Shift Into a Powerful Mindset at Any Time, in Any Situation | David Bayer on Impact Theory

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    The personal growth and self-help industry has done a great job of leading people to self-awareness. But being aware of limiting beliefs and actually knowing how to unwind them are two very different things. David Bayer has made it his life’s mission to help people actually unwind their limiting beliefs. On this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, David Bayer explains how to use visualization to figure out precisely what you really want, then breaks down the exact steps you need to take to get into a powerful, creative mindset in any situation.
    SHOW NOTES:
    David asks how we can change the habitual methods of thinking that we are addicted to [2:35]
    David describes how beliefs are formed and how beliefs trap people [3:48]
    Tom and David discuss how to unwind limiting beliefs [6:40]
    David advocates that what causes people to regress are thoughts that are simply untrue [11:35]
    David advocates that all unbounded intelligence is all there is [15:11]
    David and Tom discuss evolution, spirituality, and how to view the universe [17:59]
    At any given time, you are only paying attention to what you believe [21:25]
    David explains how to use visualization to figure out what you really want [22:16]
    David and Tom discuss how indecision and procrastination stop people [24:45]
    David shares his story of overcoming addiction [26:36]
    David describes his spiritual journey through meditation and breath-work [29:55]
    David explains the practice necessary to constantly shift into a powerful mental state [33:57]
    David describes the exact steps necessary to shift into a powerful state [36:56]
    David shares the impact he wants to have on the world [38:55]
    QUOTES:
    “The fastest way for you to eradicate a limiting belief is to actually see the limiting belief as untrue. The moment that happens there is a reorganization in your brain. You can’t unsee it, once you see the lie is a lie.” [13:52]
    “That which we tend to pay attention to is aligned with what we believe, and so that’s all we get.” [21:44]
    “Most people know what they don’t want, but they don’t know what they do want.” [22:16]
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  • @realcashflowqueen
    @realcashflowqueen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    25:58 "fear is wanting to have a predictable outcome around an experience you've never had before" Boom! That line was worth the entire time spent on the video. Gives me great insight. Give thanks

    • @arianareeves3042
      @arianareeves3042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for time stamping and writing this out. This IS such a great insight.

    • @vincesligo
      @vincesligo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Like paying interest on a loan you haven’t applied for. 🤜🏼🤛🏼

  • @rahuljhajha2791
    @rahuljhajha2791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    When I need to clear self doubt.
    I come to this channel

    • @AdamDukes
      @AdamDukes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's a great channel for that, that's for sure!

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amazing Mind I always have to translate this for dummies like me, but it made me better in every way.

    • @Jillady
      @Jillady 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing Mind no shit, me too.

    • @Jillady
      @Jillady 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amazing Mind Me too. I recommend it to anyone who is trying to improve themselves.💚☮️

    • @rocpeacelove3544
      @rocpeacelove3544 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!!! I can’t get enough

  • @kwalombo_ta
    @kwalombo_ta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +306

    This channel changed my life

    • @judededude
      @judededude 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same for me

    • @amkrtchyan13
      @amkrtchyan13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here 🙏

    • @brownleeslime5039
      @brownleeslime5039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes 100%

    • @sashamotovylets1753
      @sashamotovylets1753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How so?

    • @kwalombo_ta
      @kwalombo_ta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sashamotovylets1753 I didn't have direction, didn't know myself, didn't appreciate the world nearly as much as I do now. it's like I have a new set of eyes now, maybe even three(if you also believe in that kind of stuff).. Tom is doing a life changing thing here 🔥

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    Addictions are just placeholders for the void that humans feel from not having a direction in life and working towards it.
    When you know where you channel your energy, there won't be time for bad habits.

    • @InfiniteTriztan1111
      @InfiniteTriztan1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Totally agree:)

    • @AllThingsMyTV
      @AllThingsMyTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Say it louder for the ppl in the back!!💯💯💯

    • @neva.2764
      @neva.2764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's a bit more complicated than that.

    • @itsjesshart
      @itsjesshart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @neva.2764
      @neva.2764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Jonathan Bowen:
      The last thing I would want to do after reading such a brainless comment is checking out his channel :-D
      If I would take it seriously then I would have taken the time to elaborate on my answer.
      The fact that I didn't invest more time speaks for itself.
      He's not committing any crime. Just let him be.
      Anyone who uses his/her discerment knows what this is about.
      In my country we have a saying which goes "I'm not from yesterday". It means that you're not easily fooled :-D
      One comment is enough to see right through him.
      Take care and pick your battles/save your energy (he's just not worth it) ;)

  • @texasdiscountland
    @texasdiscountland 4 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    This guy's message is powerful. I wish they would teach this type of stuff in schools for kids.

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Texas Discount Land I’ve been saying this for years. I’m home schooling my daughter and we watch this.

    • @cassandraspooner2573
      @cassandraspooner2573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Texas Discount Land they won’t it’s a evil systems they want workers not learners

    • @kaysalshaar3543
      @kaysalshaar3543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cassandraspooner2573 they want workers not learners. Exactly

    • @jimchadwin6943
      @jimchadwin6943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      L

    • @maxxpro4
      @maxxpro4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It wont be taught in school for kids.

