Dressing appropriately has taken me very far in my career and personal life. While others are ignored, I get recognized, get offered help,etc ALL the time.
your parents did good I believe. The sad thing is that there are people that when they see a person who is put together they talk about pretty privilege. It is not pretty privilege if I go to a job interview dressed appropriately.
My parents used to teach me all these things when i was a kid and i thought they were harassing me but now i know how important and lucky I was to have such parents ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️ I have come to know that Elegance is all about good manners ❤❤thanks mom and dad 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Vivienne (hope I'm spelling that right), your videos just keep getting better and better. I shared one with a friend and to my surprise, she thought tips like this make women look pretentious and that men are much more attracted to a woman who has fire in her belly, sass in her style and can cuss with colourful expertise. I suppressed my urge to dismantle her argument, but simply asked her if she thought a gentleman worth knowing would share her opinion of ladylike behaviours. She completely dismissed my question, but months later asked me, "Where are all the gentlemen these days?". Oh the irony. Thank you for another great video and best wishes from Canada!
An insightful engaging video The part about alcohol is definitely for all genders, alcohol abuse can lead to lots of other of the issues mentioned such as the body odour bad breath and unruly public lewd behavior. Excellent video and keep shining for more, the content is phenomenal.
You did it again Vivian. You brought up so many valuable points. Could you please make a video on how to respond to compliment? Thank you! From Montreal, Canada
I am a better person now than before thanks to your videos you taught me a lot that changed me to become an elegant person though am still struggling with working out every day
I love your subjects. They are a must these days. Several generations (old or young, I'm not targeting anyone) seem to lack interpersonal skills and good manners. So much so that when we show good manners in public, some people call us snobs. It's a real shame. Thank you for your guidance, your magnificent personality.
I've watch every single one of your vedio and I love them all I always learn something! I find my self struggling lately with talking too much more like texting too much and when I try to control my self I hold out for a day or 3 then I'm back to weighting encyclopedia . Also struggling with the taste of red wine before bed so thanks again for your consideration love you so much .❤
Smooches 💋.... I'd like to add one more # 13 using profanity. I dont like hearing it, it makes her look like she has a limited vocabulary in my opinion. She can correct this by reading more books, listening to documentaries, etc
A very good point. A lady will never resort to profanity. My late mother always told me, once you have to raise your voice or start swearing during an intense conversation, you've already lost the argument. I miss her still. All the best to you.
@@reelmermaid8844 My condolences to you. I do understand my mother passed 23 years ago as if it was yesterday. Thank you for your comment. It was appreciated 💋
I think most women don't understand when to use profanity too. My goal is to stop using it at all. So I've figured out my environment matters. If I'm speaking in private with my GFs okay, but very limited. But if I'm in any other place, never!
I'm so glad that I grew up with a mother who taught on these things. They've taken me a long way. I'm always getting very nice compliments regarding how I dress, and the type of perfume I wear. I make it a point to daily practice good grooming. It pays off!
Thanks for this beautiful video. I really admire what you do. Kudos. Just want to add that bathing or brushing too often isn't good for the bacteria on your skin or mouth "called normal flora" that helps to protect you. Bath yes, brush yet but not too much!
Thank you once again for giving us some wonderful tips on how to be truly elegant.You are both elegant and beautiful.My dear and you have taught this old Grandma.Some very interesting things.Many blessings to you and your family❣️✨️
I love, love, love, the supporting Bible verses. The Bible is the book of life. So much of life lessons, good taste and elegance comes directly from it.🙏❤🙏❤🙏
I love you Vivian!❤ Although I'm guilty of one of these cress habits you mentioned but just because you mentioned it here, I don't think I'll ever do it again Thank you so much for every video you put out here Vivian 🙏❤️
You are such an elegant woman in my opinion. I was wondering regarding your face during your shows. I was wondering are you sweating due to the camera lights or is it that you have super oily skin?
I would like to add a tip regarding body odor. As well as shaving or waxing, do not forget to exfoliate your underarms! It will make your deodorant last longer and prevent razor bumps.
