Mom, If You Wanna See Your Grandson, Stop Being A Bully! 😭🙏 | KARAMO
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ส.ค. 2024
- Infinity has a strained relationship with her mother Monique. Infinity had a difficult childhood while Monique struggled with addiction. Now, Monique wants her daughter and her grandchild in her life but Infinity needs her mom to take accountability. Can Karamo help this mother and daughter get back to each other?
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Why do parents swear they don't have to give any respect to their children?
the generation before them has conditioned them to feel like they are superior & that the kids voices doesn’t matter.
None of u have kids obviously. And if she so grown she should have been better prepared knowing u had a child on the way. And having her and her child a place of their own instead of expecting to live with family members. Where the nappy head tight jean wearing dude at that bigger her🤔🫢
It's true, it's sick they refuse to acknowledge the damage they caused while they choose to be a dope fiend.
Because they disrespectful themselves.
So Not True!! Not OK to disrespect kids or anyone else!! 😇
That "Mama" position (and degree of respect) is earned by being there and nurturing that child. It takes more than just giving birth.
Yes ma'am "that right there" is exactly 💯
I’m
Preach
True but there's two sides to it depending on why and how it may have happened.
Boom 💥
MOM: I was in prison.
Also Mom: I never abandoned her.
Hahaha! I just said that too 😅
Denial, these parents are awful
Makes sense why her daughter said “she’s not all there”. 😂😂
Right 😂😂😂😂
It's obvious she's not too bright.
I hate that “I’m momma” nah you gave birth , MOM is an earned title 💯 you don’t just get respect you earn it , no matter who you are !!
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True
Ain’t nothing worst than a parent invalidating a child’s feeling and perception. This relationship will go back to the way it was without therapy
Bye
@Dayum_Mi I was thinking the same thing. A 15 minute segment on this show will not fix this mess between the 2 of them.
But it’s ok for the child to keep Talkin over her ??? Yal dummies seeing shit on one side smh
@@addicted2love57it’s not actually 15 minutes you know that right
I hate when parents shut kids down. My mother does this and it can be emotionally damaging/draining. I wish them both the best
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She want her grandson not her daughter. She said it multiple times.
This is the comment i was looking for… she doesn’t love her daughter. She wants to start over as “mommy” with her grandson.
Wow … that never crossed my mind that could be the reason she would cling to her grandchild. Just mind blown.
@@Thisisus0201There you go 💯💯💯
Thank you, I thought I was the only one that noticed.
She wants her daughter too she said her grandson looks just like her daughter so her not being in his life is like her making the same mistake again
Her moving out was the start of both of their growth. I wish them the best
Thanks for this comment...I believe this is what's going to have to happen in my current situation, in order for my growth to take off
@@s.crockett5457 Same HERE !!!
@@canishalashaeQueenDomIn God, We've got this💪🏾✨️
Awww.
This reminds me of my mom.
She will never be wrong about anything. 😢
A NARC.. THEY ARE INSANE AND WILL NEVER CHANGE.
Literally like I can’t wait to be 18 and move out
My dad to a T. Thinking he deserves automatic respect and access to everything in my life just because we share the same dna. Realized he will never change, and cut contact. Best decision of my life!!!
Sorry to hear it guys ❤️🙏🏽
It’s not you it’s them
@@nyty9578 same cut my mom off.
This mother is so toxic. When he asks if she wants a relationship with her daughter, she answers "Yes because I want my grandson..." Seems she really doesn't care about her daughter. Reminds me exactly of my own mother. I think she downsized to a 2 bedroom to force her daughter out but wanted the grandson to stay with her. I think she wants to use her grandson as a do-over, like many narcissistic mothers.
The daughter is better off going NC.
Just shut up you sound dumb😂
Sometimes as parents we have to admit when we are wrong and fix those wrongs . Respect is earned just because you have the title of “ mother “ does not mean it’s mandatory
Same goes for the child abd clearly Yal see she don’t respect her
@@rebaashton1645 clearly she don’t respect her because she is not respected and her feelings are not acknowled duhhhhhh
@@rebaashton1645 Why would she respect sb who’s not respecting her?That sounds silly don’t ya think LMAOO
Exactly why this generation and younger are dropping dead every day cause y’all don’t respect your elders. The Bible says it but it also has a lot to do with young kids having babies and no longer teaching their kids to respect adults
“When I was in prison she never tried to call me.” HOW COULD SHE?!?
