How to Use Silence to Make A Man Miss You

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ความคิดเห็น • 77

  • @MandyAliens
    @MandyAliens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I don’t want to have to be silent to make someone miss me . NEXT

    • @silvermont331
      @silvermont331 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Good one ☝️ open door for the good one to come in

    • @cathyg8313
      @cathyg8313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think this all the time...

    • @natashadika2177
      @natashadika2177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍😄

    • @wellthatsinteresting1
      @wellthatsinteresting1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @lily-rose4165
      @lily-rose4165 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂

  • @effortlesssuccess2585
    @effortlesssuccess2585 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The guys that were really into me were never silent. They showed consistent effort and they LOVED being around me.

  • @deena3003
    @deena3003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Silence 🔕 🤫 works on the ones that cares more and keeps him wondering if you'd ever cared about him. But the guys that's looking for sex "only" wouldn't care either way. Longterm silence truly works on the guys you want to get rid of 😆

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks for sharing your take on this, Deena!

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *The power of silence explained beautifully in this video!*

  • @danielleemch8991
    @danielleemch8991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It's not about going completely silent its investing and then testing I think texting is like a dance with someone and giving them space to miss you 💖

  • @ekusanfield9024
    @ekusanfield9024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The truth is bitter, it's true sometimes men want attention and not to be with you. The most important thing is when he really wants you, he will pull to u whenever you pull away.

    • @MeliannaK.
      @MeliannaK. ปีที่แล้ว

      Narcissists and players usually chase women when they pull away. That doesn't mean they genuinely like them. They just can't handle rejection. It's an ego thing.

  • @myles2019
    @myles2019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Yes and blocking them on your phone even better

    • @ivy3839
      @ivy3839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or on the social media 😀

    • @myles2019
      @myles2019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ivy3839 I don't have social media.

    • @TheMwendaa
      @TheMwendaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @deena3003
      @deena3003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Block all methods even video calling too. It works 💪

    • @honey-gs9lh
      @honey-gs9lh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thats a bit dramatic

  • @Musicmusic-up4zj
    @Musicmusic-up4zj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This will only work if the guy likes you.

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing your take on this

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I don't have a significant other so this does not apply but If I go silent with friends or family is because I am busy doing a bunch of stuff and need the time to stay away from social media or on the phone or texting. There are no games with my silence. I'm just too busy at times and need to concentrate and not be dealing with having contact in any form.

  • @lisamariecolapietro2687
    @lisamariecolapietro2687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    How about this girls
    Let's get our self esteem up
    Then you won't have to play games
    It'll all work out

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for sharing, Lisa Marie.

    • @FloridaGirl-
      @FloridaGirl- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You click or you don’t. No relationship should tKe that much work, if you do it’s NOT working. If a guy is interested. HE will pursue you, let HIM! PERIOD. ! Have some dignity and YES self esteem!

  • @የድንግልልጅ-አ6ዠ
    @የድንግልልጅ-አ6ዠ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Matthew for your support!

  • @michelleharper2940
    @michelleharper2940 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love all these negative comments concerning Matthews advice. Obviously you know what you’re doing with men- so why are you here? Just to be petty? Some of us NEED this advice and guidance because of the toxic or dangerous examples of men we had in our childhood. Unless you’re lucky enough to have a change come into your life, you repeat this pattern. Therapy is essential if you survived abuse and/or violence. But practical guidance from a healthy male perspective changes everything for people like us. Sounds to me like some of y’all came on here already hatin’…

  • @isabellafiorito316
    @isabellafiorito316 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "And they'll jump into the 'dancing monkey'" 😂😂😂

  • @Aisha-gs2qx
    @Aisha-gs2qx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is wonderful advice , I absolutely agree this is my point on the subject too

  • @rebeccagarcia1332
    @rebeccagarcia1332 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How long do you wait to text a guy? This guy I’ve known forever came back to me after a year. He texts me and I text him back, I wait like five minutes. But we can text and text, then he suddenly stops texting back, waits two or three days then texts me back. I don’t want to play that game but I want him to miss me or wonder a bit. So how long should I wait?

  • @patriciasaldanha7243
    @patriciasaldanha7243 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the video ! Gosh ! You are wise beyond your years.! 🔹️😇🙏💝🙏🎩🩰

  • @EbonyJames02
    @EbonyJames02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “You water haters out there I know you’ll really love water if your thirsty” 😂😂
    It is true

  • @ninabarnard1532
    @ninabarnard1532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the three shadows in the back r lowkey scary

  • @lailarichardson2933
    @lailarichardson2933 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That last point really helped me.

  • @Eudaimonia88
    @Eudaimonia88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your advice is very much on target. Thank you!

  • @enigmariddle8222
    @enigmariddle8222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    SILENCE DOESN'T MAKE GUY MISS YOU..THATS BSSSSS

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  ปีที่แล้ว

      It only doesn't make him miss you if he didn't like you in the first place.

  • @annstar2793
    @annstar2793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you don’t post videos, I miss them. 😊

  • @angiep8217
    @angiep8217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He’s always been attracted but silence didn’t work at all!

  • @Olivepurple
    @Olivepurple 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Move on girls if them gve u felt uncomfortable just move on

  • @JanaeRichelle
    @JanaeRichelle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hear relationship specialists talk about "good feeling association" often. And I understand it. Thats how most of us connect initially. But, we all have some level of baggage or triggers or bad days etc... So what happens or what do we do then? I dont know 1 person that handles Everything with a smile. 🤔😕💁

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a 5:1 ratio... there should be at least 5x as much positive interactions as negative. That's what science has shown will make sure you don't breakup. You don't have to be positive all the time... nobody is and you don't have to be.

  • @Lauren-vd4qe
    @Lauren-vd4qe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    good grief what a mishmash of head games. my silence to a person, if they dont respect it, is a precursor to an official no contact court order...

  • @Pharmacyboss-d2f
    @Pharmacyboss-d2f 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another awesome video 🎉 💞

  • @marshahargrave9932
    @marshahargrave9932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like your hair better longer like that. Looks very nice

  • @loganross4774
    @loganross4774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video!!

    • @MatthewCoast
      @MatthewCoast  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you did, Logan. Thank you for watching

    • @loganross4774
      @loganross4774 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MatthewCoast one of the interesting thing about watching dating coach videos is that depending on what I am going through varying videos have information that directly applies at those times. These videos bring a lot of validation and encouragement and support.

  • @taramoygemini
    @taramoygemini ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Matt ❤

  • @rosemaryrogers1478
    @rosemaryrogers1478 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you explain the contrast again?

  • @juliebelleza8086
    @juliebelleza8086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Will it work if he has a new girl?

    • @FloridaGirl-
      @FloridaGirl- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Time to move along. 🤚

  • @marilyn8193
    @marilyn8193 ปีที่แล้ว

    What does a woman do when your guy hangs up on you because he says " because you were D 7:00 7:02 😮Dumping on me"

  • @gemmalouiserowledge545
    @gemmalouiserowledge545 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our replace you ;p

  • @dianemurillo6017
    @dianemurillo6017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    what a load.

  • @TiffanyG-u7h
    @TiffanyG-u7h 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Part of having him go plain crazy and unlocking his primal impulses is a result of speaking out just the right words. Yes, where to begin? Celestine Dessike's latest (go'ogle her) takes you by the hand if you really want to cut out all the guesswork and get him going!