How to Be More DISCIPLINED and Master Self-Control
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 พ.ค. 2024
- Achieving your goals takes more than just motivation. Ever wake up feeling like you just can't push forward? That's where discipline and self-control steps in. In this video, I discuss the most effective way to build discipline and master self-control
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Timestamps
00:00 Intro
00:55 Top areas people struggle with self-control
01:43 Why you struggle with self-control
06:30 What is self-control?
08:11 Galatians 5:17-25
11:51 How do I build self-control?
16:56 James 2:17
17:11 Recap - บันเทิง
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I heard a pastor say once “Some of you are asking for deliverance, but what you need is discipline” I felt that 🔥
Of course! If you are still dealing with discouragement then meditation would be very helpful for you. Meditating on God's word strengthens your mind so that when the enemy brings those thoughts of discouragement, your mind is strong enough to fight them. You confront the enemy's lies with God's truth.
Just wanna let you know that God is using you to speak to me! Thank you so much for letting God use you!! May He bless you in every area of your life and make your channel blow up!! ❤❤
So grateful to hear that! Thank you so much for your kind words!
Man you were all in my business. This was so powerful. Thanks for this video😊
@@kyliajackson thank you so much . God is really using you to speak to me too in this season. Blessings 🙏🙏
He is speaking to me through you and I thank you. God bless you!
So grateful to hear that! God bless!
I believe heavily in coincidences…I prayed that more influential women to enter my life to help encourage me to stay aligned with purpose and continue strengthening my relationship with God and your video came across my screen this morning!
Im so glad!
Yes my flesh and spirit have been fighting a lot recently. Heavy in my word and meditating on it because I don’t want to return to my carnal ways
Yesterday I searched “how to develop self control” and added about 10 videos to my watch later, when I saw this one I almost didn’t add it, but I’m so thankful that I did. You gave a lot of wisdom on this subject, sister, thank you and thank the Lord Jesus for guiding my way to your video.
God bless. ✝️
Of course!
I have to share this testimony from when I was like 7/8 years old. I used to suck my thumb. My mom and grandma hated it and would tell my teacher to make me stop if she caught it. No matter what they did they couldn’t get me to stop. And I wanted to stop! I remember my mom told me I should pray for help to stop sucking my thumb. So one night I did. Then right after my prayer I put my thumb in my mouth and curled up to go to sleep. My mom said “you just asked God to help you stop sucking you thumb but you’re gonna have to put in the work to help
Yourself stop. You didn’t ask God to MAKE you stop.” Well my childlike mind took that to mean that I should change my prayer to “Jehovah please MAKE me stop sucking my thumb”. From that moment to this one I haven’t had so much as the desire to suck any finger. I will always remember that. God was so kind to little old silly me and He took that desire with me having done very little work for it. lol. Now as an adult I know He CAN MAKE us do these things toe stop doing things but these large life altering areas does NEED our work to improve but I just will never forget what He did for baby me. ❤
Amen!
Wowww I have been getting signs to fast for 3 days and literally videos were popping up on my TH-cam feed and here it is 7 days into the month and I still haven’t because I made all of these excuses in my mind as to why. I have been extremely depressed, stressed and worrying bc I am a single mother of 4 and don’t have any help. I know that when I become obedient and listen to God I will get out of this depression. This video was just confirmation for me to just begin.
Im so glad it was helpful!
Hi dear. From a single mom to another, I wanted to send a prayer your way. I pray for your discipline. I pray that you are able to fight through and understand that God will take you in your depression. It is his strength that helps you. I also pray that you are blessed with support and a village. It is not easy. But God is a father to the fatherless and puts the lonely in families. Stay close to God. Keep watching Kylia. She’s very blessed with great messages to help you. Keep praying. Even if you say God please help me! I don’t feel I can do this. I was in deep depression raising an autistic toddler on my own, a thousand miles from my family. God turned that all around. But it took me calling out to him right in that weakness. I couldn’t possibly dig myself out. I was tired. Feeling like giving up. Trust God. Nothing is too hard for him. He loves you and sees you. He cares for his kids, your kids. Just trust that he cares and knows best for you ❤
@@karimahsmallwood8413 my 4 year old is the baby of all 4 of my children and he was just diagnosed with autism in August 2023. I thank you for your kind words.
@@Toknowmeistoloveme Please be gracious with yourself. It’s a road of self-discovery and learning. Don’t do it alone. There are so many services. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to ask. I joined some groups on FB and Reddit that are very helpful for not feeling alone and getting answers. I hope the best for you and your kids.
Miss kylia jackson, looks amazing in this video , her lips 👄 are glistening & beautiful
I'm a muslim but since We believe in Jesus this video was so helpfull (I need to do researches about what Islam says of the holy spirit and I guess that video is a sign to do so😅 warever I'm reading coran and Jesus is mentioned along with the holy spirit I'm like note to myself Search aboutthe holy spirit) also you saying that we ask God to Stop being lazy but we work from bed in literaly me😢Ipray god day and night to give me more energy and stop laziness than go work in mybed😅I'll be working on that this week. thankyou.