She's still high!!! 😮
lol knew this comment was here 🤦🏾♀️ 😂
@@lifelessonz8837 😂😂😂
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@@truelife974probably
A Drug Addict Don't Remember Nothing! 😒 She Telling Her Daughter To Shut It Down! Like Shut Up! You Can't Talk About What The Mother Did Wrong!😒
Addict, zero responsibility for their actions and results of actions, "PERIOD". These arrogant, self righteous people need to realize respect is earned. This "mom" takes zero accountability. The daughter needs to REMOVE herself from that toxic woman. Your mother will never learn or care. You will never get what you need or needed from her.
Blame it on everyone else and not yourself. Absurd
I agree My mother and I have a rocky relationship because she’s a narcissist I had to accept a long time ago that she’s never going to change but that doesn’t mean that I couldn’t
“I’m mama” mama’s don’t bring unnecessary stress and emotional distress on their pregnant daughter either; it’s one thing to be someone’s egg donor/bio mom and another to be a mama.
Daughter needs to move out she grown not mama’s responsibility to take care of her
The mom thinks she’s always right
Exactly
Every parent thinks that
@@Funsizescorpio Incorrect, you just have bad parents 🫤
Don’t come back crying because you didn’t listen!!
Not even a minute in and this lady is on some nonsense: "I never abandoned her but I went to prison."
YEP A TYPICAL NARC.. DELUSIONAL..
I think it's semantic with her. She knew where she was. But just bc she knows your there. She still abandoned her.
I hate it when they say "I never abandoned my kids" after saying they were in and out of prison, especially for substance abuse. Once you go to jail for committing crimes that could have easily been prevented by making the right choices while you have kids, you are abandoning them and cannot be angry that they feel let down by you as the parent! It's a choice to have kids, it's a choice to do drugs. Don't have kids if you can't even handle your own life!
That mother was so wrong on all kinds of levels,she's the disrespectful one.
Nahhh the daughter is
This is crazy to me. I can’t believe there are mothers out here that believe the title of mom absolves them of every wrong and that their child has to respect them like a God. Where would a person get an idea like this? Nobody is perfect. So, why would a mother think her children are supposed to bite their tongues and pretend she walks on water? Now I see what some girls and women are talking about concerning their mothers.
I taught my child from a young age to always tell me if she feels I did something wrong or if I hurt her feelings. I explained I won’t always get things right. So, I wanted her to bring things to my attention. I did that because I wanted her to have a voice and I wanted to know if I needed to make corrections in my own actions. I expect my daughter to express herself respectfully but I’m always willing to hear her truth.
I’m not happy with this mother’s perspective. She didn’t respect herself or her children in her previous choices. She doesn’t respect her adult child, now. How do you expect you daughter to have healthy boundaries and demand respect from other when you are training her she’s not allowed to have boundaries with you? You think all your bad choices are to be forgotten because you’re “ momma “? No, you have work to do. Your daughter needs to stay away from you if you can’t respect her as a person and encourage her growth. I’m so disappointed! This woman is self centered and she’s a child in a grown woman’s body. Her ways are harmful to her child.
I completely agree with you. Everything you said is correct. I don't like her mom at all.
YEP A TYPICAL NARC..
Yup. My mom jumped on me one time during a discussion where I felt differently from her bc I ended up saying that she wasn’t God. That set her off and I was seriously confused. Who would get upset at you telling them they’re not God??? Smh I’ve tried so many times to get to a better place but we always end up on the same road. I just keep my distance and focus on myself and my son. My peace is essential and it’s nearly impossible to get around her.
@@ljackson24 I’m sorry you’ve experienced that. However, I’m proud of you for setting boundaries and prioritizing what’s best for you and your child.
@@peacefreedom4930 Thank you 💜
Setting boundaries always looks like disrespect to those who never had any. The young lady is a grown woman now, you’ve missed childhood…so you have to forge a relationship based of RESPECT with this grown woman and then you may have a chance with your grand baby.
The Mother has to understand the dynamics of their relationship were damaged by her incarceration and other behaviors. The Mother needs to understand accountability. And she needs to respect her child as a competent adult who is also a parent.
Just like my mom. She claims she NEVER did anything wrong ever...just like this mom she claims she doesn't want to go back in the past. My mom seems worse though...she claims she doesn't care to have a relationship since I won't let her gaslight me and only wants to claim my brother as her child. I'm better off living without a narcissist for a mother 💯
Moms like that always prefer boys.
