I just met this guy who texts every single day “GM” and then calls when he’s on his lunch break to tell me he’s on break, and whenever he’s about to do something/go somewhere just to let me know. Even if it’s for 1 minute.
I know a guy who does some of these things some of the time. Seriously, it’s impossible to know when they’re not love bombing like a full on narcissist.
Seals is right! Sometimes we look at potential, and not the true nature. A wolf is a wolf, and won't act any different, than what it is. Inconsistency is a Huge..! Red Flag. Abba wants His daughters to stop looking at males to complete them. Unless you know who you are, and what your G_d given assignment is, you will continue to see yourself as lacking, and will never be empowered to be the queen you were created to be.🕊️
I met him almost four months ago, and he has been consistent daily with calls and texts He complains I don't text right away and from the beginning he told me to call him too. He introduced me to his co workers , family and friends. He wants to marry me and bought the engagement ring already. I felt was a bit soon and he told me to let him know when I am ready. If it were up to him today he would like to ask my mom for my hand lol.
Pray on it, and then pray on it again lol. Listen to how you feel and even get guidance from a leader you trust. It is perfectly okay to make sure you feel okay before making a major move like this. God has to be in it, blessings to you!
Make him wait!!! Narcs show increasingly true colours 6-9 months in... The overt ones 3-6 months. Covert narcs struggle by month 7-12 to keep the mask on - they are more subtle but you can tell. But beware...The covert narcs can hold it together even longer especially if you have alot to offer ( house, money, status, associations). In short don't do it under a year especially when their moving so so fast. They don't want you to think .. especially when your caught up in the euphoria of it all, you excuse & dismiss alot of red flags. Try to wait 9-12/18 months to assess their character, check out their stories ( seriously do checks). After all your supposed to spending your life together. So this time shouldn't matter. If he really loves you, he can wait and you can continue to get to know him. And yes pray, pray, pray about it.🙏🏼
I struggled with my communication in my relationship. I had to learn and appreciate his communication style. I'm learning the importance of good communication with a man. He is helping me grow into understanding how to communicate properly in a relationship.
Thank you for all of the wisdom. That you share I'm very big on communication. I'm a Sag, so we do love to chat. Sometimes I admit that I will put myself in chill mode. 😊 I'm learning also that real men. Don't rush things along and will observe, what you say and do. This is why we as women. Can't say so much in the beginning. He needs to learn as he goes. How to treat you. Without you giving him the map. To get you and still wear a mask to string you along. I refuse to start a relationship, struggling or puzzle solving. Most men today guard their true feelings fiercely.
It's taken me 62 years to be persued by such a man. Thank You for putting this out there especially for those of us raised in abuse. I never knew how to be treated right and how good actually being loved could feel.
Have you asked him to call? I’ve found that many men ask me to call me and I’m shy, but now I take up the offer. If you say hey, let’s talk tonight at 8? You free? It’s okay to ask but you shouldn’t have to ask every time. He should then realize it’s okay to call.
@@sarahhunter8997 Great Question My method is to unapologetically let the man know that I only text sometimes. Not all the time, therefore if phone calls and verbal communication is an issue with him..... he's politely dismissed.. You have a right to create some ground rules
I had a guy send me a voice message instead of a text response to my text..... what I've noticed is that if i text him now....he actually calls me back... he actually wants to talk instead of text.... this is rare.... most ppl are text only conversations when you message them
Men construct their daily communication with you Like a book loved this so true I enjoyed this video from begining to end Thanks Sealz Marvelous work Please continue
Using the phone/internet to converse makes the whole process more difficult! Like you say, if we can't see or hear each other, at least 50% of the meaning is lost. The words become a whole new world...
Thank you for this information Sealz. It may seem basic and trivial to some people but to those of use who struggle to understand male cues this is very useful.
You are on point with this one. I met this attorney last week. We exchanged numbers. I was thinking of future business resources. When he called, it was more personal. He asked me out. I told him i was busy up until today. First thing this morning, he is already texting. I'm like WTH i talked to him a minute when i met him and once on the phone. Now I'm trying to figure out what to do with him. They come on strong these days. I'm like, turn it down.
