Love how your husband worships you and respects you. You can clearly see the love and desire. I know the bar is on the floor lol but I love to see men comfortable in their sexuality and understanding of their partners needs/frustrations.
LOL I love Leo’s personality! So bright, quirky, and straightforward. While Karen has that grounded and thoughtful energy. You both complement each other well.
I’ve heard that after postpartum, when you start having sex again if it feels tighter and hurts then it MIGHT be an indication of the husband stitch. The husband stitch is when during birth you tear down there and so when they stitch you back up they add an extra one so you’re ‘tighter’ but in reality it does make you tighter but you end up having lots of pain whenever you have sex. The husband stitch can be done without your knowledge as in the doctor will put one more stitch without your knowledge or consent. I’m not saying that’s what happed at all but but I still felt like sharing this.
@@gp9550 Because some years ago women were thought to be their husband’s property. Whenever the man wanted to have sex he was entitled to, even if he forced his wife - the idea of marital rape didn’t exist. Also, there is this idea that the tighter the woman is, the more pleasant it is for the man. So all in all, this all just reinforces the idea that sex is meant to be pleasurable for the man and the woman is there to serve the pleasure rather than experiencing it equally together.
Like how you bring us through details about pregnancy and post pregnancy related topics that nobody shares openly online. Helps to keep us prepared and aware of what we'll be going through
I did NOT expect Leo's answers, which is good because that meant I learned more 😅 thank you for sharing these things with us. You are one of the few youtubers I've heard talk abt this topic and it's nice that you're opening up and normalizing these kinds of conversations 💖
I tried six weeks after, a lot was going through my mind because everything just felt loose down there. I cried after lol. I was literally traumatized!! That I waited another month to try again, and it was back to normal. 😅
@@jyothsnaaaaa2719 i mean it's kind of really easy to get comfortable like them when you're in love. It does require constant effort but if you're not willing to put that in . No point in getting married, marriage is a huge commitment.
THANK YOU BOTH for sharing this, it couldn't be easy to share but I have never seen anything like this and I don't think i'm the only one! It made me feel so much more comfortable thinking about sex after having a baby but also in general feeling more comfortable thinking about sex. ❤
That’s so crazy I had 3rd degree tears and attempted at about 4 weeks and it felt like the first time but no pain 😭 it actually felt like the best thing ever
I had a third degree but still had stitches at 4 weeks.... tried at 7 weeks and it didn’t “hurt” but it definitely didn’t feel good... now at 10 weeks was better... def feels like a first time 😂
How does one cope with being able to have sex when you already have kids? Like they are usually the ones who intrude into your privacy with your spouse. Is there a good time to be intimate after having kids?
I didnt know you dont heal for a year. But it makes sense because if you breast feed it works as birth control and on the past they breast feed up to 2 years.
Leo is so funny lmao I love seeing you guys together haha 💓 it's midterm season right now and I've been kinda stressed. So watching you Karen just made me feel better ☺️
Thank you so much for sharing. There is no one to talk to about these things and these are real things that couples go through. Helps to know we are not alone !
I had my baby last week and I am here watching this like my vagina is screaming down there like "gurl im not interested with this one" lmao. But I love how entertaining and cute couple you two are. God bless your family. 🥰
Leo really went into the details I needed from the male perspective. All in all I’m glad you gave us this talk. I’m going through this with my husband went to the Dr 6 weeks postpartum and she gave us the go ahead for sex but I’m no where near ready. I want to do it, but the thought of doing it my skin turns inside out. Even more not that you shared your experience. I think I need to get a good foreplay session before hand and very gentle. I think my husband really has to be gentle for me to do it.
Yooo I find it crazy when women just have one baby right after the other. I assume every woman is different when it comes to healing. But I feel like that must be like putting your body through literal hell not letting it heal
I purposely got pregnant when my first was six months. I had cancer when I was 21 (six years ago). Pregnancy and birth are hard but not nearly as hellish as a year of chemo and multiple surgeries. The reward is infinitely greater at the end of pregnancy. 🥰 That being said, I do plan on giving my body a much longer rest this time around. I just have always wanted my kids to be close in age.
