IKR? If she could resent a father who stayed, provided for and educated her because he wasn't "like my grandfather" (that was some bullshyt!), it's scary to think what she'd do to a boyfriend (or a husband) found wanting in a comparison to a man that she *never* even met.
Congratulations to that guy. He dodged so much bs from this chick. She can not and shall not be pleased. Her own father who raised, provided and guided her couldn't do it. (IN HER EYES)
@@sagatuppercut2960 thats not good enough, hes supposed to walk on water, but then she'll criticize him for not being able to swim. He could give her the world ,but she'll say such and such dad bought her the galaxy and the Sun
This is something I’m beginning to feel in a sense I have three sons and a wife whom all fight for me to do more regardless to what I feel or think..... and it’s very draining yet I continue to give them what I don’t have always: strength and courage and will to fight on
I’m glad I started to listen to this guy. He made me realise it’s stupid to leave your man because you FEEL like you deserve better. if I want more from him, then I simply need to put in more effort myself.
Or ask less, the less you ask for a palace the more he considers it. And If he can't he will still give a mansion for the price of feelings he asks for in return
Communicate first pls, don't do a bunch of extra stuff, then get mad when he doesn't read your mind about what you were expecting in return. Not trying to project that behavior onto you, its just so damn common.
Not just black men btw. I was married for 28 years, but now divorced. I grew in to a high income tax bracket. Always provided a comfortable lifestyle. Wife was never satisfied and made me miserable. I finally left.
Man that's terrible to hear, and unfortunately it's not nearly the first time I've heard it. I'm 32 and I'm so turned off the idea of marriage bc its nothing but bullshit for men. It's like you can't win no matter what you do, modern women are out of their minds.
The freaking NERVES of this woman. I've worked 12 hours a day during for the last 11 years to provide to my wife and 2 kids to the point where my legs are now swelling because of the stress and also get the occasional chest pain and migraine, dealing with difficult a boss, and now the pandemic. My work has taken a toll on my health and my biggest fear is that my wife and kids wont even appreciate that.
It already starts with all the foolish dads with them so called little Princess. I blame mostly the fathers for this entitlement. They raise ther daughters and call them daughters always a Princess. So tbh... men are to blame for this alot as well. Cuz it start from there.
I have that part posted on my facebook and instagram Of Aries Spears when he said man are not afraid of commitment WE are afraid of divorce .. ... always been a fan Aries Spears ever since mad tv
Put a man in a small apartment with some food to eat and he's the happiest man ever...put a woman in an expensive mansion and she'll find a way to feel miserable
Amen. I've had both and now i see why my dad stayed single in an apartment after my mom divorced him. He chilled the rest of his life, had girlfriends but no cohabiting. It all makes sense to me now
Yeah man her mom did a real job on this girl. "Your daddy ain't as good as my daddy was" These are not the words of a loving wife and mother. They are extremely selfish and destructive. Thanks Mom !!!!
@Jay Fisher no way possible we should fall for that over some cheeks. you know its going to slow down anyway. dont even play with yourself my guy, continue to grind.
Because the role these women grasp the weakest is being a WIFE. They’ll romanticize their relationship with their daddies to the point of confusion. Your husband ain’t your daddy and what you were to your daddy ain’t what you need to be to your husband!
@The Blengineer brother take it from a father of three you can never satisfy a black woman just focus on yourself and your children and everything else will take care itself after that
@The Blengineer more like her momma settled for her dad.. so many marriages are like that. I dated a woman briefly and she told me many of her friends are in marriages like that.. and they only in their 40s. Funny thing she still single and no kids with so many regrets and full of hatred towards successful men
wahmen have only one weapon... and that's their tongue they can turn and paint any story the way they wish(am ana Afrikan male and have learned this the hard way) ...in my community theirs a saying you can "never judge the dead"... this lady has the audacity of using her grandpas life as a yardstick on her fathers life... pathetic!
@Dale Hemme hmm.. interesting.. you're probably right, the reason she doesn't appreciate her father is because her mother didn't appreciate her husband...this is a dynamic that is also part of the problem (even when there is a father in the house)..
Don't just cry. Get angry whenever you hear any of your sisters talking bad about men, (especially their fathers) and correct them on the spot. Even if it costs you their friendship. Your children will thank you for it.
Facts! Damn your favorite color, food, movie. Fellas better pay close attention to the relationship she has with her father. I’m teaching me son if not father was present in the home full time I wouldn’t consider anything other than smashing.
........wow and if the dad was not there ...or in and out....that could be extremely triggering for the woman...and if you were serious about her ...really serious...asking her about it...could seriously impact her ....emotionally.....going to her mom and asking about your concerns around her relationship..or lack thereof.. could be extremely triggering for the mom in law...and the daughter...this is so ...deep that its almost amusing ...and i would absolutely recommend doing so as i am processing this while i am typing because women...and their moms.. wouldnt ...and dont hesitate to put a man through the third degree....hmm..this was ...amusing...brilliant statement on your part...i have other observations stemming from this too...but ...i will ponder on them alone for now...
@@asiachestnut4210 True. But it’s on you to do the work before getting into a relationship with person. Get counseling and work on it so if you do get a chance at a man you wouldn’t blow it.
@@asiachestnut4210 ....miss...there is nothing wrong with getting counselling...the world bends over backwards to help women around issues with relationships...and you can use the internet to educate yourself too...do not be afraid or ashamed ...put in the work..it will make you a better woman....and change the world around you for the better...
Before the divorce, my ex pressured my kids to stop calling me dad, and call me by my last name! I worked, came straight home, never cheated, tried my hardest, but still wasn't good enough! Never again!
I literally just watched a short where a young couple (boyfriend, girlfriend college aged) were asked how much they had in bank. The guy "$1400. The girl "40,000" The guy "WTF?!?! You have 40G and you've been making me pay for everything. Where'd you get it?" Girl "My dad gave it to me. You're my boyfriend, you're supposed to pay. It's not my fault you're broke." Guy "I just payed $400 for our date, and you have 40G?" Guy walks away, dumps girlfriend. This is real. The level of cognitive disconnect and narcissistic self delusion is beyond repair with "modern independent western woman." It affects all races and social/economic levels. It doesn't matter if you go passport, moment she steps into a western country she's already a lost cause. They will defend the "sisterhood" to the death, even when they know their position is indefensible.
I heard about that story. Man!! The sheer entitlement and bold deception. It didn't even involve me, and I was pissed. Then some women wonder WHY men go Mike Tyson on they *ss.
@@insomniad2514 I agree with your assessment. Especially the Boomer simps. They failed to check this mess when modern feminism got its start in the 1970s. Been a train-wreck ever since...
That was spot on. I'm a Black Father who has 2 Beautiful daughters, a son and grandson. All 3 graduated from high school. My daughters both work for a hospital and my son is in college. I've been married for 27yrs. And my children love me so much for being there and supporting them.
I'm glad for ya dude sounds like an enviable life. You did mention married for 27 years I'm certain your wife was working for that success too. Give her a large thumbs up!