  • @tuesdayswithed
    @tuesdayswithed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When I was a child I was told by family that I was worthless, that I was not going to amount to anything, and was told I should not try to do anything. Since I was born with a ton of health problems instead of helping me, my family looked at me as I could not do anything. Instead of encouragement I was constantly discouraged. As a result my life went nowhere. This video opens my eyes. Wish I would have heard this 40 years ago. So now my brain is telling me I cannot start over again at 60. Now I know those are lies.

    • @stacielara9856
      @stacielara9856 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      N2backsplash same thing with me. I didn’t have a ton of health problems but was never encouraged. What helped me believe in myself eventually was God and praying. Now I’m living my dream and doing things I never thought I could do. You can do it!! Believe you can.

    • @tuesdayswithed
      @tuesdayswithed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stacielara9856 Thank You Stacie. I'm starting all over after being a care giver to my mother who passed away in January. It's been tough. I gave up my career in IT but that career I now realize was not right for me and was really killing me. I did it to help mom. Now I'm alone, unemployed, and wondering what to do next. I'm
      standing at the crossroads. God will bring me through. I refuse to give up. I'm thinking of starting a business but don't know how to go about it, but I will make it. I promise you and to everybody who reads this. If you or someone you know is in my similar situation tell them they cannot give up because I'm not giving up. God is not through with me yet so I am going to press on. Take Care and God Bless.

    • @serenesongs
      @serenesongs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tuesdayswithed All the best to you, You can do what you really want, start slow and small.

    • @rayalanger
      @rayalanger 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      N2backsplash
      1- Your mind does not tell you anything, you tell your mind 2- Your mind has no age, only your body gets older 3- Colonel Harland Sanders was 65 when he started the Kentucky Fried Chicken business. 4- From your comments, I can see that you are a strong person, probably even more than you believe yourself to be. Wish you all the best!

    • @jamesandriulaitis7897
      @jamesandriulaitis7897 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's horrible - I'm sorry to hear that. It's so unfortunate that the origin of so many people's problems stems from the one place that ought to be anything but the source of all this bullshit -
      The family.
      Unfortunately, it's one of the cruel ironies of life that the people who should love, support and encourage you the most....often, don't.

  • @ayoubgasmi9574
    @ayoubgasmi9574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    "You get as clear as you can, then you take action, and more clarity unfolds". I resonate so much with this. Powerful interview Tom, I am forever grateful to your guests and the IT team.

  • @momslikemechicago
    @momslikemechicago 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    "Clarity is intimately connected to
    imagination." Mind blown!

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lisa Bakewell I’ve never heard someone put it that way, but it’s so true!

    • @dorian_tihi5869
      @dorian_tihi5869 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lisa Bakewell hey, I also make videos about Self-improvement and stuff that might be Interesting for you. Feel free to check it out and leave some feedback and support!

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      doesn't take much to blow your mind, does it?

  • @yugen7147
    @yugen7147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Love the quote “The fastest way for you to eradicate a limiting belief is to actually see the limiting belief as untrue. The moment that happens there is a reorganization in your brain. You can’t unsee it, once you see the lie is a lie.”

    • @mrgruffy4499
      @mrgruffy4499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      "..to actually see the limiting belief as untrue." This was very true of me. I BELIEVED that I was limited. In my attempt to "re-program" my beliefs, I came up with my own affirmation, which I revised several times. I humbly submit the first two paragraphs:
      "I AM all and complete. I AM enlightened. I AM love. I AM wisdom. I AM understanding. I AM unique. I am an Immortal Spiritual Being having experiences in a physical world. I am grateful to the Universe for the love and wisdom that is already in my life. I attract the love and wisdom of the Universe so that I may better serve others and serve the Universe.
      "I accept the people in my life as they are, not as I would prefer, since they are on their own journeys to enlightenment, and are playing their assigned parts, from which they learn, and from which I learn from them. The actions and beliefs of those around me, are only the reflections of what I once was. What I perceive as “faults” in others, are only the reflections of my own faults. The people in my life recognize the wisdom in me. My energy vibrations overpower their resistance, attract them to me, awaken their desire to learn from me, to follow my lead, and to align themselves with me as I lead by example. I offer them the opportunities to learn, to rise above ignorance, to rise above those around them, to grow in spirituality, and to strive for excellence. Whenever I enter a room or a building, those present are attracted to me by the energy vibrations that I radiate."
      Regarding the "assigned parts" above, I quote Shakespeare:
      “All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players. They have their exits and their entrances. And one man, in his time plays many parts”. “As You Like It, Act II, Scene V” William Shakespeare (Francis Bacon) www.poets.org/poetsorg/poem/you-it-act-ii-scene-vii-all-worlds-stage
      Are we "players" who follow our pre-written scripts? Or can we revise our scripts to reflect who we REALLY are ?

