25:58 "fear is wanting to have a predictable outcome around an experience you've never had before" Boom! That line was worth the entire time spent on the video. Gives me great insight. Give thanks
@@sashamotovylets1753 I didn't have direction, didn't know myself, didn't appreciate the world nearly as much as I do now. it's like I have a new set of eyes now, maybe even three(if you also believe in that kind of stuff).. Tom is doing a life changing thing here 🔥
Addictions are just placeholders for the void that humans feel from not having a direction in life and working towards it. When you know where you channel your energy, there won't be time for bad habits.
@Jonathan Bowen: The last thing I would want to do after reading such a brainless comment is checking out his channel :-D If I would take it seriously then I would have taken the time to elaborate on my answer. The fact that I didn't invest more time speaks for itself. He's not committing any crime. Just let him be. Anyone who uses his/her discerment knows what this is about. In my country we have a saying which goes "I'm not from yesterday". It means that you're not easily fooled :-D One comment is enough to see right through him. Take care and pick your battles/save your energy (he's just not worth it) ;)
"You get as clear as you can, then you take action, and more clarity unfolds". I resonate so much with this. Powerful interview Tom, I am forever grateful to your guests and the IT team.
David is one of the at articulating what he knows. They say how simply you can explain something is how deeply you have understood it, so true with David.
WOW!!! "Don't let not knowing how, prevent you from spending time getting additional clarity or imagining because that's actually what's required to happen in order for you to know how." So powerful!! How many of us resist change and opportunities because we are afraid or because we feel we are not ready or we don't know yet how to execute a thing fully? This is a life changing statement right here.
KwikVideoMaker Lisa Bakewell hey, I also make videos about Self-improvement and stuff that might be Interesting for you. Feel free to check it out and leave some feedback and support!
When I was a child I was told by family that I was worthless, that I was not going to amount to anything, and was told I should not try to do anything. Since I was born with a ton of health problems instead of helping me, my family looked at me as I could not do anything. Instead of encouragement I was constantly discouraged. As a result my life went nowhere. This video opens my eyes. Wish I would have heard this 40 years ago. So now my brain is telling me I cannot start over again at 60. Now I know those are lies.
N2backsplash same thing with me. I didn’t have a ton of health problems but was never encouraged. What helped me believe in myself eventually was God and praying. Now I’m living my dream and doing things I never thought I could do. You can do it!! Believe you can.
@@stacielara9856 Thank You Stacie. I'm starting all over after being a care giver to my mother who passed away in January. It's been tough. I gave up my career in IT but that career I now realize was not right for me and was really killing me. I did it to help mom. Now I'm alone, unemployed, and wondering what to do next. I'm standing at the crossroads. God will bring me through. I refuse to give up. I'm thinking of starting a business but don't know how to go about it, but I will make it. I promise you and to everybody who reads this. If you or someone you know is in my similar situation tell them they cannot give up because I'm not giving up. God is not through with me yet so I am going to press on. Take Care and God Bless.
N2backsplash 1- Your mind does not tell you anything, you tell your mind 2- Your mind has no age, only your body gets older 3- Colonel Harland Sanders was 65 when he started the Kentucky Fried Chicken business. 4- From your comments, I can see that you are a strong person, probably even more than you believe yourself to be. Wish you all the best!
That's horrible - I'm sorry to hear that. It's so unfortunate that the origin of so many people's problems stems from the one place that ought to be anything but the source of all this bullshit - The family. Unfortunately, it's one of the cruel ironies of life that the people who should love, support and encourage you the most....often, don't.
This episode was on fire!!! I just watched it twice today!!! Some takeaways for me: "Believes are that which are true... to us." "The fastest way to eradicate a limiting belief is to actively see the limiting belief as untrue." "When you invest time in getting clear around something or imagining it, you build neuro-networks that represent the memory of an experience that has not happened YET!!!" Six steps to get back into a powerful state: 1. Notice when you move into a primal state. 2. Know that what it causing you to move into that state is your own thinking (sympathetic nervous system). 3. Take a look at what the thinking is. 4. If it is moving you into a primal state, it might not be true. 5. If that is not true, some form of the opposite must be true. What that might be? 6. What evidence do you have for the fact that that would be true?
@@taoist32 and he has taken it from David Burns and Albert Ellis , they say the same thing with out the Neuro part in their Cognitive therapies, which we make Clients work on.
serenesongs Yes, that’s true. The thing is, this guy is using very similar words to the ones used in the book. He may be paraphrasing, but it sounds almost the same. Teaching similar stuff is what most personal development speakers do, but to sound almost the same seems like plagiarism.
1- notice when you move into primal state 2-know what put in step 1 is your own thinking 🤔 3-take a look what the thinking is 4-if your thinking is moving toward step 1 most likely is not true 5-if that not true then the opposite must be true 6- what evidence you have for the fact that maybe true
Step 1: Notice when you move into a primal state. Step 2: Know that the only thing that caused you to move into that emotional state (sympathetic) is your own thinking. Step 3: Take a look at what the thinking is. Step 4: Be willing to be open to the fact that the thoughts may not be true. Step 5: If that’s not true, so form of the opposite may be true. What's that? Step 6: What evidence do you have that may be true? ~~Its been said before, by different coaches and different teachers, it must have some truth in it :-)
I always love listening to these interviews. Changing my self-belief is exactly how I quit my 18 year smoking addiction. Our beliefs really dictate our entire life, and we start forming them from we're very small children (many times subconsciously without even being away of them).
