I feel so so bad for her. They are not giving her her flowers. She’s doing great… helping out with bills and etc, helping her sister with her baby, taking care of her kids, overcoming addiction, work at night and school?! They are so wrong.
Nah shes definitely in the wrong. She cant handle everyone calling her out, and she’s acting as if she never did anything wrong. “I dont know why y’all are coming at me” because shes in the wrong??? If she never did bad shit in the first place she wouldn’t be on the show! I know people like this i can Spot it!
No, whichever bills she helps out with, most likely are significantly less than if she was living on her own with her children, so she is not doing anyone any favours.
All while she’s DEPRESSED! Some people can’t even get out of bed to fed themselves or wipe their own arse while they’re. If she had a visible disability they wouldn’t treat her like this.
I see what’s happening here, they brought her here to get under her skin, thanks Karomo for bringing it back because the sister and the mother sit around talking about how she used to be instead of who she is becoming!!!
Karamo didn't address this but there are deeper issues here. I think Taylor regrets giving her sister her baby. As a side note when the child gets older will they tell him the truth? His Auntie is his biological mum. I'm uncomfortable with this story tbh
The child she gave away is better off because it seems she's making more children then she can take care of. She sleeps all day while her mom does everything. That's NOT Taylor's mom's job.
This is deeper than what we see There are a lot of biracial children who are treated differently by their parents and siblings What we are seeing is just the tip of the iceberg There may also be disassociations related to the mother not being able to understand certain obstacles that her daughter may encounter being a person of color
@@kindladyw.7466 I agree But I also know that the imbalance we see in our children is often a reflection of an imbalance that exists within us as the parents
True. I agree sometimes family members can be so much alike and don't realize it. Most cases is not knowing how to communicate and listening to each other.
Not everything is about skin colour, this is a single mother to 4 children who works nights and studies! Her priorities are all over the place, she’s tired confused and everything she does requires a piece of her!
That's what I thought the Mother is projecting a lot onto the daughter and as far as giving a child away to her sister that was an attempt to be accepted into the family more
There is an element to this situation that isn't being brought up...also the sister really needs to stay out of it, and the mom needs to stop bringing the sister into it...
neither the mother or sister acknowledge the fact that that shes never FORCED them to help her with her kids. and they dont mention how shes FINANCIALLY helping the household. they cant have it both ways. either shes a lazy mum that doesnt work or shes a hard working mum who takes care of her kids, GOES TO SCHOOL PART TIME and WORKS to pay the bills
So it's normal for her to not take care of her kids because she is working?? WE are all doing that. I take care of my kids and i go to work, i work as hell. And i'm a single mom!!!
@@erakono92akonoestelle61 where did i say its normal for a working mum to not look after her kids? she is working, studying, shes got kids and she is PAYING THEIR BILLS. the mum and sister live in the house thats shes paying bills on. if the mum and sister want financial help like that then they should also help out around the house and they clearly dont
So, who should take care of the kids if not her mom? Where do you think her kids would be if her mom didn’t take her in? She created this life for herself, we all have battles but she chose to have children, she chose to cuss her elderly mother out, she’s financially helping the household? No she financially helping her kids in her mothers household. You sound like a parent who must’ve dropped their kids off at your moms. This mother need therapy & a peer partner & she needs to take some parenting classes.
She’s helping pay the bills. Giving the sister money for IVF and paying moms bills and clothes. She’s useless to them until she pulls her wallet out. Yea she’s not perfect and has flaws but she is helping.
And she gave her sister a whole baby I would have let shorty say shit to me walking around with my whole child then tryna call me a bad mom the next day like girl bye
@@TheKweenNaNah The Sister was saying the younger sister was failing her kids and could do better and even the younger sister ADMITTED that she had been a really crap mom and didn't care at one point about looking afterher FOUR kids. During that stage who was looking after her kids and picking up the slack, her Sister and Mom. Standing by her. That's a Sister that loves her Sister and her nieces and nephews and wants the BEST for all of them so that her Sister's kids don't pay the price and have issues later in life. The older Sister checking her Sister on that is an act of love. You are petty, immature and have a childish tit for tat mentality. Too many of your type in this world that think NO-ONE can tell them anything. So what if she gave her Sister a child? Does that mean her Sister has no right to say anything, as an Aunt and older Sister, if she sees her neices & nephews being neglected and suffering? Her lips have to be sealed shut, according to you. Then when those kids are older, they will say why didn't you do something to protect us when you saw our Mum was being a crappy and neglectful Mum? 'Oh, I couldn't because your Mum gave me little X, so I turned a blind eye and said and did nothing to protect you guys'. That's messed up thinking.
It was the deliverance of the audience that pissed me off, because all that aggression is why she stormed off. That is NOT how to deliver a message to someone who is struggling with ANY thing emotionally otherwise you will get this sort of reaction if not worse. They shouldn’t have been able to deliver like that , and this is why people fall deeper into depression and addiction. Clearly this is deeper than any of us can grasp. She is right we cannot judge , and the way the lady from the audience was talking with so much aggression is why she felt judged . There are other ways to deliver an important message to someone without using so much force , judgment, ect. We may not understand. I notice she is biracial… if she is the only biracial child maybe she feels like she’s been treated differently, or doesn’t quite fit in , ect there is a lot more o this the reasons this woman has such sever emotional distress and I wish this was handled with more care and concern rather than blatant judgment.
Oooo she pissed me off like girl you was ready to hear sum you ain't like so you can get 15 seconds of fame SIT DOWWWNNN ewwwww. I hope she reads these comments
I believe the mom and sister wanna raise the kids their way, n since she doesn’t listen they feel they need to step in. That doesn’t mean she is mistreating her children.