Hearing how your partner is so comforting and loves you no matter what makes me tear up honestly tears up at 3:18. Might be hormonal or the inner hopeless romantic in me but y’all are goals and I just wanted to say that xD
Thank you for talking about this and being honest and funny at the same time!! These subjects are not talked about enough. As a first time pregnant woman, I’m terrible by all what’s to come!!
I have always wondered how life is after postpartum, I don’t have kids and family members are VERY close minded so don’t have where to fulfill my curiosity, so THANK YOUU❤️🙏🏻
She's so pretty and both y'all so opennnnn. I literally have wanted the answers to this even though I'm not even close to having kids haha but it's those topics nobody talks about! Instant follow :)
Leo is so real lol Im here to request a part 2 in a couples months pls 😂 your reactions are so funny esp about the “mess” Leo’s right tho it gets messy lmao
I loved this! This would have to be the most honest and raw video I’ve seen on this topic and it’s nice to know what it’s really like without sugar coating it. Thank you.
This is my favourite channel to learn about family life. I can’t wait to have babies but I also have so much anxiety about pregnancy, birth and post partum. Your channel gives such good advice and it’s really calming to hear that it’s not a nightmare during and after!!
You guys are seriously adorable!! I’ve seen a few videos already but the honesty and realness of this one is what made me a new subscriber! Lol...the planning thing just doesn’t work for me, I need spontaneity...so we’ve embraced the quickie!! Wham bam thank you mam moments can be really good! Even when you’re not completely in the mood, he can be fulfilled and it’s not a big deal to let him have his quickie Lolol (super embarrassing but we’re all adults)! Lol
That's very bold & informative for you folks to speak about your experience. It certainly gives couples who will go through this. Thank you for sharing
Just imagine the zillions of women in the past, and today, who had to subject themselves to sexual intercourse immediately after giving birth, every day, because they were/are the man's property and it was/is his right. The level of openness and equality these two show would not have been possible even twenty years ago.
This is one thing I'm a bit afraid of as we continue to approach the end of pregnancy... I love how real and open this is! I'll have to show this to my husband haha
My husband and I also tried after 3 months, it was soooo painful. I felt like omg I can't have sex anymore ever! But I feel like when I was half a year after birth, it felt better.
Love how your husband worships you and respects you. You can clearly see the love and desire. I know the bar is on the floor lol but I love to see men comfortable in their sexuality and understanding of their partners needs/frustrations.
Yea you got demons
Worship??
I know Leo is yours but we all NEED a Leo in our lives 😂
You can tell Leo is really in his element here🤣
Right.... LMAO
@@iamkareno LOL
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂
Well drilled in ultra political correctness.
LOL I love Leo’s personality! So bright, quirky, and straightforward. While Karen has that grounded and thoughtful energy. You both complement each other well.
get leo to film with you more! i loved you both so much together
Hahah ok!
You’re truly a real one for being so open and honest with everyone!! I know we all truly appreciate it!🕊🤍
Yay!!
omg we love leo's energy!!!!!
Right?? I wish I had that kind of energy every day 🤣
LOVE
Nobody really talks about this, so I’m glad you are. It educational. Thank you!
Wow, more men need to be like Leo.
I would imagine a moms life would be so much better if they had understanding husband.
Don’t have any babies but this is nice to know once I do
Love how you opened up a conversation about this and how Leo was so comfortable with it!
I'm happy that this kind of topics are being opened up
Leo is the goat. A whole sweet husband
A supportive partner is all one can ask for in a relationship
I’ve heard that after postpartum, when you start having sex again if it feels tighter and hurts then it MIGHT be an indication of the husband stitch. The husband stitch is when during birth you tear down there and so when they stitch you back up they add an extra one so you’re ‘tighter’ but in reality it does make you tighter but you end up having lots of pain whenever you have sex. The husband stitch can be done without your knowledge as in the doctor will put one more stitch without your knowledge or consent.
