I'm an American married to a Philippina and split my time between the US and Iloilo. What you said is 1000% accurate. I could not have said it better myself. I wish you lots of more happiness.
Im a filipino but have t admire this guy immense knowledge of ou culture both in a positive and negative ways. I'm wishing him the best of everything ahead of him. Enjoying the life with his new kid.
You can judge by the man's aura. He's a genuinely nice, positive, vibrant, open-minded person that every Filipino would love to have living in the country. He clearly understands the culture and the people. He obviously gets it. He really does. 🇵🇭💙❤️
It’s true the culture of respect for elders is highly valued in the Philippines and it’s the opposite in western countries. You’re considered disposable when you get older in the US.
@@AmericanFlyOnTheWall we have a saying here "Tatanda ka Rin" which means "You too would get Old" so you have to respect ur elders now so that when u get old because someday u would get old too.
This has a huge downside. Many old Filipino people use their "age card" whenever young people correct their mistakes, even though the young ones have valid points. Some old people are closed-minded and don't want to learn.
I couldn’t agree more. I am a Filipino working in a nursing home facility here in US. This man is healthier than old folks I take care of in my facility. Older people gets worst in nursing home. He still has a sharp mind and perfectly fit to raise toddlers. I happy to see western men like this in the Philippines, in a family oriented culture and enjoying it. I hate to see Americans sent into nursing homes. Most nursing homes treated them badly.
I've heard of some seriously horrid thing about nursing homes in the US. Like, actually criminally horrible. Is it actually REALLY that bad(like crimes against humanity level) or are those extreme exceptions?
You’d be surprised how much of a difference a good, respectful, loving and dedicated woman makes! Unfortunately, most western women have become as good as a cancerous tumor for men and this is why most men in the west have given up on women and are going their own way in life trying to make the best of it alone, by themselves
@ Hahahahaha, she’s just saying that coz she’s a typical idiotic Filipino overly proud of the country for no reason! When There’s actually nothing to be proud of in this country, she’s just one of those usual, dumb Pinoy proud of nothing. She has to fake compliment him to insert her agenda and keep trying to make the Philippines look good. I’m Filipino too, but this is so exhausting to hear all the time! This behavior is cringe and embarrassing. Being overly proud of a country that doesn’t do much or have an impact on the world, still a developing country. And the whole ‘overly proud to be Filipino’ thing is ridiculous when we don’t really have a good reputation globally Unlike Japan, South Korea, and China, who actually have something to offer the world. They represent their culture and society with utmost respect, setting high standards and achieving success in arts, sports, and the economy. But you never hear from these developed countries non-stop yapping about how proud they are of their ethnicity or their country they do it seldom only when they being ask, it shows how humble they are not to bida2x all the timw! and shoving it in your face every chance they get unlike the peenoys 🙄
I noticed that older population received more respect in the Philippines. During my vacation in Bohol, when I applied for my SSS ID at a local government office, the Staff gave prompt attention and even asked me to be served first than other younger applicants. I'm still back in the US enjoying my retirement since when I was 60 years old traveling to Europe and Middle Eastern countries 5 times a year. Hopefully I might definitely settle back to the Philippines.
It's PRESIDENTIAL RESPECT - allowing elders to have priority in distributing goods and services one of the five types of FILIAL PIETY which is a core virtues of Filipinos.
He is happy with his life here in the Philippines, Having a 2nd family made him look young, strong and healthy, and his baby is an added strength for him
wow, I'm from Korea and what this gentleman says is actually what I had experienced in the Philippines.. He was able to put it into words so accurately. Racism is also one thing that I don't think is present. In Philippines, they even treat people from other countries with respect, sometimes even higher respect compared to other locals
there's racism , but it isn't like conventional racism. it's more like regionalist mentality. like stereotyping people cause you grew up in a specific place in the philippines. like if you're from iloilo people would think you're emotional or if you're from ilocos you're stingy/cheap. but nothing really aggressive or violent.
It's part of Filipino culture to be good and hospitable to our visitors while we are conservative to our own countrymen to make the country a better place to live.
I am planning on moving back in the Philippines. I’ve been there so many times and everytime I visit the country, I love it even more. I love Filipino food and the beaches are amazing.
This man is very knowledgeable about the Philippines. He even knows about the mythical creatures! He is also very observant and understanding of situations. A smart man! I wonder what is his work before he retired.
Volunteerism is very much alive in the Philippines. Let's remember the Bayanihan Spirit way back in history. Maybe there is no such thing as a website where you can go and volunteer. However, your next neighbor is always your helping hand and they will help you regardless of the time of the day!. They are always happy to help with a beaming smile in their faces. It's their pride to help people who are in need and stand by you till things get done or ask a friend for assistance. Filipinos are profound people most especially in the Bayanihan Spirit!!
Not true... very rare will you find a Filipino organised Volunteer Foundation. 9 out 10 they are either organised by Foreigners OR by Politicians who wants their names on the Foundations labels. I have seen a lot of individual Filipinos who tries to organise clean up day and no one turned up, yet when a Foreigner organises the clean-up you see foreigner and Filipinos alike turn up.... Anyway, the guy wasn't talking about Philippines as a whole, he was referring to Dumaguete.
