4 Charming Habits That Make People Obsessed With You
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If you’ve ever wanted to know what personality type leads to being beloved by men and women alike, you’re going to like this video about Chris Hemsworth and Thor: Ragnarok.
I started researching for this video intending to make something around “Thor: Ragnarok”. But I very quickly realized that the real person worth studying is Chris Hemsworth. A single Chris Hemsworth interview can make you laugh, smile, and say "aw". It's really hard not to like him!
There are four things about Chris Hemsworth that seem to truly make people love being around him.
Even castmates that started out wanting NOT to like Chris Hemsworth end up raving about him and saying how funny he is or how sweet he is.
And the hype for his latest movie Thor: Ragnaraok is off the charts! The Thor Ragnarok trailer looks amazing and it's because we finally found a director that’s willing to let Chris Hemsworth and Thor bleed their personalities together just like Robert Downey Jr. and Iron Man.
And as you see in the video it literally transformed Thor from the worst ranked Marvel film on Rotten Tomatoes (Thor: The Dark World) to the highest (Thor: Ragnarok).
Which reflects even more impressively on how funny Chris Hemsworth is when you consider that director Taika Waititi claims Thor: Ragnarok is ~80% improvised.
So let’s take a look at Chris Hemsworth’s personality and what makes him so special.
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Charisma on Command hey just Intrigued what was that quiz at the beginning
Charisma on command, PLEASE do a breakdown on Taika Waititi’s humour and charisma. I love your videos, they’re super helpful. It would be awesome if you could do this. Thnx
Please do Chadwick Boseman one!
Just wanting to point out that the subtitles are off starting at 11:02.
Subtitles get a bit different after some time
Chris Hemsworth is basically a human Golden Retriever. Friendly and polite, builds you up, sometimes misbehaves but never in a bad, always in a funny way.
exactly. i also saw a fanart of golden retriever thor and a cat loki fighting xD
That's funny. I've been watching funny pet videos all day and then somehow ended up randomly clicking on this video. So which pet store sells a Golden Chris Hemsworth?
Accurate
I just hope that also means he's completely housebroken and microchipped 😉
I feel like that's Chris Pratt though. Chris Hemsworth is more of a St.Bernard..
This channel has a crush on Chris Hemsworth. Just admit it.
I sure as hell do
Who doesn’t have a crush on chris, we’re only human ❤️
Chris is love, Chris is life.
Who doesn’t?
Don’t we all lmaoo
"TOUCH EVERYONE"
yes, I've been doing this for years. Everyone in my cell loves me
HAHAHHAHA NOOO
hysterical
They didn’t react well to me saying I’m a universal toucher...
🤣😄😃
HA.HA.
1. Hilarious
2. Incredible at touch! (Make it feel good!).
3. Shares things about him that can be embarrassing, with no fear of judgement!
4. Shares praise with those who helped him through!
Oh yes, 14 minutes of detailed explanation why Chris Hemsworth is great. Now I have a scientific base for my crush on him.
Yep
Yep, me too.
Hel...yeah!
@@nimisha6584 leave
@@samarium1934 c'mon
Let us play fortnite.
Korg was too easy
Chris Hemsworth has that "bro" touch. He is confident and friendly,
but.. not pushy. It's just like "hey buddy".
I understand what you're saying but can we not use the term "bro touch" anymore?
Oki. That's fine.
Wholesome
@@wadehamilton7522 INdeed.
@@davidperrier6149 why? I don't get it?
It helps being ridiculously good-looking. Granted it's not everything and his personality is what matters, but good looks always give a head start when meeting new people.
It can actually have the opposite effect and be intimidating.
It's true especially with the touchy feely stuff. If a nonconventional looking man does what Chris does, he'd be deemed creepy, especially with the over touching.
@@Jakeylicious7891 Was going to say that. Its natural to want to be touched by beautiful people but more disgusted by odd looking or strange looking people.
You’re 100% correct! And a lot of people will lose respect for you if you’re a really nice person unless you’re really good looking and/or successful!
u know some ppl cant rlly change their looks, unless ur a girl or whatever and make-up can help
but for guys were dealt w the cards that we have and cant change our appearance
“If your friends are awesome, it stands to reason that you must be awesome as well” very true and something to think about
The Halo Effect.
