The coin of the realm: give people what they want

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  • @psychacks
    @psychacks  หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    My book, “The Value of Others,” begins and ends with a parable. Many have asked me about the significance of the parable in the epilogue, which relates an episode from the life of Jesus. In applying this parable to sexual relationships, we can understand the importance of using the coin of the realm. Render unto Caesar what is Caesar's. When men pay women in women's currency, and women pay men in men's currency, relationships are ordered and prosperous. I discuss further in this episode.
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    • @aaronjonellhall1937
      @aaronjonellhall1937 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bought!!!

    • @ma2000
      @ma2000 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      One of the best books I have read. I watched ALL episodes on this channel but the book is where it's all at. Highly recommended!

    • @kurtvanluven9351
      @kurtvanluven9351 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, if you're observing the media nowadays, I guess the point of the realm would be lies but , but that's not really what people want.

  • @biasedknowledge
    @biasedknowledge หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Your analogy about paying men and women in their respective ‘currencies’ is such a simple yet profound concept! It brings to mind the projection bias, where we project our own wants and needs onto others, assuming they'll reciprocate in the same way. I’ve seen someone close to me wrestle with this-thinking their partner should appreciate what they value, rather than tuning into what their partner actually craved. Your insights help make it clear how vital it is to step outside of our own assumptions and recognize the individuality of the other person

  • @James-ic1mp
    @James-ic1mp หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    His book is phenomenal. It's the only book I've listened to, finished, and immediately started listening to again.

    • @DawnFromNZ
      @DawnFromNZ หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Me too! Bought the paperback and as soon as I finished, read it again. 😊

    • @walterwilkinson1499
      @walterwilkinson1499 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@DawnFromNZprobably a good idea to buy the paperback in case any coming AI future has the type of wokeism that would scrub it from the digital realm.

    • @shun2240
      @shun2240 หลายเดือนก่อน

      definitely reading it after I finished 12 rules for life by Jordan Peterson

    • @chetwayosfitnessenterprise5472
      @chetwayosfitnessenterprise5472 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I did the same thing, I haven't listened to it 4 times now lol

  • @btwthblood
    @btwthblood หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    I agree....I was married for 38 years before he passed. It was a good marriage. One of the things we did in our early marriage was attend "marriage enrichment seminars." We read a book we got from one of those seminars. "His Needs, Her Needs" It really helped us. That was long before cell phones.

  • @WestRonin75
    @WestRonin75 หลายเดือนก่อน +234

    I never thought I’d hear Orion say “titties” this many times in a single vid 😂😂😂

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages หลายเดือนก่อน

      We all do love us some titties. Especially big ones!

    • @RaviTeja_RaviTejaP
      @RaviTeja_RaviTejaP หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@WestRonin75 🤣 true
      I was dying laughing

    • @DavidianCrest
      @DavidianCrest หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      the man defines “savage in a suit” gotta love em 😂

    • @bdtrap
      @bdtrap หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I read this comment and patiently waited 9 minutes for the barrage 🤣

    • @willhartman300
      @willhartman300 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Needs to be a ringtone

  • @Slyharrier7878-vq2fw
    @Slyharrier7878-vq2fw หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    25 years old and going through a break up. These videos have been enlightening and will carry me forward. Best of luck to all guys

    • @realcharlesrono
      @realcharlesrono หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      25 is a tad bit old my guy

    • @Slyharrier7878-vq2fw
      @Slyharrier7878-vq2fw หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@realcharlesrono Yeah guess so, but better late than never

    • @YesNo-qb9vl
      @YesNo-qb9vl 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I wish I had those for my disgusting break up in 2021 it would have made sense of all my gut feelings and dodge me an unnecessarily long-term mourning of the relationship. I got a delusional psychiatrist instead who only made me absolutely worst and created doubt where none were warranted, he held me back discrediting my guts and I trusted him, he's an old head, and he is so kind and full of good intentions and all giving, but so incompetent 😢

  • @DawnFromNZ
    @DawnFromNZ หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    You explain things so clearly. Have learnt so much from your videos and book. I might not like everything, some truths are hard to swallow, but swallow them I do! Thanks Orion. 😊

    • @IY89118
      @IY89118 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agree!