So I think the issue is that her mother is putting in a lot more effort into being a parent than she wants to. She wants to be a grandparent. But also if you live in someone’s house and you have your children, they’re going to partially have a say, if there in your child’s life and taking care of them. If you don’t want their opinions, then go somewhere else. But i don’t think she is a bad mom or sister. I think she is going through a time
The daughter needs to get her own place,so she can be a parent to her kids and have a separate life.This a crazy-crazy story.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois
i think karamo was wrong for letting the audience member attack taylor like that. none of them know her or know what shes been through. there are always two sides to a story and then theres the truth and for literal strangers to be attacking you while youre already being attacked by your "family"...taylor's better than me cuz everyone wouldve got told tf off.
She needs to get her own place, and responsibility for her children. Then if she need help, ask for help. If they carry on living together, they will step in into each others boundaries.
Taylor’s mom and sister remind me of my judgmental mother, you don’t know what it’s like until you’ve lived with people like this. They aren’t gonna change
It's so sad us single moms go through so much and the fathers are out here living like a free bird. It's no fair! Then CPS will take our kids bcuz we can't support them alone. Why not give the kids to the fathers and force them to be a parent
As a woman it’s your responsibility. We’re so concerned about the men running off scot free instead being mindful of the men we choose & the men we choose to create life with. It’s YOUR womb & you are responsible for who implants seeds within you. Take more agency as a woman & find your power & focus as a woman.
@@fairy5728 I get you. But unfortunately it doesn’t matter. It’s the same a as crook talking us into something sketchy. My pops always told me “ I don’t give a fuck what the N-word say! What are his actions?!”
I have so much to say on this video, but I’m only gonna address the most important! People come on the show because they feel safe enough to open up. You can’t allow or encourage audience members to shout out an attack people! That is completely unacceptable. She should have been removed in that same minute! That baby had so much to get out that she couldn’t because she was already being double teamed by mom an sister. Absolutely disgusting thing that woman in the audience did
Seriously, you're right. The audience member should've been called out. Her attitude and behavior was beyond disgusting and judgemental. She seems to have that traditional mindset and can't be open to multiple possibilities and circumstances. I really wish that audience member could be told to shut up by someone and its like why isn't anyone acknowledging that she is the only biracial one in a WHITE family, it's giving scapegoat and black sheep.
He must let that friend go. No excuse to that! Move on and protect yourself ! Right! He’s entitled to protect himself but not checking on your allegedly best friend and he’s not taking accountability and doesn’t apologize sincerely 😢
Daniel don't trust that dude first of you call him a brother and he's calling yo his best friend second if others have to tell him to apologize to you it's not sincere do not trust him.Daniel deep down Avell might be your enemy
The audience needs to calm down with the judgment of other people’s lives she probably over whelmed with those kids and you don’t call someone a bad mother and attack them after you see she needs support and there’s no man in the house like family has to work together. Everybody is literally trying to attack her cause she going to sleep during the day and working at night -_- like be fr ain’t nobody perfect
Just because you’re friends with someone doesn’t mean they’re YOUR FRIEND. You can see them as family have love for them DOESNT mean they Love you Back this is PERFECT EXAMPLE. I been there not in a shooting but I had to cut her ass loose because I realized someone I trusted and loved and protected as my Sister like ain’t let no one! Mess with the girl her fight woulda been my fight! She sat there and was talking crap about me online she never was a friend much less a real sister so is cool nothing lost since nothing was there in the first place just felt dumb for just like Daniel giving someone so many years of my time and friendship & loyalty
Right! The daughter is paying bills and spent $300 shopping for the mom to come to the show! Also, the mom is messy! Cause why is she telling the sister all of her issues. Instead of telling the daughter that she has the issue with.
So no one sees that Taylor is depressed? She gave you a child thinking it was your only chance at motherhood and then you had a child of your own, and yall criticize her parenting. she got divorced and displaced with 4 kids, she has horrible relationships with her family, she works overnight and shes obviously emotionally raw. Like just pointing fingers at her and not trying to understand whats wrong with her, thats not empathy thats critcism. She cant sleep? Shes criminal for sleeping when she works overnight? Depression also causes you to sleep like that and curse and lash out. If you offer to take care of kids you cant vilify the parent for taking the help. If you dont want to dont! Help her move out.
They are all crazy!This girl needs to get her own place and distance herself from these two toxic bitches.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois
As a single mother of five it's time to move out your mother house and get your s*** together. Nobody has to help you. Respect the fact that you are getting hope I don't have help and I bossed... and learned too get it done
@@Mexicochannthe mom is acting like Taylor doesn't take care of her kids at all but it obvious that she does shes sleeping so she can have energy to go to work the mom is also acting like she doesn't do anything to compensate for what shes doing to help her kids when she pays the bills and literally paid 300 dollars for her mom to get an outfit for the show
A mother of 4 children, burdening her mother because of decisions she made... Why is she the victim? I don't get it. She seems to me more like a spoil brat who wants to have her cake and eat it too. You're disrespecting your mother while she's helping you with your children. Girl you're crazy.
There's something more deeper going on with the daughter but why have children and not raise them? The Mom is afraid of her daughter. My Mom woulda kicked me out of her house if I disrespected her. The children woulda stayed.
She was married she said so in the beginning... so instead of judging the parent who's stayed and is trying her damnedest why not judge the one that not there
She’s need a lot of help emotionally. She is not right for disrespecting her mom at all. My mom would for sure beat my ass and I better not look like I was going to fight back. 😂. But she needs therapy there’s something wrong her mentally. I wish her family would see that.
