5 Social Mistakes That Make You Extremely Unlikeable

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    A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing.
    Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it.
    ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
    0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation.
    1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell”
    4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself.
    7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter.
    9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly
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  • @khaoscero
    @khaoscero 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6169

    Feels like Hemsworth tries SO HARD to make it comfortable for everyone and he just can't catch a break.

    • @claudioortiz5830
      @claudioortiz5830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +303

      he's been trying all day and Brie thinks that's an attack, so they fight. she is a sociopath.

    • @MercurialIris
      @MercurialIris 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      Claudio Ortiz are you aware of the definition of “sociopath”?

    • @br9760
      @br9760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +305

      @@claudioortiz5830 Better term is, toxic. Or combative.

    • @claudioortiz5830
      @claudioortiz5830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@br9760 not for me

    • @calirooster411
      @calirooster411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A point break?

  • @lyricistrito
    @lyricistrito 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13711

    I feel really bad for chris h. in that interview because you can tell how he's trying to telepathically tell brie to calm down but she doesn't get it
    edit: this is the most likes ive ever gotten on a comment omds-

    • @khumanthemhelga7928
      @khumanthemhelga7928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1546

      Exactly. He's like 'Girl, for your own good, STOP'

    • @pin2peen972
      @pin2peen972 5 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Titi Hilda I'm the 666th liker, hail satan

    • @natsukilovestobake4427
      @natsukilovestobake4427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      bAkA Congrats dude! I saw the 666 likes :D

    • @frederickrueger7861
      @frederickrueger7861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +370

      What if she telepathically got it and just didn't want to.. who knows what went on between those two before..

    • @elgurideparana2796
      @elgurideparana2796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      @@frederickrueger7861 she became a feminist that happened

  • @redluna8865
    @redluna8865 ปีที่แล้ว +709

    1. Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation
    2. Sarcasm requires a "tell"
    3. You should not jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself
    4. You should not try to win every moment of banter
    5. Handling a compliment / conflict improperly

    • @Khoalinski69
      @Khoalinski69 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thank you

    • @angeldemonica9087
      @angeldemonica9087 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Those are the points they tried to make. Idk if they all really applied here- I’m not convinced. But it’s great advice all the same 😅

    • @WeartheGoodSocks
      @WeartheGoodSocks 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It's really good. Now I can finally articulate why one coworker gets on my nerves sometimes although we get along great, in general. She does #3 quite a lot, turning any casual conversation into a competition. Or if we're in a meeting and the group praises me for something, she immediately tries to turn attention back to herself. Blegh.

    • @gingerisevil02
      @gingerisevil02 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks saved me time

    • @mooshway2000
      @mooshway2000 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      In psychiatry we call number 1 'hostile attribution bias'.

  • @3Xero3
    @3Xero3 ปีที่แล้ว +906

    I didn't quite understand why everybody didn't like her till watching this, and now it makes SO MUCH SENSE.

    • @nomoskarramin637
      @nomoskarramin637 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      For one, her character felt like a token character. Came outta nowhere, and somehow OP than others. And second, her acting felt mediocre at best. Endgame would've been better if they defeated the villain without a "new powerful ally".

    • @FreedomAndJustice4All
      @FreedomAndJustice4All 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Idk much about this lady but just bc said she did her own stunts bc she "thought that's what everyone did", that wasn't praising herself at all. In fact I believe assuming she was gloating is assuming negative intent.

    • @nomanejane5766
      @nomanejane5766 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@nomoskarramin637so u didn't like the movie, so u take it out on the actor? 🤡

    • @ramonew7815
      @ramonew7815 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Hate tends to make people defensive, which then feeds itself when you're interpreting ambiguous situations in a negative way. Couple with the fact that you have someone (in this case, Don Cheadle) actually being hostile and to her it probably justifies her defensiveness. Then someone like Chris who seemingly has it all is being somewhat patronizing but fairly sincere on the other side. Not defending her actions really, but there are reasons to everything.

    • @ramonew7815
      @ramonew7815 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@FreedomAndJustice4All true, but that's what most people are going to conclude since Chris was actively putting himself down to give praise to his stunt doubles, and Brie challenged him on the whole notion.

  • @BeChickaboom
    @BeChickaboom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24807

    It's cringy because it's like watching yourself at your worst.

    • @wtfmario
      @wtfmario 4 ปีที่แล้ว +553

      Feels, especially when you watch drunk videos of yourself

    • @krixpop
      @krixpop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      me at my worst i'm 10 times better than that overentitled B**** ! ! !

    • @wtfmario
      @wtfmario 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      krix pop I would still smash though

    • @krixpop
      @krixpop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      @@wtfmario
      I don't know mate : to each its own ...
      I would run.
      The amount of nagging, judgment, etc, from her, would silence even an Apostle of Christ. And really: have you seen her a**, I've heard she used a double for that too , lmao !
      She is a very troubled person that will project her insecurities, shortcomings (etc) on the person most close to her (a man, that is) and literally f***up his life.
      edit: Stay away from crazy !!!

    • @stopbeinginsecure4786
      @stopbeinginsecure4786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      BeChickaboom YESSS

  • @SeanLunny
    @SeanLunny 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14093

    Constantly redirecting the conversation on yourself makes people not want to talk to you.

    • @djoakeydoakey1076
      @djoakeydoakey1076 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I knew a guy that had an anecdote for fuckkking eveerrryytthingggg. Always had to have a fucking story, jesus.

    • @freeman7297
      @freeman7297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Fr

    • @jimmysgirl1029
      @jimmysgirl1029 5 ปีที่แล้ว +238

      I want this quote as wall decor at my house

    • @SunflowersAreCute
      @SunflowersAreCute 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      i’m not gonna say any names but meghan mccain knows who she is

    • @solomonelijah
      @solomonelijah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      OMG THISS

  • @kr3642
    @kr3642 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    I hate how complicated human interaction is.

    • @Anwelei
      @Anwelei 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      SAME HERE! I have always been so lost interacting with people.

    • @HankTheTank23
      @HankTheTank23 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Life would be kind of boring if it was simple.

    • @cahidijoyoraharjo7833
      @cahidijoyoraharjo7833 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@HankTheTank23 True, it would feel like talking to robots.

    • @vice2versa
      @vice2versa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@HankTheTank23 maybe to you but to other people who arent as fortunate as you seem to be it would make gor less painful social interactions.

    • @HankTheTank23
      @HankTheTank23 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@vice2versa I apologize if I came across as being insensitive to those who struggle with social interactions. That was not at all my intention. I enjoy talking to people, but I frequently find myself in situations where I don’t know what to say or do. That’s part of learning, growing up, and what makes life fun. From my perspective, if you could reliably predict exactly how someone would react to everything you said or did, life would be pretty boring. Nothing would be funny, and there would be no such thing as suspense or mystery. There’s a reason why (until perhaps recently with the advent of ChatGPT) automated chat bots have never been a substitute for real human connection and conversation. That’s just my perspective, but I understand where you are coming from.

  • @AryBerry85
    @AryBerry85 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    I know of somebody like Brie. God, it's exhausting and drains my energy just having a conversation with her. I would compliment her works and she is triggered for no apparent reason. As the conversation goes on, it almost feels like I was walking on eggshells. She thinks every single thing I say is like a personal attack on her. I wish to never have any conversations with her anymore. I'm tired.

    • @mielthesquid6536
      @mielthesquid6536 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      leave, far away

    • @leiea2000
      @leiea2000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      I know someone like this and she is exhausting too. I have minimized my interactions with her over time. Her insecurities are pretty obvious when you engage her and she comes across like a victim most times. I have complimented her before and she actually negated and shot down the whole compliment. She does exactly what this video suggests NOT to do.

    • @beauli5011
      @beauli5011 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      this could be a sign of depression. When I start seeing ill intent in people's comments I know my mental health needs attention

    • @LethalByChoice
      @LethalByChoice 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      It really is exhausting and its no wonder why her co-stars don't like her. Brie Larson can't handle fame very well and its obvious that she isn't very well socialized.

    • @jeremy4375
      @jeremy4375 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      She reminds me of that female terminator from Sarah Connor Chronicles.
      Like, she's been sent back through time to singlehandedly destroy all that was fun...

