"Men Today Are Weak" - How To Master Power, Money, Influence & Reinvent Yourself | Patrick Bet David

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  • Reclaim Control of Your Life Today: bit.ly/3PIdAH2
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    We're diving into a riveting conversation with Patrick Bet-David about the crisis of masculinity and the pursuit of true power. Are you feeling lost, unqualified, or weak? We're here to change that and challenge your thoughts on masculinity.
    Patrick unravels the misconceptions around power and strength, revealing how they are stepping stones to freedom and control in your life. We dissect the multi-dimensional problem facing men today, from the rise of single mother households to the lack of male role models.
    We unpack three powerful traits of leadership and a man’s role in his son’s life: love, fear, and respect. Patrick also sheds light on how to cultivate, capture, and use aggression effectively. Life is a game, and we're here to help you play to win.
    Power isn't about greed or selfishness; it's about the level of life you want to live, and we’re discussing how to balance selfishness, aggression, and power to become a net positive to society.
    This episode is for the audacious few who are ready to reinvent themselves and master their inner strength. We address the moral obligation of men to be strong, and how to tap into the fire within you, choose your enemies wisely, and let them fuel your focus and commitment.
    Books mentioned in this episode:
    1) Power versus force by David Schwartz
    2) Quiet Strength by Tony Dungy
    Don’t forget to check out Patrick Bet-David’s book, Choose Your Enemies Wisely: www.amazon.com/Choose-Your-En...
    Chapter Markers:
    [00:00] Introduction to Master True Power
    [00:32] Aggression Isn’t The Problem
    [16:21] Be Audaciously Masculine
    [30:42] Earn Your Authority
    [45:42] Overhaul Your Masculine Values
    [1:08:16] Become A Powerful Ten
    [1:26:52] Who Are Your Enemies?
    PBD Quotes:
    “If you have fear, respect, and love, that boy has the highest likelihood of doing something big with his life.”
    “If you want to be the guy of the guys, of other guys, you can’t go by the standard as everybody else does.”
    “There’s a level of alpha, there’s levesl of success you want in life…”
    “Choose your enemies wisely, but its business planning for the audacious few, not the timid majority.”
    “If you’re going to do something big you’re automatically going to have enemies.”
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ความคิดเห็น • 822

  • @TomBilyeu
    @TomBilyeu  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

    • @divine5353
      @divine5353 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I heard you Tom are looking for Geoffrey Canada... Sometimes the route approach is from a family or friend that knows him. He might be going through some difficulties and went off grid for while. Remember the roots... they will lead you to the fruit. May the light lead the way.

    • @scotchbarrel4429
      @scotchbarrel4429 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tom, this guy is an anti elitist, and a wannabe elitist. Hes done well for himself, but just like the orange cult leader, who this strongman is inspired by, hes not the role model we want our men to emulate. Hes definitely the type that chauvinistic men will emulate.

    • @delaslight
      @delaslight 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please invite him more and more and more

    • @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd
      @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's right. A lot of folks think we're fools, someone just tried 31 minutes ago

    • @lilamnbdh967
      @lilamnbdh967 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s so true Tom🙏, they think I’m stupid .

  • @kookoo4mike
    @kookoo4mike 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +260

    My husband is a “powerful” man; confident, competent, secure, a man of integrity. He’s a strong protector and provider for me and our kids. I feel secure and blessed he is the leader of our house! He is also gentle and kind. A true gentleman. 😊

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@kookoo, he sounds like a gem!! 💎 It sounds like y’all are a team and are “both” blessed! I’m glad he is appreciated.

    • @kameniliev8607
      @kameniliev8607 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      ...and he is one lucky guy to have a woman who appreciates him. We need more of these out there...
      Keep on in your journey together!!!

    • @bijosn
      @bijosn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tools

    • @solomonwrites
      @solomonwrites 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow! I will like to do like your husband to my future wife. Please could you outline what he does that make him a leader, protector,etc.
      Blessings to you both.

    • @tierneyrose110
      @tierneyrose110 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Brag about it! LOL 😅

  • @PeaceIsYeshua
    @PeaceIsYeshua 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +539

    As a woman, we need our strong, masculine men!!! They are SO valuable!! ❤

    • @henrythegreatamerican8136
      @henrythegreatamerican8136 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ^^^^^
      Proud soy boy. Please dress me in your favorite bra!

