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- “There is a number where most women will stay and accept “cheating”. “
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"There's people who enter the country illegally and STILL. get submission from their women while working as day laborers" Damn that's the truth
Wimin are attracted and react to behaviors , I have relatives who are doing exactly what you’re describing, point is , people make it ,and a woman will only follow a leader , not a servant.
But a black man has to walk on water before he gets an ounce of respect 😅
But their wives are not educated, successful, or often times do not work either. It's not hard when you see your man as a leader and head of his household. When you were taught to treat and serve your father and brother in the same regard. When fathers are not around and we find ourselves needing protection from the very men we are supposed to submit to rather than receiving their protection or providership it's hard to reprogram a generation of women who were not only taught not to depend on a man but witnessed first hand where her dependence on that man would lead to.
@@unmaskedparkerpeter1680 BRUH I FEEL THAT, it's so annoying 😑
@@candyc4713 the solution to that is simple. Drop the feminist programming. Every woman has the option to do that but most won't. Strength and independence doesn't need protection. Young, vulnerable, elderly, individuals need protection.
Ive had opportunities to cheat and chose not to. I think part of high value is having honor.
I agree. I think he’s talking in practical generalities though-from the perspective of a hunter looking for the best scenario. That a person (man or woman) with options is likely to use them. If you are thinking of your overall future, it might be prudent, he is saying, to keep that reality in mind and maybe make yourself comfortable with the possibility-if the benefits out way the pains. Because life is trade offs
Awesome Keith! Kevin is not giving guys like you any credit at all. You do exist! Thank you!
That's great Keith! I agree that the concept of high value includes honor.
It’s an amoral experience to become high value. The morality is based on an individual, case by case level. Kevin continues to talk in generalities which i think is advantageous for the majority of his audience.
@@tonyadenisealston 😘
For her to keep calm and listen to KS, shows how humble she is. Hopefully she finds someone soon.
She's the most beautiful woman I have seen on your program , Kevin .
You simps better man up..
True High Value is having character traits like honor, integrity, and loyalty.
True. STILL, when you have options, you "exercise" them.
Sound like ya moms told u that
cheating for sex is being disloyal? I think moving money and falling in love to another woman and not saying anything about it, is.
@@lamrof BOTH are disloyal. Only dirtbags and LOW-value people try to claim otherwise.
You must be a female or beta lmfao
She actually sat there and listened, never talked over at one point, I give her credit 👏🏽
Because she realizes that was the beta male who broke up her marriage.She got her answer.
Curiously, she was the first one who was right
“Men are lottery tickets”. And women want a winner. But if he’s a winner don’t you think other women are going to want him too?” -Patrice O’Neal
Patrice O'Neal is the real Godfather to all of this
Patrice is the all father of all god father's for alpha males.
But just because other women may want me doesn’t mean I have to want them back or act on that “want” or desire. That is a sign of good character and strong willpower as well as true ALPHA traits. That is OMEGA levels simply because so many people out here think a totally different way. Imma do what I have to do and know at the end of each day that I’m a man, and I follow nobody’s rules but my own, as well as following my own code of honor and moral compass.
RIP Patrice
@@mider-spanman5577 Nailed it bro.
As men, our word is our bond. Entering a relationship with a woman or marrying her is a promise of exclusivity.
If you don't intend on keeping that promise, at least have the balls to tell her that upfront.
A real man speaking facts!! Thats all we want is honesty.
no. no it's not. it's not in vows. it's not in any religious texts. and it's not in the law when you get married.
@@donmcduffie631 exactly..all this is just implied monogamy by society...I do agree be upfront about your intentions..BUT getting married does not promise "exclusivity"
As a young boy, I grew up among men and with a father still in my house. I have yet to see a man with options that doesn't bang anything on the side from time to time. The notion that you should be 100% sexually faithful to your wife is a female notion and men with options that follow this notion are as rare as a unicorn. 😄
This is one of the only issues I find myself disagreeing with Mr. Samuels about. He often cites the Bible as part of the reason women should put men first and honor their husbands, but then he turns around and says it's normal and natural for men to not be monogamous. Well the Bible is very clear on Adultery.
Wow! This lady exudes an awesome inner beauty that is so uncommon. I empathize with her and I hope she finds a wonderful husband
“He didn’t make enough for me to turn a blind eye to it” thank you I really needed that. Everything has a price.
Oldest Profession
Women always want something from you. Relationships are a value exchange to them at all times.
How much do u have to make to be disrespected?
Exactly 'price'
@@mickiemallorie No amount of money. That's just nasty
How are you allowed to cheat on a your fiancé, when she’s working full time n splitting half the bills.. that’s not high value...🤔, now you’re just saying all men can cheat 🤦🏿♂️
exactly lol Idk about this one
Yeah I was scratching my head 🤔
I’m not agreeing with what he says but He wasn’t saying that men are “allowed” to cheat he was saying that men of high value tend to cheat. so, women should expect it and move along instead of leaving and then searching for another alpha male.
It's in a man nature to cheat. Men are not cheating just for fun we keep because that's what we do and it's natural that's why when people ask a man why did he cheat we say we don't know
Yea he lost me on that one
I agree with Kevin on alot of issues but staying with a cheater man or woman is a hell no under any circumstances.
I agree with everything Kevin says except for all men cheat. We don’t all cheat. Men should have respect and honor. If we’re going to hold women accountable let’s be honorable men.
Don't think I've ever heard him say all men cheat. The men that women throw themselves at (high value) have a a lot of options to cheat. Some will choose to exercise those options. This is what happens in the real world, not the fantasy world of honorable men.
Alphas, not all men. If he's happy why would he?
The percentage of men not cheating is probably less than 3%. HVM have lots of women chasing them. If they don't cheat.... it's because 1) they chose not to. 2) they are very religious.
@@iforgotmyscreenname1 You must not know too many Pastors.