This is an amazing coach. I love how he is able to effectively help people outside his own faith, using their faith as leverage. This is the epitome of disagreeing but respecting the beliefs of others. Love this. As a Muslim American, I find myself feeling out of place in some ways. I will adopt this affirmation.
Tom’s objective practicality is what makes him so bleepin awesome!! He’s zero jaded!! 🙌🏻🙏🏻✨👌 I luv how Tom toes th line & doesn’t slack no matter how authoritarian & confidently his guests speak.🙌🏻🙏🏻✨👌
Bring the thought to the light of consciousness then shatter it with right thinking and reasoning. This is what has helped me to become extremely successful.
This is so powerful! I feel like I’m always in the fight or flight response everyday. Being a nurse is super stressful! There’s some real change that I can make today. Thanks for sharing all this great information 👊🏻
Love the quote “The fastest way for you to eradicate a limiting belief is to actually see the limiting belief as untrue. The moment that happens there is a reorganization in your brain. You can’t unsee it, once you see the lie is a lie.”
"..to actually see the limiting belief as untrue." This was very true of me. I BELIEVED that I was limited. In my attempt to "re-program" my beliefs, I came up with my own affirmation, which I revised several times. I humbly submit the first two paragraphs: "I AM all and complete. I AM enlightened. I AM love. I AM wisdom. I AM understanding. I AM unique. I am an Immortal Spiritual Being having experiences in a physical world. I am grateful to the Universe for the love and wisdom that is already in my life. I attract the love and wisdom of the Universe so that I may better serve others and serve the Universe. "I accept the people in my life as they are, not as I would prefer, since they are on their own journeys to enlightenment, and are playing their assigned parts, from which they learn, and from which I learn from them. The actions and beliefs of those around me, are only the reflections of what I once was. What I perceive as “faults” in others, are only the reflections of my own faults. The people in my life recognize the wisdom in me. My energy vibrations overpower their resistance, attract them to me, awaken their desire to learn from me, to follow my lead, and to align themselves with me as I lead by example. I offer them the opportunities to learn, to rise above ignorance, to rise above those around them, to grow in spirituality, and to strive for excellence. Whenever I enter a room or a building, those present are attracted to me by the energy vibrations that I radiate." Regarding the "assigned parts" above, I quote Shakespeare: “All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances. And one man, in his time plays many parts”. “As You Like It, Act II, Scene V” William Shakespeare (Francis Bacon) www.poets.org/poetsorg/poem/you-it-act-ii-scene-vii-all-worlds-stage Are we "players" who follow our pre-written scripts? Or can we revise our scripts to reflect who we REALLY are ?
Re your final para - yes, we can revise those deep inner scripts. .... it takes time to locate the TRUE deep core beliefs that have become our stumbling blocks, but when they are uncovered it is truly stunning. Then the 're-write' begins... cheers ...
Today I'm grateful and it is going to be a winning day. I'm not going to hope I'm in a good state I demand I'm going to be in a good state. Decision is the ultimate power so decide right now to settle for nothing less than living your best life today.
I felt like Tom approached this interview like “okay, prove to me you know what you’re talking about.” I don’t know if it was because of their differences on a Higher Power or what, but it was cool because it kind of forced him to explain things. At first he was throwing out big terms that most people don’t hear to much, but Tom kept digging to get more helpful explanations.
This is why I like Tom’s interviews, I can always take away some stuff that are accessible instead of the big terms which I already know. His wife is the same way, I like her interviews too.
I listen to pretty much every episode. Some stuff sticks, some doesn’t. But often times I will catch myself using techniques that I learned and I’ll say “Hey! I remember back when so and so said this. Now I’m using it.” I think it’s pretty cool to recognize when something hit home for you and how at one point you didn’t even know about it, but now you’re using it to live a better life.
So powerful !!! The part that he said: Don't get caught up with the how, when you are imagining a specific outcome, your brain build neurological pathways so that you can achieve the end goal in mind. So you will become more aware of opportunities regarding that goal...... So powerful and Life changing
Lisa Bakewell hey, I also make videos about Self-improvement and stuff that might be Interesting for you. Feel free to check it out and leave some feedback and support!
Tom, I can not thank you enough for this platform and the people you have shared it with. My spiritual awakening and mindset shift started after I became obsessed with impact theory. My life have forever changed💜 Thank you!
niraj kapadiya It’s a feedback loop. What you think, you believe. What you believe, dictates your thoughts. Start focusing on positive thoughts and everything changes to match those thoughts.
Exactly ! And it's like, if you want to change a belief, you gotta be aware of the thought and question it and reframe it so that it changes your belief in a very powerful way !
niraj kapadiya I learned from Weldon Long, “Your thoughts lead to your emotions, your emotion lead to your actions, and your actions lead to your results.” The power of consistency...great book.
And so true. It even makes sense: If you don't believe you can do something, you're not going to take any steps towards achieving it.... And even if by some miracle you do, you'll screw it up anyways with self-sabotaging behaviours.
Just listened to this for a third time. What i love about this interview is that they are giving us actual SIMPLE tools that we can put into practice. What would be great someday is if tom invited people who were actually stuck in whatever they were talking about and showed in real time how a novice would actually do it. This if my favorited channel. Thanks Tom
At 24.53, is why I love the host, we could understood that people won't make sense of what he said, asked his guest to simplify the thing, and it's so powerful message. This is what I love about Tom. He does the best for his viewers.
I am 51 years young. I have been a impactivist for a couple of years. I love Tom is seeking to find the Truth! Tom has given so much to the world already! Deep Deep well to drink from!
