Do not put a blanket on Peaches. Let him adjust to the weather, he will grow the fur to keep him warm. If your worried about warmth, put him in the stall overnight and out during the day. He will adjust just like the cows and sheep do. Peaches has to get used to Lily’s voice and leg movements. He will seem spunky at times which is normal. She needs a lunge line and lunge whop to lunge him before she rides. After she saddles him, lunge him for about 15-20 minutes, that will really help with his energy. Plus she doesnt want a too slow boring horse. Lol.
Listen to Tammy she is exactly correct. Slow boring pony will not be a good jumper either. She needs to lunge the pony every day to keep it in shape. Ground work is so important
This would be my strong suggestion as well. Unless it's a huge drop that he not used to then I might consider it if no shelter is provided. I truly believe in transition time for horse and rider. Lots of ground work, lunge line. Manners and he needs to know she is in charge, gently...of course.
Horses tend to test new riders to see what they can get away with. If possible you shoukd board Peaches at the barn Lily rides at for this first winter so that Lily can ride him with her coach and her coach can teach her how to handle him. Cool weather makes horses frisky and being alone makes horses nervous which makes them move faster. They are herd animals. Once Lily is use to him and he is bonded with Lily and with the other herd animals at your farm things will go a lot smoother.
Ground work, ground work, ground work... Building respect and learning each others movement from the ground before saddle. Can daddy build you a round pen?.. A perfect way to learn each other on a lead line... If you blanket be prepared to blanket (remove and place back on) thru the entire winter.. OR let that winter coat come in. Loving your journey Lily!.. Peaches is such a beautiful horse.. He's still learning his new surroundings and family..Noises, smells, the unknown.. Keep a routine ... You got this! no alfalfa as it runs HOT and if Mr peaches is wanting to run ... Not sure what you're feeding. BUT groundwork is the best way to connect.. Lots of videos online on this. I don't like that bit... and neither does Peaches.. AND Lily your a natural "I think he's better on the other side". All horses have a better side.. Great observation!.. So work the "bad" side more
As horse person (10+ years) you guys have done so many things right! The equestrian community can be quite judgmental and rude as I'm sure you're aware of the many opinions. Lily will be fine and Justin & Rebecca you're doing so well. There are so many people who do this without a trainer or anything (which isn't the best). I understand what you mean about "What did we do". Even horse people (who have been in the sport for a long time) bringing their horses home for the first time and feel the exact same way. You don't need anyone on the internet to tell you what you already know but if it helps Lily, Justin or Rebecca, you will be fine and you're taking all the correct steps! So happy for Lily to have this amazing experience having her pony at home. Sending all the good vibes to you guys
Although this horse is her pet, it is a livestock animal. It really doesn't need a blanket. My horses had full access to the barn and they chose to lolly-gag outside, lol. even had snow build up on their backs. Peaches will do just fine with his winter coat. It's nice to see Lilly so happy :)
You need a round pen. A place enclosed for Lily to ride until she gets a handle on this. Then the horse knows boundary and is easier to control.❤❤❤❤you are doing great Lily. Keep up the good work.‼️
I think you found a gem of an instructor. I like that Leslie is kind and patient and doesn’t look at the process with a bunch of black and white rules. Having a horse is about building a relationship and learning to trust each other, Peaches seems like a pretty solid fellow but it all takes time.
Lilly as an old horse woman that I am, I wanted to tell you that you are doing great. This is a huge undertaking that you have taken on just go slow, read your horse, he will tell you what's what and how he is feeling. I suggest you do not blanket him as of yet let his coat grow in if his coat doesn't grow in then you might have to blanket him but he looks like he has a great coat. Keep up the good work Lilly, I look forward to more videos of you and peaches.
as an old horse woman how do you feel about having a horse alone without a horse friend? i was gonna get a horse and thats what everyone kept telling me. YoU nEeD tO gEt tWO HoRseS
@@njutarn8381 as long as there's other herd animals the horse should be fine. We had a retired race horse who's only buddies were goats he love goats. It was actually quite cute.
I don't ever post comments on TH-cam videos so I'l say it all now. Another old horse woman here. I wasn't so sure about Peaches initially, but now I think he'll turn out to be the perfect fit for Lily. She's doing fantastic. A few nerves are completely normal when you have a new horse. I'd be more concerned if she wasn't nervous at all. That's what gets you hurt...underestimating your mount. He will teach her a lot. My first horse (when I was about Lily's age) was a 4 year old halter-broke breeding stallion that had just been gelded. He was WILD. And I absolutely loved him for it. He made it his hobby to find new things to 'spook' at, so he could dump me off when least expected. And there was always that one apple-tree-of-death that sent him sideways. I got dumped off a LOT, at first. But it eventually turned me into a rider who could safely stay with any horse's movement, no matter what it did. It's great to see that she got exactly the horse she bought. You could see his bravery and 'honesty' when he was on trial. She's brave and honest too. I expect she'll love those traits more than anything else. It's a kindred-spirit kind of thing. One thing is coming true. Two old videos stand out to me when I thought...they might regret doing this. One was when they pulled down that perimeter fence. My thought was: You have a DAUGHTER...there's surely a horse in your future and you'll need that fence. The next time it happened was when they planted a maple tree in that pasture. Maple leaves are toxic to horses. Two suggestions from the voice of experience: Since the farm is on a public road, they'll really want to consider putting in perimeter fencing. It's only a matter of time before she falls off and the horse goes running. There's no knowing where he'll head off to, since he doesn't have a horse buddy back at the barn*. Given how lively he is, he seems like the type to go where he can gallop like his tail's on fire...and in a direction that doesn't make him stop. Usually that type of horse will take off down the road, with his tail flagging. A perimeter fence-build would be great content (and plans too.). Really would like to see what Justin would design. Most homesteads are going to need safe, economical perimeter fencing....even if just to keep a LGD in and trespassers/predators out. Second suggestion is to let Peaches' coat grow out for the winter. Horses turn feed into body-heat very efficiently. If he seems chilly, give him some extra 'cool' calories with hay. The only 'blanket' she'll need to buy for him, is an uninsulated waterproof turnout sheet (NOT a turnout blanket) for year-round use. The only time he'll need it is when he's outside and it's both cold and raining. Otherwise he'll be just fine. I think it's better for the longevity of a horse to avoid turning them into a 'barn baby'. The stress of that lifestyle causes them to lose a lot of natural vigor. I think it breaks their mind and spirit, too. *He doesn't need another horse, when he has a young girl who will likely spend every waking moment with him. There are plenty of animals and kiddos around to keep him from feeling lonely. And plenty of farm happenings, to keep his mind active and alert. I keep mine in a herd with free choice shelter. But I've also had singles and they do fine as long as they feel safe, can spend most of their time grazing, and you give them something for social interaction. (It's best not to anthropomorphize our animals. ❤)
Yes, a second horse for riding also wld be very beneficial not just for the family but also for Peaches and Lily both. I am seeing a time when horses are exactly what's needed. A future relying on Gas and Diesel with Govs. Run by corruption will not benefit any of us. Short of going to what is already happening. Your family wld only benefit from horses. Raising many kinds of horses can be very Clarifying for Body, Mind and Soul.
Lily will get it. Peaches will test her, she will get frustrated- but ultimately this will build her confidence. I beg of you to make sure she is wearing a helmet anytime she rides. I remember my first horse- I had similar experiences and WAS TERRIFIED of him. 15 years later, he is the best horse I’ve ever owned and gave me all his heart through many years of 4-h and high school rodeo.
Lunge him before every ride! I was a very advanced rider and I still lunged my horses before working them. It just gets their mind in the right place and will get his bucks out, then she can ride him when he has less energy. Hopefully you can trailer him to lessons every week, and continue to have someone out to your farm once a week. That will help her riding abilities with her horse (not a lesson horse) and she will gain confidence in controlling him. I know its a lot, but put in that work now so that this is successful. Twice a week lessons and working with him every other day in some way (lunging, leading, grooming, riding, etc.), its like a horse boot camp...put in the work and you will see the results in both Lily and Peaches.
I’m always happy to help if you all ever have any questions! I’ve reached out to Rebecca before! As a horse trainer by career, I think lily will do great with time and direction! Be careful of grain mix ups though! I know some horse feeds are toxic to sheep and some chicken feed is toxic to horses!
Yes, I think she needs just a little bit of help. A level riding ring or at least a fenced area to ride would be nice. I am thinking maybe he needs to be lightly lunged before riding. I'm not seeing him every minute but he doesn't seem too wild. I just dont want to see Lily become overwhelmed, or worse hurt, then get discouraged. She is such a sweet girl. Hopefully they can get help from you or trainer. Oh Lily mentioned the bit (she tried him in a d-ring snaffle and today she had a full cheek...not sure what type). Hopefully they dont try a more severe type bit since she is a beginner!!
oh look at that...I watched a little more of the video and the trainer ordered the correct bit, they are longing him...Yeah...she will be okay wth this kinda help. Nice trainer!!
