The HARD TRUTHS About Men that Every Woman Should Know

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  • @CT97559
    @CT97559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    Not every woman that keeps attracting trashy men are living trashy. You can’t control who you attract, but you can control who you entertain.

    • @tarabrown740
      @tarabrown740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This!!👏🏽👏🏽

    • @1tenacityify
      @1tenacityify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Exactly. Because you can be an absolutely good, kind and caring person to someone but good is never enough for the wrong person.

    • @nicoleharris3879
      @nicoleharris3879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He started the point with saying "If you are living a trashy life".

    • @jamicarpenter8760
      @jamicarpenter8760 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seems that about 80% of them…or super poor health and need a nurse not a wife😓

    • @Anothermachinary
      @Anothermachinary ปีที่แล้ว

      No the law of attraction exist for a reason

  • @anid7777
    @anid7777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Empaths are not trash, but they attract narcissist! Wolves are always after the sheep! Wolves don't chase wolves, they chase the sheep!

    • @levelsuponlevels
      @levelsuponlevels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Be into yourself more, Narcissistic people run from people that show themselves self love and put themselves first. You probably have childhood trauma unresolved and the lesson keeps coming back...

    • @jamicarpenter8760
      @jamicarpenter8760 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen 🙏

    • @rachelphillips5576
      @rachelphillips5576 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

    • @lisaraper8053
      @lisaraper8053 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

  • @LaTashaChante
    @LaTashaChante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    What you said is the truth. Also, we should consider that your light will attract both good and bad people. Good doesn’t only attract good unfortunately 😔. However, point number 2 is the solution to that. We should not entertain everyone/everything we attract. Boundaries are 🔑.

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      You nailed it LaTasha, discernment is a life saver

    • @csgang3023
      @csgang3023 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ty for this truth 🙏

    • @CC-kx9sp
      @CC-kx9sp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💣💥💣💥💣💥

    • @T_Nice
      @T_Nice 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      STR8 FACTS!!💯

    • @loc_queen8671
      @loc_queen8671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @teresahargrow6750
    @teresahargrow6750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    The main thing my brother is prayer. Ladies and Gentlemen, I don't care what they look like and where you met them, Pray for discernment and I'm a living witness. God will show you everything you need to see and you will decide if you want to deal with what is revealed.

    • @1tenacityify
      @1tenacityify 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That is the absolute TRUTH !!! A person can be lying and hiding everything and claims he or she is not but when you pray to God for discernment, God will show you what your partner has been hiding from you whether it’s in your dreams or you find out another way but the truth will always come out and it’s up to you to determined whether or not you should stay or go.

  • @sharonspencer2796
    @sharonspencer2796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I agree with his comments. The constant things I've heard from men all of my adult life is, "women have the power, and I will go as far as she allows me to."

    • @vonnii1013
      @vonnii1013 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And I swear I feel like that's another excuse for alot of them to be trash ass humans.... cause the funny dbl standard is if women say that and we have they are quick to chastise us and tell us to be better people lol smh

    • @live.life.secure.coaching
      @live.life.secure.coaching ปีที่แล้ว

      💯 ❤

  • @khrisi9410
    @khrisi9410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Good women with poor boundaries and low standards attract trash men. Boundaries are your friend ladies and can naturally deselect Dustagons from your life.

  • @angelah9413
    @angelah9413 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Love is never tough!... Discipline is tough! Don't confuse the two, or combine the two!

    • @gcwalisile932
      @gcwalisile932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said💯no one has said it better

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True...Unequally yoke won't stand!!

    • @tinawilliams919
      @tinawilliams919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The two can be combined well Love to discipline, and through discipline there can be learned to love ❤️ first ourselves !

    • @angelah9413
      @angelah9413 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You certainly can have both in tandem... however to fuse the two, is contradictory and inappropriate.