    • @argileaustralia3854
      @argileaustralia3854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Re your final para - yes, we can revise those deep inner scripts. .... it takes time to locate the TRUE deep core beliefs that have become our stumbling blocks, but when they are uncovered it is truly stunning. Then the 're-write' begins... cheers ...

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yugen Smartwatches it’s like peeling back the Curtain and seeing what’s real.

    • @daniamorim7547
      @daniamorim7547 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mrgruffy4499 wow I really believe that it's a great method to write a story like you did and not simply a phrase.

  • @KwikVideoMaker
    @KwikVideoMaker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    WOW!!! "Don't let not knowing how, prevent you from spending time getting additional clarity or imagining because that's actually what's required
    to happen in order for you to know how." So powerful!! How many of us resist change and opportunities because we are afraid or because we feel we are not ready or we don't know yet how to execute a thing fully? This is a life changing statement right here.

    • @morisventura674
      @morisventura674 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't exaggerate

    • @dorian_tihi5869
      @dorian_tihi5869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      KwikVideoMaker Lisa Bakewell hey, I also make videos about Self-improvement and stuff that might be Interesting for you. Feel free to check it out and leave some feedback and support!

    • @KwikVideoMaker
      @KwikVideoMaker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dorian_tihi5869 thanks for sharing. I like encouraging videos, sometimes it's just what you need to get through the day.

    • @dorian_tihi5869
      @dorian_tihi5869 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      KwikVideoMaker yeah understandable, i do too! If you like my content feel free to subscribe 🙂 would really appreciate it a lot

  • @alamadakaratihy9312
    @alamadakaratihy9312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    "The brain doesn't know the difference between imagination and reality" - THIS!!!!

    • @merncat75
      @merncat75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Check out Abraham Hicks 💞

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alamada Karatihy Old quote, but still true!

    • @nickk9499
      @nickk9499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its kinda scary huh

    • @yosmuc
      @yosmuc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@merncat75 And check out Neville Goddard Imagination Creates Reality

    • @merncat75
      @merncat75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yosmuc thank you, I just learned of him a few months ago and have been listening to his talks ever since.

  • @technosteed4644
    @technosteed4644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    This is like two Matrix agents having a chat.

  • @abraham_acreationdesign
    @abraham_acreationdesign 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This episode was on fire!!! I just watched it twice today!!!
    Some takeaways for me:
    "Believes are that which are true... to us." "The fastest way to eradicate a limiting belief is to actively see the limiting belief as untrue." "When you invest time in getting clear around something or imagining it, you build neuro-networks that represent the memory of an experience that has not happened YET!!!"
    Six steps to get back into a powerful state:
    1. Notice when you move into a primal state.
    2. Know that what it causing you to move into that state is your own thinking (sympathetic nervous system).
    3. Take a look at what the thinking is.
    4. If it is moving you into a primal state, it might not be true.
    5. If that is not true, some form of the opposite must be true. What that might be?
    6. What evidence do you have for the fact that that would be true?

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Abraham Creation All taken from Tony Robbins first book, Unlimited Power from the 1980’s.

    • @serenesongs
      @serenesongs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@taoist32 and he has taken it from David Burns and Albert Ellis , they say the same thing with out the Neuro part in their Cognitive therapies, which we make Clients work on.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      serenesongs Yes, that’s true. The thing is, this guy is using very similar words to the ones used in the book. He may be paraphrasing, but it sounds almost the same. Teaching similar stuff is what most personal development speakers do, but to sound almost the same seems like plagiarism.

    • @abraham_acreationdesign
      @abraham_acreationdesign 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taoist32 oh, wow! I have no idea!!! Thank you for sharing! I'll read that book then. The content really resonated with me so I will look into it.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abraham Creation Yes, it’s really cool. The thing is, his book Awaken The Giant Within was much easier to read and had more tactics you could use.

  • @niraj4024
    @niraj4024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "What you believe, dectates your thoughts." That sounds so profound.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      niraj kapadiya It’s a feedback loop. What you think, you believe. What you believe, dictates your thoughts. Start focusing on positive thoughts and everything changes to match those thoughts.

    • @ayoubgasmi9574
      @ayoubgasmi9574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly ! And it's like, if you want to change a belief, you gotta be aware of the thought and question it and reframe it so that it changes your belief in a very powerful way !

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      niraj kapadiya I learned from Weldon Long, “Your thoughts lead to your emotions, your emotion lead to your actions, and your actions lead to your results.” The power of consistency...great book.

    • @JuanTLim
      @JuanTLim 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ayoubgasmi9574.

    • @jamesandriulaitis7897
      @jamesandriulaitis7897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And so true. It even makes sense:
      If you don't believe you can do something, you're not going to take any steps towards achieving it....
      And even if by some miracle you do, you'll screw it up anyways with self-sabotaging behaviours.

  • @amanysuleiman
    @amanysuleiman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This is an amazing coach. I love how he is able to effectively help people outside his own faith, using their faith as leverage. This is the epitome of disagreeing but respecting the beliefs of others. Love this.
    As a Muslim American, I find myself feeling out of place in some ways. I will adopt this affirmation.