And of course the inverse is true...
1. humor- short jokes that elevate his friends.
2. touching people
3. not hiding things, confidence
4. compliments (that are true)
You can't touch people if ur ugly then r a creep
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@@nikitasidoryuk852 with that additude, just be friendly and not creepy its not hard.
The 6 points made in the video are time stamped in the description for anyone who likes time stamps or want more information.
@@nikitasidoryuk852 Sounds like an excuse , maybe try learning how to touch people non creepily
he is a healthy, confident person without any complexes...and this is always attractive and make ppl comfortable...
Lola Who He's Australian, we're all like that 😎
gasgasLex oh shit.... I’m Australian and I’m full of complexes and self esteem issues.... I think I australianed wrong. :/
healthy, good looking , confident , tall and has good personality so yeah all of those things and what there is that he cant do , can he sing wait, yes he can , and he had both parents wow dude is lucky
Serial killee
exactly. it’s harder for people who didn’t grow up in a healthy environment with healthy parents and a healthy sense of self worth, but it is still possible to reach that level regardless, it just takes more time.
Humor
-Jokes that elevate others around me
-Move on soon after the joke is done
-Do the OPPOSITE if you are comfortable enough with that person
-Don't be like this all the time
Touch people
-be a universal toucher
-Adjust touch depending on the factors
-Don't scary touch
-Make it feel good
Not hiding things, confidence
-don't be afraid of other's judgement
Share praise
-Compliment in public and only when you mean it
"Don't scary touch" A beautiful phrase.
"Touch the person" after coronavirus. lol. This virus was created to destroy Chris Hemsworth's charisma
Underrated comment.
Lol'ed
@Henry Rennard I hate being touched, especially if it's constant. But I will happily take it if it's from Chris Hemsworth 😂
@@badmoxstudios well you don't hate being touched. You hate being touched by some people.
lol
Step 1:
Win the Genetic Lottery
Self fulfilling prophecy, mate.
Yeah that pretty much is it lol
it's not a lottery blame your parent for not being attractive enough
they not guilty for not being attractive enough, they lost that lottery as well @@Madtv50
Ikr I wish I had Jack Black's body
How to touch everyone:
✅ Chris Hemsworth
❌ Joe Biden
Haha! I respect your authenticity :)
@@j.3mmiller575 thx ;)
lol
Creepy joe 😂
Trump did the same thing
Very helpful thank you ^^
Helped me too
Well, the touching isn't all that relevant these days, unfortunately...
No way it's the minecraft prison guy
wtf are you doing here? This was the most unexpected thing i saw today... Also i really love your content
Btw, the "he's a friend from work" was actually an idea from a teen extra on set, and actually Chris talks about it in an interview.
"Touch everyone" Kevin spacey joined the game*
Granter04 Say what?
Looool
Granter04 "Touch everyone" Bill Cosby joined the game*
That's to much man 😂 I can.t ...
Maybe a bit too much. Looonl
Can you imagine Emilia Clark and Chris Hemsworth doing an interview or working together?
They'd just be constantly smiling and touching each other and it'd be like "You're the best !" "No you're awesome !" "No you are !"
They would take the box office by a storm.
We’d all wind up pregnant
Whooooooaaaaaaaa...I just don't know if we could take that much 'cute' haha
*t h i s n e e d s t o e x i s t*
he’s not scared to be himself because he KNOWS he’s hot and charming ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yeah, that's easy-peasy for him
Well, he knows he's hot... being charming, though, is part of 'not being scared to be himself'.
I like he's down-to-earth he's real, he has class and he's like the Kid Next Door that you grew up with.
I've had some very supportive parents and or family members who believes in sharing the credit where credit is due.
Am i the only one here after brie larson interview?
normal girl thought I was the only one
Lol same 😂
Poor brie
I’m absolutely here because of that haha
Literally just came from that video, and after cringing so hard I needed something to lift my spirits again :/
"Watch Chris Evans lose his mind in his next clip"
Evans cry from laughter everytime Hemmy breathes lmao 😂
PLEASE HELP I see this clip everywhere as a good example and I can't find a single version with subtitles; what on earth does he say??