  • @bplup6419
    @bplup6419 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14943

    "Be like Chris"
    "Evans, Hemsworth or Pratt?"
    "Yes."

    • @maddie10173
      @maddie10173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +313

      Or Pine;)

    • @megadeth1818
      @megadeth1818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      "Chan"

    • @steveduvell907
      @steveduvell907 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@megadeth1818 No... Please no. One is enough

    • @smitemus
      @smitemus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Redfield. The biggest Chris.

    • @Robdee999
      @Robdee999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Benoit?

  • @youraverageguy4930
    @youraverageguy4930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122232

    Why do I watch these videos as if I'm some kind of alien trying to assimilate into human culture?

    • @MeowPictures
      @MeowPictures 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1469

      LOL

    • @metasprite5648
      @metasprite5648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3255

      Or an AI trying to understand human kind

    • @mark0183
      @mark0183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3536

      So you become a likeable alien

    • @skyz3ra
      @skyz3ra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +580

      It's to understand psychology in x context

    • @jacobreid7077
      @jacobreid7077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +719

      Hello fellow humanoid’s

  • @anbay3213
    @anbay3213 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    The older I get, the more grateful I am that I grew up with a family who made sure I knew how to be kind and understanding in all social situations. This video really made me have so much more appreciation for Hemsworth and Pratt because it really highlighted their kindness, even in scenarios when I would had been bothered.
    Thank you for the video!

  • @polderpaul1672
    @polderpaul1672 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I think most of us do not do any of things Brie does when we are happy and confident, and in our element. Problems begin when we are anxious and trying to be someone that we aren't.

  • @edennis8578
    @edennis8578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4787

    I've met people who read an insult into everything. It must be hell living inside their heads.

    • @artygunnar
      @artygunnar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      it is, they need help

    • @darrylgibson3575
      @darrylgibson3575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      What about inside our heads when dealing with someone like that ?

    • @krableja2517
      @krableja2517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +339

      It is, the thing is those people probably had someone who was real close to them who would always criticize them for everything which makes it natural for them to see everything as an attack on them.

    • @mogaman28
      @mogaman28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yeah, feminism does that to people.

    • @glitterdragon9197
      @glitterdragon9197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      It could be bc they’ve had so many people give them backhanded compliments in the past. I used to be like Brie, rude defensive and bitchy bc I used to have childhood “friends” that would lowkey mock me so I became tense

  • @lauradurango9752
    @lauradurango9752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7546

    Brie Larson when someone asks for an autograph:
    Do you want to fake my signature or something?

  • @Bunbunfunfun
    @Bunbunfunfun ปีที่แล้ว +323

    So happy I found this channel. One of the things that truly separates successful people from non successful people is all about social interactions. The master of social interaction will advance above more qualified people every time.

    • @EdgeSanityGaming
      @EdgeSanityGaming ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Sadly, that's true.

    • @milliesaysokboomer
      @milliesaysokboomer ปีที่แล้ว +12

      this is only true when everyone is in the same social class

    • @Rog.Tiks._
      @Rog.Tiks._ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I respect your opinion but, out of curiosity, why is that fact SAD to you?

    • @dazzle4708
      @dazzle4708 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@Rog.Tiks._If you have a stroke, do you want to be attended by the doc who can make the boss chuckle, or the one who was top of his Harvard med class?

    • @j3nnacat
      @j3nnacat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely not always true. This is also a very abliest way to look at this. People who are neurodivergent (autism especially) are usually VERY bad at reading social cues but people with autism can still be successful. You don’t have to be charismatic to be successful

  • @emiquintana509
    @emiquintana509 ปีที่แล้ว +418

    She comes off SO insecure. There's a point where you can be insecure while still being able to interact with others without projecting, however, all she seems to be doing is victimizing herself, and roping others into feeding her insecurity. It's not only her as a person, it comes out in her characters as well, especially Captain Marvel.

    • @aishaalamoudi599
      @aishaalamoudi599 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      She's an Oscar Winner, the only woman leading her own action film making over a billion.... she cleared the mantel very early on. She's not the one whos insecure. what interests me is how depressing is it to live in a world were the so called men in our society get hurt so deeply by Brie Larson's words that one time, and continue to this day bitching and moaning about it..... here it is, the men crisis; bitching about this to no end. A real man wouldn't care....this video and the response to it perfectly captures my point.

    • @420rollinup3
      @420rollinup3 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      ​@@aishaalamoudi599hold this L

    • @avril.227
      @avril.227 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      @@aishaalamoudi599 What?? Are we watching the same video? I like almost everyone at first but she is unfortunately very off putting.

    • @sathira_anuk5179
      @sathira_anuk5179 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@aishaalamoudi599nah she's terrible 😅

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aishaalamoudi599Come on she’s just doing too much. There’s thousands of leading ladies who are extremely charismatic

  • @Solar-em2ld
    @Solar-em2ld 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2561

    *Alternative title for this video:* dude on youtube makes me regret every conversation I've ever had

    • @sen7826
      @sen7826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Then you're such a mess.
      (sorry, I had to)

    • @frankmiller1391
      @frankmiller1391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      a mess 😂

    • @marianagoulart196
      @marianagoulart196 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Here I'm trying to remember every interaction I had in the last party I went to discover how much of a jerk I was 😂

    • @_Gabyo_
      @_Gabyo_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I swear the points about sarcasm and not accepting compliments is me.
      (I guess the point about calling attention to myself also works here)

    • @nicolemartinez6440
      @nicolemartinez6440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Gabyo Relatable. XD *laughs and proceeds to ugly cry* :’)

  • @aidenaberration6740
    @aidenaberration6740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28227

    I feel like a sim gaining a charisma skill after watching this

  • @PureBlackNiltiac
    @PureBlackNiltiac ปีที่แล้ว +468

    I'd say that she is deeply insecure. The reason she did so well with Craig's interviews, I think, is because he is so charismatic himself and was always charming to his guests. His aim i think was to make them feel as comfortable and secure as possible, relaxing them and getting them to drop their defences, buttering them up a bit, thus getting the very best interviews out of them. It really shows in his awesome interview with Harrison Ford.

    • @mikerandom1959
      @mikerandom1959 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @mikerandom1959
      @mikerandom1959 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

    • @mikerandom1959
      @mikerandom1959 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I've noticed this channel only talks about how men have charisma, i mean use women's example too? You mostly show bad examples of them. And why tf is everything supposed to be about how to become a chick magnet? In this vid, unfortunately Chris hemsworth was in the wrong, not brie as much. He interrupts her as she tries to complete what she wanted to say and then insults her…pretty biased of you

    • @jamesbrice6619
      @jamesbrice6619 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mikerandom1959 she's a c..t🤣😅😆😂

    • @Commander_Shepard.
      @Commander_Shepard. ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ​@@mikerandom1959 lol

  • @MastaChafa
    @MastaChafa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    "If a literal interpretation of your sarcasm would make you look like a jerk, try again" is great advise

  • @memebot5216
    @memebot5216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19036

    The best thing about Chris Hemsworth is that he isn't even mad that Brie is attacking him, he only gets mad when she attacks other people

    • @enayatchoudhury5431
      @enayatchoudhury5431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +931

      He's such a good man

    • @wrestlinganime4life288
      @wrestlinganime4life288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      God of Thunder

    • @lindai6988
      @lindai6988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      Brie wasn't attacking Chris lol. Do you Americans not know what banter is?

    • @darthvader566
      @darthvader566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

      @@lindai6988 most don't, they get offended over everything

    • @lindai6988
      @lindai6988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Darth Vader it seems so

  • @milanpenk9537
    @milanpenk9537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6884

    she is trying to be funny but ends up being rude.. classic mistake of insecure ppl

    • @AverageAlien
      @AverageAlien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      either that or americans don't understand sarcasm

    • @cliffordbenenati7373
      @cliffordbenenati7373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@AverageAlien I'm american, I understand it perfectly, and love it 😂

    • @peterparameter1125
      @peterparameter1125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Maybe, but no reason for all the incel hate

    • @jkad1363
      @jkad1363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@cliffordbenenati7373 no you're not American and you don't understand sarcasm,.. 🙌👏Boom bruned💥

    • @cliffordbenenati7373
      @cliffordbenenati7373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@jkad1363
      "I'm american and understand sarcasm"
      "No you don't"
      Sounds like a meme lmbo

  • @jollypoco2899
    @jollypoco2899 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Simply put, don't let your emotions take over everytime, learn to sit back and enjoy the show until it's your time to perform, clap for others and clap for yourself.