I’m not saying that’s what happed at all but but I still felt like sharing this.
why is called that way tho?
@@gp9550 Because some years ago women were thought to be their husband’s property. Whenever the man wanted to have sex he was entitled to, even if he forced his wife - the idea of marital rape didn’t exist. Also, there is this idea that the tighter the woman is, the more pleasant it is for the man. So all in all, this all just reinforces the idea that sex is meant to be pleasurable for the man and the woman is there to serve the pleasure rather than experiencing it equally together.
Impossible. There is no such thing as a husband's stitch. Only open wounds can be stitched back together.
Leo is such a good husband. Really setting the bar high 😩
Like how you bring us through details about pregnancy and post pregnancy related topics that nobody shares openly online. Helps to keep us prepared and aware of what we'll be going through
LOL your expressions karen when leo says unexpected things
I did NOT expect Leo's answers, which is good because that meant I learned more 😅 thank you for sharing these things with us. You are one of the few youtubers I've heard talk abt this topic and it's nice that you're opening up and normalizing these kinds of conversations 💖
Omg Karen could barely talk because Leo was stealing the scene ahaah 😂 he was so excited
I love you so much Karen and thank you for being so open about everything
Ily too!
I tried six weeks after, a lot was going through my mind because everything just felt loose down there. I cried after lol. I was literally traumatized!! That I waited another month to try again, and it was back to normal. 😅
Leo: CATEGORY MILF
Karen: ew stop😂🤦🏾♀️
Love this🤣🤣 hope me n my future hubby can b this comfortable around each other❤️
Don't get married if you're not.
@@Dante-xf1mu y?
@@jyothsnaaaaa2719 i mean it's kind of really easy to get comfortable like them when you're in love. It does require constant effort but if you're not willing to put that in . No point in getting married, marriage is a huge commitment.
@@Dante-xf1mu she didnt say anything, that prompted this reply? lol
Ok, but like why am I getting Mulan vibes with your makeup? Stunning!
i hope my boyfriend is understanding and loving as leo is when i have my baby in the future !
THANK YOU BOTH for sharing this, it couldn't be easy to share but I have never seen anything like this and I don't think i'm the only one!
It made me feel so much more comfortable thinking about sex after having a baby but also in general feeling more comfortable thinking about sex. ❤
This is the peak idealistic Internet that I have always dreamt it could be.
Thank you for such an honest discussion!
I like that you are very open and organic about your life now as a mother! Pretty neat
I’m pregnant right now and I appreciate this video, thank you for being honest and open ❤️
That’s so crazy I had 3rd degree tears and attempted at about 4 weeks and it felt like the first time but no pain 😭 it actually felt like the best thing ever
Lucky!!
Wtf so lucky! I had 2 c-sections and it still hurt!!!!!
I had a third degree but still had stitches at 4 weeks.... tried at 7 weeks and it didn’t “hurt” but it definitely didn’t feel good... now at 10 weeks was better... def feels like a first time 😂
How does one cope with being able to have sex when you already have kids? Like they are usually the ones who intrude into your privacy with your spouse. Is there a good time to be intimate after having kids?
No one:
Absolutely no one:
Karen's hubby: CATEGORY MILF 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I didnt know you dont heal for a year. But it makes sense because if you breast feed it works as birth control and on the past they breast feed up to 2 years.
It’s not a reliable form of birth control. My mom got pregnant while breastfeeding me
Omg I want a guy like leo pls 😂🥺 he is so cute and open and bubbly. You guys are so lucky to found each other 😭❤️ Good luck
Haha Leo is definitely into these conversations, he always ask for more questions like in your other video as well, love it!
this was GOLD. love the honesty, the energy, the chemistry. so good, thanks for sharing ❤
I love your videos! I always feel so comfortable watching them!💕💕
Thanks for watching!!