    • @tinawilliams919
      @tinawilliams919 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That goes to show you nothing about the two .
      And lack the experience In truly appreciate and understand how one can work with the other.
      And I will not waste my time in assisting one in understanding how booth work together.
      Peace.

  • @sweetynice1487
    @sweetynice1487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thanks for KEEPING IT 100% REAL, some of us innocent religious ladies whose fathers have neglected at a young age and whose brothers don't really care about us need to know in order to avoid danger.

  • @anthonyszymon3032
    @anthonyszymon3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    i have been in a very rocky marriage and all i tried to make sure the marriage worked, never worked tried everything but to no avail, we got seperated last year,sadly i still love her and i dont know what to do.

    • @justinclynes481
      @justinclynes481 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here, i have been in such a situation and i love my wife and unfortunately we divorced about two years ago but i couldnt just let anything make us get seperated so i had to do all i could to get her back, now we have been back together for over a year now,and i must say i am enjoying every moment of it, i couldnt let the love of my life go.

    • @anthonyszymon3032
      @anthonyszymon3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justinclynes481 Wow, i would love to get my ex back, please can you tell me how yours worked out?

    • @justinclynes481
      @justinclynes481 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      well i couldnt let her go and a friend of mine introduced me to a spiritual adviser who helped me out by bringing her back, she is a caster and i can say she is very good at what she does,i am a living testimony.

    • @anthonyszymon3032
      @anthonyszymon3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justinclynes481 oh well i havent really given that a try, how would i go about it?

    • @justinclynes481
      @justinclynes481 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anthonyszymon3032 she is really good at what she do, her name is MIRIAM CHAMANI DIETRICH.

  • @laurenhayles1087
    @laurenhayles1087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Yes, flies love doo doo, but they also love desserts. I’ve realized that flies are opportunistic and will land on, contaminate anything they have access to. Also, in addition to not acting like doo doo, make sure that you don’t feel like doo doo or treat yourself like doo doo- flies will see and smell that from a mile away 💩 🪰

    • @mmommo10
      @mmommo10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yay Lauren

    • @sweetdesirable
      @sweetdesirable 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is perfectly said 👏

  • @jbreezii
    @jbreezii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love how your videos are short and straight to the point 100

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I really appreciate that feedback Jbreezii

    • @jbreezii
      @jbreezii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SealztheMan your welcome King 🤴

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    @3:30 ❤️ you Sealz but Not everyone who attracts malicious sadistic males are trashy, or talk to people and treat people badly! Eg. Some females are legit exploited/traumatized/violated, subconsciously picking poorly and just require some healing (which is a long excruciating journey). Whereas, some females chose the dirty trashy, stripper, prostitution life from movies, shows, music. So....please let us be careful how we are labelling people, because legit trauma causes poor decision making. Why? Perfecting chores etc. Is super easy, but even a non-traumatized person can't even perfect knowing "ppl's" true intentions. Most males manipulate females .

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Oh of course, I didn’t say all situations are because of it, I’m speaking to those who do lives trashy lifestyles and expecting different. This was targeted to those who fit the shoe only, thanks for the comment Lakesha

    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@SealztheMan oh alright thanks for the clarification. You're welcome! 😊

    • @nardasimpson3333
      @nardasimpson3333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true Lakesha.

    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nardasimpson3333 yep I know cause it was given to many females, including me (being exploited/violated). Whereas extremely lost souls choose the stripper/etc. Path. Both are super sad 😭😭, but one was chosen!

    • @chudneyhoward7436
      @chudneyhoward7436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Katrica670 Sweetheart you using exotic dancers as an example is real trashy fr. I know soooo many dancers who are married, go to church, take care of their families and households. Definitely living morally sound lives aside from their hustle. Definitely don't ever fix yourself to judge a book by its cover when you are not without sin.

  • @akdollface007
    @akdollface007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have a theory about being equally yoked (and it’s proved true many times from what I observe in other’s lives and my own) - that a couple can be on the same level (physically, emotionally, financially, etc) or can be no more than two levels apart (up or down from the individual’s level). If the levels get to be 3 or more away, they aren’t equally yoked and one will feel uncomfortable, jealous, embarrassed, and/or suspicious of the other.