Yeah I can't speak Australian, I have no idea what Chris said.
Jamie Bernard He says: “he doesn’t bring nuances”
@@Katelin-nn THANK U!!
Same
he is absolute gorgeous, I’m sure it plays a role in the welcomed touching. he definitely knows he’s hot although he doesn’t act cocky at all his confidence shines through and is seen as comfort, approachability and kindness. He seems like an open minded awakened man. Much respect to him, I feel like I know the guy. 🧐
Chris couldn't look anything but masculine if he tried. He is so down to earth, gorgeous abd funny.
lowkey watching this before school starts to help my anti social ass LMAO
Hope it helped.
how’d you do?
@@idontknowwhatmyusernamesho5540 UHHH I DONT REMEMBER BUT I GRADUATED HIGHSCHOOL JUST FINE BDJSKWJDD
Hope it helps! 🙏
@@chronolys dam u replied
Fun fact: Chris Hemsworth is described as the "most sensitive Hemsworth brother". He didn't like conflict, he liked to sew, he was never a bully, he was very much the stereotypical middle child--creative, peacekeeping and sensitive. The reason he's considered the most attractive of all the brothers even if Liam could challenge him looks-wise is because he's a warm, kind, sensitive person, and is unafraid to show it. Given that he gets a lot of big bruiser badass roles, the revelation that he's not only a great dad but that he's always been "the sensitive one" who clearly shares affection and is completely and totally secure in his masculinity is extremely attractive to both women and men.
Chris is the best looking off all the 3 brothers. Luke is 2nd and Liam is 3rd for me honestly
Ya I'm the middle child and I'm definitely not the most peaceful one
Based on looks alone...
1. Chris
2. Liam
3. Luke.
Theres a third one?
Perfectly described 👍
The reason he is able to compliment people without sounding like he is sucking up is because he genuinely believes that everyone should have credit. But like with everything else that he does, he says what he needs to say, he is direct, then he moves on.
The thing that I struggle most with in social situations is consistency. A lot of us have only good intentions, but we go about it the wrong way and it has cost me plenty of potentially awesome relationships with awesome people, and now I'm here thinking that I will never make it up.
I'm not even here for the tips I just want people to acknowledge how amazing Chris is
Same same! 😂
Same dude, same
Honestly I love him so much
Damn, you're friend had to find out this way....
Hahaha (your*)
+Robert Garcia Thanks, your the best lol
was thinking the same :D
MehdiNPartDeux you're**
MehdiNPartDeux Savage
my sis baby daddy was builder on his house , he’s so sweet he shouted everyone & there familys drinks lunch at music & DJ at the beach hotel .. so sweet to get everyone together for a party day just to say thanks ☺️
The narrative about touch, the whole 4-5 min, HUGE. Great job! This is so crucial to making people ,and yourself, comfortable.
I really hope Chris watches these videos when he has bad days. He deserves to know just how lovely of a person he really is.
Chris Hemsworth can touch _me_ universally. Thats for sure.
Deep Red whoa
yep me too. Damn it beautiful people !
Who _doesn't_ want Chris Hemsworth to touch them universally?
@@QuickZiiva hes married
Крис может трогать меня там где другие не могут
I think a lot of people are watching all these videos, because I meet people who try to do all these things that these videos recommend, but everything goes out the window when something goes wrong and then their true character comes out and you see their true colors. To me, being genuine and being a nice person is the best way to be popular. Most people can see through other people when they are trying to employ a technique and trying to "be popular". Maybe it's best not to try to "be popular" but to be a good person who cares about others, and then you will be popular.
Every person has at least 5 enduring beautiful things about them. Some are obvious and some are precious diamonds you have to dig to find.
charisma on command be out here putting all his friends on blast
Damien Wayne LMAO 🤣🤣 underrated comment
It's kinda funny how Americans find Chris Hemsworth's personality so charming, but in Australia, that's just the typical bloke.
cinlocybin the people in Australia must be so nice and so much fun then.. I wish I could have a frien like Chris Hemsworth
American men are naturally awkward.