    • @JimDandy-rn4vd
      @JimDandy-rn4vd 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's called passive aggression .

    • @jollypoco2899
      @jollypoco2899 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@JimDandy-rn4vd thnx man didn't know that, vocab updated

    • @JimDandy-rn4vd
      @JimDandy-rn4vd 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jollypoco2899 You be welcome

  • @seanfarley8586
    @seanfarley8586 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    This is why it's so important to understand that someone's perception of you is a reflection of them. Someone that chooses not to like you is the same thing as someone thinking they are better than you. That person probably has little to no self awareness, and will go through their life believing that they don't have any flaws. Which ultimately means they will go thorough life not understanding that they are self sabotaging all of their relationships. And instead of considering that they are part of their own misery, they will consistently place all of the blame for their own failures on other people.

    • @SGWV
      @SGWV ปีที่แล้ว +13

      this comment is a hot-take meta response lmao. it's not only a criticism of the actress, but it's a criticism of the public response to her, the interviews after the fact, this TH-cam video itself ("5 Awful Habits That Make People Think You’re Low Status"... bruh), and all the commenters who are convinced they're "higher status" - well done 👍

    • @hanswoast7
      @hanswoast7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Good point. That is a great description. I think this can be seen as being insecure, delusional and denying/projecting your (usually negative) feelings to others. Reminds me a lot of emotionally immature / narcissistic people which are often feeling insecure but want to hide it.

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This perfectly describes the vulnerable narcissist (as opposed to the other type, the grandiose narcissist)- it's the eternal journey to victimhood.
      Nothing, I mean NOTHING is ever their fault even though they self-sabotoge their entire life in every aspect either through inaction or action.
      Another really obvious thing they all do is project something they are doing as they accuse you or some glaring character flaw they have. For example, if they are demanding something (money, a favor, stuff) and you refuse, they will to accuse you of being selfish. It's such a cliche that it's like that Reddit list of phrases a cheater uses when caught.
      These folks are often twice, thrice divorced and all their exes are "crazy' and/or "evil". It never occurs to them that the common denominator in all of the failed marriages was them.
      They also have burned every conceivable bridge on their personal life with friends and family and end up alone and bitter because "everyone has abandoned them" (it never occurs to them why- even though they have been told over and over again why). This is why it's a red flag when you meet a seemingly nice and normal person who offhandedly (and sometimes repeatedly) mentions that everyone always leaves them/all their friends left.
      ✅ Low contact/no contact adult kids.
      ✅No friends.
      ✅Colleagues who despise and tolerate them.
      ✅Unfortunate subordinates that acquire a life-time of trauma from them.
      ✅Neighbors that barely tolerate them due to them using the local police to intimidate/harass/control.
      They often are the fuel of juicy gossip of the "nasty old man" or "crazy old lady" of the neighborhood in their old age.
      They tend (not always, but there is a pattern) to become hoarders (junk and/or animals)- this is due to their perceived abandonment issues. They die alone, surrounded by piles of crap, and their family reluctantly deals with their funeral/possessions/residence.

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The faux superiority always baffles me. One thing I do is when they are on a roll, I ask them where and who gave them their sense of superiority. I repeat it in honest bafflement. And then if they have an answer (they always do), have them break down what EXACTLY they have accomplished (not not accidental birth to the right race, class, genetic appearance, region, culture). It's always nothing. This shakes them up and they get really, REALLY defensive.
      This makes them hate you but you lose nothing here. Sleep easy.

    • @MElixirDNB
      @MElixirDNB ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol, no it's that brie is unlikeable because of her attitude, it is not a reflection of the ppl disliking her at all.

  • @carazy123_
    @carazy123_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5386

    The titles look like clickbait, but they aren’t
    What sorcery is this

    • @jadenn.hernandez7784
      @jadenn.hernandez7784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Carazy123 m a g i c

    • @ShinyPotato77
      @ShinyPotato77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This is Clickbait,but its the good clickbait cuz it delivers

    • @iyankku
      @iyankku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's what I appreciate about the channel, it feels like he actually cares y'know!

    • @FreakyFeline88
      @FreakyFeline88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know right haha

    • @SuperIvysaur
      @SuperIvysaur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "is that like a personal attack or something?"

  • @liligonzales6534
    @liligonzales6534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17994

    damn im gonna come out of quarantine with a whole new personality

    • @feedstacker
      @feedstacker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      LOL

    • @kala-adaidakariopusunju6809
      @kala-adaidakariopusunju6809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      @@feedstacker lol you been binge watching Charisma on Command?

    • @SNTMLI
      @SNTMLI 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      as you should

    • @liii3622
      @liii3622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      and a pshycology degree

    • @x0aei
      @x0aei 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@liii3622 INDEED HSHHS

  • @atroyz
    @atroyz ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This seems like a list of manners/politeness/etiquette that most kids (should) get from their parents, but maybe not everyone gets the same set of instructions. Glad this video is here to fill in those gaps.

    • @zakosist
      @zakosist 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think in modern times there is often not enough time spend together between child and parent. Both parents work and it could be long hours just to get by (that can be the fault of the workplace not paying enough or demanding overtime), in addition children go to kindergarten as toddlers, and then spend a lot of time at school when they get a bit older (education is important, but many things about it could improve), and when kids get home they have to do homework. And the parents may be too exhausted from work in the short time they spend at home. Modern technology also worsens the problem, its easy to just give the kids a smartphone or similar to play on and not give them much direct attention. Kids getting addicted to that technology only worsens the problem again.

  • @stephanledford9792
    @stephanledford9792 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I dropped sarcasm completely from my communications with others, even though I mentally still think of sarcastic things. Nothing positive comes from sarcasm and it is too easily identified as just "meanness".

  • @aria_chatt
    @aria_chatt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4156

    She was straight up rude in the interview with Chris hemsworth

    • @Pinkielover
      @Pinkielover 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      lol shes rude period.... even war machine dislikes her

    • @btCharlie_
      @btCharlie_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I liked her in Scott Pilgrim, but her takes and composure seem really off since she got with Marvel. Perhaps she was hired as a sort tool for Marvel to show they empower women too? Idk if that's even plausible.

    • @_Chad_ThunderCock
      @_Chad_ThunderCock 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Can marvel just replace brie Larson. I just think she causes too much drama. I would be better and most people wouldn't mind the change(If they even notice lol)

    • @IvoryMane
      @IvoryMane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Pobrecita maybe she wants to stand out in this sea of famous people by playing quirky but she comes off as too serious and high strung...

    • @taurusdragon4763
      @taurusdragon4763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      I agree with you. I think just because Marvel chose her to represent women's power, she thinks she's special or something. Hemsworth was trying to rescue the interview, but she's just too good at destroying it

  • @originalblob
    @originalblob 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10579

    The whole interaction with Chris Hemsworth about stunts and strength is so cringey.

    • @snoox27
      @snoox27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +578

      Feminism ruins women

    • @WhatJuliaLoves
      @WhatJuliaLoves 4 ปีที่แล้ว +382

      I just recently read this online: Because I‘m a feminist, people often ask me, if I hate men and I answer that it’s the opposite - because I‘m a feminist men hate me ^^

    • @Eduardo14698
      @Eduardo14698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +362

      @@WhatJuliaLoves Well, if man(in general)hate feminism there is a reason why, its a good idea to try to understand our side as well. Maybe man hate feminism because the movement dont care about man and only wants to put women on top of us and not on the same level.

    • @yungamurai
      @yungamurai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +369

      @@WhatJuliaLoves If you're not a nagging, insufferable man-hating feminist then it's fine but if you're the kind like Brie where you read offense into everything and project your gaping inferiority complex into all aspects of life, yeah I probably would hate you.

    • @lordofebony816
      @lordofebony816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      B 27
      Emoji man bad.