I love your content. Caribbean women and African women have a tad bit moire etiquette and poise. than Descendants of American slaves. We are educated women we love to decorate beautiful homes, we love cooking, we love a beautiful dress, hats, and purses, etc. However, the poise and etiquette department needs a little fine tuning.
Oh my gosh! I know someone exactly like this, she's a lovely woman, but she talks ENDLESSLY. I've even told her she could be an FBI interrogator and she simple laughed and didn't realize that I was trying to tell her she talked too much. Subtlety did not work with this woman. 🙈 I'm exhausted after only about 15 minutes in her company.
@07:05 If you smoke... and you complain a lot..and are rude? Move to France, well to Paris. These are almost cultural traits which won't hinder your elegance at all. Smoking is like drinking, the perception of it is country-based.
It seems odd to me that you have to tell people this. I know people who don't bathe every and it's gross.. The smell is awful. The human body is disgusting in a lot of ways.
This is another Amazing video of yours, but next time you want to show a rotten tooth to the public, I'd suggest you put out ... Viewers Discretion Notice Pls, not everyone can look at Everything. My candid advice. Thanks 👍
Wow. No wonder people keep asking if I am British. A real Brit would know better but, Americans don't use the same vocabulary at all and would perceive some of these speech and mannerisms as "putting on airs" of arrogance!
Anybody else here for the vocabulary lesson? It would be atrocious to miss it! :)
I love her vocabulary lessons ❤
😂😂😂
Me 🙋♀️
Me 😂😂😂 wouldn’t miss it
Yes oooo this is us😂😂😂😂
1. Talkative
2. Poor posture
3. Body odor
4. Smoking
5. Complaining
6. Rudeness
7. Over or underdressing
8. Rowdiness
9. Uncultured and uninformed
10.Frowning
11.Nail chewing
12. Drinking too much
Amen
I appreciate this summary. Thank you
Dressing appropriately has taken me very far in my career and personal life. While others are ignored, I get recognized, get offered help,etc ALL the time.
your parents did good I believe. The sad thing is that there are people that when they see a person who is put together they talk about pretty privilege. It is not pretty privilege if I go to a job interview dressed appropriately.
My parents used to teach me all these things when i was a kid and i thought they were harassing me but now i know how important and lucky I was to have such parents ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️ I have come to know that Elegance is all about good manners ❤❤thanks mom and dad 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
Are they still alive?
@@gugumazibuko6275 yes dear they are still alive in their mid 60s
😊🙏🏾🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
@@gugumazibuko6275 yes dear they are still alive in their late 60s
@@GertrudeKatula ❣️❣️❣️❣️
Thank you for mentioning that replacing good habits for bad takes time.
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You are a really elegant woman. Thanks for your help.
I love proverbs 😂
I love the WORD of God amen hallelujah 🌹
Amen! I also love the supporting scriptures.❤
Vivienne (hope I'm spelling that right), your videos just keep getting better and better. I shared one with a friend and to my surprise, she thought tips like this make women look pretentious and that men are much more attracted to a woman who has fire in her belly, sass in her style and can cuss with colourful expertise. I suppressed my urge to dismantle her argument, but simply asked her if she thought a gentleman worth knowing would share her opinion of ladylike behaviours. She completely dismissed my question, but months later asked me, "Where are all the gentlemen these days?". Oh the irony. Thank you for another great video and best wishes from Canada!
I liked before watching because I know it will be good.
Like your communication, your content is at the next level. Please do more videos and post more frequently :)
An insightful engaging video
The part about alcohol is definitely for all genders, alcohol abuse can lead to lots of other of the issues mentioned such as the body odour bad breath and unruly public lewd behavior. Excellent video and keep shining for more, the content is phenomenal.
