Between Filipino mom who remarried in South Korea and Filipino+Korean siblings who were born in here
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 มิ.ย. 2023
- A Filipino boy to meet his mother after 17 years when she went to earn money. Filipino mom remarried in South Korea and had four younger siblings. Now, the first son is settling down in Korea with his mom, and the path to being a good brother and a good son is a strange one, but it's worth it.
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i was hoping there is more episode ☺️❤- greetings from Pinoy in Switzerland.
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How is he and his family lately? Hope for more updates. Thanks and fighting!
Prioritizing his fathers condition and helping out his siblings first before going to college is very filipino culture, we always look out with our family first and making sure that they're okay before ourselves,
That's mostly because there is no other choice if you are born into poverty
Not really very Filipino culture. Most Asian cultures also have that way of thinking which becomes unhealthy when people normalize it.
@@thesolitarymage5995 I was just thinking about this! I'm so worried the eldest son might become one of those people that family members can depend on "too much." He might not have a life of his own if he's constantly putting his family first. And it will became his identity and self worth to putting others first before him.
which is also a toxic culture
It's so sad. Seems like the mom finally brought her eldest son to Korea because her husband was getting old and sick and wasn't able to do the farm job, so they needed a helping hand of somebody older than her younger kids. Younger siblings seem to be very distant from mother's side of the family. I hope that Earl John will succeed in the future and didn't end up being a Cinderella brother working hard to make youngsters be able to go to college. From what I read form the comments, it appears to be very Filipino thing to do.
I hope he doesn't become the cinderella brother! 😣 On surface level it all sounds nice and lovely but, it's actually toxic depending too much on one family member and making him/her the "responsible" sibling.
Exactly what I thought
I really feel sad that it seems like the mom brought her son to Korea because the adults in the family are getting old. I’m Filipino and this is one of our toxic traits, most (usually in poorer households) of the time Filipino parents see their kids as investments that would pull them out of poverty. I wish the best for Earl John, he really deserves success.
Maybe she wanted to but couldn't bring him until her husband grew frail and needed help. It looks kind of like the eldest is working more than his fair share, but he's an adult and decided opportunities are better in Korea. I hope he becomes a very successful electrical engineer. His mom will be so proud of him too.
This is what i believe- his mom left him and remarried another man from korea and had kids. And one day the mom decided to bring back her long lost son(whom she finally remembered she even birthed) to live with her which seems fishy to me since her korean hubby is getting old and none to help with the chores and farm and the siblings looks spoilt as well(ofc none will show it on camera). I feel sorry for john, he's such an innocent,loving and a caring son and a brother. I just hope that he will end up doing things he love and keep himself first above all.
The eldest Filipino son seems like a hard worker and I hope his siblings can help him out. Don't get me wrong, I know there is a cultural difference but I think it's fair to distribute the work
Don't worry bout that we are used of hard work from early on..👌🦾
@@Umpris .... are all ahhgliees
@@Umpris pilipin are ugly
But you know what’s the sad reality about this, his siblings doesn’t genuinely care about helping nor wants to open up for them to get closer. I’ve seen a lot of clips when filipinos are married to korean and I can’t help but notice koreans looks down on them and it feels like they only do the works. Sigh I hope in the future they can really accept them.
@@EkIst3n i hate peenoise so much even i look down on them
I'm kind of sad that the mom didn't teach or speak to her younger children in Filipino. That's kind of one of the advantages of being in a multi-cultural household is to be able to share both cultures.
Because the mom speaks different dialect not the usual Filipino or Tagalog. She speaks Bisaya, a dialect from southern Philippines.
@@mark72141 I mean, she can still teach them even if it’s in a dialect. Plus there was a snippet of her speaking Tagalog. It’s a great opportunity to teach them now while they’re still young.
or she couldve taught them more english. Filipinos are fluent and they couldve really benefited from being fluent too.
@@abbasturd I wish she did but she did not. I hope she's not ashamed of Filipino language.