  • @havestrength5802
    @havestrength5802 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    be yourself. trying to be anything else is usually a fail. some people are over the top, some people are shy. love people for how unique they are.

    • @damenation
      @damenation 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How if people don’t like you when you are yourself

  • @ed.z.
    @ed.z. ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I I could could time travel back 50 years I’d take this video back with me. Such great insights for self improvement.Much thanks.

  • @aminthemar
    @aminthemar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5869

    How not to be Brie Larson: Stop acting like you're better than everyone while you're trying to be funny. No one likes that.

    • @KerioFive
      @KerioFive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      aminthemar I thought thats how you get people to like you? 😒🙃

    • @Matthew-ob7vb
      @Matthew-ob7vb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Right she's not perfect for LA

    • @kikilocket
      @kikilocket 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      aminthemar unless your name is RDJ

    • @AnonYMouse-ky4sg
      @AnonYMouse-ky4sg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      K S Yeah a lot of people can get away with that kind of sarcasm, but it doesn’t work when people are being primed to dislike you already as they will just take it as you being serious.

    • @reevewitherington4759
      @reevewitherington4759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      aminthemar just realised I do this thx 👍

  • @PronkDaMonk
    @PronkDaMonk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7526

    Don Cheadle is just sitting there like "please end this I just wanna go home"

    • @kaligisee
      @kaligisee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Priyank Bhatia lmao and their characters are supposed to get all lovey dovey pretty soon

    • @kingmuizz708
      @kingmuizz708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol

    • @kingmuizz708
      @kingmuizz708 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kaligisee ifkr😂

    • @Jay_Script
      @Jay_Script 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Imagine when they have to kiss? Imagine the passion that will go into it 😂

    • @LarissaCerqueira
      @LarissaCerqueira 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      After doing like 62362783624 interviews, of course he is, who wouldn't?

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    One thing I've noticed about popular, successful people is that they rarely if ever seem to be triggered in public anyway. My guess is they either had stable, loving childhoods or have done trauma work. If you have unresolved trauma certain social things can be massively distressing and will trigger a trauma response, which most people won't understand and will interpret negatively. Brie seems either triggered from past put downs/abuse/bullying or she's trying to be funny and it's falling flat.

    • @MsMckenzie2011
      @MsMckenzie2011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yep!

    • @TheMockingjay74
      @TheMockingjay74 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This hits different 💀

    • @ukbloke28
      @ukbloke28 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some of them are trained to deal with it, depending on the profession. Also another way to look at it is maybe some of them are successful and popular BECAUSE they don't get triggered.

  • @Athena0236
    @Athena0236 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I find the fifth point especially interesting from a cultural perspective. In some cultures people tend not to accept compliments because they are educated to “stay humble” or even to deny compliments. A typical (yet unfortunate) example is when someone praises a child for his/her academic achievements, parents brush it off as the child “just being lucky”

    • @Laf631
      @Laf631 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The example in the video isn't her downplaying a compliment, though; it's her using it as another opportunity to keep the "fight" with Chris going. She says "that's really nice, I'm still stronger than you though." If she had said "that's really nice, but I think you're exaggerating" or something like your example, it would have read completely differently.

  • @mariannahunny
    @mariannahunny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5017

    Brie sounds like she is always on defense mode.

    • @chunkbaby7544
      @chunkbaby7544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +265

      Famous rich feminist actor. The title explains it all

    • @kennapersonal
      @kennapersonal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True

    • @kweku282
      @kweku282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      TRUE

    • @kweku282
      @kweku282 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@chunkbaby7544 EVEN TRUER

    • @pukljica
      @pukljica 4 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Yeah true..maybe she grew up in codependency with borderline parents wich makes her defende her self all the time even now idk its hard to be around people that takes everything so personal!

  • @samuelf7163
    @samuelf7163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3586

    Gosh, I feel bad for Chris. Just look at his face. He's just trying to save the interview whilst she thinks it's a competition

    • @leeniraukola5168
      @leeniraukola5168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Samuel F Exactly what I thought

    • @gabreiliusgen4519
      @gabreiliusgen4519 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      which Chris?

    • @irvanwiguna7415
      @irvanwiguna7415 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@gabreiliusgen4519 yes

    • @BabeRuthXX
      @BabeRuthXX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      Ikr and he's not the most outgoing or talkative of the cast so I can't imagine how awkward he must have felt trying to put out that garbage fire :/

    • @samuelf7163
      @samuelf7163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gabreiliusgen4519 maybe Chris Hemsworth but idk

  • @geronimomiles312
    @geronimomiles312 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Social grace often competes with truth ... And folks may find themselves in a dilemma as to which is their higher calling.
    The blended situation of presenting herself , both, as she is , and yet still being on a stage at the same time may be awkward.
    To find out how any of these folks are , is a thing which really needs to be seen in person off screen.

    • @procrastnwriter
      @procrastnwriter หลายเดือนก่อน

      What a great way to explain it.

  • @leysin456
    @leysin456 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is EXCELLENT. Wow I love this. Such a powerful analysis and clever. And not over judgy, just good.

  • @mi_na0013
    @mi_na0013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17033

    She protecc
    She attacc
    But most importantly
    She thinks it's a personal attacc

    • @rithikachhetri9638
      @rithikachhetri9638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      😂

    • @WingsofStarlight
      @WingsofStarlight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I appreciate this XD

    • @rithikachhetri9638
      @rithikachhetri9638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @The Name Is Evian Heyy ✋can u pls reply dat why she is hated so much as captain marvel? ( she is strongest avenger) 【because I dont know much abt marvel】

    • @RagingRavioli22
      @RagingRavioli22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@rithikachhetri9638 I'm sorry, I kind of had a stroke reading that. Are you asking about why people don't like her as Captain Marvel or how people just dont like her?

    • @mt-zf6xp
      @mt-zf6xp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      She protecc
      She atacc
      But most importantly
      She catch lots of flacc

  • @andersbillington6
    @andersbillington6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21162

    *Brie Larson watches this video*
    "Is this like a personal attack or something?"

    • @jackalope2302
      @jackalope2302 5 ปีที่แล้ว +277

      Depends Larson. What us old folks used to call "constructive criticism" is often interpreted as personal attacks. Its funny how much more charming she used to be.

    • @marcoglara2012
      @marcoglara2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Anders Moe Billington
      “Yes... yes it is Brie. Everyone doesn’t like you.”

    • @mynamefrank6567
      @mynamefrank6567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@marcoglara2012 That's badly worded, "Nobody likes you" works better, just helping

    • @PedroARCruz
      @PedroARCruz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Marco lara “Is this like a personal attack or something?”

    • @LuckySmurf
      @LuckySmurf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@jackalope2302 Well when some of the constructive criticism consists of just "I hate Brie Larson and here's why..." then yeah, it's easy to see why people might view it as a personal attack.
      But not this video though.

  • @MrSzymonurai
    @MrSzymonurai 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    These videos are incredibly useful. This helps people who never get to practice their social skilss

  • @andymelendez9757
    @andymelendez9757 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I appreciate this. I was in a sticky situation at work (that didn’t involve me) where I thought a male coworker was being rude to a female coworker. She had voiced her displeasure at his remarks. I thought he was harassing her. Turned out the real dynamic between them was totally different. Who knew. It’s all about context apparently?

    • @oldtimer5316
      @oldtimer5316 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Slow your role, Cap't Save-a-Hoe.
      Stop simping, nerd. You might just save yourself a beating.

  • @balighy1472
    @balighy1472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2880

    Thanks now im gonna overthink every social interaction I have even more

    • @missbrooke666
      @missbrooke666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      balighy IKR?! I often overthink my overthinking 😳

    • @richardbottom9843
      @richardbottom9843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      just always think that people you interact with like you so you won't go defensive and the assholes will expose themselves soon enough anyways

    • @zeeshansyed511
      @zeeshansyed511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@richardbottom9843 That's actually a really good tip, dude.

    • @sita487
      @sita487 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      no need for that

    • @rosegold-beats
      @rosegold-beats 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never think, go with the flow, you'll learn from your faillures

  • @selfimprovement463
    @selfimprovement463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16884

    I think she has low self-esteem and may feel like everyone is always attacking her. Her responses definitely seem defensive.

