's.
Americans , myself included, are things oriented. Mostly. Most people would rather have things than experiences. They would rather have a 5000 square foot home with a Benz in the driveway than travel for example. But think about it. Since you were a baby you have been plopped in front of a tv set that tells you if you have a Benz you will have a happy life with a beautiful women at your side. Pickup trucks now cost 80k-100k. Women want $6000 purses 👜 but have no money in that purse once they buy it. People go to Vegas , rent a cabana , buy bottles of booze for $1500 apiece , then hop on a flight on Spirit Airlines. Back to the apartment they share with 3 roommates. A 22 year old kid out of college has 100k in debt for a worthless degree. I’m a high school dropout. Union tradesman in Chicago. In my lifetime I’ll make $1 million more in my lifetime than the AVERAGE college grad will. But we can’t get young men to sign up for the apprenticeship programs in these jobs because they don’t want to get their hands dirty and work hard. College grads would rather work at Starbucks and bartend and still make less than I do . And to young women , the plumber, the electrician are almost invisible. He doesn’t make enough money or doesn’t have enough status or education for them. Even though he makes more money than the cubicle monkey she’s giving up the cookies to at the moment. I made enough in the trades to retire at 51. But only by living in Thailand , Mexico , I’m on my way to check out Albania now. Maybe get a small apartment there. I own …nothing. I travel with a carryon suitcase and a small bag. I have a 5’x10’ storage in Chicago. With photos and things I couldn’t give away . Is my life for everyone ? No. Not at all. But I speak to people that have million dollar homes. Have high earning jobs. They are miserable. And can’t figure out an exit strategy. There is no off ramp in the US. It’s all geared on making you have debt. Forever. Till you die. Home ownership is a nice little trap we build ourselves. Everyone is sitting on a pile of equity. And now everyone has a half million dollar or million dollar home. The problem is the next generation , the kids , the people trying to start a family can’t afford an apartment much less your million dollar home so who can you sell that to to cash in on your equity? Houses aren’t selling. Yet the prices keep going up. Told me kid to get a remote job that makes 40k and move to Thailand. You’re better off in Bangkok or Mexico City or the Philippines making 40k than you are living in LA , NyC or Chicago making 100k . The US is not the best place to live. By most metrics. And anyone that keeps saying that most likely hasn’t been anyplace else
There are many of us who live here consciously and simply. You don't have to follow the crowd, live to work instead of working to live . You balance your life and work and not chasing big homes, cars, clothes and fast foods.
@@scwiggie Totally depending upon your status. When you are disadvantaged in any way (say no college degree or not learned a good trade), than people in many states need two jobs to make ends meet. Barely. Just look around you.
I think your point of view is spot on. If I had to put a time on when things took a turn for the worse, I would say that somewhere in the 70's and 80's, and specifically the way that the connection between employer and employees fell apart. Gone are the days that companies felt like employees are expendable. Gone are the days of a fixed retirement pension, health coverage, and a feeling that there is a mutual commitment to success. I would also throw in the Vietnam war as a huge tear in the fabric. I think we were fed a pack of lies, the deferments given to the wealthy made it a war fought by those without a chance. Look at Vietnam today for proof. Lastly I would throw in the disappearance of the middle class. Gone are the days of hundreds of good paying jobs working at the steel mill, the auto plant, the appliance manufacturer etc. It usually took one person to support a family. Not always, but it was not uncommon. Now, 2 incomes barely covers the bills. Just my thought.
I’m a naturalized American from Germany. One of the richest countries in the EU. Trust me when I tell you, that it is absolutely possible to live a good life in the US as long as you’re not falling into the fake societal trap. Opportunities are sheer endless and you are probably freer than in other countries. That Americans are in so much debt is because of their consumerism. No one forces you to buy anything. I’ve bought a manufactured home 8 years ago on 5 acres of land for $148k and people looked down on me and still do even though I have no debt. My Ex called my home a “shitbox”. There you can see the twisted mindset. The house with land has now quadrupled in price. My car is 10 years old and drives like a charm, I run 3 businesses and all are bringing income. I live in my means and always have time for myself. Germany though has for everything a rule. Not easy to start a business and lord have mercy, when you step out of line. You are giving about 50% of your paycheck to the government. In return you get healthcare and a very mediocre retirement. Germany looks good from the outside but never ever would I go back. People only have to change their mindset, Be frugal, don’t spend more than you earn. Educate yourself cause education in the US is not the best. Step out of the matrix and a good life IS possible in this wonderful country. The mindset that when you’re old you’re sick, is mainly an American thing. My granny who survived two wars made it to 95 and worked until one day before her death in her small grocery store. Eat healthy as much as you can. Exercise and get fresh air. Americans unfortunately have the tendency like Germans, to do everything wrong and then complain of how bad everything is. I love America and its people. Is it hard here? Yes, no doubt but when you do your own thing, contentment is possible.
Greed and materialism is a huge problem in our country. People are taught they HAVE to move out as soon as they’re adults. In other countries it’s normal to have multi generational homes.
Don't forget the arms race for vehicles with people buying full sized pickup trucks and SUVs, pretending that they need a high ground clearance 4wd off-road vehicle. Such vehicles are wasteful with fuel, pollute more, use more rubber, glad, steel, plastic and they are more dangerous to other drivers, bicyclists and pedestrians. People have become selfish.
My top 3 culture shocks after moving to the USA: 1/ The medical system is absolutely monstrous. It is so expensive, inconvenient, complicated and pointless that I couldn’t believe it. You have to really, deeply hate people to create and defend this system. 2/ The quality and standards of home construction. This is a shock. Houses made of OSB boards, internal walls made of two sheets of plasterboard. This is a mockery, not a house. A movie set. The quality is incredibly low, and the price is incredibly high. 3/ Urbanization in the USA is at a very low level: car-dependent suburbs with no infrastructure, public transportation, public areas. A very unpleasant place to live. Where in the USA they managed to create some semblance of an average European town, the cost of houses immediately flew through the sky.
The people that defend it do so for political reasons. Not one American has convinced me that their health insurance model is better than universal health care
I have lived around the world... What you talk about sums up things.. Most Americans have never researched or travelled outside the USA to see the differences.. Americans are slaves to the dollar, consumerism and multi billionaire corporations. This is not Communist talk just the truth.. The most horrible things about the USA is the medical situation, the debt incurred and lack of easy transportation.. The free time is sadly lacking.. Most people get 6 weeks holiday a year plus public holidays.. I only recently found out you have to pay to give birth to a child 😢.... This is free where I live.. Americans don't know how badly they are being abused... It's slavery
I live in Rhode Island and 6 years ago at 58, after a 39 year stressful career, I sold my house, bought a small condo with the equity (so no mortgage) sold my car, and took a part time 3 day per week job as a delivery person. It has worked out amazingly. I am now down to working 2 days a week, collecting S.S., and taking a small monthly distribution from my 401K. 3 months ago, I sold my condo for more than double what I bought it for and am renting a very small house until I decide what to do. If you can downsized and work less, do it.
I have in the past 15 months purchased a home and set up a second residence in portugal, it is nicer than my US home and we intend to live there permanently in the coming year or two. We spend 90-180 days a year there and throughly enjoy being there, when we are in the US I try not to leave the house and spend almost all of my time with the grandchildren. The culture there is so different, the people make little money but live a higher standard of living albeit with less material wealth. That is how I always chose to live, as debt free and with as little as possible, therefore I feel at home there. Good luck to all the open minded people who try these life changing experiences.
Oooh, it's sooo nice to be able to just pick up and move to another country. If I had that much money, I can live great right here in the good old USA😅😂😂😂
I found your channel recently. I'm single, 56, still enjoy my job very much, and find you, a breath of fresh air. Thanks for sharing your prespectives and my best to you!
Thank you so much for your kind words and warm welcome to the channel! It's wonderful to hear that you're enjoying the content and find it refreshing. I'm thrilled to have you as part of our community and look forward to sharing more perspectives that hopefully resonate with you. Your encouragement means a lot, and I wish you all the best too. Thank you for joining us and for taking the time to reach out!
Yes! SOMETHING IS TERRIBLY WRONG IN THE U.S. THROUGH DECADES WE SEE HARD WORKING PEOPLE'S SALARY WITH NO INCREASE-A FLAT LINE- BUT THE OWNERS AND CEOs YEARLY PROFITS AND BONUSES SKYROCKETING UP.
I had a happy life without a focus on materialism because I was raised by a good mother, have good genetics, and have stayed healthy by staying active in sports and enjoying the outdoors. It's all I ever needed. I had a purpose in my life and goals, and worked very hard to become successful. The money has only been to realize financial independence to insure safety for me and my family. There are many normal people living normal lives in this country - what I see is a lot of un-normal people with no common sense.
The less expensive foods are highly processed which leads to metabolic problems and the pharmaceutical companies are quick with medications to fix the metabolic problems. We as consumers watch the advertisements and buy into a system designed to make you life long consumers of the very products that are making you sick. A radical change is needed to change this system.
I really work hard to engage myself in some way of earning more income and pay my taxes. My family is happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$67k weekly returns have been life changing, after so much struggles.
My outlook on money changed when I realized someone making $200K can retire broke & someone making $80K can retire a millionaire. With the current market movement.
I want to leave myself,and I never thought I would never think of living anywhere else. Thank you for thus video,you're so right about the american lifestyle,of keeping up with the jones....it's not about living
I live in a city row house in Harrisburg, PA. It is very walkable. My husband and daughter, 23, have enough space to live. You are correct. We need to rethink how to live. Small and medium sized cities have a lot to offer.
