The older daughter was conditioned to take responsibility for everyone and abandon her own needs. Those two grown women are not your responsibility. They can go off together and get their own place
Its seems like the oldest daughter is the mom and shes trying to raise a household. Im glad they recognize each others issues. I pray they will heal and start having a healthy relationship.
I appreciate this episode because everyone allowed the other person to talk and didn’t interrupt. Seems like they actually had a great conversation and want to grow as a family.
Loveeee the older sister, she is articulate, respectful and she has her sh*t together. Hopefully she can have her space back soon… that is too much responsibility for a young woman to bear.
This family is on their way to healing! I love how they are just speaking calmly, still expressing their truths and not getting really offensive!!! I’m proud of all of them . Also, they are all soo beautiful!
They are not on their way to healing at all. The Mother and sister are who they are. They will use that woman until she has finally had enough. They are not going to change. They say what they need to, to get what they want, until the person cuts them out of their lives. This is going to get worse for Teaira
Yessss I love how their all so expressive without yelling name calling and disrespectful to one another ❤❤❤❤❤ God is able they've already made progress to get this far and to even be able to speak without becoming defensive or offended. It speaks volumes when your able to communicate...and articulate without demeaning or disrespecting one another. 💪🏾 👍🏽 🙏🏽
I noticed there's a lot of time on these shows, when the parents have taken the kids through a lot. Drugs, alcohol abuse different men in the home, so on and so forth, and they kind of just dismiss what the children went through like oh well, that was in the past and let's move on. Those are very traumatic experiences and they will last forever. Mom's real nonchalant about addressing those things, and until she starts being truthful they're not going to get anywhere.
Yup, and this is why so many people grow up and cut their parents off. You can't be a terrible parent and traumatize your kids during their formative years, then expect to disregard what you've done to them and act like it never happened. Selfish. People think just because they had a child, they don't owe the child anything.
@@ambzcloud Exactly, because she really needs to let them know what really happened to make her jump out of the window. Nobody wants Goons showing up their house, they have a right to know.
I would like my niece Teaira know that I am so proud of her to take a strong stand against her mom and sister. I’m the paternal aunt, who had a hand in raising her. My brother always tried to teach her to be a strong, educated and independent woman. Love you!
It's like she's taking pride that they have never been in the system like it's normal, that's not the way it's supposed to be. People need to stop normalizing it.
I think she’s saying that given the circumstances and the way life was at the time, she never let it get to where her kids were taken. Sometimes people either don’t have kids and/or are too quick to judge because they have no idea how hard it is to raise children these days, you can in up in jail just for spanking your own children …she’s a sicko though 🤔
Your oldest child should not be held responsible when it comes to taking care of YOUR kids! Your oldest child should not have to carry the burden of taking care of YOU as the parent‼️ Hopefully this family is on their way to healing.
I pray they get it together because this was me and my sister. I was the baby sister and both my sisters were doing drugs and drinking. I tried to save them. Now my oldest sister is on her death bed and my other sister passed away 4 years ago. It breaks my heart because I’m all alone now. When I tell you drugs and alcohol will kill a family.
Too many grown and ungrateful people in one house. Its a fine line between helping somebody and hindering them. They need to repair their relationships in their own houses. If things can be repaired. I like that big sister keeps it real.
the beautiful thing about this is they can communicate without arguing and defending they are hearing each other truth and trying to find a way to make it work
When she said my kids was never taken from me from the system. The reason why that was a red flag for me is because ppl say that to downplay their actions/situation when it was terrible for those kids . I knew there was a lot of things that went on in the household for years. Then the older daughter said my mom was in and out of jail on drugs most my life. I think a lot of ppl skipped over that
LOVE this episode. A family that is healing, talking and give one another a chance to express their emotions and experience. I pray for their successful journey ❤
There's something incredibly endearing about the mama. She seems genuinely self-aware of her mistakes and is committed to doing better moving forward. Heavenly Father, We come before You with grateful hearts, lifting up this mother and her two daughters to Your loving embrace. We ask for Your divine healing to touch their lives, soothing the wounds of past traumas and guiding them toward restoration and peace. Lord, grant them the strength and wisdom to learn from their experiences, and fill their hearts with love and understanding for one another. May they build a future rich in compassion, trust, and unity. Guide their steps as they grow closer, nurturing strong and supportive family bonds. Surround them with Your grace and light, and help them to see the beauty in each other and in the journey ahead. May Your presence be a constant source of comfort and hope as they move forward together. In Your holy name, we pray. Amen.