  • @stmatthewsisland5134
    @stmatthewsisland5134 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I remember as a nurse back in the late 80s doing night duty with a lady then in her late 40s, one always had interesting and frank discussions with people on night duty - the sun going down seems to have that effect. She told me her Mother advised her ‘whenever your husband wants sex give it to him’ I thought that sounded like sensible advice. Now after a long spell looking after my Mother until she died I would like to get married again and I have found this an invaluable channel in getting ‘up to speed’ on relationships again and I shall get the book. Thank you for all you do; and thank you for the video on Letting Go I had never heard it put like that before (letting to with love).

  • @chipsteve
    @chipsteve หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    The dating apps are full of women saying they only want a serious relationship and want to "take it slow". They are so oblivious to what men want. It's not even if they don't care. They are too solipsistic & "me me me!" to even realize that in order for them to get what they want in a relationship, they should consider the other person's perspective.
    A woman saying that she's only looking for a serious relationship after taking it slow is exactly equivalent to a man saying I just want bedroom fun immediately and I don't really care about you as a person.

    • @slaytanic921
      @slaytanic921 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      They say they want to take it slow but if you are “that guy,” they’ll fvck on the first date.

    • @chipsteve
      @chipsteve หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@slaytanic921 Sure, but that's not the point. It's that our culture has become so ridiculous that such a dichotomy exists, even on the most superficial of mediums.

    • @FedPut
      @FedPut หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@slaytanic921 they're probably already having sex with "that guy" casually while they are looking for a sucker who will pay for dates

    • @Knxwledgist
      @Knxwledgist หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And that's fine, we just gotta make sure that we aren't giving more than we're getting. most of the time this will just lead to us coming off as low value and getting rejected, or even worse, exploited.

    • @Ashnesss
      @Ashnesss หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@slaytanic9211 year and the other 9 months. And no, it wasn’t sex. Light make out. No tongue. So, nope. I can’t imagine myself dropping my pants on the first date. That takes practice. You reach that point AFTER you’ve had sex with multiple people which I haven’t. That’s why I can’t have an arranged marriage either. I’d be uncomfortable sleeping with a stranger or letting him touch me 🤢🤮

  • @jdvert4
    @jdvert4 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    The one who holds the power controls the value. Remember, if you want something, usually you have to give something. But, don't get taken advantage of.

    • @edheldude
      @edheldude หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Winning means overpaying in this current unregulated market.

    • @msfubby9372
      @msfubby9372 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@edheldude True

  • @SpencerRoyalcom
    @SpencerRoyalcom หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Well said. Define your currency and identify the costs. Then enjoy serving and being paid.

  • @CedReg-en6od
    @CedReg-en6od หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Another Master Class taught! 🔥 Me and a lady friend had a slight debate disagreement about some things and I literally tried to tell her to stop trying to think like men; and just learn to listen to what we like; not what you think “feel” we should value.

  • @tnn-cj3vy
    @tnn-cj3vy หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    after watching this video, i realized i'm not just poor in dollars, but men coins as well!

    • @pureprairie1
      @pureprairie1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No problem! If you've got titties you're good! And don't worry about perfection... The primary emotional need for women is to be listened to. The primary emotional need for men is to be appreciated. When a female voice says thank you to a man, we feel warm fuzzies in our chest. Thank him for spending time with you, taking out the trash, helping the kids with their homework, going to church with you, etc etc. And watch his face melt and his shoulders relax. When the homelife is good we're not hungry for love. Good luck!

  • @ringoheinrich7021
    @ringoheinrich7021 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Your channel is pure enlightenment. ... Thank you for your work!

  • @armorbearer9702
    @armorbearer9702 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The analogy you gave is spot on. Different things and services has different value to different people.

  • @diemme568
    @diemme568 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    this episode is the best one of all. It is precisely what happens. And I even use the inverse tactics, too: when I want a relationship to end, I pay in dumbbells and "various alphaness articles", instead of the wanted pink elephants. After a while, the end comes inexorably. XD

  • @DenzelCierra
    @DenzelCierra หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Orion, we need to plaster someplace you at 09:32 for us men to reference like apes around a monolith. Love you, dude. Keep up the inspiring work.

  • @TinoDanielzik
    @TinoDanielzik หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Well, if you deal with toxic people you can give them as much as they want and whatever they want, they will still be unsatisfied and leave. Another topic for another video, how Orion‘s model described in his book works on toxic people.
    Regarding this video: think about it like a birthday, don’t buy a present for the birthday kid that YOU would be happy to get, buy a present that the kid would be happy to get.

