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When she laughed at her ex for living with his parents, when she is almost certainly the reason he had to move back in with his parents...that was infuriating
@Melissa Oestreich 100%
Yea divorce is a financial killer for sure
Men should not encourage this behavior from women... especially if you have sons... your should fear they never encounter a woman like this.
Typically when a woman leaves her husband she gets to keep or buy a house and the husband gets to move back in with his parents.
Women get social services while men are out to defend himself.
"He's very active with MY child."
No, he's very active with HIS child, ma'am.
She a trip
No, he's very active with THEIR child...
@@Penguin_of_Death shut up
Unless he is not the real father
@@wg4154 1/4. He probably isn't and women are to blame.
She looks down on him for living at his parents after she divorced him - He'd be living at his parents because she got the house.
She literally uprooted his life by divorcing him and made it seem like he’s a failure for not bouncing back and finding a new home yet.
Right, as soon as I heard her say that he lives with his parents, I knew it was due to her doing
that part
That's what I thought. She got the house trust me los Angeles is hideous and brutal with housing. Exorbitantly expensive is putting it mildly.
@Austin Powers please shut up and stop acting like the law can’t take everything from you.
Years ago my wife suggested that we go to therapy and knowing where she was coming from, I told her to pick whoever she wanted to choose and tell them whatever she wanted to tell them and then I would come in for a sit down. Well, she did that and after about the second session, the therapist started looking at her. We probably had one more session and she never went back. Oh yeah, the purpose of the therapy was for the therapist to tell me what was wrong with me. A lot of women suffer from a serious lack of self awareness.
This is exactly why I refused to go to “therapy.” I told her to go find her own therapist, get some solo therapy and see how it goes and I’ll consider it. She refused that. I don’t trust therapists to begin with, but I knew that she would spin up a tale and then I’d have to explain reality to 2 people. Waste of time and money
Same for me. I told her to pick the therapist. She did. 2 sessions and she quit going. She said that I was manipulating the therapist to make her the bad guy. Unfuc$*&$ believable. I saw that therapist for 6 months after as I put my life back together. Good guy.
it seems like that is the fundamental purpose of western society now: to give women infinite latitude, and then absolve them of any bad behavior. at any cost. the principle assumption is that everything is the fault of some man, somewhere, and everything that follows is just rationalization/mental gymnastics.
same shit here. They go to therapy for validación.
Well well....seems women go to a kind of school. My wife convinced me I had a mental health problem and I ended up in therapy.....only to realise she wanted a record of a mental problem to facilitate her divorce
translation: The therapist wasn't blaming him for everything, so we stopped going. I wanted for the therapist to tell my husband that he is wrong. After we stopped going, our relationship ended. But it still wasn't my fault.
@@ColonelHoganStalag13 if not that just getting man after man after man that just want to hit and quit.
I absolutely think this is the bread and butter of these marriage counsellors. They know the gravy train stops when she doesn't benefit.
Shes living the reality that anyone takes on her n son. So rare. Plus be submissive and fair. No she wants it all one sided. Get a dog or cat n travel. Grow old alone in this world. Broken homes. You don't think the kid isn't going to bond with dad more he ages?. Novel thought.
This is exactly what happened to me when I went to marriage counseling.
Make it make sense
“Do you want love, romance, a soulmate? Then go watch a GOD DAMN Disney movie!!!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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The Lifetime Channel subscriptions are up 😂 😂
Whooooo! That burn right there 😂😂😂
Women break up marriages to get passed around for years and complain about men 😂😂
Real shit
The streets look attractive on social media
I say that all the time. They leave 1 D to start the search process that will cause them to hop from D to D to D to D. They don't process logic.
@@TruBlq they think husbands are easy to find. Childish thinking
It's funny to watch at this point! 😂
"In 8 years your son will be out of the house and you'll be 44" that line was Golden 👌🏾 reality check ✔️ kicked in.
Should've seen the look on her face to!
Gen Z doesn't have the money to leave the house. Shows how out of touch this dude is
@@tipoftheiceberg7034 If you work 60 hours a week you do don’t be lazy
@@tipoftheiceberg7034 was
Shoot if he saves and works untill 18 and is a real go getter.... More like he will be there untill 25 and she will be like 52 or older
If she can’t admit guilt or accountability from a prior relationship, she definitely won’t on a future one.
My God man. You are absolutely right.
the problem is that she said "the choices I've been making when it come to man" so imagine her son's father is watching knowing she sees him as "he's a bad choice she maid"
☝🏿BARZ🍫🍫🍫
You see that cold sore?! In the beginning? 😨
She won’t form a future one anyway, at best she’ll just be a side chick...
It was bias to her because she didn’t wanna accept the TRUTH!
Therapist was biased against her "feelings"
yah, prolly just the first excuse that bubbled up and she latched on like "yah, this is the perfect reason to ignore this therapist'' lol
Yup, as she said the therapist was concerned with the facts, not her emotions.
So clearly she's been using her emotions to tyrannise the poor guy
Boom
Shit is sad. Alot of females don't like to admit anything. Feel for the poor bastards that end up with these types
🚩 New red flag: women overusing the words “feel” & “like”
Don't forget Yeah, but
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New?
That’s an old one
Oooo 🔥
My ex said the same thing about the therapists we saw. She would find one, go alone for a few weeks, tell them how horrible I was. When she'd bring me in and I'd talk to the therapist a while, they would literally tell her that this is not the man you described to me. The second time that happened, she never tried again. She accused me of manipulating the therapists and turning them against her. Divorce was the best thing that happened from that marriage.
Goodshit my man, women these days know no boundaries it's all for them never for the "us" in a relationship
Accountability is their kryptonite.