@@mrt094 they are not HVM, use that head before speaking
The ex husband is going to watch this and say that's what I'm talking about
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😂💯😂🤣
Factssss 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He already caught the next one.
😂😂😂
This is the first woman I've seen on this show that isn't in her masculine. There is hope for her.
Yes Ricky , thanks for pointing that out
@@davidlawrence8085 because it's obvious by looking at the thumbnail.
@@davidlawrence8085 good cali women
Facts
Her life is hard - she gets good men….
Her gift is a curse=\
When I forgave cheating, he didn’t stop nor cared about my feelings about it. I’d never be with nor stay with anyone who had no problem with sharing himself with other women. No matter how much money.
Kevin is reaching on this one. There’s no logic behind telling her the husband was justified in cheating and she was unjustified in leaving the marriage.
Then you are a beta, with no options...
He’s saying she broke up the marriage for opening up the door for opportunity & listening to a beta/dirty macking corn, & based off her own insecurities… *If she didn’t search - She wouldn’t have known* .. She broke up her happy home, he was being respectful to her/her feelings & their marriage/home…
& yall defending but half way thru she admitted if he made more $$ she would’ve “turned a blind eye” 😂
@@jonesboi804 that last part is the important part. I personally feel like cheating can be avoided but most women legit wouldn’t care if you’re in the top 20% earning men. So it really don’t matter unless you’re middle or lower class.
I think it would have been better served had KS said you should have sought marriage counseling before divorcing.
Your missing the point as a man I understand why the Beta man did that. He was getting revenge on the husband though his wife because he's not man enough to face the man one on one in conversation not violence. Don't you find it awful that that beautiful woman has a broken heart and has trust issues now and is all alone with pain in her heart because of a beta man. Look at it that way Terry. It's hard for a woman to do everything alone when she got wived before.
He had a beautiful woman going half on the bills. Seems like he's the loser.
I was surprised to hear her pay HALF! Most women won't pay next to nothing
@@sullya6967 exactly. And she's good looking.
AN U THE BETA THAT HE'S TALKIN ABOUT!!
Only thing any man can do with a pretty face is look at it. You've never slept with a good looking woman that was terrible in bed? Women going half on the bills are a dime a dozen, trust me. If the ratio is 9:1, at least 4 of those women would pay half, and 1 out of the 4 would pay more than half. The one thing I agree with him on this is that she let a beta male ruin her marriage.
@@reddog1500 I'm totally in with you on that one. Beta guys get mesmerized by a woman's looks, but high value men go beyond looks cos looks don't pay the bills.
She’s still somewhat young, naturally pretty, polite, calm demeanored and has no children. 🏆
In other words she will find another guy.
But time is running.... she should have stayed with her husband
Kevin you are wrong and decide I been married 31yrs have not cheated on my
Decieve
@@kennethwells1143 He said most not all
The comments keeping me sane.. 🙏 I thought I was the only one who didn’t like this concept of cheating.
Wow!!! Can't back what Kevin is saying this time. Standards are standards and everyone's values are different and important. She seems to have high integrity and is wife material for the right person who will respect her.
You forgot her price tag for her integrity. She will accept Elon Musk cheating. You can't get a little bit pregnant.
I feel like this was a REAL productive conversation. She actually sat back, listened, and took it all in, and gave it some thought. She has my respect.
She seems like a relatively secure person.
The more secure we are, the easier it is to take criticism.
@@taiwoajumobi9553 agreed 1000%
Yeah these days acting like a normal human beeing seeking advice earns respect lmao
DubbelD13 shame ain’t it....
She's got enough " other than black" culture in her, to actually be respectful
I was almost shocked by what Kevin was telling this woman, I couldn’t agree with him whatsoever UNTIL she admitted that if her ex-husband was rich she would have turned the blind eye. Although I hate infidelity and I don’t think people ever have an excuse no matter how desirable and successful they are, these women are wanting men who are way way up there and live a certain way so...once again Kevin, hard pill to swallow.
You really can’t make this stuff up
@Rudy The Red Pill Beta I KNOW all men don’t cheat. Most don’t. I know very few who actually have (unless they got away with it lol) The notion that men by nature cheat is not something I can accept. But maybe I’m being willfully ignorant. I’ve learned so much from Kevin and similar channels here, but that’s just one thing I can’t accept. Edit: not cheat but the notion that men will sleep around if better comes along because that’s what successful men do. I know women by nature are always open to a better opportunity to move up in life, but I don’t see men exercising that same mindset.
Cheating should NEVER be normalized. Just have no commitment relationships.
@Rudy The Red Pill Beta I took it as hes implying all men will cheat given the opportunity and if there werent any concequences. Dont agree with that. but can certainly see his definition of high value men cheating.
The episode was about dudes like u
Kevin, you're absolutely wrong on that one bro. Part of being a high value man is having honor and self control. Just because you're alpha male and make 6 figures doesn't mean you should dishonor your wife by sleeping around because the man lack self control. I make $300k a year and I also love my feminine, submissive and beautiful wife.
I don't think those man have no self control, I think those men do not see the need to not cheat especially after making themselves extremely valuable .... Anyone making $200k plus have self control, they just choose to exercise their options. Unless the man is a practicing Christian etc why should he limit himself?
If she wasn’t submissive YO ASS WOULD CHEAT BECAUSE A WEALTH MAN NOT PUTTING UP
WITH NO WOMAN WHO IS NOT GIVING ALL OF HERSELF TO HIM HELL THATS LIKE YOU MAKING 300k a year but takes you wife to DILLARDS ON SHOPPING SPREE DO YOU THINK SHE GOING TO HAVE THE SAME ATTITUDE AS YOU Have with this I LOVE MY WIFE SHIT
She’s beautiful and understanding and she will have everything she wants because she listens and she hasn’t reached her 30 mark
what do you do to make 300k?
