Purpose, Fatherhood, and Spiritual Awakening
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 มิ.ย. 2023
- Dr. Peterson and Senator Josh Hawley highlight the struggles faced by men today - including alienation, depression, and a lack of purpose, and aim to offer a constructive vision of manhood.
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I went to school for political science and psychology... I did not finish my degree. I run a restaurant and I see opportunities all the time to mentor young men and women. I have the most joy when i see potential shining out of a young person and I can give them opportunities and advice that will help them along their paths to maturity and success. It is a great feeling and some times they come back to see me and share how grateful they are and sometimes i hear it from their families. If you see something say something is key with reinforcing positive behavior and propelling it to the forefront. Well said
I've been doing(practicing) this in my line of work. I travel the country to merchandise large chain stores.
I am at no shortage of practice. Now if i can get my emotional intelligence up a bit i may be able to manage it inside as well as i can outside.
Nice. You're an inspiration
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“I will do good, nonetheless. Everyone great makes that decision. Make that decision because maybe you’re great.” JP
I spend an hour before work listening to and watching dr Peterson videos. I feel it makes me a better person just listening to him talk
I get you. It feels the same as hanging around people who are put together and charismatic and relishing their energy.
Imagine what a better person you will become once you begin practicing what he says. 😂 im just joking. Peace.
6-3-2023. Jordan, Jesus loves you so very very much.❤️
Your tie matches your couch but on a more important note, your talks are ALWAYS on point. Thanks for existing & educating.
Great to see Dr. Peterson at his very best 🙏
Husbands, warriors, leaders, kings all *had* something in common. They took on *responsibility*, and most importantly were rewarded with just *authority*.
You can't have responsibility without some kind of authority, otherwise its no different than being a slave the societal system. Men *yearn* for responsibility, but the *laws and values* in our western society make taking on these responsibilities extraordinarily hard and unrewarding/unfulfilling.
Some people, and not all of them men. have a natural authority. People listen when they speak, think about what they say. This is real leadership. If you are 'yearning' for responsibility just maybe you are not a natural leader and unworthy of any authority. Western society promotes unworthy people, especially men, to positions of authority. If you are losing in a society where the game is rigged in your favour, just maybe life is telling you something.
@@kevinkelly2162 authority doesn't have to be that broad. A father and husband will have authority in his household, a plumber will have authority in his field and with his clients. It's not about having authority over everyone all the time and having people naturally listen to you about anything. If it's something that you have taken the initiative to learn about, to study, that you have authority over, then yes, in the right context, people will listen. No need to be a natural leader, just competent in your field.
@@kevinkelly2162 you're under the assumption that the game is rigged in my favor as a man? and you're watching Jordan Peterson? Also Adara is right, their is no natural leaders, only competent successful people rising to the occasion. You go down a road of biological essentialism when you speak of 'innate leadership'.
Feminists empower women to be karens. If dont like it say good buy to ur kids. Zero authority, effectively a slave.
100% accurate. The reason feminism is such a cancer is that men are expected to take on responsibility without ever receiving the concurrent authority. That was a huge part of my internal dialogue the entire 15 years I was married. “Why the hell can’t I wear my hair the way I want or take the job I want, but I have to do all the unpleasant things?” The expectation was that I would be the protector, the provider, the disciplinarian, the chief cook and bottle washer for the family….as long as I did everything her way. We joke about it with the “happy wife, happy life” canard. We make fun of men in popular culture. We embolden and financially reward female adultery and divorce in family court. And then women wonder, “where are all the good men at?” They’re avoiding you because you want what you can get out of him while continuing to manipulate and control him. You deserve to be alone and forgotten, because using people for your own ends is unjust. And you will get it.
Thanks
The maternal tendency is, I think, to value children for what they are; and the paternal tendency is to value children for what they could be.
- Jordan Peterson
Wooow, the last sentence, The pleasure in aiding the best in other to come forward, I don't think there's a deeper pleasure than that! 👍👍👍
Mr. Peterson,
I appreciate with gratitude for the work you and your team make available and accessible to younglings like me seeking something bigger than ourselves.
Thank you and bless you🙏🏼
Im from India and would feel fortunate to witness and experience a live TH-cam stream of your work.
P. S.
Making your university lectures so accessible.. has had a transformational impact on my life, my perception and hence my behavior as a 20 year old till now as a 25 year old. I'm so grateful that you recorded your lectures, it's a foreign concept to the way I was taught.