Some guys, lets say guys who are intentional and sincere do exactly as he says. On the other hand some guys will do these things when they're heavily chasing only to find out he is an actor.
The art of good conversation is lost these days too much texting kills the vibe when you meet them in person they won’t have much to say. Text messaging requires no effort it’s a lazy way to get to know someone and he could be talking to multiple girls at the same time while texting you. You should only be texting to confirm when, where, what and how. If a guy is texting too much and wanting to get to know me via text it’s a 🚩 complete turn off I will disconnect. Talking on the phone or meeting up in person is better the likelihood of establishing a genuine connection is higher. If a man is not investing real physical time with you then he doesn’t value you like that. For better discernment get to know them in person. There’s only one rule when dating men: Ignore everything they say and watch everything they do.
Watching people's actions over what they say applies to everyone. Also, some people prefer texting over calling and vice versa. I myself prefer in person conversation and presence, but that's me. People need to do what's best for them and theirs. As long as the result is success, that's all that matters.
I just love your smile❤. Not sure of what kind of male, you are yet, but thank you for giving girls, and women a path to becoming ladies of better character. I will continue to monitor your steps.🕊️
You knw wat a guy once told me hes going out of town so i wont hear from him. Honestly i never thought of it. He also asked wat im gonna do this wknd in generally. I took it the wrong way. Especially ive just met him. Again thank you.. l have a lot to learn.. 😅 btw these were phone calls not txt msges.
Another outstanding informative mind blowing vlog....straight talk with real facts...I never thought of it like that but it does makes a lot of sense now that you have brought the issues here...wow ...thanks Sealz your top notch vlogs are important and vital on these yt streets and i personally appreciate you....am loving the vibes from across the miles.
I've fallen for my contractor 🔨 that I met nearly a year ago. We've grown into friends talking 🗣 in the eves/weekends, buying each other gifts 🎁 bantering with one another. He relays aspects of his past, speaks of life, work, family, etc. He's introduced me to his son, his brother & some friends, talked 🗣 about his divorce, hardships & triumphs. We've never gone out, though. 😮 How do I tell if he wants to be more than friends? 🤔
I was caught up in a whirlwind of confussion with a guy who did like, most of this, but I felt eventually that he was very inconsistent. It always felt like he was giving me mixed signals. He says he was always clear, tho.
After we grew up several guys claimed they really liked me but neither said anything in high school- however one is with a distant relative-so I told him “ heck no” his wife deceased & my spouse deceased…( we didn’t have cell phones in our day) yeah he ask can we go out to eat- it’s a forever no- his woman is my sister’s relative- I married someone older-none of my classmates made any gestures
Love your videos 🤩, even if I don't need to watch about a topic. I still love watching it because there might be something I don't know plus you give examples/thoughts of a man!! ❤️❤️ Thanks for these videos, keep up the amazing advice/thoughts.
"I never knew he liked me" 🤣😂😹 The only this time this happened was recently with someone who has a dismissive avoidant attachment style. I gave him my number to plan a fishing trip, and he texted me for 2 weeks almost daily with small talk (which I detest btw 😂). After 2 weekends straight of him telling me he was passing by my house (we live in a very small town), my short bus butt finally got the memo. I felt stupid at first, but after evaluating the entire short romance, the communication was atrocious. I needed a PhD in AD/introvert speak to figure almost every text. I gave up. Only time in my life I was clueless about being liked though 😂.
@@Est.4_14 He told me he was an introvert, so that is what I have to go by. I thought he may have also been possibly on the autism spectrum (undiagnosed). Not sure, in any event it was weird and I don't want to experience it again with another adult wanting to date seriously, at least not without a disclaimer.
Met a man thought was amazing ten months ago and for the first five.months all things you mentioned he done. Then 6 months he started changing and just stopped all contact.
Might he give you a long text explaining why he couldn’t make it to an event you’d invited him to or an opportunity you gave him to see you when he had another thing planned?