The older generation of women disgust me! They didn't raise their own children and don't want to help their own children raise their children. They don't know what it feels like to take on the full responsibility of raising children because they had help/ relief!
y’all associate “friend” with disrespect that’s the problem. Mothers are SUPPOSED to be your friend. you should be able to express yourself and tell them everything but when mothers put this barrier up saying “i’m not your friend” it makes a child back off completely.
@@kimnamjoonsbike261 yes its old sko, and gross. My mom completely shut me out my whole life, lmost like she did not like me. However we was rite under the same roof.
That was such a gift she gave her sister. But 1 day, they are going to have to tell that boy that mom is not your bio mom. I don't think I could've done that
I feel like Taylor is overwhelmed and young. It's alot to be a young mom by yourself. She doesn't connect to care through the domestic side raising children i.e. cooking and cleaning. But uses money as her best way to give back. She's used to disconnecting with drugs first and now uses other things to disconnect with. She probably feels trapped. She has to grow more. And mom needs to leave her sister out of it if she's been talking to her.
If the Mom wouldn't have started doing everything for her adult daughter she wouldn't be going through it. But it's never too late to get your house in order.
She is a beautiful young lady but she made a lot of bad choices and she doesn't know how to deal with it. She needs to grow up stay strong and keep focus cause her children need her
Do they keep having kids hoping the man will stay around?.... It’s so sad for these children, that end up like the parents because they don’t know any other way. Only in America....
The older sister has 1 child (which was given to her) and is over there acting like she’s the end all be all of parenting. Not only does the little sister have multiple children, she’s working, in school and over coming an addiction. Give that girl some grace! And instead of the mom running to the older sister talking and being messy she should be talking about her issues with the daughter that’s in her household. Now they get her on this show and try and make it like she’s a horrible mother
I’ve been in the shooting situation and trust me until you’re in that situation, you have no clue what you will do. What was he supposed to do? Y’all should’ve both left duhhhhhhh. And I hate to tell you this but you’re expecting too much from someone who isn’t actually your brother love. People will leave their own flesh and blood during less. To think this man set you up is comical. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Unfortunately though this situation that I was in the boy lost his life. And I had to see him take his last breath with his eyes still open. Anyhow, yeah light skinned is doing too much. Neither of them is a good friend. Calm down boo.
This clip reminded me of how society doesn't have any grace towards single mothers, you're expected to carry the world on your back. But raising kids alone (let alone five) would be hard for anyone, people always say it takes a village to raise children but situations like this come up and all of sudden they forget that. Everyone took the older sister's word for everything, but when Taylor spoke for herself she acknowledged that she gets some help but not as often and frequent as her sister and mother is claiming. But Taylor's side was completely disregarded and mostly everyone (especially that one aggravating audience member who had all the audacity in the world to stand up and dare speak down on a person she doesn't know) took the older sister's words as the absolute truth. But how could any of use do that when we're not there. It wasn't fair at all and I don't like how Karamo ended that segment with Taylor because if people were really using their eyes they would see the one biracial family member being ganged up and embarrassed by her very WHITE family members. Its very much giving scapegoat and black sheep of the family. For anyone siding with Taylor's sister and mother should %110 research what a scapegoat and blacksheep family member is and looks like before readily team tagging against Taylor. There was not enough grace given to Taylor at all. And I really hate how none of this was acknowledged. Fully disappointed in how Karamo ended that particular segment.😠😠
Taylor is not lying. That mother is very contradicting she says she tells her it's fine go ahead and sleep then calls her other daughter to complain and gossip about shit SHE AGREED TOO. Taylor needs to save up & leave
@@keyonnareid9287 she was married she had those kids while she was married, so why are you being so accusatory judgmental of her while she’s the one who sang in raising her kids is kind of indicative who you are as a person very telling
Same? I'm scrolling through the comments to see what people are saying about that second story. 🤔 I feel like we didn't really get to the route of he did actually set him or anything like that or if he was involved. I mean , I guess he said he didn't, but then there has to be more to the story for the other guy to think that he would even be capable of that and the female friend feels the same way !
I feel really bad for her however she should not be calling her mom no B. Because that is her mom. She paid for her mom out fit to come to the show they all love each other I hope everything works out for them you can tell that she’s hurting.
the two best friends the one with the jacket you can sense when someone not your true friend at all and when a serious issue comes the real and fake comes out in the light
Yall believe that half truth Taylor told about paying "all" the bills if you want to. If she can pay all the bills at her mom's house she can afford to live on her own and NOT in her mom's house.
Time out for tantrums and storming off you have kids who depend on you. Her mom was paying her bills and getting by before she moved in. She should pay the bills and buy food. You can't stay anywhere for free.The truth hurts and growth is about doing what makes you uncomfortable.
I'm sorry but Lil Miss Taylor needs to get it under control. She needs to put her big girl underwear on. First off if you couldn't take care of one, why have multiple. Secondly, a mother is supposed to do what she's supposed to do regardless of how tired she is. When my daughter was born, I was working, going to school and my daughter was a preemie on oxygen and I had me to depend on and no one else. I struggled with alcohol addiction before my daughter was born too so she gets no sympathy from me. You have to hold it down for your kids. Period.
My mom and sister use to do this to me. They only half acknowledge what you do but they only acknowledge what you don't do or think you don't do. I had 3 jobs with a son and no help but would always be told I choose to when we had bills to pay, needed food, and we weren't on public assistance. So I had to pay for my son's medical out pocket. They will never speak on the struggle. My mom and sister do this to me. My mom would run and tell my sister anytime she had a problem with me but I would know about it until my sister trys to check me just to gang up on me.