Thanks again 🙏🏼
- shoonya 🌸
I interpret "I am that I am" to mean; I am that which is. I am with no prior cause. Eternal and infinite.
It's good to hear some solidified commentary pertaining to my experience. As unique as it may be
Thanks for this amazing interview and conversation Jordan! I highly appreciate it. It's truthfulness and detailedness that is most wise and intelligent aspect of your conversations / lectures I find.
I wish you a wonderful time Dr. Peterson. 😎🙏
Good one on fatherhood. My meditation: both parents should facilitate a variety of experiences for their children and pay attention to the things that your children are good at and enjoy doing. This is exploration and discovery of their hierarchies of hopes and intelligences-which is mainly who a person is. Then use that knowledge of their hierarchies to guide and structure how you encourage them and facilitate further experiences which optimize their fulfillment of their hierarchies. You are not forcing them into your image, you are facilitating good flows within them by fitting how you treat them with the good hierarchic structures already within them; fulfilling the good image God gave them. Be their helper, be a team.
Be flexible since discovery occurs over time and feedback from reality affects identity to an extent. Find the balance between following and leading, freedom and force, which must always go together.
Normally the children will fulfill their potential and bear fruit according to how are the parents invested in them. Invest the minimum, receive the minimum. As many have learned and said, the number one investment is (quality) time, time invested in service of the valued purposes noted above. Time is life, time is everything else that you could be doing with your life at that moment; humans innately sense and understand this sacrifice/investment.
(Note: Time must be spent on multiple competing yet interdependent purposes, but the structure of a child’s need for time may often be incompatible with your need or desire to spend time on other purposes; therefore time must be managed among purposes wisely otherwise you may fail at all purposes. The solution to this problem is enabled by the fact that humans are willing to wait for-and even positively look forward to-what they hope for. So parents may often be able to make appointments with their children rather than simply except for deny time requests as they ‘chaotically’ happen.)
Normally the children inherit the hierarchy of values and system of beliefs that the parents actually lived out (versus the hierarchy of values they claim to have). They will automatically feel like valuing less what the parent actually valued less and valuing more what the parent actually valued more; the child is not necessarily fated to this structure of values, but it will be their default, which they may or may not put in the constant effort to resist and change. God wisely designed it this way; such a consequence should help motivate every parent. So, actively live out the hierarchy of values that you want your children to live according to.
(Note: it is not mere action that indicates your values; it is the attitude with which you act that reveals to the child how to interpret your action. Was your action done with resentment, just out of duty, in fear or guilt, for love of self and/or love of whom? The child can feel the answer, and will interpret and be shaped accordingly.)
How the parent relates to the world, to their mate, two the opposite sex, to work, to God, to themselves, to the world, to life, to the child - - will be the default model for how the child relates to and sees themselves and their relationship with all these things.
(Note: if some values/valued purposes in the parents’ hierarchies are perceived by the child as harmful, then the child will likely reject that value and may even angrily/resentfully react to embrace its opposite. This may even happen subconsciously because, again, these mechanisms of hierarchy/identity-formation are mostly automatic and subconscious.)
May our attention continue to fountainly youth you & yours Dr.
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We are here & attending; also with you. Post Pinocchio, through exodus, and into see, do, teach.
“Blaze” (Eric “Blaze” Browning) also the name of our first dance mentor and great friend; good name!
God bless the Good Doc.
It’s nice to know if u have impacted someone’s life in a good way.. we don’t have to guess w Dr Jordan.. he has impacted many lives.. I seen a man rush the stage crying begging Dr Jordan for help.. I wonder what happened to him too..
Highly insightful
“Compare yourself to you yesterday, nothing else.”
Agreed!
We can say for sure that coat will endure while you help lift the world on your shoulders. GOD Bless the Peterson family.
Mr. Peterson....you just described "Salisbury Hill" by Peter Gabriel. 😮
Due to you inspiration of aiming high in our intentions for self and other. I came up on a word play for my daughters in the hope that the words would seed some of the highest aspirations of love they might seek out. It goes like this
Guarding My Heart
I guard my heart with fervent care,
For I seek a man with love so rare,
A man whose soul is pure and bright,
Whose heart beats true, with shining light.
