How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text | LGBTQ

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  • @AlexisLilian
    @AlexisLilian  2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Hope you find this helpful! And don't forget to share your own tips so we can all learn from each other 🙂

  • @sunflowergarden9794
    @sunflowergarden9794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I'm new to this community (in the middle of this year I finally accepted that I'm bisexual) and I can't wait to meet the love of my life!! I'm 19 so I have time but I can't wait, I hope I have a relationship like yours! Through November I have been getting involved in the community and you guys were the first queer individuals I found. I will never forget your videos, I literally watched them all. I'm crying... happy tears!!!

    • @HazbinHotelIsMyLife7
      @HazbinHotelIsMyLife7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You deserve the best I wish you luck on your journey of love

    • @sunflowergarden9794
      @sunflowergarden9794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I have a girlfriend since yesterday!! We met at college but started talking the 16 of August, the 19 I told her I loved her and now she is my girlfriend (since the 27 of August). Im so excited but afraid, we are both pretty inexperienced so that eases my anxiety a bit. Nonetheless, IM SO HAPPY!!

    • @HazbinHotelIsMyLife7
      @HazbinHotelIsMyLife7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sunflowergarden9794 I'm so proud of you I'm just asked out this girl and I'm nervous wish me luck

    • @imjasikasingh0
      @imjasikasingh0 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@sunflowergarden9794 that was my birthday 😂

    • @333mia
      @333mia ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sunflowergarden9794what did you say to her to know if she's into you / signs

  • @wilmahernan
    @wilmahernan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    That intro was GOLD! 😂💕

  • @joannacardoso1115
    @joannacardoso1115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    You said my name and I spit a piece of my bagel into my ice tea.

  • @johannamoeller1375
    @johannamoeller1375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Haha I love the intro :D You two are just so AMAZING!! Love your videos :) You have such a nice vibe together :)

  • @kritisingh5189
    @kritisingh5189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    how to go from text to s3x... the intro!! Couldn't laugh harder. Thank you pretty girlss!!!!

  • @sunflowergarden9794
    @sunflowergarden9794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Through November I have been getting involved in the community (I recently accepted that I'm bisexual) and you guys were the first queer individuals I found. I watched every video of yours in 2 weeks and your style of videos has changed so much (in a good way!!!) I love the funny side and spirituality of them.

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Congrats, that's a big step! Welcome to the community and thanks for the kind words :)

    • @sunflowergarden9794
      @sunflowergarden9794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AlexisLilian AMAZING NEWS ♥️ Yesterday she asked me to be her girlfriend!!! We met at college but started talking the 16 of August, the 19 I told her I loved her and now she is my girlfriend (since the 27 of August). Im so excited but also afraid, we are both pretty inexperienced so that eases my anxiety a bit. Nonetheless, IM SO HAPPY!!! Everything is moving so fast!!

    • @aunamonet
      @aunamonet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sunflowergarden9794 IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!! ❤️

  • @samantham5374
    @samantham5374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The intro is so funny you guys 😂❤️

  • @nitzanreact5274
    @nitzanreact5274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Haha, I'm a straight woman but I love you guys. I'm gonna use those tips on my current crush. BTW, loved your Surfshark add, very funny.

  • @sssaaarrraaaggghhh
    @sssaaarrraaaggghhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I was actually looking for this one. I’m a baby gay and I just can’t wait to date.😭🏳️‍🌈🤍✨

  • @lucy-wp8ic
    @lucy-wp8ic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you for this video !! i thought i was bisexual but have realised i am just a lesbian after all i need this

  • @Mr-sd7ez
    @Mr-sd7ez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm literally laugh crying bc of the intro!!!!!That's a lot I haven't done that in a while

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,🖤🖤

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what✝sapp him now,,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

    • @Mr-sd7ez
      @Mr-sd7ez 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@miraclejames4804 I don't text men I'm gay dude that's kinda of a bad place to post that lurky shit:3Gays are smart

  • @vapcicle6355
    @vapcicle6355 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Intro had me rolling on the ground weezing

  • @robinhazen8034
    @robinhazen8034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for the helpful hints! We can learn so much more about others when meeting in person, so I agree, setting a date to meet up is very important to keep things moving. I might be super old fashioned but I like a "group date" for the first time meeting. Meeting a new person amongst our friends & going to a fun event feels safer & more relaxed. Plus, if no sparks fly when we meet in person then at least a friendship can still be established, hopefully.

  • @scubagoldfish45
    @scubagoldfish45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yessss texting! That's a little more my speed! 😆

  • @Marina23031
    @Marina23031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hilarious!!! And i felt personally adressed when you said my name 😅

  • @gillianslattery1765
    @gillianslattery1765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your intro made me smile, like it was new found self confidence due to your recently engaged state. Congratulations again! You two are lovely together, great humour amidst the flirting 😏😉😊🌟

  • @ToshaRaeNailed
    @ToshaRaeNailed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never noticed there was a drooling emoji

  • @StarTrinity009
    @StarTrinity009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this video! I've been trying to figure out if my crush is interested or not, and this video makes me think that she is because she does a lot of this. I'm still unsure because I've known her for about 10 years, and she's so naturally bubly and uses a lot of emojis. Consequently, I've been staring at my phone like, "What does it mean?! AHHHHH!!!" The double heart emoji gets me the most... Oh well, I'll figure it out later when we meet in person. We haven't had a lot of one-on-one time face-to-face, so it'll be a lot easier to tell if she's interested in just developing our friendship or wants a romantic relationship. I'm already doing most of this, and she's doing it back, so looking good maybe. She recently came out, so now that I know our relationship can be more, I've developed a crush, and I'm trying to flirt.