Someone help!!! There’s a guy I’m interested in but he is very shy and serious. He came over with his family to my house but didn’t speak a word. He kept fidgeting with his leg. Then a couple weeks later we actually got invited to a friends house. I didn’t know he was going to be there. We said hi to each other. He was so different he was so talkative to people and laughing with them. He later sat close to me and started fidgeting again with his legs and looking down. What does it mean??
Hey! Thanks for breaking down the code! I have a guy friend who does each and every thing on this list and it was getting on my last nerve. I'm an adventurous/spontaneous person with a direct communication style. I wanted to know more about him and what "else" I would learn by adding him to my world, but he only kept focusing on me. He devalued his needs..... I appreciate attentiveness, but love is reciprocal. The imbalance kept him in the friend zone.
Just started talking to someone. He does some of these but some he doesn't. He makes sure to message everyday but not consistent conversation. He will drop out in the conversation. I'll ask something And it's like he runs. I get gm just about everyday and he wants to know when he can see me again. Asks what I'm doing etc but still is confusing cause he will just drop from the conversation. When he's working I get it but when he's not it makes no sense. My ex was the poet kinda. Told me from the start how he felt supposedly but he was just love bombing. So this isn't accurate all the way on either end.
I am going through this exact situation right now. I’m getting mixed signals and tired of trying to build up our conversation. Any updates with how it’s going?
@@L0rkisha still the same. I've told him I want more than this a few times. He seems to just disregard it so I'm just done with it. Not sure if I should just stop talking to him at all even on a friendship level.
@@sarahblasdell5261 Thank you for replying! I feel you! Since you communicated what you want moving forward it would have been nice for him to be honest. If it’s not going anywhere then I would drop it. I wouldn’t want to be too invested when he’s not. Wishing you luck! 🍀
I have a question about a text. I had a first date with someone I met online. Because of our crazy work and holiday schedules, we could not meet again for a few months. Mostly because of his conflicts. But we stayed in touch online. Most discussion was work related. He was good about answering questions. Some were personal questions, but most were about our work and mutual interests. We had an opportunity to have dinner last week, but he canceled twice. I wrote back and said that we may not be destined to meet. I thought my tone was light and joking. He immediately wrote back to tell me that I must be looking for something that he was not. My confusion came from the fact that either I was sending the wrong signals or he is just someone who plays online. The few “winks” and suggestive messages we shared always came from him. Anyway, I think I did the right thing to end all contact. Any thoughts?
Thank you. I find myself growing closer to God as I focus more on being a woman. When you raise children alone, the masculine side is sometimes too strong. Now that my children are grown, I give myself permission to be 100% woman. It feels so good! @@thephoenixlady
And make sure that you don't want to have big celebration over heyre but to make everyone that you're going to marry to respect a woman who will be a wife for you that's all
I'm suffering from a crush on a guy who refuses to get a cell phone🤖😢😳😨! Or even a laptop👾😖🥺🙄!! Communication is TOUGH🐌✍️!!! Let's hope next time, my glands aim 💘 at someone from the 21st century!!!🤳👨💻😏🙉
It is our fault. A lack of awareness and discernment will put you in this position. Men and women need to take more accountability for the role they play in the breakdown of the relationship or building of one for that matter.
20 years later, Im wondering if that guy liked me. He was always appearing out of nowhere and telling me about himself. I couldn't understand why he was talking to me. I couldn't figure him out, access breeds blindness, so I asked a girlfriend. She told me he's out of my league so I put him out of my mind. Now Im wanting to know him
Wow, what kind of a friend tells you that someone is out of your league? I hope she either a) is a true friend and this was a one-time kind of thing or b) is out of your life.
@@someoneyoudontknow7705 Well not really a friend, a gym acquaintance. You know how it is. I also thought she might be thinking I'm a lowly idiot! Hell I have an MBA, but at that moment I felt like a retard! Ive been re-thinking about this guy. Actually HE was the one that wasn't up to standard. Even though he was a handsome and physically fit blonde dude, he wasn't a high value man. He certainly didn't know how to talk to a woman with respect. He was a clown!