The older sister has been forced to be the parent, for years. All while dealing with her own trauma of being abandoned and going through the nonsense their mother chose to live. But now she's expected to just switch out of protective mode. There's no true acknowledgement of the loss of their childhood, they've been forced to deal with.
There may not be a book that tells a woman how to be a mother, but there is instinct, common sense, empathy, intuition and commitment. I just hate when people use the “parenting doesn’t come with a manual” excuse. I know it’s hard, and sometimes we have kids when we’re still kids ourselves no matter our age, but being a parent shouldn’t have to come with a manual. It comes from within.
The oldest daughter needs to learn to set healthy boundaries with her family. Just because your mom burned bridges with everyone, it’s not your responsibility to save her from the consequences of her actions. You should never feel awkward and uncomfortable in your own home.
Makes me sad because my little sister is gone. When she was here we were very hard on her because of her drug addiction and having so many kids out of wedlock but now it's like her being gone I really understand from her perspective even more and I wish she was here so that I could just hug her and be there to support her. That little sister may seem like she's irresponsible but I think it's just she's just coping with life the best way she can and still looking for that motherly love and support. The big sister is more like me so I definitely understand her
Meh, put them folks out and let them figure it out. I'm sorry walking on eggshells in your own home is not okay. Would they do the same for her? I let my mom move in with me for 6 months and she was the worst. I lived with her for less than 100 days and she was still awful. Never again will she live with me.
I was looking for this comment. Sounds like the mother and younger sister have had bad experiences with men and now wants the oldest daughter to clean it up. Give them a time frame to move out and stick to it.
I really feel like Karamo reached the younger sister. Even though she didn’t say much I feel like it was definitely a big step for her to say she need guidance.
They are going to respect me. Respect is earned. Be accountable. Life is cause and effect. If you would have never had that near death experience, you still wouldn't be there
I believe it is a time where everyone comes together....no one is perfect God is first they could get more counseling the mother looks amazing let their feelings flow.... Open up the door 🙏🏽
The older sister definitely seems to Judgy but is pressured with the burden of having to take in her mother and younger sister. I'm glad the mother passed her drug test 👏🏾 but you can tell the young sister is hurt. Her feelings are abnormal for the simple fact of not having her mother or big sister around growing up
Karamo Karamo Karamo This video was like I was sitting right there on that couch. I needed to hear everything you said to the 25yo. You're Changing lives. You're so Inspiring.
Rewrite: I was in the same role as the oldest daughter with my drug-addicted mother, repeatedly bringing her into my home to give her a chance to change. The last time I tried to help was when she left my youngest son unattended. After that, I never assisted her, nor show her any grace-until the day she was passing away. I think it would’ve been different if she would have acknowledged the pain she caused like that mother . I live with guilt that the first time I ever told her I loved her, hugged her, and kissed her, she was semi comatose, I could tell she could hear me because her breathing would change whenever I showed her affection. I live with SO MUCH guilt for not trying harder to help her become a better person. 🤷🏾♀️
This was beautiful! All the pain, all the forgiveness, all the listening, the maturity and evolution….. God bless them and I hope they continue their healing ❤
It's like she's taking pride that they have never been in the system like it's normal, that's not the way it's supposed to be. People need to stop normalizing it.
Older sister needs to set a firm timeline for sister to leave. She is 25 and they are treating her like a minor. Older sister is only a couple years older not decades but has learned to manage and deal. Granted the younger one does not have the tools but it’s time to change her ways. Enabling her won’t help. But this was a great first step for all of them.
The daughter had valid QUESTIONS & needed valid ANSWERS!! She was eating her lies up lol. Story ain’t make a lick of sense & she was making sh*t up as she went.
It wasn’t necessary at all , she was gaslighting the situation at hand . What does her virginity has to do with how she treats you 🫤 seems a little jealous but not in a good way even despite she has the job, house , etc . She seem like she has an issue more so because Her mother and younger sister are close !