Yea that sucks, but I can't help but wonder how so many of you guys fail to figure this crap out before you get married. Yes, women can be good deceivers... but they aren't "that" good on average. Eventually you learn what offends her and hear her complain about things.
Bottom line is that guys need to stop thinking with their hormones and start leading women. If they wont respond to leadership, then drop them immediately.
@@someone-ji2zb finally somebody else says it besides me out here. Where is peoples discernment.
@@someone-ji2zb they may not show that side or they change after several years after getting married perhaps.
If everyone stayed the same as they were in the dating phase there would be way less divorce.
both people can change after marriage or could have been putting on their best while dating.
He lives with his parents because she cleaned him out in the divorce.
Yep. Sounded like he would have been just fine till he met her.
Facts
And she looks down on him for that, too.
Yep
Sounds about right
"Do you want love, romance, a soulmate?.... Then go watch a gottam Disney movie!!!" Best switch up ever.
My favorite line!!! 😆
I saw that coming
I think that moment was on of the few times in her life when she had someone telling her hard truth and couldn't run away or mouth off. just look at her face! 8:57
I watched at 9:08am and hollered at this line. 😂🤣😂
i started rolling 💀
Man he really need a TV show. The only problem is it would invalidate 99% of what’s on TV now.
Lol
Facts! Only problem is the Powers That Be won't allow it cus the feminist won't allow it!
The studio would legit get firebombed.
@@johnserosanguineous1886 🤣🤣
@@francobrown4409 Looks like we had the same idea.
She caught him on a good day cuz he gave her priceless advice for free. This episode really hit me when he suggested she consider working it out with her ex-husband
That's what happens when people own up and listen.
She was not as combative as some of the call-ins are.
@jamessonatore2320 She did listen. Did you even watch the whole clip?
It is an absolute gift that this man can have this much patience to deal with these adult-aged children.
😂🤣 you wild
What amazes me is his talent to make them STFU, and not overtalk him. When women are losing an argument, they put the mouth on 11 and don't STFU. He is able to stop that.
Facts
@@PappyGunn Its because he remains calm. If you start mirroring them, they wont stop.
your're totally right,,,,,,,,like i wondered the same thing,,,where does he get his patients from ?
She: "I feel..."
KS: "Wrong! You need to think!"
Therapist: "Damn straight! That's what I was trying to tell her!"
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lmao
her voice alone makes her guilty
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@James Brown Gross 🤢 she looks like she got lip injections too
Kevin needs to add a counter for
1 I feel like
2 I filled for divorce
3 I been engaged 💍
4 I'm a single mother 👩
5 he was abusive lol
Please Kevin you need this counter up lol
Imma phd!
andddd "he wasnt on my level"
And I have a PHD
Like when he say you can say 7...these phrases can’t be used..
And ..."but"
The amount of hate Kevin gets is so unfair when he spends most of these interviews trying to put families back together. I really wish people would acknowledge this portion of his content.
For every delusional woman who calls in and learns nothing, he saves 50 women silently watching.
Because it's easier to say I'm not the problem
I feel like most women that hate Kevin, were the type of women he was speaking about & women who never watched an episode and just saw a clip or something. Anyone who watched any episode of his could see that he was not a women hater and he made it clear all the time his mission was to bring back the family.
My take away from what Kevin has been saying is finish what you started..Epic concept..
Facts
"What do you think your therapist was doing?" -- "I think he was taking the facts at hand and basing his assessments on that." In other words: HE WAS DOING HIS JOB.
It's rare for a therapist to call a woman out on her b.s. Usually they lean the woman's way and lay blame on the man. So this gal must have been a piece of work.
@@davidcombs3617 Yeah the fact the therapist went out of their way to put it on the woman means she must have been crazy.
The therapist was NOT telling her what SHE wanted to hear. She wanted to be "jaxNed!"
She was in an environment with more successful men than her husband and felt like if she frees up herself she could bag one. It never worked for her---a case of the greedy dog losing its bone.
I know this Sister Personally...Very Powerful and Humble Sister.
Him: men don't want to raise other men's children
Her after 30 dudes: I'm starting to realize that now
Lol
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can’t make this shit up!!! 😂✌🏽
As soon as I find out about kids, I refuse to commit. I don’t hate kids, but if I have any they will be my own flesh and blood only.
🤣🤣🤣💀💀☠☠
Her: he lives with his parents
Translation: I financially ruined him and now I look down at him
It's what my ex-wife did to me, she even took the car and i took all credit card debt. Now i have no choice but to live with family while i work on the debt we both accrued over the years.
@@whodisguy7003 I can relate the same thing happened to me took me two years to clear off that debt, but I got into real estate she did not continue to pay the property tax and well it was sweet satisfaction when I bought my house back and got to kicker out
@@whodisguy7003 as a young man I will always remember this, thanks for sharing
@@commiezombie2477 it was
@@whussgudd take it to heart man. I know Kevin is working on relationships but if I were you, stay focused on you....building your bank account, getting your career going, living YOUR life....women come later and NEVER live with them and NEVER for the love of god, marry them.
“I think your son would like it.”
As someone who was unable to keep his family together, this hit me hard. I wish her and her family the best.
when a man has kids he becomes one of two, the man that walks out on his family or the man that does all in his power to keep his family together. i hope youre in a good place brother, i feel you
Wishing her family the best,not her, she's the reason the family is destroyed
My ex went to the marriage counselor once and decided the counselor didn't "get" her because she couldn't come up with any examples of how I was supposedly "controlling". She never went again.