I think us as Muslims and Christian’s need to be able to get along more like this and learn from each other. I love this comment
Well she reeeead me 😂 God bless you. I had the worst binge last night and cried to God cause I didn’t listen to Him. He sent me like 20 videos about the spirit of gluttony and I kept ignoring each one. Today I made a meal plan and sticking to it to avoid under or overeating
Galatians 5:24 spoke to me so much that I had to stop the video. I realized that Jesus literally showed us how to kill our flesh daily. He showed us the violence we have to inflict on the flesh in order to ascend and walk by the spirit. He showed us it wont be easy but it will be worth it. This really blessed me. Thank u 🙏🏽
I’m so glad it was helpful!
Thank you for sharing. You are totally right.
At times we are not ready for the change despite asking God to help us. I have experienced it firsthand.
Change is never an easy process.
This came at the right time. God bless you sister.
Im so glad!
I keep failing over & over 😢 again I keep trying though.
if you keep trying then you are not failing congratulations to you🎉… some people never get back up
Your going great 👍🏼 ❤❤❤
When I tell you God moves 🙏🏽 I got on here to find a video to stop procrastinating and as I'm wiping my screen off I clicked on this video. The fact you posted today and me and God just had that talk just let's me know I need to put that fire under my feet. I truly enjoy how you not only broke things down but had the scriptures for us too. God is definitely using you as a light 💐
Amen! I love when God brings confirmation like this!
Praying for patience usually ends up with situations that require patience. That's where the frustration comes from.
True but we’re going to experience those moments regardless of whether we pray for them or not but when we pray we become sensitive and better equipped to respond well.
The transparency is EVERYTHING!!! IM GLUTNESS wanting to do everything 😩 at once
Im so glad it was helpful!
I needed this! Today is day getting back into disciplining myself! I lack self control in the things I truly want to achieve. Im praying on this and just going to do it no matter how I feel!!
Amen! I love this!
This is so timely!! I was just thinking how I need to grow in the fruits of the Spirit and how I have an issue with gluttony. I will eat something and immediately want to eat something else. Crazy. But since I work out daily I think it’s not a big deal but it’s a problem. What a confirmation!
Amen! Glad it was on time for you.That's such a good point!
Yes sister GOD is helping me with self control over food too...my own is to be REALLY flexible with the Holy Spirit and I pray I receive the grace and enablement in the mighty name of JESUS!
Amen!
I definitely needed to see this I’ve been flirting with and kissing someone who is Muslim & I know I have to stray away from going further in that relationship since our beliefs don’t align however I end up giving in at times especially with our conversations this is confirmation that I should not continue to entertain it
Amen sista, we go through spiritual warfare daily between good and evil, what you feed the most will be your reality.
Amen!
Whew! God is speaking to me through you! I have struggled with a sugar addiction, just finished a fast and I’m so eager to be delivered from this addiction. I have not indulged in any sweets since my fast but I am scared of the temptation and falling back into this addiction. I have also prayed for self control and discipline in my life and your video gave me the answer to why I don’t have e these fruits yet and it’s b/c I do override the voice of the Holy Spirit and I need to spend way more time with God and meditate on his word. Thank you for this video.
Im so glad it was helpful!
Thank you so much. God has used you to bless my spirit! I’ve been wanting to change so much and God is just confirming that I must submit to Him and know I can’t do it out of my own power, but I need His Holy Spirit! This message is wonderful! Keep being an amazing light! ❤
You are so welcome! I totally understand that desire to change and may God grace you to be gentle with yourself in the process. One day at a time 🤍
The Lord brought me to you. I looked up Self-Discipline and you was the second one that came up. I ended up listening not know what to expect and then you started talking about The Trinity! So thank you! You have a new subscriber! ❤😊
I’m so glad this was helpful!💙
I thank the Lord for leading me here. your a blessing from above , im so blessed to know this channel, its helping me to grow with my walk with God, Amen.
I can see that God has placed you here to give me wisdom❤
So glad it was helpful! All glory to God!
Thank you 💜
I was literally going to add this to my endless save to watch later list but I couldn’t scroll and I heard exactly what I’ve been hearing from spirit. I’ve been living out my prayers with attitude and unnecessary attachments bc I didn’t prepare for them with mindfulness. Thank you for this reminder that cultivation requires uprooting stagnation
Of course!
There’s no coincidence that I saw this. Definitely needed this reminder!! Thank you for sharing.💗💗💗
Of course!
This video came right on time. I’ve been struggling with just getting things done. I was waiting for it to be convenient. I know now sometimes it will never be convenient but it must be done. Thank you!
Amen! My pleasure!
Wow. Just wow.❤
Thank you I have been getting signs about getting closer with God and discipline has been heavy lately thanks to this video I now know it's the relationship that will help me in all other areas
I was struggling with this very thing for such a long time. I’m so glad I watched this video. 🙏🏾❤️
My dear, may God continue to Bless your voice, very refreshing for such a generation we live in.
Thank you so much 🤍
I'm thrilled that I took the time to watch this video.
I also resonate with the overeating
Amen 🙏🏿
Your video topics are always right on time! I truly enjoy your videos!!
Im so glad!