So true. I get sick of people her in the US that say their home country is so great. Well, if its so great, why don't you go back to your home country!
Honestly Veronica, I live in Northern Ireland and I find elements of your findings in the US also applying here. So much of young people's lives seem to revolve around the acquisition of more and more "stuff" ( homes, cars, holidays etc) driving higher debt and need for second jobs. I'm 61 and retired now and it took me years to realise that the secret to a happy life didn't lie in an expensive bottle of perfume or designer shoes. I hope the young ones learn quickly and kick our consumer society to the kerb. Loving your videos. ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective and experience from Northern Ireland. It's fascinating, yet sobering, to see how these consumer trends resonate across different cultures and continents. Your insight about finding happiness beyond material possessions is incredibly valuable, especially in today's world where there's so much emphasis on acquiring more. It’s a powerful message for all ages, and particularly poignant for younger generations navigating the pressures of consumerism. I'm glad to hear you've found contentment in simplicity, and I hope your reflections inspire others to reevaluate their priorities and find their own paths to happiness. Thank you for your kind words and for being a part of our community-I'm thrilled you're enjoying the videos!
Yes this is a wealthy country thing, not just a US thing. But we Americans have a hard time see beyond our bubble even when we travel.
I visited Ireland for 10 days back in ‘95 or ‘96. Bounced around to different bed and breakfasts. Talking with one of my hosts I said it was nice to see all the made in Ireland stuff, low prices and the quiet country atmosphere with low hustle and bustle. She told me they had just passed a bunch of laws that would effectively make them just like the USA in a few years. I guess she was spot on in her analysis……
@@jetsengoytredkl that timeline sounds absolutely spot on. Looking back, it was a huge sea-change in people's expectations and house prices, car prices etc took a really big hike, along with salaries (not quite to the same extent though).
That part came from Ireland on the boat over, way back when. Now it's bigger. Mix in other countries and Trump who looks for all the historical "bad" and puts it on the top.
I’ve been living in the USA for last 17 years and so much has changed for the worst. It’s socialism for the rich and capitalism for the poor. A lobbying system based on protecting and promoting corporate and foreign based interests is unfair and unjust and should be outlawed. I believe this is one of the root problems we have.
Capitalism works great when people care about each other. But as it matures that sliver of evil in people comes out and greed is good. The U.S. is falling apart from within. We have 11 aircraft carriers but the small amount of rich are owning and controlling more and more . Americans can't afford the lifestyle that was prevalent in the 1960s and 1970s. Corporations who lobby politicians are causing so much harm to our society because of greed. The U.S. is toast
I had to look at the author… I thought I wrote this and forgot about it. MY MAN
In the 1950s if a politician were caught taking bribes the shame was so intense generally they would unalive themselves. Now politicians brag about all the money they get from bribery.
The people who control the system are the ones who benefit from it. They will never change it or relinquish power willingly. None have throughout recorded human history for the most part. Only nationwide striking and unification of the impoverished and working class until the system collapses will bring about change. Alternatively revolution is much better, given the chances of the former happening.
capitalism ended with the central bank, then got worse with the removal of the gold standard. You can't have a capitalist system in existence when the people aren't in control of their own money supply. A foreign bank pretending to be a USA owned bank by calling itself the "fed" is the problem there. Inflation didn't exist until that thing was brought into play and given control of our money printing, which is supposed to be under the treasury, not them.
Most Americans are obsessively worried about money. A stressed way to go through life.
There's a REASON for that. It doesn't take much to become homeless. It doesn't take much to be bankrupted of your life savings. Most people are living paycheck to paycheck - and one or two unexpected emergencies back to back can do it. The Republicans are brainwashed into thinking these people are mentally ill and/or drug/alcohol addicts. Blame the victim mentality. The fastest growing segment of homeless is elderly women. Just like years ago a rape victim would be doubly victimized by the "system" - she "deserved" it because she was wearing a short skirt. Sure, there is some of that (homeless BECAUSE of drugs/alcohol)But to be honest I think that one would become mentally ill, if they weren't before, trying to survive the streets And if I were living under a bridge in the freezing cold I might want to "numb' myself too. Both emotionally and physically.
There's this thing for American homeowners called property taxes. You'll pay them even after paying off the home. If you don't you'll lose your house. Americans pay property taxes till they're gone and in the ground.
Most Americans stressing about money are a hell of a lot better off than over 2 billion people on earth. I'd say we're doing something a little better than settling for working for $2 a week.
@@darrell_dee97 how much is this tax? I'm not American so it's interesting to me. What kind of percentage you gotta pay for your own property each month?
@@TheAleksandros Its complicated but mostly it depends on the state and city laws but mostly the value of the property. I pay $4k a year for a small house in CA. Others could pay more than double that for the same house size but in more expensive neighborhoods in CA or other states. Americans are obsessively worried about money because life is too expensive here and they need to survive independently especially when the rent/mortgage takes 2 thirds of their pay checks now days.
There are too many insensitive, uncaring bullies in the world.
Morals, ethics, compassion and empathy are needed for society to function.
Yeah & bullies shouldn't be in LE or work as judges either.
The bullying in this country is INSANE.
Gee,are you just finding that out? It has only been that way since the time Cain slew Adam.
When you age you NEED preventative care.
It's almost impossible to get it.
Because America is all about exploitation and theft and exponential profit.
I know a LOT of older Americans that simply LEAVE because they have the means to escape this corporate monopoly hellhole.
@starlite556 Cain slew Abel,his brother.
the system elevates/incentivises the former at the expense and suffering of the latter.
The system increases the number of those people that exploit others.
Get the money out of politics and the country will turn around for the better.
When you moving ?
End oligarchy first
@@TheMkarrbootlicker simping for billionaires thinking that makes him worthy
Impossible. I mean, try and try, but it won't change, because the majority of people want a politician or a superhero to save them from themselves. As much as I LOVE comic books, superheroes don't exist in real life. Want someone to save you? Save yourself. Don't be lonesome for your heroes, be your own hero, (Haight-Ashbury SF) and that's requires a level of personal maturity and introspection that just flat out DOES NOT exist, and I doubt it ever will among the common American. I'd wager money on the country completely devolving into a Third World hellscape over people daring to question the God that is their own ego. A revolution of the mind sweeping through the masses will be the ONLY thing to save this country.
That will be a big start. But don't bet any money on that happening soon. It will take a French-style American revolution to make any real changes, and with Orange Jesus coming into power who is totally corrupt, don't bet on any improvements under his watch.
I live in Portugal. The people are kind, friendly and helpful. You don´t see trash on the freeways or roadways. Free healthcare. The cost of living is way lower than in the States. It´s a beautiful country with great weather. The pace of living is slower. Couldn´t be happier.
You don't have free healthcare. Nothing is free.
Bom dia. I'm also an American who left and moved to Coimbra, Portugal. It's one of the best decisions I've ever made. I love it here.
I may move to Spain soon
do you not pay taxes? no government can give to you what was already yours. nothing is free.
From EU.... we don't want maga here....
I agree with you 100% I live in Canada and I have many American friends. And the only people that are complaining about our healthcare system is the Americans they’re always telling me how bad my system is and the long weights, etc., but I have had cancer twice Had treatments surgery. I am over the cancer and it didn’t cost me any money. Everybody deserve to have the right to healthcare not just the elite.
Americans for the most part have insurance to cover something like cancer. You wont loose your home, unless you have no insurance. BTW, those without insurance, mostly dont own a home. And they can still get treatment.
The Canadian healthcare system is prioritized based upon need and urgency. I have a good friend who was diagnosed in July 2024 to be in need of a surgical knee replacement and her surgery is scheduled for mid-February 2025. She has pain and mobility issues, but her life is in no danger.
In the meantime, she is provided with medications for pain, a cane and walker for mobility and physiotherapy. She also has free homecare for cleaning & maintaining her home and for other small tasks such as transportation to appointments and grocery shopping.
My wife, just a few years ago, following a routine mammogram, was provided with a diagnosis of breast cancer on a Thursday afternoon. Over the weekend she attended the hospital for half a day for blood work, an MRI and other pre-surgery testing. She was in surgery at 6:00 AM on Monday morning for the removal of the cancer from her right breast, along with removal of 14 lymph nodes from her chest and right arm. Within a week following surgery, she was referred to Princes Margaret Cancer hospital for almost daily visits for chemotherapy, followed by radiation treatments over the course of 60 days. My wife is cancer free for several years now and the total cost of medical services was ZERO.
There is only one complaint that I here often from Canadians about our hospital system and that is that parking at most hospitals can cost up to $30 per day.
The Canadian healthcare system is prioritized based upon need and urgency. I have a good friend who was diagnosed in July 2024 to be in need of a surgical knee replacement and her surgery is scheduled for mid-February 2025. She has pain and mobility issues, but her life is in no danger.
In the meantime, she is provided with medications for pain, a cane and walker for mobility and physiotherapy. She also has free homecare for cleaning & maintaining her home and for other small tasks such as transportation to appointments and grocery shopping.
My wife, just a few years ago, following a routine mammogram, was provided with a diagnosis of breast cancer on a Thursday afternoon. Over the weekend she attended the hospital for half a day for blood work, an MRI and other pre-surgery testing. She was in surgery at 6:00 AM on Monday morning for the removal of the cancer from her right breast, along with removal of 14 lymph nodes from her chest and right arm. Within a week following surgery, she was referred to Princes Margaret Cancer hospital for almost daily visits for chemotherapy, followed by radiation treatments over the course of 60 days. My wife is cancer free for several years now and the total cost of medical services was ZERO.