@@jaqui1401 English is nice, too. It’ll definitely be a lot more helpful in the future. But, I know a lot of Filipino friends who wish they were able to speak in Tagalog at least but can’t. There’s a satisfaction, for me at least, to be able to know those two sides of your family. It’s just sad because I’ve heard of many Filipino stories of them having to conform to their SO’s culture but not much their own.
I honestly don’t admire her mother. Her mother married and left him to his grandparents and started her own life with new family. And she only petitioned him once he grew older and capable enough to help them in Korea.
same. she's exploiting her son and didn't really give him his best life, only to have him as another person to help her around with her other children and farmwork.
same thoughts😢
Earl Jhon's aura is so calming. He is so wholesome and kind. I really hope he's living his best life right now. So much patience from him. Imagine speaking 4 languages! (Bisaya, Tagalog, English, and Korean) That's a lot of adjustment and patience. You are very inspiring. I wish you and your family the best 💖
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@@tusheyy6033 why plague a cat with such questions?! but if you really want to know, all kinds of bread i enjoy.
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@@tusheyy6033 what do you mean? I have a fine palate for liking bread other than fish!
@@iamacatwholovesbread indeed that makes you one!
respect to him for being a good son and sibling but it rubs me the wrong way that his mom basically abandoned him and started a new family and he ends up being the one wanting to provide for the family she created... im filo, i get that this is the norm, being abandoned by a parent while they work oversea but in his case it wasnt so they can live a better life. i know family is everthing in our culture but its also irresponsible to have kids you cannot provide for and to have more kids while you already have a child waiting for you. Seriously majority of his life he was raised by his grandma so she cant take any credit for how good of a son he is.
Facts! I cringed at the part where she said her son took after her and the host said it sounds like she's tooting her own horn lol!
thats a fact about FILIPINO.
@@klaudinegarcia8932fr me too. I’m glad the host called her out.
They should establish clear boundaries. They can't put all the pressure on the eldest son to parentify his siblings and even his parents and do all the work and just attend school so he can help them. There is a chance that he will become a people-pleaser or self-neglect because he has to prioritize other needs before recognizing his own. His siblings are too spoiled and only care about make-up and computer games. I understand that they are teenagers but they don't seem to care. It's a bit unfair that it seems that the eldest brother does all the work; I hope they distribute the household chores at least equally. It seems that his siblings are too spoiled and do not help much with household chores. The eldest son carries all the pressure and responsibilities, and it will really have an impact in his adult years. There is nothing wrong with helping his family, but at such a young age, it is also important to let him live his life. The mother abandoned her son to go abroad and marry for almost 17 years. He was raised by his grandmother, and then her mother took him again because his husband was getting older so that he could help on the farm and look after his siblings. There is no doubt that he is a good son, but I don't think the mother is fair. The son is too kind for them. The mother should be the one to glue the different cultures together. The son should not be the only one to make an effort. There are some parents who do not care about the wellbeing of their children, especially those who are responsible, because they think they can live without their help. It was normal for them to abandon the child because they think the responsible child will understand it, but they don't understand that childhood years have a great impact on the child's adult years. I've seen a lot of adult children who are battling mental health issues such as depression, PTSD, and so on. Some reasons are because of immature, unavailable, and avoidant parents, or parentification, being pressured to do the adult responsibility, or be a primary caregiver of the whole family or sometimes it's the environment. Establishing boundaries forms healthy relationships because it recognizes the importance of one's needs and life. It validates that a person's feelings are validated and that person is being loved or cared for.
She doesn’t look like a responsible person, leaving her own baby at 5yrs old, and birthing 5 more when they are not even rich
I don't want to judge their mum but to me it looks like she abandoned her son...she didn't go to another country to earn a living but to experience a better life. At the age of about 25-30, she met a man over 20 years older, went with him to Korea, gave birth to three children, abandoning her 5-year-old son, now, after 17 years, she 'kindly' brought him back to her
Totally agree
Agree.......