@@ambre4144 It is vegemite.
kof ola sorry to sound stupid but what is that ? ( I’m French soo don’t come at me)
I guess I need to move to Australia (haha jk I’ve heard the stories about spiders there and idk if the stories are true but I’m not risking it)
He is comfortable, friendly, not too much into himself and ridiculously good-looking. All that helps. 😂
Great video! I'd love to hear about how to do this as a female. I don't see a lot of women touching a lot of people so I feel like the universal touching part probably only works for men. Also, I wish more women would elevate other men and women around them as much as men tend to do (always envious of the closeness of male friendships, where they constantly build each other up, support them, and also checks them by being honest with them). I need to step up, but ladies, we need to step up!
The principles are not gender specific. Think about the women you respect and then look for the principles they use.
@@violetviolet888 Yes. All of these thigns he's mentioning apply to women too. Just because the example person is male doesn't mean it's gender specific.
@@destinyhntr I was responding to the original poster's comment. And I disagree. If the creator of the video wanted to, they could depict the concepts with equal representation females and males. After all: males, particularly white males, have had more than their fair share of airtime.
I don’t know what type of women you are around but all the women I know have this bond and sisterhood, it’s not a gender thing
Ermmmm it's a you problem because women touch each other so easily and naturally unlike men. Of course it's rare for people of opposite gender to do this with each other.
Because he's Thor.
PowahSlap Entertainmint yah im tellin you, its a bit of a superhero thing. OR they get those kind of people for the roles😄
Wait, what are you doing here?
Life isn't fair.
He's thor? I can barely walk!
Stop following me 😂😂
Having a sexy accent helps.
Like a lot.
A LOT!
Uh...Russell Crowe?
So if I move to USA I’ll pull the guys?🤪🤪 (Aussie here)
Em Jane Vlogs you will
The physical touch thing was really helpful, I feel like there's a bit of a wall in terms of platonic intimacy with my friends as I am very wary of being touch and touching other people due to past traumas. I used to be a very touchy person and would always cuddle up with my friends and I would like to get back to being that person, so that section of the video was extremely helpful! Thank you :)
Absolutely great suggestions. Becoming comfortable with proper touching, humor, and the uplifting of others is a great way to make others feel comfortable with themselves and with you.
Basically, be humble, grateful, not self-depricating, funny without being mean (which is how so many are), and be authentic.
Thank you because I swear everyone else grabbed "be attractive" and ran with it
Self-deprication is okay but in moderate amounts and as self-irony and sarcasm. It might even add to charisma if done properly.
@@FallingStary well its most of it really
@@gandalainsley6467 not really maybe short term in the beginning but it can only take you so far
@@FallingStary well but if you dont have it you wont even get to beginning
Be a real life Hercules! Have eyes like diamonds, a smile that will melt titanium, and a sexy accent that’s will do the trick!
Good luck all men out there
I’ve done these things all my life and my friends aire like family to me. There’s nothing like making your friend feels amazing
This "universal toucher" reminds me of Park Jimin who I really really like and lots of people thinks he's just a guy who you cannot dislike, he likes to give hugs to everyone too so that's probably one of his secrets hahaha
1. Be a really nice person
2. Be super talented
3. Be hella funny
That's basically all you need to do
How do I know this? One of my friends has all of these and he's literally friends with everyone....the entire school knows this guy
Confidence 👍
You can be all three but not be charismatic. Its more rare but it's completely possible and happens quite a bit.
Sofia Rodriguez I think a lot of the charisma goes into that third one with humor...?
I am nice I think . . .
I have a talent singing and drawing but no one hear me when I sing and no one looks at my drawings
I am not funny
That is me
@@ballexbanan Are you a guy or a girl. Girls like drawing. More usually (not all the time). But are charismatic? You dont need to be funny. Just be confident. Which is hard do instead if just say in your head. But I dont doubt that you seem like a nice person
@@ballexbanan well not everyone can be the popular one
"[...] without trying"
"Be very touchy"
This is going to be a problem.
Hahaha that's fair. I was aiming to express that it's lower effort habits than having to be charismatic by telling amazing 5 minute stories. Chris conveys a lot of confidence and charm without needing to be center of attention for a super long period of time :-)
"Life is a long-term game." So true, I like it!
