This is The Real Reason Women Have Higher Standards Than Men (And Why It's a Good Thing)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ส.ค. 2024
- In this short video from our latest episode, scientist Macken Murphy explains why women are naturally more selective than men and why they need to be!!
Watch the full episode here:
• The Science Behind Che...
Build a healthy community of similar minded women, who can support each other, then get the man for procreative compatibility. Leave him. Keep the baby.
Women need a supportive community to help raise the children and share in the burdens. Marriage cuts her off from support, she puts additional pressure on the husband to be a partner, the child suffers and she develops chronic illness from the additional stress.
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. It’s time for women to stop participating in a system that doesn’t value her and break the cycle.
All fine....it's just unselected men should live for themselves, and not validate and support the society in return.
You have empathised with women from a biological psychology point of view when considering why an older woman gets more upset with a break-up the older she gets but didn't acknowledge the whole picture. You mention fertile women eg age 18-48 (30+ years approx) get more pain post break-up yet what about the impact of break-up during the second phase of adulthood eg 48+ (again for a woman who lives to the average of 80 this will ALSO be 30+ years so certainly is no less significant by any means). By only considering younger women you are not being aware of the experiences of your own mothers. How will she feel knowing that the relationship she invested so heavily in for decades with raising her son has become unhealthy and that she will become single at 60? Is this more or less devastating than a 4 year relationship ending at 25? Of course it will feel worse at 60. Does the research factor in length of relationship v. degree of hurt? They may be surprised that simply the longer or more intimate the bonding period the more it hurts when it ends without even factoring in fertility!!
An older women is mourning not only from a biological point of view. We are so much more than only human creators inside of us. We are also human influencers through nurture and service our whole lives as men are too. Women want a relationship of balance and appreciation and to be able to rely on having her needs met by her partner while she is also investing energy/effort/time/money or any other resource into that relationship as men do. When it becomes unhealthy or unbalanced often due to complacency, lack of empathy, or too much pain compared to love being experienced these feelings are huge for everyone. Relationships are a dance of energy. When they become unsatisfactory or pain dominant to the point of break-up there are many reasons why this hurts and some of them are even frustrations to the self about ignored red flags early on and actions that became rods for our own back. Yes sometimes a man can then attract a 'younger model' which commodifies women further but also there is loss of a 'fairytale factor' if you will - where each relationship has needed higher levels of hope to even get in to in the first place so each break-up has been a higher level of dashed hopes against the 'mate for life is best' monogamy model that has been presented as the norm for so long.
I'd be interested to see the research repeated with future generations who have deviated from this 'all eggs in one basket' model to not see long = good or one partner = best aka the model of long-term monogamy which is failing and perhaps should no longer be an expectation thus reducing down some of the pain felt by both parties when it ends for whatever reason.
I don't wish I was a woman -- I wish I was a gay man.
If you are unattractive, you would be even more miseable
What??? Horrible point of view. Just horrible. This guy is dangerous.