    • @venky193
      @venky193 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thank you, for valuing this mate ✌🏼

    • @PerfectPetProductions
      @PerfectPetProductions 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True. The problem is women often choose dark pentagon men- narcissists, psychopaths, machiavellianism, sadism and paranoia. Women are choosing these dark hearted men who are terrible long-term husbands and fathers, but they give good sex in the beginning, and you are hooked. They are parasites and are fucking up humanity.

    • @TheJessehart05
      @TheJessehart05 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I value your view. I love to provide for my girlfriend.
      Looks like you have avoided the “men are evil” agenda.

    • @alanfaeldan
      @alanfaeldan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Agreed, but are women willing to give up their feminist views they've fought decades to have now? Women will need to concede to have their masculine men back

  • @oneworldonehome
    @oneworldonehome 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    _"To be free, you must be strong. To be strong, your mind must be clear. You must see clearly. You must hear the truth. You must be objective about your life and circumstances. You must look upon the world not with grievance or avoidance, but with compassion, patience and determination."_
    The Greater Community, Chapter 4: Entering the Greater Community, by MV Summers.

  • @bastianrivero
    @bastianrivero 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    When a true leader is not present, bullies show up.

  • @nefidecarvalho5412
    @nefidecarvalho5412 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Tom please continue doing this kind of episodes. This is what impact theory stands for. Stick to the brand. Free is from the matrix and forget the rest

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌

  • @albidalfoudri9078
    @albidalfoudri9078 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Normally Tom talks way too much as interviewer, but this time I feel he’s really listening and haven’t talked as much as usual. Respect for both Pat & Tom!

  • @leondonald
    @leondonald 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Thank you. Just what I needed to watch. My hubby and I are directors of our farm business and own property, plus small pensions. I am nearly 52, hubby is 55. We have started to save to retire from the farm, and possibly live on rental income, I'd really appreciate you go LIVE and talk about how to earn passive income online and retire comfortably, let’s say $1M.

    • @berkrix4312
      @berkrix4312 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      consider financial planning.

    • @DavidRiggs-dc7jk
      @DavidRiggs-dc7jk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It really isn’t about how much you save, it’s about how you manage your money. Whether you work to earn income or invest, it still boils down to income vs expenses, so yeah you may look into financial advisors for a strategy that suits your timing.

    • @theresahv
      @theresahv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I totally agree, I'm 60 and newly retired with about 1.2 million outside retirement funds, no debt, and very small dollars in retirement funds compared to my portfolio balance over the past 3 years till date. tbh, the role of the invt-advisor can only be overlooked, not denied. just have to do your research in finding a reputable one.

    • @EllenAbrex
      @EllenAbrex 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That's impressive, my portfolio have been tanking all year, tried learning new strategies to gain in the current market but all of that flew right over head, please would you mind recommending the invt-adviser you're using?

    • @theresahv
      @theresahv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I thoroughly recommend Julie Anne Hoover, an investment advisor who is subject to US SEC regulation. She has assisted me with my portfolio for many years. Look her up online; she's a well-known figure.

  • @REASONFORTRUTH
    @REASONFORTRUTH 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    SPOT ON GENTLEMAN. I come from a Sicilian-Italian home. My father came from Sicily and earned a scholarship in Engineering. My mother is. Sicilian mother who never let one cross a red line. My parents where/are as living as tough and bottom line. This is one of the best wisdom I have head in years and should be broadcast nationally/internationally. Thank you gentleman for having the energy, desire and energy to speak the TRUTH. That is what this is…Steven Garofalo

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌

  • @thevossman
    @thevossman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The book Power vs Force is amazing. Note the author is David Hawkins, not David Swartz

  • @barbaraatkinson2204
    @barbaraatkinson2204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    PBD is spot on about your choosing your enemy’s wisely , my mom told me was stupid and would never be anything, she was my enemy that is what driver me besides being a type A , once I was out of the house at 17 in the 70’s I had the freedom to go on and be successful to prove I was not stupid and worthless ,the curse of my mothers behavior turns into a blessing ❤

  • @vcme
    @vcme 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Had a brother in-law just like PBD. He was respected and loved by everyone. Kept the families in order and progressing.

    • @coney2010grads
      @coney2010grads 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      "Had?" What happened to him?

    • @pfk182
      @pfk182 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And then he died???

  • @codyr2318
    @codyr2318 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Best Impact Theory episode in a very long time. This guy PBD has some powerful ideas to share.