I wish I had found you a couple years back, back when I was totally insecure and not on top of my game. I had to find out all those techniques myself through trial and error. But how reflecting and watching that video it’s like “oh yea, I actually do that subconsciously”
"Own what you do or don't do it" Preach
That was the best take away I got from this!! So may times, I've half committed and it made things awkward AF!
Breaks my heart when I realize I naturally do all these things but still have no friends
Are you sure you're trying it to the right people? hahaha
Well, take all this advice with a grain of salt. For starters: Don't touch everyone. Distrust anyone who touches everyone. In many circles, touching people innappropriately or indiscriminately will get you shunned or worse.
Lol
These are just a few puzzle pieces from the bigger picture, it doesn’t mean that if you do these 3-4 things you will have everything. Your problem is somewhere else
Take heart! You will have friends. There are times in life when you feel like you have no one, those moments deepen the joy when you do feel a connection.
Now im a sales man and i wanna improve myself with these AWESOME tips, because you once said (in Alpha method video) we are selling ourself and we need to got charisma.
Thank u for these videos
Tbh, the reason he’s so good at all this is not because he thinks about it, but because it probably just comes naturally as he must have had a very loving and secure childhood. People aren’t like this without feeling unconditionally loved as kids
I dont feel thats really true. I def wasnt feeling loved unconditionally a child by anyyy means, but his sort of personality is similar to mine. Whats funny is as I'm typing this, I think the video touched on what it is what continuously allows him to do this (as opposed to me for example, where I have to be feeling good mentally & maybe a touch secure to fully execute bc if not I might get in my head): not thinking about it too much. Being himself unapologetically. That part probably came from being loved fr as a child tho LOL
"Just be funny." OMG thank you, how did I not think of that?
@@condimentking0073 wat
Universal touching requires you to be at least 2 levels above average in looks.
nah, just come to any latin american country and you'll see
@@orti1283 Latin American guys are sometimes seen as creepy in Europe for this reason.
Yup
Naaah it has to do with vibe and not being a creep. If it's none sexual touching, why should your appearance matter?
I would refrain from touching people you barely know though, you never know how they would react. The McCartney clip in the video is obviously a joke.
It's simply confidence and comfortability, but good looks don't hurt
I click on this video seeing the title, so I thought that we will be going through some tips to become popular in general. Damn, this came out to be a character analysis of Chris Hemsworth and I am loving it!
The guy you refer is Randy...at my job. Every shift he finds a way to touch me and he's universal with it and everyone hates it. I've made several attempts to get him to stop. He's trying to build a level of communication because he knows I straight up rebuke his existence. He's looking for approval. He will not get it for various reasons.
when he said his daughter painted his nails uwu thats a real man
We always tend to notice a thing or two but to compile so many qualities and make it in a form of an amazing presentation is so motivation and learnable (if that's a word)🙌
Mr IY oh god u i see u 😝
I agree. And, "motivational and making it easier to learn" :)
You know what the answer to this question is. Just be yourself and stop trying too hard what if youre not funny and it goes awkward. Being yourself is the best way to be popular haha
Mr IY 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻
Ismail safi kya hua ismail bhai? Itne khafa kis baat ke liye?
his energy just seems so warm and welcoming 🥺
"...but I think that a lot of it comes from being terrified that any sort of nice, physical contact with a man will suddenly have them labeled something pejorative." Spot on and well-worded.
I've never heard a bad thing about Chris Hemsworth. He is such a charming and good human.
I think the touching one is VERY dependent on how good looking he is. If you’re a pale, overweight, scruffying looking guy it might not go over so well
Lauren exactly
That’s just a fact :/. Unfortunately in western society if you happen to be fat it is much much harder than being skinny. If you’re fat you’re already perceived a certain way right off the bat by society
That's true but only incidentally. Pale, overweight, and scruffy are traits that usually are either the cause of or a result of insecurity. I've met overweight people who are charismatic and touch and joke around with people very effectively, and the key is that they are confident in their own skin.
I love being pale.
What about Hagrid then?
First of all, I don't want people to be obsessed with me! Keep your charm.
Chris Hemsworth has that loving big brother/cool dad vibe with EVERYONE...that is why he is so likable...it is his nature!