She only wanted to be told what she wanted to hear
Legit patriarchy bullshit
Patriarchy in action 🤣
Ironic
she's probably still going
"You're a mother - you get duty." Holy shit thank you
Fatherhood is the same for guys too.... it's a duty
Fatherhood is a duty and an honor and a blessing. I'm a father that loves my daughter.
This man is constantly making me want to be a better wife and mother
Just having that impulse is 85%. Mr. Samuels gon' be aroun' to nudge you along that course from time to time.
Me too. A better person in general. I know I have room to grow.
Stay on that track.
Perspective is everything. It's priceless that this man is educating people for free. I love his perspective, helps me with mine.
Yaass girl!
C.S. Lewis: “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.”
This woman reminds me of my first ex wife. Worked my butt off to help her out of the ghetto then through college, then to help her get into her career, then she decides shes better than me. Takes all my stuff, leaves me with no place to live, tries to tell my kids how bad of a person i am then she shacks up with chad after chad after chad only to realize that chad doesn't want a relationship, then wants to work things out. Sorry puddin, id rather smash 20 something's all day long than to be your fallback plan.
Big ups bro. You kept your balls. I salute you. Your ex is stupid asf
I hope she doesn't turn your kids against you. Praying for you and your kids🌻🙏.
@@alisaharris8926 she tried, that was many years ago. My kids eventually learned the truth. My ex is now barely scraping by and living in a tiny apartment with a dude that runs around on her. Im living in a nice large paid for house and enjoying life so karma was faithful
@@slinkyrobb woah damn am so happy for you karma is inevitable i guess
@Ramzes Motoa raw determination goes a long way. I had a second divorce that went even worse than the first one. Could have landed in prison over that one but i was smart enough to save every bit of evidence i could during the last year of marriage. Saved my bacon
“He’s very active in MY child’s life” is a telling statement and gives insight into her mindset towards her ex-husband.
Me, me, me, = modern feminism
When my ex and I were together I used to correct her on that. She would talk to me and say “MY daughter”. I told her if we are together and talking about OUR daughter then you can refer to her as OUR daughter when talking to me.
@Smoke C Standard for the problematic ones
@@anubus6 that should be the case no matter who she is talking to. The truth is the truth. There are no exceptions to the truth.
Be wary of those who try to make exceptions to factual statements.
Sounds like A DNA need to be had...
I didn't like the fact that the therapist called me out on my behaviour so I accused him of bias and wrecked my home.
“Duty to your family” This is exactly what’s wrong with the world. Too many fucking broken homes. I wouldn’t be surprised if Kevin was murdered. He’s too real.
He was too real and he was undermining the post-modern statist agenda by mitigating familial disruption in an important left-voting demographic.
I thought about this too, he was gaining too much popularity and changing the minds of so many so quickly. He was beginning to be a problem for the agenda.
I still believe he was murdered.
@@billthebutcher6873 imagine no autopsy whatsoever, trust me he’d have an underlying disease if it was an heart attack truly and he wouldn’t be taking energy drinks but it all died down and we just know he’s dead no causes whatsoever no investigation or anything
The agenda is to keep black women and men at war and he was single handedly destroying that .. his following was wayyyyy too much for their liking .. 1 million subs and reaching even more in voice , I think they had to get rid of him
“He can move in to your house with his son and have his family back together.” The best advice 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
I bet he found another girl already
Sure is
Best advice for HER, and for the son, not necessarily the best advice for HIM.
@@Michelle32r let’s be real he’s probably around her age, with a son, living with his parents, and divorced. Do you really think he has another woman?
just based on the fact that he sees her every day, decided to live next to her, and is active with the son, he does want his family back
As a 34 year old non-black man...I thank you Kevin! Your message transcends race. You have healed my frustration of having to explain things. Now I just link your videos.
It does transcend race. I’m a 46 year old white man, happily married for 26 years and I enjoy Kevin’s brand of common sense.
The streets transcends race. Media and bullshit filled with peoples emotions will tell you otherwise. I feel bad you found out after the fact.
This definitely does transcend race. These issues that men are having with women are NOT exclusive to the black race. Anyone who believes otherwise is a fool that doesn’t need to be dating or reproducing anyway.
We're all human, buddy. Don't buy into shit 'race' bullshit.
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The problem these days with many couples, they want the wedding but can’t handle the marriage.
Yeah? Men don't dream of their weddings typically nor have a biological clock. Women want the wedding and not the marriage
I dumped mine when she sacrificed our marriage for the sake of her 2nd wedding.
Im glad I realized this before I ever got into a long term committed relationship. Shit is garbage to navigate now.
I'm always amazed at women who want a huge, big event wedding (where they are the star of the show) and six months later it's all over. Ffs, put as much effort into being a wife as you did being a bride!
She* wants the wedding
"Do you want love, romance, a soulmate?"
"Yes"
"Go watch a Disney movie...You're a mother, you get duty."
I'll give her this, she did not talk over Kevin and was actually listening his suggestions. KS may just have saved a marriage.
🤝
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Wait till a black one gets on...lol
She did what she supposed to do. Don’t give em much credit
@Tee Shiiiied that ain't black, she wasn't raised under black girls rock. I know one when I see one lol
"When you gonna go apologize to him?"
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Her heart dropped into her stomach lol
He might not want the herpes she got on her lip sleeping around with other men.
@@TH-cam_Enjoyerlol seen that too
@@TH-cam_Enjoyerlol that's what I said she have herpes
NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
She looks innocent but something tells me there is more to the story that she is not revealing
its you intuition , you feel it in your gut S Garc
Isn't always though.....