You are a good person, growing up with out a dad has always be my biggest hurt. And I know him but he never has said happy birthday to me I don’t think he knows my bday
I'm Moroccan and i'm watching the entitlement on these American women with a whole lot of amazement. This makes me appreciate it even more that we still have traditional values in our own society.
@@theraphachukwu I'm a South Africa and my wife is a traditional woman from KZN. I wouldn't say that our women are entilrd but rather some women like to copy black American culture rather than sticking to their string African roots and culture, alot of South Africans like to copy and mimics black Americans and its quite annoying but black Americans don't copy any africans throughout the continent.
@@theraphachukwu This entitlement is slowly creeping in our African culture. Even here in Kenya young women are on Onlyfans but call themselves Queens.
I have hope she'll reflect on this and one day - not too soon, and before it's too late - she goes to her father, apologises, and hugs him. And he sounds like the kind of man who'd be man enough to accept it.
Remember it isn't always his choice. Most often it isn't. Usually that is all he wants from you. Not taken care of in his old age, or a y of that. He managed to be a Dad, though a bad relationship, he can handle anything. That you appreciated his efforts, and hopefully learned how to make a good life. That is a father's dream.
As a single man with no children, more and more I hear from many married folks from all races who tell me that they ‘love’ their husband/wife but if they had to do it all over again, they wouldn’t get married. Profound man.
@Attila Steele Wow your truth was refreshing! And this is coming from a black woman. And what’s crazy is this is not the first time I’ve heard this from BM...including the cheating part....
My dad came and picked me up from my mom's house and never took me back and I'm so grateful for it. Was he a perfect dad no but I seen how much my girlfriends wished to have a present father.
When you are the best version of yourself you age both a gift to yourself & society. Men cannot fix broken women if they are not willing to take those first few steps.
@@DivinelyMadeCece the discussion is currently speaking of your group.. can’t stay focused on that tho. Unbearable crop of childish women. ** u remind me of the famously spoken quote by children (I know u are but what am I) ... what are u twelve. I pray the Most High returns quick. The world will continue to regress would your definition of accountability.
@@steeleexec.647 Loyalty is not a gender issue but a moral issue. Broad statements about "all" women do this and "all" men do that- are offensive and only bring strife. A good woman is like a diamond in a backyard full of weeds. You have to cut the grass, uproot the weeds and push through the rocks to find her. But she is out there.
Kevin I just want to say that as a man “I love you man!” . Thank you so much bringing this to everyone’s attention . Through you and your teaching i now see how women think and lack of their thinking . Also how unjustly we are treated as men. Thank you for your red pill 💊 awareness !
I feel your pain, these black women are on a level of entitlement I never thought possible. Your women seem to have all the problems ours do, to the extreme. But at least it's only your women who slander you. As a white man, it's not just feminazis, it's BLM too.
Watching this broke my heart. Sorry to all the men for not duly respecting and appreciating you. You are definitely needed and desired. I pray you all get the woman who deserves your heart (if you don't have her yet). And that all existing women in your life honor you for who you truly are. Much love❤🙏🏿
Thank you so much you have no clue how much that simple statement means to us. We get no love our compassion from our own women. Thank you and wish you the best
Woooweee!!! LADIES!!! If we (to whom it applies) really receive the message and not get lost or distracted by the delivery or deliver , he’s providing powerful points and facts!!! Facts are not to dismiss your truth or what’s true but to challenge your perception and properly process it. IT IS ON ME to change the narrative of MY life!!! 💯
So ungrateful. While this time, some of us women wish our daddy was still alive. I miss him and love him so much. Lost him at a young age (6) but never forgot his love ❤ Let's meet again in our next life.
I feel you man. Mine passed when I was 9. Had to teach myself how to be a man. Army Infantry helped with that but at a great price. The long term ramifications of single mother households aint no joke.
I just finished watching the movie soul” with my children, and after watching I realized how ungrateful I have been in my life. Steer clear from these type of women or anyone who has this type of mindset. They will drain all of your life essence out of you and leave you a wandering aimless soul! Watch the movie with your family if you can, it was deep and very eye opening!
Well, I think the fault is with the mother. I also had my mother say things to me that were designed to make me hate my dad. I think it was all power grab. So I always resisted it. Besides as I grew up I began to observe my mum try to control my life in ways that were suited for her benefit or just to dominate, not necessarily for my own good.
They teach smash the patriarchy in college, patriarchy mean system of fathers, third and fourth wave feminism teach women not to respect men and masculinity
Also, women project their attrection for success on men, thinking that a career raises their status when men usually don't care about a woman's success. At least not for mating reasons.
@@derfalschejunge the best response to the list of accomplishments is. Congratulations, you made yourself highly desired by women. You'll find a wife to support soon enough
College educated black women don't realize that if they want to date UP there isn't a lot to choose from that's AVAILABLE. But somehow there's that magic stash of bachelors out there hidden in a valley somewhere that are all in love with her. Then they wonder why they can't find a man.
Whenever Kevin asks who broke the relationship off, I'll hear the words in my head before each woman says them. "I did." It's crazy how much of a pattern it's become.
This hit me fuckin' hard. And exactly what I needed to hear at the moment I'm self-pitying myself. I keep telling myself how bad life is at the moment - that I can't go out, that I can't stand my job. But goddamn, you can feel Kevin's conviction behind those words. He's so fucking spot on. I came from a working class family, but my dad and mom both loved me. They were married their whole lives. Despite my issues, they helped me through highschool, I got through college. Even now I managed to put myself through university now they're gone, and I have an above average job which earns more than my father did. I'll probably even have paid off my house before he did. And at times, I still feel like I was owed something - that they didn't do this right, that right, this was their fault, etc. And I'd rather wallow in what people say I 'should' have got from my parents, rather than acknowledging just how damn good I had it thanks to them. You have a fucking gift for cutting to the quick, Kevin. Keep up the great work.
I'm in a similar situation, followed my father in career, but I actually earn less than he did (he'd retired now), and I sometimes feel like I've failed. The difference for me, and it took me a while to work it out, is that the profession we share is in a completely different phase. He went through when salaries were high, while I'm in it during the decline.
My parents are gone as well. I totally feel your post. I was just complaining about work. But GOD 🙌🏽 I needed to your post. My parents were not married; but they absolutely put me in a position to be successful.Even though, I didn't learn all I should have from them. I am forever grateful.❤
Dude, with that conclusion your life just got a hell of a lot easier. Marriage has No Benefit for a man. Anything you can get with it, you can get without it..children.."companionship"..you don't need a contract with the state...
My 1st wife was constantly telling me I was not a "real man" because I wasn't her grandfather. When she ended it, I told her I wouldn't be back, then she got angry-er.
@@nopeq7993 facts. Not everyone can afford the luxury of not judging their parents. It can be essential for wellbeing. This does get 1dimensiomal too often.
I’m not stupid enough to sign a legally binding contract that allows for the woman at any time to go to a lawyer, say the words “Irreconcilable Differences”, and get my life savings, my house, my retirement money, take my kids away, alimony….. AND I would have to pay HER lawyer fees. No thank you!