Oh, Justin and Rebekah, watching you with Lily’s new little gelding is so sweet. You have a very well-trained little guy who will give Lily many years of joy. I was so happy to see your trainer put Peaches on a lunge line and can tell you are in good hands with a mentor you can call on. Ground work is so good for both horse and rider. It will build both of their confidence in each other. Turning him out and encouraging him to canter and/or trot a bit before riding him if he seems a little too ‘frisky.’ Windy days can also bring the ‘feeling his oats’ out in him. Best of luck to y’all. I love watching your channel and have learned a lot! Thanks for all you do!
So hard to be patient! It’s very smart to have a trainer work consistently with Lily through this transition. You’ve got this Lily, talk to Peaches and breath easy … I saw all those horse books you have and there are excellent horsemanship videos to follow… keep educating yourself and apply your new found skills confidently💕Helmet, vest and gloves for safety, always, (because we adore you)🍃🐴
Wish you’d read your comments ‼️‼️ So many smart people with good advice. So here’s mine for what little you’ll do with it: DON’T THROW AWAY THOSE BOARDS‼️‼️ Lilly needs a 100 foot diameter round pen. Use those boards for the rails. 2 rails would be adequate.
Very good comment, especially the suggestion to reuse the boards from the house. If there are enough boards, it would be good to see a 3 rail fence built to contain the horse.
Dont hang onto headcollar horses are trained to follow on a loose lead. Look at his facial expressions, Relax. Do join up in a round pen. Natural horsemanship.
I’m really concerned about all the treats that Lilly’s feeding her horse. Too much can make him sick. Horses stomachs are very sensitive. Any changes in feed and high sugar content can make them colic. Severe changes in weather can also make them colic. Don’t blanket him. Please allow him to adjust to the weather and food changes. Too much rich grasses after being on hay can make him founder. If his demeanor has changed, then he could be stressing over all the changes 🙏❤️
I have 40+ yrs of horse riding and showing experience. This is a great horse for Lily and she will have Peaches forever. Just have her learn the right way from the start with your trainer. Y’all are doing a great job
You have probably already heard this from your trainer but: generally, you get a horse on a lunge line and work them out for a while before you get up to ride. That way they can run and dance and get some of the energy out of their system without you landing in the dirt. Until he is consistently coming to you when you call (lol, because he knows you have treats) you may want to put off turning him out in a larger pasture. If he won't come, you'll be left chasing after him, and horses like that game a lot. Good luck!
Yes Lily needs to be assertive with her voice. She need to be consistent and show no anxiety. He will pick up on either her conference or anxiety. Lily you have a great horse and you're doing an awesome❤job.😊
Please look into getting a custom saddle. There are so many companies and saddle fitters that can help you. It’s so important that you have a saddle that fits well, not only for Lily but for the integrity of your horse in the long run as well. CWD has amazing custom or partial custom saddle options.
here's a suggestion: Have the horse instruction off camera for a few months -- like 6, to allow your daughter and the rest of the family privacy to establish relationship with the horse and to decide what your rules are. I'm picking up some need to perform for the camera, which is completely understandable -- there's always someone unknown watching -- which is not helpful when establishing a relationship. Especially when it is going to be a long relationship. Sending you all best wishes during this time of transition.
Cut the grain until she can ride him with no problem. If you want her bucked off, pour the grain to him. Unless a horse is working hard or is in poor body condition, they do NOT need grain. Rodeo stock contractors feed lots of grain to give their stock extra energy, so they really buck.
100% agree!!!! You are the only one that made that comment other than me. Oats will cause a lot of energy in the horse. As in sewing his oats. They need to lay off so many apples too. I sure do hope there is not too much alfalfa in that pasture also.
Lily needs a safe, enclosed area to ride in, especially with a very forward horse that wants to go - sooner or later, he will probably take off with her. Especially in the cooler weather, all horses are more likely to run. Considering the basic lack of horse knowledge in this family and Lily being so young and basically still inexperienced, you need to seek out safety first. It is great that the trainer is working with them. Everyone starts out ignorant at some point and then the learning takes place. But horses are a flight animal and they are fast and strong, so have to be extra careful.
I've started riding at around 7. Once you start out with a spirited horse Lily will not be satisfied with any other. I Did not catch how old he is, but he has a lot of spirit in him. Myself I would not trust them out together untill they became attached to each other. I never rode English, just western trail rides up until my mid 40's, I lost my mare. She loved me as much as l loved her. I never desired another.
Feel free to reach out in your community. There are retired horse owners who may love to spend a day a week with Lilly and her new horse. It takes some time and trial and error. Good channels on TH-cam as well. Too many arm chair quarterbacks and it gets confusing. Find a horse buddy and do what you do:) Its a journey, not a marathon so enjoy the journey:)
Watching this young lady learning and getting to realize the dreams of her heart, brings back so many good memories from my childhood. I was a horse "crazy" girl living on a farm back in the 80's. I loved Arabian horses and my dad agreed to let an extended family member bring some of the extra horses (Arabians) he had from a boarding stable business to pasture on our place. One year we had 4 mares that foaled in the spring and that was the best summer of my life. I got to handle, and halter break all the foals. Even though there was no riding them that summer I became more confident in being around horses and that confidence translated into me being a much better rider later on. There will be times that it is scary and dangerous, but time put in just handling the horse helps the horse trust human leadership and that makes for a much safer horse. So many character-building opportunities with kids learning to ride and care for horses.
Canter that horse on a lunge line until he doesn't want to go so fast under saddle!! Lots of time on a lunge line will teach Peaches that he has to listen and respect Lilly!! They will form a fast bond and she will grow into an amazing cowgirl!! Horses are the best animals on the homestead 🥰 We have 5!
Oh Lily, I’m living vicariously through you. I’ve told my sweet hubby for 40 years…somewhere there is a horse that needs me. Enjoy darlin!!!! Blessings, debby
The horse is seeing what he can get away with. Still nice to see Lilly get some spotlight. Tell the Gid-Meister to keep whistling (always makes me smile). Leslie is a blessing!
I am also happy to see Lilly finally getting something for herself. I just worry about the horse being with people who don't know anything about them. I remember the sheep, twice. 💔
@@kyfarm there's no question that they have to go through a learning curve. I think with Leslie it's going to make it even better as far as instruction and whatnot.
@@Josh_James76 I hope so. It would be a total heart breaking tragedy if they allowed this beautiful little guy to get terribly sick or hurt, or, heaven forbid, dead. I had to stop watching this channel awhile back, I only checked in to see Lilly's joy. But when Rebekah said she wanted to have cross ties put up for this gentle little guy, I was out again. She has seen that somewhere and now thinks she has to have it. smh I just hope they don't cross tie him INside his stall. 😢😓😣
Weve had2 nice horses that had never been out of a stable environment. When we took them to our property -farm/ ranch , they were overwhelmed. One had never seen cows and thought they were bears and the other had never been ridden out of an arena. Ask a horse person to come and help her. She is young and needs years more of training and guidance. Go Lily!
Hey Lilly, congrats on your first horse!!! i recued my horse from slaughter a year and a half ago and i can tell you from personal experience its going to take time for peaches to settle into the farm. i can already see the bond forming between you and peaches, your doing amazing! your voice is a very useful tool to use with peaches, it'll help you to relax if your talking but it's also calming to peaches to hear your voice and know that he's ok. welcome to the club girl❤❤
Peaches is a great horse, and you have an awesome trainer! Lily is wise to know that she needs help at first, and I agree, she will eventually be able to be more independent as a rider.
There is nothing better than a girl and her horse at these ages. Lily has a way with determination. She manages it to be successful. She doesn’t complain, she works on a solution. She’s a helper. She’s also a leader. A girl and her horse is always work, when done in love. A bond will be forever made. So glad there is a trainer close by, for the in case ‘ofs’ . This is the perfect time for this girl and her horse. You’ll always be learning , Lily. And that’s the good thing. I’m 73 and still learning. Love and learning is a beautiful thing. Hugs from This old “Mare” in North East Texas.
Thank you Dad😊 ❤ The more confident you are in Lilly, the more confident she will be. Remember girls are different than boys and the boys have each other. Ruff and tuff is how you bond with the "guys". This is that opportunity to bond with your young lady. Good luck to the both of you!! It is a joyous time in life for you both.😇🥰🥳🥳
I love how you have the support system from other people that are in the know. You received excellent information in his training and horse husbandry. She’s a very lucky little girl. And you’re definitely wonderful parents. Everything is a learning curve, that’s just a given throughout our lives. Your daughters confidence will continue to build every day and so will peaches. Thank you for sharing with us. Blessings to the family.🙏♥️
Good job, Lily, speaking up for yourself, you are right you will eventually be comfortable with your horse, it takes a moment! What a nice horse trainer, she is so kind and the horse can sense it. I think Justin Peaches is a wonderful addition to the Rhodes family!!!