I yearn for the one who's kind and wise,
Whose love will make my spirit rise,
A man whose honor is his guide,
Whose love for me will never subside.
For I know that love is all we seek,
A love that's pure, and true, and meek,
And I will wait for the one who's right,
Whose love will fill my soul with light.
So I guard my heart from those untrue,
And wait for the one whose love is true,
A man who'll hold me in his arms,
And keep me safe from all life's harms.
For when he comes, my heart will know,
My soul will soar, my love will grow,
And we will dance in timeless grace,
Together, as one, in eternal embrace.
This for my son and myself alike. Thank you for all you do!
A Man of Virtue
Oh, to be a man of virtue,
With compassion in his soul,
To live a life of honor,
And to make his heart his goal.
To treat his fellow man with kindness,
And to love his neighbor true,
To be a friend to all who need him,
And to help them see it through.
For virtue is the key to happiness,
And compassion is its guide,
To live a life of love and kindness,
And to never leave one's side.
So let us strive to live with virtue,
And to treat each other well,
For in the end, it is our kindness,
That will make our story tell.
And when the final day has come,
And we look back on our life,
May we be proud of all we've done,
And the love we shared in strife.
For there is no greater joy in life,
Than to be a man of virtue true,
To live a life of love and kindness,
And to make our hearts anew.
❤
I watched your videos until I found Christ found me. Thank you
As we help develop people, we help develop society as a whole through trickle down. Don't we? So we could all benefit from that if we are in a position to do so.
This is the bone I've got to pick with Jordan, how the hell is anyone supposed to know what the burning bush is, what it looks like and how to recognise it, like the 'the ideal feminine, the judgement that lays down the path of need's, i was too stupid too see it, and not until I was way out on the edge hanging on for grim death to a foggy idea did a muse present themselves and shine the necessary light upon that path. People need to know how, how to find the vision of the ideal, how to open your eyes to the divine.
Joseph Campbell sometime? Thanks
Does he mention Robert O. Pihl ?
To me, being a father is being part UFC ref, part shop teacher and part English professor.
What is dramma?
Could you please make a video about kids (daughter) that refused to take any advice from parents and even more, kids that turn away from parents that did everything for kid. They trying to build own environment but in very rude manner and braking relationships with parents. Please 🙏
I’ll tweet u that video.
I live close to Port-Royal-des-champs. I am so sad, France is disappearing. Who condamned us? Who decided our culture, our way of life, our spirit, our soul have no right to remain?
whyz father absenthearted or absentminded?
often wonder about that fact. appearing as if not happening as a so freely-other pursuing cause or matter effectedecision. as if goodad ‘gone’ due to being misunderstood or a condemned natural cast. funny thing z how quick the shift fm princharming to, well, frog.
Mr.Peterson God will use you and is using you already. Fast for it. Theres something about telling god you're more important to me than food.
This guy sounds like Bishop Barron
People in their groups or their bubbles are exaggerating more. Less chances of being challenged by being inside a political bubble.
Hi Jordan, I want to offer you an interpretation of God's statement "I am that I am." It's essentially a statement of his great, holy and transcendent existence. He uses the phrase "I am" to represent that. "I am" represents the principal phenomenon of consciousness and awareness itself which is the basis of being. So a better way of reading the statement might go, "I am THAT, I am." Or to expand it even more, one might interpret it as " I am that great phenomenon of life, light and existence itself." That's effectively what it's conveying except that God knows Moses has the sensitivity to sense the immense gravity of what he was saying without expounding on it in such a way that I just did for our shared understanding. God's supreme humility had him state it very simply. He knew Moses would get the immensity and gravity of the statement.
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Humans are naturally social but usually do not want to be a clone. Unlike many leaders, Godly leaders are not obsessed with domination but the success and fulfillment of other humans. I guess about 10% of a population feels called to be a leader because of their natural physical and social attributes and desire for meaning and purpose. A large part of the remaining group naturally seek such a leader, often because they tend to be lazy. Both of them can get a feeling of meaning and purpose from that dynamic. Another 10% do not feel compelled to lead or be led but can still be desirous to be helpful when a neighbor needs help.
What is motherhood?
Certain members of the Supreme Court can’t even define the word, “woman.”
@@plenaryverbalist I know , and men think they are women, except they don’t have a womb, so motherhood is not in there future.
Marie Balmary explains that in the Middle East, you take off you shoes when you enter your home. God says to Moses : "take off your shows, where I am, you are at home".