    • @andrewgust-anderson5612
      @andrewgust-anderson5612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Never speak to me again on the Paris consulship AS LONG AS YOU LIVE

    • @scarlettelisabeth5644
      @scarlettelisabeth5644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +599

      I’m sure it also comes from years of acting a facing constant criticism weather it’s your looks, what you where, what your opinions are. If people are always judging you it’s easy to understand how someone could develop poor self esteem

    • @fexbio
      @fexbio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +383

      I think she let that "women are oppressed" stuff enter her head. This kind of thing makes one very defensive.

    • @offminus3911
      @offminus3911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Jordan Peterson has addressed multiple times that there is no such thing as self-esteem. It's something particular that she isn't happy about that she takes everywhere, whether it be a thought or a physical/emotional insecurity.

    • @JanieBee
      @JanieBee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Especially since everyone always is attacking her

  • @steelmadness2903
    @steelmadness2903 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m not good at aspects of my job, and yet I keep advancing and the higher ups tell me how much they like me and how well I get along with my supervisors and peers.

  • @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj
    @AshleyWilliams-xq7lj ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What works for me is flat delivery with a smile at the end. People look over at me with confusion because I'm not sarcastic often, then they see the smile on my face and laugh.

  • @tylerdarroch5512
    @tylerdarroch5512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9356

    The worst part is that Chris gives her so many opportunities to correct herself and she fails to grab hold of any of them

    • @ImDrizzt
      @ImDrizzt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +427

      It's strange that she's struggling with stuff like this, because in the movies I think she is playing her part really well. So she clearly knows how to act, hmmm

    • @alenciaga21
      @alenciaga21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +842

      @@ImDrizzt maybe she doesn't know how to REact

    • @violet-trash
      @violet-trash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      It's like throwing an olive branch into a fire.

    • @ahnrho
      @ahnrho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Agreed. It was very noticeable.

    • @illarionbykov7401
      @illarionbykov7401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@ImDrizzt what part has she ever played well, in your opinion?

  • @razibbaraljoy9978
    @razibbaraljoy9978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12597

    Thanos has more supporters than Captain Marvel.

    • @visionist7
      @visionist7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +688

      Thanos has actual charisma

    • @aspennnnnnnn
      @aspennnnnnnn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +424

      Thanos probably has more supporters than most characters in the MCU, honestly. He's hard not to love.

    • @micanikko
      @micanikko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +265

      I actually was supporting Thanos during her fight with him

    • @murphie_4559
      @murphie_4559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Razib Baral JOY I hated captain marvel tbh

    • @mai.vancon
      @mai.vancon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Because society loves whether you are good or evil. They hate awkward.

  • @tessapuccini9788
    @tessapuccini9788 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Reading positive intent in an ambiguous situation - Sarcasm requires a 'tell- You should not call into every opportunity to draw attention to yourself - You should not try to win over each moment or banter - Handling a complement (with humor), playfully with humor. Sincere thanking the other person ❤

    • @mikemick7543
      @mikemick7543 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

    • @mikemick7543
      @mikemick7543 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @mikemick7543
      @mikemick7543 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @kinderkarr
      @kinderkarr ปีที่แล้ว

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

  • @tunnasch
    @tunnasch 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Oh my gosh. Where were you before I developed all my terrible habits?! You are SO RIGHT! I can do better now for the rest of my life after watching your channel! ❤

    • @davisantos5672
      @davisantos5672 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just reminding you to check on it again(like myself)

  • @chewingpeppers
    @chewingpeppers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2837

    The sad thing is that you can actually see how insecure she feels the whole time... otherwise, there would be no need for all of those weird actions. Hope that she can grow comfortable into her own skin, I'm sure that she can be great if she deactivates her defensive mode!

    • @bug5460
      @bug5460 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Yeah, I feel like she’s just masking her insecurities in this whole “I’m so confident and amazing” act. I really hope she finds out who she is instead of faking it :,((

    • @randybobandy678
      @randybobandy678 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Shes just self absorbed

    • @kledi3817
      @kledi3817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@randybobandy678 she's really not, she said herself that she has a lot of anxiety all the time and is really socially awkward and you can definitely see that

    • @CriticalHater
      @CriticalHater 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey You a public figure will be judged regardless.

    • @metanoia3438
      @metanoia3438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Overlord Supreme so public figures aren’t people too?

  • @aradhyasaraf_
    @aradhyasaraf_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2658

    *gets this in my recommendations*
    Me: Is this like, a personal attack or something?

    • @aradhyasaraf_
      @aradhyasaraf_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @decembrist Yes!!! 😂😂

    • @mangot589
      @mangot589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😄

    • @KeilyHD
      @KeilyHD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I got this video & one almost identical under it😂 I felt kinda attacked but with my yt history...I understand 😭.

    • @SoulTouchMusic93
      @SoulTouchMusic93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Karen thinks you'd like this"

    • @jralph920
      @jralph920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that made me actually lol

  • @aymane974
    @aymane974 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Having a conversation after watching these videos feels like a chess game 😂

    • @bartsimpson8330
      @bartsimpson8330 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s not it’s just you overthinking it. 1. Someone comments you negative way then respond positive 2. Stay humble by making a joke about yourself at times. 3. Don’t take things too serious

  • @AA-yc3cc
    @AA-yc3cc ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I always assumed Brie had been sarcastic and joking in all these interviews because I have the same sense of humor as hers. I was really surprised when people viewed it maliciously. It's the same way I'm sarcastic to an extent where you're just saying silly over the top things. It was a technique to make an uncomfortable situation more comfortable. But I used to make people feel awkward as well not realizing they weren't picking up on my jokes. I've since realized this and only go to this level of sarcasm with people I'm comfortable and closer with. People are more likely to assume negative intent with sarcasm even if you never mean it that way.

    • @yunawinx
      @yunawinx ปีที่แล้ว +17

      i mean i’m one of the most sarcastic people and i could hardly tell if she was being serious or not because her tone not body language doesn’t change which is the point of sarcasm😭 otherwise u get someone who seems defensive

    • @milliesaysokboomer
      @milliesaysokboomer ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think it's the delivery of the sarcastic joke. I have the same problem. I have a personality that comes off as serious or quiet, and this bleeds into my sarcasm as well. it all really depends on what people already think of you.

    • @aquilifergroup
      @aquilifergroup ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s not a sense of humor. It’s being unpleasant

    • @incarnate3276
      @incarnate3276 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Personally I find sarcasm the funnier, the more serious the delivery is. Making it obvious, makes it to shallow for me.

    • @ncs9059
      @ncs9059 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same... I thought that was the point of sarcasm. I also thought the example of "good" sarcasm with the eye squint was much more serious and I thought she was genuinely offended saying "thats my family".

  • @fadedtoblue5177
    @fadedtoblue5177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2669

    Damn so this is what insecurity looks like on the outside👀

    • @winterblommetjie
      @winterblommetjie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So cringey

    • @chichi77tim
      @chichi77tim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @John J Lucas Do you came out from the same cringey reddit page, like clones? How does It feels to share everyone the same one brain cell? 😂

    • @leobryant1011
      @leobryant1011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Chizumi ??? You completely missed his point

    • @chichi77tim
      @chichi77tim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@leobryant1011 I don't think so. Pure stupidity and cringey redditism isn't a point, no more than a tantrum. No need to nobilitate it with a serious response.

    • @leobryant1011
      @leobryant1011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Chizumi well I think your misinterpreting his point. I’m fairly certain he’s referring to modern day feminism. And the modern day feminists have a history of doing terrible things so they don’t have the cleanest track record. I’m pretty sure he’s not against feminism, just today’s 1st world feminism.

  • @danielandanthony8939
    @danielandanthony8939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1718

    The way Chris Hemsworth moves his head around in disagreement was honestly the funniest thing I’ll see all week

    • @lukasakantu2642
      @lukasakantu2642 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      That is an bold statment. Its only monday

    • @irondolphin1559
      @irondolphin1559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i know right. That was so funny. He honestly is my favorite lmao

    • @HiveDes
      @HiveDes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He’s naturally funny as hell.