Regardless to Taylor saying your embarrassing me at times we need to look at ourselves as well no child of mine would be living in my house calling me a bitch sorry, you had the kids not the grandmother she’s helping you be grateful and sit down and talk to your mum instead of being abusive period smh 🤦♀️
I am so glad I came to the comments, I thought I was the only one who felt Taylors sister was shady as F. TAYLOR IF YOU SEE THIS OUT THERE YOU ARE DOING AMAZING!
Lil Miss Taylor is everything the mother and sister says she is! She is a spoiled , entitled adult. I don’t see that she appreciates her mother’s or sister’s support. Why is she watering down everything that they say as if it’s not true?
Clearly you missed the portion of the story where Taylor was paying the bills, buying groceries, purchasing clothing for her mom and gave her sister a kid.
I don't care what a person says or does you should bite your tongue before you call your parent a "b" her mom has raised her kids she shouldn't feel responsible for raising yours. Yes, when you have kids you don't get enough rest or anything else. When it's time for school she should be up and at it, not the grandma. Once the kids are gone, go to bed. Pick them up from school do homework and cook at the same time, all you need is a nice size table. If you are a single parent you will rarely have enough time to do what you want
She’s depressed she gave her kid up she has to get help because hey I get being sleepy I worked midnights before I’m a mom BUT! What did I do run on 2/3hrs of sleep because my kid’s clothed bathed fed spending that 1/1 time with me DAILY! I’m not going out living kid free life having kids that’s just stupid because honey that ships sailed moment you decided to have these kids people calling her “a young mom” she’s not young she’s 30!!! She’s not a teen mom that’s 15/16 she’s not 20,23 she’s 30!! So grow up I get your depressed but you gotta get it together for them kids you do have! That party life is OVER!
Taylor had a drug issue for a reason and got pregnant so young for a reason. They need to stop. She was depressed. She needs mental health support. Because, it seems as though they are not allowing her to evolve.
Young lady, you are getting a lot of sleep time. When you have children as long as they are up and about, you can't sleep. My children are 38 and 31 and I am still waiting for relaxation time. You certainly get a lot of sleep. I know parenting is hard but when you are a parent, it is all about the children and it is not good to leave their care to other folks.
I feel so so bad for her. They are not giving her her flowers. She’s doing great… helping out with bills and etc, helping her sister with her baby, taking care of her kids, overcoming addiction, work at night and school?! They are so wrong.
I agree
Agree ❤
Nah shes definitely in the wrong. She cant handle everyone calling her out, and she’s acting as if she never did anything wrong. “I dont know why y’all are coming at me” because shes in the wrong??? If she never did bad shit in the first place she wouldn’t be on the show! I know people like this i can Spot it!
No, whichever bills she helps out with, most likely are significantly less than if she was living on her own with her children, so she is not doing anyone any favours.
All while she’s DEPRESSED! Some people can’t even get out of bed to fed themselves or wipe their own arse while they’re. If she had a visible disability they wouldn’t treat her like this.
I see what’s happening here, they brought her here to get under her skin, thanks Karomo for bringing it back because the sister and the mother sit around talking about how she used to be instead of who she is becoming!!!
She still letting mom do to much, she taking advantage.
Karamo didn't address this but there are deeper issues here. I think Taylor regrets giving her sister her baby.
As a side note when the child gets older will they tell him the truth? His Auntie is his biological mum.
I'm uncomfortable with this story tbh
I 100% agree. I was looking for this comment. She regrets giving her baby away, and that has really hurt her and left her broken.
She gave you a whole child to fix this relationship and y’all still treat her like this??? Stop.
Exactly this was happening before her kids smh
Facts people are psyched out
The child she gave away is better off because it seems she's making more children then she can take care of. She sleeps all day while her mom does everything. That's NOT Taylor's mom's job.
It’s the sister smiling for me while she was crying about her postpartum experience.
I saw that smirk as well...I get jealous vibes from older sister because baby sis can have children
It’s the girl in the crowd please sthu 😂💯cus girllll
This is deeper than what we see
There are a lot of biracial children who are treated differently by their parents and siblings
What we are seeing is just the tip of the iceberg
There may also be disassociations related to the mother not being able to understand certain obstacles that her daughter may encounter being a person of color
Her mother has a child that’s biracial as well. The daughter needs to take care of her children and not depend solely on her mother.
@@kindladyw.7466 I agree
But I also know that the imbalance we see in our children is often a reflection of an imbalance that exists within us as the parents
True. I agree sometimes family members can be so much alike and don't realize it. Most cases is not knowing how to communicate and listening to each other.
Not everything is about skin colour, this is a single mother to 4 children who works nights and studies!
Her priorities are all over the place, she’s tired confused and everything she does requires a piece of her!
That's what I thought the Mother is projecting a lot onto the daughter and as far as giving a child away to her sister that was an attempt to be accepted into the family more
There is an element to this situation that isn't being brought up...also the sister really needs to stay out of it, and the mom needs to stop bringing the sister into it...
neither the mother or sister acknowledge the fact that that shes never FORCED them to help her with her kids. and they dont mention how shes FINANCIALLY helping the household. they cant have it both ways. either shes a lazy mum that doesnt work or shes a hard working mum who takes care of her kids, GOES TO SCHOOL PART TIME and WORKS to pay the bills
So it's normal for her to not take care of her kids because she is working?? WE are all doing that. I take care of my kids and i go to work, i work as hell. And i'm a single mom!!!
She can't handle her life but she keeps making babies...