In the same vein I'd like to see you explore Tom Hiddleston's quieter style of charisma
I'm game! Please tweet me some videos that you like and I'll watch them :-)
Ragnarak
Haha I blame my Philadelphia accent ;-)
How to get away with complimenting a boss: have a good working relationship with them and let them observe how you compliment peers (while making sure the compliments are genuine and something that others, including the boss, would agree with). Then when you compliment the boss (and you do it as a genuine compliment) it will come across as such. Your boss is already conditioned to see you as a genuine and sincere person who isn’t afraid to recognize others.
The subtitles are for a different video starting at 11:02, just letting you know. Great videos! Thanks for sharing them and demonstrating such wonderful examples!
I wonder how many of these tips are applicable to women. Women touching everyone and/or giving away credit tends to carry a very different type of interpretation than when men do it.
Richa Prasad Yes, that's what I thought! I tried being a "universal toucher" when I was younger, but hot dog, did that mislead guys. Now I'm only comfortable touching girls since guys act like an arm touch is a love confession :(
Serena Journalist - LOLOLOL "but hot dog did that mislead guys" - Haaaahaaa!! 😆
Yea true, the same goes in opposite direction, I don't like at all when men of my "dating" age touch me. If you are over 40 or under 15, it is fine, otherwise just creepy no matter how friendly the touch is.
I think it depends on who the other person it is and also how you personally act while you do that. I am a "Universal toucher" and it does mislead certain people but once me and that person is in the group. They usually start to realize that I'm just a "touchy" person and that I'm not interested in that way. If they drop hits that they like me, I try to basically tell them I see them only as friends with verbal language and body language. If it start getting too weird though then I don't touch that person at all while still showing in good with everyone else.
I was just about to comment on that when I ran across your comment Richa Prasad. I feel women are more scrutinized for being touchy or showing interest in conversation because sometimes it is interpreted incorrectly. I would like a guide (for women) on how to act without leading people on, or without it being misinterpreted as sexual.
You basically need to be this way naturally otherwise it is awkward AF
We keep changing throughout our lives. Try to remember how you were 5 years ago.
@@theemperor1015 yeah i was smiling , wait no that was kid me , i was getting more angry at the time by being treated like shit yeah that was good time
It can be a gradual change tho. I know I went from being crazy and lighthearted around a lot of people back in middle school to being very shy within a few years. (And it being what people know me as now) So I think it can go both ways too.
@@theemperor1015 yes
I agree
To be famous you have to unlock something within you, basically what people call charisma, for some it’s being funny for others it’s being intimidating, for most it’s a mix.
Love CH and agree with the benefits of him being given more creative, freedom and opportunity to be more himself in the movie! As far as the points, I hope most of these are obvious :-) but if not, thank goodness, you are covering them
I think a video on Emma stone would be great. I find her very likable in interviews. I feel like she's actually really nice. Jennifer Lawrence is always heralded as this super laid-back funny girl but I personally find her really annoying.
Agree. Lawrence is nice and smart but acting it out over the top. As if that's another role to play
The hate is real
100% agree!
His so chill and confident and COMFORTABLE, thats what i get from him😄 when i watch him in an interview ,it looks like his just sitting at home hangin out with buddies. i feel like its probably a bit of an Australian thing! Since Hugh Jackman kinda gives me the same vibe....
Anni Psy lol
I am 6'3 as well and I am not very charismatic. Don't look for easy excuses.
Nick O idk why i didnt tell u this story a month ago but now i will.
When i was younger i met a boy, he realy liked me, we were talking on the phone and i called him some cutesy name. He suddenly got offended!!! He said: u call me that because im short ?! Thats probably why u dont like me like i do.... I said: whatt are u talking about????? He said: that im shorter than u!!!
Ive never even noticed his height!!!! Not in the slightest! He was the one who had issues with it, not me!!! I dont think i need to explain this any further but i hope i made my point clear.
that's interesting, sometimes being too easily offended or insecure can lead to making some imaginary problems become real.