If u listen to him consistently he says that high value men have options and for women to understand that. But they may or may not choose to indulge in them. If they know that have something good at home and also the fact they are hard workers they could b too tired to find the time ..It doesn’t matter high value or not. Cheating is a choice and if he has respect enough to keep it away how would u kno? Because someone told u or u went looking instead of focusing on home. Women do it all the time.
She’s really pretty. Soft spoken. She doesn’t deserve someone cheating on her. I’m glad she left. She’ll find someone who won’t cheat on her.
No one deserves anything! If you were long enough on this planet you would know that already.
She has trust issues. That’s gonna be a huge issue for anybody who is going to pursue her
This cheating point of view is still hard to grasp... men do have a lot more urges and don’t connect emotions to sex but... part of being a strong man is to control your sexual urges. A man who can control his sexual urges , can do everything else in life.
Good point
Facts
A man doesn’t lose value when he cheats and it doesn’t determine how strong a man is either. Women are the ones who lose value when they cheat. You could very well have a loyal man who is very weak and who other women find unattractive.
@@TooDirty it definitely makes a man stronger to not fall for his sexual urges.
@@olecramv4273 Okay lets go with your argument. Explain how it makes a man "stronger".
Kevin is off on this one, ALL MEN DON'T CHEAT. I have been married for 12 yrs and have never had the slightest thought about cheating on my wife and I am a 6 figure man.
Thats facts I personally have never cheated I actually broke up with a girl I used to date the very morning I started to feel for someone else.
You're lying, you're not a 6 figure man lmaoooo
I’m not a 6 figure man at all, but I’m friends with a few. Of those, most don’t have time to cheat, a few do when they’re out if the country, and the others (the happy ones) married a woman who is not monogamous, and they both do their thing respectfully. Kevin is right about a great deal, but he also says some wild shit from time to time 😂
@@Lordmactrill some of us don't. I married a beautiful woman who's my best friend and my inspiration. I'm great where I am and I'm making 6 figures.
All in the sense of MAJORITY guys come let’s use our brains. The ones that say they don’t be having sex with their wives thinking about another female . All the same shit lol
The one thing that made me a high value man is INTEGRITY, I would never ever cheat on a person I chose to wife. I was married for 10 years and the only woman I kissed besides my wife during that period was my mom. Options were never a problem but my conscience would never allow me to hurt anyone. If I ever remarry I will not cheat no matter what. Kevin is wrong on this one not all men cheat.
you lying bruh,are you real high value man or like these women who call themselves boss or queen cause they can, cause it sounds good so stop the cap.
@@barrystokes1396
I am sure there are those who could , but don't for whatever reason. Even a greater beta can dumpster dive. Its not just can but also includes a tolerance for complications.
You are not high value man, you are beta.
You are even worse than beta, you are mommies boy.
I just wanna say how much I appreciate the comments here that do NOT support cheating 🙏🏿❤️ One of the things that I will never support Kevin on... Cheating is dishonorable especially in the eyes of God who established the marriage union between a man and a woman. Adultery is abominable! No one should be subject to that kind of disrespect/dishonor.
I dont condone it either but when you take those vows it says for better or worse. Man is not perfect and per Gods word he had rather you work through your problems and save your marriage, because in the beginning divorce was not so. They have no kids, and that's good for her.
I concur!
Yeah but these commentators are low value men in the bottom 80%. Hvm operate with w different mindset
Agreed! 👏🏽
This is semi true. In the bible days, men (of certain cultures) could legally have as many women as they could afford to take care of. The women were ok living this way and so were the men. Even modern day Mormons can have multiple women/wives.
I mean cheating on a woman when she is paying half the bills is kinda petty 😂
That’s what I was thinking too. Like dang...I meeean a true provider maybe she woulda turned the proverbial ‘blind eye’.
He was foul for that
@@chrisb1906 True. Doesn’t add up..
@@TereseLeigh if I had a baddie like that , that came across as feminine and pleasant, and paid bills...I'd kept that
@@chrisb1906 ✊🏾
I would strongly advise against cheating if you're married. Stay unmarried if you want to explore
What if she changes, racks up debt, and has you by the balls with alimony threats
Sounds easy enough, but some men want a wife to hold down the household and have women on the side.
@@lish8591 , those men are of low moral character. I would never do business with a man if he knew he was the type to cheat on his family. Its one thing if they cheat with the realization that their married life is horrible. But its entirely another to cheat with the false idea that it is normal and healthy. I think kevin is wrapped around his own axel trying to justify cheating. A high value man needs to find a true trophy wife, but not cheat on his family. Get divorced, and take care of your family. Be a real man.
@@gial8862 ❤️❤️❤️
@@gial8862 I wouldn't say they don't have low morals. Some men have arrangements with their wives or simply they have no self control.
Yeah no. Ladies, do not settle for a cheating husband. This is unacceptable.
She’s cool calm and collected because she knows she did right. Her conscious is clean.
Dude made a show for men to be honest and men still think they gotta lie to make women feel good. Tell them the truth and let them choose. I’m not lying anymore.
💯
Much more complicated. Most women are insecure and cannot handle the truth of her man saying he wants to sleep with another woman. People say they want the truth but a lot of times, they really don’t. They say ignorance is bliss for a reason...
If women just accepted that men will be men and that more than likely, your man has cheated, is cheating or will cheat(although as Kevin says, “it’s not cheating if you’re a man, it’s just being a man), and stop worrying about it, stop looking through his phone, asking him where he’s going or where he’s been, your life will be much happier...
@@Mrconsigliere444 Be honest about it and let the woman choose if she wants to stay don´t sneak around
@@Mrconsigliere444 I agree to an extent. High value men have an abundance of options , yes... but you’re not considering possible STDs being brought into the home. That’s a huge problem with hiding it from the woman a man is with because who’s to say he’s practicing safe sex? That reason alone is why a conversation should be had with the woman about him sleeping with other women.