I think he means organised volunteerism is not actively promoted in the Philippines. I want to say that in the West, it’s not really voluntary volunteerism. In the Philippines, if one is so exposed to the local culture in towns and barrios, you will see real volunteerism. Fellow townsfolk will go to the house of the bereaved and volunteer their help. In schools, parents volunteer to get involved in school activities or donate in school needs. I don’t understand his comments as I have learned since young that Filipinos are known for their supportive spirit.
@@JABM-AU you are ignorant, we have lots of organized volunteer activities, not a big news, or even make a fuzz about but we have lots, i've been to countless volunteer activities like feeding programs, medical missions, tree planting activities, clean up drives, blood letting programs, volunteer fire brigade, search and rescue during disasters and natural calamities, emergency response units...and hundreds more. and these are organized by a small school, a small hospital, a local red cross, a small foundation...etc. you are an idiot to think it's organized by foreigners and politicians. we just love to help and volunteer whenever we can. your comment is just pure ignorance. go do some volunteer work in your community before talking shit on youtube.
What I love about him was when he said, that arguments and petty cases are first handled by the local chief or barangay 3x before it gets approve for a court case. No need to get a lawyer! And its free!
Actually, before it gets to court. If it’s not settled in the barangay. Barangay will endorse it first in the police station only then it will go to court if it’s not settled in the police station. Well, not unless it’s criminal case. But if it’s just from simple problem. Barangay won’t even endorse you at all and advise you to settle it instead.
yeah and it takes century for you to get the justice u want.im a local and id rather prefer the american part where u can just hire a lawyer right away for faster arrangement. brgy and police wont fix your problem effectively its all verbal and shit a waste of time and youl get pass on vice versa. too romanticizing the philippines is crazy.
It is the evidence that the Philippines preserving the cultures for humanity with good manners and right Conduct in every corner of the world having a Filipino and their Christian Culture
I'm 4 mins in the video but I am already sooo invested, my attention is locked in. I like how clear he speaks. I have learned a lot already in that few minutes. It's like I am learning more of what my country is like, especially the good ones. Because it is very very easy to spot the negatives and the needs improvement. But yeah, I appreciate this. Thank you for this video.
If you are a foreigner, particularly a US citizen, or have a lot of money, Philippines would be the best foreign country to settle. Convenient, cost of living is much cheaper, happy people, community vibes especially in provinces.
What he said is very true because I lived in the US for more than 2 decades just to be a slave. We live to work, to follow commands, to obey the culture, and cover ourselves from criminals. Mental illness is a big problem here.
When you sing badly, people will just smile and sing with you. Heck, you sing badly, I sing badly, let’s all sing badly and still have a good time with it! - fellow American
True, it's not about how your singing is good or bad it's about socializing having fun with your friends and getting along with no prejudice. Having Fun is the word. we don't like seeing a person is getting left behind and out of place. 😉
Moments like these make social media truly worthwhile. Imagine living your entire life believing your own little bubble was all there was. Thanks to videos like these, we can discover cultures and communities that resonate with our beliefs and dreams. I feel so fortunate that places like the Philippines and Thailand exist. It's fascinating to learn about different ways of life. Exposing myself to diverse cultures by visiting them in person has undoubtedly made me a better person.
What an interesting conversation. Everything, well almost, is on point and true. I've been gone from the Philippines for so long but I always miss everything about my country that is why I was surprised when my husband declared we are retiring there. The Lord knew the desire of my heart for so long, which is to go back home. We are 4 weeks away from flying back to the Philippines for good and I can't wait.
I HAVE BEEN AWAY FROM PHILS FR 52 YRS AND I FIND A MILLION IRRITANTS WHEN I GO HOME INCLUDING THE DOGS>BUT WHEN I VISIT MY SISTER AND FAMILY IN AYALA ALABANG THEN I FEEL LIK E I AM BACK IN CANADA>I GUESS IT DEPENDS WHERE YOUR LOCATION IS AND YOUR ATTITUDE
@@lydiamalahay5128 that is so true.. it depends on where you live . Growing up in Province is very different from growing up in the city. Everything is very different.
I love how eloquent and well verse when he speaks. You can really tell someone who is smart from being knowledgeable. I like this guy! More power to you and your family. God speed!
Thank you for all the kind words you said about my people, I have lived in New York for 24 years and never find the true meaning of life, came back home.. In America is only work and survival, everything you said is true.
Great interview. Seems like a really nice guy. Great insight into Dumaguete. Shame about his daughter rejecting his new life and second family when her dad is clearly super happy. My guess would be she cares more about her inheritance than her dad’s happiness.
One day , his daughter, would understand. That As long as u r alive , explore. Appreciate d time God is giving u, Share ur happiness,Good heart , Inspire people anywhere.
I love the United States but it is not how it once was. It is so divided politically…parents don’t talk to children, brothers don’t talk to sisters. Neighbors not to others. You have to be careful talking to strangers because you can be accused of being racist sexist or you may be charged with sexual harassment. SAD REALLY VERY SAD ‼️🥺🥺🥺🥺
Same here,my step daughter didn't like us as her dad's second family ...my twins are already 37 years old now...but it's ok,now I'm a widowed military dependant...we all live here in the Philippines and enjoys my beautiful grandkids!
This guy is so genuine😁 Everything's spot on, even the superstition that's integrated in Philippine culture. He really embraced the culture deeply, immersed himself in the life here and completely understands it😊 more than some Filipinos do😄 More power to him, you and your channel. I enjoyed this one much with his insights about everything👍
Great insight. This guy still looks younger than his age. E looks healthy and out of stress life. Thats how we need to live our lives. He makes the best decisions in his life. Kudos brother.