@Apshe Lecter it's your westernization Apshe you feel it in your brain
Women only tell one side of the story. How many women have you been with that hid the fact that they have a boyfriend? Or that she broke up to branch hop to another guy, blaming her ex as abusive or alcoholic? Women arre always victims in their own mind, Always.
The fact he’s now living with his parents is interesting, pretty obvious why that is.
the Brother has Earned his Place on Mount Rushmore.
he's now Eternal and Immortal.
She's gonna take his advice, it just won't be right now, it's gonna be when her child's father remarries.
Oh god! I’m sure she regrets leaving him.
When he gets in his feet smh. Sad
I absolutely agree!
_Their_ child's father remarries.
She is going to want to get back together when she gets laid off.
Automation and outsourcing are going to take that sweet accounting job away if things get bumpy.
Hope he is wise to not do that.
Women at marriage: "until death do us part"
Women after divorce: "lol he lives with his parents"
In my country(I'm from the East), our culture doesn't really have a problem with living with parents, because we have to. We have to take care of our parents when they get old, so living with parents is like a "Must" in our society.
@@somebody700
Well that's good to hear, really. In my country, that thing still exists. I sometimes hate that.
@@hunggamerofficial3252 It's mostly a western thing. They wanna kick their kids out the day they turn 18.
@@sakurya972
In my country, living nearby and living with the parents are not that much different. You live nearby so if your parents have any problems, you can help them, and they can help you.
I'm totally cool with getting out of the house at the age of 18, i'm just saying how things are in my country. Mostly because taxes in my country are too high to afford a life out of the house, not to mention the Sons will always have to take the lead as a house owner in the future.
Her to another guy: I'm independent, got my own house. I'm doing it on my own ...
Guy comes over and sees alimony stubs.... instantly recognizes who she really is
The most pro-women , man I have seen to date. He’s out here saving women from them damn selves 🙌🏽✨ Thank you Mr Samuels
Won't lie.... He really is
Saving someone from themselves takes talent.
@Kdot No. The men are doing just fine. If you want equality you will die alone. Men make the rules. Get over it.
@Kdot He started off talking to men
@@raymonds7492 talking to men....about how women are. Now he tells women how women are because they're too blind to see
I actually enjoyed this call. She was honest, very respectful, listened and didn't interrupt Kevin once, and didn't throw a tantrum throughout the whole conversation. There might actually be hope for her when it comes to her ex.
seems like she might have enough sense to try. shes not talking about have can i get a millionaire with my aged decrepit body bad attitude and neck tattoo
I was thinking the same thing: this one is actually hopeful. She DOES have a good head on her shoulders.
This was the first video I've seen where the lady shows some signs of turning things around.
Nope,nope,nope....she’s a lost cause.
My ex-wife would get pissed off when the counselor appear to take my side.
This was therapy. He won her over easily with the hard core truth. He’s trying to help. This felt so good to watch.🥰🥰🥰
Yep! Heartwarming potential for reconciliation. ♡ ♂♀
then you see all those youtube saying he is bad! these people need to come as well and get therapy
Yes, it did. I hope they get back together
A lot of people really believe this man is evil and I can’t see it. People need to hear the truth from someone who genuinely cares about his community. Majority of the people getting upset are women and they just can’t handle the reality of their situations. It’s crazy how hateful some people are for zero reason
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In 14 minutes, this man may have saved 3 lives, IF she humbles herself and actually follows through. Man I hope they work this out. Excellent work, KS!
The first thing every single person who calls in says: "I feel like..."
It's a shame they fail to realize their feelings don't matter.
Exactly!!! Immediate reflection of low accountability and low emotional intelligence
It happens like clockwork, every episode 🕑
I don't think it's so much their feelings, I wonder if they're possibly copying this from reality tv shows, celebrities, etc. Women tend to copycat a lot. I see a lot of 'i feel like' sentences from RHOA or LHHATL and stuff like that. I never heard this phrase before UNTIL those shows came around. It was always ' I think,' before. Women probably think it looks cute saying it more so than being emotional. Kinda like how some girls think saying 'bruh' looks cute.
@James Brown so annoying. Can’t get a thing done with a child like that. Feelings are fleeting and I’m not raising a child. We need grown women as partners
Wow! Kevin nails it and nails her! Great interview - so sorry that we lost this man, great example of putting family first and working things out where you are at!
You broke up a happy home, ma’am. Your therapist rubbed their hands when you left the 1st session.
@@MEETMagazine 🤣
@@MEETMagazine She was in her own way.
@@MEETMagazine Curious to know what complexion you are.... My face was looking kind of confused at "light skinned wife!?
@@MEETMagazine the shade 🤣
@@MEETMagazine Also, just my observation; outside of her being "light skinned," she is quite average. I've seen so many more women who are darker in complexion with much more attractive features in the face.
Modern Code Words: Starting with
" I feel like"
" I hear what you're saying, but"
" I believe"
"I understand, however"
" I don't think"
" Can I ask you a question"
"Well...I think"
" That's true, but"
" I'm trying to be respectful"
" I've never seen your show"
"A friend referred me to your show"
" I understand, but"
" Well...I dont see it that way"
" If you knew me, you'd understand"
"People I know or knew"
" I was with a high value man, but..."
" I've dated high value men, but..."
" I don't think that's fair..."
" I want to introduce a different perspective..."
" I have options too..."
"I appreciate your show, but..."
" Well...look at it this way..."
" How do you know..."
" Yes & no..."
" Me personally...."
" Femininity depends on..."
" What do you mean by..."
" I dont have to..."
" I was engaged, but"
" I filed for divorce"
" I broke off the engagement"
" But kevin...."
" Okay mr samuels"
" Do you have problems with black women"
" Well...men do it too"
" Why do women have to need men"
" Who hurt you..."