  • @PapaCriss
    @PapaCriss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When my wife got sick I quit my carrier in IT to become her full-time caregiver. For the past 5 years I've dedicated nearly every moment not used directly in her care to living in the world of medical research. All of these people say to me "you're such a good husband bla, bla, bla." My reaction to all that noise is simply "I'm doing what I promised to do when we got married!" Doing it doesn't make me a saint or any of the other platitudes they try and push on me, I'm just a man of my word. If a mans word is not his bond then, especially to his wife, then he is not a man!

  • @sakinahabdul-jaleel
    @sakinahabdul-jaleel 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This conversation is FANTASTIC and LONG OVERDUE! PBD is sooo on point! Tom, you always ask the right questions to get to the deeper levels!

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊐㊊㊧㊌㊧

  • @regentlemen
    @regentlemen 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    PBD is a pillar in this generation. May our King continue insufflating and protecting you, beloved ones and associates, my brother.

  • @collinsnorman473
    @collinsnorman473 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    The idea of investing a significant sum of money may be both thrilling and intimidating. There seems to be potential for considerable wealth increase with the correct strategy. How can one take advantage of the present market to grow one's retirement savings over time?

    • @stephmeldrich6765
      @stephmeldrich6765 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A solid strategy can be a key component of an investor’s portfolio. Well, the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward and such impeccable decisions are better guided by professionals.

    • @martinbelanger9963
      @martinbelanger9963 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes true, I learnt that in 2020, when I lost almost everything. But I switched to using a financial advisor and I've been returning at least $100k every one quarter of the year so I’m sticking to investing via an Adviser.

    • @dubyyax5493
      @dubyyax5493 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please who is the consultant that assist you with your investment and if you don't mind, how do I get in touch with them?

    • @martinbelanger9963
      @martinbelanger9963 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I began with an FA named Emily Lois Parker. Her straightforward approach provides me entire ownership and control over my position, and her fees are really reasonable given my ROI.

    • @wanifeels5991
      @wanifeels5991 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing, I just looked her up on the web because this is equally important to me, and I would say she really has an impressive background in investing. I will write her an e-mail shortly.

  • @1maripaul
    @1maripaul 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Just what I needed this morning! But I'm female and I needed to hear this about my own life....I need to take charge and be challenged in life. It applies to all of us!

  • @user-fb8jb5yi6g
    @user-fb8jb5yi6g 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Minute 3:05. 100% spot on. My father NEVER cut me ANY slack. It drove me to accomplish the impossible.

  • @Chris-rv7nr
    @Chris-rv7nr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Haven’t seen this all yet but I know Tom is a good guy and if he is pushing masculinity he’s surely pushing it in a sense that most people would regard as healthy

    • @rodgarant3875
      @rodgarant3875 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      What part of masculinity is unhealthy?,

    • @njsmithpro
      @njsmithpro 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      100%

    • @njsmithpro
      @njsmithpro 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      100%

    • @srei2447
      @srei2447 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@rodgarant3875 Just a handful of examples of when masculinity can be unhealthy aree when it leads to someone suppressing emotions, resorting to aggression for dominance, avoiding seeking help, adhering to rigid gender roles, feeling entitled, being overly competitive, or harboring misogyny or homophobia.

    • @offensivearch
      @offensivearch 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@srei2447 I see most of these more with modern women than modern men. Resorting to aggression for dominance and feeling entitled in particular.

  • @explorationecho2366
    @explorationecho2366 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I watch both of you often. This talk was the most relevant and profound for me personally in a while. This talk addressed every part of my life past, present & future. Thanks to you both and the team who helped put it together.

    • @Tony-hs8sc
      @Tony-hs8sc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I read Patrick’s books and been following his content for years now but I never heard of the podcast and wow ! What a great conversation and so well rounded and important conversation.
      These are the leaders we need today Just honest and genuine smart strong people .
      And I absolutely loved that you shouted out their team cause as a viewer a lot of people think these things happen out of nowhere but they have employees and a team that is a huge part of the process and these guys value their teams and it’s great to see viewers like you and I noticing that and appreciating those people too !
      Have a great Christmas and holidays

    • @Tony-hs8sc
      @Tony-hs8sc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What great conversation and podcast. I’ve only watched and read Patrick’s books but now I love this guy and subscribed and look forward to listening to more from him !
      These are common sense smart and strong guys that we really need right now

  • @NightOwl-uw7yq
    @NightOwl-uw7yq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love the way Patrick took control of the environment!