@@ClayMastah344 interesting 🤔 why do you think that is?
This comment mainly touched me cause my brother is and was always more her heart string and from both parents feeling like the outcast cause the other siblings from both seperate ends
@@lisseboo7560 sorry to hear. In my case my mom neglected us both growing up so she never acted like that before she just said that bcs he will enable her crazy ways not me so she gravitates to him. He can have her too lol
@@ceomafdet understood
phewww her mom reminds me of a lot of people in my life. she’s never gonna see no matter how much you explain.
TYPICAL NARC THEY ARE NEVER WRONG AND TAKE NO ACCOUNTABILITY..
So glad my mom wasn't like this. Always allowed me to express myself without the disrespect, it has done wonders for me as an adult. She always gave me respect so she always received the upmost respect from me.
I just lost my mom in 2022 and she was the matriarch and my best friend! Now I have no friends 😢 but I understand how this young lady feels, AMAZING ❤
I'm so sorry u lost yo mother
I’m sorry for your loss I lost my mom to it been a little over a year now I hope you are doing well ❤
Mom want ppl to bow down to her
Bruh as she talks in the first 0:48 seconds she’s exposing why her daughter has every right to be distant nd feel how she feels
I never want a forced or fake apology. What I had to learn dealing with a addict parent is that they can only meet me where their at so even without acknowledgement or an apology it's up to me to heal & move on for me!!
She not an addict. Y’all Dnt even know shit😂😂
I think this is beautiful to see: a kind, compassionate man leading the healing discussion. We need more of this.
Honestly he leads so well
Forget these shows especially when it comes to the dynamics of the Black family. Parents can be trifling, non existent , non supportive and narcissistic. Yet once the child is grown and you have no responsibility now you want to be respected as a parent. GTFOH!! I will love you from a distance.
EXACTLY.. NO CONTACT AG ALL FOR LIFE..
right I can’t wait till I make it out of here
Her mom is a narcissist. The end
Your out of touch. The end.
You got so much to say
@@rebaashton1645 you must be her drug dealer 😂
"You're grown" how grown can she be when she didn't have a mother to help her?
Being momma doesn’t exempt you from everything!
What a lovely well-spoken young lady. The mother is fortunate to have her. I'm in tears.
Y’all. I really like Karamo. I haven’t followed his full career but I’m a fan now. I’ve said this before but he’s the voice on my waze app and I feel like he goes everywhere with me 😅
Waze app ?
I only wish the segments were longer, it feels rushed sometimes, maybe it's editing.
@@neisci full episodes on the Nosy TH-cam channel.
@@opulence_prime thank you for the tip, going there right now 😊.
It irks me when parents don't own that drug use or being in jail is abandoning your child. Choices you made led to you not being present. Take accountability for your actions. You can negate any good you have ever been to you kids if you make poor choices and couple it with not taking responsibility when its time to make amends. You also gotta to get out your head that someone speaking on their hurt and your wrongdoing is disrespectful. If you did wrong, you gotta stand in that.
“I’m momma, and that’s it”🙄
You were a mama! Before you chose crack over your child! She has an excuse for everything, if I was her I’d love her from a distance “respectfully”!
What irritated me about the mother is she was a dope fiend who went to jail and abandoned her daughter but she keeps throwing up "I'm momma"
Where at momma, real mothers take care of their babies now she wants to make up for lost time with the grandson. Act like a mother instead bof trying to convince everyone that you are
We really don’t care.
She needs to repair the past pain and apologize if she hasn't.
The mother is self absorbed. smh
Breakthrough! that was beautiful. I know they have a long road ahead, but with mutual respect and grace, they’ll do well. Bless.
I watch so many Karamo episodes and these toxic traits are in many mothers. Especially the black community we truly have so many generational curses and trauma that needs to be broken. We all need healing !
It's crazy how some parents especially those who barely raised their children ripping and running the streets on drugs chasing after men etc..pick and choose when they want to be a Parent and feel they should be exempt to any accountability concerning their childrens pain and trauma that was created by them
This mother will never change unfortunately. In fact, she acts as if she's still using drugs. We have to learn to adjust our expectations for parents that aren't interested in getting past their own adversities.
Respect is earned not given 💯🙁 that goes for parents as well !