Justin, Lilly's not the only smiling!! I'm ear to ear right now for her!! Its so silly, but I've never been so incredibly happy for a "stranger", than I am for Lilly!! I think about and feel gratitude for her all day after watching her!! Sweet girl!!! She seems so deserving!!
Just to encourage you….I watched the arrival of Peaches and I was holding my breath with the new place, all the activity of new people crowding around her, stuff she’s never seen, stuff she’s never heard, (immediate rooster crow unsettled her) new stall and she never spooked. Lily lead her and Peaches was great - this adjustment time is actually revealing you got a great horse with sense. She’s so gentle with Lily….she will settle in beautifully. It takes time - Lily is doing such a great job! Hang in there.💕
I like Lily's name plate of "Peaches" on his stall door. He's a pretty horse! I knew a neighbor that had a gelding horse die from a change in weather because he twisted his bowel and died of colic. So sad. We kept walking him but it didn't untwist and the Vet was busy. Pigs thinking yum rotting pumpkins! I'm so glad to see a bunch of progress on the remodel. Water lines, drains, and HVAC ductwork! This was fun to watch Leslie walk through how to manage the horse. Nice lunging! It is a big step to take on a horse and learn all about the care of him. I sure hope Lily doesn't tire of him anytime soon! That looks like a horse to me. I helped with pony rides at the zoo when I was little and our ponies were small and differently shaped. That looks nice, the designer's view of your remodeled house. Lunch looked good! Thanks for this video Rhodes family!
PLEASE!!! Do NOT let your little children wander around - especially in back of Peaches. Horses are prey animals, and need 360 degree vantage point to see in order to feel safe. These are not play toys!!!! They are extremely powerful animals who need lots of exercise and leadership. They need leadership boundaries. Please check out Ryan Rose Horsemanship and Steve Young Horsemanship.
All of it is just a learning experience for her. Shes gonna struggle, she’s gonna even fail from time to time. Working with horses can be the most amazing fulfilling experience but also the most challenging. It’s the struggles that bring you to tears that teach you the most. I have some horse experience and my daughter rode and jumped for almost three years before the pandemic got in the way. There were days where she just wanted to quit and scream and cry, then she came out on the other side better for it and more experienced.
It is good that Lily does not overestimate her abilities. She is conservative with her own expectations not fully knowing her horse yet... a wise attribute for a young girl. Best wishes with her disciplines and your new addition!
I know just how Lillie feels. I fell in love with a horse for the first time the summer I turned 12. I had ridden a bit before, but I was crazy about a horse for the first time that summer while away at summer camp. It was a solid white gelding, and everybody loved him. Her horse is gorgeous Mom and Dad, you made her dream come true!
I think the lady you have found (Lesley I think you called her) is perfect - Lily needs the lessons/confidence/mentor/knowledge etc etc that this lady has this - once Lily is ready to ride on the road please get her a hi vis jacket to wear and get one of her older brothers to ride a push bike along side her while she gets her confidence - Justin you have mentors in many parts of your homesteading life - Rebecka you have Justin and your parents to talk to with their knowledge, Look at the time you are spending with your father while renovating the farmhouse - we all have to start somewhere and in our lives we just keep on learning
Has Lily ever been trained with lunging horses before riding? I find it sort of gets the ‘beans’ out of them a bit so they’re not so full of energy and also they are more aware of who their alpha is before a ride so to speak. I thought this might work since a lunging rope isn’t very costly and doesn’t require much space? Just a thought…..Love that little horse gal! Xo
My 4-H leader told me when I got my first horse. You’ll learn more about horsemanship on the ground than you ever will on will on his back. Talk walks with him, brush him, take a book and read while he eats. Just spend some time with him being quiet. You’ll never regret it. But most importantly enjoy him. ❤❤
I agree with you, Justin on the horse blanket controversy. We live in northern Michigan and have a cozy barn at night if needed. Peaches is young and healthy, too. I might use one if she were old and frail.
He looks like a really sweet horse. I've trained collies for 35 years and I LOVE when they have a little spirit!! When they'll test me every so often without being overly pushy. You guys are doing the right thing by having a trainer come by maybe even every few days until you get comfortable. When you have a spirited animal, you're not animal and owner, you're a working team. They look really sharp together. Keep training :D
I’m so happy for Lilly and her first horse. I got my first horse at the age of 12 and he was the best horse of all the ones I had throughout my life (I’m 66 now). We lived in the city but rented a pasture outside the city limits so I was only able to ride on weekends and holidays but I would stay with him all day long when I could. He was a 15 hand beautiful Appaloosa named Chief Holy Smoke and it was said he came from a reservation but I really couldn’t be sure about that tale. I could ride him without a saddle or reins just by leg movements and my voice. Also I couldn’t sit a soda down near him or he would pick it up with his mouth, drink the whole drink then sit the bottle back where he picked it up. Hang in there Lilly you are going to love being a horse mom.
I was so happy to see today's video with Lilly and her hor, Peaches.. You are doing the right thing by having a trainer walk her through the things she needs help with. In the beginning, it is especially important that both you and your wife be there to learn as Lilly learns. That way, you will all understand the importance of each thing that relates to Peaches and his care and training.
Lilly, when I was growing up, my horse dreams were in books, occasional horseback rides, Explorer Post with horses and cleaning barn stalls as a summer job. You go girl
Becky you have to be brave or you’ll transfer your fear to Lily. Be confident and she will too. He’s so well trained and kind he’s not a spooky one. 😍😍
Please listen to the people that suggest things. Definitely find a mentor or problems will compound. Don't want Lily to get injured. This horse is really to much for her. The seller should have seen that. I knew from her trial ride.
I saw the part of your video about the wood walls in the basement area. Old barn wood can sometimes get powder puff Beatles. They can destroy your house worse than termites. They bore tiny pin holes and leave fine sawdust. They are very hard to get rid of and very expensive to get rid of. You may not have this problem but because of all the wood work you have. You need to check for it. Good luck on your build God bless you all.
The wind will mess with how horses act. Just keep loving on him, and try riding him when the weather is better. Nice little horse, congratulations Lilly!
For a horse to be so chill on day three like this is pretty good, he will be fine. My parents are not horse people and when they got me my first horse it was pretty stressful for everyone involved. It’s definitely made better when you have easy access to experienced horse people to help answer all the questions. I was fortunate to have a neighbour who really helped when things got sticky. I’ve now been owning horses for about 15-18 years and it can be very rewarding. Welcome to the world of horse ownership Lily, you are in for some amazing experiences. My advice, always wear a helmet when riding no matter how chill the horse appears to be, when in doubt lunge your pony before riding, and never be afraid to ask any and all questions of people you trust to provide good advice.
@@5GreenAcres - I knew I heard shoes when that horse was walking on the road. So I went back in and watched that part of the video again. I distinctly heard the metal sound of horseshoes as Lilly was walking Peaches on the hardtop road. I enlarged the video to full screen and kept stopping the video as Peaches was walking. Sure enough, I found it. Peaches has shoes on the front feet and is barefoot on the hind end. So, we were both correct...at least partially. I have owned horses off and on since I was 14 years old. I had my last horses put down last year when I was 78 years old. I have enough experience to know the sound of horseshoes on the pavement. It is very common to shoe the front hooves only. Shoes are necessary in specific situations; if she isn't riding on the road but uses the road to get to the riding area, I doubt that shoes would be needed. However, if she rides a lot and is riding on rocky trails, shoes with pads might be a good idea to protect Peache's feet from stone bruises.
@@BarbaraJCH Much respect Barbara. Thank you so much for your research. I was also a horse owner and am almost 66. It is nice when people take time to look into things and then if they are wrong will admit it. I would say in this case, you were more correct than me because I didn't think Peaches had any shoes. But then again, I never had any of my horses shod. They were trail and arena horses only.
Yes it is a steep learning curve and her answer was spot on "right now, no, but eventually" That is positive and realistic and listen and apply all the good advice you get. I think it's a little harder since none of you are horse-experienced, but it will happen. I also like that he is so lively, nothing more boring than a lazy listless horse
WOOD WORM … I presume that’s what’s in your wood. Personally I would replace as much as I could as it can spread, although it’s more common in wood with moisture … old unheated houses, old barns etc, but the damage they do is scary. Huge issue in countries like England. We deal with it here in Nova Scotia, Canada too. There are treatments available. P.S. Lily seems a natural! 🇨🇦
When I got my first horse I felt the same way. Then 6-8 months later once I learned his personality and we learned how to communicate better. Take your time horse and rider will eventually become one.
Every time I see Randolph, I am filled with Joy! :) He is an absolute gem. My daughter and I got to take horsemanship class for a few months, and we never even rode the horses because the whole time we were building relationship with the animal and showing that we were the leader. Creating that relationship is so important and I know Lily is going to do that wonderfully! She has truly come alive since getting Peaches! :) You all are doing GREAT!