  • @carenzalarue8447
    @carenzalarue8447 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Completely agree with everything being said here.

    • @Flexsweat
      @Flexsweat 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Name 1 takeaway from this video?

    • @Tony-hs8sc
      @Tony-hs8sc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s amazing and I don’t know why I am still surprised but I just always glance at our other media - the bottom feeders like nbc MSNBC cnn New York Times Washington post time magazine 95% of our social media companies. Etc - and in the last 3 years 99.9% of the coverage is almost alllll the same exact stories and same talking points almost word for word !!! Like this week it’s 90% trump trump trump insanity and criminal , jail and fascism Nazi screaming repeated talking points from the “experts” even though those experts have been wrong and humiliated on every single thing they said for last 5-8 years .,, doesn’t matter ! They know their audience is not smart enough or willing to notice reality cause their audience is mostly white , wealthy rich suburban, totally disconnected elite liberals who think cause one black family lives in the next block in a house worth 4 million dollars and they have a blm sign in their yard .,,, that THEY are the hero’s of America and as long as they don’t have to see or know any black or brown people that are being destroyed and crushed by the last 3 years !!!- So that by seeing trans outrage fake outrage trump trump and evil republicans insanity every day is gonna help the current failing Biden administration and maybe no one will notice ?
      In the mean time - this podcast is more genuine and meaningful and productive than 1 year of our entire media blow Jobs who are bought and paid for

  • @bastianrivero
    @bastianrivero 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I see pat, i click, simple

  • @georgesaucedo7929
    @georgesaucedo7929 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The last 2 minutes had me with chills, if you know what’s it like to never be told that I didn’t know how much of an impact that had but really lit a fire in me.

  • @KendalFlair
    @KendalFlair 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Thank you so much for this video. I learnt a lot from it. I feel for you to attain all these, you’ll need to develop your mind. It’s not an easy process especially with the phases that we experience in our daily activities which could be overwhelming sometimes.

    • @SantanJose
      @SantanJose 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. I’ve been in a bad phase in life before and tbh, it wasn’t easy because you’ll feel like you’re going through the same cycle every day. I had to try out positive things, to lean towards overcoming that bad phase.

    • @KendalFlair
      @KendalFlair 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Opening doors for positive things has been a great way to get through some of these bad phases.

    • @KendalFlair
      @KendalFlair 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What I mean is trying to lean towards the positive side of things by learning a skill, trying out new ideas, networking with positive people, opening up. If you overcome a phase mentally and strengthen your mind, you’ll excel physically.

    • @TylerScot-
      @TylerScot- 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re right. A short story. There was a time in my life when I was going through a bad phase and it affected me mentally and I couldn’t be complacent in that phase. I had to try out new things. I started playing chess, learning about the financial market, watching positive documentaries and it was really helpful. Anyone reading this, you can try out positive things and it would help you network with positive people.

    • @AndrewGrantt
      @AndrewGrantt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re right. Positive things welcome room for positive people. What helped you in the learning curve of the financial market?

  • @allentempleton2429
    @allentempleton2429 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was a fantastic interview. I think P.B.D. is brilliant. When I listen to him talk about his principles and values it's easy to understand how he became so successful. At one time men like him were more common. They were the men who returned fron WW2 and built the US Into an economic powerhouse. The absence of leaders like Patrick is the reason for the erosion of today's America as well as the rise and acceptance of psychosis and criminality.

  • @MM-overtime
    @MM-overtime 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We need more podcasts like this around the world! Good job to both of you. Very informative, truthful, and entertaining!

  • @lilamnbdh967
    @lilamnbdh967 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you so much Tom🙏❤️

  • @ReedVanSchalkwyk
    @ReedVanSchalkwyk 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tom, I hope you are well brother, I'm taking a moment to say thank you, thank you climbing your personal mount Everest and allowing others to see a better view. I just finished watching the episode with Ed Mylett and now Patrick Bet all of you great men have shared brilliant insight and wisdom from the oven of circumstances you were placed into to become good bread for the next generation. God bless you with the best health and wealth. Live strong king

  • @OPatron24
    @OPatron24 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pat is absolutely right, we have weak leadership right now. We need to ask better questions and evaluate our "leaders" under a different lens.