Men should just be upfront and let the woman know and none of these things would be a problem.
@@Mrconsigliere444 of course and I agree. Especially when were both different natured. To be honest men want to tell the truth but we know the women we love will sabotage the relationship and herself. We try to keep her from losing us. So we will lie to keep her happy and to keep us from having to leave her cause we love who we love. She forgets the relationship is for her security not ours. We just want love. We already have women. It’s so much deeper and complicated. But what’s sad is when it ends. She’ll end up messing with a lower value man she calls her friend that does the same thing accepting his truth cause she claims he didn’t lie. He don’t care !
If he was cheating that long you can assume he wasn't using a rubber. Her health was at risk and she should stay? You missed me with this one.
Do you know what pragmatic means?
She's beautiful and a really nice person that got screwed over, I hope she finds someone.
@platinumplum,,,kinda funny lookin,,, mixed with too much stuff
The thing that makes her so adorable and attractive is her calmness and her feminine demeanor.
Kevin shooting his shot on the low too. "I'll be in California in 3weeks" 🤣🤣🤣
Heard that, too.😂
Lol I was wondering why he said that
Factz
Right! 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
You don't have to be a super alpha male but don't be a beta just have pride, work hard and be that man holds your woman down and protect
u dont have to be alpha or beta, just be red pill aware
This is exactly what all the 90 percent of men should be acting like because they are not super alpha male but not super beta, in the middle
@@Element69 nah, most dudes are betas.
Exactly ppl using the term so loosely now its now many versions. Even alphas have beta situations.
This exactly gon keep the cycle goin. Yall are not alphas but Omegas. Once the male realizes this. Watch out world.
She’s so right to leave him, you definitely don’t deserve to be cheated on. God can and will find you a good man for you, just believe.
As an Alpha male I learned from my mistakes and value what I have now and recognized what I lost. Alpha males can turn a new leaf. It's not all gloom and doom.
Who told you you're one?! 😀😀
@@buyakshaklak6464 😂😂😂you can be anything u want on the internet
I felt sorry for her until he talked about the money and her thought process was different 🤔Nope!
She switched up quick.
At least she didnt try to lie. Most women would faked up quick. Being a golddigger and admitting it are not the same thing LoL.
He caught her on her self righteousness act
She was honest, unlike most women.
Thank you... that was Kevin's point!!!! Money is the key at all breakdowns of life
That beta that told you about your husband went back home to his wife.
are you guys supporting cheaters?
Excatly
Probably true. But do his wife have to worry about him cheating?
@@POPtheHOBO who cares? because that's not the point. Btw he still married stupid. 🤣🤣🤣
Or she can get a lame that give her his checks every time he gets paid! I'm quite sure there's lot of them 😂
I got advice from a married cousin of mine. She’s your wife but when you’re not around her, she’s out of your control or influence and often times, extended eye contact with someone else is all that it takes. After being told that, I see this shit really don’t stop until the casket drops, not when you give her a ring thinking you taking her out the game.
If a women was to accept her husband/boyfriend cheating, that's fine, however no matter how many times Kevin says it, cheating won't be normalized in any situation.
Doesn’t have to be normalized the argument and concepts behind men of socio economic means are more likely to exercise their options and women are more likely to share those men are valid & accurate ideals
I rock with Kevin but he projects a lot of his personal beliefs on all HVM. He doesn’t speak for them all.
Y'all have no idea what you're talking about. He ain't talking about our circles. He's talking about downtown condo loft's. Bitches don't give a shit who you're fucking if their flying to Tahiti every 6 months. And that'll never change.
I think KS got it wrong on this one. He’s not a high value man, he splits bills with his wife and she works and he had the nerve to cheat. No honey you did the right thing and left.
KS just gave it to her straight, you got a man to marry you, at least try to make it work. First time you catch him cheating you leave your marriage.
He's not a high value man because he expects his wife to help pay the bills?
@@mpiloenhlesibanda3666 Why do we normalize cheating now….the relationship JUST started. If they were married for years and it happened ok that’s still bad but different. He was hardly even starting this marriage.
@@iMsOiNsO he was cheating all through the engagement too
Facts, I can't get with the exercising his options bs either call it what it is
The person that values their marriage will not cheat.
Exactly
Right!
You're crazy
Adrian Margean A person who has morals and value is crazy? Make sense if you have any, and think before you comment on anything in life.
Valuing marriage has nothing to do with cheating. Sex is physical for men. It depends what kind of arrangement the women and the man has.
It's a great disservice to high value man to imply that they can't, or shouldn't have to subdue their flesh, have integrity, be honorable and faithful to the one woman they CHOSE to wife... We are more than animals, men should not get a pass at "pleasing their flesh" and being consumed by lust just because the darker part of them would like that
When KS said: There's a number every woman would turn a blind eye on. That changes everything.
It's the same the other way. The higher value a woman is, the more a man is gonna turn a blind eye to things she does.
Thus is where me and him differ in opinion. It’s a matter of integrity and respect for your family and children.
we are talking about high value man here............................350000 dollar man not average joe lol..............
@@sunilnarine6313 yeah, those men essentially buy their wives, they're with them for the money, it's more of a business deal than a marriage.
Of course it is. I am shocked how people just suck up every thing this dude says.
Amen Michael!!!! Educate your fellow brothers, including Mr Samuels!!!!!
women have options also (0-10) however if they exercise them now it’s a problem. Men can’t have it both ways. Let’s just honor our relationships or get the hell on 😂. Many folks are down for open relationships just do that and stop breaking hearts because of infidelity. Simple.
Kevin did flip this, that guy was not a HVM, cause she did say that she was Paying 50% of everything.