First, ya'll are doing so good. It's obvious that you care and are trying your best on the steep learning curve. I can't tell you all the things i wish i had done differently with my first horse, and naturally there will be some of those things for you also; that's just how it goes, and I imagine living this journey out online adds a layer of stress that i cannot imagine. But i just want you to know from one horse owner to another, you are on a good path. Keep on with it. You will be just fine.
Another idea is to set up a portable round pen for them. Let Lilly exercise him in the pen for a while and then cool him off outside of the pen walking around the property. Gives him the opportunity to safely blow off some energy prior to a casual excursion around the farm.
Having had many years with horses I can say that you all are doing a lot right! Hang in there and just keep learning. Absolutely the best resource for horse handling that I have ever seen is Steve Young Horsemanship on TH-cam. If Lily can learn from him, she will be an excellent horse handler!
Agree Steve Young is very good, his videos are excellent learning tools. He says to not feed horse from your hand, it gives idea you can be taken advantage of. Put treat in bucket, and he can have it from ground when you say it's ok to.
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Ya'll got a great horse, Lily and Peaches will be best friends. My older cousin grew up a horse girl, and became the first female blacksmith at Calder race track in 70's. The trainer lady is great too.
You’re never gonna stop learning lily, give yourself time and some grace, the more time that you spend with peaches the more you both learn, hang in there
I loved your answer lily. Yes you'll be able to ride by yourself eventually. Hopefully you continue with your riding lessons and take peaches with you.
These are early days. You can’t expect Peaches to get use to everything all at once and Lily has to learn to be the boss. She’s very timid around him because she hasn’t learned him yet. Once they get to know each other and Lily gains more confidence in her commands and he learns what she expects from him they will do very well. He’s use to a routine. Find out from the lady you got him from what that routine was and then give Lily time each day to continue that routine. Yes the boys might need to fill in for Lily on the chores but then look at all the times Lily filled in for them when they were sick, or injured, or had appointments, etc. You also need to find out if he will stand if for some reason Lily falls off or does he run off. My take is that he will stand, but that’s what Lily needs to find out. She can just slide off and fall to the ground. See what he does. My horses were trained to stop and stand until we picked ourselves up and got back on them. Of course they would give us a look that said, “well dummy don’t just sit there getting up and let’s get going!”
Working peaches in a round pen will give Lilly more control. There is no corners for him to run to so he will have to work circles and listen to her. Mom and dad both need to learn to work peaches too. It’s also important to know that horses will react to your energy. Try to be calm but still assertive. If you’re nervous and anxious he’s going to be the same way. Our horses were mean to the cows so definitely keep close eye on that.
😊I'm happy for Lily. Looks like a great horse.Y'all are going to be fine. Patience & lots of time with the horse and patience with yourselves. I got my first horse when I was 9. (55 yrs ago.)My parents knew nothing about horses & I knew nothing. A neighbor gave her to me and taught me some basics. I grew up on a homestead like yours minus the sheep. We raised all our own meat which included meat rabbits. We were used to beef cattle. Put the horse right in with the cattle but we did Not have a bull. I would let them get used to each other is my feeling, then they will do really well together. A horse is good to have with cows, when you get a bunch of snow, the horse will paw away the snow to get to the grass & then the cows will be able to get to grass underneath also.
Well done all of the family, Many moons ago, I was the only animal mad person in my family My parents supported my passion even if they did not know what was going on. It was me that got dogs and cats in the house( thank Mum) it was me that had rabbits and birds out side( thanks Dad) and that gave me confidence to handle larger animeals sheep pigs and goats but my real passion is horses If I had not had that support from my parents My dream of equines would never have come true So thank you Justin and Rebecca for supporting Lily
So happy for your family and your big new pet. ❤ I think you have to resign to the fact that people do get stepped on and there are bumps and bruises when owning horses, but keeping safety rules as hard lines that you won’t compromise on will prevent many accidents that are the horseman’s fault and not the horses fault. Congrats Lilly! You are going to be an awesome horse owner!
What a gorgeous and very calm little horse you’ve got there……great for a first time owner. We kept little Dartmoor ponies for our kids here in the UK and they were really really clever and naughty! Just think “ Thelwell!” Lily is so good with him, she’s right to be cautious, we kept ours with sheep, the sheep clean up the pasture a bit I think. One reason for putting a horse rug on him is so that he keeps clean enough to be ridden in the winter months. You can’t put a saddle on a wet muddy horse or you may get sores. We did give ours an open shelter that they could use in the winter . If you do put a blanket ( rug) on him you also have to be very careful that the cattle don’t chew it and that it doesn’t get caught up in any fencing or gates. Enjoy Lily, you are doing a fantastic job. It would be lovely for Lily to find other kids her age who have or love horses as they are more fun together.
Lunge line and ground work before each ride. In the winter, horses are full of spice. Lunging pre-rides removes some of that. Keep at it. Adjustment all around.
Another disaster waiting to happen .if your that worried why get her a pony so soon ,been better to wait a few more years and alof of lessons ,a place that teaches how to look after it and tacking awell as riding
Hey Lilly! here's some very friendly advice and options to ask your trainer about, one option is lunging before riding on energetic days and replacing riding once a week, this will help him blow off any steam. Also advice aimed at parents! some horses actually benefit from more forage based feeds then just grain (beet pulp, alfalfa etc) sometimes the high energy grains aren't great! Lily you're doing incredible telling you as a long time horse person there's gonna e days that are tough and he's too strong or not listening it happens. Also look into positive reinforcement on youtube! this different training style will really help your bond!!
How exciting. I so happy for you Lily finally having a pony to love on and make many memories. I note lots of tips for you. It’s wonderful you have a mentor to keep an eye on things and to help you and your parents with any concerns. It would be wonderful to make friends with neighbours who have ponies to share stories and go on trail rides with. Be considerate of your mom though. Always tell her where you’re going and call if you’re changing your planned journey. Peaches seems to have a sweet nature to match yours. I wish you all the happiness in the world with Peaches.
I enjoy you talking with your kids. You don't talk at them or to them you get information from them as to what they think or feel, how they are doing or if something is bothering them. The great thing is they listen & respond to you so you have really & truly communicated with them. Great job parenting!
I would fence a separate area for your horse. In addition to constant fresh water, be sure to include a run-in for your horse. Face the opening to the southeast. A run-in provides him an area to go into when the weather turns. Sharp winds, heavy rains, or hot sun are sone examples of when your horse may look for shelter.
Maybe giving too many oats without working off that energy first kinda like giving the kids a bunch of sugar, I’m sure you’ll get lots of advice, but I’d cut back the treats and get a lunge line or build a round pen and work that energy off before she gets on him. If he’s not working he really doesn’t need extra feed besides hay, also not a hot alfalfa hay but a good mix of Timothy
I bought a horse and mule from a sale barn about 15 years ago. I have never put any type of horse blanket on those animals and every winter they get so fluffy with their winter coat. They have a barn they can go into if the weather gets too bad. As usual, amazing channel!
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Do not put a blanket on Peaches. Let him adjust to the weather, he will grow the fur to keep him warm. If your worried about warmth, put him in the stall overnight and out during the day. He will adjust just like the cows and sheep do. Peaches has to get used to Lily’s voice and leg movements. He will seem spunky at times which is normal. She needs a lunge line and lunge whop to lunge him before she rides. After she saddles him, lunge him for about 15-20 minutes, that will really help with his energy. Plus she doesnt want a too slow boring horse. Lol.
Great advice!
Excellent advice...
Listen to Tammy she is exactly correct. Slow boring pony will not be a good jumper either. She needs to lunge the pony every day to keep it in shape. Ground work is so important
I have grown up with horses and trained many. Plus several people who were new to horses plus my own kids. Horses are my love of life. 💜🐴
This would be my strong suggestion as well. Unless it's a huge drop that he not used to then I might consider it if no shelter is provided.
I truly believe in transition time for horse and rider. Lots of ground work, lunge line. Manners and he needs to know she is in charge, gently...of course.
Horses tend to test new riders to see what they can get away with. If possible you shoukd board Peaches at the barn Lily rides at for this first winter so that Lily can ride him with her coach and her coach can teach her how to handle him. Cool weather makes horses frisky and being alone makes horses nervous which makes them move faster. They are herd animals. Once Lily is use to him and he is bonded with Lily and with the other herd animals at your farm things will go a lot smoother.
Ground work, ground work, ground work... Building respect and learning each others movement from the ground before saddle. Can daddy build you a round pen?.. A perfect way to learn each other on a lead line... If you blanket be prepared to blanket (remove and place back on) thru the entire winter.. OR let that winter coat come in. Loving your journey Lily!.. Peaches is such a beautiful horse.. He's still learning his new surroundings and family..Noises, smells, the unknown.. Keep a routine ... You got this! no alfalfa as it runs HOT and if Mr peaches is wanting to run ... Not sure what you're feeding. BUT groundwork is the best way to connect.. Lots of videos online on this. I don't like that bit... and neither does Peaches.. AND Lily your a natural "I think he's better on the other side". All horses have a better side.. Great observation!.. So work the "bad" side more
Great suggestion, round pen is essential to ground work
Yes , yes, yes!!