@@someoneyoudontknow7705 Actually she was a gym acquaintance. I also kind of thought it might be she thinks Im a loony idiot. I have an MBA but at that moment I felt like an idiot. I've rethought my analysis of this guy. Actually, I don't think HE was a high value man. He certainly didn't know how to address a grown woman. He was a circus clown! 🤡
Im i the early stage of him texting/calling..but its always about work. I think hes trying to figure me out if im married or whatever. But im wondering about him too..how do you push thru that?
Cause men play so much it’s hard to see if a man really likes you. Also men would pretend to like you so they can get what they want in my opinion and experiences
So thorough! And the theme for me that stuck out in your examples was : Intentional! That alone puts a big fat smile on any girl's face especially this one! Lol BTW I didn't know yall had to compute so much when communicating with us...lol.👏❤️😆 Thanks!🫶
There’s always red flags.. when a guy is genuinely interested you’ll know… and when he’s playing you’ll know too. I believe what you’re saying
How ??
Yeah
“How is your dog doing, is he barking alright??” 🤣
Why ya'll let me on this platform lol
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The way I cackled 😂😂😂
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I just met this guy who texts every single day “GM” and then calls when he’s on his lunch break to tell me he’s on break, and whenever he’s about to do something/go somewhere just to let me know. Even if it’s for 1 minute.
Are you dating this man now?
All good signs
If he isn't doing these things mentioned he is clearly not into you keep it moving until the right one arrives
“How’s your dog? He barking alright?”…😂 I love your humor and real talk!🙏🏻
Lolll I appreciate that!
@@SealztheMan please keep the videos coming! They are great. Merry almost Christmas to you & yours!🎄✝️
I hollered at that part, too.
I fell out when he said that 😂😂😂
I know a guy who does some of these things some of the time. Seriously, it’s impossible to know when they’re not love bombing like a full on narcissist.
Seals is right! Sometimes we look at potential, and not the true nature. A wolf is a wolf, and won't act any different, than what it is. Inconsistency is a Huge..! Red Flag. Abba wants His daughters to stop looking at males to complete them. Unless you know who you are, and what your G_d given assignment is, you will continue to see yourself as lacking, and will never be empowered to be the queen you were created to be.🕊️
My guy doesn't like texting, he likes to call me.
Every single day😂
He always tells me how much he loves me and he blows me kisses 😘
Ohhh I'm gonna make a video for calling soon lol
I've had men sending me those type messages and wound up being a player faking it. Always asked me for money 💰
I miss those days too. You are a good uncle to do this for the girls and women in your life.
I met him almost four months ago, and he has been consistent daily with calls and texts He complains I don't text right away and from the beginning he told me to call him too. He introduced me to his co workers , family and friends. He wants to marry me and bought the engagement ring already. I felt was a bit soon and he told me to let him know when I am ready. If it were up to him today he would like to ask my mom for my hand lol.
Go girl, that's if you like him inside and outside.
Pray on it, and then pray on it again lol. Listen to how you feel and even get guidance from a leader you trust. It is perfectly okay to make sure you feel okay before making a major move like this. God has to be in it, blessings to you!
Make him wait. Narcs move so fast people can’t see or ignore the flags.
Yes! And by the time you find out, the damage is done.
Make him wait!!! Narcs show increasingly true colours 6-9 months in... The overt ones 3-6 months. Covert narcs struggle by month 7-12 to keep the mask on - they are more subtle but you can tell. But beware...The covert narcs can hold it together even longer especially if you have alot to offer ( house, money, status, associations). In short don't do it under a year especially when their moving so so fast. They don't want you to think .. especially when your caught up in the euphoria of it all, you excuse & dismiss alot of red flags. Try to wait 9-12/18 months to assess their character, check out their stories ( seriously do checks). After all your supposed to spending your life together. So this time shouldn't matter. If he really loves you, he can wait and you can continue to get to know him. And yes pray, pray, pray about it.🙏🏼
I know a guy that does half of these things. I won't try to read too much into this. Everyone's situation is different!