AND working full time. Then tried to bring up the "Animal kingdom " as to why men aren't monogamous. I'm so tired of that. Human have a conscious, animals don't. Animals eat other animals' raw flesh. We don't. We are not like the "animal kingdom"
@skisrob so men shouldn't get married of they still want to have sex with other people. Or maybe he should have married a trifling woman like the woman who was cheating on her husband. Seems like they were more equally yoked. He said the married woman had something to loose too. But let's not act like a married woman wouldn't let another man hit raw, get pregnant and tell her husband it's his. If she's already that trifling, she'd probably do something like that too. And this woman was supposed to stay through all that potential drama?
hello! Thank you ..I knew I couldn't have been the only one paying attention. I just commented this somewhere above.
@@EmergeAndSeeTV Yea he was definitely not right here, but he wanted to be right, and not always he will, but this is one case out of more than 50+ that I have seen, here in this channel.
@@helloelites292 Lol if only everybody could see this comment and really digest it. Most of this man's "logic" falls short just like this trash ass animal kingdom analogy. The fact that so many people just blindly agree with Kevin's garbage takes like this shows a serious lack of any real critical thinking skills
First time I feel like complimenting a woman on the show. Class!
She did right by leaving, She's young and will find someone else. Never except cheating and the bottom line was he cheated. She seems like a good woman.
Beta.
Bad influence
No she is not, she is a typical tute.
I don’t cheat, I never cheated. I think with the head between my shoulders. I would be faithful to her, and I have many options. And I’m not a beta male. Not All alpha males cheat, we are rare, but we do exist.
We need more man like you!
Well damn bro congratulations
No doubt that you are, so am I, but that's not the issue My Brother. Men with good income or not but they have an Alpha frame and judgement still have a choice to use those options. I would never use those option and cheat on a good wife but the options are still there. Peace.
Good for you.
Here you go, homie: 🍪
I watched that live, this girl went from having 400 followers to over 1400 lmao ya'll thirsty LMAO
The chat room be giving 5 and 6’s to 3’s on a good day. 🤦🏽♂️
🤣🤣
Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiii she tight lol
she gunna have a new man in a second, a baddie
But what's that ig so I can check out those stats you stated
Glad to see real men who value their marriages in the comments that agree that cheating is not cool. High value includes having honor and integrity.
Part of being a high-value man is having a sense of honor.Kevin often refers to high-value man but I think he means high-value boys. Someone needs to make a channel to show how good meny have true value. When you get past all the pretty boys and girls you realize a person's true life marketplace value.
I don’t know about this one, she doesn’t have to settle and be unhappy and get pregnant by a man that cheats just because he’s high value. She can leave if she’s unhappy.
Ofc as an individual you have the right to do whatever. But CONSEQUENCES.
Not everyone is going to gets what they want
And go where?
@Max Powers wow.. this has been on my mind lately.. Is that a thing boys/men are told? I've met one man who told me about a girl who was so attractive, he knew he couldn't date her long term. He thought I was cute, but the girl he chose was so unattractive compared to him.. and when he expressed to me his insecurities of having a fine woman, he'd have to fight, etc. I was like damn that's real for him. Now to read this comment. wow.
@Lucy Delphine she said the guy was married himself, though. KS never really responded/heard that part. Maybe he respected the sanctity of marriage and didn't mind his business or.. like another commenter said, (which I like better.. lol), he wanted to smash the manager and was pissed her husband was doing it first/instead lol lol. That's real.
Can't rock with this one. She got cheated on. I can't support men who lie and hide shit from their women...if you can't be real with her then how can you handle being real on real issues with others in your circle?
Yes and if they lie and hide stuff in one main area of their lives then this behavior pattern will leak over into other relationships and areas of their life.
@@anitaknight3915 100%. Weak men cheat. Period. If you want to be with multiple women, be a man and say so but also be a man and PROTECT and provide for her. You do not go and hurt her simply because you're not man enough to be real.
This one disgusts me. No man should be defended for infidelity.
@@MrColdwilliam I agree it's a total cop out excuse and shouldn't be accepted across the board nor tolerated. People like that should just be honest and not get married. You're right and that's another main issue right there too when he tells all women to be submissive and cooperative. Well there's a lot of men out there who aren't fulfilling the roles of protecting, providing, and leading which is why many women have an issue with submitting when they have to carry much of the relationship and are self sufficient providing for themselves. Not every man is honest or a leader to be followed because they don't make good sound decisions.
@@anitaknight3915 well said!
What caused him to cheat? Ever thunk of dat. Jus cuz she pretty don’t mean she ain’t wack during marriage. Hence y he ain’t fight for her.
I wouldn't trust someone who's capable of betraying the very person that trust him/her enough to sleep on his/her side.
I don't accept any sort of treason.
I'm sorry, but a cheater is in fact the type of person I would get rid of.
This woman in this video was actually very feminine kind and pleasant and in today’s society it is extremely rare to meet a woman with her energy and who doesn’t hate the fact that she is a woman
Its the Arab blood in her.
This low-key felt like gas lighting.
Not low key..
@s a Problem is that KS ain't coming from place of morality.
He sees cheating with men esp the higher value they become as something natural not 'right or wrong'
He is manipulative
@s a he uses is as a reference at times.. Not a rule book.
'logically' I think it's safer to say men aren't naturally monagamous.
It's only because humans are extremely intelligent beings that the choice to stay loyal has entered the fray. Reality is cheating will always be a thing whether we like it or not.
@s a He's using the bible very poorly. I doubt he even understands the bible to the fullest extent. The bible is a very deep complex book, that needs to be read with the help of the holy spirit.
If a man wants multiple women then he should be open about it.
Alphas don’t hide.
See that’s real facts right there . I told my wife before we married that I’m not a one woman man honestly and thought it would run her away . NOPE ! She said “give me a year to myself and you can take a second wife “. I don’t have to cheat .