There is only one complaint that I here often from Canadians about our hospital system and that is that parking at most hospitals can cost up to $30 per day.
It didn't cost anything? Do you not pay taxes? Yes, you do pay taxes, so no, it wasn't free. The difference may be in the way the Canadian government prioritizes revenue. America spends a lot on defense, and nowadays, even more on interest on their colossal debt.
@@chrisgraham2904 that is impressive. Praying your wife remains cancer free.
After I started traveling out of the United States, I realized that something was seriously wrong and that I no longer wanted to be here.
Go
Understandable. In a nutshell, this culture is designed to promote the wealthy and minimize the middle-class and the poor.
The insular culture of the US is a big part of the problem, isn't it. So many people just don't know much if anything about alternatives, so they have no real perspective.
Good more for the rest of us.Did you take you SSA with you?
@@franksullivan1873 yep!
The U.S. doesn't score in the top 10 when it comes to freedom, happiness, health, education or safety, but most Americans just assume that they are number 1.
We're at the top in gun murders and incarceration! ;o)
Therein lies the problem!!!
At least we’re top 5 in people in prison, teen pregnancy and stds and divorce
I wish I knew what the exact percentage was. I’ve never thought that way myself. Ironically, Americans will say this without having travelled anywhere.
It's called arrogance
The USA is not a country, it is a market, everything is related to money, it lost it human values sadly. Life is not having but being, just have a lit,e trip in Canada to see the difference. I salute your courage to express your observations.
Yes it’s much more like a market
"Life is not having but being". I AGREE
I said the same thing back in 2008 when I moved to Australia…not a society, just an economy! I thought that Australia was what Americans are brainwashed into thinking IT is!
Even Canada is better, huh?
@ not better, normal
To solve a lot of this. Get money out of politics.
And improve public Education
"Citizens United" created a plethora of dark $$$ in DC in support of lobbyists who legally procure political votes in favor of modern-day robber barons & corps who hate paying taxes & fight even sensible environmental & safety regulations. The rest of us in the non billionaire class have no voice and no power.
you mean ALL of this.
To solve all of it eliminate money altogether. No one can rule over you then. The sooner mankind goes back to the old ways the better we all will be. We have free energy, housing, food and water before the last reset
@@appalachianflute2222 So how would that work? Would you be willing to work for free building houses, writing software, designing circuits, making concrete, etc....? And how many resources should you be allocated from the system? How much should you work? What kind of training and what kind of work should you do?
The worst part is the people working hardest are getting the least remuneration for their efforts and then shamed in the media for not taking more hours, more work despite the poverty wages. 40% of people in work need state support. That’s a reflection of greed not poor work ethics by working people. This is being done by design, by greed.
You've highlighted a significant issue that resonates deeply across many sectors and regions. The disparity between effort and remuneration is indeed a profound problem, where those who labor the most intensively often receive the least in return. The additional burden of societal stigma regarding work ethic only adds to the challenges faced by low-wage workers.
Your point about the systemic nature of these issues is crucial-it suggests that the problem isn't about individual failings but about structural inequalities that benefit a few at the expense of many. This setup perpetuates a cycle where the working poor must rely on additional state support just to make ends meet, which isn't sustainable or fair.
Raising awareness and pushing for policy changes that ensure fair wages and dignified working conditions are essential steps toward addressing these injustices. Thank you for sharing this perspective-it’s an important contribution to the ongoing dialogue about economic equity and social justice.
Honestly our government has no idea how people are suffering these days. I much feel sorry for the disabled people who don’t get the help they deserve
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
I’m looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you thing I should be buying?
Bitcoin/stock investment but you will need a professional help on that
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Problem in US is that corporate criminals get away with murder and other countries prosecute criminals. Plus people think owning expansive junk means they are happier/ superior?
Sounds like you broke.
@@TheMkarr Greedy, or envy? "The love of money is the root of all evil". There are people who don't have 2 dimes to rub together who are committing that sin. They hate to see someone with more luxury than they have. Yeah, their broke, because they will never have enough.
They work and work for all of this stuff, and become miserable when they realize it doesn't make you happier. The things you own, own you, in the end. My ex wife is guilty of this, she works and works to maintain the house she kicked me out of and I spent $20,000 on, but she's not happy because she's trying to keep up with the Jones'. The thing that makes me puking sick is, she used to make fun of people like that, and became one as soon as her sister did. Then they try to justify it with "Oh well everyone likes nice things." Yeah, purchased in even flow, not you trying to live outside of your means because someone else you know has it.
I've never been interested in getting my credit up in this country because I know for a fact, I can't afford to retire here, so when I get older I'm taking my butt somewhere the exchange rate is friendly. Live off of my retirement in a country where I actually can.
Right on, sister!!!
Left 16 years ago. I don’t miss the States. The more I see it from the outside the sorrier I feel for everyone there.
i am watching US from Serbia. Now... most Americans dont even know where Serbia is but most also "know" that it is a bad place... but from what i saw (my father in law lives in Florida) online amd offline... i am sorry but i would never live in the US. my kids can go outside and play unsupervized, they go to school or shops on their own. our schools are better, our hospitals are cheep and fast and efficient... the worst thing here is birocracy. we own our homes (i own a house and an appartment... no rent and no bank... just mine)..we have almost no homeless people. it is very strange to be in 2024 in a third world country and thinking i have it better than my peers in the US
Здраво! I wouldn't call Serbia a 3rd world country. It's clearly more developed than that. As a Russophile myself I'd gladly visit and live at least temporarily in Serbia. To me the life there seems pretty good in its own right. Happiness is to some degree a choice. The happiest years of my life were in Russia when I lived there from 2014-2023. Already sick of the US again.
@brostoevsky22 Russia is far away from Serbia. We are both Ortodox but Serbia is a Balkan country.
@brostoevsky22 a lot of people mix Serbia with Siberia so i just want to make sure we are talking about the same country :)
они не знают Сербию, потому что им чёрте што говорили про Югославию
You are very wise. I live in Eastern Europe now too and when I tell people where I’m from they think I’m insane for wanting to live here. They don’t know the reality of living in the US or west anymore. And the illegals are taking over everywhere. At least here there is a sense of community and shared values.
Living with less is the best life lesson. It feels great to declutter and live humble ...
Absolutely, there's profound value in embracing simplicity and decluttering both our physical and mental spaces. Living with less not only frees us from the physical burden of too many possessions but can also lead to a more focused and appreciative outlook on life. It's inspiring to hear that you've found joy and contentment in a more humble lifestyle. Your experience could encourage others to reevaluate their own living habits and consider the benefits of minimalism. Thank you for sharing your insights-it's always enriching to hear how different approaches to life bring fulfillment and happiness.
So you demonstrate your 'humility' by coming to a public forum and bragging to the world about it?
@@tgriffin3059 It's called putting the thought out there so others give you feedback and you can confirm you're not crazy, because sometimes, you feel like you're the only one going through it and it's nice to hear others confirm, "No you're not crazy, this country is, and we all are going crazy because the people in power try to sane wash the insane asylum." Then it trickles down when regular citizens start parroting "Everything is fine." While their economy crashes every 15 years and the American middle class becomes a distant memory. I don't understand the logic of "coming to a public forum to brag about it" so you need to be rich to afford to post on TH-cam? If you'd have thought about that comment for a bit and repeated it to yourself, it would have revealed it wasn't the "Gotcha" you thought it was. Delete this comment now, because Americans CAN'T STAND hearing an opinion that's not just an echochamber. Why Reddit is such crap.
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Yeah, people living beyond their means is definitely what broke me and my ex wife up. We were fine when we lived in an apartment and trailer, but as soon as she wanted to buy that house, we broke down. Not that it was the only factor involved, we ignored the fact for years that we weren't like each other (COMPLETE OPPOSITES and not in the fun way). Living more simplistic is good, I mean if any one in your life says to you "I can't be around you, you're too poor." then those people weren't meant to be around you.
Right on, well said
I'm 66 and live in a one bedroom apartment for $450 a month. My neighbors are elderly and/or disabled.
We have a lovely little building and help each other out when needed.
This is Greenville NC, but still, I was very lucky to find it.
I don't have a car. Don't even want another one.
I have an ebike and it gets me where I need to go.
Buckle up buttercup. Things are about to get much much worse.
Nice. Wish I could do that.
@@conservative-proud $450 Per month.
Where in the world did you find that rental? My son and daughter-in-law live in Greenville NC and couldn't find anything under $1700/mo that wasn't in the more dangerous areas of town.
Keep hangin in there.
I emigrated from the U.S. twenty-four years ago and I wouldn’t go back if you paid me.
We are so brainwashed in the U.S. that it’s the best place on earth, when in fact, it’s the exact opposite.
not for everybody. besides, tell that to all the people risking their lives to come here for a better live compared to where they are from.
@@royharper2003because they are uneducated and dont realize America is garbage.
Yes, and the power of US propaganda tell to the entire American Continent it is the best place, land of freedom...
Tell me where you went. I need ideas! :)
This is America: Adolescent, Arrogant, Belligerent, Uneducated and Ignorant!!! Watch Sharon Stone's speech from Italy!!!
The government is owned by the corporations via Lobbyists. Every law seems to create a racket for them. Every law beats down the little guy. Every law excludes the little guy. Every law puts all of these together, with the goal being more and more and more money for the top players.
Truth! 👍
In California, it is the drug cartels and China.