As a Filipina, it's heartwarming to see a foreigner who chose to embrace and find joy in our country despite its imperfections. Your positivity is truly inspiring. 🥹
Growing up and living in the southern parts of the US all of my life this guys points are spot on. Aggressive drivers and Road Rage is a constant problem. Its just rampant where a large percentage of the drivers are either mad or in a rush and you're in their way.
This is a great interview good job letting this older fellow talk need to have this gentleman back again soon he is very spoken....could interview him next time about how he met his wife and how to manage finances overseas😊
Online probably social media Have a stable income like he said an average/minimum of 2000usd or more (inflation) Choose a second tier cities because it is less polluted and traffic, safer, cheap, secondary level hospitals and well-known universities. If you prefer cities I don't see any problem as long as you are willing to take the good with the bad. With that amount you can pay the house, groceries, gas, car, luxuries and even a housemaid. In looking for a wife look for traditionally/conservatively raised that knows how to cook, clean and raise children. DON'T flaunt your wealth. Always stick to your budget and make it clear to your wife and family in laws (expect the parents, siblings and their children to always seek for your help regarding financial problems) help them but set limitations because they will rely on you all the time. Lastly, don't be so naive if you see red flags, let go. Don't be a victim. Be safe and healthy. 👍 Go for it! 🇵🇭
We are unique,we have those unique characteristics,we are caring,loving ,understanding,patience,yeah we are not perfect,but mostly we have those good characteristics.so welcome to Philippines,just bring your respect .enjoy God bless
I'm happy for you since you learn to accept and adopt yourself to the cultures and traditions of our country, Philippines. I really appreciate for all the positivity you've spoke about your true happiness living in the Philippines and found a very loving supportive family you have and will be there for you. I guess, it is all about of what you throw out to the universe, God gives it back to you. Thank you and May God bless you more and always
Salute to you Sir for the appreciation about Filipinos even we are a developing country but we are still happy,smiling,friendly,hospitable etc.but most of all our respect to elders.Thank you for the positive words about Filipinos.New subs here.❤
The elders are respected so much in the Philippines that there is a separate lane in the supermarkets or pharmacies for them. They can get discounts too. Just show your senior citizen ID. Btw, the people in Manila or Cebu are Filipinos too and they share the same values as the other Filipinos. So in road accidents, the people in Manila or Cebu act just like the people in Dumaguete.
This is a great interview. He is spot on about barangay mediation. I just thought about the barangay arrangement. That is true! Instead of immediately seeking an attorney, we try to resolve issues first in the barangay. So, that's actually a good thing. However, the aspect I don't agree with is the notion that it's different in Manila or Cebu. I hope people stop stereotyping because the truth is, we are all Filipinos and share the same values no matter where we are. But just like in a family, there's always a black sheep.
At the last part when he's saying his words of wisdom and the way how he perceived the Philippines, the more i admire him as a person and not just a foreigner who just came here in my beloved country, the Philippines.🇵🇭
its the best place especially when you get older. If you know how to deal with the locals, your life will be more happier and healthier. Passport Brothers are right...
I was born and raised in the Philippines, but when I got an opportunity to migrate here in the U.S., I took it. I've never looked back, living now in East Texas and love it here I'm proud to be of Filipino origin, but I'm now proud U.S. citizen. I guess to each their own.
Thank u for appreciating our culture...we always embraced the bayanihan culture all for one one for all every calamities we always help each other and we always respect the elders. .
I got an impression that this guy is well read.. Hes taken bits of information from different subjects into the conversation and hes pieced them together into a narrative that absolutely makes sense..
From what I've seen... Road rage from other countries are far more crazier than what I've seen here... My father for example is a very temperamental person but he drives by the rule of if it's done it's done... No need to escalate especially if there was no damage. He cusses them out tho lol
@@seikashii733 there may be news about a road rage here in Cebu, but still they only happen once in a blue moon tho. Most of the time, it's really just overall peaceful.
That why it's more fun in the Philippines! Can't wait for next year's vacation..It's more relax after work time to catch up with friends or families..Here in America after work Laundry is waiting for you geeezzzz!!
I remember my friend bring her foreigner bf so they had a feast and we were invited. Her bf asked how many were invited and my friend casually told him that she didn’t know and he was confused. The people keeps coming. 😊 We love to share and bond through food and karaoke.
Great content. I've watched several videos having the same goal of this video but this is definitely on a different level. It stated a lot of things that I didn't even realize being a Filipino and what the life is really like in here. Kudos!🎉
This old man has a vast knowledge,I enjoyed listening to this interview while sipping and eating my noodles.And I found myself nodding in everything he said..I like his wisdom
Even the dogs are not hostile, according to the observations of this senior citizen. He admired heavy traffic attitude and calmer, positive attitude. Community volunteerism needsto expand more in the Philippines.
Wow, the wisdom and knowledge of this man is astounding. I wish the interview was longer or I wish you could interview him again. I like how his constructive criticism about America and the rest of the world. More importantly, I love he integrated himself in our culture and society while being ever so respectful and always keeping an open-mind. Great interview!
Really? I have been all over the US when I was on active duty and never experienced any of those things all these bloggers claim has happened to the US. You can still own property, have reliable utilities and medical services, food is everywhere, but if you're not growing your own yes you have to pay someone for providing it and everything else.