She kindly brought it close to her because her husband is now very old and can no longer work and look after the family, so she remembered that she had her first born back in the Philippines. How convenient. If I were Earl Jhon, I would have told her to shove it.
@@honeststraightforward1485 😢😢 maybe their life in korea is still better than in Philippines so it still better for the son to go to korea than to stay in Philippines
@@maryrose2757i doubt that
I feel so bad for this kid to have lived alone all that time while his mother started a new family. I don’t understand how she could have more kids and leave her oldest son on Philippines. He is a good kid and I pray his life gets easier and he is happy. He needs to take care of his education first then worry about the others.
In her defense many single moms are practically forced to leave their children behind to work in foreign countries. The difference in the monetary exchange value allows them to support their families. It's a big sacrifice but never an uncommon one.
@@anonymousprivet1227 I understand that I have had friends that have had that happen to them. My point is why did she have more kids while he was stuck away from her. I would not have had more kids till I was able to bring him to be with me.
I agree with you in part but we do not know if her husband was keen with him living with them. Maybe, due to his grandpa not being present, he stayed so that his grandma would not be alone. He is definitely used as a gap filler either way.
@@anonymousprivet1227 I have so much respect for him and he is so polite and hard working. i wish him the very best
I hope he realizes that he doesn't have to be a servant to his mom and siblings just to show his gratitude. His siblings behaved for the camera but I see they are spoiled. His mom is going to pour a lot on him. Bless his poor soul. I want to bring him here so bad.
John embodies all the first Filipino born in the fam matched with his good personality and dedication to be a big help to his family and good brother to his siblings 🙏
We can see how loving this older brother is towards all his siblings. The youngest brother seems close to him.
May he get all the love he deserves and reach heights...Wishing Earl all the success and happiness ❤
Love from India
Right, so lovely big bro ! 😍😭😍
Although I find it admirable that he wants to help his family, I hope he doesn't lose his own dream or any individual dream that he wants to achieve. I understand that this is part of most Asian cultures that sometimes disregarding your own path is rebuilding someone else's path, and I hope that we don't need to sacrifice our own dreams all the time so we can build one for others. I hope his siblings and family appreciate his hard work. He seems like the type of person who will do anything for his family and really cares for them, and the type who will put himself and his priorities last so he can help. I hope he achieves his dreams
It's sad that he ended up in a different country but is still living the poor Filipino eldest sibling life of sacrificing for your younger siblings.
@@j134679 It's a common Asian culture, I guess, that becomes normalized even when it becomes unhealthy. There is nothing wrong with helping his family or siblings, but it's important not to neglect and meet your needs, such as self-care, prioritizing your mental welfare, your personal growth, what makes you happy or fulfilled, and so on. A lot of eldest children parentify their parents and siblings, or they take over the role of a parent, and they forget that they are children as well, and once they become adults, it will affect them. The outcome of the impact depends on the person's upbringing and how he or she was treated in his or her home. There is a chance of self-abandonment or self-neglect when the person needs to put others before himself, which becomes an unhealthy habit and makes them forget that they also have a life to live. As the adult child becomes older, the impact will be on her or his self-esteem. For example, when that person is used to being the primary caregiver of the family and is no longer needed, that person might feel that he or she is no longer valuable. The relationship becomes conditional between his or her loved ones, and his or her worth is based only on what he or she can give or sacrifice. To be clear, there is nothing wrong with helping your family, and that is something to be proud of, but it's important to recognize that you don't need to carry everything as you also need other help and that you also have personal dreams to pursue and the life you want to live. So it's important to recognize balance and equality
@@Frodoooows
@@Frodoooows Everything you said here is true! My Mom was exactly like Earl Jhon when she was younger! My Mom doesn't know how to prioritize her mental health and her own needs. And because she doesn't know how to attend to her own needs it also means I don't know how to attend to my own needs too. The word to describe people like my Mom is "The Rescuer Complex" or like they have "Saviour Syndrome". I didn't have that much responsibilities like my Mom did when she was younger or like Earl Jhon does. But I learned in therapy I still fit that Rescuer Complex type because I'm imitating my Mom because that's what she modelled for me. I'm attending therapy now and I'm currently learning how to care for my own needs and mental health and break that Saviour syndrome.