Was just going to comment this. Tons of ground work and obedience creates gems.
Yes and l hate that bit too ,he might want to run from a bad saddle and bridle,these must be measured for
Why isn't someone lunging him? Get a lunge line and exercise him first!
As horse person (10+ years) you guys have done so many things right! The equestrian community can be quite judgmental and rude as I'm sure you're aware of the many opinions. Lily will be fine and Justin & Rebecca you're doing so well. There are so many people who do this without a trainer or anything (which isn't the best). I understand what you mean about "What did we do". Even horse people (who have been in the sport for a long time) bringing their horses home for the first time and feel the exact same way. You don't need anyone on the internet to tell you what you already know but if it helps Lily, Justin or Rebecca, you will be fine and you're taking all the correct steps! So happy for Lily to have this amazing experience having her pony at home. Sending all the good vibes to you guys
LOL I know about the attitude with some of these clubs. But if you want real drama go to the dog shows
@@jimputnam2044 can’t even imagine! 🙈
Although this horse is her pet, it is a livestock animal. It really doesn't need a blanket. My horses had full access to the barn and they chose to lolly-gag outside, lol. even had snow build up on their backs. Peaches will do just fine with his winter coat. It's nice to see Lilly so happy :)
Good horse owners blanket.
You need a round pen. A place enclosed for Lily to ride until she gets a handle on this. Then the horse knows boundary and is easier to control.❤❤❤❤you are doing great Lily. Keep up the good work.‼️
Great suggestion!
I think you found a gem of an instructor. I like that Leslie is kind and patient and doesn’t look at the process with a bunch of black and white rules. Having a horse is about building a relationship and learning to trust each other, Peaches seems like a pretty solid fellow but it all takes time.
Lilly as an old horse woman that I am, I wanted to tell you that you are doing great. This is a huge undertaking that you have taken on just go slow, read your horse, he will tell you what's what and how he is feeling. I suggest you do not blanket him as of yet let his coat grow in if his coat doesn't grow in then you might have to blanket him but he looks like he has a great coat. Keep up the good work Lilly, I look forward to more videos of you and peaches.
as an old horse woman how do you feel about having a horse alone without a horse friend? i was gonna get a horse and thats what everyone kept telling me. YoU nEeD tO gEt tWO HoRseS
@@njutarn8381 as long as there's other herd animals the horse should be fine. We had a retired race horse who's only buddies were goats he love goats. It was actually quite cute.
I don't ever post comments on TH-cam videos so I'l say it all now. Another old horse woman here. I wasn't so sure about Peaches initially, but now I think he'll turn out to be the perfect fit for Lily.
She's doing fantastic. A few nerves are completely normal when you have a new horse. I'd be more concerned if she wasn't nervous at all. That's what gets you hurt...underestimating your mount.
He will teach her a lot. My first horse (when I was about Lily's age) was a 4 year old halter-broke breeding stallion that had just been gelded. He was WILD. And I absolutely loved him for it. He made it his hobby to find new things to 'spook' at, so he could dump me off when least expected. And there was always that one apple-tree-of-death that sent him sideways. I got dumped off a LOT, at first. But it eventually turned me into a rider who could safely stay with any horse's movement, no matter what it did.
It's great to see that she got exactly the horse she bought. You could see his bravery and 'honesty' when he was on trial. She's brave and honest too. I expect she'll love those traits more than anything else. It's a kindred-spirit kind of thing.
One thing is coming true. Two old videos stand out to me when I thought...they might regret doing this. One was when they pulled down that perimeter fence. My thought was: You have a DAUGHTER...there's surely a horse in your future and you'll need that fence. The next time it happened was when they planted a maple tree in that pasture. Maple leaves are toxic to horses.
Two suggestions from the voice of experience:
Since the farm is on a public road, they'll really want to consider putting in perimeter fencing. It's only a matter of time before she falls off and the horse goes running. There's no knowing where he'll head off to, since he doesn't have a horse buddy back at the barn*. Given how lively he is, he seems like the type to go where he can gallop like his tail's on fire...and in a direction that doesn't make him stop. Usually that type of horse will take off down the road, with his tail flagging.
A perimeter fence-build would be great content (and plans too.). Really would like to see what Justin would design. Most homesteads are going to need safe, economical perimeter fencing....even if just to keep a LGD in and trespassers/predators out.
Second suggestion is to let Peaches' coat grow out for the winter. Horses turn feed into body-heat very efficiently. If he seems chilly, give him some extra 'cool' calories with hay.
The only 'blanket' she'll need to buy for him, is an uninsulated waterproof turnout sheet (NOT a turnout blanket) for year-round use. The only time he'll need it is when he's outside and it's both cold and raining. Otherwise he'll be just fine.
I think it's better for the longevity of a horse to avoid turning them into a 'barn baby'. The stress of that lifestyle causes them to lose a lot of natural vigor. I think it breaks their mind and spirit, too.
*He doesn't need another horse, when he has a young girl who will likely spend every waking moment with him. There are plenty of animals and kiddos around to keep him from feeling lonely. And plenty of farm happenings, to keep his mind active and alert. I keep mine in a herd with free choice shelter. But I've also had singles and they do fine as long as they feel safe, can spend most of their time grazing, and you give them something for social interaction. (It's best not to anthropomorphize our animals. ❤)
Yes, a second horse for riding also wld be very beneficial not just for the family but also for Peaches and Lily both. I am seeing a time when horses are exactly what's needed. A future relying on Gas and Diesel with Govs. Run by corruption will not benefit any of us. Short of going to what is already happening. Your family wld only benefit from horses. Raising many kinds of horses can be very Clarifying for Body, Mind and Soul.
@@ghannis6018 beautifully written and I completely agree with everything you have written.
Lily and her horse are gonna be just fine. He's tame and is tuned in to her. She is tuned in to him. Heaven!!!
Lily will get it. Peaches will test her, she will get frustrated- but ultimately this will build her confidence. I beg of you to make sure she is wearing a helmet anytime she rides.
I remember my first horse- I had similar experiences and WAS TERRIFIED of him. 15 years later, he is the best horse I’ve ever owned and gave me all his heart through many years of 4-h and high school rodeo.
You MUST have a round pen!!! Peaches MUST see Lily as the leader - horses do not feel SAFE WITHOUT A LEADER.
Lunge him before every ride! I was a very advanced rider and I still lunged my horses before working them. It just gets their mind in the right place and will get his bucks out, then she can ride him when he has less energy. Hopefully you can trailer him to lessons every week, and continue to have someone out to your farm once a week. That will help her riding abilities with her horse (not a lesson horse) and she will gain confidence in controlling him. I know its a lot, but put in that work now so that this is successful. Twice a week lessons and working with him every other day in some way (lunging, leading, grooming, riding, etc.), its like a horse boot camp...put in the work and you will see the results in both Lily and Peaches.
Such relief when the expert walks onto the property. Pretty much instant calm and the "yes, now we can do that" feeling.
I’m always happy to help if you all ever have any questions! I’ve reached out to Rebecca before! As a horse trainer by career, I think lily will do great with time and direction! Be careful of grain mix ups though! I know some horse feeds are toxic to sheep and some chicken feed is toxic to horses!
I knew your channel name looked familiar! Yes they should accept guidance if offered ❤
Yes, I think she needs just a little bit of help. A level riding ring or at least a fenced area to ride would be nice. I am thinking maybe he needs to be lightly lunged before riding. I'm not seeing him every minute but he doesn't seem too wild. I just dont want to see Lily become overwhelmed, or worse hurt, then get discouraged. She is such a sweet girl. Hopefully they can get help from you or trainer. Oh Lily mentioned the bit (she tried him in a d-ring snaffle and today she had a full cheek...not sure what type). Hopefully they dont try a more severe type bit since she is a beginner!!
oh look at that...I watched a little more of the video and the trainer ordered the correct bit, they are longing him...Yeah...she will be okay wth this kinda help. Nice trainer!!
Why does it seem only Josiah is doing chores?
@@lmwright390 I noticed that as well
Oh, Justin and Rebekah, watching you with Lily’s new little gelding is so sweet. You have a very well-trained little guy who will give Lily many years of joy. I was so happy to see your trainer put Peaches on a lunge line and can tell you are in good hands with a mentor you can call on. Ground work is so good for both horse and rider. It will build both of their confidence in each other. Turning him out and encouraging him to canter and/or trot a bit before riding him if he seems a little too ‘frisky.’ Windy days can also bring the ‘feeling his oats’ out in him. Best of luck to y’all. I love watching your channel and have learned a lot! Thanks for all you do!