    • @abcdefghijk8925
      @abcdefghijk8925 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you expand on this please? Can you define the levels please?

    • @akdollface007
      @akdollface007 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@abcdefghijk8925 I’ll strive to. For example, if someone is extremely physically fit and their partner is reasonably fit, they are on or near the same level. If the partner is really over-weight and eats nothing but junk food, neither one will be comfortable or confident around each other. If a person is religious, but they’re with someone who ridicules God and faith, their levels are too far apart to be comfortable and yoked. Say that religious person is with someone who isn’t overly religious, but believes in God, they are not on the same level, but aren’t too far apart so they can be equally yoked. To yoke oxen equally together means they need to be around the same-ish level. If one is pulling harder than the other, it will burn them both out. Monetarily, if one person is vastly wealthy and the other is dirt poor, the yoke isn’t equal and there will be resentment and possibly jealousy. Of course, monetarily, it’s not all about having money or not, the different levels could be one wants to save and the other always wants to spend. It’s hard to describe the levels because they are subjective - have you ever felt out of place or jealous or resentful of a person and don’t want to be around them? That’s the levels being too far apart. We don’t have to be exact with our partners, but according to my theory, we have to be within that range to be equally yoked and want to be in their presence (and/or be with them in a relationship). I’m not sure that fully answered your question, but hopefully it helped a bit? ☺️

    • @abcdefghijk8925
      @abcdefghijk8925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@akdollface007 yes it did immensely. My main problem with 1 of my exes was he was pessimistic while I was not. I knew from that relationship, I never wanted to be around or with negative people. Anyway, your view is a fresh perspective for me.

  • @leanneoakley1505
    @leanneoakley1505 ปีที่แล้ว

    You said it plain and true! You’re worried about the reflection on the phone and not in the mirror! Getting yourself together physically and mentally! Will bring your best self to a relationship!

  • @marywilliams3520
    @marywilliams3520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Praise the Lord Bro. Sealz

  • @atlallthingsbeauty
    @atlallthingsbeauty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank You For Dropping This Gem 💎. If any women is pushing back on what this man just said. You are refusing to self evaluate and you need to heal. He said this is what REAL MEN do. Most women, not all who didn't have a good father around to show them what a REAL MAN looks like. Have a hard time believing GOOD MEN exist. Once I focused on myself and loved more on me the quality of men I've been attracting has been mind blowing. I'm single but still dating because I choose what I want my life to look like. How MY MAN treats me and in return love on him for loving on me, build him up for building me up. It's balance ⚖️

  • @NancyPiddington-ye4hw
    @NancyPiddington-ye4hw 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ thank you for this video. It's hard in places, but it's the truth. If you aren't being authentic and your true self, you aren't going to find the right man for you

  • @AwakenedSoul101
    @AwakenedSoul101 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great points. We have to take accountability sometimes. You can be a good person and attract a bad person however it’s up to you to allow the person to be in your life. Also I really love the point about being good on the inside as well. Being a well rounded person in all areas mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically will bring you the right person a lot faster because you will no longer tolerate toxicity.

  • @toneyfox6328
    @toneyfox6328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    U can attract both. It’s about what u entertain

  • @ItsSoarTime
    @ItsSoarTime ปีที่แล้ว

    hard truth that is greatly appreciated. THANK YOU, BROTHER, FOR THE STRENGTHENING!!!!!!!!!!! PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

  • @sism3028
    @sism3028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are such a gift to listen to! You are so knowledgeable. Love listening to you! Thank you for your Channel!