“cUz iM mAma” 🙄
Am I the only one who hates when people say “let’s forget the past, or let’s ignore it and move on” why not acknowledge it and move forward, because I believe those are very different points. Because if we don’t acknowledge the past and how we felt we’ll be forced to push it down and it will always hurt like it happened yesterday.
Karamo really out here changing lives🙏💯💯 Not allat "Pick-A-Door" sh## and "Wen It Comes To 3yr Old Timothy" mess😂😂😂❤
I never understand why a parent feel like they deserve respect when u didn’t respect your child enough to take care of them and actually be around.. like she kept saying she’s mom but it’s not really a valid title.. ur a mom but not a mother.. it’s a difference
Wait a darn moment lady! If you in and out of prison due to your actions and your kids left high and dry....um this is a form of abandonment.
She definitely wasn’t left she was always with her grandma and aunties 💯 it’s funny how w person can try and paint a fucked up picture of somebody
@@rebaashton1645 lady shut your mouth you in everyone comment section trying to take up for that mom I’m guessing you must be her friend ???
@@rebaashton1645the point is that YOU, the mother didn’t care for her. YOU were in and out of prison. You really proved the OP right. These other people had to step up in YOUR place due to your own poor choices. Own it and maybe you can move to a better place. 🤷🏾♂️
🌹I understand the Daughter’s pain…still… in order for her to get better she has to be heard & listen for understanding 🕊️
…also Mom wants her to listen,because the Mom knows she has more wisdom; yet in still, they can learn from each other. We all can learn from each other 🌹🕊️
@@NewJerusalem-FamilyBible a person cannot instill any kind of wisdom if they're not willing to take accountability for THEIR wrong doings and ask for forgiveness without these 2 things there cannot be any forward movement towards healing anything with anyone
"I'm momma. Shut it down right there." Terrible language. The Black community needs to stop treating their children like their feelings don't matter. Having a child doesn't ordain you as anything. Stop believing it does.
People may not ever forgive you. But thank God that He does!🙏🏽
i don’t understand how parents who have put their children thru traumatic situations like prison & can seriously expect to be treated like mother of the year. just because you birthed someone doesn’t make you a MOTHER
They do not want to take full responsibility for the trauma they caused because of there addictions. The children are absolutely hurting and broken, because of them. They have to sit in there traumatized childs pain, and they don't want to. It's so sad 😢
SHE (the daughter) IS NOTTTTTTT LYINGGGG!!!
I know! Trust me! She’s not!!!
Karamo doing God’s work - Bless this man!
Karamo is so damn good at brokering these difficult conversations. He’s giving a master class in eliciting vulnerability and truth.
If you were "MAMA" as you say,your child would have never had to witness or go through you dealing with any kind of addiction💯🤌🏾
How she figure that she didn’t abandon her daughter? Then say she was in and out of jail due to substance abuse. Ma’am that is abandonment.
What I'm getting is that the mother doesn't like her oldest daughter because she reminds of Her of all the mistakes she's made. The mother is trying to focus on the 15yo because she feels like she still has time to be a mom to her. I KNOW THIS FROM EXPERIENCE. I have seen 3 DIFFERENT mothers do this with their children, all ex drug addicts.
She only worried about the grandchild smh.
And do that’s all we care for.😂😂
Whew Chile…this woman is my father all the way. He never is wrong and is ALWAYS the victim. The drugs fry their brains and they are always in addict, “get over” mode.
I think Karamo , the person , is absolutely fantastic 🤗 continue to help mend relationships .. you do it with such respect and grace
My dad had the same disgusting attitude and he demanded respect even though he didn't do much to gain it from me, but guess what? He still got it from me the entire time he was alive. I can always say that I treated him better than he treated me. By no means was it easy having to tolerate a parent like himself. It caused me so much mental anguish. I suffered him until he died. Even a year of mourning him, I was finally able to forgive him fully and find peace over our tumultuous relationship. Now, I'm seeking relief from his mother. She made him the way he was, so you can imagine how I suffer her too.
So many hearts being healed on this stage.
SAY IM MAMA ONE MORE TIME.. girl please. Her feelings are valid. 🙃
Right you don’t just get a pass because you are momma
Shut up
Low key my mom with one third of the physical abuse and a times ten the respect that she thinks I owe her automatically despite the verbal abuse and always her taking her anger out on me. I can relate so much and I pray for infinity.