Hi guys! Big advocate for the round pen. It's the great equalizer. Lol! Safer for her and easy to put up. 😊✌️🐴❤️
So hard to be patient! It’s very smart to have a trainer work consistently with Lily through this transition. You’ve got this Lily, talk to Peaches and breath easy … I saw all those horse books you have and there are excellent horsemanship videos to follow… keep educating yourself and apply your new found skills confidently💕Helmet, vest and gloves for safety, always, (because we adore you)🍃🐴
Wish you’d read your comments ‼️‼️ So many smart people with good advice. So here’s mine for what little you’ll do with it:
DON’T THROW AWAY THOSE BOARDS‼️‼️
Lilly needs a 100 foot diameter round pen. Use those boards for the rails. 2 rails would be adequate.
Very good comment, especially the suggestion to reuse the boards from the house. If there are enough boards, it would be good to see a 3 rail fence built to contain the horse.
Great Idea. All he would need are 4x4 post ....enough wood for a 60 foot round ring
Dont hang onto headcollar horses are trained to follow on a loose lead. Look at his facial expressions, Relax. Do join up in a round pen. Natural horsemanship.
I’m really concerned about all the treats that Lilly’s feeding her horse. Too much can make him sick. Horses stomachs are very sensitive. Any changes in feed and high sugar content can make them colic. Severe changes in weather can also make them colic. Don’t blanket him. Please allow him to adjust to the weather and food changes. Too much rich grasses after being on hay can make him founder. If his demeanor has changed, then he could be stressing over all the changes 🙏❤️
I have 40+ yrs of horse riding and showing experience. This is a great horse for Lily and she will have Peaches forever. Just have her learn the right way from the start with your trainer. Y’all are doing a great job
You have probably already heard this from your trainer but: generally, you get a horse on a lunge line and work them out for a while before you get up to ride. That way they can run and dance and get some of the energy out of their system without you landing in the dirt. Until he is consistently coming to you when you call (lol, because he knows you have treats) you may want to put off turning him out in a larger pasture. If he won't come, you'll be left chasing after him, and horses like that game a lot. Good luck!
Yes Lily needs to be assertive with her voice. She need to be consistent and show no anxiety. He will pick up on either her conference or anxiety. Lily you have a great horse and you're doing an awesome❤job.😊
Please look into getting a custom saddle. There are so many companies and saddle fitters that can help you. It’s so important that you have a saddle that fits well, not only for Lily but for the integrity of your horse in the long run as well. CWD has amazing custom or partial custom saddle options.
That is such an absolutely beautiful horse. I hope Lilly can be the leader and feel comfortable taking care of him. 🙏🏼🌞☺️❤️
You are going to be an amazing horsewoman! God bless you Miss Lily and Peaches!🥰🐎
here's a suggestion: Have the horse instruction off camera for a few months -- like 6, to allow your daughter and the rest of the family privacy to establish relationship with the horse and to decide what your rules are. I'm picking up some need to perform for the camera, which is completely understandable -- there's always someone unknown watching -- which is not helpful when establishing a relationship. Especially when it is going to be a long relationship. Sending you all best wishes during this time of transition.
Cut the grain until she can ride him with no problem. If you want her bucked off, pour the grain to him. Unless a horse is working hard or is in poor body condition, they do NOT need grain. Rodeo stock contractors feed lots of grain to give their stock extra energy, so they really buck.
100% agree!!!! You are the only one that made that comment other than me. Oats will cause a lot of energy in the horse. As in sewing his oats. They need to lay off so many apples too. I sure do hope there is not too much alfalfa in that pasture also.
Lily needs a safe, enclosed area to ride in, especially with a very forward horse that wants to go - sooner or later, he will probably take off with her. Especially in the cooler weather, all horses are more likely to run. Considering the basic lack of horse knowledge in this family and Lily being so young and basically still inexperienced, you need to seek out safety first. It is great that the trainer is working with them. Everyone starts out ignorant at some point and then the learning takes place. But horses are a flight animal and they are fast and strong, so have to be extra careful.
I've started riding at around 7. Once you start out with a spirited horse Lily will not be satisfied with any other. I Did not catch how old he is, but he has a lot of spirit in him. Myself I would not trust them out together untill they became attached to each other. I never rode English, just western trail rides up until my mid 40's, I lost my mare. She loved me as much as l loved her. I never desired another.
I agree .the trainer needs to tell Lilly exactly what to do if peaches does run away just in case
Horses are SOOOO unprediciable. I would NEVER let her ride without someone around....just in case.
Feel free to reach out in your community. There are retired horse owners who may love to spend a day a week with Lilly and her new horse. It takes some time and trial and error. Good channels on TH-cam as well. Too many arm chair quarterbacks and it gets confusing. Find a horse buddy and do what you do:) Its a journey, not a marathon so enjoy the journey:)
cowgirlsurf - THANK YOU! "Too many arm chair quarterbacks and it gets confusing."
Nice little horse! Lots of time with horse and trainer and Lily will be set! I’ve been a horse lady for 60 years! I love it!
Watching this young lady learning and getting to realize the dreams of her heart, brings back so many good memories from my childhood. I was a horse "crazy" girl living on a farm back in the 80's. I loved Arabian horses and my dad agreed to let an extended family member bring some of the extra horses (Arabians) he had from a boarding stable business to pasture on our place. One year we had 4 mares that foaled in the spring and that was the best summer of my life. I got to handle, and halter break all the foals. Even though there was no riding them that summer I became more confident in being around horses and that confidence translated into me being a much better rider later on. There will be times that it is scary and dangerous, but time put in just handling the horse helps the horse trust human leadership and that makes for a much safer horse. So many character-building opportunities with kids learning to ride and care for horses.
Canter that horse on a lunge line until he doesn't want to go so fast under saddle!! Lots of time on a lunge line will teach Peaches that he has to listen and respect Lilly!! They will form a fast bond and she will grow into an amazing cowgirl!! Horses are the best animals on the homestead 🥰 We have 5!
Oh Lily, I’m living vicariously through you. I’ve told my sweet hubby for 40 years…somewhere there is a horse that needs me. Enjoy darlin!!!!
Blessings, debby
I feel the same way.
The horse is seeing what he can get away with. Still nice to see Lilly get some spotlight. Tell the Gid-Meister to keep whistling (always makes me smile). Leslie is a blessing!
I am also happy to see Lilly finally getting something for herself. I just worry about the horse being with people who don't know anything about them. I remember the sheep, twice. 💔
@@kyfarm there's no question that they have to go through a learning curve. I think with Leslie it's going to make it even better as far as instruction and whatnot.
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@@Josh_James76 I hope so. It would be a total heart breaking tragedy if they allowed this beautiful little guy to get terribly sick or hurt, or, heaven forbid, dead. I had to stop watching this channel awhile back, I only checked in to see Lilly's joy. But when Rebekah said she wanted to have cross ties put up for this gentle little guy, I was out again. She has seen that somewhere and now thinks she has to have it. smh I just hope they don't cross tie him INside his stall. 😢😓😣
Weve had2 nice horses that had never been out of a stable environment. When we took them to our property -farm/ ranch , they were overwhelmed. One had never seen cows and thought they were bears and the other had never been ridden out of an arena. Ask a horse person to come and help her. She is young and needs years more of training and guidance. Go Lily!
Hey Lilly, congrats on your first horse!!! i recued my horse from slaughter a year and a half ago and i can tell you from personal experience its going to take time for peaches to settle into the farm. i can already see the bond forming between you and peaches, your doing amazing! your voice is a very useful tool to use with peaches, it'll help you to relax if your talking but it's also calming to peaches to hear your voice and know that he's ok. welcome to the club girl❤❤
Peaches is a great horse, and you have an awesome trainer! Lily is wise to know that she needs help at first, and I agree, she will eventually be able to be more independent as a rider.
Cool horse trainer. I’m so excited to see Lily grow in confidence. He’s a really good boy ❤
There is nothing better than a girl and her horse at these ages. Lily has a way with determination. She manages it to be successful. She doesn’t complain, she works on a solution. She’s a helper. She’s also a leader. A girl and her horse is always work, when done in love. A bond will be forever made. So glad there is a trainer close by, for the in case ‘ofs’ . This is the perfect time for this girl and her horse. You’ll always be learning , Lily. And that’s the good thing. I’m 73 and still learning. Love and learning is a beautiful thing. Hugs from This old “Mare” in North East Texas.
Thank you Dad😊 ❤ The more confident you are in Lilly, the more confident she will be. Remember girls are different than boys and the boys have each other. Ruff and tuff is how you bond with the "guys". This is that opportunity to bond with your young lady. Good luck to the both of you!! It is a joyous time in life for you both.😇🥰🥳🥳
I love how you have the support system from other people that are in the know. You received excellent information in his training and horse husbandry. She’s a very lucky little girl. And you’re definitely wonderful parents. Everything is a learning curve, that’s just a given throughout our lives. Your daughters confidence will continue to build every day and so will peaches. Thank you for sharing with us. Blessings to the family.🙏♥️
Good job, Lily, speaking up for yourself, you are right you will eventually be comfortable with your horse, it takes a moment! What a nice horse trainer, she is so kind and the horse can sense it. I think Justin Peaches is a wonderful addition to the Rhodes family!!!