  • @daxbunny7
    @daxbunny7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I absolutely LOVED this interview. Couldnt agree more with it!!

  • @Realestagentday
    @Realestagentday 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    It’s crazy my whole life I’ve been told that I am selfish but as I look around I realize that these people who said that to me are nowhere near where I want to be. An in reality I wasn’t “selfish” in a bad way, I just liked to be by myself and have what I worked for to myself.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We have to give people a place of high importance, and be willing to sacrifice for others, but it also has to be balanced, and we also have to realize that some are jealous and don’t want to see others succeed. Good for you for rising above all that!! Keep it up! 😊🎉

    • @offensivearch
      @offensivearch 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I've never had a selfless person call me selfish. It is usually selfish and co-dependent (nice guy, covert selfish) types that call other people selfish.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@offensivearch
      That’s interesting! I find it’s usually the more selfless who recognize selfishness in others (just like people who are very kind and polite tend to really notice people who aren’t), but it can also just be from people as described above.

  • @briankimathi3060
    @briankimathi3060 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love his honesty n confessing he hasn't read the book.

  • @moozzzzz
    @moozzzzz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a great discussion. This is the first time I stumble upon your content and it won't be the last. Thank you

  • @NanaBARS
    @NanaBARS 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Absolutely love PBD! Thank God for strong men like you two and my husband as well!!🙏🏾💕

  • @sbalan007
    @sbalan007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best Ever thing I've heard on You Tube till date
    This is a conversation that each man MUST hear!
    I felt like my Father and Brother are teaching me Life!

  • @BirdDogRealEstate
    @BirdDogRealEstate 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Greatly appreciate this conversation! May it impact and influence all necessary 💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❇️❇️❇️

  • @mindtreasure5763
    @mindtreasure5763 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I love this part about choosing an enemy. My view resonates with the fact that you can't be your best until you find some one who you think may take your place if you ever slack. This kind of mindset keeps you on your toes thereby giving you enough reason not to become complacent in your growth

    • @whitefox8291
      @whitefox8291 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You could not have described it any better. Love it

    • @Tony-hs8sc
      @Tony-hs8sc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Read his book and other books. They are great reads and important. I think Patrick is one of the most influential people for men and young boys today. And you just subscribed to this podcast and I look forward to seeing more content cause this interview was really interesting

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But that sounds like living in fear, which is a terrible state of mind to be in. :( I’m not a man, but for me, there is so much freedom in trying my best and giving the rest to God. ❤

    • @mindtreasure5763
      @mindtreasure5763 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PeaceIsYeshua Men are competitive in nature. Most men will do anything to get into competition with other men. If they can do it alone, they tend to form groups. This is why it's very important to have something or someone that keeps reminding you that if you mess up, it will be over.
      The thing is that is how men have been able to create or make the world the way it is. I understand that we have created both the good and the bad.
      Men literally thrive where they can compete.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mindtreasure5763
      That is a great point!! Thank you for your input! I’m thankful for these types of men, and we desperately need more of them!

  • @RoosterRaw
    @RoosterRaw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Excellent video! Thoroughly enjoyed it. Some great gems of wisdom here. Thanks both!

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌

  • @HopingforPower
    @HopingforPower 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was definitely one of the most mind blowing videos I've ever watched... Patrick David is quite the gentleman. Thanks for doing this Tom.

  • @loripalumbo5559
    @loripalumbo5559 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is soooooo good 💯. Thank you Tom. Thank you Patrick. Respect 💪💥💖

  • @jadehoskins3363
    @jadehoskins3363 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Guy is dynamic you can tell he reads books

  • @aminblm
    @aminblm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm always amazed at how you let your guests shine, Tom! ✨🎧 #MasterOfTalk #ListenAndLearn

  • @jlcworld91
    @jlcworld91 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What you said, makes a lot of sense, it does. I'm after the most power and growing my family and making them powerful. The most common phrase I hear " it must be nice". My response "it must suck to have your mindset".
    Great discussion! Thanks.

  • @rgsauger
    @rgsauger 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    GREAT story about the drill sergeant and Alpha!!! We all need one (or more) of those guys when we are young. Mine was a little Italian name Len. Still thankful for him 35 yrs later

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊍㊊㊋㊏㊐

  • @jaystewart4823
    @jaystewart4823 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Absolute GOLD🔥 Thank you Tom & PBD⚡️

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊊㊍㊌㊐㊧

  • @danielboateng2475
    @danielboateng2475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So true. I haven’t heard selfish explained and broken down like this before

  • @davidkuria6463
    @davidkuria6463 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    FAITH is the main source of strength for any Man. It's important to pray, read the Book 📖 and align to high values.