Because she effectively destroyed her life with misplaced rage against a father who did everything for her. Really women like this have no fucking idea how lucky they have it. But then again she went to college and that pretty much is the standard garbage they are feeding kids these days. Hate your father and mother for not being better, or hate yourself because you were not a certain skin tone.
My ex girlfriend was exactly like this. She had so much hate in her heart and such amount of crazy anger issues in her. She tried to play the victim in literally every argument we had. We use to argue over the dumbest things ever. She had it all. Mom, dad, and a great sister great home, her dad bought her a brand new 2018 Jeep Cherokee. She was going to a private college in LA. I on the other hand. Father in prison, trying to make it right with my mother because of some drama we had when I was younger . I was also raised by grandparents. Both passed away. Doing what I can to make ends meet. I’m glad she broke it off with me because things could of gotten worse by the way I’m listening to this conversation.
What this lady is talking about is a form of parental alienation. My parents divorced when I was four, and our entire life, my mother told us one horror story after another about our father. He was far from perfect, but so was she. It worked, and I've been estranged from my father for over 30 years. In fact, I have no idea if he's alive or dead. He did some pretty messed up stuff, but my mother made sure that we hated him. I never did, but my sister did. Guess who's the golden child? What this lady is talking about is really triggering all of those old feelings of resentment and regret. Parental alienation is real, and it's usually the father who is shunned. So sad and effing unfair.
It's scary how much I see my Ex-girlfriend in a lot of these women that call into Kevin's show. Thank god, I ended that relationship, I dodged a bullet. And since watching Kevin's show, it reaffirms that.
It sounds like her mother is unappreciative of the husband, and this makes the mother angry. The mother then takes those emotions and puts them into the daughter in order to get the daughter to be unappreciative of the father just as much as the mother is. Thus creating an angry unappreciative daughter that will feel this way towards men, and result in the daughter being unconditioned to exist in a healthy relationship with a man.
Know a female who is EXACTLY like this. Can't keep a good relationship and just gets used for sex and has no clue why. Mother poisoned her mind and taught her nothing about how to actually keep a man, which makes sense because the mother can't keep a man anyway and is currently dating a jail bird...
Disneyfication is a term I've been using for almost 20 years about the fantasy many women have regarding their lives thru the lens of a unhealthy fictional universe where it's a man's job to make a woman happy; a man's duty to deliver a woman from her own doldrums in spite of the reasons she finds herself there and respect the value she places on herself even if she has manager to price herself out of her market. Insanity - keep talking, Godfather - we's listening
thanks for this Kevin, this is missing, the institutions and everything else have taught us to be like this woman, I'm finally growing out of this and wish everyone to do the same!!!
They are too preoccupied with trying to be "right" and validate their beliefs during the conversation, by thinking of alternative examples to "prove their point"....honestly, most of the messages he is trying to communicate with these chicks are falling on deaf ears.
@@coachberline you wish it was fake, kevin is exposing Oprah's life work, delusional women, expecting to much emotional nurturing from men that not the father job.
She said the parents on her father's said are still married but the parents on her mother's side is not. But her mother complains about how her father was and how her daughter's was. Yet her father's lineage has the more stable family setting for generations to the point where her farther can deal with his wife. Damn.
Wow!!! I was taught that a Father shows his love by giving security, putting a roof over your head and food in your stomach. My Father didn't live with me, but when he walked into the room my eyes lit up. My neighbor reminded me that as a child I would stop playing and run all the way up the street to greet him. I wasn't married in my late 20's but he still gave me everything I asked for. And when he was in hospice, I was by his side every day. Even when he was in a coma. He had no choice but to give me attention because he knew that I adored and appreciated him.
I realize I am not the man my father was to me and the grandfather to my daughter but I raised a HS graduate and a soon to be college graduate. I have always tried to make sure she had everything she needed to succeed and so far it's gone well. That said, if she came on a TH-cam channel and said what this lady is saying I think it would absolutely crush me. 😢 This is a huge ouch.
@@stevenallen1567 Thank you I did but karma got a hold of her not too long after . She got into a car accident with her new friend and lost an eye , had to have a liver transplant and is on so many medications for the rest of her life ! Karma is real people so please be careful who you mess around on !
"I am frustrated that I don't find men that are like I hear my Grandfather was." But YOU are not like your GRANDMOTHER WAS! They want perfection in a man, but expect men to accept them as they "work on making themselves better".
As a Father of 4 adult children two girls and two boys, this really hit home as both my boys are spoiled and ungrateful. Thank you Mr. Samuels for saying what a lot of us are feeling.
Sounds like her mom wasn't respectful and appreciative of her husband enough for being who he is. And he's still around married to someone like that.? Give him some credit
As a son of a single mother who was vindictive and lying, I had to struggle a lot to get over my issues, and I’m still not done yet. I also built back my relationship with my dad, which was destroyed by her lies, because I now know for a fact that she wrecked her own home and then lied to me n my brother to antagonize our dad, and now our bond is stronger than ever. I’d give MY LIFE to let my brother live in a 2 parent household. And the level to which this woman is ungrateful for that privilege makes my blood boil inside my damn veins. Unbelievable.
What I realized as a kid growing up and also as an adult/parent is that no two kids in any family are the same… As a matter of fact, some need more attention than others. It’s nothing to take personal. And it doesn’t by any means that you were neglected or lacked anything… Some of these kids that need extra attention wind up needing attention and other help from their parents throughout their adult lives…. This is nothing to be jealous or envious of… Instead of being upset, show some empathy for others.
Relationships, marriage, and having children are a waste of time, money, and not worth the stress or conflict. I could never imagine myself doing any of it.
Damn... reminds me of my neighbor. Old brother that owned sports cars. He had his own business and worked hard to get what he had, but even then his daughter ended up being for the streets.
He can’t control his daughters desires and pleasures. Those urges can take over , if a women has no guidance, experience or discipline. Been there done that.
So glad I found this channel, I've been a huge Patrice O Neal fan for years and he covered similar issues for years. although a lot more crass and explicit. I would love to settle down and get married but no matter what I seem to do it just aint good enough.
I believe you're a guy because you say "no matter what I seem to do it just ain't good enough"... And my advice to you would be to not give a flying F about what you might think other people (women, presumably) want. Be you - you're the best person on the planet at doing that. Be you and become the you that you want to be, by whatever means appropriate. Don't try to be 'someone' that you think others will like or want to be with. Just. Be. You. YOU will like it and maybe someone you like will also like you, as you. Don't try to manufacture an alternative version of you. Having said all that... this whole marriage game is heavily tilted against you/us men. If you wanna play, that's up to you, but I hope you heal fast and strong...!
She did her ex boyfriend a favor breaking up with him. He'll soon realize that he dodged a bullet.
Hopefully, he doesn't look back.
IKR? If she could resent a father who stayed, provided for and educated her because he wasn't "like my grandfather" (that was some bullshyt!), it's scary to think what she'd do to a boyfriend (or a husband) found wanting in a comparison to a man that she *never* even met.
Congratulations to that guy. He dodged so much bs from this chick. She can not and shall not be pleased. Her own father who raised, provided and guided her couldn't do it. (IN HER EYES)
Yep
100% The Truth.