It was definitely inappropriate. My guess is younger sister was intimate with older men and "the wrong crowd" and that's what she meant to allude to but she could have done that in a different way. It definitely hurt her sister and her silence tells me shes fighting with some serious demons and shame. There's always a thin line between drawing boundaries and coming off as judgmental. I could see both sides
I can't hold back the tears😢😢. As much as I appreciate the older sis for her love and maturity, I greatly feel empathy for the younger sis. Because like @karamo said, she had been around and had taken in everything during her mom's darkest moments, she has a lot bottled up and she is just trying to navigate her way around life. I love this family and hope they can mend their issues. Also, I'm super proud of the mom for testing negative to drugs. Welldone mom❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. @karamo, please we need follow ups on this family. You know we love you Karamo❤🥰😍
The way the oldest daughter broke down everything is the reason why alot of people had a problem with me. The way she asked those questions is top tier. And that sister is a miniature version of their mother.
The worst thing you can do is have a parent move in with you.....when your childhood was bad from the parent. As a child, even as an adult, there is a part of you that wants their acceptance. But when you don't grow up in a loving household, with selfish parents......if you move them into your home, they take it over. They completely take over your home and act like they run it. My Father was a terrible Dad. He had a stroke, I took him in. He had to learn to cut his food, write again, etc. It was a lot of work to get him healthy. Once he got healthy, got his job back, he refused to leave. Worst mistake of my life. I cut that man out of my life 20 years ago, and it was the best thing I ever did. You do not owe bad-selfish parents anything in life. You 100% can cut your Mother out of your life and be better for it! Mom is who she is, she will tell anyone, anything so she can use them. You can also cut your sister out of your life and/or love her from a far. Sister needs to focus on her OWN family. These people are using her....because they know they can
How sad this situation is. That mom is so educated, calm, and beautiful, and she was on a bad life. The devil is a lie. I pray that this beautiful and amazing family makes it through. God bless you and guide you ❤🙏
I’m not sure the mum is capable of giving her daughter guidance right now. The mum herself has been self medicating, she will have to find herself too. The youngest daughter is HURT and quite clearly suffering mentally, she didn’t want to let go of her emotions, because she knows it will be the catalyst. Until she is ready to heal, she won’t move forward.
I wouldn't have anyone in my home that's a danger to my safety,and peace. Especially if someone has assaulted them in a drug related situation. I don't care if it's family or not. We got to be careful with these evil spirits put here,that Jesus tells us to flee from
Interesting how families with such struggle as having an absent parent do not experience the hugs n’ kisses needed by parental figures…it’s heartbreaking 💔
Forgiveness is not about EXCUSING or FORGETTING the hurt that was caused. Adult children need to understand that our parents did the best they could with the knowledge and resources they had at the time. They too are navigating through life, facing their own challenges and STRUGGLES. It's so important to have EMPATHY and COMPASSION towards our parents, just as we would want others to have towards us. Especially if the mother have made some MAJOR CHANGES, and is STILL WORKING to do better. I will always choose FORGIVENESS, and I'd always work with my Mother as long as I see she's working towards doing better. A lot of Adult Children are hard on their Mothers and then they wonder why things are NOT going well for them, nor will it until they learn to LIGHTEN up and exercise PROFOUND UNDERSTANDING. The mother made it clear that that's what she USED to do. Before people judge an ADDICT, put your phone down for 24 hours. Every time you think about it. That's what it feels like for addicts. I'm so very PROUD of the MOTHER. Loving you Karamo as ALWAYS, you're AWESOME. I LOVE you so much.
They’re fighting because of their upbringing. The younger sister acts out and probably should seek a therapist. The older sister has to be the responsible one and has to have two people in her life that has caused trauma. So it’s hard for her to even be in the same house and look at them and all of the memories it brings to her. It’s nice to see that the mother is there and has been changing her life.