@@erakono92akonoestelle61 where did i say its normal for a working mum to not look after her kids? she is working, studying, shes got kids and she is PAYING THEIR BILLS. the mum and sister live in the house thats shes paying bills on. if the mum and sister want financial help like that then they should also help out around the house and they clearly dont
So, who should take care of the kids if not her mom? Where do you think her kids would be if her mom didn’t take her in? She created this life for herself, we all have battles but she chose to have children, she chose to cuss her elderly mother out, she’s financially helping the household? No she financially helping her kids in her mothers household. You sound like a parent who must’ve dropped their kids off at your moms. This mother need therapy & a peer partner & she needs to take some parenting classes.
Yeah that truth but she grown get your own home and take care of ALLL!!! Responsibility
She’s helping pay the bills. Giving the sister money for IVF and paying moms bills and clothes. She’s useless to them until she pulls her wallet out. Yea she’s not perfect and has flaws but she is helping.
She is not helping she is getting help. When you live with someone they are helping you. She is disrespectful and she is ungrateful that's it.
so then she dont need to spend her money on them then. She needs to keep her money to herself and let them figure it out@@Leniloveyeshua3483
And she gave her sister a whole baby I would have let shorty say shit to me walking around with my whole child then tryna call me a bad mom the next day like girl bye
@@TheKweenNaNah The Sister was saying the younger sister was failing her kids and could do better and even the younger sister ADMITTED that she had been a really crap mom and didn't care at one point about looking afterher FOUR kids. During that stage who was looking after her kids and picking up the slack, her Sister and Mom. Standing by her.
That's a Sister that loves her Sister and her nieces and nephews and wants the BEST for all of them so that her Sister's kids don't pay the price and have issues later in life. The older Sister checking her Sister on that is an act of love.
You are petty, immature and have a childish tit for tat mentality. Too many of your type in this world that think NO-ONE can tell them anything. So what if she gave her Sister a child? Does that mean her Sister has no right to say anything, as an Aunt and older Sister, if she sees her neices & nephews being neglected and suffering? Her lips have to be sealed shut, according to you. Then when those kids are older, they will say why didn't you do something to protect us when you saw our Mum was being a crappy and neglectful Mum? 'Oh, I couldn't because your Mum gave me little X, so I turned a blind eye and said and did nothing to protect you guys'. That's messed up thinking.
She has four kids she better be paying g some bills
The audience shouldn't have to judge her or anybody only when karamo asked them to peroid!
Exactly
The audience in many of his episodes are extremely toxic themselves
It was the deliverance of the audience that pissed me off, because all that aggression is why she stormed off. That is NOT how to deliver a message to someone who is struggling with ANY thing emotionally otherwise you will get this sort of reaction if not worse. They shouldn’t have been able to deliver like that , and this is why people fall deeper into depression and addiction. Clearly this is deeper than any of us can grasp. She is right we cannot judge , and the way the lady from the audience was talking with so much aggression is why she felt judged . There are other ways to deliver an important message to someone without using so much force , judgment, ect. We may not understand. I notice she is biracial… if she is the only biracial child maybe she feels like she’s been treated differently, or doesn’t quite fit in , ect there is a lot more o this the reasons this woman has such sever emotional distress and I wish this was handled with more care and concern rather than blatant judgment.
Why is the audience member getting up and accusing!
So inappropriate and gross!
Right omg@@lurker616
I hope she felt bad when it came out that she paid bills for her mum
Literally loud and wrong !
Oooo she pissed me off like girl you was ready to hear sum you ain't like so you can get 15 seconds of fame SIT DOWWWNNN ewwwww. I hope she reads these comments
I believe the mom and sister wanna raise the kids their way, n since she doesn’t listen they feel they need to step in. That doesn’t mean she is mistreating her children.
Fully agree
Exactly. I hope she's sees these comments. She's a decent person her family has inner issues and their just deflecting into her.
No she's not mistreating them because she sleep all day while her mom does everything for them.
That part
So I think the issue is that her mother is putting in a lot more effort into being a parent than she wants to. She wants to be a grandparent. But also if you live in someone’s house and you have your children, they’re going to partially have a say, if there in your child’s life and taking care of them. If you don’t want their opinions, then go somewhere else. But i don’t think she is a bad mom or sister. I think she is going through a time
The daughter needs to get her own place,so she can be a parent to her kids and have a separate life.This a crazy-crazy story.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois
i think karamo was wrong for letting the audience member attack taylor like that. none of them know her or know what shes been through. there are always two sides to a story and then theres the truth and for literal strangers to be attacking you while youre already being attacked by your "family"...taylor's better than me cuz everyone wouldve got told tf off.
She needs to get her own place, and responsibility for her children. Then if she need help, ask for help. If they carry on living together, they will step in into each others boundaries.
No they just need to act like adults, do roommates get into each other's business? No so what are taking about
The audience shouldnt be allowed to speak on anything . That really made me mad
Taylor’s mom and sister remind me of my judgmental mother, you don’t know what it’s like until you’ve lived with people like this. They aren’t gonna change
It's so sad us single moms go through so much and the fathers are out here living like a free bird. It's no fair! Then CPS will take our kids bcuz we can't support them alone. Why not give the kids to the fathers and force them to be a parent
She also have to stop making them knowing that the father doesnt care
As a woman it’s your responsibility. We’re so concerned about the men running off scot free instead being mindful of the men we choose & the men we choose to create life with. It’s YOUR womb & you are responsible for who implants seeds within you. Take more agency as a woman & find your power & focus as a woman.
Okay, stop having kids after the first one then if he isn’t helping. I understand the first child, but anything after, there is no excuse for it.
@@candyraindrops4i agree and then disagree, a man will sell a dream until it gets to the point & they still leave !
@@fairy5728 I get you. But unfortunately it doesn’t matter. It’s the same a as crook talking us into something sketchy. My pops always told me “ I don’t give a fuck what the N-word say! What are his actions?!”