You did it again Vivian. You brought up so many valuable points. Could you please make a video on how to respond to compliment? Thank you! From Montreal, Canada
I am a better person now than before thanks to your videos you taught me a lot that changed me to become an elegant person though am still struggling with working out every day
Thank you about the chewing the nail constructive criticism. I will do better going forward. ❤😊
I cant get enough of these videos. They're so educative. Thanks Vivianne
Thanks for the teachings..... I am learning.... Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
I love your subjects. They are a must these days. Several generations (old or young, I'm not targeting anyone) seem to lack interpersonal skills and good manners. So much so that when we show good manners in public, some people call us snobs. It's a real shame.
Thank you for your guidance, your magnificent personality.
I've watch every single one of your vedio and I love them all I always learn something! I find my self struggling lately with talking too much more like texting too much and when I try to control my self I hold out for a day or 3 then I'm back to weighting encyclopedia . Also struggling with the taste of red wine before bed so thanks again for your consideration love you so much .❤
Dear Viv,you are doing a great great job.I always shout hallelujah when I see a new video.Thanks dear.
I’m a gentleman and I love these contents. Excellent!
Another good informative video. Thank you very much! And, you're looking beautiful as usual.
I love your style and communication skills however, elegance also stand out when you are natural in terms of hair
That’s your opinion. People’s style preferences are personal.
You help me so much!!! Excellent work !! Many thanks and greetings from Greece 🇬🇷 ❤️
(Michael Obama!!!❤❤❤style icon!!!)
Smooches 💋.... I'd like to add one more # 13 using profanity. I dont like hearing it, it makes her look like she has a limited vocabulary in my opinion. She can correct this by reading more books, listening to documentaries, etc
A very good point. A lady will never resort to profanity. My late mother always told me, once you have to raise your voice or start swearing during an intense conversation, you've already lost the argument. I miss her still. All the best to you.
@@reelmermaid8844 My condolences to you. I do understand my mother passed 23 years ago as if it was yesterday. Thank you for your comment. It was appreciated 💋
I think most women don't understand when to use profanity too. My goal is to stop using it at all. So I've figured out my environment matters. If I'm speaking in private with my GFs okay, but very limited. But if I'm in any other place, never!
BE BLESSED VIV👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️
I like that one” don’t explain and don’t entertain”.
I'm so glad that I grew up with a mother who taught on these things. They've taken me a long way. I'm always getting very nice compliments regarding how I dress, and the type of perfume I wear. I make it a point to daily practice good grooming. It pays off!
Thanks for this beautiful video. I really admire what you do. Kudos. Just want to add that bathing or brushing too often isn't good for the bacteria on your skin or mouth "called normal flora" that helps to protect you.
Bath yes, brush yet but not too much!
Thank u for sharing ❤️ I was wondering where u were 😊
Thank you once again for giving us some wonderful tips on how to be truly elegant.You are both elegant and beautiful.My dear and you have taught this old Grandma.Some very interesting things.Many blessings to you and your family❣️✨️
I love, love, love, the supporting Bible verses. The Bible is the book of life. So much of life lessons, good taste and elegance comes directly from it.🙏❤🙏❤🙏
I love the way you refrence to the scriptures
Me too!!!!❤
Thank you Vivian! Great informations as always, people from all age group can benefit from your content. 🙌🏾
Thank you, I will download financial times.
Thank u so much dear 😊🇺🇬🇺🇬
Iv learned a lot from this classy lady x
Please make a video doing your make up and the products you use. Your skin is flawless ❤.
I’m Hispanic woman excuse my English writing.
Been on this channel has shaped my life and make me become elegant ,thank you
Excellent presentation. Very informative and helpful .
I truly missed your videos 😫😫 glad to be back
Thank you! Well spoken as usual ❤
Excellent video! Please upload more videos. Its help me a lot. Blessings
Thank you very much, champion.
You wre amazing i listen every word you say thank you
Great content 🎉 . Thank you
Thanks dear
Another excellent video and thank you for sharing 🙂
I am in love with this vlogs of Elegance of woman, so inspiring & educative
I love you Vivian!❤
Although I'm guilty of one of these cress habits you mentioned but just because you mentioned it here, I don't think I'll ever do it again
Thank you so much for every video you put out here Vivian 🙏❤️
I truly love your videos. Very inspirational ✨🤍🤍
Every time your videos are a breath of fresh air.👏👏👏
Thankyou
Learnt a lot of things from this video
Love your program!
