I'm a six and definitely always have a feeling that I'm not on stable ground. Life is a place where I wait for the next thing to break or go wrong. It's as if the ground from beneath me could give out at any moment and I don't have the resources to fix it. Or, that something malicious has made it passed my detection and is now in my living space. It's not always a malicious person either. It could be the sound of dripping water in the walls, that turns out to actually be outside. Or someone hacking into my internet. Or rats in the crawl spaces but turns out to be someone shuffling papers in the next room. People say having super sonic hearing is awesome, but I say it sucks.
Keep addressing this and challenging those voices Randel, it’s a hard but rewarding work and I believe you can chip away at it so it’s more manageable 👊🏼 Drew
I think I bought that book for my son who's 23, who is why I'm watching this video 😂 Trying to learn how to hold my energy in a way that makes him feel safe. Sometimes he thinks I have motives that are not real. I definitely overthink as well (4sxW3). I wish I'd had a good mom like he has, but he doesn't trust me. Feels like life is short. I wish we could figure it out.
I need some MORE 6 content!! Something about the wings!! I’ve been into the enneagram, for almost a year and watched several videos and read up on a TON about the enneagram. I really like your take and information here. I guess it’s the skeptic part of me but I tend to teeter on if I’m really a 6 or not. By all the videos I’ve watched and everything I’ve read, I’m a 6w7SP. And after this I’m going to watch your sub types video because like you said at the beginning, once you look deeper into the 6s, each subtype can look like a completely different person. So while I identify with a lot of what you’re saying, I’m really interested in what your subtype video will say. Honestly, someday, when I have extra $$ (ha!) I just need to bite the bullet and have a one on one coaching session. At least to help me understand myself a little more, not to mention NEEDING coaching/ direction/ therapy, whatever you wanna call it, in general. I did subscribe though, to see when you DO add some more content in!! - 6w7SP (maybe)
Thanks for jumping on board. Ok, I’m feeling the pressure. Give me some time to get more content for you 😉 I did just put out 20 videos in a month and I’m exhausted but my brain is still fertile and ready for more Be very patient with me Drew
@@drewnewkirk yes, I did see that you’ve put out a lot recently!! I look up a lot of 6 stuff and hadn’t ever seen your videos pop up before. My bf is an 8w7 (not sure of his subtype though) but I sent him your 8 videos. I haven’t watched them yet but he said he really liked them too. 😁 I’ll keep my eye out for your wing videos though. I’ve got plenty of other content to watch and work to do, myself, in the meantime anyway. 🙈🙈 lol. Gotta stay busy. 😜 -Sarah
Drew is true we all proyect, & is true sexual or transmisor instint is more about reacting, but you are still a 4, we are still mostly about introyecting,& that is the Opposite of what a 6 does. All sexual/transmisor instint react,brust...there ia like a difference. Even though we all have a bit or much of everythg
Lol, nothing like a 4 checking his heartfelt emotions for refinement by an ever questioning six and an ever questioning 6 questioning his leaders for survival in his own mind around a strong 4.
I am an SP4 married to an SP6. I've been waiting for your 6 content. Thanks Drew for putting this great analysis out there!
Hey man! Good to hear from you again. The 6 subtypes are ready to be filmed, just give me a few days. Hope to do them justice
I'm a six and definitely always have a feeling that I'm not on stable ground. Life is a place where I wait for the next thing to break or go wrong. It's as if the ground from beneath me could give out at any moment and I don't have the resources to fix it. Or, that something malicious has made it passed my detection and is now in my living space. It's not always a malicious person either. It could be the sound of dripping water in the walls, that turns out to actually be outside. Or someone hacking into my internet. Or rats in the crawl spaces but turns out to be someone shuffling papers in the next room. People say having super sonic hearing is awesome, but I say it sucks.
Keep addressing this and challenging those voices Randel, it’s a hard but rewarding work and I believe you can chip away at it so it’s more manageable 👊🏼
Drew
I think I bought that book for my son who's 23, who is why I'm watching this video 😂
Trying to learn how to hold my energy in a way that makes him feel safe. Sometimes he thinks I have motives that are not real. I definitely overthink as well (4sxW3). I wish I'd had a good mom like he has, but he doesn't trust me. Feels like life is short. I wish we could figure it out.
I need some MORE 6 content!! Something about the wings!!
I’ve been into the enneagram, for almost a year and watched several videos and read up on a TON about the enneagram. I really like your take and information here. I guess it’s the skeptic part of me but I tend to teeter on if I’m really a 6 or not. By all the videos I’ve watched and everything I’ve read, I’m a 6w7SP. And after this I’m going to watch your sub types video because like you said at the beginning, once you look deeper into the 6s, each subtype can look like a completely different person. So while I identify with a lot of what you’re saying, I’m really interested in what your subtype video will say. Honestly, someday, when I have extra $$ (ha!) I just need to bite the bullet and have a one on one coaching session. At least to help me understand myself a little more, not to mention NEEDING coaching/ direction/ therapy, whatever you wanna call it, in general.
I did subscribe though, to see when you DO add some more content in!!
- 6w7SP (maybe)
Thanks for jumping on board. Ok, I’m feeling the pressure. Give me some time to get more content for you 😉 I did just put out 20 videos in a month and I’m exhausted but my brain is still fertile and ready for more
Be very patient with me
Drew
@@drewnewkirk yes, I did see that you’ve put out a lot recently!! I look up a lot of 6 stuff and hadn’t ever seen your videos pop up before. My bf is an 8w7 (not sure of his subtype though) but I sent him your 8 videos. I haven’t watched them yet but he said he really liked them too. 😁
I’ll keep my eye out for your wing videos though. I’ve got plenty of other content to watch and work to do, myself, in the meantime anyway. 🙈🙈 lol. Gotta stay busy. 😜
-Sarah
@@sarah3gee I’ll keep hustlin if you will 😉
@@drewnewkirk erryday I am. 🙃 lol
So good!
Thank you as always!
David Goggins 6sx
Drew is true we all proyect, & is true sexual or transmisor instint is more about reacting, but you are still a 4, we are still mostly about introyecting,& that is the Opposite of what a 6 does. All sexual/transmisor instint react,brust...there ia like a difference. Even though we all have a bit or much of everythg
Lol, nothing like a 4 checking his heartfelt emotions for refinement by an ever questioning six and an ever questioning 6 questioning his leaders for survival in his own mind around a strong 4.
Ha! Yep. Lots of monitoring and navigating emotionally
Humor is about awareness
Withdrawal - Past
Assertive - Future
Pessimism to preparedness
The only people in power are the ones who want to misuse it.
My bro, a 5, has it like crazy. He always notices, well, everything.
What is your tritype drew
478, pretty accurate description of me
@@drewnewkirk I am an 874, I understand why I like your take on things
@@MajorieRoyal ha! Yep, we are a unique breed