Bro you pick some very interesting and inspirational guests. I have been checking you out for a few months now. First thing totally flipped the mindset. Secondly... Your sneaker game is on point!! Kudos good sir.
There are NO LIMITS of what you can create, you are POWERFUL and there is nothing that you can not have or achieve! Believe in your power, believe in yourself and let go of what no longer serves you! ♡ design your life, create your reality
Great talk!!! Disarming the Amygdala Hijack!!!!! The important message in your talk is to, as I like to say, find a way to ‘self generate’ and create a positive state for ourselves. Freud had it right when he asked about the childhood of his patients. Murray Bowen hit the nail on the head with Family Systems Theory. I grew up in a home headed by a very narcissistic mother and codependent father. Needless to say this was not an ideal situation for me and my 6 siblings. There was emotional and physical abuse by my mother towards all of us, including my father. After my mother’s death 3 years ago, I decided to explore what caused her behavior. The things I learned about her AND myself were incredible. I decided to write a book about growing up with a narcissistically injured parent and it’s nearing completion. I’m also studying psychology (my second ‘career’- I’m a retired police officer) After writing for a few months and understanding the causes for my mother’s behaviors and how her childhood totally shaped the behavior, I have a deep sense of sadness for the abuse she suffered in her own childhood. Understanding those factors led to an incredible reframing for me that allowed me to get myself ‘off the hook’ that kept me in shame with low self esteem. I learned better self differentiation, an aspect of Bowen’s Family Systems Theory. I also took strides for my self care by going Keto and IF- a perfect marriage to my better mental health!
I can actually “see” how this talk has changed my thinking pattern. I just have to (obviously) learn more, but the explanations w/in this video, really explained things very well. Thank you for sharing the video, and the knowledge!! ❤️
skipper523 There’s a great book called “The Power of Consistency” by Weldon Long that broke their down for me. Check it out and let me know what you think.
I think that this message that David shares about changing our beliefs to change our lives is one that can help anyone transform their lives in 2020. Thanks for the video Tom. Glad we found this episode.
David is MY coach and I will be the first to tell you - he is the REAL DEAL! I'm in his year-long Legendary coaching program. My life has completely shifted and changed because of David, his beautiful soon-to-wife, Carol, and his entire team. @tombilyeu, I adore you! Such a great interview!!!! As always! One day, I will be sitting in the chair next to you. :)
The section about the clarity concept made me consider how faith works; believing something will happen and not worrying about the how but also how important movement is. This must be what they mean when they say taking a "leap" of faith.
To change the way you think you need to embrace self awareness as much as possible. Recollecting yourself as soon as your self awareness starts to drift away. Practice new actions in the field of self awareness instead of the field of autopilot.
WOW ! this is one of the most powerful messages that I have ever had the privilege of receiving Tom ..thank you and David. Will certainly be stepping things up several notches from this point onwards.
@Jonathan Bowen all sorts of people advertise on channels, social media etc. You probably have no clue about marketing. At least he's doing something even if his advertising is basic. What are you doing in life? The people that do nothing productive in life like yourself do things like projecting their ego in a negative way, patronise people and do time wasting things like "look out for other people's comments" 😂
I loved this. I have been working on modifying my belief systems for months now, and he is right. Everything in your life hinges on the fact that your actions and emotions are a chain reaction of your beliefs. I see everything differently now
24:43 Not knowing what I don’t know has been one of my biggest limitations. When I don’t even know the questions to ASK, it is stultifying. His advice is helpful and worth a shot.
Great interview, when I thought about "I belong everywhere I am" I thought it was powerful but I actually see myself as an outsider but I see more value in that vs belonging so it is interesting for people looking for one right answer because it depends what you associate with things. Growth creates unique expressions of life.
everyone is either an outsider and belong. Its an illusion you have about yourself. It's as you say an association and an association is limiting, not a truth. You belong. That's not saying you aren't unique.
This interview along with Joe Dispenza is probably the best interviews I've ever seen! Thank you so much Tom, keep doing what you're doing brother, It's of MASSIVE value!
14:45 that's the core message - embrace the reality as it is, embrace the moment and move towards the God, towards the Good, towards love and true self - this is the key to happiness!
Thank you, this is great deep stuff, it reminds me Byron's Katie The Work in which she teaches how to question negative thoughts that cause anxiety. This is not positive thinking but deeper. It starts with awareness first and then questioning false believes which makes us feel like victims and helpless . Only changing those believe true change can happens.
I love so much this interview which comes to complete others with Jo Dispenza and other neuro scientist. It helps me a lot to clarifie things such as the importance to go deep to clarifie our goals and visualize them and believe in them without trying to know the how. Thank you so much Tom for that. 🙏
I really needed this message today. I'm currently working on my belief system. There's some real change that I can make today. Thank you so much for sharing this.
This is gold. I have been on this journey to rewire and retell my stories and how I think and this is the first time something has resonated with me on every level. I have tried to reframe and all those things but couldn't quite get it. But this has really helped!!!! Thank you so much!
Tom Bilyeu I love your interviews. You are so good at interviewing and making sure that everything is communicated clearly. I really appreciate it. Thank you
Dont let not knowing how prevent you from spending time getting additional clarity or imagining because thats actually what is required to happen in order for you to know how.. This hits hard..