Well put ❤
If we take one lesson from all this, it's DON'T SMOKE, LADIES! 😮
Excatly an dusgusting habbit. Never smoked j would'nt even date a man who smokes
Thanks for your teachings ❤
Thank you for sharing
You have helped a lot of women 😊 respect
Thanks for this informative message
Quite seriously, these very graceful habits and advices will isolate and alienate an individual in the U.S.
You are such an elegant woman in my opinion. I was wondering regarding your face during your shows. I was wondering are you sweating due to the camera lights or is it that you have super oily skin?
I'd like to add vulgar language to that list.
Point no 6 - rudeness - I think it addressing that condescending...
She has so many videos on this, maybe that's why she didn't add itn
@@thaisminaknnedy1065Thanks. I'm new to this channel.
Thank you so much for this and all your videos! I love your content! I always enjoy listening and learning from you!
Proverbs 9:13 - Rowdiness is not appealing...
Amen!
I almost wanna ask are you this confident w/o your masking?! I’d love to see 💁🏽♀️
The word is "downed" 😂 I quit.. 105 days sober😊
I would like to add a tip regarding body odor. As well as shaving or waxing, do not forget to exfoliate your underarms! It will make your deodorant last longer and prevent razor bumps.
Thanks for sharing, I'm impressed and picked alot from this❤❤🎉🎉
Thanks love have learned
First to be here ❤❤❤
Thank you sister..
Thanks you Vivian love you girls❤❤❤❤❤❤
Viv 😊you’re super ❤
Thank you so much Ma
Love this🥰
Thank you
Thank you so much❤
Simplicity and modesty
Beautiful
Talking too much is the mistake I've made alot😩
Hello maam i am your very big fan ❤
I love your content. Caribbean women and African women have a tad bit moire etiquette and poise. than Descendants of American slaves. We are educated women we love to decorate beautiful homes, we love cooking, we love a beautiful dress, hats, and purses, etc. However, the poise and etiquette department needs a little fine tuning.
Present. Team early bird
Omg! Who are these people who are wearing the same underwear everyday 😮😅
I do repeat bras
😂😂😂😂
Oh my gosh! I know someone exactly like this, she's a lovely woman, but she talks ENDLESSLY. I've even told her she could be an FBI interrogator and she simple laughed and didn't realize that I was trying to tell her she talked too much. Subtlety did not work with this woman. 🙈 I'm exhausted after only about 15 minutes in her company.
I don't like the way she blinks at me😂😂😂
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Your top is illfitting, its looks too small. It is always best not to wear illfitting clothes. Do a last minute/final check.Great channel.❤
I will smile often 😪
@07:05 If you smoke... and you complain a lot..and are rude? Move to France, well to Paris. These are almost cultural traits which won't hinder your elegance at all.
Smoking is like drinking, the perception of it is country-based.
Vivienne, how about women using a cigarette holder to look elegant, while they are trying to quit?
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It seems odd to me that you have to tell people this. I know people who don't bathe every and it's gross.. The smell is awful. The human body is disgusting in a lot of ways.
You should learn to love yourself, dear, including your precious body.
@@LoralLee I'm talking about other people who refuse to take a bath every day. They stink 😏😂
@@LoralLee you obviously didn’t read.
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What about being too promiscuous even with strangers. A sign of lack of self respect. And also gossiping.
I would add being dirty to point number 3..
The only current affair i need to know about is what is in the bible
This is another Amazing video of yours, but next time you want to show a rotten tooth to the public, I'd suggest you put out ... Viewers Discretion Notice Pls, not everyone can look at Everything. My candid advice. Thanks 👍
Wow. No wonder people keep asking if I am British. A real Brit would know better but, Americans don't use the same vocabulary at all and would perceive some of these speech and mannerisms as "putting on airs" of arrogance!