  • @abdweblinks
    @abdweblinks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    1- notice when you move into primal state
    2-know what put in step 1 is your own thinking 🤔
    3-take a look what the thinking is
    4-if your thinking is moving toward step 1 most likely is not true
    5-if that not true then the opposite must be true
    6- what evidence you have for the fact that maybe true

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MyYou Tube thank you so much for this breakdown. I copied and pasted everywhere

    • @christabelle3758
      @christabelle3758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you!!! 🙏🏼🙂

    • @owlNolan
      @owlNolan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How come you made so many mistakes in such little number of short statements

  • @MichaelGordon
    @MichaelGordon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Step 1: Notice when you move into a primal state.
    Step 2: Know that the only thing that caused you to move into that emotional state (sympathetic) is your own thinking.
    Step 3: Take a look at what the thinking is.
    Step 4: Be willing to be open to the fact that the thoughts may not be true.
    Step 5: If that’s not true, so form of the opposite may be true. What's that?
    Step 6: What evidence do you have that may be true?
    ~~Its been said before, by different coaches and different teachers, it must have some truth in it :-)

    • @asharockz7
      @asharockz7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you 🤗

    • @derlycampos7489
      @derlycampos7489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for taking the time and writing these down🙏

    • @vikaskashikar7986
      @vikaskashikar7986 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the efforts in summarising this. 👌

    • @shadwkookie7255
      @shadwkookie7255 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your summary. Makes it easy to remember the thought processes.

    • @flipsdivesandjumps
      @flipsdivesandjumps ปีที่แล้ว

      Brilliant theory

  • @joshmatthew9319
    @joshmatthew9319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Today I'm grateful and it is going to be a winning day. I'm not going to hope I'm in a good state I demand I'm going to be in a good state. Decision is the ultimate power so decide right now to settle for nothing less than living your best life today.

  • @superpasi7315
    @superpasi7315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +961

    David Bayer looks like Tom Bilyeu’s brother

    • @sonna4298
      @sonna4298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Superpasi7 right I thought so too lol

    • @AngelOne11
      @AngelOne11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly my thoughts....

    • @FunFitandWell
      @FunFitandWell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep it curses like him too lol 😂

    • @Unxpekted
      @Unxpekted 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      older bro

    • @khalidhaniff2106
      @khalidhaniff2106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He does!

  • @bphifer
    @bphifer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I felt like Tom approached this interview like “okay, prove to me you know what you’re talking about.”
    I don’t know if it was because of their differences on a Higher Power or what, but it was cool because it kind of forced him to explain things. At first he was throwing out big terms that most people don’t hear to much, but Tom kept digging to get more helpful explanations.

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Brandon Phifer Tom is becoming the new Larry King in personal development interviews.

    • @oa2621
      @oa2621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Tom knows his audience. He is always a learner.

    • @janechiu370
      @janechiu370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is why I like Tom’s interviews, I can always take away some stuff that are accessible instead of the big terms which I already know. His wife is the same way, I like her interviews too.

    • @Thedirtylittletruth
      @Thedirtylittletruth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I felt that too...

    • @fearlessmindsetfamily5269
      @fearlessmindsetfamily5269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are right and that's why i like Tom watching him!

  • @tmac6464
    @tmac6464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so powerful! I feel like I’m always in the fight or flight response everyday. Being a nurse is super stressful! There’s some real change that I can make today. Thanks for sharing all this great information 👊🏻

  • @nathansweeting123
    @nathansweeting123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I always love listening to these interviews. Changing my self-belief is exactly how I quit my 18 year smoking addiction. Our beliefs really dictate our entire life, and we start forming them from we're very small children (many times subconsciously without even being away of them).

  • @MaktMakt
    @MaktMakt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "How do i go beyond self awareness and actually begin to change the way I think" that's gold right there

  • @therealdealholyswillreside1571
    @therealdealholyswillreside1571 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    We got Toms Doppleganger on today folks, Watch out Now! best way to start the day! Bless up Impact Fam!!

    • @coleciarobinson227
      @coleciarobinson227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As soon as I noticed I came to check the comments. I knew I wasnt the only one lol🤗

    • @trueblue1359
      @trueblue1359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME!!

    • @Alex-sz6oj
      @Alex-sz6oj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Impact the rehab???

  • @riaanvanniekerk6507
    @riaanvanniekerk6507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So powerful !!! The part that he said: Don't get caught up with the how, when you are imagining a specific outcome, your brain build neurological pathways so that you can achieve the end goal in mind. So you will become more aware of opportunities regarding that goal...... So powerful and Life changing

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Riaan Van Niekerk I didn’t understand that till the fog analogy. But reading about it now, it makes so much since.

  • @ChefMANrgee
    @ChefMANrgee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bro you pick some very interesting and inspirational guests. I have been checking you out for a few months now. First thing totally flipped the mindset. Secondly... Your sneaker game is on point!! Kudos good sir.

  • @NathanaelMorton
    @NathanaelMorton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I listen to pretty much every episode. Some stuff sticks, some doesn’t. But often times I will catch myself using techniques that I learned and I’ll say “Hey! I remember back when so and so said this. Now I’m using it.” I think it’s pretty cool to recognize when something hit home for you and how at one point you didn’t even know about it, but now you’re using it to live a better life.