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sis, thank you so much and thank you for being here

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l ปีที่แล้ว

    An OCEAN of truth in a NUTSHELL Sealz you are the man indeed buenos noches may God bless us all

  • @anaymousjohn5227
    @anaymousjohn5227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yea I go to church but I know they cant protect me I gotta protect myself kids always i pray all the time

  • @sherylpaul-stubbs2516
    @sherylpaul-stubbs2516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am not living a toxic lifestyle and I STILL attract flies! The dregs will find you. Good, bad or indifferent; they will find you. You just have to discern what you’re dealing with and just say NO!”

  • @doneciadavis7717
    @doneciadavis7717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Come on nah Sealz!!!! AAAAmen AAAAmen!!!! Your DELIVERY is EVERYTHING!!!! LOVE IT...Keep it
    coming. WISE GUY.💯💯💯

  • @njoy2day453
    @njoy2day453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    SealztheMan, Welcome to the Weekend!
    You singed eyebrows off out the gate with this one Sir! Lol I love it 🤣😂😍🐲
    Accountability: One should sit by themselves when asking/answering the hard questions about themselves. Friends/family can be in the same space and think 'you're fine, no need to change'. Be ready to leave some of both behind when you elevate. Everyone is not meant for your next season.
    "Stop allowing people to come in your home and use you like an Airbnb." Straight fire!!! 🔥💯
    Yes & No: Powerful weapons. "Mean what you say and say what you mean", as the adage goes. Saying, 'we're not going to have sex tonight' and then you have sex for example. 😑
    Establish boundaries and stick to them. Also, being indecisive and not saying anything or the good ole, "we'll see how it goes", means a high probability yes with the right pressure. Choose yes or no.
    👏🏼🙏🏼💓

  • @only1you736
    @only1you736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks Sealz!! Amazing video as usual. God bless!🙏🏽

  • @hildahwambia4491
    @hildahwambia4491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks zeals for enlighting us, may God continue using you to shape most of us in relationships. Much more blessings bro

  • @durnellemds3163
    @durnellemds3163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    5:55 Stop letting people coming your home that just want to use you like a Airbnb OmG very powerful

  • @islandgirl7281
    @islandgirl7281 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well said...one hundred percent on point with real talk and true facts.....repeat , repeat, repeat....all who have ears to hear better hear.

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate you Island Girl!

    • @islandgirl7281
      @islandgirl7281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SealztheMan Thank you...I apreciate you more for these timely vlogs....knowledge is power and that is what you give us.ladies🙏

  • @Earthomo
    @Earthomo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Flies are attracted to everything they can feed on including fresh meat, fresh fruit, fresh cream, fresh eggs, fresh desserts, etc.

  • @ImJustSayingBTW
    @ImJustSayingBTW 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm here for the beanies. Lol just playing. I love your vids!

  • @divinadecosio
    @divinadecosio ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Sealz, I really like your videos, your style and your focusing; also like that you do not promote any sponsor. I aprreciate your positive vibe and how you talk about good men and good women. Wish you the best.

  • @wendyscantlebury-momoh
    @wendyscantlebury-momoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truth!!! The self esteem in most is shallow. Only what you see on the surface or outward appearance. There is no depth to their character.

  • @marciahill6659
    @marciahill6659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Whew this message right here is so good

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That means a lot Marcia

  • @tequapointer718
    @tequapointer718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I attract all men. Its my decision to decide who I want to entertain. I think we as women attract all very simply its our standard that keeps or removes the trash.

  • @nicoleparchment3201
    @nicoleparchment3201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Nothing but the truth.

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate you Nicole

  • @Elegantjewel71
    @Elegantjewel71 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy has make so much respectful sense. Take it or Leave it. Thank You Sir!