No truer comment exists. Well worded
Our local state barons and county aristocrats lying "elites" (that is in reality themselves) conjuring scapegoats emotionally manipulating the smaller populations are a hundred and ten percent in on all this too. Lets stop pretending otherwise. It's the "trickle down" crime syndicate grifters and minions all over the place fabricating a fake "national 'reality'" perception to only their benefit
Yep
Part of our tragedy in America is that we have no humility. None. We think we have all the answers. A look around would easily disprove that assumption. Our love of ignorance blinds us to the fact that some other countries have a few good ideas that we could learn from and adopt, too. The first step toward solving many of our problems is to stop being so full of ourselves and learn from others.
Exactly and put eloquently.
A country that still uses pennies (which no businesses want) is not progressive. Americans are stuck in the fifties.
There's a REASON why Finland is considered the happiest country on earth. Google it for those who THINK they got the answers.
God forbid that the US would look at other countries and how they live and how they take care of their populations
@@kathleenpolly2219 In capitalism on steroids "they" have a vested interest in keeping us mis-informed, controlled, manipulated, and cult mentality. They discourage any critical thinking skills. They consistantly convince too many people to vote against their own best interests
It's nice to see someone from America not trying to either justify or be an apoligist for all the things that the majority of the rest of the world finds odd, at best, or, in the main, simply abhorrent.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
There are places in the world where people aren't crippled and bankrupted with medical expences.
Canada, for example.
Australia, Europe.
Pretty much all of the advanced countries. Most of the developing ones as well.
Well said! Some folks have saved and invested for their retirement only to have a medical event that wipes out a majority of their savings. Seniors really need to be protected more. How the heck, can these folks be taxed and struggling with health bills. Yes, there is something totally wrong with our system here in the USA. The rich just keep getting richer.
Wrong..there are ZERO other places where people are cripped and bakrupted with medical expenses..no other country on the planet.
I’ve always felt sorry for the North Koreans, being told how great their leader and land is, but now I see we, in the US, are being fed the same type of crap and believing it.
Your comment highlights a crucial aspect of critical thinking and the importance of questioning the narratives we're presented with, no matter where we live. The comparison you draw between overtly controlled information in some places and the subtler, perhaps more insidious, influences in others is thought-provoking. It's a reminder that staying informed, seeking multiple sources of information, and maintaining a healthy skepticism are vital for making well-rounded judgments about our leaders and the state of our nations. Encouraging open dialogue and education on these topics can help build a more informed and discerning public. Thank you for sharing your reflections-they underscore the ongoing need for transparency and critical engagement in any society.
@@VeronicaEdwards50 Both awesome comments. It all boils down to education. The less educated people are, the easier they are manipulated. They do not start questioning stuff and just follow what they are told.
I think it's exactly opposite you people seem to be all indoctrinated by your college educations . You do what you're told when you're told how you're told . You are going to look great living in the soviet-style apartment building wearing the nice grey suit @@gloofisearch
Huh?
You must be delusional or have never been in NK.
While health care is profit based, there is no incentive for preventative health care. In Countries with universal tax funded health care, the government is motivated to address obesity, smoking, workplace safety etc,
My grass is greener. I left at 79 for a new life in SE Asia. Now years later my life is an absolutely joy.
That gives me hope at 72!😊
I'm 55 and planning to move in 6 months...Part of my problem is letting those material items I paid so much for, to let go for pennies on the dollars. But I'm ignoring the peace of mind of just letting go.
When I was stationed overseas, I noticed the pace of living was much, much slower and cheaper, and it took me awhile to un-stress, especially from the constant bombardment from the media. Yes, we have amenities-like air conditioning-foreigners don’t have but at what price? The helter-skelter pace of living in America is insane.
Me too. In SE Asia, women are still feminine, they actually love and respect men. Utterly shocking, the difference from Western women. The result? I, most men return the vibe. I love and deeply respect my Thai woman.
@@metubenoggin07 that's so nice and sweet. What about the food! And massages!
German here who’s been living in the states for 11 years and I totally agree. Everything here has to make profit and a lot of it. When people in the richest country on earth need to set up a go fund me to help them pay for their (oftentimes life saving) treatment, you know something went terribly wrong. Life in the states feels pretty much like hustling all the time to make more money which we spend on more crap that we don’t need.
Correct! 👍
America is not the richest country on earth.
@ The 3rd wealthiest according to Forbes. Still enough! Doesn’t change anything else in my comment 😉
Stimme Dir total zu. Bin seit 2004 in Oregon.
@ Ich bin auch in Oregon 😉
When I was a teen, I went to Europe with my girlfriend and her parents. I'm so glad I was blessed. Once you leave the country, and see how other people live, you really see this country for what it really is. I'm 48 and I completely agree with you. Thank you.
I've been to third world countries and met happier people than us.
@@Pablo453 same here...
The biggest problem with Europe is the EU which is a power craze drive for over regulation both economically and politically and is anti borders allowing thousands of illegal immigrants to cross over into France, Germany the Netherlands as well as the Mediterranean and Eastern European countries which is having a very negative effect on those countries at the moment not mention here in the UK even though we are no longer part of the EU.
@@jayrobthorn6847 Leaving the EU actually increased the numbers of migrants coming to the UK only now we don't have the right to send them back across the channel.
@@jayrobthorn6847 Well said brother, Media won’t tell you these stories, EU is a dump now, for anyone who don’t believe or completely brainwashed by media and Politicians,Go to Paris,city of love! And Open your eyes…There is not much love anymore..
I'm American living in West Africa in a place nobody thinks about. People here are super nice and helpful. Life is affordable. The food is great and much healthier. There are no guns. And it's always warm.
I want to live where no one thinks about. I just live where everyone ignores.
Australian here. I said to an Uber driver, why not go back to Fiji and live a stress-free life? He and his Australian wife were thinking about it. However the health system there is bad if you don't have money. His sister-in-law was only in her thirties and could not afford dialysis and died.
I’m got out too and live in Eastern Europe. The people here are great and the country is beautiful. You can actually afford to live a decent life and not everyone is obsessed with $ and status, the type of person you are is what actually matters. I do miss the US sometimes but I don’t think ai can ever go back there now.
well youre not in Liberia that's for sure
Caveat your statement with, "For now...I'm American living in West Africa..." Things change and that Constitution will come in handy! So will guns for self defense. I do agree America is going through a huge change where people are choosing to be a country again. We just did so in the election. We are also on the precipice of a QUANTUM tech leap only 1-2% of us are ready for. Live like you are eternal but also live like today is your last day.
In many European countries, tipping is an insult. It should be here, in North America. PAY YOUR PEOPLE, BUSINESS!!
Service levels would drop if there is no incentive for good service. Service in Europe is absolutely terrible. Do you want that?
I didn’t know that service is terrible in Europe. I think it depends
Which country are you talking about? Europe is made up of about 50 different countries, all with their own culture and customs. Untrue generalisation about tipping being an insult.
@@aurelia5614 even within country service can change.
I have not experienced that in Europe. Also, I have found that tipping in the US is far from a guarantee of good service. So, I would not miss tipping if it went away. Businesses should pay their workers appropriately, period. F tipping culture.
It's not normal we are all robots for the government. We are programmed to work till we drop dead and grind it out daily and be too tired to spend quality time with our families!!
All these massive shopping malls that have been deserted should be transformed into senior living facilities with their own medical centers within. They'd also be able to have small retail shops for them to stroll by on their indoor walks around the malls. Year round exercise
What an innovative and practical idea! Repurposing deserted shopping malls into senior living facilities could address multiple issues simultaneously. It would make use of existing structures that are often centrally located and easily accessible, provide much-needed housing for seniors, and incorporate health and retail services to create a vibrant community space. The concept of having medical centers and retail shops within these facilities would not only be convenient but could also foster a sense of community and keep residents active and engaged. Plus, the indoor environment would offer safe, weather-proof walking areas, which is a fantastic perk for year-round exercise and socializing. Thanks for sharing such a forward-thinking suggestion-it could indeed transform both the landscapes of our communities and the lives of many seniors.
That's a great idea. But there is too much corrupt politics and BS "zoning" restrictions.
They are starting to do this,seen a video of malls turned into apartments.
@VeronicaEdwards50 I've been a builder of homes and restaurants for nearly 45 years. When I see properties, it will tell me what it wants to be
lolol what a great idea!
European living in the US here. I was quite shocked to make the same observations after having been indoctrinated with American propaganda for decades. It is SOOOO capitalist here that people just care about money. Money money money and consumerism on steroids. Everyone has few cars here and a big home and is in debt because of it. But at least they're living it up right? Well, you could take that view. But being a European, I know the other side. It is much less consumerist in Europe. We don't feel like we are missing out on life because we can't drown ourselves in little toys like 10 TVs in the house or a big diesel truck and so on. It is much more pragmatic and we focus on our quality of life. Good health care free at the point of use. Good work life balance due to strong unions fighting for us and federal laws preventing employee exploitation to the degree it is seen here in the US. We don't live in big houses and own that much but our lives are less stressful for it. We don't drown in debt for it. At the same time life is cheaper because of it. US salaries are unheard of in Europe. My wife is an MSL making $160k. The same job in Germany would yield about $80k max. And because life is cheaper you actually get more for it even though it's half as much as the US equivalent. I really feel life is just a rat race here in the US. It is SOOO consumerist and everyone is in debt or has medical debt. People are taken advantage of by employers. You can't even have a baby and stay home for 2 years and get paid like you do in Europe. When we had our son my wife was back at work after 3 months. That's a massive joke. I constantly have to fight my employer over off days or sick days for doctors appointments. They always try to scare me but I don't care. I tell them, look, I take this day off and if you don't like it fire me. In Germany, when I needed a day off, it was my god damn right. They have to give me days off so they just do it before they fight me. It's seen as a right so it isn't fought. Yes they would like to fight it but they can't that easily. I had one employer try that and I went straight to court and won. That would not have happened here in the US as I wouldn't even have had any ground to stand on legally. US employers can fire you for anything they want. You look at them wrong and they'll let you go and you can't do nothing about it. Everything is structured so you are beholden to your masters which are the rich and wealthy who own the market.