  • @highpranarecipes8342
    @highpranarecipes8342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    David is one of the at articulating what he knows. They say how simply you can explain something is how deeply you have understood it, so true with David.

  • @karischwear2572
    @karischwear2572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    David is MY coach and I will be the first to tell you - he is the REAL DEAL! I'm in his year-long Legendary coaching program. My life has completely shifted and changed because of David, his beautiful soon-to-wife, Carol, and his entire team.
    @tombilyeu, I adore you! Such a great interview!!!! As always! One day, I will be sitting in the chair next to you. :)

  • @lanishamallett1080
    @lanishamallett1080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Tom, I can not thank you enough for this platform and the people you have shared it with. My spiritual awakening and mindset shift started after I became obsessed with impact theory. My life have forever changed💜 Thank you!

  • @KathyMcDevitt
    @KathyMcDevitt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just listened to this for a third time. What i love about this interview is that they are giving us actual SIMPLE tools that we can put into practice. What would be great someday is if tom invited people who were actually stuck in whatever they were talking about and showed in real time how a novice would actually do it. This if my favorited channel. Thanks Tom

  • @HusseinBarbaar
    @HusseinBarbaar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Thank you. This was amazing, especially being a Muslim living in America, I often feel like I don't belong but now realize I believe everywhere.

  • @zapbodyandmind
    @zapbodyandmind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    ‘Guest farts’
    Tom: “yeah, that’s super powerful”

    • @JimmySpann
      @JimmySpann 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Idk why but this made me bust out laughing

    • @benmuir2407
      @benmuir2407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How on earth has this comment not got a shit-tonne of likes - it’s so incredibly funny!
      I’m being totally serious - fucking crack-ups.

    • @GleN95o
      @GleN95o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOOOOL

    • @Jillady
      @Jillady 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It was powerful. I felt it at one point, goosebumps is an understatement. Definitely resonates with me.

    • @shannonkingston2658
      @shannonkingston2658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for the good laugh!!!

  • @skipper523
    @skipper523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I can actually “see” how this talk has changed my thinking pattern. I just have to (obviously) learn more, but the explanations w/in this video, really explained things very well. Thank you for sharing the video, and the knowledge!! ❤️

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      skipper523 There’s a great book called “The Power of Consistency” by Weldon Long that broke their down for me. Check it out and let me know what you think.

  • @Lindsweightloss
    @Lindsweightloss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    The mind is a very POWERFUL asset, but only when we make it work for US, and NOT against us!! Who agrees? :)

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lindsey Spiteri Bellizzi Thats 100% true! I wished I would’ve the power of self talk years ago.

    • @ikeman9784
      @ikeman9784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your mind can be your greatest asset or your worst liability...

    • @chantellmoody828
      @chantellmoody828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s powerful on both ends 🌺

    • @scottk1525
      @scottk1525 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tone down the all-caps a couple notches

    • @jamesandriulaitis7897
      @jamesandriulaitis7897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would say it's powerful both ways:
      Working for us, it's a very positive power -
      Working against us, it's very powerfully negative.

  • @junepeyer1200
    @junepeyer1200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk!!! Disarming the Amygdala Hijack!!!!!
    The important message in your talk is to, as I like to say, find a way to ‘self generate’ and create a positive state for ourselves.
    Freud had it right when he asked about the childhood of his patients. Murray Bowen hit the nail on the head with Family Systems Theory. I grew up in a home headed by a very narcissistic mother and codependent father. Needless to say this was not an ideal situation for me and my 6 siblings. There was emotional and physical abuse by my mother towards all of us, including my father.
    After my mother’s death 3 years ago, I decided to explore what caused her behavior. The things I learned about her AND myself were incredible. I decided to write a book about growing up with a narcissistically injured parent and it’s nearing completion. I’m also studying psychology (my second ‘career’- I’m a retired police officer)
    After writing for a few months and understanding the causes for my mother’s behaviors and how her childhood totally shaped the behavior, I have a deep sense of sadness for the abuse she suffered in her own childhood. Understanding those factors led to an incredible reframing for me that allowed me to get myself ‘off the hook’ that kept me in shame with low self esteem.
    I learned better self differentiation, an aspect of Bowen’s Family Systems Theory. I also took strides for my self care by going Keto and IF- a perfect marriage to my better mental health!

  • @zmadani341
    @zmadani341 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s simple folks: whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right

  • @gloriamariadc7757
    @gloriamariadc7757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tom’s objective practicality is what makes him so bleepin awesome!! He’s zero jaded!! 🙌🏻🙏🏻✨👌 I luv how Tom toes th line & doesn’t slack no matter how authoritarian & confidently his guests speak.🙌🏻🙏🏻✨👌

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    There are NO LIMITS of what you can create, you are POWERFUL and there is nothing that you can not have or achieve! Believe in your power, believe in yourself and let go of what no longer serves you! ♡ design your life, create your reality

    • @drenee1416
      @drenee1416 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is my new affirmation.. restructuring it with "I Am" statements!
      Powerful.. thanks! 👌

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Erika K I use to believe I wasn’t deserving of having a dream. But you are 100% right. Thanks for sharing this.