Exactly
I was open about it. She approved - verbally. But she was lying to herself. Had she told me she did not want that, I would have probably made concessions. But I can't hit a moving target no matter how honest I am, so we ultimately divorced because of it. I am better off. And really, I should have never been married in the first place. btw, I have been divorced for over 20 years now - and still lovin' it! I am shacking up with a lady, and it is an awesome relationship. But I will never marry her, and she knows it. Again - HONESTY! I won't string a woman along. She deserves more than that.
@@johnarmenta2199 tbh, things would probably be better if we as a collective could control our sexual desires but that's an unreasonable demand in this day and age..
@@metronome7799 💯% Faxx
Kevin, you get a lot of things right but you're wrong in this! High Value men - as defined by you - don't necessarily have to be serial cheaters (or cheaters at all). I'm a High-Value man (again, by your definition) and I would never cheat on my wife, who, btw, is also a HVWoman in her own right. She's my partner in all things and I chose her because I love her and she brings to the table all the qualities/characteristics you often talk about. While I don't think women should divorce their husbands over first-time-infidelity, I also don't think any decent, hard-working, faithful woman should simply accept/allow her husband to cheat. How should women deal with cheating husbands? To each their own; there's no one-size-fits-all solution. Simply put, respect begets respect. If we, as men, don't respect our wives - and that goes for every man: Alpha, Beta, HVM or not - we can't expect them to respect us either. Keep up the good work, Kevin, but stop giving HVMen licenses to cheat. You're putting ideas in their heads that might ... eventually, wreck their homes. You have a platform and you have a voice; therefore, you've got to weigh your words carefully.
Sole provider of a wife and four kids here, wouldn’t call myself beta…and I’m telling you I would 100% tell someone if their spouse was cheating.
Same here bro, and the type of person I would get rid of would be the cheater
@Matthew Smith I hope you keep that same energy when your girl getting dogged by her manager lol. Just food for thought.
@Matthew Smith isn't that exactly what she did put her energy else where. Theoretically how would you know she's getting dogged by her manager if no one told you? Cool to say mind your business until it's you, options or not I'ma keep it 100.
Mind your own damn business. Its not your job to police relationships that aren't your own.
Really not feelin this “men cheat so deal with it” approach lately.
Agreed. Principles and having a degree of morals and ethics is part of the human construct. This guy takes a very elementary approach to his advice and maybe it is done purposefully to avoid more philosophical discussions and having to actual stand on an established set of principles.
Yeah me too. Imma dude who has a tremendous amount of self respect but I really didn't like the advice he gave this time.
@@SpiraLHub Cause you ain't no Alpha male. You're not high value. High value men got options.
@@canelo1728 You don't even know me 🤣 but you sound to me like just another wannabe HV man. Btw, I changed my stance a little on this and agree with kevin a bit more now.
The men they want do cheat.
Hold on, cheating with a married woman is putting your home at risk. Her husband find out and show up to your home ready to clap the 1st person showing up to the door. Kevin smoking that shyt tonight.
@Team Yisrael facts
I’ve agreed with him most of the time but this is some crazy shit. She’s not in the wrong and neither is her coworker.
@Team Yisrael nah women who arent married would be more prone to running up in ur face or or contacting your wife or doing something out of pocket if things went bad, 2 married ppl cheating with each other is fair game
True color of this KS showing. no wonder he single now at the age of 50s. All talk of being HV but he single yo. 😂😂
@@iLLustrious85 No. Cheating when you agreed to one woman is the epitome of beta male actions. You're scared in the shadows afraid of consequences. Alpha males let a woman know from the beginning he's into more than one woman. If she's not with it then move on. There are plenty of women who are ok with it. But if you agree to a monogamous relationship, follow through with your agreement. If you'll do it to your wife, you'll cut your friend's throat too.
Just the gayness alone of dipping your Johnson where someone else's Johnson juice is, is some Juicy Smollett beta male shyt.
No man should be telling another mans wife he is cheating. Let her find out on her own or from a girl friend. But some Men are just like that. Terrible.
I got news for you KS. Even the men with average jobs have options too. They cheat as well. But I do agree that guy was straight lame for telling on that guy.
I'd rather be single "miserable" with a dog than be married miserable.
Yup. At least a single woman won't get stds and drama. A cheating husband will bring all sort of chaos and disease.
@@rbguerreiro2466 not true even being single you can catch an std from a sex partner so what the french toast are you talking about?
@@romeoo5272 not if you don't have sex.
Me too as a man . I would rather be single and alone then with a ungrateful and hard to get along with female
@Savanna St. Laurent Your 18, wait until the truth doors of life start to open up. Then you’ll truly understand life a little bit better. It’s about survival.
"You wrecked your own home." I don't think I can stay with Kevin with this one anymore. The amount of success that guy probably wasn't even that much considering how she paid 50/50. She was supposed to stay with this man after cheating? What if she got an STD? All these things that could have happened and Kevin is still on his side?
💯
He’s a misogynist… sad
No, he's realistic. Men that make $300k+ a year are in high demand and short supply. They have options and they will take advantage of them. When you play in that sandbox the guys make the rules. She could find a nice engineer making $120k and continue to work and have a nice comfortable life. She seems unwilling to do that.
@@ahoneyman The man she was dating was not making that much money and is not one of these men. She wasn't with him for the money because she was still paying for a lot of stuff. It's not like she married Jeff Bezos. She married him because she loved him.
@@BREAKocean Yeah, I got that. She is now looking to trade up to the $300k+ club. The former husband was also quite attractive which seems to be important.
Some of us alphas/high values choose to not exercise those options because we don’t want to lose the family we’ve built. Many of us had plenty before getting married. Many of us saw what our fathers did to wreck the home we grew up in and vowed to not let that repeat. Some brothers have so much money and a strong prenup, that they know their wives will stay no matter what they do, so they cheat because they don’t value integrity.