  • @maria.1c1313
    @maria.1c1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The way you started about life whooping our ass 😂 thank you for the tough love - which is only tough because the truth hurts sometimes when it illuminates lies and distortions within us. Thank you! Many blessings 🙏🤍🌹🦁🍯⛲☀️

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You said that perfectly but it’s so true, that tough love our parents gave us prepared for this world Maria

    • @maria.1c1313
      @maria.1c1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SealztheMan yeah, it's a tough pill to swallow

  • @veew9500
    @veew9500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    THANKS Sealz for being REAL and loving women so, that you take the time tell us what we need to consider before getting involved in a relationship...ALL the 5 points are the HONEST truth but to me #5 is the first thing I MUST look at ; because if you're NOT EQUALLY yoked it's going be very DIFFICULT for you develop a healthy FRUITFUL RELATIONSHIP... so #5 is the main 🗝( your beliefs system, values, goals, etc HAVE to be addressed) if YOU want to build a SOLID relationship. "Keep up the good work... ❤🙏🏾

  • @denisegreen6878
    @denisegreen6878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the tough love you are preaching on here today thanks

  • @florencebowden3980
    @florencebowden3980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    None relationalship., let it pass me by, for now...I don't have the energy anymore..

  • @24carrots33
    @24carrots33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love the way you related it cars. My bf does that all the time and I think it's hilarious. Like yas bby explain it in men language

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I swear cars are the easiest way a lot of men can explain life, we love them haha

  • @sylvianewell9486
    @sylvianewell9486 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the hard truths.

  • @maggiebailey5019
    @maggiebailey5019 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mèsi Sealz I appreciate everything u say! Peace n blessings 💙🇩🇲

  • @jeanalix93aj
    @jeanalix93aj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Another one for the books. Good stuff. He isn't lying 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @lindazeisky3845
    @lindazeisky3845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you! 🥰💚 Never disappoint. You just get better every time. Love your spirit and style. 🤗😘

  • @ninafrederick6048
    @ninafrederick6048 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is it bc i fear it, it keeps coming? I fear hurting n dissapointing ppl. Im also coming out of the ppl pleasing stage n learning how to deal with my anxiety...
    Its not just men but ppl in general I meet.
    They're always angry. Or have anger issues. N im tired of it cause i dont have anger issues.I need help in this cause im tired n i wanna know why.
    your whole first point,ive got to say im neutral. I dont fully agree or disagree.
    From what i've learned i think its just alot to do with who people choose to entertain. Because you can attract anyone...coming from a person whose an empath.
    I wholeheartedly agree that ppl should do the ground work.

  • @emiliakenny1018
    @emiliakenny1018 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow ,so true, you are spot on ,hope this helps many people woman & man .
    Beautiful soul you are ,thank you ,blessings always 🦋🌸

  • @michellelogan9177
    @michellelogan9177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great message ❤

  • @RitaDSouza-lw5gp
    @RitaDSouza-lw5gp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can be humble in everything to you only after the blessings of God

  • @hollywood_Jayyy
    @hollywood_Jayyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!! Sealz you have a gift that god blessed you will

  • @QueenOfHearts-zuzh
    @QueenOfHearts-zuzh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I do want a relationship 😢. It's been Over 20 years😂

  • @msBbee-oq7im
    @msBbee-oq7im 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you brother Sealz

  • @hungryfilipinaexplorer
    @hungryfilipinaexplorer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks sealz,you're such a great coach,I learned a lot from u.

  • @_loyal
    @_loyal ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ty 🎉

  • @JessE-mr4yu
    @JessE-mr4yu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Hi Sealz I use to attract all that doo doo . But through my transformation and journey to self Love I am now a beautiful bee 🐝 attracting that honey 🍯 🥰 Sending Love and Positive Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there 💥❤️🧡💥💥💙💙🙏✌️

    • @glimpses.of.fabs.
      @glimpses.of.fabs. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How did you transform? What did you do?