@@klaudinegarcia8932 Sorry to hear that. I think most cultures have different generational traumas and cycles that they carry and pass on to their children, and it's really important to break the cycle. It's good to hear that you are doing therapy because I personally think that it's best to heal first. A lot of parents were wounded by their previous generation, were not able to heal from it, and passed it on to their children. A child cannot be the primary caregiver or parentify his or her entire family, as it will really affect his or her wellbeing as that person grows older, no matter how much he or she cares for or loves his or her family. That is the importance of recognizing boundaries. Love or caring for someone should not be conditional because I think one of the reasons that influence savior syndrome is that when a person views himself/herself worth based on what she or he can give and it leads to neglect or self-abandonement. Having a relationship with your loved ones should not be conditional and should not hinder your growth as a person. There is nothing wrong with helping your family, but there should be clear boundaries to protect the relationship, and communication is an important part of it. Childhood traumas, self-neglect and so on are among the impacts why a person tends to rescue that she/he needs to save everyone even if it becomes unhealthy. It's important to recognize your first needs and meet your unmet needs. It might be a hard road to break on that cycle, but you also do that to protect the people around you and yourself as well. You should not lose yourself in the process. Anyway, you are doing well, and you don't need to feel like you need to rescue everyone. You are at your own ace, you are valuable as you value your loved ones. You are the cycle breaker and there is nothing wrong to heal and prioritize your mental health because you learn to value yourself as well
Filipinos are probably some of the nicest people in the world. They also helped Korea tremendously during the war. Im Korean American and the Filipino customers and neighbors here have always given my family delicious, homemade treats throughout our time living and doing business in the US.
They choose who to be nice to just like Koreans
That is not true
@mattdreamer
Putang ina bisaya pa hahaha
@@Timholle I wouldn't be surprised if people choose not to be nice to you either.....just saying.
What a hard working kid! I hope he has a wonderful and successful future
Earl John is a smart kid. Takes a lot of emotional maturity to thrive in a dorm and get along well with fellow students. He’s a really good kid, who cares for his family.
Anyway, even though I appreciate the grandma trying to discipline these kids, I hope she also get with times. It’s 2023, what she thinks work in her time and back in her province may not work for the kids of today.
Good luck, Earl John!
I disagree with the grandma disciplining comment. She raised Earl John and, as you stated, he’s a good kid. His grandma also disciplining his siblings should also make them good kids.
One thing I noticed is that men who are raised by grandmas (maybe not all but some) are soo kind and hardworking 😢 just like my brother.
Agree ❤
엘존 넘 착하다 ㅠㅠㅠ 한국말 힘들어도 어리고 가족이 있으니까 금방 늘거야. 지금은 동생들이 어색해도 나이 조금만 먹으면 니가 먼저 다가간거 고마워 할거야.
WHEN HE BOUGHT HIS SISTERS MAKE UP IT WAS LITERALLY SO CUTE I WAS SMILING THE WHOLE TIME TOO. HIS FRIENDS ARE SO SWEET I CAN'T UGH MY HEART😭💜💜
Earl John is such an extraordinary kid and he deserve all the best in life. However, his mother should have brought him to Korea at a very young age, and not awaiting for the husband to get that old because it's not fair on Earl John. To my pov is not fair that Earl John should step in and take care of his extensive family at a such young age.That's the parent's job and not the children. Such a bright young man has to put his life and his dreams on hold to look after the entire family. Not at this stage and age anyway. And on the European continent, we also clean our years every days when we bath or shower. God bless this amazing yong man. I don't think I could do it.
i just accidentally watched this show and i did not expect the story of Earl John, im so proud of him as a filipino huhu fighting Kuya!! hope he’s living the best life now🫶🏻💓
how mean for that lady to say that the dorm is nicer than his home! its not right! the lady needs to gave some manners! and b6 the way, for someone like him who lives in korea for only 3 yrs? and yet can speak like this already? he must be smart! i bet smarter than that lady lol
He's such a good big brother and a wonderful son. I hope he continues to get more comfortable with his siblings and mom.