Settling will only put you in bondage to someone who has potential, but may never choose to be the king you desire.🕊️
@@naomiecaswell8424 True!!
I struggled with my communication in my relationship. I had to learn and appreciate his communication style. I'm learning the importance of good communication with a man. He is helping me grow into understanding how to communicate properly in a relationship.
This was inspiring to read as I am working on my communication with a daily effort. Communication is everything
That's exactly how he is with me. Communication is my biggest weakness and I work on it daily. Be blessed queen.
Thank you for all of the wisdom. That you share I'm very big on communication.
I'm a Sag, so we do love to chat. Sometimes I admit that I will put myself in chill mode. 😊
I'm learning also that real men. Don't rush things along and will observe, what you say and do.
This is why we as women. Can't say so much in the beginning. He needs to learn as he goes.
How to treat you. Without you giving him the map. To get you and still wear a mask to string you along.
I refuse to start a relationship, struggling or puzzle solving. Most men today guard their true feelings fiercely.
Agree! Wise man@@SealztheMan !
I love direct because I am. 😬
It was the dog question for me 🤣 I love this guy I enjoy his teachings 😊
Lolll I appreciate you
It's taken me 62 years to be persued by such a man. Thank You for putting this out there especially for those of us raised in abuse. I never knew how to be treated right and how good actually being loved could feel.
If a decent man likes me why can't he call and talk instead of constantly texting ❓
Have you asked him to call? I’ve found that many men ask me to call me and I’m shy, but now I take up the offer. If you say hey, let’s talk tonight at 8? You free? It’s okay to ask but you shouldn’t have to ask every time. He should then realize it’s okay to call.
@@sarahhunter8997
Great Question
My method is to unapologetically let the man know that I only text sometimes. Not all the time, therefore if phone calls and verbal communication is an issue with him..... he's politely dismissed..
You have a right to create some ground rules
We’ve always been able to talk to each other telepathically, people who are tapped in definitely know that it’s a real thing.
I love how is your dog? Is he still barking? So Funny
I love the good morning texts.
Your positive humor makes your videos be heard, and I certainly enjoy it 😊
The best part of me making these videos for ya'll, is that I can be myself 100% and ya'll still rock with me. I'm thankful for that, so thank you.
I miss those no phone days too lol
I had a guy send me a voice message instead of a text response to my text..... what I've noticed is that if i text him now....he actually calls me back... he actually wants to talk instead of text.... this is rare.... most ppl are text only conversations when you message them
Men construct their daily communication with you
Like a book loved this so true
I enjoyed this video from begining to end
Thanks Sealz
Marvelous work
Please continue
I really really appreciate you saying that, I will try my best, thank you!
I think my friend truly likes me!!!! Thanks for comfirming Sealz the Man😁
Using the phone/internet to converse makes the whole process more difficult! Like you say, if we can't see or hear each other, at least 50% of the meaning is lost. The words become a whole new world...
Yupp, everyone has their favorite avenue of communication, nothing wrong with that
Yes, I agree! So frustrating 😅🤦🏾♀️
I really appreciate this man speaking on the CONSISTENCY aspect regarding communication. Women and Men…Sealz is dropping gems!
Beautifully Orchestrated
I wish I was compatible with some of the guys who show interest. Ughhhh.
Huh? It’s a choice! Try it
Well there’s that 😂❤
Sealz the Man!!! Your lady is blessed by you!!! God blessed you!!!❤❤❤
Thank you for this information Sealz. It may seem basic and trivial to some people but to those of use who struggle to understand male cues this is very useful.
The most basic things are the most important details, you're right 100%
I love your content. It's valuable.
You are on point with this one. I met this attorney last week. We exchanged numbers. I was thinking of future business resources. When he called, it was more personal. He asked me out. I told him i was busy up until today. First thing this morning, he is already texting. I'm like WTH i talked to him a minute when i met him and once on the phone. Now I'm trying to figure out what to do with him. They come on strong these days. I'm like, turn it down.
Hovering. Hurry up and buy!