    • @JessE-mr4yu
      @JessE-mr4yu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@glimpses.of.fabs.Hi 😊 I had to remove myself from the toxic environments and toxic people in my life. Went into solitude began to forgive those who hurt ,forgive myself, meditating alot of stillness and quietness, stopped watching the news, doing positive affirmations alot of postive self talk. Healing my childhood traumas that I carried into my adulthood which made me realize why I was attracting such low Vibrational people into my life because I was low Vibrational, eating healthy, exercising, reading alot of books on Spirituality and personal development, along with a gratitude journal. Finding lots of wonderful mentors on you tube who helped me heal and grow tremendously in my life started loving myself and putting me first .Connecting to Nature. Doing the work is a process but it's so worth it. I get to experience alot of postive emotions on a daily I feel so much love and gratitude appreciate life and I'm attracting more good people into my life. Sending lots of Love and Good Vibes your way. 🤗❤️💚🧡💥💥

  • @seizuregirlllll
    @seizuregirlllll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a great speaker! I really enjoyed the message you put out in the video. Thank you

  • @cecemoon1208
    @cecemoon1208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Broken people love broken people.

  • @xochitlduran4650
    @xochitlduran4650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW you are awesome thank you for the advice I will take it . I am a subscriber now because your information is legit.🙏❤️💜💜💜💜

  • @canditty1825
    @canditty1825 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sealz you speaking that truth💯

  • @issahruweida3535
    @issahruweida3535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this point you have made,they are all important and setting boundaries help a lot

  • @kimfrederick7710
    @kimfrederick7710 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    #4 & #5 is my favorite of the whole video but all are spot on

  • @joycejacox2646
    @joycejacox2646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    💯 percent agree

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate that Joyce

  • @UniqueSol504
    @UniqueSol504 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was always told & witnessed men are attracted to physical appearance first which mean you can attract trashy or quality men..doesn't mean you are trash..Then as time permits, you'll verify if the man or you are displaying a trashy or quality behavior..

  • @cynthiakering
    @cynthiakering 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how you make the videos lively can't stop watching the videos 😍

  • @fieldskim385
    @fieldskim385 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great teaching and I agree with all that fronting

  • @deeevansnola8178
    @deeevansnola8178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A guy I know always complains about the women he meets. Says when he meets them they seem like good women( he's easily fooled) shortly after he complains I always tell him you attract what you are. (Trick) so these women always wants his money. He won't listen.

  • @tinawilliams919
    @tinawilliams919 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent fact and point
    Good does attract energy all kinds however 🤔 this a learning lesson on booth levels. And too Lear about ourselves !

  • @loladivinitysugarladyacademy
    @loladivinitysugarladyacademy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please give some examples of how a man invests . Thank you

  • @melaniebrie2198
    @melaniebrie2198 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is quality content. Blessings

  • @jamicarpenter8760
    @jamicarpenter8760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sweetheart…I’m not trashy and my pix have me covered from head to toe😳! Put on the dating sites I’m a “born again Christian “, and I’m STILL GETTING BOOTY CALLS!!! I’m a functional medicine nutritionist, AND a group fitness instructor…usually 10-20 years younger than me!! So that’s not fair 😓
    Oh I wear only lipstick and eyeliner…men are broken….especially in their 40’s and 50’s

    • @jamicarpenter8760
      @jamicarpenter8760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Cowgirl Annie SERIOUSLY 😒

    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Jami Carpenter especially in their 40's and 50's?

    • @alhassanfirrdous7292
      @alhassanfirrdous7292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because you allow them, change your curcles, and çhange the places that you go!

    • @jamicarpenter8760
      @jamicarpenter8760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Katrica670 YES😓…so tired of it, but going out on the weekends get the same results! Booty calls and I usually wear knee length dresses or longer 🙄 I’m a grandmother…I just look a lot younger…

    • @abcdefghijk8925
      @abcdefghijk8925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why do you say men are broken esp. In their 40s & 50s?

  • @casey4290
    @casey4290 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this videokt really helped 😊

  • @evelisisdavis7242
    @evelisisdavis7242 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your funny!!!! Love ya

  • @terrylu1843
    @terrylu1843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would rather be the luxury car he can’t afford then the pinto that’s gets him back an fourth to his mamas house.