    • @ozarkcyn1
      @ozarkcyn1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You might want to learn from Billy Carson as well as Tom and this man he's interviewing. You may be in for the shock of your life. BOTH Billy and Tom have HIGH values. MILLIONS of men are net positive to society. They don't pray or read one book to gain their wisdom BUT all of them believe in a HIGHER POWER greater than them.

    • @mindtreasure5763
      @mindtreasure5763 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Pray and read the Book? I believe you are talking about a Holy Book.
      Well said my friend. I am sure that we have a lot of people who do this in Africa, but the faith to really change things around our society seems to be weak.
      Growth is an essential part of strength to any man. The moment you understand the path in which you are expected to go in life, growing through your walk along that path is a direct source of strength.
      Faith will always be there. I can assure you.

    • @PeaceIsYeshua
      @PeaceIsYeshua 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@David, amen!!

  • @JHunkinator
    @JHunkinator 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love Love Love this episode!

  • @TheOddOddish
    @TheOddOddish 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The last part about the Im Proud of You segment was incredibly powerful! The age range Patrick said was on point to! Thanks for recording this!

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊐㊊㊧㊌㊧

  • @alexeimisalov5975
    @alexeimisalov5975 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My favorite and impactful do far!! Thank you Tom. Thank you Patrick.

  • @evanjames3011
    @evanjames3011 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great interview. Can't believe how quickly I breezed through this.

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊍㊊㊋㊏㊐

  • @rubidoobi111
    @rubidoobi111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Strong backbone, warm heart.

  • @TheSalesMatrix
    @TheSalesMatrix 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great conversation. Thanks guys!

  • @paramshah6376
    @paramshah6376 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “The minute you give up freedom for equality, you’ll have neither.” I don’t know who the quote is from. But it’s true.

  • @eliudhernandez4684
    @eliudhernandez4684 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great interview, I been following Mr. Pat for years, solid and consistent man. Great advice.

  • @Wisdom2Abundance
    @Wisdom2Abundance 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Truly an inspiration. Thank you

  • @lahi9.094
    @lahi9.094 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Patrick showcased deep insight, mainly through his adept use of complex statistics, like the striking opening stat. However, his discussion on interest rates, specifically the mention of a +8% rate, initially left me perplexed. He might be conflating this with bank lending rates. His hypothetical scenario involving Chairman Powell's actions in reducing rates from 8% to 6% further added to the confusion. Then his abrupt shift in focus to worker strikes left some of the discussion hanging, creating a sense of an incomplete narrative, and this is only one of three examples throughout this sitdown. While not intending to diminish his overall contribution, Patrick should heed his advice and explore the current Fed Fund Rate more closely to ensure clarity and coherence in his analysis. Again, my comment is not to troll because I thoroughly enjoyed his message for men. He's a man I will consider following. Choose your enemies wisely! #Soldier For Life

    • @henrytep8884
      @henrytep8884 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is funny how you can see the b.s. clearly and still respect the rizz instead of the obvious facts. The only thing important today is narrative, believing it, and adhering to it instead of actually getting rid of self deception and looking for truth and clarity.

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌

  • @pepimorel
    @pepimorel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, this is one of the best interviews I've seen. Period.

  • @S-u-r-e-n
    @S-u-r-e-n 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love fear respect. Thank you Pat. Thank you Tom!

  • @Kurtrussell_
    @Kurtrussell_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    THE GOAT, PBD! 🫡👑

  • @kellyfarmer246
    @kellyfarmer246 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic interview. Thank you both.

  • @darrenmcnulty429
    @darrenmcnulty429 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The podcast I was waiting for

    • @DanielFBest
      @DanielFBest 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s compelling

  • @virginiaholzer7358
    @virginiaholzer7358 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is very powerful conversation❤ thank you❤

  • @Wordsbywaters
    @Wordsbywaters 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your physics analogy to life resonates with me so well Tom. Powerful concept. The book “Life 3.0” solidified this for me.

  • @basicforge
    @basicforge 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a great interview. I think we are all a collage of different strengths and weaknesses. We should not demonize people who are not like us. We need each other. Do we need strong men? Yes. Do we need strong women? Yes. Do we need all kinds of people? YES!