Fortunately you had TWO incomes - that tips the scales bigtime.
@@TLA123y6f I second this. Not everyone has the privilege of a significant other.
Australian here. We seem to be caught between two cultures. Housing has become unaffordable. Most couples are on a treadmill to pay their mortgage. Plus, conservative governments have run down public schooling. The other option is expensive private schools drowning in government money. The one down the road built an aquatic center worth 25 million (10 years ago). It still has massive fees. Unlike Norway, we give our natural resources away to foreign companies. Also, the heads of corporations are paid scandalous amounts. The heads of our corporations are mediocrities who got there through being able to network. The brightest and best go into law and medicine.
I had a major operation in our public health system, and it was great. However vested interests are chipping away at it.
Well said…
People like you and I have the privilege of making the decision to leave or not. 50% of Americans live check to check and can’t afford to go anywhere.
credit card debt
That’s because of corporate greed….its so bad in america
Americans DO have a choice. Don't buy water in plastic bottles, DO save and don't over consume, do buy a house that fits your needs instead of feeding your ego.
Some of this can be done but it is easier said than done.
Amen.
@@ikeameltdown8012 Are you sure? I've lived both lives. I was a software engineer and did the spend-spend life, large hugely expensive house and mortgage. The 22 years ago I dropped out and have lived a simple life. No question to me the simple life is way easier. Most every day is like being on vacation. I loved my career but there was people depending on me.
I think the issue is most Americans have no idea how easy life can be in America. Many things they consider requirements that aren't. I was the same. I had no clue. I started by canceling cable TV. Assumed I would croak. Surprised I liked the added time to do other things. Then the next thing, one at a time dropping things to see the effect. Internet has been the only waster I haven't been able to drop. Few months ago I stopped bottled water and drink tap water. And stopped using toilet paper. Yeah, gross AF. Water bottle with soapy water and my hand like most people in the world do. Clean bum. It's not about the cost or the environment. It's the challenge.
Yeah, it's all good until you want to go back to work but need day care for your child. Prepare to pay what? $450 weekly? Or how about a medical crisis? Medical debt is the leading cause of BK in the US. And vacation time? Yeah sure. That's a f'in joke.
I agree 100%. I have a 1,000 square foot home that's paid for, a 2014 car that's paid for and put 25% in my Roth 401K.
Because we have not committed to a society that supports basic human needs, we are under stress for money to cover basics our entire lives, and many still depend on their jobs to supply health insurance that could be better and cheaper if the government ran it. Our wages are low compared to other countries. Remember many years ago, we learned that McDonalds in France paid $26 an hour with full benefits (5 weeks yearly paid vacation, included), because their government demanded it. Many of our large companies pay much higher wages to their European employees, but are unwilling to pay Americans in America a comparable wage because our government does not take the side of the working person. We are still waiting, waiting, waiting……….
Your observations highlight a significant issue regarding how society prioritizes and supports its citizens' basic needs. The stress of securing essential resources like healthcare and a living wage can indeed have profound impacts on overall quality of life. The comparison between the compensation packages in different countries underscores the role that government policy and corporate practices play in shaping economic well-being. It's a compelling argument for reevaluating how societal support systems are structured and advocating for policies that better support the working population. These disparities in wages and benefits between countries where the same companies operate suggest that changes are possible when there is sufficient demand and regulatory support. Thank you for sharing this critical perspective; it adds important context to discussions about economic equity and the role of government in ensuring a fair distribution of resources.
Look what happened to me. Catastrophic quad bypass and 3 strokes four years ago. I had 2 jobs and sold my art. Boom. Lost almost everything. My 69 year old sister saved me from becoming homeless and dying in the street. Seriously
I'm truly sorry to hear about the tremendous challenges you've faced. It sounds like you've been through an incredibly tough time, and it's heartening to hear that your sister was there to support you when you needed it most. Thank you for sharing your story with us; it's a powerful reminder of how quickly circumstances can change and the importance of having support systems in place. If there's any way that the content here can provide comfort or assistance, please let me know. You're a valued member of our community, and we're here to support each other. Wishing you continued strength and recovery.
You are fortunate to have support via sister. Your sister is truly an angel.
God bless ❤you and your sister
My relatives would pretend they didn't see me while they stepped over me on the street. You are lucky.
@@juliamaxwellmarin 😢 ❤️
I wish more Americans thought like you.
I wish more Americans thought.
One big thing I've noticed about Americans but not just them is the idea that your quality of life is measured by what you own rather than a person's level of happiness.
Thank you!!!
We don't need a society that seems to think about nothing besides making more money.
America is a retail monster machine.
Definitely; keeps getting worse
Yes it is and there are those that believe if we say anything bad about our country we should leave. Thinking they are real patriots it is not patriotic to deny the problems this country has. No country is without failures, but to deny them is to never fix anything. I for one love our country and see it being trashed and that is maddening and I want to see change!!!
Its NOT just America.
Greetings from the Netherlands. Retirement at 60 after working hard for 40 years. Now enjoying live with traveling and seeing the rest of the world.
I agree with just about everything you said. Another thing I’d say is Americans are obsessed with jamming themselves into molds and try to be what they “should be” based on outdated standards rather than living in a way that actually makes sense.
Thank you!!!
Living "next door" in Canada, what I would see on the news made me to decide to never watch the news from the US again. On another note, I have downsized as well. We don't eat out anymore, we buy in bulk at COSTCO and Amazon for dry goods. After my truck needed another expensive repair, I decided to sell it and not buy another. I live in a rural area without public transportation but we still have an SUV and motorcycle. We will be fine without purchasing another over priced vehicle. We don't need to keep up with the Jones's and it feels great. Another great video!
Why does Canada have less violent crime even though you guys live right next to us here in the good ol' USA and are exposed to our entertainment, culture, and media?
@ I have strong opinions about it as I lived close to Buffalo growing up. I have been to the US many times and enjoyed my visits. We could talk hours about it 🙏
@@sagatuppercut2960Guns guns guns. I need a gun to protect against the other guy because he has a gun. Then to the fear add day to day anger and mistrust of goverment, institutions, people/culture all amped up by media and the
myth that there are easy answers to it all. Your living in a very low level war zone imo, but a for a long period with an enemy that everyone can define for their own agenda.
Cars prices are now as much as houses were when I was 18. My father bought his first home for $15,000.
Buying at Amazon is not something to be proud of…
A big house with a big garden sounds like a dream come true. But somehow I don't feel like trying this. I live happily and content in a small apartment in Europe. When I go for a walk in the forest, even millionaires can envy me. This is my simple life philosophy and it works.
You are soooo spot on. When I grew up(the 60's 70's) there was no homeless. Any job could support you. Any job could pay rent. If someone would have told me then what life would be like in this new world I would have said you were crazy. Now, NOTHING is normal anymore. You're right - we've been brainwashed to think a lot of things. Capitalism can become a very cruel system. Corruption and greed is norm now. There's a REASON we have a mental health crisis in this country. We have been spiraling down. If we don't turn things around where are we going to be 10-20 years from now?
Thank you for your thoughtful response. It’s clear that you've witnessed significant changes over the decades, and your perspective sheds light on how economic and social shifts have impacted daily life. The issues you mention, like homelessness, job security, and mental health, are indeed critical and reflective of deeper systemic problems. Discussing these challenges openly, as we are here, is a crucial step toward understanding and hopefully addressing them. It's essential to consider where current trends may lead us and what actions can be taken to create a more equitable and sustainable future. Your concern and insights are a valuable part of this conversation, and I appreciate you taking the time to share them. Let's keep this dialogue going and work together toward the changes we hope to see.
I feel your outrage. Until big corporate money and gerrymandering is outlawed from politics, the special interests of the rich and powerful will continue to dominate and concentrate wealth. The Supreme Court allowed super PACS like citizens United to donate unlimited capital in support of special interests and most recently, the Supreme Court found that the main federal anti-corruption statute proscribing bribes to state and local officials does not criminalize gratuities, which the Court described as “payments made to an official after an official act as a token of appreciation.” This ruling basically legalizes bribery. So when you as a citizen want clean air & water, sensible gun control, reasonable wages, public safety, better public schools, etc. remember that you as an individual are competing against the deep pocketed industrial interests that are now allowed to bribe public officials and these same public officials gerrymander their districts ensuring their continued reign on power and control.
You apparently weren't paying attention in the 50s 60s and 70s. My parents even as college educated nurses and University of Minnesota employees struggled to make the house payment struggled to feed all of us. We all made it became highly successful and didn't invent excuses why somebody else was at fault. Work hard spend less than you earn if one job doesn't do it work two jobs that's what we did to get ahead it's your turn now
67 and never thought I'd say that I'm glad I'm my age!
All I can say to anyone is don't have children! It will literally be child abuse, human abuse!
The system here is now predatory. With no one to govern the out-of-control corruption, it’s gotten worse over the past half century and, barring a major upset, there will be a catastrophic economic collapse.
Well said!