@@dumaguetedreaming Well the guy isn't a blogger, he's being interviewed. Although I would believe a native who live in America say things about the negatives of their home. And many americans around the world are so pissed to their US government because it provides more help for foreigners and refugees than their own locals, must be the reason your experience is like that.
@@pauloazuela8488It's true we have a few idiot Governor's who spend millions flying immigrants out of their states but other than that I have never seen immigrants given more than a few months of benefits and that is only after they have been properly screened. American citizens have way more benefits than immigrants, some Americans just aren't happy for what they get.
In the Philippines, kids are taught one thing, "Family is the foundation of society, that your first and last refuge is Family".
Money is the only foundation here.
Yes they all live off one working family member thats why
@@thefamily2707 Spot on Truth.
I met so many kids,young adults that come from broken homes and blended families… like myself… some sad stories there if you’re willing to listen..:
@@masipag_canadian_adventure642 blended, what like a juice a matic?
I'm an American married to a Philippina and split my time between the US and Iloilo. What you said is 1000% accurate. I could not have said it better myself. I wish you lots of more happiness.
Filipina. There is no such word as Philippina. Or you can say pinay.
lol, u are just looking for a validation
@@wavemaker2077 Filipina is acceptable as well.
dude you’re married to a Filipina and you still don’t know how to spell Filipina?
@@spincube5734 are you trolling me?
Im a filipino but have t admire this guy immense knowledge of ou culture both in a positive and negative ways. I'm wishing him the best of everything ahead of him. Enjoying the life with his new kid.
youtube.com/@calvinttrent?si=wWX4tv0lndNhkylE
ego boost noh?
This American is a sensible person. I am happy to know he finds a good life here in the Philippines.
There’s no such thing as a perfect country but I am convinced that this American made a great decision to choose the Philippines.
You can judge by the man's aura. He's a genuinely nice, positive, vibrant, open-minded person that every Filipino would love to have living in the country.
He clearly understands the culture and the people. He obviously gets it. He really does. 🇵🇭💙❤️
God speed I am very happy for you 🙏 You Found Happiness on the Island of Philippines
I can listen to this man all day he is very sensible and full of wisdom😊
Proof of your lack of critical thinking skills
It’s true the culture of respect for elders is highly valued in the Philippines and it’s the opposite in western countries. You’re considered disposable when you get older in the US.
Exactly.
The more you get old in Phil the more you earn respect. We dont really argue older people instead we understand them because of their age.
@@AmericanFlyOnTheWall we have a saying here "Tatanda ka Rin" which means "You too would get Old" so you have to respect ur elders now so that when u get old because someday u would get old too.
it's a culture in Asia.
This has a huge downside. Many old Filipino people use their "age card" whenever young people correct their mistakes, even though the young ones have valid points. Some old people are closed-minded and don't want to learn.
I didn't expect that I would finish this whole interview! It was nice to listen to his insights about the Philippines.
I couldn’t agree more. I am a Filipino working in a nursing home facility here in US. This man is healthier than old folks I take care of in my facility. Older people gets worst in nursing home. He still has a sharp mind and perfectly fit to raise toddlers. I happy to see western men like this in the Philippines, in a family oriented culture and enjoying it.
I hate to see Americans sent into nursing homes. Most nursing homes treated them badly.
Yes I also works in nursing home in the Netherlands...
I've heard of some seriously horrid thing about nursing homes in the US. Like, actually criminally horrible. Is it actually REALLY that bad(like crimes against humanity level) or are those extreme exceptions?
A nursing home is Gods waiting room
@@Jimbothesimpelectrician You mean the devils waiting room
In America, if you're old, you're for disposal. In Phil's., if got old the more you'll get love. That is our culture.
🤑🤑😂😂
What a load of BS.
Your only tended to until the money runs out.
@@thomasodetinape4180 no cap
@@thomasodetinape4180 Nah in the phil they will literally keep you around until you croak naturally, average age gets to 80+ here
@@gamerplays5131 The mindset is different now, new generation doesn't care.
He's 71 but look young in his age,maybe he is so relaxed in the Philippines😊
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You’d be surprised how much of a difference a good, respectful, loving and dedicated woman makes! Unfortunately, most western women have become as good as a cancerous tumor for men and this is why most men in the west have given up on women and are going their own way in life trying to make the best of it alone, by themselves
thats the power of grooming a young girl. that young wife starting to look awful and old. 🤢🤢🤢
I can see he has dyed his hair trying to look younger than he is. I don't think he looks younger than his age.
@ Hahahahaha, she’s just saying that coz she’s a typical idiotic Filipino overly proud of the country for no reason! When There’s actually nothing to be proud of in this country, she’s just one of those usual, dumb Pinoy proud of nothing. She has to fake compliment him to insert her agenda and keep trying to make the Philippines look good. I’m Filipino too, but this is so exhausting to hear all the time! This behavior is cringe and embarrassing. Being overly proud of a country that doesn’t do much or have an impact on the world, still a developing country. And the whole ‘overly proud to be Filipino’ thing is ridiculous when we don’t really have a good reputation globally Unlike Japan, South Korea, and China, who actually have something to offer the world. They represent their culture and society with utmost respect, setting high standards and achieving success in arts, sports, and the economy. But you never hear from these developed countries non-stop yapping about how proud they are of their ethnicity or their country they do it seldom only when they being ask, it shows how humble they are not to bida2x all the timw! and shoving it in your face every chance they get unlike the peenoys 🙄
He really knows what his talking about. Doesn't feel scripted nor planned. Awesome interview!🇺🇸🇵🇭✌
I noticed that older population received more respect in the Philippines. During my vacation in Bohol, when I applied for my SSS ID at a local government office, the Staff gave prompt attention and even asked me to be served first than other younger applicants. I'm still back in the US enjoying my retirement since when I was 60 years old traveling to Europe and Middle Eastern countries 5 times a year. Hopefully I might definitely settle back to the Philippines.