Blaze Pascal …..
"It is better to give than receive." Also, "Fear God and obey His commands for that is the whole of man." You can teach men to be good or teach them to find themselves, but, He is what all men were created for. If you're looking to put man everywhere he belongs, to make him everything he was meant to be, it will take turning him to Jesus, not just Jesus' principles.
It's a good work Jordan is doing and he'll have a great reward, but if he wants to build forever, that takes God, primary, real, not just ideologically; "B😊ut if it is by the Spirit of God that I drive out demons, then the kingdom of God has come upon you."
It's our responsibility as men. If we don't everything around us deteriorates and devolves into death and chaos... Well eventually. It's not easy though...
Proverbs 23:13((N.L.T.))🎣
The reason they are after our children is because of Matthew 18 when Jesus disciples came to him and asked him who the greatest in heaven was. there was a child among the crowd and he told everybody that the greatest in heaven is a child and did it would be better for you to wrap a millstone around your neck and ground in the sea did you harm one of these innocent children. That is exactly why they are after our kids to hurt God
Man I can't even imagine a meaning for all this crap we call life. How do you find meaning when literally NOTHING in this entire world calls your attention? How do you find meaning while lacking the capacity to be curious?
All I can do is watch helplessly how my life wastes away day after day.
I wish I could die.
Ohhhffff, my heart breaks for you with your last sentence....I'm so sorry that you're in the place where you are; it must be very painful because you're opening yourself up so vulnerably here in the public forum, not a common thing for anyone, but I'm assuming you're a man, so very uncommon for men to reveal themselves in this way. Thank you for your vulnerability. I don't know you, and, I know something about the deep need for finding meaning, I'm on that journey myself, for like the hundredth time in life. You might try getting out in nature, as much as you can; nature is the closest thing to the sacred, put yourself there often. For many men, nature is the only thing that is larger than you, and part of finding meaning is coming into the awareness that there IS something bigger than you, and there really is something sacred in this life, which is closely connected to meaning. Quiet yourself there, and listen. This is a place of humility, which also isn't easy to stay in, but stay we must because the answers are arriving if only we make room for them. All earth is packed with heaven, make room because you're seeking and this is holy work (seeking), trust me, you're already on your way to what it is you seek. Go gently
I'm distracted by this bold fashion statement. Jeans and white shirt under a tweed jacket, with elbow and shoulder patches which match both his tie, and his couch. This, for some crazy reason, pays homage to 1970's school teacher attire. It was practically a uniform for teachers back then. I've not followed the conversation because of this. It's late, and I won't watch it over. There's so many ways I fall short of these guys, but thank God I'm not a victim of fashion.
What a the point of dressing your body with clothing that says your at some point in life better than another clothes only matter to people who clothes have a particular meaning or status when always seeing fault inside the idea of looking better doest appear until you feel adequate in them.
I need a job
Peterson has a drawback... he mentions irrelevant issues into others so much that i don't understand what he talks about.
But he is a very intelligent psychologist
For men: independence and self-reliance. Do NOT get married.
Named his kid blaze LoL😅
Blaise. Not, Blaze.
@@DaveBach-dc1ml The other funny part, in response to your comment, is that St. Blaise is the patron saint of Throats and to protect from respiratory ailments. Ha ha ha
As long as feminist family court gives karens custody most arent interested.
Women are no longer feminine, because it gets free votes for the Democratic Party for them to take years of a man’s life and his children so she can refuse to get a job.
"Tower of Babel" is the origin of nation and false God where they go on their separate way and become nation along with their false God they choose to worshipped. God give us a mission to discern truth among other false teaching's. To be a good father you must lead your family to the right religion cause many call unto he's name but God said he didn't know them. Prayers is a direct line to one true God and like phone numbers you must know who you were calling to. To whom do you pray is up to you.
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I wonder what’s up w the boy now a man?!?
Blah blah blah smoke another joint dr
23? men aren't men until around 35 dude.
How serendipitous. Two of the biggest alt right A-H's conjoined as one. Perfect synchrony. Perfect harmony. Hate and ignorance. They serve you both so well
jesus was no more of a king than you are ,jesus was no more the son of god than you are ,this message was the message jesus allowed himself to be crucified to prove too you that yee are gods ,all read the conversations with god books 1 ,2 and 3