    • @tjw937
      @tjw937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Always timestamp!

    • @JohnWuWei
      @JohnWuWei 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@tjw937 @7:35

  • @JH-nj8up
    @JH-nj8up 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Be kind and love people genuinely and you will be liked.

  • @christopherlynch3314
    @christopherlynch3314 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Reading positive intent into ambiguous situations is a superpower. Also, if someone is trying to cut you on the sly, taking it positively just pisses them off more. WINNING!
    As for praise. ALWAYS praise others! Believe me folks know your role. But if you constantly spread the praise to subordinates, peers, and superiors, you will be thought of highly by all.
    Great video! Subscribed thanks.

    • @gwotaharrve
      @gwotaharrve 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hollywood actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."

  • @bea4912
    @bea4912 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4485

    i feel like she was bullied or something when she was younger as she’s clearly extremely defensive. maybe it triggers something in her where she thinks everyone is being horrible-just a thought.

    • @drtaha4946
      @drtaha4946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +436

      Or she could be an introvert, a lot of introverts have this problem

    • @esssymee7227
      @esssymee7227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Yea, so why hate her

    • @msk-qp6fn
      @msk-qp6fn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +215

      I do so too and as someone who did go through bullying and have seen what bullying does to people, I know this type of behavior is not so uncommon among those who were bullied

    • @addibro4284
      @addibro4284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      yeah, you'd just wish she could be a little more like she was in the Craig Ferguson interviews, where she seemed much more charismatic and likeable

    • @moodsofkiwi9285
      @moodsofkiwi9285 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      Yea I struggle with being defensive too. I think it’s bc my mom used to be verbally abusive and I used to be bullied in high school. I always wonder why I feel the need to stand up for myself at every sharp joke. I’ve been working on being humble and laughing at myself but it’s so hard bc it makes me feel like I’m just getting bullied by everyone around me and I’m just rolling over

  • @edpotter1170
    @edpotter1170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4395

    i love how Chris was trying to save Brie from going down that path but Brie just won't get the hints, and continued on just to win an argument.

    • @snoopymochi562
      @snoopymochi562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Ed Potter Don Cheadle was also next to her, trying to remedy the situation.

    • @ultrabigfella
      @ultrabigfella 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      I feel like with her below sub-par acting, her sucky emotional range, and the fact that she can't pick up on any context clues at all, she might be somewhat sociopathic.

    • @lordfabulous6198
      @lordfabulous6198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      @@ultrabigfella she's a narcissist. She probably wasn't before but there's a lot of signs to it now. Fame can do that.

    • @adumdumdum
      @adumdumdum 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@ultrabigfella I know this is totally off topic but how do I apply to your sanctuary?

    • @ultrabigfella
      @ultrabigfella 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@adumdumdum It's a sanctuary made just for you, No.😂

  • @corrisauls9453
    @corrisauls9453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Positive vs Negatice intent when viewing/receiving the universe. In otherwords -- interpretation.

  • @pxrays547
    @pxrays547 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've done this as far as being completely sarcastic and playing it straight. People give you that look and it can be damaging around people who don't know.

  • @hnklee2607
    @hnklee2607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3301

    Talking to someone like Brie Larson, person who tries to win in every conversaton, every topic, is really exhausting.

    • @trevorhouff1173
      @trevorhouff1173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      One of my closest friends is like that and yea, exhausting is a good word to describe it

    • @MiyagiDo9
      @MiyagiDo9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@trevorhouff1173 till now never noticed that i might be like that..

    • @wrightguyz
      @wrightguyz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      re: 'win every conversation' - - it's narcissism right? or at least part of the equation. Very obnoxious behavior

    • @quarantinelife.
      @quarantinelife. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Listening to her gave me PTSD hahahahah

    • @gemberss
      @gemberss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yeah you're right. it's so annoying. i think the best thing to do is like the dude above me said just let them win, or don't talk to them.

  • @Krazyloko
    @Krazyloko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2713

    How to make yourself more likable: sit down, be humble

    • @purefatdude2
      @purefatdude2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      True, except there are a lot of people that like arrogant assholes.

    • @amaracea
      @amaracea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      nobody will like you then. They can’t like you if they don’t know you exist.
      Be humble. But don’t sit down.

    • @edin410
      @edin410 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Being humble might be a showing a fake personality

    • @campkira
      @campkira 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everybody at work.... Cannot be humble or no bonus...

    • @amaracea
      @amaracea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Edin To be humble does not mean to have a fake personality or to put yourself down. It simply means to listen to others when they speak. Michael Jordan was one of the most humble people on Earth but you’d never know it from his TV personality. But off the screen and off the court he’d listen to everyone who gave him advice, and it was listening to people that gave him his edge.

  • @believers2012
    @believers2012 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your videos man. Very educational. Thank you!

  • @mLichy911
    @mLichy911 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I once tried to date a girl that was extremely sarcastic all the time, but also in a dry way/like shown here.
    It was super awkward, especially when I'm more introverted/didn't get she was joking. So it just came across as almost being mean/serious.
    Needless to say, that only lasted a very short while.

    • @davidsinch
      @davidsinch ปีที่แล้ว +6

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @davidsinch
      @davidsinch ปีที่แล้ว +2

      brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.”
      So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week.
      And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

    • @Broken-xp1lh
      @Broken-xp1lh ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@davidsinch also their looks but whatever

    • @MarklovesAngels
      @MarklovesAngels ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@davidsinch Didn't you used to be mike random? You're saying the same thing word for word.

  • @mr.rashedmr.rashed7466
    @mr.rashedmr.rashed7466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3434

    Watching these videos always reminds me how hard social life is

    • @isabellajemica
      @isabellajemica 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      i can barely talk to other people

    • @jinjunliu2401
      @jinjunliu2401 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@prostatitiscpps7962 at least we can analyse others with this knowledge......

    • @Wakeupgrandowl
      @Wakeupgrandowl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I have found (being an introvert that's pretty good at playing at extroversion/ being sociable) that being good at and willing to listen to other people is far and away the best and most vital social skill you'll ever need. Most of the time, people (who talk) just want/need to talk about their problems and interests anyway, and even providing them just a few crumbs of acknowledgment is enough to let them continue on and feel engaged. People who don't talk a lot might see or sense you have a willingness to listen and may open up to you in the right time & place. If you're a talker/ extrovert, you'll probably get along with other extroverts naturally unless you're _rude_ and *never listen* to others. Always provide others with time to voice their own thoughts and try not to dominate the conversation. If speaking to an introvert - asking them questions can give them opportunity to speak (we have lots of thoughts but often lack the courage or social timing to voice them, esp in large groups) but never single an introvert out to ask anything really 'big' or divisive in front of a large group - that's the fastest way to stress out and shut down an introvert, and they're likely to try and escape the situation asap.

    • @MrProveyron
      @MrProveyron 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      only of you're a douche

    • @fionaautumn
      @fionaautumn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I remember that everytime I go outside...

  • @grat2010
    @grat2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3915

    Don Cheadle looks so uncomfortable during the Brie and Chris exchanges.

    • @darkySp
      @darkySp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      You need to look trough Jeremy Renner's interview. The poor guy could barely stay alive trough the interview

    • @RapidObsessor
      @RapidObsessor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      he literally tweeted to defend her

    • @InfireMe
      @InfireMe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      he called out people who thought he looked uncomfortable and from a direct quote said they were ‘children’ for trying to find fault where there isn’t any

    • @raynesorrells1245
      @raynesorrells1245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Don Cheadle always looks uncomfortable

    • @jacket6213
      @jacket6213 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that a personal attack or something?

  • @czr7j9
    @czr7j9 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just be yourself and if people take it the wrong way then it is their problem.

  • @ajpaalkalyanmasih9
    @ajpaalkalyanmasih9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would like a breakdown of that interview with Russel Brand and how to read positive intent into an ambiguous situation!

  • @Corrocon
    @Corrocon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1544

    What further hurt her in that interview, is that she has stunt doubles and she just chose to not acknowledge them.

    • @carsonrush3352
      @carsonrush3352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I know she had a butt double, but did she have any other functionality out of any double(s)?