    • @sammakwela
      @sammakwela หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sure, but I doubt he's addressing toxic people at this point

    • @vladivf
      @vladivf หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Orion would probably say that you shouldn't invest time, energy, money into people you consider toxic.

    • @sammakwela
      @sammakwela หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vladivf good one

  • @lawnbear5958
    @lawnbear5958 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

    For the record, the Pharisees were attempting to trap and discredit Jesus.
    If he had said it was okay to pay taxes, then they would determine that he was putting Ceasar before God. If He had said not to pay taxes, then they would have argued that he was violating the law. It was a catch 22.
    Jesus, being Jesus, showed them the Way.

    • @cabot100
      @cabot100 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The Roman elite hired scholars to write what is known as the Bible. The underlying intent was to control the common people, a component of that was loyalty to Caesar including taxation.

    • @Damo-np7ul
      @Damo-np7ul หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Or... As Joseph Atwill and others have put forward in Caesar's Messiah, the first gospel (Mark's) was written by someone like Josephus on bequest of the Flavians to control and subdue the Jews. That is, the Romans may have created what became Christianity. Hence, "render unto Ceasar", "turn the other cheek" etc are conscious and subconscious acquiesces to Roman rule. The Flavians also saw themselves as the Son of God and wanted to create a divine right for their dynasty to rule.

    • @041882
      @041882 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Jesus did this over and over. Getting the background on this story is fascinating.

    • @cabot100
      @cabot100 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@041882 The Jesus character in the Bible was created by the Roman elite.

    • @jeji000
      @jeji000 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Damo-np7ul No evidence of course, just another angle that attempts to discredit Christianity.

  • @Developer_rapfa
    @Developer_rapfa หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    He just solved life ,

  • @zZDavidHD
    @zZDavidHD หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Been reading your Book, somewhere around page 30, i gotta say it is really good, i can recommend so far, it just gets better.

  • @KevinMcClave
    @KevinMcClave หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Another fantastic installment. This may be the best yet.

    • @rdcklaus
      @rdcklaus หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree... until the next video... lol

  • @Papaconstantopoulos
    @Papaconstantopoulos หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Glad other viewers caught this too, easily one of Orion's best and most widely applicable videos. Good, simple explanation ❤

  • @brewerfireguy
    @brewerfireguy 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just finished your book. So good. I can’t wait to read again.

  • @southpoleelvs
    @southpoleelvs หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I bought your book and I love it!! Highly recommend

  • @Abelius
    @Abelius หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I swear, the moment my daughters learn English well enough, I'll send them your videos one after another, starting with this one.
    I bet you'll have 3M subs by then, if not more.

    • @LisaCulton
      @LisaCulton หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You want your daughters to be sending nude pictures to men online?

  • @workvids9296
    @workvids9296 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is brilliant Orion, I finally understand the currency between men and women. Thank you.

  • @DeepStreamBits
    @DeepStreamBits หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This needs another 3 hour video explaining the exchange rate of the coins, sexual market volatility, age adjusted inflation and so on...

  • @gracerules2008
    @gracerules2008 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Even if men are expected to downplay their sexual desires that will not stop them from having those desires.

  • @dannybazanjr
    @dannybazanjr หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    protect the doc at all costs. another banger!

  • @timolus3942
    @timolus3942 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love the book and this video!! Thanks Orion❤

  • @kents1911
    @kents1911 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man is preaching!!!

  • @AaronJMarch
    @AaronJMarch หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve watched every video you’ve made Doc - this one is in my top 3.

  • @23DanielVincent
    @23DanielVincent หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I agree with the principles stated in this video: HOWEVER; women of today are demanding far more "coins" for a product that has far less value than what it used to.

    • @sammyb1651
      @sammyb1651 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      *Mario Coin sound*

    • @Straga_Severa
      @Straga_Severa หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yep. The taxes on men are constantly raised, and taxes on women are constantly lowered.

    • @rob21
      @rob21 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yep. The price has increased, but the product is used.

    • @perpetualprocrastinator
      @perpetualprocrastinator หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rob21 😄

  • @qfit80
    @qfit80 หลายเดือนก่อน +187

    Orion is the truth. The quintessential psychology, dating, and relationship advisor for the 21st century. Keep up the excellent work!