This older brother reminds me of my older brother. Hes also very caring and kind. ❤️ I wish all kind older brothers best of luck in their future
love how earl jhon speaks so calmly. Normally, when you speak bisaya (local Filipino language) you'd sound harsher and aggressive, it's kinda like the German of Filipino languages hahah but he really has a gentle tone and he even sounds even gentler when he speaks in Korean. Hope the mom teaches their children bisaya though, they're still young they can still absorb the language easily.
What part of the Visayan region speak bisaya with a German intonation? My Filipina Lola speaks bisaya and sounds exactly like Earl John. I've been to Capiz, Cebu, Davao and Bacolod countless of times. They are very soft spoken and "malambing" unlike those who are from the North. I'm part German too and Bisaya definitely doesn't sound like German, far from it lol
@@Moss_piglets some visayans and mindanaoans speaks thick accents like they are mad. Try visiting the local market or where the locals frequent that has elders in it then you will know. You will notice some of them speak like they are mad or when they are story telling about their experiences while drinking or just in a mood to tell. I have been in all parts of the Philippines because of my work and you can hear them speak like they are angry but it is their normal voice/tone. Also i kinda disagree about his description that bisaya is like a german in Filipino dialects since it is just dumb or should i say stereotypes like how they would describe russians language when they converse.
@@Moss_piglets it's really not about the intonation it's more like of how bisaya people speak. As the previous commentor said it's the heavy accent the sounds mad and also how people usually speak, if you've spoken to locals and been to provinces (like those really far from the city) you can see the difference on how it sounds harsher.
@@kennlegacy337 oof didn't mean to stereotype the german language, it's just that I couldn't really find something similar to describe it that most people could easily understand ;;
@@yonyangie it's okay , i know you didn't mean it. It's just difficult to find a comparison on how the bisaya dialect could sound mad in other languages. But yeah they do sound like that and most of the soft-spoken were those who live in the cities.
His grandmom raised him well, i am an ofw and im away from my son since he was 9 yrs old, im so thankful that my son grew up a great kid like him, hopefully he will live a successful life in korea
Earl is such a solid and warm guy!!! 🇵🇭 I hope he gets the support he needs from his fam to be able to go to college as he deserves it ♥️
Korean government should give more help to these young ones. Since Korea is a super-aging society, these young ones are a good workforce in the future.
This show does a great job conveying the goodness in people's hearts and how hard they work towards a better life. This is the first time I see someone on this show that I can't feel any sympathy for. The mother leaves her 4 month old baby so that she can earn money in SK. Earl's grandmother has to work and raise him, and the poor kid didn't even have anyone to go to his graduations. His mother goes on to have FOUR MORE costly kids instead of sending money to her family so that her elderly mother doesn't have to work to raise her own child. Or at least a plane ticket for him to visit her in SK to get to know his siblings and his mother better. His siblings treat him like a stranger which is heartbreaking to see. He's 22 and now playing catchup with education, but the poor kid can't pursue his dream of going to uni because he has to make money for his 4 siblings. Every scene with his mother she shows zero remorse and is quick to praise herself. She doesn't even go to help Earl with checking into his dorms. No wonder he prefers being there, because they show him way more love than what his mother does. I wish the best for Earl and I hope he realises that he isn't responsible for his mother's toxic shortcomings.
Earl John was raised well by his grandma. He’s kind, thoughtful, generous, and a leader. I wish him the best. Follow up please.