It's PRESIDENTIAL RESPECT - allowing elders to have priority in distributing goods and services one of the five types of FILIAL PIETY which is a core virtues of Filipinos.
In most areas, even in fast food, there’s a dedicated line for elderly
Asian culture in general, seem to revere the elderly
Seniors, PWD, Pregnant women always have the priority lane...
Seniors, Person with Disability(PWD), Pregnant Woman - are the priority here in the Philippines.
He is happy with his life here in the Philippines,
Having a 2nd family made him look young, strong and healthy, and his baby is an added strength for him
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He will likely die and not be around to care for his child for long since he is already 71 years old.
At 71 you're still strong and healthy. Enjoy life, be happy and stay safe!
wow, I'm from Korea and what this gentleman says is actually what I had experienced in the Philippines.. He was able to put it into words so accurately. Racism is also one thing that I don't think is present. In Philippines, they even treat people from other countries with respect, sometimes even higher respect compared to other locals
Yes it's noticeable the locals seem to treat foreigners better than their own people.
No racism in the Philippines. It's not like in America...
@@DahliaGroarke True...
there's racism , but it isn't like conventional racism. it's more like regionalist mentality.
like stereotyping people cause you grew up in a specific place in the philippines. like if you're from iloilo people would think you're emotional or if you're from ilocos you're stingy/cheap. but nothing really aggressive or violent.
It's part of Filipino culture to be good and hospitable to our visitors while we are conservative to our own countrymen to make the country a better place to live.
I am planning on moving back in the Philippines. I’ve been there so many times and everytime I visit the country, I love it even more. I love Filipino food and the beaches are amazing.
Only the food? What about pinays? 😅
Iim looking for someone to go there with . Im ready to live there.
@@billyclone4289i can be your tourist guide if you want to and be your driver and security as well❤
wrlcomeback soon
@@billyclone4289 may i apply to be your someone with??? Lol
I can be your driver and security as well😊😍🥰✌
It is the friendliest country I’ve experienced. I love the Philippines
This man is very knowledgeable about the Philippines. He even knows about the mythical creatures! He is also very observant and understanding of situations. A smart man! I wonder what is his work before he retired.
English teacher, and had health care centers which included physical therapy, speech therapy, etc.... thank you for watching
Volunteerism is very much alive in the Philippines. Let's remember the Bayanihan Spirit way back in history. Maybe there is no such thing as a website where you can go and volunteer. However, your next neighbor is always your helping hand and they will help you regardless of the time of the day!. They are always happy to help with a beaming smile in their faces. It's their pride to help people who are in need and stand by you till things get done or ask a friend for assistance. Filipinos are profound people most especially in the Bayanihan Spirit!!
Not true... very rare will you find a Filipino organised Volunteer Foundation. 9 out 10 they are either organised by Foreigners OR by Politicians who wants their names on the Foundations labels. I have seen a lot of individual Filipinos who tries to organise clean up day and no one turned up, yet when a Foreigner organises the clean-up you see foreigner and Filipinos alike turn up.... Anyway, the guy wasn't talking about Philippines as a whole, he was referring to Dumaguete.
Its seems like the meaning of volunteer is different from each country.
I think he means organised volunteerism is not actively promoted in the Philippines. I want to say that in the West, it’s not really voluntary volunteerism. In the Philippines, if one is so exposed to the local culture in towns and barrios, you will see real volunteerism. Fellow townsfolk will go to the house of the bereaved and volunteer their help. In schools, parents volunteer to get involved in school activities or donate in school needs. I don’t understand his comments as I have learned since young that Filipinos are known for their supportive spirit.
@@JABM-AU you are ignorant, we have lots of organized volunteer activities, not a big news, or even make a fuzz about but we have lots, i've been to countless volunteer activities like feeding programs, medical missions, tree planting activities, clean up drives, blood letting programs, volunteer fire brigade, search and rescue during disasters and natural calamities, emergency response units...and hundreds more. and these are organized by a small school, a small hospital, a local red cross, a small foundation...etc. you are an idiot to think it's organized by foreigners and politicians. we just love to help and volunteer whenever we can. your comment is just pure ignorance. go do some volunteer work in your community before talking shit on youtube.
True!
What I love about him was when he said, that arguments and petty cases are first handled by the local chief or barangay 3x before it gets approve for a court case. No need to get a lawyer! And its free!
Actually, before it gets to court. If it’s not settled in the barangay. Barangay will endorse it first in the police station only then it will go to court if it’s not settled in the police station. Well, not unless it’s criminal case. But if it’s just from simple problem. Barangay won’t even endorse you at all and advise you to settle it instead.