Hope it can be a update or part 2 I'm glad that the mom is not doing what she did in the past and I'm glad she had to wake up call and I just wish the best that her daughters can believe her if she keeps driving to be clean and for the one daughter to get on her feet and get her own place and live the best life and then let the oldest daughter continue what she was doing good for her❤ wish the best
I feel so bad for the mom 💔 i understand everybody’s point of view but as long as she’s making strides to go forward…i feel like they shouldn’t beat her down about what she did before. If you don’t want to take the steps to forgive, just leave her alone. And no, I’m not blaming the daughter. But don’t beat a dead horse
Wow these 2 amazing young women. I’m proud of the older daughter …she had to take on so much responsibility. And I pray the younger daughter gets the help she needs, we can tell she’s been through a lot. I’m happy that the mom is taking accountability and is willing to get help ❤❤❤ wishing them all the best
the mom looks amazing for what she's experienced! i am proud of the oldest daughter for being able to provide for her mom and sister, but i hope she stands on boundaries and gets them out of her house when she's had enough. the youngest daughter is definitely still struggling with the trauma she went through, so i hope she gets the help she needs. God bless these women 🤍
The older daughter was conditioned to take responsibility for everyone and abandon her own needs. Those two grown women are not your responsibility. They can go off together and get their own place
YES 👍🏾 true but MUCH easier said than done ✅. Trust me, take my word
@@sharifsalaam3385Exactly.
Her stepping in and caring for her family facilitated this healing. She did a big girl thing and got Good results ❤ may God bless her
Its seems like the oldest daughter is the mom and shes trying to raise a household. Im glad they recognize each others issues. I pray they will heal and start having a healthy relationship.
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The oldest daughter gave a Cochran level performance with that cross-exam of the mom. That was impressive!
Right, she was trying to make it make sense but it wasn't. which meant she was lying or leaving out parts she didn't want anyone to know.
Lol she came PREPARED! ❤
Daughter had receipts
You hear me….impressive 💯
So true! She was catching every single word and excuse and coming back quick lol I respect that
Better not lie to that first sister because she is gonna split your story WIDE open. I know a liar hate to see her coming 😂😂
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Heavy on it 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I loved it😂😂😂
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The way the oldest spoke was so refreshing. She might be able to calm the sea
I appreciate this episode because everyone allowed the other person to talk and didn’t interrupt. Seems like they actually had a great conversation and want to grow as a family.
She would be a great lawyer
100%
Right, she stood 10 toes & was quick on her feet with every rebuttal.
I said she asking all the right questions faster than the mama can respond I was like yes yes yes😂😂
The mom looking amazing for what she had gone through
Honestly, so beautiful
TRUE FACTS
And I love her outfit! ❤
So true, she favors the actress, Joan Pringle. ❤
Agreed, composed and open to hear from others. I wish them well.
Loveeee the older sister, she is articulate, respectful and she has her sh*t together. Hopefully she can have her space back soon… that is too much responsibility for a young woman to bear.
I agree
This family is on their way to healing! I love how they are just speaking calmly, still expressing their truths and not getting really offensive!!! I’m proud of all of them . Also, they are all soo beautiful!
Yes! Say it again I love how you said that!!❤
Yep ! Thought the exact same thing. Proud 👏🏾 of them. Loved how they all listened to each other without interrupting & spoke calmly ❤👍🏾
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They are not on their way to healing at all. The Mother and sister are who they are. They will use that woman until she has finally had enough. They are not going to change. They say what they need to, to get what they want, until the person cuts them out of their lives. This is going to get worse for Teaira
Yessss I love how their all so expressive without yelling name calling and disrespectful to one another ❤❤❤❤❤ God is able they've already made progress to get this far and to even be able to speak without becoming defensive or offended. It speaks volumes when your able to communicate...and articulate without demeaning or disrespecting one another. 💪🏾 👍🏽 🙏🏽
I noticed there's a lot of time on these shows, when the parents have taken the kids through a lot. Drugs, alcohol abuse different men in the home, so on and so forth, and they kind of just dismiss what the children went through like oh well, that was in the past and let's move on. Those are very traumatic experiences and they will last forever. Mom's real nonchalant about addressing those things, and until she starts being truthful they're not going to get anywhere.
Yea even in real life.
Well said BOSSLADY 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🎯💯
Yup, and this is why so many people grow up and cut their parents off. You can't be a terrible parent and traumatize your kids during their formative years, then expect to disregard what you've done to them and act like it never happened. Selfish. People think just because they had a child, they don't owe the child anything.
@@ambzcloud
Exactly, because she really needs to let them know what really happened to make her jump out of the window. Nobody wants Goons showing up their house, they have a right to know.
I would like my niece Teaira know that I am so proud of her to take a strong stand against her mom and sister. I’m the paternal aunt, who had a hand in raising her. My brother always tried to teach her to be a strong, educated and independent woman. Love you!
They have never been in the system??????? That's the basic responsibility when you have kids. System is not there to parent. What a sicko.
It's like she's taking pride that they have never been in the system like it's normal, that's not the way it's supposed to be. People need to stop normalizing it.
She is referring to her (the mother) used to being a d rug addict
I think she’s saying that given the circumstances and the way life was at the time, she never let it get to where her kids were taken. Sometimes people either don’t have kids and/or are too quick to judge because they have no idea how hard it is to raise children these days, you can in up in jail just for spanking your own children …she’s a sicko though 🤔
Right?! Mom didn't even admit to the drug abuse until her oldest came out there.
The oldest daughter sounds like Bambi from love and hip hop
right omg
I want her to say “Scrappy” so bad lol
😂😂 yea
She does
You know, I was trying to figure out who or what she sounded like…
Idk if the Mom raised them or not but that older girl is well rounded and stable. I love that for her.
Your oldest child should not be held responsible when it comes to taking care of YOUR kids! Your oldest child should not have to carry the burden of taking care of YOU as the parent‼️ Hopefully this family is on their way to healing.
I pray they get it together because this was me and my sister. I was the baby sister and both my sisters were doing drugs and drinking. I tried to save them. Now my oldest sister is on her death bed and my other sister passed away 4 years ago. It breaks my heart because I’m all alone now. When I tell you drugs and alcohol will kill a family.
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I am sorry for your loss.
SOOO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. 😚🤗
Too many grown and ungrateful people in one house. Its a fine line between helping somebody and hindering them. They need to repair their relationships in their own houses. If things can be repaired. I like that big sister keeps it real.
You said it! Get out and get your own!!!!!
the beautiful thing about this is they can communicate without arguing and defending they are hearing each other truth and trying to find a way to make it work
I need both the mom and younger sister to get out of that other sisters house immediately. Nothing worse than feeling uncomfortable in ur own home.
There's something about the fall mom ain't saying.
Yea the mom seems real fake
She definitely seems like she’s holding back some information off top 💯
When she said my kids was never taken from me from the system. The reason why that was a red flag for me is because ppl say that to downplay their actions/situation when it was terrible for those kids . I knew there was a lot of things that went on in the household for years. Then the older daughter said my mom was in and out of jail on drugs most my life. I think a lot of ppl skipped over that
I don’t trust the drug test results either…it’s not hard to manipulate a drug test
The daughter told the TRUE STORY 😢
Any time Karamo says “Okay” = 📝✍🏽
LOVE this episode. A family that is healing, talking and give one another a chance to express their emotions and experience. I pray for their successful journey ❤
There's something incredibly endearing about the mama. She seems genuinely self-aware of her mistakes and is committed to doing better moving forward.
Heavenly Father,
We come before You with grateful hearts, lifting up this mother and her two daughters to Your loving embrace. We ask for Your divine healing to touch their lives, soothing the wounds of past traumas and guiding them toward restoration and peace.
Lord, grant them the strength and wisdom to learn from their experiences, and fill their hearts with love and understanding for one another. May they build a future rich in compassion, trust, and unity. Guide their steps as they grow closer, nurturing strong and supportive family bonds.
Surround them with Your grace and light, and help them to see the beauty in each other and in the journey ahead. May Your presence be a constant source of comfort and hope as they move forward together.
In Your holy name, we pray.
Amen.
I can’t even look at the comments before watching the video all the way 😅
Mom step up to the plate and be a mother, let the girls learn to be sisters you all need each other life is too short, and death is final.
Them women are grown no need to be a mother now
@@Ohitslenci bffr...you are a mother for ur full kids life lol
Baybeeee the daughter ate her momma up with the questioning 😩🤣👏🏾!! & I ain’t mad @ her!!! Don’t be trying to play me for boo-boo da fool😩💯
The older sister has been forced to be the parent, for years. All while dealing with her own trauma of being abandoned and going through the nonsense their mother chose to live. But now she's expected to just switch out of protective mode.
There's no true acknowledgement of the loss of their childhood, they've been forced to deal with.
There may not be a book that tells a woman how to be a mother, but there is instinct, common sense, empathy, intuition and commitment. I just hate when people use the “parenting doesn’t come with a manual” excuse. I know it’s hard, and sometimes we have kids when we’re still kids ourselves no matter our age, but being a parent shouldn’t have to come with a manual. It comes from within.
They don't use that when they are traumatized themselves
@@nicoleraheem1195exactly
The oldest daughter needs to learn to set healthy boundaries with her family. Just because your mom burned bridges with everyone, it’s not your responsibility to save her from the consequences of her actions. You should never feel awkward and uncomfortable in your own home.
Makes me sad because my little sister is gone. When she was here we were very hard on her because of her drug addiction and having so many kids out of wedlock but now it's like her being gone I really understand from her perspective even more and I wish she was here so that I could just hug her and be there to support her. That little sister may seem like she's irresponsible but I think it's just she's just coping with life the best way she can and still looking for that motherly love and support. The big sister is more like me so I definitely understand her
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@shellybrown7242 thank you 😊 ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story😪....and I'm so sorry for your loss! Praying for healing and strength for you and your family!💯❤️🙏🏾
@angeniquehopkins5246 thank you 😊
Meh, put them folks out and let them figure it out. I'm sorry walking on eggshells in your own home is not okay. Would they do the same for her? I let my mom move in with me for 6 months and she was the worst. I lived with her for less than 100 days and she was still awful. Never again will she live with me.
🗣️ Say it louder! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I was looking for this comment.
Sounds like the mother and younger sister have had bad experiences with men and now wants the oldest daughter to clean it up.
Give them a time frame to move out and stick to it.
The mom is so graceful. Love it.
I really feel like Karamo reached the younger sister. Even though she didn’t say much I feel like it was definitely a big step for her to say she need guidance.
They are going to respect me. Respect is earned. Be accountable. Life is cause and effect. If you would have never had that near death experience, you still wouldn't be there
They don't need to all be living together esp if they can't get along...or work on their relationship..idk it's off
Yea sad GangstaBoo. So sad 😢😢😢
I believe it is a time where everyone comes together....no one is perfect God is first they could get more counseling the mother looks amazing let their feelings flow.... Open up the door 🙏🏽
The older sister definitely seems to Judgy but is pressured with the burden of having to take in her mother and younger sister. I'm glad the mother passed her drug test 👏🏾 but you can tell the young sister is hurt. Her feelings are abnormal for the simple fact of not having her mother or big sister around growing up
Karamo Karamo Karamo This video was like I was sitting right there on that couch. I needed to hear everything you said to the 25yo. You're Changing lives. You're so Inspiring.
The mom and sister needs to find their own way.
Rewrite:
I was in the same role as the oldest daughter with my drug-addicted mother, repeatedly bringing her into my home to give her a chance to change. The last time I tried to help was when she left my youngest son unattended. After that, I never assisted her, nor show her any grace-until the day she was passing away. I think it would’ve been different if she would have acknowledged the pain she caused like that mother . I live with guilt that the first time I ever told her I loved her, hugged her, and kissed her, she was semi comatose, I could tell she could hear me because her breathing would change whenever I showed her affection. I live with SO MUCH guilt for not trying harder to help her become a better person. 🤷🏾♀️
That’s not your cross to carry and I hope you come to terms with that.
This was beautiful! All the pain, all the forgiveness, all the listening, the maturity and evolution….. God bless them and I hope they continue their healing ❤
It's like she's taking pride that they have never been in the system like it's normal, that's not the way it's supposed to be. People need to stop normalizing it.
You can tell by how the youngest daughter looks, that she’s tight with her mom
Older sister needs to set a firm timeline for sister to leave. She is 25 and they are treating her like a minor. Older sister is only a couple years older not decades but has learned to manage and deal. Granted the younger one does not have the tools but it’s time to change her ways. Enabling her won’t help. But this was a great first step for all of them.
The daughter had valid QUESTIONS & needed valid ANSWERS!! She was eating her lies up lol. Story ain’t make a lick of sense & she was making sh*t up as she went.
I don’t think it was necessary for the older sister to mention the little sister being intimate an early age. Gave me a weird vibe about her idk
It wasn’t necessary at all , she was gaslighting the situation at hand . What does her virginity has to do with how she treats you 🫤 seems a little jealous but not in a good way even despite she has the job, house , etc . She seem like she has an issue more so because Her mother and younger sister are close !
It was definitely inappropriate. My guess is younger sister was intimate with older men and "the wrong crowd" and that's what she meant to allude to but she could have done that in a different way. It definitely hurt her sister and her silence tells me shes fighting with some serious demons and shame. There's always a thin line between drawing boundaries and coming off as judgmental. I could see both sides
It was inappropriate but honestly I don't think she was trying to be weird. She was just stating how different they are.
Literally I thought I was the only one .
I can't hold back the tears😢😢. As much as I appreciate the older sis for her love and maturity, I greatly feel empathy for the younger sis. Because like @karamo said, she had been around and had taken in everything during her mom's darkest moments, she has a lot bottled up and she is just trying to navigate her way around life. I love this family and hope they can mend their issues. Also, I'm super proud of the mom for testing negative to drugs. Welldone mom❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. @karamo, please we need follow ups on this family. You know we love you Karamo❤🥰😍
The way the oldest daughter broke down everything is the reason why alot of people had a problem with me. The way she asked those questions is top tier. And that sister is a miniature version of their mother.
Karamo, you are so skilled at what you do!
The worst thing you can do is have a parent move in with you.....when your childhood was bad from the parent. As a child, even as an adult, there is a part of you that wants their acceptance. But when you don't grow up in a loving household, with selfish parents......if you move them into your home, they take it over. They completely take over your home and act like they run it. My Father was a terrible Dad. He had a stroke, I took him in. He had to learn to cut his food, write again, etc. It was a lot of work to get him healthy. Once he got healthy, got his job back, he refused to leave. Worst mistake of my life. I cut that man out of my life 20 years ago, and it was the best thing I ever did. You do not owe bad-selfish parents anything in life.
You 100% can cut your Mother out of your life and be better for it! Mom is who she is, she will tell anyone, anything so she can use them. You can also cut your sister out of your life and/or love her from a far. Sister needs to focus on her OWN family. These people are using her....because they know they can
How sad this situation is. That mom is so educated, calm, and beautiful, and she was on a bad life. The devil is a lie. I pray that this beautiful and amazing family makes it through. God bless you and guide you ❤🙏
I’m not sure the mum is capable of giving her daughter guidance right now. The mum herself has been self medicating, she will have to find herself too. The youngest daughter is HURT and quite clearly suffering mentally, she didn’t want to let go of her emotions, because she knows it will be the catalyst. Until she is ready to heal, she won’t move forward.
Karamo, you really ain’t got NO business being as fine as you are. I haven’t even gotten a minute into the video and I had to say it.
I sure was about to ask where tf the new episode was 😂
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I wouldn't have anyone in my home that's a danger to my safety,and peace. Especially if someone has assaulted them in a drug related situation. I don't care if it's family or not. We got to be careful with these evil spirits put here,that Jesus tells us to flee from
The oldest daughter ia a strong woman. Look at the way she sits. Posture on point!
Interesting how families with such struggle as having an absent parent do not experience the hugs n’ kisses needed by parental figures…it’s heartbreaking 💔
OMG I love Karamo so much!! Talk about generational trauma...this family has a lot of work to do. Good luck sistahs!
The older daughter would make a fine prosecutor
I hope they can heal their family unit & I’m wishing all these lovely ladies the best. I think they can do it. 💜
Forgiveness is not about EXCUSING or FORGETTING the hurt that was caused. Adult children need to understand that our parents did the best they could with the knowledge and resources they had at the time. They too are navigating through life, facing their own challenges and STRUGGLES. It's so important to have EMPATHY and COMPASSION towards our parents, just as we would want others to have towards us. Especially if the mother have made some MAJOR CHANGES, and is STILL WORKING to do better. I will always choose FORGIVENESS, and I'd always work with my Mother as long as I see she's working towards doing better. A lot of Adult Children are hard on their Mothers and then they wonder why things are NOT going well for them, nor will it until they learn to LIGHTEN up and exercise PROFOUND UNDERSTANDING. The mother made it clear that that's what she USED to do. Before people judge an ADDICT, put your phone down for 24 hours. Every time you think about it. That's what it feels like for addicts. I'm so very PROUD of the MOTHER. Loving you Karamo as ALWAYS, you're AWESOME. I LOVE you so much.
@Karamo, congratulations with your 1 million subscribers 🎊 🎉
This episode hit the spot!! The emotional intelligence spot ❤❤❤ LOVE IT, LOVE THEIR GROWTH
love this show
They’re fighting because of their upbringing. The younger sister acts out and probably should seek a therapist. The older sister has to be the responsible one and has to have two people in her life that has caused trauma. So it’s hard for her to even be in the same house and look at them and all of the memories it brings to her. It’s nice to see that the mother is there and has been changing her life.
What a beautiful moment. What a Great starting point.
karamo have some great episode i enjoyed watching his shows
Being a child of an addict is a thankless job... been there. I hope she gets help and learns about codependency and frees herself ❤.
Sending well wishes for this beautiful family 🙏
I love you uncle karamo
I enjoyed listening to this episode, no yelling and screaming; they actually allowed each other to speak.
Hope it can be a update or part 2 I'm glad that the mom is not doing what she did in the past and I'm glad she had to wake up call and I just wish the best that her daughters can believe her if she keeps driving to be clean and for the one daughter to get on her feet and get her own place and live the best life and then let the oldest daughter continue what she was doing good for her❤ wish the best
I feel so bad for the mom 💔 i understand everybody’s point of view but as long as she’s making strides to go forward…i feel like they shouldn’t beat her down about what she did before. If you don’t want to take the steps to forgive, just leave her alone. And no, I’m not blaming the daughter. But don’t beat a dead horse
I’m rooting for this family and pray for growth. I would love to see a follow up.
I respect the Respect they show addressing each other ❤
They putting way to much on the oldest sister. Get a job and get out
The daughter is such an incredible, powerful, awesome, amazing young woman. These people are holding her back.
Wow these 2 amazing young women. I’m proud of the older daughter …she had to take on so much responsibility. And I pray the younger daughter gets the help she needs, we can tell she’s been through a lot. I’m happy that the mom is taking accountability and is willing to get help ❤❤❤ wishing them all the best
I thought this one was absolutely beautiful. Wishing all 3 of them the lives they want and dream of
the mom looks amazing for what she's experienced! i am proud of the oldest daughter for being able to provide for her mom and sister, but i hope she stands on boundaries and gets them out of her house when she's had enough. the youngest daughter is definitely still struggling with the trauma she went through, so i hope she gets the help she needs. God bless these women 🤍
They both need to move out of her place. They just want a roof over there head. They for the streets!!!
Man I was hoping for a lie detector. 😫
Its good that the mother passed the drug test. Thats wonderful start.
mother Tomeeka, her youngest daughter Tiana, her oldest daughter Teaira
I've known Tee since she was younger, she's a wonderful lady.
i’m #6 love the show Karamo❤
Daughter was on mama like white on rice! Damn. I felt like I couldn't catch a breath. Sometimes that is needed for accountability to take place!
Wow Teaira is doing allot for her mom and her sister. The mature one
"Mom look better than the kids"...❤
Why does it matter?
I’m sorry I’m not about to be uncomfortable in my own house, they would have to go to protect my peace
IT IS NOT THE MOMS FAULT THAT THE CHILDREN DONT GET ALONG THEY ARE GROWN
After all the questions have been answered... hopefully they can move on..sounds like their lives are very different but connected at the heart
Its sad when mom and daughters get high together
It's the fact that she not worried about her mom falling like are you serious
You cant just all of a sudden fix ONE of your problems and demand anything. You gotta work your way into good graces.
soooo, where's the father?
It’s non of your business to ask that. Just watch
@@jesseabraham5410clock em bae 🫰🏽
WHY is that your concern?? What’s next? You wanna know their social security number? Get a life
@jesseabraham5410 to help with raising and guiding and supporting his daughters. Being a parent duh.
@@ariamason9324 you need some milk
Mom seemed all over the place with what happened when she fell out window
I love your show
Ayeeee second !
Maybe she wanted some grownup time and he acted up, it’s giving D important gone wrong. Them darn friends.
If you understand mom, then you and baby girl need to get to stepping! Get out that girl house!! No excuse for you leeching off your child!