He talks in korean but his accent still sounds tagalog. I love it! ❤
This is so touching 🥺 He is a very good brother , I pray he gets what he is praying in the future he genuinely deserves it!! 😩❤️
His Korean friends and classmates are very nice and helpful . I think Korean people in general are nice pe0ple . ❤
This is a touching story. I admire this family a lot, especially since they are Bisaya. Much support Kuya Earl and family!
what a very loving son and brother
I still don't think an eldest child should carry the responsibility of raising their siblings and lay back their opportunity to education. Children should also be responsible of their education even if their parents aren't able to provide. Not always asking the breadweaner. Everyone in the family should help and be responsible. Rizal told us that poverty is not a hindrance to success. Though many may not have my thoughts, I still think that if he went to college and graduates he can help more with his siblings in the future if that's what he wants.
I think thats how the hosts felt too i can tell it on their face😢 fortunately he is hardworking
I've only watched until 4 minutes. I can't continue watching. I feel very sad for Earl John😢😞
He is a really good kid and was raised right. I hope he is doing all these because he wants to and not because his mother told him to.
I’m Filipino and it’s culture that you have to help your sibling and your family when u get a job
as sweet and nice as it is it can be toxic as some Filipinos look at their kids like Trust fund walking wallets and expect their kids to give back because they birthed them like they had a choice. He may be young and simple minded right now but he doesn’t understand the responsibilities of earning for a family of 10+ and feeling like your missing on your own life or freedom.
Maayo kay sya nga pagka kuya. The way he thinks abt his siblings, he cares abt them so much :'))
tinuod na
Earl John, GOD bless your kind hearted nature, Filipino traits of taking good care of their Parents, siblings & Grandparents has been embedded to you. Hope your siblings will help & respect you in return. You may experience hardship in SK due to unfamiliar culture but you have a Filipino resilient blood that will help you to overcome those struggles as you reach your dream. I am rooting for those salt of the earth like you. 😊
I hop e Earl John can pass his Naturalization exam, he had that goal oriented and motivation with his aura. Being raised as a Filipino, he had the optimistic way of thinking. Way to go Earl John. TBH, I don't sense any support and hardwork with her Mother, I've watched other kind of show like this, but most of the Filipino Moms are working hard and helping their families to be able to send their children to school and think about their future. I hope the Mom can work too and help Earl John with his studies, as well her children..
I actually think that maybe since his step father is old earl will be the bread winner just a typical toxic culture passing obligations to their first born.
I kinda don’t like the fact that the mom decided to finally bring her eldest son with her to Korea after 10yrs. And that she didn’t teach her younger children her language. Idk bout y’all but she seems a bit how can you say it w/o it coming off as rude, she seems a bit snobbish. I hop earl Jhon doesn’t lose himself and his dream just for his siblings. It’s cool and nice to help out your siblings but not yk to the point where you have to hold off on your dreams for them.
Wow , nakaka proud yong isang tulad ni jhon na mahusay mag korean dialect . Keep sipag jhon ha? Para sa iyo din yan .
Ohhh Earl John is a very good son to hear that kind of words about helping his siblings and his old father...
할머니가 엘존 정말 잘 키운듯요. 자상하고, 바른 성격인게 느껴져요. 그리고 아버지도 짱..! 애기들이 다 이쁘고, 잘생겼어요ㅋㅋ크면서 인물 더 좋아질거에요 분명!
such an awesome school! i hope he's doing well now. such a sweet boy.
이렇게 이쁜아기들을 많이 낳으시구 감사해요. 인구절벽인데 이쁘게 잘 컸으면 좋겠어요. ^^
It's not bad to help our family members but I hope that in the future, this so called responsibility would no longer be passed on to the future generations that we'll have. Laban kababayan!
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he is such a caring and considerate brother his siblings are so lucky to have a brother like him i wish i could have one too
30:23 awww he is very sweet and considering I really hope all his dreams become true and turn out well he’s such a good song and brother🫶🏽
They're lucky to have Earl Jhon for a son. A Filipino son is really reliable. When the son turns into adult and his parents are retired and old to work in they'll financially support his parents and also his siblings.