" You hate black women"
" I'm speaking my truth..."
Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!
This list is exactly what was on mind mind! Not enough thumbs up to you bro
You forgot....
"I'm speaking MY truth."
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Perfect
Yeah, "my truth" the fashionable infantile cover for distorting reality, lack of self knowledge and the validation for avoidance of personal responsibility for making woefully poor decisions.
@@arthur.rsitch8085 "I feel like" is a extremely common phrase they love to use.
'then watch a GODDAMNN DISNEY MOVIE..' 😂😂😂 she felt that in her soul
I heard the voice of the dad I never knew
I know this Sister Personally
She does great work with the Homeless in Los Angeles.
@@tihsaggin5722 so.....
Yea that hit deep for sure haha
😂😂😂😂 savage
RIP Godfather. Hopefully a small piece of your legacy will live on with this woman and the father of her child being able to enjoy their grandchildren together
She divorces him because they’re “having problems” and she assumes that she’s going to come out the other end way better.
So what was revealed in this call
1) her husband still hasn’t bounced back from the divorce
2) she ignored the therapist because he said that she was the problem
3) she’s been passed around like a hot potato in the last few years with no prospects for a long term partner
4) she’s falling short of her financial goals
Can someone please tell me who this feminism thing is helping?
They're so quick to want to do their own thing. Well she got it and look at how that's going.
Devil Strider yup. Like why do they demand so much? Don’t demand perfection when you don’t bring perfection
Feminism helps the state... men are more frugal with their money naturally. The way to get men to part with their money is to utilize the woman, to receive a stipend from men. Women then use that stipend to buy things that they don’t need, and then pay taxes on those things. Hence, the state wins. Feminism is liberalism which is globalism, which is also luciferianism. Satan always uses the woman to get to the man, why? Because she is liberal by nature.
Feminism helps the business community. Single women spend way more money then married women, period. Society is invested in your marriage’s failure and that’s why it takes work daily between you both giving 100% individually, like anything worthwhile. That’s why it’s best to cut off your selfish single friends and stop seeking advice from your divorced parent(s).
🤣🤣🤣 I can tell you who its hurting and destroying at a rapid pace.
“I’m starting to get that a lot more” like she didn’t know dudes ain’t raising another joker’s baby in 2021
By now vvomen should know that dudes aren’t raising no other man’s kid. These chicks out here think they can hop on and off the carousel and some odor will pick up the slack.
Well there are plenty of betas out there that will happily step into those roles.
@@bigtombowski bruh, when that time starts running out they grab whoever is closest to them. The beta isn't their first choice but they'll take whoever they can i.e. neicy nash
@@ShaunHensley ok and what's your point?? They're ok with that. It's up to the man figure out the right choice, not the woman. Women are naturally confused. That's why the man is the head
🤔🤔🤔...
I work with hundreds of women daily in healthcare (Doctors, Nurses, etc.). Due to my profession, LOTS of them seek me out and once comfortable... they usually regurgitate their perceived issues.
I've noticed lately how disconnected from reality most of them are... especially when it come to their complaints about being able to locate and secure a HVM interested in women with children.
These often... very intelligent women have generally NEVER CONSIDERED how unwise it is for a man... any man irrespective of financial status to invest in someone else's child.
I often have to repeatedly drive and hammer home the COST of rearing a child in today's world.
$250,000 per child ain't chump change...!!!
What baffles me the most is how women will expect dudes to potentially pay that $250k... and how simps will take on that responsibility... but DUDE don't even own a $100,000 home mortgage.
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Therapy plus Mr. Samuels helped save my marriage 😊 plus we did the work ❤️❤️
Congratulations 👏 👏 👏. It would be super cool if you did a short 2 minute video showing appreciation to the Godfather. That would make him super proud. How about that?
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Congratulations God bless you two
Tough 💪
Congratulations
I’ve never heard “duty and respect is more important then happiness and love” and I gotta say it’s solid advice
you can't have happiness and love if there's no respect ,duty and safety...foundations of harmony.
My wife and I went through therapy, and we came out of it understanding that I was the problem first session. 15 years later we had another session, and she came out of it realizing she was watching too many reality housewives of where ever. She stopped watching those shows that keep crippling women's views about real life. Here we are year 21 all golden. Therapy works!
Yep those TV shows can cause people to think it is real. It is all scripted and just entertainment. If you can't watch and mock it together, then neither should watch it.
There was therapy in the past, when we were a new couple, turns out, we just needed to talk more and keep toxic other people out of our relationship. Yep, we were fine, it was the people around we had to work together to get away from!
@@superchuck3259 Well said, often times the 'ME' attitude is what removes the 'WE' concept from marriage.
@@superchuck3259 true, I met a reality star and he claimed the same, everything is scripted from A to Z all fake💯
Good for you!
@@gabotdf the point is every idiot thinks it's real which boggles the mind🤡🤡🤡🤡
When women say “My” child....the shit gives me chills, cause I know it come from a place of hatred and self conviction
Narcissism...sollipistism...pure ego.
Yes!
The only thing worse than that is when they say.. "I let you spend time with your child" with that vindictive voice..Ugh.. I went through that after we split when my daughter was 5yo.. Contemplated homicide a couple times.. that was 13 years ago.
True
donn't act like men have not been saying "your child" every time there is something wrong/negative to say about him/her 🙄
She thinks she brings all this value to a relationship, but even the therapist knows she was TAKING value
Spot on!!!
She seems like a nasty woman... in a Kathy Griffin way 🤢🤮
Good observation
R.I.P. Mr Samurls. Your wisdom will bounce off the walls of modern men and women for decades to come.