The Best interview Tom I listen to this 3 times I have a problem a problem comprehending , I come from Costa Rica Maybe is my language not sure but I am not giving up getting my Staging business going . I been meditating for 20 minutes every day . I love the people you interview
powerful state: 1) notice primal state 2) notice cause of primal state 3) realize cause of primal state is not true 4) what IS true ? 5) evidence of possible truth
I’m going to be interviewed on Impact Theory in 2020. There, I said it. I believe it will happen, so it will. 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼 Thanks Tom for this incredible interview. You are a gift to us and may God continue to bless you with all that is great and more!
A person his beliefs are the basis for all behavior and mental states. In order to create new beliefs, you have to see that your limiting beliefs are lying. From there you create new beliefs that are alligned with your end goals. The more clarity you have about your goals, the more you will see the oppurtunities to manifest your goals.
25:58 "fear is wanting to have a predictable outcome around an experience you've never had before" Boom! That line was worth the entire time spent on the video. Gives me great insight. Give thanks
Thank you for time stamping and writing this out. This IS such a great insight.
Like paying interest on a loan you haven’t applied for. 🤜🏼🤛🏼
When I need to clear self doubt.
I come to this channel
It's a great channel for that, that's for sure!
Amazing Mind I always have to translate this for dummies like me, but it made me better in every way.
Amazing Mind no shit, me too.
Amazing Mind Me too. I recommend it to anyone who is trying to improve themselves.💚☮️
Same!!! I can’t get enough
This channel changed my life
Same for me
Same here 🙏
Yes 100%
How so?
@@sashamotovylets1753 I didn't have direction, didn't know myself, didn't appreciate the world nearly as much as I do now. it's like I have a new set of eyes now, maybe even three(if you also believe in that kind of stuff).. Tom is doing a life changing thing here 🔥
Addictions are just placeholders for the void that humans feel from not having a direction in life and working towards it.
When you know where you channel your energy, there won't be time for bad habits.
Totally agree:)
Say it louder for the ppl in the back!!💯💯💯
It's a bit more complicated than that.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@Jonathan Bowen:
The last thing I would want to do after reading such a brainless comment is checking out his channel :-D
If I would take it seriously then I would have taken the time to elaborate on my answer.
The fact that I didn't invest more time speaks for itself.
He's not committing any crime. Just let him be.
Anyone who uses his/her discerment knows what this is about.
In my country we have a saying which goes "I'm not from yesterday". It means that you're not easily fooled :-D
One comment is enough to see right through him.
Take care and pick your battles/save your energy (he's just not worth it) ;)
"You get as clear as you can, then you take action, and more clarity unfolds". I resonate so much with this. Powerful interview Tom, I am forever grateful to your guests and the IT team.
David is one of the at articulating what he knows. They say how simply you can explain something is how deeply you have understood it, so true with David.
WOW!!! "Don't let not knowing how, prevent you from spending time getting additional clarity or imagining because that's actually what's required
to happen in order for you to know how." So powerful!! How many of us resist change and opportunities because we are afraid or because we feel we are not ready or we don't know yet how to execute a thing fully? This is a life changing statement right here.
Don't exaggerate
KwikVideoMaker Lisa Bakewell hey, I also make videos about Self-improvement and stuff that might be Interesting for you. Feel free to check it out and leave some feedback and support!
@@dorian_tihi5869 thanks for sharing. I like encouraging videos, sometimes it's just what you need to get through the day.
KwikVideoMaker yeah understandable, i do too! If you like my content feel free to subscribe 🙂 would really appreciate it a lot
This guy's message is powerful. I wish they would teach this type of stuff in schools for kids.
Texas Discount Land I’ve been saying this for years. I’m home schooling my daughter and we watch this.
Texas Discount Land they won’t it’s a evil systems they want workers not learners
@@cassandraspooner2573 they want workers not learners. Exactly
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It wont be taught in school for kids.
When I was a child I was told by family that I was worthless, that I was not going to amount to anything, and was told I should not try to do anything. Since I was born with a ton of health problems instead of helping me, my family looked at me as I could not do anything. Instead of encouragement I was constantly discouraged. As a result my life went nowhere. This video opens my eyes. Wish I would have heard this 40 years ago. So now my brain is telling me I cannot start over again at 60. Now I know those are lies.
N2backsplash same thing with me. I didn’t have a ton of health problems but was never encouraged. What helped me believe in myself eventually was God and praying. Now I’m living my dream and doing things I never thought I could do. You can do it!! Believe you can.
@@stacielara9856 Thank You Stacie. I'm starting all over after being a care giver to my mother who passed away in January. It's been tough. I gave up my career in IT but that career I now realize was not right for me and was really killing me. I did it to help mom. Now I'm alone, unemployed, and wondering what to do next. I'm
standing at the crossroads. God will bring me through. I refuse to give up. I'm thinking of starting a business but don't know how to go about it, but I will make it. I promise you and to everybody who reads this. If you or someone you know is in my similar situation tell them they cannot give up because I'm not giving up. God is not through with me yet so I am going to press on. Take Care and God Bless.
@@tuesdayswithed All the best to you, You can do what you really want, start slow and small.
N2backsplash
1- Your mind does not tell you anything, you tell your mind 2- Your mind has no age, only your body gets older 3- Colonel Harland Sanders was 65 when he started the Kentucky Fried Chicken business. 4- From your comments, I can see that you are a strong person, probably even more than you believe yourself to be. Wish you all the best!
That's horrible - I'm sorry to hear that. It's so unfortunate that the origin of so many people's problems stems from the one place that ought to be anything but the source of all this bullshit -
The family.
Unfortunately, it's one of the cruel ironies of life that the people who should love, support and encourage you the most....often, don't.