    • @MrAnonymous650
      @MrAnonymous650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      She even have a butt double.. lying biatch..

    • @geethsan1567
      @geethsan1567 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@MrAnonymous650 a Butt Double?! Seriously?

    • @martintieber7756
      @martintieber7756 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@geethsan1567 I'm not sure myself (it seemed true ac ouple of weeks ago, but somehow a lot of info on that topic vanished), but apparently she doesn't have the backside for her costume...

    • @setakh
      @setakh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yup, she has 2 actually...

  • @RottenZombieChick1
    @RottenZombieChick1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2465

    The Chris Hemsworth/Brie Larson interview made me physically uncomfortable

    • @winturs2201
      @winturs2201 5 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Haley Waldow Don Cheadle in the interview kind of represented all of the viewers imo

    • @bubblegumplastic
      @bubblegumplastic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Everyone is so quick to blame Brie for it :( Maybe she feels pushed into a corner during promotions/on set and we're seeing the result of that. I've read countless unkind things about her role in the universe and her performance, rooted in her being "overly" strong as a character. A level of scrutiny that doesn't seem to befall Chris, his character is allowed to be strong and praised for being strong. I wouldn't be at my best either if I were her.

    • @BuumanJS
      @BuumanJS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So it wasnt just me LOL

    • @moonmothh
      @moonmothh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@bubblegumplastic the problem is that there is a lack of understanding between them in that interview. it was one of those things where some playful poking quickly became a real competitive argument because while both of them were joking around in the beginning, neither of them picked up on the others' jokes. they both ended up feeling insulted and became defensive.

    • @samsamsammy2013
      @samsamsammy2013 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      bubblegumplastic Chris’s character is “allowed” to be strong and “praised” because of good character development. His strength is earned through 3 separate films compared to Captain Marvel’s mediocre single. She deserves every bit of scrutiny that is thrown her way.

  • @Patrickbatemanharvard
    @Patrickbatemanharvard ปีที่แล้ว +53

    As an introvert and a laid back person I really get her

  • @SarahKathleen_
    @SarahKathleen_ ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Omg yikes as soon as we got to the wired interview I immediately started cringing

    • @jimmuu2987
      @jimmuu2987 ปีที่แล้ว

      this is the problem with people home schooled is that... they have never experience school type bullying the way chris hemsworth and don cheadle are school bullying and dog piling 2 vs 1 on brie larson.....if she had gone to school and face bullying like this she'd deal with it better

    • @jimmuu2987
      @jimmuu2987 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

    • @jimmuu2987
      @jimmuu2987 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I saw the Charisma video wher you attacked Brie a long time ago and it really bothered me. I did not see what you saw. I saw the Marvel actor being opening hostile toward her -which I thought was much worse. Why didn't you talk about him? How unprofessional. I kept thinking, "I need to get the computer and defend this poor woman". So months later, I finally do it and what do I see? You, reading comments that are purely hateful. Apparently she had a breakdown? My first impression was that your show was completely mysonistic because you fawn over the male actors and rip on this one women for being a awkward. This video confirms it and (even though I already knew many men hate women) it saddens me that so many men are eager to join in

    • @jimmuu2987
      @jimmuu2987 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've noticed this channel only talks about how men have charisma, i mean use women's example too? You mostly show bad examples of them. And why tf is everything supposed to be about how to become a chick magnet? In this vid, unfortunately Chris hemsworth was in the wrong, not brie as much. He interrupts her as she tries to complete what she wanted to say and then insults her…pretty biased of you

    • @hanhanlon4441
      @hanhanlon4441 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jimmuu2987 It's not that Brie did anything "wrong," it's just that she doesn't seem very comfortable. It's like she's trying to force humor and trying to fit in with the guys, but it comes off as awkward. Chris and Don actually seemed to be trying to help her, but there's only so much they could do. It's like they were tossing a ball to her and instead of catching it and tossing it back, she'd let the ball hit the floor or she hurled it back defensively. A lot of people felt uncomfortable watching Brie's behavior in this interview. It makes you feel bad for her, but she doesn't have the same kind of easygoing humor as the rest of the cast from Marvel.

  • @Shane-bx4xn
    @Shane-bx4xn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3305

    Thor is trying to save her but she is just digging her own grave

    • @starchild2121
      @starchild2121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      He's like, "take my hand, I'll save you from those who make personal attacks on you."
      She's like: "I'm stronger than you. And we've been fighting all day anyway!"

    • @chrisreaves6399
      @chrisreaves6399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Actually she is just trying to clear up the common misconception that she isn't the greatest actor to ever step foot on this planet and Chris Hemsworth is trying to leach off of her greatness. Thank you veeeerrrry much

    • @casszhang554
      @casszhang554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@chrisreaves6399 perfectly done.

    • @nagendrajoshi4
      @nagendrajoshi4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      1 k like

    • @thecasualreviewer2148
      @thecasualreviewer2148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I like how Marvel 'put her in her place' in Endgame.

  • @denellesonn7977
    @denellesonn7977 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4223

    I bet there is a group chat with all the MCU heroes and she's not included.

    • @joannechoi8476
      @joannechoi8476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      Eh, the original 6 avengers have a famous group chat; the MAJORITY of the other MCU actors aren't included (this is not particular to Brie Larson).

    • @omnianima4540
      @omnianima4540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@joannechoi8476 Sheesh imagine they let a fan in from time to time

    • @joannechoi8476
      @joannechoi8476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Omnianima Nah, I think they want to keep that group chat really tight and exclusive (even most of the other MCU actors aren’t invited, from what I know)

    • @stealthis
      @stealthis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Recycling isn't just for plastic. Recycled comments are worst.

    • @rc9006
      @rc9006 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

  • @leleprtk
    @leleprtk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People who think the world is against them and everything you say they interpret it as a personal attack ARE EXHAUSTING

  • @Sonic-hq9zz
    @Sonic-hq9zz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Man, I hate watching that Brie Larson, Don Cheadle, & Chris Hemsworth interview. It’s so uncomfortable, my god 😂

  • @ernie3446
    @ernie3446 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3784

    Brie after watching this video: "Learned a lot from this, thank you vEeeERry much."

    • @ricque2331
      @ricque2331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +172

      More like "is this video a personal attack?"

    • @ukaszsmith6851
      @ukaszsmith6851 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      also "I don't see MEN getting similar treatment!"

    • @ricque2331
      @ricque2331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Amon Ra is your assumption of my comment being a personal attack or something an actual personal attack?

    • @greggonzales1556
      @greggonzales1556 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      1000 like

    • @samuelbooth7966
      @samuelbooth7966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

  • @aakashupadhyay7075
    @aakashupadhyay7075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2237

    Google: Would Brie Larson workout?
    Brie : *So you have chosen death*

    • @lizipearlvlogs
      @lizipearlvlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂 It is a weird way to word the question, but obviously not meant to be offensive. I really hope she was joking because I loved her in Scott Pilgrim vs The World.

    • @r.a.k4390
      @r.a.k4390 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lizipearlvlogs I'm pretty sure she was

  • @DeeperCurrents
    @DeeperCurrents ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you look for bad intentions you will find things that make it appear as if there are bad intentions everywhere, it will poison every interaction and situation in life.
    Assume good intention, protect incase it is actually bad

  • @RandyCassidy-xc3ep
    @RandyCassidy-xc3ep 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's an awesome actress I loved her performance in the glass castle,one of my favorite movies.

  • @idino924
    @idino924 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3218

    As a person with asperger, this channel is really helping me a lot to understand people

    • @PrettyPinkPeacock
      @PrettyPinkPeacock 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was thinking similarly.

    • @asstroeongdong-min1709
      @asstroeongdong-min1709 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I Dino was gonna look for aspie comment and its right at second

    • @shame2189
      @shame2189 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Thats great to hear, i used to have severe aspergers as well, but i like to believe the internet, my therapy and smoking dope (yeah... Not recommended though i got addicted) made me able to understand how others feel alot better and i am now able to show empathy to people in a manner i could never have before, probably because of the way people can express themselves with freedom on the internet. I _almost_ feel normal.