Fell in love with leo! He has such great personality
Leo is so energetic hAHA I love it
watching this with a smile on my face and EVERYONE NEEDS A MAN/PARTNER LIKE LEO.
He is so excited here LOL
Leo is so funny lmao I love seeing you guys together haha 💓 it's midterm season right now and I've been kinda stressed. So watching you Karen just made me feel better ☺️
Thank you so much for sharing. There is no one to talk to about these things and these are real things that couples go through. Helps to know we are not alone !
I had my baby last week and I am here watching this like my vagina is screaming down there like "gurl im not interested with this one" lmao. But I love how entertaining and cute couple you two are. God bless your family. 🥰
Leo really went into the details I needed from the male perspective. All in all I’m glad you gave us this talk. I’m going through this with my husband went to the Dr 6 weeks postpartum and she gave us the go ahead for sex but I’m no where near ready. I want to do it, but the thought of doing it my skin turns inside out. Even more not that you shared your experience. I think I need to get a good foreplay session before hand and very gentle. I think my husband really has to be gentle for me to do it.
my doctor said use lots and lots of lube lol
leo’s honesty is sO funny and interesting plleeease more videos with him like this
I hope all guys are as caring as Leo🥺
Yooo I find it crazy when women just have one baby right after the other. I assume every woman is different when it comes to healing. But I feel like that must be like putting your body through literal hell not letting it heal
I purposely got pregnant when my first was six months. I had cancer when I was 21 (six years ago). Pregnancy and birth are hard but not nearly as hellish as a year of chemo and multiple surgeries. The reward is infinitely greater at the end of pregnancy. 🥰
That being said, I do plan on giving my body a much longer rest this time around. I just have always wanted my kids to be close in age.
Hearing how your partner is so comforting and loves you no matter what makes me tear up honestly tears up at 3:18. Might be hormonal or the inner hopeless romantic in me but y’all are goals and I just wanted to say that xD
Leo is the best !! His personality is amazing.
Leo is such a fun character! I love having him on your videos!
Okayyyy damn Leo is just one of those best husbands that every woman dreams about. I hope there are guys like that out there for our future-
Thank you for talking about this and being honest and funny at the same time!! These subjects are not talked about enough. As a first time pregnant woman, I’m terrible by all what’s to come!!
I have always wondered how life is after postpartum, I don’t have kids and family members are VERY close minded so don’t have where to fulfill my curiosity, so THANK YOUU❤️🙏🏻
She's so pretty and both y'all so opennnnn. I literally have wanted the answers to this even though I'm not even close to having kids haha but it's those topics nobody talks about! Instant follow :)
love how leo is so into discussing this 😂
Leo is so real lol Im here to request a part 2 in a couples months pls 😂 your reactions are so funny esp about the “mess” Leo’s right tho it gets messy lmao
we all need a leo in our lives ❤️
i love videos like this!! normalize talking ab these experiences, girls like me need the advice and input :))
Hahahaha leo’s say it all. I am here for the enthusiasm ✨
Leo’s eyesssss
I loved this! This would have to be the most honest and raw video I’ve seen on this topic and it’s nice to know what it’s really like without sugar coating it. Thank you.
I need a “Leo-like man” in my life, his energy is amazing
That’s so freaking cute. Omgggg his energy and kindness. Adorable. ❤️
love this! thx for sharing. Much love for you, Leo and Dove 🧡
Ughhh i’ve always wanted to know!! Thanks for making this video super informative 🥰
This is my favourite channel to learn about family life. I can’t wait to have babies but I also have so much anxiety about pregnancy, birth and post partum. Your channel gives such good advice and it’s really calming to hear that it’s not a nightmare during and after!!