That was harsh. A sledgehammer of truth.
"Do you want romance, a soulmate?"
"I do."
"... You're a mother. You get duty."
It was direct and exactly what she needed to hear
Girls just want to have fun.
That was so cold but so on point.
😂😂🤣
Yeah duty and commitment are foreign concepts to many these days. Now with that being said, my parents? They stuck it out, though they really shouldn't have. They did more damage together than apart. I had to unlearn everything about relationships from them. I was maybe mid 30's before I started to get over it.
"i felt like"..singles women most common words
Behind every 30s girl crying about men, there’s a mountain of broken hearts from guys she played with, rejected, and ignored. the WALL IS UNDEFEATED Fellaaaaasss
If you ignore women like these they lose their shite.
They can dish it out but can’t take it
@@TheShowOff2I Facts 🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃
It call karma for them
@@bobballard387 Facts 🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃
Bro i just experienced this its crazy how the best revenge is to be successful when she seen me in my corvette her face was in disbelief I was the warehouse manager and she was on the production line 10+ yrs 3 kids 60-70 lbs later she see's something in me lmfao
“When are you going to apologize to him?” That’s real.
I mean at this point the child’s father is 10mins away yea just get back together and call it a day
@@jeremiahdavis3398 don’t want a kid?
IT AINT ROCKET SCIENCE 🚀😂✌️🇺🇸
Yea, but I think KS knows that she won't be doing that. It sure would be nice to see this video get an update, and maybe we will - I can see it now: KS calls her 6 months later only to discover that she is still soul mate hunting, and never apologized.
Never their fault though
Someshit women have too much of a big ego too do.
“I think” vs. “I feel.” You had her on the ropes when she had to use the logical side of her brain in order to continue the conversation. Well done, Kevin!👍🏻
This is the absolute best advice he’s given to date. Reconciliation
He has given the same advice to several other people in the past. At least this one seemed receptive to the idea.
Facts bro.
yes, she should certainly go back to her husband and apologize for the wrongs she had done to him
Maybe the red bull and alchohol wore off
He gave a ton of good advice... everything he tell women is on point
LA is too expensive to be breaking up a home/marriage cuz of how u “FEEL”...ladies get it together cuz it’s cold out here in these streets alone.
Very very true
Facts!!!! LA is a beast.
It can't be that cold in LA while homeless (climate is better than Chicago lol)
Don't forget the alimony.
@@Warsie then break up your home
“You want love,romance a soulmate” (Kevin advertising the beginning for a getaway honeymoon vacation) and then saying “well do you?” Her: yeah. Heart eyed. Kevin: then watch a goddamn Disney movie! You’re a mother-you have duties!”😂😂😂that whole part took me
She could see birds fluttering and flowers blooming and hear violins playing for a moment before he yanked her back to reality.
I thought I was the only one who damn near cried 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This was one brutal take down. 😂😂😂😂
That was a Manosphere Mount Rushmore moment. 😆😆😆😆
🤣🤣🤣🤣💯💯me too
RIP Kevin. You did your best.
He sure tried. R.I.P. Kevin
Kevin might have just saved that 10 year old boy...If she follows through with that apology...🙏🏾
She gone weigh out her options.. And when I mean weigh out her options I mean let a few more dudes hit and realize maybe she will have to take his advice
Unlikely lol.
@@a-t5380 her jiggle at the end was a call to the men folk for attention
Seriously man. I hope
@frank zap unfortunately
Her laughing when she said he’s living with his parents was gross
He is doing it to stay close to the kid.
She is a modern woman. All large and in charge, but single.
Her ex is her best chance at a viable future.
Wow I love this guy's mental ability to guide his foresight he does an awesome job with making you aware I hope that she takes his advice
No worries she will be alone and miserable
I don't understand these disgust with Western People living with their Parents. In Asia it's normal to live with your Parents, They took care of you as a Baby and You as a Child take care of them when they are Old and Weary.
He doesn't have to pay rent... so the jokes on her for 7 to 15 grand a year
*phone rings*
Her: "hello?"
Caller: "It's the Streets, I'm outside"🛣
Damn😹
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😂😂😂😂😂
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This is the second video I've watched by Mr. Samuels. I got to the 8.22 minute mark and had to pause it because my reaction out loud was "WOW" and a second "WOW". This is the kind of realistic advice that is incredibly rare today. It is contrary to the vast majority of advice on both men's and women's channels, yet it is the advice that could lead to real commitment and therefore contentment in their lives. This channel deserves financial support.
This was good. I really hope they work things out.
I hope he finds a better woman that will treat him better. She needs 3rd parties to have any real introspection and that will never work. She needs to leave men alone and be by herself
Wow I didn't know you watched KS.
Why are the attractive always the worst 😭 What a cruel reality 😭
He needs to find somebody better move on she will just be a headache
Kevin is trying to bring families back together for the sake of the children. Life is not about either of the parents once a child has been brought into this world.
Best advice ever Kevin! She needs to get back with her husband. Dealt with this when my marriage was in a crisis. We have a daughter together. I realized that I needed to be with my child's father. He's a good husband/father, provider/protector. Why would I give that up? It was me. I needed to make some changes in my thought pattern. Duty & Respect 1st! Make it work!
The words of a truly strong women 👍
Thx for your honesty!!!
Good move sweetie
so now you make a effort to conceal your fantasy seeking ways?
Good on you mama..