    • @WingsofStarlight
      @WingsofStarlight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS. I... THIS. I just IMMEDIATELY tagged this as "FOR MY FELLOW AUTISTIC FOLK"

    • @wowjennawow
      @wowjennawow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same here lol

  • @tavadaardendrian319
    @tavadaardendrian319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2774

    When Brie brings up doing her own stunts, Hemsworth goes “ehhh okay” as if he senses the inevitable crap storm like a farmer senses rain

    • @uselesshero.official
      @uselesshero.official 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I really felt that it wasn't the situation to bring up that context.

    • @jemert96
      @jemert96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      I think anybody's reaction would be like ' jeeez okay there lady'

    • @goldenstatewarriors9418
      @goldenstatewarriors9418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Uh she doesn't do her own stunts.

    • @lepotato135
      @lepotato135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would like your comment but you currently have 666 likes. Hail Satan...

    • @vincentgodinez5144
      @vincentgodinez5144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      5:44

  • @bt8623
    @bt8623 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think it really just comes down to tone and body language. If she said all these same things in a certain tone it would be likeable and make her appear strong.

  • @suslarry7
    @suslarry7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think a problem with her sarcasm also is that she doesn't answer the question at all and when she does, the sarcasm she put before just kind of overrules the answer she gives yet with Aubrey we see that she offered a genuine answer before acting sarcastic. I had a problem with my deskmate in high school who would constantly make fun of my art cause I did art but I wasn't really good, at least not as good as the other art students in my class and I had made it very clear that I wasn't confident with my abilities not to mention my art teacher was terrible and very discouraging and though I later dropped it as a subject cause the pressure was too much I always was offended when she persisted with her sarcasm and though sometimes she praised me, she tended to overdo her sarcasm to a point where sometimes I couldn’t tell if she was joking or not because I already was insecure about my drawings. Maybe it would have been different if I actually was really good and confident in myself but in the end she ended up hurting me a lot without intending to but again I say too much sarcasm can make you just seem rude

  • @deiz1083
    @deiz1083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5694

    Basically, "Don't be a Brie Larson, be a Chris Pratt".

    • @jhboob
      @jhboob 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Or be a Russell Brand. Lol

    • @deliarebaudengo5440
      @deliarebaudengo5440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      'Be a man'

    • @Alresu
      @Alresu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      Well, "Be Chris Pratt" is the answer for many questions regarding charisma.

    • @takitogoestoNY
      @takitogoestoNY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      pretty much. sad but true

    • @arjunarun9147
      @arjunarun9147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Or be Hemsworth

  • @theheavenlyfb4071
    @theheavenlyfb4071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5039

    when you're taking negative intent from a question as simple as "are you left-handed" then you need to reassess how you perceive people's intent.

    • @OfftoShambala
      @OfftoShambala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes, but that can also be a manipulation depending on the context and maybe what seems ambivalent to the observer is an attack upon a person based on previous engagements that the observer may not be privy to... sociopathic manipulators love to do that kind of thing.

    • @theheavenlyfb4071
      @theheavenlyfb4071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      @@OfftoShambala Not sure how you can manipulate someone over something as simple as asking "are you left-handed", I mean the context HERE is a yes or no question. It's not really anything philosophical or deep, it really was just a yes or no response.
      It's like being asked "would you like some water" and the response given is "Are you going to waterboard me?!". It's extreme, but still a huge leap in logic just like what Brie did here.

    • @headphonic8
      @headphonic8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      The point was she was being sarcastic at that part and joking

    • @OfftoShambala
      @OfftoShambala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@theheavenlyfb4071 see how well that sort of thing would work now?

    • @theheavenlyfb4071
      @theheavenlyfb4071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@OfftoShambala my stance on the matter hasn't changed

  • @jenniferschuessler3992
    @jenniferschuessler3992 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’ve never followed any of these people so the background with Marvel and how she may be feeling from those movies is interesting. Without that context my initial reaction or assumption would be that she and Chris had a thing going that ended badly where she now feels hurt, insecure or wronged in some way.

  • @74sleen
    @74sleen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I enjoyed watching this! I once heard someone say, “Would you rather be right or be happy?” 👍

    • @BlackDiamond2718
      @BlackDiamond2718 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think of good luck charlie. That might be the only time i recall hearing that line.

  • @nounou-bp4ci
    @nounou-bp4ci 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2990

    What I learnt from that video :
    Chris Hemsworth is an amazing and humble human being ❤️

    • @nimisha6584
      @nimisha6584 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      That is one of the reasons why I am a Thor fan

    • @Mrey7915
      @Mrey7915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@nimisha6584 Thought you were his enemy? You turned out to be the secret admirer

    • @anismarhalim1194
      @anismarhalim1194 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What I learnt from that comment:
      Chris Hemsworth is a humain beimg.

    • @nounou-bp4ci
      @nounou-bp4ci 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@all-is-Grass what's the problem ?(thats a real question x))

    • @scar1323
      @scar1323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yea cause he's an Aussie

  • @ShaunRF
    @ShaunRF 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5713

    The incredibly stark contrast between her old interviews and her more recent ones is astonishing. Like watching two different people.

    • @AutumnSoldier413
      @AutumnSoldier413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +965

      Possibly something psychologically bad happened to her. She seems defensive, rather than rude. People accuse her of not being able to read situations, whilst it is them who cannot read her

    • @aglayamajorem9546
      @aglayamajorem9546 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      @@AutumnSoldier413 Her PR didn't do a good job on that then.

    • @protokhaniapetos3158
      @protokhaniapetos3158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      rotaryfreak3 fame can do that

    • @anishinaabae
      @anishinaabae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      it's almost as if people change as they age.

    • @sicemic
      @sicemic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      I'm not sure if the format of the interview had anything to do with it. Talk shows are usually scripted or at least the guests know beforehand what to talk about, whereas film interviews are, to my knowledge, unscripted.
      But yeah, she is definitely different.

  • @FrotLopOfficial
    @FrotLopOfficial 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Her home/web interview with Hot Ones was waaaayyyy waaayyyy more charasmatic and likeable. Either she, or her manager, realized and did something about it. That or I guess she just got lucky.

  • @ruperterskin2117
    @ruperterskin2117 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Right on. Thanks for sharing.

  • @bourbonbog4675
    @bourbonbog4675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1595

    Thor Odinson: I like this one
    Chris Hemsworth: I don't like this one

    • @nicolehoffman1198
      @nicolehoffman1198 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I was thinking the same 😂

    • @abelinc9898
      @abelinc9898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sid Patil he was?

    • @kylia1060
      @kylia1060 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn shit just got real.

    • @dayshawna
      @dayshawna 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noobmaster69 no

    • @geewiz8253
      @geewiz8253 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So literally in point 😆 I mean I feel bad fir her in a way but so on point 😁

  • @downbad4urdad
    @downbad4urdad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2963

    oh my god, I can barely watch the clips of that interview with Brie, Chris, and Don.. makes my skin crawl, so awkward and tense

    • @b.jr.7816
      @b.jr.7816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      CZ It’s the cringiest thing I’ve seen in years, I can’t stand her

    • @G102Y5568
      @G102Y5568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      You can tell from the way she's responding that she's thinking "I have to appear strong in this room full of men! I have to appear as a strong empowered woman and I can't let them have even one inch on me!"
      Real confident people don't feel the need to constantly fight for their honor, or treat every joke against them as a personal attack. That's what insecure people do. Yet for some reason Brie thinks differently.

    • @MarianadeOliveiraSaitu
      @MarianadeOliveiraSaitu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@G102Y5568 "Real confident people don't feel the need to constantly fight for their honor, or treat every joke against them as a personal attack. That's what insecure people do." Can I share this quote on my facebook? If you want credits you can give me your name, although I don't think you would want that

    • @playboy6548
      @playboy6548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MarianadeOliveiraSaitu you should not have said him "although i don't think you would want that"

    • @arizlunastroir96
      @arizlunastroir96 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just scrolled down to the comments cuz I couldn't take it- I'm almost hyperventilating.

  • @kerik7176
    @kerik7176 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you are comfortable with yourself, it comes across in all sorts of situations, even uncomfortable ones. When you're not, that's every bit as obvious.

  • @WordAttack88
    @WordAttack88 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just discoverd your channel! Great work, man :)