Filipino is really the kindest people, so welcoming and always smile and greet you first, i hope this man’s dreams come true he’s a hardworker and dedicated man❤ goodluck man life has a lot of suprises hope you’ve doing good, fighting!
pilipin fker r toxic as fk wdym
The part where her mom leaves her at the very young age is totally relatable to me. My mom leaves the philippines and works abroad when i was a few months old and she was working there basically 17+ years. We now lived together after 17 years in Sweden and i tried my best to interact and get used to it.
I feel recognized as a Korean-Filipino !!
I hope you are living your life there if you are living in Korea and are free from prejudice and discrimination. I have experienced worse even when i am just vacationing there every summer since i have relatives there.
@@kennlegacy337 fortunately I can say that I haven’t faced extreme discrimination but I do, however, receive stares because I don’t look “Korean”. Sometimes I don’t like going out for that very reason.
@@mxp1807 That must feel so sad not being accepted by Korean society you're just as much Korean as you are Filipino. I hope you learned your Filipino native language & Hanguel to fluency while learning about both cultures extensively to better help you know your identity regardless of what others say. I hope you feel like you belong without stress in the Philippines❤
Sidenote: Please parents of Mixed-race Korean teach your children your native country's tongue, and have your Mixed-race child enrolled in a racially diverse Dual Korean English language school in South Korea. Lastly, try to live in the most racially diverse place in your area and/or a neighborhood where the people that live there are your child's other ethnicity-race identity.
@@Chels4hair ahh the unfortunate thing is that I wasn’t taught both of my native languages so it makes it harder to understand other people. in the Philippines, however, I don’t ever feel judged there because they also speak English.
@@mxp1807 한국에서 살고 계신거에요?
What an awesome and loving family .Good job big brother .
hes so hard working and the sweetest
엘 존 진짜 너무 착하다 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 한국에서 행복하게 살길 기도할게요❤❤❤❤❤
I'm kind of not fond of watching long episodes, but they this one *WAS* worth it. Full of various storylines, there's drama from the long separation from the Mom, the tension of language barrier from the Grandma trying to be close to the grandkids, and I think one of *best* Filipino character one can find anywhere *is* the willingness to help others and the friendly attitude as exemplified by Earl to this friends. Will look forward to watching the next episode of this story. Good job you Guys for this episode and all the best for Earl John in his life's endeavors. 👍🏼👍🏼
I hope the mom teaches her younger kids the Filipino language
It really has nothing to do with you
Aggh..Earl is so loving big brother to them wish you good luck in your life there in korea..more success to come your ways and to your family.
I WANT TO HAVE A BIG BROTHER LIKE HIM ❤
U Filipino?
@@chairshot yes I am a Filipino
@@Jerex12 oh~ nice meet u bro~~~
@@chairshot yeah it is nice to meet you - by the way my name is Jerex
@@Jerex12 My name is sin sang wo. someday I wanna go to Boracay Island.
Is there a second part to this video? It would be great to see more of this family and Earl John's adjustment.❤
John,todloe og English na sinultihan ag tagalog imong mga igsoon...unyà vinisaya sab..aron daghan síla kibawo og sinultihan...nindot lagi nà.paminawon...GOD BLESS...sa tanan..ingat..permihan kan og tan aw ane dré.sa TH-cam...😍👍💖❤️💝
Wahhh hoping for all the best for the eldest! And of course to the whole family aswell❤️
Bless your heart Earl John. He tries to win his younger siblings. A very Filipino trait where your family’s affection is important as the panganay. I hope the time comes when his younger siblings and him become closer organically. The younger siblings should touch base with their Filipino roots as well, mom should practice their bisaya or tagalog so they can communicate with grandma. Mom should be the first one to integrate her kids to both cultures
This is really awesome. I wish Hawaii had these technical schools. My mother is Filipino so I can totally relate ❤❤
i like how polite he is. a lot of people be saying Filipinos are polite .
Thanks!