    • @charmainebwowa2470
      @charmainebwowa2470 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌🏾♥️✨

  • @HoneyB93
    @HoneyB93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Toms embodiment in each interview he has is something amazing. Be proud of yourself man!

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great point on seeing the limiting self belief as untrue, when you take away it's references that build it up, it's hard to give it any importance

  • @dkidde
    @dkidde 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am 51 years young. I have been a impactivist for a couple of years. I love Tom is seeking to find the Truth! Tom has given so much to the world already! Deep Deep well to drink from!

  • @ademenchuk
    @ademenchuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The most important decision you make is whether you live in a friendly or hostile universe. Wow. Amazing!

  • @emsdodson
    @emsdodson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tom, I've watch you for a long time. This guy was one of the TOPS. Thank you

  • @eworld5661
    @eworld5661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "Move and the way will open." -Taoism.

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      E World Dammit! Now you got me lookin up Taoism! I’m sure I’ll thank you later lol

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s amazing what we can do with the power of the mind. If we can simply learn to control it.

  • @David-ib8ek
    @David-ib8ek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The section about the clarity concept made me consider how faith works; believing something will happen and not worrying about the how but also how important movement is. This must be what they mean when they say taking a "leap" of faith.

  • @victoriaholden7774
    @victoriaholden7774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is gold. I have been on this journey to rewire and retell my stories and how I think and this is the first time something has resonated with me on every level. I have tried to reframe and all those things but couldn't quite get it. But this has really helped!!!! Thank you so much!

  • @InnerVisionStudios
    @InnerVisionStudios 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I think that this message that David shares about changing our beliefs to change our lives is one that can help anyone transform their lives in 2020. Thanks for the video Tom. Glad we found this episode.

  • @AuthenticSelfGrowth
    @AuthenticSelfGrowth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Once your mindset and belief system changes everything on the outside will shift along with it

    • @taoist32
      @taoist32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Authentic Self Guide True. Had it happen many times. It’s automatic. Literally everything changes when the shift occurs.

    • @tamimhusain3376
      @tamimhusain3376 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jonathan Bowen all sorts of people advertise on channels, social media etc. You probably have no clue about marketing. At least he's doing something even if his advertising is basic. What are you doing in life? The people that do nothing productive in life like yourself do things like projecting their ego in a negative way, patronise people and do time wasting things like "look out for other people's comments" 😂

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Authentic Self Guide 100% Truth. I didn’t learn this till I read BriN Tracy’s “No Excuses” changed my life

  • @noelleb9020
    @noelleb9020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really appreciate the depth of your questions and the insight they bring forth. Thanks for being part of the LIght.

  • @harshitanand673
    @harshitanand673 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    At 24.53, is why I love the host, we could understood that people won't make sense of what he said, asked his guest to simplify the thing, and it's so powerful message. This is what I love about Tom. He does the best for his viewers.

  • @daisyuyirwoth6387
    @daisyuyirwoth6387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    WOW ! this is one of the most powerful messages that I have ever had the privilege of receiving Tom ..thank you and David. Will certainly be stepping things up several notches from this point onwards.

  • @RossQuintana
    @RossQuintana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great interview, when I thought about "I belong everywhere I am" I thought it was powerful but I actually see myself as an outsider but I see more value in that vs belonging so it is interesting for people looking for one right answer because it depends what you associate with things. Growth creates unique expressions of life.

    • @silverhopeful
      @silverhopeful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      everyone is either an outsider and belong. Its an illusion you have about yourself. It's as you say an association and an association is limiting, not a truth. You belong. That's not saying you aren't unique.

  • @Fywl92
    @Fywl92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Practice". Thank you! Finally mentioning practice, as with everything you need to be good at physical or mental, it is all practice. Love this episode too! Reading a lot of books thanks to these videos Tom! Keep up your great work!

  • @muffinberg7960
    @muffinberg7960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing episode! Thanks for having this episode

  • @meshackpaul9050
    @meshackpaul9050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    THANKS TOM FOR THE EPISODE

  • @AllThingsMyTV
    @AllThingsMyTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    *"OMG, I belong everywhere I am"*
    *👆THIS RIGHT HERE...PRICELESS*

    • @lottiecooper5634
      @lottiecooper5634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That line hit me hard as well!

    • @David-ib8ek
      @David-ib8ek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I thought it was just me ha...Im surprised how common this must be and how much we live in our thoughts.

    • @johnbuchananart6932
      @johnbuchananart6932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And everywhere you find yourself is but more possible fuel to further a powerful life.

    • @SunniT.Connor
      @SunniT.Connor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This point stuck out to me too!

    • @NathanaelMorton
      @NathanaelMorton 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Number one point for me too!