  • @lightwalkers9565
    @lightwalkers9565 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks man! Really! Thanks man!!!! I forgot about these true issues💜

  • @nicolemartin-pz1wl
    @nicolemartin-pz1wl ปีที่แล้ว

    Right 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @constancenunn
    @constancenunn ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.

  • @KallahĒlRa
    @KallahĒlRa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Giving you a Hug for this Video Sealz much needed

  • @daniellemason8481
    @daniellemason8481 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you

    • @SealztheMan
      @SealztheMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Danielle

  • @kettlydesir2042
    @kettlydesir2042 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brother all is the true God Blesses 🙏🙏

  • @sharonselin
    @sharonselin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank u Sealz tho it’s a little bit late but thank you for the word I guess that’s what I had to hear today in order to sink in🇺🇬

  • @kellymills8779
    @kellymills8779 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good vid! 👍🏿👍🏿

  • @michellemmarquez5519
    @michellemmarquez5519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What happens if you are a good woman not trashy [r a golddigger but still end up with a man who ends being other than what he days? What if he ended up getting mad after some time when a woman asks him about not tasking her out soon DATES and complains that all she talks about. going when he is struggling when he knew that's what two people do when agreeing to date? Even when suggested simple Lorelei or free activities to do made no difference. Plus they avoid answering questions or doesn't ask much questions disappears on certain tines especially on weekends then makes sorry excuses whether or not you nag and is still doing right by them. But they still keep lying too?

  • @onicaramela4152
    @onicaramela4152 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😬😬😬.....Outch! Truth hurts

  • @eloisewarren9908
    @eloisewarren9908 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen Right On!!!

  • @d1etcokelvr
    @d1etcokelvr ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so helpful thanks

  • @anastasiasharidaali8217
    @anastasiasharidaali8217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video.. real talk

  • @juannagibson1237
    @juannagibson1237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yesssss indeed! 👏🏽🙏🏾

  • @novembersky9601
    @novembersky9601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I no longer share on social media. I no longer wear make up. I stopped doing Botox and fillers and dissolved my lips. I removed my breast implants. I may look plain on the outside, but my insides are more vibrant than ever; I simply adjusted my vision.
    Can you find me a man with the confidence to delete social media so he no longer exposes HIMSELF to the images of the women you’re describing? I bet you view then willingly each day as you invited us all to follow you …

    • @cuprunnethover2509
      @cuprunnethover2509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop trying! Throwing yourself at a man is so unattractive...

  • @anointedfbang5247
    @anointedfbang5247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Many thanks God bless you 🙌.

  • @mgl1262
    @mgl1262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    👍
    Facts, facts, only one small slight disagreement.
    You can look good on the inside and the outside ;)
    People who put too little emphasis on the outside for the sake of compromise and believing the lie that good looks means ugly on the inside and vice versa are only fooling themselves.
    We're all on a journey and even good looking 'bad-hearted' people can change.
    Also, being less physically attractive doesn't make anyone nicer on the inside.
    It's both and.
    And yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder ;)
    There's a right one for each person out there ^^
    For real, is anyone really gonna drive an ugly looking car (in their eyes) for the rest of your life?
    We go for aesthetics as well as functionality and thank God He designed both ;)

  • @sagibaby7897
    @sagibaby7897 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ty for the video ❤️

  • @ms.foster8532
    @ms.foster8532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Teachhhh 🎉

  • @velirod8700
    @velirod8700 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your voice ! Thank you for being respectfully honest and real about it 🤍

  • @spelaelizabetapahor9568
    @spelaelizabetapahor9568 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice video :) best wishes from Slovenia :)

  • @corianameadows6891
    @corianameadows6891 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it.

  • @miissdanniix3
    @miissdanniix3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another 🔥🔥 video!!!

  • @tarabrown740
    @tarabrown740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s not always the case though.. good people attract trashy people aswell

  • @3n1sunmoon62
    @3n1sunmoon62 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts!