1. Shun Self-criticism 2. Know yourself 3. Love yourself more 4. Develop yourself worth 5. Embrace yourself 6. Love yourself more 7. Take charge 8. Understand what Healthy self worth is 9. Avoid comparing yourself 10. Embrace who you are 11. Be responsible for yourself
Hi dear, thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family & friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey.
@@monica64340 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
@FLORA Floxy I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
You have changed me for real. I have always been the opposite of elegance until I happened upon this channel. I now take my time to look elegant inside out. Thank you so much.
I'm a man, but I have self-esteem issues and have learned quite a bit from your videos. (I can't think of what to say in public situations, etc.) I found this video about "know yourself" extremely valuable. Thank you. (The videos I've seen aimed at men push being some sort of fake "alpha" male--seemingly by being an arrogant ass.) My grandmother, raised during the Edwardian era and a debutante in Montreal in the 1910's, would have made one distinction--you speak about "elegant women". My grandmother would call you, and the pupils who follow your advise, "Ladies". Congratulations. You walk the talk.
I honestly thought this would be a video on physical appearance etc. but I am absolutely grateful that it was the opposite because that brought me back to reality to what truly matters is character and moral and little to nothing of the physical.
Children are a gift from above. They're full of trust, Joy, creativity, forgiveness and the list goes on. As we grow up, it only gets better!! We have been filled, created with many gifts and talents. Those are the things that make us complete and wonderful and the things we should be discovering of ourselves Much love. 🦁
You are a sweet heart. I am soon to be 55. I love this! May God bless your ministry. It takes an independent confidence to do and teach this while yet; having a connection to humans who experience this reality!
I undervalued myself a lot for ages as I really am😭 I feel now is my time to be treated with high self respect more than anything💯 I need definately my fully happiness back I deserves it trillion % Enough of underestimating, disrespect, ignorance behaviors of others am done Enough !!!!!!!! That voice in me thnx God is brilliant and patience enough to handle with it but I am slowly fed up of every negative thing Enough am positive minded, humble, enough self worth, love to educate myself every single second, ambitious, visionary, etc etcetc happiness is key for every aspect 💯
I'm so glad you popped up on my feed! I've subscribed and I've learnt so much already. It's very refreshing that this message is coming from a woman of colour. Keep up the great work sis 🍾🎊🌠
Self worth is one of the things that many of us find challenging to develop and implement in our daily routine and I believe that this video has gone a long way towards making the pathway easier for us. All this points are just as important to ladies as they're to us men , and loving the person we're is very vital to every gender 👌👌❤️❤️
I truly fancied your comment on Eleanor D Rosevelt that has been a long time role model for me as I channeled her name in a deep meditation and sought her out to learn more about her legacy. I love your videos. This is a unique highly needed channel and topic. As women it is easy to become polarized fulfilling the journey of the masculine and feminine simultaneously losing sight of my feminine essence. I’m in a career as a filmmaker, actress, and singer in Hollywood where image and outside appearances are highly regarded that one can lose sight of their inner power and commonly overlooked for their higher qualities past the material presence. I hope to see more classy feminine women dominate the mainstream as opposed to the overt flaunt of sexuality and vulgarity. I have watched many of your videos as I have been diligently seeking etiquette classes. Thank goodness for online accessibility. Great work 🙏
Every woman needs to hear this. This life can deal you many highs and quite a few lows and hearing this is so refreshing. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏 for sharing your wisdom. Peace and blessings be unto you.
Honestly... you are one of the only elegance channels that has zero cringe vibes! I feel you are genuine. Also, I wish someone had told me this 3 years ago. What's your zodiac? You give me real Earth sign vibes? xxx hehehe just a bit of fun!
Hi Vivienne, this video is your first I watched from canada. Thumbs 👍 my lady. It has made realized how deep I have fallen after going through many things in my life. I was lost within myself with self condemnation, confused... thank you very much for giving the opportunity to start a new year with confidence and positivity. I will apply these personally and promised I will keep you posted of every milestone towards my improvement progress. God bless you abundantly
This video is for me. I don't even know how to love myself because I am constantly criticizing myself because that's what the world want me to portray myself. I am so grateful and thankful for words of affirmation. God bless!
I just discovered your Channel today. How refreshing to see a poised and beautiful young woman that does not race talk, and fling your hands and arms in the air when you talk! So many of the young influencers do. A video I would like to see you make is how to handle rude questions when you are just meeting someone. This always seems to be my situation with people asking so many personal questions that I am not comfortable answering. Although I love to meet new people, I am a very private where do you work, what do you do , who do you know questions always make me uncomfortable.
You are a breath of fresh air! You appear real and not rigid or robotic as some other tutors on elegance. You are also spot on, on the things you say. Just subscribed. 😍
Hi Vivian I bumped into your video a couple days ago, shortly before preparing for my midnight prayer session and was drawn to watch. I have been richly blessed and I look forward to my quiet time with your video/s. I will definitely recommend others to your site. You are such a blessing.
I"m a new subscriber and so grateful to have discovered your channel. I've been binge watching and enjoying every video. Thank you, thank you, thank you Vivian!
I’m sure glad I found your channel!! If someone asks me “do you love yourself?!” I always respond with “well of course” but turn around and behave savagely 😂. I’m a work in progress. Having worked 12 steps and attempt to apply them in my life daily, recent behaviors indicate that it’s time for another thorough house cleaning. Thanks again, I think you’re awesome!!
That's great Viviane, my self worth is not dependent on external forces, I always say to myself that what people think or say about myself is not my baby, but the baby of those people. Indeed your lessons built up a person. Your teachings won't be in vain.
I still dont know why U popped into my feed. I guess the universe must be getting ready to blow my mind...I receive & welcome the 🎁. Must be time for something new!!! 💋❤️
This was so helpful! I'm having an event soon where I'll be teaching young girls about such values and what you've mentioned about self worth will certainly add value to my notes❣️
Dear Vivien, I have just discovered your channel and I am doing a catch up watching your videos! I am so glad to see an elegant BW sharing her tips. You are beautiful, well spoken and I can feel a real kindness through my screen. Thank you for giving us priceless and needed advices. My best regards from France 🇫🇷
Amen Vivvien. Much needed words of wisdom. Well said. I will share with you one of my favorite quote on feeling humiliated which is tied in to self worth. "Remember that you cannot be humiliated by the unwise speeches of someone else, but that when you speak unwisely you humiliate yourself and lose a victory that you might have gained." From my favorite female author, Ellen G. White
This video is really awesome, I'm really working on myself, and coming across this video has really make my day. Its good that as ladies we keep building each other up. What someone do not know, keeps learning daily because learning do not have ending.
You are such a God send; I am so blessed already just viewing this first video. I am learning so much I wish I have learned sooner, but no time like the present. I am going to introduce you to others. Thank you so much!!!! Blessings to you and yours. I have subscribed and look forward to more life changing videos.
thank you so much this has blessed me so much. I will watch it a few times because i deal with this for myself I'm 40 and i have an issue in pass of low self-esteem because was in a mental abuse relationship for 17 years God brought me out of that, but I'm not healed and I'm teaching me each day, so this helped some thank you. I subscribed to your page.
That part when you said I could not look at people in the eye is talking to me. I need to change that. Thank you for this amazing ideas to change my vision of myself. 🙏🏽✨
Hello ! I'm from Brazil , but now i am living in England . I discovered your channel recently and i loved so much ! You are helping me to appreciate myself. Thank you so much. And don't stop it . 😍
Love the message here. Very profound. I wonder now how to describe myself without mentioning career, education, appearance… ladies how do you describe yourself? Do you just describe your character? That is something I believe you should leave for others to assess so I am stuck lol
Great information! This is just what I need. “Loving yourself is not vanity. It is sanity” I like this statement. I subscribed and I’ve been enjoying your videos. Thank you!!
Glad I came across this Been Soo depressed after going through a heartbreak trauma Feel like I'm not just good But thanks for this Boosted my self esteem which was really down
I’m overwhelmingly glad to have stumbled upon this video. This is such a beautiful message. I have no words to describe it more but it is such an eye-opener and really educational. A lot of times we are educated about other things but not about ourselves. God bless your heart my dear. I’m truly happy to have met you on youtube. Keep doing what you do.🌹
This message hits home. I am new to this channel. I stumbled on it while searching for ways to talk and sound smarter, so you can imagine I'm working on my self-worth. I've been a bit harsh on myself and blamed my culture for being the way I am. I also think it could be my personality. It's the worst thing to deal with because people can see your weakness, and they will take advantage of you. Thank you so much, dear, for your lovely video🥰😊
This is so timely for me God has been showing me to take back my life and live . Devil enough is enough I am taking my life back by force and by 🔥. God bless you
An important key to having self-worth is to NOT manipulate anything. Manipulating by altering yourself to fit others to alter their perception of you speaks to not being enough. Or not loving yourself enough in your authenticity to get what you want in any situation. You dont need to manipulate because everything that is due to you is yours when you are inhabiting your authentic self fully
Thank you love, I really needed this video! I have been struggling with my weight and my self esteem most of my life. Throughout the years, I believe I have focused too much on what others think of me with out taking in consideration how valuable I am to myself and to others. I really love how you mentioned, " self love is NOT a selfish act". I was raised to put others before myself and to do all I can to serve others. As an adult, I have suffered because I am recently over the last few years discovering who I am and my purpose on earth. However, the journey I am currently on I am ever so grateful especially because I am taking back responsibility for "MY LIFE". Thank you, for using your Gift and platform to inspire others. I hope to do the same😀
I know that it is not by chance that I *stumbled upon you. I was searching for something that I didn't know was in Living Color. You are such a breath of fresh *elegance! Truly, He will make room for your gift if you let it be made known and if you only believe that you are (thereby, I Am THAT I Am). May God continue to bless you! Simply Beautiful 🌬🎁💨
There is nothing wrong with owning your past and moving on. Everyone makes mistakes and if you are actively trying to be better there is no shame in it. Owning your past also frees you up as you aren't always trying to hide it. Don't brag about what you came from, but don't be so scared of it, it's part of who we are.
🦁💕 Thank you MS. Vivian, I can begin my healing journey., I was just now thinking on this topic and while scrolling came upon your video. 💝 I am excited to get to know myself on a deeper level. I not only agree that your content is the best, in my opinion you are genuine.
This was so good,I recently started couslnselling and one issue my counsellor was quick to detect is my low self value. It hurt me to realise that I still have low self value since I had embarked on a journey of self love a while back. Regardless, I chose to take it positively and I am now very intentional on my journey of embracing my self value. I am learning as much as I can and typing down the notes I have gathered.This was so helpful and I am really encouraged that I can also reach the level of self worth that you have acquired. Thank you.
Thank you, I can feel the sincerity in your words. Helps me to re-evaluate my self-worth for a more positive stance. I love your TH-cam channel name, subscribing. 😊
1. Shun Self-criticism
2. Know yourself
3. Love yourself more
4. Develop yourself worth
5. Embrace yourself
6. Love yourself more
7. Take charge
8. Understand what Healthy self worth is
9. Avoid comparing yourself
10. Embrace who you are
11. Be responsible for yourself
Tysm
Thank you
This is excellent, educational and professional too
Thank you so much for this!
Thank youuu
Jesus Christ changed my whole life. Be kind, loving, appreciative and walk with confidence and not be arrogant though. God loves you💕
Yes. 💖 His love carries me through.
Amen
Yes ❤
Jesus Christ changed me too
Aww God bless u
Loving yourself isn’t vanity it’s sanity! Says it all for me!
I love you Vivian
This line was everything!
Hi dear, thanks for sharing awesome tips. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I'm now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family & friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself. This is to encourage someone "you can start anytime to have a reset it's worth it! I'm striving to continue growing cus it's a journey.
That is so amazing!! Thank you for sharing your story. I really hope it inspires another lady out there to start taking action♥♥♥
Congratulations Juliet🎊🎊 Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too.
@@monica64340 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
@@juliet800 Congratulations to you Juliet keep it going.
@FLORA Floxy I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
You have changed me for real. I have always been the opposite of elegance until I happened upon this channel. I now take my time to look elegant inside out. Thank you so much.
Self love is not vanity, it’s sanity. I love that!! 💕
❤
Four years ago,I suffered memory loss and that crushed my self esteem...your talk is just what I needed to get me started
I'm a man, but I have self-esteem issues and have learned quite a bit from your videos. (I can't think of what to say in public situations, etc.) I found this video about "know yourself" extremely valuable. Thank you. (The videos I've seen aimed at men push being some sort of fake "alpha" male--seemingly by being an arrogant ass.)
My grandmother, raised during the Edwardian era and a debutante in Montreal in the 1910's, would have made one distinction--you speak about "elegant women". My grandmother would call you, and the pupils who follow your advise, "Ladies".
Congratulations. You walk the talk.
We need more men like you. A true hero!
I honestly thought this would be a video on physical appearance etc. but I am absolutely grateful that it was the opposite because that brought me back to reality to what truly matters is character and moral and little to nothing of the physical.
Children are a gift from above. They're full of trust, Joy, creativity, forgiveness and the list goes on. As we grow up, it only gets better!! We have been filled, created with many gifts and talents. Those are the things that make us complete and wonderful and the things we should be discovering of ourselves Much love. 🦁
Me and my elegant lady group love your videos. We became fans and look forward to seeing more. My group think your content is the best!
Lol I will love to join the group of sisters
Can I join you?! I need New friends.
Can you add me too.🙈
@@sharonadongo2573 me too need new friends
I would also love to join😚
You are a sweet heart. I am soon to be 55. I love this! May God bless your ministry. It takes an independent confidence to do and teach this while yet; having a connection to humans who experience this reality!
It's easy to love someone when you accept who they are, applay that to your self. That's word right there. God bless you.
I undervalued myself a lot for ages as I really am😭 I feel now is my time to be treated with high self respect more than anything💯 I need definately my fully happiness back I deserves it trillion % Enough of underestimating, disrespect, ignorance behaviors of others am done Enough !!!!!!!! That voice in me thnx God is brilliant and patience enough to handle with it but I am slowly fed up of every negative thing Enough am positive minded, humble, enough self worth, love to educate myself every single second, ambitious, visionary, etc etcetc happiness is key for every aspect 💯
I'm so glad you popped up on my feed! I've subscribed and I've learnt so much already. It's very refreshing that this message is coming from a woman of colour. Keep up the great work sis 🍾🎊🌠
True... There's so much to learn from her🥺❤️
Self worth is one of the things that many of us find challenging to develop and implement in our daily routine and I believe that this video has gone a long way towards making the pathway easier for us. All this points are just as important to ladies as they're to us men , and loving the person we're is very vital to every gender 👌👌❤️❤️
I truly fancied your comment on Eleanor D Rosevelt that has been a long time role model for me as I channeled her name in a deep meditation and sought her out to learn more about her legacy. I love your videos. This is a unique highly needed channel and topic. As women it is easy to become polarized fulfilling the journey of the masculine and feminine simultaneously losing sight of my feminine essence.
I’m in a career as a filmmaker, actress, and singer in Hollywood where image and outside appearances are highly regarded that one can lose sight of their inner power and commonly overlooked for their higher qualities past the material presence. I hope to see more classy feminine women dominate the mainstream as opposed to the overt flaunt of sexuality and vulgarity. I have watched many of your videos as I have been diligently seeking etiquette classes. Thank goodness for online accessibility. Great work 🙏
Every woman needs to hear this. This life can deal you many highs and quite a few lows and hearing this is so refreshing. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏 for sharing your wisdom. Peace and blessings be unto you.
Honestly... you are one of the only elegance channels that has zero cringe vibes! I feel you are genuine. Also, I wish someone had told me this 3 years ago. What's your zodiac? You give me real Earth sign vibes? xxx hehehe just a bit of fun!
Hi Vivienne, this video is your first I watched from canada. Thumbs 👍 my lady. It has made realized how deep I have fallen after going through many things in my life. I was lost within myself with self condemnation, confused... thank you very much for giving the opportunity to start a new year with confidence and positivity. I will apply these personally and promised I will keep you posted of every milestone towards my improvement progress. God bless you abundantly
I am a man and I recommend this video for men also. So much blessings. Thank you lady Vivienne.
Glad you're here.
"Loving yourself isn't vanity--it's sanity." Love this!!
This video is for me. I don't even know how to love myself because I am constantly criticizing myself because that's what the world want me to portray myself. I am so grateful and thankful for words of affirmation. God bless!
I just discovered your Channel today. How refreshing to see a poised and beautiful young woman that does not race talk, and fling your hands and arms in the air when you talk! So many of the young influencers do. A video I would like to see you make is how to handle rude questions when you are just meeting someone. This always seems to be my situation with people asking so many personal questions that I am not comfortable answering. Although I love to meet new people, I am a very private where do you work, what do you do , who do you know questions always make me uncomfortable.
Loving yourself isn’t vanity it’s sanity 🙌🏽 Love this 💖
I just discovered your channel hours ago, and I profited a lot already. Thank you! Binge watching.😊
You are a breath of fresh air! You appear real and not rigid or robotic as some other tutors on elegance. You are also spot on, on the things you say. Just subscribed. 😍
You’ve become that sister l never had, learning so much from you, starting to believe in myself & self improvement in all aspects of my life😊
I like that saying. "Loving yourself is not vanity but sanity!"
Hi Vivian
I bumped into your video a couple days ago, shortly before preparing for my midnight prayer session and was drawn to watch. I have been richly blessed and I look forward to my quiet time with your video/s. I will definitely recommend others to your site. You are such a blessing.
Profound information. I have been binge watching most of the videos and I must say I am very much impressed. Well articulated 👏
Thank you so much
Literally prayed about this topic and you popped up on my feed! Thank you for all you do, and God bless!
I"m a new subscriber and so grateful to have discovered your channel. I've been binge watching and enjoying every video. Thank you, thank you, thank you Vivian!
Girl I’m about to binge watch myself
I think this is very important for me being that I’m opening a group home for teen and preteens at risk
Same here
Wow! I had never considered seeing myself as a gift! That truly hit me when you mentioned it. Thank you 🙏🏾
We are gifts, full of many talents & light. ☀️
God made you to pop up in my feed and I was quick your personality captivated me.. I'm so blessed listening to you🙏🙏
I’m sure glad I found your channel!! If someone asks me “do you love yourself?!” I always respond with “well of course” but turn around and behave savagely 😂. I’m a work in progress. Having worked 12 steps and attempt to apply them in my life daily, recent behaviors indicate that it’s time for another thorough house cleaning. Thanks again, I think you’re awesome!!
That's great Viviane, my self worth is not dependent on external forces, I always say to myself that what people think or say about myself is not my baby, but the baby of those people. Indeed your lessons built up a person. Your teachings won't be in vain.
I still dont know why U popped into my feed. I guess the universe must be getting ready to blow my mind...I receive & welcome the 🎁. Must be time for something new!!! 💋❤️
Thank you so much dear♥
Wow!!!
This is so timely for me.
Beauty and brain!!!
God bless you, Vivian ❤
This lady is very pretty!
This was so helpful! I'm having an event soon where I'll be teaching young girls about such values and what you've mentioned about self worth will certainly add value to my notes❣️
👍🤝🖐 You are such a sincere person!
Dont forget to quote her when using her words
So many golden nuggets in 12 minutes 💟
I had to get my notebook out!
Thank you, Vivian 💕
Dear Vivien, I have just discovered your channel and I am doing a catch up watching your videos!
I am so glad to see an elegant BW sharing her tips.
You are beautiful, well spoken and I can feel a real kindness through my screen.
Thank you for giving us priceless and needed advices.
My best regards from France 🇫🇷
Amen Vivvien. Much needed words of wisdom. Well said. I will share with you one of my favorite quote on feeling humiliated which is tied in to self worth. "Remember that you cannot be humiliated by the unwise speeches of someone else, but that when you speak unwisely you humiliate yourself and lose a victory that you might have gained." From my favorite female author, Ellen G. White
This video is really awesome, I'm really working on myself, and coming across this video has really make my day. Its good that as ladies we keep building each other up. What someone do not know, keeps learning daily because learning do not have ending.
I’m here to grow and learning! Thanking you
You are so encouraging to us Ladies.Thank you so much. Very appreciative 💘😻💜 God's Blessings 🙌
You are such a God send; I am so blessed already just viewing this first video. I am learning so much I wish I have learned sooner, but no time like the present. I am going to introduce you to others. Thank you so much!!!! Blessings to you and yours. I have subscribed and look forward to more life changing videos.
thank you so much this has blessed me so much. I will watch it a few times because i deal with this for myself I'm 40 and i have an issue in pass of low self-esteem because was in a mental abuse relationship for 17 years God brought me out of that, but I'm not healed and I'm teaching me each day, so this helped some thank you. I subscribed to your page.
So glad You are back! 🥰 I do like the recap at the end of the film, thank You :)
That part when you said I could not look at people in the eye is talking to me. I need to change that. Thank you for this amazing ideas to change my vision of myself. 🙏🏽✨
I appreciate this video and I continue to watch it over and over again to build my self worth.
Hello ! I'm from Brazil , but now i am living in England . I discovered your channel recently and i loved so much ! You are helping me to appreciate myself. Thank you so much. And don't stop it . 😍
Love the message here. Very profound. I wonder now how to describe myself without mentioning career, education, appearance… ladies how do you describe yourself? Do you just describe your character? That is something I believe you should leave for others to assess so I am stuck lol
Great information! This is just what I need. “Loving yourself is not vanity. It is sanity” I like this statement. I subscribed and I’ve been enjoying your videos. Thank you!!
I will watch this video again and again and everytime I do i will keep editing with my changes this is a promise to myself!
Glad I came across this
Been Soo depressed after going through a heartbreak trauma
Feel like I'm not just good
But thanks for this
Boosted my self esteem which was really down
Thank you for this beautiful message. You are my newly found sister!
I’m overwhelmingly glad to have stumbled upon this video. This is such a beautiful message. I have no words to describe it more but it is such an eye-opener and really educational. A lot of times we are educated about other things but not about ourselves. God bless your heart my dear. I’m truly happy to have met you on youtube. Keep doing what you do.🌹
You’re a gift to us all, thank you kindly 🌹.
Ooh la girl! Thank you, you helped bring out the warrior in me. For self love, cherishing God's gift of agency & seeing myself as a gift. Thank you! 💖
Thank you so much for your message.This will definately help me to be more confident in who I am as a person.
Chance is scary sometimes, but I know God can help me with this. Thank you for your good advice! 💕
Amen 🙏 🙏
He carries us, so thankful for that.
@@sulusu4812 ❤️
Change wat you can, accept wat you cant, this line made me subscribe to yoir channel thanks Vivian👏👏👏
Serenity ❤
Thank you. This is powerful. "Have authority over yourself ".🌼🏵🌼
This message hits home. I am new to this channel. I stumbled on it while searching for ways to talk and sound smarter, so you can imagine I'm working on my self-worth. I've been a bit harsh on myself and blamed my culture for being the way I am. I also think it could be my personality. It's the worst thing to deal with because people can see your weakness, and they will take advantage of you. Thank you so much, dear, for your lovely video🥰😊
Hello Gorgeous Lady!! Thanks for the teaching and encouraging words!❤️
Thank you so much. You opened my eyes to some things I didn’t see before. Thank you for your gift of wisdom! ❤
This is so timely for me God has been showing me to take back my life and live . Devil enough is enough I am taking my life back by force and by 🔥. God bless you
Yes! Light is always, always stronger than darkness.
First time I'm seeing this and this is exactly what I need now. Thank you soooooooooo much
An important key to having self-worth is to NOT manipulate anything. Manipulating by altering yourself to fit others to alter their perception of you speaks to not being enough. Or not loving yourself enough in your authenticity to get what you want in any situation. You dont need to manipulate because everything that is due to you is yours when you are inhabiting your authentic self fully
Wow these are the most beautiful words I’ve heard in a while 😍 thank you so much.
Love your voice Vivian, your class and elegance. My kind of people. Love your videos 💜 Thank you.
Thank you love, I really needed this video! I have been struggling with my weight and my self esteem most of my life. Throughout the years, I believe I have focused too much on what others think of me with out taking in consideration how valuable I am to myself and to others. I really love how you mentioned, " self love is NOT a selfish act". I was raised to put others before myself and to do all I can to serve others. As an adult, I have suffered because I am recently over the last few years discovering who I am and my purpose on earth. However, the journey I am currently on I am ever so grateful especially because I am taking back responsibility for "MY LIFE". Thank you, for using your Gift and platform to inspire others. I hope to do the same😀
Wow!! Am glad to know I'm important too thanks so much my lady for eye opening massage
Self love is not selfishness. That's for me. Thank you Darling.
You help me sooo much..I was about to give up on myself
I'm so glad you didn't darling. You're too valuable💜
Never give up my friend. What an adventure all of this is. Truly.
I am so happy to have discovered your channel few hours ago. Thanks for your Elegant teachings❤❤👍👍
I know that it is not by chance that I *stumbled upon you. I was searching for something that I didn't know was in Living Color. You are such a breath of fresh *elegance! Truly, He will make room for your gift if you let it be made known and if you only believe that you are (thereby, I Am THAT I Am). May God continue to bless you! Simply Beautiful 🌬🎁💨
Woww sis...though I knew these points of self worth..but the way you dealt it is just awesome. Thanks n Love you 😘
I love you. Thank you for doing all these videos. You help me and other people.
I'm supporting you 😊
This is great. What you think of yourself is important I agree.
So glad I tuned in today. I needed to hear this
There is nothing wrong with owning your past and moving on. Everyone makes mistakes and if you are actively trying to be better there is no shame in it. Owning your past also frees you up as you aren't always trying to hide it. Don't brag about what you came from, but don't be so scared of it, it's part of who we are.
Needed this ❣️
I always like before watching 😃😃
🦁💕 Thank you MS. Vivian, I can begin my healing journey., I was just now thinking on this topic and while scrolling came upon your video. 💝 I am excited to get to know myself on a deeper level. I not only agree that your content is the best, in my opinion you are genuine.
Beautiful, humble, and smart elegant woman. Thanks a lot for the information!!
Your a gem dear. I praise God for seeing this clip
Thank you. You are royal and a great informative teacher.
I am so inspired...Thank you...God bless you
I am already on my femininity journey n I love the well u speak ur mannerism. Nice one sis n keep winning
God Bless You Elegant Sister in Christ!!! Thank you for your videos!!! They are Truly Blessing My Life!!!❤️
This was so good,I recently started couslnselling and one issue my counsellor was quick to detect is my low self value. It hurt me to realise that I still have low self value since I had embarked on a journey of self love a while back. Regardless, I chose to take it positively and I am now very intentional on my journey of embracing my self value. I am learning as much as I can and typing down the notes I have gathered.This was so helpful and I am really encouraged that I can also reach the level of self worth that you have acquired. Thank you.
Thank you, I can feel the sincerity in your words. Helps me to re-evaluate my self-worth for a more positive stance. I love your TH-cam channel name, subscribing. 😊
Thank you Vivian for sharing. This was such an "on time" message for me to receive.
Thank God I came across your video excetly what am going through whom I needed someone to talk too then I saw this piece of healthy advice
New sub here .it's so insightful .needed this .much love from the Caribbean island of st lucia
Thank you 😊 to bring how to love myself
I speak Portuguese I love your chanel
I'm learning alot 😌
I am soo happy I found this it’s very relieving and spirit elevating thanks 🙏 God bless you
Love her style!! Great content!!