  • @SIMCostello325
    @SIMCostello325 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had paused this interview to be loving and supportive to a team member by telling him my thoughts on his failure repeatedly and even brought up the topic of successfully dying from a planned suicide.
    The moment I told him I saw NOTHING on the other side he became argumentative based on what I told him.
    I asked him: Do you remember ANYTHING when you were in a coma for 17 days?
    He said I remember NOTHING.
    I said that's TRUE DEATH.
    EMPTINESS. NOTHING.
    So anytime I do a medical procedure requiring anesthesia that's what I'm brought to by the hands of man.
    So my goal is a NATURAL DEATH so I can make a TRANSITION not being drugged.
    So every medical procedure I endure that involves anesthesia is a reminder of the mistakes I made to my natural health.
    I'm reliant on a man to revive me. There can be many reasons why I'm not revived.
    Therefore I have to remember daily the FAITH that awakes me from sleep.
    Technically I die every time I go to sleep.
    Sometimes I remember another realm. Sometimes I don't.
    But when I wake up I have been resurrected into this existence one more time.
    I can WASH RINSE REPEAT or do something different.
    Otro Dia, Otto Aventura
    Another day, Another adventure.
    I have a chance daily to LIVE a NEW LIFE by being ONE PERCENT BETTER than the day BEFORE.
    So dwelling on yesterday is a TRUE WASTE unless it is a step to LIVE BETTER.
    I can say it to you and you will reject or accept MY TRUTH.
    That's the frustration for a leader.
    It's that TRUTH that let's me know if you are going to FOLLOW me in MINDSET.
    I look for MINDSET more now in my team members more than EVER BEFORE.
    You GET it or You don't.
    I have to see progress or CUT THE TEETHER.
    I no longer can AFFORD to waste time on those who don't want to MOVE FORWARD.
    It wastes SO MUCH energy that can be GIVEN to someone else.
    You are ONLY as powerful as your weakest LINK.
    Two choices REPAIR and RESTORE that link or PREPARE or PREVENT it from being broken.
    I choose being MORE selective when building a TEAM.

  • @CLOS2310
    @CLOS2310 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have seen almost every Impact Theory. This was probably the best about mindset and beliefs. I will be downloading this ebook!

  • @VeltisAngel
    @VeltisAngel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    He's dropping amazing knowledge bombs on this show! Wow!

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Veltis Angel This was super dope! Not everyone breaks things down like this. I always appreciate that

  • @craftycrafty9903
    @craftycrafty9903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I rate this as one of the most important videos I have ever watched. Thank you Tom and David. I'd downloaded the book before this had even finished!

  • @winnertchegyeu3703
    @winnertchegyeu3703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "I belong everywhere I am"

  • @GH-so9gi
    @GH-so9gi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is POWERFUL.
    So far, one of my top 5 talks from this channel.

  • @NockseeGee_
    @NockseeGee_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    “Say that in a real basic bitch way” lmfaoooooo
    Very informative interview wow thank you guys

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      NockseeGee _ lol that’s how I translate everything I learn. It’s easy to get lost. I know I’m slow lol

  • @tiffanimae7993
    @tiffanimae7993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "I experienced what it's like to be a turtle." 😂❤ unexpected & made me lol. Love this episode!!

    • @NathanaelMorton
      @NathanaelMorton 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mae Young Lmao! I loved that too 😂

  • @NathanaelMorton
    @NathanaelMorton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listening to these episodes is very similar to meditation for me. They both help me get back to baseline at overwhelming times.

  • @springfieldFlute
    @springfieldFlute 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, for this. This reinforces what I've learned and believed in, just never seem to be able to do it because the steps can be convoluted. David explains it in a straightforward manner! Thank you, David and Tom!

  • @lolar6085
    @lolar6085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, this is great deep stuff, it reminds me Byron's Katie The Work in which she teaches how to question negative thoughts that cause anxiety. This is not positive thinking but deeper. It starts with awareness first and then questioning false believes which makes us feel like victims and helpless . Only changing those believe true change can happens.

  • @naturalforlife6741
    @naturalforlife6741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'll have to watch this everyday.

  • @nestorqa1681
    @nestorqa1681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really amazing and well articulated, thanks Dave and Tom and IT team. You've done it again!!!

  • @kab59592
    @kab59592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the best Impact Theory interviews to date! Awesome. Learned soooooooo much!

  • @xayavon2
    @xayavon2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love says “I am Everything”. Wisdom says “I am nothing”. Between the two, my life flows. Nisargadatta Maharaj #XAI

    • @CHAZRODGERS
      @CHAZRODGERS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Xai Von Thisbis such an awesome quote! Thank you for sharing this

    • @xayavon2
      @xayavon2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      LaughAtChaz you’re very welcome🕺🏼Enjoy the Flow👁⚛️👁

  • @TiffanyHallmark
    @TiffanyHallmark 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really needed this message today. I'm currently working on my belief system. There's some real change that I can make today. Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @joyfulsavage9905
    @joyfulsavage9905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the mindset and the 6 step process. Super powerful. This stuff is hugely underrated.

  • @MindNutritionBody
    @MindNutritionBody 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely one of your best episodes Tom! You are in my opinion THEE best at asking your guests the best questions.