It's like some men sacrifice their whole life to end up with an ungrateful wife and ungrateful ass kids
I have
I would say most. Just different levels of ungratefulness.
Yep. Her father should be praised for staying in the marriage and getting the bills paid.
@@sagatuppercut2960 thats not good enough, hes supposed to walk on water, but then she'll criticize him for not being able to swim. He could give her the world ,but she'll say such and such dad bought her the galaxy and the Sun
This is something I’m beginning to feel in a sense I have three sons and a wife whom all fight for me to do more regardless to what I feel or think..... and it’s very draining yet I continue to give them what I don’t have always: strength and courage and will to fight on
I’m glad I started to listen to this guy. He made me realise it’s stupid to leave your man because you FEEL like you deserve better. if I want more from him, then I simply need to put in more effort myself.
I agree and disagree with that. It can come with a price but just be careful.
lip service is so common these day,s instead of saying shit, do shit
Or let him know. However wanting more and working hard on it will not guarantee that you get what you want.
Or ask less, the less you ask for a palace the more he considers it. And If he can't he will still give a mansion for the price of feelings he asks for in return
Communicate first pls, don't do a bunch of extra stuff, then get mad when he doesn't read your mind about what you were expecting in return.
Not trying to project that behavior onto you, its just so damn common.
Not just black men btw. I was married for 28 years, but now divorced. I grew in to a high income tax bracket. Always provided a comfortable lifestyle. Wife was never satisfied and made me miserable. I finally left.
Sorry brother, Most women don’t appreciate a good man because they are too busy comparing them to someone else.
Can't win with them types
Thank you for your service. They wonder why suicide is running high amongst men.
Brothers, in case you've not figured out already"You can't satisfy these women" live your life.
Man that's terrible to hear, and unfortunately it's not nearly the first time I've heard it. I'm 32 and I'm so turned off the idea of marriage bc its nothing but bullshit for men. It's like you can't win no matter what you do, modern women are out of their minds.
The freaking NERVES of this woman. I've worked 12 hours a day during for the last 11 years to provide to my wife and 2 kids to the point where my legs are now swelling because of the stress and also get the occasional chest pain and migraine, dealing with difficult a boss, and now the pandemic. My work has taken a toll on my health and my biggest fear is that my wife and kids wont even appreciate that.
Some will. Some will not. It's a gamble honestly. I would just say, make sure you take care of yourself in the process.
If you ever stop producing they will ghost you, sad but true
Sorry to hear my brother and keep up the positive work
Take care of YOU & your health, young man. Your efforts must be appreciated!
Find something for yourself
40 plus years of being told they're queens, goddesses and divas has created this. Entitlement.
It already starts with all the foolish dads with them so called little Princess. I blame mostly the fathers for this entitlement. They raise ther daughters and call them daughters always a Princess. So tbh... men are to blame for this alot as well. Cuz it start from there.
AGREED.
@@dvb8637 nope!!!! Not when they’re raised at an 87% clip exclusively from black women! Your statement is a bad take!
@@lbb-ridge482 facts
Facts
Aries Spears said it best it's not marriage men are afraid of...Its the divorce.
Divorce for men often brings alimony, child support, division of assets, lawyer fee reimbursements, heartache, depression, and sometimes suicide.
I have that part posted on my facebook and instagram Of Aries Spears when he said man are not afraid of commitment WE are afraid of divorce .. ... always been a fan Aries Spears ever since mad tv
@@6688ya are u a fan of 5150 show tho?
@@coolkiddwightps3-hoopsetc561 i will have to look in to it . I have never seen that show
@@coolkiddwightps3-hoopsetc561 🤣🤣🤣
Put a man in a small apartment with some food to eat and he's the happiest man ever...put a woman in an expensive mansion and she'll find a way to feel miserable
ya damn right
Enormously based
Yes 7🙌
hell yah
Amen. I've had both and now i see why my dad stayed single in an apartment after my mom divorced him. He chilled the rest of his life, had girlfriends but no cohabiting. It all makes sense to me now
Yeah man her mom did a real job on this girl. "Your daddy ain't as good as my daddy was"
These are not the words of a loving wife and mother. They are extremely selfish and destructive. Thanks Mom !!!!
I agree. Sounds like her mother is the root of the problem
Totally her mothers fault.
Your daddy ain't this, your father ain't that. Child that man blah blah blah... I've heard it all growing up.
@Jay Fisher man from what u just said, im happy for u that she is now ur "ex" lol u deserve n can do better.
@Jay Fisher no way possible we should fall for that over some cheeks. you know its going to slow down anyway. dont even play with yourself my guy, continue to grind.
Because the role these women grasp the weakest is being a WIFE. They’ll romanticize their relationship with their daddies to the point of confusion. Your husband ain’t your daddy and what you were to your daddy ain’t what you need to be to your husband!
Until broken woman deal with there Daddy issues they shouldn't seek a relationship
@The Blengineer her parents gave her the American dream and she still was in satisfied smh
I still don’t understand why she’s mad at her dad.
Right. They need to work on themselves first.
@The Blengineer brother take it from a father of three you can never satisfy a black woman just focus on yourself and your children and everything else will take care itself after that
@The Blengineer more like her momma settled for her dad.. so many marriages are like that. I dated a woman briefly and she told me many of her friends are in marriages like that.. and they only in their 40s. Funny thing she still single and no kids with so many regrets and full of hatred towards successful men
She never met her grandfather but judging her dad, based on lies her mom probably told her.
wahmen have only one weapon... and that's their tongue they can turn and paint any story the way they wish(am ana Afrikan male and have learned this the hard way) ...in my community theirs a saying you can "never judge the dead"... this lady has the audacity of using her grandpas life as a yardstick on her fathers life... pathetic!
My mother lied her ass off. & I didn't find out the truth until she died. I was pissed.
BINGO!!!
@Dale Hemme hmm.. interesting.. you're probably right, the reason she doesn't appreciate her father is because her mother didn't appreciate her husband...this is a dynamic that is also part of the problem (even when there is a father in the house)..
Yep, the mother probably cussed the husbands name every time he stepped out the front door
This made me cry . Thank you for the reality check .
Girl I’m crying with you. I appreciated this as well
I cried!!! Laughing 😆
The truth is Scary and harsh to most women
However the truth is accepted and appreciated
By lots of men
Don't just cry. Get angry whenever you hear any of your sisters talking bad about men, (especially their fathers) and correct them on the spot. Even if it costs you their friendship. Your children will thank you for it.
This is what this man was building paving a way for a better place, RIP KS
@@mlu_rsa0315 currently binging his videos.. so therapeutic !
I could NEVER imagine telling my father he didn't do a good enough job.
Same here
Doubly so. Mine had a heart attack during my 5th birthday part and died 3 days later. Family said it was my fault. I still never blamed him, ever.
WITHOUT GETTING SLAPPED IN THE FACE JUST FOR SAYING THAT!!!!!!!
Its so sad that we onky really appreciate the sacrifice our parents made for us till we ourselves are adults 🙏.