@@DarlingLove-ku3eu LOL, I never move quickly.
My man doesn't ask all that but we still talk everyday
Some guys, lets say guys who are intentional and sincere do exactly as he says. On the other hand some guys will do these things when they're heavily chasing only to find out he is an actor.
The art of good conversation is lost these days too much texting kills the vibe when you meet them in person they won’t have much to say. Text messaging requires no effort it’s a lazy way to get to know someone and he could be talking to multiple girls at the same time while texting you. You should only be texting to confirm when, where, what and how. If a guy is texting too much and wanting to get to know me via text it’s a 🚩 complete turn off I will disconnect. Talking on the phone or meeting up in person is better the likelihood of establishing a genuine connection is higher. If a man is not investing real physical time with you then he doesn’t value you like that. For better discernment get to know them in person.
There’s only one rule when dating men:
Ignore everything they say and watch everything they do.
Watching people's actions over what they say applies to everyone. Also, some people prefer texting over calling and vice versa. I myself prefer in person conversation and presence, but that's me. People need to do what's best for them and theirs. As long as the result is success, that's all that matters.
I just love your smile❤. Not sure of what kind of male, you are yet, but thank you for giving girls, and women a path to becoming ladies of better character. I will continue to monitor your steps.🕊️
Sealz you are absolutely hilarious! Love the intro!😂 Loved the video! Hope all is well with you. God bless!🙏🏼💜
I appreciate that!
What if I been telling him for months that I like direct communication and direct aproach and he’s still giving me hey stranger attitude!
Haha these intros have been cracking me up 😂😅
😂😂 love ya man big respect from croatia
I must say my husband did all those things before marrying me.
You knw wat a guy once told me hes going out of town so i wont hear from him. Honestly i never thought of it. He also asked wat im gonna do this wknd in generally. I took it the wrong way. Especially ive just met him. Again thank you.. l have a lot to learn.. 😅 btw these were phone calls not txt msges.
Another outstanding informative mind blowing vlog....straight talk with real facts...I never thought of it like that but it does makes a lot of sense now that you have brought the issues here...wow ...thanks Sealz your top notch vlogs are important and vital on these yt streets and i personally appreciate you....am loving the vibes from across the miles.
Thank you so much, it's an honor to have comments like this
@@SealztheMan you're welcome
Thanks for this video. It clears up a lot of things.
Hilarious but your points are valid 😂
I've fallen for my contractor 🔨 that I met nearly a year ago. We've grown into friends talking 🗣 in the eves/weekends, buying each other gifts 🎁 bantering with one another. He relays aspects of his past, speaks of life, work, family, etc. He's introduced me to his son, his brother & some friends, talked 🗣 about his divorce, hardships & triumphs.
We've never gone out, though. 😮
How do I tell if he wants to be more than friends? 🤔
Ask him. Those sound like green flags.
Ask him.
He could be using you to heal....if he wanted to date you he would ask
Thanks for the video. Keep up the AWESOMENESS 🎉❤
If I’m ever date again I’m just telling them my phone can’t text
😂😂😂😂😂
I was caught up in a whirlwind of confussion with a guy who did like, most of this, but I felt eventually that he was very inconsistent. It always felt like he was giving me mixed signals. He says he was always clear, tho.
Just found your channel. Love the way you talk! 😊😊
After we grew up several guys claimed they really liked me but neither said anything in high school- however one is with a distant relative-so I told him “ heck no” his wife deceased & my spouse deceased…( we didn’t have cell phones in our day) yeah he ask can we go out to eat- it’s a forever no- his woman is my sister’s relative- I married someone older-none of my classmates made any gestures
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Love your videos 🤩, even if I don't need to watch about a topic. I still love watching it because there might be something I don't know plus you give examples/thoughts of a man!! ❤️❤️ Thanks for these videos, keep up the amazing advice/thoughts.
I really appreciate you saying that, thank you!