So timely for sure!! I’m thankful the discernment you have learned
🤍🤍 All glory to God!
I had to run this one back. A word!!
She got me all the way together. This was an on time word! Thank you.
Of course!
You are so necessary in this season. Thank you
My pleasure! So glad it was helpful!
You are good my sister.....and simply these principle ❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much!
Thank you so much for making this video, I needed this word🙌🏽💕
My pleasure!
Amen. Thank you ❤
Of course!
Right on time
Amen!
What a message in season!!!!!!!
Thank you so much for this video ❤
Prioritize intimacy with God
Talk to God
Listen for his voice
Be obedient to his promotings
Set boundaries
Preventative measures for your temptations.
Amen!
Hey sis, I'm from Brazil! I've been blessed a lot in all areas besides practising my listening skill with you❤. Thanks a lot, girl
Ok pastor ❤ thanks I needed this.
Thank you❤
My pleasure!
Thank you sis! This message was so timely! God bless you for your obedience. 🎉🎉🎉
My pleasure!
So grateful for your light! Thank father for using this sister to minister to my spirit and life and so many others.
thank you! I came across your video just when I needed it the most.❤
Im so glad it was helpful!
Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
Thank you for sharing this! It blessed me. May God continue to bless you!
Im so glad!
Thankyou !! I love your content ! God bless you ❤
My pleasure! Thank you so much for watching!
Love your videos. I’m currently going through a breakup and these videos help me forget about that and focus on this that will help me build a relationship with God ❤
I really needed this!!! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
Of course!
I appreciate you for making this video, it was so helpful and on point! God bless you sis🙏🏾
So glad it was helpful! God bless!
God bless you girl❤
Thank you.
Of course!
Whew sis this is exactly what I needed to hear at this moment, thank you Lord❤
So glad to hear that!
Thank you ma’am for this video, for your obedience and your sensitivity to the spirit 🙏🏾
Of course!
Girl you broke that down honey!!!!!!! Love it!!
Whew. Needed this.
Thank you
Of course!
This came right on time. Thank you so much ❤ God Bless.
Of course!
Simply thank you.
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Real talk
girrrrrrl this was GOOD & needed! God bless you, i love your channel 🥰
Thanks so much!
This video was exactly what I needed this morning! ❤
Im so glad!
I can't tell you how much I needed to hear this... Thank you sm for sharing, God bless you! 🤍
I’m so glad this was helpful!
I needed this!
This video triggered me in the best way, thank you so much 🙏🏿💕
You’re welcome 🤍
Thanks
Of course!
thank you and this was for me! praise God
So glad it was on time for you!
So many gems in this
So glad it was helpful!
Thank you 😊. For the message I needed to hear this your videos kept on popping up. Everything that you were speaking on I feel convicted.
Im so glad it was helpful!
Thank you so much ❤
Of course!
This blessed me sooo much!!!!! Thank you!!!
Im so glad!
You are AMAZING. 🙌🏻 You’re helping me so much 🙏🏼
Im so glad!
You are making THIS so plain. I thank GOD for you my Sister in Christ! May God continue to use you bless you and your family indeed!❤
Thank you so much for this 🙏🏾💛
Of course!
Love your videos, they’re always so helpful. God bless you sis 🩷🙏🏽
I’m so glad!
Thank you... I needed this
Im so glad it was helpful!
This is such a beautiful video and Thank you soo much Kylia for your wisdom 💕
Im so glad it was helpful!
@@kyliajackson Yesss beautiful! Keep going 🫶🏾💖💖
Thank you for sharing
This is what I needed to hear!
So glad it was helpful!
What a very timely message. Thanks for this!
Of course!
Love this message. Thanks for sharing your wisdom!❤
My pleasure! Thanks for watching!
GET ME ALL THE WAY TOGETHER THEN SISTER!!! I thank God for giving you this message!!! I needed this!
Im so glad it was helpful!
This video was amazing! The first time I’ve actually sat down & took notes on the word. I needed to hear/read/study this in this season! Thankyou Kylia ❤
Wow so glad to hear that sis!
Whew, God is using you to speak to me! I’m currently on a 30 days challenge on something. So this was great to hear, also may God bless you and make your channel grow more. I just want to say even when you get 10k or 5k views just touching 5k people with your motivation through the spirit of God is more than a million!
So glad it was helpful! Thank you for your kind words and support!
Great scripture
Thanks so much!
I Needed this. Thank you ❤
You're so welcome!
i cannot believe how apt this message is. i really have been praying for deliverance but im the same vessel dancing with flames! this was so beautifully executed: easy to digest, hard truth, but said in love. thank you so much! i literally feel the answers are so much more simpler than we think; surrender and all other things will be added, changed, fulfilled, Holy Spirit walk. thank you! so many believers have been bound for too long. fully relate to the food/gluttony/procrastination. God bless you ❣️
Im so glad it was helpful!
This was so good thank you . I’m listening to it again
So glad you enjoyed it!
I needed this, God bless you✝️💞🌸‼️
My pleasure! God bless!
God speaking through you! Thank you! This video is so helpful 🙏🏼
Glad it was helpful!
This was a good timely word for me! Thank youuuu 💗
Im so glad!