@@ociewilson3615 You're family blamed a 5 year old for his father's death? I'm so sorry that happened to you
A big lesson I learned from red-pill content :
"A WOMAN'S RELATIONSHIP WITH HER FATHER IS ONE KEY DETERMINANT IF SHE IS WIFE MATERIAL OR NOT"
Facts! Damn your favorite color, food, movie. Fellas better pay close attention to the relationship she has with her father. I’m teaching me son if not father was present in the home full time I wouldn’t consider anything other than smashing.
........wow and if the dad was not there ...or in and out....that could be extremely triggering for the woman...and if you were serious about her ...really serious...asking her about it...could seriously impact her ....emotionally.....going to her mom and asking about your concerns around her relationship..or lack thereof.. could be extremely triggering for the mom in law...and the daughter...this is so ...deep that its almost amusing ...and i would absolutely recommend doing so as i am processing this while i am typing because women...and their moms.. wouldnt ...and dont hesitate to put a man through the third degree....hmm..this was ...amusing...brilliant statement on your part...i have other observations stemming from this too...but ...i will ponder on them alone for now...
We need love too not out fault our daddy walk out on us don’t punish us for it
@@asiachestnut4210 True. But it’s on you to do the work before getting into a relationship with person. Get counseling and work on it so if you do get a chance at a man you wouldn’t blow it.
@@asiachestnut4210 ....miss...there is nothing wrong with getting counselling...the world bends over backwards to help women around issues with relationships...and you can use the internet to educate yourself too...do not be afraid or ashamed ...put in the work..it will make you a better woman....and change the world around you for the better...
Before the divorce, my ex pressured my kids to stop calling me dad, and call me by my last name! I worked, came straight home, never cheated, tried my hardest, but still wasn't good enough! Never again!
Wtf! That’s crazy!
And when sons see their own fathers going through this BS growing up, they're thinking "oh hell naw I ain't repeating that" and rightly so
🗣Dam ‼️ Brother’ You Was Married To A Dam Witch 🧙♀️ I’m Glad You Got Out Of That Marriage Alive & In Your Right Mind 🤦🏽♂️
How do you do all of that and get that treatment?
@Richard Knoggin a lot of good things
I literally just watched a short where a young couple (boyfriend, girlfriend college aged) were asked how much they had in bank.
The guy "$1400.
The girl "40,000"
The guy "WTF?!?! You have 40G and you've been making me pay for everything. Where'd you get it?"
Girl "My dad gave it to me. You're my boyfriend, you're supposed to pay. It's not my fault you're broke."
Guy "I just payed $400 for our date, and you have 40G?"
Guy walks away, dumps girlfriend.
This is real. The level of cognitive disconnect and narcissistic self delusion is beyond repair with "modern independent western woman." It affects all races and social/economic levels. It doesn't matter if you go passport, moment she steps into a western country she's already a lost cause. They will defend the "sisterhood" to the death, even when they know their position is indefensible.
I heard about that story. Man!! The sheer entitlement and bold deception. It didn't even involve me, and I was pissed. Then some women wonder WHY men go Mike Tyson on they *ss.
You realize those types of videos are fake, right? Ragebait
she's basically listening to everyone else's problems and making them hers.
Bingo 100% you can tell how she speaking.
A VICTIM OF EXPECTATIONS‼️
Yep she focusing on everything she couldn't fully manipulate not on her blessings
wahmen have this magical way of listening to all shit in the streets and bring it in their lives it just amazes me
Internalized trauma.
This ain't even a race based issue. This has become the default female mentality. Been for over a decade
The default American female
Truth!
@@JeniusJay make no mistake, I'm from Africa and this shit is everywhere
Really started in the 60’s.
@@insomniad2514 I agree with your assessment. Especially the Boomer simps.
They failed to check this mess when modern feminism got its start in the 1970s.
Been a train-wreck ever since...
That was spot on. I'm a Black Father who has 2 Beautiful daughters, a son and grandson. All 3 graduated from high school. My daughters both work for a hospital and my son is in college. I've been married for 27yrs. And my children love me so much for being there and supporting them.
I’m proud of you man atleast U got to live a better life than most can ask for
I'm glad for ya dude sounds like an enviable life. You did mention married for 27 years I'm certain your wife was working for that success too. Give her a large thumbs up!
Good stuff OG. Continue to be a light in this world with your family🙏🏾💯
You are a good person, growing up with out a dad has always be my biggest hurt. And I know him but he never has said happy birthday to me I don’t think he knows my bday
True dealings Grand Dad! 👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾
This dude is literally the anti Derrick Jaxn lol.
The hero we need
Thank GOD!!!!
Kevin S. is Man of the Year..... Naw I mean the Men of the DECADE!!
Derrick scared of him.
More like the anti Steve Harvey
The reason these women will not answer the questions is that they know they will have to admit they are wrong!
Which means you have to look at yourself. And do what? CHANGE!!!!!!!!!
Exactly
be wrong young mgtow. she cannot stay in the wrong. she must always be right. let her fall into her rightness. lmao
Her nature won’t allow her to admit she’s wrong
@@devcooper9282 damn sure won't
I'm Moroccan and i'm watching the entitlement on these American women with a whole lot of amazement. This makes me appreciate it even more that we still have traditional values in our own society.
Alhamdulilah
Me too in a fellow African and im glad our women are still in tact and we live in a society whereby African families are strong and intact.
I'm South African and I see the same thing, although this country is falling quick. Entitlement is gonna kill us if we're not prepared
@@theraphachukwu I'm a South Africa and my wife is a traditional woman from KZN. I wouldn't say that our women are entilrd but rather some women like to copy black American culture rather than sticking to their string African roots and culture, alot of South Africans like to copy and mimics black Americans and its quite annoying but black Americans don't copy any africans throughout the continent.
@@theraphachukwu This entitlement is slowly creeping in our African culture. Even here in Kenya young women are on Onlyfans but call themselves Queens.
Her father is somewhere hearing this crying in defeat. Just sad.
What she's not getting is a dad is gonna put more energy in his sons to raise an give guidance them to know what an what not to do...smh
I have hope she'll reflect on this and one day - not too soon, and before it's too late - she goes to her father, apologises, and hugs him.
And he sounds like the kind of man who'd be man enough to accept it.
You don't know how he's hurting. I finally got to were I am there for my kids but I stopped initiating the contact
This video made me call my Dad and thanked him, and my parents are not even together
Bless you!
Sweet of you
I bet u made his day🙏🏽
I bet he had a big smile that day. I hope things are great with you two.
Remember it isn't always his choice. Most often it isn't.
Usually that is all he wants from you. Not taken care of in his old age, or a y of that. He managed to be a Dad, though a bad relationship, he can handle anything.
That you appreciated his efforts, and hopefully learned how to make a good life. That is a father's dream.
As a single man with no children, more and more I hear from many married folks from all races who tell me that they ‘love’ their husband/wife but if they had to do it all over again, they wouldn’t get married. Profound man.
Natural marriage seems to be pressure less. State marriage seems to carry pressure that is not needed.