I was really moved by both videos about this young man and his family! It was so heartwarming and brought me to tears. Thank you so much for sharing these videos about Earl Jhon and his family. Well done! ❤💜❤️
He’s such a good older brother 😭
the PH flag in the thumbnail is wrongfully used. the blue side should be upward. the red side will only be placed upward during war. the channel should change the flag on the thumbnail. 🇵🇭
We've changed the thumbnail thanks to you! Sorry we didn't think of that beforehand, thanks for the feedback..!!
😮😮buti pinalitan
@@k-doc467 Yeah, if the red part is up, that means the Philippines is currently at war. It's a call to arms.
Much like how bells are used in ancient times to tell people to ready up for an invasion.
Subtle, silent, and efficient, i'd say.
So in a way, the PH flag is still portrayed correctly in the original. But yeah, it's a declaration and a signal not a lot of people outside PH would know.
Sobrang nakaka proud Ka ❤
I can relate to Earl John 😪 i was also raised by my grandparents.
엘 존~ 너무 마음씨가 착하고 따뜻하네요! 세 가지 꿈 다 이루길 응원합니다!
If only half Filipino and half Korean know how to speak Korean and Filipino, that will be their biggest advantage in the future. They can teach Korean to Filipinos online and they can earn money from it. They can also work in a place with many Filipinos due to their bilingual status.. If only they can appreciate the advantages
He's quadlingual.
@@noiJadisCailleach I am not talking about the eldest son because he is not half Korean but for all his siblings and other half Korean and half Filipino in Korea. Just like Dara or Sandara Park of 2NE1,she is fluent in Filipino despite of not being a Filipino but the language itself is very useful in her life.
Proud bisaya aw maayu oi. (That's good that you guys were so proud to be a visayan people living in Korea
Being far away from your parents is very sad.. but he is a good son and he understand. the korean husband is kind too❤
It's such a trip to hear tagalog and korean combined in the convos😅
That other brother should be helping the dad too instead of always playing at the computer. The younger brother is really sweet.
I would say that his grandparents raised him so well, he is a good son a brother to her mother,stepfather and brothers and sisters as well, good job 😍❤😊👍
My dad is a Filipino and he looks like his dad. Wow 😲🥺
Most average koreans are brown skinned especially the older people in rural areas
That how Filipino care for their siblings
It's not an easy feat to know 4 languages. He speaks Bisaya, Tagalog, English, and Korean.
Ambait ng panganay na anak, sana umunlad buhay mo. Napaka sipag mo pre
I think this Filipino mum should teach her kids the Visayan language. Grandma is saying that these kids should clean up and make their beds, do the dishes and feed the dog when they wake up. The house is small and not even clean.
Im simping for the older brother, he's a good husband candidate la hahahaha
Earljon hanga ko sa imong ka bootan emagine you.will able to learn four language amazing keep up the good work boy
It is good that Kuya can speak Korean when he just got together with Mom at 17? Am I right? I envy his knowledge at speaking Hanggul. Kuya ang galing mo naman. Kamao pud ko mag binisaya inggit ako sayo.
A Well raised GrandSon ❤️😇
Dang I wish my brother is this kind and gentle
Such a good kuya. I wish I also have a brother who will buy me make-up.
Wow nice, i I like this kind of video😊 it's same like Sandra's life . they're filming . I hope until his success to film his life . ❤I like it❤
their filipino brother is so sweet❤ teasing her sister always saying pretty 😂 my brother always says im ugly just to tease😂
The korean age system is an interesting thing to look up
I hope he doesn't get bullied there. Hearing news that bullying is rampant there. It must be hard for him.
Earl John is very humble
I remember when we were a kid before my grandmother used to talk to us in Ilocano dialect. That's why when we grow up, we understand the dialect eventhough we're not fluent in it. I hope they also explained to the kids what's their grandmother is saying so that they can understand also.
Thats nice his very laidback kiddo his a husband material ladies goodluck that kid will grew up very responsible guy
Very simple living in a humble home🥰