I bet she took the house now she’s talking about he lives with his parents
@Status DMG she took not half don't be naive. Her lawyer probably said that the therapist was bad judgment fro them and the man is psychopath and she probably got everything. When K talks to her anytime he says something that smirk smile on her face says it all. She is like f you K ya I will apologies lol right. I have his money house and everything I wanted and now I will share that with my ex. She is like lol I will f other man just to pleasure me and have my money. Soon she will call the ex not to apologize only to get him even more to get more money. This guy would be stupid if he would accept the apology from her. She will probably after a week go to court saying that he rapped her that "bad man my ex" to get more money.
oh yeah.. i mean she works at a law firm too right, so this dude didn't stand a chance.
I thought the same thing she has the house and he's back with his parents.
Yep
@@frankc9158 Why I will never date someone in the legal profession. Lawyer, clerk, secretary, or even a woman who works in the building cafeteria. Avoid.
You know, I actually appreciated this woman. She was respectful to Kevin and appeared to genuinely listen to his wisdom, as savage and honest as it was given. This MIGHT be one of the few guests on his show who will grow and learn from this encounter.
It’s crazy that she’s 36!
That's right! I seriously don't understand why she gets so much hate in the comment section. He was so much better than most stupid women that come here arguing about stupid shit and refusing to listen.
You can tell she respects Kevin’s advice. Big ups to her for not interrupting like most of the emotional women do up here. You can tell she wants change.
Right, plus her ex is still available. I like her chances.
That's only cuz the camera was on. If this same conversation happened off camera she would have flipped. In my opinion. Watch the eyes.
Generally, women will take the advice of a total stranger imbued with some kind of authority over their own husbands. That's why you should never try to teach your wife anything (how to shoot, throw a football, etc). She will constantly argue. Get the next guy over, tell her he's an instructor, and she will do everything he tell her without question.
@@PappyGunn
And That's a Damn Shame ! 🤦 A Woman should be willing to Listen to💁 her Own Husband .
@@PappyGunn why do you think woman respond like that?
"Why don't you go back to him?" Because she probably sued the shit out of him and treated him like shit? The way she smiled when he told her to to back is a good indicator. She won't go back.
She took the house and Fck random guys. Now wants to get back..... Would you accept her back? What do you think his familly would say?
@@leonelorozco2514 To be honest this dude is still in his child's life. She severely messed up.
@@barcster2003 hes only there for his child.
Right. When my kid's mom left me, she did nothing but trash my name to everyone. Still doing it. She doesn't deserve him back.
This woman comes across as abusive. She talks in riddles to hide her own wrong doing
You could tell she’s already sprung on the thought of getting her BD back. She knew that was her best bet before this phone call. She just needed Kevin to validate for her.
I wouldn't bet on it working out. She needs to feel superior. You can't have a relationship with a woman who wants to dominate you.
@@steelmongoose4956 Agreed. Kevin knows he more than likely won't take her back. She broke it off and ran around having strange. Then the guy's supposed to go BACK to that? Idk though every man is different.
Agree. She was swinging for a new better deal, and the clock hit 36 years old. No Chads returning my text, so maybe... Maybe I'll go this livestream to feel superior to all the other woman
@@guillermogimenez840 damn you just roasted her , and it was good
KS at his best. And the woman is sympathetic, for once. What a tragedy to have lost such a man.
When did we start teaching people emotions are more important than their duties in life?
Woke culture is to blame
@@ricoconti3141 Actually it's the hedonist culture from Hollywood. "If it feels good, you should do it"
A A or in other words “follow your heart” .. we’re finally starting to see effects of the disney generation
It probably started around the time of mass incarceration of blk men. Women were forced to be in charge. Not being as logical as men, they survived off of emotions. That emotion for survival has evolved into the emotion that I am better.
Nah that shit started in the 60's with the s*xual revolution. Feminism was a huge driving force. Looks like some of those early predictions by the movement's detractors came to fruition.
People are quick to highlight KS is rude however they refused to see how he’s repairing relationships for women who’s ready to listen.
He's only viewed as rude by people who don't listen and always want to be right.
@@nickcorkery7663 yep, not "rude" he is "adamantly correct"
Right! And i don't like that either. But he get the job done
Yes
He not rude, he's blunt and to the point. The truth hurts, people do not want to hear it so take it as he's being rude.
She really brightened, when Kevin suggested she get back with her ex husband
After all the men that did not really want her ran her through she smartened up and probably realized her mistake.
@@nootnootpengui8015 its what modern women are taught, unfortunately they have to experience it first hand in order to get why that wrong
If the exhusband is smart, he won't take her back. I hope he has moved on. Neither of them have changed and what split them apart the first time will do so again.
That is because she has on numerous occasions woken up in the middle of the night thinking the same exact thing!
@@SvenPrime Only if they had no kids together. Her husband got her pregnant and stood up to take responsibility. Their child is 10 and the dad still has a duty to complete.
It is not just about him or her but them, all 3.
Totally miss this Dude! So many people need to hear what he had to say! Only a chill Black guy could speak truth to Black women like he did.
I mean, he's not that chill, lol. He gives what he gets
@@morbidone88 Well if you want to argue semantics of chill, then go elsewhere. He was admirable, controlled and exacting in his great displeasure with those that called him looking for a fight! No stereotypical street rage or anger issues. I choose to call that CHILL defined to mean "controlled response".
This happened to me. My wife and I went to counseling on her suggestion. We went twice because the therapist was throwing truth bombs and they were landing all on my wife
And what happened after that? Still together?
@@tgm1379-kh5pj no we divorced, when she sa the therapist wasn't reinforcing her notion, she quit and we split, thank the lord
When in college, I ended up in family consoling at my parents request. I filled out all the paperwork and assessments as I wanted a happy home. My parents, they were both pretty hard headed about it. In the end, the therapist told me, I no longer needed to go, I was not part of the problem.