He said it right. Leave your parents house. You cannot be independent of someone who you are dependent on and don't like.
The title of Mom doesn’t mean that you’re always right and rule the world. This woman thinks that since her uterus worked that she gets to reign supreme and that’s so not the case 😑
It's sad how it's always accept your mother. No matter what type of person she is
I love karamo and he's very good at explaining and observing the feelings of the guests on his show
I would disown that woman, period
Omg it doesn't matter if your the mother lady, you have to take accountability for not being there for chunks of time when you were on drugs and in jail. I hope she continues to hear her daughter as another adult woman. Notice she keeps saying her grandson has a place. So she really think her daughter is coming through and dropping the baby off without her being present
Great segment!!👏🏽 For my own personal experience with my mom I had to show her that respect was required by not allowing her to be apart of my life. Today we’re a lot better because I set boundaries and she must respect them as I respect her’s. It’s unfortunate that that’s how we got to our better place but at least we got there and we rarely have anymore disagreements that become explosive. You have to teach people how to treat you, including family. I truly believe that this is what happens when parents never deal with their own traumas before having children or while raising their children. I wish them the best!🙏🏽❤
Did she say when she was in prison her daughter never tried to call or are my ears just dumb🤔 if you prison how df she gone call you
Yep I heard that stupid shit too.
EXACTLY LYING THROUGH HER TEETH.. I CAUGHT THAT TOO..
How she steady cutting everyone off yet feels how dare her daughter speak her truth. Ughhh
I went thru the same with my mom. My mom is a narc and so is this girl mom. She delusional to her own destruction smh
Catching your first case at 33 years old is crazy 😩
They're gonna be alright. I wish I could bring my mom on the show, but her pride and literal comfort in being divided, woll not allow her to even consider coming on the show. They're gonna get through this and there's gonna be glory in this family. At least her mother came to the show, looked her in the eyes before a wide audience and apologized. I havent spoken to my mom in going on 3 years. I always pray for my moms heart.
“Mom” or “Dad” is a title earned not given.
Awww this is one of my favorite episodes by far i really. People make mistakes mom looks like she really has changed and that what the daughter needed for her hear to heal i pray for both these women. ❤❤
They’re just alike they need to get some counseling and they will be ok❤❤
She done smoked every tooth away and wants RESPECT.😂😂😂
Lmaooooo not funny though lol.
You ain’t been around to pull the “I’m mama” card
She said she never admitted to substance-abuse which means that her daughter was without her mother for some part of her life and then she went to jail which means more time.
Why do parents say “I’m the parent?” We know and we’re still saying these things.
At the end of the day, any relationship that hurting you HAS to go.
In the daughters case, she has a child to raise. She needs to focus on herself and her family and make sure she's emotionally fit to be the best mother that she can be
The mama needs some serious therapy to have any type of healthy relationship in her life. Don't wait up for it
They both have issues..both of them talking over each other they not suppose to live together
We have to understand that being incarcerated is a form of abandonment because your not there….but prayers to the family
The relationship between black moms and daughters need to be talked about more often. Most of them are unhealthy and abusive.
So she’s a toxic former drug user that’s been in and out of prison and she has no idea why her daughter wants nothing to do with her? Seriously????
She needs to “love” her mother from a great distance. Let go, get therapy and move on with her life
No😂😂
Karamo YOU ARE SOOOO OFF AND IT REALLY PISSES ME OFF! The momma clearly is telling you it’s her way or no way! She’s UNWILLING to hear anything her daughter has to say and doesn’t feel like she should respect her daughter!!!! This is why this type of behavior continues with the older generations! Feeling so entitled to RESPECT…NO MATTER HOW they treat other people… delusional🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
The daughter is GROWN, the mom can not parent her anymore but she Can parent the grandkid and that’s all she wants
Glad we’re having open discussions about bad parenting
Mom, she's a mom now so respect
Daughter, mom downsized. It's an inconvenience to you. Where is the man who knocked you up? You're more mad at mama than him. Not fair😳
The mother really place herself in the place cause I’m glad she is. She really just gaslighting herself then her daughter.
Drugs have messed up an entire community and families!
not the mom tryna act like the victim
My momma did me the same way she not on drugs she took my parental rights from me i never wanna talk to my mom illl talk to my daughter but i dont have nothing to do with my mom at all