@@asdfghj803 add to that, you can always go to Tulfo bros...lols
@@asdfghj803 in america you would need to pay a lawyer for around 200$ per hour before going to court, its insane
only in cases with penalties not exceeding 1000 pesos and other petty crimes. So pretty much just petty crimes and petty civil disputes.
yeah and it takes century for you to get the justice u want.im a local and id rather prefer the american part where u can just hire a lawyer right away for faster arrangement. brgy and police wont fix your problem effectively its all verbal and shit a waste of time and youl get pass on vice versa. too romanticizing the philippines is crazy.
It is the evidence that the Philippines preserving the cultures for humanity with good manners and right Conduct in every corner of the world having a Filipino and their Christian Culture
Catholic is not Christian
Catholic is part of Christianity, since Christianity has 3 parts, orthodox, protestant, and catholic, that's what I know@@thomasodetinape4180
@@thomasodetinape4180true
@@thomasodetinape4180 they are Christian cause their god is Jesus Christ, Jesus Christ's followers are called Christians.
@@thomasodetinape4180 Catholic is not Christian their god is Allah.
I'm 4 mins in the video but I am already sooo invested, my attention is locked in. I like how clear he speaks. I have learned a lot already in that few minutes. It's like I am learning more of what my country is like, especially the good ones. Because it is very very easy to spot the negatives and the needs improvement. But yeah, I appreciate this. Thank you for this video.
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Me too 😅
If i would select which country to live i still choose the Philippines . This country is like paradise .
If you are a foreigner, particularly a US citizen, or have a lot of money, Philippines would be the best foreign country to settle. Convenient, cost of living is much cheaper, happy people, community vibes especially in provinces.
This gentleman was a great interview. He was intelligent, calm and alert. He had a lot of wisdom in what he was saying.
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What he said is very true because I lived in the US for more than 2 decades just to be a slave. We live to work, to follow commands, to obey the culture, and cover ourselves from criminals. Mental illness is a big problem here.
True.
Thats why Us Is Richest Country over the World because Work is life there😆
He’s better than some of the authors and i don’t even read a book. Smart man! God bless him!
So how'd you say he's better than most authors if you havent read a book? 💀
When you sing badly, people will just smile and sing with you. Heck, you sing badly, I sing badly, let’s all sing badly and still have a good time with it!
- fellow American
😅😅😅 that's true, in Philippines music is life
True, it's not about how your singing is good or bad it's about socializing having fun with your friends and getting along with no prejudice. Having Fun is the word. we don't like seeing a person is getting left behind and out of place. 😉
Not when you sing "my way"
@@patrickganza2837nobody needs your way 😂😂😂
@@takakuuz2794 bro thats why i put a quote on quote
Philippines Gem is really the people.❤❤
Moments like these make social media truly worthwhile. Imagine living your entire life believing your own little bubble was all there was. Thanks to videos like these, we can discover cultures and communities that resonate with our beliefs and dreams. I feel so fortunate that places like the Philippines and Thailand exist. It's fascinating to learn about different ways of life. Exposing myself to diverse cultures by visiting them in person has undoubtedly made me a better person.
Calvin is pretty sharp, and smart! Looks like he reads a lot and does his own research in culture and history. Cheers Calvin! 👏
What an interesting conversation. Everything, well almost, is on point and true. I've been gone from the Philippines for so long but I always miss everything about my country that is why I was surprised when my husband declared we are retiring there. The Lord knew the desire of my heart for so long, which is to go back home. We are 4 weeks away from flying back to the Philippines for good and I can't wait.
Wow. Thank you for choosing Philppines❤
Welcome home
"Even the dogs are relax"
"there's no time for dementia and alzheimer's "
He's living the life. He's a smart guy!
Love my country !!
I also love your country
Iam from Sudan😊🎉🎉
Love❤
I HAVE BEEN AWAY FROM PHILS FR 52 YRS AND I FIND A MILLION IRRITANTS WHEN I GO HOME INCLUDING THE DOGS>BUT WHEN I VISIT MY SISTER AND FAMILY IN AYALA ALABANG THEN I FEEL LIK E I AM BACK IN CANADA>I GUESS IT DEPENDS WHERE YOUR LOCATION IS AND YOUR ATTITUDE
@@lydiamalahay5128 that is so true.. it depends on where you live . Growing up in Province is very different from growing up in the city. Everything is very different.
@@lydiamalahay5128right. that depends on the location, just like America as he mentioned. Maganda po talaga ang Dumaguete for expats
I love how eloquent and well verse when he speaks. You can really tell someone who is smart from being knowledgeable. I like this guy! More power to you and your family. God speed!
"be kind to yourself and to others"
that is the phrase to be able to adapt.😊
nice words sir!👍
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Thank you for all the kind words you said about my people, I have lived in New York for 24 years and never find the true meaning of life, came back home.. In America is only work and survival, everything you said is true.
I wish this man to be always healthy and live longer life for His family here in Pinas! ❤️
Great interview. Seems like a really nice guy. Great insight into Dumaguete. Shame about his daughter rejecting his new life and second family when her dad is clearly super happy. My guess would be she cares more about her inheritance than her dad’s happiness.
One day , his daughter, would understand. That As long as u r alive , explore. Appreciate d time God is giving u, Share ur happiness,Good heart , Inspire people anywhere.