  • @erikken1039
    @erikken1039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Die Einleitung...einfach berauschend! War so überwältigt , dass ich sie mir hundertmal angesehen habe! Sehr unterhaltsames und interessantes Video!

  • @julia1100a
    @julia1100a 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video! I agree that using the person's name and including some photos makes your text much more personal and inviting

  • @kariharkness7015
    @kariharkness7015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love how you spiced up your sponsors LOL

  • @jehoqz
    @jehoqz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This couldn’t have come at a better time! Came out at the beginning of the year and I’m currently courting a beautiful woman inside & out. I’ve not dated a woman in a long time. LONG TIME!
    You 2 are the ideal couple! It’s when you lock shes with one another … it’s the soulmate feels I get. Congrats on the engagement. I do have one question 🙋🏼‍♀️
    I’m a sis gendered woman, she/her, they/them, masc presenting, stem/verse/switch. I’m trying to find my style & could use help around that area?! Love you guys xoxo

  • @kisskiss6866
    @kisskiss6866 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This intro OH MY GOD!! ❤️ Bought me in the first hot second haha!

  • @amandaconnell653
    @amandaconnell653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not calling them by the wrong name I find is useful !!! 🤣😂🤣😂 (jus kiddin')👍👍♥️♥️ 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍🌈

  • @grillbesteck6319
    @grillbesteck6319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope this is helpful cause there’s that girl that’s kinda flirty and gay with me sooo… let’s see how everything goes.

    • @grillbesteck6319
      @grillbesteck6319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think she prefers phone calls though 🧐

  • @mfg2324
    @mfg2324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks!
    You've helped me a lot in the past and now that I'm getting to know a woman I really like, I'm really grateful for some of your videos - this one included! Thanks, my gay bf/mums 🌈😊

  • @---gx2ee
    @---gx2ee วันที่ผ่านมา

    Intro is a blust!🎉❤

  • @sokhushie
    @sokhushie ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm going to be myself wish me luck!!!

  • @anonymousarmadillo9800
    @anonymousarmadillo9800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you two should honestly start an advertising agency

  • @CJA32able
    @CJA32able 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg your intro and sponsor part. 🤣 🤣 😆 I’m dying

    • @CJA32able
      @CJA32able 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait wait. I mean 🔥 🤤

  • @Slimshady316
    @Slimshady316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved the intro 😂

  • @marlenalynne
    @marlenalynne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love the humor in this vid! thanks for the tips!

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,❤❤

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what✝sapp him now,,,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

  • @stinrosa
    @stinrosa 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Guys, you're amazing!

  • @mariamsalie372
    @mariamsalie372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That intro tho!!😂🙌

  • @jennybowen8656
    @jennybowen8656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was hilarious. Love all your videos!

  • @sulemmarquecho
    @sulemmarquecho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved that intro haha ✨

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,💜💜💜

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what✝sapp him now,,,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

  • @monserratsolanosanchez1032
    @monserratsolanosanchez1032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    HAHAHAHHAHA I loved the intro

  • @NeonKodiak
    @NeonKodiak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love the ad and intro 😂 great video~!

  • @naty58pr
    @naty58pr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Last but not least, send them videos of Alexis and Lilian.

  • @newjerseefemale
    @newjerseefemale 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣😜 u guys are so creative, funny and light hearted, HAPPY THANKS GIVING :)

  • @RaeLarz
    @RaeLarz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my favorite intro on your channel and maybe all of TH-cam

  • @MeAsMeButMe
    @MeAsMeButMe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The G in gif stands for graphical so I'm digging my heels in on this one and saying it with a hard g! 😂

  • @romaint5416
    @romaint5416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Would you please make a video about how we know if a girl flirting with us or just being friendly! It's very hard to understand! Because lots of thinga lesbian cuples do, u can do it with your best friend...

  • @willowdovegirl
    @willowdovegirl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You said my name! I got a buzz. Thanks. 😊

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahaha i was hoping for this! - L

  • @drmikailacamerondacmdiplom9063
    @drmikailacamerondacmdiplom9063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Voice memos do feel warm, I agree. What a cute video. Spelling her name correctly, works. 😊💫

  • @ArsiekDHOL
    @ArsiekDHOL 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOL the intro !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love you girls !! love the content you two make !!! Still struggle to learn new people though,..

  • @Nikki-mx5my
    @Nikki-mx5my 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a delight, thank you!