This episode was on fire!!! I just watched it twice today!!!
Some takeaways for me:
"Believes are that which are true... to us." "The fastest way to eradicate a limiting belief is to actively see the limiting belief as untrue." "When you invest time in getting clear around something or imagining it, you build neuro-networks that represent the memory of an experience that has not happened YET!!!"
Six steps to get back into a powerful state:
1. Notice when you move into a primal state.
2. Know that what it causing you to move into that state is your own thinking (sympathetic nervous system).
3. Take a look at what the thinking is.
4. If it is moving you into a primal state, it might not be true.
5. If that is not true, some form of the opposite must be true. What that might be?
6. What evidence do you have for the fact that that would be true?
Abraham Creation All taken from Tony Robbins first book, Unlimited Power from the 1980’s.
@@taoist32 and he has taken it from David Burns and Albert Ellis , they say the same thing with out the Neuro part in their Cognitive therapies, which we make Clients work on.
serenesongs Yes, that’s true. The thing is, this guy is using very similar words to the ones used in the book. He may be paraphrasing, but it sounds almost the same. Teaching similar stuff is what most personal development speakers do, but to sound almost the same seems like plagiarism.
@@taoist32 oh, wow! I have no idea!!! Thank you for sharing! I'll read that book then. The content really resonated with me so I will look into it.
Abraham Creation Yes, it’s really cool. The thing is, his book Awaken The Giant Within was much easier to read and had more tactics you could use.
1- notice when you move into primal state
2-know what put in step 1 is your own thinking 🤔
3-take a look what the thinking is
4-if your thinking is moving toward step 1 most likely is not true
5-if that not true then the opposite must be true
6- what evidence you have for the fact that maybe true
MyYou Tube thank you so much for this breakdown. I copied and pasted everywhere
Thank you!!! 🙏🏼🙂
How come you made so many mistakes in such little number of short statements
Step 1: Notice when you move into a primal state.
Step 2: Know that the only thing that caused you to move into that emotional state (sympathetic) is your own thinking.
Step 3: Take a look at what the thinking is.
Step 4: Be willing to be open to the fact that the thoughts may not be true.
Step 5: If that’s not true, so form of the opposite may be true. What's that?
Step 6: What evidence do you have that may be true?
~~Its been said before, by different coaches and different teachers, it must have some truth in it :-)
Thank you 🤗
Thank you for taking the time and writing these down🙏
Thanks for the efforts in summarising this. 👌
Thanks for your summary. Makes it easy to remember the thought processes.
Brilliant theory
I always love listening to these interviews. Changing my self-belief is exactly how I quit my 18 year smoking addiction. Our beliefs really dictate our entire life, and we start forming them from we're very small children (many times subconsciously without even being away of them).
This is an amazing coach. I love how he is able to effectively help people outside his own faith, using their faith as leverage. This is the epitome of disagreeing but respecting the beliefs of others. Love this.
As a Muslim American, I find myself feeling out of place in some ways. I will adopt this affirmation.
And not even disageeing per se -
he just meets you where you are.
Disagreeing
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Tom’s objective practicality is what makes him so bleepin awesome!! He’s zero jaded!! 🙌🏻🙏🏻✨👌 I luv how Tom toes th line & doesn’t slack no matter how authoritarian & confidently his guests speak.🙌🏻🙏🏻✨👌
Bring the thought to the light of consciousness then shatter it with right thinking and reasoning. This is what has helped me to become extremely successful.
This is so powerful! I feel like I’m always in the fight or flight response everyday. Being a nurse is super stressful! There’s some real change that I can make today. Thanks for sharing all this great information 👊🏻
Love the quote “The fastest way for you to eradicate a limiting belief is to actually see the limiting belief as untrue. The moment that happens there is a reorganization in your brain. You can’t unsee it, once you see the lie is a lie.”
"..to actually see the limiting belief as untrue." This was very true of me. I BELIEVED that I was limited. In my attempt to "re-program" my beliefs, I came up with my own affirmation, which I revised several times. I humbly submit the first two paragraphs:
"I AM all and complete. I AM enlightened. I AM love. I AM wisdom. I AM understanding. I AM unique. I am an Immortal Spiritual Being having experiences in a physical world. I am grateful to the Universe for the love and wisdom that is already in my life. I attract the love and wisdom of the Universe so that I may better serve others and serve the Universe.
"I accept the people in my life as they are, not as I would prefer, since they are on their own journeys to enlightenment, and are playing their assigned parts, from which they learn, and from which I learn from them. The actions and beliefs of those around me, are only the reflections of what I once was. What I perceive as “faults” in others, are only the reflections of my own faults. The people in my life recognize the wisdom in me. My energy vibrations overpower their resistance, attract them to me, awaken their desire to learn from me, to follow my lead, and to align themselves with me as I lead by example. I offer them the opportunities to learn, to rise above ignorance, to rise above those around them, to grow in spirituality, and to strive for excellence. Whenever I enter a room or a building, those present are attracted to me by the energy vibrations that I radiate."
Regarding the "assigned parts" above, I quote Shakespeare:
“All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances. And one man, in his time plays many parts”. “As You Like It, Act II, Scene V” William Shakespeare (Francis Bacon) www.poets.org/poetsorg/poem/you-it-act-ii-scene-vii-all-worlds-stage
Are we "players" who follow our pre-written scripts? Or can we revise our scripts to reflect who we REALLY are ?
Re your final para - yes, we can revise those deep inner scripts. .... it takes time to locate the TRUE deep core beliefs that have become our stumbling blocks, but when they are uncovered it is truly stunning. Then the 're-write' begins... cheers ...