I have so much to say on this video, but I’m only gonna address the most important! People come on the show because they feel safe enough to open up. You can’t allow or encourage audience members to shout out an attack people! That is completely unacceptable. She should have been removed in that same minute! That baby had so much to get out that she couldn’t because she was already being double teamed by mom an sister. Absolutely disgusting thing that woman in the audience did
Seriously, you're right. The audience member should've been called out. Her attitude and behavior was beyond disgusting and judgemental. She seems to have that traditional mindset and can't be open to multiple possibilities and circumstances. I really wish that audience member could be told to shut up by someone and its like why isn't anyone acknowledging that she is the only biracial one in a WHITE family, it's giving scapegoat and black sheep.
I pray this young lady sees these comments. We are rooting for you and can see right through the mom and sister👏🏽 Keep doing amazing things
He must let that friend go. No excuse to that! Move on and protect yourself ! Right! He’s entitled to protect himself but not checking on your allegedly best friend and he’s not taking accountability and doesn’t apologize sincerely 😢
The fact their mutual friend ( the girl best friend) even said he was wrong speaks a lot !
Daniel don't trust that dude first of you call him a brother and he's calling yo his best friend second if others have to tell him to apologize to you it's not sincere do not trust him.Daniel deep down Avell might be your enemy
Just as i thought
It’s is 😢😅
I don't like how the older sister and mother are treating this young mom.
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How is the mom treating her so bad when she's living in the mom's house and the mom is taking care of her kids while she sleeps all day?
The audience needs to calm down with the judgment of other people’s lives she probably over whelmed with those kids and you don’t call someone a bad mother and attack them after you see she needs support and there’s no man in the house like family has to work together. Everybody is literally trying to attack her cause she going to sleep during the day and working at night -_- like be fr ain’t nobody perfect
our friendship would be 100% over if you’re my close friend and you leave me when there’s a shooting. and then you apologize like that? heggs nah.
Forget friends - we'd be enemies 💀
Karamo you are exceptional. The way you handled the first case. Amazing.
Just because you’re friends with someone doesn’t mean they’re YOUR FRIEND. You can see them as family have love for them DOESNT mean they Love you Back this is PERFECT EXAMPLE. I been there not in a shooting but I had to cut her ass loose because I realized someone I trusted and loved and protected as my Sister like ain’t let no one! Mess with the girl her fight woulda been my fight! She sat there and was talking crap about me online she never was a friend much less a real sister so is cool nothing lost since nothing was there in the first place just felt dumb for just like Daniel giving someone so many years of my time and friendship & loyalty
The mom saying she gets NOTHING in return is crazy 🤦♀️
Like you dont get paid back for motherhood. That is a losing sum game.
Right! The daughter is paying bills and spent $300 shopping for the mom to come to the show! Also, the mom is messy! Cause why is she telling the sister all of her issues. Instead of telling the daughter that she has the issue with.
Karamo I respect you immensely. Thank you
So no one sees that Taylor is depressed? She gave you a child thinking it was your only chance at motherhood and then you had a child of your own, and yall criticize her parenting. she got divorced and displaced with 4 kids, she has horrible relationships with her family, she works overnight and shes obviously emotionally raw. Like just pointing fingers at her and not trying to understand whats wrong with her, thats not empathy thats critcism.
She cant sleep? Shes criminal for sleeping when she works overnight? Depression also causes you to sleep like that and curse and lash out. If you offer to take care of kids you cant vilify the parent for taking the help. If you dont want to dont! Help her move out.
They are all crazy!This girl needs to get her own place and distance herself from these two toxic bitches.Thank you,Casey Grimes-Finley,Chicago,Illinois
Karamo you are so blessed to help putting family back together.
Amen 🙏🏽 ❤
As a single mother of five it's time to move out your mother house and get your s*** together. Nobody has to help you. Respect the fact that you are getting hope I don't have help and I bossed... and learned too get it done
Watching this from London England, my mum just died, my grils are now 17&19 my mum help me raise them, I had a drink problem, I am now 7years sober
Keep going. Stay blessed.
Give GOD the Praise and Glory for your Victory and Testimony
Good for you @ donaboyle
Continued blessing with your sobriety.❤❤
I really hope Taylor gets her own place with her kids. Her mother is toxic.
How is the mom toxic for giving the daughter, her kids, and her dogs q place to live and taking care of daughter's kids while the daughter sleeps?
@@Mexicochannthe mom is acting like Taylor doesn't take care of her kids at all but it obvious that she does shes sleeping so she can have energy to go to work the mom is also acting like she doesn't do anything to compensate for what shes doing to help her kids when she pays the bills and literally paid 300 dollars for her mom to get an outfit for the show
A mother of 4 children, burdening her mother because of decisions she made... Why is she the victim? I don't get it.
She seems to me more like a spoil brat who wants to have her cake and eat it too. You're disrespecting your mother while she's helping you with your children. Girl you're crazy.
Karamo is so inspiring and he is an angel 😇 and helps clarify tender issues. ❤ Bless him always 🙏🌹
There's something more deeper going on with the daughter but why have children and not raise them? The Mom is afraid of her daughter.
My Mom woulda kicked me out of her house if I disrespected her. The children woulda stayed.
if i did this i would not be setting here with you guys on the internet my mom was strick on me
She was married she said so in the beginning... so instead of judging the parent who's stayed and is trying her damnedest why not judge the one that not there
She’s need a lot of help emotionally. She is not right for disrespecting her mom at all. My mom would for sure beat my ass and I better not look like I was going to fight back. 😂. But she needs therapy there’s something wrong her mentally. I wish her family would see that.