@Ant Martin To be honest they never went into detail. But I could tell is though they love their spouse, there was no attraction there.
@Attila Steele thats why we have divorces because you all cheat 😂 I’m 19
Don't do it. I was married, didn't last and it was not worth it. Now I'm a slave to the state
@Attila Steele Wow your truth was refreshing! And this is coming from a black woman. And what’s crazy is this is not the first time I’ve heard this from BM...including the cheating part....
My dad came and picked me up from my mom's house and never took me back and I'm so grateful for it. Was he a perfect dad no but I seen how much my girlfriends wished to have a present father.
When you are the best version of yourself you age both a gift to yourself & society. Men cannot fix broken women if they are not willing to take those first few steps.
Only GOD is perfect
Family court wasn't involved otherwise he couldn't do that. the bitter BM will have him arrested.
Fathers provide wisdom and rationality, plus security. Those three significantly help the development of children.
@@robbobbrah8953 no man wants to provide & protect. So why not you purchase a sex doll who stays young and beautiful forever?
She weird and it just doesn’t make sense to be married in this generation. These women don’t value loyalty and this is sad af
They don’t know anything about loyalty, let alone value it
Men don't even value loyalty at all and never have.
@@DivinelyMadeCece the discussion is currently speaking of your group.. can’t stay focused on that tho. Unbearable crop of childish women. ** u remind me of the famously spoken quote by children (I know u are but what am I) ... what are u twelve. I pray the Most High returns quick. The world will continue to regress would your definition of accountability.
Don't give up, thier are some good women that are marriageable😉😉😉
@@steeleexec.647 Loyalty is not a gender issue but a moral issue. Broad statements about "all" women do this and "all" men do that- are offensive and only bring strife.
A good woman is like a diamond in a backyard full of weeds. You have to cut the grass, uproot the weeds and push through the rocks to find her.
But she is out there.
Kevin I just want to say that as a man “I love you man!” . Thank you so much bringing this to everyone’s attention . Through you and your teaching i now see how women think and lack of their thinking . Also how unjustly we are treated as men. Thank you for your red pill 💊 awareness !
We lost big time, I'm still in disbelief that this man is Gone, RIP man..
AS A BLACK MAN I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU!!!!!! I appreciate you speaking up for us!!! The slander on us is real!
So true, when are these women in this 21st Century going to realize it's not all about them!
I feel your pain, these black women are on a level of entitlement I never thought possible. Your women seem to have all the problems ours do, to the extreme. But at least it's only your women who slander you. As a white man, it's not just feminazis, it's BLM too.
WHEN THEY GET OFF THAT HOLLYWOOD/DISNEY FANTASY AND DEAL WITH REALITY, PLANE AND SIMPLE!!!!!!!!
Totally agree. I'm a white guy and I see the problem on my side of the fence too. But I can't believe what black guys go through. Peace brother.....
It’s not just black ones, the bright ones are bad too.
"A white man can go work at the plant and that's enough, but the black man has to build the plant..." Dat part💯💯💯.
not today. Women are women.
@@jackdeniston59 I don't understand.
@@AgbeODG not just black women, all women.
@@jackdeniston59 Gotcha. Thank you for the clarity.
@@jackdeniston59 stfu
They don’t see the value of black men until we dating some other race.
Facts! 💯
Go ahead an try, same shit every where
Well said I never looked at it like dat but your right..
Facts
Boom 🤯
“ Women will blame anything but themselves.” [Cased closed]
Exactly
Best comment here
I've never seen a woman take accountability for nothing.
Within Self is the LAST place in the universe they expect to find any fault for ANY (PERSONAL) issues
@Strongj so you're saying men are the ones that never take accountability?
makes me want to cry...ive been married 38 yrs..i get that from my daughter...man this man is on POINT
Sorry man
Watching this broke my heart.
Sorry to all the men for not duly respecting and appreciating you.
You are definitely needed and desired.
I pray you all get the woman who deserves your heart (if you don't have her yet). And that all existing women in your life honor you for who you truly are.
Much love❤🙏🏿
Thank you same to you
As a 50 yo married man it feels really good to hear you say that. I haven't felt respected in years. Thank you so much for the kind words.
Thank you so much you have no clue how much that simple statement means to us. We get no love our compassion from our own women. Thank you and wish you the best
❤🤗
Yes they are
Woooweee!!! LADIES!!! If we (to whom it applies) really receive the message and not get lost or distracted by the delivery or deliver , he’s providing powerful points and facts!!! Facts are not to dismiss your truth or what’s true but to challenge your perception and properly process it. IT IS ON ME to change the narrative of MY life!!! 💯
DAMN! Sir, you're a major credit to society! May God bless you a million times over for speaking such truth.
So ungrateful. While this time, some of us women wish our daddy was still alive. I miss him and love him so much. Lost him at a young age (6) but never forgot his love ❤ Let's meet again in our next life.
Sorry for your loss
I feel you man. Mine passed when I was 9. Had to teach myself how to be a man. Army Infantry helped with that but at a great price.
The long term ramifications of single mother households aint no joke.
Gone but not forgotten 🙏
I just finished watching the movie soul” with my children, and after watching I realized how ungrateful I have been in my life. Steer clear from these type of women or anyone who has this type of mindset. They will drain all of your life essence out of you and leave you a wandering aimless soul! Watch the movie with your family if you can, it was deep and very eye opening!
Hey, looked on Netflix for the movie..... can you tell me what network its playing on.
@@garcej.h212 it’s on Disney plus
Soul made me cry. I loved it so much.
Good movie indeed
@@garcej.h212 it’s on Disney plus not Netflix
@3:40 "You either work to overcome it, or you let it overcome you." Facts 🙌👏
Marriage doesn't scare me but divorce scares the shit out of me.
Frrrr
Divorce does not exist in my mind...because marriage does not exist either!
It should, I got divorced and had to pay out 14k for her and 10k in lawyer fees, don't do it.
There is no benefit to marriage for a man anymore
@@Frank-H why not? It’s nobody’s fault you didn’t consult the Lord before marrying this woman. If u had you would’ve saved 24,000 sir
Well, I think the fault is with the mother. I also had my mother say things to me that were designed to make me hate my dad. I think it was all power grab. So I always resisted it. Besides as I grew up I began to observe my mum try to control my life in ways that were suited for her benefit or just to dominate, not necessarily for my own good.
I noticed from my observations that it's usually the "educated" women have the most problems with getting or keeping a relationship/marriage.
They teach smash the patriarchy in college, patriarchy mean system of fathers, third and fourth wave feminism teach women not to respect men and masculinity
Also, women project their attrection for success on men, thinking that a career raises their status when men usually don't care about a woman's success. At least not for mating reasons.
@@derfalschejunge the best response to the list of accomplishments is.
Congratulations, you made yourself highly desired by women. You'll find a wife to support soon enough
@@DennisNeijmeijer sweet!
College educated black women don't realize that if they want to date UP there isn't a lot to choose from that's AVAILABLE. But somehow there's that magic stash of bachelors out there hidden in a valley somewhere that are all in love with her. Then they wonder why they can't find a man.