Keep doin your thing KS! When you asked that specific question about would she have divorced her husband if he was making a certain amount of Money, and she couldn't say anything........THAT'S ALL I NEEDED TO HEAR AND SEE! End of conversation!
Honestly, I don't understand how 'cheating' is ever okay. If want to cheat, don't marry. How is that hard. Get all the promiscuity, 304, whatever you want to call it; out of your system and then marry. If you ain't happy in your marriage and want to cheat, then leave.
I don't condone Kevin for promoting piss poor morals. At the same time I understand how that co-worker who was a white knight, is beta.
"Getting the promiscuity/304 phase out of your system" is also a lack of morals in my opinion and the opinion of many men.
Women that want to be seen as valued need to skip that whole phase entirely. Marry younger and be loyal to ONE man.
Because sex is natural and not connected with love or relationship which is why prostitution is one of the oldest occupations
I agree, that's not 100. Alphas may take an L trying to be loyal based on our nature, it is hard to be with one. But it's not Alpha to display disloyalty. People don't respect that shyt.
Seems like you are not prepared for this gender evolution that's happening right now.
I don’t understand how cheating is okay. I agree, don’t get married if you want to be with other people..
She celebrated she ended her marriage, she thought she would destroy him...
All her female friends, all the females at work, every girl that heard the news, was in line to be the "Next" woman!!!
He should have told her her ex husband is across town turning down women. Probably some of her friends.
Yeah and they'll all get cheated on too 🤣
Facts big facts
Shhhhn don't speak facts, they don't wanna hear that!
Quick, make some Derrick Jaxn quotes! 😂
@@ShaunHensley I don't care about them
Kevin making us look bad by saying all men cheat statistics show it's extremely similar. If your a high value man there's no reason to lie about not wanting monogamy there are plenty of women who would accept that from a high value man.
If being high value means being a POS too, then its not for me.
Ok. I usually agree with KS. But I call complete BS on this segment. He put all the blame on the woman for leaving her cheating husband and the co-worker that told her about her husband. No accountability for the husband's behavior because he's an attractive high earning black man. Complete BULLSHIT. KS is all the way wrong for this.
KS is being real because we men will always cheat, get that clear, Jay Z cheated on Bee and did Bee leave him...No. That's what KS is talking about . Life ain't fair
@@princemalvin6478 Beyonce and Jay were actually married for years…..this people were barely even engaged lmao.
@@iMsOiNsO what...we're you even listening ? They were married 1.5 years before she found out
@@princemalvin6478 you commiting the same fallacy these delusional women are. Comparing the 1% who live on a different planet to your average person. Not all men will cheat. There are many men who have discipline and are content with there partners. Limited studies out there point to the direction that the majority not men don't cheat.
Darn right
Fidelity is another discipline that men must exercise along with building his business and exercising his body. If you still can't keep your business in your pants, then just play the field and don't get married. All men do not cheat. Especially not truly marriage minded men.
thank you! Some dudes really wanna degrade themselves to an animal level when they're way better than that.
@@clare_jordin this is the only topic I don't agree with Kevin on. Your dignity matters. If someone cannot be faithful to you, you absolutely have to get that selfish person out of your life. The difference between humans and animals is humans have awareness of self. Meaning, a dog will hump another dog who presents it's rear end to it, but it will also hump a human if it bends over , because they only have instincts with no self awareness to correct it's actions.
@Sampa Norein and that's fine... If they haven't made both spiritual and legal commitments to a woman.
My guy, that's like telling a man to go against his nature, you talk a good talk, but you give derrick jaxn vibes!
Amen, damn
This video recolored my opinion of Kevin. He's just a dirty old man who happens to be right some of the time. This was not one of them. If someone wants to have an open relationship or whatever, that's their choice, but that should be stated upfront. Cheating is not something anyone should forgive just because of money.
When value is based solely on physical attributes and financial assets instead of character you end up in this situation. Any person with lesser means that can maintain honor, integrity and morals demonstrates character than a wealthy good looking person who everything comes easy to.
Huh?? So us men are allowed to cheat?! Ugh, you ain't gonna sell this one Kevin 🤣😅
Majority do!
He does not need to sell what is already sold and possessed.
@@uknowamsaying prove it. Posts the stats
@@JT-bt6jy Open your eyes , and look at nature… There is your proof.
@@JT-bt6jy Give me the money and I will go and do the survey.
@@livevilife He will soon tell me to prove most men would like to be wealthy.
I don’t know if I agree on this one. You could still be a good alpha male and provide for your family and be loyal to your wife. You also can have the strength to leave no matter what but doesn’t necessarily mean successful men have to cheat.
@Status DMG But why the hell would anybody stay with somebody that’s cheating on them? That guy she was dating wasn’t even paying all the bills himself. If you’re a billionaire then live like Dan Brazilian. You don’t have to get married and cheat.
@Status DMG but he gave her advice to stay with him. Are you kidding me? If he was a real alpha he would’ve paid all the bills before he cheated.
Men of value have options. The fact is, she had a unhealthy dynamic with a previous co-worker who dirty macked her out of the marriage, regardless if he got to smash or not. So, she is not innocent in this case either. Think about it, why would a person with PLAIN co-worker familiarity with you feel comfortable enough to provide intimate details on your marriage? This woman is a liar. She wound up playing herself.
@@artsXart that might be true.
@Status DMG i thought people were saying she didn’t have kids?
Her, attractive, lives in Cali
KS : for that lifestyle in Cali, your man must make at least $500k
Her : wooh!!
KS : I will be in Cali in 3 weeks
Her : 😶
Him : 😶
Her : 😳
“Men don’t cheat, we exercise our options.” SAVAGENESS
"You think I should have stayed with him when he was cheating the entire time?"
"Yeah, cause now what you got?"
"Self respect."