Anni Psy it's easy to be confident when you know most women want you and most men want to be you 😂
This video makes so much sense this year
I am an ESTP much like him, but apparently I’m not popular, sometimes not respected as well ( because I’m always light, talkative, and striving to make fun conversations and don’t get offended easily ) .. And on top of the iceberg I struggle with social anxiety (being called very nice/ weak personality/ shallow before) all that just makes it hard for me to socialize with people because they are super judgmental and I always end up being disrespected or people (most likely friends) just choose to not reply to calls or messages and drift away
He is good looking? Yep. But what more than that? He is good person, good friend, good colleague, good husband, great father, great son, not a good brother when he was child but now freaking yes. He bring his elder bro Luke in mcu. In a word he is the guy people always wanted to be surrounded by.
how to be popular without trying
Step 1: BE HOT AF BRO
this channel is my shining light!
Probably one of my favorite videos ever hands down
I feel like the more I watch these videos the more I over analyse my behaviour and the more socially awkward I become 😂😂
this is exactly why i dont watch that many of these lol
Whatever you do, don't resort to watching funny/cute pet videos or you'll end up with 11 cats...
it just makes me realize that most of it is just looks and money , because i have similar traits , and i was still treated like a shit as kid , teen , then i had 2 years of me going mental and beating anyone who said something that i didnt like , weirdly people tried then to be my "friends" well they tried to be around me more
When you're good looking it's easy to have confidence
Exactly. He knows he is good looking, so he isn't scared of embarrassing his self. He doesn't care about people judging him because why should he.
actually, confidence is one of handsome traits.. it's true that handsome person get confidence easily.. but also, confidence could make u looks more handsome.. think about that
senyummewek the burn =))
Idk... Most models actually have the lowest self confidence but I'm not sure about good looking people in general
Boy, he has the voice, sonorious deep manly and beautiful! I could listen to his voice forever! Here, again I agree.
During the ECQ in my country, I have watched almost all yours videos and they are splendid! 👍 On this particular video though, I have noticed 16 personalities' picture and the reference you used and I am truly amazed because the episode about "3 Surprising Steps to Influence Anyone" is like an ENTP or INTJ perhaps ENTJ too tactic to become sly but powerful. So do you think Chris here (based on observation) an ESFP?
How to be popular:
Step 1: Be around people.
Me: Pass
Your afraid of being around people 😂😂😂
6:42
Nobody:
This guy: touch EVERYONE
I needed this video, and this channel, back in middle school.
Thank you so much amazing video and congratulations on the 6Millions subscribers! xo
A lot of people heard “it also helps that he’s good looking” and just took that as the reason they’re not more popular. So self defeating
Well that’s bollocks because if you go back to school the good looking ones are always the most popular, when you grow up, it’s just a playground full of adults, trust me.
If he was 5 ft 4 balding bloke with the same traits he wouldnt nearly be as popular. Use some common sense
@@jimmysmith736 as sad as it is.. Its true. Good looks do help
@@jimmysmith736 I was very good looking in high school, but wasn't popular due to extreme shyness. :(
I'll admit that I wasn't the scapegoat or anything like that due to my looks, but people regarded me as a snob and were often afraid to approach me. My point being is that looks do matter, but only to a certain extent because character including confidence also helps.
jimmy smith jack black is very popular and isn’t what most would consider good looking. Checkmate. lol but you could actually find a lot of very popular people who aren’t insanely good looking.
Julie Erin who in the world says they are good looking lol
I can watch these videos all day, it’s not only about being liked or being popular it’s about building better relationships with others :)
I appreciate your work... Your videos are super informative and i learned a lot so thank you
i feel like thats why ppl r so attracted to him to: hes so confident and doesnt show embarrassment for things ppl expect
I wish there was an exact channel like this more towards females
Y’all can get damn near anybody y’all want tho 😭 we the ones who gotta apply pressure
@@mxrder8767 I mean u got a point but some of us ain’t built like that 😭
OfficiallyNazo exactly 🤣🤣
Charisma is unisex, tho most of these tips only work for males there are many helpful tips for women
Be Physically fit, look at people like u are confident of ur being and owe no one ur existence. Read more to increase ur intellectual capabilities. Trust me this works like magic, show people u really care about them by listening to them, and just listen and reply Only when u gotta compliment them or say something which makes them realize that u are really wanting to listen to them, Be good to people, shower love. Experiment with ur look, try to dress in a way which makes u look ur best. Trust me this is all.
"no matter what you look like"
potato faced me: great thank you
Thanks for such wonderful efforts you guys!