Yugen Smartwatches it’s like peeling back the Curtain and seeing what’s real.
@@mrgruffy4499 wow I really believe that it's a great method to write a story like you did and not simply a phrase.
"The brain doesn't know the difference between imagination and reality" - THIS!!!!
Check out Abraham Hicks 💞
Alamada Karatihy Old quote, but still true!
its kinda scary huh
@@merncat75 And check out Neville Goddard Imagination Creates Reality
@@yosmuc thank you, I just learned of him a few months ago and have been listening to his talks ever since.
Today I'm grateful and it is going to be a winning day. I'm not going to hope I'm in a good state I demand I'm going to be in a good state. Decision is the ultimate power so decide right now to settle for nothing less than living your best life today.
Amen
Amen 💙
Amen Ra!
Ase
I felt like Tom approached this interview like “okay, prove to me you know what you’re talking about.”
I don’t know if it was because of their differences on a Higher Power or what, but it was cool because it kind of forced him to explain things. At first he was throwing out big terms that most people don’t hear to much, but Tom kept digging to get more helpful explanations.
Brandon Phifer Tom is becoming the new Larry King in personal development interviews.
Tom knows his audience. He is always a learner.
This is why I like Tom’s interviews, I can always take away some stuff that are accessible instead of the big terms which I already know. His wife is the same way, I like her interviews too.
I felt that too...
You are right and that's why i like Tom watching him!
I listen to pretty much every episode. Some stuff sticks, some doesn’t. But often times I will catch myself using techniques that I learned and I’ll say “Hey! I remember back when so and so said this. Now I’m using it.” I think it’s pretty cool to recognize when something hit home for you and how at one point you didn’t even know about it, but now you’re using it to live a better life.
So powerful !!! The part that he said: Don't get caught up with the how, when you are imagining a specific outcome, your brain build neurological pathways so that you can achieve the end goal in mind. So you will become more aware of opportunities regarding that goal...... So powerful and Life changing
Riaan Van Niekerk I didn’t understand that till the fog analogy. But reading about it now, it makes so much since.
This is like two Matrix agents having a chat.
technosteed lmao I’m like 😳 yeah...yeah...me too
2 matrix agents i love it
😂
😂😂😂
Totally!!
Thank you. This was amazing, especially being a Muslim living in America, I often feel like I don't belong but now realize I believe everywhere.
The most important decision you make is whether you live in a friendly or hostile universe. Wow. Amazing!
"Clarity is intimately connected to
imagination." Mind blown!
Lisa Bakewell I’ve never heard someone put it that way, but it’s so true!
Lisa Bakewell hey, I also make videos about Self-improvement and stuff that might be Interesting for you. Feel free to check it out and leave some feedback and support!
doesn't take much to blow your mind, does it?
Tom, I can not thank you enough for this platform and the people you have shared it with. My spiritual awakening and mindset shift started after I became obsessed with impact theory. My life have forever changed💜 Thank you!
"What you believe, dectates your thoughts." That sounds so profound.
niraj kapadiya It’s a feedback loop. What you think, you believe. What you believe, dictates your thoughts. Start focusing on positive thoughts and everything changes to match those thoughts.
Exactly ! And it's like, if you want to change a belief, you gotta be aware of the thought and question it and reframe it so that it changes your belief in a very powerful way !
niraj kapadiya I learned from Weldon Long, “Your thoughts lead to your emotions, your emotion lead to your actions, and your actions lead to your results.” The power of consistency...great book.
@@ayoubgasmi9574.
And so true. It even makes sense:
If you don't believe you can do something, you're not going to take any steps towards achieving it....
And even if by some miracle you do, you'll screw it up anyways with self-sabotaging behaviours.
Just listened to this for a third time. What i love about this interview is that they are giving us actual SIMPLE tools that we can put into practice. What would be great someday is if tom invited people who were actually stuck in whatever they were talking about and showed in real time how a novice would actually do it. This if my favorited channel. Thanks Tom
"How do i go beyond self awareness and actually begin to change the way I think" that's gold right there
At 24.53, is why I love the host, we could understood that people won't make sense of what he said, asked his guest to simplify the thing, and it's so powerful message. This is what I love about Tom. He does the best for his viewers.
I am 51 years young. I have been a impactivist for a couple of years. I love Tom is seeking to find the Truth! Tom has given so much to the world already! Deep Deep well to drink from!
Bro you pick some very interesting and inspirational guests. I have been checking you out for a few months now. First thing totally flipped the mindset. Secondly... Your sneaker game is on point!! Kudos good sir.
There are NO LIMITS of what you can create, you are POWERFUL and there is nothing that you can not have or achieve! Believe in your power, believe in yourself and let go of what no longer serves you! ♡ design your life, create your reality
This is my new affirmation.. restructuring it with "I Am" statements!
Powerful.. thanks! 👌
Erika K I use to believe I wasn’t deserving of having a dream. But you are 100% right. Thanks for sharing this.
🙌🏾♥️✨
one of most logical guest on Tom's show. It makes sense on every level!
David Bayer looks like Tom Bilyeu’s brother
Superpasi7 right I thought so too lol
Exactly my thoughts....
Yep it curses like him too lol 😂
older bro
He does!
Great talk!!! Disarming the Amygdala Hijack!!!!!
The important message in your talk is to, as I like to say, find a way to ‘self generate’ and create a positive state for ourselves.