The older generation of women disgust me! They didn't raise their own children and don't want to help their own children raise their children. They don't know what it feels like to take on the full responsibility of raising children because they had help/ relief!
Karamo, you're amazing. You manage to diffuse even the most volatile situations. Keep up the good work.
Your Mother Is Not Your Friend ! That Is Part Of The Problem! 🙄🙄🙄😒
y’all associate “friend” with disrespect that’s the problem. Mothers are SUPPOSED to be your friend. you should be able to express yourself and tell them everything but when mothers put this barrier up saying “i’m not your friend” it makes a child back off completely.
@@kimnamjoonsbike261 yes its old sko, and gross. My mom completely shut me out my whole life, lmost like she did not like me. However we was rite under the same roof.
That was such a gift she gave her sister. But 1 day, they are going to have to tell that boy that mom is not your bio mom. I don't think I could've done that
I feel like Taylor is overwhelmed and young. It's alot to be a young mom by yourself. She doesn't connect to care through the domestic side raising children i.e. cooking and cleaning. But uses money as her best way to give back. She's used to disconnecting with drugs first and now uses other things to disconnect with. She probably feels trapped. She has to grow more. And mom needs to leave her sister out of it if she's been talking to her.
Well said
Hi I use to watch Springer then I found you, so much more educated, thank you, from London England
If the Mom wouldn't have started doing everything for her adult daughter she wouldn't be going through it. But it's never too late to get your house in order.
Amen
I see all of these comments talking about how this girl should be praised. They all have flaws, but she gives me entitlement vibes.
What kinda drinks do they be serving the audience? Geesh😂
She is a beautiful young lady but she made a lot of bad choices and she doesn't know how to deal with it. She needs to grow up stay strong and keep focus cause her children need her
She gave me a child is wild..that kid will grow up wondering why his mum 'gave' him away
No he won't. He sees bio Ho mom everyday and probably is glad he had a mom now that doesn't sleep all day.
Too much pains is this world, we too much damage 💔💔💔💔
No Mother can be a daughter's best friend
They can be both friends and an authority figure. The friendship provides a child with trust and comfort.
Do they keep having kids hoping the man will stay around?.... It’s so sad for these children, that end up like the parents because they don’t know any other way. Only in America....
The sister is jealous
The shooting at the party situation they definitely a couple low key 😭
I agree
The older sister has 1 child (which was given to her) and is over there acting like she’s the end all be all of parenting. Not only does the little sister have multiple children, she’s working, in school and over coming an addiction. Give that girl some grace! And instead of the mom running to the older sister talking and being messy she should be talking about her issues with the daughter that’s in her household. Now they get her on this show and try and make it like she’s a horrible mother
I’ve been in the shooting situation and trust me until you’re in that situation, you have no clue what you will do. What was he supposed to do? Y’all should’ve both left duhhhhhhh. And I hate to tell you this but you’re expecting too much from someone who isn’t actually your brother love. People will leave their own flesh and blood during less. To think this man set you up is comical. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Unfortunately though this situation that I was in the boy lost his life. And I had to see him take his last breath with his eyes still open. Anyhow, yeah light skinned is doing too much. Neither of them is a good friend. Calm down boo.
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@Daniel. He's a fake friend. Don't waste time on the "why" behind what he did.
She needs to move out of her moms house and distance herself from then until she heals.
This clip reminded me of how society doesn't have any grace towards single mothers, you're expected to carry the world on your back. But raising kids alone (let alone five) would be hard for anyone, people always say it takes a village to raise children but situations like this come up and all of sudden they forget that. Everyone took the older sister's word for everything, but when Taylor spoke for herself she acknowledged that she gets some help but not as often and frequent as her sister and mother is claiming. But Taylor's side was completely disregarded and mostly everyone (especially that one aggravating audience member who had all the audacity in the world to stand up and dare speak down on a person she doesn't know) took the older sister's words as the absolute truth. But how could any of use do that when we're not there. It wasn't fair at all and I don't like how Karamo ended that segment with Taylor because if people were really using their eyes they would see the one biracial family member being ganged up and embarrassed by her very WHITE family members. Its very much giving scapegoat and black sheep of the family. For anyone siding with Taylor's sister and mother should %110 research what a scapegoat and blacksheep family member is and looks like before readily team tagging against Taylor. There was not enough grace given to Taylor at all. And I really hate how none of this was acknowledged. Fully disappointed in how Karamo ended that particular segment.😠😠
Taylor is not lying. That mother is very contradicting she says she tells her it's fine go ahead and sleep then calls her other daughter to complain and gossip about shit SHE AGREED TOO. Taylor needs to save up & leave
2nd episode leave Avell alone forever he's a fake 🤥🤥🤥🤥
They might want to move out of Chicago... Whatever they decide to do dont move ATL... WE'RE FULL😂😂😂
There are Boundaries That Should Not Be Crossed!😒😒
She’s not ready to take responsibility for her actions
SHE SHOULD HAVE CLOSE HER LEGS .
@@keyonnareid9287 she was married she had those kids while she was married, so why are you being so accusatory judgmental of her while she’s the one who sang in raising her kids is kind of indicative who you are as a person very telling
@@Shestheman013 I SAID WHAT I SAID . AND YOUR ISSUE IS ?
@@keyonnareid9287women shouldn't have to close their legs to their husbands....Shame on you for your judgements
Wait wait wait, the second story went wayyyy to fast! Wth? So say sorry annnnd show is over? Is there a part two? I expected so much more
Same? I'm scrolling through the comments to see what people are saying about that second story. 🤔 I feel like we didn't really get to the route of he did actually set him or anything like that or if he was involved. I mean , I guess he said he didn't, but then there has to be more to the story for the other guy to think that he would even be capable of that and the female friend feels the same way !