Whenever Kevin asks who broke the relationship off, I'll hear the words in my head before each woman says them. "I did." It's crazy how much of a pattern it's become.
This hit me fuckin' hard. And exactly what I needed to hear at the moment I'm self-pitying myself. I keep telling myself how bad life is at the moment - that I can't go out, that I can't stand my job.
But goddamn, you can feel Kevin's conviction behind those words. He's so fucking spot on. I came from a working class family, but my dad and mom both loved me. They were married their whole lives. Despite my issues, they helped me through highschool, I got through college. Even now I managed to put myself through university now they're gone, and I have an above average job which earns more than my father did. I'll probably even have paid off my house before he did. And at times, I still feel like I was owed something - that they didn't do this right, that right, this was their fault, etc. And I'd rather wallow in what people say I 'should' have got from my parents, rather than acknowledging just how damn good I had it thanks to them.
You have a fucking gift for cutting to the quick, Kevin. Keep up the great work.
I'm in a similar situation, followed my father in career, but I actually earn less than he did (he'd retired now), and I sometimes feel like I've failed.
The difference for me, and it took me a while to work it out, is that the profession we share is in a completely different phase. He went through when salaries were high, while I'm in it during the decline.
My parents are gone as well. I totally feel your post. I was just complaining about work. But GOD 🙌🏽 I needed to your post. My parents were not married; but they absolutely put me in a position to be successful.Even though, I didn't learn all I should have from them. I am forever grateful.❤
All I get from his videos is to never get married and enjoy my money
Dude, with that conclusion your life just got a hell of a lot easier. Marriage has No Benefit for a man. Anything you can get with it, you can get without it..children.."companionship"..you don't need a contract with the state...
@@t.j.payeur5331 I preach that often my dude . It’s really for woman but leave it up to them, they think men benefit from it
Take your time, focus on the Most High and His plan for your life. You will avoid a bunch of dumb shit.
@@jermaineporter1101 It cost me 23 years and 560,000 dollars to learn what you already know now. That's why Mgtow exists.
Invest your time and resources into making yourself the best MAN you can be. MEN lose money chasing women, no MAN has ever lost women chasing money.
My 1st wife was constantly telling me I was not a "real man" because I wasn't her grandfather. When she ended it, I told her I wouldn't be back, then she got angry-er.
She raised Kevin's blood pressure with her foolishness.
Same as mine
You NEVER talk negative about the other parent to the child. It is NOT a child’s place to judge their parent.
Decency
That’s so wrong to do
Hm, I have to disagree. Judging my parent’s character has made me appreciate them even more. Without it I would’ve overlooked many things.
This right here🤧 it’s so unfair to the child.
@@nopeq7993 facts. Not everyone can afford the luxury of not judging their parents. It can be essential for wellbeing. This does get 1dimensiomal too often.
Tell um...my god..
Well said Kevin
Thank you KS for telling our side off the story.
Exactly!!
Holy sh1t that’s the angriest I’ve heard him... He wasn’t saying “French toast” 😳😆
He wasn't angry, he was hurt
@@artfuldodger7747 Cake down, buddy.
This sounded like it hit home for him is all
When do these girls going to stop have hatred in their hearts for no reason?
When Feminism leaves the female black community.
Whenever they decide to think for themselves and stop letting their emotions control the roller coaster ride, which is impossible.
Never
@@AlfieTank oh I would love to see that happen
@@wc3362 Exactly. no logic whatsoever
Man I was getting angry myself just hearing her ungratefulness. 😡
I’m not stupid enough to sign a legally binding contract that allows for the woman at any time to go to a lawyer, say the words “Irreconcilable Differences”, and get my life savings, my house, my retirement money, take my kids away, alimony….. AND I would have to pay HER lawyer fees. No thank you!
yes, no possible way
Being a Dad of a daughter this hit home. I hope my kid doesn't look at me this way now or when she's older.
God Bless Bro
I'm constantly impressed at how reasonable you're able to remain in the face of these callers.
I've never seen Kevin get to this level of frustration on a caller. She needed that talk.
Because she effectively destroyed her life with misplaced rage against a father who did everything for her. Really women like this have no fucking idea how lucky they have it. But then again she went to college and that pretty much is the standard garbage they are feeding kids these days. Hate your father and mother for not being better, or hate yourself because you were not a certain skin tone.
My ex girlfriend was exactly like this. She had so much hate in her heart and such amount of crazy anger issues in her. She tried to play the victim in literally every argument we had. We use to argue over the dumbest things ever. She had it all. Mom, dad, and a great sister great home, her dad bought her a brand new 2018 Jeep Cherokee. She was going to a private college in LA. I on the other hand. Father in prison, trying to make it right with my mother because of some drama we had when I was younger . I was also raised by grandparents. Both passed away. Doing what I can to make ends meet. I’m glad she broke it off with me because things could of gotten worse by the way I’m listening to this conversation.
What this lady is talking about is a form of parental alienation. My parents divorced when I was four, and our entire life, my mother told us one horror story after another about our father. He was far from perfect, but so was she. It worked, and I've been estranged from my father for over 30 years. In fact, I have no idea if he's alive or dead. He did some pretty messed up stuff, but my mother made sure that we hated him.
I never did, but my sister did. Guess who's the golden child?
What this lady is talking about is really triggering all of those old feelings of resentment and regret. Parental alienation is real, and it's usually the father who is shunned. So sad and effing unfair.
It's scary how much I see my Ex-girlfriend in a lot of these women that call into Kevin's show. Thank god, I ended that relationship, I dodged a bullet. And since watching Kevin's show, it reaffirms that.
Facts
@@JoLoco314 same here man....eye opening
She is a piece of work
More like pieces to work on
She a piece alright just gotta get some toilet paper.🚽🧻
I’m glad she broke up with that man she was with for 5 months. He dodged a bullet
So True!!!
It sounds like her mother is unappreciative of the husband, and this makes the mother angry. The mother then takes those emotions and puts them into the daughter in order to get the daughter to be unappreciative of the father just as much as the mother is. Thus creating an angry unappreciative daughter that will feel this way towards men, and result in the daughter being unconditioned to exist in a healthy relationship with a man.
You hit it right on the head!
💯💯💯
Damn..💯
Know a female who is EXACTLY like this. Can't keep a good relationship and just gets used for sex and has no clue why. Mother poisoned her mind and taught her nothing about how to actually keep a man, which makes sense because the mother can't keep a man anyway and is currently dating a jail bird...
the truth is these women need to stay in a childs place and stop trying to listen to what ever bs these feelings are about.
Yup exactly. Why even try?? The number of times ive given my best and it wasnt enough and then they backstab you.
This man deserves 100,000,000 subscribers
Cubed
Disneyfication is a term I've been using for almost 20 years about the fantasy many women have regarding their lives thru the lens of a unhealthy fictional universe where it's a man's job to make a woman happy; a man's duty to deliver a woman from her own doldrums in spite of the reasons she finds herself there and respect the value she places on herself even if she has manager to price herself out of her market. Insanity - keep talking, Godfather - we's listening
thanks for this Kevin, this is missing, the institutions and everything else have taught us to be like this woman, I'm finally growing out of this and wish everyone to do the same!!!