  • @klarissaclairiton9010
    @klarissaclairiton9010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Das beste was du gemacht hast !

  • @ToshaRaeNailed
    @ToshaRaeNailed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Saying your name is a big one

  • @gowiththeflow6210
    @gowiththeflow6210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would love 2 agony aunts like these XD

  • @cocot.camila
    @cocot.camila 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The new Tinder is Instagram for sure, and it goes deep how far we've e come to language and behaviors. With so many emojis, interesting for semiotics studies lol.

  • @riinata131
    @riinata131 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ahahahahahhahahah, I love intro

  • @kaitlynm1328
    @kaitlynm1328 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to hear you guys talk about ways to show your partner that you love and appreciate her. And what you’d like to receive in ways of support and love from a partner. I adore my girlfriend and I try every day to find new ways to shower her in love.

  • @johnnysins6851
    @johnnysins6851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative video for single like me.

  • @allistair61
    @allistair61 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the videos as always, could you ask if you guys know have a-romantic TH-camr suggestions?

  • @loupelizzo2399
    @loupelizzo2399 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great tips you gave and thank you so much for this great video

  • @MyMndy
    @MyMndy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahhaha love this intro!!!

  • @royalegamer2704
    @royalegamer2704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women (straight or lesbian) often over analyse ever word every text and its a vibe / passion killer

  • @melvin4539
    @melvin4539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the intro🤣🤣🤣

  • @gracepritchard6987
    @gracepritchard6987 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thanks for the tips--- love you guys!! i have a question! is it better to return a compliment with a compliment or to wait for a more natural time when it will feel genuine and not forced? I fell weirdly guilty just replying (this is a text convo) with "thanks" but if i reply with the exact same compliment i feel like i'm forcing it and they will know i'm just doing it for the sake of returning the compliment instead of for the sake of actually appreciating them. i also kinda feel like if i reply with identical compliments all the time then it starts to become a red flag (only for relationships that aren't platonic, in my opinion--- with friends it's fine) because it means i can't come up with my own compliments and/or don't like anyhting about that person enough to comment on it. i know i have complimented them before so it's not like i feel like i haven 't been giving compliments enough. i'm DEFINITELY overrthinking this (lol). i kinda answered my own question but i'd still appreciate some outside input.

    • @grillbesteck6319
      @grillbesteck6319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’ve never dated anyone cause I’m still young but I think replying with a different compliment might be the best option, not sure though

  • @cecileturner450
    @cecileturner450 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAPPY COMING OUT Sunflower Garden!!!
    You ladies are a riot!
    I"m taking notes. :)
    I"m a single Bi Fem. I haven't been living "in the life" for so... long I have no one to text. : (
    So how do people meet one another in the community these days.
    I used to live In NYC. There used to be popular/exclusive restaurants and clubs.
    That has all changed. Now that I live is suburbia. The only time I may see someone out is during Pride Month. So Tinder is the place to be? That seems so impersonal and not very safe.

  • @logan97327
    @logan97327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    maybe u guys can be those snl couch comedians. the intro sent me 🤣

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,🖤🖤🖤

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what✝sapp him now,,,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

  • @Haidi533
    @Haidi533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think Lilian has a spesial beautiful smile, both are cute persons

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,❤❤❤

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what✝sapp him now,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

  • @newworldlord643
    @newworldlord643 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excuse me but YOU 2 ARE STUNNING💕😍😍😍😍😍👀👀👀

  • @sassi7124
    @sassi7124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ihr beide seit soooooooo suesssssss ❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🙋🙋🙋

  • @suebarajaki79
    @suebarajaki79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A girl i am meeting on an app only did a v8deocall with me once, after that we only chat via text. I always update her with the phot of my "today's activity", but she never wants to send me hers, as she said she doesnt like taking selfie. It is confusing though as she said she wants to know me more. I feel silly 🤣😂

  • @isabellelloydd.9464
    @isabellelloydd.9464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For me!!😂

  • @LittleLulubee
    @LittleLulubee ปีที่แล้ว

    Crepes 😂

  • @carolburke9153
    @carolburke9153 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love these gals.💓

  • @scapegracer
    @scapegracer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ... So this far I have come

  • @johnnysins6851
    @johnnysins6851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why your intro vibes some commercial or something

  • @maryddd3546
    @maryddd3546 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "j"if

  • @mohamadirani7724
    @mohamadirani7724 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi..I liked..go in iran..iran is beautiful

  • @tiya3086
    @tiya3086 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤

  • @Barungrof_Pathos_St._Mares
    @Barungrof_Pathos_St._Mares ปีที่แล้ว

    Woman and a girl

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💋💋

  • @riam5973
    @riam5973 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️

  • @silviakapfinger4956
    @silviakapfinger4956 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍❤❤❤

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😎😃😊😜😍😘💖

  • @alanaban3519
    @alanaban3519 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂👫

  • @christopherskipp1525
    @christopherskipp1525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are these two lesbians?

  • @CybeleCotter
    @CybeleCotter ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video, Alexis and Lilian! 😊

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😎😃😊😜😍😘💖