  • @shayonsmith
    @shayonsmith 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love PBD!! One of the last bastions of manhood remaining. I cant wait to meet him

  • @quiropracticazen2333
    @quiropracticazen2333 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Suggested reading: "The Virtue of Selfishness" by Ayn Rand

  • @MATGO
    @MATGO 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great interview with such meaning!! Salute guys...

  • @ianbett3853
    @ianbett3853 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I LOVE YOU BOTH. THANK YOU BROTHERS! 🥰🥰

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊊㊍㊌㊐㊧

  • @user-zo6oc2dk7j
    @user-zo6oc2dk7j 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is fantastic!!!!!!

  • @ericm3872
    @ericm3872 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great interview!!

  • @MaisMikeKaribyan
    @MaisMikeKaribyan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful video thank you both

  • @jamesshelley8111
    @jamesshelley8111 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent session

  • @justintime477
    @justintime477 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enjoy so much thx

  • @YoungKingRKE
    @YoungKingRKE 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good stuff right here. Let every man you be informed that this is out

  • @yesidamaya1121
    @yesidamaya1121 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This has been the best podcast I have ever seen .

  • @mikeepp70
    @mikeepp70 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Actually Power vs Force was written by Dr David Hawkins. And it's interesting that he brings this up because I was thinking about that book while I was reading choose your enemies wisely..

  • @ruaningyholic
    @ruaningyholic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a great episode!

  • @321ghi
    @321ghi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very deep and powerful episode 🙌🏻

  • @user-vz7mr3fm1h
    @user-vz7mr3fm1h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great episode💪🏻🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

  • @biniyammarkos3852
    @biniyammarkos3852 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm always blown by how this man (tom bileyu) expresses his ideas❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Ben-qm9zq
    @Ben-qm9zq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Selfish/selfless content was powerful 👏

  • @manoftmrrw
    @manoftmrrw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man this was great!!!

  • @mattvanert1249
    @mattvanert1249 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great combo for a convo

  • @albertocantu1408
    @albertocantu1408 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really like the way PDB explains things, in a very detailed and articulated way, for what I understand the 70% selfish and 30% selfless, makes total sense, since that Selfish portion is needed to get things done, to take a company from point A to point B (mission and vision of a company), and the selfless portion stands for the companys values and principles that are the foundation of the company's culture...

  • @russdrake9657
    @russdrake9657 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the most thought producing conversations yet. @patrickbetdavid is a good guy.

  • @SuccessReset
    @SuccessReset 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🔥 interview

  • @littlespressurewashing
    @littlespressurewashing 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video

  • @DrugFoods
    @DrugFoods 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Meek defined as showing patience and humility, which are strengths.

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊍㊊㊋㊏㊐

  • @BritishRajinIndia
    @BritishRajinIndia 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is Fantastic!

  • @SorcererKingAinzOoalGown
    @SorcererKingAinzOoalGown 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So many golden nuggets in this one

  • @BayonleArashi
    @BayonleArashi 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    PBD is the man. Incredibly smart guy. Love it

  • @katesmckay
    @katesmckay 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you Tom for being a truth-teller and living courageous in all you do.
    I am a high performance coach and woman. I coach men to ignite them into their warriorship. I am deeply committed to help men claim their fierceness. I lost my son to suicide and brother to murder-they were both only 22. My why? We have no time to waste, I am a soldier to help men in this numbed out world speak their fire and claim their purpose to protect and serve. Honored to do what I do, in a world that fosters weakness.

  • @craigmartinez958
    @craigmartinez958 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great interview! 🥇

  • @jojon4272
    @jojon4272 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The second half of this interview was more than immaculate.

  • @narona
    @narona หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always believed that one of the strong reasons behind this is the fabric of our governing system / lack of protection, looking out for public’s best interest and care.

  • @TheLove1Makes
    @TheLove1Makes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome Thanks

  • @InnerWorkWithEvan
    @InnerWorkWithEvan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    FYI the book mentioned "Power vs. Force" is by David Hawkins if you're looking for it- not David Schwartz (who is also an author.)

    • @Tom_Bilye3
      @Tom_Bilye3 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ㄒE乂ㄒ𖧹ME±𝟭𝟮𝟭𝟮𝟯𝟰𝟳𝟬𝟳𝟴𝟲👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻💬💬㊏㊍㊋㊏㊌