Thank you! I thought I was crazy. When you spend time out of the U.S., what is said on this video is abundantly clear. Coming back home after time abroad feels odd, like you're missing out on an existence that you deserve, but don't have. Definitely retiring abroad when my time comes. Very reinforcing video...
Veronica, this is a healthcare comment. I'm Australian and for years our federal government has focused on preventative health care. Every 2 years women get reminders to have a pap smear (your own doctor, may or may not have to pay) and a breast screen (mammogram) which is free. There is also the bowel cancer screening program - every 2 years all adults aged 45-74 get a test kit. This program is widely advertised essentially as "do a shit, poke it with a stick". These public health initiatives have proved hugely successful in the early detection of cancers, thus higher survival rates and enormous savings for the public health system. Win/win. And no-one goes bankrupt. When the primary focus of healthcare is profit, not people, you're in deep s**t.
Yes, but it is because the people of Australia held the governments, toes near the fire ! While Americans own "slogan/opinion" thinking is holding us back....We must deprogam from many things that only serve to allow certain groups to flourish, yet destroy others.
It's VERY profitable here in the USA. If I didn't have health insurance w/ my job, I'd have to pay $200 for a doctor visit. I recently paid $148 for an ultrasound because my insurance wouldn't cover it.
The costs are astronomical. I don't think most younger Americans realize how likely it is that a health crisis in mid-life will wipe out any retirement savings they manage to save. The politicians are targeting social security after draining it of funds for decades. As things stand, many if not most of us will end life in poverty. Conservatives will say "get a better job and invest in the stock market", as if those jobs exist for everyone and the country wouldn't fall apart without workers in the shops, the restaurants, cleaning, all those things they don't think deserve a living wage. Most Americans couldn't find $500 in an emergency (there's been studies to confirm this, not pulling that figure out of thin air).
It's dystopian here. I'm on edge worried about how bad it will be with the incoming administration and their disasterous stated plans. People are not prepared for if the economy crashes. They're paycheck to paycheck as it is.
I get my Paps, Mams and colonoscopy for free. Wellness has become a big focus with my employer
My state has all Democrat levels of government, from the city councils to the governor. For four years, we had one mandate after another from the top down. We are completely in debt as a state. We have the highest gas tax, very high income tax and they will not stop bleeding us dry. One mandate is for more housing. My corner of the city added 17,000 apartments. Now this small area will get 15,000 more. Biden opened the borders and has gone after conservatives. I know a murder victim, my mail and cars are not safe. I live in California. @@andromedaspark2241
Hi Veronica, I live in Australia. We have universal healthcare, paid sick leave, paid parental, paid bereavement leave, long service leave, ie 3 months leave after so many years of service with an employer. We have paid superannuation, a 37 hour week, paid public holidays, time and a half or double time for weekend work. I am sure if Americans experienced life in other countries they would hopefully advocate for similar conditions in their own.
Guess this is why nothing gets done in Australia. This has been a growing trend mainly since women have become 50 percent of the workforce. I’m 72 and remember working 50 plus hours a week for decades. When more women started in the work force more sick leave and time off for nearly every thing. Glad I am done with full time work and get a kick out of 30 year olds complaining about working there life away .
Thank you for this insight, and I definitely hear your overall sentiment, and that is that perspective or seeing the big picture would help see how we in America are living. I get it. BUT, I've watched easily a dozen videos of people who have LEFT Australia because specifically the cost of living (housing) has made them leave. And they're much happier in Thailand or Malaysia, etc.
The thing is "Americans" is too broad a concept, there are about 300 million of us and within that, there are SO many groups. New immigrants, first and second generation people, are SO happy with what they get living here. Many other groups have different feelings about things; college educated, poor, rich, black, white. There's no end to who is satisfied and isn't.
And we have to be a tiny bit realistic, about going abroad. It's not usual that Americans get out into the world. Both the ability and more importantly the desire. People are convinced it's the best place on earth AND they hate it. So logic and reason are out of whack.
We advocate for it now. But we believe that it's ok that our politicians are only accountable to corporate lobbyists rather than us.
No in America, you are supposed to work very hard for a few years, then you begin to hire people to work for you. It’s called entrepreneurship. You work hard now so you can have much more time off later. In the end you come out way ahead. All that paid leave and time off and working less than 40 hours catches up with you.
@@jamiemcgill67 In other words, every single person should own a business. Good thing businesses never go under, and there's no need for anything else.
Being “ the best country in the world” creates the idea that there is nothing more to improve. I am from the Netherlands, it is not the best country in the world but we are inclined to keep working towards that goal. We will never reach it, but in the mean time things get better.
I don't know where you been living. I'm 77 years old and a black woman. It's always been this way for me. I'm almost glad to learn that some folks are finally realizing how some of us other people have taken for granted All of our life. So in essence, what you are talking about doesn't apply is and always have been a reality for people like me.
What do you mean, "taken for granted?" Who is taking you for granted. Your family? Are you under the impression that other people owe you something?
@@glennwatson3313 Listen to what they are saying, instead of getting defensive. This country is this way it is because it uses Black people, minorities and the poor as scapegoats and distractions, meanwhile the rich are profiting off of all of us. We could have had affordable housing, free healthcare, free education if politicians didn't make us afraid that the "wrong" kind of people would get these things too when they didn't "deserve" it
@@glennwatson3313 Why the strong negative reaction and accusatory tone? I read this through several times and don't know why you believe she thinks she is owed something. I think what she is pointing out is that the things Veronica Edwards is learning are things that she learned a long time ago. Life is hard here, stacked in favor of the rich at the expense of the disadvantaged. Being black in the US has historically put people at an additional disadvantage. She is just pointing out that her experience has been different than that of Veronica.
@glennwatson
Oh, you're one of the chuck-chuck bandy wagon folks, I see. You know exactly what the lady is speaking of, yet, your idiocy overrules your common sense. When certain whites start feeling overwhelmed by their sinking "The great white way", that's when all things are at a loss. If one reads the history of this country, one will know that many blacks, First Nations Peoples, Asians, etc., have known and lived such things their entire lives. These ideas that the lady expressed are old hats to the aforementioned peoples. It's funny, that certain whites use those same tired lines, "Oh, you're playing the victim; Oh, you act like someone owes you something; Oh, you're expecting something for nothing, etc..." yet, many whites are now complaining about how hard it is. Well, wake up, and take a good look at how "America" began, then perhaps, you will know that it is in the dumps today because of its history. Note: There are black seniors living today, who lived through segregation, Jim Crow, lynchings, steering, etc., and you have the nerve to state such a comment. Our First Nations Peoples lived through these same horrors, and so many are gone. Yes, we so-called minorities are due many things, but we shall collect our gifts from the God of lights. A nation cannot survive, when it incessantly spills blood on sand. Those sands may cover the blood and shift, but the shifting will never cease. This new nation, "America" was not built on a rock, it was built on shifting bloodied sand.
A reckoning is almost here, and many of us are simply watching.
@@willobendorf6356 Life is stacked against women who live in cars while pursuing a career as a traveling artist.
The vast majority of seniors cannot afford not to work...I'm one of them.
Vast majority? Over 65... 33% have less than $10k saved, 66% less than $100k. Where do you draw the line on being required to work? For what lifestyle? I'm 68, stopped working a job 22 years ago. Average spend $592.04/mo past 21 months. I'm guessing my lifestyle is very different from yours.
@@waterbug1135your home paid off? You just pay cheap property taxes? How do you keep your food bill low?
agreed. I am 61 and could live on a lot less if insurance were not tied to my job. If I quit my job, or work part time, my insurance would be ridiculously high and the deductible crazy high. If I take SS at 62, it's not enough to pay my basic bills. I would still have to work. And then at 65 it will drop because our government takes some back for medicare.
@@anniesshenanigans3815those stories need to be heard. Too many people are clueless about the struggle.
@@waterbug1135If you quit working at 46, you are fortunate and obviously cannot relate to the thousands of other seniors who are struggling.
Wait let's talk about the contaminated foods in America not allowed in other countries 😂 that's a problem too
Live in New Zealand, Worked for a large US IT corporation. Over ten years ago I was sent to the US to work on project there. The guys were shocked when I didn't hesitate to decline an offer of a green card. A year later all those guys were laid off as the project wound down. I did another 10 years with that company doing projects all over the world.
Uhh, it started with Reagan!! Neo Liberalism! Uhh, I went to Japan in the early eighties and met a lady and just ended up here. The older I get the better it is. No one talks about Japan,s health care compared with all others. It is one of the best in the world!!!
You do realize that Japan has an even more workaholic and work to the bone mentality than the US?
But what about th attitude of Japanese people towards disabled and severel disabled people?
Imagine a college education that cost over 50,000 that lands you a job working at Starbucks. 😳
Start at Starbucks and then go to college😂😂
@evahaynes4438 Right 🤣 I'm just trolling the "Libs/"Progressives" hehe
College is overrated and is not meant for every graduate. Trade school is a better alternative.
When my dad retired from the USPS, he took a part-time job because he was going stir crazy .
I miss paper bags and lunch meat being wrapped in paper . Bread has always come in plastic bags . We recycled those bread bags growing up . We used them inside our boots . We used paper bags for book covers.
@@traceybenna4150 completely agree re Trade School. If you have a trade where I live you'd never be without a job, a way to earn your living and trying to get a good tradesperson is a nightmare.
We used wallpaper and paper bags for book covering (I'm Gen X) 😂
@@bexp436Smart people get a trade, degrees are useless now unless you do engineering or something like that.