leo is the sweetest husband ever the way he talks about you and your feelings is so precious
You guys are seriously adorable!! I’ve seen a few videos already but the honesty and realness of this one is what made me a new subscriber! Lol...the planning thing just doesn’t work for me, I need spontaneity...so we’ve embraced the quickie!! Wham bam thank you mam moments can be really good! Even when you’re not completely in the mood, he can be fulfilled and it’s not a big deal to let him have his quickie Lolol (super embarrassing but we’re all adults)! Lol
That's very bold & informative for you folks to speak about your experience. It certainly gives couples who will go through this. Thank you for sharing
Omg thank you soooooo much I’ve been trying to search for this everywhere!!!
Haha i love leo’s energy in this! You guys are literally goals i hope my future hubby would be this supportive🥰
yooooo y'all are cute af hubby seems so sweet and supportive. Thank you for sharing this.
We love and stan a supportive partner 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
absolutely love the 2 of you so much omg such a refreshing, mature conversation! i wish nothing but the best for your sweet lil fam
Thank you so much for sharing these! You guys are too sweet and I love how supportive and communicative you guys are towards each other!
Thankyou to both for the sharing your life experiences and letting us have knowledge about it. I’m truly grateful to be your subscriber❤️
Omg Leo made it less awkward 🤣🤣 too funny
Leo is so great! You guys are amazing!! Favorite channel, sending you guys high vibrations!
You're lucky that your husband is so supportive of you!
Just imagine the zillions of women in the past, and today, who had to subject themselves to sexual intercourse immediately after giving birth, every day, because they were/are the man's property and it was/is his right. The level of openness and equality these two show would not have been possible even twenty years ago.
Leo is hilarious and I love how supportive he is!!
He such a nice man, hope to find such a caring husband like him who gon love me for real
Your kid watching this in 20 years 😳😳😳😳
HAHAHA you guys are so funny together
“Responsible pioneering mother” 😂😂😂 I’m here for it! I love his energy and you are just so beautiful.
New Subbie ♥️
Love Leo’s energy here omg!
Leo is making me laugh so much and it makes the whole thing less awkward 😂 we need you both in the spotlight more often💜💜💜
I love how open you guys talk about this🙏🏼❤️
Thanks so much for such important and real videos!!! And super wonderful to see a partner be so supportive.
This is one thing I'm a bit afraid of as we continue to approach the end of pregnancy... I love how real and open this is! I'll have to show this to my husband haha
It's been so many days since you updated a video😊
I know! I’ve been adjusting to my mom leaving 💕 thanks for watching!
My husband and I also tried after 3 months, it was soooo painful. I felt like omg I can't have sex anymore ever! But I feel like when I was half a year after birth, it felt better.
I’m single but when I had my son, my mindset switched to never having sex again 😂😂.. but I think 2years later I’m good now
This is great to know because I never really hear people talk about this enough, so thank you guys!!
Thank you so much for telling me the truth my mom never told me about it when I asked LOL!!!
Right! Hahahaha
Leo: so hyped talking about 30mins nap/ sex sesh
Karen: reserved
Tgt = couple goals, so cute TT.TT
I can't imagine when Karen said it was so painful like she was a virgin but giving birth should be even more painful?!
The first time after birth is traumatic. Ugh.
@@maryslessors2398 I hvnt given birth so I really can't imagine as the baby's head is like 10 times bigger
@@chuckie826 giving birth is more painful obviously lmao
Thank you for this. I hope more men will watch this video and educate themselves.
I love you guys . Here with my two month old It’s nice to see a healthy & happy couple during this pandemic.
These videos are so goooood! Thank you guys for being so open.
I love you two!!! Make more videos together !! 🥺😭❤️❤️❤️ Thanks for sharing the details! This was such an informative video haha !
I instantly clicked the subscribe button as soon as this video started like y’all’s vibe is amazing ❤️❤️
We all need to find a life partner like Leo, We all deserve a person like him^_^
They have great energy together
@@okaycola2 true