Freud had it right when he asked about the childhood of his patients. Murray Bowen hit the nail on the head with Family Systems Theory. I grew up in a home headed by a very narcissistic mother and codependent father. Needless to say this was not an ideal situation for me and my 6 siblings. There was emotional and physical abuse by my mother towards all of us, including my father.
After my mother’s death 3 years ago, I decided to explore what caused her behavior. The things I learned about her AND myself were incredible. I decided to write a book about growing up with a narcissistically injured parent and it’s nearing completion. I’m also studying psychology (my second ‘career’- I’m a retired police officer)
After writing for a few months and understanding the causes for my mother’s behaviors and how her childhood totally shaped the behavior, I have a deep sense of sadness for the abuse she suffered in her own childhood. Understanding those factors led to an incredible reframing for me that allowed me to get myself ‘off the hook’ that kept me in shame with low self esteem.
I learned better self differentiation, an aspect of Bowen’s Family Systems Theory. I also took strides for my self care by going Keto and IF- a perfect marriage to my better mental health!
I can actually “see” how this talk has changed my thinking pattern. I just have to (obviously) learn more, but the explanations w/in this video, really explained things very well. Thank you for sharing the video, and the knowledge!! ❤️
skipper523 There’s a great book called “The Power of Consistency” by Weldon Long that broke their down for me. Check it out and let me know what you think.
Tom, I've watch you for a long time. This guy was one of the TOPS. Thank you
It’s amazing what we can do with the power of the mind. If we can simply learn to control it.
I think that this message that David shares about changing our beliefs to change our lives is one that can help anyone transform their lives in 2020. Thanks for the video Tom. Glad we found this episode.
David is MY coach and I will be the first to tell you - he is the REAL DEAL! I'm in his year-long Legendary coaching program. My life has completely shifted and changed because of David, his beautiful soon-to-wife, Carol, and his entire team.
@tombilyeu, I adore you! Such a great interview!!!! As always! One day, I will be sitting in the chair next to you. :)
how far into te coaching program are you?
Was he a LMF coach as well?
Right
He's your guru?
The section about the clarity concept made me consider how faith works; believing something will happen and not worrying about the how but also how important movement is. This must be what they mean when they say taking a "leap" of faith.
It’s simple folks: whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right
Simple yes, not easy.
@@rubenclark8017
To change the way you think you need to embrace self awareness as much as possible. Recollecting yourself as soon as your self awareness starts to drift away. Practice new actions in the field of self awareness instead of the field of autopilot.
WOW ! this is one of the most powerful messages that I have ever had the privilege of receiving Tom ..thank you and David. Will certainly be stepping things up several notches from this point onwards.
Tom's humility is refreshing
Once your mindset and belief system changes everything on the outside will shift along with it
Authentic Self Guide True. Had it happen many times. It’s automatic. Literally everything changes when the shift occurs.
@Jonathan Bowen all sorts of people advertise on channels, social media etc. You probably have no clue about marketing. At least he's doing something even if his advertising is basic. What are you doing in life? The people that do nothing productive in life like yourself do things like projecting their ego in a negative way, patronise people and do time wasting things like "look out for other people's comments" 😂
Authentic Self Guide 100% Truth. I didn’t learn this till I read BriN Tracy’s “No Excuses” changed my life
I loved this. I have been working on modifying my belief systems for months now, and he is right. Everything in your life hinges on the fact that your actions and emotions are a chain reaction of your beliefs. I see everything differently now
We got Toms Doppleganger on today folks, Watch out Now! best way to start the day! Bless up Impact Fam!!
As soon as I noticed I came to check the comments. I knew I wasnt the only one lol🤗
SAME!!
Impact the rehab???
The idea of clarity and knowing what you want to achieve and then creating fake memories basically is actually insane and so brilliant. Thank you.
Crazy right?
Great point on seeing the limiting self belief as untrue, when you take away it's references that build it up, it's hard to give it any importance
if you want to change your life. you have to change your mindset... thanks for this awesome episode
*"OMG, I belong everywhere I am"*
*👆THIS RIGHT HERE...PRICELESS*
That line hit me hard as well!
I thought it was just me ha...Im surprised how common this must be and how much we live in our thoughts.
And everywhere you find yourself is but more possible fuel to further a powerful life.
This point stuck out to me too!
Number one point for me too!
24:43 Not knowing what I don’t know has been one of my biggest limitations. When I don’t even know the questions to ASK, it is stultifying. His advice is helpful and worth a shot.
The mind is a very POWERFUL asset, but only when we make it work for US, and NOT against us!! Who agrees? :)
Lindsey Spiteri Bellizzi Thats 100% true! I wished I would’ve the power of self talk years ago.
Your mind can be your greatest asset or your worst liability...
It’s powerful on both ends 🌺
Tone down the all-caps a couple notches
I would say it's powerful both ways:
Working for us, it's a very positive power -
Working against us, it's very powerfully negative.
Wow! Getting into a powerful state of being. That really IS the key. Once you get yourself there you can do almost anything.
I like the way this guy thinks - his concepts are easy to grasp and make perfect sense to me. Thanks for the interview Tom 🤘🏻
"Quality of the thinking is that in that moment you think it's not true even though it's true for you!"
Blown away!..
"Move and the way will open." -Taoism.
E World Dammit! Now you got me lookin up Taoism! I’m sure I’ll thank you later lol
David Bayer is really on point!! The truth is the truth! Very knowledgeable and intelligent man!