Exactly. I was screaming she has her dignity. Ugh Kevin got triggered by this one
If you are in a work place, your will get screwed more and harder than this. What to take dignity? Get a box and pack your things. This is life.
True That!! Self respect is everything never tolerate bad behavior
Yea but “self respect” isn’t a legacy for a woman to really have.
What good is you having “self respect” if no man wants you?
Growing up I seen women in high school who had soo much “self respect” it was almost snobbish. Guess what? They still got taken advantage of and sometimes worse than other women because they rarely let their GAURD down.
Women need to understand that although it’s good to have self respect. It’s just a word. An imagination/illusion. In reality anyone can have self respect. But think of all the people who destroyed/broke up their own home and are now living alone all in the name of “self respect”. How far do we take self respect while denying human nature?
@@Dantee.15 her husband broke up the home by going outside the marriage. He didn’t even try to fix his mistake. Thank goodness a woman’s self esteem doesn’t come from a man because in this fallen world we’d all be head cases.
She’s one of the few who never tried to talk over KS….absolutely gorgeous women with sound morals imo. One of the best women ever on his show. Good luck ms, you’ll find the one.
Yea don’t be fooled type of women. Grew up with 7 sisters I’ve seen it all by now. She’s just passive aggressive and stubborn, look at women faces, damn what they say their body language gives them away.
It's tough. She doesn't want a "beta" male but she wants a man who has options and yet chooses not to exercise them. That would be nice, but it's like telling a wolf not to hunt. If a woman wants loyalty more than anything she'll have to settle for a sheep.
All men don't cheat not even close.
But if a women chases Chad, thinking she can change him even if she marries him, that is deluded.
If a woman craves a party boy, a thug, a freak, a something other than stable guy, and thinks she can change him in marriage that is deluded.
If all "high quality" men cheat, you can keep your high quality. I'm good.
JEHOVAH GOD is the only thing that will keep a man or woman . High value in my definition is when a man tries his best to lead his family to JESUS CHRIST by following after .
Are your boyfriends low quality simps?
No there’s plenty of high quality men who have a strong moral code that wouldn’t allow for cheating. When these guys are committed (especially in marriage, or even more so have a family) they don’t cheat unless they’re being deprived of sex.
@@thebatman1371 I realize that there are nuances to the whole idea of cheating. And, after listening to Kevin's other videos, he's not necessarily advocating for it, I think. I'm sure there are many many high quality men who want the dream of a loving, vibrant, lifetime love.
@@wanttogetfood nope. I have an amazing husband that takes very very good care of me, our children, and things. We lack for nothing and have an amazing lifestyle, social life, and love life.
Kevin, this is where I disagree with you I've got a lot of options and I don't cheat. There are alphas that care about their family and future it's all about integrity.
Don't tell us, your words mean nothing. Where is your proof, beta?
If you are a one woman man that’s your business. But Black Men have higher testosterone levels than any other race of men. Most of us will blend several females when we get the chance to. Just like the Adult Male Lion in your avi. If it’s not for you, it’s not for you.
This is your choice @R. Smith
@@user-xe5fz6se9j I agree I'm frm the Caribbean and I can tell you it gets hard resisting temptation when it comes but as a man you should know trouble when you see it some of these girls down here can wreck your whole life trust me.
@@user-xe5fz6se9j when you get older things change, stuff happens, and you see things differently things like that ☝🏾 can affect your kids especially the boys, also if you had a daughter how would you feel knowing some guy did that to her?
"Normally if this was in a state of nature, we would get rid of men like that!" I love this man! He will never be forgotten!
She's one of the few that KS has had on, that actually LISTENED, and got and processed the information that Kevin gave her, and might actually put it into use. Good for her.
So if my wife can have any man and hides her affair cause she "loves me" then I should stay?? Na I'm good
Yeah this is definitely a flawed take I would say, the bigotry of low expectations. Cold calculations and sexual market value - sure thing, be thankful you have X person in your life even if they don't hold up to your marital contract. That'd be like buying a car for yourself, then discovering it has to be loaned out to any amount of people who know how to drive it, or I mean - there's an analogy in there somewhere, but, inane to say the least. :P
My body did you understand what he try to tell, don’t bê such Beta walk up biba!!!!
@@pirataradio7539 bruh, Kevin is just a beta with money. He manipulates, gaslights, teaches men to blame the woman for his cheating and misconduct. Betas lie, cheat, and can’t be a man who stands up and keeps a pack. He is alone and attracts women with his money and manipulates mentally weak women for validation. That is the epitome of a beta male.
@@Sasquatchbones You are probably the same.
@@Sasquatchbones thank you!
I usually find myself agreeing with Kevin 99% of the time, this advice is the 1%.
Yup, same! Don't care how mammals behave in nature, if you cheat in a relationship you're a piece of shit, end of.
exactly...this is reaally iffy take in my opinion....
@@drummerdude0515 Well said Drummer
Me too bro
Yeah this is literally the only thing I find myself disagreeing with him in. I could hop on my phone anytime and cheat, receptionists at work have made advances on me and I didn’t cheat, I’ve been out at lunch break and been offered to go back up to a hotel room. But I have a girlfriend and a child, without the child I was different
I think that Kevin was trying to tell her that cheating is part of relationships and shouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker in marriage but this was a cold session.
Cheating on a good woman is lame. Spend your time building something in stead of chasing quick gratification.
So, I should stay with my husband despite him having a long term extra marital affair ?!? 🙄
“Yelling Compton, but you moved to riverside” ice cube-No Vaseline 😂
Yoooo I just saw him say that I died lmaooo
I'm glad you said it all
She didn’t know what the hell KS said. Lol
😂🤣😂 he was smooth with it
Correct
You cannot put all the guilt on her
There's still some good mans that
Refuse to cheat on her spouse.
Nah…I’ve agreed with everything but this. I would 100% rather be on my own than be cheated on and made a fool. You don’t deserve me if you got side pieces.