I went to college, got out and started a career. However, it didn’t work out. I went to a trade school, and got out and started making a better living than I did with my college degree. I threw my college diploma away a few years ago. But I’ll always have my nursing license.
There needs to be a balance of everything. Trade school should be a more mainstream culture for sure and college for more professional fields in terms of engineering and doctors.
The key word for me is '' we are brain washed''. Not sure if US TODAY is the best place to live in. In the past ''may be''.
A full one half of the American population has gone stark raving mad. I would advise any still sane young person today get out ASAP.
Brain washed...like when I see OVER & OVER ad's with all black actors..at 13% in actual population of US
@@jimaureli6475 which half?
The stats speak for themselves. In Australia health care, which is public and universal but with a small private component, takes up a much smaller proportion of GDP. However, life expectancy is almost six years longer on average. The American medical establishment will tie themselves into knots explaining this is due to more homicides in the US, more drug deaths, obesity etc but the biggest factor is that Americans lack good access to healthcare. So many Americans will defer getting tests done, or simply ignore symptoms, because they are afraid how much it will cost.
I live in Arizona. Since I an over 65 my real estate taxes are frozen at $750/year. I own my 1100 sq ft house free and clear. I drive a 1976 Chevy van that I can repair myself and it only needs liability insurance $500/year. I have some money saved but I can survive on my $1500/ month SS. My saying has always been "It's good enough". I use my Costco card only and pay it off every month before there are any extra charges. I have no debt. I bike ride and hike for exercise. I buy and sell cars and trucks for extra cash. Buy, wash, vacuum, clean. and sell on Craigslist. My credit score is 810. You have to be smarter than what you're doing.
You are in fact one of the smartest people I have encountered. What are your plans for the final destination?
LOVE THIS! I'm 62 and hoping to be the same soon. 3.5 years to pay off my house, ready to call the govt to freeze my property taxes, old chevy spark paid off. No credit card bills, will ALSO be getting around $1,500/month SS god willing at 65. . I AM nervous about it but your post gives me a little more confidence.
I too live a simple life. I rent my extra bedroom to my friend for cheap and drive an easy to fix 1998 vehicle I bought 14 years ago. The libraries have free passes to museums and national parks. I pay off my credit card every month too. I also don't own a cell phone. My landline with an answering machine works fine.
Yes but you know what? Most people aren't like you. You can't just let people eat shit because they aren't as street smart as you are. That's just not ethical. And you are old. You aren't young in a time when a small house costs $500k. Older folks always act like things are so easy if you are just a little street smart. I wish you could be young today and buried in student debt living at you parents house with your wife and son because you can't afford a home of your own due to high interest and increased cost of living and an inflated housing market. I can be as frugal as I can be and still won't be able to afford the house you live in, in todays market. It's a totally different world. And you are also on government health care at that age which is vastly better than private health care.
I live in AZ too. You cannot get car insurance for $500 a year. I pay about triple that for liability on a 1980s car. I'm over 70 and they won't freeze my taxes because I have too much in savings (from a lifetime of work). My real-estate taxes are $4250 a year. Yes, I agree I should move to a smaller house.
Lived in Taiwan for many years. Their healthcare system is fantastic. Accessibility, low cost for people, and technologically equal with America. It can be done.
They eat far more healthily that Americans do. I've watched them eat lunch. Veggies and rice, no fat, no sugar.
There's people with mental illnesses they can't leave here even if they wanted to and they're quite a few who wants to leave here
Fat is essential. Too much rice may spike blood sugar. Many people seem to be healthier on keto and carnivore now.
That sounds great. I will be exploring Taipei for the first time early next year. Would like to travel around the country a little too if I have the chance. I love that it has ocean, mountains, lots of beautiful natural places to hike and explore. Do you have any recommendations for someone visiting there for the first time? Thanks
@WanderingMonk55 on the east coast, Taroka Gorge NP is a must see. A train down the coast from Taipei to Hualien, and further to Taitung is very scenic.
I worked 12 hours from Monday through Saturday for the last 20 years
I left from 1990 to 2000. Spent a wonderful decade in Finland. No-stress culture, nice calm environment. Loved it!
Worked for Nokia when they were King of the Cell Phones. Both of my parents got diagnosed with serious health issues so I returned to the US. Quite the reverse culture shock coming back.
We're "programmed" to think our way is the "best" way. The "normal" way - when nothing could be further from the truth.
To Steve: my brothers business partner is married to woman from Massachusetts and after 20 years living in Winchester (very nice!) she wanted to move "back home ".... 6 months later they are finalising their move.... back to England. She couldn't take the American way of life....says it all.
Im very thankful that we saved for 40 years and paid off all debts. Now into retirement three years we live comfortably. Many friends are not so lucky.
That’s wonderful to hear that you’ve positioned yourself comfortably for retirement after years of diligent saving and planning. It’s a significant achievement and provides a stable foundation to enjoy this chapter of your life. It’s also thoughtful of you to acknowledge the varied situations of others; it's true that not everyone reaches retirement under the same circumstances. Sharing your story and the strategies that worked for you could offer valuable insights and encouragement to others who are planning for or navigating their retirement. If there are tips or lessons you’d like to share from your journey, they could be very beneficial to the community here. Thank you for your comment, and I wish you a joyful and fulfilling retirement!
Hitler told the Austrian Jews: Sign over your assets and we'll allow you to escape to Slovenia. What if they come for yours? Trump is following in Adolph's footsteps to a T.
Same here. no new car every year or fancy vacations. We used to chide our dad as be so tight he squeaked.. Now we understand..
The way most people in the US and world are treating people is not normal. Then again sadly what is normal? Things most consider normal are harmful. But yet many will make fun of artists like me that do art to help get rid of physical and emotional stress. But will waste their brains away on social media, and tik tok. Waste their brains away technology instead of engaging in family time, art, nature, and things that expand the brain. Veronica, my name is Terrell. I just discovered your channel today. You're video is inspirational. I am born, raised, and living in NYC, which has been harmed by so-called normalcy (gentrification/racism). Please stay strong, and I hope to chat with you one day 💚
Sincerely,
Terrell
My wife and I elected to downsize after the financial crisis of 2008. In 2010, we surrendered our 2700 sq ft, four-bedroom home to foreclosure. We moved to a small 1100 sq ft home my wife's mother had left us. We have never been happier. It turns out that two bedrooms (one for guests) and one family room are quite enough. The only "splurge" is the second bathroom. Our yard is small and easy to maintain. A carport replaces a garage, and we have dropped to a single automobile. In all, everything is as wonderful as we could have hoped.
Friend of mine once told me, big difference between wants and needs. We "want" a new car. We "need" transportation. We "want" a larger, newer, home. We "need" a roof over our head. Our society is too obsessed with having stuff. As someone else said, no one goes to the cemetery with a U-haul behind them. Our society needs to get back to prayer. Doing so doesn't mean no problems, heck no! But you are able to learn how to be happy with what you have, not what you don't have.
I agree with what you said except for the praying stuff.
I feel humans have enough to deal with, without holy wars and all the division religions cause. Christians can't even agree on what they believe and expect others to follow?
That sound crazy to me.
I was growing up in the 80's . Life was better , less stress, better weather, better tv, better music , people talked and we had community . Im not saying life was perfect , but it was better ! Its all gone now 😢
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Yep!!!
You don't have to use plastics. You don't have to watch commercials or following the trends. I am a cool member, shop at casa, Farmer markets, only by used cars, live small, check out simple living books, housing Co housing, cycling. You make the choices
I lived one year in Japan; I came back needing much less and being happy with little space.
I'm 62, but have a very close friend who is 83. We talk a lot about the culture in America. She says things started to go downhill in the United States in the 1960's. I think she's right ... conjure up an image from the 1950's and then the 1960's. It all makes sense. Even blacks had it better in the 1950's. Look at statistics on marriage alone, it became worse starting in the 1960's.
Americans , myself included, are things oriented. Mostly. Most people would rather have things than experiences. They would rather have a 5000 square foot home with a Benz in the driveway than travel for example.
But think about it. Since you were a baby you have been plopped in front of a tv set that tells you if you have a Benz you will have a happy life with a beautiful women at your side. Pickup trucks now cost 80k-100k.
Women want $6000 purses 👜 but have no money in that purse once they buy it.
People go to Vegas , rent a cabana , buy bottles of booze for $1500 apiece , then hop on a flight on Spirit Airlines. Back to the apartment they share with 3 roommates.
A 22 year old kid out of college has 100k in debt for a worthless degree. I’m a high school dropout. Union tradesman in Chicago. In my lifetime I’ll make $1 million more in my lifetime than the AVERAGE college grad will. But we can’t get young men to sign up for the apprenticeship programs in these jobs because they don’t want to get their hands dirty and work hard. College grads would rather work at Starbucks and bartend and still make less than I do . And to young women , the plumber, the electrician are almost invisible. He doesn’t make enough money or doesn’t have enough status or education for them. Even though he makes more money than the cubicle monkey she’s giving up the cookies to at the moment.
I made enough in the trades to retire at 51. But only by living in Thailand , Mexico , I’m on my way to check out Albania now. Maybe get a small apartment there.
I own …nothing. I travel with a carryon suitcase and a small bag. I have a 5’x10’ storage in Chicago. With photos and things I couldn’t give away .
Is my life for everyone ? No. Not at all. But I speak to people that have million dollar homes. Have high earning jobs. They are miserable. And can’t figure out an exit strategy. There is no off ramp in the US. It’s all geared on making you have debt. Forever. Till you die.
Home ownership is a nice little trap we build ourselves. Everyone is sitting on a pile of equity. And now everyone has a half million dollar or million dollar home. The problem is the next generation , the kids , the people trying to start a family can’t afford an apartment much less your million dollar home so who can you sell that to to cash in on your equity? Houses aren’t selling. Yet the prices keep going up.
Told me kid to get a remote job that makes 40k and move to Thailand. You’re better off in Bangkok or Mexico City or the Philippines making 40k than you are living in LA , NyC or Chicago making 100k .
The US is not the best place to live. By most metrics. And anyone that keeps saying that most likely hasn’t been anyplace else
Great comment and very true
There are many of us who live here consciously and simply. You don't have to follow the crowd, live to work instead of working to live . You balance your life and work and not chasing big homes, cars, clothes and fast foods.
Exactly live to be happy for you,not to impress others with status
That can only be done in certain areas and states. In a lot of states there is not balance. There's survival for the bare minimum. Open your eyes!
@@gardenjoy5223 lived in Southern, western, northern and New England states. It can be and is being done today.
My life's motto: live simply so others may simply live stands firm and true. From Pensacola, to Portland
@@scwiggie Totally depending upon your status. When you are disadvantaged in any way (say no college degree or not learned a good trade), than people in many states need two jobs to make ends meet. Barely. Just look around you.
I think your point of view is spot on. If I had to put a time on when things took a turn for the worse, I would say that somewhere in the 70's and 80's, and specifically the way that the connection between employer and employees fell apart. Gone are the days that companies felt like employees are expendable. Gone are the days of a fixed retirement pension, health coverage, and a feeling that there is a mutual commitment to success. I would also throw in the Vietnam war as a huge tear in the fabric. I think we were fed a pack of lies, the deferments given to the wealthy made it a war fought by those without a chance. Look at Vietnam today for proof. Lastly I would throw in the disappearance of the middle class. Gone are the days of hundreds of good paying jobs working at the steel mill, the auto plant, the appliance manufacturer etc. It usually took one person to support a family. Not always, but it was not uncommon. Now, 2 incomes barely covers the bills.
Just my thought.
I’m a naturalized American from Germany. One of the richest countries in the EU. Trust me when I tell you, that it is absolutely possible to live a good life in the US as long as you’re not falling into the fake societal trap. Opportunities are sheer endless and you are probably freer than in other countries. That Americans are in so much debt is because of their consumerism. No one forces you to buy anything. I’ve bought a manufactured home 8 years ago on 5 acres of land for $148k and people looked down on me and still do even though I have no debt. My Ex called my home a “shitbox”. There you can see the twisted mindset. The house with land has now quadrupled in price. My car is 10 years old and drives like a charm, I run 3 businesses and all are bringing income. I live in my means and always have time for myself. Germany though has for everything a rule. Not easy to start a business and lord have mercy, when you step out of line. You are giving about 50% of your paycheck to the government. In return you get healthcare and a very mediocre retirement. Germany looks good from the outside but never ever would I go back. People only have to change their mindset, Be frugal, don’t spend more than you earn. Educate yourself cause education in the US is not the best. Step out of the matrix and a good life IS possible in this wonderful country. The mindset that when you’re old you’re sick, is mainly an American thing. My granny who survived two wars made it to 95 and worked until one day before her death in her small grocery store. Eat healthy as much as you can. Exercise and get fresh air. Americans unfortunately have the tendency like Germans, to do everything wrong and then complain of how bad everything is. I love America and its people. Is it hard here? Yes, no doubt but when you do your own thing, contentment is possible.
Basically you can live without 85% of the crap you buy…!
I agree. I am a young boomer. I realized this 30 years ago.
I agree with you 💯
There's something wrong with the society and people. I don't know what it is.
Greed and materialism is a huge problem in our country. People are taught they HAVE to move out as soon as they’re adults. In other countries it’s normal to have multi generational homes.
This is the way it should be 🫂😔
An Eagle has to leave the nest to soar to heights.
America is not a country it's a business.
Don't forget the arms race for vehicles with people buying full sized pickup trucks and SUVs, pretending that they need a high ground clearance 4wd off-road vehicle.
Such vehicles are wasteful with fuel, pollute more, use more rubber, glad, steel, plastic and they are more dangerous to other drivers, bicyclists and pedestrians. People have become selfish.
My top 3 culture shocks after moving to the USA: 1/ The medical system is absolutely monstrous. It is so expensive, inconvenient, complicated and pointless that I couldn’t believe it. You have to really, deeply hate people to create and defend this system. 2/ The quality and standards of home construction. This is a shock. Houses made of OSB boards, internal walls made of two sheets of plasterboard. This is a mockery, not a house. A movie set. The quality is incredibly low, and the price is incredibly high. 3/ Urbanization in the USA is at a very low level: car-dependent suburbs with no infrastructure, public transportation, public areas. A very unpleasant place to live. Where in the USA they managed to create some semblance of an average European town, the cost of houses immediately flew through the sky.
The people that defend it do so for political reasons. Not one American has convinced me that their health insurance model is better than universal health care
Very impressed by the level of this reflection. Why cant the rest of us wake up?
I have lived around the world... What you talk about sums up things.. Most Americans have never researched or travelled outside the USA to see the differences..
Americans are slaves to the dollar, consumerism and multi billionaire corporations. This is not Communist talk just the truth..
The most horrible things about the USA is the medical situation, the debt incurred and lack of easy transportation.. The free time is sadly lacking.. Most people get 6 weeks holiday a year plus public holidays..
I only recently found out you have to pay to give birth to a child 😢.... This is free where I live..
Americans don't know how badly they are being abused... It's slavery
I live in Rhode Island and 6 years ago at 58, after a 39 year stressful career, I sold my house, bought a small condo with the equity (so no mortgage) sold my car, and took a part time 3 day per week job as a delivery person.
It has worked out amazingly. I am now down to working 2 days a week, collecting S.S., and taking a small monthly distribution from my 401K. 3 months ago, I sold my condo for more than double what I bought it for and am renting a very small house until I decide what to do. If you can downsized and work less, do it.
That is really smart.
Smart lady. I live in Australia and have visited the United States. I can't believe how lucky I am. You need to come over for a holiday.
I have in the past 15 months purchased a home and set up a second residence in portugal, it is nicer than my US home and we intend to live there permanently in the coming year or two. We spend 90-180 days a year there and throughly enjoy being there, when we are in the US I try not to leave the house and spend almost all of my time with the grandchildren. The culture there is so different, the people make little money but live a higher standard of living albeit with less material wealth. That is how I always chose to live, as debt free and with as little as possible, therefore I feel at home there. Good luck to all the open minded people who try these life changing experiences.
Oooh, it's sooo nice to be able to just pick up and move to another country. If I had that much money, I can live great right here in the good old USA😅😂😂😂
I found your channel recently. I'm single, 56, still enjoy my job very much, and find you, a breath of fresh air. Thanks for sharing your prespectives and my best to you!
Thank you so much for your kind words and warm welcome to the channel! It's wonderful to hear that you're enjoying the content and find it refreshing. I'm thrilled to have you as part of our community and look forward to sharing more perspectives that hopefully resonate with you. Your encouragement means a lot, and I wish you all the best too. Thank you for joining us and for taking the time to reach out!
Yes! SOMETHING IS TERRIBLY WRONG IN THE U.S.
THROUGH DECADES WE SEE HARD WORKING PEOPLE'S SALARY WITH NO INCREASE-A FLAT LINE- BUT THE OWNERS AND CEOs YEARLY PROFITS AND BONUSES SKYROCKETING UP.
I had a happy life without a focus on materialism because I was raised by a good mother, have good genetics, and have stayed healthy by staying active in sports and enjoying the outdoors. It's all I ever needed. I had a purpose in my life and goals, and worked very hard to become successful. The money has only been to realize financial independence to insure safety for me and my family. There are many normal people living normal lives in this country - what I see is a lot of un-normal people with no common sense.
The less expensive foods are highly processed which leads to metabolic problems and the pharmaceutical companies are quick with medications to fix the metabolic problems. We as consumers watch the advertisements and buy into a system designed to make you life long consumers of the very products that are making you sick.
A radical change is needed to change this system.
The ads that pop up during your video prove your point.
America has choices; earnings, size of houses, types of cars one can drive etc. It is up to us to choose how we wish to live our lives
I really work hard to engage myself in some way of earning more income and pay my taxes. My family is happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$67k weekly returns have been life changing, after so much struggles.
Hello how do you make such weekly??
I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God.
Charlotte Junko Walsh, I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.
I remember giving her my first savings. $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.
My outlook on money changed when I realized someone making $200K can retire broke & someone making $80K can retire a millionaire. With the current market movement.
You're correct!! I make a lot of money without relying on the government. Investing in stocks and digital currencies is beneficial at this moment.
We live under the affectation that everyone wants to be a VIP
I want to leave myself,and I never thought I would never think of living anywhere else. Thank you for thus video,you're so right about the american lifestyle,of keeping up with the jones....it's not about living
Everything you said here is absolute truth. We are messed up.
I live in a city row house in Harrisburg, PA. It is very walkable. My husband and daughter, 23, have enough space to live. You are correct. We need to rethink how to live. Small and medium sized cities have a lot to offer.
It’s the same thing all over the world , it always seems greener on the other side of the fence
not really, list to her again
So true. I get sick of people her in the US that say their home country is so great. Well, if its so great, why don't you go back to your home country!
I get tired of Americans making videos for yt cash saying we are living beyond our means when that is not the case AT All and they know it.