She don't directly hate others, it is more she hates herself and try to find someone to blame about her worthless life.
Wow, he hit this one outta the park!
"I broke up with my boyfriend cause i wasn't happy"...... Translation: she is f@cking bad boyz.... That laughter says it all.
I find it funny when females say "i understand... BUT" if u understood there would be no but😭😭😭
😆 My father always says that "yes, but" means "no".
They are too preoccupied with trying to be "right" and validate their beliefs during the conversation, by thinking of alternative examples to "prove their point"....honestly, most of the messages he is trying to communicate with these chicks are falling on deaf ears.
@@EmpoweredMovements facts!
You can understand something and not agree with it
@@Iamahumanehuman thats in normal dialogue, but with woman its always in an attempt to be correct. Thats y i specified female.
Thank you Kevin for pointing out the truth of how many of us black men feel.
5:54 I was waiting for the slap effect after "the nerve of you."
you could feel the anger when he was telling her about her father.
Indeed
Thats what She wanted to do.
She knew her story would be consider bs
@@coachberline you wish it was fake, kevin is exposing Oprah's life work, delusional women, expecting to much emotional nurturing from men that not the father job.
Mr. Samuels, you are the best. Thank you for your advocacy. Thank you for your character. Thank you for your courage.
She said the parents on her father's said are still married but the parents on her mother's side is not. But her mother complains about how her father was and how her daughter's was. Yet her father's lineage has the more stable family setting for generations to the point where her farther can deal with his wife. Damn.
I’m really scared to get married I’m in the top 5% and this shit scares me Kevin keep up the good word bro
"I understand but...." means let me tell you why I'm different and what you just said doesn't apply to me. 🤦🏾♀️
Lol smh no lies
Facts. They all think they're the exception. I've not seen a caller on the show yet not display this type of attitude
Wow!!! I was taught that a Father shows his love by giving security, putting a roof over your head and food in your stomach. My Father didn't live with me, but when he walked into the room my eyes lit up. My neighbor reminded me that as a child I would stop playing and run all the way up the street to greet him. I wasn't married in my late 20's but he still gave me everything I asked for. And when he was in hospice, I was by his side every day. Even when he was in a coma. He had no choice but to give me attention because he knew that I adored and appreciated him.
Very touching
I realize I am not the man my father was to me and the grandfather to my daughter but I raised a HS graduate and a soon to be college graduate. I have always tried to make sure she had everything she needed to succeed and so far it's gone well. That said, if she came on a TH-cam channel and said what this lady is saying I think it would absolutely crush me. 😢
This is a huge ouch.
I actually had a woman cheat on me right after helping her get major surgery done ! Talk about ungrateful women! WHEW 😅
Sorry u went through that hopefully u moved on from her
@@stevenallen1567 Thank you I did but karma got a hold of her not too long after . She got into a car accident with her new friend and lost an eye , had to have a liver transplant and is on so many medications for the rest of her life ! Karma is real people so please be careful who you mess around on !
That’s just a shitty person and does not reflect on women as a whole.
@@Lauren-ub7ih 🤔
Poor baby 😕
Thank you for FINALLY telling these ungrateful ladies what they NEED to hear!
Unbelievable that this woman sat there and had the audacity to talk down to her father
I was shocked, and touched to hear the slight emotion in Mr. Samuels voice, during that silence. That rly hit home somewhere in his heart. 🥺
Kevin just started to listen to you and I can totally vibe with your quote "You'll never outperform your belief systems"
"I am frustrated that I don't find men that are like I hear my Grandfather was." But YOU are not like your GRANDMOTHER WAS! They want perfection in a man, but expect men to accept them as they "work on making themselves better".
I’m glad Kevin does not call this women “queens” that is what they want to hear.
Most of us don’t!
As a Father of 4 adult children two girls and two boys, this really hit home as both my boys are spoiled and ungrateful. Thank you Mr. Samuels for saying what a lot of us are feeling.
The got damn nerve! Why men run far away from these types of women.
Drive motorcycles so we can getaway even faster !
I do I have two
Sounds like her mom wasn't respectful and appreciative of her husband enough for being who he is. And he's still around married to someone like that.? Give him some credit
As a son of a single mother who was vindictive and lying, I had to struggle a lot to get over my issues, and I’m still not done yet. I also built back my relationship with my dad, which was destroyed by her lies, because I now know for a fact that she wrecked her own home and then lied to me n my brother to antagonize our dad, and now our bond is stronger than ever. I’d give MY LIFE to let my brother live in a 2 parent household. And the level to which this woman is ungrateful for that privilege makes my blood boil inside my damn veins. Unbelievable.
Wow. Powerful. First time i heard Kevin say the actual word, instead of French toast.
This lady was just put in the place she needed to be...wow is all I can say. KS is on point one more time!
What I realized as a kid growing up and also as an adult/parent is that no two kids in any family are the same… As a matter of fact, some need more attention than others. It’s nothing to take personal. And it doesn’t by any means that you were neglected or lacked anything… Some of these kids that need extra attention wind up needing attention and other help from their parents throughout their adult lives…. This is nothing to be jealous or envious of… Instead of being upset, show some empathy for others.
Last time I was asked, Why did you stop pursuing relationships. I responded, Because I got tired of feeling like nothing was ever enough.
More men need to study psychology so they can see this goofiness from a mile away.
Problem is even when you see it, you can still be trapped out of loneliness if you’re not careful.
I think the problem is, men have been growing up thinking this is just how women are for a while now.
@Zion the great W yup bro I realized when even your own mom will turn on u and ur family, u can’t trust any one of em!
Relationships, marriage, and having children are a waste of time, money, and not worth the stress or conflict. I could never imagine myself doing any of it.
I guess I have to agree with you
Damn... reminds me of my neighbor. Old brother that owned sports cars.
He had his own business and worked hard to get what he had, but even then his daughter ended up being for the streets.
He can’t control his daughters desires and pleasures. Those urges can take over , if a women has no guidance, experience or discipline. Been there done that.
I dont know what it is. But that twirling sticks decor piece hypnotizes me. I cant ever break from it
Now that was deep, thought provoking!
So glad I found this channel, I've been a huge Patrice O Neal fan for years and he covered similar issues for years. although a lot more crass and explicit. I would love to settle down and get married but no matter what I seem to do it just aint good enough.
I believe you're a guy because you say "no matter what I seem to do it just ain't good enough"...
And my advice to you would be to not give a flying F about what you might think other people (women, presumably) want. Be you - you're the best person on the planet at doing that. Be you and become the you that you want to be, by whatever means appropriate. Don't try to be 'someone' that you think others will like or want to be with. Just. Be. You. YOU will like it and maybe someone you like will also like you, as you. Don't try to manufacture an alternative version of you.
Having said all that... this whole marriage game is heavily tilted against you/us men. If you wanna play, that's up to you, but I hope you heal fast and strong...!
@@oysterman250 Thanks for that man really appreciate the advice, I won't give up just yet!