I love the United States but it is not how it once was. It is so divided politically…parents don’t talk to children, brothers don’t talk to sisters. Neighbors not to others. You have to be careful talking to strangers because you can be accused of being racist sexist or you may be charged with sexual harassment. SAD REALLY VERY SAD ‼️🥺🥺🥺🥺
Same here,my step daughter didn't like us as her dad's second family ...my twins are already 37 years old now...but it's ok,now I'm a widowed military dependant...we all live here in the Philippines and enjoys my beautiful grandkids!
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Agree 100%
Be patient, enjoy, be open minded. Not everything will work, but if you give it a chance you’ll see the good stuff
Thank you sir for that AMAZING RESPECT to the Filipinos and my country! Salute!
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The best interview by an American and the best answers about the Philippines coming from an American. Very proud of my country, " the Phillipines".
This guy is so genuine😁 Everything's spot on, even the superstition that's integrated in Philippine culture. He really embraced the culture deeply, immersed himself in the life here and completely understands it😊 more than some Filipinos do😄 More power to him, you and your channel. I enjoyed this one much with his insights about everything👍
How he embraced our culture,(obviously he knew more abt.our country & people)..is just amazing!❤😊
This interview is great because it provides a very informative perspective from an American individual.
Filipinos are known for their hospitality and for being the number one country in producing nurses in the world-that is who we are!
The Philippine concept of “kapwa” - love 💕 for your fellow man. Thank God for the Philippines 🇵🇭
This guy is totally correct in everything he’s saying. He has so much wisdom.
He lived and learned...and then rebbooted in the P.I
This is one of your great interview and this guy is very fascinating he really had immerse with the filipino cultures.
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It is so true! “Even the dogs are relax”. This is so true!
I voted “ everyone is angry over there”.
You are very smart for a 71 years old. Very observant and up to date to what's happening around the world
This man has good outlook in life and looked deeply about our culture. Appreciate him well.
He is a very smart man.
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He is definitely living his Life. Happy , contented and thankful for the things he have. Nice video. Teaches us how to live our life.
This guy tells it All about us Filipinos. Thank you sir!
Great insight. This guy still looks younger than his age. E looks healthy and out of stress life. Thats how we need to live our lives. He makes the best decisions in his life. Kudos brother.
He looks like he dyed his hair. He looks old to me, not younger than his age.
This man is very keen observer of his surroundings ..Observant! Good Job!
As a Filipina, it's heartwarming to see a foreigner who chose to embrace and find joy in our country despite its imperfections. Your positivity is truly inspiring. 🥹
Philippines 🇵🇭 are only country in the world that ever was and ever will be in my heart ❤️
Growing up and living in the southern parts of the US all of my life this guys points are spot on. Aggressive drivers and Road Rage is a constant problem. Its just rampant where a large percentage of the drivers are either mad or in a rush and you're in their way.
This is a great interview good job letting this older fellow talk need to have this gentleman back again soon he is very spoken....could interview him next time about how he met his wife and how to manage finances overseas😊
Online probably social media
Have a stable income like he said an average/minimum of 2000usd or more (inflation)
Choose a second tier cities because it is less polluted and traffic, safer, cheap, secondary level hospitals and well-known universities. If you prefer cities I don't see any problem as long as you are willing to take the good with the bad. With that amount you can pay the house, groceries, gas, car, luxuries and even a housemaid.
In looking for a wife look for traditionally/conservatively raised that knows how to cook, clean and raise children.
DON'T flaunt your wealth.
Always stick to your budget and make it clear to your wife and family in laws (expect the parents, siblings and their children to always seek for your help regarding financial problems) help them but set limitations because they will rely on you all the time.
Lastly, don't be so naive if you see red flags, let go. Don't be a victim. Be safe and healthy.
👍 Go for it! 🇵🇭
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We are unique,we have those unique characteristics,we are caring,loving ,understanding,patience,yeah we are not perfect,but mostly we have those good characteristics.so welcome to Philippines,just bring your respect .enjoy God bless
I'm happy for you since you learn to accept and adopt yourself to the cultures and traditions of our country, Philippines. I really appreciate for all the positivity you've spoke about your true happiness living in the Philippines and found a very loving supportive family you have and will be there for you. I guess, it is all about of what you throw out to the universe, God gives it back to you. Thank you and May God bless you more and always
Salute to you Sir for the appreciation about Filipinos even we are a developing country but we are still happy,smiling,friendly,hospitable etc.but most of all our respect to elders.Thank you for the positive words about Filipinos.New subs here.❤
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The elders are respected so much in the Philippines that there is a separate lane in the supermarkets or pharmacies for them. They can get discounts too. Just show your senior citizen ID.
Btw, the people in Manila or Cebu are Filipinos too and they share the same values as the other Filipinos. So in road accidents, the people in Manila or Cebu act just like the people in Dumaguete.
This is a great interview. He is spot on about barangay mediation. I just thought about the barangay arrangement. That is true! Instead of immediately seeking an attorney, we try to resolve issues first in the barangay. So, that's actually a good thing. However, the aspect I don't agree with is the notion that it's different in Manila or Cebu. I hope people stop stereotyping because the truth is, we are all Filipinos and share the same values no matter where we are. But just like in a family, there's always a black sheep.
At the last part when he's saying his words of wisdom and the way how he perceived the Philippines, the more i admire him as a person and not just a foreigner who just came here in my beloved country, the Philippines.🇵🇭
I am amazed by the intelligence of this man. Truly someone who has travelled the world and read a a lot has a lot of wise words.