Justin, Lilly's not the only smiling!! I'm ear to ear right now for her!! Its so silly, but I've never been so incredibly happy for a "stranger", than I am for Lilly!! I think about and feel gratitude for her all day after watching her!! Sweet girl!!! She seems so deserving!!
Just to encourage you….I watched the arrival of Peaches and I was holding my breath with the new place, all the activity of new people crowding around her, stuff she’s never seen, stuff she’s never heard, (immediate rooster crow unsettled her) new stall and she never spooked. Lily lead her and Peaches was great - this adjustment time is actually revealing you got a great horse with sense. She’s so gentle with Lily….she will settle in beautifully. It takes time - Lily is doing such a great job! Hang in there.💕
Peaches is a gelding and his name is Just Peachy, barn name was Justin. Lily wants to call him Peaches. 😄
@@jeannelandree3148 cool! Thanks…a gelding is even better!
I like Lily's name plate of "Peaches" on his stall door. He's a pretty horse! I knew a neighbor that had a gelding horse die from a change in weather because he twisted his bowel and died of colic. So sad. We kept walking him but it didn't untwist and the Vet was busy. Pigs thinking yum rotting pumpkins! I'm so glad to see a bunch of progress on the remodel. Water lines, drains, and HVAC ductwork! This was fun to watch Leslie walk through how to manage the horse. Nice lunging! It is a big step to take on a horse and learn all about the care of him. I sure hope Lily doesn't tire of him anytime soon! That looks like a horse to me. I helped with pony rides at the zoo when I was little and our ponies were small and differently shaped. That looks nice, the designer's view of your remodeled house. Lunch looked good! Thanks for this video Rhodes family!
PLEASE!!! Do NOT let your little children wander around - especially in back of Peaches. Horses are prey animals, and need 360 degree vantage point to see in order to feel safe. These are not play toys!!!! They are extremely powerful animals who need lots of exercise and leadership. They need leadership boundaries. Please check out Ryan Rose Horsemanship and Steve Young Horsemanship.
All of it is just a learning experience for her. Shes gonna struggle, she’s gonna even fail from time to time. Working with horses can be the most amazing fulfilling experience but also the most challenging. It’s the struggles that bring you to tears that teach you the most. I have some horse experience and my daughter rode and jumped for almost three years before the pandemic got in the way. There were days where she just wanted to quit and scream and cry, then she came out on the other side better for it and more experienced.
It is good that Lily does not overestimate her abilities. She is conservative with her own expectations not fully knowing her horse yet... a wise attribute for a young girl. Best wishes with her disciplines and your new addition!
I know just how Lillie feels. I fell in love with a horse for the first time the summer I turned 12. I had ridden a bit before, but I was crazy about a horse for the first time that summer while away at summer camp. It was a solid white gelding, and everybody loved him. Her horse is gorgeous Mom and Dad, you made her dream come true!
I think the lady you have found (Lesley I think you called her) is perfect - Lily needs the lessons/confidence/mentor/knowledge etc etc that this lady has this - once Lily is ready to ride on the road please get her a hi vis jacket to wear and get one of her older brothers to ride a push bike along side her while she gets her confidence - Justin you have mentors in many parts of your homesteading life - Rebecka you have Justin and your parents to talk to with their knowledge, Look at the time you are spending with your father while renovating the farmhouse - we all have to start somewhere and in our lives we just keep on learning
Has Lily ever been trained with lunging horses before riding? I find it sort of gets the ‘beans’ out of them a bit so they’re not so full of energy and also they are more aware of who their alpha is before a ride so to speak. I thought this might work since a lunging rope isn’t very costly and doesn’t require much space? Just a thought…..Love that little horse gal! Xo
My 4-H leader told me when I got my first horse. You’ll learn more about horsemanship on the ground than you ever will on will on his back. Talk walks with him, brush him, take a book and read while he eats. Just spend some time with him being quiet. You’ll never regret it. But most importantly enjoy him. ❤❤
I agree with you, Justin on the horse blanket controversy. We live in northern Michigan and have a cozy barn at night if needed. Peaches is young and healthy, too. I might use one if she were old and frail.
He looks like a really sweet horse. I've trained collies for 35 years and I LOVE when they have a little spirit!! When they'll test me every so often without being overly pushy. You guys are doing the right thing by having a trainer come by maybe even every few days until you get comfortable.
When you have a spirited animal, you're not animal and owner, you're a working team. They look really sharp together. Keep training :D
I’m so happy for Lilly and her first horse. I got my first horse at the age of 12 and he was the best horse of all the ones I had throughout my life (I’m 66 now). We lived in the city but rented a pasture outside the city limits so I was only able to ride on weekends and holidays but I would stay with him all day long when I could. He was a 15 hand beautiful Appaloosa named Chief Holy Smoke and it was said he came from a reservation but I really couldn’t be sure about that tale. I could ride him without a saddle or reins just by leg movements and my voice. Also I couldn’t sit a soda down near him or he would pick it up with his mouth, drink the whole drink then sit the bottle back where he picked it up. Hang in there Lilly you are going to love being a horse mom.
I was so happy to see today's video with Lilly and her hor, Peaches.. You are doing the right thing by having a trainer walk her through the things she needs help with. In the beginning, it is especially important that both you and your wife be there to learn as Lilly learns. That way, you will all understand the importance of each thing that relates to Peaches and his care and training.
Lilly, when I was growing up, my horse dreams were in books, occasional horseback rides, Explorer Post with horses and cleaning barn stalls as a summer job. You go girl
Becky you have to be brave or you’ll transfer your fear to Lily. Be confident and she will too. He’s so well trained and kind he’s not a spooky one. 😍😍
Please listen to the people that suggest things. Definitely find a mentor or problems will compound. Don't want Lily to get injured. This horse is really to much for her. The seller should have seen that. I knew from her trial ride.
I feel she may be too young for this. Kinda worried.
I saw the part of your video about the wood walls in the basement area. Old barn wood can sometimes get powder puff Beatles. They can destroy your house worse than termites. They bore tiny pin holes and leave fine sawdust. They are very hard to get rid of and very expensive to get rid of. You may not have this problem but because of all the wood work you have. You need to check for it. Good luck on your build God bless you all.
The wind will mess with how horses act. Just keep loving on him, and try riding him when the weather is better. Nice little horse, congratulations Lilly!
For a horse to be so chill on day three like this is pretty good, he will be fine. My parents are not horse people and when they got me my first horse it was pretty stressful for everyone involved. It’s definitely made better when you have easy access to experienced horse people to help answer all the questions. I was fortunate to have a neighbour who really helped when things got sticky.
I’ve now been owning horses for about 15-18 years and it can be very rewarding.
Welcome to the world of horse ownership Lily, you are in for some amazing experiences. My advice, always wear a helmet when riding no matter how chill the horse appears to be, when in doubt lunge your pony before riding, and never be afraid to ask any and all questions of people you trust to provide good advice.
Also....feed less oats. Oats make them hyper. Also, if you are going to walk a horse or ride it on the road it needs horse shoes.
@@5GreenAcres - I am pretty certain that Peaches has shoes on. It definitely sounded like it when she walked him on the hard top road.
@@BarbaraJCH That is the normal sound of a horse on hard pavement. I doubt very much the horse has shoes.
@@5GreenAcres - I knew I heard shoes when that horse was walking on the road. So I went back in and watched that part of the video again. I distinctly heard the metal sound of horseshoes as Lilly was walking Peaches on the hardtop road. I enlarged the video to full screen and kept stopping the video as Peaches was walking. Sure enough, I found it. Peaches has shoes on the front feet and is barefoot on the hind end. So, we were both correct...at least partially. I have owned horses off and on since I was 14 years old. I had my last horses put down last year when I was 78 years old. I have enough experience to know the sound of horseshoes on the pavement. It is very common to shoe the front hooves only. Shoes are necessary in specific situations; if she isn't riding on the road but uses the road to get to the riding area, I doubt that shoes would be needed. However, if she rides a lot and is riding on rocky trails, shoes with pads might be a good idea to protect Peache's feet from stone bruises.
@@BarbaraJCH Much respect Barbara. Thank you so much for your research. I was also a horse owner and am almost 66. It is nice when people take time to look into things and then if they are wrong will admit it. I would say in this case, you were more correct than me because I didn't think Peaches had any shoes. But then again, I never had any of my horses shod. They were trail and arena horses only.