Great interview, when I thought about "I belong everywhere I am" I thought it was powerful but I actually see myself as an outsider but I see more value in that vs belonging so it is interesting for people looking for one right answer because it depends what you associate with things. Growth creates unique expressions of life.
everyone is either an outsider and belong. Its an illusion you have about yourself. It's as you say an association and an association is limiting, not a truth. You belong. That's not saying you aren't unique.
Listening to these episodes is very similar to meditation for me. They both help me get back to baseline at overwhelming times.
I rate this as one of the most important videos I have ever watched. Thank you Tom and David. I'd downloaded the book before this had even finished!
This interview along with Joe Dispenza is probably the best interviews I've ever seen! Thank you so much Tom, keep doing what you're doing brother, It's of MASSIVE value!
Honestly the respect with which these dialogues are kept in, is remarkably.
God bless you Tom! This world needs people like you!! Keep up with your amazing journey 🙏😇😊
Love says “I am Everything”. Wisdom says “I am nothing”. Between the two, my life flows. Nisargadatta Maharaj #XAI
Xai Von Thisbis such an awesome quote! Thank you for sharing this
LaughAtChaz you’re very welcome🕺🏼Enjoy the Flow👁⚛️👁
14:45 that's the core message - embrace the reality as it is, embrace the moment and move towards the God, towards the Good, towards love and true self - this is the key to happiness!
just random That’s a dope breakdown of the episode. Very insightful, and accurate.
Thank you, this is great deep stuff, it reminds me Byron's Katie The Work in which she teaches how to question negative thoughts that cause anxiety. This is not positive thinking but deeper. It starts with awareness first and then questioning false believes which makes us feel like victims and helpless . Only changing those believe true change can happens.
I agree
Toms embodiment in each interview he has is something amazing. Be proud of yourself man!
THANKS TOM FOR THE EPISODE
Tom Bilyeu you are one of the best interviewers. I like how you progress, you are now so grounded.
"I belong everywhere I am"
I love so much this interview which comes to complete others with Jo Dispenza and other neuro scientist. It helps me a lot to clarifie things such as the importance to go deep to clarifie our goals and visualize them and believe in them without trying to know the how.
Thank you so much Tom for that. 🙏
He's dropping amazing knowledge bombs on this show! Wow!
Veltis Angel This was super dope! Not everyone breaks things down like this. I always appreciate that
Amazinggg. They should play this podcast in every high school and college. Nothing more important to know in life than what is discussed here.
I really needed this message today. I'm currently working on my belief system. There's some real change that I can make today. Thank you so much for sharing this.
Everything he said is exactly what I am going through since I have put in place my routine that I call the power of the mind.
I cant get over how powerful this interview is and I'm only at 13 minutes 🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
This is gold. I have been on this journey to rewire and retell my stories and how I think and this is the first time something has resonated with me on every level. I have tried to reframe and all those things but couldn't quite get it. But this has really helped!!!! Thank you so much!
I think this is my favorite guest of them all
Tom Bilyeu I love your interviews. You are so good at interviewing and making sure that everything is communicated clearly. I really appreciate it. Thank you
Update guys! Completed reading another book. Book count: 161 :)
You still alive and going? How the brain doing? And eyes?
@@babblingidiot7903 Yup :) They are doing awesome! Thank you for asking!
@Amor Fati Hey!!! I still remember you! Top 5 right now are: 1) Untethered Soul 2) Mindset 3) Atomic Habits 4) Deep work 5) Digital minimalism :)
bnsgokugreat I’m on 162 😜
@@Bogeyman19DidNotScareMyAss Me2 :) Now I am reading my 163rd book :)
This is POWERFUL.
So far, one of my top 5 talks from this channel.
‘Guest farts’
Tom: “yeah, that’s super powerful”
Idk why but this made me bust out laughing
How on earth has this comment not got a shit-tonne of likes - it’s so incredibly funny!
I’m being totally serious - fucking crack-ups.
LOOOOL
It was powerful. I felt it at one point, goosebumps is an understatement. Definitely resonates with me.
Thanks for the good laugh!!!
Dont let not knowing how prevent you from spending time getting additional clarity or imagining because thats actually what is required to happen in order for you to know how.. This hits hard..
I'll have to watch this everyday.
The Best interview Tom I listen to this 3 times I have a problem a problem comprehending , I come from Costa Rica
Maybe is my language not sure but I am not giving up getting my Staging business going . I been meditating for 20 minutes every day . I love the people you interview
“Say that in a real basic bitch way” lmfaoooooo
Very informative interview wow thank you guys
NockseeGee _ lol that’s how I translate everything I learn. It’s easy to get lost. I know I’m slow lol
This is seriously the best show
"I experienced what it's like to be a turtle." 😂❤ unexpected & made me lol. Love this episode!!
Mae Young Lmao! I loved that too 😂
@16:00 - thank you Tom
powerful state: 1) notice primal state 2) notice cause of primal state 3) realize cause of primal state is not true 4) what IS true ? 5) evidence of possible truth
I come to impact theory all the time and every single time I come here I learn something that is life changing
One of the best episodes of Impact Theory 👏
I’m going to be interviewed on Impact Theory in 2020. There, I said it. I believe it will happen, so it will. 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
Thanks Tom for this incredible interview. You are a gift to us and may God continue to bless you with all that is great and more!
Wish “Mind Hack” was on Audible!
A person his beliefs are the basis for all behavior and mental states. In order to create new beliefs, you have to see that your limiting beliefs are lying. From there you create new beliefs that are alligned with your end goals. The more clarity you have about your goals, the more you will see the oppurtunities to manifest your goals.