Strive for happiness. Amen to that.
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its the best place especially when you get older. If you know how to deal with the locals, your life will be more happier and healthier.
Passport Brothers are right...
he must be an educator..he grasped the system very well...
I was born and raised in the Philippines, but when I got an opportunity to migrate here in the U.S., I took it.
I've never looked back, living now in East Texas and love it here
I'm proud to be of Filipino origin, but I'm now proud U.S. citizen.
I guess to each their own.
The world is what you make of it. It just took longer for this man to learn that.
I'm happy for him, he figured out the key to happiness.
Thank u for appreciating our culture...we always embraced the bayanihan culture all for one one for all every calamities we always help each other and we always respect the elders. .
thank you for being honest sir, may you live long to enjoy our very welcoming country Philippines
I got an impression that this guy is well read.. Hes taken bits of information from different subjects into the conversation and hes pieced them together into a narrative that absolutely makes sense..
Exactly sir. In philippines you can talk to the random people and that’s what I miss in philippines😢
He is so knowledgeable about the Philippines, culture and the community😊😊😊
There are many road rages here in the Phil. But overall pinoys are friendly and humble, smiling
road rages often happen in Manila mostly, but in provinces, road rage is very uncommon.
In province road rage are not that commom, maybe in big cities like Manila, Makati or Somewhere cebu they exist
From what I've seen... Road rage from other countries are far more crazier than what I've seen here... My father for example is a very temperamental person but he drives by the rule of if it's done it's done... No need to escalate especially if there was no damage. He cusses them out tho lol
@@seikashii733 there may be news about a road rage here in Cebu, but still they only happen once in a blue moon tho. Most of the time, it's really just overall peaceful.
Tinapos ko talaga ang enterview nakakaproud naman bilang isang pilipino..salamat sir mabuhay ka mabuhay ang bansang pilipinas... enjoy po❤
I salute you for embracing our country, culture and everything we have here in the Philippines 👍👍👍👏👏👏
Max, the Philippines Loves you. Stay awesome. ❤
That why it's more fun in the Philippines! Can't wait for next year's vacation..It's more relax after work time to catch up with friends or families..Here in America after work Laundry is waiting for you geeezzzz!!
Very true ! Dogs and Cats are very relax in the Philippines.
🤣🤣🤣😂😂❤❤❤
Except when infected with rabies.
Actually, they are too much relax that I am always pissing them off just to get the attention and reaction from them 😂😂
everything is so chill in philippines, even the dogs and cats
I heard that they ate the bad dog leave the good one hahahh
I remember my friend bring her foreigner bf so they had a feast and we were invited. Her bf asked how many were invited and my friend casually told him that she didn’t know and he was confused. The people keeps coming. 😊 We love to share and bond through food and karaoke.
this is one of the best reaction of the foreinger he know our culture ;
Great content. I've watched several videos having the same goal of this video but this is definitely on a different level. It stated a lot of things that I didn't even realize being a Filipino and what the life is really like in here. Kudos!🎉
This old man has a vast knowledge,I enjoyed listening to this interview while sipping and eating my noodles.And I found myself nodding in everything he said..I like his wisdom
Yeap its hard to settle here in 🇺🇸, 10 years from now i will going back home to my beloved country 🇵🇭
welll said. and thats the truth.. thank you..youre always welcome. simply live a happy life, no pressure.
America is very competitive and capitalistic that's my observation as a Filipino.
@23zchris-- Yes, there are many negatives to being the number one economy in world, and I could add many more to a growing list.
US is great for earning money but not retiring.
Despite of his age.. He is still sharp and eloquent. People needs to listen to him -he's been there and than that❤
Even the dogs are not hostile, according to the observations of this senior citizen. He admired heavy traffic attitude and calmer, positive attitude. Community volunteerism needsto expand more in the Philippines.
Thank you for your kind words to the people of Philippines. You have full of wisdom . Stay healthy & enjoy life with your family.
I wish to be this kind of feeling of happiness when I reach his age❤ its never to late to be happy
Wow, the wisdom and knowledge of this man is astounding. I wish the interview was longer or I wish you could interview him again. I like how his constructive criticism about America and the rest of the world. More importantly, I love he integrated himself in our culture and society while being ever so respectful and always keeping an open-mind. Great interview!
Some people might think he's being overly critical of the US but if anything most of his perspectives were understatements 🤣🤣🤣
Really? I have been all over the US when I was on active duty and never experienced any of those things all these bloggers claim has happened to the US. You can still own property, have reliable utilities and medical services, food is everywhere, but if you're not growing your own yes you have to pay someone for providing it and everything else.
@@dumaguetedreaming Well the guy isn't a blogger, he's being interviewed. Although I would believe a native who live in America say things about the negatives of their home. And many americans around the world are so pissed to their US government because it provides more help for foreigners and refugees than their own locals, must be the reason your experience is like that.
@@pauloazuela8488It's true we have a few idiot Governor's who spend millions flying immigrants out of their states but other than that I have never seen immigrants given more than a few months of benefits and that is only after they have been properly screened. American citizens have way more benefits than immigrants, some Americans just aren't happy for what they get.
Appreciate your positive outlook of Philippines ! God bless you both and Mabuhay po kayo !
This is one of the Best interinterviews I ever watched....Wow...
CONGRATS
As our President says, the best asset of the Philippines is our people.
It's another way of saying we don't have oil. Lol jk