"I never knew he liked me" 🤣😂😹
The only this time this happened was recently with someone who has a dismissive avoidant attachment style. I gave him my number to plan a fishing trip, and he texted me for 2 weeks almost daily with small talk (which I detest btw 😂). After 2 weekends straight of him telling me he was passing by my house (we live in a very small town), my short bus butt finally got the memo.
I felt stupid at first, but after evaluating the entire short romance, the communication was atrocious. I needed a PhD in AD/introvert speak to figure almost every text. I gave up. Only time in my life I was clueless about being liked though 😂.
Hmm, yr comment got me thinking abt my situation & looking up the dismissive avoidant attachment style. Thanks 📝 👍🏾 ✅
@@Kari_Michele It's so helpful to learn about the attachment styles. It's a game changer for sure.
@@Est.4_14 He told me he was an introvert, so that is what I have to go by. I thought he may have also been possibly on the autism spectrum (undiagnosed). Not sure, in any event it was weird and I don't want to experience it again with another adult wanting to date seriously, at least not without a disclaimer.
Thank You For This Information 💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅
Thank you for this as always King!
All my honor, thank you for being here
I have watched a few of your videos and thank you for the confirmation 😊
Soliloquy, love it!!!
So true!!!! Love this video!!!
I enjoyed your videos thanks for the tips.
Very good advice ❤
Excellent information…. Thank you. ❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂 sealz u are hilarious 😂
Thank you, Sir Sealz, that was Very Helpful 😊
Very nicely put across thank u x❤
My man text me how my mom and son doing, and if im eating well everyday ❤
These all equate to a man that will ADD value to your life! 😉💪🏾👑
Just enjoy your show soooo muuuuch,besos😅😅😅
I'm the long texter and poet in the relationship. 😄
Leaning towards going 🔙 to no 📞
OMG! I KNEW IT! OMG! Now I Have To Now This Is In GOD'S TIMING! 🙏
Need to KNOW it's GOD'S TIMING! So much to handle right now! I get secret songs sent to my phone. 💕
Love love your content❤So on point
What is so funny about this video is that is how I communicate....I am on the wrong side of the game....help Jesus!
"The wrong side" lollll that made me crack up
I CANT STAND YOU! 😂
I like him. He's great. Cute too.❤
Met a man thought was amazing ten months ago and for the first five.months all things you mentioned he done. Then 6 months he started changing and just stopped all contact.
Girl he's just Confused and emotionally unavailable HES PLAYING mind games 🤦🏽♀️ he's tryna waste time
My advice to you I would run 🏃🏽♀️
Might he give you a long text explaining why he couldn’t make it to an event you’d invited him to or an opportunity you gave him to see you when he had another thing planned?
Someone help!!! There’s a guy I’m interested in but he is very shy and serious. He came over with his family to my house but didn’t speak a word. He kept fidgeting with his leg. Then a couple weeks later we actually got invited to a friends house. I didn’t know he was going to be there. We said hi to each other. He was so different he was so talkative to people and laughing with them. He later sat close to me and started fidgeting again with his legs and looking down. What does it mean??
Hey! Thanks for breaking down the code! I have a guy friend who does each and every thing on this list and it was getting on my last nerve.
I'm an adventurous/spontaneous person with a direct communication style. I wanted to know more about him and what "else" I would learn by adding him to my world, but he only kept focusing on me. He devalued his needs..... I appreciate attentiveness, but love is reciprocal. The imbalance kept him in the friend zone.
Just started talking to someone. He does some of these but some he doesn't. He makes sure to message everyday but not consistent conversation. He will drop out in the conversation. I'll ask something And it's like he runs. I get gm just about everyday and he wants to know when he can see me again. Asks what I'm doing etc but still is confusing cause he will just drop from the conversation. When he's working I get it but when he's not it makes no sense. My ex was the poet kinda. Told me from the start how he felt supposedly but he was just love bombing. So this isn't accurate all the way on either end.
I am going through this exact situation right now. I’m getting mixed signals and tired of trying to build up our conversation. Any updates with how it’s going?
@@L0rkisha still the same. I've told him I want more than this a few times. He seems to just disregard it so I'm just done with it. Not sure if I should just stop talking to him at all even on a friendship level.