    • @directorchris2
      @directorchris2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Coynting What was Said Before When He Reached USD.... Thoyght of US Dick Coin X X

    • @LordHaragnok
      @LordHaragnok หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@directorchris2 ...what?

    • @directorchris2
      @directorchris2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LordHaragnok From prior Dick pictyres... Coin ....

    • @directorchris2
      @directorchris2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LordHaragnok He Spoke of Dickpics Whne he Reached the USD Coinage Thought he Meant USdick coin

  • @solahoward929
    @solahoward929 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish more people understood this. It really is very simple.

  • @petedoxtader4177
    @petedoxtader4177 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I wish you could like a TH-cam video more than once. This one deserves 100.

  • @dgk46
    @dgk46 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is pure gold!

  • @stanislawjanusz4452
    @stanislawjanusz4452 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the best videos I have watched.

  • @hectordjibaou4198
    @hectordjibaou4198 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent work on this!

  • @thinkforyourself7262
    @thinkforyourself7262 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    GREAT BOOK. Learned a lot. Appreciated Orion.

  • @tucobenedicto1780
    @tucobenedicto1780 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The sequence from 9:50 to 10:10 is spot on my experience with women.

  • @GamingDemiurge
    @GamingDemiurge หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have absolutely no critique for this video. Is brilliant.

  • @brianaustin2135
    @brianaustin2135 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Excellent job as usual doctor

  • @khoivinh2028
    @khoivinh2028 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As always, very cool and life-altering knowledges.

  • @tlz8884
    @tlz8884 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This has been enlightening, thank you.

  • @konradallan
    @konradallan หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is some of your best work Orion 🤣🤣

  • @ignaciomourullo944
    @ignaciomourullo944 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would have benefited from this advice, this information, about 20 years ago. Thank you Doc, you are the best!!

  • @tiomoidofangle102
    @tiomoidofangle102 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great use of parables.

  • @maritamaltezaki8588
    @maritamaltezaki8588 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a revealing and logical point of view!❤

  • @Lizjr02723
    @Lizjr02723 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This makes perfect sense

  • @angelaseraphinaTheRECONNECTION
    @angelaseraphinaTheRECONNECTION หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It seems we are realizing there isn’t much we truly want from each other.

    • @stevenmccauslin5880
      @stevenmccauslin5880 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@angelaseraphinaTheRECONNECTION I think the message here is that there are a great many things we want from each other but more often one party isn't willing to pay, or isn't willing to pay the set price in the desired currency.

  • @doublet7651
    @doublet7651 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think this also applies to different personalities with friends, co workers, etc. Thanks Orion

  • @kamalbhatia9591
    @kamalbhatia9591 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello orion. You make so complicated concepts so easy. Thanks from India.

  • @meriabbado8852
    @meriabbado8852 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    As always PHENOMENAL! 👏🙌🙌

  • @robertkluch7165
    @robertkluch7165 หลายเดือนก่อน

    *sigh* and here we go again *listens to his book for the 5th time in a row because this man is a genius* 😮‍💨

  • @maxwell7470
    @maxwell7470 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    i like the book, it made me ever reconsider if i want to finish it bc it makes relationships "too complicated", as i think would not be better to learn seduction? never the less, im finishing it.
    On a more personal note, i don't agree 100% with all the videos or ideas but 90% minimum yea and i got to say im happy i found you man, i had lots of ideas that seemed logical but never give them form and you provided me with that "form". if you're ever in Frankfurt i offer you a beer and a meal at a good restaurant

    • @StradTrumpeter
      @StradTrumpeter หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Really? I found the opposite to be true. The only way the book makes relationships more complicated is if we try to get them to be something they’re not or something we wish they were. But if you’re doing that then it’s always going to be a shit show.

  • @beanrunnerWA
    @beanrunnerWA หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great book, it allows us to see what people are really doing.

  • @CraigHillas
    @CraigHillas หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take me to church Orion, preach the word!

  • @insightsofmichael
    @insightsofmichael หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a great analogy.

  • @ChrisZimmerman-gy6lo
    @ChrisZimmerman-gy6lo หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent as usual.

  • @ronj9448
    @ronj9448 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a damn great episode. I decided I had to buy the book.

  • @dizzydez8126
    @dizzydez8126 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou again doc keep up the good work

  • @barbapapaplouf5419
    @barbapapaplouf5419 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man, I am sometimes a bit skeptical about your content, but I feel that you make really great points here

  • @Deibote
    @Deibote 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very useful! Thank you

  • @bernardvreulink2457
    @bernardvreulink2457 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant!

  • @anccert
    @anccert หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    From prior videos I got the impression you’re not a fan of the 5 Love Languages book, but the coin analogy is basically the premise of that book and the love languages. Coin or language, the idea is to swallow ones pride and practice a little selflessness.

  • @drmatthewhorkey
    @drmatthewhorkey หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    While reading the book, I couldn't wrap my head around the parable... Now I GET IT!!!

  • @joelpratley9248
    @joelpratley9248 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your best yet

  • @yardman255
    @yardman255 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I ran into the jewels like sonic when I came upon your page months ago.

  • @anilbalram7768
    @anilbalram7768 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He really broke it down. Damn

  • @j.davidtaylor2565
    @j.davidtaylor2565 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dropping truth bombs as per usual. Well-articulated as always

  • @zziitech2152
    @zziitech2152 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It's amazing book i learned a lot

  • @freisein6554
    @freisein6554 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very helpful and makes sense 👍🏻

  • @Khan-rz8qi
    @Khan-rz8qi หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    The way I go about it, I give women 90 percent of everything they want. I look great and I have lots to share. I just don’t give them 100 percent because of 2 reasons: once I trap myself with one woman, I lose access to being able to get more. And 2, women who end up locking down men like me tend to become very ungrateful down the line because they know they have the legal system backing them. I could potentially find myself in a loveless, sexless relationship because I decided to give a woman 100 percent. By keeping my options open, I maintain my position to get more, and I also avoid being taken to the cleaners when I woman inevitably becomes unhappy later on. I’m quite happy and as far as I can tell, the women I love are also happy.

    • @katielowen
      @katielowen หลายเดือนก่อน

      Khan likes to sniff the odor of his own 💩 with a sigh and a proud smile, and there’s nothing wrong with that. 🥰

    • @sammyb1651
      @sammyb1651 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If anyone can, Khan can.

    • @katielowen
      @katielowen หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sammyb1651 love Khan and his armchair quarterback stories 🥰

    • @sammyb1651
      @sammyb1651 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@katielowen All hail Khan!!!!

    • @Paul-yk7ds
      @Paul-yk7ds หลายเดือนก่อน

      In my experience, they go crazy when you give them everything but monogamy. Not sure if that's what you're saying

  • @xFREEEDO
    @xFREEEDO หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    didn't expect a solid couple minutes on TIDDIES and nearly spit up my morning coffee 😂

    • @immortaljanus
      @immortaljanus หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      The video is over and I'm still laughing. 🤣

    • @IfSemper
      @IfSemper หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I was brushing my teeth while listening to it & nearly dripped the toothpaste out all over my mine, ha, ha ( * ) ( * )

    • @1986xuan
      @1986xuan หลายเดือนก่อน

      Orion’s doing God’s work. It’s all about tiddies 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @69sexymonk69
      @69sexymonk69 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pics or it didn't happen

    • @bearclaw5115
      @bearclaw5115 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh come on dude, you can say it. Titties! Yes, Titties! Set them free baby!!!

  • @michaelwilliams853
    @michaelwilliams853 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another brilliant explanation of behaviors and thsir results. 👏🏾💪🏾

  • @kennethwolkens6251
    @kennethwolkens6251 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely ingenious!

  • @eyepodwalkman6247
    @eyepodwalkman6247 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    In my experience sending cute, affectionate, non sexual texts is the most sure fire way to make her lose interest completely and stop responding altogether.

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yup !

    • @kat-601
      @kat-601 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Never use impressive & extra words. Direct to the point black & white.

    • @lotsosoul
      @lotsosoul หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Because it’s feminine energy.

    • @eyepodwalkman6247
      @eyepodwalkman6247 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@lotsosoul But that's what Orion recommends we do in the video. Are you suggesting Mr. Spooky Eyes would steer us wrong?

    • @Candlelight787
      @Candlelight787 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@eyepodwalkman6247 😂😂😂 Noooo...never..

  • @FFLOVEAR302
    @FFLOVEAR302 หลายเดือนก่อน +462

    The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

    • @4SG
      @4SG หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Cringe bot spam.

  • @willh528
    @willh528 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best video ever!

  • @meliciaoliveira9895
    @meliciaoliveira9895 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The bessssst episode! 😂😏

  • @isaacwinters6954
    @isaacwinters6954 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember hearing the quote “render unto…” at the end of Orion’s book
    Wasn’t sure what it meant. This video answers that question

    • @LisaCulton
      @LisaCulton หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Except that he doesn't understand the meaning of the story.

  • @yanga_pangomso
    @yanga_pangomso หลายเดือนก่อน

    The book is simply the best book in its segment, I may have not read all books on relationships, I will confidently say, they likely don’t surpass this.

  • @KevinChan5Arts
    @KevinChan5Arts หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome explanation ... make alot of sense

  • @lotsosoul
    @lotsosoul หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was as enlightening as it was hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @leebailey1220
    @leebailey1220 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm not going to lie this is accurate I watch every single one of your videos but I will say children takes away from this level of simplicity ...

  • @SallyChanArt
    @SallyChanArt หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nice clip.

  • @gregprince5283
    @gregprince5283 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I give to Cesar every time I eat a salad

  • @michaelbunner4148
    @michaelbunner4148 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I liked this video first,always good content 😂😂

  • @ryan99842
    @ryan99842 หลายเดือนก่อน +221

    this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in unveiling your hidden potential by bruce thornwood

  • @frankbarenbach6044
    @frankbarenbach6044 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best relationship video ever! ❤😊

  • @regaelbufkin2135
    @regaelbufkin2135 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I agree with this for the most part but a big part of the problem... the men willing to pay women with women coin aren't the men they want the coin from.

  • @TheMingo33
    @TheMingo33 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perfect!!!

  • @danihoek7341
    @danihoek7341 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    good and great Daniel Hoek from Ethiopia Africa

  • @joeldale97ii
    @joeldale97ii หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know this isn’t the point of your video, Doc- but I do love how you mention that you can’t give something to somebody that you yourself don’t have, then go on to talk about how this group of people delegated rights that they didn’t have (the right to tax) to another group of people. Just ironic. Great lesson!

  • @bt6939
    @bt6939 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    "Her personalities"
    I don't know if it was intentional or he misspoke but it was funny

  • @UlrichVanHeesen
    @UlrichVanHeesen หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr Tereban you're my one and only Mentor

  • @stevensolof7058
    @stevensolof7058 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I believe this is about 50 percent correct, at least from my personal set of preferences.
    I want both of those coins. In other words, i want my girlfriend to be a good friend who wants to share random moments, jokes, intimate connection, etc... maybe not my best friend in the world, but a good friend... because expecting a woman to totally get me like my best friend is probably expecting too much.
    And clearly, as a man, i want the sexual chemistry to be through the roof, including attraction from my partner to be strong enough that they voluntarily send nudes, or flirt, wear the new lingerie, etc.
    The main problem for me is that women tend to be flirty in the beginning of a relationship, but eventually fall off the habit, partiallt because they feel as though they shouldnt have to. And when that happens, is when i tend to stop wanting to share on the friendship level, because the reciprocation balance is off.

    • @drwayne_carter9115
      @drwayne_carter9115 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This is definitely personal preference. Most men do not want constant and meaningless small talk via text like you do. When Orion gives advice he is speaking to the majorities.

    • @alexandrodl1371
      @alexandrodl1371 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@drwayne_carter9115 ' I saw that cloud and I thought of you!' Please... Please, dont.

    • @rayrwyr
      @rayrwyr หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@drwayne_carter9115 -- modern men are feminized. They want women as good friends.

    • @user-nz6tq3vc5u
      @user-nz6tq3vc5u หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@drwayne_carter9115 it's my experience that the men want nothing but to spend endless hours small talking. I hate it as much as you guys. They never want to leave their home.

    • @jac_marie
      @jac_marie หลายเดือนก่อน

      Steven, how often should I send pics? I’ve been with my man a year now and I send pics voluntarily like once a week. I’m curious and you seem like a reasonable guy. lol

  • @ryanschneer
    @ryanschneer หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Friday should be “don’t give people what they don’t want. Please🙏

    • @kat-601
      @kat-601 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sat nights are best