We tried twice and the same thing I told him it seems like she was going to do she ended up doing (waiting until she was done with school and then divorce) right now.
then they try to call you narcissist. but the therapist saying the same thing. lol
Love the fact he actually told her to make the wrongs right.... He probably is a good man and she just lost 'her fairytale" when being a mother was her duty
Fair enough
@@GregO0oo Not only do i have to provide but I also have to be a daddy, relationship is hard but for one to be so one sided takes a toll
When her voice cracked that was her realization that she was the issue. Even as a man who wants women to be accountable for their actions, it still pains me to see when a person's world comes crashing down and its too late to fix or recover. The only thing she can do is move forward with this new knowledge and be better
might not be to late for her...
"Marriage isn't about love. It is about duty". Kevin hit the nail on the head. Romance is fine when people are young. It's just one of the criteria to make a couple want to stay together and get married. It's a facilitator for marriage. Love definitely isn't a maintenance crew for the marriage. Afterwards, it just becomes the responsibility of both people to make it work.
Translation-the therapist didn't tell me what I wanted to hear. My ex brought in a counselor ( female ) who immediately zeroed in on her. We're now divorced, I have custody. Now here I am the single parent.
It was a male.
Once divorced aren't you a single parent??
Plus "I took the house and bankrupt him. I have been sleeping around. Pumped and dumped repeatedly. Men don't want to deal with my son. I have herpes. Where all the good men at?"
"you are a mother you get DUTY!" I just realized that I as a husband do everything out of duty and obligation... women still holding on to fairytales and bullshit.. I can't imagine living everyday upset because i'm not Micheal B Jordan.. holy shit. this shit is for real mind blowing... learn to be content
Bruh this entire conversation was frightening. Everything Kevin said was common sense but it seemed like it was all new to her. You can't make this shit up.
It was all new to her, very few fefails ever hear any of what Kevin says. That said she at least looked like she was listening, despite her problems I think her head is on tighter than most Western women.
All modern vvomen are oblivious like that. Walk thru life thinking we're their doormats just cuz they got a cooch, then hit 30 and realize the hard way. Men get to laugh in the end.
'Cause the women's magazines and talk shows kept telling her she should FEEL GOOD and be liberated instead of being a responsible wife/mother.
@@sagatuppercut2960 well said
She’s a women, common sense is a foreign language to a lot of them.
This man just potentially did the most beautiful thing for a family iv ever seen. More of this is needed everywhere
The look on her face when Kevin was saying only the father cares about her child is one of someone who knows they burned a bridge beyond repair and is realizing they have no options.
@Darryl Bloominton Masculine attitude? In what world was she?
@@AfroKing. You need your eyes and ears checked if you cant see/hear that in this video.
@Darryl Bloominton They never do she almost over the hill 🏔️
@Darryl Bloominton, hopefully she will lose that herpes bump in the middle of her top lip with some medication too...
@@jhnxavier DAMM! I DIDNT EVEN NOTICE LMFAOOO
5 things draining you in your daily life:
1.Looking at the problems rather than the solution.
2.thinking about what other people think or comparing yourself to others (compare yourself from yesterday)
3.snacking on processed/unhealthy foods
(Instead replace with things like nuts or plan out your meals more efficiently with an app like MyFitnessPal)
4.Overthinking about what you want to do
5.Over-induldging in social media or watching the news
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Add porn to number 5, and this is a solid list.
4 hit me hard
Imma have to put this on a poster and hang it on my wall
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Facts
Once a woman is divorced and been with another man, you should NEVER go back to her.
Yeah she prolly got ran through while in the streets
Facts. Polluted land 💯
Idc how pretty she is or what you felt for her.
@Mary Mary That isn't a argument. Address what I said and stop deflecting 😂
@Mary Mary Obviously it's Black women. Our mothers, our sisters, cousins, aunts, grandmothers, BW at school, BW at church.... all of you hurt us.
@@silentdub3915 going back to your baby mama might be worth it to save your child from the BS.
Man I’m sick we really lost a true advocate for men. RIP Kevin
The thing is if I was talking to her ex husband I would be telling him to avoid her at all costs as she doesn't love him and is only willing to take him back because she can't get anyone else.
But what if you found out most relationships are like that. So actually they would just be doing what everybody does.
Most people in relationships are not with their first or second choice, let it sink in. There are some things men are delusional about as well when it comes to relationships.
@JaCorey Lewis men always marry their first choice, most women do not and the only way you would know, is listening to context clues when they talk because they would never outright let you know that you were third.
@@truthseekingfreethinker5214 maybe men are better pickers? Maybe we play less games? Maybe we require less from a woman?
@@truthseekingfreethinker5214 I’m saying in regards to us picking our first choice. We don’t get as easily “overwhelmed” with choice like women CLEARLY do lol
@@Macheako all that is true, what I'm getting at is since men are the pickers we always choose our first choice but women, for the most part, only receive so it's fair to say they never choose their first choice.
Godfather is undefeated... I'm legit rooting for this woman and ex to work this out for their son 💯
Breh.. she has probably looked down on this man for awhile now. Probably broke him down and made him feel like less than a man
No I hope that man gets full custody of his son and leaves this women behind. It seems like it would be a disaster for him to get back with her based on how she thinks of him and how she thinks in general
Men always care about duty and respect and women take advantage of that , she'll act up again . Cause she doesn't respect him .
R u Fiddy by any chance?
I hope he keeps it moving.
Her smile when he talks about the father lets me know that she misses him It's her pride that I won't allow her to own up to her wrongs.
It is an extremely rare quality for someone to impartially and dispassionately self reflect. Yet wisdom is justified by her deeds.