Yes it is a steep learning curve and her answer was spot on "right now, no, but eventually" That is positive and realistic and listen and apply all the good advice you get. I think it's a little harder since none of you are horse-experienced, but it will happen. I also like that he is so lively, nothing more boring than a lazy listless horse
Justin with Lily make me miss my dad so much. I love seeing dad and daughter together ❤
WOOD WORM … I presume that’s what’s in your wood. Personally I would replace as much as I could as it can spread, although it’s more common in wood with moisture … old unheated houses, old barns etc, but the damage they do is scary. Huge issue in countries like England. We deal with it here in Nova Scotia, Canada too. There are treatments available. P.S. Lily seems a natural! 🇨🇦
A horse knows when your afraid.so that makes him afraid.
When I got my first horse I felt the same way. Then 6-8 months later once I learned his personality and we learned how to communicate better. Take your time horse and rider will eventually become one.
Every time I see Randolph, I am filled with Joy! :) He is an absolute gem. My daughter and I got to take horsemanship class for a few months, and we never even rode the horses because the whole time we were building relationship with the animal and showing that we were the leader. Creating that relationship is so important and I know Lily is going to do that wonderfully! She has truly come alive since getting Peaches! :) You all are doing GREAT!
Lilly is really strong and brave and determined.
First, ya'll are doing so good. It's obvious that you care and are trying your best on the steep learning curve. I can't tell you all the things i wish i had done differently with my first horse, and naturally there will be some of those things for you also; that's just how it goes, and I imagine living this journey out online adds a layer of stress that i cannot imagine. But i just want you to know from one horse owner to another, you are on a good path. Keep on with it. You will be just fine.
You guys are doing great. You’re trainer is great. Just keep listening to her. Lily is already a good equestrian. She’ll do fine. 😊
Another idea is to set up a portable round pen for them. Let Lilly exercise him in the pen for a while and then cool him off outside of the pen walking around the property. Gives him the opportunity to safely blow off some energy prior to a casual excursion around the farm.
Having had many years with horses I can say that you all are doing a lot right! Hang in there and just keep learning. Absolutely the best resource for horse handling that I have ever seen is Steve Young Horsemanship on TH-cam. If Lily can learn from him, she will be an excellent horse handler!
Agree Steve Young is very good, his videos are excellent learning tools. He says to not feed horse from your hand, it gives idea you can be taken advantage of. Put treat in bucket, and he can have it from ground when you say it's ok to.
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Ya'll got a great horse, Lily and Peaches will be best friends. My older cousin grew up a horse girl, and became the first female blacksmith at Calder race track in 70's. The trainer lady is great too.
You’re never gonna stop learning lily, give yourself time and some grace, the more time that you spend with peaches the more you both learn, hang in there
I love when she's talking, such a lovley story teller.❤❤❤
I loved your answer lily. Yes you'll be able to ride by yourself eventually. Hopefully you continue with your riding lessons and take peaches with you.
I can relate to this video so much, I had a Palomino gelding at Age 16. Wise words from your trainer. Love to everyone from me. 🦘🇦🇺
These are early days. You can’t expect Peaches to get use to everything all at once and Lily has to learn to be the boss. She’s very timid around him because she hasn’t learned him yet. Once they get to know each other and Lily gains more confidence in her commands and he learns what she expects from him they will do very well. He’s use to a routine. Find out from the lady you got him from what that routine was and then give Lily time each day to continue that routine. Yes the boys might need to fill in for Lily on the chores but then look at all the times Lily filled in for them when they were sick, or injured, or had appointments, etc. You also need to find out if he will stand if for some reason Lily falls off or does he run off. My take is that he will stand, but that’s what Lily needs to find out. She can just slide off and fall to the ground. See what he does. My horses were trained to stop and stand until we picked ourselves up and got back on them. Of course they would give us a look that said, “well dummy don’t just sit there getting up and let’s get going!”
Working peaches in a round pen will give Lilly more control. There is no corners for him to run to so he will have to work circles and listen to her. Mom and dad both need to learn to work peaches too. It’s also important to know that horses will react to your energy. Try to be calm but still assertive. If you’re nervous and anxious he’s going to be the same way. Our horses were mean to the cows so definitely keep close eye on that.
😊I'm happy for Lily. Looks like a great horse.Y'all are going to be fine. Patience & lots of time with the horse and patience with yourselves. I got my first horse when I was 9. (55 yrs ago.)My parents knew nothing about horses & I knew nothing. A neighbor gave her to me and taught me some basics. I grew up on a homestead like yours minus the sheep. We raised all our own meat which included meat rabbits. We were used to beef cattle. Put the horse right in with the cattle but we did Not have a bull. I would let them get used to each other is my feeling, then they will do really well together. A horse is good to have with cows, when you get a bunch of snow, the horse will paw away the snow to get to the grass & then the cows will be able to get to grass underneath also.
I really love these longer form videos. I know content wise you can’t always make that happen, but I just wanted to say I love it when you do. 😊
Well done all of the family, Many moons ago, I was the only animal mad person in my family My parents supported my passion even if they did not know what was going on. It was me that got dogs and cats in the house( thank Mum) it was me that had rabbits and birds out side( thanks Dad) and that gave me confidence to handle larger animeals sheep pigs and goats but my real passion is horses If I had not had that support from my parents My dream of equines would never have come true So thank you Justin and Rebecca for supporting Lily
So happy for your family and your big new pet. ❤ I think you have to resign to the fact that people do get stepped on and there are bumps and bruises when owning horses, but keeping safety rules as hard lines that you won’t compromise on will prevent many accidents that are the horseman’s fault and not the horses fault. Congrats Lilly! You are going to be an awesome horse owner!
What a gorgeous and very calm little horse you’ve got there……great for a first time owner. We kept little Dartmoor ponies for our kids here in the UK and they were really really clever and naughty! Just think “ Thelwell!” Lily is so good with him, she’s right to be cautious, we kept ours with sheep, the sheep clean up the pasture a bit I think. One reason for putting a horse rug on him is so that he keeps clean enough to be ridden in the winter months. You can’t put a saddle on a wet muddy horse or you may get sores. We did give ours an open shelter that they could use in the winter . If you do put a blanket ( rug) on him you also have to be very careful that the cattle don’t chew it and that it doesn’t get caught up in any fencing or gates. Enjoy Lily, you are doing a fantastic job. It would be lovely for Lily to find other kids her age who have or love horses as they are more fun together.
Lunge line and ground work before each ride. In the winter, horses are full of spice. Lunging pre-rides removes some of that. Keep at it. Adjustment all around.
Another disaster waiting to happen .if your that worried why get her a pony so soon ,been better to wait a few more years and alof of lessons ,a place that teaches how to look after it and tacking awell as riding
Hey Lilly! here's some very friendly advice and options to ask your trainer about, one option is lunging before riding on energetic days and replacing riding once a week, this will help him blow off any steam. Also advice aimed at parents! some horses actually benefit from more forage based feeds then just grain (beet pulp, alfalfa etc) sometimes the high energy grains aren't great! Lily you're doing incredible telling you as a long time horse person there's gonna e days that are tough and he's too strong or not listening it happens. Also look into positive reinforcement on youtube! this different training style will really help your bond!!
Just think of all the things you've done this year! It's mind blowing🎉what a team😊
How exciting. I so happy for you Lily finally having a pony to love on and make many memories.
I note lots of tips for you. It’s wonderful you have a mentor to keep an eye on things and to help you and your parents with any concerns.
It would be wonderful to make friends with neighbours who have ponies to share stories and go on trail rides with. Be considerate of your mom though. Always tell her where you’re going and call if you’re changing your planned journey.
Peaches seems to have a sweet nature to match yours. I wish you all the happiness in the world with Peaches.
My tip for what it’s worth.. keep Peaches off oats. Even a handful until you get used to each other. 👍🏻
I enjoy you talking with your kids. You don't talk at them or to them you get information from them as to what they think or feel, how they are doing or if something is bothering them. The great thing is they listen & respond to you so you have really & truly communicated with them. Great job parenting!
I would fence a separate area for your horse. In addition to constant fresh water, be sure to include a run-in for your horse. Face the opening to the southeast. A run-in provides him an area to go into when the weather turns. Sharp winds, heavy rains, or hot sun are sone examples of when your horse may look for shelter.
Justin could build another pig port type structure enclosed on three sides
So awesome Lily!!! Happy for you girl!!❤
Maybe giving too many oats without working off that energy first kinda like giving the kids a bunch of sugar, I’m sure you’ll get lots of advice, but I’d cut back the treats and get a lunge line or build a round pen and work that energy off before she gets on him. If he’s not working he really doesn’t need extra feed besides hay, also not a hot alfalfa hay but a good mix of Timothy
I bought a horse and mule from a sale barn about 15 years ago.
I have never put any type of horse blanket on those animals and every winter they get so fluffy with their winter coat.
They have a barn they can go into if the weather gets too bad.
As usual, amazing channel!
We live in Wi. it gets -30 most often you don't see blankets on horses.
@@TRuth.T it’s crazy how animals can adapt.
Made me happy to see Lily have a good ride & her smiling! 💖