@@sarahblasdell5261 Thank you for replying! I feel you! Since you communicated what you want moving forward it would have been nice for him to be honest. If it’s not going anywhere then I would drop it. I wouldn’t want to be too invested when he’s not. Wishing you luck! 🍀
@@L0rkisha exactly what I'm thinking
I have a question about a text. I had a first date with someone I met online. Because of our crazy work and holiday schedules, we could not meet again for a few months. Mostly because of his conflicts. But we stayed in touch online.
Most discussion was work related. He was good about answering questions. Some were personal questions, but most were about our work and mutual interests. We had an opportunity to have dinner last week, but he canceled twice. I wrote back and said that we may not be destined to meet. I thought my tone was light and joking. He immediately wrote back to tell me that I must be looking for something that he was not.
My confusion came from the fact that either I was sending the wrong signals or he is just someone who plays online. The few “winks” and suggestive messages we shared always came from him. Anyway, I think I did the right thing to end all contact. Any thoughts?
Good for you Sis, you don't need that kind of confusion in your life
Thank you. I find myself growing closer to God as I focus more on being a woman. When you raise children alone, the masculine side is sometimes too strong. Now that my children are grown, I give myself permission to be 100% woman. It feels so good! @@thephoenixlady
And make sure that you don't want to have big celebration over heyre but to make everyone that you're going to marry to respect a woman who will be a wife for you that's all
Stalkers SMS that way T00😂🎉😅
I'm suffering from a crush on a guy who refuses to get a cell phone🤖😢😳😨! Or even a laptop👾😖🥺🙄!! Communication is TOUGH🐌✍️!!! Let's hope next time, my glands aim 💘 at someone from the 21st century!!!🤳👨💻😏🙉
It is our fault. A lack of awareness and discernment will put you in this position. Men and women need to take more accountability for the role they play in the breakdown of the relationship or building of one for that matter.
20 years later, Im wondering if that guy liked me. He was always appearing out of nowhere and telling me about himself. I couldn't understand why he was talking to me. I couldn't figure him out, access breeds blindness, so I asked a girlfriend. She told me he's out of my league so I put him out of my mind.
Now Im wanting to know him
Wow, what kind of a friend tells you that someone is out of your league? I hope she either a) is a true friend and this was a one-time kind of thing or b) is out of your life.
@@someoneyoudontknow7705 Well not really a friend, a gym acquaintance. You know how it is.
I also thought she might be thinking I'm a lowly idiot! Hell I have an MBA, but at that moment I felt like a retard!
Ive been re-thinking about this guy. Actually HE was the one that wasn't up to standard. Even though he was a handsome and physically fit blonde dude, he wasn't a high value man. He certainly didn't know how to talk to a woman with respect. He was a clown!
@@someoneyoudontknow7705 Actually she was a gym acquaintance. I also kind of thought it might be she thinks Im a loony idiot. I have an MBA but at that moment I felt like an idiot.
I've rethought my analysis of this guy. Actually, I don't think HE was a high value man. He certainly didn't know how to address a grown woman. He was a circus clown! 🤡
About the guy who says goodnight simy to clear thr decks so you do not interupt him doi g something else?
Those days :))))
Im i the early stage of him texting/calling..but its always about work. I think hes trying to figure me out if im married or whatever. But im wondering about him too..how do you push thru that?
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My husband never text me😂😂😂😂he show me and never say
When do you ask the man what he’s looking for?
As soon as there is a date. Gotta know his intentions before you invest time
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Jesus loves you bro! Keep the Godly content coming👏👏❣️ Do you currently believe in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?
Cause men play so much it’s hard to see if a man really likes you. Also men would pretend to like you so they can get what they want in my opinion and experiences
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So thorough! And the theme for me that stuck out in your examples was :
Intentional!
That alone puts a big fat smile on any girl's face especially this one! Lol
BTW I didn't know yall had to compute so much when communicating with us...lol.👏❤️😆
Thanks!🫶
Why are you like this? 😂😂😂
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