When you have to help you be grateful of the help
I feel really bad for her however she should not be calling her mom no B. Because that is her mom. She paid for her mom out fit to come to the show they all love each other I hope everything works out for them you can tell that she’s hurting.
The lady in the audience needs to be quiet because she doesn’t know what’s really happening in their family just like us she’s a viewer
the two best friends the one with the jacket you can sense when someone not your true friend at all and when a serious issue comes the real and fake comes out in the light
Yall believe that half truth Taylor told about paying "all" the bills if you want to. If she can pay all the bills at her mom's house she can afford to live on her own and NOT in her mom's house.
A whole mess, she should’ve been popping out babies if SHE can’t get herself into mother mode it’s not grandma or aunt responsibility
Time out for tantrums and storming off you have kids who depend on you. Her mom was paying her bills and getting by before she moved in. She should pay the bills and buy food. You can't stay anywhere for free.The truth hurts and growth is about doing what makes you uncomfortable.
Me either that sister with the long face its something with her 😂
To me Daniel should’ve let him take ah lie detector test but Frl I can see the bestfriend pov he just gotta take responsibility
No offense to parenthood but I'm glad I'm not a parent.
& you never supposed to leave ya friends !
You find out the strength of friendships when they are tested. Learn and move on. Not your BRO, just someone you've known a long time.
I'm sorry but Lil Miss Taylor needs to get it under control. She needs to put her big girl underwear on. First off if you couldn't take care of one, why have multiple. Secondly, a mother is supposed to do what she's supposed to do regardless of how tired she is. When my daughter was born, I was working, going to school and my daughter was a preemie on oxygen and I had me to depend on and no one else. I struggled with alcohol addiction before my daughter was born too so she gets no sympathy from me. You have to hold it down for your kids. Period.
So she’s out all night… working? Horrible lol
My mom and sister use to do this to me. They only half acknowledge what you do but they only acknowledge what you don't do or think you don't do. I had 3 jobs with a son and no help but would always be told I choose to when we had bills to pay, needed food, and we weren't on public assistance. So I had to pay for my son's medical out pocket. They will never speak on the struggle. My mom and sister do this to me. My mom would run and tell my sister anytime she had a problem with me but I would know about it until my sister trys to check me just to gang up on me.
Regardless to Taylor saying your embarrassing me at times we need to look at ourselves as well no child of mine would be living in my house calling me a bitch sorry, you had the kids not the grandmother she’s helping you be grateful and sit down and talk to your mum instead of being abusive period smh 🤦♀️
I don't think the mother and daughter is gonna be able to fix their relationship
He is not genuine. Redman not satisfied and i c y.
I am so glad I came to the comments, I thought I was the only one who felt Taylors sister was shady as F. TAYLOR IF YOU SEE THIS OUT THERE YOU ARE DOING AMAZING!
Karamo is so awsome! I wish i colud talk to him! Daily!!😂❤❤❤
If you're in Chicago and you believe a club is dangerous then DON'T GO!!!!!! STAY AT HOME OR WORK SAVE AND MOVE TO A BETTER PLACE
Lil Miss Taylor is everything the mother and sister says she is! She is a spoiled , entitled adult. I don’t see that she appreciates her mother’s or sister’s support. Why is she watering down everything that they say as if it’s not true?
Clearly you missed the portion of the story where Taylor was paying the bills, buying groceries, purchasing clothing for her mom and gave her sister a kid.
I don't care what a person says or does you should bite your tongue before you call your parent a "b" her mom has raised her kids she shouldn't feel responsible for raising yours. Yes, when you have kids you don't get enough rest or anything else. When it's time for school she should be up and at it, not the grandma. Once the kids are gone, go to bed. Pick them up from school do homework and cook at the same time, all you need is a nice size table. If you are a single parent you will rarely have enough time to do what you want
She needs to get out of her grandmother house ,and get her on place
@40:56 That was not a sincere apology, he was shaking his head "no" while choking on the words....smh
The sister with them sly ass remarks pissing me off. Ya'll came on here to bully that girl and that ain't cool.
Talking about because that’s what she supposed to do, that’s why she’s exhausted!!!
Taylor, needs to get her own place & move out. She's a Drama Queen
This girl is very immature. I know alot of people are defending her but all she does is provide money, thats not being a mother.
Second case that wasn't a sincere apology. You need to run
He's cute i couldn't rekindle that friendship 😊
After raising your own children, you should NEVER be expected to watch your children's children. It's WRONG!!!!
As a mother I can't wait to be there for my kid and grandkids. It's a pleasure and blessing to see future generations.
She’s depressed she gave her kid up she has to get help because hey I get being sleepy I worked midnights before I’m a mom BUT! What did I do run on 2/3hrs of sleep because my kid’s clothed bathed fed spending that 1/1 time with me DAILY!
I’m not going out living kid free life having kids that’s just stupid because honey that ships sailed moment you decided to have these kids people calling her “a young mom” she’s not young she’s 30!!! She’s not a teen mom that’s 15/16 she’s not 20,23 she’s 30!! So grow up I get your depressed but you gotta get it together for them kids you do have! That party life is OVER!
Taylor had a drug issue for a reason and got pregnant so young for a reason. They need to stop. She was depressed. She needs mental health support. Because, it seems as though they are not allowing her to evolve.
Young lady, you are getting a lot of sleep time. When you have children as long as they are up and about, you can't sleep. My children are 38 and 31 and I am still waiting for relaxation time. You certainly get a lot of sleep. I know parenting is hard but when you are a parent, it is all about the children and it is not good to leave their care to other folks.