  • @drumzomario
    @drumzomario 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I like the way this guy thinks - his concepts are easy to grasp and make perfect sense to me. Thanks for the interview Tom 🤘🏻

  • @bnsgokugreat
    @bnsgokugreat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Update guys! Completed reading another book. Book count: 161 :)

    • @babblingidiot7903
      @babblingidiot7903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You still alive and going? How the brain doing? And eyes?

    • @bnsgokugreat
      @bnsgokugreat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@babblingidiot7903 Yup :) They are doing awesome! Thank you for asking!

    • @bnsgokugreat
      @bnsgokugreat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Amor Fati Hey!!! I still remember you! Top 5 right now are: 1) Untethered Soul 2) Mindset 3) Atomic Habits 4) Deep work 5) Digital minimalism :)

    • @DaPoopIsInDaPudding
      @DaPoopIsInDaPudding 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      bnsgokugreat I’m on 162 😜

    • @bnsgokugreat
      @bnsgokugreat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DaPoopIsInDaPudding Me2 :) Now I am reading my 163rd book :)

  • @alphanumericalalias
    @alphanumericalalias 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tom's humility is refreshing

  • @kanchisharma130
    @kanchisharma130 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Quality of the thinking is that in that moment you think it's not true even though it's true for you!"
    Blown away!..

  • @special_spaces
    @special_spaces 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Honestly the respect with which these dialogues are kept in, is remarkably.

  • @FreeD00M
    @FreeD00M 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Its like future Tom Bilyeu came back to teach his past self :-)

  • @AllanM444
    @AllanM444 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this. I have been working on modifying my belief systems for months now, and he is right. Everything in your life hinges on the fact that your actions and emotions are a chain reaction of your beliefs. I see everything differently now

  • @UltimateAwe
    @UltimateAwe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This really hit me. I can sense how centered he is. Great conversation. Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @nadiag366
    @nadiag366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I cant get over how powerful this interview is and I'm only at 13 minutes 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

  • @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
    @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was superb. Tom's life would be changed for the better if he tried psychedelics. Tony Robbins did 5-MEO and it was one of the most transformative experiences of his life (source: Hotboxin with Mike Tyson 33:50). 5-MEO "The God Molecule" or 1g dry of magic mushrooms with contemplation. Have a shaman for any large doses. GL

  • @whtwz5187
    @whtwz5187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is so good that i am downloading this video even if i know it will probably be never deleted from TH-cam..but aboslutely downloading it

  • @CRUISEGRAFFITI
    @CRUISEGRAFFITI 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The idea of clarity and knowing what you want to achieve and then creating fake memories basically is actually insane and so brilliant. Thank you.

  • @NickChase
    @NickChase 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Tom, I love your work so much. Tell me please, what's your policy if I want to use some fragments from this kind of speeches you make, in order to make motivation video on my channel? I'm composing music so motivation videos will be perfect for that music I want to promote. So I was wondering where you stand with using small fraction of this awesome speeches by other TH-camrs? Thank you in advance.

  • @mimiBirkin
    @mimiBirkin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Something fun to watch would be Tom interviewing Abraham Hicks :D

    • @sosha4050
      @sosha4050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mimi Stojanoska she wouldn’t let him speak! 😂

    • @violetj09
      @violetj09 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sosha4050 why?

  • @raph009
    @raph009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love how your videos are always imprinted with some much positivity! I'm a biology student, so I'm always skeptical about things that are not deeply grounded into science, but I'm always impressed at how even more spiritual subjects are introduced in your videos. I liked the "We agree it exists, but don't about why" part. I think it's so important in communication, even among scientists.
    Edit: I've tried the primal thought method today and I managed to get back in control 3 times today, mainly in moments where I felt overwhelmed or just "threatened" for no reasons lol Great way to reset your thoughts! :)

  • @k-turner
    @k-turner 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate all that you do! I watch your interviews all the time and love the insights that you and your guests give!

  • @stephaniehart5568
    @stephaniehart5568 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He broke that shit down! You pulled that out of him that's a life meme Yep

  • @biblicalgodisonlytruegod
    @biblicalgodisonlytruegod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wish “Mind Hack” was on Audible!

  • @penelopespaperproductions1115
    @penelopespaperproductions1115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tom, David explained our existence perfectly, you should do more shows on it.

  • @jacklantow2869
    @jacklantow2869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was fantastic. Ty very much for opening doors I thought were closed forever. Ty

  • @spotlessmind7681
    @spotlessmind7681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    powerful state: 1) notice primal state 2) notice cause of primal state 3) realize cause of primal state is not true 4) what IS true ? 5) evidence of possible truth

  • @shannonlstephens86
    @shannonlstephens86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think this is my favorite guest of them all

  • @danepaulstewart8464
    @danepaulstewart8464 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Getting into a powerful state of being. That really IS the key. Once you get yourself there you can do almost anything.

  • @carloflores2490
    @carloflores2490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Tom! This world needs people like you!! Keep up with your amazing journey 🙏😇😊